traveling to Shanghai, new hair and deciding to drop out of college | Glow up Diaries Episode 12

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  • Опубликовано: 3 дек 2024

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  • @aliviadandrea
    @aliviadandrea  4 года назад +8968

    THIS VIDEO WAS FILMED IN DECEMBER 2018. To those commenting hate about wealth - I earned my money myself and saved up for this. I have been wanting to go to Shanghai since I was a child. I work and I don’t get anything from my parents. When I was editing this video I had so much fun being creative with the storytelling and editing. I was excited to share it with you guys in hopes of inspiring others because I loved watching videos of people’s crazy travel experiences growing up. It inspired me to set goals and make it happen for myself one day when I was older. It’s all about perspective. You can choose to hate and be unhappy about a highlight in someone’s life or you can become inspired by it and say hey..maybe not now but I know that if I’m committed, I can make it happen for myself one day. That’s exactly what I told myself years ago. I have nothing but gratitude for everything that has happened in my life, the good and the bad. Also my issue wasn’t university. My issue was the university I WAS AT. It didn’t specialize in what I wanted to learn and the location was terrible for where I want to go with my career. I’m not going to stay in a place that doesn’t help me grow. Check out Episode 15 of the Glow up Diaries for a more in depth response to my decision to dropping out of college.

    • @janelledaphnyeunicamarco469
      @janelledaphnyeunicamarco469 4 года назад +129

      I'm so happy you're back. I've miss you so so much!! I love ü

    • @happyvalleyroses8145
      @happyvalleyroses8145 4 года назад +66

      Love your videos. I find them very inspirational and I always watch them when I am feeling low. Love you and stay strong.🤗

    • @larab2323
      @larab2323 4 года назад +45

      Dear Alivia, thank you so much! You inspire me and help me and so many others!!❤️❤️❤️ I wish I could meet you one day. Also props to you for uploading so early in the morning! Sending my love from Germany! 💓💓💓
      #glowgang

    • @killerhawk4892
      @killerhawk4892 4 года назад +19

      love you....aliviiii ..from india

    • @dianamariakang1944
      @dianamariakang1944 4 года назад +29

      You look happy in shanghai you should study there

  • @PeoniesRoses
    @PeoniesRoses 4 года назад +7578

    "Your homeland isn't the only reality."

    • @LOLLolaLps
      @LOLLolaLps 4 года назад +138

      So many more people need to realize this

    • @mycheeksarered634
      @mycheeksarered634 4 года назад +14

      what does that mean

    • @urfairygodmother222
      @urfairygodmother222 4 года назад +179

      mycheeksarered what you see isn’t everything that is there to see, that there is more to life than what you already know... at least that’s how i took it

    • @carolcajaty
      @carolcajaty 4 года назад +5

      Where is it?

    • @idontlikeyoulol16
      @idontlikeyoulol16 4 года назад +8

      Carol Carvalho 1:12

  • @StroJhan
    @StroJhan 4 года назад +2911

    its crazy to remember that the glow up diaries were filmed like two years ago, like damn, the world is so different. This whole series would be different if filmed now...its like a time travelling machines or a time capsule. I find the idea so interesting. Its mind blowing, don’t know how else to describe it. 2018....

  • @joselyn8604
    @joselyn8604 4 года назад +1929

    im not understanding the hate. this is HER glow up not yours so yeah not every aspect is gonna be relatable.

    • @imintheghettoratatata4850
      @imintheghettoratatata4850 4 года назад +80

      Agree and people are harsh with her too. Like sis doesn't deserve all the unconstructive criticism, it's almost hate... Let her in peace and keep your negativity for yourself

    • @zuheir546
      @zuheir546 4 года назад +13

      I didn’t see one hate comment tho

    • @goodnight-moon564
      @goodnight-moon564 4 года назад +22

      zuheir 5
      I don’t see that many, but keep in mind this was posted months ago. People could’ve deleted them, they could’ve been taken down, anything could’ve happened to them.

    • @joselyn8604
      @joselyn8604 4 года назад +7

      Goodnight- Moon yeah when the video was first uploaded there were some hate comments she even addressed them

    • @---xv5jp
      @---xv5jp 4 года назад +6

      @@zuheir546 Just keep scrolling down... You'll find tons eventually

  • @erin_the_extra2329
    @erin_the_extra2329 4 года назад +3633

    The problem isn’t about her having money. If she has the resources to take a trip for her mental health, she should absolutely do so. The problem is that a lot of her videos are framed as advice. So, although it’s not what she meant, it can very much come across like “struggling with school and mental health? Just take a luxury trip to find yourself!” When that’s not something most people can afford. *The problem is that Alivia’s videos often blur the lines between what is advice, and what is for herself.*

    • @aliviadandrea
      @aliviadandrea  4 года назад +1092

      That is very true. I appreciate you pointing this out.

    • @ayushimishra7044
      @ayushimishra7044 4 года назад +93

      Exactly thats
      why I can't relate to them

    • @bottleofwater8745
      @bottleofwater8745 4 года назад +180

      Still there are stuff within the “unaffordable experiences” that you still can do. You can change the way you look from home, to eat something new look up recipes, doing something new is also doable from home. The important thing is the intention and keeping yourself busy with nurturing stuff that are available to you.

    • @starrycactusx5978
      @starrycactusx5978 4 года назад +261

      Well, it is HER glow up. She never said that what works for her would work for everyone.

    • @nizOnYT
      @nizOnYT 4 года назад +77

      @@starrycactusx5978 the point of op's comment meant : by the way she initially and consistently portray stuff through her video, she doesn't only show people what she went through. she wanted people to learn and take from it. it sends a message of advice, which meant to be taken by everyone watching. where in this scenario, taking a luxury mental health trip and deciding to drop out of college is a privilege that only alivia and a very small group of people, can take. and alivia herself seems to be agreeing with op

  • @Hannah-dx6hm
    @Hannah-dx6hm 4 года назад +3740

    I just want to say something real quick. Everyone who says: „It’s always the same/it’s getting booooring/u repeat urself“ that’s what a glow-up is all about. U NEED to FAIL. U need to fail 100 times to success once. I love this series, it helped me be that healthy person I’m today and I’m unbelievable grateful for it. Alivia helped me get through my hard years, she gave me hope when I almost gave up. So please, do not hate someone who’s trying to help other people. She’s doing amazing and I’m proud of her, proud of myself and proud of everyone else who had to go through this or is going through this at the moment. Long story short, thank u :) for everything, u saved me from myself.

