Okay, so I'm a former K teacher and Agnes is EXACTLY the reason there was zero trading in my class. I told them they have to go through their parents if they want to trade because we don't always know what is important and not so important. And FYI, Agnes's Mom don't give a f where the headbands are coming from. She sees them but she doesn't care. A parent who cared would have brought them to the teacher and said, 'I don't know where these are coming from'. 🤷♀️
I was that mom. My kid started bringing home silly bands. Apparently they were only allowed to trade those and some toy the boys were playing (roll the ball and a monster popped out. Don’t member the name) anywhoser, I went up there to talk to the teacher immediately and was reassured. You are absolutely right that she don’t care. What a lackadaisical parent. So toxic.
In Australia, children un Primarily School (Junior High) are not allowed to bring Pokemon to trade because kids got upset about not receiving a fair trade.
When I was little, my first bike was stolen. We found out it was the little girl a couple streets over. My mom was pissed. She and I marched over there. We stood out in front of the girls house and it was obvious that house hold was having problems. Beer cans trash and junk everywhere. I looked at my mom because she stopped. Her whole vibe changed. She looked like she was going to cry. We turned around and started to walk away. My mom asked me to invite the girl to come over on Saturday. I did. Long story short My mom talked to her in privet for a while about the situation and told her if there was anything she ever needed to talk about EVER to come to her. My mom asked for the bike back and had a little bike just like mine but purple for her hidden in the other room. When she went home and brought back my bike my mom surprised her with one of her own. That has sat in my heart my whole life.
Oh my gawd! Thanks so much for reacting to my video 😂! For everyone asking my daughter never got the headband. I had to step in and text the teacher whom eventually got the sucker (aka lollipop) by texting the mom and we decided we didn’t want the headband. My daughter also has been taught to say no and no longer make trades in school!
Yes! As a parent i would feel the same way. You handled it perfectly in my eyes... Also yes, they can KEEP those headbands, and the lice.😊 Thank you for the update!
My parents are Sunday school teachers in a class of over 160 people. All of the class members are kind, Godly people. But every Sunday they remind the whole class that when they leave the church, they are representing their faith, ESPECIALLY at restaurants during the Sunday rush. We dont play games.
Love that. “ESPECIALLY at restaurants during the Sunday rush” is so real. I worked in fast food and young teenagers after school and late-night stoners were pleasant. The Sunday after-church crowd was acerbic and demanding, very unpleasant. THAT’S your testimony. It’s made a lot of workers go “if that’s what you’re getting out of church, I don’t want it.”
I just had to pause this video and go into a deep dive on the Agnes beef, and I am happy to report that the beef has been resolved, and baby girl learned her lesson about trading.
@@dezi5643I’m confused please can you explain more? Agnes wanted the daughter to trade her iPad to her? Or the mom taught her daughter a lesson with the iPad trading thing?
About the church lady...similar situation happened to me and I asked what church she attended. She told me then asked "Why, are you going to come visit us?". I said "No, just wanted to know where NOT to go because the way you have treated us isn't my idea of Christianity".
On a serious note, hopefully the mom and Agnes mom deal with it at 5 cause you’re absolutely right, you let that behavior go and it just gets worse when they grow up
@@Catherine.Dorian.if she's already this bad at the age of 5, she's going to be a real nightmare at 18 that's facts. Sadly a lot of parents don't seem to know how parent anymore these days. Our future is looking bleak
@@piv9976 Right! Agnes reminds me of our neighbor's little bratty cousin who came to visit them during Summer. I couldn't stand that kid, and when she was around we couldn't bring any toys outside because she would either steal or break them. I still remember that her name was "Melissa" (Lisa), and I've had to fight my gut reaction to that name ever since. I know there are plenty of lovely folks with that name though.
I feel bad for anyone she comes in contact with. Her parents too! The snot nosed brat is only that way because of how she’s being brought up, and her parents are probably just as bad
I love that 5 year old's momma, strutting and knocking down play castles, but cooling off and reapproaching. Lol, she sounds like a great momma ~ if I could have been so lucky...
About agnus….. theres the part of my brain thats like “ohh shes 5 theres nothing you can do about it, it was a small thing like this happens” but at the same time thats exactly how you let that behaviour slide, thats how you LET your kid grow up to be a big meanie. Honestly mama you go girl!
Yeah, that's definitely the time when it's most important that you need to not let those little things slide. Agnes may or may not be acting deliberately malicious. In my experience most 5 years olds acting in this way aren't being deliberately malicious. They're just selfish little brats that only think about themselves. They have to be shown and taught how to act like decent individuals.
I work with K-6 students. The personality they have at 5 is still the personality they have at 11. I can look at the current Kinders and accurately predict who’s going to be a nightmare to their future teachers.
@@deca717 That's not true at all. They're still completely malleable and teachable then. If they have terrible parents then the issues may not correct themselves and they stay the same.
It made me smile as well. Yet what doesn't is that Agnes is a sociopath in the making. How do I know that? Cutting the tail of that little plastic lizard says volume about her out-of-control jealousy, her inability to rejoice for someone receiving a reward (lack of empathy), and her robbing + destructive ways. My bet is that thug Agnes will be in the news in a decade from now, and not for saving lives.
The restaurant hostess was amazingly professional. I commend her for keeping her cool under extremely trying circumstances. I would love to employ this lovely young lady. I don’t understand why church goers expect to eat out or shop or go anywhere on Sunday. Don’t they believe people shouldn’t work on the sabbath ? Then why are you expecting to be served ? Keep the sabbath day holy, people.
Not me. But my cousin. She had a 'church group' that was a nightmare. She penned a very polite note to the pastor asking for prayers for the 'leader' by name as she clearly needed a re-set on her attitude and she was giving the church a 'bad name'. In the nicest way possible she outlined their bad behavior and made it clear that everybody in the restaurant knows where they came from. We had a friend who worshiped there and she said that the pastor read the whole congregation the riot act about the way they behaved in public. lol
It's generally not difficult to figure out. I waited tables for 20 years and all of the wild church groups- the ones you never want in your section- always left crappy tips accompanied by religious tracts, usually printed by their church or at least with a stamp somewhere letting you know which church they came from.
I had a favorite headband all through 4th grade. One day my bully threw it in the dumpster behind the school and I cried so hard a teacher came and she got sent to the principals office. They told her she owed me a headband and she never payed up... I still think about how she owes me a headband.
That same thing happens today in small claims Court, people think if you get a judgment in small claims court You automatically get money.. not true. That person has to care about their credit for them to care about giving you money, and they have to have the money. The court does not follow-up. They do not make sure it gets paid. You will have to spend more money chasing Your money
So sorry my friend. I had many bullies as well. They once all ganged up on me and took my glasses and threw them into traffic. The teacher saw it and did nothing. I still think about how they owe me some eyesight.
As someone who waited tables in college, you will not only be known as a difficult customer by the whole restaurant, you will also be branded with an unfavorable nickname for the rest of your existence.
I am crazy about that mother whose daughter trades her headbands! She should be on stage with that energy, either acting or doing comedy. I really enjoyed watching her. “We ride at the last bell ring.” Priceless!
The church group story is spot on. Years ago we’d have this large group show up every Sunday. Pastor and wife were so high and mighty. The group including teenagers (who would come in at other times too) ran us ragged just for fun and barely tip, if at all. All of them were so smug. Eventually the pastor’s wife started showing up in our bar/lounge. She was heavily involved with another man (if you get my drift) and didn’t care to hide it. The scandal broke and the group quit coming to our restaurant. Hallelujah!! We all cheered!! Such hypocrites.
Same. We had a group (and I'm'a go ahead & spedify Pentacostals here, because F them). Pastor was actually respectful & a good tipper. His Sunday Lunch Crowd, though ... God saw what they did.
@@PacificallyYours 💯% agree! I don't like people doing that to my cans, but if they just owned it and said they weren't aware....I accept that (unless they kept doing it!). 🤭
@@kimbo500 I genuinely don't understand the problem? It's a plastic bag in a can. Would you prefer people walk around with poop-bags in their hands when you see them on the street? This is one of the dumbest things I've heard. If you don't want dog owners to leave it on the street; let people throw it in the nearest trash can. Jeez.
@@renatheer Yes, I would rather someone carry their dog's poop bag to either their own garbage can, or a public one. It is ok to have a difference of opinion. Even when the waste is bagged, it not only gets extremely stinky in the intense FL heat, but the bags often aren't tied or they sink to the bottom of the can. They then don't get into the garbage truck - so the small poop bags remain in my can. Sometimes they aren't even tied and I've had to wash out my can on several occasions due to busted or untied poop bags as well as leftover carry out pop/soda cups dripping into the bottom of my can. It's a difficult task for me to hose out the can given my permanent disability. I now don't put my can to the curb the night before as instructed by the Waste company, I do it first thing in the morning on pick up day....then I make sure I listen for the garbage pickup so I can return the can to my garage right away. I choose to do all of that, but it truly is because of other's inconsideration. I can live with all of what I've said, being 'one of the dumbest things' you've heard.....at least I won't have to deal with the terrible mess anymore - and my body thanks me for that. 👍
Am I the only one tearing up at the end of the headband story? 1. Her daughter sounds like an angel. 2. Mamas energy is everything👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 we are all behind you!!!
When my youngest daughter was in PK, she came home with a paw patrol jacket (with little cute dog ears on the hoodie and all) she still had one foot on the school bus when I asked her were she got it from; she told me her friend gifted it to her, I proceeded to explain her that she cannot accept those presenta, and that her friends parents effort bought that for him and it is not fair. I then sent a message on the classroom group chat (this happened just a couple of days after first day of classes so I didn't know the kid's parents) explaining what happened and that the following day we would be returning it (and we did). Fast forward to 5th grade and they are still classmates and besties, they have been to many birthdays and playdates. We as parents or responsable adults have to be a example with our actions, as they reflect directly on our Kids. Hugs from 🇵🇦
The Agnes story reminded me of the time when I was 8 and a girl I thought was a friend asked me for money to buy a candy during recess. She said her mom would pay me back at the end of school so I gave her the money so she could also enjoy candy during the break. At the end of the day, I was waiting near where the girl was waiting for her mom and when she arrived and they started to leave I approached them and told her mom what happened and if she could give me the money (for some context, I'm from Mexico. The amount I'm talking about was like 3-5 pesos which was around 30-50 American cents maybe, can't be completely sure, but for me it was a lot) and she looked at me and said she wasn't going to pay me anything, that it was my fault for giving her (her daughter) money.... I was in shock, and that day, my 8y/o self learned a valuable and hard lesson: some people are straight trash with no principles, and that I would never lend money unless they really proved they were friends ☠️ (thankfully never happened again)
Omg I can’t even imagine. If someone helped my kiddo out like that I would have given them double atleast for what they lent to my child. Reward good friends to your kids so they have ppl like that in their life. What a horrible mom.
I had a friend back in Primary school who would always forget or lose her pencils so I would either lend her mine or buy her one they cost $15 jmd , but one day I couldn't do either and she got mad so I dropped her as a friend. This happened again in high school but the girl wasn't a friend I just helped her with bus fare once and I guess she assumed I was rich or something my friends and I had to lie to her saying we broke 😂.
I felt that waitresses story in my SOUL! Especially right before she said “switching seats”, I said “SWITCHING SEATS”!!! Like the very core of my being was triggered ha ha
@@BrianAndresScottevery single time. I had a couple church crowds that would come in that were quite lovely and tipped well, but they were usually younger crowds. The older ones? Nah. Asshats. The lot of them.
