POUR MINDS Episode 263- A T-Rex named Lex

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  • Опубликовано: 23 ноя 2023
  • Hey yall!! On this weeks episode, we unknowingly had an intervention/therapy session for Lex P. Lex made some shocking realizations about herself and took accountability for her actions. We discussed how having a victim mindset while dating can ruin your relationship, dating a man thats Bisexual, bending your morals/values when you're in love and a listener even asked for advice about velveteen rubs. This was an enlightening and wild episode, so grab your drank and pour up Pour Crew.
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  • @Chrysyyyy
    @Chrysyyyy 7 месяцев назад +115

    Drea hates when Lex says anything negative about herself. Lex can shoot 30 men & Drea gonna find something each of them did wrong to deserve it. 😂😂😂😂😂 I love it so much. I’m the same way about my sister.

    • @user-sl6ne9xn5j
      @user-sl6ne9xn5j 7 месяцев назад +12

      Literally she hates it!!! Always did! Definition of a friend that won't ever let you be down for too long. She give you space but after a minute GET TF UP MY GIRL!!! ❤

    • @Chrysyyyy
      @Chrysyyyy 7 месяцев назад +8

      @@user-sl6ne9xn5j RIGHT, Lex can say “my lips chapped” & Drea be like “girl, no they not, stop saying thatttt” 😂😂😂😂 true friends.

  • @eeyorezbabii
    @eeyorezbabii 7 месяцев назад +64

    I think having TY as a guest one day would be great! We love our sis and we wanna know more about her 🥰 come have a seat on the couch, honey! 👏🏾☺️

  • @klovemehrd
    @klovemehrd 7 месяцев назад +102

    The guest are great but there’s something about when it’s just the two of them 🥹❤️

    • @Key__314
      @Key__314 7 месяцев назад +3

      I loveee when it’s just the two of

    • @UneakTershai
      @UneakTershai 3 месяца назад +1

      The only shows I reach for ❤

  • @drayyye
    @drayyye 7 месяцев назад +25

    “Shxt finna get ugly…akademik” is WILD(ly accurate) 😂

  • @lisavslisa101
    @lisavslisa101 7 месяцев назад +200

    Thanks for your transparency Lex. A lot of us have deep rooted issues with men. Whether it was bad experiences or just something we've seen men do/done. I can relate. Its like a silent rage within. Kudos for acknowledging it, and addressing it. It takes real courage to display vulnerabilities and emotions in front of thousands of strangers. May you start heal hun❤.

  • @lakenyagaddis974
    @lakenyagaddis974 7 месяцев назад +49

    The cut of Ty shaking her head was hilarious!!

    • @user-qq6br5pz4b
      @user-qq6br5pz4b 7 месяцев назад

      I thought she transformed into Issa Rae lol

  • @javonnenoell-dt8qj
    @javonnenoell-dt8qj 7 месяцев назад +64

    Drea just so calm bruh it’s like a trex and a Barbie doll yall the perfect match😭😂

  • @javonnenoell-dt8qj
    @javonnenoell-dt8qj 7 месяцев назад +76

    Idk if it’s one of lex drunk symptoms but the way she buss out singing in the middle of a conversation is hilarious 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @miakeys1089
    @miakeys1089 7 месяцев назад +37

    I love the open and honest conversation between the two of you. This show has the perfect balance of personality.

    • @DreaAndLex
      @DreaAndLex  7 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you ❤️❤️

  • @_Tree
    @_Tree 7 месяцев назад +33

    I appreciate Lex's honesty abt her anger issues. It's hard to publicly admit that. 💯💯💯💯💯

  • @JazmineDotCom
    @JazmineDotCom 7 месяцев назад +53

    Lex looks absolutely stunning this episode 😍😩 the makeup, the hair, the boots !!!!

