Okay Ive been following Charlotte for about 3 years now. Anyone else get excited for how quickly that view counter goes up while you're watching? Girl has WORKED to get where she is and I've never seen her look more vibrant. So happy to see things going so well for a dedicated queen.
8:40 “You need to relax” the utter *gall* to act like the wronged *wife* was anything but totally right! She was clearly getting mad at her husband, as she should have been!!
"You need to relax", is such a common thing for AHs with zero accountability to say. It means ," don't have feelings that gives me bad feelings". And ," don't act in a way that gives me headache or any other consequences of my actions".
I know right. wtf? That snarky attitude came in at 100mph. Clearly the wife meant she wanted to pull up on HIM not you. Side chick just has to be the main character
So she said relax because she was sounding like she was finna jump on her ass when as you said she should be mad at the man !!he is lying to both and she had the balls to confirm this before going forward ! So did the wife have the right to talk like she was mad at her NO. Mad at her hubby YESS! Yal woman are going to learn - it’s not the other woman’s fault in ALl cases these men need to get checked and what you ain’t giving him at home HE WILL FIND IT ! I’d be mad but I’d also clarify - THANK YOU FOR CONFIRMING AND LETTING ME KNOW
My husband died July 3rd, 2022. I have not - have zero desire to - can't even fathom - dating or being in a relationship. I miss my husband every single day. He was not perfect - but he was my level and my balance. I can't imagine anyone stepping in to his shadow. I will say this - I have had male friends who are married - help me with things that I can't do. Only one has "hit" on me and I shut that down immediately. It's gross - not just to the memory and respect of my late husband - but to his wife. Which makes it even worse - my husband would never do that and it hurt my heart knowing that a friend who I thought was as lucky as me to have a good man - was betrayed by him. Made me sick. Made me miss my guy even more.
My condolences on the loss of your husband. I, too, lost my husband in July of 2022 on the 30th. Take all the time you need for yourself. Blessings to you!
I’m sorry for the both of you. My best friends husband died. I was unemployed at the time so I was there almost everyday. I felt her and her family’s pain. I just tried to help where I could and let her talk about it as much as she wanted. It’s been like 7 yrs now and every now and then, something triggers her and feels like she’s back at the time it happened. I wish you both peace and happiness. ❤
My condolences, and thank you for sharing. I hope you are doing well. My father passed away in 2015 (at 59), and my Mum is now 70 this year (they are the same age). She has not dated since, nor does she have any interest in ever dating again. She also has male friends who are married, and one of them is our neighbour! who comes down and helps her with stuff... and yes, stays for hours, days on end (he literally is a handy-man by trade). But my Mum is ALSO friends with his *wife* and sees her regularly too! I did not think the first story sounded that fishy until he started mysteriously leaving for work. A few of her male friends that are divorced have tried hitting on her, but she shuts it down. She said she is happy to be enjoying her quiet time, and honestly still misses my Dad and cannot imagine dating anyone else. I think she would agree with what you said -- not only is it disrespectful to your husband, but to the guys WIFE as well, if anything were to happen. Especially when they were all friends! 😭
As a betrayed spouse....i can firsthand tell you it takes YEARS to get over the gaslighting and manipulation you are put through by a spouse who is stepping out. It causes like literal CPTSD type trauma to your brain and takes SO much to heal from. DON'T ever cheat...just leave if you are that unhapoy. There is NO justification for infidelity when there are SO many other choices you can make.
@mysticmama_3692 Couldn't have said it better myself. I was actually diagnosed with C-PTSD while going through leaving my daughter's father, because of DV. It was awful. I truly hope you're doing better now. ❤
@@blueseptember2174 I promise you it just takes time. After going through therapy because of a crappy spouse (and childhood SA), I can tell you that my psychologist said that is usually takes a person half the length of the relationship to get over a broken heart, and/or, usually at least a few years after a trauma-filled relationship. Give yourself grace and just surround yourself with good friends & family, and put dating on the back-burner. We have to truly learn to love ourselves again (especially if you get beaten down feel like a shell of a person), before we can even think about sharing ourselves with somebody else again. You'll know when it's time to get back out there! Just be patient with yourself. It's okay to be sad and cry, just don't stay _"there"_ too long! Big hugs from afar! ❤
@blueseptember2174 yes. I'm much better than I was right after discovery and that first year afterward. The constant ruminating, nightmares, and triggers do fade as you process everything. I promise. It won't always feel as raw as it does that first year. It does take a long time to get your self confidence back...and to stop second guessing yourself all the time with everything because of the gaslighting you were put through. It's like your innocence was shattered and you will never trust anyone completely again. If you've chosen to stay...the work you have to put in is so much harder than if you walk away. So if you did stay, don't let anyone shame you for that...it takes so much more strength to stay and do the hard work than it does to just walk away on your own.
@mysticmama_3692 thank you. I did stay the first time. We had one great year then together before he lost it again acting crazy. So this time I left for good. I've been on my own for a few years now but it became official just recently.
The audacity of that women (even if she lost her husband) decided in her grief to steal another woman’s husband and even co-signed the husbands cheating behavior. Disgusting.
You can't "steal" a husband without his consent and participation. Men aren't helpless snowflakes. He made the decision to cheat and she took part in that decision. But let's put the primary blame where it belongs - on the dude who actually took the wows.
She acts just like the mother of my kids she did things like that I was the only man she dated who was NOT married, dating or in a relationship in over 20 years that I've known her
Kinda makes you wonder if they were fooling around even before the other husband passed….? It seems the “asking for help” just gave them license to do whatever they wanted WHENEVER they wanted.
I recall seeing a story where a woman told her cheating partner to do a bunch of stuff in order for her to stay with him and forgive buuuut she planned on leaving anyway. She just wanted to have him to humiliate himself (further) in order to get some kind of justice/payback. That's diabolical and I support her process.
That one with the girl 'checking' if the husband is actually separated from the wife 6 months after the affair started. As soon as she used the line 'I'm doing you a favour' I was like 'no, no, no, no, no... if you were doing her a favour you would have made contact with the wife to check the relationship status 6 months ago'.
@@Roses-lilacthis. I ask men a series of questions. 1. Are you married? 2. Are you single? 3. Is there a woman who believes she is your woman? 4. How many children do you have? 5. How long have you been single? 6. How long have you been divorced? Normally before question 4, I have the information I need to determine if he has a woman. And even after that, if we make it to a date, I ask the same questions in different ways. Men play all day, but so do some women. A lot of women don't even ask men about their relationship status and a lot of men lie.
Exactly. I accidentally had 1 date with a married man, and I let the wife know the same day. It was back before social media, so I had to be smart about it, but I felt bad for her. She was a little older than him and overweight, and that was apparently his justification for cheating; he "deserved" a younger, petite woman. He wasn't even smart about hiding he was married! He brought me back to his house after a date to watch movies and drink, and I thought it was weird that he claimed his room was an empty guest room with just a twin bed in it. So, I went to the bathroom and wrote a note (I have ADHD so I carry a small note pad with me every where) folded it up, and stuck it under one of her diet pill bottles. I figured it was some where he wouldn't look, but she would. About a week later, I got an angry call from him, calling me a bitch and asking if I was happy that I ruined his life. I don't think he liked my "she left you? Then yeah, I'm happy. At least she can do better than you now " The creep even tried calling months later "now that he's single", lol duck no.
@@Kaastengelsyeah the wife had a right to be mad the side chick didn’t have the right to be trying to fight her. I think that’s what is being said here.
I read the situation as the side woman being concerned that the wife would come over and physically attack her when she didn't know that her boyfriend had been lying. Yes, I think it's suss to date anyone who isn't actually divorced yet, but I can't blame her for being scared that she might be a victim of 'shoot the messenger'.
But it does track when you hear the girl didn’t think to check throughout the 6 months. Like. That amount of time knowing he had a wife (“separated” or not) says something about her as well.
IDK. I wouldn't date someone who moves on that quickly after a divorce. It shows you didn't care about the other person and that you don't take your relationships seriously.@@katl6426
Only a dozen or so (unfortunately!), and with a good lawyer on the cheaters side, can be hard to prove. You would be surprised what people can explain away even with video. I mean, unless it’s the actual act in progress 😂😂😂
Adultery is a felony in Michigan and a few people have been charged and convicted, but the supreme count overturned the sentence in the one case and the other conviction was overturned. I don't know if there have been others, but I did find those 2 when I googled it. Lol
10:08 she was doing entirely too much. The wife was absolutely not mad at her and angry with her husband. That was really weird, almost seems fake. The side chick that is.
If this is real, which I doubt, it was guilty conscience coming out. Like I said though IF this is real, she knew he was married but “about to be divorced” is code for “fully married and wants to cheat” So if this real the wife was immediately saying “I’m gonna pull up and go off on him” and the affair partner thought she meant come fight her or something so I can see her getting somewhat defensive being like “hey I was calling to tell you out of respect cause I wasn’t sure, but he said this” but she KEPT with the attitude. But again, it seems super sus how calm that convo (and how loud it was considering she said he was sleeping) lol
Yeah the side chick was being hella aggy. That shit had *me* hot just watching the video so that wife deserves a fucking medal for still being respectful and reasonably calm in the face of her husbands affair AND his side chick being aggressive and weird. I honestly think (if this is even actually real) that she was expecting the wife to blame her, because that happens so often, so she almost deluded herself into thinking that’s what was happening. She was on the defensive immediately and when you’re already defensive, hearing “Where do you live at because now I feel like I need to pop up” probably sounds a lot like “I’m showing up to fight both of y’all”.
My ex husband cheated on me with someone he met and he started sleeping with her after about a week. He moved her into my house while I was away on military duty. Now his best friend who is also married asked me if I was looking for a boyfriend. Really?! After the hurt being cheated on caused me, he thinks I'm going to inflict that pain on another woman? Even if I wasn't cheated on I would never. Absolutely not.
The funny thing is, he was cheated on by his first ex wife. And he was afraid I would cheat on him when a friend of mine was going through a financial catastrophe and I offered him a place in my house till he could get on his feet. My friend...who I look at like a brother...is also gay. So I don't know what he was worried about there. And he was the one who cheated.
