1. You slept with him too early 2. There was no chemistry 3. His financial/ intelligence resources is not there 4. He might want the hottest girl but then feel insecure that the limelight is on you and not him 5. He’s married/long term relationship 6. You have masculine qualities 7. You did something off-putting 8. He has an avoidant attachment style
With divorce rates being so high, I'd love to see more content on how to keep a marriage healthy and hot, especially since you've been married for a while. There's so much info already out there on how to get a man, but marriage is another ball game. Thanks.
@@amandafrank1064I thought that, but as I listened, I realized she’s giving us women ways to be who is attractive to a man, while pointing out what we may have done to mess things up.
I know it sounds too oversimplified but in short ... Be your natural beautiful confident self... Just take it easy be urself but a little better a little mysterious ... Relax and be centered around "yourself" at the same time show a little cool interest in him .. smile but not too much ... Chill girl just be urself and relax if he is the right guy he is going to love u if he isnt he will leave and u should let him go even if u liked him ... Obviously do not sleep with him until at least an obvious commitment is established between you too and if you can wait until marriage ... Thats what i tell myself and my younger sister ...
Every time dating is the topic I get curious as to why some women never get asked out in the first place. I for one am 36 and I've been asked out maybe 3 or 4 times in my life - and a couple of said times it wasn't even a proper date, it was more of a "let's hang out casually" 😂 I'm not a gargoyle, people tend to describe me as pretty and kind-hearted, I've never slapped anyone's face or bitten anyone's head off. But somehow I only get a few guys who flat out want sex, and zero dating. Even my actual ex boyfriends - I only went on a proper date with one of them. The other one admitted to not having the guts to ask me out. What the hell am I doing wrong to scare them off like that? 😂
I am the Black Cat. And he's totally obsessed with me - from our first date last week. It aint that great, girls! I'm FIRMLY setting boundaries daily, and forcing him to slow the F down. I don't want an enslaved Labrador!
You keep advertising your 20 FEMININE ENERGY PRINCIPLES "Masterclass" and I did buy it and now I regret it. In this video, you said it's a 3 hour masterclass. Well, I double check and the whole thing is not longer than 70 minutes (On average, 3 minutes per one principle) which, for this price, is not a great deal at all.
Number one for sure. Not to act like I know everything but I watched a video on this subject. So to add another perspective men take a minimum of three months to fall in love. Minimum. They have chemicals changes in the brain when they falling in love. The female has to allow those changes to happen. If you sleep with him it disrupts that process. So do not do it for at least three months. Longer is better. Side note: when these changes start happening he might pull away briefly. If he pulls away for about a week and comes back let him. That’s what you want to happen. If it’s longer then there is a problem. When he comes back don’t give him an attitude. If he pulls away often after that then it’s a problem.
Can you make a video about finances in a relationship? How long should we let him pay for dinners ecc? It’s a bit confusing because I want to be femminine, but not appear as a gold digger 😅❤
One of your recent videos you mentioned “reframing” your thoughts. It’s the exact word that I needed to not dwell on a negative thought spiral. Thank you for helping me accomplish a huge goal of mine.
Why are you trying to appease to some feminist agenda of sleeping quickly with newly met man and say 'No, it doesn't make you lose Value'. Of course it does in man's eyes. Man are socialized since forever that such a woman is low value and even much worse adjectives. We need to be realistic. You are giving a solace, not a solution. Being easy is never beneficial to woman, because man don't respect it. Fulfilling man's wants it's not the same as fulfilling his needs. They are often the opposite. It's like a child who wants to eat candy all day, but you do a chicken breast with vegetables for a dinner.
Would be great to have advice for those in stable , long term relationships, and marriages as advice is more centred around the beginning stages . Although the self help conversations are great, maybe we need advice for those who already have the man , family or kids etc and navigating those issues which come up. Thank you!
