Abandoned and PREGNANT at 21 What Now?

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  • Опубликовано: 30 янв 2025

Комментарии • 73

  • @vgshwk
    @vgshwk 14 дней назад +101

    Paul talks to fast well he is a former car salesman.😊

    • @JohnSmith-ti2kp
      @JohnSmith-ti2kp 14 дней назад +10

      @vgshwk- It is not Paul that talks fast, it is Filipinos that talk so fast that I have to use the settings to slow it down to understandable.

    • @Colebebop1
      @Colebebop1 14 дней назад +3

      Well, you write like a second grader Skeezix.

    • @vgshwk
      @vgshwk 14 дней назад +10

      @@JohnSmith-ti2kp it was a joke some people take it wrong if you say good morning.

  • @Iron2011rob
    @Iron2011rob 14 дней назад +108

    She has the mentality of a very young kid. Paul gives good advice.
    I hope she slows down or next year the title of this story will be " 22 year old single mother of two, what will she do?"

  • @therealityofit
    @therealityofit 14 дней назад +113

    Her boyfriend pulled a Filipino. I hear many stories that Filipinos run when the girlfriend gets pregnant, hence why so many single moms.

  • @David-jm6yo
    @David-jm6yo 14 дней назад +68

    Ladies need to make better choices when entering into relationships. I feel especially bad for the children. It is a sad story which happens all too often

  • @martingugler5847
    @martingugler5847 14 дней назад +83

    Would be interesting to hear his part of the story

  • @ScottBrooker-oh5ym
    @ScottBrooker-oh5ym 14 дней назад +67

    She exudes TIC TOC

  • @goodspx6036
    @goodspx6036 14 дней назад +92

    She made a grown ups choice and she should be held accountable. Unfortunately, when they make a bad choice we love to swoop in and save them which alleviates them of the lesson.

  • @AlphaSyndicate_actual
    @AlphaSyndicate_actual 14 дней назад +266

    Remember gents....HER story is only ONE SIDE of the story. Make sure you got the WHOLE STORY before trusting anything or making any judgments. I'd like to see a paternity test. I'd like to get the other half of the story to express their viewpoints too. Without full information, I'm not trusting any of this story.

    • @Battleneter
      @Battleneter 14 дней назад +58

      Correct, I have never heard a women say a breakup was mostly their fault, its always the guy.

    • @mjheanebarrete4190
      @mjheanebarrete4190 14 дней назад +22

      @@AlphaSyndicate_actual You're wish is not granted. No one forces you to believe. It's her story not yours.

  • @mkmobilegaminginthephilippines
    @mkmobilegaminginthephilippines 14 дней назад +77

    She doesn't look like a baby came out

  • @jtv848
    @jtv848 14 дней назад +52

    Responsible adults must try to have safe sex to prevent unplanned pregnancies

  • @mihangelap-williams9871
    @mihangelap-williams9871 14 дней назад +58

    She has put her self knowingly in a situation.

  • @pjv59tn51
    @pjv59tn51 14 дней назад +128

    I don’t like this woman. My opinion is that she is a gold digger. She gets pregnant by a “rich” foreigner. One bad decision after another. I feel bad for the baby, a father that really doesn’t want him and a mother that was just using her pregnancy as a tool to catch this man. He is no better, he was using her too to get what he wanted. I have no doubt within the next year she will have another baby by another foreigner.

    • @mjheanebarrete4190
      @mjheanebarrete4190 14 дней назад +29

      DON'T WORRY..., SHE DOESN'T LIKE YOU TOO . what a judgemental person here. 🙏

    • @Chickenlegs836
      @Chickenlegs836 14 дней назад +17

      Be a little more respectful to Andrea please 🙏. Don’t judge a book by its cover son!! Hi agree sad for the baby & both are at fault but REAL MAN DOESNT DO THIS PERIOD!!! Wishing them both the best in life & hope Andrea connects with a genuine REAL MAN to share life together with 4ever🙏. Blessings 🙏🌺🌼🌸

    • @IB4U2Cme
      @IB4U2Cme 14 дней назад +5

      @@mjheanebarrete4190well ya. And you think that was too much speculation?

    • @mjheanebarrete4190
      @mjheanebarrete4190 14 дней назад

      You know what, I read a lot of comments especially from guys, they always said, don't marry a single mother, don't marry a girl who has tattoos...like really? it seems like most western guys come from divorce, most of them also have children.

  • @Benincebu
    @Benincebu 14 дней назад +50

    Deadbeats are universal. Such a shame. Children are a blessing. I (personally) cannot comprehend people that aren't there for their kids

  • @JamesMilliron-g3k
    @JamesMilliron-g3k 14 дней назад +5

    You won’t have any problems there are plenty of of good people i know i had a wonderful wife for 20 years you will be ok

  • @RK-kj8di
    @RK-kj8di 14 дней назад +49

    The guy really needs to support his son and be responsible for his actions.