The woman was so rude to the wife, goodness gracious! She should have been more apologetic and asked if they could team up against him, including in court! 😤
If it's even true, how both of them act feels really... staged to me? Also, her being sassy about "well we've only been screwing five months, not six" and other stuff like.... Yeah, no. If it IS real she's a POS probably trying to steal him fully from her. And she clearly isn't actually bothered by being the other woman, he's still sleeping soundly in her bed instead of being tossed out upon "finding out" she's been lied to.
@dreamfeatherbolts unfortunately it's very real there's more videos of this saga and she actually pulled up and dumped all of her husband's stuff on that lady's yard and said keep him and a lot of arguing
Ever since you and Mike got engaged I swear every video you just look better and better and glowingggg !!! I’m so glad you found happiness cause I can remember videos where you thought you’d never find your person or get married lol. So happy for both of you
After my divorce I had one of my friends husbands hit on me. I immediately shut that down and never hung out with them again. It's a shame that there are so many immoral people out there.
Grandma told me of a relative of ours who owned a farm she had converted into a chicken farm where she and her husband were raising their family. He was a door-to-door salesman. He died suddenly, and as the farm was situated between three towns that were his circuit, the death notification in the three towns. When the funeral occurred, his 3 other wives and their children showed up, with each not knowing of the others. Our family history is nuts... 😂❤
@dhf161 I know, right! But to be fair, Grandma did say wife number 2 was the only one not pregnant, and her youngest was 3 or 4 years old. She was also the one who dumped her kids on wife number 1 and left. Wife number 1 then got the relatives to help convert outbuildings into homes for wives 3 and 4. Grandma did not give the timeline either, so these relatives could have been from the 1800s for all I know... . Husband provided, although how? They were losing their homes because of his death except wife number 1. She inherited from her grandfather because she was married, according to Grandma. 🤗💖
Charles Kuralt had two families. A woman told me about the time her Mom found out her husband was somewhere he shouldn't have been. Mom dressed them up in their nice clothes, like they wore to church. She put them in the car and drove to the other woman's house. She knocked on the door, asked to speak to her husband, and when he came to the door, gestured to the kids and said in effect, "You explain this to your children!"
LIke she was mad at the wife that her husband lied to her. She is not his mother or keeper. I liked the dialogue. -I want to come there and confront him. Where are you? -NO! Why is he with me here when you are still together? -OK, you can keep him. -No YOU can keep him. Ok I'm telling you where we are so you can come and collect him.
I don't understand cheating. Breaking up is an option. Divorce is an option. But I do appreciate when people who are the affair reach out to the cheater's partner and let them know what's going on. I despise people who start relationships without ending the first one and dragging someone else through the mess without their knowledge.
They want multiple partners but also like to have someone waiting at home for them and playing house with. It is exciting for them to cheat, the forbidden fruit seems more sweet and all that crap. Also they like some aspects for their passionate love affair partners but other aspects of their spouses. Sometimes they don't just want to lose money in a divorce and pay alimony or child support or only have visitation rights with their kids. So multible reasons. Basicly lots of people are dishonest scumbags.
This! I was with a asshole for 3 maybe 4 months and my only 2 best friends (they are married and I was living on their couch at the time) they despised him and everyone (me including) realized I was just with this aweful human being because I was depressed and lonely and desperately wanted someone to love me because I have so much to give and had gotten out of a 5 year toxic relationship just about a year or so ago before this relationship. My besties finally convinced me he was not it... they actually brought a guy over to see if I found him cute and hook us up 😂 (I didn't know this at the time) well I found him very cute and funny etc and when he left with my friends husband for a work dinner they had I told her he was really cute and nice and she instantly texted her husband to talk me up to his friend and see what his friend thought of me 😂 I didn't know she did that but she said he was single after my comment and I dumped the jackass I was with that instant!! Was it kinda a bitch move? Yea but he swindled over 1k out of me within the last 3 or 4 months and I only worked at dairy queen at the time so basically every paycheck went to this asshole and i started to get the feeling he had a whole ass wife at the end anyways so fuck him! Been with my friends coworker ever since and WE ARE ENGAGED NOW!! 🎉 it's not hard to just break up when you are no longer interested
My hubby became a butler for a wealthy woman. It lasted three weeks, she belittled him, forced him to do yard work, chores, take her to restaurants for lunch daily. She treated him so poorly that he said she’d better find someone else who could take her toxicity!! He appreciates his life so much more now. Also she was inebriated CONSTANTLY…my hubby has now been SOBER for two years…he said “DRUNKS are UGLY.” ☝️😅…whew!
Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.
Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!
Yes baire_tyler1, I have a similar experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD, and addiction, and mushrooms have significantly contributed to my recovery and being clean today.
I wish those were more accessible here. Microdosing was the next thing I planned for my husband. He's 59 & facing many mental health issues, probably CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma for 8 days. Sadly, I had to get a TPO because he's 6'6, over 300 pounds, and displaying violent behavior, always talking about hurting others. He's really aggressive. If anyone out there knows about BPD, is it common to have an obsession with violence?
My husband erupts but he is the one with all the bad thoughts thinking that I’m thinking that he’s up to something ? So I get treated with no love treated like dirt and I just don’t know what to do we have things that woukd need to go 50/50 ? And I feel he had man where he wants me ? He never was like he is now we have no relationship? We don’t even sleep together we are nothing and all he dies in his 50s playing games while I sit there waiting to have time with him but he doesn’t I’m so depressed I’ve given 200% into our marriage were he gives fuck all maybe 25% because we have kids ! My youngest will turn 18 this year will this year be the year that things secretly gets to show its self and what he will do ? He is so cold and thinks that he knows what I’m thinking ? Thus has to stop he has no idea what I think and I know this man who once loved me but now only cared about himself and nothing I do matters . He knows he’s broken me and my heart so why is he still with me . I feel so alone in a marriage that isn’t a marriage . I loved him but now my love is just not there not after so much abuse . Telling me he stopped loving me 13?/14 years ago? Why make me suffer and go through mental and physical abuse for so long !! We’ve been together for 21 years ? I can’t carry on living this way and I think it’s going to hurt becoming my own person but at least I’ll be alone but not alone in a marriage! I need help and don’t know what to do . I’m scared and don’t know how to live a life alone when we got together he took control of everything and i believed it’s was because he loved me ? But it was control taking away myself confidence that’s I don’t have I’m in my 50s and I guess I’ll spend the rest of my life alone . That scares me and my boys will stay with him and not me . I made those kids love their dad . I have nothing to offer my kids . Like money the business that I pushed him to start but he had no confidence when I gave him that belief? Until we did it and he quickly became distant and locked me out of our business that I told him we could . And now we hardly talk I’d an argument breaks out he speaks to me like I’m dirt it’s awful how he speaks to me . I’m in such a hole and depression but I think that’s what gives him strength.
The first woman definitely watched a lot of Charlotte's videos . She was not hysterical rather she was calm , cool and collected in serving a very cold dose of revenge on her philandering (soon-to-be-ex) husband . Also making sure she had the money to make a fresh start . She is a Duchess of Petty . 😊
Did she sell the car the same day she found out he was at the motel?, and sell it before he got home? When did he get home?, did she buy a house and furnished it the same day??. I need more details in stories 😂
@@tarshay27yea that part confused me too but she did say he would go on week long “business trips” so I’m assuming that trip to the motel lasted weeks which gave her time
That girl calling the wife is super rude. And she’s clearly mad at her man and not her. She doesn’t sound like she’s checking, she sounds like she’s trying to break them up so she can get him to herself.
Exactly! What did she think the wife would say? She was just finding out her husband is a liar and a cheat. And she was trying to work with the gf and get him. She was way out of line and trying to keep him for herself. She was mad at the wrong person.
@@CharlotteDobrei posted an AITA story for you to read a while ago, just wondering if you've seen it? It's "AITA for ending the friendship ". I'd really love your advice. Love your channel!!
A fellow parent and I squealed over the excitement that we both listen to you today. We literally jumped in excitement 😊❤ we love you, Charlotte & Mike
I had two firm rules when I dated back when I was single. 1. Must be divorced. Not separated, not in the "process of divorcing." If he can't end it with his "ex" then he can never commit to you. 2. I would not date a man if I was his first "date" after a divorce. I refused to be someone's rebound.
Kudos! And I’m the same with your #1! If you aren’t divorced or single…don’t want you. I never thought about #2 but that’s smart. I may borrow that one from you.
I was with my now husband for almost 2 years before my divorce was finalized. I literally haven't spoken to him since the day we separated, not even during the divorce. Like I was with my now husband longer than my actual first marriage was. Not all not-yet divorced people are scum bags. Just food for thought.
10:13 that wife was so calm why is she being rude to that man’s poor wife. I feel like she wanted an issue but the wife had class. I get that you’re upset with your man but be upset with HIM
Yeah, that’s crazy. Why is she so mad at the wife? Wife was pissed at the husband. I get being upset to find out you’re the other woman, but don’t take that out on the wife.
Um she was calm before the wife got an attitude. If people give me an attitude when I'm trying to help them then be prepared for my attitude. I give what I get.
13:49 that girl and mirko are best friends. unfortunately her husband passed away, and mirko is his best friend. before her late husband passed he asked mirko to promise to take care of her for the rest of her life since her wont be here to🩷 sad story but i love those two genuinely
I've definitely been where you are - I'm only here today because when I was at my lowest (more than once!) I only didn't unalive myself because my dad did ( not the time he slit his wrist in front of me!) And I'm stubborn. Whatever the reason there is NO situation or problem that cannot be solved/fixed except for death! I often struggle with my MH when "things are going well" You are loved, we need you here, THIS WILL PASS XXX
Here's the thing all of y'all seem to be forgetting.....with the sidechick, not only was she rude ASF to THE WIFE and wrong for that, but she also ADMITTED that she "thought he had told her about them and left her months ago" um WHAT?!? Meaning she KNEW she was the side piece...for MONTHS... girl only mad at herself 🙄
Actually, she just gave video evidence that it is her truck in her name only, not necessarily paid for by her. He can go to court with the video and sue to be paid back for any payments he has made. This may end up biting her. Be careful what you post online.
13:37 For those who don't know, the guy she is talking to is her late boyfriend's best friend. Sadly he passed away from cancer a few years ago so Mirko is Kaitln “brother” or her late boyfriend best friend/ now protector before he passed he asked him to protect his girlfriend. Hope this helps.
The entitled audacity of the second lady. Like she should've exited stage left when he said 'basically divorced'. Basically doesn't mean an existing divorce!
