Men must ALWAYS pull back FIRST before she does when dating (THIS satisfies women's hypergamy)
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How do you get a girl to change her mind about you?
Wouldn’t it be called hot cold method where you feign interest all the while by being indifferent as well
A Zander a day keeps the heartbreak away
There's a difference between what women consciously like and what they subconsciously respond to. A woman's subconcious is much more powerful in her attraction.
You put the right words together perfectly. Spot on.
Very well said my guy
Once you learn the rules the game becomes so much easier
Rule 1: don’t give a fuck
Rule 2: let everyone know how much of a fuck you don’t give
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Once you are the one setting the rules..her game is over.
@@marcusmcgraw3519 haha noice
Yep and from there u can use it against the crazy ones so they exit peacefully. Truly amazing wish I knew years ago
My father does this with mother every time whenever she does something that my father doesn’t like.
He will just stop talking to her and become cold. And as a result, she becomes more feminine, starts caring more, cooking good dishes, trying to please him with her actions but not words.
My man
Sounds like your mother has abandonment issues
This is the problem with giving women platforms and social influence. They raise a generation of men who think it is “toxic” to do what works and in turn the men get used, abused, and left.
Sounds abusive
@@user-br3jz8ne4r Sounds like dynamic.
Truth ! It works. I was seeing this chic once a week (typically a Friday night) for 5 or 6weeks. I ghosted her for 15 days she then text me saying
“I’m freaking out with the feelingsI have for you ! “
Unforgettable keep that in your tool box.
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What if you do this without a date? Like if you ghost the date and calls? Havnt met yet. Btw she hitting me up
At the same time, watch out for women who love bomb you.
I don’t think this sht works on high value women - just women filled with self loathing (there are plenty of them). But idk man… constantly playing these games just to keep some low quality woman into you? It’s unnatural.
If u bring peace, these women are gone but if you just act like u don't care if they leave or not they stay
It's so backwards it's crazy💀
It's so F'ed up, but it's true. Live and Learn
@@MrHVACguy71 it’s not fucked up. Being nice used to be a precursor for asking for a pity date. Why would women go through that again?
you behave like a child but rich in all aspects?
In a world full of chaos you would think peace is abnormal
@@botsmurf8232 gotta be able to both dish it out and take it. Otherwise you look weak
If she pulls back consider it a pre-break up (if it isn’t an actual break up, which it could be). It’s a test. She wants to see what you’ll do next. But on the front end of things all this can be mitigated if you are seeing other women, your attention will be naturally spaced out and she won’t think your focus is on her, because it won’t be. And if she does pull back because she’s not cool with that (or for whatever reason she cooks up) you won’t care as much, because she’s one of a few you’re seeing.
Agreed. Been living this way since getting out of my last monogamous relationship and now my ex is still around and on her best behavior
Cooks up? Schizo Ebonics type shit 😂
Please listen to this man! As soon as they see you do not have other options they will fuck a guy then leave you.
So true! I'm 53 she 46 pulled this shit, I ghosted 3 weeks said f it. No contact I have shit to do. All of sudden now wants to come over for weekend. Lol. It works
I’ve actually done this with a baddie, I dumped her first. She wanted me back. Love the content, bro! You have taught me the sauce. I’ve given some of your knowledge to my roommate, and he has a girl feeding out of the palm of his hand. Are you going to make anything for the tinder game?
Good man giving advice and spreading this knowledge is the way
The key take away he said:
FOCUS ON YOU.
You can only truly master the art of NOT NEEDING HER when you authentically can do this.
You can’t be bored and wondering around the house or every minute will tick by slowly, making you wonder about her. Get out of that slump man. I did it too. Get something important in your life that you’re passionate about and she will disappear or at least not clog up your mind. Weirdly enough, time goes by and you won’t even believe how strong you go without noticing her. She’ll be all over you, wondering why you don’t love her anymore.
As the saying goes, absence makes the heart grow funder, bruh
4:57 FACTS!!!!!!!!!!!! and with me it's GONE both physically and mentally. They can't see me nor talk to me.
