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  • @dewilew2137
    @dewilew2137 10 месяцев назад +316

    I needed to hear this today. Thanks doc! 🤗
    I’m also shocked to hear that you have any “haters” at all. You’re the least problematic person on the internet. I think this proves that the problem is the internet, not you.

    • @TangerineTulip
      @TangerineTulip 9 месяцев назад +8

      💯

    • @mamachicken4602
      @mamachicken4602 9 месяцев назад +8

      Wow! Such a good comment! Maybe the best comment ever!

    • @maboleth
      @maboleth 9 месяцев назад +3

      Most of the time it's the problem at the other end. People are extremely projecting.

  • @williamwebb7917
    @williamwebb7917 10 месяцев назад +239

    You seem like a great doctor and a gem of a human being.

  • @caitopotato5519
    @caitopotato5519 10 месяцев назад +342

    As someone starting medical school at 35, I love this video! Almost everyone has tried to talk me out of it, but I know my capabilities and that it's the right decision for me.

    • @larrymaloney877
      @larrymaloney877 10 месяцев назад +43

      I have two friends who enter medical school after age 40. Both have great careers.

    • @ccl1195
      @ccl1195 10 месяцев назад +16

      Congratulations. Don't stop.

    • @MossyMozart
      @MossyMozart 10 месяцев назад

      @caitopotato5519 - If you attend Cornell, the setting is beautiful.
      --------------
      I went there once right after the semester ended to see about transferring into their architecture program and was given a tour of the department. The building where all the design cubicles were located was so relatable. There was drafting paper crumpled all over the place, right up to my knees. We had to wade through it like a paper blizzard. There were sleeping bags and pillows left under many of the drafting tables and somebody had scrawled on the wall, "If MLK had attended Cornell, he never would have had a dream!"
      ----------------
      I didn't go there, though I wanted to, and since I fit into several of their desired demographics, they wanted me, but it was expensive and so very far from my partner. I would not get home very often.
      ---------------
      Architecture is not medicine, true, but the moral of the story is : be prepared for an intense learning experience if you go there. All the best of luck!

    • @madusutra2375
      @madusutra2375 10 месяцев назад +9

      Great success!

    • @loridavis5699
      @loridavis5699 10 месяцев назад +7

      Wow! Impressive. My som is currently interviewing

  • @helenm6732
    @helenm6732 10 месяцев назад +176

    As the Asian grandmother you didn’t know you had, I’m so proud of you. With your expertise and patience continue to reveal each individual’s beauty. Don’t do dishes and insure those hands.😊

    • @dana102083
      @dana102083 9 месяцев назад +4

      ❤❤❤

    • @IMWeira
      @IMWeira 9 месяцев назад +1

      Good advice but they don't listen. Trust me! Twice I've had to go in and pull a small instrument set. So one Doc could suture the other one up. They are men, and that means saw and hammers and fish hooks. They find a way.

    • @Ten_Thousand_Locusts
      @Ten_Thousand_Locusts 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@IMWeirawhat the fuck are you talking about

    • @OneOfUsHere
      @OneOfUsHere 9 месяцев назад +2

      His hands mesmerize me not only how flawless they are but how he uses them in other videos.

    • @Grlmotors
      @Grlmotors 8 месяцев назад

      ⁰p​@@IMWeira

  • @erinbialowas3932
    @erinbialowas3932 10 месяцев назад +93

    Your wife and family are so fortunate to have you. Its obvious what a sweet, kind person you are. Best wishes!

  • @lucia3
    @lucia3 10 месяцев назад +151

    A Slovak here. My brother's name is Igor. I've always called him Iggy :-)
    Thanks for sharing your story. All my family and teachers discouraged me from going to medical school. Eventually, I ended up in a specialty that was "impossible" to get into. Now I'm on a quest to do another impossible thing :-) I think that people underestimate what they can achieve by simply having a goal and not giving up.

    • @thespaceram2879
      @thespaceram2879 10 месяцев назад +2

      Igor assistant of Dr. Franken.

    • @jujutrini8412
      @jujutrini8412 10 месяцев назад +2

      Iggy Pop.

    • @thespaceram2879
      @thespaceram2879 10 месяцев назад

      I'm going to call you Iga Hilda (Iggy Hilly).

    • @h0rriphic
      @h0rriphic 10 месяцев назад +8

      Iggy is a delightful nickname.

    • @MossyMozart
      @MossyMozart 10 месяцев назад +4

      @lucia3 - There used to be a cute newspaper cartoon character called Iggy.

  • @pearlhartney9
    @pearlhartney9 10 месяцев назад +148

    ''The doubters and hater are just stepping stones on our path to greatness'' Here here! What a great quote.

    • @lunareclipse3242
      @lunareclipse3242 9 месяцев назад +4

      I absolutely love that and will be using that quote for my two special needs teenagers for inspiration ❤

    • @warlady9251
      @warlady9251 6 месяцев назад +1

      indeed 😊

  • @lpgirl
    @lpgirl 10 месяцев назад +106

    We need more doctors like you.

