Adoption isn’t for everybody, but it’s just as meaningful. My parents had me even though it took a long time. They then adopted my sister from Mexico and she is 100% family and loved. She may not be a blood sibling but to me, she was always meant to be my sibling. Always.
Awww this is so heartwarming. Me and my sister were adopted as well. I don’t think my parents did any fertility testing, or at least not to a painful extent. Okay, honestly, whether or not my sister is blood-related to me or not, we have very different personalities and do not get along sometimes, but we are getting better now that we are older and more mature. Regarding my parents, they love me a ton, and I love them a ton.
@@Krl03 Siblings adoptive or blood can turn out very different. My siblings are by blood and we are all different and used to fight a lot. But now we all get along. I'm glad it's getting better. It usually does when you you get older and more mature.
Glazed donut it’s ok to adopt you can save a kid who might be depressed because a kid can’t have a family thinking that he was hopeless and stupid thinking his mom didn’t want him
My mum was 44 when she was pregnant, and had to go to special treatments to keep her baby safe. Her baby was born 5 and 1/2 weeks early, weighing a tiny 5 pounds and 5 ounces Here I am today... :)
SinSeer You still have to pay for a child for an average of 30,000$ and THEN pay for stuff for it to survive. If you’re in the hospital, done giving birth, your bill is probably gonna be 8,000$ And then pay for stuff. I already got some plans on how to save up on money. So I definitely do have money. If my parents raised me on a budget, I can do it too, WITHOUT a budget.
I am a 3th child, unwanted and born right before the war started. My mother considered an abortion but decided not to. She had a tough labor and I was born dead. They obiosly did get me back to life but the lack of oxigen damaged my nerves and caused my hearong loss. But I am happy I got the chance to live! I am 20 yrs old now :)
Your an amazing gift. You were put on this earth in that way by God who loves you so very much. I hope your life is filled with joy and happiness. Love from a random encourager 💚💙
I have quite the same story except my father begged my mom for an abortion... I was a big baby and my mother is a small woman so I nearly killed us both
all these people in the comments saying “adoption is an option”. yep, you said it yourself. adoption is an *option* not an obligation. adopting and having a child of your own is a totally different experience. just because a couple doesn’t want to adopt doesn’t mean they’re ignorant. the real ignorant people are the ones that judge people that don’t adopt. edit - i’m not saying that i’m against adoption. my sister was adopted by a couple in amsterdam because of safety issues with her dad. i’m all for adoption, but it’s just not the same. as the video said, they wanted a piece of themselves in the world.
Nevaeh Hammond if they wanted so desperately to put a child in this world why not help one of the children already in this world who were so unfortunate as to be put up for adoption. These children can actually feel pain and will remember that their parents either died or left them, but the miscarried children don’t have to suffer, they never lived
People think every woman should have a baby to be happy but I truly believe that it is not true. You don't need a baby to feel happy or completed.women can achieve greater things we aren't living like in the old ages.
This isn't some gender stereotype thing it's a treasure women get to have *devastating reality is that they take it for granted* children don't ruin your life, nor do they make you MORE stressed out, they make you stronger and it's a journey to raise them write out THEIR story with them
Yesika Narvaez I get what u r saying here but having been a kids once myself(I stressed the shit out of my parents) they definitely make you more stressed out. I don’t think it matters how you raise the kid you will 100% always be more stressed with kids. The Divorce rate of people with kids is higher than the divorce rate of people without kids which is fucked up, but funny 😆
My mom and dad also couldn't get children, so my mom tried ivf as well. It didn't work for her, she was so sad. My mom really wanted to have children she didn't care if they weren't her own. So my mom and dad adopted their first son. They cared for him a lot, two years later they wanted a second child a beautiful little girl. My parents were so happy they had children, they were happy about the way things were now. They thought two children is enough but then out of now where my mom who could not get pregnant, was pregnant with me! I was her little suprise she always tells me. I love my family and people always tell us that we have a beautiful family since we all have different skin colours. I am very happy that my parents adopted children because if they didn't i probably wouldn't have had siblings. My message is that you don't have to have your own children adopting is a very good solution, because you're also helping a child.
@@comradestalin4826 that's a really stupid comment. My mom and dad don't have a favorite if you have children you should treat them equal and that's what my parents do. I think if they really had a favorite they wouldn't pick me because I always argue with them and I think they think that I should take example to my older sister (since she is basically always better then me lol). They do really love me and care for me tho, don't worry. My mom called me her 'little suprise' because hello she couldn't get pregnant and she tried ivf multiple times. That doesn't immediatly mean I'm her favorite. I mean I would be kinda shocked too if so many doctors told me I couldn't get pregnant and than out of nowhere you are. My parents love my siblings just as much as me and they would do anything for us. I'm actually really lucky!🙃
march_to _the_sea there are so many things that are special about biological children, they share your own blood and dna and genes and its another generation ? adopting can be special but it probably doesnt feel the same as your own child
maybe i'm just saying this because i'm a silly teenager but i don't think i'd ever want to be pregnant. it's just? so not worth the effort. i'd rather adopt because not only will i be making myself happy, i'll be helping another child in need. edit: why did this comment gain so much attention? AND WHY IS EVERYONE ARGUING WITH EACH OTHER. if the 12-year-olds are saying they planned their lives then whatever, let them grow up and realize it themselves. telling them that they're dumb and foolish isn't going to help.
im happy to hear that but what kind of kid are you adopting... The older kids which abandoned by their parents Or Babies....its hard if your adopting a baby Cause you will have to tell them when they get older... But sometimes misbehaved because you adopted them but nit telling them for a long time :P
The whole video I was like "why not adopt" with this passion for having a baby, you could help a one small Soul who also didn't have any luck in their short life.
@@frootloopsmysamefood8382 it's not "forcing" them to do anything. They're just suggesting that they adopt because of all the orphans who need families.
I love these videos because I like how they learn from their choices and it’s really cool Edit:see look I fixed the mistake, now you don’t have to go on and on about it!
what ever can y’all stop with the “pEriOd cRampS aRe ThE woRst thIng evER XD1!1! TheReS nOthIng woRsE1!1!1! I mean come on, we get it, you have a period. But yes, there are a lot of things worse then cramps.
I’d rather put a gun to my head then have a child. My parents thought they were ready, but they weren’t. And to this day I have to do through missing them and crying because I’m alone when living with my grandparents. Other kids make fun of me because I’m adopted by them. If you want to give birth go ahead, I won’t stop you. BUT BE READY BEFORE YOU BREAK AN INNOCENT CHILD’S HEART!
@@Septembersend34 Idk if they really commited suicide though, but I might forget that I commented on this comment and on to this comment and on to this comment and on to this comment
RyleePlayz There’s so much hype over having a biological child. To me, it just seems kinda selfish to make a new human instead of giving an already existing one a home.