Yea, honestly that was stupid of her. I would say she should have asked him to let her know when divorce is finalized or when have the papers. However, in actuality, if the guy was already looking for someone else before getting a divorce then that should have shown he has awful character. However the girl had awful character too apparently, so i guess they are a match... i will say this, as long as you pay attention to someone's personality and actions with you and others, and what they say and how they say it... then you will rarely be in such stupid relationships.
My friend offered her husband to me when I was recently single and he was great, I really appreciated both of them for their support. Then again I would never go after a man who was involved with someone else, any one who cheats with you will easily cheat on you!
You’re making your friends husband seem like a prostItute, a sIave or a sacrifice… “offered” her husband to you? What does that even mean?? I think there might be far better ways to word that 😅 sounds like your friend is giving her husband away like a foster cat or Halloween candy! I’m not trying to be rude or pry into your life, this comment just caught me SOO off guard with the way it’s worded 😅 thank you for the giggle tho, I really needed that today!
The first story the lady didn't do anything wrong selling the truck. It was under HER name. Yes it was his truck but by law and all the paperwork, her name was on the car. She gave boss queen energy.
@Lamya0910 why wouldn't he get the house they were living in while he was cheating? They technically have two houses so it makes sense that each would get one 😂😂
That's not queen energy. Queen energy is smart, logical, and legally planned out. Not emotional!!! She sold the truck while still legally married = she needs to produce receipts and divide the money (yes, he can sue & win). She bought a house & furniture = once again he can sue & win. And she made a social media post 😂
Cheating is a form of abuse. Cheating should have the same criminal consequences as spousal abuse and possibly reckless endangerment because of the issues with STI's.
Good Morning Petty Potatoes! ❤ That grin on your face when she said, do I wanna be petty? And I'm like, yes, yes, you do. 😁 My mom took my stepdad's favorite truck in the divorce, and she's still driving it, and he's never been able to find another one like it. 😂
I appreciated the editor throwing in the little "bang" each time Charlotte hand chopped her desk! I love the hand chop! That's how you know she for real for real!
Ha ha. This week alone I have found myself yelling out "the audacity" and in a conversation said 'my flabbers are gasted'. I am almost fluent in potato
I love that Charlotte’s always preaching for safety. She’s definitely right about checking out these guys you meet online. I’m not into into app dating because I’m single parent and the concept terrifies me, but if I was to do it, I would be running any potential names through the registries to to make sure that nobody has any suspicious convictions, our safety comes first❤
Besties, never forget these wise words: A scrub is a guy who thinks he's fly, And is also known as busta. Always talkin' about what he wants, And just sits on his broke ass. Absolutely not! We don't want no scrubs. * It might not be verbatim, but their message lives on. ⬆️⬇️⬅️➡️🙏🏻📿
the little ''bang'' edits when charlotte banged her hands on the table cracked me up. i love the edits on her vids, doing a great job editor, keep it up
My ex cheated on me after 4 years together. It broke my heart, honestly. But now that i know the truth, i feel better. I'm more happy alone that with someone who doesn't love and respect me.
I’m laughing about sharing husbands bc we have a neighborhood saying that my girlfriends “have a John”(my husband’s name) bc he’s always being borrowed for mechanical repairs, snow removal, heavy lifting, etc, bc none of them are married. However, he’s also 76 & in no ‘condition’, so to speak, to cheat. They all love having his help, & he loves feeling useful in his older years. PS - thank you, Charlotte, for reminding young daters to do background checks!! I’m 61 & have no interest in ever dating again, but when I was younger & background checks were a whole lot harder to arrange, I was still doing them on potential dates. Stay safe as possible, there are lots of creeps out there!
As a gay guy that was in a straight relationship for two and a half years even though I knew I was gay but was scared and in denial- It is SO EASY to not cheat on your partner. Just man up and leave. You have to admit to yourself yes it will hurt them when you leave but you can't keep living a lie and they deserve someone who can love them the way they deserve. I feel bad for him since he is most likely going through a lot of struggling emotions, but he shouldn't have cheated point blank period. I understand why she was so pissed and hopefully he'll learn for the future to be honest and respect the people he gets involved with.
It’s hard to have sympathy for someone who cheats on you while living rent free in your parents basement. You have it right. It’s not that you date women before you are ready to step into your truth, it’s the cheating. Likely he will cheat on a boyfriend too.
I hope your break up with your ex partner was peaceful. I'm still friends with my ex bf. When he came out to me, my only concern was that it took him so long to do so because he didn't want to hurt my feelings (we had been together for 6-7 years, starting from grade 7, and he had discovered his sexuality early in it). But other than that, I was very calm and supportive of him.
He could have also just been a bi guy who did like her but decided to cheat with guys because it'd look less suspicious. (This isn't a call to hate on bi people, please don't be weird in replies. Cheaters come in all shapes and forms and I'm prefacing now it's not a 'only this person does this.' type of behaviour. I'm just saying cheaters get the thrill from doing something they shouldn't, and largely it all comes down to sneaking around thrills. Cheating is calculated as fuck, don't let anyone fool you into thinking it isn't.)
@@TheLalacream unfortunately, I tried very hard to remain their friend but they felt like I had been lying to them. And honestly I can't even be upset with them because I was lying to myself too.
11:49 she lost her boyfriend to cancer and she’s trying to move on. It’s been a while since he passed away, but I love that she’s in your videos. ❤❤❤❤❤
Some people have tattoo's and others have piercings as forms of self expression...i have multiple piercings and i live to see how Charlotte styles her ears...and the earrings combo she has in this video is absolutely stunning. 😍 Love you girl
I know this is long, but it's too short to post on your Reddit page. I just had to share. We had a neighbor whose husband passed away 2 years ago. At the time the below occurred, she was 63 so about 13 years older than my husband and 16 years older than me. By the point of the below story, we had been neighbors for about 20 years. She and her husband had known our twins since they were 18 months old. Our kids even called her Nonna and her husband was Nonno (what their grandkids called them) and we were fine with that. Anyway, I digress. After her husband passed she would ask us for help once in a while and of course, we would help as we viewed her as an elderly widow who needed help. But then she just asked for help with things only my husband could do, and it got to the point that she started needing help at least twice a week. But again we wanted to help as we viewed her as family. This went on for about 6 months, then suddenly, my husband started asking me to go along with him again. He said he wasn't 100% sure but he felt like she was flirting with him and now was starting to get more aggressive. I thought he was being silly but agreed to go. The first time she did seem a little flustered that I went along. The second time she asked me, "Don't you have your chores? No need for you to tag along." But, I told her it was fine. The third time I excused myself to the bathroom. When I came back I saw she had my husband backed up against the kitchen counter and he had his hands up like he was ready to push her away. I immediately grabbed my phone and started recording, but did not give away I was there. I then heard her tell my husband, "You know
Woah, how awful!!! I've had friends who were like family betray me too, but this is on another level! 😮 Hope you and your husband are doing well in life. 😊
Wow what a story! What did the daughters mean by the mom being. Truthful about handling the death? Truthful about what? About her feelings, or about money or something else?
The girl who called her boyfriend’s wife sounds like the type of person that wants a best friend out of this like in a fairytale sounds like she was expecting her “good well“ to be taken with only respect. She’s acting like the woman should not have been angry at all to the fact that her husband was cheating basically
I was dating a guy once who said he was divorced and then his wife called me one day. Turns out he wasn’t divorced just a cheater and we became friends and I helped her with her divorce by providing proof he was cheating and helping her get full custody of her kids. So sometimes it happens lol
As a polyamorous female, one thing i fear, especially with this whole strictly parallel relationship dynamic bloomimg heavily within the community, How do i know you're being ethically non-monogamous and not cheating? Omce upon a time, it was extremely common for you to verify with the spouse, long-term partner, committed partner, etc, that they KNEW their partner was dating other people. Nowadays, their main partner refuses any type of contact, so you can't verify they indeed do know whats happening. I am surper f*ing cautious with dating, and my hubs is more than happy to give verification in any way that makes my other partners comfortable. It's a shame that cheaters now use being non-monogamous as a catchphrase to convince people they're on the up and up.
Friends and I use the term "non-consenual polygamy/polyamory" to make fun of cheaters. But I agree. It's hard out here for real polys. I posted an entirely too long personal story in another thread about how I got involved with someone who was cheating with me on the wife he swore multiple times didn't exist. I learned my lesson. As long as people don't want to have honest conversations, cheaters gonna cheat.
I personally still require to talk to the other partner. If they say their partner doesn’t want to meet then I say we’re done. I’m not taking the risk of being the other person. If you can’t explain to your partner that I at least want to meet once to check if they truly consent in this, then it’s a situation I’m not entering
fr. if the paramour doesn't want contact we're not dating, hard-line boundary. you're an item, a unit, I'd like for us to be friends but at least let's have an open line of communication, shit's complicated enough lol.
I know a lot of ppl can’t even consider staying with a cheater but sometimes when you just had a baby with someone it’s not always that easy to just leave and she had two kids with that guy.
People who live double lives for any stretch of time genuinely impress me in the worst way. Like just how do you handle taxes and holidays with TWO WHOLE ASS FAMILIES?!? I can barely handle myself and I’m already so stressed like how do these people function? HOW ARE YOU NOT EMBARRASSED?!?
The tax question is fascinating to me actually. Do they file taxes twice under the same name? I don't think that's possible since it's the same social security number. If they use a fake name they also need a fake SS number, which would make that identity fraud.
@@lyra2282 okay so my neighbors dad did this. The way he did it? Had his wives file their own taxes. Then he'd file separately as well... Oh and with access to both families' finances he'd play the role of "hubby with money", often favoring his original family financially so he could spend more time with his second wife.
No but like how do you actually of your own free will decide to deal with twice as many people?! Like forget the big things, one partner and all the humans i have to have contact with in everyday life is more than enough for me. AND YOU'RE TELLING ME SOME PEOPLE LOOK AT THAT AND THINK "HMMM, HOW BOUT I MAKE THAT DOUBLE?" I literally can't
Ok, I must watch as much true crime as Charlotte when I instantly thought in the first video "Hmmmmmm....DID the woman's hubby pass from aN ACcIdENt?!"
The same thing happened to a good friend of mine as in the first story. They were close to the next door neighbours, then the husband was killed in a car accident. My friend husband started to help out a lot and then he left her for the neighbour. It was a mess!