Great stuff. The women I’ve been indifferent to are the ones that have wanted to be with me….every woman I’ve made an effort for has left first.
The women you wanted to be with weren’t that interested and vice versa. It’s the illusion of interest level, not the interest you’re showing.
True. They look for weakness and overt "pleasing her" behaviour turns them off as they realize you will buckle under any emotional stress she puts on you.
All this depends on the woman you are dating and there attachment styles. Some women will need reassurance and will communicate with you 4 times a day. Some women dont need reassurance so often and will contact you once every 4 days. Every woman is different.
The best way to know, is let the woman lead with the communication frame. And you will know her communication timing.
There needs to be a balance of space to create desire and connection. Too much distance and space and connection is gone, no space desire is lost. Let the woman lead and follow her pattern for the perfect balance of desire and connection.
This is like music guys. Imagine music with no spaces in the beat. Youll just get ugly noise. Also from time to time she will change her communication timing and pattern based on her feelings. Just ride her rhythm.
I agree although I do my best to lead & teach new girls how often I want to communicate instead of letting them dictate how much/often it’s to be expected
So what youre saying is basically let woman do everything
Be the man who leads and makes up the beat and rhythm. She will follow that rhythm.
You are mature men.
I thought pull back was a few days. 14 days is ADVANCED & takes guts as you literally cannot care if you lose her.
1-3 months works like a charm
@@mohegansonhuh! Never heard this one before lmfaoo I’d do between couple days - 2 weeks and my girl breaks the silence mostly, comes back complaining about how I don’t even care or love her & how it hurts her. And I seriously wonder if I should work on it & always be around no matter the fight 🤔
A woman can't branch swing to another guy if she currently doesn't have a strong hold on her current branch.
So to summarize.... Never make your current woman feel she has a grip on you.
Don't become a "Kept Man"
That’s why it’s better to be the guy she wants to cheat with and not the guy she wants to be with. You’ll always be treated the way you deserve
@@marcusmcgraw35191000%
I have learned a lot of your teachings. Now the only problem is quality girls and how to find them.
It doesn't exist.
You make the woman you want.
Most woman are the same they only have different environments that they grew from.
@@vedishplays Good answer. I want the hotties, slim waist, nice ass long blonde hair. Classic Staceys.
Get to a city
This advice won’t attract quality women
Believe it or not I have spent a decade in a fog of understanding.
Take Casey's advice plus Jessica J , plus Marni for flirting , add a dash of zodiac sign nuance. The formula is paying dividends. Rotated 50 in past 3 years.
A tip if you ever want to make a woman obsessed and constantly pursue you........ Just never give her what she asks for...... Always do or present her something different, and she will quickly become emotionally invested and attached to you.
So have to present women a beta needy freak?
we are with you casey, lets go and make a better world for men
to the title, FACTS. Every single second of my life is a PULL BACK. There 2 chics yesterday msg me wanting to "hook up", I gave them 2 maybe 3 responses then disappear.... they msg is on not read. They both viewed my whatsapp status that i posted right before i responded to them... it was me showing a private jet and a car right front of it from the open door of the jet. They dont know if I was arriving, departing, where I was, am I just posting... this gets them in their feelings thinking what if..... and what if whatever.
My guy
They sound like wifeable women. They get turned on by childish behavior and flexing expensive items. You do you do tho
Private jet? Are you really living that lifestyle or are you just way to concerned with your internet persona?
This movement is powerful. PROTECT CASEY!
I’ll let you know what matters most to me when it comes to men. The way to get me to fall in love is to mentally stimulate me. I’ve only met one man who was mentally stimulating and I fell head over heels. Took me 4 years to get over him (we weren’t compatible based on religion and other major values unfortunately). All the men I’ve met since are extremely boring or superficial when it comes to conversation (conversation creates mental stimulation), responding with “lol” or something lame and then they ask why I don’t reply or want to go out with them. Learn to stimulate the mind of a woman and you will differentiate yourself amongst nearly all men and will be high value and desirable. Oh, and the guy I fell for was overweight and not the most handsome initially yet through our conversations he became the hottest man alive.
