Thank you for this video. I have a very complicated journey with mental health. I have had counseling and therapy, which helped me very much. I have been feeling guilt and shame lately because i wanted to access those resources again. Your video answered and clarified many aspects i am dealing with. The video allowed me the time to process my emotions and thoughts while keeping my security and saftey i need to resolve and progress my own mental health
I was so glad to see this new video today because we have been reading Dr S Johnson's book, thanks to you, and your videos are perfect coaching assistance. It is working for us and we are grateful that we found you. Thank you!!
Hi Monika, we have been 8months separated, and I had pretty much done some of the pattern cycles you mentioned in this video in the first few months.. I'm starting to understand the process now but my partner has not been keen at all in repairing the marriage. Is it still worth addressing these issues when its only one side that wants to fix the marriage?
You can still fix up whatever is on your side of the street if they don't want to talk about it. Sometimes there needs to be a shift before the other person wants to re-engage repair.
@@MonikaHoyt Thank you for your reply Monika! I'm very grateful for your advice 🙏 I've been watching your videos uploaded 3 years ago and they were very insightful
Monika how do you approach reconciling without feeling rejected ..I want to ask my spouse so many questions but do not want to feel rejected if the answers are not what I want to hear. We are only 3 months separated and I said I would give him space so I will for next 3 months or more, but how to you approach reconciliation without being/feeling rejected . Our sitn is complicated . We still have feelings for eachother - looong time married but what if he loves being on his own and is happy without me. its so emotionally draining all this limbo stuff.
What feels like rejection is not always rejection. Try to look at it as information and get curious, what does it mean to him? Take the answers and then sit with it, don't need to reply immediately
One has to watch this a hundred times to fully digest and integrate the lessons in it. Thank you!🙏🏼
You're so welcome!
Thank you for this video.
I have a very complicated journey with mental health.
I have had counseling and therapy, which helped me very much.
I have been feeling guilt and shame lately because i wanted to access those resources again. Your video answered and clarified many aspects i am dealing with. The video allowed me the time to process my emotions and thoughts while keeping my security and saftey i need to resolve and progress my own mental health
you are very welcome. emotions and mental health journeys will definitely impact teamwork
Welcome back!🎉
Thank you! will be here each week :)
I was so glad to see this new video today because we have been reading Dr S Johnson's book, thanks to you, and your videos are perfect coaching assistance. It is working for us and we are grateful that we found you. Thank you!!
Glad to hear and You are so welcome!
Hi Monika, we have been 8months separated, and I had pretty much done some of the pattern cycles you mentioned in this video in the first few months.. I'm starting to understand the process now but my partner has not been keen at all in repairing the marriage. Is it still worth addressing these issues when its only one side that wants to fix the marriage?
You can still fix up whatever is on your side of the street if they don't want to talk about it. Sometimes there needs to be a shift before the other person wants to re-engage repair.
@@MonikaHoyt Thank you for your reply Monika! I'm very grateful for your advice 🙏 I've been watching your videos uploaded 3 years ago and they were very insightful
Monika how do you approach reconciling without feeling rejected ..I want to ask my spouse so many questions but do not want to feel rejected if the answers are not what I want to hear. We are only 3 months separated and I said I would give him space so I will for next 3 months or more, but how to you approach reconciliation without being/feeling rejected . Our sitn is complicated . We still have feelings for eachother - looong time married but what if he loves being on his own and is happy without me. its so emotionally draining all this limbo stuff.
What feels like rejection is not always rejection. Try to look at it as information and get curious, what does it mean to him? Take the answers and then sit with it, don't need to reply immediately