My dad has this aspect but settled down into a traditional relationship and was v committed but he did have a very unconventional creative job that took up all his time
I feel this square plays out for me by age gap relationships. I also emtionaly need a lot of space to do my hobbies and recharge so that i can stay emotionally healthy in relationship.
For me it’s very weird because I have my Venus in Scorpio😅 so I don’t think I have to explain what this feels like...I am very smothering to my guy,extremely loving,obsessive,I always want to know what he is doing,very jealous,etc BUT I hate being smothered,I am very independent,I don like him to be jealous,I like spending time with my friends without him,I am very unusual in love,I am like “yeah...I adore you but i want time for myself,I don’t want you to call me all the time...but if I call you,I would LOVE if you can respond immediately”...it’s so weird.
My husband & I both have this square in our natal charts. It's interesting! We have been together for 21.5 yrs. It's been an amazing journey. It is all about keeping things interesting for both of you. We are best friends. This video resonated so much for me!! Thank you so much for this!!
I keep coming back to this video to remind myself of who I am absolutely sooo telling. Difficult because all I want is security Taurus moon. But when I get I run. It’s definitely finding a balance 😅 and understanding my needs. I can’t tell you how helpful this has changed the way I view myself. I have been shaming myself for years for not being able to do conventional relationships. Thank you no more shame ❤
Interesting how speaking about certain aspects or planets brings it to the conscious forefront so quickly. I just watched venus square neptune and im thinking " yea! i get this! im so sensitive, and nobody gets me . pain and art. lalala". I also have this aspect, and watch this and suddenly im like " yea! im independent! and radical. nobody can hold me down long enough :} " lol human nature is very suggestive. Love your videos. Youre my favorite synestry astrologer!
Hi your video really hit the target! This describes why even at 29 I haven't really dated, and have been driven toward my dreams in int'l health. I came from a family that always married very young (13) and I saw how my friends' personalities/dreams changed according to the bf of the month. I subconsciously distance myself from people b/c I do feel smothered (especially if it interferes w/my studies). I now realize I always had boundaries b/c no one around me had them so I ended up being the "cold" one in my over passionate family b/c I did control my energy. I have chosen a career that requires traveling and definite risk, not many people do understand.
verybrightdarkness+ Thanks for sharing, it's a coincidence b/c I have my mars, sun and venus (in Virgo) tightly conjunct on the 7th and 8th house cusp. So Uranus and Saturn aspects all of them. I'm also a Aqu. Asc. and Taurus Moon...which explains my priority for boundaries and inner peace even though I miss socializing. But if you have lots of 7-8th house energy, I think it's good to have that.
@@henrietadale5079 Being in polamorous relationships. Gender fluidity. Living in different homes, different friends. Open relationships. Im surprised these people think what they offer is actual love. Confused cheaters imo.
You're truly the best. So grateful for your interpretations and insights... You have a serious gift for communicating these concepts, and at least for me, in a way that I not only understand, but I really really 'get it' on a soul level. Thank you!!
This came at a important time in my life. I am turning 40 in a month and have been really looking at why I run from commitment. I have been engaged more then 4 times. Always feeling like I should want complete commitment as my whole religious family. I noticed my actions have been saying something completely different. 😅wow thank you so much for this new understanding of myself ❤
Yep, terrific explanation. Appreciative of the pauses to ask us to be truly honest and ask ourselves questions. Now it makes sense why Most relationships felt oppressive somehow. As always astrology gives words to things which I find we do not speak about, articulate but yet we can feel, experience and sense.
This is one of my tightest aspects. Extremely monogamous, and I need my partner to be my best friend. My relationships have been a little weird, but I do like being "smothered" (for example, Cancerians). My boyfriends have been different or odd too; I also have Pisces descendant.
Wow! Thank you so much. I really needed to hear an honest depiction of how i love and what only one thus far has been able to see....& w/o conditions nor restrictions love me. Which truly enableled myself to love so deeply and equally in return. I miss him but i will never forget that depth, that level of absolute love
Thank you for this video! It explains why I have different views than everyone else. I'm all about having friendship in a relationship otherwise it isn't worth it.
@@lunajsutbh I can’t really tell what will make us commit fr but I know I need someone who values freedom as much as I do, someone wild and unpredictable
I really appreciate your insights into this aspect! I have Venus at 1* Virgo square Uranus at 28* Scorpio...so, a rather conservative Venus aspected by crazy Uranus, and I must admit, I am a walking contradiction. I appreciate what you noticed about this people liking to create insecurity to feel secure, because.... occasionally, this is how it manifests in my case. My partner fortunately has a witty Venus in Gemini, which typically isn't ideal, but he seems to keep up well with my idiosyncrasies 😊. All in all, great video❤
A video on the opposition is definitely needed. Thank you Jewel. I love how supportive & protective you sound towards those with Uranus aspects in our charts lmao. Much love to you always. 💚
I love your insights about this aspect. It definitely hits the nail for my lover. He has this aspect and he is an Aquarius with a moon in Cap and Venus and Mars in Pisces. From the get go, he has been adamant to not be controlled and he hates the conventional boyfriend/girlfriend labels. He's been in long term relationships before. Being Sagittarius with Virgo Moon and Venus in Libra and Mars in Gemini, I also love my independence and that feeling of having an unconventional relationships. He's not pushy and controlling towards me and I am not towards him. It seems to work.
Stroppy Paws I’m seeing a guy with Venus Uranus inconjunction....he’s very detached and doesn’t want a commitment...but as soon as I want to leave he doesn’t let me go...what should I do?