I've been a server for 20+ years. My most difficult group acted like that group of 25 people - only there was over a hundred of them. Safe to say, It was pure chaos 😂 They didn't sit down until an hour in when I closed the bar and told them I wouldn't be serving ANYTHING until they put their asses in their seats. We ended up only serving them their main course and dessert because of time constraints. Pure madness.
Regarding the Italian restaurant story: There is a reason people in the industry call these charming individuals The God Squad and groan whenever they see them approaching the front door. Entitled, allergic to tipping, and quite often very rude. Favorite TGS story: Wait approached table, greeted them, and asked, "What can I get you to drink?" Ms. Church Lady, in a righteous/huffy tone loudly proclaimed, "We don't DRINK!," to which the wait responded, "No fluids at all? No water, soda, or tea?," which [of course] made her even *more* huffy. Those folks are such a trip.
So they just tune out the service when they go to church? Because doesn't church teach people to be good to other people. So what do they do at church. Just pass rumors around about other people pretending to be better than them. Obviously I'm not talking about everyone who goes to church but people like that.
worked at a steakhouse for awhile and the most dreaded shift was sunday morning…never met a meaner demographic while working. i guess they did all their nice for the week at church 🥴
When I was a waitress, we'd get them a lot. Liked to tip us in prayer cards. Wouldn't be such a big deal if the prayer cards also had money with them. I'm religious too, but I still tip my servers
Yeah, as a dog walker for work, Id never put poo in someones private bin. Always hold out for the public bins. Youll be putting something smelly in their bins, it can get stuck to the bottom, can mean they need to give their bins a big clean out to get rid of either the bag/poo or smell from their bins
Definitely! I think it's rude. It's your dogs poo, put it in your own trashcan. If it's no big deal and the trash is coming the next day, throw it in yours. 🤷🏻♀️
Right? If it isn't your can why would one feel entitled to use it? If someone doesn't have a dog why should they have the responsibility of dealing with dog mess. Dog droppings can get stuck to the can, make odor and transmit parasites/germs. Your dog, your poo, your can.
Especially if you live in an area where you have to pay for trash cans and trash services. And it's just rude to use someone else's things without asking 😅
@@CharlotteDobre People sometimes put their dog poo in the empty can - which means the tiny bag is in the bottom and it doesnt always come out with the next time it gets empty without reaching in to get it
as someone who is christian and our youth group goes out a lot and it is a lot of people, we are super patient and we always call before hand to see if it’s fine with establishments how big of a group we are (which is usually like 20 ppl) so being rude to your servers is like the worst thing you can do especially if it’s so many ppl
Now I understand why every time I go out to restaurants with my church ladies the servers always compliment us and say they love how organize and nice we are! OMG now I know why. lol
@@christophercathcart881 omg that’s terrible. Actually that’s theft. We will calculate always the tip and if someone is short we will pitch in but NEVER ever we would allow someone to not pay tip to waitress/waiters/ drivers or room service people. That’s unfair, unchristian and theft
I have worked at restaurants for 35 years...can confirm, many church folks are some of the most challenging, rude and cheap customers I have experienced. It is truly bizarre. Every Sunday was a roller coaster of entitlement. Not all church tables but a LOT
I've worked at Starbucks for about 10 years, and I absolutely agree with you. Sundays are when we get the worst type of customers. It's like all human decency got used up at church on Sunday mornings
Fun fact: kids who have religious upbringings tend to be more punitive and less compassionate towards others. And of course, those kids grow up into adults who may or may not still behave that way.
@@Sleipnirseightcan you kindly provide the link to the study if you have it? I have never heard this. I was brought up as a Christian and taught the golden rule. I am however a spiritual person, no longer stuck in a religious dogma, but it was reinforced in our house forgive others as Christ forgave us for much worse, to treat others the way you want to be treated as what you do unto others you do unto the lord. Perhaps a lot of ppl don’t actually understand the teachings of their religion?
21:55 I’m a property manager and it’s considered illegal dumping. We have to pay for those services and we expect non-residents to refrain from using our trash cans just as I’d expect them not to use the non-residents trash cans.
Someone keeps throwing their dog poop bags in my trash can too. The reason it’s such a problem is bc they do it after the trash has already picked up and the can has already been emptied. I then have to wheel my trash can back to my garage and have dog poop sit in the can for another week. When you clean up your dogs poop, you should take it home and throw it away in your own trash can. Don’t make your neighbors house your dogs poop for a week.
Same!! It got to the point where I had to race out in summer time and drag the bin back up the drive immediately after the collection came around. Otherwise I was stuck with broken/open bags stinking out the bin for days. Plus if they open I have to wash the entire bin. I should not have to clean up after other people's pets. Gross!
We absolutely love the headband mom for standing up for her daughter even without her daughter saying there is an issue, because I know for a fact when I was younger I just gave all my stuff away for free then my classmates expected me to do that as we got older too. Or Agnes is just forgetful. either way we love the mom.
People actually have pastors in us? Old people then? Or is it actually true that young people are forced to go to churches and prey and shit there as we see in movies sometimes!?!? That's so weird 😮😅 (I live in a country where we teach science, not religion, so we're like 80-90% atheists the rest are mostly immigrants from Muslim countries and a few percent I guess is religious even though they should know it's a bunch of bullshit 😂 no offense if you're one of them, it's just really crazy to me. I don't think I know or even know of anyone going to church or actually believing in gods and stuff (except for Muslims a couple of pagans and like some Greek (2gen immigrants) friends parents) except to go to some funerals. And i mean, I'm a 42yo woman, I've met and known a lot of people over the years... don't know anyone who would even consider going to a church just to sit there listening to some fanatic blabbering about jeebus and whatnot 😅 maybe if they join a cult 🙊😂 only heard of one here though, and the leader is in prison for killing his wife so it kinda dissolved after that... And yes I actually want to know! It may seem like I'm making fun of you, and I'm really not intentionally doing that, just superweird to think about when you're Scandinavian! But yeah im actually curious... like, Is it more of a cultural thing or do y'all actually believe in those fables and afterlife or reincarnation and stuff?
the second lady is a restaurant mgr. named Kellie. her stories are ALWAYS chef's kiss" when I was a server I just WOULDNT take large groups. just for these reasons. once, I had to actually take control, raise my voice and say "ok everyone! let's sit down and get organized! NOW!"
The Agnes* story, though 😂 I'm a dog walker, and I never toss my clients' dogs or my own dogs poop into someone else's trash barrel. The reason that I feel this way is because I feel it's rude to do, but sometimes the poop bags break inside of the trash barrels.. I have had it happen in my own barrels. So, someone who may not even have a dog has to clean that out of their barrel because it will most likely smell nasty. I now have a separate bucket for my poop bags, haha.
@@chrystiafreelandscankles548 You and Jess are good people! Thank you for being considerate of others, and I bet you are great with your clients fur babies.
I would walk 2 miles holding a bag of dog dookie before stinking up someone else's trash can. We don't know if they store it in their garage, if they're an older person who would have difficulty cleaning the bin, if their trash people don't take dog poop. At my old home if it was a lone poop bag the trash collectors would absolutely NOT take it. Like never. Unless you know the person and have verified it's ok to toss dog poop in their bin, just hold onto it until you find a public bin or your own bin. It sucks when there aren't a lot of public bins but it's super rude to stink up a stranger's bin. In fact, I don't even put my dog's poop bags in my own bin. I go to a specific public dog poop bin near my home so my garage won't smell.
Thank you. I don't own dogs and the days between trash pickup our trash cans can't be in view of the street, per neighborhood rules. Putting them in my backyard behind the fence means raccoons get into them, but I also have to carry trash from inside the house quite a long way around the outside to put the trash in the outside cans. So, our cans stay in our garage, which opens directly to our kitchen. I do not want my cans to smell like dog poop. Eventually the smell will start to seep into my house. I chose not to own a dog, therefore I shouldn't have to deal with their poop or bad smells. If that means dog owners have to carry a full bag of poop on a walk, oh well. That's part of the consequences of choosing to be a dog owner. Don't like it? Then don't own a dog. So, thank you for respecting your clients' neighbors' property!
After my grandma passed all 15 of us gathered at the local restaurant in my hometown, you know what we did? We helped put some tables together, we helped pass out menus, we apologized for being a bother, we stayed quiet, and we tipped over 200 bucks. Because we're not assholes.
I used to be a chef at a restaurant and I would tell people I was going on a smoke break. I don’t smoke, never have and I would eat my snacks in the smoking area or hide upstairs in the unused kitchen so I could eat. I would work literally 16-18 shifts and being going to school at the same time. To all my kitchen friends, ask for a smoke break, you don’t have to smoke. Just eat a snack learn to trade with your back of house if you are front of house. I used to feed my servers and they would always run food for me. ❤
It's sad you had to do this, but apparently it's all too common. I know and understand the rush and craziness of restaurant work, but at the same time, I will never understand management not wanting to provide their staff with breaks and a shift meal even. Happy, respected workers are an asset to the establishment, not uncomfortable, hungry ones that have to sneak around. Insane.
HOLD UP! I had to pause my Charlotte Binging session the moment I heard Charlotte was an Albertan Girly!! Always new she was Canadian, and I LOVE supporting my local Canadian creators, but knowing she's from the SAME BACKYARD as me!! Truly wild and so many things make sense now 😂
I used to be a hostess at a Japanese restaurant, and I had a walk in of a singular group that consisted of 38 people. I wasn't gonna take it but my boss was like, "Yeah, we have room!". EVERYBODY IN THAT STORE LOOKED AT HIM LIKE WE COULD'VE KILLED HIM. They were the rudest, loudest, and most annoying people I've ever done had.
When my daughter was about 5 1/2 on the school bus in kindergarten, there was a boy who bullied her. Broke her lunchbox, then ripped her expensive hello kitty overalls (oh my gosh b'gosh outfit - if you know you know) His mom was the school bus driver. Told me had some issues but these things would not continue. They Did. So I finally told my daughter, if were hit, she could hit back. Next day she came home & told me she punched him into the next classroom- he started the violence- everyone saw it. She didn't get in trouble and he never tried to bully her again. I'm a 60 year old Grandma now, that was in the late 80's, but apparently it's still the same. You bring up your child to be understanding & non violent- but there is a breaking point.
Me and my husband told my daughter the same thing the other day, that if someone did something to her and she nicely told them to stop but they continue, she can punch them right in the nose.
That second lady. She had the patient of a saint. The second she said "Collard greens at an Italian restaurant" I could picture the exact party in my head. Church group who don't go out much. Were supposed to have the pot luck which fell through. lordy having a big revival.
"Ma'am, you shoulda taken that prayer straight to the lord first before coming to ask me, cause he woulda told you not to do it!" The way I absolutely **cackled** over this line.
My youth group was large, 500-1500 in the years I was there. I still remember one day my pastor stood up and rebuked us for going out and treating servers like this. He said we better not dare drop be dropping our church name or be preaching the gospel if we weren't tipping well or being kind. I am unpacking a lot of what I learned from that church and figuring out what I believe, but it wasn't all bad.
I needed you to say it Charlotte lol..."your poor planning does not constitute an emergency on my part!" That is by far my favorite Charlotteism...we love you!!! All hail Queen Charlotte!
17:45 ok I know that was a joke about telling somebody’s pastor, but there was a group of young people that were so awful that when their pastor came in a few days later (he was a regular), the server told him. He was livid. It’s literally taught that we are good customers at restaurants etc. 😂
Poop in the trash can does matter. Unless you're putting on the top of a full bin and trash is being picked up that morning it's a huge problem. If you toss it in someone's empty bin at the end of their driveway after trash collection they're now stuck with it rotting there until the next pickup. Worse if it breaks open. It's inconsiderate. Depending where you live people pay for trash collection service - it's not for public use. It's also an issue if it's at the bottom and garbage collection doesn't dump the entire can. Now it's stuck there getting crushed under the owner's normal trash week after week. They may not be physically able to clean/fish out your filth from the bottom of their can and they shouldn't have to. Your pet? Your responsibility.