    • @sunshineproductions4122
      @sunshineproductions4122 9 месяцев назад +2

      So True! Very well-rounded & excellent communication with us. I find that any expert in their field that's willing to calmly explain & and not be checking their watch to show that they're giving us something for free is a natural born teacher.

  • @chantsmantrasandrelaxation5079
    @chantsmantrasandrelaxation5079 10 месяцев назад +107

    I know you don't need to hear this, but I'm sorry that the ignorance of others caused you pain in your childhood. Your parents sound like they were able to explain intellectually, but that hurt can be hard to overcome emotionally. You have a great strength of character that shows through. Thank you for sharing some of your life story. I hope your forward journey is less about overcoming obstacles and more about enjoying goals, achievements and a happy life.

  • @skipperbee
    @skipperbee 10 месяцев назад +162

    Aside from your audience, I’m sure your daughter looks up to you and having this video is a cool way for them to learn about you and be reminded that being in the face of adversity doesn’t mean you back down :)

  • @Elizabethselby
    @Elizabethselby 10 месяцев назад +5

    Someone told my 5 yr old in USA she wasn't admitted to their school, because she was a slow reader. She graduated from Cardiff Summa and is at Cambridge doing a Masters degree in law. Listen to yourself. Trust yourself.

  • @hawkflower1
    @hawkflower1 10 месяцев назад +31

    I have lived with Alopecia Universalis for 40+ years. I wore wigs for the first 15+ years.
    I've been following you for a while and have been very impressed with you, and your struggle with AU. I can't fathom haters. You are an outstanding human being.
    FYI the second time I received a cancer dx I quit wearing wigs. I chose to reinvent myself as 'hairfree' and proud of it. I started to shine. I wear spectacular earrings, a temporary tattoo, glitter, feather earcuffs, wreaths, and sometimes funny or statement hats.
    I took back my personal power.
    Gary, I see you as someone with a strong sense of self. Haters are broken and somewhat envious or jealous individuals. Don't let them bother you. You do you! ❤❤🎉❤❤

  • @metaral
    @metaral 10 месяцев назад +55

    When I met you, I knew you were different than most physicians. Your journey is/was a remarkable one. I thank you for your kindness and professionalism. I wish more of our peers had the same genuine nature as you do! Never change! You were meant to be an example for others. Bravo.

  • @lifeasjacky
    @lifeasjacky 10 месяцев назад +53

    After hearing about everything you went through with your autoimmune hair loss condition, I personally find it even more impressive and admirable to know that at the end of the day, you chose to be the one that can make a major impact and improvement on people’s appearance and life in general.
    Instead of being discouraged, jealous or envious of those who are able to have certain things you may not have, you made the decision to rather help those who might experience the same hardships as you did.
    Coming back to the comment that was made by said senior surgeon, I would undoubtedly prefer being treated by a surgeon (or any medical professional) that not only has the skills to help me out but also happens to be an expert by experience.

  • @CharGC123
    @CharGC123 10 месяцев назад +5

    A doctor who rose above the constraints of our broken medical system is a hero in my eyes!

  • @nicoleancell6860
    @nicoleancell6860 10 месяцев назад +51

    I think what I love about you the most is your honesty and integrity. This is sadly not prevalent in the medical community today. Maybe because of stress, pressure at work, so many factors that stress employees at the expense of the patient. You endeavor to take your time and do your best job at the expense of some profit loss- I applaud your work ethic! Perhaps its a bit of perfectionism. Fortunately you were able to branch out away from the machine and start your own business. The world needs more physicians like you (especially in other specialties)

  • @greatsmiles
    @greatsmiles 10 месяцев назад +6

    If one of my sons ever called a child a “comi” they would have gotten punished! I did not put up with any negativity towards anyone because of where they came from, the color of their skin, a person speaking a different language or how much money they had. Parents not teaching their children these things is another big problem with many. Look at where you are now! Spectacular. Much Love

  • @betteramulet50
    @betteramulet50 10 месяцев назад +50

    The fact that you’re so attentive to detail, interested in what you do, and calm is what draws me to your advice and expertise.
    My dad is a dentist, and he has a very similar philosophy to you - take your time, allow enough in the bookings to get it right, and make sure you do as good a job as you can. The rushing is built into the practice of medicine in order to offset the overheads of study and surgical facilities etc, so they can make money after all the long build up. My dad is a TERRIBLE businessman, but a phenomenal dentist with a lot of deep knowledge and care - I’m glad to see you have both the qualities of a passionate and considered surgeon, but enough business nous to do things like this RUclips channel that can help bolster your business. Finding that balance between passion for your craft and putting food on the table is tricky, but I love the approach you’re taking 🙂

    • @helenm6732
      @helenm6732 10 месяцев назад +2

      If your father is still practising, I would like his contact information.

  • @sofiakamalyan4411
    @sofiakamalyan4411 10 месяцев назад +42

    Igor, or Gary, it’s always so fulfilling to watch your videos! You definitely seem very calm and open and really such a positive guy, thanks for that! even though I am not anywhere near the plastic surgery stuff, the way you explain it makes it much more interesting. Your Ukrainian origin and name melts my heart , my closest friend is Igor and of Ukrainian origin as well (I know it’s not that impressive😅 but somehow it feels so nice). Hope all this negative stuff would not get in your way but just know you are great as you are!