So many people don't know that adoption is fucking hard. It's not like an animal shelter where you go and just pick a kid and go home. There's an absolute shit ton of paperwork, and it's extremely expensive. Sometimes, it's even more expensive and time-consuming than just getting a biological kid.
I definitely respect their choice of didn’t try any other IVF, but I don’t get why adoption wasn’t even considered as an option. With this I don’t want to say that adopting a child in those days is so easy, but at least, it could be a more healthy choice for the woman’s body, and it will bring happiness in the life of a children orphan.
Sophia Claire I don’t think that IVF isn’t expensive at all but in the first place whatvis definitely expensive too is rising a child, and that is considered a choice.
adoption is a YEARS long process. And the end result is you may be denied. Look up the US adoption, it sucks, People more often go over seas due to the adoption is quicker/easier.
my mom never got the experience to be a real teenager she got married at 16 and her parents divorced when she was 10 years old she always tells me to experience my life while i'm young she inspires me so much i love her
@@jackiea.7971 Hey now, they're just voicing their opinion, not giving hate. If they were aggressive i could understand your comment, but they weren't, they were just saying they didn't agree that you have to have a kid to be happy in life, not that they hated the video.
Everybody saying it’s so expensive to adopt, 300,000 and such, not true through the foster system. My mom adopted 6. And it’s no more expensive if you can afford IVF. And yes you would feel like it’s your child. I child is yours whether they came out of your stomach, another’s stomach, or a Petri dish. Love is what makes them yours. ❤️
adopting a kid is probably cheaper than IVF, that shit costs a FORTUNE in the US at least. It's not too bad if your insurance covers part of the cost but otherwise it's too expensive for your average Joe (or Jane). Adoption meanwhile isnt that expensive, some adoption agencies can have steep fees but there are cheaper alternatives like the foster system, religious organizations or similar childrens charities, or private adoptions
My mom was pregnant with twins for her firstborns. I think she wanted ME to die instead of my twin sister, who had died of a heart failure when we were born.
stargirl I feel like most people would be willing to fill out hundreds of documents, wait and undergo a background check if it means saving a child and giving them the life that they deserve.
stargirl not to mention that many people want younger kids/babies not grown teenagers that have repeatedly cycled through the system. Then there are the emotional/mental issues many of them face from abuse and neglect. And let’s be honest if you have a family and want to add one more you are not wanting to add someone you gave to be concerned could turn against your existing kids. Adoption is a nice idea but it’s annoying when people throw it out there as if it’s an easy 123 solution.
You don’t need children to be happy, of course children are important and mothers are hero’s, but not every woman is able to carry children and not every man can make a baby. Also a lot of homosexuals are unable to have kids, because adoption is not allowed everywhere around the world (even marriage is forbidden for most of them!). Some people simply don’t want children. And there are still happy people everywhere!
Emma Frost Um... But every person is birthed from a mother. Sure, not as heroic as a veteran, but sadly in our society a lot of women ditch their babies. Even if it's already a social norm, it's okay to praise the mothers who care about raising the next generation. You're also not taking into account that the mother has to deal with nearly a year of risking her own life in an attempt to give new life. "Spreading your legs" is a statement that horribly objectifies what women have to do to become pregnant. We don't say a veteran "causes massacres through gunpower for patriotism" because that's a grossly overzealous idealization of what they're actually doing. Looks like someone hasn't had the most pleasant experiences with their mother.
Women are heros. They are able to carry a human being inside of them for 9 months and then give birth through their vagina. That is truly amazing in my opinion.
Yes but adoption is very expensive as is ivf. There is also a long waiting list and criteria u must meet in order to be considered. They do very extensive backgrounds. Even tho you are a good candidate most adoption agency require two parents. So most single people who arent married but would like to adopted wont even qualify.
@@natalievalenzuela7493 I know it is expensive but isn't it worth experiencing how it is like to have a child? In a few years that person will feel like this is their real child. I don't mean faking as if they're the parents, the kid knows he's/she's adopted but... That kid will feel like the parents that adopted him/her will be his/her real parents
I never really knew I wanted to be a Mom. I loved my freedom. I didn’t necessarily connect very strongly with babies and children the way that some people naturally do. But then I became a mother and everything changed. My son has been the highlight of my entire life and now 11 years later, I’m pregnant with a daughter. I’m so excited to meet her. But...I was happy before children too. Many women want babies, but many are very happy not being parents as well.
Bad title, you don’t need children to be happy, anybody could be happy without kids! Happiness isn’t something that comes JUST from having a kid. Just putting that out there because I feel like some people will think too in depth on this
This was a nice story but if you adopt a child it's a great thing to I an the oldest of 6 and two of my little sisters and my little brother are adopted and me and my family would not chang it for anything but I'm so happy for you and agree that you don't need children to be happy but if you ever decide you do what children this is a great way to go:)
If you really want a child you should adopt one! Itll show the kid that somebody wants them even if their previous parents left them and you would help an orphanage make more space to help other children.
Adoption costs a LOT of money. There is a probationary term of 3 years if you do manage to get a child. Children have been pulled from homes due to the home not being ‘Christian enough’, or after someone loses a job, or any number of stupid things. I have actually seen this happen to some friends of mine. After 3 years of being a child’s parents and 15k in renewing contracts and paperwork, their little girl was ripped from them because one of them was laid off. They got to feel utter despair and heart break as their 5 year old was dragged off, screaming in horror. They spent more money on an appeal, but were rejected because on top of one person being laid off, they lived in an apartment. It wasn’t deemed ‘stable’. So the state ripped her away from her parents like monsters, and shoved her in an unstable system where she was sent from place to place. These places were neglectful, abusive and terrifying. No one wanted to attempt to adopt her, because of how she was taken away before, and of her age and ‘damage’. She finally got into contact with my friends again via social media, and told them of her living nightmare. She is 14 now, and they can do nothing. This happens more often than you think. Mayhap you judgement morons should actually do some research into adoption.
@@dieCG that's heartbreaking!! I'm sorry I didnt know that happens!! I'm still young! I'm happy that they can talk to her though, I pray that something good happens for them. 🙏
IVF is the reason I’m alive right now. My mother couldn’t give birth normally, and she went through so many procedures because she had so many conditions... just to bring me to life. I’m here against all odds- I shouldn’t be alive. I thank God and my dedicated mother for letting me be a part this world.
I support this woman with my whole heart, but adoption is an actual option if you can't conceive naturally. You'd be giving kids a chance at a happy, whole family.
It’s just not the same when it’s not your blood and I get really nasty comments because of I say but the reason why is because it’s true and people will never accept it
@My name is Happy Singh SUPERMAN 99 wasn't implying that kids always have to be related by blood! They were saying that, sometimes couples who are unable to conceive sometimes can't accept adoption because of mental reasons. I fully support adoption and SUPERMAN 99 does too, they're just pointing out that some people can't accept adoption. Thanks for your opinion, My name is Happy Singh!
