Every time they say like oh, hes no good. I don't want him, but if it's Chad, they want that guy, you know, hes the millionaire. And what happens to the good guys? They say fine, go with Chad I hope he take cares of you nicely It's not gonna last long mgtow is raising. 😎💯
If you're a westerner and paying for your dates, you might as well just date abroad lol. There you still pay for your dates...but at least the women are hotter and more traditional.
@@LillyMarz777 If he was any older than 17 when he married you, nowadays he would get accused of being a p3dophile for that and you'd be considered some sort of victim. -_- Marrying when young is actively discouraged in multiple ways these days, despite that arguably being a much better time to get married especially for women, and ESPECIALLY if you want many children.
I told a girl, who liked me, that I wanted to marry her, when I was about 20, and she was 18. She said to me, "Oh, I love you, and I'm sure that that would be great, but I am just now entering my early 20s. This is a time for girls to explore, have sex with a lot of different men, and party. So that's what I'm going to do." And that is, indeed, exactly what she did. And I see that her decision is not all that different from what most young women her age take up, both then (about 25 years ago,) and today.
Men that want to get married aren't in the club. So why are they going to the club lol? That's like wanting to buy a Ferrari and going to a second hand car dealer wondering why there aren't any there. Complete stupidity.
I read that back in the day young women went to college not necessarily to get a degree and a career. A lot of women went to college to get a future high value husband. They were in college with those broke, struggling men. They knew what degree in what field the men were studying for and about what their salaries are going to be. Today millions and millions of women wait at the finish line hoping a high value man look in their direction. Back in the day women got their future high value man while he was dead broke. As he climbed the corporate ladder so does she. A man is much more grateful and loving to the woman that helps him build his wealth than the woman that only wants to spend what he built alone.
Shouldn’t dudes take accountability for being promiscuous also? If everyone stopped sleeping around with everything that moves wouldn’t that set the standard?
@@lacarpetrondukemarriottSure. But women control access to sex, so the bulk of the responsibility does lie with them. Anything otherwise is a crime. Not to mention it's drop dead easy for women to get sex, but difficult for the vast majority of men. Therefore the vast majority of men aren't even participating in hookup culture. It's a small percentage that all the women are hooking up with. Thus, the onus is once again moreso on women.
@@blubirdhill2608 no bro. Both need to practice self control and also choosing partners wisely. Stop acting like men have no control over themselves. That makes men sound powerless and pathetic.
That's about it. Is one of then supposed to stop halfway and say "you know, I like you. We should get dinner sometime. Get to know eachother." Just mid pump.
@Tauraaa Act like a wife and you'll get proposed to. act like a husband and you'll get proposed to? Really? Women about to start proposing as often as men?
@@tauraäæàâãąåáāăąàâāæăâąäåfunny many of us men dont act as such, we are as such. Its how our values are, to our core. Yet if you dint know most women dont like good men, those who put the time in. Those who take thing slow. Those of us who dont sleep with ya'll on the first date. We are getting ignored by ya'll out on the streets and we are happy because we dont have drama in our live. Your life choices did this to you.
That has nothing to do with what she just said. Most men at 20 AREN’T looking for wives but you want 20 year old women to get married? Why are 40 year old men even an option.
@@adenise676 When I was 20 I absolutely would have loved to find a woman who was wife material and absolutely would have committed. And I know for a fact most other men would feel the same way if they found a good one. But it took me years after that to find one who was wife material.
@@shanedude91 you are a MINORITY and you know it! So you’re really sitting here saying that majority of men at the age of 20 are ready and want to be married at that age, tied down to one woman?! You’re saying the majority of young men are looking for a wife to marry at age 20?! You can’t expect the young women to be married & not expect the same from our male counterparts. It’s not making sense.
yea it's like strategic investment for young women who want to be a wife to someone their own age. You gotta find the guy who has potential and stick with him while he's broke. The only chance of you finding a trustfund kid in your 20s is if you're also rich. Most dudes in their early 20's aren't looking for a wife either unless they're amish so her point is pretty valid. Young people have the least patience and the most impulsive behavior. Don't start dating until you're 25 and your frontal lobes are developed. Or 18 year old women if you want to be a wife now, date someone who is in their 30's.
That guy at 20 is probably still in school and still trying to decide his life path. He probably doesn't want a serious commitment that could change his goals. After 25 I think would be better. Even a woman at 20 is too young and immature.
I met my husband when I was 21. I found him by looking for a good man, not a good paycheck. He supports me and I look after our kids. But when we met, he was a caterer at a hotel and didn't make very much. He was 23. We grew together, we challenged each other to be our best. We messed up together. We laughed our faces off. Next month is our 10 year anniversary .
More stock in victimhood…at least that’s what they’ve been taught in school and stupid American society. The real world doesn’t give a shh it about that.
Ohhh no, it's worse than that. Had a cousin a couple years ago who was in his second year of college and in a frat. Recalling those days fondly, I asked him how crazy things are and if he's blazing his way across campus. He said he wasn't, nor does he want to. Fair enough. Admittedly, I thought he was going to tell me that he'd rather be focused on his studies or something like that. However, what he told me chilled me to my marrow. As per him, it's "Common, like between not unheard of and average" that girls on campus, his classmates, have triple digits already. 20 years old and already past 100 guys. Apparently, it's something they brag about with other girls and things of that nature. Where there's zero shame. He even mentioned the sorority across the street has some kind of alphabet game where they have the sisters and try to sleep with guys in alphabetical order with the first letter of their name. So like Aaron, Brian, Chad, Derek, Enrique, etc etc, all the way to a guy that starts with Z, where the first one there "wins." They play that game, every. Single. Semester. Great time to be alive if you're on campus and your name is Xerxes, but I digress. Point is, there's also something else to take into consideration, beyond the six figures of debt and undeserved sense of accomplishment chip on her shoulder, the next time said woman across the table from you, brags about her degree.
@@AnthonySforza So, next time she brags about her degree, ask her if she will brag about her famous ABC roast beef sandwich? "BArby's! We've had the meat!"
It's just like what the late Tony Stark said to Peter:"if you're nothing without your suit then you shouldn't have it." If your woman isn't a wife without the ring then she shouldn't have it!
Most of them will probably discover tye ring doesn't magically give them self-control and self-respect, to the detriment of themselves, their husband, their marriage, and their kids if they have any.
Imagine someone telling you people you've never met are going to judge your worth as a mate based on how you've acted with people who you had no plans on settling down with. To her, the context is not the same so that's an entirely different topic, one that she can't accept she's chosen for herself years ago (albeit unknowingly) against her best interest. I'm not surprised if she finds it unreasonable because it kind of is. But marriage is one of the most important choices of any person's life so men are more than justified to be picky for who they want to wife up. She's just mad she's maneuvered herself into such a bad position commitment-wise.
@jokhard8137 Bruh, I don't need to imagine. My mom raised me with such messages as 'Who buys the cow when they get the milk for free' or 'most men just want to get between your legs' 😂 I heeded them but still goofed and picked the wrong guy (I thought we were gonna get married and settle down, he didn't). But my solution wasn't to go get ran through as much as it was trying to establish a new relationship. Then I met my husband a year later 😊 I got my happy ending.
imagine youre eating a sandwich. would you rather eat a sandwich that 100 dudes have fucked or a sandwich that no dudes have fucked? pretty simple concept really. crazy how many people dont understand such simple things.
I see too often women get called sluts for having sexual partners , but there's no shortage of men that will try to sleep with them. It's so crazy how easy the hypocrisy is overlooked. If a woman doesn't value herself in your eyes bc of her sexual life then why would you sleep with her? That makes you just as easy as her and clearly you aren't respecting yourself just like her. It's hypocritical that woman are deemed sluts for willingly sleeping with men that wanted to sleep with us. Double standards exist everywhere, and I'm not sure why we don't point out the illogical thinking in them. It's funny, men say they are the logical ones, I guess on this topic their logic went right up their behinds
@@amolano6830 I'm not a fornicator. Fornicators who get married are only playing house until everything falls apart. Matthew 18 tells us we are to treat unrepentant sinners the same as pagans or tax collectors.
You know what that guy’s been up to? If they want a committed relationship not having commitment standards is very bad for them and they should change their behavior. Many men will tell you to have fun with the 304 until you find your wife. They’re from different pools though. If you don’t post anything on line then move you can hide a bit or just keep it quiet. Some of these girls seem crazy though and should probably disclose because of it.
i mean, what if she wanted the chads she had s*x with to marry her? what if to them she was acting like a wife, but then they didn't want to get married, and then she moved on to try the next chad? where is she wrong in this hypothetical?
@@San-lh8us because she’s picking players and she knows it. As players they won’t settle down until their options start to dry up, because they are having too much fun and they can have children in their 60’s or later. If she looks at everyone she put in the friend zone, she would have a better chance at marriage.
@@Someone_Unknown90 you’re missing the point. Not everyone is capable of being in a committed, long term relationship. If you are, you will find yourself in one. If you just THINK you are, there’s a good chance you’ll end up alone. Simply believing you are good enough has never made anyone good enough.
@@THExMRxLOKKI bro that was literally a whole lotta of nothing lolll, I’ve seen people in long term 20+ year marriages screw it up over nothing, I’ve seen relationships end and those people were literally destined for each other since childhood, I’ve seen two people beat each other up physically for 10+ years but they’re still married and have three wildly successful children. Your pretty naive to think relationships are that simple and that’s the problem with these podcast. These nerd dweebs think they can solve simplify everything including the most complicated concept known to man. A successful healthy long term relationship, it’s a very hard concept, you can’t just “be morally good and not a hoe”, It takes more than that and actually, every grown woman I know who were hoes in their hay day have fantastic daughters with beautiful families, and every traditional conservative mother I know has absolute hoes for daughters like………Hoes bro, see how that works?
“I don’t know how to….” Girl. I started dating my husband when we were 15. I remember friends asking me about my dating life through high school and some got so angry w me that I wasn’t having sex. One girl told me, “guys don’t like girls that play games” I responded, “I’m not playing hard to get. I AM hard to get.”
I married my high school sweet heart. We been together since 15 and 16. We are 26 and 27 now. The amount of hatred we get for only wanting to be with each other is sick. I get it, yes every relationship has a change at ending. I still rather have it this way than spend my life going from guy to guy to guy. We are not even the type to share views on other couples with people because they instantly think we are judging. Look we don’t care if you been with 1 person or 50. My life isn’t yours. Your life isn’t mine.
Whether you think you can or whether you think you can't both people are right. We operate in life through filters some are better than others. A simple example of this would be I recently bought an older Honda CRV. My son never bothered to mention the car but now he points out every car that looks like ours. You become good and develop a taste for whatever you fixate on . To be completely transparent there is a high to sleeping around and cheating but it is short and fleeting and when compared to the cost it's not worth it. We need to bring back shame and social ostracization to restore the quality of women meaningful numbers like you. But this approach is only effective when everyone in the community holds the standard
This is the real one, she's pissed because she wanted CHAD to marry her, he wouldn't so she went for CHAD #2... She aimed high but instead of dropping her aim when she missed she used all her arrows...
To some women my bro. I’ll point out - these aren’t women - these are girls that have been on 5000 hours or insta and Tik Tok. Don’t get too hateful and find the women.