  • @elvenkind6072
    @elvenkind6072 10 месяцев назад +14

    I have no interest in plastic surgery, but I deeply admire anyone in the medical profession with a genuine desire to help people, and you have a really nice personality. Wishing the very best for your home country, Ukraine, and hoping for the freedom of all of Ukraine as soon as possible, with as little suffering as possible. With warm thoughts and the best of wishes from Alv, here in (by now) frozen Norway, and my black, lucky cat Lucis. 🙂

  • @jessicaseomoon1196
    @jessicaseomoon1196 10 месяцев назад +16

    Going bald as a man is hard enough but going through alopecia is another level. Dr Gary, I watch your videos because it’s honest and its evident that you’re a quality and genuine doctor. Thanks for sharing your expertise and good medical advice.

    • @georgelesteve4707
      @georgelesteve4707 9 месяцев назад

      Exhilarating to receive such a well described account of your progress. I anticipate continued success !

  • @markmedley6849
    @markmedley6849 10 месяцев назад +25

    This story should be told to everyone facing all the struggles life dishes out. You are an amazing human being. I'm so happy for your success.

  • @charmsz566
    @charmsz566 10 месяцев назад +32

    I almost burst into tears when you talked about your success after a less than stellar Step1 score. I am applying to residencies now and since Step1 went pass/fail, I am stuck with my only score being from Step2, which I also got a mediocre score on. Unfortunately, my academic grades suffered a bit too since I was so focused on extracurricular activities (research, societies, mentorship/leadership, volunteering, etc) I feel devastated by my lack of interviews right now despite my extremely well-rounded application and prior career before med school. Every day that I don't hear from another residency program my heart aches and I worry about not matching. But this video gave me so much hope. Thank you

    • @drgarylinkov
      @drgarylinkov  9 месяцев назад +8

      You'll do great, don't worry.

  • @madalalo
    @madalalo 10 месяцев назад +26

    I really needed to hear that. I am a premed graduate, and I am currently studying for the MCAT. Someone straight up told me that I can never be a doctor because I am too timid, according to them. Even though it was from a complete stranger, it broke me and made me doubt myself for a while. I am shy and on the introverted side. I have no support of any kind, except the support of my mom and sister. They are supporting me emotionally as much as they can. I will never give up! Thank you for sharing this.

    • @Magund1
      @Magund1 10 месяцев назад +4

      Don’t give up. The person hating sounds like he’s going thru life as a bully. Turn your back to bullies, your goal is in the opposite direction. ❤

    • @p.s.shnabel3409
      @p.s.shnabel3409 10 месяцев назад +3

      Stress can play a number on us humans.
      You're going through an extreme phase right now. And it is possible that your personal response to this kind of pressure is to withdraw into yourself? Some people feel re-energized when they interact with other humans, others feel drained. Neither one is better or worse, it is just the way we are.
      So, you do whatever is best for you. Practice self-care and self-awareness, m'okay?

    • @madusutra2375
      @madusutra2375 10 месяцев назад +5

      Rooting for you from this side!

    • @rieyuki
      @rieyuki 9 месяцев назад +2

      Keep at it! Hopefully you’ll get in somewhere, and there’s no such thing as a “bad medical school” in the US, since they are all heavily regulated, accredited, and have to keep with ongoing standards.
      If you don’t get in your first attempt, you have a bunch of options to do to strengthen your application for 2nd attempt, even 3rd attempt. Start with those Student Doctor Network forums for ideas. It’s all dependent on how bad you want to go to medical school. Here’s an extreme story: I coached a friend who had a 2.7 GPA in undergrad (for a good reason - he was in ROTC where you can get energy, focus, and studying hours sucked away from you). He had just gotten out of the Air Force as a pilot, and it had been maybe 12 years since he graduated college, and had since proven himself academically (thus overcoming the question of “if you only got a 2.7, how do you expect to make it through the amount and difficulty of studying and absorbing a med school curriculum”). I didn’t make any phone calls for him, and on his 2nd try, he got into U. Chicago (!) on his own merit.
      Whatever you do, don’t give up and apply to chiropractic school, thinking it’s the same thing. It’s not. Another person I coached did exactly that, thinking all doctors are the same. Chiropractic isn’t based on rigorous peer-reviewed literature and is the furthest thing from evidence based. Chiropractors are not integrated into the medical field because of this (unlike osteopathic medicine, dentistry and podiatry, which are), and patient visits are not covered by insurance. A national chiropractic meeting doesn’t have speakers talking about latest scientific discoveries, but instead new ways to bill patients. Chiropractors then compete against each other for patients in a cutthroat way, on top of always having their clinical methods questioned. My friend really regrets making the decision to become a chiropractor now.

