3 Things Men Want Women To KNOW! *they're actually super sweet*

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  • Опубликовано: 4 окт 2024
  • Today, I'm sharing three things men really want you to know! They actually love taking care of you and making you happy - so let's give them the benefit of the doubt. Leave your thoughts down below.
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Комментарии • 69

  • @TracieSmithpomeranian
    @TracieSmithpomeranian 3 месяца назад +8

    I have been single for over ten years. I had giving up on American men. Until I came across Kevin Sorbo and Kirk Cameron.
    At 52, I am looking forward to meeting the man God has for me.

    • @b.k8051
      @b.k8051 3 месяца назад +2

      hahahahahahahahahah, what a sad statement

    • @Muttinchopsforever
      @Muttinchopsforever 3 месяца назад

      Good luck with that my advice just find a down to earth guy that you can communicate with well but that will need you to to communicate

  • @Glotzie1
    @Glotzie1 3 месяца назад +28

    As a single woman for all my life, I really appreciate this content. I only want to date seriously which is hard in this generation, which is why I never had a relationship. But content like this really... i dont know, it makes up for some of the experience I lack.

    • @BadMannerKorea
      @BadMannerKorea 3 месяца назад +3

      If you've been single your entire life, you might want to start analyzing why that's the case, and I'll tell you one thing, it's not just about how dating is hard.

    • @Glotzie1
      @Glotzie1 3 месяца назад +5

      @BadMannerKorea Absolutely, and I know I play as much of a part in this as the men I've met. Without going too much into detail since stuff like this doesn't belong on the RUclips comment section, I know I keep very high walls and don't "let people in" very easily, which is of course very important in a serious relationship.
      But thanks for pointing in out, you're absolutely correct!

    • @carlesls
      @carlesls 3 месяца назад

      Do not know how to approach women.

    • @snapman218
      @snapman218 3 месяца назад

      Well at least you’re somewhat accountable for your actions.

    • @emilywalsh2073
      @emilywalsh2073 3 месяца назад +3

      There is a lot of men who just want casual sex. There is a high expectation for sex to be had very early. If you aren't offering that early then it can hinder some relationships but I also think this is going to help you avoid a lot of pain from men who never cared, respected or wanted you in the first place.

  • @AllisonIntheCity
    @AllisonIntheCity 3 месяца назад +14

    Men should do their fair share of the emotional and physical labor of a household/family without having to be asked if they want to see their wives happy.
    And how did you come up with these? What was the sample size of men that you surveyed?

    • @a1990sGamer
      @a1990sGamer Месяц назад

      You're definitely single

    • @AllisonIntheCity
      @AllisonIntheCity Месяц назад

      @@a1990sGamer Cool, bro. I'll let my boyfriend know, I guess?

  • @annamolly2549
    @annamolly2549 3 месяца назад +23

    Abby: there are no blanket statements
    Also Abby: makes blanket statements ALL the time trying to pass them off as truth
    😂😂

    • @carlygilbert2794
      @carlygilbert2794 3 месяца назад

      Like all women should have children? Haha.

  • @FastidiousFalchion
    @FastidiousFalchion 3 месяца назад +8

    As a man, all we want is someone as level headed and rational as yourself. Disturbingly hard to find among my age group nowadays. And of course, the Internet is the culprit.

    • @jaydee3216
      @jaydee3216 Месяц назад

      I can safely say I agree with you. Abby is my dream woman in every way. If only we could find an Abby all to ourselves right? I would get married tomorrow

  • @b.k8051
    @b.k8051 3 месяца назад +9

    This lady pretends to be a trad wife but she's an entrepreneurial content creator

    • @katieanne7992
      @katieanne7992 3 месяца назад +1

      But she’s a stay at home mom? Kids not in daycare seems pretty traditional to me

    • @b.k8051
      @b.k8051 3 месяца назад +2

      @@katieanne7992 She isn't a stay at home mom. That is a blatant mischaracterization. She is a content creator and influencer who -- like all other content creators and influencers -- works from home. There is nothing traditional about being a content creator or influencer. Also, as a person who also works from home, I can tell you that the hours never end. You are always working. You are always on the job.