Can you be more specific on "mental stimulation?" You mean something like an intelligent, intellectual man who makes interesting conversation, or something else? Please expand...
@@sti4493 Yes, basically a man who can keep an conversation going, but is also interesting or clever or funny and has something to say about any given topic.
@@FLP90 Thanks for the reply. I hope you find the man that's right for you, God bless.
Boooooooriiiinngg!!!
It’s scary how on point he is sometimes.Wow!Good stuff once again.Got to remember it.
Bro you always get me at “ I DONT CARE IF YOU’RE 6 FOOT 6 SIXX PACK AAABS” 😭
Thnx bro! staying on my grind, not giving in and learning to be a real man 💎
Brilliant stuff mate!! I’ve always been really versed in the realm of woman and dating but damn of your wisdom doesn’t bring shit to a top notch art🙌🙌. Any men questioning if this stuff works and are tired of not having woman in your life regularly, pay attention and put this shit into practice! Life changing game for free.
Dude , its so true ! I have 2 sisters, 7 aunts and I've seen this TOO many times , damn life's a bitch
Headman Nation is elite I joined today, the content is top tier 🔥🙏🏽🗡️🤞🏽
Ha! If only I had known this tip before haha. Thanks Casey, I´ll keep it in mind.
7:56 I would more word it, they want men that do not NEED them.
This is pure gold.
Very important distinction made at 4:40. Can't confuse the first pull back with purposely not responding to a text or call for no reason. Like CZ said, you're playing games at that point and she'll see right through that. You have to have actual shit goin on during those few days. 10-14 days may be a bit excessive tho because then she'll straight up lose interest.
10-14 is not long at all
1-3 months is the sweet spot ;)
Facts. Life must go on with or without her. If she really and truly wants you, she’ll reach out.
You are the sword that cuts through the bull Casey. Thank you.
1. Pull back and focus on living a dope life and just be "gone" where she feels like she doesnt have you to create uncertainty. She needs to feel like she lost you and that life is worse without you.
2. Women can tell your sexual market value and need for her through every subtle thing.
3. Women want men who dont want them
Your videos give us so much knowledge and patience.
"Women thrive on CHAOS". Until you accept this concept, you will lose with women every time.
You shouldn't at all feel bad about doing this to her, primarily because you should not be emotionally invested enough to care....... It's much better if your pullback happens naturally, but it is essential that you do it first..... If she does it first you may as well just accept that her perception and her feelings have changed for you.... And just move on and explore other options..... Because that is most likely what she is doing.
Casey must get so sick of thinking about women and dating. I know he’s got true motivation to help men in our confusing modern sexual dynamics, but gddam he must get sick of it. I’m genuinely concerned for his well being. There’s more to life than women and dating. I’m not saying he’s wrong for making this his business and trying to help men, I just feel like it must really wear on him to be thinking about this stuff all the time for all these years.
Thanks for the vid man, and all the work you put in. I hope you’re able to find joy and peace of mind when the cameras are off. I hope you get lots of time outside and soak in the sun and swim in natural bodies of water
Honestly if he got out of this game and decided to just live on investments and pursue other ventures I’d be very happy for him.
I hope he gets married and starts a family asap because this is what God ordained
SO, I've pulled away. She's seeing another guy. About once a week she'll send me some text messages. Last series of texts she asks "Miss me at all?" I replied to other messages, but not this one. Before that "Hey handsome". Did not respond to the comment. A month ago she asked "Do you miss me at all?" And I failed in my reply.
Question: What are the best ways to handle those type of questions and compliments?
The best way is the way you went about, did you noticed at all that she's chasing you and not the other way around? If you think you could ger her back then go a head and respond, but beware, she's setting you up for a rude awakening, don't let her win, bruh
7:10 understand this guys, yes you should look at her undivided attention, but it must NOT be in a googly eyed type of way. She must see you looking at her and at the same time WONDERING WHAT IS ON YOUR MIND.
Ignore them and they are yours. Assuming they like you a bit in the first place.
STOP NEEDING "HER" TO MAKE YOUR LIFE BETTER OR MORE SECURE IN YOUR OWN MIND!!!