    • @rieyuki
      @rieyuki 9 месяцев назад +2

      As for whoever told you you’re too timid to be a doctor, don’t listen to them. What do they know about being a doctor?
      It’s ok to be shy and introverted. Many people, when young, are shy and introverted, even as medical students and beyond.
      Being premed can be lonely if none of your friends are premed and can’t relate. But medical students tend to be really close. It’s hard to be a loner, and you will have fellows students and others providing support, rooting for you!

  • @ewamarta2398
    @ewamarta2398 10 месяцев назад +21

    You're a magnificent human being, Dr. Linkov: brave, dedicated, calm, caring, warm and so bright 💫
    I watch your videos to hear your stories and see your spirit at work. Thank you!

  • @chantalmarieee
    @chantalmarieee 10 месяцев назад +34

    I really enjoyed hearing your story, Dr.Linkov. You’re amazing at what you do & you are very personable.

  • @shealevine4152
    @shealevine4152 10 месяцев назад +20

    You are an inspiration Dr. Linkov- as a person and a professional. I wish you continued success in your field. Your story has restored some of the mistrust that I have been feeling these past few years regarding the medical field. You have turned some of your trials and tribulations into some strong, admirable character strengths that many people lack. Thank you for sharing your story.

  • @snappycattimesten
    @snappycattimesten 10 месяцев назад +5

    1. There’s a F tonne of work that went into a 10 minute summary of your education.
    2. I’m not surprised you went through crap, as that life experience either makes you empathetic or jaded. You are the former obviously.
    3. Thanks for sharing and being vulnerable. That’s courage right there.

  • @conarc-d1037
    @conarc-d1037 10 месяцев назад +6

    The irony that they called you a communist as a derogatory term back then, when so my New Yorkers are communist / socialist now. If those people only saw the devastation of communism. Great video.

  • @veronicahardy9634
    @veronicahardy9634 10 месяцев назад +22

    What an inspiring journey you have had! There are many of us that enjoy your content and only wish you well; we applaud you.

  • @jenniferivey6789
    @jenniferivey6789 10 месяцев назад +14

    Your voice is so calming and you are so knowledgeable. I wish I could be a patient of yours. I enjoy your posts.....thank you..

  • @amylandry4108
    @amylandry4108 9 месяцев назад +4

    Kids are so freaking cruel and ignorant!!
    I love your channel and worked in a plastic surgery setting for over 10 years and loved it!
    Thank you for your great work and information ❤

  • @kyhliyang8191
    @kyhliyang8191 10 месяцев назад +31

    I've only seen some of your videos before. But somehow I just adored your tone and speech in teaching in the way you do. I could tell you were more than another plastic surgeon 😊. From a bullied kid to being the best comprehensively, in every thing in your field ❤ I'm wowed by your story of overcoming achievements 😊 be blessed!

  • @giannamarissa
    @giannamarissa 10 месяцев назад +11

    Gary, you have such a nice personality, really doesn't matter where are you from or how you look. We just need more people like you in this world❤

  • @annap4962
    @annap4962 10 месяцев назад +16

    I really appreciate the work you put online. As for your hair loss, I think it will just attract the right patients who will feel more comfortable being treated by someone who understands the stress of losing hair. As a female with some hair loss, that's why I chose to watch your channel. You've been constantly delivering very valuable knowledge, but more importantly - a calm feeling of reassurance and a list of potential solutions for the future.

  • @extracelestial9527
    @extracelestial9527 10 месяцев назад +5

    People are great at pointing out flaws and weaknesses in others, yet so poor at turning those criticisms upon them selves.
    I'm glad you follow your path no matter what.

  • @JW-kh9bm
    @JW-kh9bm 10 месяцев назад +13

    You have a lot of accolades and compliments here. I have been meaning to write you a message, but this video feels like the right one to respond to. You mentioned that you like the teaching aspect of being a doctor, and I appreciate that you do teach through RUclips. I am a self-taught medical transcriptionist of 32 years. I have spent most of my career transcribing from home, but I did have some years in which I worked at a few hospitals in their pathology department while were stationed in San Diego, some in the basement next to the morgue and some just near the grossing rooms. Let me tell you what! I was never so grateful to have the freedom to go next door and watch the pathologists gross surgical specimens and perform frozen sections. I was finally able to associate the anatomy to what I transcribed throughout the years. They were wonderfully patient in answering my questions (I have never met a doctor who doesn't like to teach). I had never seen a cervix. As I was pregnant, seeing that little funnel made me, as a first-time mom, a wee bit nervous about delivery. When you insert those anatomy charts into your presentation, I really, really appreciate that. Again, from a perspective of only listening to dictated H&P's, discharge summaries, consults, and operative notes, the visuals cement my medical knowledge. Thank you for those explanations! Julie from Central Texas.

  • @jinaregenez6532
    @jinaregenez6532 10 месяцев назад +9

    You seem like a calm rational being, you deserve all the success!

  • @PanteraRosa91
    @PanteraRosa91 10 месяцев назад +7

    From a Spanish woman here, THANK U SO MUCH for everything!! Your videos are very entertaining, informative and unique!! And you prove to be each time an outstanding professional. Please keep going and, no need to say this, never doubt yourself ever because your work is amazing!!!

