Living Abroad: The Worst Case Scenario for Expats in the Philippines
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- Опубликовано: 21 июн 2024
- Living Abroad: The Worst Case Scenario for Expats in the Philippines @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
Juells in the Philippines RUclips Channel
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Julian Grigsby
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Last Video with Juells
• The Ultimate Nightmare...
Praying for the family! I heard he was gone now. 😢
Yes, he passed yesterday
@@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 sorry
May he rest in peace@@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
He’s in a better place with no pain. Condolences to the family. RIP 🙏
😢😢I’m so sorry for your loss😢😢
I spent my career as a nurse. You would think that my best memories are of the lives I have helped save. No. My fondest memories are of those who were actively dying, that I could provide comfort to. Just being there with them, holding their hand, letting them know they were not alone, and someone cared. Julells is blessed to have his family that loves him by his side.
I think a better title for this video would be "A tribute to a life well lived." Juells was among the very small percentage of us that manned up, and did get on that plane in search of a better life. He ended up with a loving wife and family.
Guys, please listen to Paul about playing Juells RUclips videos, I think it is a great idea.
God bless you
Thank you. May God guide this family in this difficult time. Amen.
Dear Paul, my Philippina wife and I just wanna say… Thank you very sincerely and kindly for sitting down with Juells wife and daughter Princess on your RUclips channel… I’m an American who’s married to a Philippina wife since 2019… As for myself, I’m currently a retired California Licensed General Building Contractor and Fence Contractor living peacefully in the Philippines with my lovely wife… If I may say, the bungalow house with the beautiful rectangle swimming pool is just awesome LQQKING… If you wouldn’t mind, please give Juells family our love and heavenly blessings… We’ll definitely be praying for Juells and his family… May God bless Juells, wife and children as well… Sincerely Pietro and Rosa!!!
🙏🙏❤️😇❤️🙏🙏
My heart goes out to Jules and his family for what they are going through, truly heart breaking.
Paul you are such a good man. This world needs more people like you.
the glory holes would be full
hes scum
We need to be LIKE Paul!
@@rolandetoh yeah , make a video asking support for a sick friend and keep most of the money . Dirty Paul strikes again
@CIRCLEofHATE very suitable RUclips name you picked indeed. Very classy to make such comments under such circumstances as well. Truly an outstanding human being...
So sad, I pray the family finds peace. Jules loves his family so much. It showed on his videos. Thanks for the update Paul and Jules family.
I am going to miss his "alright, alright, alright".
It was very kind of them in this difficult time to keep us updated. Praying for the whole family.
I will send Juells and his family an email, But this is for Paul. Paul, you are such a gift to the Philippines, you went there to retire, but you are working your butt off serving the community. My wife is from Leyte, and we are here in the states, but if I was to move to PI, I would love to meet you and shake your hand. You are truly a wise, and good Man. Thank You for all you do, and for all the good info you give us.
Since i heard about his situation, i included him in my prayers. My dad died of liver cancer 7 years ago. Sending prayers to the family.🙏❤️
God bless you all! He’s not gone! It’s temporary! We are going to see him again! Praying for the family! Thx for the video
My Filipina wife died late last year of breast cancer. I know what your going through. It is a hard time. All my love and hugs to Jules wife and daughter.
I lost my best friend two months ago to the same thing. His wife is a Filipina. My ex mother in law passed a few weeks ago from the same thing. I'm aware of all the challenges and emotions they're experiencing. God bless all of you.
Non Alcoholic Fatty Liver disease is a horrible silent killer with non-existent symptoms until the liver is severely impacted. I'm stage 2, knocking on stage 3 of the 4 stages of liver disease. It's a terrible disease.
God bless you..I am a nurse and was Hospice nurse...it's a very difficult time for all of you. ❤❤❤
I feel your pain🥲
When my Dad was dying from prostate cancer in Canada, his last wish was to die in his homeland (Philippines). The doctors didn’t want to release him from the hospital so my cousin took time out of his practice in Pasadena, CA to come to Canada and sign my father out of the hospital. My Mom and cousin flew him to Manila where an ambulance was waiting for him at the tarmac and drove him directly to St. Luke’s Hospital where he passed away 4 months later😭
When you see someone in constant pain, you know deep in your heart that they will be better off in the next life.
That’s where I might have the honour of meeting Jules. I believe we’ll all be reunited in the next life with our loved ones and friends.
