The Non Binary is Strong Here

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  • Опубликовано: 2 янв 2025

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  • @hp.thechao8547
    @hp.thechao8547 4 года назад +3752

    A friend in discord said “ I’m deleting my pronouns, you can no longer refer to me” and I will never forget that.

    • @mushroomlover479
      @mushroomlover479 4 года назад +158

      Your friend is amazing.

    • @airplanes_aren.t_real
      @airplanes_aren.t_real 4 года назад +192

      That's an interesting way of saying "no talk to me"

    • @sourpatchboy4340
      @sourpatchboy4340 4 года назад +47

      Icon

    • @clwilliams9276
      @clwilliams9276 4 года назад +60

      Its a bit difficult when ppl decide to only go by [name] so u can use any pronoun or neo pronoun. Probably the most difficult thing to adjust to when it comes to identity and referring.

    • @airplanes_aren.t_real
      @airplanes_aren.t_real 4 года назад +38

      @@clwilliams9276 yeah but the payoff is worth it

  • @nevermore4455
    @nevermore4455 3 года назад +2423

    *one time at a school assembly they said "ladies and gentlemen, if you could please sit down" and this one person didn't and one of they teachers asked them why and they said "I'm not a lady nor a gentleman" AND THAT IS HOW THEY CAME OUT*

    • @full-timelesbian1075
      @full-timelesbian1075 3 года назад +163

      damn

    • @justamikee
      @justamikee 3 года назад +288

      DAMN FULL HARD CORE

    • @bornvolcano
      @bornvolcano 3 года назад +350

      IF YOU DO NOT COME OUT THIS WAY ~you are still perfectly valid and accepted~ BUT MY GOD THAT ENBY IS A LEGEND

    • @Noahhhhhuh
      @Noahhhhhuh 3 года назад +103

      That legend-

    • @Carmen.carcrash
      @Carmen.carcrash 3 года назад +140

      *Thats honestly the most epic way to come out.*

  • @OneTopic
    @OneTopic 4 года назад +8654

    “When playing Among Us... ‘I’m a potato!’ I approve of this.”
    Well, Mr. Potato, I challenge you to Among Us!!

    • @kirfluff
      @kirfluff 4 года назад +83

      Banana and Blueberry are potatoes?

    • @lievdotpng
      @lievdotpng 4 года назад +45

      i need to see that

    • @solarz.z
      @solarz.z 4 года назад +188

      "challenge you to among us" sounds like you're having some kind of duel and i'm absolutely here for it

    • @idontknowtheirname6122
      @idontknowtheirname6122 4 года назад +68

      dang it, I'm a pile of pythons in a trench coat wearing a top hat

    • @victoriat8922
      @victoriat8922 4 года назад +59

      I'd pay good money to see Jammi, One Topic, and the Click all playing Among Us together!

  • @linnjohansson3017
    @linnjohansson3017 3 года назад +97

    "IT'S NOT VANDALISM IF IT'S AN ART PROJECT" LOL, that's my new favorite🤣

    • @rebeccasatterley1542
      @rebeccasatterley1542 Год назад +2

      There's a longer version of the thread somewhere that has another comment saying something like if you track the number of people of different genders using each door then you can make it a study

  • @yokusounidreambox7597
    @yokusounidreambox7597 4 года назад +3303

    My science teacher says "ladies, gentlemen, non binary and other" and she's honestly so pure

    • @katieshepherd309
      @katieshepherd309 4 года назад +97

      She sounds awesome!

    • @matchafluff
      @matchafluff 4 года назад +239

      guys gals and nonbinary pals

    • @tollyolly
      @tollyolly 4 года назад +113

      Homebros, Dudettes, and Non-cisgender friends.

    • @barbecuedsimsbaby
      @barbecuedsimsbaby 4 года назад +106

      *they-dies and gentle-thems*

    • @Gnwy-bt8rm
      @Gnwy-bt8rm 3 года назад +36

      @@matchafluff this is the most perfect statement ever.

  • @meganpate9758
    @meganpate9758 4 года назад +2734

    my ap english teacher used to say “ladies and gentlemen” but then someone told her they were nb and now she calls us “AP Scholars”

    • @wei.cecilia
      @wei.cecilia 4 года назад +87

      Aw 😇

    • @radicalgal
      @radicalgal 4 года назад +156

      Hello ladies, gentlemen, and gentlethems!

    • @solarz.z
      @solarz.z 4 года назад +49

      @@radicalgal IM USING GENTLETHEMS

    • @blisles7626
      @blisles7626 4 года назад +32

      @@radicalgal I like Theybies also

    • @lloyddragon2036
      @lloyddragon2036 4 года назад +71

      there's so many great gender neutral things you could call a crowd like "distinguished guests" but y'all go for the awkward "ladies and gentlemen"

  • @kasakro9829
    @kasakro9829 4 года назад +381

    the next time someone says they/them are not singular pronouns:
    instead of saying "someone dropped their pen" just say "someone dropped his slash her pen" and make everyone uncomfortable

  • @quinndouglas6542
    @quinndouglas6542 3 года назад +288

    Instead of “ladies and gentlemen” use “cowards”. It’s short, to the point, and includes everyone.

    • @hoghuhaghu8506
      @hoghuhaghu8506 2 года назад +21

      or just use "humans", it includes everyone, and if it doesn't, then that's a bigger problem.

    • @aidanmahoney6212
      @aidanmahoney6212 2 года назад +6

      *Smirks in Voidpunk*

    • @Nova-_-
      @Nova-_- 2 года назад +18

      amateur. Use 'everypony'. It's short, to the point, and triggers everyone.

    • @chanshengsupremacy8889
      @chanshengsupremacy8889 Год назад +2

      Have to agree with Nova

    • @TheGrayAllay
      @TheGrayAllay 11 месяцев назад +1

      use fools

  • @julianlastname5730
    @julianlastname5730 4 года назад +1400

    The virgin “ladies and gentlemen”, versus the chad “spuds”

    • @ritikadhakerr
      @ritikadhakerr 4 года назад +9

      chad "spuds" lmfao

    • @ritikadhakerr
      @ritikadhakerr 4 года назад +11

      @FBI i agree with the FBI

    • @audreyvg383
      @audreyvg383 4 года назад +5

      I made your comment to 1k likes congrats

  • @aeudjwhehdjqn
    @aeudjwhehdjqn 3 года назад +1749

    One day I was in the train with my mom, and the announcer is supposed to say: 'best travellers', but they accidentally said:' ladies and gentlemen..' then they realised they were wrong and finished with:' .. and other beautiful people..-'
    I love whoever that was.

    • @meisjeViv
      @meisjeViv 3 года назад +60

      Nice save haha

    • @Cascadeis
      @Cascadeis 3 года назад +48

      This just made me realize I need to update my announcement on the train... Most days I just say “welcome to this train...” but sometimes I say “welcome, ladies and gentlemen, big amd small” (bad translation, but you get it). I need to figure out something else to say before someone misunderstands 😮

    • @Ruby-yn5fp
      @Ruby-yn5fp 3 года назад +25

      @Ram "best" is a general way to address ppl in the Dutch language, at the start of letters etc. it's a cute language thing and not sth i stop to think about normally :) in the english version of the train announcements i think they say 'dear travelers'

    • @memeemeep5716
      @memeemeep5716 3 года назад +6

      amazing human being

    • @triciaivers2572
      @triciaivers2572 3 года назад +4

      YES

  • @elisalmon6034
    @elisalmon6034 4 года назад +1773

    if someone says "ladies and gentlemen" trying to get everyone's attention, I can legally ignore them.

  • @Rachel-fi4sc
    @Rachel-fi4sc 3 года назад +30

    I worked as an usher at an events centre, and I made a point of starting announcements with "Esteemed Guests" or something along those lines, rather than "Ladies and Gentlemen".
    There was this one time that when I finished the announcement, I heard this adorable little old lady turn to her friend and say "oooh, did you hear that? We're /esteemed guests/. I feel so special!" She sounded so pleased. It made my whole shift lol.