Another banger. Well done. Even though you are wearing a shirt
First first of all Casey let me just say God bless you for exposing the hardcore truth of what all men need to hear been watching the channel for a whole year and I'm just completely blown away I've seen every video on here and I want to make this comment two guys that are new that are watching the channel the most important video in Casey's catalog is a 43 minute video where Casey breaks down on the Whiteboard the whole Cold Truth the most important part of the video is 26 minutes in where he says that she will immediately get off your team if you don't let your cards down right guys need to hear things like this the whole truth it's a 43 minute video the most powerful video in his whole catalog ,,by the way I love the Whiteboard atmosphere it makes us feel like we're in some kind of college course thank you so much for sharing all your knowledge and please make more videos like this 43 minute video I'm talking about😎😎😎😎😎😎🤓
I totally agree with most you are saying.
But all this technics works out for a man until she gets her baby. Once she gets her first child, she has the leaverage.
What absurdity. Anyone who listens to this ensures they get a woman who plays games. A mature woman will be straight up
Go ahead and believe that! Trust me I’ve tried! In the end you always end up loosing.. I have no choice but to follow these rules
In good times you pull back when disrespected you pull back and just go ghost and say NOTHING zero one words if you really want but zero interactions AVOID like she has your kid. lol.
Thanks man
Damn, i needed this video 3 days ago
DAMN! i feel you bro
@@AndrewVII yea things were going alright we had makeup sex and everything, then I reached for her hand by accident. I also showed too much interest. She called me the next day, she changed her mind
Yup same, got a little to invested after we hooked up, now she's gone
So, if I am well-grounded man how can I create the drama and chaos she needs? Being a well-grounded man seems opposed to being toxic. A well-grounded man has a masculine strength and stoicism that doesn't react to all her emotions, games, and bullshit -- he is mostly indifferent to it. But if I am not reacting to all her attempts to bring drama, then won't she seek a toxic man instead who actually creates the drama and chaos that she needs. I keep hearing two opposite kinds of red-pill advice: One says to be well-grounded and stoic, the other urges us to be toxic. How can a man be both ?
i agree with you, it make is confusing
@@cjones582191 Yeah, it seems to me that a well-grounded man is serious and will neither tolerate nor play games. But a man who is toxic just naturally or intentionally brings chaos and drama to the relationship through his unstable, bad-boy persona.
@@alwaysgreatusa223 it is because the majority of this advise is bullshit based on nothing but anecdotal evidence. The reality is toxic women seek toxic men and well-grounded women seek well-grounded men.
I dont think its asking anyone to be toxic. Just dont follow her program. Follow your own program and be the star of your own movie. She will attempt to test your masculinity by changing the script and making everything about her. Do not let her. You must be the leader. She will create drama, get mad and fume and say what an a*sh*le you are but subconsciously she will love you more and become more feminine after she gets over her drama. So you are creating drama for her but it's not because you are purposefully being toxic.
@@rhuiden4086 First of all, I am not referring to this video specifically, but to red-pill advice in general. If you watch a lot of these kinds of videos by various dating coaches, and if you pay close attention to what is being advised, there are various pieces of advice that appear contradictory. Some of these dating coaches actually say that women prefer toxic men over non-toxic men because women crave the drama and excitement that a toxic man brings into the relationship. But.other coaches advise you to be stoic and always on your grind. They speak of having a purpose and working hard, focusing on your goals, being direct, not playing games, etc. But other coaches say all that will just make you boring to women because, they might say they want these kinds of stable men, but they actually crave the Chads and Ray Rays who are just hanging-out, who are kind of low-life guys that sleep around with a lot of different women, and don't give a shit about achieving any kind of life purpose or goals, they just want to get laid and have a good time, etc.
That's interesting and cool bro thanks! 👍
This depends if your just looking for a Girlfriend or a Potential Wife because those are two different thing and require two different approaches
CHAOS
No Bull sh!t about it.
I figured to hell with it. She cancels on Fri night ...there was anxiety so crazy, but I felt totally relieved. I let her know it, too. Canceled reservations thinking ain't anything worth this Bullsh!t. Better to know now and peace came flying in !
