yeah, while i'd really rather not look at a guy like that while paying for a meal at a restaurant, it would be a cold day in hell before i'd actually COMPLAIN about it publicly. I could also, you know, look at someone else, or something else, or anything else and just ignore him, its not THAT hard.
@@Vihara2 Forreal, its so easy to not look at somebody at a restaurant just the way tables are set up. You really gotta go out of your way. And whats more it kind of seems like this was a take-out spot which is even dumber. It sounds like the cashier did this on his own prerogative since he wasn't there that long and just standing in line. The article I saw said the restaurant, which is unnamed, hasn't responded to the guy so I'd bet money it was the owner being a jerk. Small businesses aren't always worth rooting for, sometimes they scummy as shit.
Yeah, the lack of empathy in a lot of these comments on here is astounding honestly. That poor guy probably dreads going out like that. Finally get the courage and get thrown out because other people can't unstick their eyes. Just wanted a burger, and maybe a pint. And to mingle like every "normal" person.
@@dbsommers1 Internet warriors defending someone on the interwebs is irrelevant. You'd have a leg to stand on if someone at the restaurant stood up for the guy. But no one did.
even in those tv programs where they "help the people with disabilities" haven't you noticed it's always the "good looking disabilities" that are shown...??
"Vitiligo is something that disproportionately affects poor African Americans, please help" *image of the world's hottest black woman handcrafted by God on screen*
Body Positivity was originally for people like this. Those with deformities or other such problems that they could not change that often negatively impacted them in society and in their own mental state. It was so people could go "do not be ashamed of how you look. There is nothing for you to be ashamed of." But like most of these movements, they were almost immediately hijacked by people looking to use it to either gain praise for doing nothing or to excuse personal failings.
I agree to this upto my receding hairline, pretentious 'victims' have utterly hijacked the narrative around 'victimhood' and who deserves to be treated well. These days it's mostly the most prissy and fruity and entitled bunch, crying and screaming the loudest. The quietest of them all continue remaining quiet and being taken advantage off
@@TiramisuDesu97 I see it this way: Ask the person if they could get rid of the disability or deformity, would they? 100% of the time, those who say yes are those that genuinely have a problem and should be helped. Those that say no are attention seekers.
@@invidatauro8922 Probably most of the time, but not always. I'm an example of someone who doesn't fit your example. I have long-term chronic illness, which is related to a variety of developmental and sensory issues. I wouldn't change it, despite decades of terrible suffering. My challenges and struggles made me who I am, and I'm okay with that.
If we are being honest, it was the fat people who hijacked “body positivity”. People who choose to live a lifestyle full of sloth and gluttony and then expect everyone to accept them for it while putting in zero effort to even try and better themselves. It’s disgusting
@@valarmorghulis5575 Body shaming doesn't just mean Obesity, the definition of body shaming is literally in its name, People can Body shame Skinny people, people with deformities, Obesity etc, so yes It falls under body shaming.
@@appletherapy how is that not living in reality? clearly YOU don't. the dude didn't even have time to sit, which means nobody had time to make the complaint.
He would have to be able to prove it and these things are really hard to prove. Best case scenario they try to settle before the process even starts now that it's gone viral and they're already losing in the court of public opinion.
The chance that the manager, bartender, reporting customer, and everyone who overheard all decide to lie is very low, because they know that if the number of people who lie is >0, any liars will be in trouble. So, even if we assume all of these people are purely selfish fiends, the interrogatives would still return usable evidence.
@@boldCactuslad are they even going to know which customer reported it? It'll probably just be staff and employees cover for each other all the time, it's the default. Management doesn't even need to say anything and the staff will lie to protect the business.
I know you might be special but every restaurant pub or whatever has their RIGHT to pick their customers, its a private business not a public canteen, if they dont like you they can choose just not to serve you
Congratulations on realizing that, welcome to earth and welcome to adulthood. So now that you know it dont be part of them and stop complaining about complainers
That's not actually illegal (I think). I private business should have the right to refuse service to any customer at any time for any reason. Is it a shitty thing to do? Absolutely, but entirely within their rights.
@@RYNOCIRATOR_V5who says you need a video? If you take someone to court, they are under oath to say the truth and nothing but the truth. If anyone working at the restaurant decides to lie, they are taking a chance of getting caught in a lie.
People always scream "lawsuit", as if it were that easy. It could take months, even years, countless hours, worries, financial strain, only for the possibility that you win and still can't pay all your fees.
Correction: This man has every right to eat at a more polite restaurant I'm not the guy who feels good when something bad happens to another person, but the restaurant may lose some costumers and gain bad reputation because of this, which in the best cases, it will make people be (a little) more sensitive about these topics
It's okay to feel a bit uncomfortable at seeing such deformities. It is a natural feeling, but these are the type of things you just got to learn to live with. He has every right to be there.
Personally I think that it is not even okay to FEEL uncomfortable seeing such deformities. We are all human, like wtf, this is what can happen to everyone of us, just remember it.
@@ИванПрозоров-м4э "I think that it is not even okay to FEEL uncomfortable seeing such deformities." - It's not something you can't control my guy. You can't ask someone not to be uncomfortable about something, whatever it is. It's normal not to do a big deal of it and to act normally and not to show that you're uncomfortable tho. Being uncomfortable doesn't mean you think he's inhuman or whatever, it's just a feeling
@@lordenvincar "they probably kill you and rigthfully so since you are saying they are not normal to look at unlike you." - Get some help brat, you have issues... "We shouldnt tell people that is okay to feel a little weird when they see a deformity but in fact remind them that is completly normal. I mean can you imagine telling someone "is okay to feel uncomfortable around black people"?" - I'll repeat what I previously said, you can't force people not to feel uncomfortable about anything because it's something they can't control at all. You can tell people it's normal, you can tell people there's no issue with that but you can't ask people not to be uncomfortable with something or someone as it's a feeling..
@@lordenvincar Is dark skin a deformity? And by the same logic, we should not be telling women that it's okay to feel uncomfortable around men. Get that nonsequitor out of here.
@@Khashmonet Most countries have anti-discrimination laws in some form or another, some only including disabilities/race/religion, but many include a bunch of other shit as well for obvious reasons
Strictly speaking he's deformed not handicapped, actually he might be handicapped given one eye, but the request was based on deformity rather than being inaccessible due to handicap.
1:08 Weird is called weird because it's weird, and people will always think it's weird. It's not about creating a creepy dystopia where people's thoughts are controlled for the greater good, it's about teaching people empathy and basic politeness and that sometimes you should keep your thoughts to yourself.
Exactly. Like, if you meet the Elephant Man, you’re probably gonna be shocked and you’re probably gonna think some things that would be pretty unkind to say out loud. So, don’t say them; just mind your business. Don’t know why that’s so hard for a _grown adult_ to do.
@@RealBelisariusCawl I can imagine that some interesting toxic mixture of Western values there Freedom of expression, equity, good communication and empathy The results is sharing how scared you are near him, granting him on opportunity to do the better thing and remove his presence near you. It's easy to walk away, it's hard and horrible to be scared at restaurant I'm waiting when some random girls could literally say "I start imagine getting pregnant by him and now I'm literally shaking. Remove him immediately!"
Sadly that probably won't happen, we live in the age of narcissism where so many people think they should get to say something about things they shouldn't say anything about. The only people those people truly care about are themselves
Oh, at the local places I eat at, they would pick you up by the collar or ear and lock the door behind you. NY Italians man lol. I don't think they would catch a charge either because groups of every type of police eat there like every day.
Yeah, but what if they identify as someone who can't be asked to leave? Then the restaurant is discriminating against a protected group of people. You can't do that!
He probably does want to leave if that guy is staying, he's probably disgusted and doesn't feel like eating sitting there looking at this guys disgusting ass face. Who would? Im not eating next to that. it's seaping liquid. He has a fresh and mortifying wound on his face. Hes not disabled, nothing is stopping him from covering that mess. He just doesn't care if he makes everyone else uncomfortable.
Imagine how he feels for just a SECOND and you'll feel compassion. Sure, his face is a little uncomfortable to look at. Now, think about how uncomfortable HE feels with people staring at him. My heart goes out to this dude. It's gotta take insane emotional resilience to go through this.
I don't understand why doesn't he just cover his face? If he makes everyone uncomfortable including himself? I will never understand these people. I think the staff were in the right for asking him to leave
@@AlphaHaze Yeah it's just like if someone is a transgender but don't look like a woman. You should do what you can to not make other people uncomfortable instead of just blaming other people for being uncomfortable. Or demanding everyone else adjust to your needs. If you don't want to cover up that's fine but any business is in the right for kicking you out, you being there literally costs them money
@redblue5140 Now this just sounds like you're victim-blaming him. The guy was literally born with a disfigured face and he has to unfortunately live with it. Even if he did try to cover it up, he would still get judged. Even if he did try to get surgery, it would be very expensive all for the sake of not getting discriminated. Other people, however, have full control of whether or not they want to kick him out of the restaurant or just leave him alone. Also, you probably misunderstood my comment because I said you should blame people for straight-up oppressing him and not because they feel uncomfortable.