  • @Sailor_Enchantix
    @Sailor_Enchantix 4 года назад +1535

    My favorite gender neutral way to address a group comes from Doctor Who, “Ladies and gentlemen, and variations there upon.”

    • @menunabdlwahhab3531
      @menunabdlwahhab3531 4 года назад +25

      👏

    • @angeldark404
      @angeldark404 4 года назад +27

      👏 👏 snap snap.

    • @LilThreat88
      @LilThreat88 4 года назад +10

      👏

    • @pucklian6499
      @pucklian6499 4 года назад +103

      it's cute, but most nonbinary people i know aren't 'variations upon' men/women, they (we) have genders that are completely independent and disconnected from manhood/womanhood, or no gender at all

    • @imaconfusedqueer82
      @imaconfusedqueer82 4 года назад +5

      👏👏👏

  • @shego1142
    @shego1142 4 года назад +530

    As another story similar to the covid test saying “gender: prefer no” I was double checking my voter registration today and it says “gender: unknown” and I’m just like “good keep it that way”

    • @mermaidismyname
      @mermaidismyname 4 года назад +58

      Error 404 gender not found

    • @creativedesignation7880
      @creativedesignation7880 4 года назад +16

      Allright, keep your secrets.

    • @lauraanne341
      @lauraanne341 4 года назад +19

      That sounds like you are the ULTIMATE spy.
      You are an enigma. You can do anything.

  • @70Lu07
    @70Lu07 4 года назад +579

    "Is it a boy or a girl?"
    "It's colored confetti"

  • @Master_Conner
    @Master_Conner 3 года назад +67

    When I enter a room I say “Hello adoring fans and mortal enemies.”

  • @colew9330
    @colew9330 4 года назад +498

    Every time Jamie says “hey spuds” a Starbucks order is done perfectly and the name is spelled correctly.

    • @Rain-xn9xg
      @Rain-xn9xg 4 года назад +16

      My name is Kyla and I have never had a starbucks worker NOT call me Kayla. It's not even pronounced the same. Even google tries to tell me I spelled my name wrong. Help.

    • @ritikadhakerr
      @ritikadhakerr 4 года назад +6

      @@Rain-xn9xg *laughs in indian*

    • @Rain-xn9xg
      @Rain-xn9xg 4 года назад +5

      @@ritikadhakerr oh no

    • @agraeyday8117
      @agraeyday8117 4 года назад +2

      As a Sbux barista who watches Jaime, can confirm!

    • @KrisEnby
      @KrisEnby 4 года назад +2

      I chose a name that can be spelled differently, so I almost never get my name spelled right. Kris is a weird spelling.

  • @janmelantu7490
    @janmelantu7490 4 года назад +277

    I don’t mind “Ladies and Gentleman”, as I’m the “and”

    • @reharm_reality
      @reharm_reality 4 года назад +13

      I'd rather be included as more than an "and" 😂

    • @SkittyBlackfire
      @SkittyBlackfire 4 года назад +13

      I hate it, as I'm a woman, but most definitely not a lady.

  • @bumblebeagan
    @bumblebeagan 4 года назад +706

    Jamie: posts NB content
    me, a genderfluid blob: *happy numerous bee noises*

    • @robin3771
      @robin3771 4 года назад +25

      buzz buzz :3

    • @reistanley2126
      @reistanley2126 4 года назад +7

      Love That!!!!!!

    • @casualcryptid1021
      @casualcryptid1021 4 года назад +15

      SGSHDHD I KNOW WHAT TUMBLR POST YOU GOT NUMEROUS BEES FROM SHDH

    • @Ray-qg1gy
      @Ray-qg1gy 4 года назад +1

      By the way NB stands for non black to refer to people of color who are NB so you should probably use Enby

    • @bumblebeagan
      @bumblebeagan 4 года назад +11

      @@Ray-qg1gy I mean... the term Enby was created from NB? it's just the phonetic version.
      NB stands for a lot of different things, it's the context that matters

  • @mingriesel9784
    @mingriesel9784 2 года назад +35

    My music teacher found out I'm non-binary and started greeting with "hello, happy music people" instead of ladies and gentlemen. She is my favorite teacher.

    • @mx_nana_banana
      @mx_nana_banana 2 года назад +4

      “hello happy music people” is way better than “ladies and gentlemen”

  • @lasagnaravioli8550
    @lasagnaravioli8550 4 года назад +1079

    For the Ladies and Gentlemen one... I raise you this: "Friends and Foes"

    • @KyleRayner12
      @KyleRayner12 3 года назад +103

      "Friends, Foes, and NPCs"

    • @huggledemon32
      @huggledemon32 3 года назад +29

      @@KyleRayner12 “I thought “friends and foes”was awesome enough but “NPC’s” makes it even better!🤣😂🥰🥰

    • @narwhalethefancy
      @narwhalethefancy 3 года назад +42

      "Friends and foes:"
      Nonbinary inclusion ✅
      Inspires talk among guests ✅
      Ominous yet friendly ✅
      Checks all the boxes.

    • @mirina9556
      @mirina9556 3 года назад +7

      Hey cowards

    • @aceofnothing7469
      @aceofnothing7469 3 года назад +10

      HONORED GUESTS

  • @armanisavoyflores5017
    @armanisavoyflores5017 4 года назад +581

    Lolol. “Bigots haven’t learned to tell the difference between there, they’re, and their”

    • @astridquarry1248
      @astridquarry1248 4 года назад +17

      That was my favourite. 😂

    • @seleverthecatboy2394
      @seleverthecatboy2394 4 года назад +24

      That’s why they’re all so apposed to using they/them/their pronouns

    • @friend_trilobot
      @friend_trilobot 4 года назад +23

      Interestingly, a nonbinary colleague of mine during grad school did a study that found a correlation between grammar pedantry and disliking singular "they"

    • @seleverthecatboy2394
      @seleverthecatboy2394 4 года назад +8

      @@friend_trilobot use thou thee and thees’

    • @sarahdonahue8393
      @sarahdonahue8393 4 года назад +1

      Amazing

  • @filo4854
    @filo4854 4 года назад +700

    my teacher used to say "Ladies and Gentlemen" but then when my classmate came out as NB she started saying "Fellow Mammals"

    • @The146MoonsOfSaturn
      @The146MoonsOfSaturn 4 года назад +88

      i want to be a art teacher when i'm older. in my class we will be a LGBTQ+ safe space. and if anyone is rude. they are asked to drop out or try to be more positive and open. any genders are welcome, all sexuality's are welcome, any race or religion is a-okay. atheist? i'm one to! we all have our own beliefs and lives. why let others change it? wanna talk after school about anime or something? sure! i'd love to. phone? tablet? computer? allowed to have that out. your a furry? i wanna see your suit! video maker? cool! me to! all assignments are free draws for the 3 first weeks. but i will be following the assignments that the students have to do aswell. but taking off the ones that may be to hard to do, or i can't keep in the schedule. i have a sick day? tell the sub my rules unless they old. strict older sub? unfun sub? *chaos chaos!* your finished with your work? cool! show me and i'll put the grade in! to loud? you can go outside or to the library. digital artist? here's a drawing tablet and computer. here's a phone, and here's a tablet. here your supplies and styluses. take what you like but return it. i'll bring your favorite sweet! do t like sweets? favorite food then! dietary restrictions? no prob! everyone is safe here unless they mean.
      and most importantly...
      and every graded quiz and test will be a kahoot or quizziz.

    • @The146MoonsOfSaturn
      @The146MoonsOfSaturn 4 года назад +18

      and i would definitely do this.

    • @redacted5795
      @redacted5795 4 года назад +40

      @@The146MoonsOfSaturn you sound like you would be a cool teacher even the antisocial kids like me would like to talk to.

    • @filo4854
      @filo4854 4 года назад +30

      @@The146MoonsOfSaturn
      If this isn’t quality education I don’t know what is

    • @The146MoonsOfSaturn
      @The146MoonsOfSaturn 4 года назад +6

      @@redacted5795 really?

