Your advice is very valuable. There are many families where men decide how much money they will give to run the family. Wife earns and spends her entire income even if she is earning half of what the husband earns and manages all the rest of the expenses. The husband has no interest in knowing what is the total expense required to run the house, and the wife keeps a tight upper lip for managing family dignity. The wife’s earnings are completely spent even if she manages on a tight string budget and she is not able to save at all. Wives in this situation have a very raw deal.
Hard facts. Very good content. Such a good dissection of every Indian household problems which nobody wants to talk about. The flow of talk is excellent. I am hooked.
Keep making these type of videos sir... Hats of to your courage to speak on a public platform on these sensitive topics.. Which really need to solve..thankyou for share your life long experience..to aware people.. Just subscribed your channel... From-Odisha
husband and wife both are working .. but husband expect wife to contribute equally in house expenses and also do everything as a housewife... and treat him the same as his father was treated ... like he came from the office tired and gives him tea... serve him food... also take care of his relatives .. parents -- meand everything what housewife does ... but all the finances of mine --my bills and personal expenses I pay from salary ... he never ever took me for shopping as well.... Please share your views on it...
Actually I also suffered this. But you can do one thing. Keep house help from his salary. And don't give him royal treatment if he does not give you the same. You are also working. Enjoy free time after job. Make him do some house hold chores.
Very good series. The Mumma’s boy syndrome goes much deeper than the surface level and is much sinister.Please do a video on enmeshment and the dynamics between mother and son. A lot of clarity will be achieved for struggling relationships.
Like this topic on marriage and money handling. I believe that girls should also follow some career and earn and not be fully dependent on their husbands..
I religiously follow all your videos as soon as they are posted.I sincerely appreciate your level of depth in understanding human psyche. Yet when it is said that NO housewife in middle class household does "jharoo pocha"...it seems like a derogatory task. In my House I do one and all kinds of chores...at times engage my kids too when they are free...to inculcate dignity of labour .As a hobby maintain a beautiful terrace cum kitchen garden which is nourished with homemade compost...my rental income though not too much but is enough to maintain sanity 😅
Great job sir 🙏 just find out ur vlog very EYEOPENING n extremely needed n no one in family n society talking about all this trying to watch all ur videos with speed n all are truly informative n can be easily understood by everyone UR ULTIMATE N GENUINE EFFORT helps to understand n improve the way of thinking Thanks a Lot for such helpful vlogs for changing n improving all aspects of life in such a Firm Friendly n True way in the society👌🙏💐
Hello sir. Very good relevant video. Pls make video on NRI boys who work abroad n their parents think that son getting handsome salary as they compare with converting in Indian currency whereas in abroad people clean house on their own n living standards is also expensive. The in laws every time keep unwanted demand of getting things from foreign country whereas more variety avbl in India. I have never seen your any video on NRI Indians. Pls make on them also. Thank you
Sir The marital series deals with issues which affect every single one of us..u may like to consider the age difference issue for marriage for deliberation...
Thanks for sharing this: Question: When you say ladki ka paisa ladki ka hai, aur ladkha ka paisa common hai(Rights)- How does this pan out when qualified working man and woman get together in matrimony? Because man is expected to contribute much in household(Responsibility) as we live in a so called equal world. But here rights are skewed towards the woman whereas responsibilities are expected to be balanced across both.