They can’t understand that the men they are attracted to (“Chads”) are the ones running around town.. because these men are young and have options, they aren’t looking to settle down. There’s plenty of 20-year old men who do want to get married, but these women are not attracted to them. These men are literally invisible to women.
Woman - tasts 3 cups of Pepsi in a row, then sees a glass of orange juice, "but I don't like orange juice," then tries 2 more glasses of Pepsi, "oh, all men are the same". Nope, got news for you girls, you pass up on the good men, then settle for a cat in your 40s, leaving thousands of good men depressed, living meaningless lives with no kids to raise and no one to love.... It's just civilisation ending all round, feminism and womens liberation has literally killed the west.
If you won't shame a man for sleeping around, don't shame a woman for doing the same. Any attempt to try to defend a contrary position is just sexism rebranded
Of course she is cause the only men that want her only want her so they can have some adult fun with her and that's all that the guy wants from her and she rejects any guy that would want to possibly marry her so she can say that all guys are the same cause the only guys she has anything to do with her only wants sex and the guys she thinks are too nice or she friend zones them so she can have the argument saying that all guys are the same when she doesn't give the guys who want more from her then just sex a chance. It's her and all the girls who use that argument fault for rejecting all the good guys who want a relationship with her and would marry her possibly so they can feel justified in saying all guys are the same when in reality all the guys she let's have sex with her are all the same.
She's got a point. What she says is men (supposedly) don't want ho3s, but then WHY MEN bang them? A girl with a hoeish attitude wouldn't get NOWHERE if men didn't like to have sex with them
Also women after she's outstretched below the belt line and has 30 kids running amuck trashing the house: Why can't I marry a reasonable guy? Cuz you had your chance and used yourself up. Now you lose!😂😅
@@Itsmeagain828 In this case, it means something like "Why go through the time and effort to date/marry these girls when you can see them naked for $15 and possibly hook up with them?" Edit: Neither of them are actually free, but one is vastly less expensive
And this is why redpillers should be held accountable for encouraging semen sowers and men to be promiscuous on one hand and demanding absolute virginity from women on the other hand.
Really? I don’t think you understand how immature younger guys are. Women are legit thinking family , career, etc early on. Guys are usually pretty shitty at that point, so yeah guys are at least 50% to blame for the girls just marrying right away. People grow apart. Look at the divorce rate. There are for sure crazy controlling cheating guys just as many as cheating controlling cheating women. This mgtow shit is so creepy.
Be accountable ladies .yur not worth the gamble anymore .men have everything to lose . I've lost more than most women could ever attain .if I could get back what I gave of myself .,my time ,effort and commitment, I wouldn't feel so broken .
What's funny is that one point it sounded like she was trying to speak three different ideas in her head at the same time, she has a lot of chaos in her head.
From a spiritual-science point of view, that is exactly what is happening. It is said that we form a spiritual bond with everyone that we have sex with. So promiscuous people are really harming their psyche. Almost like multiple personality disorder. Watch an interview with one of the retired porn actresses. You can see what I mean. Just like you said too
Getting married at 23 sounds horrific, most people run out of annecdotes in under 6 months. At 76 as the average life expectancy, she’d have 53 years of listening to some dumb ass moan about his favorite team every Sunday.
I met my husband at 18 and we married at 23. Ladies, don’t listen to ppl who say don’t marry young unless you plan on staying celibate/virgin till you find someone in your 30s. If you find a man young and you love him and he’s a good man, marry him when he asks you.
It is some really good advice but there is a caveat attached. These young women don't know from Love. You can watch a hundred of these videos and love respect and honor will never be mentioned.
@@yei123mar I'd be, as a man, a little concerned about if a woman asked me to marry her but then again it's usually when a girl asks ME out that I end up in a long term relationship (longer than a month) so who knows. The only girl I've asked to marry me said yes so at least I had that going for me. Too bad I've got to try again or be alone and never accomplish my dream of being a Dad.
She acts like getting ran through isn’t a choice. It’s not a life experience that happens to everyone, YOU have to CHOOSE to get ran through and be emotionally distraught about it
Yeah, that's funny - all the nice girls that were in the Honor Society and went on to college from my class - all ended up pregnant (and mostly single) before they finished their first year in college. These were the girls considered smart, but they were all dating guys with the lowest grades in high school like it was a badge of honor to be with a moron.
Lol you can be the best wife and still have your husband cheat on you, don’t act like it’s a one sided thing when this goes both ways. Men want sex and see women as bodies to sleep with. That’s why these guys don’t get married. They just want sex. Eventually, they will want a wife but it’s under their terms and I guarantee you a lot of men still sleep with the “hoes” they claim not to like while being married.
I mean… meh they are about 70% right. It’s not as black and white as that. So many girls stay with their boyfriends for 5+ years and those boyfriends are never ready to marry because they’re too lazy or too scared or deep down don’t think she is the one. But another man would happily wife her up. It doesn’t mean she was never wifey material, she just was in the wrong relationship xxx
Oh? He just confirmed her worst fears and shut her up real quick, but you go ahead and die on that hill though. When woman walk around with their legs open men will leave just as fast as they come (no pun intended). You want to keep a man? Keep your legs closed so that when he does manage to squeeze in he can’t just slip right back out (again no pun intended). Everyone men and women slowly loses their ability to bond with each new partner. Tie that together with how easily any woman can get laid and you’ll note that female promiscuity is a bigger problem than male.
@@Kaligoddie that’s false. Now every every woman who gets married is suddenly wife material? A lot of women out there are being wifed up by horrible examples of men, simps and sadists and all manner of feminine and foul men. Most of those women were and are wifed up for the sake of opportunity. There are thousands of flaws on both sides, the difference is every time someone brings up the shortcomings of women, either men are to blame or suddenly every woman wants to defend their worst assets. Also their divorce rates are through the roof, either because the man can’t keep dealing with them or because the woman no longer wants the man for a variety of reasons, most commonly having to do with money. Not all wives are wife material, but all wife material is found.
She thought she had an argument going, until she realized that everything she was saying women do and learn in their 20’s REDUCE her value in a man’s eyes.
She's the typical white girl that got ran thru by Pookie that stands outside of 711 every night. Now, she knows her "worth". Foh, ain't nobody tolerating that.
Problem is they think sex is the foundation of a relationship and focus on that entirely. They dont know how to please a guy without flaunting their bodies.
I met my husband at 26. We look at each other at least once a week and think “I wish I had met you sooner”! Soul mates and building a family together, through all the ups and downs is the best part of life!
That’s unfortunately what modern society puts in the minds of young females. They are only worth as much as their physical appearance. It’s rare to find godly spiritual values in modern American society both men and women
My wife has had this realization in the past few years that she was lied to about needing to learn how to "please" a man sexually by doing corndog video stuff. Don't get me wrong: it was nice. But I didn't marry her because of that. I knew she would be a good mother and a good spouse and she is. I'm honestly very happy that she stopped focusing on my sexual pleasure at her own expense. I don't want my woman to feel degraded or disgusted after we make love...
Yes, it is %100 a woman's job not to be run through, If a man does not take it by force, you gave it away. Your body your choice really does mean something.
This. Self entitled deluded modern women prefer partying to committing, what they don't get is that they can party and have fun with one of their friendzoned boyfriend-to-marry, and prefer fooling around and whining about gender disparity and other bs.
That's so true. In my early 20s, I was too busy chasing after bad boys. In hindsight, there was a huge selection of husbands I overlooked, thinking they were boring. In the end, I found a nice boring guy.
Facts to the MAX. I consider myself to be decent husband material. But thanks to the same mindset of all the girls I wanted to establish a relationship with, all threw me under the same label and place. The friendzone. Now, I completely stopped looking and caring. I got the main qualities women want, but now they will never have. I rather preserve and maintain my peace.
@@catherinejohnson-wf8odsounds like a simp wifed up the ran through version of you. Too bad his self respect wasn't strong enough to pick a better partner.
I mean... both parties are at fault. Men and women. Of course women have the last say in this but it's a an issue of the whole society. This madness you see mainly in the western countries, especially English speaking. Some EU countries are not even close to that level like Americans or Brits and the Asian countries are as far away from this bs as possible. You can blame women for giving the access to s*x too easy and you can blame men for allowing a weak society with no values.
@@PayNoTax-GetNoVoteno they aren’t, unless a man’s standard of a valuable woman is controlled by a woman’s standard of what a valuable man is. Women want men with money and who is strong for example, that’s valuable. Men value women who will follow and are slim. The standards are different, men are only dating down if they are not getting those things out of women and accepting it, otherwise, if you are going to say that men are dating down meaning women who are low income and not strong (as I have been hearing the actual argument to be) then you are saying that men find those things valuable in a women and if they don’t pick strong and high earning women then they are dating down.
For the first time in history, men will soon have the upper hand. Women are naturally inclined to want to have children. Many realize this when it’s already almost too late in their mid to late 30’s. A man can have kids when he is 50 if he wants. The thing is high value men don’t want a 39 year old woman who has baggage and now isn’t able to get pregnant because she missed her prime
They can't accept that the things they LOVE to complain about are all literally caused by their own decisions and actions. In their mind "iT cAn NeVeR bE bEcAUse oF mE! EvErYtHiNg iS aLL mEn'S fAuLt!" 😅
I don’t agree, in my 20s I was a virgin, never been asked out, quiet , good girl plain Jane girl. All wifey material are not always found. You have to be available and seen. The guys in my church wanted a certain type of girl which I wasn’t. I’m in my late 30s and get more looks. I felt invisible in my 20s. It’s strange. I felt jealous if the 20 something that was getting married, but they were all good looking…it is LA though.
I’m very skinny, 5’7 130. I was actually 10-15 pounds skinnier in my 20s. You didn’t have to be rude with it. I was just mentioning it doesn’t happen to all the good women. We miss out if we are too shy and timid. I mostly went to church, I’m learning to go out more, that’s why I get noticed more and I start to dress really nice and it helped. I’m currently dating, I just simply disagreed with his comment.
And I don’t have baggage, no kids, no trauma from previous men. Just very unlucky. Again, not every good woman is found. Some may be old maids (I know several in the church).
@rachelcrawford9174 honestly you're probably a good looking woman but perhaps just spent too much time in the wrong niche. Maybe you could've tried going to a different church or putting yourself in a different environment where you could've gotten more appreciation. You sound like a catch, even based on how you treated to the rude commenter. Hopefully your situation works out for the better.
You don't find your husband in your 20s because you want someone with money that's established. Back in the days a couple would get married super young and they'd BOTH BUILD TOGETHER. These days women don't do/want that. They just want someone that already has money. Women are the issue with this not men.
ah yes men who get angry when you tell them porn use causes brain damage aren't the problem. its the women trying to become a porn star lookalike for them that are the problem
Next thing you know your 30 and your still hopeful but more than likely a blind idiot and you'll try to settle down but actually you'll fight for love till your 40 and then the menstrual cycle starts to happen and high levels of depression and then bam your 50 year old sad sack of crap. And this is just for the ones who survive this long.
No, she is saying why are men allowed to run around, but a woman is expected to not. Which is true. She can do what she wants until she finds the one. And if you want to deny a woman because she slept with a few people, then be prepared to get denied yourself because you did the same.