  • @C.L.G.T.
    @C.L.G.T. 3 года назад +516

    I'm genderfluid and once on a test we had to fill out gender on a test and thankfully it was typed so I got the perfect chance to say "yes".
    Edit: cis het now, I’m not deleting this comment so i can remember how cringe i used to be

    • @Ohmygyattbroo
      @Ohmygyattbroo 3 года назад +22

      I need to do that

    • @aceistheplacewithunhelpfulaces
      @aceistheplacewithunhelpfulaces 2 года назад +20

      You are a god

    • @Dr_stevia
      @Dr_stevia 2 года назад +30

      Question: are you planning to one day become gender plasma by advancing the states of gender matter?

    • @jaxrubow9922
      @jaxrubow9922 2 года назад +4

      Also genderfluid so vibe

    • @wynnexed
      @wynnexed 2 года назад +5

      OP I just realized you are literally the first meme in the video

  • @froogletanimations1086
    @froogletanimations1086 4 года назад +2222

    Choose gender
    ⚪️ female
    ⚪️ male
    🔘hardcore
    I mean depending on where you live non binary is hardcore

    • @froogletanimations1086
      @froogletanimations1086 3 года назад +31

      @The Emo Demigirl Bimbo yep

    • @froogletanimations1086
      @froogletanimations1086 3 года назад +17

      @The Emo Demigirl Bimbo luckily I’ve never had to date because I’m under 18

    • @froogletanimations1086
      @froogletanimations1086 3 года назад +22

      @Y_P_One discrimination

    • @ZDragonimated
      @ZDragonimated 3 года назад +34

      i'm dutch and over here we don't really have nonbinary pronouns. also EVERY SINGLE TEACHER keeps saying "ladies" which annoys me a lot

    • @ZDragonimated
      @ZDragonimated 3 года назад +10

      @Y_P_One that is a warm welcome, thank you

  • @doukzu
    @doukzu 4 года назад +698

    "Gender? No thanks, I have Pokemon to catch."
    Oh to be a nonbinary trainer on an adventure in the Pokemon world...

    • @orangejuice9102
      @orangejuice9102 4 года назад +27

      Lemme make fan fiction,where the main pokèmon trainer,is a non-binary

    • @lilygrey854
      @lilygrey854 4 года назад +2

      NEW OC!

    • @orangejuice9102
      @orangejuice9102 4 года назад +12

      @Yo Dick Making a story in an alterante universe,where the main character has similarities with people *not* considered normal in this decade's society?Does that infuriate you?Me,older than 8,writing a story in the pokèmon multi universe,where the main character can be relatable to other audiances.I'm doing this for fun,don't be a dick about it,it's my coping mechanism

    • @bruh-mm3jb
      @bruh-mm3jb 4 года назад +10

      @Yo Dick lmaoo you do realise that theres no problem with them doing that like.. stop making it a problem dude if you dont agree with them just leave and shut tf up also you clicked on this video just to spread hate on nonbinary people? thats pretty sad.

    • @j.kkidding9764
      @j.kkidding9764 4 года назад +7

      I become sad every time I try to start a new pokemon save and it asks "are you a boy or girl?" BITCH WHAT AM I SUPPOSED TO PUT INN

  • @noelhann5262
    @noelhann5262 4 года назад +828

    “It’s not vandalism if it’s an art project” wait, isn’t that Banksy’s whole thing

  • @denedoesthings
    @denedoesthings 3 года назад +27

    I came out as they/them to my music teacher.
    She bought me a booklet and corrects anyone who misgenders me.
    Thank you god for this wonderful human being.

  • @thatonebab7351
    @thatonebab7351 4 года назад +1466

    writing they instead of he/she not only is inclusive, but takes less letters to write/type each time you do it

    • @Hellhound_Luz
      @Hellhound_Luz 4 года назад +141

      also it's far less clunky looking. I always used the singular they in writing because even though it was "grammatically incorrect" it flows so much better than he or she or the aesthetic nightmare that is s/he.

    • @Sky._.broadband
      @Sky._.broadband 4 года назад +123

      @@Hellhound_Luz it’s actually not “grammatically incorrect” They/Them has always been for plural and singular, people forget that sometimes. For example, if you find a phone on the floor, you say “oh someone lost their phone” y’a know x

    • @tarpee4045
      @tarpee4045 4 года назад +15

      Yes!! Laziness for the win

    • @kaitlyn5324
      @kaitlyn5324 4 года назад +59

      @@Hellhound_Luz they is actually grammatically correct! They/them has been used singularly since at least the 14th century I think.

    • @goddessoflesbians1153
      @goddessoflesbians1153 4 года назад +21

      When I first came out i was Non-binary and used They/Them Pronouns. Now I'm Trans and use She/Her or She/They Pronouns depending on how I feel

  • @YourWaywardDestiny
    @YourWaywardDestiny 4 года назад +497

    Someone new: "Are you a boy or a girl?"
    Enbies: "Yyyeeesss? Wait, no. But maybe? Is it actually both? Are those the only two options? Wait, actually I don't understand the question. Is this test timed?"

  • @3L3CTR4H34RT
    @3L3CTR4H34RT 3 года назад +782

    After 1st term, my English teacher switched from saying “ladies and gentlemen” to “folks” which is honestly just so sweet.

    • @triciaivers2572
      @triciaivers2572 3 года назад +24

      So my schools all girls im trans its my last year my best friends a nobirany... soooo is it really an all girls school

    • @ussinussinongawd516
      @ussinussinongawd516 3 года назад +5

      @@triciaivers2572 well bio-girls yes? idk lol

    • @anonymousgoat6552
      @anonymousgoat6552 3 года назад +16

      I say ladies, gentlemen and everything inbetween

    • @triciaivers2572
      @triciaivers2572 3 года назад +8

      @@anonymousgoat6552 or outside

    • @andrzejpakistan3200
      @andrzejpakistan3200 3 года назад +10

      Your teacher should use "Guys, gals and non-binary pals"

  • @funnyvideoguy3216
    @funnyvideoguy3216 2 года назад +64

    "Are you a man or a woman?"
    "I'm a renegade angel"
    "No, but what's your gender?"
    "A survivor, we're a dying breed"
    "But what's on your pants?"
    "The all seeing eye"

    • @laughsingay
      @laughsingay Год назад +9

      I do not like the image that last sentenced put in my head

  • @reubenowen6118
    @reubenowen6118 4 года назад +319

    instead of saying “ladies and gentlemen” i say “fellow victims of life”

  • @zawmbiipawz
    @zawmbiipawz 4 года назад +588

    ladies and gentlemen - not gender inclusive to a lot of people, boring, old fashioned
    PEASANTS - all gender inclusive, fun, interesting

    • @eldritchabomination9726
      @eldritchabomination9726 4 года назад +88

      Mortals - gender inclusive, fun, implies you're immortal

    • @dreadnoughtdreamer
      @dreadnoughtdreamer 4 года назад +46

      I love 'fools', it's good for dramatic beginning of the speech :)

    • @47ratsinahoodie
      @47ratsinahoodie 4 года назад +47

      FLESH THINGS-gender inclusive, fun, guaranteed to get you weird looks

    • @CamPalinSmith
      @CamPalinSmith 4 года назад +22

      Ham-fisted Bun Vendors - gender inclusive, bit insulting, implies that you used to be a huge 1970s Dr Who fan and still... can't really let some things go from the fandom.

    • @wingedjellifish11235
      @wingedjellifish11235 4 года назад +25

      I'm partial to "tall birds and small birds and all birds between"--gender inclusive, written in dactylic tetrameter with an internal rhyme scheme, and lets the addressees pretend they're birds.

  • @angb4ng
    @angb4ng 4 года назад +1611

    as a non-binary person I need to say something:
    "My Gender is nb which means "None of your business" "
    I simply love that quote. Also thank u for making this video. Most ppl just forget abt us or do not recognize our existence.

    • @christinewhoyt
      @christinewhoyt 3 года назад +5

      Ah that's good!

    • @aBbY-im4uo
      @aBbY-im4uo 3 года назад +7

      Yes our existence is valid and sometimes stable but ya never know

    • @ragefulhobbit
      @ragefulhobbit 3 года назад +1

      I'm going to use this-

    • @blankblinked996
      @blankblinked996 3 года назад +3

      Preach sibling!