Hello: You are beautiful and I am empty 🦋🥀 There is something in your magical face. Or why attract me like a magnet? There is a lot of calmness and innocence in your look. Which hits the very depths of the soul
I neeeeeever thought I’d be obsessed with “gut health” but I totally am “her”! It feels good to do simple things to take care of myself, and I’m going to try both Seed and Fatty (if I can get them to Australia) as they are perfect recommendations for me, THANKYOU for sharing! (P.s. I’m in love with a sprinkle of hemp seeds on my eggs 🍳 if you had a recommendation on any other little “self care” treats I would love a video on day to day ways you spoil yourself by taking care of yourself
I can FEEL my inner self worth growing when I watch your videos, I’m still quite anxiously attached but not “overwhelming” or I guess “unhealthy” the way I was in my 20’s. Part of this was having a child and just being too tired to be obsessed with a guy and whether he likes me. But also, it’s watching videos like yours on repeat to RETRAIN my brain away from feeling like there’s something wrong with me every time a relationship doesn’t go quite the way I wished… especially that bit about friendships too! The other day I saw someone who had been flirting with me, doing little kindnesses for me, giving a bit of a chase, and then very innocently/honestly I made a joke about wishing I had had a daughter. Look I’m 38, I’m not having more babies at this point, but i TOTALLY see how that slip up made me look like the proverbial “ticking time bomb” and the gentleman in question has very much made himself scarce. I’m so proud of myself, and owe it in part to videos like yours, that I have the inner confidence to handle this situation elegantly and not suddenly start chasing after and apologising for a throwaway comment that possibly just weeded out someone with their own commitment issues… THANKYOU mama N
Waaaaait I feel like the thought at 7:15 wasn't fully finished! What if I want a SPECIFIC man to meet my needs and he thought he could at the beginning? But then he realized he couldn't? I know what the obvious answer is but I'm wondering if there was going to be more there? :O
Margarita, thank you for your work. I love your videos about attachment styles and I have a question - can we have different attachment style with different people? I noticed that I'm more "anxious" with people who are more distant, and I tend to be "avoidant" with those who are too much in my space and ask for commitment. And it's a neverending circle of unsatisfaction. Thank you.
This is a fabulous video Margarita…I am holding onto every word in this video… a new subscriber/follower since a mth or so…this video is gold & every advice given is so inspiring ❤❤❤…. Just checking if the guy visits your city & is new to the place, is it ok if I take the lead in picking the place/reservation?
He bounced lol very true, Fun times I love that for me. I just love talks, you are so real and sweet I wish you were coming to the US I would love to see you speak. Stay true, blessed and greatful. Love from Washington State
Hey Margarita, really nice video ! I was wondering if I could help you with Best Quality Editing in your videos better than your Editor with good pricing and also make a highly engaging Thumbnail which will help your videos to reach to a wider audience ? Pls let me know what do you think ?
@@danilaroche1156 that's not what I meant. Say I'm dating for 3 months, then we have sex and I don't like it. We're both already emotionally involved somehow, and now I have to break the bond. Isn't it worse?
Great advice, part of having him go plain crazy and unlocking his primal impulses is a result of speaking out just the right words. Yes, where to begin? Celestine Dessike's latest (go'ogle her) takes you by the hand if you really want to cut out all the guesswork and get him going!
I’m a new subscriber, 💖 I ABSOLUTELY LOVE YOUR WORK and how you deliver it! I love how you go straight into it! I literally listened to 60 seconds of one of your videos and I was like “yup, she knows what she’s talking about I want to be guided by her” and subscribe right away! I will be pre ordering your book! Thank you so much for all your hard work! 🩷🪽☁️💫✨💖
Holy Grails: Base: Dazzle Dry Base and Transform (their ridge filler). Top: KBShimmer Clearly On Top (2 coats) + 1 coat of Seche Vite. KBS is pretty fast dry and very durable, and SV as a final coat dries everything down in record time. Some observations and tips: Any quick dry product is going to thicken, string, and bubble with the solvents evaporating. And it will require thinner sooner than more normal drying top coats since those solvents evaporate quickly. A good tip I picked up and use is to make sure you apply quick dry top coat above the polish line and to all the edges and cap your tips. Might have to use an orange wood stick to remove any product touching the skin if that happens. For Seche Vite specifically, making sure it is thinned adequately, is applied over something wet or semi-wet (like another top coat that’s still somewhat wet), and seal all the edges and cap tips, I find it doesn’t shrink. That’s a lot of work, but the dry down time of many layers is worth it for me. 😊 Btw, I don’t use Seche VIVE (their gel effect one) because it contains Hema, and can sensitize like gel nails over time. Don’t want to risk it.
1. You slept with him too early
2. There was no chemistry
3. His financial/ intelligence resources is not there
4. He might want the hottest girl but then feel insecure that the limelight is on you and not him
5. He’s married/long term relationship
6. You have masculine qualities
7. You did something off-putting
8. He has an avoidant attachment style
Ha... 6-8 for me... *sigh*
I love when you call me out by name
Amanda it’s you sis 😂😂😂🥰🥰🥰
She accidentally titled it wrong. Spotify has the correct title.
“How To Have Him Obsessed After the First Date & Why Men Ghost”.