    • @ayoma3512
      @ayoma3512 4 года назад +9

      Hannah do you wanna help me to save me from myself too🥺👉🏾👈🏾

    • @ayoma3512
      @ayoma3512 4 года назад +2

      Gabrielle Lynn yea its rough out here

    • @Hannah-dx6hm
      @Hannah-dx6hm 4 года назад +3

      Ayo Ma babes, I’m always here 🥺 I don’t know if I can help but if u really need me, I’ll be there :)

    • @Hannah-dx6hm
      @Hannah-dx6hm 4 года назад +2

      Gabrielle Lynn same for u, I’m here for u 🥺 I’ll help if u r in a deep hole :)

    • @shanruhui1391
      @shanruhui1391 4 года назад +4

      I’m really doubting if continuing to fail will lead to success. Glowing up is so hard. I feel like I got worse since I wanted to improve myself... If 100 failures is really what I need for the one success then I guess I’ll keep going.

  • @hannahjohari8970
    @hannahjohari8970 4 года назад +1763

    this is so random but i love how there's shinee playing in the background when her sister was bargaining

    • @leanott
      @leanott 4 года назад +42

      HONESTLY THAT'S THE FIRST THING I NOTICED

    • @rhiannondaniel4426
      @rhiannondaniel4426 4 года назад +18

      WAS GONNA COMMENT THIS

    • @faith3650
      @faith3650 4 года назад +28

      VIEW IS THAT SONG

    • @jing-han7453
      @jing-han7453 4 года назад +10

      i jumped out of bed i was like WAIT HOLLUP

    • @sampwassa428
      @sampwassa428 4 года назад +1

      @Mya Heart nice song I really like your voice a lot

  • @evaa4646
    @evaa4646 4 года назад +583

    she make’s me feel as if im good enough even though im not perfect. and that ladies and gents, is what we need.

    • @Abysstle
      @Abysstle 4 года назад +8

      She makes me feel as if i'm good enough even though i'm not perfect, and that ladies and gents, is what we need*

    • @Abysstle
      @Abysstle 4 года назад +1

      Im so sorry

    • @Abysstle
      @Abysstle 4 года назад +1

      @@grayce8524 thanks :)

    • @evaa4646
      @evaa4646 4 года назад +1

      sorry i'm dizzy oupsie sorry im german

    • @Abysstle
      @Abysstle 4 года назад +1

      @@evaa4646 pew pew, im so sorry...
      Didnt mean to offend or make you insecure or smthn 🥺👉👈

  • @aleeza621
    @aleeza621 4 года назад +950

    I don’t get why know one is acknowledging how adorable she looks with those bangs

  • @katyachai1634
    @katyachai1634 4 года назад +997

    Ok, since I live in Shanghai I'd like to make it clear for some people:
    1. Food in China is cheap. Even if the restaraunt looks fancy, even if the food looks fancy - I've never spent more than 40 dollars (not alone, with at least 1 friend) on our "luxury" days. And since I love sea food, it usually includes lobsters, shrimps, crabs and so on.
    2. Hotels in China are much cheaper than in Europe/US - for the most beautiful hotels with several rooms, a bathtub, I've never paid more than 80 usd per night. For the cheapest one, when I needed to save money I paid no more than 20 usd per night but that hotel was also in the city centre and still pretty nice. If I wanted, I could find a cheaper option in the suburbs.
    3. Other things like bars, markets, different activities are also pretty cheap.
    The only thing that was quite expensive is the flight but it's not impossible for someone to save enough money for their comfort!
    Stop blaming Alivia for having money for this trip. She worked hard and deserved being happy, and there's nothing bad about sharing it. You, people, were enjoying this channel, watching this "netflix show", you liked seeing her struggling and fighting with obstacles, "supported" her when she had problems, because we all have problems, BUT as soon as Alivia felt happy and free you started judging her! Truly, some people just cannot bear seeing somebody having a good life. Stop calling these series "fake" or " pretentious", admit that you are simply jealous. Think about your feelings when you watch it - do you really hate what you see or you actually want your life to look like this? (Once in a while, because if you remember well, she only went on a short trip). If you chose the second answer, work hard. Your hard work will pay off.
    P.S. I'm sorry for any mistakes. English is not my first language.

    • @aah-nanana7341
      @aah-nanana7341 4 года назад +69

      Ikrrr!!! Thank God someone pointed it out

    • @darkhearttantibus2766
      @darkhearttantibus2766 4 года назад +60

      Your english is pretty good! Thank you for clarifying and spreading positivity!

    • @janhaviramakrishnan8539
      @janhaviramakrishnan8539 4 года назад +26

      So true!

    • @suholll7498
      @suholll7498 4 года назад +16

      Oh thank u for that , i guss i'll go there after the whole lockdown end here💔

    • @dburrezo_03
      @dburrezo_03 4 года назад +14

      I would like to move to Tokyo when I get older. I live in the US but I want to travel the world and experience new things.

  • @majakrysinska6463
    @majakrysinska6463 4 года назад +735

    This really opened my eyes. When the video progressed i suddenly started crying without knowing why. I thought about it a bit and it’s because there is nothing for me where i live now. There is nothing i want here and just being here demotivates me from everything. I don’t even have friends here, i isolate myself, I am constantly stressed and I even developed an eating disorder. The only thing that keeps me here is school. School that i have to finish because it’s obligated and i have no choice. I just know that the second i have the chance i`ll go far away, to somewhere i can be happy. And just watching this made me remember that i am going to get that and i just have to wait a little bit more. Thank you Alivia, for reminding me that i can go somewhere i feel better aswell

    • @catherinedonohue7284
      @catherinedonohue7284 4 года назад +17

      I hope you achieve that goal and move out :)

    • @sonja5642
      @sonja5642 4 года назад +17

      My last year of school was really drowning as well - I felt stressed, lonely, tired and demotivated. But after I finished school, I just took a year off and went abroad as an Aupair in Rome, stoped thinking about my future and purely enjoying the moment! It was the best! I can only recommend taking a bit of time to clear your head - even if it is only throughout summer break! Now I’ve started college which is also great since you get to reinvent yourself and get to meet a bunch of new people sitting in the same boat. Hang in there! Whatever you do, I’m sure your time after school will be great! Just be open to new experiences, be confident in yourself (because you’re awesome!) and don’t be shy to be the first to start up a conversation!