    • @aBbY-im4uo
      @aBbY-im4uo 3 года назад

      @@snaggletoonsalt ya I love eri to

  • @wynnexed
    @wynnexed 2 года назад +26

    When my little sister was like 5 years old, she had an imaginary friend whom she referred to as a "brother-sister" and I am constantly amazed that a 5-year-old had an enby imaginary friend at a time in her life where she possibly didn't know that was a real thing.
    side note: the imaginary friend also had pink hair, I am unclear on whether it canonically was dyed or just naturally pink

  • @hastursonofyog-sothoth4411
    @hastursonofyog-sothoth4411 4 года назад +151

    "if you don't want to be perceived as a boy or a girl then what do you want to be perceived as?"
    "A threat"

  • @raflenaugh7802
    @raflenaugh7802 4 года назад +289

    I love how he just reads “pregagagnant” like it’s a normal word and actually says pregnant

  • @ritikadhakerr
    @ritikadhakerr 4 года назад +772

    but hey, writing "they" is so much easier and inclusive than writing "he/she" and that's really cool

    • @asherunderground7951
      @asherunderground7951 4 года назад +24

      That’s what I think too and it’s so much easier to say as well

    • @ritikadhakerr
      @ritikadhakerr 4 года назад +24

      @@asherunderground7951 and it includes everyone, be it male, female or non binary!

    • @ambitious_reader801
      @ambitious_reader801 4 года назад +20

      and it's more efficient!

    • @doukzu
      @doukzu 4 года назад +28

      seriously! my teacher tells us to "pick one" instead of he/she, but what if we just... used they/them instead. Easy and ambiguous

    • @k.a.u.4599
      @k.a.u.4599 4 года назад +19

      My dyslexic mom remembers struggling with the feminist led language change from just "he" to "he/she" and now she's struggling with the shift to "they" but she's trying! I think it's interesting and important to remember that for the older generations, the phrasing "he/she" was feminist, liberal, modern, and inclusive - so older people who use that and struggle with "they" are NOT inherently ignorant and bigoted.

  • @milaorenisraeli1906
    @milaorenisraeli1906 2 года назад +30

    I am genderfluid and on a test we needed to fill one of the two boxes, one said man and the other woman…… I added another box and wrote other and filled this one. Turned out it was for statistics and those answers were needed for the ministry of education in my country😂😅

    • @Rachel-fi4sc
      @Rachel-fi4sc 2 года назад +19

      Then you doubly did the right thing. Make the government more progressive!

    • @milaorenisraeli1906
      @milaorenisraeli1906 2 года назад +11

      @@Rachel-fi4sc thank you, i am trying my best

  • @froggydraws_24
    @froggydraws_24 4 года назад +716

    "ladies and gentlemen" is so boring, i told my teacher i was nb and she refers to the class as "dears and darlings" which is much more fun :D

    • @izzy-bp6vw
      @izzy-bp6vw 4 года назад +57

      I told my teachers I’m nb and all of them except for one still say “ladies and gentlemen” and “boys and girls” and every time I just don’t listen cuz I don’t apply to that

    • @MxPotato84
      @MxPotato84 4 года назад +33

      Love it. Reminds me when my grandma called me Deary. 💜
      I say “Spooks and ghouls”. 🖤💀

    • @charcoal5825
      @charcoal5825 4 года назад +16

      @@izzy-bp6vw I’m sorry to hear that. I wish people were more inclusive :(

    • @ona512
      @ona512 4 года назад +22

      oh god if anyone called me a dear or darling i would listen to their lectures so much more????

    • @fridaysketches9686
      @fridaysketches9686 4 года назад +1

      Yes

  • @floatingdink
    @floatingdink 4 года назад +327

    "Ladies and gentlemen" too formal, boring, old
    "Cowards" true, gender inclusive, I am indeed a coward

    • @emomsen1089
      @emomsen1089 4 года назад +15

      Very inclusive indeed, I identify as a big coward.

    • @sammyhewens5893
      @sammyhewens5893 4 года назад +14

      "fools"

    • @AnnekeOosterink
      @AnnekeOosterink 4 года назад +5

      Gentlefolk and cowardly people! Let's be inclusive of the cowards!

    • @kayleekirkpatrick9193
      @kayleekirkpatrick9193 4 года назад +2

      “Fellow live forms”

    • @AnnekeOosterink
      @AnnekeOosterink 4 года назад +3

      @@kayleekirkpatrick9193 Dear meatbags and trapped souls!

  • @juliodavis3601
    @juliodavis3601 4 года назад +234

    The other day someone asked me if I was a boy or a girl and I didn't hear them correctly so I just said "I'm a freshman"

    • @noragordon3147
      @noragordon3147 4 года назад +8

      hello there fren

    • @internetstorage
      @internetstorage 4 года назад +9

      ayy freshman enby’s squad

    • @juliodavis3601
      @juliodavis3601 4 года назад +7

      @@internetstorage ayyy

    • @juliodavis3601
      @juliodavis3601 4 года назад +5

      @@noragordon3147 hello fren!!

    • @internetstorage
      @internetstorage 4 года назад +2

      oof there are more freshmen nb peeps? yall lets start a discord if you have one lmao i need friends-

  • @barbarametzger9616
    @barbarametzger9616 3 года назад +14

    My oldest child is non-binary and have loads of friends in the LGBTQ+ community. So thankful for finding your channel. Love watching your videos!
    🤟🏻💜💙💚💛🧡❤️
    Love and peace ✌️

  • @cheeseontoast3434
    @cheeseontoast3434 4 года назад +272

    Ladies and gentlemen: old fashioned, not very inclusive, boring af
    Cowards: fresh, fun and inclusive

  • @Life-wb1do
    @Life-wb1do 3 года назад +578

    I can just imagine someone starting a very important speech and they just say “Greetings earthlings”

    • @peachtea2526
      @peachtea2526 3 года назад +12

      this made me laugh xD

    • @pantheraviva
      @pantheraviva 3 года назад +15

      you're being exclusive of aliens smh /joke

    • @Life-wb1do
      @Life-wb1do 3 года назад +19

      @@pantheraviva Oh god I did not think about that. Is "Greetings all" better?

    • @bookworm0859
      @bookworm0859 3 года назад +15

      @@pantheraviva @Life4118 how to fix problem: "Greetings esteemed randos."

    • @MJ-zf8fk
      @MJ-zf8fk 3 года назад +12

      In the mornings I greet my friends with "greetings mortals" and then am severely disappointed when they reply with something like "good morning" like no! Not anymore you fiend! How dare you be so normal!

  • @lkelly7002
    @lkelly7002 4 года назад +838

    I love addressing audiences as “Friends and foes”

    • @lkelly7002
      @lkelly7002 4 года назад +73

      But my favourite is “killers and renegades, liars and thieves”

    • @h.1699
      @h.1699 4 года назад +9

      So no people in between exist? One can only be for or against you?

    • @lkelly7002
      @lkelly7002 4 года назад +24

      @@h.1699 if you are not with me you are against me that is the only valid binary

    • @h.1699
      @h.1699 4 года назад +5

      @@lkelly7002 but wouldn't that make the nearly 100% of humans that are indifferent towards you to be unnecessary enemies? Wouldn't "acquaintances and people who have no idea who is talking right now" still be a valid binary, more fitting, less bewildering and at least give your enemies a false sense of security (i mean, you'd still know who isn't on your side)?
      And what is considered "being with you"?
      Someone might agree with everything but a single minor point, does that make them an enemy? Someone might disagree with everything but a single minor point, does that make them a friend?
      And wouldn't it make you your own enemy if you need to think about what is the right thing for you? ^_^

    • @lkelly7002
      @lkelly7002 4 года назад +17

      @@h.1699 but then who would I stAb
      If I have no enemies then who can be my enemies-to-lovers 100k slowburn?

  • @theprogrammer32
    @theprogrammer32 3 года назад +36

    I love how Nonbinary people just collectively see themselves as mythical creatures / gods.
    Also,
    Yes, I do see myself as a god that's above gender or sexuality and I just want to rule the world.