Aaaaahhhhhhh I didn't want to watch this video because of the title. Thanks for writing this comment.
9. You might have met a narcissist & 10. He might have never wanted to be in a serious comitted but played you into thinking that
then 9 & 10 the same, other type of play was already mentioned (to get with vs mess with)
Seriously truth! Love bombing can suck you in and then poof reality hits and it wasn’t what you thought.
“The chemicals may not be chemicaling” LOL 😂😂 I love Margarita so much
This!!!!
With divorce rates being so high, I'd love to see more content on how to keep a marriage healthy and hot, especially since you've been married for a while. There's so much info already out there on how to get a man, but marriage is another ball game. Thanks.
This is a great idea
This!!
@@Margarita.Nazarenko Yes more marriage minded stuff because even if you can get a man----keeping them for years is a whole 'nother level
I absolutely love your depth and substance as a woman! Very inspiring.
Y’all are so extra… obviously she made a mistake no need to point it out like a sore thumb.
Soooo annoying like toddlers!!!
Good lord I got such a fright when you called me by my name 😂
The only thing I don’t understand is the title of your video doesn’t seem to match the topic?
Was also a little confused, i would like an in depth video on that
Yeah same
Next week!
@@amandafrank1064I thought that, but as I listened, I realized she’s giving us women ways to be who is attractive to a man, while pointing out what we may have done to mess things up.
Good morning from Vancouver Canada!!! Your videos are always excellent so I always like them before watching 😁
I have no words . simply AMAZING ,great content and fantastic presentation, and execution. thank you , xox
I know it sounds too oversimplified but in short ... Be your natural beautiful confident self... Just take it easy be urself but a little better a little mysterious ... Relax and be centered around "yourself" at the same time show a little cool interest in him .. smile but not too much ... Chill girl just be urself and relax if he is the right guy he is going to love u if he isnt he will leave and u should let him go even if u liked him ... Obviously do not sleep with him until at least an obvious commitment is established between you too and if you can wait until marriage ... Thats what i tell myself and my younger sister ...
I love your work so much that I hit the thumb up before the video even starts 😂 a lot of ❤ from Beijing, China
I always do that bc I know I’m going to love it without even watching it yet. Margarita is legit the best ever!
Every time dating is the topic I get curious as to why some women never get asked out in the first place. I for one am 36 and I've been asked out maybe 3 or 4 times in my life - and a couple of said times it wasn't even a proper date, it was more of a "let's hang out casually" 😂 I'm not a gargoyle, people tend to describe me as pretty and kind-hearted, I've never slapped anyone's face or bitten anyone's head off. But somehow I only get a few guys who flat out want sex, and zero dating. Even my actual ex boyfriends - I only went on a proper date with one of them. The other one admitted to not having the guts to ask me out. What the hell am I doing wrong to scare them off like that? 😂
I can tell from personal experience that everything u said is 100% true even if many women don’t want to accept it.
I am the Black Cat. And he's totally obsessed with me - from our first date last week. It aint that great, girls! I'm FIRMLY setting boundaries daily, and forcing him to slow the F down. I don't want an enslaved Labrador!
You’re a genius. Love your videos. So relatable.
This has nothing to do with mother wound …? 🤔
was literally about to comment the same thing…
I would love to hear about the mother wound tho
Bravo 😍 you need the masterclass. It's all about attachment aka mother wound
@@TorquilRofemme I would really love to know her thoughts on mother wounds!
I was wondering the same thing
Are the mother wounds in the room with us?
Apologies that is next weeks video. This one was titled wrong x
You keep advertising your 20 FEMININE ENERGY PRINCIPLES "Masterclass" and I did buy it and now I regret it. In this video, you said it's a 3 hour masterclass. Well, I double check and the whole thing is not longer than 70 minutes (On average, 3 minutes per one principle) which, for this price, is not a great deal at all.
Number one for sure. Not to act like I know everything but I watched a video on this subject. So to add another perspective men take a minimum of three months to fall in love. Minimum. They have chemicals changes in the brain when they falling in love. The female has to allow those changes to happen. If you sleep with him it disrupts that process. So do not do it for at least three months. Longer is better. Side note: when these changes start happening he might pull away briefly. If he pulls away for about a week and comes back let him. That’s what you want to happen. If it’s longer then there is a problem. When he comes back don’t give him an attitude. If he pulls away often after that then it’s a problem.