@@AlphaHaze Victim-blaming? Sorry, I am not English I am not familiar with that terminology. I don't know exactly what you mean by him still being judged but if he covered up and gets kicked out then the restaurant would be in the wrong. It would be completely unreasonable since he is covering up a deformity. However he didn't cover up so that makes him most in the wrong. He had full control over whether to cover up or not and he chose not to, and make others uncomfortable. I'm not sure what you mean by oppressing, I don't think that is the right word since it is a private business and private individuals denying him service because of something he has control over, which is the way he is dressed.
Back in 2012, I worked in a factory where the heat and oils in the air would irritate my eczema. I’m talking I’d be covered in red patches all over my face, arms, legs. Grown ass adults reported me to my supervisor multiple times. Every time I had to explain to them I could not help it. It wasn’t harming anyone or the product in any way. I completely understand how this guy felt. Society hasn’t changed at all.
I mean, they may be worried that you've caught something infectious, as what you described aligns with many infectious diseases, but they should have the decency to ask you about it. That really sucks
Insulted a man for having a disability thats out of their control, yet these people defended oversized people who eats too much and are too lazy to exercise
As someone who is overweight and trying to lose said weight we need to lose that stupid privilege we got and we need to give it to people who actually need it like this poor man im so angry that body positivity movents have been taken over by people who only care for rhe good looking disabilitys not the disfigureing ones
The fact that this man isn’t even scary looking just justifies that society is nothing more but a scam, this world is nothing more but a scam. This man deserves INFINITELY amounts of better❤.
I really think we’re nearing end times. I know people have said that for millennia, but the times were in line up with a lot of what Revelations has to say.
@@Alflowill yeah you say that until it happens. I struggle with my faith a lot, but I know God is out there. All knees will bow, and all tongues shall confess, whether you think it’s “cringe” or not.
This poor man, he just wanted a meal. I hope that he’s got good people to rally around him and provide some comfort against the disgusting treatment that he has experienced.
@luis-alberto. Complaining about nazi behavior does not make him look bad and nobody is saying you have to be tolerant about his face all the staff had to do was provide him with simple human rights
@@luis-alberto. Yes you’re right you don’t have to be tolerant of his face, but you know what they could do mind their own business it’s simple just stfu and eat damn their food and go about their day it’s simple logic so what the man’s face is deformed??? WHY do these pricks have to go the extra mile to kick the man out of the restaurant? Is it that hard to look the other way if it bothers the person so much? Society is already a crap fest just let the man eat in peace
You say that but it's completely normal to not want someone who has a disease that can spread around you. Do you think people had lepors around? No they had to go and live outside the city.
@@ptttak7167If being an npc means being a good and respectful person, then i will happily be an npc, this world is forgeting the value of respect and kindness
@@WaterspoutsOfTheDeep The disgust response is perfectly natural. Of course this isn't that type of disease, but the automatic response can't take that into account, which is why that guys needs to live in a community that's informed about his condition.
I once heard about a war veteran who suffered a devastating gunshot wound to the head. Half of his face was gone and it’s a medical miracle that he survived. Doctors did what they could to repair the damage but there wasn’t much to work with. A bone graft, skin graft and prosthetics for his right eye and upper jaw was needed. He too was heartbroken that people would never look at him the same way but thankfully he received a lot of support. Whether you are born with it or suffer from disease or injury later in life people deserve to be treated with respect and kindness.
@@apersonwhothinksallthetime I am a really picky eater! If I see him I won't be able to eat so I will just pack my shit up and go home myself instead of complaining
@@youtubeenjoyer1743 I would silently bitch to myself about it while being incredibly thankful I didn't have to deal with that problem myself. I worked in retail for most of my life, I'm used to much worse from people that COULD control themselves. I'd never Karen out and try to get someone thrown out of anywhere for anything other than belligerence.
If you are unlucky life is hell! He doesn't only experience insane pain constantly also has to deal with 'ordinary people' and their 'massive problems'..
@@PresidentHotdoghe said , "even if i was", so you can assume that he is in fact not scared, he is just tryng to tell us what he would do if he was one of the people who was scared in that restaurant, and yes there are people who are afraid of people with deformities but the problem is not that, is how you treat that people, dont being mean with others is what it counts.
That's so strange because one time when I was at the Lourdes for a pilgrimage (Christian city in France btw), there was a guy in one of the hotel restaurants who has the same condition as this guy and he was treated normally and even got to eat with people. Even if there were one or two people talking about him, it was more out of concern like "is he going to be okay?" kind of talk.
haven't been to Lourdes myself, but according to a 2009 film of the same name (great drama, by the way), there's an awful lot of pilgrims with disabilities. They must've gotten used to this stuff or at least expected to witness it. Not saying these 'Muricans in question aren't scumbags, though
@@outdatedjoke9706It is regarded as a miraculous place, so many pilgrims go there to ask for a miracle that heals their ailments. So, yeah, it's probably far more normalized there than in most places.
Yes, people with disfigurements like this guy's are a little freaky looking, but complaining to staff to make the man leave? That's scummy. Was he being an obnoxious or poor customer? No? Then he had no reason to be removed like that.
I agree, I mean it's not like he chose to look that way, if he could fix it I bet he would. Heck, the employees could have quietly found a table in back somewhere, so he wouldn't bother anyone. They wouldn't even have needed to tell him about it.
@@dhgmrz17 maybe not even so that he wouldnt bother anyone, but rather that he wouldnt be bothered. You can tell when other look at you like a animal in a zoo, so i would rather sit in a quite corner myself for my own peace of mind instead for that of others.
tbh, he would disturb me too. Not because he's disfigured, but because it looks like what he has is contagious. Which is probably what was scaring people.
Before you bring out your pitch forks, always wait for more context. What if the issue isn't the owner of the restaurant, but a Karen or a crackhead employee? I guess you can always blame the owner of hiring them in the first place. But having this man on the news by itself is justice served.
Where are the "have empathy", "just be a good person" and (my favorite) "right side of history" crowd? Oh, I get it, that's just for the protected groups that the media and celebrities tell us to worship. How progressive our society is, huh?
I saw a woman like that at the airport. Not gonna lie, it does catch you off guard but man, just show a bit of kindness if you happen to cross paths or just go about doing whatever it is you're doing. Asking that guy to leave is completely insane. Disgusting behavior.
i remember a poor guy in our neighbourhood who was a black person and burned by a fire when he saved 2 kids he didn't even know, my church gave people like him supplies as their life was hard and couldn't find any type of work they could do and what they could wouldn't accept them, one time i delivered the food from the church bank (not sure how it's called in english this is a direct greek translation) and he said he looked like a monster in response of that i asked him if he ever looked in the miror. shit like that shouldn't be tolorated by anyone because these people lose the abilities that they had every day or some even never had (sorry for my bad english still learning after 15 years)
In English we often call them a Food-Bank. Many are run independently of churches but some are from religious places. Your English is better than many native English speakers. Congratulations on a job well done. I wish you continued success
Man, that must be really gut wrenching to hear, if someone tells you to leave a place because, your deformities supposedly are scaring other people. This is such disrespectful thing to say to someone.
I was thinking the same thing. He shouldn't HAVE to wear a mask, but I always thought if I had a facial deformity, I'd make a really nice metal face-plate and have it engraved by a talented artist for style. Same if I lost a hand or an arm. It would suck, but I would also enjoy the creativity and artistry that I could apply to the situation.
I would also use a mask, yeah the situation is bad, but I would like people to not need to look at my scar all the time. He could use half-face masks, there are a lot of designes of porcelain masks. He could literally make it an accessory and every time he explains why he uses it people would find it even cooler.
@@Brekner MFer are just virtue signaling. guy is covered in hives from head to toe, skin melting off his face, and skin puffing out like dough in an oven. Every normal human being would be scared of this man IRL
i got a lot of scars on my body and i was ashamed of them half of my life. this man is a trooper. i startet to wear my scars like a medal of honor when i understood that i am still alive and this man is going strong. he does not cower in a dark room but drags that stupid discrimination into the light.
@@m4rcin847 Seriously? So people with this condition should just stay inside and hide themselves away? Almost sounds like one of the complainers in the video
@@m4rcin847 He probably thought that he lived in a society of decent people, who were adult enough to realize that nature is cruel enough, that they would be better people for not adding to his misery by treating him poorly over a condition that he doesn't control. Not to worry though, he won't be making that mistake again.