  • @silverfox5109
    @silverfox5109 10 месяцев назад +13

    Hi, Dr. Gary, thank you for sharing your story. I’m also from Ukraine, came to US in my 30s, after completing residency and fellowship became a CV anesthesiologist, and my eldest son’s name is George (Гоша)!! Best of luck to you and your practice ! Your patients are very lucky to have you as their doctor! ❤️ from Virginia! Elena. 🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @AnnaBucciarelli
    @AnnaBucciarelli 9 месяцев назад +3

    Oh my goodness! We were both born in Kiev 😊 small world! I’ve been enjoying your channel for years and had no idea 🇺🇦 ps: never mind the trolls! You are obviously an incredibly talented Dr With so much compassion for your patients. The haters always seem to come out of the woods after 100k 😏

  • @Blondehottie321
    @Blondehottie321 10 месяцев назад +2

    Igor sounds like a warriors name. You have accomplished so much for 38yo. Your an inspiration. Thanks for your inspirational and motivational words at the end of the video!

  • @toriahennesey
    @toriahennesey 10 месяцев назад +17

    "I got a wooden stick... so it all worked out" 😂😂

    • @itschelseakay
      @itschelseakay Месяц назад +1

      * inserts picture of said stick * 😆

  • @Mtz2604
    @Mtz2604 10 месяцев назад +10

    You rock Dr Gary! What a lovely story of resilience. Your parents raised you well and since your childhood you were a down to earth and mature kid. As you mentioned, good work ethic, hard work and dedication opened up a lot of doors for you. You had options to go and pursuit a more "money making" approach, but you owned your present at that moment and took risks that were well rewarded. You took them because you trusted in your dedication and willingness to achieve your goals and now here you are.
    What a great attitude to see your haters as motivation potential, and have some compassion for them because ignorance brings the worst of us sometimes.
    I'm glad to hear part of your story and it's a good example for all ages. Thank you for sharing it.

  • @andreeniem8780
    @andreeniem8780 10 месяцев назад +7

    I wouldn't take any comment made about your abilities personally Dr Gary, it's clear as day to see that you are a gentle and compassionate man looking to improve lives. The truth is much more likely that people would like to trust you but are afraid, and not afraid of you but of the question of facing their own fears about their bodies.
    People are desperate to believe that surgery will work and yet fixate on searching for any tiny clues, (no matter how preposterous) that it might not, to try to prepare for possible disappointment if surgery does not improve their appearance. It's the same thing as having a fear of rejection.
    Us pessimists know this very well lol

  • @timothytrueblood5939
    @timothytrueblood5939 10 месяцев назад +17

    You are an amazing young man; God bless you in along and successful medical career. I’ve used this video shared with my grandson who is a first year college student pursuing a medical career - your words in this video are a great role model for the next generation of healthcare professionals!!!
    Thank you!!!

  • @terfalicious
    @terfalicious 10 месяцев назад +6

    I love your approach! If I could afford plastic surgery, I would want someone like you to do it - the 'fast and furious' mindset of some doctors these days scares me! I don't feel 'seen' as a human being with fears, hopes and a history that landed me in their office....
    I am so proud of you overcoming bullies and nay-sayers. Your family must be thanked too for supporting you; they have reason to be proud as well. Best wishes on your continued journey and many blessings to you and yours!

  • @karinvannieuwenhuizen9659
    @karinvannieuwenhuizen9659 10 месяцев назад +2

    You are a wonderful human being. I’m a retired emergency med PA-C and so identify with your work ethic that is patient centric. I wish our medical system allowed providers to provide good care instead of fast care.

  • @FrankPappacoda
    @FrankPappacoda 10 месяцев назад +11

    Thanks for sharing your stories Gary. It's motivational for a fellow Long Islander entering the healthcare field.

  • @idahardy4052
    @idahardy4052 10 месяцев назад +19

    Thank you for sharing your life story.
    I just want to say that kids - some kids and some adults- will look for things and when they find your differences, the things that make you unique or different from others, they will tease you for it.
    I don’t know anyone who wasn’t teased at school.
    We came here from eastern Europe - Lithuania - in the 70’s. My teachers told me (fifth grade) that there is no country called Lithuania. At the time it was occupied by the USSR, but the US supposedly didn’t recognize the occupation (something like that). But the teachers were so adamant about Lithuania doesn’t exist… and the kids teased me for my name, too.
    And later in high school for my figure. Small waist, bigger hips and bust.
    Anyway, these things were normal in my family, but different for the kids in school.
    I’m a 60-year old grandmother now and I want anyone who sees this to know that it’s ok to be different.
    It doesn’t make you better or worse than anyone else.
    When kids tease, you’re supposed to let that make you stronger.
    One time, in high school, we had a combined gym class for a week because the lady teacher was away (or maybe sick). So the man teacher took us all outside and had us play softball.
    That’s ok with me - I have good eye hand coordination but I didn’t play sports - and so I hit the ball and started running . Then I heard everyone laughing 😮 so I slowed down and turned around and there was the man gym teacher following me and running (like a girl) and exaggerating my awkward feminine run. I was a young teenager - and this was very upsetting though I pretended to laugh along with everyone.
    But I skipped gym class the rest of the week.
    And that one event made me so self conscious, that I refused to wear a bathing suit my mother bought for me, whether at the pool or at the beach. I had offers to do modeling and print ads, but I was too embarrassed.
    I was also too embarrassed to do any sports so I played violin (and tried to be invisible) until my senior year and then I played tennis and was on the dance team.
    It wasn’t until I was in my 30’s that I started getting into sports and fitness. I got my graduate degree - a MS in Health and Kinesiology - and started teaching PE at community college.
    So the girl who hated gym class became a gym teacher…