So sat eve hits- she texts and says we could have still met up...
I replied. You know, you canceled, i calked and canceled dinner reservations, and frankly, I'm not feelin it right now.
She replies i guess it wasn't meant to be. (,drama) and I think I'm finished. No offense.
I reply- I can pretty much guarantee that.
I'm not too worried about it. Thing is, I don't do well with disrespect so it's probably best.
She goes into 2 days or maybe 3 of the silent treatment.
To be honest it wasnt a good time. I hated not bein able to communicate discuss and find resolve. What the trigger was that had her pull that sh!t. I don't play that 2 people cant or wont work together towards resolve, or at least find out wtf the prob was. ( basically calling her on her test head games or whatever )
I'm not dien for a weak ass relationship so if thats her way its not something i'd be interested in anyway. I told her thats would onky qualify for a 1 night stand.
She is hot as phuk, i'd give her a high 9+. And I am tough on #s
Anyway, i blocked her. Move along time.
- i checked the blocked messages and there were 3 on there. So i un block her and message her back. Tell her i saw her blocked messages. And that i would like to talk to her about the situation, triggers, etc.
I call- no answer...enough. whatever ..she calls me back and was sweet as peaches.... it so fast. I wanna know wgat caused her to pull that...she pretty much got caught in o e of her tests. I told her, I'm not inti tgat stuff, if you wanna go out, need to act like it. But more importantly, I'm not lookin for something weak.
She was all over me......we talked and set up another date together.
Ahe was entbusuastic and sweet as peaches... still i'm not gonna get jazzed about it and it would be NICE we meet ...but i will drop the guillotine if it isn't rockin...by that, I mean I' cover dinner and if it isnt goid vibes i will go to use the rest room and pay thr check abd ask then to get me a to go box
Then I will load up dinner tell her its covered and split. No, not kidding
Here's a dose of adios !
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Ladies, if you read this be sure you find it worth it to play head game's. Or it may be supper for ONE !
But if you pull away too long they may move on to the next man soo keep that balance
Yes, but pulling away is not a tactic. i usually use this if a chick ever pulls this shit first then I move on
No doing things in an attempt to keep a partner interested is a very feminine trait. Women will see straight through that. All of these alpha, red pill, gurus are as simpy and feminine as it gets. All you need to do is figure out who you are as a person, what your core values are, and be resolved to never compromise those core values. This is what women find attractive. When you are confident in your own skin you become magnetic - and not just to women. Guys will want to be your friend, you'll get the promotions at work, you'll lenjoy your life on your terms.
If she pulls back she is now Neil Armstrong 🚀 🌖
Can you please mention if this is a frontend or a backend game?
Because people can get confused into doing things that are only okay when you are in a relationship, and vice versa.
Before relationship most likely or if she initiates 'a break'. Not responding to a gf for 2 weeks would likely result in breakup
Casey a day keeps smiping away
I love your videos, but all men need to understand, you can't fake being high value. FACE THE PAIN, AND DO IT ALONE, a woman needs someone she can look up to. You must never lose your focus, on your own personal walk with God! Focus on you, and she will respect and love you for it, she is so desperate for that example of freedom.
Men think that the safety women want is emotionally, nope, its the economic stability they look. All other parts must be unstable so she doesnt have you for granted. You must make her cry first before she does
Ok I understand where you’re coming from here but not texting/contacting for 3-14 days? Bro 14 days is rediculous if you are dating someone. If she texts me, “hey, how are you”, I just ignore her? That seems ridiculous in my opinion. I agree with all of your other content too. I’m just playing devils advocate. I can see 3-5 days ABSOLUTE max. When does this apply in a relationship? 1 month in? 6 months in? 1 year? 5 years? I’m 3-4 months in right now. Do I start pulling back?
,,she needs to know what life is Like without you" let that sink in my brother..the exact days dont Matter its about Feeling that you are gone. ITS contrdiciotal but this increases her attatchement
I think only until she messages you, its just that you shouldnt Initiate anything for a certain period. You could maybe say, Im Busy currently, ill Text you some time. Shes gonna wonder when that time is
This is not for the soft - simps need not apply
I just subscribed 🎉
Thanks❤
I asked Facebook A.I. to tell me more about Casey Zander from RUclips and A.I. said he provides comedic content and is openly gay. Also a big supporter of LGBTQ... rights. Just some food for thought.