I'm a widow & never once have I even thought about stealing my friends & neighbours husbands. I'm just grateful that those husbands have always been happy to help when needed & that their wives have never had to worry about the possibility of anything happening, because all of us are decent people
10:45 I’d say that the one who made the call was rude because she was mad about being lied to and fooled. She’s definitely aiming her anger in the wrong direction for sure.
The reason men are less likely to post those kinds of videos, is because for most men, if their partner cheats, then they are embarrassed to admit it. While they still blame the cheater, they also see it as a reflection on themselves. So, while a lot of women have no problem publicly shaming a cheater, most men are more inclined to hide it, as it's also hiding their own failure (or what they feel is their failure, anyway).
My step dad was an over the road truck driver for years after him and my mom first got married. Everything was basically under my mom's name as she had the best credit score of anyone I've ever known, but he was in charge of paying most of the bills. Somehow, he could not pay the mortgage. Keep in mind that he was paid very well because he was also making hazard pay due to what he was hauling, you had to wear a hazmat suit as the materials could not be inhaled. My Mom and I are pretty sure he was living a double life. I am almost certain of it because any time he and I would go out to dinner without my mom or mom was meeting us there, he'd be flirting with the waitresses and talking crap about my mom as long as she wasn't there. He was and is an absolute garbage human being that I'm glad she's gotten rid of. No one man or woman deserves to have a partner who treats them like this. The only good thing to come out of it is the fact that I learned how I did not want to be treated and found the most wonderful man I've ever known, we've been married for almost 13 years now.
One thing i will say for the first story... when my dad left my mum one of our close neighbors did come and help out with handy things my mum couldn't do/afford to hire someone for, given she had 4 kids to raise. We were close with their whole family and nothing inappropriate ever came of it (yes I am 100% sure) Sometimes neighbors can be like extended family and help eachother out. It's disgusting how some people take advantage of this mentality in their trusting spouse.
19:38 if she was going to stay with him and work it out she should have gone to marriage counseling. She didn’t need to take her child out in public and make a video about it. That will be on the internet forever for her children to see. I understand she is furious and wants to humiliate him because she wants some type of revenge, but if they somehow work it out and get past it then she’s probably not going to want her children, family and friends to know about it. And he’s probably just doing it because “it’s cheaper to keep her” than pay child support and alimony.
Her having the baby in the middle of this really pmo. Even if you do choose to air your dirty laundry, leave your kids out of it... some people just don't get it.
The wife was rather appropriately directing her ire at her *husband* and the mistress did not want to deal with that cognitive dissonance that her new boo is old doodoo.
First story: To the person who commented she had no right to sell the truck - guess dummy missed the part where the truck was in HER NAME the sale was valid. Second story - other girl has no reason to be aggressive towards the woman she just told her husband was messing around with. I'm on the side of the wife full stop. Fifth story: Gym "meetup" - Story teller was very calm telling the story...even if separated I'd be a wreck. Sixth Story: Why would you want to stay w/someone who's cheating, going around every where you go telling ppl he cheated. That's not the flex you think it is sweetie. Most men don't throw their dirty laundry out there on Social Media. lol
😂 I noticed this morning that it's the petty things that get my blood flowing the most 😂 on either side of the tracks 😂 ❤ you Charlotte!!! Thank you for being an inspiration ❤
5:44 I'm not Japanese so correct me if I'm wrong but I believe there's something like compensate that the spouse or partner receives from the cheater and their affair partner.
@@OrangenkraftNorth Carolina one of them…alienation of affection. Our old neighbor stupidly cheated on his Hispanic wife from the Texas barrio. The judge forced the woman in question to turn over the Birkin bag collection he bought for her and the husband had to give her A GREAT DEAL of money. Mr. Tiger laughed at him: “Dude, you cheated on a woman that eats chile ice cream. My New Mexican wife eats that with her. You are a fu*king idiot.”
Yes, it's called Legal obligation to Fidelity. In Japan, if a spouse commits adultery, the non-cheating spouse can legally claim compensation (damages) from the cheating spouse, and even potentially from the third party involved in the affair, depending on the circumstances; this is considered a breach of the legal obligation to remain faithful within a marriage.
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Okay Ive been following Charlotte for about 3 years now. Anyone else get excited for how quickly that view counter goes up while you're watching? Girl has WORKED to get where she is and I've never seen her look more vibrant. So happy to see things going so well for a dedicated queen.
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I love it!
Same! ❤
I follow her almost 5 years now. Charlotte FOREVER😂❤
She been kissed by cupid and she GLOWING WITH ❤❤❤❤
It's wonderful to see a fellow petty T. gal living her bestest life ❤
8:40 “You need to relax” the utter *gall* to act like the wronged *wife* was anything but totally right! She was clearly getting mad at her husband, as she should have been!!
"You need to relax", is such a common thing for AHs with zero accountability to say. It means ," don't have feelings that gives me bad feelings". And ," don't act in a way that gives me headache or any other consequences of my actions".
I know right. wtf? That snarky attitude came in at 100mph. Clearly the wife meant she wanted to pull up on HIM not you. Side chick just has to be the main character
Idk, it seemed she was getting mad at the girl.
So she said relax because she was sounding like she was finna jump on her ass when as you said she should be mad at the man !!he is lying to both and she had the balls to confirm this before going forward !
So did the wife have the right to talk like she was mad at her NO. Mad at her hubby YESS!
Yal woman are going to learn - it’s not the other woman’s fault in ALl cases these men need to get checked and what you ain’t giving him at home HE WILL FIND IT !
I’d be mad but I’d also clarify - THANK YOU FOR CONFIRMING AND LETTING ME KNOW
That whole conversation started with the wrong tone. The side piece needs to be humbled 😮
My husband died July 3rd, 2022. I have not - have zero desire to - can't even fathom - dating or being in a relationship. I miss my husband every single day. He was not perfect - but he was my level and my balance. I can't imagine anyone stepping in to his shadow.
I will say this - I have had male friends who are married - help me with things that I can't do. Only one has "hit" on me and I shut that down immediately. It's gross - not just to the memory and respect of my late husband - but to his wife. Which makes it even worse - my husband would never do that and it hurt my heart knowing that a friend who I thought was as lucky as me to have a good man - was betrayed by him. Made me sick. Made me miss my guy even more.
My condolences on the loss of your husband. I, too, lost my husband in July of 2022 on the 30th. Take all the time you need for yourself. Blessings to you!
I’m sorry for the both of you. My best friends husband died. I was unemployed at the time so I was there almost everyday. I felt her and her family’s pain. I just tried to help where I could and let her talk about it as much as she wanted. It’s been like 7 yrs now and every now and then, something triggers her and feels like she’s back at the time it happened. I wish you both peace and happiness. ❤
My condolences, and thank you for sharing. I hope you are doing well.
My father passed away in 2015 (at 59), and my Mum is now 70 this year (they are the same age). She has not dated since, nor does she have any interest in ever dating again. She also has male friends who are married, and one of them is our neighbour! who comes down and helps her with stuff... and yes, stays for hours, days on end (he literally is a handy-man by trade). But my Mum is ALSO friends with his *wife* and sees her regularly too! I did not think the first story sounded that fishy until he started mysteriously leaving for work. A few of her male friends that are divorced have tried hitting on her, but she shuts it down. She said she is happy to be enjoying her quiet time, and honestly still misses my Dad and cannot imagine dating anyone else. I think she would agree with what you said -- not only is it disrespectful to your husband, but to the guys WIFE as well, if anything were to happen. Especially when they were all friends! 😭
I am so sorry for your loss
I am sorry for your loss.
As a betrayed spouse....i can firsthand tell you it takes YEARS to get over the gaslighting and manipulation you are put through by a spouse who is stepping out. It causes like literal CPTSD type trauma to your brain and takes SO much to heal from. DON'T ever cheat...just leave if you are that unhapoy. There is NO justification for infidelity when there are SO many other choices you can make.
Are you okay now? I'm going through this and would like there to be hope that a type of normalcy is re-attainable?😅
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Couldn't have said it better myself. I was actually diagnosed with C-PTSD while going through leaving my daughter's father, because of DV. It was awful. I truly hope you're doing better now.
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I promise you it just takes time. After going through therapy because of a crappy spouse (and childhood SA), I can tell you that my psychologist said that is usually takes a person half the length of the relationship to get over a broken heart, and/or, usually at least a few years after a trauma-filled relationship.
Give yourself grace and just surround yourself with good friends & family, and put dating on the back-burner. We have to truly learn to love ourselves again (especially if you get beaten down feel like a shell of a person), before we can even think about sharing ourselves with somebody else again. You'll know when it's time to get back out there! Just be patient with yourself. It's okay to be sad and cry, just don't stay _"there"_ too long!
Big hugs from afar!
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@blueseptember2174 yes. I'm much better than I was right after discovery and that first year afterward. The constant ruminating, nightmares, and triggers do fade as you process everything. I promise. It won't always feel as raw as it does that first year. It does take a long time to get your self confidence back...and to stop second guessing yourself all the time with everything because of the gaslighting you were put through. It's like your innocence was shattered and you will never trust anyone completely again. If you've chosen to stay...the work you have to put in is so much harder than if you walk away. So if you did stay, don't let anyone shame you for that...it takes so much more strength to stay and do the hard work than it does to just walk away on your own.
@mysticmama_3692 thank you. I did stay the first time. We had one great year then together before he lost it again acting crazy. So this time I left for good. I've been on my own for a few years now but it became official just recently.
Second story: The side chick wanted sooooo bad for the wife to be mad at her. She was ready. The wife didn’t even care about her. 🤣
Lmao 🤣 big FACTS ‼️
Shoutout to the editor for the 2:08 cut with the Texas Instruments calculator. That was slick and well done!
I was gonna comment about the calculator too 😂
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Could you explain the relevance please? I have no idea what a Texas Onstruments calculator is and why it's relevant
@@ThoughtfulPotato Basically very advanced calculators to compute bigger difficult calculations. Basically mocking an easy calculation.
The audacity of that women (even if she lost her husband) decided in her grief to steal another woman’s husband and even co-signed the husbands cheating behavior. Disgusting.
She didn't steal him. He gave himself away!
You can't "steal" a husband without his consent and participation. Men aren't helpless snowflakes. He made the decision to cheat and she took part in that decision. But let's put the primary blame where it belongs - on the dude who actually took the wows.