    • @anakrivak6739
      @anakrivak6739 10 месяцев назад

      And the man "teacher" was a piece of s..t, who wasn't a teacher at all, and who deserved to be fired. And forbidden to do any kind of work with children, or even with people.

    • @idahardy4052
      @idahardy4052 10 месяцев назад

      I’m sorry - for some reason I can’t see the reply.

    • @chantaldesravines7801
      @chantaldesravines7801 10 месяцев назад +1

      Beautiful ❤Beautiful ❤.. So Encouraging ‼️

    • @sharontownend5750
      @sharontownend5750 10 месяцев назад

      I love your story ❤

  • @sarah.j.777
    @sarah.j.777 10 месяцев назад +5

    Such an intelligent & successful yet humble man. We really love you, thank you for being you 💗

  • @bmoores84
    @bmoores84 10 месяцев назад +3

    My hairs fine now. But I still watch your videos, because of you.

  • @sparklingice4183
    @sparklingice4183 10 месяцев назад +7

    Thanks for sharing your life story which is one of perseverance and hard work.

  • @OnlyTheTruthSorry
    @OnlyTheTruthSorry 10 месяцев назад +4

    You're the type of dr every patient wants to have!!!

  • @heidihi345
    @heidihi345 10 месяцев назад +2

    Congratulations for overcoming adversity you are a real gem

  • @yvonnesmith8245
    @yvonnesmith8245 9 месяцев назад +3

    I’m so sorry you were bullied as a youngster. I think you were an absolutely adorable little boy. That should not have happened to you. I was bullied for being Asian in white middle-class America in the mid-1960s.

  • @andrealinalfonso
    @andrealinalfonso 10 месяцев назад +9

    Loved this video 🙌 im slow in my work as a tattoo artist as well, but the results are what matter to me. In a rush I can’t do my best work. Love to see doctors with this values 🫶

  • @flonoiisana4647
    @flonoiisana4647 6 месяцев назад +1

    Gary, I have a sixth sense to smell bad people from a distance. NO ONE is perfect,but I could tell before learning about your personal stories that you are an honest person with good ethics and integrity. I subscribed because you are a good teacher! I'm learning a lot about procedures I will never do and get a bit of the gossipy part too.😂

  • @maudessen573
    @maudessen573 10 месяцев назад +12

    You’re the greatest, Dr. Gary. Thank you for sharing your story and your encouragement. Great editing too!

  • @heathergustafson4237
    @heathergustafson4237 10 месяцев назад +1

    You have a career that helps people. Keep up the great work you love! Hold your family tight. That’s most important

  • @blessedbee7
    @blessedbee7 10 месяцев назад +1

    You seem Like a great person who takes his time and cares about his patients.

  • @LisaD007
    @LisaD007 10 месяцев назад +5

    You are the epitome of a positive role model and an inspiration to others. I am excited to see how the rest of your life’s story unfolds. Thank you for sharing your unique journey with us and how and why you took the particular route to success that you did.

  • @valeria-militiamessalina5672
    @valeria-militiamessalina5672 9 месяцев назад +1

    I always listen to his youtube output at bed time because of his drawl; the listless, monotone voice calms me down and helps me fall asleep.

  • @andrewhazenberg3398
    @andrewhazenberg3398 10 месяцев назад

    I wish the world had more people like Dr. Gary Linkov.. He is such a smart , friendly, positive person. 👍🤗

  • @smiley19881999
    @smiley19881999 9 месяцев назад +2

    absolutely the most accessible and straight talking medical channel on YT. A true expert in his field but explains things in such a relatable and down to earth way. this channel was fundamental in providing me with advice with making some big aesthetic decisions of my own -FINALLY took the plunge with corrective rhinoplasty due to combat sport competition which i had been procrastinating over for years.. Surgery has changed my life, so thank you Gary for all your videos man and keep it up!

  • @simongoodwin5253
    @simongoodwin5253 10 месяцев назад +4

    Oh, Man! So proud for what you have achieved!
    Be proud...you are amazing.

  • @lauramason5667
    @lauramason5667 10 месяцев назад +5

    Thank you for sharing your story. I had no idea about your background. I appreciate you more than ever and your frank and honest views on the economic side of medicine are much appreciated and need to be discussed., Keep the conversation going!