  • @sunnissi6026
    @sunnissi6026 7 месяцев назад +25

    45:00 love how she holds Lex accountable while also validating her feelings
    46:17and then she just doesn’t gaf 😂😂

  • @Thejuicybrat
    @Thejuicybrat 7 месяцев назад +21

    “I was not a lesbian…stupid bitch!” Got me weakkkk 😭

  • @Beezus3
    @Beezus3 7 месяцев назад +53

    I would like for y'all to have a segment where Drea gives the word of the day and Lex gives as a random (space) fun fact 😅😂

  • @Emilythegoodguydoll
    @Emilythegoodguydoll 7 месяцев назад +24

    “Thank you Havey, for your testimony”is crazy😂😂😂😂 THIS EPISODE IS LIFE!💕💕💕

  • @mekellabuggs3994
    @mekellabuggs3994 7 месяцев назад +14

    This is honestly one of the best, most mature conversations yall have had ‼️‼️I enjoyed this conversation

    • @DreaAndLex
      @DreaAndLex  7 месяцев назад +4

      Cause baby you gotta know we ain't mature 😭😭

    • @mekellabuggs3994
      @mekellabuggs3994 7 месяцев назад +1

      Yes y’all are omg😂😂😩😩sometimes 🥴🥴😂😂but it’s called ✨balance ✨

  • @pareeshaslaughter6798
    @pareeshaslaughter6798 7 месяцев назад +29

    DREA i love your calm demeanor 😂 baby its so official ❤

  • @marie_frzr
    @marie_frzr 7 месяцев назад +11

    Lex deserves a f*@king academy award for keeping a straight face well reading and giving advice.. I could not do the same when mouthing these words .. " You deserve to take out your teeth. " ... 😂😂 That's wild!!!🤣🤣 Don't gum on that man in the dark, warn him😂

  • @Avaren619
    @Avaren619 7 месяцев назад +6

    Such a good topic and convo about Lex's anger issues. I loved Lex's honesty. And Drea hit the nail on the head when she said you need a man that knows how to handle your emotions and one that don't make you wanna react like that. Great episode

  • @amirajackson7049
    @amirajackson7049 7 месяцев назад +8

    i really appreciate lex’s transparency and her willingness to change. conversation like these are extremely important and definitely display yalls range. the funny and sex parts are the foundation but sprinkling these type of convos put yall on another level

  • @Iamashleyamour
    @Iamashleyamour 7 месяцев назад +7

    Nahhhhh the ‘meeting in my bedroom’ karaoke got it 😭😭😭 I’m literally crying

  • @tamikabrown2927
    @tamikabrown2927 7 месяцев назад +14

    This is BEAUTIFUL Lex… you’re helping so many… keep being transparent!! We love it! ❤

  • @C_dubbs17
    @C_dubbs17 7 месяцев назад +11

    I be loving the guest but I’m ngl I was so happy when I saw it was just the 2 of yall ! Lex be cutting tf up and I be loving every minute! Keep it up ladies ❤🫶🏾

  • @NameIsCaraBeara
    @NameIsCaraBeara 7 месяцев назад +11

    no shade no tea but it feel like this becoming lex show & drea just there to piggy back off her because she opens up and shares alot more than drea, would love to see drea open up more & talk about her and her experiences

    • @DreaAndLex
      @DreaAndLex  7 месяцев назад +10

      It will never be just Lex show, we share pour minds 50/50 because we built this shit together.. Never had to "piggy back" off of anybody.. I'm too raw for that, that's why y'all so highkey interested in knowing more about me.. lol

  • @KadijahDickey
    @KadijahDickey 7 месяцев назад +10

    Drea said “gym is life” 😂😂😂

    • @DreaAndLex
      @DreaAndLex  7 месяцев назад +2

      It's the gains for me!! 😭❤️

  • @Mimi8402
    @Mimi8402 7 месяцев назад +13

    I know that the dating scene is brutal these days, but never let a man reduce you to someone they’re just talking to when y’all are really dating. If they can’t even say that they’re dating you, they’re not men to take serious at all. They probably the type that have never been to a wedding, got a baby mama or 4, and a family where no one gets married. Don’t waste your time with those types.

  • @EbonieTH
    @EbonieTH 7 месяцев назад +7

    I relate to lex when it comes to relationships. I’m also not confrontational. My anger was bad in my last relationship. There’s a lot of trauma that I haven’t properly dealt with. Even the things he’s done or said to me that were disrespectful I hold onto it and internalize it. This is why I love this show, because I was just reflecting on my actions the past few days. I thought I was mostly innocent, because it wasn’t my intentions to do wrong. Y’all are my therapists lol. I can’t even afford better help anymore. I did two months, so I lost all of my progress.