Still can be a problem if you put it at the top of a full bin on trash collection day. Some places fine you for having loose poop bags sitting in the can.
Olive Garden in northeast Florida pays $3.63 an hour and I’ve been paid $2.38 at a Harry’s Seafood & Grille restaurant as a waitress and they didn’t even offer any benefits … the wait staff pay is literally CRIMINAL 😂
I was a restaurant manager for 25 years, casual dining. Church groups were not something the servers looked forward to. Example: I once paid a server a twenty percent tip from the restaurant’s petty cash. I wrote on the chit (receipt) that went to accounting “ the customers were assholes who stiffed their server.” I was asked about it by my area director and after I told him the story, even he believed I was a “valid expense”. 😂. BTW server wage for my state was and still is $3.35 per hour. My servers made GOOD money cause they were the best, mostly part time college students. 😊
I was a waitress for 20 years- in the south. My state had tipped wage at 2.25. I flat refused to work Sundays unless they threatened to fire me (which they could do for any reason any time) solely because of church groups. Rude, entitled, messy and no tip- I still ended up working plenty of Sundays and can't tell you how many times I got 1 or 2 bucks on a 50 or 70 dollar check. Or no actual tip- just a religious pamphlet about how I was going to hell or needed Jesus. And left more mess than 5 children. I'm shuddering now just remembering it.
@@mommy2librasI told my dad the other day about how some people bring church tracts that look like money and leave them as a tip. My dad called it pure evil lol
Actually, feces is considered a biohazard. So no, you're absolutely not allowed to put it into someone else's bin. Depending on where you live, it's considered fly-tipping, which is illegal.
I read that in at least one European country, one has to register their dogs' DNA, and any dog poop illegally left in public gets tested, and the owner gets a huge fine. That's serious, but I bet they don't have much problem with people letting their dogs poop anywhere they want.
Yes. Your trash can. Your responsibility. So the logic follows… Your dog. Your responsibility. Walk the dog and the poo bag back home. (I say this as a former owner of two dogs). I’m now a cat owner so I have a different type of poo responsibility 😅
"You should have took this in prayer straight to the Lord first for come to ask me this because He would have told you not to do it" - what a savage reply 😂 by the waitress . I think this would make Charlotte's all time list of savage roasts . The beef was beyond well done . 😊
I don't think I've ever been fed up by a story so bad.. that Agnes story got me going LOL.. In my Defense though I do also have a four and five year old little girls😂 but in all reality that original poster knows how to tell a story. Man her kicking and going through that tunnel like that had me going😂
The first mum, and how she knocks her daughter’s little tent flying over, is actually hilarious! 😂🤣😆 I legitimately cannot deal!😂 I’m sitting here, at near 4am in the morning, and laughing out loud 🤣 I swear the whole neighbourhood can probably hear me, but I don’t care. This is gold!😂🤣😆 I just hope Agnes doesn’t have head lice🤨
@@LazyIRanch Oh I feel you! My stomach muscles got a good little workout too!😂 I know right?!! I am the farthest from being a violent person, but I know EXACTLY what you mean!! I am guilty of doing it myself🫢😬😳 But geez it feels great in the moment!😂🤣😆
Idk why but smtg abt the way the mother reacted to her 5 year old daughter just being nice was soo HEALING for me, i was also just like her and i also had a friend like Agnes but tone down the maliciousness by a little, but the way my mom reacted when i was taken advantage by her was unpleasant, she got suuper mad at me n loudly informs everyone of how stupid of a thing i had just done n how i should have reacted and idk it just scared me, i started getting of the response i was gonna get from my mother anything related to her to the point i had to make up major ass lies for situations where people could usually be honest n nothing could go wrong but i lied, n hid many things from my mom cus of how she handled the situation- so to that mom- thank you from my behalf for healing a lil smtg i just completely forgot abt.
Peoples trashcans are not public trashcans. Some people don't have pets and don't want it stinking up their cans even more. Plus its a service they pay for. You're not allowed to throw your trash in most business dumpsters either.
💯! I don't have a dog but when I'm dog sitting my canine nephew I don't even put his poop bags in the regular bin. They stink and squish when you put trash on top. I put them in an old empty paint can and put that paint can in last when full. PLEASE don't put poop in other people's trash.
Yes, and here in Florida (and throughout the South, I would imagine) the heat can make the poo in your trashcan stink to high heaven. It's SO unpleasant. In my neighborhood, we only have one trash day, so that poo might sit in your can in the summer heat for six days. Six days!
OK, so I have never commented before but this is my time lol. 51-year-old mom here. when my daughter was in kindergarten first and second grade, she had a bully. She would come home upset every day at some thing this other girl had done. Of course, I said the normal stuff that she was jealous and all of that. My daughter ended up, handling it herself and I have stood in the sidelines, watching the other girl grow up because we live in a small town. But I must tell you I low-key celebrate the fact that my daughter is a principal of a school and her bully is a waitress.
I would only say, having been a teacher, you could’ve taught her so much more about the situation. Many bullies have terrible home lives. Some are just jerks. It absolutely does not excuse the behavior but explains that the behavior can be a symptom.
In Sweden we have a sign/symbol on our trash cans that let other people know that it is okey for them to throw their dogs poop or a smaller amount of trash in there, instead of throwing it into the nature/environment 😊 Not every household has it, but we have also many public trash cans spread all over different places and in the neighbourhoods, so you don’t have to walk for long with a the poop bag in your hand 😅😊 Thank you Charlotte for your lovely and funny channel 🙏✨😊 Your videos are always so entertaining and hilarious to watch 😊✨🩷🙏
Yeah more public trash bins would solve this problem. Cause I think it's nastier to know that there are people walking blocks with poop bags in their hands. That risks more chance of contamination on things. I feel the same over baby diapers. Sanitizer can't do anything when your still carrying it. And poop can carry the diseases something/someone has. The sooner its in a receptacle the better.
ABSOLUTELY NOT!! You take on a dog it is YOUR responsibility to pick up YOUR dog’s poop! Since it is YOUR DOG, it should not be a problem to carry the poop bag back to your own garbage can. You leave it in MY can, I will report you to the authorities!!😡😡😡😡😡😡
We went to lunch today, 9 ppl. We paid on 2 cards. The odd 2 out that weren't in the 50/50 split left 100.00 for a tip. They were the only 2 that drank, so we covered the check, and they tipped. Our check was 225.00, but our server was amazing, and my uncle, who isn't supposed to drink but loves wine, when Jen kidnapps him from the home, we break the rules. She makes a red wine, cranberry juice, and splash of seltzer taste good to his 87 yr old self. So we always appreciate her extra effort.
Hearing these horrible customers stories makes me glad I put in the extra time and effort to be as good a customer as I could be for my 30th birthday celebration. I provisionally reserved my table for a party of 16 people 6 weeks in advance (was pleasantly surprised by us being given a separate room), confirmed my reservation and preordered food 3 weeks in advance (even organised the preordered food into a nice, clear table when I emailed it to them), asked if it was OK to bring a cake made by a baker in, arrived early enough to add my own decorations - balloons and flowers - they had said I could bring and then tidied them up after too, kept track of everyone's orders so I knew exactly who had preordered what (thanks to the table I had open on my mobile), checked that everyone had paid and offered to cover anyone who might have forgotten (no one did) and tipped 20%. It was a lot of effort but I am happy to do it for special occasions. PS I invited friends, church family and neighbours but I can promise we didn't sing. There wasn't even a Happy Birthday to you, which was such a relief.
THIS!! As a server, I have had so many big groups that were so so messy and it made service hell. Only a few gems were like this! Having this empathetic attitude makes such a difference for hospitality workers and I bet they took real good care of your group during service. These kinds of customers are the ones that make the industry seem worth it but unfortunately theres still too many bad nuggets out there
I love the restaurant manager lady 🥹 thank you for being awesome and sticking up for the staff! I had a few managers that were so soft and scared of this kind of bs that is end up looking bad because they would go back on stuff and cater to the rude guests 😅
When my daughter was 3 and 4 she was obsessed with stickers. Every day she would take a sheet of stickers to daycare and at the end of the day she would have none left. I stayed back one morning to watch what was going on. She would go to her cubby and all her little friends would go over to her waiting for some stickers. So at the end of the day i told her that she didn't have to give away her stickers and maybe she just leaves her stickers at home from now on. She looked me dead in the face and said "why do i have so many stickers if i can't share Mommy? They always let me be the teacher" meaning while role playing she always got to be the boss! You go girl! She's 28, a mother and A FORCE! ❤
As a former server, i was that one server who handled large parties typically because the rotation of seats and having to auction of food gets real old, and disrupts other tables enjoying their meals around a larger party. I set ground rules as soon as I introduced myself, telling all large parties to make their dining experience pleasant I would start at the top left corner of the table getting orders, I would go clockwise around the table, where the food was originally ordered at is where the food would be dropped off at. Also I wouldn't allow random people to shout their orders at me. After I recieved everyone's order at the table and had all my seats numbered, i then asked if it was all together or separate at this time if separate checks I would get all that organized and together. Then I would inform the table that I would put their food into the system and be back for refills. Setting boundaries of how you want to handle the table I feel like is a must. I NEVER allowed tables to walk all over me, and I made sure to train newer servers on how to deal with large groups
She got the sucker. Mama didn’t want to headband back because she was firm on not sharing hair accessories. After getting the sucker the mama got a note from the teacher saying a child had lice in the class and she was so glad she didn’t get the headband back.
The problem with the pooh in trashcans is people will throw it in the cans after trash pickup and before you can get home to drag your trashcan back into your yard. So now you have multiple bags of pooh stuck to the bottom of your can. And of course rats love to eat dog pooh because of the undigested food. Now you have these busted bags of dog pooh at the bottom of your can and the thrash truck does not completely invert the can so they stay there smelling up your yard, attracting rats and flies. Until you decide one Saturday or Sunday morning to tie a bandana around your nose and mouth, put on some gloves, remove them all and then scrub your can with bleach or some other harsh chemical to get rid of the smell and flies, all while gagging and crying that, "you don't even have a dog!".
Yes! Or they prop it on top of your garbage bag instead of putting it inside the garbage bag so your garbage gets rejected and you have a week of garbage build up because someone didn’t want to carry their garbage
15:33 “I am not defending nothing I want them out of here!” Yas Queen, here she come being the villain and I love it. Tea is piping hot with this gal 🤩🫖
I was blessed with my Southern E. Texas Momma who did not suffer fools gladly! I'm painfully shy, but she'd stand up to anyone and "yank a knot in their tail"! Come to think of it, the only times I DO fight back is when it's for my son. He was bullied constantly in school because he was a "special ed" student. One day, he came home with both of his ears burned so badly there were blisters. I finally got him to tell me what happened, it was a boy on his bus who carries a lighter, and this isn't the first time he's been hurt by this brat. My son begged me not to say anything, because the bully was in foster care and had a bad homelife. "It's not his fault that he's mean, Mom". I'm proud of my son for being compassionate, but NO, this kid doesn't need to bring a friggin lighter to middle school! Next day, I met the bus and told the driver what happened, and that she needs to take that lighter away. To my shock, she told me that she can't take it because it's his "personal possession". WHAAAAT!? So if he brings a knife, or gun to school, that's okay too?? He was grinning at me, flicking the lighter, so I snatched it away from him. I told him, and the driver, "I will give this back to his parents, if they want to come talk to me". They never did, and after I told the assistant principal about how the bus driver allowed this child to burn other children on the bus with a lighter, the bratty kid was kicked off the bus. Driver was not fired, though.
