Wow. Scary how accurate this is. My father was a very violent man. I have often described him as exactly as you said- militant. I haven't spoken to him in over a decade now because I have always been intimidated by him. He was the boogie man. He was the thing in the which I feared the most growing up. And because of that I have always had an issue with the opposite sex and having to be in control in a relationships and not ever being in that position of powerlessness. You are also spot-on about the autoimmune health issues and inflammation. I suffer from rosacea and psoriasis and terrible bouts of sciatica and back problems. When not in check with proper meditation and supplements, I suffer from high anxiety and stress. This always results in some kind of inflammation, to the point that it is sometimes crippling where it will affect my joints and mobilty.
This aspect dominates my life. I will spend months on end flip-flopping between the barbaric anger of Wotan and being so depressed I want to off myself. It's hard not to see these Saturnian figures as sadistic narcissists... and I loathe calling people narcissists because it is such an overused buzzword, but it fits my view of Saturn as the evil of all evils, a cruel oppressor, a nonchalant bigot, a prison guard straight from Hell.
This explains why I'm so put off by all the Capricorn men in my family(dad, older brother, brother in law, nephew). Constantly feeling guilt for being the youngest and never feeling good enough for them. I've always felt very upset by them telling me to do things like my own personal power and needs aren't worthy of being acknowledged and that I'm not good enough with my actions. I think it's funny that my NN is in Capricorn in my 1st house now that I understand this aspect better, haha. Thank you for explaining it so well
I can relate to this comment a lot. My father also has Capricorn energy (Moon, Venus) and my NN is also in Capricorn (1st house or 2nd depending on which house system I use). I'm the eldest child in my family though, I built my life and identity around serving my family and being an overachiever until I had a major breakdown on my middle 20s. (I'm not out of this face yet, and it's been years.) I'm a Cancer sun. Also, ironically, my dad has a NN in Cancer and both of us have this aspect in our charts (same Saturn placement, different Mars signs). My mom has a Capricorn Ascendant too.
so, so helpful! your videos are so insightful, and this aspect is SO prevalent in my chart and life. thank you for saying honestly that it IS a diabolical aspect (my Mars is also afflicted by all the outer planets) but also for providing advice on a way out, because i have struggled with not fully understanding how my mother issues (pretty much as you described) could be solved! x
I have mars in Scorpio and saturn in Aquarius. I feel a lot of shame and I supress my anger SO much... Thank you for this video, strange timing since I was talking about my relationship with anger with my therapist just today hahaha
Thank you Jewel for this video. I have Mars in Aries square Saturn in Capricorn and i struggle a lot expressing my will on a daily basis and sexually. I'm going to watch, rewatch this video and try to work on myself because i think it is the aspect that affect my life the most in a negative way (and i have a lot of square in my natal chart)
I have this same placement scary idk honestly houses places are what worry me biggest aspect I saw an notice been on my brain for since I been on astrology
Yesyes, mars in Aquarius. Very interesting this projecting. Also spot on in about how the parents are perceived and i am punishing myself. So sad......... Yes now i avoid being controlled, because I don't TRUST anymore that i stand up for myself. Wow.. I really love this talk, thank you, will listen again on repeat. Dancing has been a great way to express. My Mars is in the 11th house.
💜 sorry you're going through this. My lover has this, I'm just trying to give him support. Hope you grow and feel stronger as soon as possible. Meditation and self acceptance are good ❤
You are so right. I have that aspect too and I am about to cry listening to you. I experienced many brutal things by my mother, not by my father when I was a child. Now I’m 37 years and still broken. I'll take your advice and try to live by it. Thanks 🙏
Oh Jewel, After listening about the Mars placements in women and what they bring to them in their partner, thinking back on my life and failed relationships, it all clicked and made sense (I’ll admit, I chuckled quite a bit too!). Then after hearing the part about the guilt reference in regards to it all, i literally got so choked up and said “Yes!”, with the biggest sigh of relief with this confirmation. This aspect is SO hard. I just started studying the minor aspects in my natal chart and became aware that I have this one but the Tri-Octile aspect which I’m sure might manifest a little different? I also realized this huge shift in general in my life and personality and when I started drawing people to me in partnerships right after my father passed very young and unexpectedly. I feel like ever since that day, I’ve totally repressed my Mars in Aries! I can’t express enough how much your knowledge in your videos have changed my life and helped me grow and evolve and know myself more than ever……. Thank you. ❤
This is an evergreen teaching! Watching it to tend to the energies of the transit today and it is so useful! Mars scorpio and it is me who is not controlling actually 9th. I had a conflict with leo mars person and i was literally a metoo case so guilt was involved thought I tried to break through guilt shame blame cycle which unfortunately triggered each others issues. They were also my boss - played saturn transits in each others life. Had this double whammy in synastry.
Your videos taught me so much about life, and so much about myself (the things I instinctively knew about myself, but never knew why...). Thanks for sharing your wisdom.
What sucks is that I have Aries Mars conjunct MC. Everytime I try to borrow the strength of my mars to propel myself in my professional life, the Cancer Saturn and Capricorn Chiron conjunct Sun has to butt in. I have seen someone talked about this, and yes, it's exactly like running out of a burning building, then having to climb a hill, just to have a burning piano land on top of you. Everytime I want something, I have to bruise, to shed some blood or tears. It never ever comes easy. I'm so tired of pain, I just want to be happy...