  • @Womb_to_Tomb_Apologetics
    @Womb_to_Tomb_Apologetics 3 месяца назад +5

    All accurate. Thanks Abby! 👌

  • @bgtc1422
    @bgtc1422 3 месяца назад +11

    You started by saying that you weren't making blanket statements about genders and then spent the whole video doing exactly that. You also say this is what men want women to know, and then you ask men to comment if it's true. So really, this is what you want women to know about men based on your views. k thanks.

    • @Dennis-nc3vw
      @Dennis-nc3vw 3 месяца назад +1

      Oh my God...I know you don't give anyone else this hard time, even though there are probably about 100 million similar videos/essays on this subject on the internet.

    • @movehandslikeclouds
      @movehandslikeclouds 3 месяца назад

      You seem like a happy person.

  • @jewelfewel
    @jewelfewel 3 месяца назад +8

    ✨ I think that’s the twinkle? Man here, I agree that I prefer women to clearly communicate their wants and needs with words. I understand there might be some unspoken expectation, but sometimes we need clarity lol Feminine beauty and nurturing traits are also very attractive

  • @AB-sk7se
    @AB-sk7se 2 месяца назад

    ✨very.true about him doing things his way and not micro managing how he does chores

  • @deannapickman4867
    @deannapickman4867 3 месяца назад +3

    These are 100% spot on! ✨

  • @a1990sGamer
    @a1990sGamer Месяц назад

    This is actually really on point honestly, really well said Abby, you really hit the nail on the head for sure. You definitely had to have asked your husband for these info bits

  • @emilywalsh2073
    @emilywalsh2073 3 месяца назад +2

    Maybe its because I am 35, this doesn't help me. This is not my problem.

  • @Yesica1993
    @Yesica1993 3 месяца назад +1

    Thank you!
    I wish I could have one of my own.

  • @gabiconley8906
    @gabiconley8906 3 месяца назад +1

    Thank you Abby! Enjoyed this video. ✨

  • @christinekonicki8440
    @christinekonicki8440 3 месяца назад +2

  • @Dovahfinn95
    @Dovahfinn95 3 месяца назад +2

    Very excited for this one!

  • @AgapeLuv4Life
    @AgapeLuv4Life 3 месяца назад +2

    Lovely video, God bless you Abby

  • @spookypineapple
    @spookypineapple 3 месяца назад +2

    Damn I didn't even know this is what I wanted, but you're spot on!

  • @tashacooper1753
    @tashacooper1753 3 месяца назад +4

    I did find that wild how mad women got about men saying they love when we wear sundresses

  • @Emily-pl7fv
    @Emily-pl7fv 3 месяца назад +1

    This is great, Abby! I love the example you gave of men and women having their own ways of doing things. It's good to understand each other's differences, without nagging or criticizing. I also liked your point on being vulnerable. Having been taught growing up that the ideal for a woman is the be "strong and independent", who doesn't need a man for anything (except where it's convenient), it's hard to imagine letting myself be vulnerable with a man and letting him take care of me. Thank you for your insight on this topic! ✨

  • @Dennis-nc3vw
    @Dennis-nc3vw 3 месяца назад +2

    All true, but I think number two is pretty universal. It's called "don't micro-manage."

  • @rlm9093
    @rlm9093 3 месяца назад +4

    Ok...to actually comment on your content. It is good to consider the real differences between men and women and to keep that in mind as we interact with each other. Honestly, I have gotten out of the habit of that, and it's good to be reminded. Thanks for the discussion. I'll look forward to others comments once they start rolling in... especially from the men.