@My name is Happy Singh you are 1 of those people that will never understand and that I have nothing against adopting but the feeling is just not the same knowing that child isn’t truly yours don’t think of me as some kind of jerk that is rude to orphans I am trying to say the feeling is different and don’t say so what it is still your child I don’t wanna get in any arguments also I respect everyone opinion
I loved this story! Thank you so much for sharing it with us. Actually, I am one of those babies. I was the tenth and last try of my parents to get pregnant. My mom went through all this 9 times until she finally got pregnant with me and I don't want to imagine what she went through! Guess what? I also have a sister. Five years younger than me. My mom is one if the strongest women I have ever met in my life. With this little story I don't want to make your story bad. I really think that you're strong and I love how you learned to enjoy everything you have in life! Wishing you all the best! ♡
Some women can get kind of obsessed with having a kid. A friend of mine who was in his late 50's got married to a 28yo woman and after a few years she decided she wanted kids and it became an obsession, even though my friend was at this point had recently turned 60. They both agreed they werent going to have kids but she still refuses to take birth control, even to help her severe periods, and she still "loses" his condoms. She started working as a high end au pair and seems happier now that she has some kids to take care of. When some women get to their late 20's or early 30's they go into what my mom calls the "nesting stage" and start feeling really maternal and start pursuing serious relationships, and look into having kids. With some women their maternal instincts go into overdrive and the can get kinda crazy.
on of my twins was born without her arm and a part if her chest, and the other was born without her left leg up to her knee. neither died, thank God, and my adopted daughter has mental disabilities bit physical.
Aest : she JUST said she didn’t care if it was their baby or not, she only couldn’t bear see another women going through a pregnancy while carrying her children
Eh...I probably won't have kids...my dads side of the family has cancer that practically would eliminate the chance of having a kid over 25...I really want to have a kid over 30 so I'm just gonna adopt
i feel really happy for her that she managed to come out of her tough period. she could always see the bright side of things, and also has a very loving and supportive husband. also, i want to be her goddaughter, please. imagine all the good food she would let me eat KDKSJD
Wow!!! So u were 20 and already had your bachelor? And living your dream career!!!! And even wanting a baby👏👏👏 I'm twenty I'm in my second year of college and having a baby is the last thing I can ever think of. Tho I'm in a committed relationship....
I appreciate my solidarity and independence too much to have a child never mind get married. (I’m a loner who prefers books and music over real people)
Artoria Pendragon yeah but it’s not arguable that it takes a fuck load of your time and life you are at a massive disadvantage to do what you want when you have a kid
my mom’s been anemic since she was young. with that is a risk of having an under weight baby. they baby came two weeks early and weighed at 4 pounds. the doctors feared the baby wouldn’t make it. here i am today
Well, having a child of your own is pretty amazing, if not one of the best feeling. But, a baby cannot speak obviously so, when the baby that you love so dearly is in pain and you cant really help cuz u dont know what hurts. Docs sometimes risk the situation too. That feeling that your baby might die one of the worst feeling if not the worst. So i wanna say this, if you plan on having a child, good for you, you will love it very much im sure and when your child learns to walk you may shwd some joyful tears i know i did. But be prepared to worry your brains off when they get sick or something else. My life is so much better after having a child of my own with the woman i love. Although what i said here is a bit obvious future for someone. Im actually trying to scream my happiness and sorrow at the same time. Note - I know i dont make sense from the 1st paragraph. But im just happy. Simple man, loving his family.
Mizo GamerML Don’t you know mothers understand their babies? It’s hard to understand but, the baby has a special kinda cry and that makes the mother understand what the baby wants easier
@@fluffchilla1317 but mother wont know the real reason. The exact spot. I have a child, and my wife kinda guest it correct sometimes but not everytime.
......adoption is a good idea gurl😑 And definitely less painful😅 And you can adopt a child from many ages 😁 And looks at their amazing personality to see which one fits you😊 But the toys would still be as pricey😒 But who cares its your choice to be a mother and you need to learn how to handle being a mom (you will be an amazing mom) 😄
it's sad that people who don't want kids accidentally get them and people who want them, cant have them even if they try their hardest
Sara Elina yeah that’s so sad
Yeah
You know..... it be like that sometimes (from the one who doesn’t want kids)
True
Sara Elina yup that’s just sad
Half the comments: “Adoption is an Option.”
Other half: “STOP SAYING ADOPTION IS AN OPTION!!”
Yep we got a protest rally here.
Why stop when it is an option :/
Omg I commented this too
@@skylerroyale509 think abt it u can help a kid that may not have a parent figure in their life soo adoption is an option
@@yulifernandez2788 Yeah I'm going to adopt when I want kids actually 😂 I'm even making a whole point that adoption is awesome ❤️
I agree 100%
6:23 “the one who doesn’t know how much is too much chocolate cake”
*draws vanilla*
Hah
Lol true i noticed that too🤗
A white chocolate
Simone Krayem noticed that too
White chocolate maybe or there could be vanilla on one side and chocolate on the other
Adoption isn’t for everybody, but it’s just as meaningful. My parents had me even though it took a long time. They then adopted my sister from Mexico and she is 100% family and loved. She may not be a blood sibling but to me, she was always meant to be my sibling. Always.
A family isn’t the same blood but it’s the love
Awww this is so heartwarming. Me and my sister were adopted as well. I don’t think my parents did any fertility testing, or at least not to a painful extent. Okay, honestly, whether or not my sister is blood-related to me or not, we have very different personalities and do not get along sometimes, but we are getting better now that we are older and more mature. Regarding my parents, they love me a ton, and I love them a ton.
This is so adorable.
❤
@@Krl03 Siblings adoptive or blood can turn out very different. My siblings are by blood and we are all different and used to fight a lot. But now we all get along. I'm glad it's getting better. It usually does when you you get older and more mature.
The title should have been 'I thought I needed a baby to be happy.'
Clickbait :(
I mean ya but it's what she thought at the time
the title was perfect
All of their titles are wrong
siraparasi it was before
Everyone is saying *”STOP SAYING ADOPTION IS AN OPTION!”* yet I see no one saying it is?
They are....they are deep deep down there...
🌊🌊🌊🌊🌊🌊🌊🌊🌊🌊🌊🌊
Yes deep in the dangerous depths
Of the comments
I never saw eother
the comment above yours says yhat
Glazed donut it’s ok to adopt you can save a kid who might be depressed because a kid can’t have a family thinking that he was hopeless and stupid thinking his mom didn’t want him
i am a IVF child :)
Really!?