Stroppy Paws thank you so much for the link...yes you are right..he goes back and forth...creating space between us. I love him so so much. When we are together I’m really enjoying and so he is, he shows me lots of affection but the next day he will not text me and he will always let me contact him first...I have Venus conjunction with Uranus in 4th house in Scorpio together with mercury. I also need personal space to be honest but not as much as him! It brings me sadness as jewel was mentioning cheating...that’s one thing I cannot tolerate at all having Venus in Scorpio! He’s Venus in cancer with mars in Scorpio...I feel so magnetically attracted to a point of anxiety...if I’m honest...I’m scared to lose him 😔 what would you recommend? How should I act so he doesn’t feel smothered? Do you think inconjunction is as bad as square? Is it possible to break the pattern with these people?😘😘😘
Stroppy Paws you know what? It’s so strange but since I met him I feel like we have been destined together...it’s so bizzare...could it be because I have a wide conjunction in Scorpio and him in cancer? Plus I have Venus, Uranus and mercury conjunction? Because he’s got this Venus Uranus quincunx...his Saturn is Conjunct with mars in Scorpio...I don’t know how that plays out...but most certainly he keeps distance between the time when he sees me and I want to change this dynamics...I don’t need to see him all the time..I also need my space but I need to know he’s not fooling around with other women..if you know what I mean...he just don’t want to let me in closer, I would like to have a conversation about it with him but he hates confrontation and it sends him off into his shell...he’s a cancerian..sun, moon, mercury and Venus...it’s a shame that such a lovely person can be so difficult at the same time expressing his feelings...through astrology I would like to get through to him...thank you for taking your time to respond...by the way his ex and his daughter absolutely dislike him...so when I read your initial reply it made me think...they probably don’t understand him as it’s a very difficult to be able to tolerate, I do tent to create distance too at home by closing myself into my room and being on my own when my children are overwhelming me..xxx
wonderful...so helpful....I also have moon conjunct Neptune in the fourth with Cancer rising and these are really hard to combine...! I believe the Venus Uranus square is there to facilitate artistic expression and the required space that goes along with that!
Okay, this makes a whole lot of sense. I’ve always looked for freedom within the relationship, I’ve tried pretty much everything out of the box. Surprisingly the synastry or my partners have Vênus-Uranus square so the unconventional relationship works. But even that is not enough. There’s a restlessness that destroys everything in the long run or the conditions are so out of the normal that the partner leaves. Maybe not believing in forever is fine. Some relationships aren’t meant to last and still are valuable.
I have this aspect, together with venus square neptune. Uranus and neptune in capricorn, and my venus is in aries, lol. Once I fell in love with someone who believed in poli-love. I loved this person and only this person, guess I was attracted to this free spirit, even though I hoped this someone would choose only me at the end. This person didn't, and since then I absolutely believe in monogamist relationships. I have scorpio moon. I think I was living all about my venus square uranus, but when the thing became love it hurt, and it hurt a lot because my moon was finally involved. Now I am in a long distance relationship, but I really love this person. And I am afraid I would lose him due to my possesive nature. Again, it started as a sudden crush, but two years after I really need to know he's mine and only mine, and viceversa. It gets difficult because his sagi moon is all about happiness and freedom and... well, scorpio people need pain sometimes. Does someone have advice for me? I know I will continue loving him, but I wanna make him happy too. Should I allow my venus more participation? I don't know.
my boyfriend has everything you spoke of in the beginning. venus square neptune and uranus. uranus and neptune in capricorn as well as venus in aries. do you hate being smothered with love? do you feel your love is on and off?
@@birimartinez2159 Hello^^ Ahm, I don't know if I feel smothered by love, because I guess my moon also has something to do. For example, when someone is lovey dovey with me I would take a step back, but I think that can be because of scorpio moon too. When I really trust someone I can be very lovey dovey, and even when I need space I try to recognize when other people give me love instead of complaining for being misunderstood (neptune square moon people tend to have foggy perspective, so I try to fight that). So it's not that my love is on and off, but I can set my love aside sometimes so that I don't feel burdened. My love never fades, but sometimes I feel need of putting some limits. It's not that I stop loving people (even if they think that's what I do), I just take a rest, emotionally speaking. However I do feel like ON and OFF sometimes. I feel loved when I have attention of my beloved ones (aries venus), but sometimes I get this feeling of... pressure? Like... this love also has expectation I have to commit with. Then I feel anxiety, this need to make clear that my space is my space, and I think this behaviour must be really unfair for my beloved ones. Sometimes I feel guilty for this, because when I am in lovey dovey mood I can be around people I love, but when mi concentration is focused on my ideas and my work and original things and that stuff I really forget about everyone else, and I can be days alone and I don't feel like wanting to feel loved. I've read that this square makes people to be a lot into their beliefs, and in my case that's true. Even when I love someone if that person lies or does something I don't think should be done, I won't justify their actions. How does your boyfriend behave about that?
I always wondered how this operated when someone has Scorpio moon. My partner has this square pisces Venus square sag Uranus but he has Scorpio moon conjunct saturn and pluto in 7th house. I’ve been with him for 3 years but his actions don’t match this words and it’s to do with translating the relationship into reality of day to day living. I think he purposely pushed this relationship to be long distance for so long due to this square. I have Scorpio Venus and I am fed up. I blocked him as I feel dishonesty but clearly I love him regardless hence I am looking for answers in Jewels videos and comments. You are the only Scorpio moon here. ❤
terrific videos, jewel - you're a great teacher. i'm sure you get tons of requests, but i would love to see a video about the quincunx between venus and saturn (natally, especially). thanks for sharing your insights!
Wow, this resonated so much. Most of my exes are my friends for life. I do have the traditional moon in 7th house , was married for 7 years but something just didn’t sit well with me , like I felt smothered and was dying to break free of the traditional marriage frame …and yes you were right , I felt like I was married to my brother , there was no attraction but we were great friends. I had one more serious relationship after my marriage but as soon as he brought up moving in and marriage , I freaked out …..finally I understand why
My mother is very similar. Her perfect relationship was that a man would have to travel to work. Maybe be in the house for a week and be gone for about 2. Her father was a Mariner and was off to sea for weeks on end than come back with gifts and various different kinds of seafood. Its her ideal relationship.
I love how you turn the tension into the positive outcome. Thank you so much. I follow you in the facebook page, I always read you. Much love to you. I came here because I have this in my Solar Return Chart, and I'm an Aquarius sun with Ac Aquarius in this S.R ♥ Thanks again Jewel!
Venus Aries square Uranus I'm definitely monogamous and love to know that a relationship is moving toward commitment. But I don't like feeling smothered in relationships. I like alot of excitement. Aries already requires alot of stimulation, but mine is on steroids with this square. Currently single, talking to 2 guys who are quite different. One guy is distant but boring (Cancer Venus). The other guy is exciting but needy (Venus Aries). Makes me want to rip my hair out. I don't believe in changing people so I don't bother begging but I do like for partners to meet me in the middle at least. Compromise.
I I think this explains why I'm 47, single, never married, although Ive had countless boyfriends. I have the Venus/Uranus opposition, and while I'm bummed out I haven't had a stable relationship, I wanted to have kids but could not settle down with one partner. Venus in Aries, Gemini sun and I like to party! I have had many "experiences" and many marriage proposals but none I was interested in at the time. I do not like the smothering and am very "free-spirited". I would be fine not living together full time, I appreciate my own space. I guess I need to find a guy with the same aspect?