You live in india right? Look around you and ask yourself are women given equal dignity of life? Do we have a concept of male infanticide in india?? Do we hear of men being used in sex trade? Is it an equal society?? Use your brains
If husband and wife are both earning and husband is working from morning to evening in office and wife is home at lunch time then how the money of both and work in household can be distributed between them
Please make a video on marital issues where husband expects that his wife should ask her mother and brother for compensation of difference of amount spent in their wedding and her sister's wedding. His wife was a bank officer and his sister-in-law is not working. Despite earning herself she never got the independence to even spend Rs.1000/- according to her wish, so she left the job and now this husband asks for both her job and also money from in-laws
Under this merital series - share your wisdom thoughts about when husband and his parents are not taking/demanding/expecting any money/monetary help from their working Bahu (Govt officer) but even then they are going through with her dominance
Sir touch upon who n how the kids will be taken care off if both are working.. none want to leave job to take care of kid.. already living separately from in laws
Can you also do a video on family of 2 brothers where older one does inter community/language (same caste though) marriage and younger one marries same community. Older one is abroad and younger one is at fathers house. Both brothers r well educated and so are the bahus. What challenges can arise in this family situation. 😊
Sir, paise kaise kama sakte hain? Mei abhi 3yrs se kaam nahi kar hoon, mujhe paise kahaan se aayege??? Husband se meine kabhi nahi leye hain, mujhe mera kharcha niklna hain, and my husband has got used to not giving me money. He has never said no but he doesn't give me anything. He operates all the bank accounts, whatever I earned he told me it is gone in our son's education. I don't have a right over my own earned money.
Mai to kisi marriage counselor ko nahi janti. Bete aur hone wali bahu ko milwana chahti hu, kya aap marriage counselling kerte hain. Agar haan to please address n pH no share kijiye.
Sir main ek Sufi singer hun pati ki kam nahi karta tha Sara ghar ka aur bhr show karana bacche ko dekhna ys k maa baap aur rishtedaro sab kuch dekhti thi nager woh fir bhi Sara privar mujh e har baat pe judge karta tha aur mar peer bhi hota tha bank se bhut se loen le rakhe the un sab ka emi bhi main deti thi jab baat haad ziyada barh gai to jab maine paise ka hisab pucha to mujhe gher se mar peer kar nikal diya or carecter less bol k badnam kar diya na mera beta diya na property se kuch diya mummy papa ki death ho gai bhai aur bhabhi ne bhi un ki baton main akar Mera sath nahi diya or mujh se teen lakh rupe udhar le k mukar gye please Jo ladkiyaan akele gher chali hain working ahin aur un ki phir bhi koi kadar nahi us par zrur vidio banaye
Life is unfair. I consider it very unfair that women can say to husband : "My money is mine. Your money is Our money". Such a wrong attitude of the ladies.
Your advice is very valuable. There are many families where men decide how much money they will give to run the family. Wife earns and spends her entire income even if she is earning half of what the husband earns and manages all the rest of the expenses. The husband has no interest in knowing what is the total expense required to run the house, and the wife keeps a tight upper lip for managing family dignity. The wife’s earnings are completely spent even if she manages on a tight string budget and she is not able to save at all. Wives in this situation have a very raw deal.
😂😂😂 huh
You too uptight. It's very difficult to accept. You are 100% correct
You r the legend sir jo Kam ki bat par discuss kar rhe ho
Very practical approach, if followed, martial difference will not aries.
Hard facts. Very good content. Such a good dissection of every Indian household problems which nobody wants to talk about. The flow of talk is excellent. I am hooked.
Keep making these type of videos sir... Hats of to your courage to speak on a public platform on these sensitive topics.. Which really need to solve..thankyou for share your life long experience..to aware people.. Just subscribed your channel... From-Odisha
amazing series. kindly touch on wife's financial contribution while going through pregnancy and post partum / nursing phase.
Sir. I really regret that my parents didn't have this understanding. Yet. I'm so lucky tht it is you who really know wht happens..
husband and wife both are working .. but husband expect wife to contribute equally in house expenses and also do everything as a housewife... and treat him the same as his father was treated ... like he came from the office tired and gives him tea... serve him food... also take care of his relatives .. parents -- meand everything what housewife does ... but all the finances of mine --my bills and personal expenses I pay from salary ... he never ever took me for shopping as well.... Please share your views on it...
Actually I also suffered this. But you can do one thing. Keep house help from his salary. And don't give him royal treatment if he does not give you the same. You are also working. Enjoy free time after job. Make him do some house hold chores.
Hi Amit, very nice videos. I really like the content. It’s very relevant to what’s actually happening in middle and upper middle class families.