@@denisbeaudoin4618Who is saying men "are allowed" to run around? YOU? I think it's so telling how people snitch on themselves in these comments. Just because YOU don't find it gross for men to run around town hooking up with strangers does not mean WE do not find that weird and gross.
@denisbeaudoin4618 What an idiotic statement. Ask F if they would date a M if he was a Virgin,99% will say no. Ask a M if he would date a F if she was a virgin,99% will say yes. Almost as if what women want in a man is not the same as what man wants in a women.
Because others are doing it doesn't excuse you from doing it too. Be better. Men shouldn't be sleeping around either. But that shouldn't give women an excuse to sleep around too
If you’re 40 and dating 20 year olds, You are one sad mutha. 20 year olds aren’t hard to be with and don’t contribute much to a relationship. Except to your debt.
"Why are men running around and not settling down?" Those guys? They're called Chad. They are using you for sex. But there's all these other guys.... Never mind, you just go ahead and get run through
@@200130769 no. he probably can't run through girls. That's the whole point. 80 percent of men are either invisible, or considered 'creepers'. Y'all wouldn't date most men at gunpoint. You keep lining up for the same Chads and Tyrones and then have a tantrum when they don't stop what they're doing and wife you. It's simple really. Find a guy who won't leave you and don't leave him. Your ancestors figured that out for countless millennia. Delusional Modern women have destroyed the very fabric of dating and courtship in like a decade. Just let that sink In.
@@200130769who said they was running thru the girls??? Naw most men want a non-bitchie no baggage no baby daddy no 30+ body count wife and most of the men who are running thru girls are literally Chad and Tyrone and I bet you most if not all men just want a wife in this comment section bc they are tired of being rejected and lonely. It's time to be an adult and wake up to the truth I know this will be very hard for you to read without being angry so I will pray for you
You guys need to stop blaming women for not wanting you. Live a healthy life, take pride in yourself and focus on education. I wish every day I didn't sleep around all through highschool and university.. my body count sickens me so don't think it's some form of clout or status. Finding a good women is hard, but you have to also be a good man which women will desire.. a lot of us Commenting were/are just as skanky as some of these girls ... doesn't make it okay. At the end of the day would you wanna marry this girl? No lol
I mean, she thinks fucking around is gaining life experience. It's hard when you only have 2 braincells that are rubbing together to get thoughts formed.
@yasminogbu8929 It's really not, but these women that want headpats for existing in a marriage think they should get props for being the wife that they agreed to be. What I find sad is that her parents were probably fully supporting that decision.
I’ve known very few women who learned from their experiences in any helpful/healthy fashion. The ones I have known who did learn from their experiences were coincidentally the ones who also were willing to apologise and accept accountability
My husband was 22 I was 18 when we got married. in a couple months we will have been married 15 years. People told me I needed to go travel and get a career before getting married but being a wife and mother had always always been my dream and I had already traveled the world with my family (they said that didn’t count, like what?? 😂🤦🏼♀️) Men are usually pretty goal oriented, the men that want to get married will…it’s that simple and they won’t wait forever to do so 🤷🏼♀️
@@rebekahseale9445ya see right there. You, unlike many women these days know what you want and have a good perspective of what has value and what doesn’t. You seem to know when you have found a good thing and seem determined to keep it. Hats off to you. May you and your husband have a long and fruitful marriage. 👍👍
Since women set the market the responsibility is on them, and since they don't require commitment to sleep with them, dudes can run through them. If every woman required marriage to sleep with her, there'd be a lot more marriages. That simple
Only the Top 15% get to run through them. Males from the bottom the percentage range of 16 to 84 are all viewed and treated as ZERO!! by 90% of the Women of modern 21st Century Western Society. Female promiscuity and hypergamy enables, condones, approves, creates, and consents Male Polygamy. BOTTOM LINE.
Its real simple. Young guys aren't established financially and that is what they want. Established guys aren't young most of the time. They want a finished product instead of someone they can grow with and make each other better.
@@sjnix7044 They want the fruits of success without any of the labor or the risk of failure that went into it. And of course who wouldn't want that? But it means she is no part of the struggles and achievement. She is an addon to his life, and therefore an easy cast off.
@@buybuydandavis as an older man, i felt a stab wound from what you said, because it's true. the formula should be, both should marry relatively young because they grow together, are invested in each other. to some limited degree, younger women might be attracted to the maturity and financial security of older, but you're exactly right that then she is not invested and will, therefore, eventually monkey branch from the older man with a lot of money to a younger man with good money. alas, looks like i'm out of the market which is heartbreaking but then marrying a modern woman is even more heartbreaking so was there ever really a chance for me
I married my wife when she was 20. I was 25. I just graduated and we were broke. 18 years, 5 great kids, many sacrifices and lots of wonderful memories later we are a very happy family. I help my young daughters find women of substance to follow.
Nah, I would have been but still no one married me so it goes both ways. Men are running after these girls who don't settle and ignores those who want.
Women completely control access to any type of sexual activity. If they collectively forced men to wait until marriage, they couldn’t complain about Chad and Tyrone
They want their cake and eat it too. It happens especially to the ones who show dum dum signs that they're not wife material and the guys they stay with knows this for a year or 2 situationship tops.
The 304s ruin it for those of us who do make a man wait till marriage. Because men are desperate to get laid, and because men know sex is readily available, they leave the waiting woman for someone easier who will put out. No guy wants to wait.
@@ChadWSmith74 The majority. It's the natural progression for men. Study, get a good job, buy a house, etc. This is what men do by default. They are already a good husband if they have followed this natural progression, and the rest they learn from their wife.
Yeah, women in their 20s acting like it was their teens. l've seen teenagers act more mature at 18 than many women at 28. They act like it's a valid excuse. Women who wasted years of my life were in their mid 20s doing so. The only girls that wanted to settle with me were literally 19 & 20. They were immature & dumb unfortunately, didn't understand long distance (2 hours of driving to meet wouldn't work), but they actually desired me & a relationship. Now I am in my 30s and don't have time for that crap anymore after the years lost.
These the same “I don’t live with regret…” bishes. My ex was one of those, and the only thing making me wish I never met her is the absolutely awesome daughter she gave me… Who, I might add, has turned out to be NOTHING like her hoe ass momma….👍🏾
@@Jayremy89mate, sheet is awful... If I give up and start rampaging I feel like a piece of "sheet". If I try settling get insane-style rejection (after ploughing a few times), if try youngsters can't stand their stupidity, if she seems level headed, she's close to expiration date... Awesome times we live in... (And yes, I'm a broke decoy Chad)
I don't think I've ever got a random call from a girl that didn't want something from me since 2005. If she's calling unexpectedly... she wants or needs something from you. Even if she's thrown you the viscous innards before. Guaranteed.
@@Diarrheagod No, evil people hurt people. Then they say stupid shit like hurt people hurt people. P.S, Saying Mic Drop doesn't stop others from responding to your claims. Good luck and seek God if you've got the guts too. 👍
@@andyroosky Having those two categories harm society, but they are the results of feminism, sexual revolution, birth control, etc Look at the things that correlate with more short-term orientation in men, and all those will be contributing to the problem, alcohol, mixing of genders, and no modesty in clothing...
@@andyrooskyhow is it hypocritical when women are the gate keepers to sex, if a woman is loose with it it's not the man's fault he takes advantage of an easy woman.
I was married at 19. 3 kids by 28, nurse,. Don't know what it would be like now. Now 67, divorced just out of a 10 year relationship. Quite content, still working, seeing the country as a travel nurse. Living well, it's good.
So true, but she is looking to be wifed by Chad or Tyrone. Just a little hint incase women have not figured this out, Chad and Tyrone are out there slaying as many as they can and are not looking to wife up anyone. And women like make it all the easier to slayed.
Yet these men haven’t found a wife? As someone who was “wifed” at 21 I can tell you why cos I ran the out her direction so far from every type of man on this podcast That’s the irony here. Now they want women like me in the 40s but we’re all 2-3 kids deep in 20 year marriages. And no at 20/21 even 30 year olds trying to date me creeped me out a little. I was intrested in young hot guys my age, not older men creeping on me. Women who make wives generally find something their age and build a life.
@@Linsey2345 you completely missed the point, those men that these women are chasing will never wife them or any other women. Women who are wife material will be found. Make sure the man who finds you is not a Chad or Tyrone. Ask your father or brother for advice if the guy is good or not we will know.
@@andyknolls8735 I didn’t miss the point…. I agree … I am just pointing out the irony. These man don’t understand that the women they despise are infact their “level” and their equivalent….. that’s their league at this point.
@@Linsey2345 "Yet these men haven’t found a wife?" --- #1 women have FAR MORE options than men. #2 not very man women are wife material nowadays. every girl wants to have a 304 phase & thinks she deserves a ring after catching a bunch of STD's. no thanks. "Now they want women like me in the 40s but we’re all 2-3 kids deep in 20 year marriages." --- no man wants women in their 40's for anything other than sex... stop the cap. "And no at 20/21 even 30 year olds trying to date me creeped me out a little. I was intrested in young hot guys my age, not older men creeping on me." --- thats actually the age of men you were supposed to be dating at that time. women want men who are more mature & have more financial stability & men don't get that until their 30's & sometimes 40's. men want youth & fertility which you're in your prime in your early 20's. so you should be dating a guy who is 30-35 around age 20-25. but you're so brainwashed with feminist BS that you have no idea what is the right thing to do. "Women who make wives generally find something their age and build a life." --- modern women generally don't do that. they sleep around with bad boys & then when they're 30-35 they ask why are no men asking to marry me after I slept with half the fraternity? men don't like 304's the same way women don't like broke men... deal with it.
She thinks all 20 year old men are out there hoeing around and that's the problem right there. Look at the statistics, there's only about 10% able to do that and those are the ones SHES looking for
"A lot happens in your 20s" (said in shakey 60yr old persons traumatized voice by a 20yr old)? Sounds like more than enough happened to her by her pre-teens! Shes gonna have so much trauma by 30, shes gonna sound like a parkinsons patient. W/at least 10 new tattoos.
Ladies, we're the ones controlling sexual access. If you don't want men to "run through" you, don't let them. That decision alone will screen out a lot of undesirable men.
‘There something to be said about age and experience’. That’s her original claim. Then its essentially countered with ‘no, there isn’t, men don’t want that’. Her reply is then why don’t men wife me. Cognitive dissonance if ever I’ve seen it!
My wife was 21 when we started dating, I was 33, now 16 years later we just celebrated our 12th wedding anniversary, we have two beautiful daughters who are 14 & 15. ❤
My wife was 22 & I was 35. We have two beautiful daughters. I encouraged my wife to finish college, encouraged her to climb the corporate ladder. She divorced me when I turned 48 and my youngest daughter was 4. We were married 13 years. I’m telling you brother, DO NOT TRUST WOMEN!!!!!!! PERIOD!!!!!! EVER!!!!!!!! 🇺🇸
@@chuckdriver8269 where you went wrong was encouraging her to finish college and especially to CLIMB THE CORPORATE LADDER. yuck! you'd still be married if not for that.