It's not even just that he was asked to leave which is bad enough on so many levels. It's the fact that everybody else genuinely must have wanted him gone seeing as they lacked even the decency to stand up for the guy. Utterly disgraceful.
I’m sorry but I’d be genuinely put off from eating if I saw this person and there’s many people who would feel the same way. It’s a business in the end. Some people puke watching pimple popping videos and some people love them while eating snacks.
@@Cheezkrispies131yea and a lot of people in the 19th century would be genuinely put off by a black person walking into a restaurant that doesn’t make it ok
I wear an eyepatch on my eye. I have it, its still functional, but extremely photo-sensitive. It hurts A LOT when I have even slightly brighter than usual light, or direct sun light. People look at me like I'm terrorist and gonna explode any minute now. But man, it doesn't even compare to be outcasted and outright sent off by the facts you literally cannot control. Fatness is what you DO control, but disfigurment is not. High hopes for that man to meet people who'll actually care what person he is and not how he looks :)
Ahoy, me matey! Regrettably this buffoon has the critical readin' skills of a man with, but no eyes. But I do have, but 1 valid question, since ye bad eye is photosensitive, do it be seein' better in the dark? Would be pretty advantageous in my line o' work havin' a night eye and a day eye. Alas, I be wishin ye and your good eye the best o' luck on the high seas or wherever the winds take ye. - Ol' Capt'n Crableg
I'm never going to just expect people to not react when they see someone with a disfigurement. It's just not realistic. But with that being said, asking someone to leave a restaurant because of it is just a terrible thing to do.
This is our dear friend and neighbour and personally are appalled at the treatment this restaurant gave him. The Met police do have powers to charge with a hate crime. Mostly at the moment they seem to be more than willing to charge and arrest people with lawful gender critical opinions who post comments on X. This restaurant staff surely need to be investigated, charged & fined as well as offering serious compensation for the humiliation & hurt caused to Oliver. I also think the restaurant should be named and shamed.
Sue.. That's what he do, They should sue the establishment.. Take them for all they are worth.. If you have to escort me out because I don't have some @#$% Symbol of veteran status or funny army hat from Nam. Or a bunch of purple hears wielded into my face.. That establishment can Kiss my Legal retort.. SUE for harassment abuse and psychological dehumanization.
Named and shamed? Yes Sued? Maybe Charged? I feel like we over use this, you can refuse service and you can be an ***** the repercussion should be people not buying your stuff though. We have to stop criminally charging people for being rude.
@@VioletDeathRei you cant refuse service for someone just existing with disabilities. Thats illegal discrimination. Or if they only discriminated against blacks or asians would that be only legally chargeable? Its the same thing. like in the 50s in the united state where segregation was a thing.
So in some places in Japan right now the same thing is happening but not to people with disabilities just regular people, “foreigners”, some of which are not and are citizens. Asking anyone to leave who isn’t causing a disturbance (which doesn’t take a genius to recognize so it’s like 0.01% of people) is disgusting and is discrimination in many forms.
My parents would have smacked me for staring, let alone saying something uncouth to someone who wasn't looking for attention. I am astounded where we have come to as a society.
Still people denies pretty and handsome privileges. PS. "No such thing as pretty privileges" said by Handsome and beautiful people. You will never hear ugly people say that. A lot of the time privileges is invisible to those who have it.
@@ChasingEnigma yes, attractive people tend to think that people flock to them because of their personality or charisma, but if you put them in the shoes of an average person they'll find out very quickly that pretty privilige is very real.
I’m a disabled veteran and my leg is pretty messed up. I don’t want people to see it so I haven’t worn shorts in 15 years. I can’t even imagine how this man feels. People will stare, they laugh, you’ll notice entire groups of people turning around to look as their friends point. It’s not always the direct confrontations that hurt the most. 😢
What is sad is you could literally have a homeless person right outside that business taking a shi and they wouldn't say nothing. This man is giving them business and trying to get something to eat and he is the problem? The world is backwards.
@@luis-alberto.what do you mean "trying to justify this guy" and what do you mean a "problem that doesn't occur". I don't even go out all that much and I've been harassed by homeless guys in drivethroughs tons of times. I offer to buy them food instead of giving them money.
dont think so, most likely karens. karens are, in fact, most likely to be conservatives who HATE everything out of the norm like jews, democrats, gay people etc. ask how many "woke" people are running HOAS. there you go, the REAL answer beside your polemic
I admit, it would put me off of eating. But if you’re staring at someone enough to feel disgusted instead of looking at your food and the person/people you’re with, WHY ARE YOU AT A RESTAURANT?!
@@j-rex6Realistically, I’d have to agree with you. It is a bit unsettling. But the guy deserves to be a part of society, too. Nobody deserves that level of ostracism. It’s just an unfortunate scenario all around
Let's be honest, we all feel something, our brain are hard wired to fear or dislike any sort of unnatural parts of a person's body, however it is how a person act upon that feeling that will define you
yep, it's a natural instinct. Just like trypophobia. If we see signs of bad health or disfigurement, just like with lepers we instinctively want to avoid for fear of contagion.
That's where you find the quality of a person, the one who doesn't confuse his primitive instincts with reality. The poor man may look bad, yes, I don't deny it, but I won't go like a scared child to the manager and tell him to take the man out because he scares me. Be a mature person and understand that there are diseases that leave you like this. Believe me, there are people who look worse and that doesn't make them bad people. It's because of that backward instinct that we have that discrimination against these people exists, because of that and because of ignorance.
@@youdontcare2312 Exactly. And the instict isn't even bad - it helped us even reach this point by straying away from possibly deadly diseases. But in our modern world, where medicine has never been more advanced, never more things have been treatable, if not outright curable, this instinct often can work against us. This man is entirely harmless from a medical perspective, or else he wouldn't be walking around freely. As you said, the character of a person is shown in their actions, not in their thoughts. To initially have unpleasant thoughts or involuntary to something or someone unusual is normal, but everyone has the choice to either act upon them and make a fuss about it, or to mind their business.
How can you be "scared" of this? Are the customers 7 year olds? You can think he looks weird, but there's something really wrong with you if you're scared of this.
I am scared of this. I am scared thet it could be like leprosy and simply being within 15 ft of him when he coughs will make me like him. That is a natural fear every sane human has, otherwise disease would've wiped humanity out. "But it's not contagious" is something average person couldn't know, and risking my life to find that out is not something I will ever do.
@@araamahasla555leprosy is a slow burn of close contact with someone who has it. I can actually understand your point though. That guy was born unlucky but he seems to be a pretty chill guy.
Nuerofibromatosis is apparently tumors on roids in the human body. Most people live a normal life expectancy however the tumors just keep coming. I’d say he has a strong heart regardless of the world looking at him from the outside instead of learning about who he is.
Been discriminated against before for being gay, shit was so weird, like I kind of always figured it would happen at some point but when it actually did happen it was so surreal. Was in a movie theatre on a date with a guy, and I put my arm over his shoulder, and elderly couple sitting next to us got visibly upset and complained directly to us saying we were being disgusting and to "have some shame and go sin in private", I told them to mind their business and if they were uncomfortable with us then they could leave, then the old man got up and then left, he came back with an employee who informed us we had to leave because we were making the old couple "uncomfortable" I explained that I literally just put my arm around his shoulder and that they were uncomfortable because we were gay but they still sided with the couple and kicked us out. Shit was wild.
A friend of mine is part owner of a restaurant and works as a manager 4 nights a week. Whenever he gets a complaint about a disfigured customer, he goes and gives that disfigured customer the VIP treatment. It's an italian restaurant so he has this screened in area and he gives them the privacy they need from the other customers who apparently have issues. Idk, I think most people should just you know, pay attention to the people at their table instead of looking around at other people.
I have been in such screened off tables, supremely comfy, makes you feel like an Emperor. More often than not they just call it the VIP room or cubicle, but this one place nearby they call it The King's Table. This service is superb.
@@stratometal My friends restaurant calls his VIP area "The Colosseum" primarily because of how the screen is designed so that you can look out of the area, but it's difficult to look in. You truly feel like you're sitting in a private area.
its not an accident or anything just a medical condition he has, and he is very nice about spreading awareness on the subject. poor guy just wishes to be treated the same
This is sad man. He didn't choose to be born with a deformity. Life handed him a bad card and now we discriminate against him because of pure luck. Nobody choses to be born different. It happens. So why be against them?
@@sanguinedelight6464yes and fuckwits like pineapple just doesn't have a clue what's coming... Everyone thinks everything gonna be alright . We know that's B's.