100% right 👍 sir apki sari videos baut helpful hoti h
Very good series. The Mumma’s boy syndrome goes much deeper than the surface level and is much sinister.Please do a video on enmeshment and the dynamics between mother and son. A lot of clarity will be achieved for struggling relationships.
Very true nowadays 25k should be given to hard working wife's
Like this topic on marriage and money handling. I believe that girls should also follow some career and earn and not be fully dependent on their husbands..
Very nice video; completely agree that every girl needs to earn
Bahut badia content
Really good video, you provide practicle solution to every program
Very nice point , Please cover about midlife crisis of a couple and of their both side parents, n children ... especially teenagers children
True said ladies ki b zarorat hain sirf roti kpra la dene kafi nai hai
Eye Opening Perspective
Boht h solid videos hai 🔥🔥🔥
very nicely covered
I religiously follow all your videos as soon as they are posted.I sincerely appreciate your level of depth in understanding human psyche.
Yet when it is said that NO housewife in middle class household does "jharoo pocha"...it seems like a derogatory task.
In my House I do one and all kinds of chores...at times engage my kids too when they are free...to inculcate dignity of labour .As a hobby maintain a beautiful terrace cum kitchen garden which is nourished with homemade compost...my rental income though not too much but is enough to maintain sanity 😅
Plz make a video with some examples about the way in which women above 40 yrs can earn a living... what kind of work they can do..
Bahut useful hai sir
Very informative....
Great job!
Ek dum sahi baat boli sir
Great job sir 🙏 just find out ur vlog very EYEOPENING n extremely needed n no one in family n society talking about all this trying to watch all ur videos with speed n all are truly informative n can be easily understood by everyone UR ULTIMATE N GENUINE EFFORT helps to understand n improve the way of thinking
Thanks a Lot for such helpful vlogs for changing n improving all aspects of life in such a Firm Friendly n True way in the society👌🙏💐
Thanks for the great video sir . Waiting for some view on husband wife earning equal, decent income .
👌its v nice
Sir plz make videos for issues faced by double income group
Superb series
Hello sir. Very good relevant video. Pls make video on NRI boys who work abroad n their parents think that son getting handsome salary as they compare with converting in Indian currency whereas in abroad people clean house on their own n living standards is also expensive. The in laws every time keep unwanted demand of getting things from foreign country whereas more variety avbl in India. I have never seen your any video on NRI Indians. Pls make on them also. Thank you
He is against foreign settlement
Uske liye NRI hona bhi to chahiye uncle ji ko
Nice very nice❤
Veey nyc video sir 👍👍
Very clear and genuine
Right sir I agree with u
Please make a video on explaining about psychology of Man and women - How they think, which is very much required for new couple
Nice content.Sir please ek video banaiye jis main husband and wife working kaise apna ghar chalaiye.
Very good
Amazing
Sir
The marital series deals with issues which affect every single one of us..u may like to consider the age difference issue for marriage for deliberation...
Very well covered sir
Awesome Inc
Thanks for sharing this:
Question: When you say ladki ka paisa ladki ka hai, aur ladkha ka paisa common hai(Rights)-
How does this pan out when qualified working man and woman get together in matrimony?
Because man is expected to contribute much in household(Responsibility) as we live in a so called equal world.
But here rights are skewed towards the woman whereas responsibilities are expected to be balanced across both.
You live in india right? Look around you and ask yourself are women given equal dignity of life? Do we have a concept of male infanticide in india?? Do we hear of men being used in sex trade? Is it an equal society?? Use your brains
Nice video 👍
Satik baat...
I am your big fan..sir 🙏
Excellent content
You are awesome !