  • @cananary
    @cananary 3 месяца назад +2

    i really appreciate your content❤

  • @MacN-gx3jv
    @MacN-gx3jv 3 месяца назад +1

    You’re totally right. Thank you 🙏

  • @carlesls
    @carlesls 3 месяца назад +2

    I do not know how to approach a woman.

    • @Lima-invader
      @Lima-invader 3 месяца назад

      They’re not feral animals, don’t worry. You approach women like you would a man.

    • @b.k8051
      @b.k8051 3 месяца назад

      here's a tip. Stop listening to this kook. She's an entrepreneurial content creator and the breadwinner in her family. But she espouses 1950s bullshit that she herself doesn't live by. Use your brain

  • @user-Vida-Locust
    @user-Vida-Locust 2 месяца назад

    ...But why do you want a relationship?

  • @joannawardell7696
    @joannawardell7696 3 месяца назад +1

    Happily married to my husband 40 years....spot on!

  • @abbyk8mc
    @abbyk8mc Месяц назад

    ✨✨✨✨

  • @vyzee404
    @vyzee404 3 месяца назад +5

    you make blanket statements about gender all the time , many in this video alone. men are great, men love to see you happy, etc. not always true.
    also saying that women should shrink themselves and are "bossy" or are "nagging" their husbands by asking them to do things unless it's in a "feminine way" is a recipe for abuse. also, saying "if you care so much about it, do it yourself" just excludes the possibility of male weaponised incompetence - doing something wrong on purpose (eg: "not knowing" where the shopping goes so you put it away for him, purposefully folding clothes in a sloppy or inefficient way so you do it from now on, etc). i get that this is all probably rage bait but jesus

  • @ButterfingerBB
    @ButterfingerBB 3 месяца назад +5

    As a man I had to confirm that Abby is spot on

  • @fewerlaws
    @fewerlaws 3 месяца назад

    I love hearing about the good things your husband does for you. You both are exceptional. I am so happy you are having kids together!!

  • @gerrymarmee3054
    @gerrymarmee3054 3 месяца назад

    Embracing our gifts, male or female, is what you are saying. Appreciate and be thankful for them.

  • @dawnhiggins2121
    @dawnhiggins2121 29 дней назад

    🌟🌟🌟

  • @Tibbs-jibbs
    @Tibbs-jibbs 3 месяца назад

    Inside out two review?

  • @TracieSmithpomeranian
    @TracieSmithpomeranian 3 месяца назад +2

    ✨️

  • @Livvybenten
    @Livvybenten 3 месяца назад +4

    ✨✨

  • @rlm9093
    @rlm9093 3 месяца назад +1

    Twinkle emoji....hmmm I'll see if I can figure that one out...I scoured my options. I don't think I have that one...so...here's some stars....like "Twinkle Twinkle Little star" ⭐✨ so maybe these will be close enough. 💖 That one looks like a twinkly star to me...

  • @ab-gail
    @ab-gail 2 месяца назад

    ❤👍

  • @therumbleinthejunglee
    @therumbleinthejunglee 3 месяца назад +7

    Move the camera a little down

    • @Dennis-nc3vw
      @Dennis-nc3vw 3 месяца назад

      Low enough to see your IQ?

  • @snapman218
    @snapman218 3 месяца назад +3

    As a man speaking for all men, the only things we want are women to be physically fit and to facilitate peace. Not hard

  • @ebonidaneen5639
    @ebonidaneen5639 3 месяца назад +2

    ✨️✨️✨️✨️

  • @EssiePaula1846
    @EssiePaula1846 3 месяца назад +2

  • @Dovahfinn95
    @Dovahfinn95 3 месяца назад +3

    ✨️

  • @thoughtsfromafinnishforest
    @thoughtsfromafinnishforest 3 месяца назад

  • @karina3133
    @karina3133 3 месяца назад +1

  • @StormyStitch
    @StormyStitch 3 месяца назад +3

  • @clarah6318
    @clarah6318 3 месяца назад +1