i relate to this struggle of craving real connection SOOO MUCH and i have been trying to find out how to talk to people and how to be myself around people but it’s sooo hard because i have the same feeling that no one i meet really shares this struggle or is open about it. It’s just so weird because i kind of know what i search for in people and in the world in general but I don’t know how to find that connection… i really get you
I understand this completely I switch up sm when I’m around people even my friends and I feel like I’m missing a deeper connection I could have with them because I can’t be authentic or fully at peace. I think sitting in silence could help with finding connection, if you ground yourself with others and their energy then you don’t have to rely on words which can be misleading Anyway it’s something to practice ❤️
that feeling of having no one to call to make you feel better - so real. watching your videos always makes me feel less alone with these kinds of moments.
I find it comforting that though being lonely is shite, so many people are lonely in this life, but it won't last forever. life changes so quickly, and people are so transient, you're grand. i think more people relate to you than you realise, sendin loveeeee xxxxxx
Saoirse I just wanna give you a big squeezy hug. I know and understand this feeling of loneliness and not feeling true connection to other people. You seem like such a wise and intelligent young person, this feeling of disconnection may not leave you altogether but it will become alleviated. Life is always spiraling, try to stay present. Sending loads of love and hugs.
i feel the exact same way of not relating to anyone and feeling so inescapably isolated, and there is now way of finding things to enjoy when all you can rely on is yourself. when sometimes, you want more than yourself. i love coming home through your videos, though. the loneliness is heavy, but just feeling like i'm not alone with this, it's hope. thank you, saoirse!
I literally thought I was listening to myself then. Every word you said is exactly how I’ve felt for the past few years. I don’t feel like I have any connection to anyone (except family) including my friends. I can’t remember the last time I spent time with friends and felt satisfied. I always come away from socialising and feel more and more empty but the thing is I love my friends and they’re not bad people. I just can’t find anything that I can connect to them with
I completely get that, I’m so sorry to hear that but I know you’ll find the right people the more you lean into yourself and the more space you make for more love! I’m here with you:))))
Saoirse I’m so grateful for these videos and for your perpetual empathy, kindness and openness - thank you for being yourself 🧡 I relate to you so much with regards to feeling like an outsider and like there’s something wrong with you (there isn’t, you’re just a beautiful and unique soul) 🧡
I was having the worst anxiety about this exact feeling all day and feeling like everything I thought made me happy was a lie and all this rly bad shit and listening to you talk through your thoughts changed me around completely. thank you for this I can't even put in to words how grateful I am to know someone feels like this too
saoirse you literally described I've been feeling atm, like I'm so lonely and I feel like nobody understands me !! its so nice to know that there are other people out there feeling the same things,,,,, we're never really alone
I really wish we were friends in real life, what you say in this video with craving connection is literally all I think about and live for and I just don’t have enough of it right now. Feel a bit like a shell of a person and have done a long time. Watching your videos sometimes I forget that you don’t know me and I don’t actually know you but damn I relate to your words so much
i've never thought anybody could articulate that feeling of isolation in social situations even with people you think you love before like i literally thought it was just me when you were talking about feeling inappropriate or discomforting in conversation and everybody else seems to know how to act i have struggled with that for so long thank you so much for saying that i stg everything you said in this video chimed so deeply with me
just went through a breakup yesterday. I feel an intense lack in my heart, and the connection that tethered me to the rest of the world is just over. Feel like a little girl crying out for love. But also so protective of my heart so connection like that again feels impossible.