I briefly dated a guy with the same aspect. It still doesn't work 😂 once I ended it, he replied yeah I understand 😂. I've had better relations with people that don't have this aspect because they're always ready to fight for the relationship.
Im friends with a guy that has this aspect along with moon square pluto and sun square uranus. Hes admitted he cheated on his ex girlfriend and isnt into monogamy. He wouldnt mind sharing his partner and inviting others to the bedroom. Hes also an aquarius moon... I settled on "friendship" with him after he told me this, the crush i had on him was short lived. My venus square neptune and pluto in 1st would never be ok with an open relationship. Im too possesive
Are there any partner aspects (generally speaking)which tend to be complimentary w/this natal aspect? Who is secure and able to recognize that “allowing” the unusual provides security & normalcy within the intimate partnership?
People who value space and autonomy yet also value companionship do well with this aspect. It works for them. That is described several ways in natal charts. Someone who wants love but does not see that giving up or sacrificing themself is the price for love is well suited for this type of dynamic.
I have this and let's just say I am not married, but in a 24 yr. relationship and get bored, so I had to spice it up in a dishonest way, because my sun also has a Pluto opposing contact.....big sigh......! Great video and yes I feel a lot of what you said Jewel...I get bored when there is no excitement‼️
Nancy Eileen hi, my partner has this sqare/injunction. I want us to have a committed relationship but he’s constantly creating space between us...how can I stop that and make the relationship exciting for him?
Henrieta Dale my husband has this placement. married 14 yrs....all i can suggest is... get in investigative mode ... i found out my husband had a certain fetish... found out other things too... bc i snoop ... you’d be shocked bc they don’t really “hide” what they are doing. it’s like they want you to find out... that’s the excitement. don’t yell at him... don’t judge him openly... i emptied out my insecurities and embraced his dark side. actually mirror what he does but give him glimpses of what you’re “hiding”... your “dark side”. it’ll excite him and anger him at the same time.... i can’t explain it. lol sorry if i was no help. but i can elaborate if you need me to...
@@nancyeileen128 Sorry, I didn't mean to judge - that's not my place, and we all do things we're not too proud of at times, and I don't know your exact situation. My issue was more with you saying that you 'had' to do it, as though you had no choice.
Lmao I have Venus in Leo conjunct my MC at 8° and Uranus in Scorpio conjunct my AC At 8° degrees. Hello Uranus square Venus!!!! Thank you so much for sharing all of that you hit the nail on the head. Right on the money…
I'm not an Astrologer, but I would say yes, especially as online often = ldr, which is one way of keeping distance, and it's also slightly unconventional, (although becoming less and less so these days).
omg sooooo true! thank you! my husband has this placement... venus in aquarius 4th house with uranus in scorpio in 2nd... it’s quite maddening to me 🤦🏽♀️ but i wouldn’t have it any other way 💓 we are the best of friends... in fact i’m the only friend he even opens up to 😫 i HATE when he with holds back but i always find out the truth .... and end up still staying 😩 again i’m no victim but i love him truly. #DontJudgeMe
My capricorn venus in 11th house needs a lot of space. I’m a bit of a soloist but yet I can be very loving and not as withholding as you described (I have venus trine jupiter also). A good match for me is another uranian. Currently involved with a freedom loving Aquarius stellium person. It’s unconventional and I feel we suit well.
I have my venus sqaure Uranus and Saturn. At this moment i would Love to be in a serious monogamous relationship eventually when its meant to happen and i would Love it if the person im with was like a Best friend. I honestly dont like the idea of dating i would rather just get to know someone naturally through friendship and if a strong mutual attraction is there then we can be more. I have definitely done a few risky things in my life so far 😝 and! i have also experienced some unexpected intense like intimate moments with a couple of guys as well. It was Awesome but with each person our time knowing each other was short lived and ended abruptly out of no where. So for now im learning to be more to myself and accept who i am and also be more cautious with who i decide to be close with.
I have this! Both planets are at home. My bf has an Aquarian venus. Our relationship does go against the norm, we have a big age gap that has caused some strong reactions.
I have this aspect at a tight orb (along with Venus square neptune) and uncovential relationships is on point! Although I absolutely hate seeing my lovers as friends and I take friendships seriously (Saturn in 11th and 7th house pluto). I thank my Scorpio for combating the uranian f*ckery
I have Venus semi-square Uranus, kind of wide. 3 1/2° orb. But man! Do these comments ever hit home. Wow. Much better than the Planets in Aspect book I have been using.
Yeah see, I have a moon in 4th house, so I'm comfortable within the confines of a relationship and seek monogamy. But the guys I go for are offbeat and unique. Freedom and independence are important but I feel with the right match you can feel free together...
I have this with a gemini sun and a gemini venus, I don't know where this come from but I have this child like being, and I like childlike youthful fashion.
I would love your advice, Jewel. This is helpful, however, it seems I am finding partners who exhibit this Uranus quality, and I am the one hoping for a traditional relationship. My Venus also squares Mars and Neptune. My partners always seem to fall away, create distance, never initiate, and lie a lot (many exes have natal sun and mercury square to Neptune) and also always have some Uranus quality to them. How do I find partners that stop representing my Uranus/Neptune? For once I’d like a guy to pursue me, be honest, want to commit. I have Venus in Aries, trine Asc, sextile Saturn. Thank you for your guidance!
I'd have to look at the semi-square in my situation. There is more going on. I have Uranus by 42deg towards my Venus and 44 deg. towards my Sun, whereas my Pluto conj. Uranus (as does my Venus conj. my Sun). So then there also is this semi-square aspect from my Pluto to Venus 45deg. and 47deg. towards my Sun. .... hmmmm.... ?! My Ex has his Venus about 88deg towards his Uranus, and about 93deg. towards his Mars, and about 96deg towards his Pluto, because Uranus, Mars, Pluto make a stellium in his chart, while his Venus is also conj. his Mercury, whereas Mercury is about 91deg. of his Uranus and about 95 deg. to his Mars. ... So 'yes' there is usually more going on than meets the eye, because in the 60ties Pluto and Uranus made a conjunction for the many! This is another thing, I do not see Pluto as 'sneeky' ;-) I'm also a Scorpio, so Truth is what I value most, and I do speak my truth as well. I cannot stand people who dilly-dally around, because I hold myself to the highest standards. Pluto may be many things, but NEVER dishonest! It does what it does best, it infuses alchemical transformation and in most cases it's about turning that what has become ugly and dishonest into something righteous and beautiful! ;-) Just my personal take on this, then again, I can only speak from my individual perspective, and I do have my Pluto conj. Uranus conj. with my IC, so talking about emotional vulnerability? ... pewwww ... ! Although this is in VIR, I do feel things deeply and I would not let go of anything until I dug deep into Truth for an answer! I may park things at times, when I notice there is no forth-coming, yet be assured that I will pay attention to anything that has caught my eye in the past, and I will make/see the connections, even if that means it's years later!