Currently my wife is 42 and I’m 52. We have 5 kids but when I met her she was a single mother and I already had 2 kids. My wife earns more than me and has a high status job. I became RP within my marriage when prior I was a nice guy or a more traditional man. My wife forced me to change my role and it was the best thing that ever happened to me. I learned that even with a 10 year age gap these women still have some of the modern women tendencies. Once, I adapted my attitude and made the adjustment then my marriage changed. The biggest shift was me not giving a f*ck and being willing to walk away without a moments notice and no matter the cost to me. I give her guidance, wisdom, protection and encouragement as I should because I love her but I can only love her 80%. My love is conditional and she has to earn the 80% I’m willing to give her. Disrespectful behavior is never tolerated and wherever it happens I’m dealing with it swiftly and with extreme prejudice but other than that I treat her better than she deserves. I want to see her happy but not at my expense. My wife was used to getting mistreated by guys because she wanted to date the popular guys or bad boys. Initially, she thought I was a beta because I was polite and really into her when we first met but that soon changed. Patrice O’Neal was my savior in navigating my marriage. I live my life as if I could be single tomorrow but within my marriage. My wife knows I love her but that love will not make me play small for or make it okay for her to make my life miserable. I’d walk away before having my marriage make me unhappy.
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its so simple and true, a man sees wifey material Vs uses 304s dumpsters for what they are. act like a 304 at any age, get treated as such.
I'm trying to click on the link but it won't let me go to the episode with episode number is this
@@larrycurtis6398you find it? Lol
@@larrycurtis6398 it’s a yt update, links don’t work on shorts anymore but it’s episode 63!
@@yme3267 dating talk #63
Men aren’t running around town. The men THAT WANT MARRIAGE ARE THE ONES YOU KEEP REJECTING
Every time they say like oh, hes no good. I don't want him, but if it's Chad, they want that guy, you know, hes the millionaire.
And what happens to the good guys? They say fine, go with Chad I hope he take cares of you nicely It's not gonna last long mgtow is raising. 😎💯
Underrated statement
It’s because men that want to get married don’t want to deal with alcoholic women that care more about partying and traveling then starting a family.
Bingo 🎯
Yes because they don't want creeps. They want a partner, and don't have to settle for a fat bald loser 🤪
Women: "Why arent men wifing us up earlier."
Also women: "I refuse to date someone who only has Applebee's money," she said after he paid the bill.
I was wifed up at 17. I wasn't even looking. He just walked through the door of my grandma's garage and he stole my heart.
If you're a westerner and paying for your dates, you might as well just date abroad lol. There you still pay for your dates...but at least the women are hotter and more traditional.
Not to mention grateful and happier.
@@LillyMarz777 If he was any older than 17 when he married you, nowadays he would get accused of being a p3dophile for that and you'd be considered some sort of victim. -_-
Marrying when young is actively discouraged in multiple ways these days, despite that arguably being a much better time to get married especially for women, and ESPECIALLY if you want many children.
I told a girl, who liked me, that I wanted to marry her, when I was about 20, and she was 18. She said to me, "Oh, I love you, and I'm sure that that would be great, but I am just now entering my early 20s. This is a time for girls to explore, have sex with a lot of different men, and party. So that's what I'm going to do." And that is, indeed, exactly what she did. And I see that her decision is not all that different from what most young women her age take up, both then (about 25 years ago,) and today.
Bruh, he called her a hoe in the nicest way possible lol.
A non Wife hahaha
I think she called herself a 304 without realizing it.. even some of the looks she got from her female counterparts said it
…and she was smiling while he did it. 🤦🏾♂️
@@gabemartin72The eyeroll was hard to miss.
And she giggled and said "ya" 😂
Day 347 at the club, and still can't find a man that wants to get married.😢😅
Figures, that they think that way lol 🙄
Men that want to get married aren't in the club. So why are they going to the club lol?
That's like wanting to buy a Ferrari and going to a second hand car dealer wondering why there aren't any there. Complete stupidity.
Exactly! ‘Tinder and the club but I can’t find a husband , poor me’
I read that back in the day young women went to college not necessarily to get a degree and a career.
A lot of women went to college to get a future high value husband.
They were in college with those broke, struggling men.
They knew what degree in what field the men were studying for and about what their salaries are going to be.
Today millions and millions of women wait at the finish line hoping a high value man look in their direction.
Back in the day women got their future high value man while he was dead broke.
As he climbed the corporate ladder so does she.
A man is much more grateful and loving to the woman that helps him build his wealth than the woman that only wants to spend what he built alone.
@@thomasspann8678 correct. They built a life together. Now they sleep around until late 30s and expect all the prizes.
No accountability.. she literally tried to blame being promiscuous on men not wifing them younger. 😂
Hilarious. Modern women are something else.
I don't think you know what the word literally means
Shouldn’t dudes take accountability for being promiscuous also? If everyone stopped sleeping around with everything that moves wouldn’t that set the standard?
@@lacarpetrondukemarriottSure. But women control access to sex, so the bulk of the responsibility does lie with them. Anything otherwise is a crime. Not to mention it's drop dead easy for women to get sex, but difficult for the vast majority of men. Therefore the vast majority of men aren't even participating in hookup culture. It's a small percentage that all the women are hooking up with. Thus, the onus is once again moreso on women.
@@blubirdhill2608 no bro. Both need to practice self control and also choosing partners wisely. Stop acting like men have no control over themselves. That makes men sound powerless and pathetic.
They ain’t wives. That’s why it doesn’t make sense to them. “Why didn’t any of the guys running a train on me give me a ring?” 😂
They all wanted a dic test drive first to make sure the guy can satisfy these 304’s
Thank u
That's about it. Is one of then supposed to stop halfway and say "you know, I like you. We should get dinner sometime. Get to know eachother." Just mid pump.
@@eternalrage6548 Mid-stroke 😂😂😂
That's not what she's asking, and I find it wild that no man is willing to directly answer her question
Act like a wife and you will get wifed up. Simple.
@Tauraaa
Act like a wife and you'll get proposed to.
act like a husband and you'll get proposed to? Really? Women about to start proposing as often as men?
@@tauraäæàâãąåáāăąàâāæăâąäåfunny many of us men dont act as such, we are as such. Its how our values are, to our core. Yet if you dint know most women dont like good men, those who put the time in. Those who take thing slow. Those of us who dont sleep with ya'll on the first date. We are getting ignored by ya'll out on the streets and we are happy because we dont have drama in our live. Your life choices did this to you.
@@tauraäæàâãąåáāăąàâāæăâąäå”act like a husband then.” = body count 35+ and is aroused by toxic situationships… 😂😂
@@tauraäæàâãąåáāăąàâāæăâąäåstick to dogs
@@zidedeikery7224 Who's running through these women then, if men are out here acting like husbands?
A king does not want a queen the entire kingdom has already slept with.
And vice versa. Why does he get to run around and smash but she can’t? Hmmm weird how that affects both sides
Bars
A true queen stays in her castle. A ho runs in the streets
Haha bro, no one is a king, other than a king. Your not. I'm not. Stop with the king shit. It's super lame
@@live4thehunttoday678 👏👏👏👏 thank you
They never wifed you up because you weren't acting like wife material.
Preach!!!
Who are these women?
That has nothing to do with what she just said. Most men at 20 AREN’T looking for wives but you want 20 year old women to get married? Why are 40 year old men even an option.
@@adenise676 When I was 20 I absolutely would have loved to find a woman who was wife material and absolutely would have committed. And I know for a fact most other men would feel the same way if they found a good one. But it took me years after that to find one who was wife material.
@@shanedude91 you are a MINORITY and you know it!
So you’re really sitting here saying that majority of men at the age of 20 are ready and want to be married at that age, tied down to one woman?! You’re saying the majority of young men are looking for a wife to marry at age 20?! You can’t expect the young women to be married & not expect the same from our male counterparts. It’s not making sense.
You didn’t want that guy when he was 20 and he doesn’t want you in your 30’s!
Simple
Pretty much
yea it's like strategic investment for young women who want to be a wife to someone their own age. You gotta find the guy who has potential and stick with him while he's broke. The only chance of you finding a trustfund kid in your 20s is if you're also rich. Most dudes in their early 20's aren't looking for a wife either unless they're amish so her point is pretty valid. Young people have the least patience and the most impulsive behavior. Don't start dating until you're 25 and your frontal lobes are developed. Or 18 year old women if you want to be a wife now, date someone who is in their 30's.
That guy at 20 is probably still in school and still trying to decide his life path. He probably doesn't want a serious commitment that could change his goals. After 25 I think would be better. Even a woman at 20 is too young and immature.
@@alannatodd7183that’s a modern social construct tho. 120 years ago most people were married by the time they were 17-18
I met my husband when I was 21.
I found him by looking for a good man, not a good paycheck. He supports me and I look after our kids. But when we met, he was a caterer at a hotel and didn't make very much.
He was 23.
We grew together, we challenged each other to be our best. We messed up together. We laughed our faces off.
Next month is our 10 year anniversary .
Happy 10th anniversary!!❤
Beautiful
😊😊😊
Congratulations on your 10 years of love and happiness. I pray that your family enjoys so many more years of joy and conquered troubles.
Just keep that attitude and teach your daughters and sons the same, that's one of the keys to a joyful life.
“All wives are found” - loved that 🥰
you can *NOT* Shake the Hoe Tree, and expect a *Wife* to Fall Out!
😂😂😂😂😂
Perfect....
Can't find truffles on city streets.
A modern version of you can't make a silk purse out of a pig's ear.
That's dreadful. 😂🤣😂🤣😂 Never heard that before.
😂
Trash will be taken out. Collectables will be kept.
Haha , perfectly said in under 10 words
Nailed it. You paying attention ladies? Are you trash or treasure? Men know what to do when we come across each... and NO ONE wants fools gold.
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Well put
Modern day Socrates over here
She’s blaming men for her having sex with hundreds of them. Wow. Will they ever hold themselves accountable.
Short answer: no.
More stock in victimhood…at least that’s what they’ve been taught in school and stupid American society. The real world doesn’t give a shh it about that.
Its already 2 late as they say it will be a cold day in hell men dont get the same sympathy for our trauma
She's pointing out the double standard.
Both parties are inexcusable. It's insane how both genders (not all people) can never just be honest.
"A lot happens in your 20s"
Yes and I know a lot of women who were completely used up and worn out by 25.
Trust me on this.
Eww lol. That's crazy
Ohhh no, it's worse than that. Had a cousin a couple years ago who was in his second year of college and in a frat. Recalling those days fondly, I asked him how crazy things are and if he's blazing his way across campus. He said he wasn't, nor does he want to. Fair enough.
Admittedly, I thought he was going to tell me that he'd rather be focused on his studies or something like that. However, what he told me chilled me to my marrow. As per him, it's "Common, like between not unheard of and average" that girls on campus, his classmates, have triple digits already. 20 years old and already past 100 guys. Apparently, it's something they brag about with other girls and things of that nature. Where there's zero shame.
He even mentioned the sorority across the street has some kind of alphabet game where they have the sisters and try to sleep with guys in alphabetical order with the first letter of their name. So like Aaron, Brian, Chad, Derek, Enrique, etc etc, all the way to a guy that starts with Z, where the first one there "wins." They play that game, every. Single. Semester.
