Pour Minds - Episode 179 - Don't Gas Me Up

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  • Опубликовано: 25 авг 2024
  • Hey y’all this episode we discuss seeking approval from other races, gaslighting yourself, and more!
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Комментарии • 316

  • @alaneofmyown
    @alaneofmyown 2 года назад +58

    I'm so glad y'all discussed people that gaslight themselves. I have a co worker who is experiencing a breakup and she said that she's mad at herself for crying about the breakup because that's a weakness. I was like sweetie, it's ok, you're supposed to feel. It's so sad how many people believe that is a weakness I ain't never heard that in my personal life.

  • @brittdabee5278
    @brittdabee5278 2 года назад +97

    A lot of “white” people don’t even be checking for us. Racial anxiety is real.

    • @Paradiselounge
      @Paradiselounge Год назад +2

      Yea I agree . It’s conditioning . Also divide and conquer is a real thing, I wish we could all come together as one .

  • @lisajayne4425
    @lisajayne4425 2 года назад +245

    Be careful telling Ninjas what you want, it opens the lane for them to play the role to pull you in. You need to know to yourself what you want and observe his actions. If the red flags start to appear, see him for who he is, which is not for you and haul tail!

    • @beautyfolse4249
      @beautyfolse4249 2 года назад +9

      Exactly‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️🎯
      This comment needs to be pinned.

    • @benjijack9517
      @benjijack9517 2 года назад +8

      Be careful dealing with the wrong people. Since a child we been told never judge a book by its cover just bc a man knows how to carry himself like a king doesn't mean he is one 💯💯💯

    • @bravesexystrong6941
      @bravesexystrong6941 2 года назад +8

      Exactly! Don’t give anyone the playbook to your heart.

    • @ShaeDaily
      @ShaeDaily 2 года назад

      I used to tell my gf this all the time. Don’t give them the cheat code…literally

  • @shayonce_
    @shayonce_ 2 года назад +80

    Lex had a lot of names in her lifetime. 😂
    I just found y’all, and this podcast has me in a chokehold 😂

    • @DreaAndLex
      @DreaAndLex  2 года назад +7

      😂😂😂❤️❤️

    • @elashamoss4539
      @elashamoss4539 2 года назад +8

      And Drea's face everytime🤣🤣

  • @videogworl
    @videogworl 2 года назад +39

    Lex is really a gem😭

  • @leeleebryant8833
    @leeleebryant8833 2 года назад +23

    Lex you're so naturally funny and quick with it 🤣🤣 the "you wouldn't understand me, you didn't know "the struggle" I died 🤣🤣

    • @sarawarner7186
      @sarawarner7186 2 года назад +1

      The "damn its strick in here" had me I tears

    • @msandrews87
      @msandrews87 2 года назад +1

      I need to see pics of Emo Lex😂

  • @brandonfrizell2745
    @brandonfrizell2745 2 года назад +29

    BARBARIC !! Talk yo shit Lex.
    the don has spoken

  • @apreecemashae2589
    @apreecemashae2589 2 года назад +37

    I love how y’all pick a name for the episode and never use it! I love y’all lol

  • @Ariana-yv2cg
    @Ariana-yv2cg 2 года назад +73

    Love y’all!!! I’m not sure if y’all can do this (for ad purposes) but I’d love to know your wine recommendations! Maybe it can be a segment on the show, what y’all are drinking each episode. :)

    • @DreaAndLex
      @DreaAndLex  2 года назад +15

      We’ll look into it! Thank you ❤️❤️

    • @Thats_MarieHoney
      @Thats_MarieHoney 2 года назад +6

      @@DreaAndLex Yes I’d love to drink what y’all are drinking while listening to the show !

    • @Thee_Nun
      @Thee_Nun 2 года назад +3

      Baby y’all said a WORD about married women and that’s exactly how it be. Her first kid and he got like 5, baby he trapped you 😂😂😂.