Hello, I was wondering if this description applies to a Venus inconjunct Uranus person(me). It does all sound very familiar and like myself. TOTALLY afraid to be smothered. Thank you so much for your time.
Jennifer Brazil hi Jennifer, my partner has this aspect too...Venus in cancer inconjunct Uranus in Sagittarius... he’s totally afraid of commitment and always keeps distance between us... what is the best approach with him? How do you like to be loved? How do I help him to develop and deepen our friendship or relationship?
Jewel , Do you have this aspect too? ---------------- I have one , my love life is not conventional at all , my bf mostly were foreigner , and now my husband is also in that category .I don’t find Men that has same life as me attractive , dating someone in work is a No-No to me. I ‘ve never consider myself as Polygamy /polyamorous , ever.. I think the fedility with Venus square Uranus person is a complex topic to discuss . I have Leo venus sqaure Scorpio Uranus -both fix sign , and I think this help with fidelity . My Cancer moon and Libra sun help me stay in a relationship and it’s imporatant things in my life .
Anbroshier hi, my bf is cancer sun, moon, Venus and Scorpio mars...his Venus inconjunct Uranus in sag in possibly 1st house..he doesn’t know his time of birth...how would this manifest with regards to commitment and monogamy? I love him but he doesn’t want anything serious...my Venus is in Scorpio.
What would be the maximum orb in effect for this aspect I have the square between Venus in taurus at 15 and 8 degree uranus in aquarius would that still be a square ?
I have this Venus Uranus square, plus Uranus is in my 7th house. Still confused as to why I keep attracting Uranian and open relationships with men. They are the ones craving for freedom to be with other people.😕
LMAO so I have this aspect- I laugh because I have Venus in AQUARIUS in the 8th house 😄 but it also trines Pluto I always say I'm drawn to the intense weirdos haha. I am very wary of commitment but when I like someone I can be VERY intense. it's funny, like the saying " I love you so much, now go away." I can relate It takes me a while to "get close" but once I do, I am generally loyal. but I have other crazy aspects, like sun opposition moon, and sun, moon and mars square Neptune and it doesn't help that I have a pisces sun.
I have mars opposite uranus and I keep attracting men with this aspect. It feels completely natural to me but everyone else keep telling me its toxic... i also have moon conjunct uranus, trine sun and exact sun trine uranus too
Me and my ex husband both had it in our birth charts. We were brother and sister..we had sex...but not passionate. I was dating him for 8 years...when we moved in together..I ran in less than 5 months. Now I get why.
I’m never gonna have the problem of getting cheated on , or having problems in the marriage . Because I’m letting people know from the jump that YOU CANT CONTROL ME ! I won’t allow you to control me ! And also since I’m very much like this , I feel like I create a safe space for my partner to be honest with me , he/she won’t even ever have to “cheat” because they will know that they can always come to me if they do want to explore other options . 🤷🏽♀️ which is a very cool type of relationship to have .
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My dad has this aspect but settled down into a traditional relationship and was v committed but he did have a very unconventional creative job that took up all his time
I feel this square plays out for me by age gap relationships. I also emtionaly need a lot of space to do my hobbies and recharge so that i can stay emotionally healthy in relationship.
For me it’s very weird because I have my Venus in Scorpio😅 so I don’t think I have to explain what this feels like...I am very smothering to my guy,extremely loving,obsessive,I always want to know what he is doing,very jealous,etc BUT I hate being smothered,I am very independent,I don like him to be jealous,I like spending time with my friends without him,I am very unusual in love,I am like “yeah...I adore you but i want time for myself,I don’t want you to call me all the time...but if I call you,I would LOVE if you can respond immediately”...it’s so weird.
this really me and i feel so sorry but idk
ILLUMINAUGHTY I have the same placements this is true
Maria MagdalenaB exactly!!! Same placements
Me Too!!!!!!
On my god!! Yess! I know some this aspect with Venus in Scorpio. It’s like they have double standards lol 😂
My husband & I both have this square in our natal charts. It's interesting! We have been together for 21.5 yrs. It's been an amazing journey. It is all about keeping things interesting for both of you. We are best friends. This video resonated so much for me!! Thank you so much for this!!
Omg this gives me hope as i have this with everyone in my generation.
May I ask how you keep things interesting ?
Did you have relationships with other persons during your marriage?
@@roulinna nope, never. Still going strong.
@@oliviak.7977 traveling, sharing our hobbies with one another, keeping communication open.
I keep coming back to this video to remind myself of who I am absolutely sooo telling. Difficult because all I want is security Taurus moon. But when I get I run. It’s definitely finding a balance 😅 and understanding my needs. I can’t tell you how helpful this has changed the way I view myself. I have been shaming myself for years for not being able to do conventional relationships. Thank you no more shame ❤
Same. I left my fiancée because I felt suffocated in a traditional relationship. Don’t regret it one bit
This is so true I have this and I always go for long distance or online because I like my alone time and like exciting men
+Sarah Koob haha I also go for long distance relationships or online.
see you understand it its less boring are you also attracted to different type of guys
Sarah Koob haha yes. I also end up getting guys from other countries
me two I like the distance gives me more freedom lol
lord why is this so true
Interesting how speaking about certain aspects or planets brings it to the conscious forefront so quickly. I just watched venus square neptune and im thinking " yea! i get this! im so sensitive, and nobody gets me . pain and art. lalala". I also have this aspect, and watch this and suddenly im like " yea! im independent! and radical. nobody can hold me down long enough :} " lol human nature is very suggestive. Love your videos. Youre my favorite synestry astrologer!
