God Uses A Narcissist To Strengthen Your Life If... These 5 Things Are Happening
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The Royal We has helped Millions to escape the grip of narcissistic abuse. Here’s a deeper look into what narcissistic abuse looks like and steps to heal from it:
Narcissistic abuse looks like:
Lack of Empathy: Narcissists often show little to no empathy for others, making it easy for them to manipulate and exploit. Narcissists use various tactics such as gaslighting, love bombing, and devaluation to control and dominate their victims.
Common Tactics Used in Narcissistic Abuse:
Gaslighting: Making the victim doubt their own reality and sanity.
Love Bombing: Showering the victim with excessive attention and affection to gain control.
Devaluation: Undermining the victim’s self-worth through criticism, belittling, and emotional neglect.
Isolation: Cutting the victim off from their support systems to increase dependency on the abuser.
Triangulation: Using others to create jealousy or competition, keeping the victim feeling insecure.
Healing from Narcissistic Abuse
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Understand that you have been enduring narcissistic abuse. This awareness is the first step toward healing.
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Establish No Contact or Low Contact:
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Learn about narcissistic abuse and its effects. Knowledge is empowering and can help you recognize patterns and avoid future toxic relationships.
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Prioritize your physical, emotional, and mental well-being. Regular exercise, a healthy diet, adequate sleep, and mindfulness practices can all contribute to your recovery.
Set Boundaries:
Develop and maintain healthy boundaries in all your relationships.
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The narcissist is a test to help us be stronger
And more discerning!
Uh oh you hit the nail right on the head, PREACH!
Stay away from Newport Beach CA. It's the epicenter for narcissist!
I hope so specially when is you sister is heartbreaking
Sorry english is not my first language what is discernment ? And what has that to do with narcs?
@@yazzy6762 the ability to make better judgments/Assessments 🙌🏽
God stays close to the broken hearted
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Absolutely ✔
"The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit, a broken and contrite heart-these ,oh God, you will not despise." Psalm 51:17
Yes!🌹❤️
Beautifully said Jeff. Love ya man.
GOD allows narcs in our life, to learn to fight off evil, and recognize it. We are under spiritual warfare in these end days!
under mass psychosis.
Amen
The narcissist helped me see my flaws and I've came back stronger.
I know that this is completely true. B/c of my narcissistic abuse, I ran to Him. I started going back to Church and the first time in my life I found peace.
🙏Blessings 🙏
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Why is it a 'Him' ?? And didn't 'he' prevent the predator in the first place?? This makes absolutely no sense whatsoever....
My husband is like this at times it’s unbearable!!! Every time it makes me to get closer to God. Just difficult with a husband for 7 years like this!! Ensuring long suffering
Hallelujah!
Amen!!!!
This might be my favorite one yet! Great job! Narcissist are not good people, being around one definitely makes u start seeking out God!
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Melissa King yes I can relate
Yes yes nd yes 💯
Excellent comment Melissa!!
true
You hang on to God like never before and he pulls you through, no man or woman can do that
the narc shows you real evil and you don't want to go there, yes a narc makes you stronger thank God not them.
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Amen 🙏
Thank God
Thank God indeed. Amen , 🙏
@@kiyokowilkinson158 You are a light in a very dark world Kiyoko God has a mission of love for you dear one.
This is why I always say that everyone who has been in an abusive relationship he will become stronger than ever before!!! So true Kevin!!!
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I believe if you fall in a pit with one, it does strengthen your faith. However, I do not believe they are a God send.
Just on the outside.. but inside me, im dead
@@dayangfarhana694 only the alive people can feel pain or even mizery. Believe me if you make the inner work you will succeed not only the healing but when you remember your "relationship" with the narcissist you will laugh - it just takes a little time
Absolutely Teo
I was raised by a narcissistic mother, the wounds and the pain it has caused me in my life is unexplainable. I am a mother now and still working through so much, trying to find healing. The abuse has caused many health issues and chronic pain. Trying to rid myself of self deprecating thought patterns and negative core beliefs is beyond challenging. I'm clinging to Jesus.
My God
Ms. BRI
My mother is a psychiatric R.N.
And she is still the same
I am a 53 yr old disabled Army vet
I'm bi polar2
With ptsd from the military
I trust no one
My mother FORGED my signature to a 6 figure life insurance policy in 1993.
She intended to profit off my death
God had better plans for me
Still hurts
My mother is a narc - this guy is right - dude you ain’t gonna work through nothing she’s continuing to manipulate you simple as that
Wow 🥺 I am not alone I too suffer from this same pattern of having an narcissist parent
You can become stronger than others because your challenges have been stronger
@@tanishaproudie8386 so many!! Def not alone
My narc husband is a judge. Ugh!! I have not been more strong. God has healed my PTSD snd crushing anxiety. I am in the midst of leaving. If you stay, your boundaries have to be so tight in calling them out that you become like them. You cannot allow them to pull you away from the Lord.
Hi, Linda. It's been a while since you posted here. How are things going now? I really like your comment about the danger of becoming like the narcissist(s) in your life. I stopped trying to use my gifts in the church because I needed to find and keep my sanity.
Yes im in that process 🔥🔥🙏🏻🙌🏻
Yes indeed your exact correct.