I can see it in his eyes, no man would understand women better🤣
This guy says the same shit on every video but will give you the “secrets” when you buy his program
all these "experts" are grifters
Want to know these “secrets” unironically read a fucking rollo tomassi or chateau heartiste book 🤯🤯🤯
Does he give secrets
Men lead women follow.
GOLD
I’ve pulled back for this time before but I think I’ve taken it too far this time . One month and she hasn’t contacted me …. Do I carry on or contact her? I feel like I might have proven she didn’t care as much as I thought even though she chased me constantly for 4 months
You pulled back for a whole month.
@@natertotgaming1246 I haven’t spoke to her for a month yeah . More walking away
Women only chase for short, we are not hunters by nature.
unfortunately, I just found your content a few days ago. I went on a couple dates with this woman who is incredibly attractive and checks every box I’m looking for, however I’ve probably already ruined it by not acting in the way that you teaching your videos. Is there any coming back from it or should I just give up and start over with someone else?
Start over
Strangely all true.
8:00 so why when women cheat they mostly say he doesnt pay attention to me as much as he used to, blah blah blah? 🤔
He is teaching" WHEN DATING", in normal relationships women need attention, and love to feel safe and important, just as men do.
Every time I pullback she will text me again after a day or two every time makes it kinda hard for me to keep myself pulled back
Merci à vous !
Dammit, the more I listen to this guy, the less I want to ever be in any kind of relationship in my life. This game is dirtier than politics, Hollywood and sewage system combined.
wish i knew this when i was in my 20's.......
That shirt is dope
Hey bro. I need a job, and I’m very interested in this as well. Can I come work for you?
stop caring what women want
So I have been on like 7 dates with this girl and now I pull back, I haven’t message her for like 4 days, she hasn’t message me anything, is she waiting for me?
She will come bck....
When does the game end though? You have to just keep pulling back and being distant forever?? Damn!
Living together over ten years. We have two large dogs. Do I have to move in order to pull back the right way? Or should I just not be home in my off time? I'm at Max overtime every week.
You’re right I want to say women are not that complicated that guy think they are because it’s a fact is what I notice women are not rocket science lol
Dope 💯
4:00 or 14 weeks
Thats the key. She will be in love forever 💯🥰
So what do you say when she says: “what’s wrong..."
Ignore her more or only text “busy”
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Genius
the hat 😂🔥
Hi casey Why women block onsocial media platforms
Y'all put too much emphasis on these females. Stop putting them on pedestals and just be you. It's that simple, this is weak
Can you make a video about eye contact.
lol what the fuck? Just lift weights loser. You probably have really low testosterone
DAT BOY GOOD!!!
Run forest Runnn 🤞🏾😂
Can we get a vid of what to do when you fail at this and she pulls away, I have that happening right now we had a trip booked and planned then she pulled back ended our relationship and wants to go on the trip as friends
cancel it! What are you even thinking! Your life is headed for an irreversible downwards spiral if you don’t wake up now!
With that said… there has been no better teacher than pain and failure for me. So you know what go for it enjoy your little girls trip. I hope you will learn a lot.
@@ccriztoff the trip is in 11 days, reschedule you think?
@@connorn6378immediately
@@connorn6378 fucking cancel it! What are you thinking! Your life is headed for an irreversible downwards spiral if you don’t wake the fuck up.
With that said… there has been no better teacher than pain and failure for me. So you know what go for it enjoy your little girls trip. I hope you will learn a lot.
@@connorn6378 cancel it! What are you thinking! Your life is headed for an irreversible downwards spiral if you don’t wake up now!
With that said… there has been no better teacher than pain and failure for me. So you know what go for it enjoy your little girls trip. I hope you will learn a lot.
When do you pull back ?
When it starts getting very well
"Say this with me one more time" patronising much....!
Hey Tex
4:34