I actually cried watching this. If you love and accept yourself, even in those moments where you’re in a crowd and you can’t click with anyone or join in, you’ll start to feel better. Love even those parts of yourself … the ones that make you different x
new video new video im so happy!!! i can relate to what you’re saying at the end. i find it so hard to connect to others because i feel like we’re not like minded and sometimes that can be really hard. instead i find connections within art, music, ideas but sometimes it can be so tiring! i really hope you find your way lovely. this video was so comforting 🥰
Thanks for being open about your feelings expressing them so well ❤ I get the same thing when I’m having a depressive episode or anxiety attack, I tell myself there’s no one to talk to or no one that could help but whenever I just say fuck it and tell someone (even someone I think will not help at all) they always end up helping and understanding, I think it’s easy to feel like no one feels the same and won’t understand your feelings but lots of people have the same or similar feelings sometimes and they will hear you xx
I went through this in my early 20s my best advice is to travel. I did it even though I was skint by working while I was away. I did workaway and volunteered in hostels or you can go do eco farm work. I met people I had more in common with once I got out and seen the world. It’s good to escape the day to day and change it up. Ano it’s a cliche but you just need to find yourself ❤
please never stop making videos, I relate to you so much!🌻I feel like we are in the same phase right now, I've just moved to Australia and made new friends but they all love techno and like you said I also feel like such an alien like I don't relate to my generation, I hate techno it feels so empty to me.
I felt the same way for so long about not knowing people who truly got me or were into the same things as me. I just assumed I would never find people like that. Of course I eventually did but I didn't meet any of them until I was 22. I promise they are out there. Also once I found them I realized a new feeling of being scared of loosing them. I feel like the real problem is a sense of lack in general. You are so abundant and when the time is right you will cross paths with them too.
@@saoirsemoncrieff ur videos so beautiful and ur voice over part rlly made me so emotional I’ve never felt like so connected to words ever and when u finish with wooden girl it was spectacular !!!!
I have had a few connections in my life, but they have been tenuous and more just ‘glimmers’ of connection. Maybe this is sad, but I have sort of resigned to giving up on missing that connection. I find it extremely hard to find people that I do connect to. Of course, ultimately that is what I am seeking and want in life. But I kinda know that I won’t find it in certain places that I find myself in life (just from enough experience/evidence/trial and error). I keep trying all the time but I never get my hopes up. Resultantly, I don’t miss not having that connection because it probably was never possible in the places that I find myself in. I have become very close to myself as a result, and I connect with myself, God, nature, music, art in place of other people. This is all just for now… I still have hope of course haha, always will, and I know that connections are so possible - I’ve had them before, just maybe not for now.
Ive started reading this book 'overcoming Low Self-esteem' by Melanie Fennell and what youre describing sounds like it can help. Also listen to Abraham Hicks!
hi saoirse! i was wondering what song you’re playing on the guitar at 18:36 the chords are so pretty? thank you for sharing your thoughts and vulnerability, you always manage to put my thoughts into words and make me feel less lonely
i relate to this struggle of craving real connection SOOO MUCH and i have been trying to find out how to talk to people and how to be myself around people but it’s sooo hard because i have the same feeling that no one i meet really shares this struggle or is open about it. It’s just so weird because i kind of know what i search for in people and in the world in general but I don’t know how to find that connection… i really get you
I completely understand, thank you❤️
I understand this completely I switch up sm when I’m around people even my friends and I feel like I’m missing a deeper connection I could have with them because I can’t be authentic or fully at peace. I think sitting in silence could help with finding connection, if you ground yourself with others and their energy then you don’t have to rely on words which can be misleading
Anyway it’s something to practice ❤️
I’m in the exact feeling you are in in life. I feel like we are the same type of specific in that way, thank you for expressing it ❤
Thank you so much❤
that feeling of having no one to call to make you feel better - so real. watching your videos always makes me feel less alone with these kinds of moments.
the girl in this video is a true friend to you, so clear to see
I find it comforting that though being lonely is shite, so many people are lonely in this life, but it won't last forever. life changes so quickly, and people are so transient, you're grand. i think more people relate to you than you realise, sendin loveeeee xxxxxx
Thank you ❤️❤️❤️
Saoirse I just wanna give you a big squeezy hug. I know and understand this feeling of loneliness and not feeling true connection to other people. You seem like such a wise and intelligent young person, this feeling of disconnection may not leave you altogether but it will become alleviated. Life is always spiraling, try to stay present. Sending loads of love and hugs.