I know
My life was destroyed by my 4 narc. ex gfs, I have been mentally, verbally abused by all of them since 2010 until my present gf who is 100 times a narc, now I have ptsd, trauma and depression, I am at an all time low of suicidal mode
I see toxic people sooner and I have been able to let my empathic self walk away. I'm not up to dealing with these people. I'm better with walking away.
The gift of discernment has finally arrived fully to you . Truth in Jesus surely frees you to see beyond the lying spirits. I too....am now able to SEE now that the scales have been removed from eyes
So thankful
yes this.
Absolutely.
Im 40 and finally learned
Cause their existence is less than useless
God is good always. Hes looking ahead of you and is in control. Praise him
Are you sure ?
Nice thought …but really? We can only hope so. But when you take a look around in this world…one can highly doubt that!
@@bikemike1118 agreed. I feel like the only entity that is in control in this world is Satan. The world is in chaos. And narcs seem to get free reign
@@80sbaby90 well, if you look at narcissists…they can be demons, true. But an entity like satan itself I don’t believe exists either. Every (being) has a good and a bad side within ( even people who think they belong to a ‚holy community‘ (that doesn’t exist for sure btw!) or a church. LOL
@@bikemike1118 yeah I can understand your way of thinking and I totally agree everyone has good and bad in them for sure. But I am of Christian faith so I truly believe we're in a spiritual battle or warfare in this world and narcs are the devil's dominions. But yeah I get it what you have a good point
The story of Joseph has been a favorite of mine since childhood,he is one of my hero's.
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Gloria, Yes!!! It is so amazing. Joseph was passing every test. I can't say that I have. I've always asked GOD, why all the suffering, and my ending is never like Job's Esther's or Joseph's???? I don't want to be king or Queen. I just want the blessings that GOD has called us to.💔
At least Joseph’s brothers were remorseful... if they had been narcissistic they would have tried to convince Joseph that he deserved to be thrown into that pit for some imagined evil that he supposedly did or that maybe he jumped into the pit himself because he was suicidal... lol
@@amandas687 true. I never thought of it that way. Great insight. Thanks for sharing.
I alwyas cried when i read about josef
My hero is Jesus
Absolutely true. I drew close to God as my marriage to a narcissist was ending. I'm closer to Jesus now than I've ever been!!
🙏Blessings 🙏
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What if kid is involved? What should we do God please guide me
@@joannali1345 Pray, Pray. God is more than able to fight for you and protect you and your child.
Thank you for this...
But whats the use if u r not allowed to live your life on earth when alive..n drawn closer to god ?
I haven't felt abandoned by God because the darkness was so bad you HAVE to strive for him
I have had nothing but narcissistic abuse my whole life and I’m in my late fifties. My abusive parents are dead, but my narcissistic sister and her horrible husband have been trying to perpetuate it. I really hope God has something good in store for me someday because this has done nothing but exhaust me. I moved out of state years ago, but am now getting ready to go no contact. I pray that everyone here finds peace and happiness someday.
Amen hope u find that peace and happiness too
God has a special place for your eternity
No contact will be a great gift
You have your good life now. You're away from the narc. Happiness is a choice. Be thankful for what you currently have, and that you recognize this for what it is, so it will never happen again. GOD will continue to reward you and bring you closer to him, if you focus on GOD.
That's the thing, I keep trying to get rid of one narcissist but everyone else seems to be narcissists too when I leave him. It's like the demon just follows me around and ruins my life. And it's so hard to explain to anyone.
@@Vee44869 That is GOD testing you, to see if you are strong enough, and aware enough, to refuse evil in your life. We are dealing with a spiritual battle on earth, and it's time to put the armor of GOD on! I pray that you get peace, and handle it well🙏😇
Yes he does! my whole life is a story about how God used a Narc to prepare me to be a future vessel for him.
Me tooooo
Narcissists should be used as a stepping stone to strengthen the empaths.
I agree
💯 although going through it has been quite challenging
I love how you talk about God bro. Alot of people are afraid to talk about God to not alienate part of the audience. I respect you for talking about God! 🙏 🕊️
Going through Narc abuse will make you hate the idea of outside validation.
Through the abuse I tolerated with a BPD wife God showed me that I need Him and I do not need people. Idolatry of a spouse or anyone is going to lead to destruction. I thank God for the chaos of my past and the peace and wisdom He will give if you seek Him. Jesus is Lord.
We can easily fall down to idolatry and dependence in relationships, mostly marriages..very hard to draw the line..how did you free yourself out?
This is absolutely true. For years I made an idol of my NPD/BPD husband (while considering myself a Christian), and wondered why my life was always in a state of chaos. God showed me that HE must truly be my source for everything I used to look to others for.
Amen 🙏🏾
Amen
@@JussSayin410same here
It seems like one major reason this is happening to me, is because I have never had clear boundaries…and I’m learning first-hand about things that I absolutely DO NOT want, exactly how I do not ever want to be treated by anyone! I must establish clear & healthy boundaries - basically if I don’t, I will lose my life…just like his ex did…
Narcissists hurt you but develop you. Sounds weird, but so true
How？can you explain more?
Literally happened to me. I was going to be homeless but was nice to a narcissist at work and they let me move in with them. Of course I paid rent(understandably.) The downside is I had NO freedom for the 2 years I lived with him I walked on eggshells for 2 years just to keep the peace. But during that period I was going inward and doing a lot of meditating. I was dropping any ego I felt was left in me. And then I moved out and my life has been working out beautifully. I have a much more powerful faith than ever before and see that everything has been happening for a reason.