Both my son and I get discriminated againts because we have so called "invisible disability". People are just shit who have no empathy. This doesn't surprise me at all. Happens all the time without being in the news or social media.
asmond i dont watch your videos often but cant thank you enough for uploading this. as someone with neurofibromatosis type 1 myself its great to see bringing awareness to it. It really does mean alot
I have seen many people with disformaties and have felt a bit weird, but complaining to the staff that the guy looks scary is wrong on all levels
yeah, while i'd really rather not look at a guy like that while paying for a meal at a restaurant, it would be a cold day in hell before i'd actually COMPLAIN about it publicly. I could also, you know, look at someone else, or something else, or anything else and just ignore him, its not THAT hard.
@@hughwotmeight2453 so? its not like they are obligateted to look him
@@Vihara2 Forreal, its so easy to not look at somebody at a restaurant just the way tables are set up. You really gotta go out of your way. And whats more it kind of seems like this was a take-out spot which is even dumber. It sounds like the cashier did this on his own prerogative since he wasn't there that long and just standing in line. The article I saw said the restaurant, which is unnamed, hasn't responded to the guy so I'd bet money it was the owner being a jerk. Small businesses aren't always worth rooting for, sometimes they scummy as shit.
@@Vihara2 look at someone else? calm down, incel. How dare you look at people, you far-right bigot?! reeeeeeeeeeee /s
His name is Ethan Klein and he has a podcast called H3H3 dont be mean guys ❤
"Are we regressing as a society?"
Yeah, no shit.
We aren't regressing. If "we" are it's only a specific political party. 👈
@@GMAN-l9pwhile I'd like to agree, read the comments defending him getting thrown out. There are too many for it to be exclusively one side.
We’re progressing, but in the wrong direction.
Yeah, the lack of empathy in a lot of these comments on here is astounding honestly.
That poor guy probably dreads going out like that. Finally get the courage and get thrown out because other people can't unstick their eyes.
Just wanted a burger, and maybe a pint. And to mingle like every "normal" person.
@@dbsommers1 Internet warriors defending someone on the interwebs is irrelevant. You'd have a leg to stand on if someone at the restaurant stood up for the guy.
But no one did.
Body positivity believers when they see people who got actually deformed
That's like Progressives when they see people with downsyndrome (most folks with Down syndrome get aborted)
true
Let's be real, you don't know if it was positivers or not.
@@skywillfindyouoh, we know.
Only applies when it benefits them
Imagine a military veteran who survived with deformities and get treated like this honestly messed up
Wait he's also a veteran???
@@itachitard6096 "Imagine"
@@po_je_pierogi It has happened multiple times. Hell ive seen it happen
@@IronPatriotofAmerica I know I just corrected the guy that MadjJuniur said "imagine" not that the guy in video was veteran
what utter horse crap.
even in those tv programs where they "help the people with disabilities"
haven't you noticed it's always the "good looking disabilities" that are shown...??
Damn those sexy cripples!
"Vitiligo is something that disproportionately affects poor African Americans, please help"
*image of the world's hottest black woman handcrafted by God on screen*
@@SeasoningTheObese Americans sure do have a thing for their Afro diaspora.
Or it's the cute and "quirky" mental disabilities. Like Autism
LOL...that's so true!
Body Positivity was originally for people like this. Those with deformities or other such problems that they could not change that often negatively impacted them in society and in their own mental state. It was so people could go "do not be ashamed of how you look. There is nothing for you to be ashamed of."
But like most of these movements, they were almost immediately hijacked by people looking to use it to either gain praise for doing nothing or to excuse personal failings.
"hijacked by people" AKA white women.
I agree to this upto my receding hairline, pretentious 'victims' have utterly hijacked the narrative around 'victimhood' and who deserves to be treated well.
These days it's mostly the most prissy and fruity and entitled bunch, crying and screaming the loudest. The quietest of them all continue remaining quiet and being taken advantage off
@@TiramisuDesu97 I see it this way: Ask the person if they could get rid of the disability or deformity, would they?
100% of the time, those who say yes are those that genuinely have a problem and should be helped.
Those that say no are attention seekers.
@@invidatauro8922 Probably most of the time, but not always. I'm an example of someone who doesn't fit your example.
I have long-term chronic illness, which is related to a variety of developmental and sensory issues. I wouldn't change it, despite decades of terrible suffering. My challenges and struggles made me who I am, and I'm okay with that.
If we are being honest, it was the fat people who hijacked “body positivity”. People who choose to live a lifestyle full of sloth and gluttony and then expect everyone to accept them for it while putting in zero effort to even try and better themselves. It’s disgusting
Well, this is the actual meaning of body shaming.
He's not obese. That doesn't fall under their criteria. Sad that it was those who did not choose their appearance are the ones being body shamed.
BODY SHAMING IS SHAMING SOMEONE FOR THEIR BODY. it does fall under the criteria@@valarmorghulis5575
@@valarmorghulis5575 Body shaming doesn't just mean Obesity, the definition of body shaming is literally in its name, People can Body shame Skinny people, people with deformities, Obesity etc, so yes It falls under body shaming.
Body shaming can happen a lot of different types of people...
@@valarmorghulis5575 body shaming doesnt only mean fat bruh its not hard to understand its literally in the name
0:26 A person who throws a complaint. Isn't automatically in the right.
Realistically no customers complained, it was just him or his management that wanted the guy to leave
@@burger9788 You don't live in reality.
@@burger9788 These reality or not are what makes crooked cops. Because they believe the Karen not the law.
@@appletherapy how is that not living in reality? clearly YOU don't. the dude didn't even have time to sit, which means nobody had time to make the complaint.
unfortunately, people are foolish and are easily led
The whole "ugly = bad" trope doesn't apply to real life. The man was well spoken, and seems awfully polite.
It works for first impressions
That's not true. We don't life in fairyland. Most freaks are outcasts.
That's what people think, though. The same way they attribute good traits to good looking people.
Inconsiderate.
People are kinder to attractive people no matter which gender. It's the sad truth of life.
That cake shoveling comment made me burst out laughing. Holy shit. It is so true though.
Bro didn’t hold back frfr
im sure it made at least 95% of people watching chuckle at least a little.
W comment. x10000
+1 for that random stranger!
Surprised a salty reddit mod didn't ban them for it
Yeah, autoimmune disorders are no joke. But this sounds like an open-and-shut lawsuit.
And a legitimate justification to cancel some Karens...
He would have to be able to prove it and these things are really hard to prove. Best case scenario they try to settle before the process even starts now that it's gone viral and they're already losing in the court of public opinion.
The chance that the manager, bartender, reporting customer, and everyone who overheard all decide to lie is very low, because they know that if the number of people who lie is >0, any liars will be in trouble. So, even if we assume all of these people are purely selfish fiends, the interrogatives would still return usable evidence.
@@boldCactuslad are they even going to know which customer reported it? It'll probably just be staff and employees cover for each other all the time, it's the default. Management doesn't even need to say anything and the staff will lie to protect the business.
I know you might be special but every restaurant pub or whatever has their RIGHT to pick their customers, its a private business not a public canteen, if they dont like you they can choose just not to serve you
@@Boost400 Not when it is overtly discriminatory. Imagine turning away a Black customer cuz he's "scaring the customers"
The Term "Body Positivity" was literally introduced for people with Deformities and Disabilities.
no its a co op for "let my fat lard self get benefits without question as i mock you"
@@moonshiners-cv6kd but thats how it started .
@@bananainvasion2655 and still is and what's your point?
@@moonshiners-cv6kd its no longer about deformities and disabilities and now an excuse for the fat and lazy
Before it was hijacked by so-called “activists” who refuse to take care of themselves and expect the world to adjust to their lifestyles.
Discrimination based on disability is a crime btw
I bet they won't even approve the lawsuit or something.
If they reject it, that shows how full of it these laws are.
Which is a problem.
All discriminations are a crime
@@mystey1umm, no? If a bar doesn't let in minors, that's discrimination based on age.
"Rules for thee, but not for mee"
And people still complain about the smallest things In the world....
Yea, mostly people don't have to deal with their skin falling off.
That's twitter also
about things they don't have to complain about
Congratulations on realizing that, welcome to earth and welcome to adulthood. So now that you know it dont be part of them and stop complaining about complainers
Yeah my wife does it every day. 😥
Mom: Don't stare at them, it's very rude!
Also Mom: 👁👁
Nah. This is all kinds of wrong.
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Is it though? It looks like a disease that can spread. You think people had lepors around? No they had to live outside the city.
@@Raulsta1985 he joined almost 10 years ago. Botts didn't exist then
@@butterybarns8838 his name is H3H3 and he actually has a successful podcast called 'Ethan Klein' so dont be mean guys ❤
It isn't
Illegal. Lawsuit. Win.
Without a video? Sounds challenging.