    • @FaerieWithAHalo
      @FaerieWithAHalo 3 года назад +6

      We Aces do as well.
      “It’s tough to be a god!”

    • @uselessgay2341
      @uselessgay2341 3 года назад +5

      Demi boy here,
      I feel like a halfway point between boy and god-like being that is above for society's binary gender roles

    • @JohnnyLobster_
      @JohnnyLobster_ 2 года назад +3

      @@uselessgay2341 DEMIGOD

    • @disableddragonborn
      @disableddragonborn 2 года назад +4

      I mean, Loki is nonbinary and Dionysus is FTM, so as a nonbinary pagan, while I'm not going to blaspheme and claim to be at that level, it does feel much better to see someone similar to me in my religion.

    • @laughsingay
      @laughsingay Год назад +2

      I started feeling that way when after figuring out that I'm good with any pronouns- I realized that I couldn't be misgendered. I feel like I have ALL THE POWER.

  • @unnamedjello9779
    @unnamedjello9779 4 года назад +1620

    “What’s your gender? Boy or girl?”
    Me, a genderfluid: *Well yes, but actually no*

    • @circleofsylvan5906
      @circleofsylvan5906 4 года назад +40

      Big mood here

    • @megamindsfreshmintycum
      @megamindsfreshmintycum 4 года назад +17

      lol, same

    • @flynnlui7220
      @flynnlui7220 4 года назад +73

      lmao i looked at your comment and went "yeah makes sense"
      completely forgetting that i myself am genderfluid....

    • @ashperry9651
      @ashperry9651 4 года назад +7

      Same I feel you

    • @smithyjim
      @smithyjim 4 года назад +47

      someone asked me this the other day and i just said “sometimes”

  • @Commietaku
    @Commietaku 4 года назад +331

    Us communists have solved the large group address issue perfectly: "Comrades!"

    • @personacuatro1300
      @personacuatro1300 3 года назад +26

      Is time to start the revolution, fellow comrade

    • @myby2888
      @myby2888 3 года назад +14

      Comrade ✊

    • @sydssolanumsamsys
      @sydssolanumsamsys 3 года назад +7

      COMRADE!

    • @lonlysoda4943
      @lonlysoda4943 3 года назад +6

      Its an honor to met my comrades in every comment Section ✊

    • @Mirin_the_Witch
      @Mirin_the_Witch 3 года назад +3

      Not if you're actually speaking a slavic language, unfortunately. My language genders absolutely everything and the whole sentence structure behaves according to that. I'm vaguely considering using the royal "we" when we speak. Unfortunately, there's a feminine and masculine plural as well. Thankfully, the vowels that make up the difference seem to converge over the course of the last century, but it's still apparent in writing.

  • @scriiblee9683
    @scriiblee9683 4 года назад +210

    "If you're not male or female, you're hardcore" - Jammi 2020

    • @torixsilver444
      @torixsilver444 4 года назад +13

      Being nonbinary is punk as ✨f ri c k✨

    • @ghost.in.the.archives
      @ghost.in.the.archives 4 года назад +4

      @@torixsilver444 yess enby punks rise up

    • @Tubbee_
      @Tubbee_ 4 года назад +10

      We will ✨RiSe Up✨
      It’s a Hamilton reference

    • @torixsilver444
      @torixsilver444 4 года назад +3

      @@ghost.in.the.archives i love this sub culture. Its so easy to be androgynous and everyones so nice

    • @sirfloofish
      @sirfloofish 4 года назад +1

      That is very true

  • @banana_365iguess
    @banana_365iguess Год назад +5

    1:04 "ladies, gentlemen, gendleladies and ladlemen" is my fav

  • @mcskeet
    @mcskeet 4 года назад +242

    My English teacher refers to the class as 'wonderful humans' and its the greatest thing

    • @tatermister5045
      @tatermister5045 4 года назад +8

      My English teacher has a poster of inclusive ways to refer to a group!

    • @jakeberger912
      @jakeberger912 4 года назад +4

      your english teacher is it x

    • @lesbian_frogs_1632
      @lesbian_frogs_1632 4 года назад +4

      My English teacher call my class, “the sandwich’s of 7-5”

    • @Layde_Nyx19
      @Layde_Nyx19 4 года назад +3

      My geography teacher calls us ‘children with faces’

    • @lesbian_frogs_1632
      @lesbian_frogs_1632 4 года назад +2

      @@Layde_Nyx19 love that so much

  • @tonimartinez320
    @tonimartinez320 3 года назад +246

    "Is this it?" "no." "Is this it?" "no. " Is THIS it?" "ohhHHHHhhhh"
    literally me coming to terms with my gender and sexual identity simultaneously

  • @neogreenhillzone
    @neogreenhillzone 4 года назад +207

    I think the best way to transform “ladies and gentlemen” into a gender neutral way to address a crowd is “distinguished guests”

    • @Parker-nm9cg
      @Parker-nm9cg 4 года назад +7

      But what if you're not distinguished and, in fact, are a dirt gremlin from the depths of the bog?

    • @purpleduracell
      @purpleduracell 4 года назад +4

      @@Parker-nm9cg your earthiness?

    • @bakustop9606
      @bakustop9606 4 года назад +2

      ooh that’s like, perfect

  • @eleanorholmes9431
    @eleanorholmes9431 3 года назад +18

    Thank you for this video! I love you (platonically ♠️) and I’m always happy to see myself represented and my gender validated 🥰
    My favourite one is probably that the bigots still don’t know the difference between “there”, “their” and “they’re” 😹
    Also, according to logic, “Yes” and “No” are perfectly fine answers to “Are you a boy or a girl?” 🤓

    • @roar64
      @roar64 Год назад +4

      Yes that logic is right! As an aro/ace I say "no" to "who's your crush?" and "what's your type?"

  • @mandipandi303
    @mandipandi303 4 года назад +141

    "Welcome honored guests," is such a better way to address a room than, "Welcome ladies and gentlemen."

  • @lolamiller6752
    @lolamiller6752 3 года назад +649

    my science teacher said "if there's eight kids in the class and two are boys, how many girls are there?" (I don't know why she asked a group of high schoolers a kindergarten math problem either) and I said 5 and everyone looked at me weird. I forgot only one person in the class knows I'm genderfluid.

    • @christinewhoyt
      @christinewhoyt 3 года назад +6

      5+2=7 not 8 that's why.
      but yeah weird.

    • @ellpaca625
      @ellpaca625 3 года назад +137

      @@christinewhoyt you missed the point. OP wasn’t counting themself because they don’t identify as boy or girl. 5 girls + 2 boys + 1 genderfluid = 8 people

    • @christinewhoyt
      @christinewhoyt 3 года назад +40

      @@ellpaca625 ah sorry.

    • @Cascadeis
      @Cascadeis 3 года назад +43

      Maybe that’s why the teacher asked such a simple question in a high school - because it’s not actually simple! 😂 I’m going to remember that question and start asking people that until I find a new friend. 😊

    • @Ruby-yn5fp
      @Ruby-yn5fp 3 года назад +32

      asking this question respectfully, i might not understand this right at all if so please correct me and consider me ignorant, and im sorry - does this mean for you that you identify as a girl more some days and a boy other days (and perhaps some days neither or both) - bc if that's the case the answer to this 'simple' math question could be 'depends on the day' hehe :)

  • @jsk-art
    @jsk-art 4 года назад +202

    reasons to use they as a singular pronoun instead of "he/she":
    It's inclusive
    it's shorter to write
    It's much shorter to say

    • @nicholasnelson5344
      @nicholasnelson5344 4 года назад +11

      Very true. it can also be used when you are unaware of someone's gender, they works the best!

    • @ukbtsarmy4725
      @ukbtsarmy4725 4 года назад +5

      Defo ✨

    • @megfleming5706
      @megfleming5706 3 года назад +9

      E x a c t l y
      I've never understood why people go through the effort of going like "I hope he or she is doing well!" like bro just say they it's not that hard

    • @tiktokcompilations7218
      @tiktokcompilations7218 3 года назад +1

      on my school letters it says he/she and my parent always circles she :( I’m a boy :(

    • @JackieNoBones
      @JackieNoBones 3 года назад

      it also sounds bettter

  • @STORMFANGSL8
    @STORMFANGSL8 3 года назад +9

    I am non binary, I came out to my friends when covid restrictions were still preventing us from getting together. The first time one of my friends come over to my house since telling him, he sees my closest door is open and notices it’s a very nice walk in closet and just goes “Yo is that the closet you came out of” me and the other two of my friends there burst into laughter.