  • @FilCanGil
    @FilCanGil 14 дней назад +24

    It doesn’t matter if it’s a Filipino or Foreigner, they just want to have fun with a woman and run from their responsibilities.
    Only the woman can save themselves from having a difficult future as a single mother. Abstinence (until he marries you) makes the heart grow fonder😉

  • @gibblespascack1418
    @gibblespascack1418 14 дней назад +16

    There seems to be a trend here. Get with a young woman, if she gets pregnant, then leave and move on with your life. And this guy knew how to not get a girl pregnant. It is sad. Guys and girls need to slow down and take time to know each other. I hope that Andrea can move on to the future that she would like to have. Good luck to Andrea and her family.

  • @AlanHenderson-d6d
    @AlanHenderson-d6d 14 дней назад +15

    Paul for goodness sake correct him ahaha. her

  • @rogerclark3
    @rogerclark3 14 дней назад +24

    They call people like that stalkers... Be careful... Any US based attorneys want to do some Pro Bono work? He receives gvmnt payments for garnishment...

  • @craigedelmann6476
    @craigedelmann6476 14 дней назад +11

    Damn thats a shame !!

  • @danelionheart5881
    @danelionheart5881 14 дней назад +18

    Wow Pauly just so you know this don't just happen in the Philippines. I also want to point out women do this as well. Now I control my money I will make that clear but I could never understand how any guy would give full control over their money. OK back to this . I am in Florida I met a girl that was born and lives in Cali. She was 22 I think. We met on a online game and chatted for about a year we even skyped all the time. One thing she told me was that she lives on her own and is Divorced. She did tell me she has a child but the child lives with the father. That should have been the Big red flag there.
    Anyways we chatted a lot and she was renting a one room out of a garage and had to walk through the garage to use the bathroom and shower. I asked her how much she paid for that and she told me she pays 450 a month. She said the guy charges her 450 because they are work mates and she told me her EX lives with her parents. Another red flag I should have seen.
    She came to visit me and well yes we did the deed many times. She stayed with me about 2 years and wanted to go back to visit her son for his birthday. I would never say no to that I did not have the right. She stayed 4 month because she missed her flight that I paid for. I was not going to play games and told her I will pay one last time but if she misses the flight she can stay there.. She is back with me about 4 months and I was told she was using protection.
    4 Months down the road she was sick so I took her to the Doctors. The Doctor told her she was almost 3 months pregnant. I was outside smoking a cig and she came out and said we need to talk. Nothing any good ever comes out of the we need to talk. When we got back to my place she said I am F n Pregnant. I said how did that happen and she said how do you think that happen I said I don't know you told me you was on Protection she said well that I lied.
    Then she tells me after the Baby is born she was going to go back to her Husband. I said how if you are Divorced and she said oh about that I lied about that because I knew you would not want to be with me if you knew I was still married. What she didn't know was Florida has a different set of rules. See I can not be on the child's Birth certificate because by law she is still married yet the Husband also can not be on the Childs Birth Certificate unless I say so. This means she was not going to screw me over because she can't collect money off me and her Husband even though he is not the father is responsible for the child even if they get a divorce because they were married when she got pregnant even though she got pregnant by me.
    She thought she could get pregnant and I would be sending her money each month so she would never have to work. I know this because she told me she was doing just that because she never wants to work again and she was young and only had one job in her life.

  • @ReadySetGo113
    @ReadySetGo113 14 дней назад +15

    I know a most of these girls are very naive, but some guys are real creeps. GUYS actually grow some balls, man up and keep it in your trousers. Enough is enough.

  • @rumpestillskin4671
    @rumpestillskin4671 14 дней назад +9

    The man is his own worst enemy.

  • @williamhickey2057
    @williamhickey2057 14 дней назад +13

    A Beautiful person!

  • @mkmobilegaminginthephilippines
    @mkmobilegaminginthephilippines 14 дней назад +6

    I remember Andrea from last year videos that's really sad that happened to her because she has a lot of potential to get a good man

  • @Hukahey
    @Hukahey 14 дней назад +8

    Yes Andrea is so keen to be looked after but so inexperienced. Feel for her and her little boy but she will need to learn better English if she really wants a foreigner. Paul how much does it cost to have English lessons and although like you ha ha we are to old but perhaps some financial help can get her into a better position to stabilise her life. Sounds like this is happening quite a bit so that is so disrespectful. Take care and hopefully in another year your interview will be more positive for Andrea. Cheers John

  • @stan1027
    @stan1027 14 дней назад +21

    So sad. Snake in the grass! He is lying!

  • @stanleyboothe4893
    @stanleyboothe4893 14 дней назад +4

    I feel bad about this situation. I was afraid this was going to happen. I wish Andrea and her baby the best.

  • @JohnSmith-ti2kp
    @JohnSmith-ti2kp 14 дней назад +44

    "He is a selfish person", but she is not, she only had his interests in mind when she baited him into a baby, expecting child and mother lifetime monetary support.

    • @AbsolutelyPeter
      @AbsolutelyPeter 14 дней назад +15

      Doesn't matter. Any guy who is a real man takes responsibility. This excuse you are making for him doesn't hold. If you can't take the lead in a long/short-term relationship with a woman, then you've chosen to play a game you're not up for.