    • @majakrysinska6463
      @majakrysinska6463 4 года назад +8

      Sonja thank you! Reading this really helps with motivation. Rome sounds wonderful by the way! Thanks for the encouragement❤️

    • @choicethetaurus
      @choicethetaurus 4 года назад +1

      @@majakrysinska6463 wdwwwwdd ruclips.net/video/11mA9DDYoUQ/видео.html

    • @zccomphiri6784
      @zccomphiri6784 4 года назад +6

      I can relate to your story I went to school and honestly I felt like school was the only thing that I could focus on.There were days I would come home crying because of people that brought me down.i always think I'm alone but my mindset has changed alot where by I believe I can go far .Life is like a test we need to path and trust me by you not giving up and putting Jesus in your life you can accomplish anything stay strong coz I believe you will go far

  • @CamilleLouisa
    @CamilleLouisa 4 года назад +3148

    i actually think the timing of this vide couldn't be perfect.. lets remember china as the beautiful and rich culture it is and not just based on events over the past few months

    • @teehee5700
      @teehee5700 4 года назад +137

      camille louisa agreed. A lot of people are being racist to the Chinese and Japanese, Korean people where I live (Canada) and I hope people see this and realize that China isn’t an evil country

    • @samsunggalaxya1323
      @samsunggalaxya1323 4 года назад +37

      @@teehee5700 yes, that's more annoying than the virus itself

    • @virqgo1430
      @virqgo1430 4 года назад +6

      @@teehee5700 This video was made in 2018

    • @maymel3601
      @maymel3601 4 года назад +4

      @@samsunggalaxya1323 umm y'all know that many viruses first came our in Europe and the USA such as the Spanish Flu (it didn't come out in Spain) so lets not be racist

    • @bellagarzia9653
      @bellagarzia9653 4 года назад +15

      mayramelikoglu I’m not supporting prejudice but, see, the coronavirus actually came from China...🥴

  • @urnotfe
    @urnotfe 4 года назад +158

    the best thing about those diaries is how it shows that glowing isnt a linear path, its a cycle of ups and downs and it might get very repetetive but the point is to keep trying, and each time we start again we have yet way more experience and conclusions about things. being here since ep one and all i have to say alivia, thank you for being such an inspiration.

  • @soda8624
    @soda8624 4 года назад +264

    Instead of being jealous because I'm broke
    I feel inspired to do this and work to be able to do this
    Happiness doesn't come from what you have or not, but from how you see life.
    It's your choice to be jealous or motivated.
    It's not a hard decision.

  • @jesvinjohn7425
    @jesvinjohn7425 4 года назад +191

    I loved the video Alivia! It was beautifully shot and gave some great advice. It's so sad to see the video's message be overshadowed by negative comments mocking your trip. I think a lot of people are forgetting that this whole series is supposed to talk about Alivia's personal glow up story. She isn't telling us that we need to hop on an international flight to glow up, she's simply sharing her own experience and what she learned from it. She even give us little steps like changing your hairstyle or trying new foods as ways to mimic some of experiences she had.

  • @dianamc.1274
    @dianamc.1274 4 года назад +242

    In the past, I couldn't imagine that you could drop out of college. Last year, I dropped out too, I was depressed and suffering from anxiety episodes so I started with therapies. It took so much time to me to take the decision but I found in my healing process that it was the bravest thing I have ever done. I'm so thankful for this video Alivia.

    • @lockheart619
      @lockheart619 4 года назад +4

      How did your parents react? Im thinking about dropping out, but don't know how to tell my parents.

    • @dianamc.1274
      @dianamc.1274 4 года назад +7

      @@lockheart619 Hi. My parents saw that I was depressed, my atittude was different because I felt that I had taken bad decisions. I received more support from my mom but they both knew I needed time to grow up, organize my ideas and goals and rest. If you need time to think and heal, go ahead, it's better to make mistakes now than in 20 years later, nobody wants to feel lost. I hope you can take a pleased decision not for others but for yourself ♡

    • @kenneseyl2819
      @kenneseyl2819 4 года назад +2

      i’m confused, so this video was in 2018, so does that mean she went back to college 2019 or 2020?

    • @dianamc.1274
      @dianamc.1274 4 года назад +3

      @@kenneseyl2819 I think she is gonna explain us in the next episodes bc she pinned a comment when she said that she had moved into China..

    • @ayoma3512
      @ayoma3512 4 года назад

      Diana C. What was you healing process like?

  • @reim1733
    @reim1733 4 года назад +1534

    I almost gave up on everything this day, I felt hopeless and my diet is unhealthy then I saw this 🥺❤
    "Clear your mind" I will.

    • @ketrintopic8689
      @ketrintopic8689 4 года назад +21

      sis if you need someone to talk you can dm me on instagram @catherinexoxo I'm here for u 🥺

    • @mehrmuneer3652
      @mehrmuneer3652 4 года назад +5

      same here

    • @Capturia
      @Capturia 4 года назад +10

      You've got this♡

    • @XricheeX
      @XricheeX 4 года назад +8

      You can get through it :) down times are a part of life and life is fun so don’t be too hard on yourself, enjoy the ride ☀️🍀

    • @choicethetaurus
      @choicethetaurus 4 года назад +2

      @@XricheeX dwwdww ruclips.net/video/11mA9DDYoUQ/видео.html

  • @swaggmaster2159
    @swaggmaster2159 4 года назад +1103

    I saw “drop out of college” and “death” and I clicked so quickly

    • @blackbantan9255
      @blackbantan9255 4 года назад +6

      Army?

    • @shivani323
      @shivani323 4 года назад +4

      Dead inside yes😭agree user name

    • @kenneseyl2819
      @kenneseyl2819 4 года назад +1

      i’m confused, so this video was in 2018, so does that mean she went back to college 2019 or 2020?

    • @blackbantan9255
      @blackbantan9255 4 года назад +6

      @Little Leah you stfu..I was supposed to ask her a question if she said yes..like wtf !!!!!