That's not actually illegal (I think). I private business should have the right to refuse service to any customer at any time for any reason. Is it a shitty thing to do? Absolutely, but entirely within their rights.
@@RYNOCIRATOR_V5who says you need a video? If you take someone to court, they are under oath to say the truth and nothing but the truth. If anyone working at the restaurant decides to lie, they are taking a chance of getting caught in a lie.
@@pretzels1208 They should have that right, but they don't. It is illegal.
People always scream "lawsuit", as if it were that easy. It could take months, even years, countless hours, worries, financial strain, only for the possibility that you win and still can't pay all your fees.
I mean bro look like he just got back from surviving left 4 dead so he looks cool in my book
😆
I loved that game 😂
He's probably that veteran survivor that knows the nooks and crannies of not dying in the apocalypse
He was a smoker that got cured (specifically L4D 1 smoker)
ngl if I didn't know I'd think he was more likely the thing you need to run from
This man has every right to eat at that restaurant
Correction: This man has every right to eat at a more polite restaurant
I'm not the guy who feels good when something bad happens to another person, but the restaurant may lose some costumers and gain bad reputation because of this, which in the best cases, it will make people be (a little) more sensitive about these topics
King Baldwin mask solves everything (jk) (don't take seriously)
at that point I'd just be wearing a balaclava everytime I leave the house
he has every right to steal the straws and napkins
Actually, most restaurants reserve the right to refuse service to anyone.
It's okay to feel a bit uncomfortable at seeing such deformities. It is a natural feeling, but these are the type of things you just got to learn to live with. He has every right to be there.
I would prefer it if businesses could choose to not serve people on any grounds they choose.
Especially fat people.
Personally I think that it is not even okay to FEEL uncomfortable seeing such deformities. We are all human, like wtf, this is what can happen to everyone of us, just remember it.
@@ИванПрозоров-м4э "I think that it is not even okay to FEEL uncomfortable seeing such deformities."
- It's not something you can't control my guy. You can't ask someone not to be uncomfortable about something, whatever it is. It's normal not to do a big deal of it and to act normally and not to show that you're uncomfortable tho.
Being uncomfortable doesn't mean you think he's inhuman or whatever, it's just a feeling
@@lordenvincar "they probably kill you and rigthfully so since you are saying they are not normal to look at unlike you."
- Get some help brat, you have issues...
"We shouldnt tell people that is okay to feel a little weird when they see a deformity but in fact remind them that is completly normal. I mean can you imagine telling someone "is okay to feel uncomfortable around black people"?"
- I'll repeat what I previously said, you can't force people not to feel uncomfortable about anything because it's something they can't control at all. You can tell people it's normal, you can tell people there's no issue with that but you can't ask people not to be uncomfortable with something or someone as it's a feeling..
@@lordenvincar Is dark skin a deformity?
And by the same logic, we should not be telling women that it's okay to feel uncomfortable around men.
Get that nonsequitor out of here.
Isn’t this technically illegal and discrimination based on handicapped people?
Depends where it happened. If this happened in America, yes.
Yes
@@Khashmonet Most countries have anti-discrimination laws in some form or another, some only including disabilities/race/religion, but many include a bunch of other shit as well for obvious reasons
Nope. White.
Strictly speaking he's deformed not handicapped, actually he might be handicapped given one eye, but the request was based on deformity rather than being inaccessible due to handicap.
1:08 Weird is called weird because it's weird, and people will always think it's weird. It's not about creating a creepy dystopia where people's thoughts are controlled for the greater good, it's about teaching people empathy and basic politeness and that sometimes you should keep your thoughts to yourself.
NEVER
Exactly. Like, if you meet the Elephant Man, you’re probably gonna be shocked and you’re probably gonna think some things that would be pretty unkind to say out loud. So, don’t say them; just mind your business. Don’t know why that’s so hard for a _grown adult_ to do.
@@RealBelisariusCawl NEVER
@@RealBelisariusCawl I can imagine that some interesting toxic mixture of Western values there
Freedom of expression, equity, good communication and empathy
The results is sharing how scared you are near him, granting him on opportunity to do the better thing and remove his presence near you. It's easy to walk away, it's hard and horrible to be scared at restaurant
I'm waiting when some random girls could literally say "I start imagine getting pregnant by him and now I'm literally shaking. Remove him immediately!"
Sadly that probably won't happen, we live in the age of narcissism where so many people think they should get to say something about things they shouldn't say anything about. The only people those people truly care about are themselves
To be fair square if I feel scared by a dude like him it will be me leaving the restaurant, rather than make him responsible of my sensitive ass
0:45
He did NOT sugarcoat it
The fat chicks only sugarcoat it.
that line was so raw that gordon ramsey himself tried to cook it
One of the truest statements about our modern society.
If he had, they'd try and take a bite
@@charmingcthulhu6544 LOOOOOL
"yOu cAn'T DiScRiMiNaTe AgAiNsT a wHiTe MaLe" -- Probably a lot of people on Twitter.
you mean you "can" discriminate against a white male? - most definitely derange woke people on Twitter/X.
Anyone that says that is fair game for discrimination.
Mister Bromley will be depressed if he sees those shits on x
@@smithynoir9980nah don't punish discrimination with discrimination, that won't solve anything
@@ZomboidManiaThat will make me feel good though
Back in my day the person who complained would be asked to leave
And it was wrong
@@jimmcneal5292 No. Karen doesn't deserve decency since she doesn't give it.
Oh, at the local places I eat at, they would pick you up by the collar or ear and lock the door behind you. NY Italians man lol. I don't think they would catch a charge either because groups of every type of police eat there like every day.
Yeah, but what if they identify as someone who can't be asked to leave? Then the restaurant is discriminating against a protected group of people. You can't do that!
He probably does want to leave if that guy is staying, he's probably disgusted and doesn't feel like eating sitting there looking at this guys disgusting ass face. Who would? Im not eating next to that. it's seaping liquid. He has a fresh and mortifying wound on his face. Hes not disabled, nothing is stopping him from covering that mess. He just doesn't care if he makes everyone else uncomfortable.
Imagine how he feels for just a SECOND and you'll feel compassion. Sure, his face is a little uncomfortable to look at. Now, think about how uncomfortable HE feels with people staring at him. My heart goes out to this dude. It's gotta take insane emotional resilience to go through this.
I don't understand why doesn't he just cover his face? If he makes everyone uncomfortable including himself? I will never understand these people. I think the staff were in the right for asking him to leave
@redblue5140 so you're basically just blaming him for not covering his face instead those who oppressed him. Got it.
@@AlphaHaze Yeah it's just like if someone is a transgender but don't look like a woman. You should do what you can to not make other people uncomfortable instead of just blaming other people for being uncomfortable. Or demanding everyone else adjust to your needs. If you don't want to cover up that's fine but any business is in the right for kicking you out, you being there literally costs them money
@redblue5140 Now this just sounds like you're victim-blaming him. The guy was literally born with a disfigured face and he has to unfortunately live with it. Even if he did try to cover it up, he would still get judged. Even if he did try to get surgery, it would be very expensive all for the sake of not getting discriminated. Other people, however, have full control of whether or not they want to kick him out of the restaurant or just leave him alone. Also, you probably misunderstood my comment because I said you should blame people for straight-up oppressing him and not because they feel uncomfortable.
@@AlphaHaze Victim-blaming? Sorry, I am not English I am not familiar with that terminology. I don't know exactly what you mean by him still being judged but if he covered up and gets kicked out then the restaurant would be in the wrong. It would be completely unreasonable since he is covering up a deformity. However he didn't cover up so that makes him most in the wrong. He had full control over whether to cover up or not and he chose not to, and make others uncomfortable. I'm not sure what you mean by oppressing, I don't think that is the right word since it is a private business and private individuals denying him service because of something he has control over, which is the way he is dressed.
Back in 2012, I worked in a factory where the heat and oils in the air would irritate my eczema. I’m talking I’d be covered in red patches all over my face, arms, legs. Grown ass adults reported me to my supervisor multiple times. Every time I had to explain to them I could not help it. It wasn’t harming anyone or the product in any way. I completely understand how this guy felt. Society hasn’t changed at all.
Eczema sucks. There were times where I have to wear scarfs in the dead of summer because they were so bad and extremely noticeable.
Some people are just big pussies, man.
What is it they even manufactured?
I mean, they may be worried that you've caught something infectious, as what you described aligns with many infectious diseases, but they should have the decency to ask you about it. That really sucks
Eczema is evil. Have it myself and it's so painful and it's hard to avoid flare ups sometimes.
He still looks better than your average DEI employee
Unironcally. He looks better than the “professor”. Anyone see that concord dev? YEESH
That was my feeling, no poisonous bright danger colors, no sharp metal objects all over his face, bro looks perfectly normal and chill.