  • @donaldhelie115
    @donaldhelie115 14 дней назад +14

    Whatever this guy should be reported Bi and be deported and blacklisted immediately and forced to pay child support

  • @Chickenlegs836
    @Chickenlegs836 14 дней назад +11

    HI 👋 BABY MAE & OLD DOG 🐶 BROTHER. First hope you heal well brother 🙏. Andrea I remember 👍. A real man doesn’t do this to a women PERIOD!! HE IS A POS!! Both sides should be using protection as well so this doesn’t happen. Lastly take your time & really get to know someone before you give them yourself. Sad now the baby suffers the most:((Good luck 🍀 Andrea🙏😉🌺. BOK BOK Blessings 🙏🌸🌼🌺

    • @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
      @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234  14 дней назад +3

      Thank you for your kind words

    • @Chickenlegs836
      @Chickenlegs836 14 дней назад

      ⁠Hey brother 👋😉👍. My pleasure and really sickening that this POS used Andrea!! Gets under my skin brother:((. Hope 🙏the best for your recovery ❤️‍🩹 & Andreas & babies life ahead. More education needed about life for these women. Andrea seems authentic & a real caring woman 😉. If I’m blessed 😇 to visit in 2026 I hope to connect with you both 🙏👍😉. Blessings 🙏🌸🌼🌺@@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234

  • @Warf_459
    @Warf_459 14 дней назад +16

    Poor child!! She is so naive.. I do remember her from earlier. Somehow I knew something like this would happen to her. Personally, I would not have left her like that. I'm a widower though. Plus I would be giving her at least 23,000 pesos a month. That's a pretty decent amount in the Ph but only interest off of one of my accounts. I've never been able to find a good Filipina, only scammers

  • @Mark-bi4pp
    @Mark-bi4pp 14 дней назад +21

    She is very cute. If I were younger I would be interested

    • @AC3Phistos
      @AC3Phistos 14 дней назад +26

      go to the nearest eye clinic asap!

    • @therealmvp232
      @therealmvp232 14 дней назад +27

      Wow, you want a girl with a newborn

  • @DesertVox
    @DesertVox 14 дней назад +17

    That's evil. He should find a way to support his child.

  • @mkmobilegaminginthephilippines
    @mkmobilegaminginthephilippines 14 дней назад +3

    Not Andrea noooooooooo

  • @marcrichard7251
    @marcrichard7251 14 дней назад +8

    He can go to jail for cheating on his wife! So selfish and this is what a looser looks like. And I don’t like the term but it fits in this case.😢

  • @williamhickey2057
    @williamhickey2057 14 дней назад +2

    Great if you make outreach.

  • @rickyc5207
    @rickyc5207 14 дней назад +4

    I’m sorry to here this anywhere it’s sad some people have no morels

  • @budphillips8235
    @budphillips8235 14 дней назад +22

    Sad, society no longer abide in God's Law

  • @williamhickey2057
    @williamhickey2057 14 дней назад +2

    Please make outreach

  • @EricvonDorp191
    @EricvonDorp191 14 дней назад +7

    Life is hard, and she is younger than my daughter (25) I think that if I stay in the Philippines summer of 2025 I will find many stories like this. I hope she will find the right guy with a normal age gap max. 10 years... But hard to find a good one, I think...

    • @JOHNNYSD-43
      @JOHNNYSD-43 14 дней назад +14

      nomal age gap? hahaa you still dont understand

    • @EricvonDorp191
      @EricvonDorp191 14 дней назад +3

      @@JOHNNYSD-43 Maybe I don't....

  • @johnbergeron9997
    @johnbergeron9997 14 дней назад +8

    Wow Paul she is gorgeous 😍

  • @bieragaino440
    @bieragaino440 14 дней назад +4

    Hmmm , beautiful woman.

  • @henkflorisse8316
    @henkflorisse8316 14 дней назад +3

    wonder why she had baby with him already and not wait until she really know the guy but its is what it is thou but who know when am come to ph maybe will have really good talk with her if she wants anyway ,am honest open and direct trust me on that and sure am sorry for her 😊 if she maybe willing to wait for 2 years until am getting my pension but maybe before that LDR

  • @mkmobilegaminginthephilippines
    @mkmobilegaminginthephilippines 14 дней назад +6

    Andrea is awesome

  • @BonnersFerry
    @BonnersFerry 14 дней назад +11

    I hope that she sues thay guy in Filipino court

  • @williamhickey2057
    @williamhickey2057 14 дней назад +1

    ok if not

  • @brucesuperman6120
    @brucesuperman6120 14 дней назад +6

    She's so sweet and amazing i really want to be with her ❤

  • @stevenrodda6901
    @stevenrodda6901 14 дней назад +11

    She has nothing to say about having a baby. Just because she got pregnant she doesnt have to have the baby. Theres ways in the philippines that a lady can rid herself of the baby. Sure most people here want to keep the baby ut there are ways to rid herself of the baby. Research it dont be stupid if u cant afford a baby dont have one😊

  • @brucesuperman6120
    @brucesuperman6120 14 дней назад +4

    I'd be willing to be her boyfriend and future husband please ❤