Thank you so much, same to you!! Sending u all my love
i feel the exact same way of not relating to anyone and feeling so inescapably isolated, and there is now way of finding things to enjoy when all you can rely on is yourself. when sometimes, you want more than yourself. i love coming home through your videos, though. the loneliness is heavy, but just feeling like i'm not alone with this, it's hope. thank you, saoirse!
You are not alone! Thank you for sharing that with us 💖💖💖💖
I literally thought I was listening to myself then. Every word you said is exactly how I’ve felt for the past few years. I don’t feel like I have any connection to anyone (except family) including my friends. I can’t remember the last time I spent time with friends and felt satisfied. I always come away from socialising and feel more and more empty but the thing is I love my friends and they’re not bad people. I just can’t find anything that I can connect to them with
I completely get that, I’m so sorry to hear that but I know you’ll find the right people the more you lean into yourself and the more space you make for more love! I’m here with you:))))
really resonate with the segment starting around 12 mins in. very very isolating
the social "script" thing is so tru
You understand me in a way I previously thought few do. Thank you for extending an olive branch of connection without necessarily meaning to ❤
Saoirse I’m so grateful for these videos and for your perpetual empathy, kindness and openness - thank you for being yourself 🧡 I relate to you so much with regards to feeling like an outsider and like there’s something wrong with you (there isn’t, you’re just a beautiful and unique soul) 🧡
I love you❤️
I was having the worst anxiety about this exact feeling all day and feeling like everything I thought made me happy was a lie and all this rly bad shit and listening to you talk through your thoughts changed me around completely. thank you for this I can't even put in to words how grateful I am to know someone feels like this too
I am so grateful for you!💖💖💖
saoirse you literally described I've been feeling atm, like I'm so lonely and I feel like nobody understands me !! its so nice to know that there are other people out there feeling the same things,,,,, we're never really alone
We’re never alone!!💖💖💖
I really wish we were friends in real life, what you say in this video with craving connection is literally all I think about and live for and I just don’t have enough of it right now. Feel a bit like a shell of a person and have done a long time. Watching your videos sometimes I forget that you don’t know me and I don’t actually know you but damn I relate to your words so much
I hope I meet you soon!❤️❤️❤️
i've never thought anybody could articulate that feeling of isolation in social situations even with people you think you love before like i literally thought it was just me when you were talking about feeling inappropriate or discomforting in conversation and everybody else seems to know how to act i have struggled with that for so long thank you so much for saying that i stg everything you said in this video chimed so deeply with me
the script thing omg !!! it feels so isolating
love this
Mwah mwah mwah
just went through a breakup yesterday. I feel an intense lack in my heart, and the connection that tethered me to the rest of the world is just over. Feel like a little girl crying out for love. But also so protective of my heart so connection like that again feels impossible.
sending you so much love and healing! 💜
I am here with you, text me if you ever need to, everything passes and theres now so much more space for more love!
@@rhiannafallon5281 thank you it means the world
@@saoirsemoncrieff thank you
I actually cried watching this. If you love and accept yourself, even in those moments where you’re in a crowd and you can’t click with anyone or join in, you’ll start to feel better. Love even those parts of yourself … the ones that make you different x
Thank you,wishing you love!!
new video new video im so happy!!! i can relate to what you’re saying at the end. i find it so hard to connect to others because i feel like we’re not like minded and sometimes that can be really hard. instead i find connections within art, music, ideas but sometimes it can be so tiring!