@@LazyIRanchTF? That's literally assault. Either somebody's going to jail or hell will be raised. How was that bus driver NOT FIRED?!!! She allowed a child to be burned! I'd have turned into a rabid wildcat.
@@paulagoeringer9466 We moved away from that city, which was the Barrio. It was gangland. Our neighborhood was so bad, we couldn't get a pizza delivered because too many drivers had been robbed, and two drivers were killed one street over from us. For the last 17 years, we've lived off-grid on 20 acres on a mountain, where my closest neighbor is 2 miles away. Its lonely and difficult at times, but I love not dealing with gangbangers anymore.
@@LazyIRanchI'm so glad you got away from all that. I've lived in some pretty rough areas and still do, but hopefully one day I'll be in a better position. I'm not holding my breath though. I bet the clean air and nature must be beautiful there. 🌲
sometimes, when a mother doesn't raise their daughter right, you have to step in and teach that child yourself. I had this with my son. I asked the bullies mom to bring her kid over for a play date and she did. within five minutes I sat them both down and told them their behaviour is unacceptable, why is this going on? that is when bully mom breaks down and says she spends all her time looking after her parents ( both had dementia )and her child is acting out because she cant be there for him every time. Well, I gave her a hug, made her some food and her son, and I said I'll take her son to school for her every morning and take him for a couple of hours every night. Helped me in the long run because he kept my child happy and out of my way whilst cooking and cleaning. Mom got food for her and her family whenever I could afford it. sometime, you just need to see the bigger picture, something may be causing Agnes to act this way!
My old restaurant would put *RED FLAG* in the guest notes if there was a problem, so if they came in again, we already knew what happened the visit before. Was such a great feature
Agnes's mom obviously is teaching her these habits. She's saying "Yeah just keep putting it off, they'll forget you owe them eventually or they won't have the nerve to keep asking." I love this fierce mama. I've already watched this video and I'm watching it again because of her. I wear cat ear headbands everywhere. Fuck with my headband I'm gonna do terrible things. 😂 Amazing mom. And those headbands are expensive.
In reference to doggy poop in bins: I posted this in response to another comment but wanted to also say here so people know. I would walk 2 miles holding a bag of dog dookie before stinking up someone else's trash can. We don't know if they store it in their garage, if they're an older person who would have difficulty cleaning the bin, if their trash people don't take dog poop. At my old home, if it was a lone poop bag, the trash collectors would absolutely NOT take it. Like never. If someone put a poop in our trash we had to turn the bin over, get it out, and throw it away elsewhere. Yuck! Unless you know the person and have verified it's ok to toss dog poop in their bin, just hold onto it until you find a public bin or your own bin. It sucks when there aren't a lot of public bins, but it's super rude to stink up a stranger's bin. In fact, I don't even put my dog's poop bags in my own bin. I go to a specific public dog poop bin near my home so my garage won't smell. Also in most places in the USA (not sure about Canada), it's actually illegal and considered a misdemeanor you could be fined for to put your trash in someone else's private trash bin.
Valid points!! On top of all of that, we get charged if we have loose poop bags in our bins. I would never throw something away in someone else's bins, let alone stinky dog poop.
I hope everyone sees your comment! Where I live, we have raccoons, coyotes, and black bears. We have to keep our trash cans in our garage until trash pickup day. I don't have a dog. I don't want to smell someone else's dog's poop in my attached garage.
Schools aren't allowed to check for lice or tell anyone a kid has lice here. Like it's totally not allowed. And has been for a while. That's why I'm glad my daughter started online school in 3rd & didn't go back to in person school.
Thank you, I was invested! I'm a mumma of a child with huge empathy and is far too kind for this world, she's 10 now and it took a LOT to teach that girl how to say no and stand up for herself. She would literally give most of her lunch away each day because one of her friends asked for something or said they wanted something but their parents wouldn't buy them, the poor kid was coming home each day starving. Then there were the playdates where kids were asking for her brand new expensive birthday toys and she'd be like 'sure you can have it'...ahhh, no! Even now, if she shows me something and I say I like it, she tries to give it to me...even if it's something she absolutely LOVES, she will still try and give it to me. I'm like 'no baby, it's yours, yes I like it, but it belongs to YOU.' 😭
Yeah, around where I live it's a big no no to put trash into other people's cans without asking. My neighbor put a ton of used diapers in my can and the crows got to it which scattered a bunch of diaper particles and other trash down my street. Poop is poop and sometimes you don't want other people's waste in your cans.
I'll take dog doo bags over diapers ANY day. Hell, let your dog crap all over my yard and just leave it, I won't notice because I have 2 dogs. But the diaper stink would permeate the plastic of our garbage can and I'd be stuck either smelling it every time I take my trash out, buying a new can, or using a giant bag of baking soda and letting it sit in the can with the lid on for who knows how long! (And anyone who knows me can attest to how offensive I'd find it because everyone knows that Phaedie don't do diapies! I will clean, scrub, and sanitize your cat's litter box but I absolutely will not change your human child's diaper.)
I'm a cook and I sneak my servers whatever they want. I am INSANELY protective towards my servers too. They deal with the worst bullshit, the least they need is a friend
Omg that server story hits hard, I work in a kitchen and this 20 year old just got promoted. She was super helpful before but now she has everyone else do all her cleaning duties and spends HOURS passing a rag by the same spots pretending to “clean”. Power trips are real.
In restaurants, the Sunday lunch rush is a hell shift. In retail, Sunday afternoons are horrible. Same reason: It's the highest concentration of people who think they are better than you that you'll serve all week.
Okay, so I'm a former K teacher and Agnes is EXACTLY the reason there was zero trading in my class. I told them they have to go through their parents if they want to trade because we don't always know what is important and not so important. And FYI, Agnes's Mom don't give a f where the headbands are coming from. She sees them but she doesn't care. A parent who cared would have brought them to the teacher and said, 'I don't know where these are coming from'. 🤷♀️
As a mother of a 5 year old, absolutely this!!!!
Absolutely true
No birthday party invitations at school either. Former elementary school teacher as well.
I was that mom. My kid started bringing home silly bands. Apparently they were only allowed to trade those and some toy the boys were playing (roll the ball and a monster popped out. Don’t member the name) anywhoser, I went up there to talk to the teacher immediately and was reassured. You are absolutely right that she don’t care. What a lackadaisical parent. So toxic.
In Australia, children un Primarily School (Junior High) are not allowed to bring Pokemon to trade because kids got upset about not receiving a fair trade.
When I was little, my first bike was stolen. We found out it was the little girl a couple streets over. My mom was pissed. She and I marched over there. We stood out in front of the girls house and it was obvious that house hold was having problems. Beer cans trash and junk everywhere. I looked at my mom because she stopped. Her whole vibe changed. She looked like she was going to cry. We turned around and started to walk away. My mom asked me to invite the girl to come over on Saturday. I did. Long story short My mom talked to her in privet for a while about the situation and told her if there was anything she ever needed to talk about EVER to come to her. My mom asked for the bike back and had a little bike just like mine but purple for her hidden in the other room. When she went home and brought back my bike my mom surprised her with one of her own. That has sat in my heart my whole life.
That is such a beautiful story!
I love this story!!!! Your mom is a legend!
Your mom rocks!
Mine, too, from now on. Love your mom. Thanks for sharing.
What an awesome mom. She deserves hugs from strangers on the internet for her big heart! Pass one along for me?
Oh my gawd! Thanks so much for reacting to my video 😂! For everyone asking my daughter never got the headband. I had to step in and text the teacher whom eventually got the sucker (aka lollipop) by texting the mom and we decided we didn’t want the headband. My daughter also has been taught to say no and no longer make trades in school!
A couple days later we got the the NOTE that lice was going around the classroom 😫 so we made the right decision about that headband 😂
Well done Mumma 🎉
@@Theshaniprojecti aspire to have ur energy as a parent fr 😩🫶🏼
Your video was so fun to watch! You are bouncing through the room like your training to fight Mike Tyson, 😂❤❤❤
Yes! As a parent i would feel the same way. You handled it perfectly in my eyes...
Also yes, they can KEEP those headbands, and the lice.😊
Thank you for the update!
My parents are Sunday school teachers in a class of over 160 people. All of the class members are kind, Godly people. But every Sunday they remind the whole class that when they leave the church, they are representing their faith, ESPECIALLY at restaurants during the Sunday rush. We dont play games.
Love that. “ESPECIALLY at restaurants during the Sunday rush” is so real. I worked in fast food and young teenagers after school and late-night stoners were pleasant. The Sunday after-church crowd was acerbic and demanding, very unpleasant. THAT’S your testimony. It’s made a lot of workers go “if that’s what you’re getting out of church, I don’t want it.”
exactly! not all churches are like this! mine is absolutely amazing
I just had to pause this video and go into a deep dive on the Agnes beef, and I am happy to report that the beef has been resolved, and baby girl learned her lesson about trading.
How did it end? I didn't find the ending in the YT channel
I wish I lived close i would be there with you at the last bell !!
@@dezi5643I’m confused please can you explain more? Agnes wanted the daughter to trade her iPad to her? Or the mom taught her daughter a lesson with the iPad trading thing?
Looooooool
@@laughingcorrpseholly4136 Yeah that was not clear at all lol
About the church lady...similar situation happened to me and I asked what church she attended. She told me then asked "Why, are you going to come visit us?". I said "No, just wanted to know where NOT to go because the way you have treated us isn't my idea of Christianity".
Haha that's amazing what did she reply??
Yep, don’t put that on the Lord😂😂😂 he ain’t vouching for them folks!lol
That's why I always pull out that scripture which says treating your brothers and sisters with love means you're following all Gods laws
We joke that they are so rude is because they have absolved their sins for the week and can start fresh
What she said 😂😂😂
the 5 year old headband swindler has me dead 😂 that girl is going to be real trouble when she grows up
On a serious note, hopefully the mom and Agnes mom deal with it at 5 cause you’re absolutely right, you let that behavior go and it just gets worse when they grow up
Not if the little girl being swindled Momma has anything to say about it
@@Catherine.Dorian.if she's already this bad at the age of 5, she's going to be a real nightmare at 18 that's facts. Sadly a lot of parents don't seem to know how parent anymore these days. Our future is looking bleak
@@piv9976 Right! Agnes reminds me of our neighbor's little bratty cousin who came to visit them during Summer. I couldn't stand that kid, and when she was around we couldn't bring any toys outside because she would either steal or break them.
I still remember that her name was "Melissa" (Lisa), and I've had to fight my gut reaction to that name ever since. I know there are plenty of lovely folks with that name though.
I feel bad for anyone she comes in contact with. Her parents too! The snot nosed brat is only that way because of how she’s being brought up, and her parents are probably just as bad
I love that 5 year old's momma, strutting and knocking down play castles, but cooling off and reapproaching. Lol, she sounds like a great momma ~ if I could have been so lucky...
About agnus….. theres the part of my brain thats like “ohh shes 5 theres nothing you can do about it, it was a small thing like this happens” but at the same time thats exactly how you let that behaviour slide, thats how you LET your kid grow up to be a big meanie. Honestly mama you go girl!
I have seen evil 5 year olds.. kids need to be raised and civilized.
Yeah, that's definitely the time when it's most important that you need to not let those little things slide. Agnes may or may not be acting deliberately malicious. In my experience most 5 years olds acting in this way aren't being deliberately malicious. They're just selfish little brats that only think about themselves. They have to be shown and taught how to act like decent individuals.