  • @rhonda6791
    @rhonda6791 10 месяцев назад +1

    Dear Dr Gary, I think I speak for everyone. We watch you for your obvious sincerity and sweetness, nothing can top that. Thank you for sharing your story.

  • @AzDesertFoxx
    @AzDesertFoxx 10 месяцев назад +1

    I'd like to believe the majority of your subscribers truly enjoy your content. there will always be people who aren't happy unless they are putting someonw down.

  • @JustMe-fb5lq
    @JustMe-fb5lq 10 месяцев назад +5

    I'm so impressed with how well you carried yourself during all the events as you were growing up and am so sorry it happened to you. You seem like a person I would totally trust as a plastic surgeon. I mean not a person that I would probably trust, but definitely trust to do work on me. You seem like a fantastic person and these people who try to bring you down are usually the ones who are jealous or insecure with themselves and stay in their homes and being on the computer and not going outside. Congratulations on all your hard work!!

  • @RevDog777
    @RevDog777 9 месяцев назад +1

    Quite a journey, we on youtube are lucky to have you here!

  • @tomaskorec4088
    @tomaskorec4088 7 месяцев назад +1

    Actually Gary, from my point of view, you not having hair makes you more empathetic and connected to problems you solve for your clients. It was so liberating to talk to guys who do SMP treatment about my hair loss, because they all started as customers before becoming the SMP practitioners. If I went for hair transplant to your clinic, I would feel the same way. However, I decided to go down the path of SMP at the end, but it was a lot because of all your honesty and true information you give about hair surgeries and the bigger picture of hair loss treatment (need of medical treatment, expected results, etc). I could have made an educated decision while considering my expectations, what I want and don't want, or what I am willing to do or don't do. ...thank you

  • @beckykay9178
    @beckykay9178 10 месяцев назад +1

    Dr. Gary, your kindness, compassion, and integrity are more beautiful than any procedure could make a person.

  • @bebreyes4766
    @bebreyes4766 10 месяцев назад +8

    Wow! What a great video! Really felt privileged to hear all your early struggles and how you overcame them. It was very commendable to share your story. I love your sense of humor. You’re a very very nice man, not just a nice doctor, but a nice man! ❤️!

  • @catherineway4922
    @catherineway4922 9 месяцев назад +2

    You are such a kind ,clever and gentle man. I can’t believe you have haters. But as you said it would be beneficial if they educated themselves but realistically they are probably sad little people. I follow you from Australia and learn so much from your videos. You are an inspiration.

  • @itschelseakay
    @itschelseakay Месяц назад

    Professionals who take in all the information and experiences and make their own educated decisions they think are best for themselves are the best type of professionals to have in this world. Your patients and your field are lucky to have you!

  • @user-dr7pt4iw6e
    @user-dr7pt4iw6e 10 месяцев назад +2

    Be True to Thine Own Self!! That's you! Keep doing what you're doing. A young man with integrity! You guys are far and few between!!! You're an inspiration and role model for so many!! As long as you are you, you'll never fail!!! Stay humble in your success 😊❤

  • @anakrivak6739
    @anakrivak6739 10 месяцев назад +6

    Negative comments and provocations, as well as negativity in general, is usually not due to ignorance and not understanding. It is due to jealousy and viciousness - being a lowlife. Those kinds of persons know what they are doing ("busting your chops"). And they are not joking - they are humiliating. It is just badness and rottenness of those people. That is the real harsh truth. It is very nice of you to try to reasonably explain those types of pathetic people, who were trying to humiliate you and insult you. But they do not deserve it. Because they do understand the way they have chosen to deal with their own frustrations and failures - by humiliating others. An older surgeon "busted your chops"?! What is wrong with him? He refuses to acknowledge to himself that he should be treated by a couple of good psychiatrists. And considering himself a physician ... why would he need anyone to explain to him medical conditions regarding hair loss?! And why would you waste your time on him?! Explaining anything to a mean fool? To an aged fool who even admits that he was just provoking you - trying to humiliate you. You should not burden yourself by trying to be nice and a gentlemen to those kinds of lowlifes. You should just look at them the way they deserve (like they are not normal), step away from them, without shedding a word, and walk away - you know, like you go around trash you encounter in the streets. And just go around it and continue your way. Without even recognizing the existence of such individuals.

  • @amitabhstatton3236
    @amitabhstatton3236 10 месяцев назад +3

    I'm not a hater -- I'm a lover of your content. Please keep doing this. As Tony the Tiger said in the 1990's, "You're Great!"

  • @danilonunez3831
    @danilonunez3831 10 месяцев назад +2

    I needed this video right now. “Proving to ourselves that we were right all along”

  • @maureenturk8578
    @maureenturk8578 10 месяцев назад +4

    You have an amazing story Dr. Gary. I’m so glad you fought through all of the people who didn’t care - the naysayers - and are able to make such a difference with your patients. You’re best in class as a doctor and as a person.

  • @jcd5211
    @jcd5211 9 месяцев назад +1

    I’m so sorry you have to deal with nastiness. I really don’t understand why people do those things. I really appreciate your calm and careful attitude and demeanor.