I believe God opened my eyes to see the evil. I asked for a back bone. I had to have a back bone to stand up to the lies. I know the Lord wants me to leave this man. He also is "a believer" But I haven't seen the fruit in this man ever. I'm afraid. I'm not sure what will happen next. I find comfort knowing that Jesus has gone behind and before me. He is my refuge. How merciful He is. I keep hearing Isaiah 41.10 Fear not for I am with you. Be not dismayed for I Am your God.
Lord give me the strength to do Your will. Not mine. I can't do this without You. Please Jesus. In Jesus name I pray, amen.
@@cin337 I am doing well. I left and took my children to a domestic violence shelter. God has been so good to us! He has provided for us everything we could ever need. I am at peace. Focusing on the Lord now as I always should have been. How are you?
He definitely uses our pain. I had no idea what a narcissist was until I was in the middle of a 3 year relationship that ended in a discard 2 years ago. My breakdown was my awakening. We attract what is in us. I didn’t know I had low self esteem, self hatred, low self worth, shame, abandonment and rejection issues. I had zero self awareness. Through recovery and counseling I found out I was raised by a narcissistic mother. I chose my relationships from my wounds rather than my worth. I have not dated in two years, I have worked on those broken areas and have slowly been remade into His image. I have kept myself pure. I love God so much. He has done for me what I could not do for myself. I am forever thankful.
Hi Kevin ,, after the discard,, I wondered how I could of been so deceived ,,, I questioned my own sanity,, I am a Christian and I keep the lord close to me ,,I just always thought I was stronger ,, not letting evil in ,,I can honestly say that I’m a different person now,,, I survived the narcissist,, 👍🙏🕊🕊🕊🤗
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🙂 yup, i said the samething myself, it was definitely a Wake Up Call
Amennn. God let me escaped from 2 narcs..2 nefews. One is a flying monkey. I could ve die but God saved me on time. OMG.
Me too!! I didn’t understand how I was deceived while walking with God but looking back I can see how I let sin in and I let my guards down.
Hallelujah!
Wow, you said it! I lost everything trying to heal a narcissist but I remember begging God to show me my purpose and to show me the way. I am his humble servant and boy did he humble me but I am in the wilderness now searching. Thank you God,your servant Jodie
I am going through the exact same thing! I lost everything and he is doing better.
Amazing. Great insight and biblical truth. "As for you meant evil against me, but God meant it for good in order to bring about the present result, to preserve many people alive." Genisis 50:20 Was offended initially reading this title, saying this abuse could possibly good. It helps me get it. Was with my narcissist for 13 years, he cheated and I felt my life was over. Wanted to die. I am still healing and becoming stronger. I saw how accepting the abusive behavior showed how much I didn't love myself. He represented my father. A man I wanted so desperately wanted to please. I thought all men were good. I was blind. Praise God, He is restoring me. I am seeing I am worth it and I do not NEED anyone, only my Jesus.
Jesus was quoting Psalm 22 when on the cross. I was in my closest walk with God, when the devil brought that narcissist into my life. He was my first love as a teenager and the devil knew I was weak regarding this. God brings you to the realization of what you are dealing with. If you trust in God, he will remove the enemy from your life. The pain of what's left behind is where God strengthens you. Giving you spiritual discernment going forward. Thanks for all you do!!!!
I was extremely naive, gullible & trusting until my relationship with my ex narc partner. My negative experience with him has open my eyes wide to the existence of such evil characters thus, threads carefully when desling with people!
When you are going through narcissistic hell, God brings you to believing in him through introspection within you of strong faith and self care and thats where you are reaching close to your Soul piece/part of God which resides in your heart!
I prayed the prayer to God to help me out of my depression, I asked him " make me anything you want me to be " just help me out of this anxiety and stress ..
I highly suggest praying the Rosary for that matter, the Holly Spirit Novena and the Saint Michael Novena. It will help tremendously.
@@evarojas2567 In all love I have to warn you that this is not wat the Bible recommands about prayer. Jesus is the only mediator between God and people. You will never find other names in which you can adress your prayers to God, our Heavenly Father, in the Bible. Other ways of praying were added thru church history and traditions and are most of the time related to paganism. Please be careful with that. It may "work" for a time but ultimately lead you in a wrong direction. God bless you.
WORD
@@evarojas2567 It feels like the narcissist is an agent of the devil. These prayers - and also include "Litany of Trust," served as a spiritual a shield of protection.
@@evarojas2567 satanic sweetie!
I TOTALLY agree!! Because of his attempts to completely destroy me I became stronger and wiser and healthier everyday. Tomorrow when I wake up, I will be stronger and wiser and healthier still... looks like I won! Thank you, Jesus. You were with me every step of the way.
