I'm personally never going back to someone who broke up with me to run around and sleep with some other guy or guys. The old relationship you had with them is DEAD and destroyed. Shut that door and try your best to forget by trying to meet someone else.
It touched me bro... Have similar story.. My ex is with someone already and it's been just a month since we got separated.. It was her move to break... She's sleeping with that her rebound and she texted me out of blue telling she's not physically happy with her rebound and she took a bad decision... I still love her but I don't want this toxicity in my life anymore
Lol you wouldn't be watching this if you didn't want your ex back. Yes the old relationship is dead but now you both can indeed start a new one with changed dynamics and being better people this time out.
@@badnewstalkstech6900 this right here! You have to start from scratch, if she comes back. You can’t focus on the past and what she did during the breakup. If she did go with someone else, you do the same shit. If it’s meant to be, you guys will come back together and can be better than ever. I’ve seen a bunch of couples that I know closely that have done that.
Only people that don’t have an abundance mindset will accept their ex back. Don’t lower your value guys, leave that for the Beta males. Soooo many women out there. I promise. Feels good to be single for once. It just takes time to feel good about it. I promise you , she will see you less of a man if you accept her back after she was with other men
Not if you truly love this person and they truly love you. Trust me!!! I wish I would've took my ex back 10 years ago but instead I dealt with so many beautiful women since then and find myself still trying to fill in this void. Love is hard to find and now I've join the misery loves company club with the rest of the single people who had this mindset.
@@beats-by-skrill8925 if they truly love you, they dont choose another Guy🤦 it just make no sense! You would take her back after she change liquids & all the other dirty stuff with another Guy??? It just didnt work out Bro, thats when they come back!
@@UNFORGIVABLESENA it does make sense to guys cuz we’re logical but woman make emotional decisions…. In other words women can love you and still cheat if they are not emotionally attracted to you. But does that mean you should take her back? In my opinion, no…. Because if her emotions take her that far than she’ll just do it again in future…. So it’s a waste of time
Thank you God I don’t want my ex back,,why accept someone back who treated you like shit and disregarded your feelings because they thought their rebound relationship would be a success...Keep in mind they’re only coming back because the rebound didn’t work out , which means if it did work out they would’ve been living in a fairy 🧚♀️ tail relationship while you’re broken..
When she realizes the depth of her failure, and where does that bring her? Back to us. But we ain't the same man, but a different creature all together at that point.
We both made mistakes in my relationship. I didn’t reciprocate the love, I didn’t have purpose, I let myself go. I just want being a man fr and I can admit that. That is the only reason I would ever take my ex back. She put up with that version of me fro 5 years before leaving me and hopping into a rebound. If she left me and I wasn’t all those thing then yeah….no I would never take a women back that just left me for no good reason other than she lost feelings.
That’s make sense, I was left for no good reason in my case so there’s no reason to take her back. She just lost interest in me and dated someone else who she thought was more valuable…. Funny thing is, I run into this girl a lot because of mutual friends and she gives me sorry eyes… I just ignore it
That’s make sense, I was left for no good reason in my case so there’s no reason to take her back. She just lost interest in me and dated someone else who she thought was more valuable…. Funny thing is, I run into this girl a lot because of mutual friends and she gives me sorry eyes… I just ignore it
@@chrisjon8563 Hey Jon. She isn’t back but we have a good relationship and she talks to me a lot more than before. I find that I am completely detached from the outcome of all of this. If we work it out cool if not, that’s cool too. I am content with where we are at and I am also talking to other women as well.
If you have not gotten over the hurt and you still want her back don't do it. It will interfere with your new relationship with them. And it won't seem fair for her to walk away explore and come back with no consequences of her actions like nothing ever happened..🧐
I look at getting back with an EX like someone breaking into your car/home or spitting in your food…when someone breaks into your personal space you feel violated and you don’t even want it anymore or if someone ate or spit in your food…would you want to eat it it??? You should never be anyone’s sloppy seconds or feel like they are settling with you because whoever they were with no longer wants them or got what they wanted or them thinking the grass was greener…work on yourself do things like pick up a hobby create goals for yourself connect with people who truly love and want to be around you and tell the ex “either love me or I’m a lesson”
Sometimes people need another experience to see the value of what you had together - everyone deserves a second chance - I know someone who’s partner went off for 18 months she and he did the work He realised she was the one for him Now happily married Both sides need to do the work on themselves Takes 2 to tango after all 💃🕺btw I couldn’t find one coach helping - in that when a man comes back after dumping a woman for 6 months How to deal with that what to ask etc So I watched this one -
This one of my favorite videos I can watch a million times👍🏽(what if they don’t come back and get engage to the rebound within 1 year?)is that healthy???