@@tillyzorzut7722 omg im reaally interested to know that about you!
nirmaljit kaur it doesn’t fell any different
ooooooooooooof
sameee lmao
My mum was 44 when she was pregnant, and had to go to special treatments to keep her baby safe. Her baby was born 5 and 1/2 weeks early, weighing a tiny 5 pounds and 5 ounces
Here I am today... :)
I'm tiny for my age. I'm 8 and a half and can barely reach the laundry washer and dryer and I just hang on a chair it sucks being little
LilyPlaysRobloxAndGames ok I was the size of the Landry machine now I’m the size of my mom (she’s short) 😂
@@hihi15yearsago56 you spell really well (not to be rude. i SUCKED at spelling when i was 8 and a half) i just had to point this out
@@jordynnextdoorr.5395 lil people club
I was born six weeks early, here I am.
Adopt children they deserve alot of love
Nebby and The cosmog revolution Can’t afford and feel like it’s my natural baby.
@@user-id8ih if you can't afford to adopt then you definitely won't be able to afford a baby you created.
SinSeer You still have to pay for a child for an average of 30,000$ and THEN pay for stuff for it to survive.
If you’re in the hospital, done giving birth, your bill is probably gonna be 8,000$
And then pay for stuff.
I already got some plans on how to save up on money. So I definitely do have money.
If my parents raised me on a budget, I can do it too, WITHOUT a budget.
Nebby and The cosmog revolution exacly
I'm adopted and I get a lot of love
I am a 3th child, unwanted and born right before the war started. My mother considered an abortion but decided not to. She had a tough labor and I was born dead. They obiosly did get me back to life but the lack of oxigen damaged my nerves and caused my hearong loss.
But I am happy I got the chance to live! I am 20 yrs old now :)
hello :)
just wanted to tell you that you are a blessing to the people around you. God loves you too💞
Your an amazing gift. You were put on this earth in that way by God who loves you so very much. I hope your life is filled with joy and happiness.
Love from a random encourager 💚💙
Omg keep fighting
“3th”
I have quite the same story except my father begged my mom for an abortion... I was a big baby and my mother is a small woman so I nearly killed us both
I’d much rather adopt when the Time is right
I was just thinking that
Probably a better idea, giving a sad child a home rather than making a new one.
me too
Same
Same
Next Video: My mom is my daughter
Correct very true
LOLLL
My wife is a man
WTF lol ......?
My man is a wife
all these people in the comments saying “adoption is an option”. yep, you said it yourself. adoption is an *option* not an obligation. adopting and having a child of your own is a totally different experience. just because a couple doesn’t want to adopt doesn’t mean they’re ignorant. the real ignorant people are the ones that judge people that don’t adopt.
edit - i’m not saying that i’m against adoption. my sister was adopted by a couple in amsterdam because of safety issues with her dad. i’m all for adoption, but it’s just not the same. as the video said, they wanted a piece of themselves in the world.
:v i don't want to have a kid and i don't want to adopt
daylane 45 ok good for you?
Nevaeh Hammond thank you! You said it!
True! I’m really glad someone said that! It’s just not the same, not that it isn’t as good, but it’s not the same.
Nevaeh Hammond if they wanted so desperately to put a child in this world why not help one of the children already in this world who were so unfortunate as to be put up for adoption. These children can actually feel pain and will remember that their parents either died or left them, but the miscarried children don’t have to suffer, they never lived
People think every woman should have a baby to be happy but I truly believe that it is not true. You don't need a baby to feel happy or completed.women can achieve greater things we aren't living like in the old ages.
Itzel Reyes wanting to have children and being devastated by not being able to isn’t something from the “Old age”
This isn't some gender stereotype thing it's a treasure women get to have *devastating reality is that they take it for granted* children don't ruin your life, nor do they make you MORE stressed out, they make you stronger and it's a journey to raise them write out THEIR story with them
Yesika Narvaez I get what u r saying here but having been a kids once myself(I stressed the shit out of my parents) they definitely make you more stressed out. I don’t think it matters how you raise the kid you will 100% always be more stressed with kids. The Divorce rate of people with kids is higher than the divorce rate of people without kids which is fucked up, but funny 😆
@@allyjones7225 Dude no......just no
Kids are a blessing
You can still be adopting a kid and be happy :)
Esra Sweet yeah! I don’t understand why they didn’t adopt a kid
ikr, why going through such a struggle to make another human being? there's already too many.
Some people like me could never love a child that's not their own.
yes, but that still counts as having children.
@Zobia Farooq if you can do it do it but if you can't adopt one there are already too many humans
*”Met my forever”*
My mom and dad also couldn't get children, so my mom tried ivf as well. It didn't work for her, she was so sad. My mom really wanted to have children she didn't care if they weren't her own. So my mom and dad adopted their first son. They cared for him a lot, two years later they wanted a second child a beautiful little girl. My parents were so happy they had children, they were happy about the way things were now. They thought two children is enough but then out of now where my mom who could not get pregnant, was pregnant with me! I was her little suprise she always tells me. I love my family and people always tell us that we have a beautiful family since we all have different skin colours. I am very happy that my parents adopted children because if they didn't i probably wouldn't have had siblings. My message is that you don't have to have your own children adopting is a very good solution, because you're also helping a child.
Lenaaa B are u adopted?
That’s amazing. It seems God bless them for doing that with you as their gift.
@@Yeye13455 she's not adopted in the story it says now where my mom couldn't get pregnant was pregnant with me
I could see who the favorite is
@@comradestalin4826 that's a really stupid comment. My mom and dad don't have a favorite if you have children you should treat them equal and that's what my parents do. I think if they really had a favorite they wouldn't pick me because I always argue with them and I think they think that I should take example to my older sister (since she is basically always better then me lol). They do really love me and care for me tho, don't worry. My mom called me her 'little suprise' because hello she couldn't get pregnant and she tried ivf multiple times. That doesn't immediatly mean I'm her favorite. I mean I would be kinda shocked too if so many doctors told me I couldn't get pregnant and than out of nowhere you are. My parents love my siblings just as much as me and they would do anything for us. I'm actually really lucky!🙃
Not everyone wants to adopt. Some people want a baby biologically related to them. Quit commenting about adoption.
what's so special about biological children though. also why not a surrogate? that's kind of a biological child.
march_to _the_sea
She still has a 6% chance of getting pregnant even with a surrogate, a surrogate would be useless to them.
@@mase000 I meant like, a surrogate mother
JB Gatchel and some don’t want children at all :D let everyone have their opinion
march_to _the_sea there are so many things that are special about biological children, they share your own blood and dna and genes and its another generation ? adopting can be special but it probably doesnt feel the same as your own child
maybe i'm just saying this because i'm a silly teenager but i don't think i'd ever want to be pregnant. it's just? so not worth the effort. i'd rather adopt because not only will i be making myself happy, i'll be helping another child in need.
edit: why did this comment gain so much attention? AND WHY IS EVERYONE ARGUING WITH EACH OTHER. if the 12-year-olds are saying they planned their lives then whatever, let them grow up and realize it themselves. telling them that they're dumb and foolish isn't going to help.
im happy to hear that but what kind of kid are you adopting...