The Most High gets all the glory. He saves you from the Narc, which is the opposition. He shows you that you are strong enough even when faced with opposition. So this is the time to spread your wings like the eagle and dominate the Narc because really he or she is just a coward!
yea dominate. all seeing., when? DOMINATE. Coward. they should carry the cross to when thats happpening. theyre never gonna carry the cross right? IM ALL KNOWING. look at meeee. i dont ever . Narcs never change. right. lol. strip. ill take thse. do it then. take his soul. bro reember when I builded all the way out here and you all just followed n slave drove me like an orphan? u big adult baby. you dont get glory like that for GOD? oooo low blow. n Arc Not only that, everything the Lord says about Satan is from the perspective of final judgment while looking back over Satan's whole career when so much of his career is still future but written about as if it were past. Only God can do that. On top of all this, God doesn’t even talk about Satan in a spirit of anger or righteous indignation. All of this is given as a lamentation. He’s sad about the fall of Lucifer. He’s sad that the Prince of Tyre fell into the same error as Lucifer.
im out here glory hustling. adjectives brother. I would eeat the adjective right on Ramadan. my birthday and everything. its me.
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it is unbelievable the damage they can cause in someone's life..in such a short amount of time. I wont survive another one. Cut him off and run straight back into the arms of the Lord. Thank you God for Your Mercy ❤
Yup. 6-8 weeks is all it took, plus about 3 months as their neighbor.
I've had thousands of abusers for 44 years n now this more torture. Narcs. All while sick and physical illness n pain 44 years. And topping off my years of honor n war. While tortured in seering pain from hit head on hwy and kicked by a horse same spine nerve pain. Narc mom mask came off. She has my money. Trap
Yep
Women always bitch about men being narcissist!
When it’s almost always the woman that’s the narcissist!!
He who endures till the end will get the morning star, that's the Holy Spirit of Heaven.
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I like that, Another good one is “its always darkest before dawn”.
@Frank Tenpenny morning star is literally the Venus planet in the sky
What?
if you dont have the holy spirit already you better get asking. what was Pentecost for?
Correction: He who endures to the end shall be saved.
Scripture does not say will receive the morning star.
You should not make up or change scriptures.
There is also a warning from the Lord for those who do.
Followers of Satan use Christian sites as a platform to stalk, antagonize & deceive &
Mock
Discernment is critical know what the word of God says, pray for understanding, speaking to myself also. There are some good bible apps to listen to or read with Dailey Scriptures,words of admonishment inspirational promises,healing,hope & protection. Throughout the day I receive a popup that rings like church bells reminding me to pray & has a pray already provided to pray with ( Always seems to be what I need) sometimes we don't know what to pray we get caught up or overwhelmed by circumstances, this is a great tool that really makes a difference.. God is Faithful to complete what he started in us draw near to him.
Father God we need you in every way help us to come inline with your word, help us to grow in faith Lord your word says you are able to keep us & nothing shall pluck us from your hand Thank you for those comforting words Thank you Father that you know are hearts.Lord to you I give all Praise you are worthy & are more then enough.In are weakness you are strong. Praise you Father. Holy Spirit you are welcome in my life teach & guide me in whatever you see fit, surrendered to you Lord help my actions to follow .Knowing nothing earthly that can be offered or can fulfill like your presence.
Amen
God Bless
I was single new mom, living at parents house, vulnerable and trying to raise a kid as I was a kid. Narcissistic Frank came into my life and took me to Disney land. Promises, marriage, house, white picket fence. Then after years of not praying of believing anymore, the nar came out and destroyed me and my son. Fast forward 7 years now and Frank’s been married 5 going on 6 times. God is the only one who got me through.
I'm at the point that Job was when he said "Though he slay me, yet will I trust in him: but I will maintain mine own ways before him."
I truly feel like the entire world is against me and don't know how much longer I can hang on...
You can hang on as long as God wants you to. I am myself in a similar situation and have asked God many times, "how long o God".
This video has helped me a lot. All the 5 conditions are true for me.
Thanks.
May Allah take you out of your situation to a peaceful place. Ameen.
I went through 8 years of Hell dealing with the ex-wife when she would picked up our kids during her visitation. She would often return the kids home crying and hungry to get back at me. The divorce was her idea and she gave me the kids for the primary custody. During the holidays and birthdays, she was always trying to change her visitation to her schedule without consulting me. The icing on the cake was when she went to my work and tried to get me fired. It finally came to an end but I could not believe the evil I had been dealing with. I prayed all the time. I was always reading my Bible, especially Psalms.
Scripture praying looking yo Jesus is the only way.
Like my daughter used to say when she was young "what would Jesus do"
Even on the Cross Jesus looked up and sought God, His Father.
I ran straight to the Lord after a Narc left me and I haven't look back AMEN AMEN!!!!!!
The darker things became, the more I ran to the Lord and I'm still seeking Him. I'm in so much pain, post relationship and scared but I continue to cry up to Jesus to save me. I'm eleven weeks out and the Narc in my life has tried to destroy me....has divided our family.....has depleted my life....I have no financial means to secure my bills or pay the mortgage....I'm going to lose my home...after over three decades. I'm in a desperate situation. I will continue to draw near to the Lord to keep me strong and mend my broken heart. My marriage meant everything to me and I've been left with nothing. Thank you for your video today.....I will call on the name of the Lord to sustain me. I pray for all who are experiencing this in their lives - father God give us all your strength and protection. Amen
@@angelacahill9083 hi I just wanted to let you know I'm experiencing the same thing as you my ex narc after 4 years of living together got up and moved to another state without warning he was the provider for me and I've had to rely on God to pull me through financially I some how managed to pay the bills this month by God's grace my best advice is to fight on your knees every day and trust that God will provide for your needs I'll pray for you tonight my name is Valerie and you can pray for me too please because my heart has been completely broken since he left I am praying that if it's God's will that he will change and my relationship be restored and I will pray that if it glorifys God your husband will change and your marriage be restored only if that's his will🙏 I'm in this fight with you sister
Wow! I was married for 18 years to a narcissist we had 3 kids. Now here I am 10 years later after divorce. You hit the nail on the head! Lot of praying and fact finding and torture but feel I'm stronger and tough minded and comfortable within my skin. I don't rely on any man to give me anything. God is the only one you can trust and you are right the more suffering the more you are drawn to GOD.