    • @catalinaandino537
      @catalinaandino537 4 года назад +1

      that’s how clickbait works

  • @rachelcape4056
    @rachelcape4056 4 года назад +60

    The bangs are probably the best style choice u’ve ever made. They look amazing on uuu

  • @audrastump8438
    @audrastump8438 4 года назад +2108

    Bruh if I told my mom I wanted to drop out of college, she'd drive me to a convent, not an airport

    • @hannah7000
      @hannah7000 4 года назад +35

      I think it was her sidter

    • @aah-nanana7341
      @aah-nanana7341 4 года назад +63

      I mean she's making money and financially independent anyway with education or without.

    • @shakeelmemon2816
      @shakeelmemon2816 4 года назад +7

      @@aah-nanana7341 money from yt?

    • @carolaquiero
      @carolaquiero 4 года назад +3

      Lmaooo same😂

    • @inessa5923
      @inessa5923 4 года назад +5

      @@shakeelmemon2816 What else?

  • @melissahunt936
    @melissahunt936 4 года назад +6061

    Alivia: "I want to drop out of college"
    Her mom: "why don't you take a trip to Shanghai? Clear your mind a bit"
    Me: "I don't think I want to do college if I can't afford it and don't know exactly what I want to do"
    My mom: "you like McDonald's? Good."

    • @Alexa-cr1vy
      @Alexa-cr1vy 4 года назад +352

      that's her sister lol

    • @Aline1992
      @Aline1992 4 года назад +170

      I think the phone conversation is with her sister tho.

    • @astrida111
      @astrida111 4 года назад +27

      That wasn't her mom. DUMMY

    • @wonderland.5
      @wonderland.5 4 года назад +5

      @@choicethetaurus nice song Choice The Taurus I really like it

    • @letiziachiodini2019
      @letiziachiodini2019 4 года назад +122

      I know people are coming at you for your comment but sis you're right ahaha my parents would kick my ass and tell me to go back to study

  • @aino3230
    @aino3230 4 года назад +305

    WHEN I TELL YOU I SCREAMED AS SOON AS I SAW THIS, I AINT LYING IVE BEEN WAITING FOR SOOOO LONG OMG YESSS QUEEN IS BACK ILY SO MUCH!!!!!!!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @eithnecarson6897
    @eithnecarson6897 4 года назад +424

    Honestly you've inspired me so much, my country is quarantined because of coronavirus and because of your videos I'm trying to be more productive and become flexible, thank you so much and don't listen to the haters ❤️❤️

    • @michellexx1214
      @michellexx1214 4 года назад +1

      yeah she inspired me in so many ways.

    • @carolcajaty
      @carolcajaty 4 года назад

      Me too, I'm from Brazil and my country is quarantined too and I'm trying to be more productive too

  • @jaesuar
    @jaesuar 3 года назад +29

    i love that the one thing that stayed consistent throughout ur journey was drinking water. even though you were having a tough time with other aspects of ur journey, you were always drinking water. proud of you :)

  • @sofiatkachenko7757
    @sofiatkachenko7757 4 года назад +47

    I love how you film yourself growing older and developing your personality with us

  • @rain-jw4xz
    @rain-jw4xz 4 года назад +158

    honestly, you uploading this just motivated me to get out of bed and actually get things done. since my school closed last week i lost motivation to do anything but be in bed and watch stuff. so thank you so so much 💞💞

  • @tiffany9895
    @tiffany9895 4 года назад +430

    Y’all know she’s a RUclipsr right? She’s going to have her own money she’s able to spend for herself

    • @whispercat56235
      @whispercat56235 9 месяцев назад +1

      But not THAT much money, selling the illusion of "I worked for all of that myself, my parents didnt pay it" is LAME.

    • @ihatenfts501
      @ihatenfts501 3 месяца назад

      @@whispercat56235She has a million views on multiple videos. If she turns on ads for her channel and get sponsors she could very well be earning hundreds of thousands a dollars

  • @444fawn
    @444fawn 4 года назад +22

    Glowing up and succcess aren’t linear. Sometimes you fall down, you fail but you learn to stand up. You keep trying and trying and eventually you get it. Love the series !!

  • @aelyndorren6770
    @aelyndorren6770 4 года назад +14

    I think the message of this video is not like, "Go take a luxury trip". It's more like, "Go try something you never did, try something completely new". You can take a walk in a park you've never been to, you can start learning how to play ukulele or how to skate. Just choose something and dive in, no matter what it is. That's what I'm doing right now, and I tell you it works and it's worth trying!

  • @fatimahalmousa1373
    @fatimahalmousa1373 4 года назад +1172

    The jealousy in the comments lmao. Be happy for others your time will come

    • @amandaroy9331
      @amandaroy9331 4 года назад +74

      lol ikr. she never once said 'oh so u feel depressed and want to be mentally stable again? take a rich ass trip like me. problem solved.' she did it for herself. it's *her* glow up diary, her journey to blossoming her mind and soul. idk why is everyone so butthurt.

    • @arinamor2911
      @arinamor2911 3 года назад +3

      or it won’t

    • @kee7374
      @kee7374 3 года назад +4

      @@nuyataylor4885 control yourself.

  • @claudia4605
    @claudia4605 4 года назад +32

    For people struggling w/ acne, you could try and use these products before considering starting accutane:
    1. salicylic acid + benzoyl peroxide (do *not* mix them together. use them on alternate days)
    2. differin
    3. tretinoin
    4. isotretinoin (accutane)
    I got this info from a video by Sarah Cheung.

  • @Marinameyers05
    @Marinameyers05 4 года назад +41

    I’ve been watching this girl for years it’s been months since I watched her videos and honestly now I’m thinking I LOVE HER LIV YOU ARE AMAZING

  • @tianfeifei5976
    @tianfeifei5976 4 года назад +97

    Your sister is so supportive! You definitely should take a break from college, the 1st year is overwhelming and usually makes us feel lost (I'm not even in college, but my first year of high school was like this, so I can only assume it feels the same) and we need a fresh perspective on life to find what we truly want to do.

    • @riverogue13
      @riverogue13 4 года назад +2

      Miku Hatsune that’s her sister

    • @tianfeifei5976
      @tianfeifei5976 4 года назад

      I mean at the beginning in the phone call, wasn't that her mother?