May God always keep you in his heart…….God Bless you Brother🙏🏼
Paul, your a good man to be there to help Juells, his wife and family. It's hard to find words but I hope they can find the strength to get through this, God bless you all.
I've experienced several people diagnosed with Cancer. It's doesn't matter if your rich or poor.
The best advice I can share is that the body is shutting down but hearing is still strong until the very end. So talk and provide comfort the best you can.
Liver disease is a horrible silent killer. Millions of folks have no idea the risk they have of liver disease. It starts with NAFLD-non alcoholic fatty liver disease.
When out in public, the folks you see with large bellies (kmown as beer guts for men) and extra fat around the waste also have a fatty liver. The symptoms of liver disease can be nonexistent until the latter of the 4 stages.
This message is for Julian, Paul. Tell him he did everything I wish I had the courage to do. Tell him we never had kids, “my” biggest regret and I will leave here never having experienced fatherhood and family. I admire him, Paul, even as he lay dying. Godspeed.
Praying for Juells and his family. Crying now.
Very sad, he’s such a nice guy. My thoughts are with him and his family.
RIP Juells! Every video he shared included his love for his family and life.
You're a good man Paul. Jules you're sorrounded by love and support. God bless to you and you're beautiful family.
I have been a subscriber the past year watching Juells and his amazing family. I lost my Filipina wife to cancer and know how hard this is...May the peace of God Bless you all
Thank you Paul you are a good friend. Prayers to the family.
I'm in tears!! Blessings to the family!! This is a reality check for all of us!! Love hard and enjoy life! Let people you know you love them and show them love because tomorrow is not promised!! Thank you Paul for this powerful video!! Blessings to you and Baby Mae for being there for them and being a shoulder to lean on!! 🙏
He lived life on his terms. He married the love of his life and togther they raised three good kids who will grow up, undoubtedly, to be fine adults. A life well lived.
His( ammonia levels )are high that’s why he’s (hallucinating ) please get a prescription of (rifaximin and Lactose) as he’s experiencing (Hepatic Encephalopathy) when you give this to him daily the hallucinations will stop. He will still experience a decline in his health as it’s a slippery slope at this stage. I hope his wife will read this as at least once he’s on the medication he will be in his right mind.God Bless sending my prayers.
seems all he is going to get is a Video from these people what selfish people we have become and shame on Paul because these same folks have the means to do there own Video .
He can not swallow anymore, he is actively dying. He just needs some music at the background to relax his mind.
Sending love and prayers to Juells and his family. Thank you Paul for being the good soul that you are and standing by them and helping Juells.
I lost my Brother from liver cancer back in January 2010. I was blessed to have been with him from hospital to hospice and on to his final breath. I remember the process the changes in his physical body and eventually after the cancer took his mind. I pray for his soul and family. God bless them and I pray that you remember how he lived and not how he left you. God bless you all 🙏🏾🙌🏾♥️💪🏾🙏🏾
Breaks my heart. I've been watching Juells for a while so I know how much he loves his family. Seeing someone's health decline is tough. Prayers for his family and friends. Thank you Paul, for doing this and sharing the news.
Prayers for him and his family😊
Lovely family
This is the most difficult video to come up with a comment. But after watching the last video on Juells I remember the closing scene from the movie Pride of the Yankees. Where Lou Gehrig says he been given a bad break but he feels that he is the luckiest man in the world. One should contemplate what this means in Juells’ situation. I think it applies here.
I also went through this with my wife, who passed away in 2013. I was lucky that my two kids were by my side to help. God bless you and your family 🙏🙏😢. Paul this must of been very hard for you too
My prayers go out to you all
I just went through this TWICE with my partner who died of cancer and I Solely took care of her for a year, and my mother who passed earlier this year. I was their sole caregiver for 10 years. What I experienced afterwards in the US was shocking. No one called or came by. Not even family. I had to build myself from the bottom. I realized the gift of life that I have and my clock is ticking. So I retired and took 3 extended trips to SE Asia to redefine my life. My experiences in the US around death was so bad I decided not to die there. If I wasn’t there for my partner and mother no one would visit. I want to die in SE Asia. Be very gentle, tender, kind to yourselves. I attended grieving groups. That helped tremendously. Talk to people who are available. Most people had no idea what I went through. Life is a precious gift. Carry on your father and husbands love for life. His life will continue to live through you. That’s what I chose to do
Bravo!! you speak courageously the Truth --
Sadly that's the case in many countries in the world. Mine as well.