@@lyra2282she had a part as well. You are letting her off the hook.
She acts just like the mother of my kids she did things like that
I was the only man she dated who was NOT married, dating or in a relationship in over 20 years that I've known her
Kinda makes you wonder if they were fooling around even before the other husband passed….? It seems the “asking for help” just gave them license to do whatever they wanted WHENEVER they wanted.
I recall seeing a story where a woman told her cheating partner to do a bunch of stuff in order for her to stay with him and forgive buuuut she planned on leaving anyway. She just wanted to have him to humiliate himself (further) in order to get some kind of justice/payback.
That's diabolical and I support her process.
Glad someone else said it 😂
My sister found out, made him get her a very expensive purse for her birthday then dumped him
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That's actually just lame.
@Lady-Mara and he took the purse back right after😂
That one with the girl 'checking' if the husband is actually separated from the wife 6 months after the affair started.
As soon as she used the line 'I'm doing you a favour'
I was like 'no, no, no, no, no... if you were doing her a favour you would have made contact with the wife to check the relationship status 6 months ago'.
When a guy says he is separated from his , ask him “does your wife know she’s separated?”
@@Roses-lilacthis. I ask men a series of questions. 1. Are you married? 2. Are you single? 3. Is there a woman who believes she is your woman? 4. How many children do you have? 5. How long have you been single? 6. How long have you been divorced?
Normally before question 4, I have the information I need to determine if he has a woman. And even after that, if we make it to a date, I ask the same questions in different ways. Men play all day, but so do some women. A lot of women don't even ask men about their relationship status and a lot of men lie.
She's literally the only one with an attitude in that convo, the wife is a girls girl the side chick is a sad little sex toy lol
Yeah, 6 months is too long... like it's one thing if she didn't knew, but she kinda did
Exactly. I accidentally had 1 date with a married man, and I let the wife know the same day. It was back before social media, so I had to be smart about it, but I felt bad for her. She was a little older than him and overweight, and that was apparently his justification for cheating; he "deserved" a younger, petite woman. He wasn't even smart about hiding he was married! He brought me back to his house after a date to watch movies and drink, and I thought it was weird that he claimed his room was an empty guest room with just a twin bed in it. So, I went to the bathroom and wrote a note (I have ADHD so I carry a small note pad with me every where) folded it up, and stuck it under one of her diet pill bottles. I figured it was some where he wouldn't look, but she would.
About a week later, I got an angry call from him, calling me a bitch and asking if I was happy that I ruined his life. I don't think he liked my "she left you? Then yeah, I'm happy. At least she can do better than you now "
The creep even tried calling months later "now that he's single", lol duck no.
"I said what I said and I don't like your tone" AHHHHHHHHHHHHHH that sent me flying, I had to pause the video.😂😂😂😂😂
OMG, same! lol
"I don't like your tone with me", excuse me!? that woman delusional.
9:16 Like 5 months makes a big difference 😂. Give the wife a moment to process this information and stop blaming the wife for him being there.
that was insane honestly. Why are they mad at each other.
@@J.P.Cooper well the wife had all the right to be mad
@@Kaastengelsyeah the wife had a right to be mad the side chick didn’t have the right to be trying to fight her. I think that’s what is being said here.
I read the situation as the side woman being concerned that the wife would come over and physically attack her when she didn't know that her boyfriend had been lying. Yes, I think it's suss to date anyone who isn't actually divorced yet, but I can't blame her for being scared that she might be a victim of 'shoot the messenger'.
It's bad communication all around, especially with the caller. It seems like egos be getting in the way. The caller was defensive from the get-go
That poor wife - finding out she's being cheated on, and being treated so rudely at the same time
But it does track when you hear the girl didn’t think to check throughout the 6 months. Like. That amount of time knowing he had a wife (“separated” or not) says something about her as well.
@@slsthewriter1299 absolutely. She should have told him to come back once his divorce was finalised & then they'd have a relationship
I would not give the wife my address.
IDK. I wouldn't date someone who moves on that quickly after a divorce. It shows you didn't care about the other person and that you don't take your relationships seriously.@@katl6426
@@slsthewriter1299Separated is still married so she shouldn't get a pass either.
Alot of people don't realize that adultery is still illegal in many states and can get the person a jail sentence...just a little petty info. Lol!
Only a dozen or so (unfortunately!), and with a good lawyer on the cheaters side, can be hard to prove. You would be surprised what people can explain away even with video. I mean, unless it’s the actual act in progress 😂😂😂
@lynnef1395 so true but the hassle to him and the public shame of it woukd be worth every penny to me. LOL!
I believe it is illegal in Indonesia, which sucks for tourists 😆
And in all 50 states for those in the military! Dishonorable discharge and military court for cheaters
Adultery is a felony in Michigan and a few people have been charged and convicted, but the supreme count overturned the sentence in the one case and the other conviction was overturned. I don't know if there have been others, but I did find those 2 when I googled it. Lol
10:08 she was doing entirely too much. The wife was absolutely not mad at her and angry with her husband. That was really weird, almost seems fake. The side chick that is.
If this is real, which I doubt, it was guilty conscience coming out. Like I said though IF this is real, she knew he was married but “about to be divorced” is code for “fully married and wants to cheat”
So if this real the wife was immediately saying “I’m gonna pull up and go off on him” and the affair partner thought she meant come fight her or something so I can see her getting somewhat defensive being like “hey I was calling to tell you out of respect cause I wasn’t sure, but he said this” but she KEPT with the attitude.
But again, it seems super sus how calm that convo (and how loud it was considering she said he was sleeping) lol
Yeah the side chick was being hella aggy. That shit had *me* hot just watching the video so that wife deserves a fucking medal for still being respectful and reasonably calm in the face of her husbands affair AND his side chick being aggressive and weird.
I honestly think (if this is even actually real) that she was expecting the wife to blame her, because that happens so often, so she almost deluded herself into thinking that’s what was happening. She was on the defensive immediately and when you’re already defensive, hearing “Where do you live at because now I feel like I need to pop up” probably sounds a lot like “I’m showing up to fight both of y’all”.
My ex husband cheated on me with someone he met and he started sleeping with her after about a week. He moved her into my house while I was away on military duty. Now his best friend who is also married asked me if I was looking for a boyfriend. Really?! After the hurt being cheated on caused me, he thinks I'm going to inflict that pain on another woman? Even if I wasn't cheated on I would never. Absolutely not.
The funny thing is, he was cheated on by his first ex wife. And he was afraid I would cheat on him when a friend of mine was going through a financial catastrophe and I offered him a place in my house till he could get on his feet. My friend...who I look at like a brother...is also gay. So I don't know what he was worried about there. And he was the one who cheated.
I’m sorry you went through this but it gets better with time. Try to spend time with family and friends that care about you. Sending hugs 🫂
9:37 she's not even mad at her at all, she's mad at the husband. girl on phone heated, she need to chill
The wife wasn’t even rude to her! She was being nice to the woman and the side piece was trippin on everythingggggggg and so rude.
The woman was so rude to the wife, goodness gracious! She should have been more apologetic and asked if they could team up against him, including in court! 😤
I'd be ready to take the whole started from the side chicks car because WHO ARE YOU TALKING TOOO ?!?
The girl callin the wife needs to get off her high horse
The 2nd poster was out of the pocket. She wasn't trying to help the wife; she was gloating. "Well, why is he over here, then?"
If it's even true, how both of them act feels really... staged to me? Also, her being sassy about "well we've only been screwing five months, not six" and other stuff like.... Yeah, no. If it IS real she's a POS probably trying to steal him fully from her. And she clearly isn't actually bothered by being the other woman, he's still sleeping soundly in her bed instead of being tossed out upon "finding out" she's been lied to.
The wife is just like, what are we doing here?
I'd have responded with something like "looks like he's downgrading to me" 😂😂😂😂
@dreamfeatherbolts unfortunately it's very real there's more videos of this saga and she actually pulled up and dumped all of her husband's stuff on that lady's yard and said keep him and a lot of arguing
@@dreamfeatherbolts the caller sounded like she was acting, probably because she knew she was going to post it. The wife really sounded genuine.
Ever since you and Mike got engaged I swear every video you just look better and better and glowingggg !!! I’m so glad you found happiness cause I can remember videos where you thought you’d never find your person or get married lol. So happy for both of you
After my divorce I had one of my friends husbands hit on me. I immediately shut that down and never hung out with them again. It's a shame that there are so many immoral people out there.
Could have been worse. Your friend could have hit on you.
5:45 “If cheating doesn’t get jail time, then it should at least cost money” brb, putting this on a tshirt haha
Send the link when you make the shirt cuz it’s lit high key
Grandma told me of a relative of ours who owned a farm she had converted into a chicken farm where she and her husband were raising their family. He was a door-to-door salesman. He died suddenly, and as the farm was situated between three towns that were his circuit, the death notification in the three towns. When the funeral occurred, his 3 other wives and their children showed up, with each not knowing of the others. Our family history is nuts... 😂❤
How do you give equal time to three different families without any of them getting suspicious? 😅
Oh WOW.. maybe you could tell Charlotte some of it in DMs and have her read it out lol
@dhf161 I know, right! But to be fair, Grandma did say wife number 2 was the only one not pregnant, and her youngest was 3 or 4 years old. She was also the one who dumped her kids on wife number 1 and left. Wife number 1 then got the relatives to help convert outbuildings into homes for wives 3 and 4. Grandma did not give the timeline either, so these relatives could have been from the 1800s for all I know... . Husband provided, although how? They were losing their homes because of his death except wife number 1. She inherited from her grandfather because she was married, according to Grandma. 🤗💖
Holy crap!
Charles Kuralt had two families.
A woman told me about the time her Mom found out her husband was somewhere he shouldn't have been. Mom dressed them up in their nice clothes, like they wore to church. She put them in the car and drove to the other woman's house. She knocked on the door, asked to speak to her husband, and when he came to the door, gestured to the kids and said in effect, "You explain this to your children!"
The mistress who called the wife has FAAAAR too much attitude!! KMT.... BOMBASTIC side eye 🤨😒
LIke she was mad at the wife that her husband lied to her. She is not his mother or keeper. I liked the dialogue.
-I want to come there and confront him. Where are you?
-NO! Why is he with me here when you are still together?
-OK, you can keep him.
-No YOU can keep him. Ok I'm telling you where we are so you can come and collect him.