  • @raigenhuss7030
    @raigenhuss7030 10 месяцев назад +1

    You just seem like such a great person, Dr. Linkov. I would trust you with a procedure if I needed one.

  • @haleyhauptman3309
    @haleyhauptman3309 9 месяцев назад

    Who could hate you!! You seem like the nicest person. I love how calm and knowledgeable and caring you are. Please don’t change!

  • @seebunlim
    @seebunlim 9 месяцев назад +1

    You’ve touched someone all the way on the other side of the globe! Highly inspirational.

  • @annalizheart
    @annalizheart 10 месяцев назад +10

    I really needed to hear this today thank you for sharing your story ❤

  • @rebeccabrown1951
    @rebeccabrown1951 10 месяцев назад +2

    Interesting. Hard work and determination in America are almost always sure steps toward success. I always appreciate the fair way you present your videos and observations. Congratulations and your decisions proved to be good ones.

  • @DV-vn8rj
    @DV-vn8rj 10 месяцев назад +21

    I love this so much! Thanks for being such a great example of resilience and hard work!

  • @sharonruddle4559
    @sharonruddle4559 10 месяцев назад +5

    This video was much more interesting than I thought it would be! 😆 Thank you for your insights into the field of medicine and your own beliefs. It was very uplifting too.

  • @Keepswimmingkeepswimming
    @Keepswimmingkeepswimming 10 месяцев назад +5

    Thanks for sharing your story! You’re a brave beautiful doctor. Your hard work, passion for your work have and will continue to pay off!

  • @Lyn_Marie_
    @Lyn_Marie_ 10 месяцев назад +1

    Born and raised in Long Islander girl here !! So much ignorance you encountered, when it should be more curiosity, interest, and wanting learn about someone. I have to be honest, after I subbed to your channel, I never realized you had no hair. It wasn’t until you talked about Alopecia, and Autoimmune disease that I realized. I loved what you said ‘use the haters as stepping stones.’ That’s a wonderful way of thinking !!

  • @sallygarlick4293
    @sallygarlick4293 6 месяцев назад +1

    You are a shining light: you are brilliant, kind, and inspiring. May God continue to bless and protect you and your loved ones.

  • @tacoscamp
    @tacoscamp 10 месяцев назад +1

    You're exceptional and everyone knows it, a high achiever with a firm ethical foundation. As Nick Faldo told Greg Norman on the 18th green after his infamous Sunday collapse at the 1996 Masters tournament, "Don't let the bastards get you down".
    We should all be so lucky as to have your success. The haters needs to find something real to get mad about. God knows there's enough horrible stuff in the world to hate on.

  • @Taluta394
    @Taluta394 9 месяцев назад +1

    Wow, thank you for sharing. Why people would trash you online, is beyond me? I realize it’s ignorance as you said, but there is a measure of meanness too. Very sorry these ‘haters’ are still harassing you like the 3rd graders making fun of your name. 🤦🏼‍♀️

  • @MossyMozart
    @MossyMozart 10 месяцев назад

    I know that Dr Linkov worked hard to get his hair back, but I really loved how distinctive and sculptural he looked without it. I miss that version of him. but i am glad that he is happy now.

  • @velvetbees
    @velvetbees 9 месяцев назад +1

    From the first video I saw of yours, I felt confidence in you because you radiate caring.

  • @evilpixiedance
    @evilpixiedance 5 месяцев назад

    I had a dual organ transplant over 12 years ago, kidney/panc. While the transplant was technically a success, the immunosuppression caused a number of complications, including 11 masses that were located throughout my skull. One of the densities began inserting into the brain. I had everything from a brain bleed to a midline shift to grand mal seizures. It has been a long way back. I still have trouble with concentration, which leads me to watching videos, though less often in recent years. I have a medical education I no longer use. I so enjoy watching your channel. My best friend from my undergrad years is a fan of plastic surgery. I often send her your videos, sometimes as a cautionary tale. Much appreciation for your dedication to your patients and audience. Thank you for sharing your story with us. Anything is possible in America, and I am glad your parents sought refuge here.

  • @Lily-wp8ol
    @Lily-wp8ol 9 месяцев назад

    Dr. Linkov, i have watched your videos off and on for a while. I have always enjoyed your low key, calm delivery, your explanations which are thorough and easy to follow. I admire your dedication to quality care vs. money and speed.
    Thank you for sharing your personal experiences. I have developed a great deal of respect for you. Not that it matters, but as a retired nurse I can assure you I do not "say" that lightly.

  • @peggyw5279
    @peggyw5279 10 месяцев назад +5

    You have a fascinating story, thanks for sharing so much of your personal life with us. It is a great lesson for those starting out in life, take the time to do your best work.

  • @grnddesign
    @grnddesign 9 месяцев назад +1

    Had no idea you were from Ukraine. I’m so sorry what is happening to your lovely country which I had the honor to visit way back in the 80’s. I’m glad to hear how you have overcome hardship & how smart you are & how hard you have worked for your success ❤