  • @gamerschain61
    @gamerschain61 7 месяцев назад +3

    Thank you lex in the beginning being so transparent about your anger problems it's called growth ❤

  • @lilimama2cute4u
    @lilimama2cute4u 7 месяцев назад +5

    lex is funny as always. I can't believe its been possible for her to look better n better every episode!

  • @antoniopena7306
    @antoniopena7306 7 месяцев назад +1

    S/o to Lex for being so transparent. I’m on the same page as you and I’m realizing so much about myself. It isn’t easy admitting and coming to terms that you have anger issues but it’s an amazing first step. This made me feel so much better to see someone I could relate to

  • @megc7947
    @megc7947 7 месяцев назад +2

    i love yalls podcast so much

  • @KNicoleLux
    @KNicoleLux 4 месяца назад

    I love that you two are able to just have these candid conversations with each other and us. These are the conversations we need in our spaces. Love it here!

  • @EverythingWorksOutForMyGood
    @EverythingWorksOutForMyGood 7 месяцев назад

    Proud of Lex for being transparent and vulnerable in this episode and owning her part. It’s not easy, sending you well wishes on your healing journey 💕

  • @Mtp1029
    @Mtp1029 7 месяцев назад +3

    This why I love Lex ❤💯 she a genuine spirit

  • @amani940
    @amani940 7 месяцев назад +14

    Lmfao yeah I learned that ankle crossing thing being in the church choir 😂 cus baybeee them church ladies was mad af I was up there and had my legs crossed

  • @stoniestarks1045
    @stoniestarks1045 7 месяцев назад +3

    I love when I be watching the pod and I pick up on when Lex is lying lmao I love this show

  • @nengram8045
    @nengram8045 7 месяцев назад +5

    Lex, you’re a fire sign like me. Our tempers are known to run hot fast lol

  • @DreamofJerine
    @DreamofJerine 7 месяцев назад +12

    I see so much of myself in Lex’s honesty about her anger issues towards men. I have them too. I just also came to the realization that it’s something that I need to heal as well. I thank you for speaking your truth & taking accountability because that’s the beginning of the journey. I can’t wait to see us both on the other side. I know that love for the male species is hard for us to maintain for whatever reason but we got this! You got this! Love you Bookie. Happy Healing 🫶🏽

  • @tyovannaclingman4103
    @tyovannaclingman4103 6 месяцев назад

    I love that level of accountability. Knowing that there is something you have internally to work on and not blaming others for “bringing it out”.

  • @theperfectbrother
    @theperfectbrother 7 месяцев назад +5

    As a man for me that's the most important thing to me is how you act when your angry because if your trying to tear me down like I'm your worst enemy then im done with you❤

  • @NaysiaDee
    @NaysiaDee 7 месяцев назад +2

    Usually the bisexual conversation from straight women is ridden with homophobia. And I think people ask deeper questions (not always in the most respectful way) to get women to realize that sometimes that preference is rooted in homophobia. A lot of times when women fully explain the “preference” it’s just a disdain for gayness which is homophobia. BUT also we can’t force no one to like something that they don’t like 🤷🏽‍♀️
    I appreciate the way yall approached the topic and the questions Lex asked were brilliant.

  • @jamyaharris1888
    @jamyaharris1888 7 месяцев назад +4

    Thank you for sharing lex because I can definitely relate and something I’m trying to work on

  • @Lexbillion
    @Lexbillion 7 месяцев назад +7

    Lex did so well reading the denture letter. I would’ve been on the floor.

  • @Chellie4854
    @Chellie4854 7 месяцев назад +1

    I loveeeeee ya’lls conversations!!! Listen to understand, not to be right. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @prettykaayy3524
    @prettykaayy3524 7 месяцев назад +8

    Thank God for a soloooo episode I wasnt clicking it if it wasn’t☹️🤭

  • @BossK89
    @BossK89 7 месяцев назад

    I can agree with you Lex, my man says I talk to him crazy, but I know it comes from old trauma that I haven’t dealt with. But thank you for speaking on it. ❤ and y’all both look so beautiful ❤

  • @nimoprosper
    @nimoprosper 7 месяцев назад +2

    I’m seated ❤ can’t wait for the Houston show tomorrow

  • @thisgirlisfancy
    @thisgirlisfancy 7 месяцев назад +6

    Lex your lip color is GORGEOUS! Please share the deets...