@mingiinimene3335 Riiiiiiight?!!! Make it maketh sense!! 🤣😂
@@mingiinimene3335 LITERALLY!! it's like she needed to feel like it was HER idea to be happy about it. Smh
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It seemed like she was upset that the wife didn’t want to argue with her lol
I don't understand cheating. Breaking up is an option. Divorce is an option. But I do appreciate when people who are the affair reach out to the cheater's partner and let them know what's going on. I despise people who start relationships without ending the first one and dragging someone else through the mess without their knowledge.
Right,I rather be broken up or divorced out of the blue rather then be cheated on…..
They want multiple partners but also like to have someone waiting at home for them and playing house with. It is exciting for them to cheat, the forbidden fruit seems more sweet and all that crap. Also they like some aspects for their passionate love affair partners but other aspects of their spouses. Sometimes they don't just want to lose money in a divorce and pay alimony or child support or only have visitation rights with their kids. So multible reasons. Basicly lots of people are dishonest scumbags.
Someone else and their kids in my father's case.
This! I was with a asshole for 3 maybe 4 months and my only 2 best friends (they are married and I was living on their couch at the time) they despised him and everyone (me including) realized I was just with this aweful human being because I was depressed and lonely and desperately wanted someone to love me because I have so much to give and had gotten out of a 5 year toxic relationship just about a year or so ago before this relationship. My besties finally convinced me he was not it... they actually brought a guy over to see if I found him cute and hook us up 😂 (I didn't know this at the time) well I found him very cute and funny etc and when he left with my friends husband for a work dinner they had I told her he was really cute and nice and she instantly texted her husband to talk me up to his friend and see what his friend thought of me 😂 I didn't know she did that but she said he was single after my comment and I dumped the jackass I was with that instant!! Was it kinda a bitch move? Yea but he swindled over 1k out of me within the last 3 or 4 months and I only worked at dairy queen at the time so basically every paycheck went to this asshole and i started to get the feeling he had a whole ass wife at the end anyways so fuck him! Been with my friends coworker ever since and WE ARE ENGAGED NOW!! 🎉 it's not hard to just break up when you are no longer interested
💯
My hubby became a butler for a wealthy woman. It lasted three weeks, she belittled him, forced him to do yard work, chores, take her to restaurants for lunch daily. She treated him so poorly that he said she’d better find someone else who could take her toxicity!!
He appreciates his life so much more now. Also she was inebriated CONSTANTLY…my hubby has now been SOBER for two years…he said “DRUNKS are UGLY.”
☝️😅…whew!
Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.
Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!
Yes baire_tyler1, I have a similar experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD, and addiction, and mushrooms have significantly contributed to my recovery and being clean today.
I wish those were more accessible here.
Microdosing was the next thing I planned for my husband. He's 59 & facing many mental health issues, probably CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma for 8 days. Sadly, I had to get a TPO because he's 6'6, over 300 pounds, and displaying violent behavior, always talking about hurting others. He's really aggressive. If anyone out there knows about BPD, is it common to have an obsession with violence?
Is he on the instagram?
baire_tyler1 is the man
1:33 WHEN THEY GET DEFENSIVE INSTEAD OF OFFERING COMFORT AND REASSURANCE ITS BECAUSE YOU’RE RIGHT!!!!
Truer words were never spoken 🤣
True! When they start to blame you for creating drama...they are 100% cheating .
Mine did this too. Defensive in stead of reassuring. He was cheating too. I'll be better off alone.
Oh yeah. I say it all the time.
My husband erupts but he is the one with all the bad thoughts thinking that I’m thinking that he’s up to something ? So I get treated with no love treated like dirt and I just don’t know what to do we have things that woukd need to go 50/50 ? And I feel he had man where he wants me ? He never was like he is now we have no relationship? We don’t even sleep together we are nothing and all he dies in his 50s playing games while I sit there waiting to have time with him but he doesn’t I’m so depressed I’ve given 200% into our marriage were he gives fuck all maybe 25% because we have kids ! My youngest will turn 18 this year will this year be the year that things secretly gets to show its self and what he will do ? He is so cold and thinks that he knows what I’m thinking ? Thus has to stop he has no idea what I think and I know this man who once loved me but now only cared about himself and nothing I do matters . He knows he’s broken me and my heart so why is he still with me . I feel so alone in a marriage that isn’t a marriage . I loved him but now my love is just not there not after so much abuse . Telling me he stopped loving me 13?/14 years ago? Why make me suffer and go through mental and physical abuse for so long !! We’ve been together for 21 years ? I can’t carry on living this way and I think it’s going to hurt becoming my own person but at least I’ll be alone but not alone in a marriage! I need help and don’t know what to do . I’m scared and don’t know how to live a life alone when we got together he took control of everything and i believed it’s was because he loved me ? But it was control taking away myself confidence that’s I don’t have I’m in my 50s and I guess I’ll spend the rest of my life alone . That scares me and my boys will stay with him and not me . I made those kids love their dad . I have nothing to offer my kids . Like money the business that I pushed him to start but he had no confidence when I gave him that belief? Until we did it and he quickly became distant and locked me out of our business that I told him we could . And now we hardly talk I’d an argument breaks out he speaks to me like I’m dirt it’s awful how he speaks to me . I’m in such a hole and depression but I think that’s what gives him strength.
The first woman definitely watched a lot of Charlotte's videos . She was not hysterical rather she was calm , cool and collected in serving a very cold dose of revenge on her philandering (soon-to-be-ex) husband . Also making sure she had the money to make a fresh start . She is a Duchess of Petty . 😊
Moving in the shadows - well done to her! (I'd have said, "I SOLD MY truck.")
I love Duchess of Petty
Did she sell the car the same day she found out he was at the motel?, and sell it before he got home? When did he get home?, did she buy a house and furnished it the same day??.
I need more details in stories 😂
She moved in the shadows!!!!
@@tarshay27yea that part confused me too but she did say he would go on week long “business trips” so I’m assuming that trip to the motel lasted weeks which gave her time
That girl calling the wife is super rude. And she’s clearly mad at her man and not her. She doesn’t sound like she’s checking, she sounds like she’s trying to break them up so she can get him to herself.
Yeah, she has immense vibes of "Oh you AREN'T actually broken up? No, no, no, now you WILL BE so you can be all mine."
Exactly! What did she think the wife would say? She was just finding out her husband is a liar and a cheat. And she was trying to work with the gf and get him. She was way out of line and trying to keep him for herself. She was mad at the wrong person.
I had the same impression
@@CharlotteDobrei posted an AITA story for you to read a while ago, just wondering if you've seen it? It's "AITA for ending the friendship ". I'd really love your advice. Love your channel!!
I got that the vibe she wanted to cause a bigger problem between them. She wasn’t “trying to help her” 😂 his wife was mature and checked her tho.
A fellow parent and I squealed over the excitement that we both listen to you today. We literally jumped in excitement 😊❤ we love you, Charlotte & Mike
I had two firm rules when I dated back when I was single.
1. Must be divorced. Not separated, not in the "process of divorcing." If he can't end it with his "ex" then he can never commit to you.
2. I would not date a man if I was his first "date" after a divorce. I refused to be someone's rebound.
Wisdom ❤
@@LapisDreamer completely agree!
Kudos! And I’m the same with your #1! If you aren’t divorced or single…don’t want you. I never thought about #2 but that’s smart. I may borrow that one from you.
Smart rules. I adhered to the same rules. Saved me a lot of drama
I was with my now husband for almost 2 years before my divorce was finalized. I literally haven't spoken to him since the day we separated, not even during the divorce. Like I was with my now husband longer than my actual first marriage was. Not all not-yet divorced people are scum bags. Just food for thought.
10:13 that wife was so calm why is she being rude to that man’s poor wife. I feel like she wanted an issue but the wife had class. I get that you’re upset with your man but be upset with HIM
Her tone was condescending as hell. Snotty
Agreed i think she knew the wife didnt know, WHY are you coming in with that TUDE
Yeah, that’s crazy. Why is she so mad at the wife? Wife was pissed at the husband. I get being upset to find out you’re the other woman, but don’t take that out on the wife.
yeah maybe she looooves to be the cheaters sidechick. maybe its fun for her to burst the bubble or some
Um she was calm before the wife got an attitude. If people give me an attitude when I'm trying to help them then be prepared for my attitude. I give what I get.
13:49 that girl and mirko are best friends. unfortunately her husband passed away, and mirko is his best friend. before her late husband passed he asked mirko to promise to take care of her for the rest of her life since her wont be here to🩷 sad story but i love those two genuinely
Yes - I adore her. 🖤
they weren’t married, they’d just been together since teenagers i believe
They were still engaged babe! Never made it down the isle😢
I've definitely been where you are - I'm only here today because when I was at my lowest (more than once!) I only didn't unalive myself because my dad did ( not the time he slit his wrist in front of me!) And I'm stubborn. Whatever the reason there is NO situation or problem that cannot be solved/fixed except for death!
I often struggle with my MH when "things are going well"
You are loved, we need you here, THIS WILL PASS XXX
Here's the thing all of y'all seem to be forgetting.....with the sidechick, not only was she rude ASF to THE WIFE and wrong for that, but she also ADMITTED that she "thought he had told her about them and left her months ago" um WHAT?!? Meaning she KNEW she was the side piece...for MONTHS... girl only mad at herself 🙄
Let's be real the side piece was mad about something. Likely she found out he was replacing her with side piece #2😂.
Story 1... it was HER truck all along!!🎉 good for her. Under her name, legally hers. Chefs kiss
Actually, she just gave video evidence that it is her truck in her name only, not necessarily paid for by her. He can go to court with the video and sue to be paid back for any payments he has made. This may end up biting her. Be careful what you post online.
@@lihayes5046 it also matters if they live in a community property state. If so, it's half hers,regardless.
@@LorraineRodriguez-y2w Exactly. And if that's the case, she'll end up owing him half the selling price.
13:37 For those who don't know, the guy she is talking to is her late boyfriend's best friend. Sadly he passed away from cancer a few years ago so Mirko is Kaitln “brother” or her late boyfriend best friend/ now protector before he passed he asked him to protect his girlfriend. Hope this helps.
Kaitlyn is the first person I've ever recognized from Charlotte's videos!
That just bought a tear to my eye... i love that Mirko is keeping his word ❤
She needs to stop using her late boyfriend for content
The entitled audacity of the second lady. Like she should've exited stage left when he said 'basically divorced'. Basically doesn't mean an existing divorce!