The older kids which abandoned by their parents
Or
Babies....its hard if your adopting a baby
Cause you will have to tell them when they get older... But sometimes misbehaved because you adopted them but nit telling them for a long time :P
GL adoption is a years long processs that mat result in your denial. :/ do a bit of research.
I'm 13 and I 100% agree with you XD
You're a smart girl. Don't let the society influence the way you lead your life
loli rin adopting can take just as much effort
My mum, 48, got IVF- three embryos were implanted and two survived
They were taken out by C-section at 8 months- and here I am (and my twin sister)
The whole video I was like "why not adopt" with this passion for having a baby, you could help a one small Soul who also didn't have any luck in their short life.
Mesu Yoru some people aren’t interested in adoption. They want biological children and nothing else.
@@NewBlueTrue that's so sad. Those kids need homes too.
Audrey Hartman Unfortunately people don’t care. Outta sight. Outta mind 😱😢
Stop forcing people to do things that wouldn't make them *happy* okay
@@frootloopsmysamefood8382 it's not "forcing" them to do anything. They're just suggesting that they adopt because of all the orphans who need families.
I love these videos because I like how they learn from their
choices and it’s really cool
Edit:see look I fixed the mistake, now you don’t have to go on and on about it!
Their
Rainy Summer
*SAME!*
llegar1 I don’t care 🤷🏼♂️
You have a really good way to cope with your own problems... from others experience ...
*same*
Having children isn't always the key to happiness
*isn't always
MinnieMint Yeah
Exactly
David A.l LOL
@Bo b true
"almost like a period cramp, but stronger" is this even possible?😮
@@aml_51 same
Yes, it's called miscarriage cramps
what ever
can y’all stop with the “pEriOd cRampS aRe ThE woRst thIng evER XD1!1! TheReS nOthIng woRsE1!1!1!
I mean come on, we get it, you have a period. But yes, there are a lot of things worse then cramps.
Are u a boy
@@nn7303 can you calm tf down
Never that serious
I’d rather put a gun to my head then have a child. My parents thought they were ready, but they weren’t. And to this day I have to do through missing them and crying because I’m alone when living with my grandparents. Other kids make fun of me because I’m adopted by them. If you want to give birth go ahead, I won’t stop you. BUT BE READY BEFORE YOU BREAK AN INNOCENT CHILD’S HEART!
Sorry 😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Learn to fight homie
@@bobobobo3491 you are such a rude and careless person.
Sorry for what you went trough
Bully you??!!?Are people really that cruel.Don't worry you can be a much better parent.
Not just your children, also parents should be happy! I'm happy that this channel uploads true stories with lessons! We love you Minute Videos!❤❤❤
@@7emv lol never thought of that but they kinda do suck, the nice ones are cool but I've got a lot of bad ones at school
@@7emv and true, I guess a lot of people's parents an teachers and shit should be happy
@@7emv but some suck, and don't tell people to commit suicide what if they really did it
@@Septembersend34 Idk if they really commited suicide though, but I might forget that I commented on this comment and on to this comment and on to this comment and on to this comment
You misunderstood the title
Why does the title say you NEED children to be happy?
Edit: it USED to say that so stop complaining about my comment jeez
Because it is what she thinks during most of the video, even though the end message is different.
Cuz it's clickbait
you need kids to be depressed
It's sarcastic/what the woman was thinking
@David A.l no lol
Plot twist: She got preggy at the end. *BUT WITH ANOTHER MANS*
Jum-B ??? Bruh
Wrong Time but LOL
🤣🤣
XD
Let's adopt kids ♥
You are lucky for having a loving boyfriend... Some don't even get that experience...
True that
Sad reality.
i really did think her boyfriend would leave her from all that stress, but he did stay with her and that is great.
Are you whining to strangers that you won't go out and do something but want love?
@purpleblueturtl You don't know what we do or don't do.
y'all know you could just adopt right?
A lot of parentless kids out there
Some people want their own child like my mother, after she did the treatment she had twins.
RyleePlayz There’s so much hype over having a biological child. To me, it just seems kinda selfish to make a new human instead of giving an already existing one a home.
@@ramennoodle6302 WOW TRUE?
So many people don't know that adoption is fucking hard. It's not like an animal shelter where you go and just pick a kid and go home. There's an absolute shit ton of paperwork, and it's extremely expensive. Sometimes, it's even more expensive and time-consuming than just getting a biological kid.
@@istoleyourwalletwhileyouwe3356 idk what kind of animal shelters are in your state, but thats literally what its like
I was actually born like this, in a glass
Edit: Thanks for the likes💞🥺
You mean in a Petri dish
Same with me! My mother calls me a "lab baby" lol
Same! I’m also a test tube baby!
It’s a science child woah
oda the science child!!!
* lip smack*
*A D O P T I O N*
Some people can’t afford adoption
@@Anna-si4ck do you have to pAy for adoption?
hyunminie yes lol
Abigail Driskell you dumb? Of course... adopting is expensive
No Name that’s why i said yes, you have to pay
GUYS they wanted to have children TOGETHER. They didn't want to adopt because they didnt make those children
adoption is a beautiful thing and can be just as emotional as a “made child”
SOU THE CHILDS THEIR ITS GOIN TO BE ALONE WITH NO PARENTS OKI LOOK HAVE THE WORD DOES'T NEED MORE CHILDREN
I will make a kid by clay then
Mrs_lili Wonder Woman was born out of clay 😎
@@pleaseimbeggingyouletmemak3051 nice....true
I definitely respect their choice of didn’t try any other IVF, but I don’t get why adoption wasn’t even considered as an option. With this I don’t want to say that adopting a child in those days is so easy, but at least, it could be a more healthy choice for the woman’s body, and it will bring happiness in the life of a children orphan.
Sophia Claire I don’t think that IVF isn’t expensive at all but in the first place whatvis definitely expensive too is rising a child, and that is considered a choice.
adoption is a YEARS long process. And the end result is you may be denied. Look up the US adoption, it sucks, People more often go over seas due to the adoption is quicker/easier.
Azazura Azura even in my country isn’t easy, I think it’s still an option that a couple can consider, even trying to adopt overseas...
Azazura Azura
As a person who IS adopted, how do you know all this?
Adopting is super expensive I think it's as much as a car to a small house. So thats why.
I needed this video. 7 miscarriage and I'm over it. My husband and I said if it doesn't happen. It just doesn't happen
God will bless you with a beautiful baby.
my mom never got the experience to be a real teenager she got married at 16 and her parents divorced when she was 10 years old
she always tells me to experience my life while i'm young
she inspires me so much i love her
Whhhaaattt
monavi lol my mom got married when she was 17
My mom got married when she was 21. She got her own job and moved out when she was 16, and her parents divorced when she was like 4. She’s amazing do🙂
my mom got married when she was 20 or 19
the title is misleading.
for some reason i knew it was going to be
Tbh I'm always thinking that the stories in these videos are fake and not true like ACTUALLY HAPPENED
It's a sarcastic title
Audrey Hartman There is no sign of sarcasm in the title or in the thumbnail.