I am a hetero woman and I feel my saturn leo-mars-opposition myself. It is one of my main life issues. My creative self-expression is inhibited even though I want to express myself so badly. I know that I have some talents but my way to them is somehow blocked...
I have Jupiter and Saturn one minute apart at 4 degrees of Libra and Mars at 4 degrees Cancer. It has definitely been a challenging aspect in my life, but one that I've worked hard to understand and work with over the last 7-8 years. I'm commenting because I was slightly amused when you mentioned the men in the women's life who has this aspect. My husband is a Virgo sun and a Gemini moon (birth time unknown) with a stellium in Libra. His chart is heavily air and is not good with emotions at all, so what you said about the Mars in Cancer part definitely resonated. Other parts did too.
This is like groundhog Day , thank you for bringing this aspect into the conscious . I have mars in pisces house 6 , and Saturn in Capricorn house 4 , and yes it has worn me down , over the years . Now approaching sixty , the authraty I now understand , and the acting out and not intergrating . Astrology is a great psychogicle insight into healing , especially when delivered with such knowledge and patience . Not being aware of such power , is disabiletating , I have to watch the video again . I do find writing and conversation and listening a great exercise to heal . Your a good teacher , and thank you to your insight and forthcoming in what you expressed ...
It's very true, thanks Jewel, I don't know how you do it, but it's spot on! I've been on this journey - and released my mars, and now it's my strongest force. I have moon in Cappy conjunct mars square saturn in aries , with t-square with uranus - it's been a quite a ride, yikes! Thanks for your amazing videos!
Dear Jewel, I'd be very grateful for a video natal Moon Opposite Neptune and natal Venus Square Saturn. Thank you for your work and many blessings to you !
Yep, I have Mars in Pisces in the 6th house and Saturn in Sagittarius in the 3rd house. My husband can be extremely cruel, ruthless, cold, out of touch with the spiritual side of life. My Grandpa was also like that. I married my husband after just six months and had two sons. Now I feel stuck at home all the time and even restricted within my own house. My husband has much more freedom than I do. He has a passion for riding his bicycle. I often dream/fantasize of escaping to a beautiful place in nature where I can be truly free. A place like the garden of Eden. My moon is in Virgo (12th house) opposite Mars. Jupiter and Chiron (Gemini 9th house) are also square my Mars. My sun and Mercury are also in Gemini in the 9th house. North Node is Capricorn in the 4th house. ♊♑♐ Virgo rising ♍♍ I'm a stay at home mom. Follow vegetarian diet but I wish I could eat like Adam and Eve...beautiful fruit all day, any time, right off the rooted plant :) No stove required 😀 And I also feel very restricted by the government, especially by how the government thinks I should raise my children. Honestly, I hate the world the way it is today. I hate it with a passion. I do also wish I could just die and be reincarnated into a better life and world.
I have this ... Gatorade with it's electrolytes I find help relieve the occasional transient Saturn square Mars leg cramp. Spot on, as they say! Thank you for the wonderfully informative video!
i put my life on hold, dropped out of college after my dad got deported to be there for my mom and 5 years later I hate that I did this, I'd be in such a different place now and would've been able to help my family out better if i would've just done what I wanted to do instead of providing comfort to another. I'm not getting myself out of this and recently got accepted so i'm really trying to change this. My Mars is in Leo.. in the 9th house. How can I release my Mars : \
Oh wow I think I just had a breakthrough... This makes so much sense and is taking me exactly where I’ve been trying to figure out for so long.. Thank you for sharing and explaining in such an in depth way! 🖤🖤🖤 Mars in Aries ♈️ square Saturn in Sagittarius ♐️
This seems pretty spot on to me, for a family member... you say that anger needs to be expressed with this aspect... what I see is a difficulty to do so, and when it comes out it's often an aggressive passive aggression (pisces mars), and it's hard to be around when that anger is expressed...
You said inflammation, I hit like! 😢😥 So true. Although yes, I've been tomboyish since Teenage. I can handle things but about rage and feeling blocked by obstacles- so true
Very helpful, I was born with a Capricorn Saturn Square Mars Aries with Saturn in the first house. I literally mute my own energy for fear of losing control. Weird to think that the answer lies in having faith in your own energy.
My ex husband has this aspect. He wore a mask as a cancer but sometimes was so batshit cruel, he injured my arm heavily, in the end he almost destroyed me by his cruel behavior and words. Hate him. My Taurus Venus is absolutely gutted. Depression and anxiety because of him
"This is a diabolical aspect to deal with... There is a potential cruelty in someone who has a hard aspect between Mars and Saturn that they must acknowledge" - among extreme cases, Adolf Hitler and Josef Mengele had this aspect.
Just a few examples of wonderful and admirable people who have a Mars Square Saturn aspect in their natal charts: Julie Andrews (from The Sound of Music and Mary Poppins--are you honestly saying that she has any intrinsic potential for cruelty?? LOL!!!), Liv Tyler, Julia Roberts, Patrick Stewart, and Susan Sarandon. Honestly, I enjoy astrology, but I think that with any system invented by human beings, you have to take everything with a grain of salt and see it in a more holistic way. Also keep in mind there is a whole different system of astrology out there called Vedic Astrology. In that system, all the planets are in different positions anyway!