Great time to be alive if you're on campus and your name is Xerxes, but I digress. Point is, there's also something else to take into consideration, beyond the six figures of debt and undeserved sense of accomplishment chip on her shoulder, the next time said woman across the table from you, brags about her degree.
@@AnthonySforzadamn...
@@AnthonySforza So, next time she brags about her degree, ask her if she will brag about her famous ABC roast beef sandwich?
"BArby's! We've had the meat!"
@@AnthonySforza My god... what has society these days come to...
Her: I wish someone would notice me😔
Average guy: I notice you.
Her: Go away. 😒
BECAUSE SHE IS A TEN!!!!!!!!!!!
But men don’t want average women either hmmm
@@beckyd3546meh six at best
@@SOoFOCUSEDyeah that’s kind of the point both sides have unrealistic expectations. Don’t expect to find Prince Charming if you aren’t a Cinderella
She’s not a ten to me. She’s not ugly but not a ten.
If you need a ring to have self-control and self-respect, you’re not wife material to begin with.
such an underrated comment!!
It's just like what the late Tony Stark said to Peter:"if you're nothing without your suit then you shouldn't have it."
If your woman isn't a wife without the ring then she shouldn't have it!
Most of them will probably discover tye ring doesn't magically give them self-control and self-respect, to the detriment of themselves, their husband, their marriage, and their kids if they have any.
@@nrais76actually they won't discover that. They'll cheat and look to the man/men for blame.
Amen
If you're out there clubbing and using hookup apps then you are actively avoiding becoming a wife.
incorrect
And husband
@@WhatsIQ your username makes sense. You don’t have IQ so what is IQ? Lol
@shyannphillips4682 false, most women actually don't care if a man has been around.
I should know, I've been around 🤣
@@WhatsIQexplain how
Typical, blaming others for their own behaviour.
.... always... 🙄
Black guy was spot on. And marriage material men aren’t the ones you run around with while you’re getting your baggage
Dude should have just used a Cricket bat.
Black Men are always right.
@@EastsideSILENCER777No, but this one was yes
Bro, he just said some random words that didn’t even make sense to try to sound smart
@@EastsideSILENCER777 tf kinda statement is that?😂
She doesn't comprehend the idea of simply not getting ran through.
Imagine someone telling you people you've never met are going to judge your worth as a mate based on how you've acted with people who you had no plans on settling down with. To her, the context is not the same so that's an entirely different topic, one that she can't accept she's chosen for herself years ago (albeit unknowingly) against her best interest.
I'm not surprised if she finds it unreasonable because it kind of is. But marriage is one of the most important choices of any person's life so men are more than justified to be picky for who they want to wife up. She's just mad she's maneuvered herself into such a bad position commitment-wise.
@@jokhard8137enough said!!!! 💯 agree
@jokhard8137 Bruh, I don't need to imagine. My mom raised me with such messages as 'Who buys the cow when they get the milk for free' or 'most men just want to get between your legs' 😂 I heeded them but still goofed and picked the wrong guy (I thought we were gonna get married and settle down, he didn't). But my solution wasn't to go get ran through as much as it was trying to establish a new relationship. Then I met my husband a year later 😊 I got my happy ending.
imagine youre eating a sandwich. would you rather eat a sandwich that 100 dudes have fucked or a sandwich that no dudes have fucked? pretty simple concept really. crazy how many people dont understand such simple things.
It's men's fault you see ha ha
If you let yourself get ran through, you're no longer a wife.
I see too often women get called sluts for having sexual partners , but there's no shortage of men that will try to sleep with them. It's so crazy how easy the hypocrisy is overlooked. If a woman doesn't value herself in your eyes bc of her sexual life then why would you sleep with her? That makes you just as easy as her and clearly you aren't respecting yourself just like her.
It's hypocritical that woman are deemed sluts for willingly sleeping with men that wanted to sleep with us.
Double standards exist everywhere, and I'm not sure why we don't point out the illogical thinking in them. It's funny, men say they are the logical ones, I guess on this topic their logic went right up their behinds
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Amazing how people sit on their morality throne and judge others while committing the same acts.
@@amolano6830 I'm not a fornicator. Fornicators who get married are only playing house until everything falls apart. Matthew 18 tells us we are to treat unrepentant sinners the same as pagans or tax collectors.
You know what that guy’s been up to?
If they want a committed relationship not having commitment standards is very bad for them and they should change their behavior.
Many men will tell you to have fun with the 304 until you find your wife.
They’re from different pools though.
If you don’t post anything on line then move you can hide a bit or just keep it quiet.
Some of these girls seem crazy though and should probably disclose because of it.
The men she wants are the Chads, not men who want to be married.
I don’t think you have any clue who or what she wants Broski you sound butthurt your not a desirable man
i mean, what if she wanted the chads she had s*x with to marry her? what if to them she was acting like a wife, but then they didn't want to get married, and then she moved on to try the next chad? where is she wrong in this hypothetical?
@@San-lh8us because she’s picking players and she knows it. As players they won’t settle down until their options start to dry up, because they are having too much fun and they can have children in their 60’s or later. If she looks at everyone she put in the friend zone, she would have a better chance at marriage.
@@a.mathis9454 so she should just accept less attractive guys than what she could be having, if she wants to get married, correct?
@@San-lh8us so you only judge people by their appearance?
I love what that man said:” all wives are found. If you are a wife, you will be found.” Beautifully said. 😊
YES!
And the mid 20’s pink hair is in denial in the background at the end 😂
At the same time 50% of them turn out not be but ok 😂😂
@@Someone_Unknown90 you’re missing the point. Not everyone is capable of being in a committed, long term relationship. If you are, you will find yourself in one. If you just THINK you are, there’s a good chance you’ll end up alone. Simply believing you are good enough has never made anyone good enough.
@@THExMRxLOKKI bro that was literally a whole lotta of nothing lolll, I’ve seen people in long term 20+ year marriages screw it up over nothing, I’ve seen relationships end and those people were literally destined for each other since childhood, I’ve seen two people beat each other up physically for 10+ years but they’re still married and have three wildly successful children.
Your pretty naive to think relationships are that simple and that’s the problem with these podcast. These nerd dweebs think they can solve simplify everything including the most complicated concept known to man. A successful healthy long term relationship, it’s a very hard concept, you can’t just “be morally good and not a hoe”,
It takes more than that and actually, every grown woman I know who were hoes in their hay day have fantastic daughters with beautiful families, and every traditional conservative mother I know has absolute hoes for daughters like………Hoes bro, see how that works?
“I don’t know how to….”
Girl. I started dating my husband when we were 15.
I remember friends asking me about my dating life through high school and some got so angry w me that I wasn’t having sex. One girl told me, “guys don’t like girls that play games”
I responded, “I’m not playing hard to get. I AM hard to get.”
G-d bless you Ma'am. She was 16 and me 19 when we got together. I don't know why that's so frowned upon now.
Girls worth keeping are always hard to get. Easy girls aren't worth keeping.
I married my high school sweet heart. We been together since 15 and 16. We are 26 and 27 now. The amount of hatred we get for only wanting to be with each other is sick. I get it, yes every relationship has a change at ending. I still rather have it this way than spend my life going from guy to guy to guy. We are not even the type to share views on other couples with people because they instantly think we are judging. Look we don’t care if you been with 1 person or 50. My life isn’t yours. Your life isn’t mine.
Whether you think you can or whether you think you can't both people are right. We operate in life through filters some are better than others. A simple example of this would be I recently bought an older Honda CRV. My son never bothered to mention the car but now he points out every car that looks like ours. You become good and develop a taste for whatever you fixate on . To be completely transparent there is a high to sleeping around and cheating but it is short and fleeting and when compared to the cost it's not worth it. We need to bring back shame and social ostracization to restore the quality of women meaningful numbers like you. But this approach is only effective when everyone in the community holds the standard
@@JoseDiaz-rd9fh
Ha! I say “whether you think you can” quote all the time! So good and so true!
Modern Woman: "but if I'm chassing the wrong type of man, why should I be held accountable for my actions?"
This is the real one, she's pissed because she wanted CHAD to marry her, he wouldn't so she went for CHAD #2...
She aimed high but instead of dropping her aim when she missed she used all her arrows...
Sounds like a load of BS to justify the choices she made!
Personal accountability is like Kryptonite to women.
And Hamas/Pro-Palestinians
To some women my bro. I’ll point out - these aren’t women - these are girls that have been on 5000 hours or insta and Tik Tok. Don’t get too hateful and find the women.
They can’t understand that the men they are attracted to (“Chads”) are the ones running around town.. because these men are young and have options, they aren’t looking to settle down.
There’s plenty of 20-year old men who do want to get married, but these women are not attracted to them. These men are literally invisible to women.
That and rejection. These things will truly break a woman and cause her to self reflect.
Woman - tasts 3 cups of Pepsi in a row, then sees a glass of orange juice, "but I don't like orange juice," then tries 2 more glasses of Pepsi, "oh, all men are the same". Nope, got news for you girls, you pass up on the good men, then settle for a cat in your 40s, leaving thousands of good men depressed, living meaningless lives with no kids to raise and no one to love.... It's just civilisation ending all round, feminism and womens liberation has literally killed the west.
Lady: a lot happens in your 20’s. Brian: like getting ran through, trauma and baggage? Lady: yeah. A lot!😢*
If you won't shame a man for sleeping around, don't shame a woman for doing the same. Any attempt to try to defend a contrary position is just sexism rebranded
@@amolano6830 guess you didn't get wifed, huh?
@@amolano6830no its Just biology and reality
@@jaydriel2957 No, it's rules for thee but not for me. How convenient for the one who is a hypocrite.
@@jaydriel2957 29 years of marriage. How about you?
She's blaming men for her decisions. Lol
Of course she is cause the only men that want her only want her so they can have some adult fun with her and that's all that the guy wants from her and she rejects any guy that would want to possibly marry her so she can say that all guys are the same cause the only guys she has anything to do with her only wants sex and the guys she thinks are too nice or she friend zones them so she can have the argument saying that all guys are the same when she doesn't give the guys who want more from her then just sex a chance. It's her and all the girls who use that argument fault for rejecting all the good guys who want a relationship with her and would marry her possibly so they can feel justified in saying all guys are the same when in reality all the guys she let's have sex with her are all the same.
And wonders why she’s single 😂
Welcome to women.
We call those girls hoes. 🤓
She's got a point. What she says is men (supposedly) don't want ho3s, but then WHY MEN bang them? A girl with a hoeish attitude wouldn't get NOWHERE if men didn't like to have sex with them
"Experience" - sleeping with guys and other women
Women: “My man needs to make at least 500k”
Also Women: “Why aren’t men in their early 20s marrying us?”
🤦♂️
Also women after she's outstretched below the belt line and has 30 kids running amuck trashing the house:
Why can't I marry a reasonable guy?
Cuz you had your chance and used yourself up. Now you lose!😂😅
Blake working class men marry- stop talking misinformation
@@yasminogbu8929 You missed the point
@@jbuk4369 you missed the facts
There is an old saying, "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?."
Also don't buy the calf if you have access to the cow also😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
These are only fans' girls. Ain't nothing free.