  • @tlouitas
    @tlouitas 3 года назад +173

    That one teacher: “ok ladies and gentlemen...”
    Me, a non-binary individual: welp time for me to head out ***leaves class***

  • @onyx5453
    @onyx5453 4 года назад +1185

    "here is a safe space for nonbinary people"
    me: *enby crying*
    NONBINARY PEOPLE ARE VALID. PASS IT ON.

    • @izzygalax
      @izzygalax 4 года назад +40

      YESS ENBIES ARE VALID, PASS IT ON

    • @r1lynn117
      @r1lynn117 4 года назад +34

      ✨NONBINARY PEOPLE ARE VALID. PASS IT ON.✨

    • @Finn-um8nu
      @Finn-um8nu 4 года назад +27

      enbys are valid pass it on

    • @asparagus420
      @asparagus420 4 года назад +28

      NON BINARY PEOPLE ARE VALID! 💛🤍💜🖤 Pass it on! :D

    • @tistheo7834
      @tistheo7834 4 года назад +23

      🌈NONBINARY PEEPS ARE VALID, PASS IT ON🌈

  • @edwardblackwelljenkins5126
    @edwardblackwelljenkins5126 4 года назад +319

    I don't say ladies and gentlemen, I say "Attention, cowards."

    • @f.lynnfilms
      @f.lynnfilms 4 года назад +1

      bruh same

    • @MxPotato84
      @MxPotato84 4 года назад +7

      I say “spooks and ghouls”.

    • @Soupdrinker26
      @Soupdrinker26 4 года назад +6

      I'm tempted to address people as "Okay bitches!" now.

    • @Me-io3wg
      @Me-io3wg 4 года назад +5

      same vibes as "I'm not your non binary pal I'm your non binary enemy"

    • @brianhall6228
      @brianhall6228 4 года назад

      I love this laughing so hard 😂

  • @kaz_7133
    @kaz_7133 3 года назад +5

    This is such a wholesome and beautiful video. Just today I started researching more about being NB, and this was a nice break from all the questioning I've been doing for the past few hours.

  • @vd2485
    @vd2485 4 года назад +182

    “Ladies and gentlemen” 🙁
    “Esteemed guests” 🙂
    If you’re gonna try to be fancy, why not compliment people?

    • @majesticwyrm
      @majesticwyrm 4 года назад +2

      Hey kids, want some candy

    • @manon7588
      @manon7588 4 года назад +3

      theydies and gentlethems

    • @meeplol802
      @meeplol802 4 года назад +1

      @@manon7588 yes

    • @meeplol802
      @meeplol802 4 года назад +1

      @@manon7588 at first I thought you said “they dies” XD

    • @manon7588
      @manon7588 4 года назад +1

      @@meeplol802, hahaha damn I hope not

  • @karai5082
    @karai5082 4 года назад +501

    One of my teacher always just says "fellow humans"

    • @haveagoodmourning
      @haveagoodmourning 4 года назад +13

      I really really desperately want this to be the reference I think it is

    • @Sophie-cm2un
      @Sophie-cm2un 3 года назад +13

      My teachers: “hello people...”

    • @Lauren-fi2rd
      @Lauren-fi2rd 3 года назад +33

      my bio teacher always refers to the class as “friends and enemies”. he’s one of those teachers that some people absolutely love and some absolutely hate. Self aware and gender neutral :)

    • @haveagoodmourning
      @haveagoodmourning 3 года назад +1

      @** GalaxyPancakes ** It's gotta be, right?

    • @chloehorseshoe7827
      @chloehorseshoe7827 3 года назад +4

      But have you considered im just 12 rats in a trench coat?

  • @shadyspot8284
    @shadyspot8284 4 года назад +135

    Honestly, the best part of being non-binary is legitimately having a reason to tell people not to refer to you. Don't respect my pronouns? Then don't refer to me.

    • @kirby1678
      @kirby1678 4 года назад +14

      as somebody who does not use he/him, she/her or they/them and uses old gender-neutral pronouns such as ze/hir, co/cos, thon/thons, ip/ips, etc. i entirely agree with this. i would also like to add that i love when people try to call me a snowflake or that my pronouns are made up, etc. because i can simply reply with "they used my pronouns in the 1800's" and blow their minds

    • @Z.A.N.E
      @Z.A.N.E 4 года назад +12

      That and people making up so many cool ways *to* refer to you.
      I get called thude now. Some people just call me human out of nowhere. And when I asked someone to give me a gender neutral term for boyfriend/girlfriend they said "Yesfriend" and I literally shed a tear.
      Being enby is fun sometimes

    • @creativedesignation7880
      @creativedesignation7880 4 года назад +4

      @@kirby1678 Hol' up, they are old pronouns, as in ones we don't use anymore? I'll be off to do some research, hoping my language used to have pronouns that are comparable to they/them. Thanks for this piece of info!

  • @oblivionhinkley322
    @oblivionhinkley322 2 года назад +5

    Normally when addressing my friends in a group I say "hey yall" or something like that, but now I want to start saying "yo wassup my snicker-doodles"

  • @erisvurek2133
    @erisvurek2133 4 года назад +151

    ladies and gentlemen:
    -to formal
    -g e n d e r
    cowards:
    -fun dynamic
    -gets a fun reaction

    • @miloknoke4256
      @miloknoke4256 4 года назад +13

      "Alright cowards it's time for the test" ok I approve

  • @nathmartins3154
    @nathmartins3154 3 года назад +280

    In High School, my biology teacher used to greet us saying "Good morning, little creatures"😂

    • @Wynn_The_Gamer
      @Wynn_The_Gamer 3 года назад +12

      In my junior high school, my math teacher would call us "manusia planet" which is planet human? human planet? I'm not sure, but I just think that's funny, especially since my country is lgbt phobic so I don't think she knows she's validating non-binary folks

    • @Rachel-fi4sc
      @Rachel-fi4sc 3 года назад +21

      One of my teachers - who was known for a vicious temper and generally not someone to cross - would greet us with "hello, little chickens!"
      It nearly caused a classroom riot when someone finally got the nerve to reply back "hello, big chicken!"

    • @TaylorSwift13xoxo
      @TaylorSwift13xoxo 2 года назад +3

      That’s adorable

    • @browncat6990
      @browncat6990 2 года назад +4

      “Little creatures” my history teacher would call us puddles of puke lol

    • @cyan.-
      @cyan.- 2 года назад +1

      our science teacher called us little humans and my math teacher just said hello, friends

  • @CG-py1wr
    @CG-py1wr 4 года назад +146

    "Gender? No thanks, I have pokemon to catch." That one really resonates with me xD

  • @medleys.of.life.
    @medleys.of.life. 2 года назад +2

    My health teacher always used to call our class “my humans and aliens” so no one would feel left out. Once she accidentally said boys and girls, and absolutely freaked out. She’s literally one of my favorite teachers

  • @giraffe6856
    @giraffe6856 3 года назад +364

    I call myself a meat
    “I’m a chunk of meat”
    Because technically, we’re all just a huge meat-
    Walking meat with fluids inside-

    • @averagefroggo5796
      @averagefroggo5796 3 года назад +3

      *yes*

    • @sarahrita8228
      @sarahrita8228 3 года назад +18

      me (a vegetarian) ewww...but your right though

    • @lucidlemonarts7597
      @lucidlemonarts7597 3 года назад +10

      We’re all just brains floating around inside of human meat suits

    • @bornvolcano
      @bornvolcano 3 года назад +5

      You’re not wrong but please never say those things again

    • @Ruby-yn5fp
      @Ruby-yn5fp 3 года назад +2

      the ol' sack o' meat 'n bones :')

  • @snipeckysnip753
    @snipeckysnip753 4 года назад +124

    Omg the "GENDER: PREFER NO" was me. I've peaked

  • @citrus_sours2285
    @citrus_sours2285 4 года назад +565

    how about "friends, foes and unknown contenders"? loll

  • @rilynelizabeth
    @rilynelizabeth 3 года назад +2

    i’m in theatre and the tech director changed “ladies and gentlemen” to “young humans” i love him sm

  • @SpookyAres13
    @SpookyAres13 4 года назад +250

    I do just wanna say that technically niblings is the gender nutruel of Niece and Nephew but I live being called a nibbling cause I think its funny.