    • @daebtch
      @daebtch 2 года назад

      I literally was just thinking this!! Please do cause y’all be lit off da wine 😂

  • @jonathangrant9486
    @jonathangrant9486 2 года назад +23

    That's why I love this podcast. It's so diverse. They talk about everything from BDBs to the Moors...I love when Lex start talking that pro black shit.

  • @jasminjenee
    @jasminjenee 2 года назад +21

    Nothing I love more than watching new episodes of pour minds on Friday night, while getting ready for a date with my BDB

    • @MisSterious1987
      @MisSterious1987 2 года назад

      Baby daddy bestfriend???lol sike ..just playing 😘😘😘 yesss it's Saturday nights for me recovering from my Friday with the Bdb

    • @jasminjenee
      @jasminjenee 2 года назад +2

      @@MisSterious1987 he might be😜😜

  • @bharris1796
    @bharris1796 2 года назад +43

    Right on time! Heyy pour crew 💜💜

    • @prycemacon7097
      @prycemacon7097 2 года назад +3

      Heyyyyy lol

    • @ldkea05
      @ldkea05 2 года назад +4

      Heyyyy guurrwl heyyyyy

    • @Hiddenuntil
      @Hiddenuntil 2 года назад +4

      Hey sis 🥰

    • @RobandSijay
      @RobandSijay 2 года назад +2

      what up sis, glad to see you

    • @britty_bit
      @britty_bit 2 года назад +2

      Heyyyy Bri! I used to step with you in middle school. Dope to see your part of the pour crew too 💜💜

  • @elashamoss4539
    @elashamoss4539 2 года назад +13

    I see yall gave us a sneak peek of the new set during the commercial breaks! I love it❤ Can't wait to see it🥰😍

  • @tiffanymeriwether7687
    @tiffanymeriwether7687 2 года назад +5

    This episode hit different. RIP To Mama Anne 💜✨🙏🏾

  • @WhoIsTheeMeister
    @WhoIsTheeMeister 2 года назад +12

    I love the maturity of the topic this episode 💓

  • @beautyfolse4249
    @beautyfolse4249 2 года назад +9

    Thank you Drea, that absolutely give zero fuccs how they act around us and in front of out face.

  • @Dajiaw101
    @Dajiaw101 2 года назад +11

    Hey POUR family❤️ I discovered y’all in January, and I binged every video.. even Wine Down Wednesday! ❤️

  • @WhoIsTheeMeister
    @WhoIsTheeMeister 2 года назад +7

    I’m soooo happy for y’all! Y’all energy and the crowd energy is so amazing! Wow y’all are more amazing at this than y’all realize

  • @meraaa954
    @meraaa954 2 года назад +12

    the new set is everything !

  • @NAYSWAY88
    @NAYSWAY88 2 года назад +9

    Lol not the Help! Had me dying.

  • @dezziefbby
    @dezziefbby 2 года назад +6

    OMG is the Babble ad at the NEW STUDIO? IT’S BOMBBBBB.

    • @DreaAndLex
      @DreaAndLex  2 года назад +4

      Girl let me go see idk 😭😭😭😭

    • @prycemacon7097
      @prycemacon7097 2 года назад +2

      I LOVE the new ads set up can't wait to see the next episode with the new set up!

  • @tksjourney8048
    @tksjourney8048 2 года назад +5

    I am African…
    Drea: American
    Lex: uh uh you didn’t have to add that 🤣🤣

  • @rochiggidy
    @rochiggidy 2 года назад

    They crack me up. I like the gaslighting section esp about how we gaslight ourselves. Between Lex's singing and Drea's long pauses...it's always a good time.

  • @taigenmiles1490
    @taigenmiles1490 2 года назад +2

    I watched this with the guy I’ve been dating and let me tell youuuuu I was fighting for our lives. He was like these girls are crazy. It’s too real. Now all his friends know about the show and like it or not y’all got a new viewer.