I work with K-6 students. The personality they have at 5 is still the personality they have at 11. I can look at the current Kinders and accurately predict who’s going to be a nightmare to their future teachers.
@@deca717 That's not true at all. They're still completely malleable and teachable then. If they have terrible parents then the issues may not correct themselves and they stay the same.
Loving this mom 💗‼️
The way she punched the tent when she said "A SUCKA!" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
And the second punch took me out!!
Yup! That was what had me 💀 too 😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
I thought she said a sock 😂😂😂
It made me smile as well. Yet what doesn't is that Agnes is a sociopath in the making. How do I know that?
Cutting the tail of that little plastic lizard says volume about her out-of-control jealousy, her inability to rejoice for someone receiving a reward (lack of empathy), and her robbing + destructive ways.
My bet is that thug Agnes will be in the news in a decade from now, and not for saving lives.
@@PhentesI did too
@@PhentesI said out loud in my kitchen " a f****in sock?" 😂😂
The headband mom is HILARIOUS 😂😂😂😂 I love her!
She’s so funny😂
Idk why she didn't play the rest of what happened
The only part mama missed is this was a great business lesson for the daughter lol with that mama she isn’t going to be taken advantage of as an adult
The shock I felt when I saw what happened to that lizard. Hell, I'M ready to fight😂
@@LiMoo02 I was so mad!!! Agnes is most def a bully!!!
The restaurant hostess was amazingly professional. I commend her for keeping her cool under extremely trying circumstances. I would love to employ this lovely young lady. I don’t understand why church goers expect to eat out or shop or go anywhere on Sunday. Don’t they believe people shouldn’t work on the sabbath ? Then why are you expecting to be served ? Keep the sabbath day holy, people.
Not me. But my cousin. She had a 'church group' that was a nightmare. She penned a very polite note to the pastor asking for prayers for the 'leader' by name as she clearly needed a re-set on her attitude and she was giving the church a 'bad name'. In the nicest way possible she outlined their bad behavior and made it clear that everybody in the restaurant knows where they came from. We had a friend who worshiped there and she said that the pastor read the whole congregation the riot act about the way they behaved in public. lol
It's generally not difficult to figure out. I waited tables for 20 years and all of the wild church groups- the ones you never want in your section- always left crappy tips accompanied by religious tracts, usually printed by their church or at least with a stamp somewhere letting you know which church they came from.
Them getting the riot act makes my heart so happy!
That is my kind of pastor ! AMEN !
For the servers, I'm sorry.
Kudos to the pastor.
The sad part is that they are equally as self-righteous and obnoxious in church. Ask me how I know. 😂
WE RIDE AT DAWN FOR THIS HEADBAND😂😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣
Ima saddle up now.... I'm there...
@@vixta1070 Hell yea, I'm right behind ya
Got my bail money already SET!😤😈
@@KOKO-uu7yd DAMMMMNNNNN, you're ready, I like it
I had a favorite headband all through 4th grade. One day my bully threw it in the dumpster behind the school and I cried so hard a teacher came and she got sent to the principals office. They told her she owed me a headband and she never payed up...
I still think about how she owes me a headband.
we all should send u a headband for this....lil things hold the most meaning...
That same thing happens today in small claims Court, people think if you get a judgment in small claims court You automatically get money.. not true. That person has to care about their credit for them to care about giving you money, and they have to have the money. The court does not follow-up. They do not make sure it gets paid. You will have to spend more money chasing Your money
So sorry my friend. I had many bullies as well. They once all ganged up on me and took my glasses and threw them into traffic. The teacher saw it and did nothing. I still think about how they owe me some eyesight.
What's their names? Addresses? SSN? Asking for a friend@@erikarussell1142
Track her down at maybe a school reunion and tell her 'The Notth remembets' or something obscure.
As someone who waited tables in college, you will not only be known as a difficult customer by the whole restaurant, you will also be branded with an unfavorable nickname for the rest of your existence.
LMAO so true
I am crazy about that mother whose daughter trades her headbands! She should be on stage with that energy, either acting or doing comedy. I really enjoyed watching her. “We ride at the last bell ring.” Priceless!
The church group story is spot on. Years ago we’d have this large group show up every Sunday. Pastor and wife were so high and mighty. The group including teenagers (who would come in at other times too) ran us ragged just for fun and barely tip, if at all. All of them were so smug.
Eventually the pastor’s wife started showing up in our bar/lounge. She was heavily involved with another man (if you get my drift) and didn’t care to hide it. The scandal broke and the group quit coming to our restaurant. Hallelujah!! We all cheered!! Such hypocrites.
Same. We had a group (and I'm'a go ahead & spedify Pentacostals here, because F them). Pastor was actually respectful & a good tipper. His Sunday Lunch Crowd, though ... God saw what they did.
These are the same types that don’t leave a tip they leave those fake hundreds with Bible verses on the back
@@lucycarlisle9120 glad the pastor was a good person. You’d wish he’d teach his flock to treat other people nicer.
@@jinxypop13 From what I saw (& servers see plenty), he walked the Walk. Everyone else ... needed to be in church fr.
I like the fact that she held herself accountable for it and didn't let the cleaning lady look crazy for defending her cudos to her
Agree.
Right her innocence of genuinely not knowing and owning it was so nice.
@@PacificallyYours 💯% agree! I don't like people doing that to my cans, but if they just owned it and said they weren't aware....I accept that (unless they kept doing it!). 🤭
@@kimbo500 I genuinely don't understand the problem? It's a plastic bag in a can. Would you prefer people walk around with poop-bags in their hands when you see them on the street? This is one of the dumbest things I've heard. If you don't want dog owners to leave it on the street; let people throw it in the nearest trash can. Jeez.
@@renatheer Yes, I would rather someone carry their dog's poop bag to either their own garbage can, or a public one. It is ok to have a difference of opinion. Even when the waste is bagged, it not only gets extremely stinky in the intense FL heat, but the bags often aren't tied or they sink to the bottom of the can. They then don't get into the garbage truck - so the small poop bags remain in my can. Sometimes they aren't even tied and I've had to wash out my can on several occasions due to busted or untied poop bags as well as leftover carry out pop/soda cups dripping into the bottom of my can. It's a difficult task for me to hose out the can given my permanent disability. I now don't put my can to the curb the night before as instructed by the Waste company, I do it first thing in the morning on pick up day....then I make sure I listen for the garbage pickup so I can return the can to my garage right away. I choose to do all of that, but it truly is because of other's inconsideration. I can live with all of what I've said, being 'one of the dumbest things' you've heard.....at least I won't have to deal with the terrible mess anymore - and my body thanks me for that. 👍
Wait! We need a final update on how the Agnes talk/encounter went! I cannot move on! I’m invested!
Am I the only one tearing up at the end of the headband story? 1. Her daughter sounds like an angel. 2. Mamas energy is everything👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 we are all behind you!!!
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Right?!? I need the Tea!!
We ride at dawn!
When my youngest daughter was in PK, she came home with a paw patrol jacket (with little cute dog ears on the hoodie and all) she still had one foot on the school bus when I asked her were she got it from; she told me her friend gifted it to her, I proceeded to explain her that she cannot accept those presenta, and that her friends parents effort bought that for him and it is not fair. I then sent a message on the classroom group chat (this happened just a couple of days after first day of classes so I didn't know the kid's parents) explaining what happened and that the following day we would be returning it (and we did). Fast forward to 5th grade and they are still classmates and besties, they have been to many birthdays and playdates. We as parents or responsable adults have to be a example with our actions, as they reflect directly on our Kids. Hugs from 🇵🇦
Greetings from a Panamanian fellow!❤
@@shanneyp1 ❤️🙌🏾
You handled that perfectly! ❤
Love this, exactly what I would have and have wanted done. ❤
@@cholieandresa "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you" all the way
The Agnes story reminded me of the time when I was 8 and a girl I thought was a friend asked me for money to buy a candy during recess. She said her mom would pay me back at the end of school so I gave her the money so she could also enjoy candy during the break. At the end of the day, I was waiting near where the girl was waiting for her mom and when she arrived and they started to leave I approached them and told her mom what happened and if she could give me the money (for some context, I'm from Mexico. The amount I'm talking about was like 3-5 pesos which was around 30-50 American cents maybe, can't be completely sure, but for me it was a lot) and she looked at me and said she wasn't going to pay me anything, that it was my fault for giving her (her daughter) money.... I was in shock, and that day, my 8y/o self learned a valuable and hard lesson: some people are straight trash with no principles, and that I would never lend money unless they really proved they were friends ☠️ (thankfully never happened again)
Omg I can’t even imagine. If someone helped my kiddo out like that I would have given them double atleast for what they lent to my child. Reward good friends to your kids so they have ppl like that in their life. What a horrible mom.
Trash mom and hard af lesson to learn at that age but....😅 at least you got it out of the way 😊😂😂
My Dad ALWAYS taught me to never loan out what you can't afford to give away. Never led me astray as an adult. 😅😊
I had a friend back in Primary school who would always forget or lose her pencils so I would either lend her mine or buy her one they cost $15 jmd , but one day I couldn't do either and she got mad so I dropped her as a friend. This happened again in high school but the girl wasn't a friend I just helped her with bus fare once and I guess she assumed I was rich or something my friends and I had to lie to her saying we broke 😂.
Mexican here, in my primaria days 3 to 5 pesos were a lot of money for a child, you could buy doritos or sabritas with that 😢
I felt that waitresses story in my SOUL! Especially right before she said “switching seats”, I said “SWITCHING SEATS”!!! Like the very core of my being was triggered ha ha
The headband subtitles said "sock", so for a good moment there I thought she traded her headband for a sock 😂
Me too! Lol
Same
Me too! And while it would have cost more than the sucker, that is so gross! 😂
Same
Same. I hit the rewind because I wasn't missing a word! That mama had me rolling! Sorry her baby's kindness was being taken advantage of 😢
I work at a restaurant and can 100% relate to the hostess story...she's an absolute QUEEN for handling that situation so well!! 😍
When I use to work in a restaurant Sunday's we really bad the church crowd would come in they would act so entitled and also never tips
SAME, I was getting flashbacks lol
As soon as she said the lady said “can’t you make it sooner?!?”
I KNEW there was trouble ahead
Asking for collard greens at an Italian restaurant 🤣🤣
@@BrianAndresScottevery single time. I had a couple church crowds that would come in that were quite lovely and tipped well, but they were usually younger crowds. The older ones? Nah. Asshats. The lot of them.
"We ride at the last bell ring". I felt that in my soul Sis. REGULATORS ......MOUNT UP!!!
I've been a server for 20+ years. My most difficult group acted like that group of 25 people - only there was over a hundred of them. Safe to say, It was pure chaos 😂
They didn't sit down until an hour in when I closed the bar and told them I wouldn't be serving ANYTHING until they put their asses in their seats. We ended up only serving them their main course and dessert because of time constraints. Pure madness.
Regarding the Italian restaurant story: There is a reason people in the industry call these charming individuals The God Squad and groan whenever they see them approaching the front door. Entitled, allergic to tipping, and quite often very rude. Favorite TGS story: Wait approached table, greeted them, and asked, "What can I get you to drink?" Ms. Church Lady, in a righteous/huffy tone loudly proclaimed, "We don't DRINK!," to which the wait responded, "No fluids at all? No water, soda, or tea?," which [of course] made her even *more* huffy. Those folks are such a trip.
The patience of the servers … saints I tell you
Yes! I served at CrackerBarrel for years & it was horrid on Sunday mornings & Wednesday nights.
So they just tune out the service when they go to church? Because doesn't church teach people to be good to other people.