Sometimes astrology is so scarily accurate.. I have Saturn square mars and Saturn oppose Venus. My father was like a narcissistic tyrant controlling my life, and I went through so much abuse and feeling unloved in life. And he is Saturn conjunct mars/Sun & moon square mars.
Would it work by releasing anger lifting weights or maybe boxing? My natal chart has this aspect and it truly makes ones life challenging in terms of masculine energy. My mars is in Taurus, I am a 25 yo male, and It's hard for me to gain wealth or to save money in any way even though I often get acknowledged for being intelligent, talented, etc... But, I guess because of mars in Taurus it will be hard to gain wealth and it honestly sucks big time
I'm back to watch this video again, because I can relate so much to it... I still have not learned this lesson, even though I've been trying for years... And Mars is back in Taurus, squaring Saturn in Aquarius (these are my natal placements). I hate this energy so much...
Exellent video, Jewel. Thank you. I feel this energy having the semi square. My Mars is retrograde in intercepted 1st house semiaquared with rx Sa and Moon in 11th.
My mother has thes placement. Her own mother was very abusive. One of her favorite quotes is that her life is terrible and she doesn't feel she did anything meaningful. Her relationship with my father was and is very complicated.
Another great video jewel - i always look forward to your natal chart explanations. Saturn squares all of my personal planets, am i screwed or what? Lol
Came to take a look at this video cause transit Saturn (24 Capricorn as of end of Jan 2020) is squaring my natal Mars at 25 Aries, the ruler of my Scorpio Ascendant. The understanding of this aspect displayed in this video is truly helpful for me with dealing with this very hard transit that sometimes seems as if there are no possible solutions to it.
I’m a woman with Virgo Mars conjoining my ascendant squaring my Saturn, and I’m kind of like that kind of man you described with bad habits and fat…… I always cut my self whenever near sharp things, that gave me a lot of scars on my hands…… I perfectly actualised those bad qualities😢
I have Mars Rx in Aries Square Saturn in Sagittarius. My outside doesn’t come close to matching what’s going on within. I appear calm externally, but internally I’m a raging volcano 🌋 that’s not healthy at all and I have a rosy face because of all the bottling I do of my anger.My Mars Rx is in the 6th house and my Saturn is in the 3rd.
I want to add a couple of things that I am aware of regarding the square since I do possess it. My Saturn is in Scorpio conjunct the IC. That's hard enough to deal with. Then Pluto is also conjunct my IC and Saturn as well so they both end up Mars.... that my friend is a very scary situation. I have also noted that Mars Square Saturn can indicate a so-called History of Violence. Seeing how Saturn is literally history of the family and Mars represents alcohol and Saturn represents ingrained behaviors and habits. To be completely honest my experience with Saturn Square Mars and Pluto lead to alcoholism, feeling like a sexual slave since my Mars is in Capricorn in the 6th. I ended up feeling obligated to have sex just to quell the Saturn persons ability to make me feel guilty if I did not engage and sex. Because of my excessive and horrible alcoholism for 15 years, I am sober now thankfully, I got very violent with men who were close to me. Two ex-boyfriends, my father, my stepfather, my husband. As a result I was charged with domestic violence 4 times!!! without alcohol I am a severely law-abiding citizen who can be a stick-in-the-mud but when I get booze in me....man become a monster or demon. it definitely does not help that the Mars in Capricorn squares fixed star algol. I used to be a cutter and when I stopped that because I pretty much didn't have any other place to cut, I began to literally beat myself up. Physically speaking. Throwing myself into walls punching myself in the face, this all stemmed from serious guilt from my relationship with my father and own inability to connect with my children. I feel very disconnected from them, because I lost custody of them due to my drinking, violence and erratic Behavior. I know I sound like a psycho and that's not the point because I just want to share my experience with this aspect as I feel that it is been very extreme in my life to the point where are yes I have considered suicide many times. I don't have the guts to follow through with it. however with Saturn conjunct IC has a major effect on my appetite. Saturn has to do with wasting away so I figured the worst punishment could just be starving yourself. I am great at blocking out the grumbling sounds in my stomach and signs of hunger and I completely ignore them. I currently weigh 100 lbs and am 5'7.... I'm not even going to breach upon the topic of Mars Square Pluto compounding this craziness even further. I am 36 years of age and yes like many other people I feel like life is hopeless and pointless especially with the Saturn Pluto conjunct Transit plowing through my Mars Capricorn right now. So this misery accentuates this for sure Oh,for a little extra fun....my husband's Saturn squares my Mars!!! you can bet there have been some pretty volatile situations between us with me being the perpetrator. man I feel so stupid for putting myself out there like this but I really felt I had to share and I'm sorry for rambling. Thank you
You have to let go of the feeling of helplessness. This is the core. The RAGE is an emotion that protects your vulnerability. Nobody feels truly safe when they are vulnerable. But your vulnerability had been exploited. So make peace with that. Forgive others and forgive yourself. You need to stand up for yourself in a healthy way. Communicate your needs and feelings(vulnerability). I know how hard it is😒 but we get better... You can do this. Don't have Sex out of obligation. Sex is an expression of feelings. As long as you suppress your feelings you'll never enjoy Sex and have an orgasm. I'm proud your sober now. Keep it up. ❤💗❤ Greetings and Hugs from Germany🇩🇪
First of all: you are one of my favorite astrologers on RUclips and I love your content! I have this with early aries mars in 10th to late sagittarius saturn in 6th. Lack of masculinity in the men in my life...yes I see this. Dad left, mum did the job of both parents alone, I see most men in my life as weak, so I feel better off doing life alone at the moment 🙈 I dont feel guilty though...I also have my mars in square to uranus and neptune, so the effects probably get mixed up for me. I used to feel weak but I got over it. I'm actually quite confident and independent now. Maybe the sextile from my gemini jupiter helps 🙃
Mars in Taurus in 7th square Saturn in 10th (conjunct Moon). Father and mother both violent with one another. Mother religious fanatic, father agnostic. I supported my first husband who ignored me. Second husband of 27 years was impotent and died of Multiple Myeloma ( cancer of the bones) after 10 years. Have tried to see my part in all this. Difficult.