  • @theprettyygamer
    @theprettyygamer 2 года назад +2

    I love that you guys educated the gworls on gaslighting this week my educational queens 😂🙏🏼 would love to see you guys talk about defense mechanisms I learned about that in high school and it’s always been super interesting to me the way people’s brains operate and make them respond to things.

  • @cupcake2998
    @cupcake2998 2 года назад +7

    I love when they match hairstyles 💕

  • @Someboutju901
    @Someboutju901 2 года назад +12

    I definitely felt the first topic, I have a work from home job in training where I have to be on camera and I’m the only black girl in my class and it feels weird 🤧 like their jokes are different🤣🤣 I can’t be myself🤣🤣

  • @iyaniarose
    @iyaniarose 2 года назад +3

    i love lex that’s my twin fr 🤣 her bops are always in my playlist i’ve been listening to finesse for the past week ima need them to make a pour minds playlist 😂

  • @EverydayGworl
    @EverydayGworl 2 года назад +6

    Drea speaking tongues got me CRINE‼️😂😭😂😭😭 cause why would you do that??

  • @ldkea05
    @ldkea05 2 года назад +4

    I'm herrrrre 🙌🏽🙌🏽 I just want to say y'all posts bring the sunshine for the week -- when I see the notifications I'm like yessssssssss 🫶🏾

  • @CarloGonzalezTV
    @CarloGonzalezTV 2 года назад +1

    This is the first time I’m watching & listening to your podcast; so far I’m only 6 minutes in. I have to say, you two embody *so* much Love. It’s beautiful

    • @CarloGonzalezTV
      @CarloGonzalezTV 2 года назад

      “Do Black people need to act right in front of White people?” *fuck* no

  • @Whereswest
    @Whereswest 2 года назад +1

    I love lex’s women first mentality i love what you said about the women representing themselves on tv and other women looking out *chefs kiss

  • @jayJay-jo1nq
    @jayJay-jo1nq 2 года назад +6

    I’ve been waiting all week …another banger

  • @ldkea05
    @ldkea05 2 года назад +1

    Drea’s expressions during the song …. Givin them BFF vibes like “guuuuuurllll STOPPPP” Lex Franklin 😂

  • @TaylorCorrien
    @TaylorCorrien 2 года назад +11

    Periodt Lex speaking facts we ain’t even 15 min in 👏🏾👏🏾😍

  • @Love_missbri
    @Love_missbri 2 года назад +4

    Please do a show breakdown for The Ultimatum

  • @niccilyons4985
    @niccilyons4985 2 года назад +2

    ✨Lex and Drea, I can’t wait for y’all to break 100K in subscribers. I LOVE your podcast and look forward to it every week.💕 Personalities are a vibe. I be laughing my ass off.💯 keep killin it! 💪🏾

  • @EverydayGworl
    @EverydayGworl 2 года назад +4

    🎶AtlAnTIssss🎶 been stuck in my head since last week show 🤣🤣🤣🤣
    R.I.P to Drea daddy🕊

  • @griffinjenn85
    @griffinjenn85 2 года назад +1

    Omg!! Lex was doing the extreme Bankhead bounce while singing, Stomp, I felll out! Great episode ladies! 😂😂😂😂🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @MoreOfSiren
    @MoreOfSiren 2 года назад +5

    Lex is hilarioussss lmaooo! Loved the song this week 🤣🤣🤣

  • @hairaccessllc110
    @hairaccessllc110 2 года назад +4

    This was very much an enjoyable episode 😊 song choice , immaculate 😭🤍🤍🤍

  • @jamier1396
    @jamier1396 2 года назад +7

    Loved the episode ❤️ loving the come up Lex always have me cracking off and Drea always saying the real sh*t

  • @mrj5695
    @mrj5695 2 года назад +6

    Lex went in with moor talk

  • @djdswift314
    @djdswift314 2 года назад +4

    Actually Lex, you can have very different ancestry results from your siblings! DNA is crazy! Love you guys! 🤎

  • @black26075
    @black26075 2 года назад +3

    Like the new set 🔥🔥proud of you ladies fr 🙏🏾come along way ,keep grinding 💯

  • @tksjourney8048
    @tksjourney8048 2 года назад +1

    “Not you catching me gaslighting you” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @kychea6357
    @kychea6357 2 года назад

    Okayyy y’all done upgraded the background in the ad segment, love to see it😍😍😍😍

  • @kissesfromkatie5755
    @kissesfromkatie5755 2 года назад +9

    Everybody let’s give Lex a YAAAASSSS for the fresh bundles!!! Misbehaving and showing out!!!!!