God is forever faithful even through the darkness! Continue to draw toward the light. I am grateful to God that I have been a believer most of my life. I can understand how easy it would be to give up but we are much stronger than the narc, they just don't want you to realize that.
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Truth
This has been my experience. My husband is a narcissist and once i realized this, i could see God’s plan.
🙏Blessings 🙏
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Met my narcissist in the church. I ran and have never looked back. Will never step foot in a church again. Was most dangerous place for me to be.
This made complete sense. Narcissistic Abuse is utterly painful and from the darkness but If you can extract yourself and keep going, life is even more precious on the other side.
Also, with self love and boundaries now in place there is no need for blind trust and denial. You can trust yourself, your carefully chosen loved ones and you can trust God.
Seems like narcissists are put in your life to show you who you CAN'T trust and that's important to know.
Validation from within has strengthened me tremendously. Also, my dependency is solely on Jesus, no longer on people. I have been tested and refined. I’ve come out Gold and It feels so good 🙌🏾
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Can you share your testimony plss
@@judithunaegbu3776 I no longer seek validation from people. God reminds us that we are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:13-14). When he created us, He said that His creation is good (Gen. 1:26). I learned to clap for myself and become my own cheerleader. Ultimately be dependent on God and not on people. I hope this helps. 🫶🏾
@@Bella_M26 beautiful…thank you
@@judithunaegbu3776 you’re welcome ☺️
Yes, I see the power of God working in my life since I left my ex. Once you give it to God and surrender to his plans, there is so much more life to live once you reach the other side! This is spiritual warfare and the only way out is through fire and force. God will never forsake us, as he is walking with us every step of the way. There is no force greater than God, he just wants us to ask for help. To anyone in a dark place, this too shall pass! In Jesus name, Amen!
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I hope ur right Diana
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Amen Sister in Christ 🙏
Amen
This may be correct.
I've always had great relationships and friendships but I finally came across a narcissist and she blew my mind. I actually had to Google her behavior and look it up on RUclips. She even agreed that the videos knew her better than she knew herself after I left before I cut her off completely. The amount of new awareness I have now when it comes to relationships is immense. It wasn't devastating but it did hurt to find out she was cheating. As soon as I found out I called movers and was out completely in 3 days. I could afford the 4 bedroom house we where renting alone but she could not so she had to move to a 1 bedroom apartment with her 3 children 2 dogs and 4 cats. I kept having nightmares of demons and evil spirits trying to get into the house towards the end.
Have you found peace from it all finally or do things tend to still haunt you from time to time? .......I guess I would have thought 6 months would have been long enough but I still think about it more than I like to admit.
I can relate.. my grandmother hated me so much It was crazy.. I never seen someone look at me with so much rage of Hatred. All my life I could do nothing for her to like me..it was wired.. so I googled her behavior and that’s when I opened a can of worms...smh
@@amandaleigh6663 yes I am in a much much better place than I was when I was living with that person. I occasionally have bad dreams but nothing like when I was with that person
Yup. The demon nightmares are rough.
Oh yes they will brainwash you into thinking that anything you read on Google is a lie and they'll tell you it's a lie because you don't know what you're truly searching for because you're not a real doctor you're just listening to Google but really you really know that it's not you it's them making you crazy. Dealing with a narcissistic alcoholic was the worst thing I have ever had to do and I thought I was lost before I met him I never lost myself more than I did while with him. But that was how God got my attention. I know that I feel true love deep in my soul will come to me one day and I know I will love that person and they will love me and I love them already because of what I have been through I know that that person will love me truly and passionately. God will restore what I lost and everyone else who has lost what they gave full heart too. God is good amen 🙏🙏
I agree. Narcissistic people do cause you to draw near to God. I also questioned why would he allow such a dark personality become the desire of my heart? The Narcissist taught me what I didn't want in a relationship and to know my value.
Adding to my comment. I find myself on my knees alot. Completely weeping for His help, protection, peace, etc. Yup its God in the works. Thank you God! He knows all the tears I've shed. He sees my spirit is broken.
I was feeling so sad, until I heard ur soothing voice
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I as well feel the weight of sadness being lifted. Your comment was 1 month ago and I pray that this finds you in a beautiful place of peace and love 🙏❤️ If you are struggling, listen again! God WILL Bless you over and over...
He gives beauty for ashes 🦋💕 And everything in the narc's path turns to ashes.