    • @DreaAndLex
      @DreaAndLex  7 месяцев назад

      Musebeautycollection.com

  • @keionar5171
    @keionar5171 7 месяцев назад +3

    Such a great friendship. I’m Drea when it comes to my friends. I don’t see any wrong and I don’t want them to be down on themselves.

  • @GardenofVenus5
    @GardenofVenus5 7 месяцев назад +2

    "You woulda let me eat that thang." Got me cryingggggg!! 🤣😭

  • @ThatAutisticBlackMan
    @ThatAutisticBlackMan 7 месяцев назад +2

    if you move I move...lmao I love the growth Lex "golden" P.

  • @beautyfolse4249
    @beautyfolse4249 7 месяцев назад +1

    It’s just something about when it just them on the show. I’m going to click immediately every single time. I enjoy some of the guest but the dynamic duo does it for me. Bring Karlous back. 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @Howfineisjasmine
    @Howfineisjasmine 7 месяцев назад

    Awe this was a beautiful episode thank you lex

  • @leejohn_bns
    @leejohn_bns 7 месяцев назад +1

    This was a great episode. Y'all got deep.

  • @jackies_world
    @jackies_world 7 месяцев назад +4

    I laughed so much this episode from beginning to end 🤣🤣

  • @PrymeTracks
    @PrymeTracks 7 месяцев назад +1

    you know the drank kick'n in when Lex say: "I know this is off topic" lol!

  • @amandaevee
    @amandaevee 7 месяцев назад

    I loveeee Allen Stone! Y’all stay w the great music recommendations 🙌🏽

  • @gamerschain61
    @gamerschain61 7 месяцев назад +1

    Lex with the denture letter I was here in tears 😅

  • @serenityreid2686
    @serenityreid2686 7 месяцев назад +3

    one show yall in a relationship next show yall single lmaooooo. yall like me!

  • @genesisrodriguez553
    @genesisrodriguez553 7 месяцев назад +2

    Lex, i relate so much it’s crazyyyy. My anger issues always go from 0-100 when i feel betrayed, disrespected, or UNHEARD. I spazz. It’s only with men never with women in my life. I feel like at my big age i should have it under control but in an Aries i be feeling like it’s in my blood. lol i need intensive therapy chile 😂

  • @marlenascales3180
    @marlenascales3180 6 месяцев назад

    I love friendships that hold each other accountable and lol that’s right drea tell when she lying in certain situations you shouldn’t lie for friends especially if yall really rocking like that!

  • @Jana-zc3gd
    @Jana-zc3gd 7 месяцев назад

    This episode was soooo good!

  • @findingreese
    @findingreese 7 месяцев назад +4

    Ty been sipping she was sipping lol 😂😂

  • @brittanidavis4877
    @brittanidavis4877 7 месяцев назад +1

    Happy Friday Ladies!🍾🥂

  • @NyiahMikel
    @NyiahMikel 7 месяцев назад +4

    Love y’all down ❤❤❤

  • @SoPrettyInc
    @SoPrettyInc 7 месяцев назад +4

    “Shit finna get real ugly, akademiks” 😭😭😭😭

  • @whitneyb5890
    @whitneyb5890 7 месяцев назад

    We appreciate your transparency Lex and you’re not angry you are disturbed it could be a mix of things from losing your father at a young age to the energy you are picking up from sleeping around. I would pause and figure out the deeper issue

  • @ashleymiller1210
    @ashleymiller1210 7 месяцев назад

    The way Lex p had me busting out laughing when she started singing that Solange song def telling of age🤣🤣🤣

  • @javonnenoell-dt8qj
    @javonnenoell-dt8qj 7 месяцев назад +7

    Drea got ptsd from that incident 💀🤣

  • @taylormuscovalley
    @taylormuscovalley 7 месяцев назад +1

    Lmfaoo yo the no teeth convo is insane 😂 the first time I saw my grandma with her teeth out I screamed

  • @Nie_xoxo
    @Nie_xoxo 7 месяцев назад

    Great episode. You both are right Lex needs healing but she also needs a man who won’t trigger her. Love this

  • @Patsdawter
    @Patsdawter 7 месяцев назад +3

    Lex you’re not wrong and good for you taking accountability despite Drea trying to lighten it up for you… only you know the person within… keep striving to be better and you’ll find it.