@@Itsmeagain828 In this case, it means something like "Why go through the time and effort to date/marry these girls when you can see them naked for $15 and possibly hook up with them?" Edit: Neither of them are actually free, but one is vastly less expensive
And this is why redpillers should be held accountable for encouraging semen sowers and men to be promiscuous on one hand and demanding absolute virginity from women on the other hand.
An old saying?! 😂😂
Gaslight is their default setting. Her suggestion that men are somehow culpable for women not wanting to marry when they should is next level nuts.
Amen!
Y’all must forget what a 16-21 year old boy is like in America…. Not thinking about having a family. Stop the cap
Really? I don’t think you understand how immature younger guys are. Women are legit thinking family , career, etc early on. Guys are usually pretty shitty at that point, so yeah guys are at least 50% to blame for the girls just marrying right away. People grow apart. Look at the divorce rate. There are for sure crazy controlling cheating guys just as many as cheating controlling cheating women. This mgtow shit is so creepy.
Be accountable ladies .yur not worth the gamble anymore .men have everything to lose . I've lost more than most women could ever attain .if I could get back what I gave of myself .,my time ,effort and commitment, I wouldn't feel so broken .
@bradbrooks2138 don't worry bro. Being broken is a chance to build back stronger .
It's true.
Don't make any excuses for yourself.
What's funny is that one point it sounded like she was trying to speak three different ideas in her head at the same time, she has a lot of chaos in her head.
From a spiritual-science point of view, that is exactly what is happening. It is said that we form a spiritual bond with everyone that we have sex with. So promiscuous people are really harming their psyche. Almost like multiple personality disorder. Watch an interview with one of the retired porn actresses. You can see what I mean. Just like you said too
"Why aren't you wifing us up early then ?" Because at 18, you already have a bodycount of 30😂
You probably actively try to get a body count of 30 but you can’t because you’re unappealing which makes you angry
and you know that how ?.... where is the full podcast ? I hope that your statement is not based of an assumption
@@emanuelkakuja9614this comment doesn’t have to be specifically aimed at the 304 in this video. It’s aimed at 304’s in general.
@emanuelkakuja9614 buddy it's a podcast where they interview whores and roast them read the writing on the wall 🧱 🤣
@@marcschwartz549 mhm dodged a bullet with that comment , fair enough i suppose
“I didn’t want to be married at 23 so now I’m unhappy I wasn’t married at 23” essentially is what she said.
No it wasn’t? Did you even listen to what she was saying? You incels are something else
@@user-gx1lx1qf5wIf you think everyone you disagree with is an incel you might be worse than them lmao. Weirdo
@@user-gx1lx1qf5wyou are the one that didn’t listen. Stop projecting
@@user-gx1lx1qf5wwe heard what she said. What we don't do is try to change their minds. Hoes gonna ho
Getting married at 23 sounds horrific, most people run out of annecdotes in under 6 months.
At 76 as the average life expectancy, she’d have 53 years of listening to some dumb ass moan about his favorite team every Sunday.
I met my husband at 18 and we married at 23. Ladies, don’t listen to ppl who say don’t marry young unless you plan on staying celibate/virgin till you find someone in your 30s. If you find a man young and you love him and he’s a good man, marry him when he asks you.
It is some really good advice but there is a caveat attached. These young women don't know from Love. You can watch a hundred of these videos and love respect and honor will never be mentioned.
I agree with everything but would like to add... If he a good man in his early 20s don't wait too long. The gal can ask for marriage as well.
I met mine at 14 & married him at 16. We’ve been together 47 years so far! When you know, you know.
@@yei123mar I'd be, as a man, a little concerned about if a woman asked me to marry her but then again it's usually when a girl asks ME out that I end up in a long term relationship (longer than a month) so who knows. The only girl I've asked to marry me said yes so at least I had that going for me.
Too bad I've got to try again or be alone and never accomplish my dream of being a Dad.
@@camobranson09why do you want the woman to ask you out?
She acts like getting ran through isn’t a choice. It’s not a life experience that happens to everyone, YOU have to CHOOSE to get ran through and be emotionally distraught about it
Every modest, feminine girl I knew in HS was married before our 10 year reunion. All the fun chicks all had baby daddies. He spoke no lies
Yeah, that's funny - all the nice girls that were in the Honor Society and went on to college from my class - all ended up pregnant (and mostly single) before they finished their first year in college. These were the girls considered smart, but they were all dating guys with the lowest grades in high school like it was a badge of honor to be with a moron.
@@adb888 that’s what happens when you have the world telling young girls to “have fun” in college that’s what happens🤷🏽
Factsss
"fun" is the most overrated and toxic aim in life. Just above "happiness". Shallow goals.
You become a wife by behaving like one. Not a cheating wife either.
Lol you can be the best wife and still have your husband cheat on you, don’t act like it’s a one sided thing when this goes both ways. Men want sex and see women as bodies to sleep with. That’s why these guys don’t get married. They just want sex. Eventually, they will want a wife but it’s under their terms and I guarantee you a lot of men still sleep with the “hoes” they claim not to like while being married.
Exactly.
They tried to wife you, but you wanted to play instead.
@Rocksteady246 Nice try. I had no problem getting a wife.
I notice you have to hide yours...
Where did that even come from? 😂.... Get a life
he shitted on u@Rocksteady246
I mean… meh they are about 70% right. It’s not as black and white as that. So many girls stay with their boyfriends for 5+ years and those boyfriends are never ready to marry because they’re too lazy or too scared or deep down don’t think she is the one. But another man would happily wife her up. It doesn’t mean she was never wifey material, she just was in the wrong relationship xxx
Most do.
Her eyes when she realized "oh yeah, that is the answer, and that's not who I was".
She really thought she had something going there
She did! And he gave a BS non-answer just for them to call it an obliteration
Oh? He just confirmed her worst fears and shut her up real quick, but you go ahead and die on that hill though. When woman walk around with their legs open men will leave just as fast as they come (no pun intended). You want to keep a man? Keep your legs closed so that when he does manage to squeeze in he can’t just slip right back out (again no pun intended). Everyone men and women slowly loses their ability to bond with each new partner. Tie that together with how easily any woman can get laid and you’ll note that female promiscuity is a bigger problem than male.
Lol
She did tho…all wives are found by husband material MEN. There’s no technicality of just blaming the women.
@@Kaligoddie that’s false. Now every every woman who gets married is suddenly wife material? A lot of women out there are being wifed up by horrible examples of men, simps and sadists and all manner of feminine and foul men. Most of those women were and are wifed up for the sake of opportunity. There are thousands of flaws on both sides, the difference is every time someone brings up the shortcomings of women, either men are to blame or suddenly every woman wants to defend their worst assets. Also their divorce rates are through the roof, either because the man can’t keep dealing with them or because the woman no longer wants the man for a variety of reasons, most commonly having to do with money. Not all wives are wife material, but all wife material is found.
She thought she had an argument going, until she realized that everything she was saying women do and learn in their 20’s REDUCE her value in a man’s eyes.
What do they 'learn' LOL
@@023achilles How to be a garden tool.
As per usual with women, she tried and she failed. Clearly it's someone else's fault.
Men themselves reduce a woman's value not women lol.
She's the typical white girl that got ran thru by Pookie that stands outside of 711 every night. Now, she knows her "worth". Foh, ain't nobody tolerating that.
Problem is they think sex is the foundation of a relationship and focus on that entirely. They dont know how to please a guy without flaunting their bodies.
This is so underrated. There are too many Simps in the comments.
I met my husband at 26. We look at each other at least once a week and think “I wish I had met you sooner”! Soul mates and building a family together, through all the ups and downs is the best part of life!
That’s unfortunately what modern society puts in the minds of young females. They are only worth as much as their physical appearance. It’s rare to find godly spiritual values in modern American society both men and women
This is literally the biggest truth
My wife has had this realization in the past few years that she was lied to about needing to learn how to "please" a man sexually by doing corndog video stuff.
Don't get me wrong: it was nice. But I didn't marry her because of that. I knew she would be a good mother and a good spouse and she is. I'm honestly very happy that she stopped focusing on my sexual pleasure at her own expense. I don't want my woman to feel degraded or disgusted after we make love...
Yes, it is %100 a woman's job not to be run through, If a man does not take it by force, you gave it away. Your body your choice really does mean something.
40 year olds don’t want you either.
But i dont want her lolol true
For the night is ok lol
Lol yt removed my first comment! I said id run thru’er for a night but def dont wanna buy the cow
I'm 41 I'm not sticking my pickle in a petri dish.
@@D_Moore yeah they won't hardly yet you say crap anymore, it's pathetic, might hurt a liberals feelings lol
“Then why don’t they wife us up early” girl, I’ll bet your friend zone has a zip code and is filled with husband material from your early twenties.
This. Self entitled deluded modern women prefer partying to committing, what they don't get is that they can party and have fun with one of their friendzoned boyfriend-to-marry, and prefer fooling around and whining about gender disparity and other bs.
Facts. I would never marry her tho, she is too dumb. I can't have my kids coming out like that.
That's so true. In my early 20s, I was too busy chasing after bad boys. In hindsight, there was a huge selection of husbands I overlooked, thinking they were boring. In the end, I found a nice boring guy.
Facts to the MAX. I consider myself to be decent husband material. But thanks to the same mindset of all the girls I wanted to establish a relationship with, all threw me under the same label and place. The friendzone. Now, I completely stopped looking and caring. I got the main qualities women want, but now they will never have. I rather preserve and maintain my peace.
@@catherinejohnson-wf8odsounds like a simp wifed up the ran through version of you. Too bad his self respect wasn't strong enough to pick a better partner.
Did she really blame men for her decision to sleep around in her 20s???
Yes.....yes she did 🚂🚂🚂🚂
Women are allergic to accountability.
Chugga chugga chugga chugga WOO WOO!
I mean... both parties are at fault. Men and women. Of course women have the last say in this but it's a an issue of the whole society. This madness you see mainly in the western countries, especially English speaking. Some EU countries are not even close to that level like Americans or Brits and the Asian countries are as far away from this bs as possible.
You can blame women for giving the access to s*x too easy and you can blame men for allowing a weak society with no values.
The Hooooo Train🚂🚂🚂
When she turns 30 she will start complaining how men are “intimidated” by women of certain age
Reach 30, raise standards, stay single, cry into front camera for views. Continue until you’ve reached the desired number of cats.
Met when I was 22, him 26
Married 2 years later
We celebrated our 10 year anniversary this year ❤
I think you did this right....for 20 and 30somethings the ideal difference should be between 2 to 5 years max.
@@steveh4962the average age gap in the US is 4.5 year
We married when I was 26, she was 21. Celebrated 12 years three months ago.
Congrats! I wifed up my lady love 38 years ago
Sooooooo jealous. Married at 37 myself because it took me 15 years to find wife material.
“All wives are found” - that’s wisdom right there.
Unfortunately, a lot of guys have to marry down....
No it’s not… it’s an empty answer
@@PayNoTax-GetNoVoteno they aren’t, unless a man’s standard of a valuable woman is controlled by a woman’s standard of what a valuable man is.
Women want men with money and who is strong for example, that’s valuable.