    • @riverogue13
      @riverogue13 4 года назад +2

      Miku Hatsune no that’s her sister

  • @IM5maniac
    @IM5maniac 4 года назад +291

    Hey alivia just a suggestion: it would help if you put dates or approximate dates in your videos of when these things happened

  • @rashelchahine9948
    @rashelchahine9948 4 года назад +829

    Me when I need to clear my mind: goes on a walk around the block Alivia: books a first class ticket to Shanghai lol

    • @stina6780
      @stina6780 4 года назад +2

      Same haha😂

    • @D.monatethesugar
      @D.monatethesugar 4 года назад +20

      I just eat food to clear my mind

    • @Boba.juice04
      @Boba.juice04 4 года назад +26

      You can do anything to clear your mind, she's told us that many times throughout this series

  • @sunflowersongs9403
    @sunflowersongs9403 4 года назад +592

    Me: seriously paying attention
    Me: Hears Shinee in the background
    My inner Shawol: *has entered the chat*

  • @mythsologyy444
    @mythsologyy444 4 года назад +805

    "San Diego?"
    "No that's lame,"
    Me, who lives in San Diego: :O

    • @lunagutierrez169
      @lunagutierrez169 4 года назад +28

      Ikr I'm from there too I was like okay damn

    • @lizmanjarini1864
      @lizmanjarini1864 4 года назад +9

      Ouch 😢

    • @sxl3698
      @sxl3698 4 года назад +35

      I think they just meant it’s too near, they wanna go somewhere further

    • @mttm5043
      @mttm5043 4 года назад +7

      ALEXA M damn living in San Diego... a dream of mine.

    • @sarah-khd
      @sarah-khd 4 года назад +7

      They may have been there or they want to take a more...wild trip?

  • @민지야-l3p
    @민지야-l3p 4 года назад +508

    okay but your reasons behind dropping out that you stated made me realize that I was about to make a huge mistake by not telling my mum I don't want to do psychology anymore. I like it a lot but I'm not motivated and I've realized it would be really damaging on my mental health and am putting myself at risk of triggering trauma flashbacks by hearing other peoples traumas as I wanted to work in the trauma unit...
    What I wanna do since forever but pushed aside bc my mum doesn't want me to do it as she did it and didn't like it... It's to be a nursery and kindergarten teacher! For the lil babies uwu
    I'm not going to make the mistake of stressing out to go to Uni for 8 years for something I DON'T WANT because I'm afraid of my parents reaction and just do.what I want!

    • @lockheart619
      @lockheart619 4 года назад +18

      I'm passionate about the field I'm in, but not enough to pursue a career in it. My parents will flip at my decision...but it's not their choice to decide, it's mine. First I actually have to tell them...😣

    • @kenneseyl2819
      @kenneseyl2819 4 года назад +2

      i’m confused, so this video was in 2018, so does that mean she went back to college 2019 or 2020?

    • @kaylamorgan7308
      @kaylamorgan7308 4 года назад +5

      민지야~ I've always wanted to perform in ice shows- like Disney on ice. I'm in college now with a sport management major and I like it but it really feels like a back up to me. My first love is skating and I want to be the one performing. My coach was in icecapades when she was a skater and a couple months ago she said I could just leave college and audition now if I wanted to- and that made me really think. My parents' logic is that it's important for me to have a back up career and I think it's wise to aswell. But I don't know what I think about the idea of locking myself into a back up plan. I've thought about a gap semester just to learn more about myself but I don't know. This is coming from someone who is going to the same college her parents AND her grandmother went to.

    • @savannahkrupa4424
      @savannahkrupa4424 4 года назад +1

      That is my exact situation!!!! My passion is music :) I’m good at psychology and I have a passion for it but I’m not motivated and it also brings up trauma for me as well. But I don’t know what to do in the mean time :/ apply for college and go into psychology or something else...

    • @spoog314
      @spoog314 4 года назад +1

      Same. I’m really afraid that pursuing psychology will be triggering but thankfully I have four whole years before actually doing it and I’m taking AP psych next year so I can try it out before devoting my entire career to it. Hopefully the therapy I’m doing in the meantime will help

  • @lshba
    @lshba 3 года назад +8

    She has actually glowed up so much from the first videos and that's more motivating than the glow ups from a makeup makeover and a new hairstyle ugh oml😭❤️ she is SO inspiring

  • @patriciamoradamacabulos8506
    @patriciamoradamacabulos8506 3 года назад +5

    The reason I’m proud of Alivia for taking a trip to Shanghai is because she constantly emphasises how she’s committed to leaving her comfort zone. Instead of feeling envious, know that this girl has demonstrated that she’s committed to HER journey, and this is part of it.

  • @Leikobeans
    @Leikobeans 4 года назад +316

    This was kinda bittersweet to watch for me because I wish I could’ve done this when I was in college. I also felt lost and in need of change and inspiration, but my family forced me to continue studying at college. They were NOT supportive of me taking time off and I didn’t have any money to do anything otherwise. So now I have a degree and work at an unfulfilling full-time job, but it’s paying my bills so I have to appreciate it. I can’t deny that I get jealous of people like you though, people that ditched college to travel to nice countries and stay in pretty hotels and eat cute pastries to “find themselves”. And there’s people like me who had to accept reality and just muddle through all of the mundane in order to survive. Still feeling lost by the way, but now I can’t help but feel bitter too 🥀

    • @Belihoney
      @Belihoney 4 года назад +16

      I get this but I did it to myself. I wasn't sure if I was going to get any support when moving out so did the sensible thing rather than what I wanted. Honestly you have to steal moments of happiness. DO take some time off to travel if you can and try out different things that can make you happy where you are now. You literally have to do small gestures that make you happy so you can stay sane!

    • @alexiahernandezarce342
      @alexiahernandezarce342 4 года назад +7

      I'm 18 years old and I don't feel happy with my career, neither with my school. I've talked with my parents about this many times, but they aren't helping. They think I must finish this career. Neverthless, I can't help but feel completely lost and helpless. Any tip?