So we are fighting discrimination with discrimination of people we don't like. Good job
@@apersonwhothinksallthetime yes, welcome to Democracy! remember to vote Blue
@@apersonwhothinksallthetime Difference is they CHOOSE to look worse. This guy would love to have a choice.
Insulted a man for having a disability thats out of their control, yet these people defended oversized people who eats too much and are too lazy to exercise
EXACTLY
As someone who is overweight and trying to lose said weight we need to lose that stupid privilege we got and we need to give it to people who actually need it like this poor man im so angry that body positivity movents have been taken over by people who only care for rhe good looking disabilitys not the disfigureing ones
Everybody deserves body positivity
So what if people are fat
But also
People should not discriminate
Real body positivity is loving all around you
Real body positivity is just an excuse for being a lazy person @@Justabearreviews
Who is doing that in this story?
The fact that this man isn’t even scary looking just justifies that society is nothing more but a scam, this world is nothing more but a scam. This man deserves INFINITELY amounts of better❤.
I'm sorry but as soon as you said society is a scam you already sound like one of those incels
Yes, we are regressing as a society. No shame left for the right things.
I really think we’re nearing end times. I know people have said that for millennia, but the times were in line up with a lot of what Revelations has to say.
@@MilkTestingMan thats pretty cringe tbh
@@Alflowill You can disagree on whether you believe in the supernatural or not. But Jesus predicted all the things happening in the world right now.
@@Alflowill yeah you say that until it happens. I struggle with my faith a lot, but I know God is out there.
All knees will bow, and all tongues shall confess, whether you think it’s “cringe” or not.
@@VladTepes-SaviorofEurope-mw4uy thats cult behavior
This poor man, he just wanted a meal. I hope that he’s got good people to rally around him and provide some comfort against the disgusting treatment that he has experienced.
Too bad. Life isn't fair. It makes him look even worse by whining about it on social media. Not everyone has to be tolerant of his face.
@@luis-alberto.People like you are the reason the world is like this. Be better
@luis-alberto. Complaining about nazi behavior does not make him look bad and nobody is saying you have to be tolerant about his face all the staff had to do was provide him with simple human rights
@@luis-alberto. They can't just kick him out of the restaurant too
@@luis-alberto. Yes you’re right you don’t have to be tolerant of his face, but you know what they could do mind their own business it’s simple just stfu and eat damn their food and go about their day it’s simple logic so what the man’s face is deformed??? WHY do these pricks have to go the extra mile to kick the man out of the restaurant? Is it that hard to look the other way if it bothers the person so much? Society is already a crap fest just let the man eat in peace
This is disgusting, no human being should be treated in this way
npc
You say that but it's completely normal to not want someone who has a disease that can spread around you. Do you think people had lepors around? No they had to go and live outside the city.
@@ptttak7167If being an npc means being a good and respectful person, then i will happily be an npc, this world is forgeting the value of respect and kindness
@@WaterspoutsOfTheDeephow do you know it’s even contagious
@@WaterspoutsOfTheDeep The disgust response is perfectly natural. Of course this isn't that type of disease, but the automatic response can't take that into account, which is why that guys needs to live in a community that's informed about his condition.
I once heard about a war veteran who suffered a devastating gunshot wound to the head. Half of his face was gone and it’s a medical miracle that he survived. Doctors did what they could to repair the damage but there wasn’t much to work with. A bone graft, skin graft and prosthetics for his right eye and upper jaw was needed. He too was heartbroken that people would never look at him the same way but thankfully he received a lot of support. Whether you are born with it or suffer from disease or injury later in life people deserve to be treated with respect and kindness.
Poor guy. Just wanted a bite to eat in peace...
He can eat in peace at home
@@apersonwhothinksallthetime so can everyone else lol
@@apersonwhothinksallthetime you mean just like you do because you have nobody to invite you out?
@@apersonwhothinksallthetimegtfo smooth brain .
@@apersonwhothinksallthetime I am a really picky eater! If I see him I won't be able to eat so I will just pack my shit up and go home myself instead of complaining
You're allowed to be uncomfortable with something, but kicking the dude out of a restaurant over something he can't control is disgusting.
You may feel overly righteous right now, but what would you say if the dude had a condition that caused uncontrollable farts every 15 seconds?
@@youtubeenjoyer1743 Did he really fart every 15 seconds?
@@ITBEurgava How would you have felt had you not eaten breakfast yesterday morning?
@@youtubeenjoyer1743 How is that related?
@@youtubeenjoyer1743 I would silently bitch to myself about it while being incredibly thankful I didn't have to deal with that problem myself. I worked in retail for most of my life, I'm used to much worse from people that COULD control themselves. I'd never Karen out and try to get someone thrown out of anywhere for anything other than belligerence.
If you are unlucky life is hell! He doesn't only experience insane pain constantly also has to deal with 'ordinary people' and their 'massive problems'..
must have a strong mind to endure all that for so long
just sue the restaurant, this is a real crime
Even if I was scared, I wouldn't report him or something
He doesn't deserve that
if you were scared then YOU would be weak. Thats a YOU problem.
Scared? Like he's an actual flesh and blood monster from a b-movie?
@@PresidentHotdoghe said , "even if i was", so you can assume that he is in fact not scared, he is just tryng to tell us what he would do if he was one of the people who was scared in that restaurant, and yes there are people who are afraid of people with deformities but the problem is not that, is how you treat that people, dont being mean with others is what it counts.
@@delvi5380 I did assume he wasn't in fact scared, because I too have the power to read and understand English.
That's so strange because one time when I was at the Lourdes for a pilgrimage (Christian city in France btw), there was a guy in one of the hotel restaurants who has the same condition as this guy and he was treated normally and even got to eat with people. Even if there were one or two people talking about him, it was more out of concern like "is he going to be okay?" kind of talk.
haven't been to Lourdes myself, but according to a 2009 film of the same name (great drama, by the way), there's an awful lot of pilgrims with disabilities. They must've gotten used to this stuff or at least expected to witness it. Not saying these 'Muricans in question aren't scumbags, though
@@outdatedjoke9706It is regarded as a miraculous place, so many pilgrims go there to ask for a miracle that heals their ailments. So, yeah, it's probably far more normalized there than in most places.
Please tell me this isn't a fucking "y'all need Jesus" post. Please to fucking god tell me that's not what you're doing.
@@DLTyrus Uh...no. I was just pointing out the difference between here and at the Lourdes.
@@DLTyrus Nah, the people who make posts like that are never ambiguous about it. They are transparent in their intent.
Yes, people with disfigurements like this guy's are a little freaky looking, but complaining to staff to make the man leave? That's scummy.
Was he being an obnoxious or poor customer? No? Then he had no reason to be removed like that.
I agree, I mean it's not like he chose to look that way, if he could fix it I bet he would. Heck, the employees could have quietly found a table in back somewhere, so he wouldn't bother anyone. They wouldn't even have needed to tell him about it.
@@dhgmrz17 maybe not even so that he wouldnt bother anyone, but rather that he wouldnt be bothered. You can tell when other look at you like a animal in a zoo, so i would rather sit in a quite corner myself for my own peace of mind instead for that of others.
The guy was probably just standing in the doorway.
Honestly I thought the picture in the article was AI generated because it looks like a fat cookie. Please, someone say I'm not crazy.
tbh, he would disturb me too. Not because he's disfigured, but because it looks like what he has is contagious. Which is probably what was scaring people.
"Are we regressing-"
YEAH, OBVIOUSLY.
Which restaurant? NAME AND SHAME!
YES
When Twitter catches wind of this they are cooked
Before you bring out your pitch forks, always wait for more context. What if the issue isn't the owner of the restaurant, but a Karen or a crackhead employee?
I guess you can always blame the owner of hiring them in the first place. But having this man on the news by itself is justice served.
@@axolet so you put out the Karen or the employee.
It would be funny if other people with facial deformities went there in protest.
Where are the "have empathy", "just be a good person" and (my favorite) "right side of history" crowd?
Oh, I get it, that's just for the protected groups that the media and celebrities tell us to worship. How progressive our society is, huh?
Everyday we stray further from God
Like the fatties
They were the ones asking him to leave.
Well he’s a white man, isn’t it obvious?
Funny how those comments really died off in the last few years. Wonder where they all ended up?
That's real discrimination we are witnessing right now.
