How To Improve Your Listening Skills

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  • Опубликовано: 18 дек 2014
  • What was voted the most annoying workplace habit?
    People Interrupting You When You Are Speaking!*
    We all know who they are. We know how annoying it is when it happens to us so imagine how annoying it is when it happens to your customers and colleagues.
    Don’t let your co-workers carry on this terrible habit!
    www.learningheroes.com
    *according to a brand new poll taken in our office

Комментарии • 159

  • @joshuamendonca4201
    @joshuamendonca4201 4 года назад +147

    i had to listen to this for homework

  • @melanin7770
    @melanin7770 Год назад +6

    As someone who's struggles to listen am very grateful for this video. My biggest issue for me is that I don't get to consume what someone is saying to me I tend to daydream while they talking, sometimes I interrupt them.

  • @theswcoaching
    @theswcoaching 3 года назад +3

    Great video. Correlating verbal and nonverbal comms makes such a difference.

  • @UselessVoidBobo
    @UselessVoidBobo 6 лет назад +7

    I need this skill to pass the versant test for my job application. Memorizing is a key tool for it too.

  • @kantz7375
    @kantz7375 8 лет назад +2

    I'am really thankful for that. Tanks so much again.

  • @aruntv9354
    @aruntv9354 5 лет назад +2

    Best video on listening explained short and simple

  • @SyuanLin-oy9ql
    @SyuanLin-oy9ql 3 года назад

    Thanks for suggestion.It help me a lot on listening.

  • @user-rp9yf5sg1h
    @user-rp9yf5sg1h 3 года назад

    This video helps me know how to listen to others intently. It is a great video!!!

  • @NancySolariLivingFullOut
    @NancySolariLivingFullOut Год назад

    This is wonderful advice! It's such an important skill.

  • @DianaLuckysova
    @DianaLuckysova 8 лет назад +6

    what a great video. thank you!

  • @poonamghorpade5828
    @poonamghorpade5828 8 лет назад +3

    Excellent sir!

  • @user-rh2br3nf6j
    @user-rh2br3nf6j 3 года назад +3

    I think everyone should watch this video.
    In modern society most of people already lost their ability to listen.
    Interrupting is very rude and impolite,and I'm really really hate it.
    They need to break this horrible habit.

  • @Princeunique4life
    @Princeunique4life 7 лет назад +33

    Or you could picture what they're saying. That's what I do

  • @amberleigh7772
    @amberleigh7772 7 лет назад +176

    Sorry I wasn't listening what did you say

  • @naomiklijs5912
    @naomiklijs5912 7 лет назад +2

    thank you this is really helpful

  • @durganireddy2507
    @durganireddy2507 5 лет назад +2

    thank you☺️

  • @0485rec1
    @0485rec1 5 месяцев назад

    I had to watch this twice, because I was focused on how the pickle people looked like pickles and then I started thinking about pickles. I guess I needed this more than I thought.

  • @user-vg6sl8jv6e
    @user-vg6sl8jv6e 3 года назад

    It is very helpful to me.I will improve my listening skill more hard-working.

  • @paulayim4964
    @paulayim4964 7 лет назад +9

    Great video.

  • @alexscott4772
    @alexscott4772 3 года назад +1

    This is a very interesting video well done 👍

  • @bigpanda9684
    @bigpanda9684 5 лет назад +2

    Thanks!

  • @user-uq9dx3gc9t
    @user-uq9dx3gc9t 3 года назад

    It helps me a lot on listening.

  • @mradulkhale3632
    @mradulkhale3632 6 лет назад

    thnxx 😊

  • @solarflutter3707
    @solarflutter3707 3 года назад +2

    1. 0:58
    2. 1:29
    3. 3:41
    4. 4:07

  • @borisgarcia2852
    @borisgarcia2852 8 лет назад +1

    gracias

  • @sumankarki3959
    @sumankarki3959 8 лет назад +2

    thanks

  • @user-yt8dm3oq7s
    @user-yt8dm3oq7s 3 года назад

    Listening to others really important.
    Italo Calvino once said "The meaning of words depends on ears instead of mouth."

  • @find_peace
    @find_peace 3 года назад

    so helpful !

  • @ragavia612
    @ragavia612 8 лет назад +3

    thank u!

  • @helenahayes6150
    @helenahayes6150 5 лет назад +3

    that was helpful for my assignment - thank you

  • @I-9Ether
    @I-9Ether 5 лет назад +4

    I try to focus in on what others say, like...i literally try to use my mind to listen.