Hi your video really hit the target! This describes why even at 29 I haven't really dated, and have been driven toward my dreams in int'l health. I came from a family that always married very young (13) and I saw how my friends' personalities/dreams changed according to the bf of the month. I subconsciously distance myself from people b/c I do feel smothered (especially if it interferes w/my studies). I now realize I always had boundaries b/c no one around me had them so I ended up being the "cold" one in my over passionate family b/c I did control my energy. I have chosen a career that requires traveling and definite risk, not many people do understand.
verybrightdarkness+ Thanks for sharing, it's a coincidence b/c I have my mars, sun and venus (in Virgo) tightly conjunct on the 7th and 8th house cusp. So Uranus and Saturn aspects all of them. I'm also a Aqu. Asc. and Taurus Moon...which explains my priority for boundaries and inner peace even though I miss socializing. But if you have lots of 7-8th house energy, I think it's good to have that.
This was SO TRUE! I have Venus opposing Uranus and my thoughts on relationships, monogamy, sexuality, etc. are so different than everyone else
TylonTuber with regards to sexuality...how does it manifest?
@@henrietadale5079 Being in polamorous relationships. Gender fluidity. Living in different homes, different friends. Open relationships. Im surprised these people think what they offer is actual love. Confused cheaters imo.
You're truly the best. So grateful for your interpretations and insights... You have a serious gift for communicating these concepts, and at least for me, in a way that I not only understand, but I really really 'get it' on a soul level. Thank you!!
+United States of A Margaret You got it! I’m glad it hit home. 💓
She's so good at this
This came at a important time in my life. I am turning 40 in a month and have been really looking at why I run from commitment. I have been engaged more then 4 times. Always feeling like I should want complete commitment as my whole religious family. I noticed my actions have been saying something completely different. 😅wow thank you so much for this new understanding of myself ❤
Yep, terrific explanation. Appreciative of the pauses to ask us to be truly honest and ask ourselves questions. Now it makes sense why Most relationships felt oppressive somehow. As always astrology gives words to things which I find we do not speak about, articulate but yet we can feel, experience and sense.
This is one of my tightest aspects. Extremely monogamous, and I need my partner to be my best friend. My relationships have been a little weird, but I do like being "smothered" (for example, Cancerians). My boyfriends have been different or odd too; I also have Pisces descendant.
Wow! Thank you so much. I really needed to hear an honest depiction of how i love and what only one thus far has been able to see....& w/o conditions nor restrictions love me. Which truly enableled myself to love so deeply and equally in return. I miss him but i will never forget that depth, that level of absolute love
have you ever noticed alot of actors have venus uranus aspects
Yep, this one a lot of astrologer told me ,it create beauty too! Elizabeth taylor , Megan fox has conjunction .
Maybe I should go into acting because several of my placements indicate film life
@@Anbroshier oh nice !!
Oh wow. I'm an actress and I have this placement
Thank you for this video! It explains why I have different views than everyone else. I'm all about having friendship in a relationship otherwise it isn't worth it.
Same and I don’t even like relationships. I need freedom even if I’m not dating anyone which I barely do
But yeah
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man then what will make yall commit ? exciting friendship first ?
@@lunajsutbh I can’t really tell what will make us commit fr but I know I need someone who values freedom as much as I do, someone wild and unpredictable
I have this and this video explains my life exactly. Had to watch it twice! Thank you
You wanna link up I need a like mind Gurl?
Honestly you couldn't describe me any better. You are 100% correct. 100%.
I have an exact natal Venus Uranus opposition, and I can relate to your description. Thanks so much!
I really appreciate your insights into this aspect!
I have Venus at 1* Virgo square Uranus at 28* Scorpio...so, a rather conservative Venus aspected by crazy Uranus, and I must admit, I am a walking contradiction. I appreciate what you noticed about this people liking to create insecurity to feel secure, because.... occasionally, this is how it manifests in my case. My partner fortunately has a witty Venus in Gemini, which typically isn't ideal, but he seems to keep up well with my idiosyncrasies 😊.
All in all, great video❤
A video on the opposition is definitely needed. Thank you Jewel. I love how supportive & protective you sound towards those with Uranus aspects in our charts lmao. Much love to you always. 💚
I love your insights about this aspect. It definitely hits the nail for my lover. He has this aspect and he is an Aquarius with a moon in Cap and Venus and Mars in Pisces. From the get go, he has been adamant to not be controlled and he hates the conventional boyfriend/girlfriend labels. He's been in long term relationships before. Being Sagittarius with Virgo Moon and Venus in Libra and Mars in Gemini, I also love my independence and that feeling of having an unconventional relationships. He's not pushy and controlling towards me and I am not towards him. It seems to work.
If your really...really.....REALLY honest with themselves. Oh my goodness! All they "Really's" had me laughing so hard.
Her sentence did not escape my attention either 😁
It scares me cause Im talking to someone with this aspect and idk it's disheartening
Stroppy Paws I’m seeing a guy with Venus Uranus inconjunction....he’s very detached and doesn’t want a commitment...but as soon as I want to leave he doesn’t let me go...what should I do?
Stroppy Paws thank you so much for the link...yes you are right..he goes back and forth...creating space between us. I love him so so much. When we are together I’m really enjoying and so he is, he shows me lots of affection but the next day he will not text me and he will always let me contact him first...I have Venus conjunction with Uranus in 4th house in Scorpio together with mercury. I also need personal space to be honest but not as much as him! It brings me sadness as jewel was mentioning cheating...that’s one thing I cannot tolerate at all having Venus in Scorpio! He’s Venus in cancer with mars in Scorpio...I feel so magnetically attracted to a point of anxiety...if I’m honest...I’m scared to lose him 😔 what would you recommend? How should I act so he doesn’t feel smothered? Do you think inconjunction is as bad as square? Is it possible to break the pattern with these people?😘😘😘
Stroppy Paws you know what? It’s so strange but since I met him I feel like we have been destined together...it’s so bizzare...could it be because I have a wide conjunction in Scorpio and him in cancer? Plus I have Venus, Uranus and mercury conjunction? Because he’s got this Venus Uranus quincunx...his Saturn is Conjunct with mars in Scorpio...I don’t know how that plays out...but most certainly he keeps distance between the time when he sees me and I want to change this dynamics...I don’t need to see him all the time..I also need my space but I need to know he’s not fooling around with other women..if you know what I mean...he just don’t want to let me in closer, I would like to have a conversation about it with him but he hates confrontation and it sends him off into his shell...he’s a cancerian..sun, moon, mercury and Venus...it’s a shame that such a lovely person can be so difficult at the same time expressing his feelings...through astrology I would like to get through to him...thank you for taking your time to respond...by the way his ex and his daughter absolutely dislike him...so when I read your initial reply it made me think...they probably don’t understand him as it’s a very difficult to be able to tolerate, I do tent to create distance too at home by closing myself into my room and being on my own when my children are overwhelming me..xxx
wonderful...so helpful....I also have moon conjunct Neptune in the fourth with Cancer rising and these are really hard to combine...! I believe the Venus Uranus square is there to facilitate artistic expression and the required space that goes along with that!