I saw a woman like that at the airport. Not gonna lie, it does catch you off guard but man, just show a bit of kindness if you happen to cross paths or just go about doing whatever it is you're doing. Asking that guy to leave is completely insane. Disgusting behavior.
i remember a poor guy in our neighbourhood who was a black person and burned by a fire when he saved 2 kids he didn't even know, my church gave people like him supplies as their life was hard and couldn't find any type of work they could do and what they could wouldn't accept them, one time i delivered the food from the church bank (not sure how it's called in english this is a direct greek translation) and he said he looked like a monster in response of that i asked him if he ever looked in the miror. shit like that shouldn't be tolorated by anyone because these people lose the abilities that they had every day or some even never had (sorry for my bad english still learning after 15 years)
In English we often call them a Food-Bank. Many are run independently of churches but some are from religious places.
Your English is better than many native English speakers. Congratulations on a job well done. I wish you continued success
Was he black before the fire?
@@Caper1144 he was
@@s.g.3898 thank you
Man, that must be really gut wrenching to hear, if someone tells you to leave a place because, your deformities supposedly are scaring other people. This is such disrespectful thing to say to someone.
This isn't scaring anyone but maybe kids and the parents should of already talked to them about things like this.
sad but true, I will be scare, but I won't discriminate against him
Someone stole your comment and got more likes
F
@@evangalinsky2499 ??? And
Ngl, phantom of the Opera mask would be pretty dope to wear for this guy (in addition to being able to show his whole face of course)
I was thinking the same thing. He shouldn't HAVE to wear a mask, but I always thought if I had a facial deformity, I'd make a really nice metal face-plate and have it engraved by a talented artist for style. Same if I lost a hand or an arm. It would suck, but I would also enjoy the creativity and artistry that I could apply to the situation.
The Kane mask from Command & Conquer
I would also use a mask, yeah the situation is bad, but I would like people to not need to look at my scar all the time.
He could use half-face masks, there are a lot of designes of porcelain masks. He could literally make it an accessory and every time he explains why he uses it people would find it even cooler.
NGL if I had a deformity id start larping as Dr Doom
@@joeblow229 Dr doom looking fella
The customer is (not) always right
fuck this is just sad this is real discrimination not that crap people keep screaming discrimination and hole fuck this is just sad
discrimination are only for women and poc to f use not white cis male virgins. /s
Gatekeeping discrimination is wild.
@@kyleolcott1769being fat is a choice
@@KKramsennot always, remember to do your research
We live in a kingdom of hypocrisy, and the clowns are our nobles and royalties.
This is so sad. Poor man.
Unlike with vitiligo, people haven't been told by the TV that they should be tolerant and accepting of people with neurofibromatosis.
Or that it's not contagious. Things like Molluscum cause pustules, and are transmitted even via touching the same object.
@@Brekneryour pfp just makes me think of this happening to Hanako :(
@@Brekner MFer are just virtue signaling. guy is covered in hives from head to toe, skin melting off his face, and skin puffing out like dough in an oven. Every normal human being would be scared of this man IRL
Sounds like body positivity to me, what are you? A snowflake?
i got a lot of scars on my body and i was ashamed of them half of my life. this man is a trooper. i startet to wear my scars like a medal of honor when i understood that i am still alive and this man is going strong. he does not cower in a dark room but drags that stupid discrimination into the light.
Victor Hugo wrote Hunchback of Notre Dame about 200 years ago.
and yet humanity hasn't evolved as a society ever since
One of my favorites 😊
I feel bad for him...
He just want to eat peacefully:(
Well, if I wanna eat peacefully I cook myself at my place. What reaction did he expect with that look?
@@m4rcin847Karen reply
@@m4rcin847 Seriously? So people with this condition should just stay inside and hide themselves away?
Almost sounds like one of the complainers in the video
@@m4rcin847 i think you are part of the problem
Edit: also what did you expect while making this comment?
@@m4rcin847 He probably thought that he lived in a society of decent people, who were adult enough to realize that nature is cruel enough, that they would be better people for not adding to his misery by treating him poorly over a condition that he doesn't control.
Not to worry though, he won't be making that mistake again.
It's not even just that he was asked to leave which is bad enough on so many levels. It's the fact that everybody else genuinely must have wanted him gone seeing as they lacked even the decency to stand up for the guy.
Utterly disgraceful.
I’m sorry but I’d be genuinely put off from eating if I saw this person and there’s many people who would feel the same way. It’s a business in the end. Some people puke watching pimple popping videos and some people love them while eating snacks.
@@Cheezkrispies131yea and a lot of people in the 19th century would be genuinely put off by a black person walking into a restaurant that doesn’t make it ok
@@lt3746 you’re being dishonest if you think being black is the same as having a grotesque deformity man
The solution for you is simple. Don't stare at them. @@bhministry
@@bhministryat least you have a minimum of descent
If it really bothers those people that much instead of being assholes they could just leave themselves.
I wear an eyepatch on my eye. I have it, its still functional, but extremely photo-sensitive. It hurts A LOT when I have even slightly brighter than usual light, or direct sun light. People look at me like I'm terrorist and gonna explode any minute now. But man, it doesn't even compare to be outcasted and outright sent off by the facts you literally cannot control. Fatness is what you DO control, but disfigurment is not. High hopes for that man to meet people who'll actually care what person he is and not how he looks :)
sorry to here about that but how'd you loss your eye
@@bluespinner"I STILL HAVE IT, ITS FUNCTIONAL..." it's the first sentence bro
it's because you didn't say 'yyaaarrr' first.
Ahoy, me matey!
Regrettably this buffoon has the critical readin' skills of a man with, but no eyes. But I do have, but 1 valid question, since ye bad eye is photosensitive, do it be seein' better in the dark? Would be pretty advantageous in my line o' work havin' a night eye and a day eye.
Alas, I be wishin ye and your good eye the best o' luck on the high seas or wherever the winds take ye.
- Ol' Capt'n Crableg
Terrorist? Eyepatch is clearly Pirate. People are dumb.
he's not even weird looking he just looks like he had facial surgery, which he did. wtf??
That's discrimination. Not using the wrong pronoun when talking to you.
Intentionally misgendering someone is discrimination. Doing it by accident and apologizing isn't. This story is also discrimination.
They're both discrimination what are you talking about (obviously not if you do it by accident)
@@kap1618 what you identify as is not visible
@@Onezmhu How would someone go about doing that?
O-oh what gene3r r u mister- I mean miss's I mean-@@kap1618
I'm never going to just expect people to not react when they see someone with a disfigurement. It's just not realistic. But with that being said, asking someone to leave a restaurant because of it is just a terrible thing to do.
Still looks better than Dragon Age Veilguard character models.
Cant wait to see that slop DOA
Poor guy. I feel for him. Count all your blessings everyday people.
This is our dear friend and neighbour and personally are appalled at the treatment this restaurant gave him. The Met police do have powers to charge with a hate crime. Mostly at the moment they seem to be more than willing to charge and arrest people with lawful gender critical opinions who post comments on X. This restaurant staff surely need to be investigated, charged & fined as well as offering serious compensation for the humiliation & hurt caused to Oliver. I also think the restaurant should be named and shamed.
Sue.. That's what he do, They should sue the establishment..
Take them for all they are worth.. If you have to escort me out because I don't have some @#$% Symbol of veteran status or funny army hat from Nam. Or a bunch of purple hears wielded into my face.. That establishment can Kiss my Legal retort..
SUE for harassment abuse and psychological dehumanization.
Named and shamed? Yes
Sued? Maybe
Charged? I feel like we over use this, you can refuse service and you can be an ***** the repercussion should be people not buying your stuff though. We have to stop criminally charging people for being rude.
Your neighbour is Ethan Klein!!?? 😜
What's the restaurant?
@@VioletDeathRei you cant refuse service for someone just existing with disabilities. Thats illegal discrimination. Or if they only discriminated against blacks or asians would that be only legally chargeable? Its the same thing. like in the 50s in the united state where segregation was a thing.
So in some places in Japan right now the same thing is happening but not to people with disabilities just regular people, “foreigners”, some of which are not and are citizens. Asking anyone to leave who isn’t causing a disturbance (which doesn’t take a genius to recognize so it’s like 0.01% of people) is disgusting and is discrimination in many forms.
My parents would have smacked me for staring, let alone saying something uncouth to someone who wasn't looking for attention. I am astounded where we have come to as a society.
Still people denies pretty and handsome privileges.
PS. "No such thing as pretty privileges" said by Handsome and beautiful people. You will never hear ugly people say that. A lot of the time privileges is invisible to those who have it.
I honestly don't know of anyone who denies that.
@@Chanshilla I personally know goodlooking people who genuinely believe that 'pretty privilige' is a lie.
No one denies pretty privledge. Not one person.
@@azuragoddess They are the exact people who would deny it because a lot of the times privileges is invisible to those have it.
@@ChasingEnigma yes, attractive people tend to think that people flock to them because of their personality or charisma, but if you put them in the shoes of an average person they'll find out very quickly that pretty privilige is very real.