  • @yayyayyay9912
    @yayyayyay9912 8 лет назад +5

    Thank you 😊

  • @mohammedabdul2990
    @mohammedabdul2990 7 лет назад +2

    awesome tips

  • @jayakumarg9471
    @jayakumarg9471 4 года назад +1

    Very good video.. With your permission shall I use this video for my presentation

  • @becomingdauntless8821
    @becomingdauntless8821 5 лет назад +6

    4:45 mins - perfect for me with such a short attention span!

  • @margaretkelberg4672
    @margaretkelberg4672 5 лет назад +2

    I need this for cadet it is all listing I feel like stupid this helps thanks

  • @coolbrains9354
    @coolbrains9354 4 года назад

    Helpful video

  • @DarkHill43
    @DarkHill43 7 лет назад +26

    for some reason when people talk to me either i don't hear them well or i can't focus on what they say
    the weird think when others are talking not to me i can hear them perfectly and understand them with ease
    could someone tell me what the hell is wrong with me ??

    • @iceberg3721
      @iceberg3721 7 лет назад +1

      Well... it depends on the time of day, the person, and how many things you guys have in common.. so if you're bored or either nervous you tend to get ahead of yourself

    • @kiethkat773
      @kiethkat773 7 лет назад +2

      Not me i think we have the same situation..

    • @yerasmus4025
      @yerasmus4025 3 года назад

      It may be a subcontious trigger of self protection. You may suspect you will be attacked and then you close up.

    • @nigelsanthosh4084
      @nigelsanthosh4084 3 года назад

      Anxiety

  • @user-kl9eq5hv8k
    @user-kl9eq5hv8k 3 года назад +1

    I need to learn how to focus fully on the speakers because some speak is really boring making me distracted .As a result,I'll miss some important information.

  • @iffishawal116
    @iffishawal116 Месяц назад

    00:37 Listening is a powerful tool in the workplace
    01:14 Effective listening skills can help create a safe and productive environment.
    01:51 Stay focused and avoid interrupting during conversations
    02:28 People interrupt conversations because their minds are underutilized when listening.
    03:05 Interrupting others in a conversation can be avoided by keeping your mouth closed and making notes.
    03:42 To avoid interrupting others, write down your ideas and focus on listening more than talking.
    04:19 Effective communication requires setting aside judgment and showing interest
    04:55 Active listening involves showing interest and engaging with the speaker.

  • @divyagohil2050
    @divyagohil2050 3 года назад +1

    I had to listen to this for a training sessions

  • @DOERXSTREET
    @DOERXSTREET 3 года назад +2

    My teacher sent me this link for costumer service class

  • @davidjames4267
    @davidjames4267 2 года назад

    I strongly suggest listening to all young men and women.
    You will achieve your goals so much faster if you will train yourself to hear and listen.
    Listening is a talent, it saves time, and it's profitable

  • @sumankarki3959
    @sumankarki3959 8 лет назад +2

    something help me from this chapter

  • @weifan7415
    @weifan7415 7 лет назад +2

    i am Chinese student.when i listen to English,i always want to change they into chinese that i can understand.now my listening of English is so sort

  • @eaweir
    @eaweir 2 года назад

    Would you enable captions for this video? Even auto-generated captions would help quite a lot. Thanks!

  • @poojapeswani3594
    @poojapeswani3594 3 года назад

    I also for worksheet

  • @prachipeshkar3674
    @prachipeshkar3674 4 года назад

    It is difficult but most required skill to develop.

  • @twoking10
    @twoking10 5 лет назад +7

    This is all fine except for one problem. I have always taken a lot of pride in my ability to be congenial and not interrupt people. The frustrating part is when someone ELSE is always interrupting. What do you do with them? It's great not to interrupt but that leaves you in a quandry. You end up being around total conversation hogs who have absolutely NO interest in including you in it. Or, you are in a group and they are all talking over each other and Mr. Congenial ends up being like a bump on a log all night just because I am trying not to be rude and interrupt anyone. Or, I wait patiently for several minutes while someone else is talking and FINALLY feel like I can say something and then the other person interrupts, of course, lol. It's all well and good to say don't interrupt but it seems to me a just as important people skill is to make sure others are included in the conversation. My observation is that very few people do that.