  • @SnickersBarJamal
    @SnickersBarJamal 2 года назад +4

    13:39 Not the help 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @chanelbankz449
    @chanelbankz449 2 года назад +1

    Leexxxx be havin me crying at work got me lookin crazy 😂 I love yall

  • @hill2cute
    @hill2cute 2 года назад +2

    Can we see some old middle school pics of Lex ! PUHLEASE !! 🤣🤣

  • @american701
    @american701 2 года назад +2

    Keep doing y'all thang, excellent show, excellent concept.

  • @djhellnaw5632
    @djhellnaw5632 Год назад +1

    Dope stuff I just realized how much I have been gas lit like a bic

  • @misteradenking
    @misteradenking 2 года назад +1

    i love the new set yall moving on up but i do miss the more messy and drunk cant wait for one of those

  • @Thats_MarieHoney
    @Thats_MarieHoney 2 года назад +4

    I be telling my friend never hold in they fart for this reason 😂 I knew it was true 😂

  • @Someboutju901
    @Someboutju901 2 года назад +9

    Bruh they get funnier and funnier 🤣🤣🤣

  • @sweethoneybee3616
    @sweethoneybee3616 2 года назад +1

    I screamed so loud when yall started singing stomp 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I love yall

  • @user-qk7lh4wl6e
    @user-qk7lh4wl6e Год назад

    If anyone is telling you you’re embarrassing them and it’s not because you’re sh** wasted stumbling everywhere, don’t hang with them anymore!

  • @BillionareBoyShow
    @BillionareBoyShow 2 года назад +3

    I’m crying at Drea at 53:05 😂😂😂

  • @yahshawndasturdivant106
    @yahshawndasturdivant106 2 года назад

    I'm crying so hard!!!! 🤣🤣🤣I love yall! Thanks for inspiring me to start my podcast with my girl back up!🥰

  • @kissesfromkatie5755
    @kissesfromkatie5755 2 года назад +1

    Maaaaannnn I have to come to a live show! I’m about to see 85 south for the first time tonight!!!!

  • @dymond8001
    @dymond8001 2 года назад +1

    I love y’all podcast pls keep going 😭❤️

  • @rb6701
    @rb6701 2 года назад +1

    Great episode and the live clip at the end 🔥

  • @iamkandacemarie
    @iamkandacemarie 2 года назад

    Omggg the new studio 😍😍😍

  • @mahletalemayohu2568
    @mahletalemayohu2568 2 года назад

    Lex why are you like this bro 😂😂😂 the singing segment - I am screaming

  • @dejapalmer5982
    @dejapalmer5982 2 года назад +2

    Happy Friday pour crew 🥂

  • @azamqulwa717
    @azamqulwa717 2 года назад +1

    I love lovd love the show breakdown segment cause I don't be knowing what to watch chile and need those recommendations 😂😂😂

  • @sarahmathieu6122
    @sarahmathieu6122 2 года назад +7

    Liking the new set 😍

  • @kpacshakur6969
    @kpacshakur6969 2 года назад +1

    Lex know she wrong for calling grandma Drea the help LMFAOOOOOOO

  • @pscih7149
    @pscih7149 2 года назад +1

    Aww y'alls new studio at 20:00 is so cute

  • @ConsciouslyEno
    @ConsciouslyEno 2 года назад +4

    Love y’all 💜💜

    • @DreaAndLex
      @DreaAndLex  2 года назад +1

      ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @NinaBlow
    @NinaBlow 2 года назад +7

    Lex you lookth goodth with them pig tails!! too cute

  • @lynnlynn7092
    @lynnlynn7092 Год назад

    I will be attending a live show in 2023! PERIOD.