What if it was with a coworker who she still works with? Shes worked hard to try and win me back and seems to really want me but the trust issues are hard to overcome.
Coach Court! Great video! I found it very interesting to treat the reunion with your ex as a "reset", and to start all over dating again. My experience has led me to have a date every 1-2 weeks even for just relationship maintenance. The key is fun, relaxing, and new experiences. So now I'm in no contact, and the waiting game has begun. I was with her on and off for 14 months. I will give her 4 months before I move on. I'm busy with self improvement, and I know my worth. I'm excited about the future even if it means I've lost my ex. It is all or nothing...I will not accept friendship, nor friends with benefits, and she proposed both. If she misses me enough, she will come back, otherwise I will be even more attractive to someone else. I know the grass isn't greener on the other side, but when my feet are on it, I feel alive! Thanks brother...you keep me motivated and looking forward!
I need your guys opinion ? My cousin told his gf hes done with her all because they were both arguing togheter ? He didn’t mean to say that to her but she took it as he was done ? His anger got the best of him ? And he tried to fix things with her ? But yet she didnt want to ? Then he started telling her theirs a reason why u dont wanna get back with me ? U must have someone on your phone because im trying to fix things ans be the bigger person and shes not going for it ? Its like he gave it his all…then the next day he went back over their it led to an arguement..where she ended up calling the cops? The cops came and told him not to come back for a while? He still didnt listen to the cops ? Because he knew something fishy ? Was going on with her ? So he ended up coming back around 5am in the morning ? He hide his car couple blocks down from her neighborhood? Got out the car and was on foot as he got to her house…when he got their he told me the windows were half way open they forgot to shut the window ? When he looked inside he found them 2 having sex ? And my cousin broke down to the ground in tears ? Is this a form of betrayal ? She told my cousin she just wanted space ? My cousin kept asking her why dont you wanna get back togheter ? And fix this and go back to normal ? She kept telling him because she needed space ? And then look what he visually saw ? :/ now he comes to me and tells me how he wants to be back with her and he wants to fix to get back togheter the only problem is ? If he caught her in a lie and he haded to go over their and sneak over their to find out the thruth what she was really up too acter they been togheter for 10 years with kids ? Does that make her a disgusting awful person or is that a form of betrayal and is my cousin wrong for getting back with her after he caught her with another guy ? I just need a good answer so i can help my cousin out he’s depressed and keeps telling himself hes never going to find a women like her ever again that she to one of a kind ? Any answers ?
Why the hell would you want that back plus whatever she may have caught with the guy she was with and the baggage that left when she did! Be a man move on there's plenty of fish in the sea. This tends to happen right at the instant you are about to move on. It's like female spider senses. That cost me 14 years of my life that I'll never get back.
if she/he comes back it means You are not first neither second, You are the rebound of the rebound. Bye This time You are diferente persona. yo he third choice sucks hahaha.
I need help figuring out if mine is in a rebound or if it's a legit connection? I feel like it's not real and built on false things, but it has been 7 months post break up. But she has a lot of trauma to deal with.. and I still have hope.:(
Mine just go back. But she's still talking to the rebound. He's not much of a threat because he's in another country. She's not super secret about it. I've found some messages that reveal more contact and affection than she tells me, but nothing particularly explicit. I think confronting her will display neediness and controlling behaviour. Do you guys think that if I just control myself and flirt with her, being a high value man, she will just slowly terminate contact? Or should I just set by boundaries and confront her about it?
