Meet the Kids Going to Prison in South Carolina | HATE THY NEIGHBOR
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- Опубликовано: 15 сен 2024
- Jamali Maddix travels to South Carolina to meet kids about to enter a "correctional weekend" that simulates the experience of being in prison.
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These boys don’t need prison, they need a role model.
The internet says otherwise
Are you going to volunteer?
@@nom_de_guerre_ are you?
So much more than a role model. Most children who act out have a chemical imbalance. They can be stabilized with meds or natural methods...then comes the positive role, with activities to keep them busy.
Children with autism and Aspergers don't need role models, they need a lot of behaviorial therapy. A lot of resources are needed to help these children but lower income parents cannot afford that so they are stuck with the options they have. It's absolutely heartbreaking seeing your child struggle to cope with his/her environment. All the more reasons why healthcare should be the top priority of this country
Bro, the host was just so chill and understanding of them, he didn’t shout at them for what they did, he just listened to them and made them really understand their mistakes ygm? That’s the kind of guy they need.
I agree! I was thinking that the reporter would be a great mentor for these kids.
Man... I definitely felt the same thing you just said 👏 👏 👏. The blame game is a never-ending one, but praise. We need to give it more where it's due.
jamali is fantastic, great comedian
Shorn and Mamito😂
why would he yell at them?
First boy needs a dad... he even looked up to the guy even tho he didnt know em
Ideally we could get him into the Big Brothers/Big Sisters program, so he could have that interaction he so needs
@Kay Madrid her son’s father literally died, she didn’t have a choice in the matter...
@@wg3074 I wonder how he died
@Kay Madrid not always that simple
@Kay Madrid and here we go always blaming women for freaking everything
1st kid literally brightened up when his mom left. I Fr felt that
@Dylan Cook 🧐🧐 not all kids. I used to be happy asf to be around my parents
@@jakeraland5806 she didn’t say all kids do. He said SHE felt it
@Steven Bennett ong
Fr
@@heavyballs8458 this is so true , once you get older you realise everybody fake and your mom and dad with a smile on their face is the only thing i wanna see.
The first kid was a whole different person when his mom wasn’t around
Cause he doesn't respect his junkie mom.
Mom look like a crackhead
Paul Smith I think they mean he felt more comfortable being vulnerable and didn’t keep a hard exterior, his mom is sus
It seems like he wants a person to be involved in his life, and communicate with him. I’m pretty sure whenever his mother “talks” with him it’s always yelling, and she’s getting on his case. That’s why he escapes home, and goes to the river.
His mum is hot.
"He just doesn't call." Ouch. Just hearing that hurts. It's hard to accept that there are parents out there who dont care about their kids lives.
You tend to adjust and become numb to certain things Alyssa. You become used to your dad not being around or contacting you; I have learned this from first hand experience.
My dad isn’t involved in my daily life, rarely calls, and is someone who is just there to pay child support & alimony. Don’t get me wrong, yeah it sucks. But instead of drowning in sorrow you gotta push through, it’s the only way to survive and see tomorrow.
On the bright side, it has taught me how to raise my kids if I decide on having any though!
Trans bloop"> how is the government going to make men be better fathers? im not sure what point you're trying to make because you're kinda all over the place. victim blaming is a different thing then telling a person to take responsibility for their actions.
I can’t even imagine not being around my kids. It’s hard not thinking about and getting depressed over them getting older. All I want out of life, is to provide for, and be around my babies.
Alyssa saldana I have a friend that has the same name as u
Trans bloop"> Did you just relate a man not wearing a condom, getting a woman pregnant and not being a father and staying... To rape victims choice of clothing?
That second kid has potential. Just by the way he speaks you can tell he knows there’s potential. He needs the right adult to look up to.
Ritt Pong they all have potential
The 2nd kid doesnt even look bad
Ritt Pong exactly what I’m thinking . He clearly just doesn’t have the proper guidance or support he needs
Ritt Pong for sure. Seems like an ok kid. Hopefully he gets into sports, football can certainly save lives more than people understand
In his defense, His father is deceased. Yeah the other kids may have fathers who dont see them often, but at least they have them to lose. Theres totally more to the story than we see here in this short video
A lot of Vice reporters are insufferable but this guy is brilliant
Javert Absolutely! He was able to get the kids to open up in front of cameras. Well Done Mate!
seems like he has more empathy
@Hammer_of_creation that's us Londoners for u !!!! Best people in the world
Javert He has many films & videos. He has one where he went to a KKK rally and talked with members. See if he’s on RUclips or Google him.
Javert I beg to differ but you’re right about this guy he really cares and listens
“ He just doesn’t call “ bro that just hits hard . Sounds like a real good movie line too lol . But god bless that kid , and whatever his future may hold .
It's pretty common response from kids these days single parent homes.
Amen
*God bless him
Dxviion where’s that at?
cr87129 lol wtf. You just need 2 good parents doesn’t matter if they man or woman.