Thanks, as always, Jewel.
You're the best.
Okay, this makes a whole lot of sense. I’ve always looked for freedom within the relationship, I’ve tried pretty much everything out of the box. Surprisingly the synastry or my partners have Vênus-Uranus square so the unconventional relationship works.
But even that is not enough. There’s a restlessness that destroys everything in the long run or the conditions are so out of the normal that the partner leaves.
Maybe not believing in forever is fine. Some relationships aren’t meant to last and still are valuable.
I have this aspect, together with venus square neptune. Uranus and neptune in capricorn, and my venus is in aries, lol. Once I fell in love with someone who believed in poli-love. I loved this person and only this person, guess I was attracted to this free spirit, even though I hoped this someone would choose only me at the end. This person didn't, and since then I absolutely believe in monogamist relationships. I have scorpio moon. I think I was living all about my venus square uranus, but when the thing became love it hurt, and it hurt a lot because my moon was finally involved. Now I am in a long distance relationship, but I really love this person. And I am afraid I would lose him due to my possesive nature. Again, it started as a sudden crush, but two years after I really need to know he's mine and only mine, and viceversa. It gets difficult because his sagi moon is all about happiness and freedom and... well, scorpio people need pain sometimes. Does someone have advice for me? I know I will continue loving him, but I wanna make him happy too. Should I allow my venus more participation? I don't know.
my boyfriend has everything you spoke of in the beginning. venus square neptune and uranus. uranus and neptune in capricorn as well as venus in aries. do you hate being smothered with love? do you feel your love is on and off?
@@birimartinez2159 Hello^^ Ahm, I don't know if I feel smothered by love, because I guess my moon also has something to do. For example, when someone is lovey dovey with me I would take a step back, but I think that can be because of scorpio moon too. When I really trust someone I can be very lovey dovey, and even when I need space I try to recognize when other people give me love instead of complaining for being misunderstood (neptune square moon people tend to have foggy perspective, so I try to fight that). So it's not that my love is on and off, but I can set my love aside sometimes so that I don't feel burdened. My love never fades, but sometimes I feel need of putting some limits. It's not that I stop loving people (even if they think that's what I do), I just take a rest, emotionally speaking. However I do feel like ON and OFF sometimes. I feel loved when I have attention of my beloved ones (aries venus), but sometimes I get this feeling of... pressure? Like... this love also has expectation I have to commit with. Then I feel anxiety, this need to make clear that my space is my space, and I think this behaviour must be really unfair for my beloved ones. Sometimes I feel guilty for this, because when I am in lovey dovey mood I can be around people I love, but when mi concentration is focused on my ideas and my work and original things and that stuff I really forget about everyone else, and I can be days alone and I don't feel like wanting to feel loved. I've read that this square makes people to be a lot into their beliefs, and in my case that's true. Even when I love someone if that person lies or does something I don't think should be done, I won't justify their actions. How does your boyfriend behave about that?
I always wondered how this operated when someone has Scorpio moon. My partner has this square pisces Venus square sag Uranus but he has Scorpio moon conjunct saturn and pluto in 7th house. I’ve been with him for 3 years but his actions don’t match this words and it’s to do with translating the relationship into reality of day to day living. I think he purposely pushed this relationship to be long distance for so long due to this square. I have Scorpio Venus and I am fed up. I blocked him as I feel dishonesty but clearly I love him regardless hence I am looking for answers in Jewels videos and comments. You are the only Scorpio moon here. ❤
terrific videos, jewel - you're a great teacher. i'm sure you get tons of requests, but i would love to see a video about the quincunx between venus and saturn (natally, especially). thanks for sharing your insights!
Wow, this resonated so much. Most of my exes are my friends for life. I do have the traditional moon in 7th house , was married for 7 years but something just didn’t sit well with me , like I felt smothered and was dying to break free of the traditional marriage frame …and yes you were right , I felt like I was married to my brother , there was no attraction but we were great friends.
I had one more serious relationship after my marriage but as soon as he brought up moving in and marriage , I freaked out …..finally I understand why
My mother is very similar. Her perfect relationship was that a man would have to travel to work. Maybe be in the house for a week and be gone for about 2. Her father was a Mariner and was off to sea for weeks on end than come back with gifts and various different kinds of seafood. Its her ideal relationship.
This explains why I pick men who live states away and emotionally unavailable
I love how you turn the tension into the positive outcome. Thank you so much. I follow you in the facebook page, I always read you. Much love to you. I came here because I have this in my Solar Return Chart, and I'm an Aquarius sun with Ac Aquarius in this S.R ♥ Thanks again Jewel!
Your childish laugh was the best thing about video 18:17 😍😍❤❤
Lol I know so cute 😂😂
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this aspect explains my whole life
Venus Aries square Uranus
I'm definitely monogamous and love to know that a relationship is moving toward commitment. But I don't like feeling smothered in relationships. I like alot of excitement. Aries already requires alot of stimulation, but mine is on steroids with this square.
Currently single, talking to 2 guys who are quite different. One guy is distant but boring (Cancer Venus). The other guy is exciting but needy (Venus Aries). Makes me want to rip my hair out. I don't believe in changing people so I don't bother begging but I do like for partners to meet me in the middle at least. Compromise.
100% don’t want to be smothered or controlled. On point
I need my freedom even if I’m in a relationship.
Venus Aries as well mhmmmmm
Could you please do an inconjunct...seems like a difficult thing to resolve...you are excellent
I I think this explains why I'm 47, single, never married, although Ive had countless boyfriends. I have the Venus/Uranus opposition, and while I'm bummed out I haven't had a stable relationship, I wanted to have kids but could not settle down with one partner. Venus in Aries, Gemini sun and I like to party! I have had many "experiences" and many marriage proposals but none I was interested in at the time. I do not like the smothering and am very "free-spirited". I would be fine not living together full time, I appreciate my own space. I guess I need to find a guy with the same aspect?