So what do they do at church. Just pass rumors around about other people pretending to be better than them.
Obviously I'm not talking about everyone who goes to church but people like that.
worked at a steakhouse for awhile and the most dreaded shift was sunday morning…never met a meaner demographic while working. i guess they did all their nice for the week at church 🥴
When I was a waitress, we'd get them a lot. Liked to tip us in prayer cards. Wouldn't be such a big deal if the prayer cards also had money with them. I'm religious too, but I still tip my servers
Yeah, as a dog walker for work, Id never put poo in someones private bin. Always hold out for the public bins. Youll be putting something smelly in their bins, it can get stuck to the bottom, can mean they need to give their bins a big clean out to get rid of either the bag/poo or smell from their bins
Definitely! I think it's rude. It's your dogs poo, put it in your own trashcan. If it's no big deal and the trash is coming the next day, throw it in yours. 🤷🏻♀️
Yes! Never throw your dog poo bags in someone else’s private bin because it’s rude and it’s not your bin!!!
Right? If it isn't your can why would one feel entitled to use it? If someone doesn't have a dog why should they have the responsibility of dealing with dog mess. Dog droppings can get stuck to the can, make odor and transmit parasites/germs. Your dog, your poo, your can.
Yes it STINKS!!! we pull our trash cans back into our garage and it will still smell like poop!
Especially if you live in an area where you have to pay for trash cans and trash services. And it's just rude to use someone else's things without asking 😅
Can we all just send me Charlotte some genuine love for doing this job so well?! We appreciate you so much!
You're the best!
we love you Charlotte, thank you for being my therapy during depression.....❤
@@CharlotteDobreLove you girl! Your effort is immaculate 💖
@@CharlotteDobre
We love you. YOU’RE THE BESTEST
@@CharlotteDobre People sometimes put their dog poo in the empty can - which means the tiny bag is in the bottom and it doesnt always come out with the next time it gets empty without reaching in to get it
as someone who is christian and our youth group goes out a lot and it is a lot of people, we are super patient and we always call before hand to see if it’s fine with establishments how big of a group we are (which is usually like 20 ppl) so being rude to your servers is like the worst thing you can do especially if it’s so many ppl
Now I understand why every time I go out to restaurants with my church ladies the servers always compliment us and say they love how organize and nice we are! OMG now I know why. lol
You also probably gave real money for tips and not a fake $20 with bible quotes on them
@@christophercathcart881 omg that’s terrible. Actually that’s theft. We will calculate always the tip and if someone is short we will pitch in but NEVER ever we would allow someone to not pay tip to waitress/waiters/ drivers or room service people. That’s unfair, unchristian and theft
The fake 20s are FAR more commom than real tips@@uneekaairamas
I have worked at restaurants for 35 years...can confirm, many church folks are some of the most challenging, rude and cheap customers I have experienced. It is truly bizarre. Every Sunday was a roller coaster of entitlement. Not all church tables but a LOT
I've worked at Starbucks for about 10 years, and I absolutely agree with you. Sundays are when we get the worst type of customers. It's like all human decency got used up at church on Sunday mornings
Fun fact: kids who have religious upbringings tend to be more punitive and less compassionate towards others. And of course, those kids grow up into adults who may or may not still behave that way.
When I waitressed I learned this lesson too. Church ppl were sometimes the worst and cheapest.
@@Sleipnirseightcan you kindly provide the link to the study if you have it? I have never heard this. I was brought up as a Christian and taught the golden rule. I am however a spiritual person, no longer stuck in a religious dogma, but it was reinforced in our house forgive others as Christ forgave us for much worse, to treat others the way you want to be treated as what you do unto others you do unto the lord. Perhaps a lot of ppl don’t actually understand the teachings of their religion?
Church groups, being the WORST, was the BIGGEST shock to me when I started working at restaurants 15 years ago.
Agnes out here giving mob energy.
She gangster!!😂
21:55 I’m a property manager and it’s considered illegal dumping. We have to pay for those services and we expect non-residents to refrain from using our trash cans just as I’d expect them not to use the non-residents trash cans.
Someone keeps throwing their dog poop bags in my trash can too. The reason it’s such a problem is bc they do it after the trash has already picked up and the can has already been emptied. I then have to wheel my trash can back to my garage and have dog poop sit in the can for another week. When you clean up your dogs poop, you should take it home and throw it away in your own trash can. Don’t make your neighbors house your dogs poop for a week.
Same!! It got to the point where I had to race out in summer time and drag the bin back up the drive immediately after the collection came around. Otherwise I was stuck with broken/open bags stinking out the bin for days. Plus if they open I have to wash the entire bin. I should not have to clean up after other people's pets. Gross!
In our city they only take trash that's bagged inside the bin, don't tip the bins. So the poop just stays in the bin, stinky!
Right?! The trash company charges us if there are loose poop bags in the bins, too.
I do find the poop kind of annoying. If you have a dog like I do, just get used to carrying poop.
In summer poop gets hot in bin if after trash pickup.
Poop gets stinkier
Poop gets softer
Garbage bag lands on poop
Bag breaks
Poop everywhere
We absolutely love the headband mom for standing up for her daughter even without her daughter saying there is an issue, because I know for a fact when I was younger I just gave all my stuff away for free then my classmates expected me to do that as we got older too. Or Agnes is just forgetful. either way we love the mom.
Yess!!!! Go tell their pastors!! Imagine walking up into church and your pastor gives you that Joey Swoll dad is mad look.
People actually have pastors in us? Old people then? Or is it actually true that young people are forced to go to churches and prey and shit there as we see in movies sometimes!?!? That's so weird 😮😅
(I live in a country where we teach science, not religion, so we're like 80-90% atheists the rest are mostly immigrants from Muslim countries and a few percent I guess is religious even though they should know it's a bunch of bullshit 😂 no offense if you're one of them, it's just really crazy to me. I don't think I know or even know of anyone going to church or actually believing in gods and stuff (except for Muslims a couple of pagans and like some Greek (2gen immigrants) friends parents) except to go to some funerals. And i mean, I'm a 42yo woman, I've met and known a lot of people over the years... don't know anyone who would even consider going to a church just to sit there listening to some fanatic blabbering about jeebus and whatnot 😅 maybe if they join a cult 🙊😂 only heard of one here though, and the leader is in prison for killing his wife so it kinda dissolved after that...
And yes I actually want to know! It may seem like I'm making fun of you, and I'm really not intentionally doing that, just superweird to think about when you're Scandinavian! But yeah im actually curious... like, Is it more of a cultural thing or do y'all actually believe in those fables and afterlife or reincarnation and stuff?
the second lady is a restaurant mgr. named Kellie. her stories are ALWAYS chef's kiss"
when I was a server I just WOULDNT take large groups. just for these reasons. once, I had to actually take control, raise my voice and say "ok everyone! let's sit down and get organized! NOW!"
The Agnes* story, though 😂
I'm a dog walker, and I never toss my clients' dogs or my own dogs poop into someone else's trash barrel. The reason that I feel this way is because I feel it's rude to do, but sometimes the poop bags break inside of the trash barrels.. I have had it happen in my own barrels. So, someone who may not even have a dog has to clean that out of their barrel because it will most likely smell nasty. I now have a separate bucket for my poop bags, haha.
I never throw my dog’s poop in other peoples’ bins for the same reason.
@@chrystiafreelandscankles548 You and Jess are good people! Thank you for being considerate of others, and I bet you are great with your clients fur babies.
I would walk 2 miles holding a bag of dog dookie before stinking up someone else's trash can. We don't know if they store it in their garage, if they're an older person who would have difficulty cleaning the bin, if their trash people don't take dog poop. At my old home if it was a lone poop bag the trash collectors would absolutely NOT take it. Like never.
Unless you know the person and have verified it's ok to toss dog poop in their bin, just hold onto it until you find a public bin or your own bin. It sucks when there aren't a lot of public bins but it's super rude to stink up a stranger's bin. In fact, I don't even put my dog's poop bags in my own bin. I go to a specific public dog poop bin near my home so my garage won't smell.
Thank you. I don't own dogs and the days between trash pickup our trash cans can't be in view of the street, per neighborhood rules. Putting them in my backyard behind the fence means raccoons get into them, but I also have to carry trash from inside the house quite a long way around the outside to put the trash in the outside cans. So, our cans stay in our garage, which opens directly to our kitchen. I do not want my cans to smell like dog poop. Eventually the smell will start to seep into my house. I chose not to own a dog, therefore I shouldn't have to deal with their poop or bad smells. If that means dog owners have to carry a full bag of poop on a walk, oh well. That's part of the consequences of choosing to be a dog owner. Don't like it? Then don't own a dog. So, thank you for respecting your clients' neighbors' property!
I think that's weird trash smells anyway
After my grandma passed all 15 of us gathered at the local restaurant in my hometown, you know what we did? We helped put some tables together, we helped pass out menus, we apologized for being a bother, we stayed quiet, and we tipped over 200 bucks. Because we're not assholes.
You have manners. Your grandma would have been proud. ☺️
Y'all just afraid of grandma whippin' you in your dreams 😂😂
I used to be a chef at a restaurant and I would tell people I was going on a smoke break. I don’t smoke, never have and I would eat my snacks in the smoking area or hide upstairs in the unused kitchen so I could eat. I would work literally 16-18 shifts and being going to school at the same time. To all my kitchen friends, ask for a smoke break, you don’t have to smoke. Just eat a snack learn to trade with your back of house if you are front of house. I used to feed my servers and they would always run food for me. ❤
It's sad you had to do this, but apparently it's all too common. I know and understand the rush and craziness of restaurant work, but at the same time, I will never understand management not wanting to provide their staff with breaks and a shift meal even. Happy, respected workers are an asset to the establishment, not uncomfortable, hungry ones that have to sneak around. Insane.
You can ALWAYS SAY it's a smoke break ❤
HOLD UP! I had to pause my Charlotte Binging session the moment I heard Charlotte was an Albertan Girly!! Always new she was Canadian, and I LOVE supporting my local Canadian creators, but knowing she's from the SAME BACKYARD as me!! Truly wild and so many things make sense now 😂
I used to be a hostess at a Japanese restaurant, and I had a walk in of a singular group that consisted of 38 people. I wasn't gonna take it but my boss was like, "Yeah, we have room!". EVERYBODY IN THAT STORE LOOKED AT HIM LIKE WE COULD'VE KILLED HIM. They were the rudest, loudest, and most annoying people I've ever done had.
Bosses like this only see dollar signs because he’s thinking “not like I have to deal with them” 🤣
When my daughter was about 5 1/2 on the school bus in kindergarten, there was a boy who bullied her. Broke her lunchbox, then ripped her expensive hello kitty overalls (oh my gosh b'gosh outfit - if you know you know) His mom was the school bus driver. Told me had some issues but these things would not continue. They Did. So I finally told my daughter, if were hit, she could hit back. Next day she came home & told me she punched him into the next classroom- he started the violence- everyone saw it. She didn't get in trouble and he never tried to bully her again. I'm a 60 year old Grandma now, that was in the late 80's, but apparently it's still the same. You bring up your child to be understanding & non violent- but there is a breaking point.
Me and my husband told my daughter the same thing the other day, that if someone did something to her and she nicely told them to stop but they continue, she can punch them right in the nose.
oh my gosh b'gosh was the SHIT! How DARE he?!?!
@@phastinemoon right? 😆
That’s a definition of pacifism I’ve heard - you don’t start sht but you finish it, to end the un-peaceful situation.