Can you make a video about finances in a relationship? How long should we let him pay for dinners ecc? It’s a bit confusing because I want to be femminine, but not appear as a gold digger 😅❤
Mine ghosted me after a 1.5 years of relationship and just WON'TTTTT talk about it. Lol 😅
Wow you look stunning love that lil dimple when you smile it’s so cute Thank you for all you do for us
One of your recent videos you mentioned “reframing” your thoughts. It’s the exact word that I needed to not dwell on a negative thought spiral. Thank you for helping me accomplish a huge goal of mine.
Why are you trying to appease to some feminist agenda of sleeping quickly with newly met man and say 'No, it doesn't make you lose Value'. Of course it does in man's eyes. Man are socialized since forever that such a woman is low value and even much worse adjectives. We need to be realistic. You are giving a solace, not a solution. Being easy is never beneficial to woman, because man don't respect it. Fulfilling man's wants it's not the same as fulfilling his needs. They are often the opposite. It's like a child who wants to eat candy all day, but you do a chicken breast with vegetables for a dinner.
I Love u but the amount of adds in one video is just too much
Would be great to have advice for those in stable , long term relationships, and marriages as advice is more centred around the beginning stages . Although the self help conversations are great, maybe we need advice for those who already have the man , family or kids etc and navigating those issues which come up. Thank you!
Look up Julie and John Gottman!!
I love that Margarita had a “running your hand through your curls, absentmindedly making me love you” high school experience ❤
I preordered your book, how do I access the masterclass now? I don't see anything about it in the order.
Love your vids
Hello: You are beautiful and I am empty 🦋🥀 There is something in your magical face. Or why attract me like a magnet?
There is a lot of calmness and innocence in your look.
Which hits the very depths of the soul
there's too many rules to this game, i don't even want to play anymore
Wrong title? 😅 But loved the video
Apologies x
I really enjoy listening to you, it’s like listening to an intelligent Aunty ❤
Thank you!!!!!! ❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥
I neeeeeever thought I’d be obsessed with “gut health” but I totally am “her”! It feels good to do simple things to take care of myself, and I’m going to try both Seed and Fatty (if I can get them to Australia) as they are perfect recommendations for me, THANKYOU for sharing! (P.s. I’m in love with a sprinkle of hemp seeds on my eggs 🍳 if you had a recommendation on any other little “self care” treats I would love a video on day to day ways you spoil yourself by taking care of yourself
Thanks mother marg
I can FEEL my inner self worth growing when I watch your videos, I’m still quite anxiously attached but not “overwhelming” or I guess “unhealthy” the way I was in my 20’s. Part of this was having a child and just being too tired to be obsessed with a guy and whether he likes me.
But also, it’s watching videos like yours on repeat to RETRAIN my brain away from feeling like there’s something wrong with me every time a relationship doesn’t go quite the way I wished… especially that bit about friendships too!
The other day I saw someone who had been flirting with me, doing little kindnesses for me, giving a bit of a chase, and then very innocently/honestly I made a joke about wishing I had had a daughter.
Look I’m 38, I’m not having more babies at this point, but i TOTALLY see how that slip up made me look like the proverbial “ticking time bomb” and the gentleman in question has very much made himself scarce.
I’m so proud of myself, and owe it in part to videos like yours, that I have the inner confidence to handle this situation elegantly and not suddenly start chasing after and apologising for a throwaway comment that possibly just weeded out someone with their own commitment issues…
THANKYOU mama N
Waaaaait I feel like the thought at 7:15 wasn't fully finished! What if I want a SPECIFIC man to meet my needs and he thought he could at the beginning? But then he realized he couldn't? I know what the obvious answer is but I'm wondering if there was going to be more there? :O
How about a skirt ?😅
gold advice- I also do the same thing w tequila and guys in their 20s never thought of this before lol
Margarita, thank you for your work.
I love your videos about attachment styles and I have a question - can we have different attachment style with different people? I noticed that I'm more "anxious" with people who are more distant, and I tend to be "avoidant" with those who are too much in my space and ask for commitment. And it's a neverending circle of unsatisfaction.
Thank you.
This is a fabulous video Margarita…I am holding onto every word in this video… a new subscriber/follower since a mth or so…this video is gold & every advice given is so inspiring ❤❤❤…. Just checking if the guy visits your city & is new to the place, is it ok if I take the lead in picking the place/reservation?
@margaritanazarenko What link should we pre-order the book at in order to get the masterclass?
Thank you ❤
He bounced lol very true, Fun times I love that for me.
I just love talks, you are so real and sweet I wish you were coming to the US I would love to see you speak.
Stay true, blessed and greatful.