@@Ivan-dm7go I just ignored it and started talking with my rebound as well. Doing the exact same thing. Just friendly conversations not giving it to much importance and not hiding it very well. 3 or 4 days later she was asking me to stop and stopped as well lol
@@AntonioRockGP Haha that's nice I was just asking because I'm on a similar situation rn and the last thing I want to do is to show her neediness or anger, but sometimes is not easy to keep those emotions to yourself.
@@Ivan-dm7go hang in here! You can do this. My rule was always wait at least 24h hours after I discovered something, before doing anything about it. You cool your head, think of a strategy and then react! You're strong! Believe me
I'm personally never going back to someone who broke up with me to run around and sleep with some other guy or guys. The old relationship you had with them is DEAD and destroyed. Shut that door and try your best to forget by trying to meet someone else.
It touched me bro... Have similar story.. My ex is with someone already and it's been just a month since we got separated.. It was her move to break... She's sleeping with that her rebound and she texted me out of blue telling she's not physically happy with her rebound and she took a bad decision... I still love her but I don't want this toxicity in my life anymore
Lol you wouldn't be watching this if you didn't want your ex back. Yes the old relationship is dead but now you both can indeed start a new one with changed dynamics and being better people this time out.
@@badnewstalkstech6900 you're delusional af lmao
@@badnewstalkstech6900 this right here! You have to start from scratch, if she comes back. You can’t focus on the past and what she did during the breakup. If she did go with someone else, you do the same shit. If it’s meant to be, you guys will come back together and can be better than ever. I’ve seen a bunch of couples that I know closely that have done that.
@@Jjjjjjj750 people don’t be practicing forgiveness and try to stay positive always this negativity man
Only people that don’t have an abundance mindset will accept their ex back. Don’t lower your value guys, leave that for the Beta males. Soooo many women out there. I promise. Feels good to be single for once. It just takes time to feel good about it. I promise you , she will see you less of a man if you accept her back after she was with other men
Sometimes I hate it sometimes I love it sometimes I get bored I rather be single and alone with your thoughts
Not if you truly love this person and they truly love you. Trust me!!! I wish I would've took my ex back 10 years ago but instead I dealt with so many beautiful women since then and find myself still trying to fill in this void. Love is hard to find and now I've join the misery loves company club with the rest of the single people who had this mindset.
@@beats-by-skrill8925 if they truly love you, they dont choose another Guy🤦 it just make no sense! You would take her back after she change liquids & all the other dirty stuff with another Guy??? It just didnt work out Bro, thats when they come back!
@@UNFORGIVABLESENA it does make sense to guys cuz we’re logical but woman make emotional decisions…. In other words women can love you and still cheat if they are not emotionally attracted to you. But does that mean you should take her back? In my opinion, no…. Because if her emotions take her that far than she’ll just do it again in future…. So it’s a waste of time
@@UNFORGIVABLESENA cmon mate, unless they were a virgin when you met, she had already swapped fluids with other men before you.
Thank you God I don’t want my ex back,,why accept someone back who treated you like shit and disregarded your feelings because they thought their rebound relationship would be a success...Keep in mind they’re only coming back because the rebound didn’t work out , which means if it did work out they would’ve been living in a fairy 🧚♀️ tail relationship while you’re broken..
If they treated you poorly and the relationship didn’t just dissolve, definitely move on
I can’t do it. Either I’m number one or I’m nobody. I’m not doing that shit. Nobody falls back on like I’m the garbage.
When she realizes the depth of her failure, and where does that bring her? Back to us. But we ain't the same man, but a different creature all together at that point.
When it’s done it’s best done show yourself respect
FACTS
Women have so many options with dating apps so if you make one mistake they start swiping left and right again.
This has just happened to me after 4 months leaving me for another guy 🤯
We both made mistakes in my relationship. I didn’t reciprocate the love, I didn’t have purpose, I let myself go. I just want being a man fr and I can admit that. That is the only reason I would ever take my ex back. She put up with that version of me fro 5 years before leaving me and hopping into a rebound. If she left me and I wasn’t all those thing then yeah….no I would never take a women back that just left me for no good reason other than she lost feelings.