Men value women who will follow and are slim.
The standards are different, men are only dating down if they are not getting those things out of women and accepting it, otherwise, if you are going to say that men are dating down meaning women who are low income and not strong (as I have been hearing the actual argument to be) then you are saying that men find those things valuable in a women and if they don’t pick strong and high earning women then they are dating down.
For the first time in history, men will soon have the upper hand. Women are naturally inclined to want to have children. Many realize this when it’s already almost too late in their mid to late 30’s.
A man can have kids when he is 50 if he wants. The thing is high value men don’t want a 39 year old woman who has baggage and now isn’t able to get pregnant because she missed her prime
@@autohrap5884 🫂
“All the responsibility is on the woman” yes ma’am you are responsible for getting ran through
What about the men? They arent also responsible, or man whores?
"why are they not wifing us early" the inability to self reflect is comical.
Her logic: Guys need to tame me before I go on a sexcapade.
AND young women shouldn’t be tamed.
And the ones that try to get called controlling or misogynists
Men who want marriage are avoiding women with that exact same mentality. If you want to go on a rampage, why would anyone want you to begin with?
"Why aren't they wifing us earlier"
Because you don't want it.
Cuz she isn't wife material
It's easy to tell what a chic is almost immediately
She's trying to dodge accountability. 😂
They can't accept that the things they LOVE to complain about are all literally caused by their own decisions and actions. In their mind "iT cAn NeVeR bE bEcAUse oF mE! EvErYtHiNg iS aLL mEn'S fAuLt!" 😅
She’s not even a girlfriend
She’s like, so, like, so like, …
"It depends on if you're a wife. All wives are found." Elegant answer
I don’t agree, in my 20s I was a virgin, never been asked out, quiet , good girl plain Jane girl. All wifey material are not always found. You have to be available and seen. The guys in my church wanted a certain type of girl which I wasn’t. I’m in my late 30s and get more looks. I felt invisible in my 20s. It’s strange. I felt jealous if the 20 something that was getting married, but they were all good looking…it is LA though.
Even the 30 yr old ones who have worked through trauma
I’m very skinny, 5’7 130. I was actually 10-15 pounds skinnier in my 20s. You didn’t have to be rude with it. I was just mentioning it doesn’t happen to all the good women. We miss out if we are too shy and timid. I mostly went to church, I’m learning to go out more, that’s why I get noticed more and I start to dress really nice and it helped. I’m currently dating, I just simply disagreed with his comment.
And I don’t have baggage, no kids, no trauma from previous men. Just very unlucky. Again, not every good woman is found. Some may be old maids (I know several in the church).
@rachelcrawford9174 honestly you're probably a good looking woman but perhaps just spent too much time in the wrong niche. Maybe you could've tried going to a different church or putting yourself in a different environment where you could've gotten more appreciation. You sound like a catch, even based on how you treated to the rude commenter. Hopefully your situation works out for the better.
All you want in your 20’s is to party and get laid. If you wanted to get married in your 20’s, that’s what you’d be looking for.
You don't find your husband in your 20s because you want someone with money that's established. Back in the days a couple would get married super young and they'd BOTH BUILD TOGETHER. These days women don't do/want that. They just want someone that already has money. Women are the issue with this not men.
They wait at the finish line and pick the winner.
ah yes men who get angry when you tell them porn use causes brain damage aren't the problem. its the women trying to become a porn star lookalike for them that are the problem
Best comment ever. My best friend and his wife did exactly this in their 20s and dude is happy and been with his wife for over 8 years with twins.
@@earthexplorer1big facts.
Well... that not entirely the case... even if you don't have money, they'll pick someone who they think has a high earning potential.
The younger men try and get denied and the older ones get called pervs
Yep!
even other 304s are rolling their eyes at what shes saying
Guys, don’t wife anyone !
YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED
If your 20 years old and running trains on yourself how is any man at 20 suppose to wife you up LMFAO
Next thing you know your 30 and your still hopeful but more than likely a blind idiot and you'll try to settle down but actually you'll fight for love till your 40 and then the menstrual cycle starts to happen and high levels of depression and then bam your 50 year old sad sack of crap. And this is just for the ones who survive this long.
she means, who's running trains?
@@mrjonjoe1895 no I meant exactly what I said. No grammar needed. Thanks tho.
@@mrjonjoe1895 yeah I think her comment wasn't supposed to make sense like a lot of things women say this days 😂😂
Maybe its like sampling a buffet?
So she's admitting she's incapable of not being ran through, if a man doesn't intervene?
No, she is saying why are men allowed to run around, but a woman is expected to not. Which is true. She can do what she wants until she finds the one. And if you want to deny a woman because she slept with a few people, then be prepared to get denied yourself because you did the same.
@@denisbeaudoin4618Who is saying men "are allowed" to run around? YOU? I think it's so telling how people snitch on themselves in these comments.
Just because YOU don't find it gross for men to run around town hooking up with strangers does not mean WE do not find that weird and gross.
@@denisbeaudoin4618 a key that opens many locks is a good key, a lock that is opened by every key is a bad lock
@denisbeaudoin4618 What an idiotic statement. Ask F if they would date a M if he was a Virgin,99% will say no. Ask a M if he would date a F if she was a virgin,99% will say yes. Almost as if what women want in a man is not the same as what man wants in a women.
Because others are doing it doesn't excuse you from doing it too. Be better. Men shouldn't be sleeping around either. But that shouldn't give women an excuse to sleep around too
"If you're 20 years old and and wife material, you're going to be found." 👏👏👏👏👏
If you’re 40 and dating 20 year olds, You are one sad mutha. 20 year olds aren’t hard to be with and don’t contribute much to a relationship. Except to your debt.
By Goodwill
literally doesnt even make sense
@WhatsIQ corrected!
Really? Because my friend is 25 and is an amazing, sweet Christian girl who's never had a boyfriend and not of her own accord.
“You’re either preparing to be a wife or you’re preparing to be passed around.” - me, to my future daughter.
"Why are men running around and not settling down?"
Those guys? They're called Chad. They are using you for sex. But there's all these other guys.... Never mind, you just go ahead and get run through
Those guys are either invisible or creepy according to her.
Also, when you tell women the truth, you're somehow an incel.
Nahh you just keep being a hypocrite. You can run through girls and that's OK. But not the other way around.
@@200130769 no. he probably can't run through girls. That's the whole point. 80 percent of men are either invisible, or considered 'creepers'. Y'all wouldn't date most men at gunpoint. You keep lining up for the same Chads and Tyrones and then have a tantrum when they don't stop what they're doing and wife you.
It's simple really. Find a guy who won't leave you and don't leave him. Your ancestors figured that out for countless millennia. Delusional Modern women have destroyed the very fabric of dating and courtship in like a decade. Just let that sink In.
@@200130769who said they was running thru the girls??? Naw most men want a non-bitchie no baggage no baby daddy no 30+ body count wife and most of the men who are running thru girls are literally Chad and Tyrone and I bet you most if not all men just want a wife in this comment section bc they are tired of being rejected and lonely. It's time to be an adult and wake up to the truth I know this will be very hard for you to read without being angry so I will pray for you
She’s rejecting and putting all the guys in the friend zone that would treat her right. Why? Because she wants to enjoy her 20s and be a 304.
You guys need to stop blaming women for not wanting you. Live a healthy life, take pride in yourself and focus on education. I wish every day I didn't sleep around all through highschool and university.. my body count sickens me so don't think it's some form of clout or status. Finding a good women is hard, but you have to also be a good man which women will desire.. a lot of us Commenting were/are just as skanky as some of these girls ... doesn't make it okay. At the end of the day would you wanna marry this girl? No lol
I love the way women run from accountability- it’s inspiring.
Dude’s right, I knew immediately I was gonna marry my wife when I met her. proposed after 3 months and we’ve been married 9 amazing years.
Good for u man. That’s rare this day and age
Can you not leave us hanging? More details. 😍 congrats!
God bless you and your lives together
She is acting as if she doesn’t have a choice but to sleep around. You can actually not do that.
I mean, she thinks fucking around is gaining life experience. It's hard when you only have 2 braincells that are rubbing together to get thoughts formed.
I am a wife. The day after I turn 18 my husband married me. We were both 18 and we are still married over 14 years with wonderful children.
❤️
congratulations i am about to celebrate my 40th with my beloved... it may not me *easy,* but it *IS* worth it
You want a medal for getting married at 18? 😂 Were your parents happy about that?
@@rockydennis9928 I hear you lol but 14 years together is pretty impressive in this day an age you got to admit haha
@yasminogbu8929
It's really not, but these women that want headpats for existing in a marriage think they should get props for being the wife that they agreed to be. What I find sad is that her parents were probably fully supporting that decision.
I’ve known very few women who learned from their experiences in any helpful/healthy fashion. The ones I have known who did learn from their experiences were coincidentally the ones who also were willing to apologise and accept accountability
Met my wife at 21. Just passed 23 years together!!
Congratulations ❤😊
married my wife at 21. we're only 9 years in but we are absolutely going the distance.
You are super blessed
My husband was 22 I was 18 when we got married. in a couple months we will have been married 15 years.
People told me I needed to go travel and get a career before getting married but being a wife and mother had always always been my dream and I had already traveled the world with my family (they said that didn’t count, like what?? 😂🤦🏼♀️)
Men are usually pretty goal oriented, the men that want to get married will…it’s that simple and they won’t wait forever to do so 🤷🏼♀️
@@rebekahseale9445ya see right there. You, unlike many women these days know what you want and have a good perspective of what has value and what doesn’t. You seem to know when you have found a good thing and seem determined to keep it.
Hats off to you. May you and your husband have a long and fruitful marriage. 👍👍
Since women set the market the responsibility is on them, and since they don't require commitment to sleep with them, dudes can run through them. If every woman required marriage to sleep with her, there'd be a lot more marriages. That simple
Exactly 💯
THIS IS WHY RELIGION WAS THE MOST EFFECTIVE AND UNIVERSAL WAY TO DO THAT, I SAID WHAT I SAID
Sounds like religion to me!!!
@@Caribbean.Galaxy🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Only the Top 15% get to run through them. Males from the bottom the percentage range of 16 to 84 are all viewed and treated as ZERO!! by 90% of the Women of modern 21st Century Western Society.
Female promiscuity and hypergamy enables, condones, approves, creates, and consents Male Polygamy.
BOTTOM LINE.
"Why aren't they wifeing us early?"
Cause you're not dating early the guys who might wife you.
Its real simple. Young guys aren't established financially and that is what they want. Established guys aren't young most of the time. They want a finished product instead of someone they can grow with and make each other better.
@@sjnix7044
They want the fruits of success without any of the labor or the risk of failure that went into it.
And of course who wouldn't want that?
But it means she is no part of the struggles and achievement. She is an addon to his life, and therefore an easy cast off.
Something something recruitment meme of „we search for an entry level of 18 years of age, with 25 years of work experience“
the obvious answer!