I read that this aspect is very common in chart of people who commited suicide..i looked at the naral chart of two female actress in my country who commited suicide one week ago and they both have it 😱
Aries Mars 4H square Cancer Saturn 8H. Aye yai yai. Defiant to the end. Much struggle with authority and men with weak drive. I am air/fire dominant...too much masculine energy for my own good. Much better with age. The square gives such opportunity to grow and master the conflict. Great video Jewel!
Natal Pluto square Saturn, Natal Sun square Saturn, Natal Uranus square Jupiter, Natal Mercury square Jupiter, Natal Moon square Jupiter, Natal Mars square Jupiter. Jewel, I wish you could do some of these in the future to add in the list. Thank you very much!!
Thank you so much for your detailed explanation! I have Aries in Mars (11th house) square Saturn Retrogate in Capricorn (8th house). I wonder what the meaning of Saturn Retrogate is in the case of this square.
I identify as a masculine/androgenous woman (not very feminine but also not too masculine). I have this and so does my lover. He always fixes things for me. It's also in our midpoint. Don't love it. As a female it's ok but as a guy it can cause impotence which is sad. I'm so sorry for guys going through this.
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Wow. Scary how accurate this is. My father was a very violent man. I have often described him as exactly as you said- militant. I haven't spoken to him in over a decade now because I have always been intimidated by him. He was the boogie man. He was the thing in the which I feared the most growing up. And because of that I have always had an issue with the opposite sex and having to be in control in a relationships and not ever being in that position of powerlessness. You are also spot-on about the autoimmune health issues and inflammation. I suffer from rosacea and psoriasis and terrible bouts of sciatica and back problems. When not in check with proper meditation and supplements, I suffer from high anxiety and stress. This always results in some kind of inflammation, to the point that it is sometimes crippling where it will affect my joints and mobilty.
Try MSM and Omega3. It helps amazingly with inflammation😘 And thank you for your honesty
i wish you could do more Saturn square videos. Saturn square venus will be highly helpful!
Jewel, you are a brilliant astrologer. I’ve learned so much about myself through watching your videos. Thank you so much!
+Samantha Pfister 💓💓💓💓
Seconded.
same!!!
This aspect dominates my life. I will spend months on end flip-flopping between the barbaric anger of Wotan and being so depressed I want to off myself. It's hard not to see these Saturnian figures as sadistic narcissists... and I loathe calling people narcissists because it is such an overused buzzword, but it fits my view of Saturn as the evil of all evils, a cruel oppressor, a nonchalant bigot, a prison guard straight from Hell.
This explains why I'm so put off by all the Capricorn men in my family(dad, older brother, brother in law, nephew). Constantly feeling guilt for being the youngest and never feeling good enough for them. I've always felt very upset by them telling me to do things like my own personal power and needs aren't worthy of being acknowledged and that I'm not good enough with my actions. I think it's funny that my NN is in Capricorn in my 1st house now that I understand this aspect better, haha. Thank you for explaining it so well
I can relate to this comment a lot. My father also has Capricorn energy (Moon, Venus) and my NN is also in Capricorn (1st house or 2nd depending on which house system I use). I'm the eldest child in my family though, I built my life and identity around serving my family and being an overachiever until I had a major breakdown on my middle 20s. (I'm not out of this face yet, and it's been years.) I'm a Cancer sun. Also, ironically, my dad has a NN in Cancer and both of us have this aspect in our charts (same Saturn placement, different Mars signs). My mom has a Capricorn Ascendant too.
You're my favorite. No other source in my years of learning astrology has ever topped your videos. Thank you!
This make so much sense. Even a small thing is difficult to get.
so, so helpful! your videos are so insightful, and this aspect is SO prevalent in my chart and life. thank you for saying honestly that it IS a diabolical aspect (my Mars is also afflicted by all the outer planets) but also for providing advice on a way out, because i have struggled with not fully understanding how my mother issues (pretty much as you described) could be solved! x
Maren! It’s always cool to see other astrologers comment on videos
I have mars in Scorpio and saturn in Aquarius. I feel a lot of shame and I supress my anger SO much... Thank you for this video, strange timing since I was talking about my relationship with anger with my therapist just today hahaha
This is me. Not being able to move ahead. Mars in Aquarius, Saturn in Scorpio. Really hate it.