  • @Trietlikesicecream
    @Trietlikesicecream 3 месяца назад

    Focus on the speaker: Give full attention, maintain eye contact, and minimize distractions.
    Avoid interruptions: Let the speaker finish before responding.
    Stay non-judgmental: Maintain neutral body language to avoid seeming critical.
    Show interest: Use verbal and non-verbal cues to convey curiosity and empathy.

  • @isabellamota2799
    @isabellamota2799 7 лет назад +1

    good video

  • @miashen888
    @miashen888 3 года назад

    I usually seem judgemental when I'm listening. Maybe I should get rid of the habbit then I could be a
    better listener.

  • @buskinglankans
    @buskinglankans 7 лет назад

    I am listening

  • @sujayupadhyay9513
    @sujayupadhyay9513 6 лет назад +3

    sometimes I think too much and almost forgot what my boss asked me to do it.
    And when he ask me about the work at the end of the day , I reply him SORRY SIR I FORGOT.
    seriously I can't control my thoughts.

  • @or7626
    @or7626 5 лет назад +2

    1:43

  • @martareeger4013
    @martareeger4013 4 года назад +1

    Is there a way to add captions to this video? The content seems great but Deaf individuals are not able to follow along.

  • @lohdiwei9778
    @lohdiwei9778 5 лет назад +2

    This isn't the advice I want and need.
    What I want to know is, what do I have to do to stress out the bad people so that as soon as they get back to their offices they have a heart attack?

  • @neiveythasrri170
    @neiveythasrri170 6 лет назад +1

    I cannot understanding sorry

  • @gayatrid5531
    @gayatrid5531 4 года назад

    Manushree Devargaonkar

  • @professordrabhijitsayamber2299
    @professordrabhijitsayamber2299 2 года назад

    Om shanti k good day please find attached the following ad listing has ended

  • @jama3335
    @jama3335 5 лет назад +2

    sometimes I feel like a complete idiot, this is one of those times.

  • @subswithoutvideoschallen-qf2wo
    @subswithoutvideoschallen-qf2wo 5 лет назад

    Everyone i listen to is Boring for me. Especially school classes When i listen to teachers i just watch them without even listening. I don’t know how to listen, and i Can’t even listen to a video like this. But i remember that i could listen beter before. And the funny thing is that when i listen someone is speaking to me i just watch them and think about other stuffs in my head.

    • @healthmintraa4320
      @healthmintraa4320 11 месяцев назад

      Need to develop interest in reading and listening by beginning with 5 minutes at a time...

  • @MarkElMago
    @MarkElMago 6 лет назад +12

    I was search how improve my listening in english, don't listening people.

  • @gamercrazy890
    @gamercrazy890 3 года назад

    Same here dude

  • @squeakywhiskers
    @squeakywhiskers 3 года назад +1

    I still don't understand why does this channel has only 7.7k subs... lol rip for this channel

  • @pencilonpaper1026
    @pencilonpaper1026 6 лет назад +4

    I just need to practice listening for Russian...

  • @user-pl1km3of6s
    @user-pl1km3of6s 9 лет назад +9

    we use it for exam

  • @underthesun65
    @underthesun65 Год назад

    Interrupting...ugh I need to do better

  • @DevinSymone
    @DevinSymone 3 года назад

    I think I am a good listener, my friends always cry on my shoulders

  • @kingme974
    @kingme974 3 года назад

    This video shows the fact that I'm a bad listener.

  • @tntdunce6363
    @tntdunce6363 3 года назад +1

    Why

  • @nguyenvanlong5410
    @nguyenvanlong5410 7 лет назад

    I woun listen, no blabla

  • @davidfarmer2049
    @davidfarmer2049 5 лет назад

    The video was interrupted.

  • @bobsandvagene8461
    @bobsandvagene8461 6 лет назад +3

    im deaf can u help me

  • @tanishqupreti7433
    @tanishqupreti7433 2 года назад

    Bad listeners won't ever ponder on this video

  • @gr4ystripe18
    @gr4ystripe18 3 года назад

    😴

  • @ilycupid2261
    @ilycupid2261 5 лет назад

    I just cant concentrate

  • @missycromonic2189
    @missycromonic2189 7 лет назад

    That is my problem, too judgmental, trying my hardest not to be.

  • @MegamanZ9000
    @MegamanZ9000 2 года назад

    I thought this would be a boring explanation. but I was wrong.