This guy probably goes through hell dealing with people, hope he stays strong
This is heartbreaking, nobody should face such discrimination 💔😢
Damn. This is very sad. He's a human being for chrissakes!
I’m a disabled veteran and my leg is pretty messed up. I don’t want people to see it so I haven’t worn shorts in 15 years. I can’t even imagine how this man feels. People will stare, they laugh, you’ll notice entire groups of people turning around to look as their friends point. It’s not always the direct confrontations that hurt the most. 😢
What is sad is you could literally have a homeless person right outside that business taking a shi and they wouldn't say nothing. This man is giving them business and trying to get something to eat and he is the problem? The world is backwards.
You really trying to justify this guy with a problem that doesn't even occur🤣
@@luis-alberto. Ah, then the homeless crackheads badgering everyone for a cig outside 7/11 isn't a problem that occurs for me, my bad.
@@luis-alberto.what do you mean "trying to justify this guy" and what do you mean a "problem that doesn't occur". I don't even go out all that much and I've been harassed by homeless guys in drivethroughs tons of times. I offer to buy them food instead of giving them money.
@@mups4016 there's no point in even responding to people like them, they clearly have their heads in the sand.
he is a white man the homeless person taking a dump outside not white so they not say anything of what they do.
Wtf?? He's not in any way scary, he looks so sweet. This world is so fucked up
thought it was h3h3 from the thumbnail
EW GROSS 🤢🤮
I thought it was Bam Margera
Good I'm not the only one! I thought what the fk happened to Ethan.😂
You know is the same kind of woke people who gets offended in the internet by everything
dont think so, most likely karens. karens are, in fact, most likely to be conservatives who HATE everything out of the norm like jews, democrats, gay people etc.
ask how many "woke" people are running HOAS.
there you go, the REAL answer beside your polemic
More like Twitter
You know it's the same kind of peopel who complain about seeing ugly characters in video games, as well as real life.
@@kiragoe all of them sucks
@@kiragoe Wrong
Actually illegal in my country, would be an easy to win lawsuit.
I bet the customers weren't complaining at all.
Pretty sure that's actually illegal as you are are discriminating him based on a disability.
He needs to lawer up. Absolutely dispicable. Hopefully he can find some solace in the mountain of cash he earns from the lawsuit.
Hope he won't win a penny
You are so clueless
Let me guess you are basing that off of your knowledge of the American legal system?🤔
he ain't getting no dime bozo
I admit, it would put me off of eating. But if you’re staring at someone enough to feel disgusted instead of looking at your food and the person/people you’re with, WHY ARE YOU AT A RESTAURANT?!
How the hell could it put you off eating you have a weak stomach if it does
Nah i don’t think so, this looks at the very least unappetizing
@@j-rex6Realistically, I’d have to agree with you.
It is a bit unsettling. But the guy deserves to be a part of society, too. Nobody deserves that level of ostracism.
It’s just an unfortunate scenario all around
discrimination has A LOT of levels
Let's be honest, we all feel something, our brain are hard wired to fear or dislike any sort of unnatural parts of a person's body, however it is how a person act upon that feeling that will define you
yep, it's a natural instinct. Just like trypophobia. If we see signs of bad health or disfigurement, just like with lepers we instinctively want to avoid for fear of contagion.
That's where you find the quality of a person, the one who doesn't confuse his primitive instincts with reality. The poor man may look bad, yes, I don't deny it, but I won't go like a scared child to the manager and tell him to take the man out because he scares me. Be a mature person and understand that there are diseases that leave you like this. Believe me, there are people who look worse and that doesn't make them bad people. It's because of that backward instinct that we have that discrimination against these people exists, because of that and because of ignorance.
@@youdontcare2312 Exactly. And the instict isn't even bad - it helped us even reach this point by straying away from possibly deadly diseases. But in our modern world, where medicine has never been more advanced, never more things have been treatable, if not outright curable, this instinct often can work against us. This man is entirely harmless from a medical perspective, or else he wouldn't be walking around freely.
As you said, the character of a person is shown in their actions, not in their thoughts. To initially have unpleasant thoughts or involuntary to something or someone unusual is normal, but everyone has the choice to either act upon them and make a fuss about it, or to mind their business.
May God bless him and give him joy in his life
How can you be "scared" of this? Are the customers 7 year olds? You can think he looks weird, but there's something really wrong with you if you're scared of this.
I am scared of this. I am scared thet it could be like leprosy and simply being within 15 ft of him when he coughs will make me like him. That is a natural fear every sane human has, otherwise disease would've wiped humanity out. "But it's not contagious" is something average person couldn't know, and risking my life to find that out is not something I will ever do.
@@araamahasla555 Yeah because leprosy is totally a concern in modern day first world nations. Grow the f up.
@@araamahasla555 what do you actually know about leprosy? Chances are you are just ignorant.
@@araamahasla555leprosy is a slow burn of close contact with someone who has it. I can actually understand your point though. That guy was born unlucky but he seems to be a pretty chill guy.
Nuerofibromatosis is apparently tumors on roids in the human body. Most people live a normal life expectancy however the tumors just keep coming. I’d say he has a strong heart regardless of the world looking at him from the outside instead of learning about who he is.
Been discriminated against before for being gay, shit was so weird, like I kind of always figured it would happen at some point but when it actually did happen it was so surreal. Was in a movie theatre on a date with a guy, and I put my arm over his shoulder, and elderly couple sitting next to us got visibly upset and complained directly to us saying we were being disgusting and to "have some shame and go sin in private", I told them to mind their business and if they were uncomfortable with us then they could leave, then the old man got up and then left, he came back with an employee who informed us we had to leave because we were making the old couple "uncomfortable" I explained that I literally just put my arm around his shoulder and that they were uncomfortable because we were gay but they still sided with the couple and kicked us out. Shit was wild.
A friend of mine is part owner of a restaurant and works as a manager 4 nights a week. Whenever he gets a complaint about a disfigured customer, he goes and gives that disfigured customer the VIP treatment. It's an italian restaurant so he has this screened in area and he gives them the privacy they need from the other customers who apparently have issues. Idk, I think most people should just you know, pay attention to the people at their table instead of looking around at other people.
I have been in such screened off tables, supremely comfy, makes you feel like an Emperor. More often than not they just call it the VIP room or cubicle, but this one place nearby they call it The King's Table. This service is superb.
your friend is a hero and sounds so kind,this makes my heart smile
@@GabrielleTollerson The man is a treasure with a heart of gold. Life would suck so much more if I weren't friends with him.
@@stratometal My friends restaurant calls his VIP area "The Colosseum" primarily because of how the screen is designed so that you can look out of the area, but it's difficult to look in. You truly feel like you're sitting in a private area.
its not an accident or anything just a medical condition he has, and he is very nice about spreading awareness on the subject.
poor guy just wishes to be treated the same
yup. looked up what he has. he goes trough enough suffering already. this added bullshit is unacceptable.
This is sad man. He didn't choose to be born with a deformity. Life handed him a bad card and now we discriminate against him because of pure luck.
Nobody choses to be born different. It happens. So why be against them?
As a cashier, that man can come through my Walmart checkout line anytime.
Name of this place, because I'm not spending a dime into that place if they're doing this.
bro you still live with your parents, you werent going to spend any money there anyways
In this economy alot of ppl live with their parents
@@sanguinedelight6464yes and fuckwits like pineapple just doesn't have a clue what's coming... Everyone thinks everything gonna be alright . We know that's B's.
It's being kept under wrap while the investigation goes on happened in the uk somewhere
That poor man... Yeah our society is regressing for sure.
0:46 you can tell this guy watches asmon videos everyday
I really do hope that man is alright ! He don’t deserve such treatment
Both my son and I get discriminated againts because we have so called "invisible disability". People are just shit who have no empathy. This doesn't surprise me at all. Happens all the time without being in the news or social media.
I don't see how being invisible is a disability. Have you read "The Invisible Man?" Dude was having the time of his life!
Society has failed
What was the goal? lol
@@tfredrick01 To be decent human beings.
It's allways been like this. If anything it's less bad. If he had lived in the past he might have been put down.
People being scared of the guy that looks like he contracted 17 separate plagues some how means society failed is crazy logic
Failed who, you? Why do you think you decide if 8 billion others have meat expectations?
I'll bet my next paycheck that there weren't even any customer complaints
asmond i dont watch your videos often but cant thank you enough for uploading this. as someone with neurofibromatosis type 1 myself its great to see bringing awareness to it. It really does mean alot
"You're scaring the customers" He IS a customer.
Well, not anymore
@@Samagachi Found the edgelord.
@@pinkkfloydd truth hurts
@@Samagachiexplain the truth to us.
@@euugh8877 the restaurant won’t let him back anymore because of customer complaints