My Filipina wife here in Cavite has been caring for her bedridden mom for 10+ years and supporting her dad. This while working a full time demanding marketing job with lots of travel. She moved her dad up to our area from Bicol in January. He passed away less than a week ago. I married a real angel whom I'm not worthy of but strive to be everyday. It's my privilege to make her and her family's life better. Life is short... I just got back from Texas after a rushed medical trip last November so I know to make the most of every day.
@@telcobilly It's why FIlipinas are caregivers in most advanced countries all over the world. UAE, Singapore, HK, US, Canada, and so on. They can tolerate more than anyone can handle.
@@jacked6 That's the truth. They make her rest nurses too. My oldest daughter in Texas is a RN and works with a lot of Filipina nurses. They get a kick out of hearing about her dad living here in the Philippines.
My heart aches for the family 💔 God, please give this family peace and comfort in this time. We are all here for this man and his family
Paul, you are a straight up 100 percent genuine friend. You introduced Juells to us, so it almost feels like we know him. I give my heartfelt condolences to your very special friend. Thanks for sharing this information about this incredible person. May god bless!
Hospice is a very difficult thing to see and deal with 😢. My father was in hospice care for 5 days from lung cancer. Even though I don’t know Juells his family has my deepest sympathy.
Nope They want to do a Video , as pathetic as i have ever seen on a Man's death Bed there not in Prayer They want a RUclips Video . Poor Man My God be with him and Shame on Paul as well .
Paul you are a true friend with a golden heart..this video was very emotional to me and my heart goes out for him and his family..I am praying for all of you guys trying your best to ease all of their pain and suffering ❤
Peace be with you Juells. I wish I had an opportunity to meet you in person and work together. You will be greatly missed and not forgotten.
Prayers For the Family
Juells is definitely a rock star! Amazing attitude in all his videos! Amazing dad prayers for Juells and his family! Princess has his beautiful smile that will live on !
I’m so sorry . You all are in my prayers .
Thank you , lovely family
God bless this family and of course the man going through this. He is blessed that his family is there and helping him through everything. When my wife was dying of cancer. My kids and her family were not there to help me. I know what this means and I felt the pain all over again watching this video. I go to church every Sunday here in the Philippines. And you can count on me adding you to my prayers. I am alone now and always will be. But that doesn't mean it's all about me. God bless you on your journey. It is unique and I will never understand your pain just as others won't understand mine. But ... I wish you all blessings. Truly. Take care. Peace.
That's crazy that your wife's family and her own kids weren't there to help you. That's terrible.
@@jasoncatron1039 Well... they were dealing with pain in their own way. It is only a wish I had at the time as I knew that me alone was not close to being enough. I don't hold that against them in any way. That was 8 years ago but this video... makes it feel like yesterday. Take care
God bless this family . 🙏🙏🙏
“Right On, Right On, Right On”
Gonna miss Jules. I just loved his style. What a great human being.
I feel for his family. It’s gotta be the worst feeling in the world for a child to lose their parent. 🙏
Thanks Paul for your caring and update on Juelles , Juelles is a great human being, it just shows us how vulnerable we really are ! ❤ Thanks so much for this
God Bless the family
My love goes out to Jules and his family. Prayers being sent. Thanks for making this Paul.
So heartbreaking. God Bless Juells and his family. 😢😢🙏🙏
Paul, we were watching this video and sharing our tears for Jules and his family, GOD will reward you for all you do Paul
I am so sorry and God Bless to the family .
It is definitely painful to watch this video but glad to hear the update. I am on the same boat taking care of my dying husband , he is not hospice yet , he is palliative care and had 3 cycles of chemo. We are aware his time is short and taking it one day at a time. I know what they are going through Richie and the kids , as long as Juelles is comfortable and not in pain that's all that matters at the end of life. Sending prayers❤🙏
We are praying for Juelles.
Such sad news, and wishing the family the strength that they will need
so sad to hear it has come to this point. our prayers are with him and his family. :(
Paul, You will be known an remembered for all of the good an positive things you have contributied to all of us, an the common sense is just hard to beat. I saw a grown man cry. A REAL man is not only tough, but he also has a heart.
Remember it is never "goodbye," but "see you soon" 🙏🙏🙏
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Thats right! The best is to come.