  • @roddollaz
    @roddollaz 2 года назад +7

    This podcast is for all the niggaz who come here to get free game from a ladies perspective 😎

  • @EricaLee8
    @EricaLee8 2 года назад +1

    i had the beiber bang too for a little while too😂😂

  • @maryt8953
    @maryt8953 2 года назад +1

    Lex was definitely giving Kirk Jackson🤣🤣😭

  • @jalamahoganie
    @jalamahoganie 2 года назад +4

    Why Ryan ain’t move draya mic up 😂😂😂

  • @taylorfitnessmade2745
    @taylorfitnessmade2745 2 года назад +1

    Ooooh jacuzzi talk Drea and Lex🤔

  • @domh2163
    @domh2163 2 года назад +1

    Is that the new set during the babbl plug!? Love it

  • @taylorfitnessmade2745
    @taylorfitnessmade2745 2 года назад +2

    In the arms of the angels😂😂😂 stop...

  • @kansworld.
    @kansworld. Год назад +1

    Are you Kirk or Michael Jackson? I'm crying 😂

  • @baba-bv8xz
    @baba-bv8xz 2 года назад +1

    The Moors? Sis! 😂😂 Not Sister Lex P ( P for Perspicacious) getting in her Hotep Queen bag.

  • @tantaniarenee
    @tantaniarenee 2 года назад

    Not Lex slaying in the babbel commercial!! 😍😍

  • @photogelic3135
    @photogelic3135 Год назад +1

    😂 Dirtier than a old Garage 😂

  • @vashtilou731
    @vashtilou731 2 года назад +1

    "Stomp"!!! Im Crying!!

  • @keilabazile2016
    @keilabazile2016 2 года назад

    I’m SCREAMINGGGG at the song choice at the end 😭😭

  • @Biddysworld
    @Biddysworld 2 года назад +1

    I love you guys so much this episode was so good I hope I can afford to get y’all on my podcast one day 😭😭♥️♥️

  • @crystalrubbie9383
    @crystalrubbie9383 2 года назад +4

    7:45 I'm scared loooool don't start no shit it won't be no shit

  • @CT-hz6mz
    @CT-hz6mz 2 года назад +1

    the song💀💀❤‍🔥...and omg please come to FL😢

  • @tiffanyanthony5552
    @tiffanyanthony5552 2 года назад +2

    Ohhh shittt nie it Friday !! A Good Friday at that ‼️😍

  • @sportyspice7230
    @sportyspice7230 2 года назад +1

    LEX!!!!! 1:25:17 I’m in tears 😭 🤣🤣🤣

  • @miaprice9652
    @miaprice9652 2 года назад +5

    I been waiting all day on this💚💚

  • @yahshawndasturdivant106
    @yahshawndasturdivant106 2 года назад

    Stomp took me out!!!🤣🙏

  • @SnickersBarJamal
    @SnickersBarJamal 2 года назад +2

    46:46 Can I have some porridge sir 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @rredd4680
    @rredd4680 2 года назад +1

    Lex to damn funny😂😂 I like her personality!!!

  • @potentspirit3096
    @potentspirit3096 2 года назад

    Y’all need your own App!

  • @BeLikeNyaTV
    @BeLikeNyaTV 2 года назад +1

    Can we plz get a gif of y’all winking 😉 at each other ASAP 😭💀

  • @pscih7149
    @pscih7149 2 года назад +2

    Lex is hilarious

  • @RobandSijay
    @RobandSijay 2 года назад +1

    1:18:20 YOU DID NOT NAME THE EPISODE THIS DAMNIT LMAO one day its gone match I got faith in us

  • @Redd91ful
    @Redd91ful 2 года назад +1

    30:21 lex gomnnnn😂😂😂😂