    • @user-hg2kd1nz4l
      @user-hg2kd1nz4l 4 года назад +14

      Where do you think she got the money for that trip? They are called savings. She also had to work to earn that money, what happens is that she does not spend money on material nonsense things. So you start saving and a couple of years from now you can give yourself the pleasure of traveling 😘

    • @user-hg2kd1nz4l
      @user-hg2kd1nz4l 4 года назад

      Alex Peters If you are about to finish do not give up. You can do it. 💪🏻

    • @milla9009
      @milla9009 4 года назад +39

      @@user-hg2kd1nz4l Honestly I am pretty sure those are not savings. You just have to take a look at some of her videos to understand that she comes from a rich family

  • @jennyg5277
    @jennyg5277 4 года назад +33

    YASSSSS I WAS LITERALLY REWATCHING THE OLDER EPISODES

  • @angelinathomas8723
    @angelinathomas8723 4 года назад +11

    Alivia, I don't know if you'll see this but on the chance that you might I wanted to tell you how much I appreciate this series and you in general. I've been a subscriber ever since the beginning of 2018, and you've inspired me so much. I've always wanted to lose weight and become the best me that I can be, however, I've failed too many times to count. But something changed this morning, I went and worked out for the first time in months, and I can say that I actually did push myself (I've never pushed myself this hard before). And I ate a great breakfast and then I saw your video. And I knew it was a sign that this time was different. So, thank you Alivia. Stay safe, Love you!

  • @esh4-
    @esh4- 4 года назад +10

    i'm so happy for her :') the last one minute of the video made my heart so happy.

  • @gemaashirley8190
    @gemaashirley8190 3 года назад +6

    She’s literally describing my actual situation, I want to drop out of college because I’m feeling terribly lost, unmotivated, depressed... I need new perspectives, a new lifestyle, I hope I can follow her example because this identifies me so much

  • @kelechionuobia3932
    @kelechionuobia3932 4 года назад +8

    I can even describe how long I've been waiting for this, thank you Alivia! :)
    I'm so glad this video also shows that the glow up diaries are about becoming your better self, and not just about weight loss, your diet, being healthy, etc.

  • @dailahofma6101
    @dailahofma6101 4 года назад +78

    Omg i waited soo long for this episode

  • @rebeccafadel6218
    @rebeccafadel6218 4 года назад +12

    " all it takes is just a little effort "
    i felt it...

  • @Emma-nc9sn
    @Emma-nc9sn 4 года назад +4

    I rewatch this this video over and over because I relate to it so much. Like, I don't want to sound silly, but for years it's like my heart is aching, I don't feel like I am where I'm supposed to be. I've always had this desire to go to Asia, I work quite a lot and I've been doing nothing but saving up, but it's still expensive tho. But the worst part is not having anyone willing to take a trip like that with me. And I don't want to do something like that on my own. You inspire me a lot and I love your videos and mentality!

  • @eviesampson6418
    @eviesampson6418 4 года назад +1

    My Grandma is from Shanghai and my dad was brought up in Hong Kong and I didn't realise how emotional i felt about someone talking about these two places (my dad's family is now in New Zealand and I haven't seen them for 8 years) until the end when you said about starting a new chapter of life there. So happy for your December 2018 self, as well as current. Thank you for all your videos as a whole as well. I started getting severe acne on my cheeks about a year ago now, and it's cleared up immensely for many reasons but my complexion is red and i have scars. Your videos inspire me and show what really matters, and also that situations and problems change or dissipate with time (and the making of good, healthy choices). Love from London

  • @leja9998
    @leja9998 4 года назад +631

    I thought she wrote 'i lost my virginity at the night club' at first lmao

    • @jksartstudy1001
      @jksartstudy1001 4 года назад +3

      😂😂

    • @JingYou922
      @JingYou922 4 года назад +6

      Isnt that the same meaning as what she wrote? im so confused did she just o.o

    • @shilohcara9479
      @shilohcara9479 4 года назад +23

      I thought the same thing, my heart dropped a bit and I had to go back and replay it Lol

    • @MsLivinglegend19
      @MsLivinglegend19 4 года назад +79

      jingyou she said “lost my nightclub virginity” because she visited a nightclub for the first time, assuming that’s bc the legal age there is 18, not 21 like it is in America

    • @JingYou922
      @JingYou922 4 года назад +2

      @@MsLivinglegend19 owhhh i see thanks

  • @Capturia
    @Capturia 4 года назад +61

    Alivia brings so much light & positivity to youtube, she'd make such a great therapist as a job ♡

    • @erin_the_extra2329
      @erin_the_extra2329 4 года назад +2

      she does bring light and positivity, but she has a lot of unhealthy mindsets and a long, long way to go before she’s ready to help others professionally. Even some of her videos can be harmful. Don’t get me wrong- she’s a wonderful girl. But she’s not there yet

    • @Capturia
      @Capturia 4 года назад +1

      @@erin_the_extra2329 i agree with what you said but this series hasn't ended yet so maybe the alivia in this video isn't ready to give advice, but present/future alivia might be :)

  • @juztinegazmen9717
    @juztinegazmen9717 4 года назад +15

    I love you Alivia, you are such an inspiration in my life. You are the best youtuber for me. You made me realize my mistakes and how to live life. Keep doing what you do, because what you do always inspire people

  • @tahotao4960
    @tahotao4960 4 года назад +11

    When I turned 20 I decided to move to Shanghai and that is still the best decision I've took in my life. A few months later, due to coronavirus, I headed back home to France. Now, I'm just waiting for borders to reopen, and then I'll move to China again. Living there has definitely changed the way I see life

    • @jaybeanzx
      @jaybeanzx 11 месяцев назад

      How so? Tell me more!

  • @charlotteschneider7852
    @charlotteschneider7852 4 года назад +2

    You're such a source of motivation. I dropped out of college two years ago to study something completely different but I feel like completely myself and I learnt about what I really want to do with my life, my projects, my futur and what matters the most. Nothing is easy and you're doing great ! You deserve the best 💪

  • @lockheart619
    @lockheart619 4 года назад +9

    I like seeing other ppl comment their stories. It makes me realize that I'm not the only one going through what I'm dealing with right now. College isn't for me, but I'm still figuring out what I'm going to do if I drop out or *how* to tell my parents. I need advice, but I don't know who to turn to. Seeing other people's stories make me realize I'm not alone.

    • @renuk5689
      @renuk5689 4 года назад

      Experienced Advice here : You should first figure out what you really like/want to do. Dont urge to drop or you will regret. And if you are clear with your thoughts on what you really want to do then you can tell your parents abt it.
      PS:- I also droped from BSc to persue Medicine 😇

    • @sadboihrs1229
      @sadboihrs1229 4 года назад

      Hope you didn't waste scholarship money just because you aren't academically qualified to succeed.