Yea, honestly that was stupid of her. I would say she should have asked him to let her know when divorce is finalized or when have the papers. However, in actuality, if the guy was already looking for someone else before getting a divorce then that should have shown he has awful character. However the girl had awful character too apparently, so i guess they are a match... i will say this, as long as you pay attention to someone's personality and actions with you and others, and what they say and how they say it... then you will rarely be in such stupid relationships.
I think the advice is to not date someone until the divorce is final just to be sure they're actually doing what they claim
That's stupid. My husband's divorce took four years. Imagine waiting for five years to start dating.
Thought this was Jasmine and Rasheeda from "Love and Hip Hop ATL!" 😂 "Barbara, this is Shirley" 😂😂😂😂😂
12:37....... Charlottes face😂😂😂
Her serious, classy, I'm listening girl he did what, I'm interested face😂😂😂😂
Editing is absolutely 👏🏻on👏🏻point👏🏻!! ❤ That calculator, the little *bang*s, just chef's kiss! 😘👌🏻
My friend offered her husband to me when I was recently single and he was great, I really appreciated both of them for their support. Then again I would never go after a man who was involved with someone else, any one who cheats with you will easily cheat on you!
She ‘offered’ him? For what? Help around the house or something more personal. Sorry to be so nosy, but that word seemed to imply something intimate.
You’re making your friends husband seem like a prostItute, a sIave or a sacrifice… “offered” her husband to you? What does that even mean?? I think there might be far better ways to word that 😅 sounds like your friend is giving her husband away like a foster cat or Halloween candy! I’m not trying to be rude or pry into your life, this comment just caught me SOO off guard with the way it’s worded 😅 thank you for the giggle tho, I really needed that today!
Is this a poly situation or?
Wait, what?
For odd jobs nothing else 😂 … and he’s not a slave she knew he would be happy to help they are both lovely 🥰
3:13 the way you LIT UP when she said ‘petty’ 🤣🤣🤣🤣
The first story the lady didn't do anything wrong selling the truck. It was under HER name. Yes it was his truck but by law and all the paperwork, her name was on the car. She gave boss queen energy.
not if she admitted that it was his truck and money. Plus they are married he can get half the house. Thats marital property.
@@Lamya0910 which also means even if it wasn’t in his name she still had every right to sell their truck😂
@Lamya0910 why wouldn't he get the house they were living in while he was cheating? They technically have two houses so it makes sense that each would get one 😂😂
Must have been quite a truck. She was able to put a down payment on a house, and then furnish the place with the money she got from that truck.
That's not queen energy.
Queen energy is smart, logical, and legally planned out. Not emotional!!!
She sold the truck while still legally married = she needs to produce receipts and divide the money (yes, he can sue & win).
She bought a house & furniture = once again he can sue & win.
And she made a social media post 😂
This video and a red bull got me so pumped for the day! Both my kiddos got the flu and I'm "working" on 2 hours of sleep.. Thank you potato 👸QUEEEEN
Hope everyone is starting to feel better. You got this 👑
Cheating is a form of abuse. Cheating should have the same criminal consequences as spousal abuse and possibly reckless endangerment because of the issues with STI's.
This!
People don’t talk about this enough.
This!
People don’t talk about this enough.
Petty potatoes gathering 🎉
I think it would b a great merch idea for Charlotte to make up "Petty Potato Squad"❤❤
Helloooo
Present!
Here!!! 🥔 😊
Present!
Good Morning Petty Potatoes! ❤
That grin on your face when she said, do I wanna be petty? And I'm like, yes, yes, you do. 😁
My mom took my stepdad's favorite truck in the divorce, and she's still driving it, and he's never been able to find another one like it. 😂
I appreciated the editor throwing in the little "bang" each time Charlotte hand chopped her desk! I love the hand chop! That's how you know she for real for real!
Same!! I’ve been following her since almost the beginning & her success is so well deserved! Love to see her channel grow 🥰🩵
I was yelling SELL IT GIRL! And when you said you did, I was cheering so loudly! Good for you! 😂🎉
May I add, you lady are a total BADASS
“Absolutely NOT!” -me channeling inner Charlotte for all of these stories. 😂
It's either that or the "how are you not embarrassed 😮" 😂😂
💯 ❤
I say this in life all the time now 😂
I can't read those words without hearing it in her voice now lol 😄
Ha ha. This week alone I have found myself yelling out "the audacity" and in a conversation said 'my flabbers are gasted'. I am almost fluent in potato
Cheaters suck, but Cheetos are great
Agreed.
So are cheetahs.
I WANT CHEETOS NOW
I Completely agree😂
I think they are both overrated
I love that Charlotte’s always preaching for safety. She’s definitely right about checking out these guys you meet online. I’m not into into app dating because I’m single parent and the concept terrifies me, but if I was to do it, I would be running any potential names through the registries to to make sure that nobody has any suspicious convictions, our safety comes first❤
Besties, never forget these wise words:
A scrub is a guy who thinks he's fly,
And is also known as busta.
Always talkin' about what he wants,
And just sits on his broke ass.
Absolutely not! We don't want no scrubs.
* It might not be verbatim, but their message lives on. ⬆️⬇️⬅️➡️🙏🏻📿
the little ''bang'' edits when charlotte banged her hands on the table cracked me up. i love the edits on her vids, doing a great job editor, keep it up
9:38 she’s actually being pretty chill compared to how she could be. This girls not being helpful she’s being messy
My ex cheated on me after 4 years together. It broke my heart, honestly. But now that i know the truth, i feel better. I'm more happy alone that with someone who doesn't love and respect me.
💯💯💯❤️❤️❤️❤️
They should both confront him at once. Only referring to him by the moniker of “ Common denominator “ 🤣
Haha, your "craaazyyy, we're all just crazy" is so cute, @CharlotteDobre! Had to rewatch it a few times. Hahaha, love it 😂❤
I’m laughing about sharing husbands bc we have a neighborhood saying that my girlfriends “have a John”(my husband’s name) bc he’s always being borrowed for mechanical repairs, snow removal, heavy lifting, etc, bc none of them are married. However, he’s also 76 & in no ‘condition’, so to speak, to cheat. They all love having his help, & he loves feeling useful in his older years.
PS - thank you, Charlotte, for reminding young daters to do background checks!! I’m 61 & have no interest in ever dating again, but when I was younger & background checks were a whole lot harder to arrange, I was still doing them on potential dates. Stay safe as possible, there are lots of creeps out there!
As a gay guy that was in a straight relationship for two and a half years even though I knew I was gay but was scared and in denial- It is SO EASY to not cheat on your partner. Just man up and leave. You have to admit to yourself yes it will hurt them when you leave but you can't keep living a lie and they deserve someone who can love them the way they deserve. I feel bad for him since he is most likely going through a lot of struggling emotions, but he shouldn't have cheated point blank period. I understand why she was so pissed and hopefully he'll learn for the future to be honest and respect the people he gets involved with.
It’s hard to have sympathy for someone who cheats on you while living rent free in your parents basement.
You have it right. It’s not that you date women before you are ready to step into your truth, it’s the cheating. Likely he will cheat on a boyfriend too.
I hope your break up with your ex partner was peaceful.
I'm still friends with my ex bf. When he came out to me, my only concern was that it took him so long to do so because he didn't want to hurt my feelings (we had been together for 6-7 years, starting from grade 7, and he had discovered his sexuality early in it). But other than that, I was very calm and supportive of him.
He could have also just been a bi guy who did like her but decided to cheat with guys because it'd look less suspicious.
(This isn't a call to hate on bi people, please don't be weird in replies. Cheaters come in all shapes and forms and I'm prefacing now it's not a 'only this person does this.' type of behaviour. I'm just saying cheaters get the thrill from doing something they shouldn't, and largely it all comes down to sneaking around thrills. Cheating is calculated as fuck, don't let anyone fool you into thinking it isn't.)
You know that’s rare though. You have definitely been or heard Grindr because it’s full of straight married guys
@@TheLalacream unfortunately, I tried very hard to remain their friend but they felt like I had been lying to them. And honestly I can't even be upset with them because I was lying to myself too.
11:49 she lost her boyfriend to cancer and she’s trying to move on. It’s been a while since he passed away, but I love that she’s in your videos. ❤❤❤❤❤
Oh no!! I hope she's doing well
@ her friend Miko is what’s really keeping her together and I kinda want them to be together low-key
I was happy to see it too, like two worlds colliding lmao, love Kaitlin
Some people have tattoo's and others have piercings as forms of self expression...i have multiple piercings and i live to see how Charlotte styles her ears...and the earrings combo she has in this video is absolutely stunning. 😍
Love you girl
Agreed! Her earrings are always gorgeous. I need to know what this stack is!
LOVE, LOVE, LOVE THIS WOMAN AND THE SANDWICH BOARD OF SHAME💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
The pixelated video of Charlotte on the graphing calculator is top notch cleverness! I love it!
I know this is long, but it's too short to post on your Reddit page. I just had to share.
We had a neighbor whose husband passed away 2 years ago. At the time the below occurred, she was 63 so about 13 years older than my husband and 16 years older than me. By the point of the below story, we had been neighbors for about 20 years. She and her husband had known our twins since they were 18 months old. Our kids even called her Nonna and her husband was Nonno (what their grandkids called them) and we were fine with that.
Anyway, I digress. After her husband passed she would ask us for help once in a while and of course, we would help as we viewed her as an elderly widow who needed help. But then she just asked for help with things only my husband could do, and it got to the point that she started needing help at least twice a week. But again we wanted to help as we viewed her as family.
This went on for about 6 months, then suddenly, my husband started asking me to go along with him again. He said he wasn't 100% sure but he felt like she was flirting with him and now was starting to get more aggressive. I thought he was being silly but agreed to go.
The first time she did seem a little flustered that I went along. The second time she asked me, "Don't you have your chores? No need for you to tag along." But, I told her it was fine. The third time I excused myself to the bathroom. When I came back I saw she had my husband backed up against the kitchen counter and he had his hands up like he was ready to push her away.
I immediately grabbed my phone and started recording, but did not give away I was there. I then heard her tell my husband, "You know
I'm proud of how all of you handled things with the elderly woman. Great job
Woah, how awful!!! I've had friends who were like family betray me too, but this is on another level! 😮 Hope you and your husband are doing well in life. 😊
Wow what a story! What did the daughters mean by the mom being. Truthful about handling the death? Truthful about what? About her feelings, or about money or something else?