My son has it also. Extremely frustrating!!!
Me too. Aquarius Mars Scorpio Saturn (1°)
I have this aspect too and sometimes I feel down on myself too often. 😞
Same here but reverse, Mars in Scorpio square Saturn in Aquarius.
Yep I have an Aries Mars with this aspect and every guy ive been involved with lacks initiative, barely makes the first move. It’s so infuriating 😤🤬
Thank you Jewel for this video. I have Mars in Aries square Saturn in Capricorn and i struggle a lot expressing my will on a daily basis and sexually. I'm going to watch, rewatch this video and try to work on myself because i think it is the aspect that affect my life the most in a negative way (and i have a lot of square in my natal chart)
Kyneasa l same placements. Sounds like a plan. #videosaved
Have you found ways to feel better? Anything or anyone that triggers it?
I have this same placement scary idk honestly houses places are what worry me biggest aspect I saw an notice been on my brain for since I been on astrology
‘Stop working towards things think are indebted to’ ‘not CLEARLY ours’ THANK you!
Yesyes, mars in Aquarius. Very interesting this projecting. Also spot on in about how the parents are perceived and i am punishing myself. So sad.........
Yes now i avoid being controlled, because I don't TRUST anymore that i stand up for myself.
Wow.. I really love this talk, thank you, will listen again on repeat. Dancing has been a great way to express. My Mars is in the 11th house.
as a man with saturn square Mars, the title itself had me in tears
The opposition is worse for feeling a bit “shrunken” but the potential in both is to become stronger and more able with maturity.
I’m a woman with Saturn square mars. I feel you ❤
💜 sorry you're going through this. My lover has this, I'm just trying to give him support. Hope you grow and feel stronger as soon as possible. Meditation and self acceptance are good ❤
Aries Mars square Saturn. This video is so incredibly helpful. Thank you sooooo much.
You are so right. I have that aspect too and I am about to cry listening to you. I experienced many brutal things by my mother, not by my father when I was a child. Now I’m 37 years and still broken. I'll take your advice and try to live by it. Thanks 🙏
Oh Jewel,
After listening about the Mars placements in women and what they bring to them in their partner, thinking back on my life and failed relationships, it all clicked and made sense (I’ll admit, I chuckled quite a bit too!). Then after hearing the part about the guilt reference in regards to it all, i literally got so choked up and said “Yes!”, with the biggest sigh of relief with this confirmation.
This aspect is SO hard. I just started studying the minor aspects in my natal chart and became aware that I have this one but the Tri-Octile aspect which I’m sure might manifest a little different? I also realized this huge shift in general in my life and personality and when I started drawing people to me in partnerships right after my father passed very young and unexpectedly. I feel like ever since that day, I’ve totally repressed my Mars in Aries!
I can’t express enough how much your knowledge in your videos have changed my life and helped me grow and evolve and know myself more than ever……. Thank you. ❤
Quite depressing but very helpful. An excellent description, and you perfectly described my relationship with my narcissistic mother. Thank you
Thank you Jewel, very helpful to understand and also how it varies in signs. Your channel is my favorite aspects 🌻 🙌
This is an evergreen teaching! Watching it to tend to the energies of the transit today and it is so useful! Mars scorpio and it is me who is not controlling actually 9th.
I had a conflict with leo mars person and i was literally a metoo case so guilt was involved thought I tried to break through guilt shame blame cycle which unfortunately triggered each others issues. They were also my boss - played saturn transits in each others life. Had this double whammy in synastry.
Thank you. Your hair is amazing by the way
Your videos taught me so much about life, and so much about myself (the things I instinctively knew about myself, but never knew why...). Thanks for sharing your wisdom.
great video, so in depth. Gratitude.
What sucks is that I have Aries Mars conjunct MC. Everytime I try to borrow the strength of my mars to propel myself in my professional life, the Cancer Saturn and Capricorn Chiron conjunct Sun has to butt in. I have seen someone talked about this, and yes, it's exactly like running out of a burning building, then having to climb a hill, just to have a burning piano land on top of you.
Everytime I want something, I have to bruise, to shed some blood or tears. It never ever comes easy. I'm so tired of pain, I just want to be happy...
I am a hetero woman and I feel my saturn leo-mars-opposition myself. It is one of my main life issues. My creative self-expression is inhibited even though I want to express myself so badly. I know that I have some talents but my way to them is somehow blocked...
I have Jupiter and Saturn one minute apart at 4 degrees of Libra and Mars at 4 degrees Cancer. It has definitely been a challenging aspect in my life, but one that I've worked hard to understand and work with over the last 7-8 years. I'm commenting because I was slightly amused when you mentioned the men in the women's life who has this aspect. My husband is a Virgo sun and a Gemini moon (birth time unknown) with a stellium in Libra. His chart is heavily air and is not good with emotions at all, so what you said about the Mars in Cancer part definitely resonated. Other parts did too.
This is like groundhog Day , thank you for bringing this aspect into the conscious .
I have mars in pisces house 6 , and Saturn in Capricorn house 4 , and yes it has worn me down , over the years .
Now approaching sixty , the authraty I now understand , and the acting out and not intergrating .
Astrology is a great psychogicle insight into healing , especially when delivered with such knowledge and patience .