That is how I feel too. We are all just passing through
Life is simply a journey
I told him to let me put him in touch with my doctor, that trains other doctors on all mineral and alkaline diet. Has treated numerous celebrities, athletes as well as everyday people. Nothing more for me to do but pray for him and his family.
Thank you for sharing and letting us be a part of this difficult inevitably. We are here for you in this trying time. You give us all hope that we all can be cared for and cared about as much you all care about Juells.
GOD be with each and every one of you.
I've had several loved ones pass from cancer and the only good thing about it was that it gave you time to prepare for their passing and come to terms with it, before they left.
Seeing them shrivel up from what they had been, is still very hard, but it's not like you didn't know it was coming, like if they had just been hit by a bus out of the blue.
I see you passing the TP on the vid, and cracked a grin through my blurry eyes, as I remember talking to my brother/best friend on the phone for the first time after his diagnosis. We were each in our individual basements, TP in hand, coming to terms with his situation. We both had a chuckle through the blubbing, that we were handling things in the exact same manner...
God bless this man and his family and may they continue to flourish in the future.
Paul your a angel you go out of your way to meet and help people in there time of need the world needs more men like you your videos have helped so many people god is looking down on you Juells amen🇦🇺🇵🇭
What we have once enjoyed we can never lose... memories are forever.....bless you all
Sendung prayers for Juells and the family❤❤
"alright alright alright" how i'd like to see him be able to say that again. The first time I watched one of his videos I thought man, this guy's a little off, but then I realized it wasn't him it was me that was off in my first opinion of him. He's just a really good dude and I wish I could be more like him.
No word to describe how much I or we subscribers appreciate Jules happy days to remember, memories that we have this lifetime & next. Thank you & God bless your family & Jules ♥️ 🙏🏼
I lost my first Thai wife in Thailand to liver cancer 9 years ago.
I understand your pain.
My thoughts and heart are with you all.
There is no easy way.
Love to you all from the heart.
I'm so sorry 😢god bless family and friends. My hart go's out to all of you.
God Bless Juells and this wonderful family. I pray when he passes that he does it in peace. The family needs to remember when he passes he's past the miserly and will always live on in the families good memories.
Thank the Lord for the time he gave you all to be with one of his sons. Amen.
God blesses him and watches over the family.
I will watch their videos ❤ no skip ads! That is the least we can do for this family!
Praying for juelle and his family 🙏🙏
Dear Paul. I knew Juells from you, as I seldom watch expats channels. That time when his house was still under construction and you both were full of laughter. I admired his outlook in life and love for his family and subscribed to help him. The next video I watched when he was hospitalized from paralyzed leg, the third when he’s got the liver CA. With his warmth personality this video touched a lot of us . Thanks in guiding us how to get in touch with his family. I pray for him. Thank you for such a kind person. May God Bless you all. 🙏🏻
There is no comparison between dying at home in the Philippines and dying in hospice that take’s Medicaid (insurance for the poor) in the US. Things worked out for the best with the passport situation.
I believe so. It was already too late. He would want to be with his wife and all his kids and in the home he built for them. I saw him deteriorate so fast in the last two to three weeks I was so worried for him. But he was reading his Bible and making his peace with the Lord. He will forever reside in the hearts of his family now. And his friends. He raised such a beautiful family. Such good people. That is the best legacy he could leave behind.
Paul thank you for sharing this. For Richie, Princess and siblings you are facing this far more bravely than you realize and more anyone I can think of. My thoughts are going out to Jules and family and their tragedy is held deeply in my thoughts. 💗
I have never met Juells, yet feel that I still know him through his personal channel and also through his son Elvis, a wonderful guy, when I visited Dumaguete for six weeks last Sept-Oct. I'm sitting here crying too, as I watch your wonderful wife and daughter as part of the fabulous family that your husband and dad had raised. My heart goes out to everyone and especially Juells, that amazing spirited man who is an inspiration to all. Bless your hearts.
. Great to see how Juells brought his energy to create a great family- What a great testament to how one man made this a better world....God Bless you and your family!
My condolences. Prayers to his beautiful family!
god bless your family Jewels and family. Prayer for your family
Thank you for the update. Prayers and best wishes to the family.