    • @izzygalax
      @izzygalax 4 года назад +15

      And you're right, nibbling is my new favorite word

    • @captainwomble
      @captainwomble 4 года назад +6

      Yes, but it has one 'b' in it (niblings - comes from siblings). Nibbling your niblings is a terrific joke threat though (providing it is age appropriate play and you check they are keen on it - things are only fun if everybody is having fun - they often are, squeals of delight as you chase them and try to nibble their arm or stomach or whatever).

    • @liam_er
      @liam_er 4 года назад +1

      @@captainwomble ok what

    • @captainwomble
      @captainwomble 4 года назад +4

      @@liam_er Nibling, which means "offspring of one's siblings" has one "b" in it. With the letter "b" twice - as you state - it means "to take small bites". Easily verified with google.

    • @liam_er
      @liam_er 4 года назад +4

      @@captainwomble no Sorry I wasn’t being rude- I was more surprised and laughing a bit lol

  • @eldritchcatgirl
    @eldritchcatgirl 4 года назад +263

    5:54
    **I am the riverman.*
    **am I a man?*
    **am I a woman?*
    **am I non-binary?*
    **we may never know.*
    **would you care for a boat ride?*
    *yes
    *no

    • @yourlocaldemon2195
      @yourlocaldemon2195 3 года назад +5

      Ok fr this is a great story concept, unless it already is-

    • @lilygrey854
      @lilygrey854 3 года назад +22

      I think the comenter is talking about the boat person in undertale who acts as a way to get around in the game. Access to them is available in hotlands (not entirely sure about that) and you can move around between snowdin, hotlands or waterfall and its like a fast travel. The boat person can tell you jokes or even throw around bits of lore. Anyway their gender isnt specified and im not sure if they are confirmes Non-binary. But yeah if you havent heard of it before undertale is a great game, you should try playing it:p

    • @yourlocaldemon2195
      @yourlocaldemon2195 3 года назад +5

      @@lilygrey854 Ohh I know undertale, I just didn’t know the game well and only the fandom, thanks for clarification!

    • @3L3CTR4H34RT
      @3L3CTR4H34RT 3 года назад +1

      Ayyyyy it’s Undertale!

    • @CARCINOAQUARIUM
      @CARCINOAQUARIUM 3 года назад +14

      isnt it;
      * Tralala
      * I am the riverman
      * Or am the riverwoman...?
      * It doesn't really matter...
      * I love to ride in my boat.
      * Would you care to join me?
      ❤️ Yes No
      ahaha river person is one of my favorites

  • @j_station
    @j_station 4 года назад +143

    I was re-listening to some old Welcome to Night Vale episodes and the quote: “immortal souls living in temporary shelters of earth and meat” could be used as a funky and fresh gender-neutral way of referring to people

  • @vix_loves_worms
    @vix_loves_worms 2 года назад +3

    I was at the rock climbing gym like I do and there is a waiting area if parents or just people want to sit and I saw someone from my class’s mom reading a quick and easy guide to they/them pronouns and almost started crying on the spot. It made me so happy!!! 😭

  • @minananano
    @minananano 4 года назад +404

    Tbh I use “my guy” as a gender neutral term and sometimes people don’t realise it and I have to tell them afterwards and I feel guilty that I didn’t tell them before the person mentioned it TvT

    • @underscorekay
      @underscorekay 4 года назад +14

      same here along with dude and bro

    • @datchia
      @datchia 4 года назад +25

      I say lads/Dudes/Bro/mate
      In all gender-neutral terms, and If someone asked I would not call them that, but I’m not sure if they are just to scared to ask or not so I’ve tried to make myself look like a LGBTQ+ Mascot so they know it’ll be ok to ask

    • @airplanes_aren.t_real
      @airplanes_aren.t_real 4 года назад +17

      Thank you
      Finally another person that doesn't gender random words
      I've always knew that "bruh" "my guy" and "dude" is a gender neutral term it's just that girls don't use it as often

    • @lacievaule5758
      @lacievaule5758 4 года назад +9

      Same. I use 'dude' or 'bro' to address all genders but I realize it can make people/certain genders uncomfortable so I try not to if I feel like that's going to happen.

    • @someoneontheinternet16
      @someoneontheinternet16 4 года назад +11

      I use "gurl" as gender neutral

  • @ashleysong5721
    @ashleysong5721 4 года назад +305

    I always liked that Jenna Marbles started to say "ladies, men, nonbinary friends" it is just too perfect and wholesome IMO ❤

  • @myutube5882
    @myutube5882 4 года назад +358

    "Are you male or female?" "No," means, "No, I'm not male or female." I've begun saying "no" to this question all the time. It seems like the best answer.

    • @Rain-xn9xg
      @Rain-xn9xg 4 года назад +9

      I'm Demi, so I can't decide if I should say female or no.

    • @kaelin8775
      @kaelin8775 4 года назад +23

      @@Rain-xn9xg are you a boy or a girl? "maybe.."

    • @straykidshanjisung2018
      @straykidshanjisung2018 4 года назад +1

      Me for the longest time thinking it was no as in the beginning of nonbinary

    • @Leanflare
      @Leanflare 4 года назад

      If I say I’m the president that doesn’t make it true. Gender is not a social construct; therefore: non-binary doesn’t exist.

    • @Rain-xn9xg
      @Rain-xn9xg 4 года назад +6

      @@Leanflare Gender IS a social construct, your sex is what isn't. There are more than two genders, there are 2 sexes. It's that simple.

  • @thegameowl11
    @thegameowl11 3 года назад +4

    I’ve always had something in me saying that I wasn’t fully a man and that I shouldn’t have to live up to these expectations. I was trying to figure out how to express that in a healthy way and found out about the non binary thing and realized it fits me perfectly.

  • @disorientedfinch
    @disorientedfinch 4 года назад +195

    One time in among us I said “wassup my girls gays and theys” and someone was LITERALLY like “you mean girls and guys?” 😭🤚💖

    • @kirfluff
      @kirfluff 4 года назад +23

      as a they im sad

    • @Man-ej6uv
      @Man-ej6uv 4 года назад +9

      BRUH I

    • @EvanNeedsTherapy
      @EvanNeedsTherapy 4 года назад +7

      Okay but, that’s amazing and I will now greet everyone I ever meet this way

    • @PutoMedicoBrujo
      @PutoMedicoBrujo 4 года назад +32

      and THAT is the perfect moment to say, "DID I STUTTER, PUNK?"

    • @meeeg7029
      @meeeg7029 4 года назад +6

      I hateee that as an non-binary it suck cuz YOU’VE TOLD YOUR MOM A THOUSAND TIMES THAT NO I’M NOT A GIRL I’M NON-BINARY eh-hem not speaking from personal experience or anything

  • @jillp.icklle
    @jillp.icklle 4 года назад +123

    Doctor: "What do you identify as? Gender-wise?"
    Enbies: *Who's that?*

  • @donuts564
    @donuts564 4 года назад +313

    In school, we never learned about "they/them" as gender neutral pronouns, only as a plural. I only discoverd you could use it like that once I started reading english books, watching english vids, etc in my free time. I just don't get why they don't teach that. They/them is great, not just as pronouns for enby people, but also just as pronous for everybody who's gender you don't know or when you're just talking about some hypothetical situation!
    Edit: forgot to mention it but I'm obviously not talking about english literature classes. I'm talking about english as a foreign language.