Not being aware of such power , is disabiletating , I have to watch the video again . I do find writing and conversation and listening a great exercise to heal .
Your a good teacher , and thank you to your insight and forthcoming in what you expressed ...
+Gary Summers I’m glad it helped 💓
This was beautiful. Thank you so much for this - it really rang true for me.
It's very true, thanks Jewel, I don't know how you do it, but it's spot on! I've been on this journey - and released my mars, and now it's my strongest force. I have moon in Cappy conjunct mars square saturn in aries , with t-square with uranus - it's been a quite a ride, yikes! Thanks for your amazing videos!
Dear Jewel, I'd be very grateful for a video natal Moon Opposite Neptune and natal Venus Square Saturn. Thank you for your work and many blessings to you !
Amazing as always !!! I would love to see a video on Saturn opposite Mars and or Saturn square Venus 💚
Regarding around 12:20, in my experience it expresses physically as autoimmune issues and fibromyalgia.
+Silvia Ramone That is very typical, yes. Also arthritis and a red face.
You have a true gift. Your videos knock me into next week. Thank you so much for creating these videos.
Yep, I have Mars in Pisces in the 6th house and Saturn in Sagittarius in the 3rd house. My husband can be extremely cruel, ruthless, cold, out of touch with the spiritual side of life. My Grandpa was also like that. I married my husband after just six months and had two sons. Now I feel stuck at home all the time and even restricted within my own house. My husband has much more freedom than I do. He has a passion for riding his bicycle. I often dream/fantasize of escaping to a beautiful place in nature where I can be truly free. A place like the garden of Eden. My moon is in Virgo (12th house) opposite Mars. Jupiter and Chiron (Gemini 9th house) are also square my Mars. My sun and Mercury are also in Gemini in the 9th house. North Node is Capricorn in the 4th house. ♊♑♐ Virgo rising ♍♍ I'm a stay at home mom. Follow vegetarian diet but I wish I could eat like Adam and Eve...beautiful fruit all day, any time, right off the rooted plant :) No stove required 😀 And I also feel very restricted by the government, especially by how the government thinks I should raise my children. Honestly, I hate the world the way it is today. I hate it with a passion. I do also wish I could just die and be reincarnated into a better life and world.
I have this ... Gatorade with it's electrolytes I find help relieve the occasional transient Saturn square Mars leg cramp. Spot on, as they say! Thank you for the wonderfully informative video!
i put my life on hold, dropped out of college after my dad got deported to be there for my mom and 5 years later I hate that I did this, I'd be in such a different place now and would've been able to help my family out better if i would've just done what I wanted to do instead of providing comfort to another. I'm not getting myself out of this and recently got accepted so i'm really trying to change this.
My Mars is in Leo.. in the 9th house. How can I release my Mars : \
so well spoken and such a fantastic video. thank you.
Oh wow I think I just had a breakthrough...
This makes so much sense and is taking me exactly where I’ve been trying to figure out for so long..
Thank you for sharing and explaining in such an in depth way!
🖤🖤🖤 Mars in Aries ♈️ square Saturn in Sagittarius ♐️
Same 😢😭
Straight up genius. On the nail. Thank you sooo much earth angel
WOWWW! (Mars[]Saturn natal) You are reading me like a book; ridiculously accurate. Save to playlist and download.
That was great Jewel, really insightful, so bloody accurate. I am grateful for your remedy and hope I find the cure.
This seems pretty spot on to me, for a family member... you say that anger needs to be expressed with this aspect... what I see is a difficulty to do so, and when it comes out it's often an aggressive passive aggression (pisces mars), and it's hard to be around when that anger is expressed...
Thanks I needed to hear this. I do have a consistent guilt.
Your capability is a pleasing for the universe 💕
WOW!! Nailed it. Powerful accuracy in description. My son is forever struggling with this aspect. Thank you Jewel.
You said inflammation, I hit like! 😢😥 So true. Although yes, I've been tomboyish since Teenage. I can handle things but about rage and feeling blocked by obstacles- so true
I hear some real growth in your language.
I find that I am both identified with my mars and project it. Its like, "oh I know how to play this game but I need a refresher sometimes"
Very helpful, I was born with a Capricorn Saturn Square Mars Aries with Saturn in the first house. I literally mute my own energy for fear of losing control. Weird to think that the answer lies in having faith in your own energy.
My ex husband has this aspect. He wore a mask as a cancer but sometimes was so batshit cruel, he injured my arm heavily, in the end he almost destroyed me by his cruel behavior and words. Hate him. My Taurus Venus is absolutely gutted. Depression and anxiety because of him
Thank you, Jewel!!
"This is a diabolical aspect to deal with... There is a potential cruelty in someone who has a hard aspect between Mars and Saturn that they must acknowledge" - among extreme cases, Adolf Hitler and Josef Mengele had this aspect.
and millions of peaceful people who walk on this earth have this aspect too...we are lost i guess.
Bordeauxrot that's why “among extreme cases“.
Milica Mijatovic and Jair Bolsonaro has the opposition between Mars and Saturn 😖 and he’s very cruel (also racist, sexist, homophobic etc.)