You are a perfect example of how nothing is wasted, He uses EVERY pain we have gone through to help and bless the lives of others and in return our own lives 🌻
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🙏💙Are u saying that's duality is key in all this madness🌤
without darkness life is pointless and bears no purpose ? Imagine a world with no evil present would we never understand the essence of compassion,acceptance,giving with out expecting. If we never faced/experienced darkness than would we still look to a savior ? A never ending loop of questions
@@TheRoyalWe duality is key? A world or mass of souls that never experience the dark side has no essence, bears no character_ would we still look twords a savior ... Or claw to the light with every drop of blood and sweat just to taste the love of god🙏
@@TheRoyalWe seems unfair doesn't it the young children being under the hand of a narc _ what would be the lesson for such a volnrable soul. Life is just to hard to comprehend 🌨
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I’ll say it again. This channel is where the real healing is!!! I have prayed for God to bring out of me what He wants me to be. Oh this makes so much sense!!!! I got goose bumps. Thank you ❤️💯
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So true! I feel the same! Amazing
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Thank you so much for the information.. .Im marry to a Narcissistic person, and i have pray #5 prayer many time. ...now i know that this person just might be shifting me to my next level in God...
#WHAT THE the devil meant for bad God will turn it around for my good ..
Praise God!!!
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Straight up!!! I became stronger in Jesus because I had and have no other way out! I'm also praying for their salvation and that God Jesus them out their strongholds!
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This teaching was an answer to prayer as sometimes you question why didn’t I find the love of my life - why did I have to go thru this with a narcissist??? Thank you. 🙏💜
🙏Blessings 🙏
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God had use a Narcissist to strength and deliver me from my emotional rage Today I am free and move from the Narcissist I am stronger wiser am humble and closer to my Heavenly father I give God all the glory
This is so on time. I literally had a breakdown over a disagreement concerning custody over my son. And I was even wishing I had by son by another man and that the narcissist did not have access to us. I was even asking God how does He expect me to live a peaceful life when that man is still around. Thanks for all you do!
The pain narcissist caused brought me closer to the lord! I thank god everyday for the pain my ex caused. 10 years free and loving the peace god has provided! If your in the middle of it now, remember to look for the light! The lord will provide when he is ready not you! My strength was created because ofvthe struggle!
A peaceful life is coming.
Amen! I absolutely 1 1000% whole heartedly agree. Before the narc, I was weak, broken and easily taken advantage of. I didn’t have a back bone at all because I had spent four years, which was the toughest years of my life then got a job tht broke down my self esteem. When I met the narc, you can imagined how much of a weak link I felt. No boundaries and go with the flow kinda gal. Didn’t stand up for myself or asserted my needs/wants with confidence. Was trying to hard to be this feminine woman who seems so nice and didn’t cause any problems. Boy, was I wrong. So tht narc definitely thought me to stand up for myself
God works in mysterious ways. When he says, ‘he will use your downfall for your blessings or what the enemy meant for your bad God will use for your good, he truly meant it.’ His ways are truly not like us. Who is liken unto God. He works in wonders, trust him because he knows what he’s doing
I used to question God like ‘papa you mean to tell me after all I been thru, you allow this kinda person into my life jst to do me dirty all over? I felt shockingly painful. Like how can this be. But God my God he knew i needed to be strong
No way I can begin to tell you how much I needed this message this week dealing with a narcissistic evil human being and I asked all five of those questions I have been in turmoil all week my soul was broken I asked God why He didn't intervene. Thank you for this message my soul has found relief.Romans 8:28
This is how I felt till I heard Kevin speaking.
I've never thought I'll be grateful to the Lord my God for allowing a narc in my life. I'm thankful Father. You only knew what's needed to awaken me from slumber about people. I appreciate the lesson You prepared for me. Thank you Lord.
The demonic being I endured for 25 yrs nearly made me do myself in, I suffer from cptsd he eventually ran off and remarried, we nearly lost our home my children and I were nearly thrown out in the st, he said he didn't care what happened to us, it wasn't his problem. Thank YAH he left halleluYAH!
This is truth Kevin. I thank God for the horrible marriage. For allowing me to jump in to the pits of hell and temporarily go thru it to come out 100% better person and closer to Him ; )
I've said that prayer to make me the wife the ex husband needed ! I'm passing this test all the way
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Epic Heather!
I agree fully there Heather..what a great way to see it and only recently I've become a Christian after 28 yrs with a covert narcissist..even now I've kept it low contact seeing him once a week..it can't be okay..Im stuck and not strong enough yet been discarded nearly 2 yrs..😕 so difficult but maybe I'm turning a corner through God 😇🙏💛
Hi Kevin..can you add me onto your fellowship and also I will call sometime to discuss a consultation 🙂😇🧡
@@kimmonks116 I understand. I was completely devastated when I was discarded like a dirty paper towel after pouring my love into this man. I turned to Jesus and it still hurt like crazy but day by day I started healing ! It will happen. I have zero feelings for my ex husband and he was the love of my life! Trust in the Lord and walk in obedience to Him and he will set you free. HE is the truth and will open your eyes ; )
I am so thankful I found your channel! This makes so much sense. I had strayed from God due to the narcissistic “relationship.” I even started venturing into the occult, tarot, crystals, witchcraft and even communicating with “spirit!” Things just started getting way too chaotic, depressing, dark and creepy, to the point where I had prayed and asked God to help me find a church. He not only heard my prayer but answered it quickly. The very next morning a pastor was at my front door inviting me to his church. Amen! I’ve been attending ever since, and this sweet pastor has visited my home 3 times already to “check in” with me. This whole nightmare brought me closer to God ❤️🙏
I had similar experiences I was getting into new age religion now I am turning to God instead
I cried when I saw this. Absolute confirmation of what God spoke wispered in my spirit today. ❤🙏🏼
Thank you Jesus for directing me to this kind , Christian man who knows about and can counsel those of us who have suffered through narcissistic abuse. Praise be to God and many prayers and blessings to 'The Royal We.'