@@buybuydandavis as an older man, i felt a stab wound from what you said, because it's true. the formula should be, both should marry relatively young because they grow together, are invested in each other. to some limited degree, younger women might be attracted to the maturity and financial security of older, but you're exactly right that then she is not invested and will, therefore, eventually monkey branch from the older man with a lot of money to a younger man with good money. alas, looks like i'm out of the market which is heartbreaking but then marrying a modern woman is even more heartbreaking so was there ever really a chance for me
I married my wife when she was 20. I was 25. I just graduated and we were broke. 18 years, 5 great kids, many sacrifices and lots of wonderful memories later we are a very happy family.
I help my young daughters find women of substance to follow.
You're not getting wifed up because you're not wife material. How come these women have such an issue with accountability?
they have never been held accountable
Women have never been held responsible for anything in their life
Narcissists can never face accountability or responsibility. It's just reality.
Nah, I would have been but still no one married me so it goes both ways. Men are running after these girls who don't settle and ignores those who want.
it’s not just these women. it’s like 90% or more at this point
Women completely control access to any type of sexual activity. If they collectively forced men to wait until marriage, they couldn’t complain about Chad and Tyrone
Couldn't agree more.
It's so weird that this was how it used to be. My grandmother told my ex-wife when I was 20 or so that she needed to make me wait. LOL
They want their cake and eat it too. It happens especially to the ones who show dum dum signs that they're not wife material and the guys they stay with knows this for a year or 2 situationship tops.
You're just a virgin lol
The 304s ruin it for those of us who do make a man wait till marriage. Because men are desperate to get laid, and because men know sex is readily available, they leave the waiting woman for someone easier who will put out. No guy wants to wait.
Husband-material guys aren't running around town. They're working their asses off to build a future for their future family.
What 22 year old man is out here trying to be good husbands? Lol like 10%
@@ChadWSmith74 10%? Delusion at its peak
@@ChadWSmith74I'm 20 tryna prepare myself for marriage in the future
@@TheLoneLander as a rule, most of your age group isn't
@@ChadWSmith74 The majority. It's the natural progression for men. Study, get a good job, buy a house, etc. This is what men do by default. They are already a good husband if they have followed this natural progression, and the rest they learn from their wife.
Clearly none of them ever heard
“Stop looking for love and just work on yourself”
This is what happens when you friend-zoned all the guys who make good husbands.
Being in your 20's doesn't excuse your bad choices.
Seriously. They keep using that lame "I was young and dumb" excuse.
Yeah robbing someone and blaming your age is dumb af lol but people do it and the democrats use it as an excuse to commit crimes
Yeah, women in their 20s acting like it was their teens. l've seen teenagers act more mature at 18 than many women at 28.
They act like it's a valid excuse. Women who wasted years of my life were in their mid 20s doing so. The only girls that wanted to settle with me were literally 19 & 20.
They were immature & dumb unfortunately, didn't understand long distance (2 hours of driving to meet wouldn't work), but they actually desired me & a relationship.
Now I am in my 30s and don't have time for that crap anymore after the years lost.
These the same “I don’t live with regret…” bishes. My ex was one of those, and the only thing making me wish I never met her is the absolutely awesome daughter she gave me…
Who, I might add, has turned out to be NOTHING like her hoe ass momma….👍🏾
@@Jayremy89mate, sheet is awful... If I give up and start rampaging I feel like a piece of "sheet". If I try settling get insane-style rejection (after ploughing a few times), if try youngsters can't stand their stupidity, if she seems level headed, she's close to expiration date... Awesome times we live in... (And yes, I'm a broke decoy Chad)
Married my wife at 20! We’ve continued to grow through good and really hard times. I was 19. That was ‘07. Still in love and growing our family.
Sounds like you two have been on quite the adventure in life. As it was meant to be.
Simp🫵🏾 LOL
Wish I could say the same
Sick flex bro! God bless y'all
Why would you want to start a family before finishing college?
YOU DON'T HAVE TO SLEEP AROUND.......
how do they not understand this?
They're aren't looking for a husband; they're looking for the 10% to run them through and complain those guys don't want a wife
When it comes to modern dating...
The juice isn't worth the squeeze.
I don't think I've ever got a random call from a girl that didn't want something from me since 2005. If she's calling unexpectedly... she wants or needs something from you. Even if she's thrown you the viscous innards before. Guaranteed.
@@spiegeltnViscous inards, dang, that's a different way to say that you stretched her wide and DEEEEP.😂
@@spiegeltnso you randomly call people out of the blue for no reason? You got a fucked in life dude.
Too many broken wounded people running around. Hurt people hurt people. Mic drop
@@Diarrheagod
No, evil people hurt people.
Then they say stupid shit like hurt people hurt people.
P.S, Saying Mic Drop doesn't stop others from responding to your claims.
Good luck and seek God if you've got the guts too.
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There are women you run around with . And then there are women you marry . Guys you know what I mean . It's just the way it is .
yea, this is so hypocritical. 🙄
@@andyroosky
Having those two categories harm society, but they are the results of feminism, sexual revolution, birth control, etc
Look at the things that correlate with more short-term orientation in men, and all those will be contributing to the problem, alcohol, mixing of genders, and no modesty in clothing...
@@andyrooskywhat choice do we have ? Marry a woman who's been passed around the block no thanks
@@andyrooskyhow is it hypocritical when women are the gate keepers to sex, if a woman is loose with it it's not the man's fault he takes advantage of an easy woman.
most of the women who save themselves for marriage also hold the same standard. We dont want men who go and run through girls.
I was married at 19. 3 kids by 28, nurse,. Don't know what it would be like now. Now 67, divorced just out of a 10 year relationship. Quite content, still working, seeing the country as a travel nurse. Living well, it's good.
100%… if you are a “wife” you will be found.
So true, but she is looking to be wifed by Chad or Tyrone. Just a little hint incase women have not figured this out, Chad and Tyrone are out there slaying as many as they can and are not looking to wife up anyone. And women like make it all the easier to slayed.
Yet these men haven’t found a wife?
As someone who was “wifed” at 21 I can tell you why cos I ran the out her direction so far from every type of man on this podcast
That’s the irony here.
Now they want women like me in the 40s but we’re all 2-3 kids deep in 20 year marriages.
And no at 20/21 even 30 year olds trying to date me creeped me out a little. I was intrested in young hot guys my age, not older men creeping on me.
Women who make wives generally find something their age and build a life.
@@Linsey2345 you completely missed the point, those men that these women are chasing will never wife them or any other women. Women who are wife material will be found. Make sure the man who finds you is not a Chad or Tyrone. Ask your father or brother for advice if the guy is good or not we will know.
@@andyknolls8735 I didn’t miss the point…. I agree … I am just pointing out the irony.
These man don’t understand that the women they despise are infact their “level” and their equivalent….. that’s their league at this point.
@@Linsey2345 "Yet these men haven’t found a wife?" --- #1 women have FAR MORE options than men. #2 not very man women are wife material nowadays. every girl wants to have a 304 phase & thinks she deserves a ring after catching a bunch of STD's. no thanks.
"Now they want women like me in the 40s but we’re all 2-3 kids deep in 20 year marriages." --- no man wants women in their 40's for anything other than sex... stop the cap.
"And no at 20/21 even 30 year olds trying to date me creeped me out a little. I was intrested in young hot guys my age, not older men creeping on me." --- thats actually the age of men you were supposed to be dating at that time. women want men who are more mature & have more financial stability & men don't get that until their 30's & sometimes 40's. men want youth & fertility which you're in your prime in your early 20's. so you should be dating a guy who is 30-35 around age 20-25. but you're so brainwashed with feminist BS that you have no idea what is the right thing to do.
"Women who make wives generally find something their age and build a life." --- modern women generally don't do that. they sleep around with bad boys & then when they're 30-35 they ask why are no men asking to marry me after I slept with half the fraternity? men don't like 304's the same way women don't like broke men... deal with it.
She thinks all 20 year old men are out there hoeing around and that's the problem right there. Look at the statistics, there's only about 10% able to do that and those are the ones SHES looking for
Facts
"A lot happens in your 20s" (said in shakey 60yr old persons traumatized voice by a 20yr old)? Sounds like more than enough happened to her by her pre-teens! Shes gonna have so much trauma by 30, shes gonna sound like a parkinsons patient. W/at least 10 new tattoos.
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It's a basic selection bias. If if it was a case study it would be dismissed for not having objective parameters lol
Ladies, we're the ones controlling sexual access. If you don't want men to "run through" you, don't let them. That decision alone will screen out a lot of undesirable men.
It is what they want though
Intimacy before commitment is a bad strategy. A lot of women think this is the way to go though.
@@migjordanpayawal7856shut up beta
But the media says go to the club and get married for the night.
this!
‘There something to be said about age and experience’. That’s her original claim. Then its essentially countered with ‘no, there isn’t, men don’t want that’. Her reply is then why don’t men wife me. Cognitive dissonance if ever I’ve seen it!
I got married at 20yrs old and we've been married for 18yrs!
So?
here's a cookie , now scram
Y'all probably will soon
Good for you. Seriously. Ignore these losers who have no life.
👆 the jealousy says a lot, pathetic
It’s crazy that none of them can fathom building together from the ground up anymore.
Underrated comment right here, well said.
Because, "I'm my own independent woman."- In some bitchy voice 😆
"Women don't build. They move in."
My wife was 21 when we started dating, I was 33, now 16 years later we just celebrated our 12th wedding anniversary, we have two beautiful daughters who are 14 & 15. ❤
Very fortunate my friend
My wife was 22 & I was 35. We have two beautiful daughters. I encouraged my wife to finish college, encouraged her to climb the corporate ladder. She divorced me when I turned 48 and my youngest daughter was 4. We were married 13 years. I’m telling you brother, DO NOT TRUST WOMEN!!!!!!!
PERIOD!!!!!! EVER!!!!!!!! 🇺🇸
@@chuckdriver8269 where you went wrong was encouraging her to finish college and especially to CLIMB THE CORPORATE LADDER. yuck! you'd still be married if not for that.
@@chuckdriver8269 That was a little on you for encouraging her to go through woke indoctrination and encouraging her to go be a “boss babe”.
Currently my wife is 42 and I’m 52. We have 5 kids but when I met her she was a single mother and I already had 2 kids. My wife earns more than me and has a high status job.
I became RP within my marriage when prior I was a nice guy or a more traditional man. My wife forced me to change my role and it was the best thing that ever happened to me.
I learned that even with a 10 year age gap these women still have some of the modern women tendencies. Once, I adapted my attitude and made the adjustment then my marriage changed.
The biggest shift was me not giving a f*ck and being willing to walk away without a moments notice and no matter the cost to me.
I give her guidance, wisdom, protection and encouragement as I should because I love her but I can only love her 80%. My love is conditional and she has to earn the 80% I’m willing to give her.
Disrespectful behavior is never tolerated and wherever it happens I’m dealing with it swiftly and with extreme prejudice but other than that I treat her better than she deserves. I want to see her happy but not at my expense.
My wife was used to getting mistreated by guys because she wanted to date the popular guys or bad boys. Initially, she thought I was a beta because I was polite and really into her when we first met but that soon changed.
Patrice O’Neal was my savior in navigating my marriage. I live my life as if I could be single tomorrow but within my marriage. My wife knows I love her but that love will not make me play small for or make it okay for her to make my life miserable. I’d walk away before having my marriage make me unhappy.
She's actually making a good point.