  • @wearenotsame24
    @wearenotsame24 2 года назад +1

    Hi anyone from SRM Trichy 🤣

    • @manidhar4038
      @manidhar4038 2 года назад

      🙋‍♂️

    • @wearenotsame24
      @wearenotsame24 2 года назад

      @@manidhar4038 you are from arts and science am I right

  • @gabrielgouvea77
    @gabrielgouvea77 7 лет назад +1

    Subtitles please!

  • @asd70100
    @asd70100 8 лет назад +3

    I want chat with English to improve communication

  • @Madmax93898
    @Madmax93898 6 лет назад

    It may Help me, but i feel like this is not for beginners !

  • @noorahmed5448
    @noorahmed5448 2 года назад

    🥰

  • @cautiondonotsubscribe.1199
    @cautiondonotsubscribe.1199 2 года назад

    Great video choice! Bet 4/5 of the views are repeats lol

  • @nicolas-zb2ie
    @nicolas-zb2ie 4 года назад

    Que di sen jile ATR

  • @user-wd6ky9pw8w
    @user-wd6ky9pw8w 3 года назад

    Crawford me nyasha

  • @starnyx3593
    @starnyx3593 3 года назад +2

    I’m a kid with ADHD, so listening and focusing is very hard for me. Can anyone else relate?

    • @laprimeramujer2486
      @laprimeramujer2486 3 года назад

      Different. Im a kid with autism and an anxiety disorder. And I still struggle with cutting people off , wanting to explain my point and still talking because I don’t like what’s going on or I don’t agree with what there saying. And then I get this icky feeling most of the time. I try following tips. But it’s not easy. And I don’t know if being a Sagittarius has to do with it

  • @deathlord_
    @deathlord_ 4 года назад

    Noice

  • @Mu5icluver
    @Mu5icluver 5 лет назад +1

    I'm sorry but in my personal opinion other than the third rule, these all seem so mundane and obvious, closing your mouth when listening??? and making random expressions of acknowledgement, saying "yes", "really" or "uh huh", pretending to give the impression that you are engaged, this is shit I see so many fake bitches implement and it's all useless unless you are genuinely interested.
    How's about being honest to the point of telling someone that you are not engaged? It seems savage but Iv'e witnessed some people literally just talk because they feel like they are socially inclined to fill the silence with vague unimportant filler, if it's these kind of people your confronted with stop them, tell em to save their breath and ask why they feel the need to talk at all?

    • @Alphacentauri819
      @Alphacentauri819 2 года назад

      Are you on the spectrum?
      It seems you have a very narrow view of communicating and its function.
      There are different reasons why different people communicate.
      Yours isn’t the “right” way, nor is it the wrong way. However, to be pejorative and judge the ways others communicate, misses a whole realm of opportunity to learn.
      Peoples wiring is different, not bad or good, just different. People want to be heard, understood and accepted. For some, who haven’t been heard or have been chronically invalidated, they sometimes go on and on. Or, some who go on and on, are external processors, and process by saying things out loud. Yet others, struggle with anxiety and their talking on and on can be a result of that.
      Sure, you can tell them you’re not interested, or to stop…but to zoom out, be curious, give them space (and not be self centered), can sometimes be powerful.
      It’s fair to be kind and direct (not rude and narcissistic) and state your needs and boundaries regarding communication…but that also requires being mindful of others.
      There are people who only take themselves into consideration. There are people who only take others into consideration. There are people who take themselves AND others equally into consideration…and those people are good communicators, and usually have high emotional intelligence.

  • @ww1germany
    @ww1germany 2 года назад

    No

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    @arifhakimi2671 5 месяцев назад

    HAHAHAH IM FROM 2024

  • @PugTartz
    @PugTartz 3 года назад

    Deaf people watching this: 👁👄👁

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      @rxbyrxd5534 3 года назад +1

      Are you watching this for a school subject? I think I know you your username sounds very familiar 💀💀💀

    • @ndsoweflew
      @ndsoweflew 3 года назад +2

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      @ndsoweflew 3 года назад +2

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      @ndsoweflew 3 года назад +2

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      @ndsoweflew 3 года назад +2

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  • @user-nz4mg9qd5d
    @user-nz4mg9qd5d 7 лет назад +2

    bad

  • @temesgenyifrashewa4928
    @temesgenyifrashewa4928 8 лет назад +3

    thanks

  • @samabhai2125
    @samabhai2125 7 лет назад +2

    thanks