A sad story, but thank you for letting us know
I'm so sorry to hear about this. My prayers go out to him and his family. Thanks for sharing. 😔🙏
A sad but inspiring story of an adventurous man and family who lived life well. I will miss Juells. Thank you for all the connections and compassion. As someone trying to decide whether to retire, at least semi-permanently, in the Philippines these stories help. Best wishes and love to you, Mae, Juell, and his family.
Heart breaking to watch, love from the UK to all of you there.
Mrs Juels, I watched my wife struggle for over 5 years until she passed away 30 months ago. I know what you are going through. Please hang in there. The pain will never go away but time will make it easier. You must keep living. God is with you. God bless.
I worked on the nursing staff in a hospital in America for 25 years and I saw many people pass away from liver failure over that time. When the liver fails, ammonia and other wastes build up in the blood. The patient turns yellow and gets narcosis from the ammonia and they become weak and very confused. It is not a quick way to pass away, I would call it horrible. My own mother passed from liver and kidney failure a couple years ago and she only lasted two weeks in hospice after her diagnosis of liver failure. I did not visit mom once in hospice because I could not bear to see my mother like that. I did not want to form any memories of my mother in that condition, and there were other family there with her. Thank you Paul for having the sensitivity to not put Juells on video, so that the viewers can remember him as he was in life. My heart goes out to his family. When he does pass there will be grief, but it will also be a feeling like a burden has been lifted. It is a very difficult burden to care for someone in his condition, and when it is someone that you love, it makes it much harder to bear the emotional burden as well. Paul you are absolutely right that he was better off dying at home with his family. May god bless them.
Thank you Mr. Paul for the update and your compassionate heart. Thank you for your courage to face such an emotional interview and helping this family to ask for what they need..encouragement,prayer, and peace.
Very Good Video. Thanks. Have only followed Juelles for around a year, but always enjoyed his charming, fun and outgoing personality..
Paul thank you for the update it is appreciated My heart and prays are with you and the family. God bless you all. These are always reminders to have that relationship with our Father in heaven.
Paul, what a wonderful man you are helping out! What a beautiful family and very sorry to hear about his health! I will be praying for you all! ❤🙏
God or any beliefs you have be with you
Peace & Love to the family
My father in law died of cancer . From Singapore.
I was able to spend some time with Juells on our last 2 trips over and some time at his house a couple of months ago. An interesting character, good guy, and above all truly loves his family. I admired that when he and his wife had some rocky times before all this happened. He set his pride aside, and went out there online to profess his love for her.
Sending my thoughts and prayers for him and for his family! I will remmember him as a no-nonsense, down-to-earth, practical, very humorous, and an honest man. And best of all, a man who prioritizes his family and most especially his children, much the same way as my American husband.
Thank you, Paul for making the video. I met you and Jules at Sierra resort back in February. I was so sad right now, but I will help.😢 my prayers are with the family. God bless you all.🙏🙏🙏
Prayers going up for Juells and his wonderful family. A man is remembered for the family he produced. You did good man. And to his family, remember that Juells is not really dying. When he closes his eyes to this world he merely opens his eyes to the next. God bless.
I cried along with you all here. I am sad also. Thank you and Juells wife and family letting us know where he is at. Blessings to all.
Prayers to Juells and his family. His son Elvis and daughter Princess work for the Critter Hunter's dive shop in Dauin, and Juells is his friend too, so hoping that they can then spend as much time with their father, without worrying about their employment during this critical time.
Thank you Paul and Juells' family for posting this update. I always enjoyed Juells' vlogs "well howdy howdy". I knew Juells was having health issues and always sent him positive thoughts & prayers. When the moment comes soar with the eagles my friend.
I am one of those lurkers on your channel and Juells'. I of course have enjoyed both. Juell reminds me of friends of mine and I was just devastated to hear of his liver cancer and liver failure. I know more about his disease process than I would care to; I speculate that his bizzare Guillame-Barret syndrome (GBS) was a pareneoplastic syndrome caused as his body ramped up his immune system to try to fight the cancer. (there are case reports in the literature). It is generally a bad sign however. I am hopeful his passing will be as peaceful as possible. I will contribute to the family directly.
Paul I’m glad you mentioned that his family wanted you to do this update. I could almost feel the pain and feelings they’re having.
Sending prayers and hugs for Juells and his family, wishing Juells a painless and peaceful journey into the arms of Jesus.
Prayers to the family and prayers that he is no longer in pain.
Prayers 🙏 for Juells and his family.
Thanks Paul for being there always and putting out the word.
God Bless 🙏 Paul.