(Also I had a gosh b’gosh jacket and I LOVED that thing, I’d have been knee-breaking mad if some kid ripped it)
I NEED A PART 3 OF THE HEADBAND STORY
That second lady. She had the patient of a saint. The second she said "Collard greens at an Italian restaurant" I could picture the exact party in my head. Church group who don't go out much. Were supposed to have the pot luck which fell through. lordy having a big revival.
"Ma'am, you shoulda taken that prayer straight to the lord first before coming to ask me, cause he woulda told you not to do it!"
The way I absolutely **cackled** over this line.
My youth group was large, 500-1500 in the years I was there. I still remember one day my pastor stood up and rebuked us for going out and treating servers like this. He said we better not dare drop be dropping our church name or be preaching the gospel if we weren't tipping well or being kind. I am unpacking a lot of what I learned from that church and figuring out what I believe, but it wasn't all bad.
I needed you to say it Charlotte lol..."your poor planning does not constitute an emergency on my part!" That is by far my favorite Charlotteism...we love you!!! All hail Queen Charlotte!
Proper planning prevents piss poor performance
Its actually a quote from Family Guy
@@sarahglover3286 Ah, ok. Well I don't watch family guy, I just thought it was funny lol.
17:45 ok I know that was a joke about telling somebody’s pastor, but there was a group of young people that were so awful that when their pastor came in a few days later (he was a regular), the server told him. He was livid. It’s literally taught that we are good customers at restaurants etc. 😂
When I heard the name Agnes I know the drama will be THICKKK😂
The real crime is naming your little girl Agnes.
@@Rockoblockohow is she 5 and 80 at the same time lol
@@Rockoblocko yes it totally is tho..
@@melissalutz9003 haha real
This is gonna be like Agnes from Despicable Me throwing down over a unicorn toy 😂
Poop in the trash can does matter. Unless you're putting on the top of a full bin and trash is being picked up that morning it's a huge problem. If you toss it in someone's empty bin at the end of their driveway after trash collection they're now stuck with it rotting there until the next pickup. Worse if it breaks open. It's inconsiderate. Depending where you live people pay for trash collection service - it's not for public use. It's also an issue if it's at the bottom and garbage collection doesn't dump the entire can. Now it's stuck there getting crushed under the owner's normal trash week after week. They may not be physically able to clean/fish out your filth from the bottom of their can and they shouldn't have to. Your pet? Your responsibility.
Still can be a problem if you put it at the top of a full bin on trash collection day. Some places fine you for having loose poop bags sitting in the can.
Gotcha. So save it for the Karen neighbors' trash. 😅 (I don't have a dog. It's a joke.)
Amen. If 1 or 2 people do it; whatever. But, many people have dogs, so it's not going to be the odd bag or 2
Exactly .
It is called theft of services.
The first woman’s story telling is my new fav 😂👌🏼 I aspire to be that momma
Olive Garden in northeast Florida pays $3.63 an hour and I’ve been paid $2.38 at a Harry’s Seafood & Grille restaurant as a waitress and they didn’t even offer any benefits … the wait staff pay is literally CRIMINAL 😂
I was a restaurant manager for 25 years, casual dining. Church groups were not something the servers looked forward to. Example: I once paid a server a twenty percent tip from the restaurant’s petty cash. I wrote on the chit (receipt) that went to accounting “ the customers were assholes who stiffed their server.” I was asked about it by my area director and after I told him the story, even he believed I was a “valid expense”. 😂. BTW server wage for my state was and still is $3.35 per hour. My servers made GOOD money cause they were the best, mostly part time college students. 😊
I was a waitress for 20 years- in the south. My state had tipped wage at 2.25. I flat refused to work Sundays unless they threatened to fire me (which they could do for any reason any time) solely because of church groups. Rude, entitled, messy and no tip- I still ended up working plenty of Sundays and can't tell you how many times I got 1 or 2 bucks on a 50 or 70 dollar check. Or no actual tip- just a religious pamphlet about how I was going to hell or needed Jesus. And left more mess than 5 children. I'm shuddering now just remembering it.
You are a hero for compensating that server when the church group did not.
@@mommy2librasI told my dad the other day about how some people bring church tracts that look like money and leave them as a tip. My dad called it pure evil lol
@@mommy2libras I stopped counting the number of times the tip was one of fake 100 dollar bills with gospel inside.
That was really nice to do that for your server but how about paying them a DECENT WAGE to begin with!
Actually, feces is considered a biohazard. So no, you're absolutely not allowed to put it into someone else's bin. Depending on where you live, it's considered fly-tipping, which is illegal.
We get charged if there are loose poop bags in the in when they collect it - makes sense!!
Interesting....didn't know that
I read that in at least one European country, one has to register their dogs' DNA, and any dog poop illegally left in public gets tested, and the owner gets a huge fine. That's serious, but I bet they don't have much problem with people letting their dogs poop anywhere they want.
Not on the west coast, humans are allowed to poo on the street now. DO NOT get food from a food truck.
Yes. Your trash can. Your responsibility. So the logic follows… Your dog. Your responsibility. Walk the dog and the poo bag back home. (I say this as a former owner of two dogs). I’m now a cat owner so I have a different type of poo responsibility 😅
"You should have took this in prayer straight to the Lord first for come to ask me this because He would have told you not to do it" - what a savage reply 😂 by the waitress . I think this would make Charlotte's all time list of savage roasts . The beef was beyond well done . 😊
Yes! It was Olive Garden! She said it was an Italian restaurant and they were bringing out salads, soups, and bread.
I don't think I've ever been fed up by a story so bad.. that Agnes story got me going LOL.. In my Defense though I do also have a four and five year old little girls😂 but in all reality that original poster knows how to tell a story. Man her kicking and going through that tunnel like that had me going😂
The first mum, and how she knocks her daughter’s little tent flying over, is actually hilarious! 😂🤣😆
I legitimately cannot deal!😂
I’m sitting here, at near 4am in the morning, and laughing out loud 🤣
I swear the whole neighbourhood can probably hear me, but I don’t care. This is gold!😂🤣😆
I just hope Agnes doesn’t have head lice🤨
I laughed so hard every time she sent that little tent flying!
I'm not a violent person, but sometimes it just feels good to throw something harmless.
@@LazyIRanch Oh I feel you! My stomach muscles got a good little workout too!😂
I know right?!! I am the farthest from being a violent person, but I know EXACTLY what you mean!! I am guilty of doing it myself🫢😬😳
But geez it feels great in the moment!😂🤣😆
Imagine, Agnes watching this video 10-15 years later and observes > 1 Million people mad at her!! 😂😂😂😂 I love you Charlotte 💗❤
Idk why but smtg abt the way the mother reacted to her 5 year old daughter just being nice was soo HEALING for me, i was also just like her and i also had a friend like Agnes but tone down the maliciousness by a little, but the way my mom reacted when i was taken advantage by her was unpleasant, she got suuper mad at me n loudly informs everyone of how stupid of a thing i had just done n how i should have reacted and idk it just scared me, i started getting of the response i was gonna get from my mother anything related to her to the point i had to make up major ass lies for situations where people could usually be honest n nothing could go wrong but i lied, n hid many things from my mom cus of how she handled the situation- so to that mom- thank you from my behalf for healing a lil smtg i just completely forgot abt.
Peoples trashcans are not public trashcans. Some people don't have pets and don't want it stinking up their cans even more. Plus its a service they pay for. You're not allowed to throw your trash in most business dumpsters either.
💯! I don't have a dog but when I'm dog sitting my canine nephew I don't even put his poop bags in the regular bin. They stink and squish when you put trash on top. I put them in an old empty paint can and put that paint can in last when full. PLEASE don't put poop in other people's trash.
Yes and imagine that on a hot summer day 🤢 I would be murderous with rage
Yes, and here in Florida (and throughout the South, I would imagine) the heat can make the poo in your trashcan stink to high heaven. It's SO unpleasant. In my neighborhood, we only have one trash day, so that poo might sit in your can in the summer heat for six days. Six days!
In my city they are. They are literally plastered with "Property of the City of Xxxx"
Mine is in the alley and it is huge. People drive by and throw amazing things in.
OK, so I have never commented before but this is my time lol. 51-year-old mom here. when my daughter was in kindergarten first and second grade, she had a bully. She would come home upset every day at some thing this other girl had done. Of course, I said the normal stuff that she was jealous and all of that. My daughter ended up, handling it herself and I have stood in the sidelines, watching the other girl grow up because we live in a small town. But I must tell you I low-key celebrate the fact that my daughter is a principal of a school and her bully is a waitress.
😂😂😂 I feel your joy!
I would only say, having been a teacher, you could’ve taught her so much more about the situation. Many bullies have terrible home lives. Some are just jerks. It absolutely does not excuse the behavior but explains that the behavior can be a symptom.
In Sweden we have a sign/symbol on our trash cans that let other people know that it is okey for them to throw their dogs poop or a smaller amount of trash in there, instead of throwing it into the nature/environment 😊 Not every household has it, but we have also many public trash cans spread all over different places and in the neighbourhoods, so you don’t have to walk for long with a the poop bag in your hand 😅😊
Thank you Charlotte for your lovely and funny channel 🙏✨😊 Your videos are always so entertaining and hilarious to watch 😊✨🩷🙏
I'd definitely support the U.S adopting this. I know I'd be fine with someone doing it in most circumstances.
Rather have it in a can getting collected than left on the road.
Sweden is so progressive in so many ways!
Yeah more public trash bins would solve this problem. Cause I think it's nastier to know that there are people walking blocks with poop bags in their hands. That risks more chance of contamination on things. I feel the same over baby diapers. Sanitizer can't do anything when your still carrying it. And poop can carry the diseases something/someone has. The sooner its in a receptacle the better.
ABSOLUTELY NOT!! You take on a dog it is YOUR responsibility to pick up YOUR dog’s poop! Since it is YOUR DOG, it should not be a problem to carry the poop bag back to your own garbage can. You leave it in MY can, I will report you to the authorities!!😡😡😡😡😡😡
6:22 in and I’m so invested, my heart is racing, this is ridiculous and I love your channel!! I’m on my horse ready to ride!!
We went to lunch today, 9 ppl. We paid on 2 cards. The odd 2 out that weren't in the 50/50 split left 100.00 for a tip. They were the only 2 that drank, so we covered the check, and they tipped. Our check was 225.00, but our server was amazing, and my uncle, who isn't supposed to drink but loves wine, when Jen kidnapps him from the home, we break the rules. She makes a red wine, cranberry juice, and splash of seltzer taste good to his 87 yr old self. So we always appreciate her extra effort.
Hearing these horrible customers stories makes me glad I put in the extra time and effort to be as good a customer as I could be for my 30th birthday celebration. I provisionally reserved my table for a party of 16 people 6 weeks in advance (was pleasantly surprised by us being given a separate room), confirmed my reservation and preordered food 3 weeks in advance (even organised the preordered food into a nice, clear table when I emailed it to them), asked if it was OK to bring a cake made by a baker in, arrived early enough to add my own decorations - balloons and flowers - they had said I could bring and then tidied them up after too, kept track of everyone's orders so I knew exactly who had preordered what (thanks to the table I had open on my mobile), checked that everyone had paid and offered to cover anyone who might have forgotten (no one did) and tipped 20%. It was a lot of effort but I am happy to do it for special occasions.
PS I invited friends, church family and neighbours but I can promise we didn't sing. There wasn't even a Happy Birthday to you, which was such a relief.