I agree, I thought it meant that the parents need to try and make their children happy (like all the time).
Child not means happiness always.
True
@DolphinNubsRcool Work. :D
It depends
@@bushidoh8316 yep
It means that if your not ready your putting a child through hell
GO for the third. You deserve it, or adopt a kid.
Me: BABIES ARE LOUD AND I HATE THEM
Also me: I want seven to ten kids.
Eveair Well Adopt them at a foster care agency it’s free and they will give you checks to care for them
jessicagray51 I will probably do that. Or I'll adopt.
Also, no idea where this is coming from but, LOOK AT THIS GRAAAAAPPPH.
Sorry.
Eveair lol meee
I only want three :P
I personally disagree with this title lol (I’m sure that’s not what they say in the video but I have to sleep so I’ll see in the morning)
Good night...
But it's 4:15 pm at my place...
Well.. spoiler... They all live happily ever after.. the end
Me too
@@jackiea.7971 does disagreeing with a title have to do with watching and leaving a comment?
@@jackiea.7971
Hey now, they're just voicing their opinion, not giving hate. If they were aggressive i could understand your comment, but they weren't, they were just saying they didn't agree that you have to have a kid to be happy in life, not that they hated the video.
This Channel is so underrated! 💕
U don’t now how to spell channel
Jenny Wu *channel
Sewan Subedi thanks for correcting me! English isn’t my first language
@@sewansubedi4949 *know* work on yourself before correcting others
It's overrated
I breathed
*ACTUALLY HAPP-*
God damnit wrong channel again
*insert overused joke*
@@mikasan3913 that's the fuckin point
@@kaydenmarlow2674 👌 okay
Jeff Mendes The Potato shut em down
😂
I love kids...that's why I don't want them to be born in this cruel world
She probably should've got a surrogate or adopt but I understand that she wants HER OWN child.
A surrogate...means. your egg and bfs sprem. Go into another person ...so...it would be theirs?
@@greekynerd1435 actully know its not their baby its the person who cant have the babies mom
@@gachagamergirl4304 what
Gacha Cookiegirl no
Greeky Nerd yes it is their baby it has both their DNA
My mom's friend had a less than 1% chance of having a kid. She has a baby boy now.
😱
Wtf
That’s Awesome:D
🧒
Everyone keeps saying “stop saying *adoption is an option*”. I see legit no comments that say you could *adopt*..
I see one below u lol
Everybody saying it’s so expensive to adopt, 300,000 and such, not true through the foster system. My mom adopted 6. And it’s no more expensive if you can afford IVF. And yes you would feel like it’s your child. I child is yours whether they came out of your stomach, another’s stomach, or a Petri dish. Love is what makes them yours. ❤️
adopting a kid is probably cheaper than IVF, that shit costs a FORTUNE in the US at least. It's not too bad if your insurance covers part of the cost but otherwise it's too expensive for your average Joe (or Jane). Adoption meanwhile isnt that expensive, some adoption agencies can have steep fees but there are cheaper alternatives like the foster system, religious organizations or similar childrens charities, or private adoptions
You don't need children to be happy though. You just proved that with this video!
(The title was meant to be contradictory on purpose)
the title described her mentality before she moved on from her will to have a child
@@spiritlamb3867 no it was meant to be clickbait
@@suziebelle4113 Lol that's what I said, just in a different way.
@@spiritlamb3867 oh I read it wrong lmfao
i read this as "you need children to be happy " as in,like ,don't make your kids sad
Ha
Roman W-J me too hahaha
My mom was pregnant with twins for her firstborns.
I think she wanted ME to die instead of my twin sister, who had died of a heart failure when we were born.
Vampiress 89 oh my gosh
I feel so bad...i also have a twin sister, we are both fine, we were born premature but that's besides the point xD
OMG Vampiress 89, I'm so sorry for you ☹️
They could've just adopted a child if they wanted one soo badly...... ever think about that?
Flavas 24/7 she said she wants to hold her OWN CHILD?
Flavas 24/7 The feeling isn’t the same at least for me.
Because people are stupid
Flavas 24/7 but maybe she wanted her own kid and be pregnant
at the end she said she was happy with even getting to see other people’s children but like ,, go off i guess عالم فاطمه
Why not adopt?
Victoria Khristofor
They want bialogical child
They should have at least talked about having an surrogate
stargirl
I feel like most people would be willing to fill out hundreds of documents, wait and undergo a background check if it means saving a child and giving them the life that they deserve.
IVF is also very expensive and it can be dangerous for both the mom and the baby, but not always. It could have been an option.
stargirl not to mention that many people want younger kids/babies not grown teenagers that have repeatedly cycled through the system. Then there are the emotional/mental issues many of them face from abuse and neglect. And let’s be honest if you have a family and want to add one more you are not wanting to add someone you gave to be concerned could turn against your existing kids. Adoption is a nice idea but it’s annoying when people throw it out there as if it’s an easy 123 solution.
You don’t need children to be happy, of course children are important and mothers are hero’s, but not every woman is able to carry children and not every man can make a baby.
Also a lot of homosexuals are unable to have kids, because adoption is not allowed everywhere around the world (even marriage is forbidden for most of them!). Some people simply don’t want children.
And there are still happy people everywhere!
The title is sarcastic
Geehee7792 Moms aren't heroes. Veterans who go to wars are. Spreading your legs is anything but brave.
Emma Frost Um... But every person is birthed from a mother. Sure, not as heroic as a veteran, but sadly in our society a lot of women ditch their babies. Even if it's already a social norm, it's okay to praise the mothers who care about raising the next generation. You're also not taking into account that the mother has to deal with nearly a year of risking her own life in an attempt to give new life. "Spreading your legs" is a statement that horribly objectifies what women have to do to become pregnant. We don't say a veteran "causes massacres through gunpower for patriotism" because that's a grossly overzealous idealization of what they're actually doing. Looks like someone hasn't had the most pleasant experiences with their mother.
A butterfly And yeah alot of moms ditch their children to be lazy slobs or have careers. I loathe mothers who ask others to babysit for free.
Women are heros.
They are able to carry a human being inside of them for 9 months and then give birth through their vagina.
That is truly amazing in my opinion.
Says chocolate cake shows vanilla
Me: TRIGGERED*
Really liked this one.. I'm thankful for what I got
Ladies and Gentlemen... If you never get a child.. NEVER FORGET! You can adopt one. I know it is not the same but it is better than nothing...