Bordeauxrot I’m with you 😉
Just a few examples of wonderful and admirable people who have a Mars Square Saturn aspect in their natal charts: Julie Andrews (from The Sound of Music and Mary Poppins--are you honestly saying that she has any intrinsic potential for cruelty?? LOL!!!), Liv Tyler, Julia Roberts, Patrick Stewart, and Susan Sarandon. Honestly, I enjoy astrology, but I think that with any system invented by human beings, you have to take everything with a grain of salt and see it in a more holistic way. Also keep in mind there is a whole different system of astrology out there called Vedic Astrology. In that system, all the planets are in different positions anyway!
Awesome video. This has helped to confirm my own thoughts about this aspect (semi square though) in my chart.
Brilliant as always. Many thanks xo
Sometimes astrology is so scarily accurate.. I have Saturn square mars and Saturn oppose Venus. My father was like a narcissistic tyrant controlling my life, and I went through so much abuse and feeling unloved in life. And he is Saturn conjunct mars/Sun & moon square mars.
Would it work by releasing anger lifting weights or maybe boxing? My natal chart has this aspect and it truly makes ones life challenging in terms of masculine energy. My mars is in Taurus, I am a 25 yo male, and It's hard for me to gain wealth or to save money in any way even though I often get acknowledged for being intelligent, talented, etc... But, I guess because of mars in Taurus it will be hard to gain wealth and it honestly sucks big time
I'm back to watch this video again, because I can relate so much to it... I still have not learned this lesson, even though I've been trying for years... And Mars is back in Taurus, squaring Saturn in Aquarius (these are my natal placements). I hate this energy so much...
Hey I love your breakdowns . I able to book a natal reading with you yourself?
Natal Mars in sagg (6th house) square Saturn in Virgo (4th house). Wow, this is very helpful thank you.
Is Saturn and Mars conjunction the same effects as squared for females?
Wow, so helpful! Thank you.
thank you so much for this.
This is deep and scary.
Exellent video, Jewel. Thank you. I feel this energy having the semi square. My Mars is retrograde in intercepted 1st house semiaquared with rx Sa and Moon in 11th.
I hate this aspect. I almost always feel that my courage and action to achieve anything I want is blocked, although I have a strong mars(in scorpio)
It gets better with age. Don't worry.
What about semi square would it have similiar effect?
Wow! I need to listen to this again! such a great view. My Saturn 17° and Mars 2° both in Libra. This has been really rough
My mother has thes placement. Her own mother was very abusive. One of her favorite quotes is that her life is terrible and she doesn't feel she did anything meaningful. Her relationship with my father was and is very complicated.
could you please do a sun square saturn?
Maja I got this lol consider one of the hardest aspect means we been in some shit lol.
i’ve just binged a bunch of your videos. i love how straightforward and easy to understand you make everything. do you do personalized chart readings?
I have a Yod. Hoping youve done a video on it and I overlooked it somewhere.
Please do the exact same video for Venus square Saturn, with Venus signs in men and their type of woman if this square isn't healed. FASCINATING!!!!
Another great video jewel - i always look forward to your natal chart explanations. Saturn squares all of my personal planets, am i screwed or what? Lol
Came to take a look at this video cause transit Saturn (24 Capricorn as of end of Jan 2020) is squaring my natal Mars at 25 Aries, the ruler of my Scorpio Ascendant. The understanding of this aspect displayed in this video is truly helpful for me with dealing with this very hard transit that sometimes seems as if there are no possible solutions to it.
I’m a woman with Virgo Mars conjoining my ascendant squaring my Saturn, and I’m kind of like that kind of man you described with bad habits and fat…… I always cut my self whenever near sharp things, that gave me a lot of scars on my hands…… I perfectly actualised those bad qualities😢
I have Mars Rx in Aries Square Saturn in Sagittarius. My outside doesn’t come close to matching what’s going on within. I appear calm externally, but internally I’m a raging volcano 🌋 that’s not healthy at all and I have a rosy face because of all the bottling I do of my anger.My Mars Rx is in the 6th house and my Saturn is in the 3rd.
What exactly should we do to heal ourselves? Please help
I have this ♒️ Mars in synastry with my son ♉️ Saturn took a while to understand
Brilliant! Thank you!
I would say this manifests more so in my physical energy at times. I have Scorpio mars conjunct mercury/pluto in 1st. I’m very in touch with my mars.
I want to add a couple of things that I am aware of regarding the square since I do possess it. My Saturn is in Scorpio conjunct the IC. That's hard enough to deal with. Then Pluto is also conjunct my IC and Saturn as well so they both end up Mars.... that my friend is a very scary situation. I have also noted that Mars Square Saturn can indicate a so-called History of Violence. Seeing how Saturn is literally history of the family and Mars represents alcohol and Saturn represents ingrained behaviors and habits. To be completely honest my experience with Saturn Square Mars and Pluto lead to alcoholism, feeling like a sexual slave since my Mars is in Capricorn in the 6th. I ended up feeling obligated to have sex just to quell the Saturn persons ability to make me feel guilty if I did not engage and sex. Because of my excessive and horrible alcoholism for 15 years, I am sober now thankfully, I got very violent with men who were close to me. Two ex-boyfriends, my father, my stepfather, my husband. As a result I was charged with domestic violence 4 times!!!
without alcohol I am a severely law-abiding citizen who can be a stick-in-the-mud but when I get booze in me....man become a monster or demon. it definitely does not help that the Mars in Capricorn squares fixed star algol. I used to be a cutter and when I stopped that because I pretty much didn't have any other place to cut, I began to literally beat myself up. Physically speaking. Throwing myself into walls punching myself in the face, this all stemmed from serious guilt from my relationship with my father and own inability to connect with my children. I feel very disconnected from them, because I lost custody of them due to my drinking, violence and erratic Behavior. I know I sound like a psycho and that's not the point because I just want to share my experience with this aspect as I feel that it is been very extreme in my life to the point where are yes I have considered suicide many times. I don't have the guts to follow through with it. however with Saturn conjunct IC has a major effect on my appetite.