That’s make sense, I was left for no good reason in my case so there’s no reason to take her back. She just lost interest in me and dated someone else who she thought was more valuable…. Funny thing is, I run into this girl a lot because of mutual friends and she gives me sorry eyes… I just ignore it
That’s make sense, I was left for no good reason in my case so there’s no reason to take her back. She just lost interest in me and dated someone else who she thought was more valuable…. Funny thing is, I run into this girl a lot because of mutual friends and she gives me sorry eyes… I just ignore it
she back?
@@chrisjon8563 Hey Jon. She isn’t back but we have a good relationship and she talks to me a lot more than before. I find that I am completely detached from the outcome of all of this. If we work it out cool if not, that’s cool too. I am content with where we are at and I am also talking to other women as well.
@@RelaxingSounds-vq4diupdate mate. She still in limerence?
Getting back with an ex !
Big mistake !
Like a dog returning to its vomit !
You regain your value till she finds someone else again !!
😂
U can never take her back , leave in her in the streets.
Drop her ass off in the middle of the interstate .
this dude is speaking from experience, can detect his inner simp
If you have not gotten over the hurt and you still want her back don't do it. It will interfere with your new relationship with them. And it won't seem fair for her to walk away explore and come back with no consequences of her actions like nothing ever happened..🧐
I look at getting back with an EX like someone breaking into your car/home or spitting in your food…when someone breaks into your personal space you feel violated and you don’t even want it anymore or if someone ate or spit in your food…would you want to eat it it??? You should never be anyone’s sloppy seconds or feel like they are settling with you because whoever they were with no longer wants them or got what they wanted or them thinking the grass was greener…work on yourself do things like pick up a hobby create goals for yourself connect with people who truly love and want to be around you and tell the ex “either love me or I’m a lesson”
very well said
I think scenarios like this, There is only 1 shot. Like the moon landing, messing things up even this much👌 it almost has no chance to recover.
lol, that’s funny
Sometimes people need another experience to see the value of what you had together - everyone deserves a second chance - I know someone who’s partner went off for 18 months she and he did the work He realised she was the one for him Now happily married Both sides need to do the work on themselves Takes 2 to tango after all 💃🕺btw I couldn’t find one coach helping - in that when a man comes back after dumping a woman for 6 months How to deal with that what to ask etc So I watched this one -
Thank you! 🙏🏾
I don't know what I would do if she comes back, it would make me feel like plan b and not high value
Don’t take her back. My ex tried this ish.
@@dattygahow long was you together? Mate
No ass kissing fellas… Don’t let her back… End!
Getting back with an ex who monkey branched to another guy is like taking a shower and then putting on your dirty clothes again.
I LOVE that quote
Helped me beyond belief
Man. That makes me happy hear! 🙏🏾
Awesome
This one of my favorite videos I can watch a million times👍🏽(what if they don’t come back and get engage to the rebound within 1 year?)is that healthy???
Cherenzo Smith Thanks man. And know, usually it’s not
I had an ex do this with a rebound.. they were Long distance for a bit.. but yea.. they divorced and she became a single mom and divorced twice now
What if it was with a coworker who she still works with?
Shes worked hard to try and win me back and seems to really want me but the trust issues are hard to overcome.
I won’t lie. It will take a lot of work to rebuild that trust.
We have kids together on top of that I know I wasn't ready, and needed to grow.
Update?
Coach Court! Great video! I found it very interesting to treat the reunion with your ex as a "reset", and to start all over dating again. My experience has led me to have a date every 1-2 weeks even for just relationship maintenance. The key is fun, relaxing, and new experiences. So now I'm in no contact, and the waiting game has begun. I was with her on and off for 14 months. I will give her 4 months before I move on. I'm busy with self improvement, and I know my worth. I'm excited about the future even if it means I've lost my ex. It is all or nothing...I will not accept friendship, nor friends with benefits, and she proposed both. If she misses me enough, she will come back, otherwise I will be even more attractive to someone else.
I know the grass isn't greener on the other side, but when my feet are on it, I feel alive!
Thanks brother...you keep me motivated and looking forward!