    • @queerpotato
      @queerpotato 4 года назад +10

      First I was wondering and then I saw your username and thought now it makes sense lol.
      We never learned about they as a singular pronoun either but I knew about it so I used it in an essay and my teacher corrected it as if it was wrong 🤦🏻
      (Warum schreibe ich überhaupt englisch wenn du eh auch deutsch bist :D )

    • @donuts564
      @donuts564 4 года назад +7

      @@queerpotato well it's an english video and most people reading this probably don't speak German, so it's logical to write in english.

    • @Kylailao
      @Kylailao 4 года назад +7

      @Can Tin It's the cycle of teachers being German and unaware. Studying at university, most students avoid singular they completely, even when it'd make more sense. That's the next generation of teachers I'm witnessing. Haha.

    • @mentinementine310
      @mentinementine310 4 года назад +2

      Same in Belgium!

    • @h.1699
      @h.1699 4 года назад +4

      It's because the concept of a gender neutral pronoun, that can be used for persons, is alien in quite some languages. Would love to see them introduced everywhere. Would love not having to guess a gender most of the time.

  • @yf-n7710
    @yf-n7710 2 года назад +3

    I like "fellow humanoids" as a way to address people. My friend said it once, and I've been using it ever since. I mean, I *could* just say "fellow humans," but "humanoid" is so much funnier.
    Non binary people are valid!

  • @kirfluff
    @kirfluff 4 года назад +759

    Hey, I'm your resident enby crewmate. Remember to drink water and do your MedBay scan. Peace out!

    • @Tubbee_
      @Tubbee_ 4 года назад +18

      I will and you too.
      -Kai

    • @niraishere771
      @niraishere771 4 года назад +8

      Ayyy same, I wish the same for you 😎

    • @nixpixl442
      @nixpixl442 4 года назад +15

      Just spilled water all over myself, does that count?

    • @Meloniearts
      @Meloniearts 4 года назад +8

      🥰

    • @kirfluff
      @kirfluff 4 года назад +11

      @@nixpixl442 Ya know what, sure, why not. Go for a swim.

  • @berries5340
    @berries5340 4 года назад +153

    mh teacher says in zoom
    "ladies and gentlemen. cats and dogs. aliens. morgan. and that one kid who's always asleep" its amazing lol

    • @ynntari2775
      @ynntari2775 3 года назад +12

      it sounds so much like a DID system
      I love it

    • @Alexandretta
      @Alexandretta 3 года назад +10

      This reminded me of back in college, a guy walked into class and said, "Hey, A-Team... and Isaac."

    • @peachtea2526
      @peachtea2526 3 года назад +2

      i actually love this so much XD

    • @cherrybomb1095
      @cherrybomb1095 3 года назад +9

      i love how they had to add the kid who's asleep

    • @haunteddreamer1468
      @haunteddreamer1468 3 года назад

      @@ynntari2775 yeah it does!

  • @Eli77468
    @Eli77468 4 года назад +81

    When somebody says “Boys and girls, be quiet and pay attention!” Well, I guess I don’t have to be paying attention...

    • @SubscribingMilotic
      @SubscribingMilotic 4 года назад +11

      There's also "get in two lines, boys on one side girls on the other!" And I just imagine an enby laying face down on the floor in the middle

    • @radicalgal
      @radicalgal 4 года назад +1

      Me getting tested with add: *hehe*

    • @socialistsewerrat8101
      @socialistsewerrat8101 4 года назад +3

      @@SubscribingMilotic I actually did that a lot last year.
      also, when going to class, we had boys in the front of the line, girls in the back, so I was always just alone in the middle, was I in the back of the boy line? front of the girl line? or the only person in the non-binary line?

  • @person1813
    @person1813 Год назад +2

    I was painting my nails yellow,white,purple and black during this video.
    Thank you

  • @serendipity5766
    @serendipity5766 4 года назад +319

    Instead of “good evening ladies and gentlemen” I say “good evening everyone” because that way it’s formal but neutral

    • @PublicVoidStart909
      @PublicVoidStart909 4 года назад +18

      Or "Good evening gentlepeople"

    • @Sophia-pm7jv
      @Sophia-pm7jv 4 года назад +9

      "Good evening local cryptids and domesticated ferals!"

    • @emmanicholson8645
      @emmanicholson8645 4 года назад +2

      Yaaaasssssssss

    • @emmanicholson8645
      @emmanicholson8645 4 года назад +2

      @Mary Ann Avery thats what I always say lmaooo

    • @Sophia-pm7jv
      @Sophia-pm7jv 4 года назад

      @Mary Ann Avery Omg YESS!! I LOVE THOMAS SANDERS! :)))

  • @dramafinn2425
    @dramafinn2425 4 года назад +380

    I unequipped my gender to have more room in my inventory.
    Edit: Holy crap, I’ve never had this much attention on a comment before thank you my enby pals, wow.

  • @P0nyl0ve
    @P0nyl0ve 4 года назад +174

    Re: ladies and gentlemen:
    Bernadette Banner often uses 'ladies and gentlefolk' in her videos which I always get very happy about:)

    • @Efreeti
      @Efreeti 4 года назад +32

      I saw someone use "theydies and gentlethem" and it's been stuck in my head since

    • @Z.A.N.E
      @Z.A.N.E 4 года назад +15

      I love Bernadette Banner- she's very cool

    • @flo1202xyz
      @flo1202xyz 4 года назад +4

      @@Efreeti it sounds so smooth

    • @rafaelah1492
      @rafaelah1492 4 года назад +10

      btw Bernadette has a nonbinary sibling, and they have a channel as well!

    • @hellothere-bo7bn
      @hellothere-bo7bn 4 года назад +2

      i love bernadette banner :)

  • @spicyspencer863
    @spicyspencer863 3 года назад +10

    Kind of random, but I freaking love this guy, he’s an amazing content creator

  • @beepboop2816
    @beepboop2816 4 года назад +491

    Are you a boy or a girl
    Agender: no
    Genderfluid: sometimes
    Bigender/pangender: yes
    Non binary: uldoufoyew

    • @AverageTreeEnthusiast
      @AverageTreeEnthusiast 4 года назад +36

      Me: *walks away quickly scratching my head*

    • @AMBATAKUM-73isk
      @AMBATAKUM-73isk 4 года назад +8

      Every website should have a opinion for every sexually

    • @shrekshoe376
      @shrekshoe376 4 года назад +8

      @@joe_mama_ lmao why are you going around spreading hate go get a life my dude

    • @bee458
      @bee458 4 года назад +30

      Someone in among us: Are you a girl?
      Me, a Demi-girl (Possibly Demi-girl flux): Well yes but actually no.

    • @crown4212
      @crown4212 4 года назад +7

      @@bee458 Hey a fellow demi-girl!

  • @sayonitepaskide7976
    @sayonitepaskide7976 4 года назад +260

    Reffering to somebody with an unkown gender:
    Most people: They
    Guys: He.... (or she!)

    • @pucklian6499
      @pucklian6499 4 года назад +35

      ah, i see you have excellent taste in comedians

    • @elakazandag8263
      @elakazandag8263 4 года назад +38

      "Then I said you can use they. He said fiiinneee:
      They OR sHe."

    • @brynzeman-witzel4348
      @brynzeman-witzel4348 4 года назад +24

      Honestly though! Sometimes it’s like guys forget that women and non-binary folks exist!

    • @localnonbinaryprussianbowl3350
      @localnonbinaryprussianbowl3350 4 года назад +10

      I got mad bc i am a guy and i use the they/them pronouns when i dont know someones gender, but then i realised im not a guy, then i realised i AM a guy and now im confused. Im like, im a guy, but im also a non binary. I dont feel like i have a gender but i also feel like im a guy. I was raised like a boy, now im confused if i ever was one. Please send help.

    • @localnonbinaryprussianbowl3350
      @localnonbinaryprussianbowl3350 4 года назад +8

      PLEASE GOD, TELL ME, WHAT THE FUK AM I

  • @paranoid.magpie492
    @paranoid.magpie492 4 года назад +113

    "Prefer No" and "Gender? No thanks, I have Pokemon to catch" are such moods, I swear

  • @axyrl
    @axyrl 2 года назад +2

    3:36
    this is something called *xenogender*.
    the flag is really hard to describe, just look it up if you want