Yes but adoption is very expensive as is ivf. There is also a long waiting list and criteria u must meet in order to be considered. They do very extensive backgrounds. Even tho you are a good candidate most adoption agency require two parents. So most single people who arent married but would like to adopted wont even qualify.
@@natalievalenzuela7493 I know it is expensive but isn't it worth experiencing how it is like to have a child? In a few years that person will feel like this is their real child. I don't mean faking as if they're the parents, the kid knows he's/she's adopted but... That kid will feel like the parents that adopted him/her will be his/her real parents
and some countries 'sell' children too for a relatively low price
it's harder then it seems
Ok, I’m adopted. So how the %&#! do you know all this?!?!?!
Nah I'm happy without kids lol ! 😂😂😂😂
Don't just read the title lol
ceny viik same
Don't you want to start a family though?
Hoi19448239345 what
@@lusiafonua6989 I'm not even married lol hahaha I'm a teen
I see people complaining about adoption comments
I dont see any tho
you're bliiiiiind ! Seriously though I only see a few.
I never really knew I wanted to be a Mom. I loved my freedom. I didn’t necessarily connect very strongly with babies and children the way that some people naturally do. But then I became a mother and everything changed. My son has been the highlight of my entire life and now 11 years later, I’m pregnant with a daughter. I’m so excited to meet her. But...I was happy before children too. Many women want babies, but many are very happy not being parents as well.
Bad title, you don’t need children to be happy, anybody could be happy without kids! Happiness isn’t something that comes JUST from having a kid. Just putting that out there because I feel like some people will think too in depth on this
Did you even watch the whole video?
It's a sarcastic title
Did u comment before u got even half way through the video??
finally, someone who actually speaks the truth.
These videos always make me cry :') It's just too damn good!
@CobbyCorn Well, now I have one- two, actually.🤣
Adoption is an option
Same
My mom had me through IVF and I’m proud to say that I’m here today strong, smart and healthy.
This was a nice story but if you adopt a child it's a great thing to I an the oldest of 6 and two of my little sisters and my little brother are adopted and me and my family would not chang it for anything but I'm so happy for you and agree that you don't need children to be happy but if you ever decide you do what children this is a great way to go:)
If you really want a child you should adopt one! Itll show the kid that somebody wants them even if their previous parents left them and you would help an orphanage make more space to help other children.
peace and kindness channel by Rayanah H Just go to a foster care agency Adopt for free
@@jessicagray51 exactly! I plan on adopting a kid
Adoption costs a LOT of money. There is a probationary term of 3 years if you do manage to get a child. Children have been pulled from homes due to the home not being ‘Christian enough’, or after someone loses a job, or any number of stupid things.
I have actually seen this happen to some friends of mine. After 3 years of being a child’s parents and 15k in renewing contracts and paperwork, their little girl was ripped from them because one of them was laid off. They got to feel utter despair and heart break as their 5 year old was dragged off, screaming in horror. They spent more money on an appeal, but were rejected because on top of one person being laid off, they lived in an apartment. It wasn’t deemed ‘stable’. So the state ripped her away from her parents like monsters, and shoved her in an unstable system where she was sent from place to place. These places were neglectful, abusive and terrifying. No one wanted to attempt to adopt her, because of how she was taken away before, and of her age and ‘damage’. She finally got into contact with my friends again via social media, and told them of her living nightmare. She is 14 now, and they can do nothing.
This happens more often than you think. Mayhap you judgement morons should actually do some research into adoption.
@@dieCG that's heartbreaking!! I'm sorry I didnt know that happens!! I'm still young! I'm happy that they can talk to her though, I pray that something good happens for them. 🙏
Yeah but It's hard to say the truth to them when it's needed . . .
I'm offended by the title
😂😂👌
It's meant to be the woman's thoughts through the video. She thought she wouldn't be happy without a child but she discovered that she can be.
it’s about her story so chil
@@audreyhartman I know but before you watched the video it basiclly kind of triggers you and makes you click kinda like clickbait 😅
@@laurag9733 Ik I just don't like the title 😂
My aunt can't have kids so she made her own daycare at home
I know that it wouldn't be the same but why not adopt a baby, you would still have those special moments with them
When I was 7 pregnancy was the first thing on my mind it's just a joke I just liked babies and still do
army
I love how she said “WE still haven’t got pregnant”.
JUDE because it’s a team effort
IVF is the reason I’m alive right now. My mother couldn’t give birth normally, and she went through so many procedures because she had so many conditions... just to bring me to life. I’m here against all odds- I shouldn’t be alive. I thank God and my dedicated mother for letting me be a part this world.
You can get a cat or a puppy. ..?
mega anime crack & memes exactly?? Like you can care for a pet just as much as a kid
Slytherin Star Same. I used to have a hamster and I loved here. I always wanted something like a bird or a snake
@Marissa Johnson cats and dogs are much better.
You keep saying boyfriend.
You guys aren’t married?
Maybe it'll be more expensive to marry. I have an old nanny who couldn't marry because it was too expensive.
xX Blossom Xx maybe they needed to get married before having kids 😂
xx LavenderKattii xx
yeah? It’s pretty normal to have kids before marriage now. What’s it too ya?
Blackpink in The Room Where it Happens they don’t have the money to get married but have the money for IVF?
@@adela3153 Maybe they spent the money that they had on IVF rather than marriage.
I support this woman with my whole heart, but adoption is an actual option if you can't conceive naturally.
You'd be giving kids a chance at a happy, whole family.
It’s just not the same when it’s not your blood and I get really nasty comments because of I say but the reason why is because it’s true and people will never accept it
@@SUPERMAN-ii7hx Thanks! I understand your opinion. People sometimes can't accept adoption
@My name is Happy Singh SUPERMAN 99 wasn't implying that kids always have to be related by blood! They were saying that, sometimes couples who are unable to conceive sometimes can't accept adoption because of mental reasons. I fully support adoption and SUPERMAN 99 does too, they're just pointing out that some people can't accept adoption.
Thanks for your opinion, My name is Happy Singh!
@My name is Happy Singh you are 1 of those people that will never understand and that I have nothing against adopting but the feeling is just not the same knowing that child isn’t truly yours don’t think of me as some kind of jerk that is rude to orphans I am trying to say the feeling is different and don’t say so what it is still your child I don’t wanna get in any arguments also I respect everyone opinion
Personally I’d rather have my own biological child, but if that’s not possible I will consider adoption.
I loved this story! Thank you so much for sharing it with us.
Actually, I am one of those babies. I was the tenth and last try of my parents to get pregnant. My mom went through all this 9 times until she finally got pregnant with me and I don't want to imagine what she went through! Guess what? I also have a sister. Five years younger than me. My mom is one if the strongest women I have ever met in my life.
With this little story I don't want to make your story bad. I really think that you're strong and I love how you learned to enjoy everything you have in life!