i really hope you find your way lovely. this video was so comforting 🥰
And you too, thank you so much 💖
im the same with connection, feel like i annoy people when im with them but even shitter when alone
I love these vlogs Saoirse, makes me feel so centred and at peace. Thank you for the content you bring! Sending you so much love xx
loved this, so beautifully honest and raw
And to you too💖
agreed
Thanks for being open about your feelings expressing them so well ❤ I get the same thing when I’m having a depressive episode or anxiety attack, I tell myself there’s no one to talk to or no one that could help but whenever I just say fuck it and tell someone (even someone I think will not help at all) they always end up helping and understanding, I think it’s easy to feel like no one feels the same and won’t understand your feelings but lots of people have the same or similar feelings sometimes and they will hear you xx
Yeah exactly you’re so right, thank you for sharing
I went through this in my early 20s my best advice is to travel. I did it even though I was skint by working while I was away. I did workaway and volunteered in hostels or you can go do eco farm work. I met people I had more in common with once I got out and seen the world. It’s good to escape the day to day and change it up. Ano it’s a cliche but you just need to find yourself ❤
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Thank you for being so inspiring. I needed to see this today 💓
Wow your eyes look so blue and beautiful with that hair
Yay yay yay new Saoirse video
so comforting
please never stop making videos, I relate to you so much!🌻I feel like we are in the same phase right now, I've just moved to Australia and made new friends but they all love techno and like you said I also feel like such an alien like I don't relate to my generation, I hate techno it feels so empty to me.
Me too I don’t understand it at all!!! It’s so easy to feel alone when you’re afraid to do what you want but when you do everybody follows you
related to this so much, loved it
you are soooo not alone saoirse
Thank you so so much, I hope to meet you soon ❤️
but it was really nice and consoling in a way listening to you talking about this and also just the whole video is so beautiful
I felt the same way for so long about not knowing people who truly got me or were into the same things as me. I just assumed I would never find people like that. Of course I eventually did but I didn't meet any of them until I was 22. I promise they are out there. Also once I found them I realized a new feeling of being scared of loosing them. I feel like the real problem is a sense of lack in general. You are so abundant and when the time is right you will cross paths with them too.
Thank you so much for this!!!! Bless you❤️❤️❤️
Beautiful Saoirse
Love you❤
I wish there were captions for the bit at the end
so relatable so true we love u and ur words
i know exactly how you feel x
This the best video I’ve ever seen on RUclips ever
I love you!!!!!!
@@saoirsemoncrieff ur videos so beautiful and ur voice over part rlly made me so emotional I’ve never felt like so connected to words ever and when u finish with wooden girl it was spectacular !!!!
@@Mimimimkmi thank you so much❤️❤️❤️
I have had a few connections in my life, but they have been tenuous and more just ‘glimmers’ of connection. Maybe this is sad, but I have sort of resigned to giving up on missing that connection.
I find it extremely hard to find people that I do connect to. Of course, ultimately that is what I am seeking and want in life. But I kinda know that I won’t find it in certain places that I find myself in life (just from enough experience/evidence/trial and error). I keep trying all the time but I never get my hopes up. Resultantly, I don’t miss not having that connection because it probably was never possible in the places that I find myself in.
I have become very close to myself as a result, and I connect with myself, God, nature, music, art in place of other people. This is all just for now… I still have hope of course haha, always will, and I know that connections are so possible - I’ve had them before, just maybe not for now.
You are so right, I see you and hear you and completely at the same place right now, glad we can feel it together💖💖
Ive started reading this book 'overcoming Low Self-esteem' by Melanie Fennell and what youre describing sounds like it can help. Also listen to Abraham Hicks!
Listening to her right now!!!! Thank you❤️
lovely as always saoirse
hopefully seeing how many of us relate to these feelings makes you feel less alone
There’s nothing wrong with us!!! All love ❤️
I would loooove to know which 16 personalities type you are!!
Infj xx
techno hate club!!
i just ordered an apache pizza
Mmmmmmm
hi saoirse! i was wondering what song you’re playing on the guitar at 18:36 the chords are so pretty? thank you for sharing your thoughts and vulnerability, you always manage to put my thoughts into words and make me feel less lonely
Thank you so much:))) it’s actually my own song ‘evil woman on your mind’ it’s on soundcloud! Xxx
whats the song at the v. end! such nice chords
Wooden girl by jonatan leandoer 96 x
@@saoirsemoncrieff thank you
what did ellies infamous top say
“I was in Miami bitch”
@@saoirsemoncrieff love it :L
Bro I freaking hate techno thank god seen heard understood xx
Jason’s singing is so out of tune