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
I need your guys opinion ? My cousin told his gf hes done with her all because they were both arguing togheter ? He didn’t mean to say that to her but she took it as he was done ? His anger got the best of him ? And he tried to fix things with her ? But yet she didnt want to ? Then he started telling her theirs a reason why u dont wanna get back with me ? U must have someone on your phone because im trying to fix things ans be the bigger person and shes not going for it ? Its like he gave it his all…then the next day he went back over their it led to an arguement..where she ended up calling the cops? The cops came and told him not to come back for a while? He still didnt listen to the cops ? Because he knew something fishy ? Was going on with her ? So he ended up coming back around 5am in the morning ? He hide his car couple blocks down from her neighborhood? Got out the car and was on foot as he got to her house…when he got their he told me the windows were half way open they forgot to shut the window ? When he looked inside he found them 2 having sex ? And my cousin broke down to the ground in tears ? Is this a form of betrayal ? She told my cousin she just wanted space ? My cousin kept asking her why dont you wanna get back togheter ? And fix this and go back to normal ? She kept telling him because she needed space ? And then look what he visually saw ? :/ now he comes to me and tells me how he wants to be back with her and he wants to fix to get back togheter the only problem is ? If he caught her in a lie and he haded to go over their and sneak over their to find out the thruth what she was really up too acter they been togheter for 10 years with kids ? Does that make her a disgusting awful person or is that a form of betrayal and is my cousin wrong for getting back with her after he caught
her with another guy ? I just need a good answer so i can help my cousin out he’s depressed and keeps telling himself hes never going to find a women like her ever again that she to one of a kind ? Any answers ?
Why the hell would you want that back plus whatever she may have caught with the guy she was with and the baggage that left when she did! Be a man move on there's plenty of fish in the sea. This tends to happen right at the instant you are about to move on. It's like female spider senses. That cost me 14 years of my life that I'll never get back.
I’m confused. You started out cynical, but did the same exact thing 🤔
After11 years together. And he rebounded.
Does the same apply to men?
Gm. You do know that women watch your videos also!!..Guys also want to explore and them expect for you to want them back!!!
Morning Karen, absolutely.
Hi I think it will be good to know what went wrong in the past,honest conversation to solve the problems of the past before starting a new chapter
if she/he comes back it means You are not first neither second, You are the rebound of the rebound. Bye This time You are diferente persona. yo he third choice sucks hahaha.
No need to worry!!! I aint a pick me!!! Im not coming back!!! Rebound or not!!! Its over you!!!! Buh bye!!!
Pumped and dumped and she come back ? No thanks haha
It's hard not to take her back when we have kids together.
Yeah that is hard 😕
I need help figuring out if mine is in a rebound or if it's a legit connection? I feel like it's not real and built on false things, but it has been 7 months post break up. But she has a lot of trauma to deal with.. and I still have hope.:(
Book a session brother!
How do I go about? I'm at work and can't watch again right now. Lol
1:15, 2:34
Mine just go back. But she's still talking to the rebound. He's not much of a threat because he's in another country.
She's not super secret about it. I've found some messages that reveal more contact and affection than she tells me, but nothing particularly explicit.
I think confronting her will display neediness and controlling behaviour.
Do you guys think that if I just control myself and flirt with her, being a high value man, she will just slowly terminate contact? Or should I just set by boundaries and confront her about it?
How it went?
@@Ivan-dm7go I just ignored it and started talking with my rebound as well. Doing the exact same thing. Just friendly conversations not giving it to much importance and not hiding it very well. 3 or 4 days later she was asking me to stop and stopped as well lol
@@AntonioRockGP Haha that's nice I was just asking because I'm on a similar situation rn and the last thing I want to do is to show her neediness or anger, but sometimes is not easy to keep those emotions to yourself.
@@Ivan-dm7go hang in here! You can do this. My rule was always wait at least 24h hours after I discovered something, before doing anything about it. You cool your head, think of a strategy and then react!
You're strong! Believe me
@@AntonioRockGP Thank you brother
Shes a woman from the past, PAST her again to someone else.
Nah she cheat it's over
This is about a rebound relationship. Has nothing to do with cheating.
@@beats-by-skrill8925 if she comes back then yeah I do consider it cheating cause I been loyal but then you also have to forgive but not forget
Sloppy seconds I pass
Crap