  • @AHC1801
    @AHC1801 4 года назад +23

    Alivia, you’re such an inspiration, I love you so much 🖤🖤

  • @jhoannahope662
    @jhoannahope662 4 года назад +7

    the positivity you're giving off motivates me to work on my glow up too

  • @elsafernandez9851
    @elsafernandez9851 4 года назад +7

    I always loved this series, and you Alivia in general. And it's true, most of us can't relate to wealth, and even when we save up, most of us won't be able to do what you do. But if people comment on that, then that's because they don't understand the meaning of the video. They see the money only. I think (correct me if I'm wrong) what you want to show is that sometimes, you have to leave where you are to get a better view of your situation, to think back, to find yourself again. Sometimes you're not in the right place, and you have to leave if you want to grow.

  • @lavenderblossom4774
    @lavenderblossom4774 4 года назад +6

    “Life is limited. Take chances. Show your love.”
    - Alivia 2018
    This is my new favorite quote!

  • @sarah8.184
    @sarah8.184 4 года назад +56

    Okay I just finished watching and girl, yes it took long until this episode was uploaded, but it was worth the wait. The amout of effort put into this is crazy, and this video is so aesthetically pleasing, holy shit.
    You're a huge, HUGE inspiration to me, because of you I started losing weight and trying to glow up myself, so THANK YOU SO MUCH AND NEVER STOP DOING WHAT YOU'RE DOING!! 🤸‍♀️❤️😊

  • @comelyshe4772
    @comelyshe4772 4 года назад +4

    I'm 27 and wtf , these videos are so dang good. Thank you for inspiring me ! I feel stuck , and maybe being stuck isn't so bad. Its the little things that move you forward.

  • @caro7406
    @caro7406 4 года назад +5

    There is something so special about your videos that I can‘t find anywhere else on RUclips and that makes me so addicted to your videos🙏🏼

  • @avaelizabeth140
    @avaelizabeth140 4 года назад +4

    I absolutely adore this journey you’re sharing with us. It’s so human and down to earth, it actually is helping me find my way through my own struggles. Thank you so so much!!!

  • @magdamadejska1521
    @magdamadejska1521 4 года назад +2

    This series is just getting better and better. It's amazing to see such an honest and genuine glow up of someone so close to your age. You should definitely be proud of yourself. Cannot wait for the next episode.

  • @evenpreenvoss5586
    @evenpreenvoss5586 4 года назад +18

    Alivia, I absolutely love your glow up diaries! I just wish they were a bit longer. We want to see more of what you have to offer, and that doesn't necessarily mean more videos, but longer videos! Sending love to everyone at this time!!💛❤❤❤

  • @jasnapamulova2787
    @jasnapamulova2787 4 года назад +51

    Just for a moment imagine being able to have enough money to travel like this. Wow. Makes me happy.
    Beautiful video Alivia!

  • @tinazheng9241
    @tinazheng9241 4 года назад +3

    This is the type of video where I would rewatch over and over again. Thank you for the upload!!

  • @tobygrunwald4852
    @tobygrunwald4852 4 года назад +4

    The efforts spent on each video are clear, seriously Alicia has the best content on here

  • @josephjoseph9944
    @josephjoseph9944 4 года назад +188

    I know these jokes r getting a bit over done but...
    "I needed to move, leave home, shuffle my surroundings and wake up in a new place" - the virus

  • @asiavxv
    @asiavxv 4 года назад +13

    i live for these glow up diaries, love the creativity ❤️

  • @ellapatella2574
    @ellapatella2574 4 года назад +14

    i'm tellin you girl, you are so inspiring to me. i look forward to watching more of your journey. your editing is quite amazing too :)

  • @Emily-dj4zu
    @Emily-dj4zu 4 года назад +288

    7:06: "open your moth you had coffee too"
    7:08 : " No I like my coffee breath"
    😂🙊

    • @adrianasofia3864
      @adrianasofia3864 4 года назад +1

      This moment was literally me.

    • @virqgo1430
      @virqgo1430 4 года назад

      Just as I read it, the part went on.

  • @prettychidi
    @prettychidi 4 года назад +2

    I can't express my gratitude enough to you. I want to say thank you for starting the Glow Up series. You inspired me to start my own channel and I hope to reach and help as many people as you do through your videos. Thank you for showing your hardships in life as many people have related to them and have solace through them.

  • @tc-yo6tn
    @tc-yo6tn 4 года назад +1

    alivia... thank you. i’ve been struggling with depression as well as binge eating disorder since jan. after some major life events left me alone, to my own broken devices. i’ve had no motivation for work, school, not even my well-being. this series has given me a new perspective on life... it’s- no- you’ve inspired me to change. i remember watching you years back for inspiration (for flexibility haha) and i’m so glad i returned to your channel to find myself once again inspired by you. thank you:)!

  • @zoejaquith5128
    @zoejaquith5128 4 года назад +3

    You looked extremely happy over the course of this trip. I'm glad that you took this time to enjoy the city of Shanghai (I've never been there but it looks like a beautiful and interesting place) and enjoy yourself. It seemed that you took this time for self-healing and you let yourself eat the food, explore the places, buy the things you liked, etc.. I wish the best for you in the future years to come!

  • @michellexx1214
    @michellexx1214 4 года назад +5

    hey alivia, i just wanted to say that your videos are so inspiring and helpful. It made me realize a couple things and ireally appreciate it :). your progress shows that a glow up isnt a facemask and taking a bath. Its more than that. Its a long progress with mistakes and pain. Thank you for showing the reality, Shelly

  • @pinkcake9242
    @pinkcake9242 3 года назад +6

    This is my favorite episode, because it looks like she is already glowed up

  • @beccacast614
    @beccacast614 4 года назад +2

    Although you're younger than me I've already learned so much from this series. Every time I watch one of these videos I feel motivated to start my own glow up, but that motivation never lasts for me. I heard someone say once that motivation isn't something that comes before you start a thing, it comes after you start and the more you do the thing the more motivated you'll feel to do it (I honestly don't remember where I heard that, but if it was from this series that'd be ironic that I don't remember haha). I've also made the decision to leave my college a few months ago, but in that transition I've forgotten what it is that I want to pursue in the future. So, hopefully while I'm stuck at home during my quarantine, with nothing to do but better myself, I'll find myself along the way and finally continue my own glow up. Thank you Alivia for inspiring not only me, but many other people to start their own glow ups

  • @claudiacorona3165
    @claudiacorona3165 4 года назад +2

    I’m literally crying my heart out 😭 I started watching this series while I was doing a semester abroad in Korea at one of the Korean Ivy League Universities (Korea University) and I just got back a few weeks ago and I realized that I miss that excitement that moves you to be more creative and in general motivated ❤️

  • @sleepydaysasmr
    @sleepydaysasmr 4 года назад +10

    You’re such an inspiration to me Alivia. You have impacted my life so much! 💕 thank you!