Wishing you all the best! ♡
3 words: ADOPTIONS OR PETS! also you obivously don't need them to be happy.
oh yass, pets. there are so many animals in need
Food
Some women can get kind of obsessed with having a kid. A friend of mine who was in his late 50's got married to a 28yo woman and after a few years she decided she wanted kids and it became an obsession, even though my friend was at this point had recently turned 60. They both agreed they werent going to have kids but she still refuses to take birth control, even to help her severe periods, and she still "loses" his condoms. She started working as a high end au pair and seems happier now that she has some kids to take care of.
When some women get to their late 20's or early 30's they go into what my mom calls the "nesting stage" and start feeling really maternal and start pursuing serious relationships, and look into having kids. With some women their maternal instincts go into overdrive and the can get kinda crazy.
:) I love cats!
@@alexangelkitten433 I prefer cats to kids. Cata are quiter and dont poop on the floor as often
My mum had twins and one of them came out with no head.
My twin died.
Oh my god that’s so sad, I’m so sorry. Were you identical or fraternal? Omggg noooo so sad
So sorry
How does that happen
Holly cow! Me and my twin sister were fine, we were born premature but nobody died x-x
on of my twins was born without her arm and a part if her chest, and the other was born without her left leg up to her knee. neither died, thank God, and my adopted daughter has mental disabilities bit physical.
Why didn’t u adopt one?
that takes like 3 yaers
LOL watermelon WATERMELONS yeah but at least you’d have a baby
Because they wanted to bring their OWN baby
Aest : she JUST said she didn’t care if it was their baby or not, she only couldn’t bear see another women going through a pregnancy while carrying her children
@@mistymcdaniel37 the earliest you can adopt a kid is 6 months
Her: wants a baby so badly
Me: doesn't want a baby and doesn't even want to be married
A very passionate narration.
why didn't they adopt?
S Pr q
S Pr it’s not really done as much now
Adoption isnt that easy-_-
Anu yeah but they seemed really set on having a child. I’m surprised they didn’t try.
Adoption isn't easy!
Eh...I probably won't have kids...my dads side of the family has cancer that practically would eliminate the chance of having a kid over 25...I really want to have a kid over 30 so I'm just gonna adopt
Good on you, but what is Clorox Bleach doing with children?
@Sugary Nugget yes,yes I am...let them suffer
Flvffy Card That’s our secret.....
Clorox Bleach adoption is a choice
Just Hekla they said that in their comment?
i feel really happy for her that she managed to come out of her tough period. she could always see the bright side of things, and also has a very loving and supportive husband. also, i want to be her goddaughter, please. imagine all the good food she would let me eat KDKSJD
Try by adopting, doing that you're giving a child the oportunity of having a family.❤
Well it’s just not the same when it’s not your blood and the only reason why you might scream at my face because I said that is because it’s true
@@SUPERMAN-ii7hx why do you comment on everyone who is for adoption
Wow!!! So u were 20 and already had your bachelor? And living your dream career!!!! And even wanting a baby👏👏👏 I'm twenty I'm in my second year of college and having a baby is the last thing I can ever think of. Tho I'm in a committed relationship....
I appreciate my solidarity and independence too much to have a child never mind get married. (I’m a loner who prefers books and music over real people)
This was beautiful and everyone is a mother and she is one of them in her own way! ♡♡
Not being able to share a child doesn't mean they couldn't have a family of three. I'm sure they would have made great adoption parents.
Me during this whole video: *YOU CAN JUST ADOPT*
Keitha-Chan! ADOPTION IS NOT FOR EVERYONE HOW COME YOU BE THAT STUPED TO NOT UNDERSTAND THAT
SUPERMAN 99 not how u spell stupid lol
@@SUPERMAN-ii7hx triggered much?
adoption isn't always for everyone and its a long process and a lot of work to be able to adopt.
No matter what, I don't want kids. Losing 20 years of my life, not for me no.
Artoria Pendragon yeah but it’s not arguable that it takes a fuck load of your time and life you are at a massive disadvantage to do what you want when you have a kid
@SeedlessJellyBeans _nice one_
oooowwwwssss??
my mom’s been anemic since she was young. with that is a risk of having an under weight baby.
they baby came two weeks early and weighed at 4 pounds. the doctors feared the baby wouldn’t make it.
here i am today
Its beautiful. But we dont need children to be happy.
ʙᴜᴛᴛᴇʀᴄᴜᴘғøx well I do
@@slavicproductions7757 ok.
So I just had to DELETE my older comment BACAUSE I was getting too many nasty and hateful replies. Thanks. Great job guys. Just, great.
What was your other comment?
I was talking about the fact that they changed the vid. name way too many times.
And they were saying "Yea they should change it to I Wanted Kids But I'm Too Lazy". Disgusting.
not trying to be rude, just try not to complain, people could have comprehended the comment differently
but I ain't one of em
why????? im not a father.
Cuz your single lol jk
#single potato for life!!
Lol, watch the video, don't just read the title XD
This is a really unexpected ending. I love it. I don't like some other story channels that have a reality ending.
Well, having a child of your own is pretty amazing, if not one of the best feeling. But, a baby cannot speak obviously so, when the baby that you love so dearly is in pain and you cant really help cuz u dont know what hurts. Docs sometimes risk the situation too. That feeling that your baby might die one of the worst feeling if not the worst.
So i wanna say this, if you plan on having a child, good for you, you will love it very much im sure and when your child learns to walk you may shwd some joyful tears i know i did. But be prepared to worry your brains off when they get sick or something else. My life is so much better after having a child of my own with the woman i love. Although what i said here is a bit obvious future for someone. Im actually trying to scream my happiness and sorrow at the same time.
Note - I know i dont make sense from the 1st paragraph. But im just happy. Simple man, loving his family.
Mizo GamerML Don’t you know mothers understand their babies? It’s hard to understand but, the baby has a special kinda cry and that makes the mother understand what the baby wants easier
@@fluffchilla1317 but mother wont know the real reason. The exact spot. I have a child, and my wife kinda guest it correct sometimes but not everytime.
Mizo GamerML oh
......adoption is a good idea gurl😑
And definitely less painful😅
And you can adopt a child from many ages 😁
And looks at their amazing personality to see which one fits you😊
But the toys would still be as pricey😒
But who cares its your choice to be a mother and you need to learn how to handle being a mom (you will be an amazing mom) 😄
Of course you don't need to adopt
But the thing is it you want a child so desperately then you should adopt
Not trying to be rude with the last thing too 😅
*whispers*
Adopppppttt you close-minded woman
Stop whispering we can't hear you
Martín Mejía how is wanting your OWN child begin closed minded? If anyone is a close minded person that is you.
@@jessica-pp5jy she wanted to raise the population instead of raising a neglected child that needs love.
@@suziebelle4113 Choice
@@suziebelle4113 i would not adopt its expensive and alot of bullshit comes with it
I was born with IVF thank you doctors for creating this miracle