  • @brookelynnhunter
    @brookelynnhunter 7 месяцев назад

    This episode was toooo good.❤️

  • @breneetaylor5944
    @breneetaylor5944 7 месяцев назад +1

    Love this intro 😍😍

  • @videogworl
    @videogworl 7 месяцев назад +1

    Love this. If this reflects how yall are in person to each other, then good for you both. Stick together and hold each other accountable with LOVE. 🫶🏾

  • @amahjahv
    @amahjahv 7 месяцев назад +1

    WHEN THEY PUT LEX HEAD ON A T-REX ON THE SCREEN 😭😭😭 THE SCREAM I SCRUMPT

  • @gigi1625
    @gigi1625 7 месяцев назад

    I relate to all this anger 😂 ignorance is bliss!! The people with the most COMMON SENSE get irritated more 😖

  • @joi12345678
    @joi12345678 7 месяцев назад

    I’ve loved Allen Stone for yearsssss. Yessss 🫶🏾

  • @6milejuu
    @6milejuu 7 месяцев назад +2

    Dem pour lil babies!!!
    Lex got that white rage 😁🙏🏾

    • @DreaAndLex
      @DreaAndLex  7 месяцев назад

      White rage is crazy 😭😭

  • @officiallyjada
    @officiallyjada 7 месяцев назад +1

    When lex starting singing put it on em make em wanna marry u 😂😂I DIED

  • @brittmars1439
    @brittmars1439 7 месяцев назад

    Nah the end of this episode has me in real tears😭

  • @sharnai1
    @sharnai1 7 месяцев назад

    I love these two 😂😂😂😂

  • @cameronnicole869
    @cameronnicole869 7 месяцев назад +1

    She said it’s finna get real ugly AKADEMIKS, mannnn I’m cryinggg

  • @glennanglejr6226
    @glennanglejr6226 7 месяцев назад +2

    Happy Friday beautiful Queen

  • @laneishiawilkerson7931
    @laneishiawilkerson7931 7 месяцев назад

    This episode was sooo 🔥🔥❤️❤️ & Funny 🤣 love y'all ❤️😘

  • @videogworl
    @videogworl 7 месяцев назад +2

    "That's my pee. That's my urine 🙂😐" took me OUT.

  • @cameronjohnson7382
    @cameronjohnson7382 7 месяцев назад

    Allen Stone . I’d put him in the blue eyed soul category. Saw him live a couple times. Doesn’t disappoint

  • @amberjones6653
    @amberjones6653 7 месяцев назад +1

    Unpopular opinion 🤣 I love when yall do solo episodes!

  • @ajohnson2283
    @ajohnson2283 7 месяцев назад

    Great episode ❤❤❤

  • @Sugar_TrappER
    @Sugar_TrappER 7 месяцев назад

    Lex gone get me fired hitting that note 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @TheJLashay
    @TheJLashay 7 месяцев назад

    this episode really resonated with me because I feel you lex I really got anger issues too gotta let the toxic shit go in 2024

  • @pareeshaslaughter6798
    @pareeshaslaughter6798 7 месяцев назад +2

    ❤❤❤❤ YES LADIES KEEP DOING YOUR THING

  • @keraz126
    @keraz126 7 месяцев назад

    Lex is the T and the P in the dating pool ❤ 😂

  • @gataylor100
    @gataylor100 7 месяцев назад +3

    I’ve been watching forever and haven’t figured out who rapper bae is. Now I want to know 😅

  • @tahje_
    @tahje_ 7 месяцев назад +10

    Lex looking good in that all white 😍

  • @BenjiHer97
    @BenjiHer97 7 месяцев назад

    I’ve been waiting for a new episode!!!

  • @Tess-nd9co
    @Tess-nd9co 5 месяцев назад

    Accountability is very vital for growth.

  • @neshiajohnson1486
    @neshiajohnson1486 7 месяцев назад +1

    Lex must be a Leo ♌️ because she just exudes that energy

  • @moneydraco315
    @moneydraco315 7 месяцев назад +2

    A for Accountability ❤️❤️❤️

  • @javonnenoell-dt8qj
    @javonnenoell-dt8qj 7 месяцев назад +16

    “That wasn’t no incident bihhh”😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭that was a catastrophe

    • @naelynn9582
      @naelynn9582 7 месяцев назад

      I thought she was gonna say it was less than an incident 😂😂😂