  • @stephpowell7648
    @stephpowell7648 4 года назад +155

    When you are always chasing 'happiness' you will always be unhappy. Happiness is fleeting. Chase Joy instead.

    • @subuleepyoo1462
      @subuleepyoo1462 4 года назад +3

      Steph Powell thank you so much for this! 💗

    • @jasminevdh6375
      @jasminevdh6375 4 года назад +1

      💗💗💗

    • @hannahh.7770
      @hannahh.7770 4 года назад +2

      I LOVE this! You are so right. Sometimes we aren't happy doing something but it's still something we have to do. Immediate happiness isn't always the best

    • @gabriellameattray9778
      @gabriellameattray9778 4 года назад +5

      Joy and happiness are the same thing. I don't understand

    • @stephpowell7648
      @stephpowell7648 4 года назад +13

      @@gabriellameattray9778 no. Joy is the assurance that God is in control of everything. It isn't a feeling and therefore isn't fleeting. Its steadfast. Happiness is a feeling, feelings are fleeting, ever changing and not to be trusted. The sun could be shining, you have money in the bank, people who love you and everything could be right in the world yet you still don't feel happy. Or you could be happy and one small thing happens and it disappears. Happiness is fleeting, like trying to hold onto dry sand. But joy is long lasting.

  • @defsnotrae
    @defsnotrae 4 года назад +13

    i never thought i’d say this, but you heal me

  • @sushitalks6045
    @sushitalks6045 4 года назад +1

    That convo was so heartwarming, it’s so good that your family is supportive of your personal growth and not just educational

  • @mangospapayas6688
    @mangospapayas6688 4 года назад +4

    This video really reminded me of some current life goals. I’m just about to start my freshman year of college, and I realize that I need to go for myself. I want to pursue animation. And I know it will be really hard, but seeing Alivia take action towards her own dreams makes me want to work towards mine. I also really want to travel and see the world. So this kinda ignited a flare of determination to land a good job so I can save up money and travel the world when I’m older. I would love to experience so many new cultures, foods, music, and living styles.

  • @umi52
    @umi52 4 года назад +17

    I m so excited! I caught this on 58 seconds, record or what?!

  • @dailymagic7035
    @dailymagic7035 4 года назад +8

    This really motivates me to travel as soon as things ar getting back to normal

  • @SLK0220
    @SLK0220 4 года назад +8

    you make me feel like I can do anything.
    Thank you.

  • @nedavarbanova1999
    @nedavarbanova1999 4 года назад +1

    I cant tell you how thankful i am that you started these episodes, they really changed me for the better, they showed me how to live healthier, happier and to appreciate all the little moments in life. You showed me how to live my live fully.
    Love you❤❤❤

  • @ashleighhennessy
    @ashleighhennessy 4 года назад +2

    Fantastic video! I love that you are constantly learning and growing, you are my biggest inspiration!

  • @fernandabritto5526
    @fernandabritto5526 4 года назад +3

    When I saw you at the Hyatt I almost cried. I went to China in such a weird moment of my life and fell in love with it. Shanghai is beautiful. Made me feel so good. Glad you enjoyed it.

  • @randomdude4212
    @randomdude4212 4 года назад +314

    Ugh Im lowkey frustrated that everything is from 2018 like i wanna know what she is going thru noww

    • @imintheghettoratatata4850
      @imintheghettoratatata4850 4 года назад +17

      You will see it in the season 2 of the Glow Up Diary

    • @fwthien
      @fwthien 4 года назад +15

      Well after she moved out of college, she went on to move into an apartment of her own as an independent young adult. She was very happy, healthy and free from stress. Making her own money and living. Trying to seek something or maybe already found a passion for learning new things. But then corona came and she had to move back into her parents house.

    • @angelnumbers7718
      @angelnumbers7718 4 года назад +5

      She still uploads videos tho, all these are past videos that she edited later. The next season will come out in October 2020

  • @Ashley-pt7hh
    @Ashley-pt7hh 4 года назад +2

    I know how we are watch her grow along with this series but I can’t help but notice how much her editing has changed and in my opinion improved

  • @adrianasofia3864
    @adrianasofia3864 4 года назад +2

    I love you so much. You gave me the confidence and you put the thoughts I had in my head into a video. Grow Alivia grow! I can't believe we got to go on this little journey with you.

  • @jennygardner5640
    @jennygardner5640 4 года назад +2

    Alivia I have literally been waiting everyday for this glow up diary video since the last one! You insire me so much to do better, I admire you and you make me want to do so much more than what I am!

  • @gd2425
    @gd2425 4 года назад +1543

    Imagine having the money to even consider taking an overseas trip on a whim

    • @catireland13
      @catireland13 4 года назад +124

      umuthi I was waiting for someone to comment on that, we can only work with what we got

    • @lilaraulston-lappart7489
      @lilaraulston-lappart7489 4 года назад +140

      Look at her Instagram story on "theglowupdiaries". She saves up and makes her money by herself.

    • @juliaradomska2261
      @juliaradomska2261 4 года назад +51

      @@n0ctem845 please tell me you are joking

    • @Ringdingdong206
      @Ringdingdong206 4 года назад

      Right!!! 🥺

    • @MNeathway
      @MNeathway 4 года назад +25

      First class too

  • @SweetKristen
    @SweetKristen 4 года назад +3

    100k views in just 11 hours! Do you see how loved you are!? Girl keep going!!!

  • @lh6817
    @lh6817 4 года назад +6

    🌸✨Every time Alivia posts I drop everything get a glass of water and watch.✨🌸

  • @garoti8241
    @garoti8241 4 года назад +1

    You are one of the few RUclipsrs that still keep shit real. Thanks God that RUclips helps me find you....keep up with the good work girl! ❤️

  • @charlotteh2907
    @charlotteh2907 4 года назад +1

    Honestly I've been watching your videos since like December, I'm not in a good place in my life right now, due to a combination of things that are and that are not in my control. When I watch your videos you inspire me to find that motivation I need to get out of bed and do something even if it is just a small task . I hope you know how much you inspire me and other people. ❤️