I briefly dated a guy with the same aspect. It still doesn't work 😂 once I ended it, he replied yeah I understand 😂. I've had better relations with people that don't have this aspect because they're always ready to fight for the relationship.
now i get it why i tend to withhold...lets just say being us with this aspects is soooo hard and complex!
Hello, can you please do the opposition?
Jewel, could you please add subtitles to this video? Thank you
Explains so much!! Thank you!! :)
Im friends with a guy that has this aspect along with moon square pluto and sun square uranus. Hes admitted he cheated on his ex girlfriend and isnt into monogamy. He wouldnt mind sharing his partner and inviting others to the bedroom. Hes also an aquarius moon... I settled on "friendship" with him after he told me this, the crush i had on him was short lived. My venus square neptune and pluto in 1st would never be ok with an open relationship. Im too possesive
Are there any partner aspects (generally speaking)which tend to be complimentary w/this natal aspect? Who is secure and able to recognize that “allowing” the unusual provides security & normalcy within the intimate partnership?
People who value space and autonomy yet also value companionship do well with this aspect. It works for them. That is described several ways in natal charts. Someone who wants love but does not see that giving up or sacrificing themself is the price for love is well suited for this type of dynamic.
Super useful. Thank you Jewel 💖
I have this and let's just say I am not married, but in a 24 yr. relationship and get bored, so I had to spice it up in a dishonest way, because my sun also has a Pluto opposing contact.....big sigh......! Great video and yes I feel a lot of what you said Jewel...I get bored when there is no excitement‼️
Nancy Eileen hi, my partner has this sqare/injunction. I want us to have a committed relationship but he’s constantly creating space between us...how can I stop that and make the relationship exciting for him?
Henrieta Dale my husband has this placement. married 14 yrs....all i can suggest is... get in investigative mode ... i found out my husband had a certain fetish... found out other things too... bc i snoop ... you’d be shocked bc they don’t really “hide” what they are doing. it’s like they want you to find out... that’s the excitement. don’t yell at him... don’t judge him openly... i emptied out my insecurities and embraced his dark side. actually mirror what he does but give him glimpses of what you’re “hiding”... your “dark side”. it’ll excite him and anger him at the same time.... i can’t explain it. lol sorry if i was no help. but i can elaborate if you need me to...
Why do you say that you 'had to' spice things up in a dishonest way? There are so many ways to spice things up without being dishonest about it.
@@Phoenix333Rising I’m not saying it was right for me to do😢I paid my dues for it!!!
@@nancyeileen128 Sorry, I didn't mean to judge - that's not my place, and we all do things we're not too proud of at times, and I don't know your exact situation. My issue was more with you saying that you 'had' to do it, as though you had no choice.
Lmao I have Venus in Leo conjunct my MC at 8° and Uranus in Scorpio conjunct my AC At 8° degrees. Hello Uranus square Venus!!!! Thank you so much for sharing all of that you hit the nail on the head. Right on the money…
could you do the inonjunction please c:
Yes, I would love to hear about that one too!
me too
Please jewel, we need your insight!
What would occur if someone had this venus square along with a venus trine saturn?
Saturn will mitigate the influence because tradition will be easy to follow and something one will want in addition to their progressive attitudes.
Do you think partners could be met online with this aspect with Uranus ruling technology
I'm not an Astrologer, but I would say yes, especially as online often = ldr, which is one way of keeping distance, and it's also slightly unconventional, (although becoming less and less so these days).
omg sooooo true! thank you! my husband has this placement... venus in aquarius 4th house with uranus in scorpio in 2nd... it’s quite maddening to me 🤦🏽♀️ but i wouldn’t have it any other way 💓 we are the best of friends... in fact i’m the only friend he even opens up to 😫 i HATE when he with holds back but i always find out the truth .... and end up still staying 😩 again i’m no victim but i love him truly. #DontJudgeMe
you mean he has cheated on you?
My capricorn venus in 11th house needs a lot of space. I’m a bit of a soloist but yet I can be very loving and not as withholding as you described (I have venus trine jupiter also).
A good match for me is another uranian. Currently involved with a freedom loving Aquarius stellium person. It’s unconventional and I feel we suit well.
I have my venus sqaure Uranus and Saturn.
At this moment i would Love to be in a serious monogamous relationship eventually when its meant to happen and i would Love it if the person im with was like a Best friend.
I honestly dont like the idea of dating i would rather just get to know someone naturally through friendship and if a strong mutual attraction is there then we can be more.
I have definitely done a few risky things in my life so far 😝
and! i have also experienced some unexpected intense like intimate moments with a couple of guys as well. It was Awesome but with each person our time knowing each other was short lived and ended abruptly out of no where.
So for now im learning to be more to myself and accept who i am and also be more cautious with who i decide to be close with.
I have this! Both planets are at home. My bf has an Aquarian venus. Our relationship does go against the norm, we have a big age gap that has caused some strong reactions.
I have this aspect at a tight orb (along with Venus square neptune) and uncovential relationships is on point! Although I absolutely hate seeing my lovers as friends and I take friendships seriously (Saturn in 11th and 7th house pluto). I thank my Scorpio for combating the uranian f*ckery
I have Venus semi-square Uranus, kind of wide. 3 1/2° orb. But man! Do these comments ever hit home. Wow.
Much better than the Planets in Aspect book I have been using.
I have the trine, Venus trine Uranus, but my Moon and Uranus are squared off...
Do you have a moon uranus square?
Yeah see, I have a moon in 4th house, so I'm comfortable within the confines of a relationship and seek monogamy. But the guys I go for are offbeat and unique. Freedom and independence are important but I feel with the right match you can feel free together...
Jewel , Do you have this Venus square Uranus too?
Hi Jewel! Awesome video, as always. I have a question- how would this translate in a semisquare?
I have this with a gemini sun and a gemini venus, I don't know where this come from but I have this child like being, and I like childlike youthful fashion.
I would love your advice, Jewel. This is helpful, however, it seems I am finding partners who exhibit this Uranus quality, and I am the one hoping for a traditional relationship. My Venus also squares Mars and Neptune. My partners always seem to fall away, create distance, never initiate, and lie a lot (many exes have natal sun and mercury square to Neptune) and also always have some Uranus quality to them. How do I find partners that stop representing my Uranus/Neptune? For once I’d like a guy to pursue me, be honest, want to commit. I have Venus in Aries, trine Asc, sextile Saturn. Thank you for your guidance!