@@AngelJulietI thought that! Like did she do it, haha!
The girl who called her boyfriend’s wife sounds like the type of person that wants a best friend out of this like in a fairytale sounds like she was expecting her “good well“ to be taken with only respect.
She’s acting like the woman should not have been angry at all to the fact that her husband was cheating basically
Who isn’t going to be ruffled to find out your husband’s cheating?
I was dating a guy once who said he was divorced and then his wife called me one day. Turns out he wasn’t divorced just a cheater and we became friends and I helped her with her divorce by providing proof he was cheating and helping her get full custody of her kids. So sometimes it happens lol
As a polyamorous female, one thing i fear, especially with this whole strictly parallel relationship dynamic bloomimg heavily within the community, How do i know you're being ethically non-monogamous and not cheating?
Omce upon a time, it was extremely common for you to verify with the spouse, long-term partner, committed partner, etc, that they KNEW their partner was dating other people.
Nowadays, their main partner refuses any type of contact, so you can't verify they indeed do know whats happening.
I am surper f*ing cautious with dating, and my hubs is more than happy to give verification in any way that makes my other partners comfortable.
It's a shame that cheaters now use being non-monogamous as a catchphrase to convince people they're on the up and up.
Friends and I use the term "non-consenual polygamy/polyamory" to make fun of cheaters. But I agree. It's hard out here for real polys. I posted an entirely too long personal story in another thread about how I got involved with someone who was cheating with me on the wife he swore multiple times didn't exist. I learned my lesson. As long as people don't want to have honest conversations, cheaters gonna cheat.
Once a cheater, always a cheater. If he'll cheat with you, he'll cheat on you.
In my day that was known as being a big fat 5LAG. Both genders.
I'm not even sorry I said it.
I personally still require to talk to the other partner. If they say their partner doesn’t want to meet then I say we’re done. I’m not taking the risk of being the other person. If you can’t explain to your partner that I at least want to meet once to check if they truly consent in this, then it’s a situation I’m not entering
fr. if the paramour doesn't want contact we're not dating, hard-line boundary.
you're an item, a unit, I'd like for us to be friends but at least let's have an open line of communication, shit's complicated enough lol.
I love the way black women talk. The sas is unmatched, and im here for it every time 😂😂
I know a lot of ppl can’t even consider staying with a cheater but sometimes when you just had a baby with someone it’s not always that easy to just leave and she had two kids with that guy.
People who live double lives for any stretch of time genuinely impress me in the worst way. Like just how do you handle taxes and holidays with TWO WHOLE ASS FAMILIES?!?
I can barely handle myself and I’m already so stressed like how do these people function?
HOW ARE YOU NOT EMBARRASSED?!?
The tax question is fascinating to me actually. Do they file taxes twice under the same name? I don't think that's possible since it's the same social security number. If they use a fake name they also need a fake SS number, which would make that identity fraud.
@@lyra2282 okay so my neighbors dad did this. The way he did it? Had his wives file their own taxes. Then he'd file separately as well... Oh and with access to both families' finances he'd play the role of "hubby with money", often favoring his original family financially so he could spend more time with his second wife.
No but like how do you actually of your own free will decide to deal with twice as many people?!
Like forget the big things, one partner and all the humans i have to have contact with in everyday life is more than enough for me.
AND YOU'RE TELLING ME SOME PEOPLE LOOK AT THAT AND THINK "HMMM, HOW BOUT I MAKE THAT DOUBLE?"
I literally can't
I don't get multiple relationships...I can't even handle one...how and why
Ok, I must watch as much true crime as Charlotte when I instantly thought in the first video "Hmmmmmm....DID the woman's hubby pass from aN ACcIdENt?!"
I was thinking the same thing
Same. It's all myrder a Charlotte
😂😂😂😂
I don't listen to true crime, but I would totally watch and listen to Charlotte reading it.
Saaame!!
The same thing happened to a good friend of mine as in the first story. They were close to the next door neighbours, then the husband was killed in a car accident. My friend husband started to help out a lot and then he left her for the neighbour. It was a mess!
I'm a widow & never once have I even thought about stealing my friends & neighbours husbands. I'm just grateful that those husbands have always been happy to help when needed & that their wives have never had to worry about the possibility of anything happening, because all of us are decent people
10:45 I’d say that the one who made the call was rude because she was mad about being lied to and fooled. She’s definitely aiming her anger in the wrong direction for sure.
The reason men are less likely to post those kinds of videos, is because for most men, if their partner cheats, then they are embarrassed to admit it. While they still blame the cheater, they also see it as a reflection on themselves. So, while a lot of women have no problem publicly shaming a cheater, most men are more inclined to hide it, as it's also hiding their own failure (or what they feel is their failure, anyway).
My step dad was an over the road truck driver for years after him and my mom first got married. Everything was basically under my mom's name as she had the best credit score of anyone I've ever known, but he was in charge of paying most of the bills. Somehow, he could not pay the mortgage. Keep in mind that he was paid very well because he was also making hazard pay due to what he was hauling, you had to wear a hazmat suit as the materials could not be inhaled. My Mom and I are pretty sure he was living a double life. I am almost certain of it because any time he and I would go out to dinner without my mom or mom was meeting us there, he'd be flirting with the waitresses and talking crap about my mom as long as she wasn't there. He was and is an absolute garbage human being that I'm glad she's gotten rid of. No one man or woman deserves to have a partner who treats them like this. The only good thing to come out of it is the fact that I learned how I did not want to be treated and found the most wonderful man I've ever known, we've been married for almost 13 years now.
17:42 😂 17:48 finding a new him, easy. Finding a new gym? NO MA'AM! I'm staying 😂😂😂😂😂
I feel special, 2 mins ago. 😮❤
Im having the worst day, married to a narcissist, and you always make it better.
Crazy early 😂
Girl, run!!! 😢
I did the same! Divorcing now :)
Leave now, you'll regret not leaving sooner if you stay. Trust me. 8 years of my life thrown away, traumatized me and my kids.
Hugs 🫂 you deserve better 💜
One thing i will say for the first story... when my dad left my mum one of our close neighbors did come and help out with handy things my mum couldn't do/afford to hire someone for, given she had 4 kids to raise. We were close with their whole family and nothing inappropriate ever came of it (yes I am 100% sure) Sometimes neighbors can be like extended family and help eachother out. It's disgusting how some people take advantage of this mentality in their trusting spouse.
Lmao Mike the handyman 😂😂😂
Girl, you NEVER send your husband to rescue another woman. NEVER.
19:38 if she was going to stay with him and work it out she should have gone to marriage counseling. She didn’t need to take her child out in public and make a video about it. That will be on the internet forever for her children to see. I understand she is furious and wants to humiliate him because she wants some type of revenge, but if they somehow work it out and get past it then she’s probably not going to want her children, family and friends to know about it. And he’s probably just doing it because “it’s cheaper to keep her” than pay child support and alimony.
Her having the baby in the middle of this really pmo. Even if you do choose to air your dirty laundry, leave your kids out of it... some people just don't get it.
See, I'm mean, I would have made him do it and dumped him right after lmao
I doubt she’s staying she probably just said she would .. just to embarrass him
The wife was rather appropriately directing her ire at her *husband* and the mistress did not want to deal with that cognitive dissonance that her new boo is old doodoo.
“Do I want to be petty?” ABSOLUTELY! 😂😂😂🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
if it comes to walking in the mall being publicy shamed, that relationship is over. there is no going back from that.
Yes!!! A perfect way to start my weekend! Thanks Charlotte
17:45 lmao “you got the gym in the divorce” 😂😂😂
charlotte's facial expressions are everything
I did the same air tag trick lol. We are now divorcing. Yes the punishment fits the crime. Trust me. I love how smart she is.
First story: To the person who commented she had no right to sell the truck - guess dummy missed the part where the truck was in HER NAME the sale was valid.
Second story - other girl has no reason to be aggressive towards the woman she just told her husband was messing around with. I'm on the side of the wife full stop.
Fifth story: Gym "meetup" - Story teller was very calm telling the story...even if separated I'd be a wreck.
Sixth Story: Why would you want to stay w/someone who's cheating, going around every where you go telling ppl he cheated. That's not the flex you think it is sweetie.
Most men don't throw their dirty laundry out there on Social Media. lol
😂 I noticed this morning that it's the petty things that get my blood flowing the most 😂 on either side of the tracks 😂 ❤ you Charlotte!!! Thank you for being an inspiration ❤
5:44 I'm not Japanese so correct me if I'm wrong but I believe there's something like compensate that the spouse or partner receives from the cheater and their affair partner.
I remember in Korea (south) it was illegal to have affairs for a while. people used to go to jail
Only in some states
@@OrangenkraftNorth Carolina one of them…alienation of affection. Our old neighbor stupidly cheated on his Hispanic wife from the Texas barrio. The judge forced the woman in question to turn over the Birkin bag collection he bought for her and the husband had to give her A GREAT DEAL of money. Mr. Tiger laughed at him: “Dude, you cheated on a woman that eats chile ice cream. My New Mexican wife eats that with her. You are a fu*king idiot.”
Yes, it's called Legal obligation to Fidelity. In Japan, if a spouse commits adultery, the non-cheating spouse can legally claim compensation (damages) from the cheating spouse, and even potentially from the third party involved in the affair, depending on the circumstances; this is considered a breach of the legal obligation to remain faithful within a marriage.
In certain states it is illegal… you can sue the side chick
Why would you ever send your husband to a vulnerable and grieving woman’s house ALONE? Asking for trouble.
Now this is the only way I can watch these tiktoks 🥲
She is beautiful, and has a beautiful heart. Helping a person in need and being cheated on.
You know it’s gonna be a good day when Charlotte uploads! Love your videos!
i love watching you charlotte, when the tea gets pipping hot you get excited for it it makes my day!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
God, I really needed Charlotte now... The world's gone total batsh!t crazy, and I need a breather from all the wars and politics. Freetime❤❤
I love that that woman who sold the truck, just was calm cool and collected 😅
Way to go 👏👏👏
loved the "other interests" (Grindr noise)😂😂😂 best
The fact that the truck guy was already on thin ice at work and now has little money so perfect 😂😂