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God bless everyone here. If God be for us who can be against us. Stay strong warriors (Philippians 4:13) ❤️
My narcissist ex (little to his knowledge) actually help me beat my crippling anxiety, so yes I absolutely agree, because without going through that I'd still be suffering from anxiety.
Hi . Can you expaned on this?
Yes please expand. I've gone the opposite way and have gotten crippling anxiety and panic attacks. 34 years married to a violent Narc. I went from, I can do anything at the beginning of my marriage to how can I get off the couch...and I pray.
Mine helped me beat my alcoholism.
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Thank you for this message. I believe that God is always in control and that every experience He allows us to have, even with narcissists, will result in His greater glory. He teaches us every step of the way...Glory be to God!
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I have been with a narcist now last 12 years, he allways honest and direct, but hurtfull words too... and tells me what he thinks about me , was alot of negative and critical about me, soneven when I don t cheer up from it, I had to endure him,God told me so ...my father was like him but he died in 2008...after dad died my ex husband died too, with whom I was in a relationship for 20 years, and married but devorced again for it didnot lass, the man was too mentally sick, and doctor advised us splitting up! For his health! Now after the death of them both I got this narcist ...allready last 12 years...i am not married to him allthough he asked me to marry him, but now still close friends...am a Christian and I start to see God allowed him to enter my life for some lessons and reasons...this man told me last year that he had punished me...what I directly believed, I had screamed alot and fought alot,with him in the flesh but not able to overcome him! He was stronger then me...now I ask God to show me and to take him away on Gods time, I dont fight against this narcist anymore, allready did do for longtime, for then he will punish me again, (he told me lately, then he will be telling everybody in town who knows me that I am crazy and a not good person been to him for thats how he sees me...I now let God do the work to free me for He can do such.
🙏Blessings 🙏
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Yes the best training, im well equipped and now know what to look out for. I still have love and have gained tremendous understanding ❤ STRONGER THAN EVER THROUGH EXPERIENCE!!!
This video is so right on! I was pretty happy living a good, solid life as a long-time Christian. But then I met a narcissist who bc I admired the things they do in the world, I got completely sucked into their (celebrity) life. I have never felt abandoned by Jesus but I must say I have struggled with my faith as God seemingly has allowed this worldly and powerful person walk all over me like I am nothing but a door mat. It has taken everything I have to set boundaries and I am still struggling. God bless you for this much-needed lesson when dealing with ppl like this.
Oh my gosh! I was experiencing that for years. I never could understand why because I am a good person with a good heart. What you said makes total sense💯thank you so much for clarifying this. And thank you God for showing me this! I never realized that this was a part of the growing process to get me to be the me that God has visioned for my life. I actually am a better person now have I gone through all the things I did. I changed completely 💯 %!! Thank you Jesus for putting me through all the trials I faced to get me to be the best me I can be. I subscribed to your video. Thank you for the helpful information. 👍🙌
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Sharpened my faith and discernment like a flaming refined Samari sword! HalleluYAH❤
God has saved me from narcissist men and evil people. I believe this must be experienced.
Thank you for shedding light with these videos. God is faithful. Im saved and walk in freedom.
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thank you, I sooo needed to hear this...It confirms what I've been wondering about...if one is closely linked with a narcissist you will be tried in so many ways, so many ways. and I definitely cling to God because everything else is shaky ground.
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My narc is no longer alive, but, yes I was strengthened and tested by her daily. I am now at peace but I knew instinctively that my mom didn't think of how she was harming her children. She could only see herself as winning her way each day. She was ultimately the one who was broken!
Thank you for making it clear that they are not teachers, they teach nothing indeed.
Thank you, God does not waste anything as long as we stay closer to Him He will bring glory to His name through everything we go through.
The narcissist helped me to see God's mercy and Grace in my life
Truth right here! I'm someone who 's been experiencing an "exercise in narcissism" for the last 20 yrs and I just broke free yesterday in Jesus mighty name!!!!!
This conforms what The Lord had shown me since I asked him to remove my blinders and to show me the truth. Separated myself from these people and I feel free and knowing the truth of scripture instead of the twisted scripture. Thanks for the confirmation. Praise God.
After listening to your video, I healed right away. For years I've been praying, fasting and confessing that I'm not going to walk in unforgiveness but I would fail dismally after few weeks. A log that was stubborn inside me just blew away. I'm thankful for this video. God bless you.
Validation is one of my weaknesses and been fighting with narc over this. This is true word from God for me.
My stomach is in knots while hearing this. I have trusted and now see the emotional abuse.
I’m going through this VERY THING RIGHT NOW!!! Every door has been closed in the event of me trying to get away from this person.