I’m a Venus opposite Uranus guy & my gf is a trans woman that I love very much, perfect example
"trappage" is a French word that translates to "trapping" in English.
Wow. This is scary accurate.
if neptune ios massive dishonesty and uranus is massive honesty but they are CONJUNCT and square venus how does that turn out? xD
I'd have to look at the semi-square in my situation. There is more going on.
I have Uranus by 42deg towards my Venus and 44 deg. towards my Sun, whereas my Pluto conj. Uranus (as does my Venus conj. my Sun). So then there also is this semi-square aspect from my Pluto to Venus 45deg. and 47deg. towards my Sun. .... hmmmm.... ?!
My Ex has his Venus about 88deg towards his Uranus, and about 93deg. towards his Mars, and about 96deg towards his Pluto, because Uranus, Mars, Pluto make a stellium in his chart, while his Venus is also conj. his Mercury, whereas Mercury is about 91deg. of his Uranus and about 95 deg. to his Mars. ... So 'yes' there is usually more going on than meets the eye, because in the 60ties Pluto and Uranus made a conjunction for the many!
This is another thing, I do not see Pluto as 'sneeky' ;-)
I'm also a Scorpio, so Truth is what I value most, and I do speak my truth as well.
I cannot stand people who dilly-dally around, because I hold myself to the highest standards.
Pluto may be many things, but NEVER dishonest! It does what it does best, it infuses alchemical transformation and in most cases it's about turning that what has become ugly and dishonest into something righteous and beautiful! ;-)
Just my personal take on this, then again, I can only speak from my individual perspective, and I do have my Pluto conj. Uranus conj. with my IC, so talking about emotional vulnerability? ... pewwww ... ! Although this is in VIR, I do feel things deeply and I would not let go of anything until I dug deep into Truth for an answer! I may park things at times, when I notice there is no forth-coming, yet be assured that I will pay attention to anything that has caught my eye in the past, and I will make/see the connections, even if that means it's years later!
Does venus opp uranus have a similar effect? If not plz make a video?:)
You know you’re exciting if Jewel says you are 😂
How does this combine in someone having a cap moon?
Can you please do venus inconjunct uranus?
You're spot on
I’m always attracted to eccentric types 😂 libra Venus square Uranus Capricorn
What if venus is retrograde?
What is the Venus is Taurus ?
Hello, I was wondering if this description applies to a Venus inconjunct Uranus person(me). It does all sound very familiar and like myself. TOTALLY afraid to be smothered. Thank you so much for your time.
it's such a hard aspect to have, I feel so mismatched with everyone I attract or am attracted to
+Jennifer Brazil yes, it is similar.
@@JewelMayberry wonderful, thank you so much for sharing your knowledge on this subject. It helps a lot.
Jennifer Brazil hi Jennifer, my partner has this aspect too...Venus in cancer inconjunct Uranus in Sagittarius... he’s totally afraid of commitment and always keeps distance between us... what is the best approach with him? How do you like to be loved? How do I help him to develop and deepen our friendship or relationship?
Spot on.
Perfect!
Jewel , Do you have this aspect too?
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I have one , my love life is not conventional at all , my bf mostly were foreigner , and now my husband is also in that category .I don’t find Men that has same life as me attractive , dating someone in work is a No-No to me. I ‘ve never consider myself as Polygamy /polyamorous , ever.. I think the fedility with Venus square Uranus person is a complex topic to discuss . I have Leo venus sqaure Scorpio Uranus -both fix sign , and I think this help with fidelity . My Cancer moon and Libra sun help me stay in a relationship and it’s imporatant things in my life .
Anbroshier hi, my bf is cancer sun, moon, Venus and Scorpio mars...his Venus inconjunct Uranus in sag in possibly 1st house..he doesn’t know his time of birth...how would this manifest with regards to commitment and monogamy? I love him but he doesn’t want anything serious...my Venus is in Scorpio.
What would be the maximum orb in effect for this aspect I have the square between Venus in taurus at 15 and 8 degree uranus in aquarius would that still be a square ?
I have this Venus Uranus square, plus Uranus is in my 7th house. Still confused as to why I keep attracting Uranian and open relationships with men. They are the ones craving for freedom to be with other people.😕
What if Venus was also conjunct sun, saturn and Jupiter. All squared to Uranus
What is the best approach with a man who’s got this inconjunction?
Would this somewhat apply to the semi-square as well?
does this apply also on semi-square aspect ?
LMAO so I have this aspect- I laugh because I have Venus in AQUARIUS in the 8th house 😄 but it also trines Pluto
I always say I'm drawn to the intense weirdos haha. I am very wary of commitment but when I like someone I can be VERY intense. it's funny, like the saying " I love you so much, now go away." I can relate
It takes me a while to "get close" but once I do, I am generally loyal. but I have other crazy aspects, like sun opposition moon, and sun, moon and mars square Neptune and it doesn't help that I have a pisces sun.
Jewel I bet you have your Venus in your asc with Mercury too. Leo Sun, virgo asc
I have venus opposite uranus, is it the same?
I have mars opposite uranus and I keep attracting men with this aspect. It feels completely natural to me but everyone else keep telling me its toxic... i also have moon conjunct uranus, trine sun and exact sun trine uranus too
Trapage yup
I’m scared of that trapage.
What’s your sun moon rising?
Did you say your riding is Virgo and Mercury Virgo?
Immediately turned off this guy I've been talking to 🤣
I think you have had a camera and have observed me all my life. Omgg
friends with benefits?
Moon opposite mercury?
I feel so seen!
Me and my ex husband both had it in our birth charts. We were brother and sister..we had sex...but not passionate.
I was dating him for 8 years...when we moved in together..I ran in less than 5 months. Now I get why.
I’m never gonna have the problem of getting cheated on , or having problems in the marriage . Because I’m letting people know from the jump that YOU CANT CONTROL ME ! I won’t allow you to control me ! And also since I’m very much like this , I feel like I create a safe space for my partner to be honest with me , he/she won’t even ever have to “cheat” because they will know that they can always come to me if they do want to explore other options . 🤷🏽♀️ which is a very cool type of relationship to have .
I have my Venus Square Uranus and Mars Square Uranus
I feel so exposed hahahha I’m finally learning how to deal with this energy at 29 yo
So true...