If husband and wife are both earning and husband is working from morning to evening in office and wife is home at lunch time then how the money of both and work in household can be distributed between them
Please make a video how to manage money when both of the partners are working
Facts facts facts 👌🏼
Very nicely covered... 👌
Please make a video on work - family balance and how to manage time so can keep both boss & wife 😊
Sir ji, you are very right 👍 complete 💯
Please make a video on marital issues where husband expects that his wife should ask her mother and brother for compensation of difference of amount spent in their wedding and her sister's wedding. His wife was a bank officer and his sister-in-law is not working. Despite earning herself she never got the independence to even spend Rs.1000/- according to her wish, so she left the job and now this husband asks for both her job and also money from in-laws
Waiting for next vedio of yours
Working women issues with saas and husband. Want a video understanding on this topic.
please make video on issue of working husband and wife after marriage,Sir.
Please cover Managing Financial Issues for Double Income Spouses, Can equal contribution in joint account for family expenses be part of solution
Yes
Sir pls make more videos on this topic.
Sir please make a video on double income group
Under this merital series - share your wisdom thoughts about when husband and his parents are not taking/demanding/expecting any money/monetary help from their working Bahu (Govt officer) but even then they are going through with her dominance
I have seen my mom earning and running the house along with managing chores. Marriage is the worst deal for women in india.
Pl make video on working couple
True sir i agree
Thanks sir
Nice 🙏🙏
Reality
👍🏻💯💯
Sir bataiye kse ladies kma skti h ispe bhi banaiye vdo
Sir touch upon who n how the kids will be taken care off if both are working.. none want to leave job to take care of kid.. already living separately from in laws
Can you also do a video on family of 2 brothers where older one does inter community/language (same caste though) marriage and younger one marries same community. Older one is abroad and younger one is at fathers house. Both brothers r well educated and so are the bahus. What challenges can arise in this family situation. 😊
if i am at your situation.. would have call amit ji and ask for personal counseling
Sir plz work from home k liye videos bnaye 🙏
Pls sir video on how to earn money.
Double income issues ka video please
Pls make video on double income cases
Sir, paise kaise kama sakte hain? Mei abhi 3yrs se kaam nahi kar hoon, mujhe paise kahaan se aayege??? Husband se meine kabhi nahi leye hain, mujhe mera kharcha niklna hain, and my husband has got used to not giving me money. He has never said no but he doesn't give me anything. He operates all the bank accounts, whatever I earned he told me it is gone in our son's education. I don't have a right over my own earned money.
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Hi, did you connect with sir? Were you able to solve your problem?
Sangwaan ji jaroor bnaye double income wale group ke liye
Namaskar sir ap se kse mil.skte h
Mai to kisi marriage counselor ko nahi janti. Bete aur hone wali bahu ko milwana chahti hu, kya aap marriage counselling kerte hain. Agar haan to please address n pH no share kijiye.
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Sir main ek Sufi singer hun pati ki kam nahi karta tha Sara ghar ka aur bhr show karana bacche ko dekhna ys k maa baap aur rishtedaro sab kuch dekhti thi nager woh fir bhi Sara privar mujh e har baat pe judge karta tha aur mar peer bhi hota tha bank se bhut se loen le rakhe the un sab ka emi bhi main deti thi jab baat haad ziyada barh gai to jab maine paise ka hisab pucha to mujhe gher se mar peer kar nikal diya or carecter less bol k badnam kar diya na mera beta diya na property se kuch diya mummy papa ki death ho gai bhai aur bhabhi ne bhi un ki baton main akar Mera sath nahi diya or mujh se teen lakh rupe udhar le k mukar gye please Jo ladkiyaan akele gher chali hain working ahin aur un ki phir bhi koi kadar nahi us par zrur vidio banaye
Bhagwan aapko achche insaan ki sangati de 😊
Double income couples ke issues pls
Life is unfair.
I consider it very unfair that women can say to husband : "My money is mine. Your money is Our money". Such a wrong attitude of the ladies.
20 se 25 hazaar jiske baare mein kuch hisaab nahi hoga...ajeeb baat hai, kitne logo ki tankhwah hi sirf 50,60 hazaar hogi.
Agar larki and larka braber hai pair dono kama ker ikathay gher ka kharuch chalaen and gher ka kama bhi mil Jul ker karain
Tha
Double income husband and wife sir manage life
Double Income Couple
I want to talk with u how can i contact u