Wow...so powerful. Thank you for your words. Such a confirmation. I said this in 2008. It's been a hard road. But what a road to freedom when it's just you and God talking for years fighting. I am a better woman today from the lessons learned in these battles but said proud today in saying...The Lord God is my protector and NO ONE comes between or before him. Amen.
listen .. u dont understand how thankful i am to have been led to ur videos.
there seems to be light at the end of the tunnel
Thank you Ashley, I am happy you are here
I already had a relationship with God before I realized my husband was a narcacist. 20 plus years with evil, I was actually told to leave from the spirit....no one from the church supported me as I was made to look like I was crazy. And we know narcs like to befriend those in higher positions....anyway after leaving and healing I realized what a lesson. I still deal with triggers that are a lifetime theme of negative. But God is Great and I feel blessed and I always remember nothing is wasted, NOTHING.....
I am so sorry that happened to you.
You described my experience. They definitely like to be with the higher up. God wasn't about to leave us in that pit.
OMG this is exactly what happened to me!! Church laughed mocked me ect when I said God was asking me to leave but after much soul searching I felt I could not ignore The Lord I saw woman months later that I believe God sent to me she got talking told me my spouse sounded like narcssist I had never heard of such person awesome xx
I never got any support from the Priests they readily side with the Narcissist. And I am the bad one and should not be upset about the abuse and that I need to pray and let the hell continue, because its my fault, I'm told.-- Now I am thru With Church. I have made my Funeral Plans, and the Funeral home will do the Church Services, without a Priest!!!!
@@martinrenk1345 I understand this as well, I left the church too. Everyone including my 5 children sided with the narc. I was the bad one ....and I hope you have not lost hope in God.....the priest is only a man.
Ok God used him to strengthen me. So now I do not want anyone else in my life. Tada
Single by choice. I'm good with that. Yashua my groom.🙏
Lol same
That is until the polar opposite of the narc is sent in after for you, to show you its ok to love again. But with that being said, it's important to truly love oneself so that no matter what kind of person shows up, be it good/bad it won't derail your happiness.
@@venelprince6889 yes. That is why I have remained happily single for almost 3 years. I did not want to let the toxicity from my last to infect my next. Taking time to heal oneself before moving on is important.
@@andreawimer4334 Become so immersed in Gods word and teachings so that any man who seeks to find you must also become immersed in God.
You're absolutely right ,God sent him and I'm grateful, because I stepped into my greatness💪 super empath supernova💪
God bless you for having the courage to even mention God's truth -not catering to the lie that narcs teach.Today I started to pray to the God of the Bible and here u were.THANK YOU and thank your family for sharing you and your wisdom with us.This video helped me get out of bed this morning when I felt defeated.
This cleared up so much for me. We know in theory, everything happens for a reason. But actually knowing the reason/reasons is restoring the lost faith 👏🙏
Kevin !!!!!! You are on point! I felt like the attach was going to KILL me! However, I knew God was with me, and that he was instructing me on what to do!
Nice message Kevin!
I'm going through this right now!!
Going on 3 weeks no contact!!
And your right!
I'm getting stronger!
She hit at a bad time!
I was so stressed out..
Developed insomnia..
Lost 3 pets last 2 yrs..
With Gods help I'm gonna push through this..
Keep up the good work!
Pray for me!
I must say, being the son of a SERIOUS narcissist, who's 93 and still going is being brow beaten for life left me with much humility, AND NOW I KNOW THAT IS A STRENGTH 🙏
Thank you. Very useful. God has lead me through that journey. So I will just confirm your message.
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RIGHT ON, BROTHER!
You’re Singin’ My Song!!!
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This is SUPER DEEP!! Every point convicted me!!! Our world has truly been turned upside down. Thank you Kevin for boldly sharing these deep spiritual truths 🥰!
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🙏Blessings 🙏🙏
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I was with you up until one thing. I am a survivor of a highly narcissistic family as their target and a victim of sexual abuse. I tried the love myself and finding my inner strength. It didn’t work, just left me worse than before. You are teaching an idea of the world mixed withGod. There is only one way. One day, I gave everything over to God. Literally, I gave everything. I gave up and excepted Him with my whole heart. I got up a changed person after 44 years of turmoil and trying to be strong. I looked to the Bible. We cannot look within because our inner self is wicked. One scripture is my go to and I give to others, Psalm 27. I found that it wasn’t inner-self or self love it was love and strength I needed.I do agree with you that He allowed it to happen to bring me to Him. Recently, I was surrounded by my family, after 10 years, at a funeral. Before, I asked for His strength. I went in and went thru the funeral with His strength. I saw their evil, so did everyone in the room, God gave me His strength, peace and love. For the first time, they didn’t trigger my emotions. I saw them for who they were and I actually felt bad for them because they don’t know the relationship I have with Christ. I walked away knowing that He is my everything. The darkness makes His light shine even brighter.
Narcs terrified me so much I had no choice but run and hide in the lord. That was the worst beating of my life. Pain is a great teacher!!!!!
So so powerful and enlightening, I have live with one over 20 years now and we stay do, because of what we have in common, but by the Grace of God, as you have stated in your video, l have psychological separate myself and l now becoming a victor once again. Thanks
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Really finding your insights are spot on with what I have learned about myself, the narcissists in my life and about God himself. Much of Jesus parables deal with narcissistic nature. Most of the things he said about the scribes and pharisees are spot on. Nabal is the other example along with Cain. God stands by the Abigails who throw all their lot in with truth and right and step out in faith not stuck in believing that support, validation, trust, dependence etc is in the narcissist. Truly the put themselves in the place of God in your life and expect you to fall down and worship them...❤