Love from Washington State
Hey Margarita, really nice video ! I was wondering if I could help you with Best Quality Editing in your videos better than your Editor with good pricing and also make a highly engaging Thumbnail which will help your videos to reach to a wider audience ? Pls let me know what do you think ?
I pre ordered the book on amazon when you first announced it and it arrived todayy and I love it but how do I get the course for free ❓helpp
If we buy the book on Amazon. How do we get the link to the free course? Will it be sent automatically?
Lmaoooo slapped the table and went ahhh 😂😂😂😂I’m cracking up
Where can you pre-order the book in Canada? Would love to order it before tomorrow!
hi margarita! can’t wait for the book to drop! do we get the course if we pre order on audible too? or just the physical copy? ❤
Love you lots 🤍
Thank you so mutch Margarita 🙏
Like a frenchwoman getting up after a meal LOL
I frickin love you as a content creator, purely platonic, you just are accurate with everything you gorgeous woman!
Can u talk About How to deal with toxic mom with victim complex?
Sex creates a soul tie. Why are women unaware of this.
theres plenty of real example outthere, that hypoteticals are not neccessary.
thank you margarita🥲🥲ur an angel. im going back to dating after years and i just needed this to start off on the right foot
Started to act very cold to me but after 6 months. Could you pleaee make a video about this
Book ordered!! On kindle and audible!! Omg I’m sooo excited 😆 CONGRATS MARGARITA!!👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼🎉🍾🥂
I have a date today so the timing is something very special 😂❤
Is your book on audio too ? Thank you love and congratulations ❤
Margarita you are saving my life again ❤️
The last reason is definitely it.
hah youre great! ''dont be a mouse...''
Number 4 happens to me all the time!!!
You are more beautiful every time I see you!
Please make a video on types of men
Yeah i achieved that what what what what what 😂😂 so trueee 🔥
I have pre-ordered your book through Audible. How can I get the polarity master class?
Email support@margaritanazarenko.com
Can't wait for the book and the masterclass is amazing! ❤
Beautiful Margarita❤
No 1 I don't get it. Isn't it more cruel to dump a guy after 3 month because you're not compatible, and also waste of time for both
It's not cruel if your not having sex. Not cruel at all. Sleeping together without commitment will cause deep hurt.
@@danilaroche1156 that's not what I meant. Say I'm dating for 3 months, then we have sex and I don't like it. We're both already emotionally involved somehow, and now I have to break the bond. Isn't it worse?
Mind-blowing
outro song
So many ads and in video marketing arghh
You realize you getting this information that she spends time and efforts on basically for free, right?
@@thewell249love you
Next weeks ep has no ads x
You may avoid ads by getting RUclips Premium!
@@YanaWanderlust.doesn’t matter her podcast has a lot of ads
❤
You’re so wise young lady! ❤
🤍
Sis dropped maaaaad gems
💎💎💎
First ❤❤❤
Okay
Great advice, part of having him go plain crazy and unlocking his primal impulses is a result of speaking out just the right words. Yes, where to begin? Celestine Dessike's latest (go'ogle her) takes you by the hand if you really want to cut out all the guesswork and get him going!
Cannot wait to get YOUR book! Love you!
I’m a new subscriber, 💖 I ABSOLUTELY LOVE YOUR WORK and how you deliver it! I love how you go straight into it! I literally listened to 60 seconds of one of your videos and I was like “yup, she knows what she’s talking about I want to be guided by her” and subscribe right away! I will be pre ordering your book! Thank you so much for all your hard work! 🩷🪽☁️💫✨💖
Holy Grails:
Base: Dazzle Dry Base and Transform (their ridge filler).
Top: KBShimmer Clearly On Top (2 coats) + 1 coat of Seche Vite.
KBS is pretty fast dry and very durable, and SV as a final coat dries everything down in record time.
Some observations and tips:
Any quick dry product is going to thicken, string, and bubble with the solvents evaporating. And it will require thinner sooner than more normal drying top coats since those solvents evaporate quickly.
A good tip I picked up and use is to make sure you apply quick dry top coat above the polish line and to all the edges and cap your tips. Might have to use an orange wood stick to remove any product touching the skin if that happens.
For Seche Vite specifically, making sure it is thinned adequately, is applied over something wet or semi-wet (like another top coat that’s still somewhat wet), and seal all the edges and cap tips, I find it doesn’t shrink. That’s a lot of work, but the dry down time of many layers is worth it for me. 😊
Btw, I don’t use Seche VIVE (their gel effect one) because it contains Hema, and can sensitize like gel nails over time. Don’t want to risk it.
Jajaja kk
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