Saturn has to do with wasting away so I figured the worst punishment could just be starving yourself. I am great at blocking out the grumbling sounds in my stomach and signs of hunger and I completely ignore them. I currently weigh 100 lbs and am 5'7....
I'm not even going to breach upon the topic of Mars Square Pluto compounding this craziness even further. I am 36 years of age and yes like many other people I feel like life is hopeless and pointless especially with the Saturn Pluto conjunct Transit plowing through my Mars Capricorn right now. So this misery accentuates this for sure Oh,for a little extra fun....my husband's Saturn squares my Mars!!! you can bet there have been some pretty volatile situations between us with me being the perpetrator. man I feel so stupid for putting myself out there like this but I really felt I had to share and I'm sorry for rambling. Thank you
You have to let go of the feeling of helplessness. This is the core. The RAGE is an emotion that protects your vulnerability. Nobody feels truly safe when they are vulnerable. But your vulnerability had been exploited. So make peace with that. Forgive others and forgive yourself. You need to stand up for yourself in a healthy way. Communicate your needs and feelings(vulnerability). I know how hard it is😒 but we get better... You can do this. Don't have Sex out of obligation. Sex is an expression of feelings. As long as you suppress your feelings you'll never enjoy Sex and have an orgasm. I'm proud your sober now. Keep it up. ❤💗❤ Greetings and Hugs from Germany🇩🇪
First of all: you are one of my favorite astrologers on RUclips and I love your content! I have this with early aries mars in 10th to late sagittarius saturn in 6th.
Lack of masculinity in the men in my life...yes I see this. Dad left, mum did the job of both parents alone, I see most men in my life as weak, so I feel better off doing life alone at the moment 🙈 I dont feel guilty though...I also have my mars in square to uranus and neptune, so the effects probably get mixed up for me. I used to feel weak but I got over it. I'm actually quite confident and independent now. Maybe the sextile from my gemini jupiter helps 🙃
I have this aspect however it’s in the same air element,, mars in libra and Saturn in Aquarius
I have an opposition. Mars in Virgo opposing Saturn in Pisces. Any differences?
Could you do ascendant opposite Venus?
Mars in Taurus in 7th square Saturn in 10th (conjunct Moon). Father and mother both violent with one another.
Mother religious fanatic, father agnostic. I supported my first husband who ignored me. Second husband of 27 years was impotent and died of Multiple Myeloma ( cancer of the bones) after 10 years.
Have tried to see my part in all this. Difficult.
Hello. I love this channel. So helpful for me. I inquired about a synastry reading. How long is the wait? Thank you!
+Amiris Batista Where did you inquire? Through my website or email? I will check it out, I may have missed it.
+Truth In Aspect Astrology/ Jewel I found it and got back to you.
+Truth In Aspect Astrology/ Jewel the email shows up as undeliverable to the address. Can you send me an email to truthinaspectastrology@hotmail.com?
Truth In Aspect Astrology/ Jewel Sent. In case it doesn’t go through my email is amirisbatista @yahoo.com
I read that this aspect is very common in chart of people who commited suicide..i looked at the naral chart of two female actress in my country who commited suicide one week ago and they both have it 😱
Also sun square Uranus is suicidal
Could you talk about Moon conjunction Ascendant in the natal chart? i´ve read that this denotes a highly sensitive person.
My mars is in Libra , I hate it...
Does this aspect mean a controlling or significant father/male figure?
I love your hair m!
mars in leo semisquare saturn in virgo. how does it manifest?
Aries Mars 4H square Cancer Saturn 8H. Aye yai yai. Defiant to the end. Much struggle with authority and men with weak drive. I am air/fire dominant...too much masculine energy for my own good. Much better with age. The square gives such opportunity to grow and master the conflict. Great video Jewel!
With an Aries Mars in The 4th, do you relate to Cancer Mars in any way?!
Natal Pluto square Saturn, Natal Sun square Saturn, Natal Uranus square Jupiter, Natal Mercury square Jupiter, Natal Moon square Jupiter, Natal Mars square Jupiter. Jewel, I wish you could do some of these in the future to add in the list. Thank you very much!!
Thank you so much for your detailed explanation! I have Aries in Mars (11th house) square Saturn Retrogate in Capricorn (8th house).
I wonder what the meaning of Saturn Retrogate is in the case of this square.
I identify as a masculine/androgenous woman (not very feminine but also not too masculine). I have this and so does my lover. He always fixes things for me. It's also in our midpoint. Don't love it. As a female it's ok but as a guy it can cause impotence which is sad. I'm so sorry for guys going through this.
19:55 super helpful my mars on scorpio ♏️
What about the trine?
Could this be a dv aspect between woman with this aspect and male partner?