THIS!! As a server, I have had so many big groups that were so so messy and it made service hell. Only a few gems were like this! Having this empathetic attitude makes such a difference for hospitality workers and I bet they took real good care of your group during service. These kinds of customers are the ones that make the industry seem worth it but unfortunately theres still too many bad nuggets out there
I love the restaurant manager lady 🥹 thank you for being awesome and sticking up for the staff! I had a few managers that were so soft and scared of this kind of bs that is end up looking bad because they would go back on stuff and cater to the rude guests 😅
If your partner says “you suck” you just say “well, not anymore” 😂
When my daughter was 3 and 4 she was obsessed with stickers. Every day she would take a sheet of stickers to daycare and at the end of the day she would have none left. I stayed back one morning to watch what was going on. She would go to her cubby and all her little friends would go over to her waiting for some stickers. So at the end of the day i told her that she didn't have to give away her stickers and maybe she just leaves her stickers at home from now on. She looked me dead in the face and said "why do i have so many stickers if i can't share Mommy? They always let me be the teacher" meaning while role playing she always got to be the boss! You go girl! She's 28, a mother and A FORCE! ❤
She knew what she wanted, I love that!
I used to be a host at Olive Garden when I was in college, and I can confirm that is exactly the crowd olive garden attracts.
I was both a host and a server…I completely understand lol
The first mother is an awesome story teller! This is the first time I'm going to look someone up from these videos!
Lmao "dont be bringing your tambourines...nobody be paying for shows" 🤣🤣
My elementary "Agnes'" were Tiffany and Becky. My "headbands" were Barbie clothes.......still have hate for them. I'm almost 60 y.o. 😂😂😂😂😂
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Even the names fit!
As a former server, i was that one server who handled large parties typically because the rotation of seats and having to auction of food gets real old, and disrupts other tables enjoying their meals around a larger party.
I set ground rules as soon as I introduced myself, telling all large parties to make their dining experience pleasant I would start at the top left corner of the table getting orders, I would go clockwise around the table, where the food was originally ordered at is where the food would be dropped off at. Also I wouldn't allow random people to shout their orders at me. After I recieved everyone's order at the table and had all my seats numbered, i then asked if it was all together or separate at this time if separate checks I would get all that organized and together. Then I would inform the table that I would put their food into the system and be back for refills.
Setting boundaries of how you want to handle the table I feel like is a must. I NEVER allowed tables to walk all over me, and I made sure to train newer servers on how to deal with large groups
"They're asking for collard greens. We're an Italian restaurant."
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The fact that she uses the word “sucker” to describe a lollipop is hilarious.
I need part 3. Did we get the headband back? I'm invested!
Yes me too!
SERIOUSLY!!! DO WE RIDE AT DAWN?! SEND ME THE MEMO
I saw the whole thing. We got back the headband AND the sucker
@@miyannahitchens6195 That's what I'm talking about!!!! Victory!!
She got the sucker. Mama didn’t want to headband back because she was firm on not sharing hair accessories. After getting the sucker the mama got a note from the teacher saying a child had lice in the class and she was so glad she didn’t get the headband back.
17:17 this lady is so lovely! She’s so gracious and has a sense of humor even when complaining about these ridiculous customers.
18:12 Charlotte says "I don't like to judge" when that is literally the foundation of this channel LOL
She actually admits it occasionally😂
"Mommy I got a lizard." The delivery was so cute I could practically see it in Mom's head with the actual kid. She clearly loves that baby so much.
The problem with the pooh in trashcans is people will throw it in the cans after trash pickup and before you can get home to drag your trashcan back into your yard. So now you have multiple bags of pooh stuck to the bottom of your can. And of course rats love to eat dog pooh because of the undigested food. Now you have these busted bags of dog pooh at the bottom of your can and the thrash truck does not completely invert the can so they stay there smelling up your yard, attracting rats and flies. Until you decide one Saturday or Sunday morning to tie a bandana around your nose and mouth, put on some gloves, remove them all and then scrub your can with bleach or some other harsh chemical to get rid of the smell and flies, all while gagging and crying that, "you don't even have a dog!".
EXACTLY!!!!
Yes! Or they prop it on top of your garbage bag instead of putting it inside the garbage bag so your garbage gets rejected and you have a week of garbage build up because someone didn’t want to carry their garbage
It's also illegal to put anything in other people's garbage bins in the US, as it does not belong to your property. It's not a public trash.
15:33 “I am not defending nothing I want them out of here!” Yas Queen, here she come being the villain and I love it. Tea is piping hot with this gal 🤩🫖
The headband mom is the mom we all needed.
I was blessed with my Southern E. Texas Momma who did not suffer fools gladly! I'm painfully shy, but she'd stand up to anyone and "yank a knot in their tail"!
Come to think of it, the only times I DO fight back is when it's for my son. He was bullied constantly in school because he was a "special ed" student.
One day, he came home with both of his ears burned so badly there were blisters. I finally got him to tell me what happened, it was a boy on his bus who carries a lighter, and this isn't the first time he's been hurt by this brat.
My son begged me not to say anything, because the bully was in foster care and had a bad homelife. "It's not his fault that he's mean, Mom".
I'm proud of my son for being compassionate, but NO, this kid doesn't need to bring a friggin lighter to middle school!
Next day, I met the bus and told the driver what happened, and that she needs to take that lighter away. To my shock, she told me that she can't take it because it's his "personal possession".
WHAAAAT!? So if he brings a knife, or gun to school, that's okay too??
He was grinning at me, flicking the lighter, so I snatched it away from him. I told him, and the driver, "I will give this back to his parents, if they want to come talk to me". They never did, and after I told the assistant principal about how the bus driver allowed this child to burn other children on the bus with a lighter, the bratty kid was kicked off the bus. Driver was not fired, though.
@@LazyIRanchTF? That's literally assault. Either somebody's going to jail or hell will be raised. How was that bus driver NOT FIRED?!!! She allowed a child to be burned! I'd have turned into a rabid wildcat.
Troof.
@@paulagoeringer9466 We moved away from that city, which was the Barrio. It was gangland. Our neighborhood was so bad, we couldn't get a pizza delivered because too many drivers had been robbed, and two drivers were killed one street over from us.
For the last 17 years, we've lived off-grid on 20 acres on a mountain, where my closest neighbor is 2 miles away. Its lonely and difficult at times, but I love not dealing with gangbangers anymore.
@@LazyIRanchI'm so glad you got away from all that. I've lived in some pretty rough areas and still do, but hopefully one day I'll be in a better position. I'm not holding my breath though. I bet the clean air and nature must be beautiful there. 🌲
sometimes, when a mother doesn't raise their daughter right, you have to step in and teach that child yourself. I had this with my son. I asked the bullies mom to bring her kid over for a play date and she did. within five minutes I sat them both down and told them their behaviour is unacceptable, why is this going on? that is when bully mom breaks down and says she spends all her time looking after her parents ( both had dementia )and her child is acting out because she cant be there for him every time. Well, I gave her a hug, made her some food and her son, and I said I'll take her son to school for her every morning and take him for a couple of hours every night. Helped me in the long run because he kept my child happy and out of my way whilst cooking and cleaning. Mom got food for her and her family whenever I could afford it. sometime, you just need to see the bigger picture, something may be causing Agnes to act this way!
The headband mom is bouncing through the room like she is training to fight Mike Tyson 😂😂😂
And would almost probably do a better job than Jake Paul will! 🤣🤣🤣
My old restaurant would put *RED FLAG* in the guest notes if there was a problem, so if they came in again, we already knew what happened the visit before.
Was such a great feature
Charlotte’s reaction to Agnes cutting the lizard’s tail is priceless 😂😂😂
Agnes's mom obviously is teaching her these habits. She's saying "Yeah just keep putting it off, they'll forget you owe them eventually or they won't have the nerve to keep asking." I love this fierce mama. I've already watched this video and I'm watching it again because of her. I wear cat ear headbands everywhere. Fuck with my headband I'm gonna do terrible things. 😂 Amazing mom. And those headbands are expensive.
In reference to doggy poop in bins:
I posted this in response to another comment but wanted to also say here so people know. I would walk 2 miles holding a bag of dog dookie before stinking up someone else's trash can. We don't know if they store it in their garage, if they're an older person who would have difficulty cleaning the bin, if their trash people don't take dog poop. At my old home, if it was a lone poop bag, the trash collectors would absolutely NOT take it. Like never. If someone put a poop in our trash we had to turn the bin over, get it out, and throw it away elsewhere. Yuck!
Unless you know the person and have verified it's ok to toss dog poop in their bin, just hold onto it until you find a public bin or your own bin. It sucks when there aren't a lot of public bins, but it's super rude to stink up a stranger's bin. In fact, I don't even put my dog's poop bags in my own bin. I go to a specific public dog poop bin near my home so my garage won't smell.
Also in most places in the USA (not sure about Canada), it's actually illegal and considered a misdemeanor you could be fined for to put your trash in someone else's private trash bin.
Valid points!! On top of all of that, we get charged if we have loose poop bags in our bins. I would never throw something away in someone else's bins, let alone stinky dog poop.
I hope everyone sees your comment! Where I live, we have raccoons, coyotes, and black bears. We have to keep our trash cans in our garage until trash pickup day. I don't have a dog. I don't want to smell someone else's dog's poop in my attached garage.
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Update: Headband mom got a note from teacher that someone in the class had lice and Agnes did bring the sucker thanks to the teacher.
Really???
@@Tea_laBlue yes i saw the update on the mother's instagram
I need to know😂😂
Schools aren't allowed to check for lice or tell anyone a kid has lice here. Like it's totally not allowed. And has been for a while. That's why I'm glad my daughter started online school in 3rd & didn't go back to in person school.
Thank you, I was invested!
I'm a mumma of a child with huge empathy and is far too kind for this world, she's 10 now and it took a LOT to teach that girl how to say no and stand up for herself. She would literally give most of her lunch away each day because one of her friends asked for something or said they wanted something but their parents wouldn't buy them, the poor kid was coming home each day starving. Then there were the playdates where kids were asking for her brand new expensive birthday toys and she'd be like 'sure you can have it'...ahhh, no!
Even now, if she shows me something and I say I like it, she tries to give it to me...even if it's something she absolutely LOVES, she will still try and give it to me. I'm like 'no baby, it's yours, yes I like it, but it belongs to YOU.' 😭
Yeah, around where I live it's a big no no to put trash into other people's cans without asking. My neighbor put a ton of used diapers in my can and the crows got to it which scattered a bunch of diaper particles and other trash down my street. Poop is poop and sometimes you don't want other people's waste in your cans.
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I'll take dog doo bags over diapers ANY day. Hell, let your dog crap all over my yard and just leave it, I won't notice because I have 2 dogs. But the diaper stink would permeate the plastic of our garbage can and I'd be stuck either smelling it every time I take my trash out, buying a new can, or using a giant bag of baking soda and letting it sit in the can with the lid on for who knows how long! (And anyone who knows me can attest to how offensive I'd find it because everyone knows that Phaedie don't do diapies! I will clean, scrub, and sanitize your cat's litter box but I absolutely will not change your human child's diaper.)
I'm a cook and I sneak my servers whatever they want. I am INSANELY protective towards my servers too. They deal with the worst bullshit, the least they need is a friend
Got so invested in the Agnes story. I’m ready to go talk to Agnes and her mother!!!!! 😂
Omg that server story hits hard, I work in a kitchen and this 20 year old just got promoted. She was super helpful before but now she has everyone else do all her cleaning duties and spends HOURS passing a rag by the same spots pretending to “clean”. Power trips are real.
In restaurants, the Sunday lunch rush is a hell shift. In retail, Sunday afternoons are horrible. Same reason: It's the highest concentration of people who think they are better than you that you'll serve all week.
I apologize on behalf of Christians, we're not all that bad (at least I hope I'm not) lol
Yes!
18:11 "Don't you want to be somebody's blessing today?" Ma'am, the fact that you and your party of 25 got sat without a reservation was your blessing.