I'm a high functioning guy with aspergers and I really hope that last kid gets the help he needs. He's a sweet kid he just has mental barriers others can't see. He just needs help finding his peace. I used to lash out a lot from not being able to communicate effectively and I would get frustrated. Hoping for the best bud
Jesse Smith you seem to communicate very well, is typing easier? Forgive my ignorance
Yeah my thoughts exactly.
It's even more worrisome because he's a young black man...or becoming a man
FOxXyYgRaMpA ya it only happens in social situations and not knowing how to socialize with people it not like can’t communicate at all
Assburgers
These kids all seem very smart... Like they're just a product of their environment unfortunately
K McDonald yup...
High Functioning Autism
They really do though
Exactly
That's why this is so sad. The fate of a lot of kids all over the damn country
thats the most awkward thing ever
"you speak to your dad ?"
"oh he dead"
James Taylor i was like oop💀
@Dexter Ohlsson oof
Hmmmm nah it wasn’t awkward
Took me a second before it hit me like a drunk guy arguing with his wife.
Its not awkard. Your dad is just not dead. But when he dies.... Wtf youre gonna say hes still alive???
I love how the host treats everyone with so much respect. Especially the kids. He treats the kids with so much kindness and respect you can see an immediate change in their attitude within the video. The parents should try and learn a thing or two.
Hes honestly so great and hilarious
You wouldn't have loved them on feminism 101 he's the one that's insufferable
Jamali Maddix is definitely a great guy and a host. He should be both a role model and a father figure to these boys he met.
That dog is so cool. 1:37 Just climbs that tree like it's no big deal....What a good boy.
Lauren B hes big baby face companion.
Lauren B Is it just me or did that remind me of Jungle Book.
kevin084life omg exactly
😅
wow that last boy is super smart. incredible boy.......he needs special help not scared straight prison.
Matt Lawson *Absolutely correct, any experience in our horrific prison system will curb and ruin the boundless possibilities his mind has. We as a civilization will miss what he has to give us bcuz he will be taught it's wrong to say or think that way, I have just witnessed a future tragedy*
I guess in his own words, its tragic irony. It makes me want to laugh, but also makes me want to cry
Matt Lawson he deadass should read satirical books “animal farm” i would love to see how he grasps it
Yep. I feel as bad for him as I do his mom/aunt. There should be more help available for parents of special needs kids. I don't blame them for not knowing how to handle him, but this is going to end in the worst possible way.
I have a 6 year old son with the same condition. Regimine and routine are the foundations of his world. After that comes love, support, time and understanding. Ain't a DAMN thing in life that's good comes easy.
The second kid is a victim of the justice system, and the last one is smart, and could probably be a genius if he got into the right stuff such as coding etc... , definitely sad if you ask me
Agreed. I'd say the second kid should be given a chance. If I was a judge I'd give him a chance and dismiss the charges unless there is proof he was involved but tellem if he comes before me again I won't be so light
@anonymous two felonies on anyone takes their life away. Doesn't matter the age or race. Drastically limits their job availablity to basically just construction or labor and more
Why would his smarts be wasted on coding?how abt fulfilling himself and learning abt how to be a useful loving person
anonymous stop bringing in race it’s has nothing to do with this
@@eugenef0zzy wasted on coding? You do realize that the entire world essentially runs on code right?
A good father figure really makes a difference, for both boys and girls. Speaking from experience
Yassi how did it affect you? Or did you know someone that it affected?
victor munoz she prolly just has self esteem issues and fucked a bunch of losers
Absolutely
Zachary pretty fucked comment you left there.
FACTS
What makes you laugh?
irony.
I hope that boy gets the help he needs because he's got a future in comedy writing.
as someone deeply imbeded in ironic and satirical humor, i cant help but think that maybe i've had the 'tism all along
THATS EXACTLY WHAT I WAS SAYING !!! (the caps are for my excitement) I hope a local comedian in his community takes him under his wing. i think that if he were to apply himself to comedy he'd be very successful and would meet a lot of people that could improve his quality of life (not that it's currently bad)
Kid could be an amazing artist.
Evan Cornell shhh
I was the 1k like
"A drag racer with flames on it is actually engulfed by flames. It's funny but it's also tragic. It makes me wanna laugh but it also makes me wanna cry".......secrets of the universe are buried somewhere in this sentence
That was so deep
..👀
He goes to my school and he loves to dance
Screenshoted this for the future when someone figures it out.
Ain’t no way he has autism
My heart broke when I heard:
Jamali: "Do you speak to your old man?"
2nd boy: "No."
Jamali:" Why not?"
2nd boy: " He just doesn't call."
heart breaks instantly
Sad
🥺
He got a dirtbike, let that kid do motocross i think hobby/sports will keep him away from negatives 🤷🏾♂️
crazy bulldog Somebody needs to turn that kid on to skateboarding, asap.
@hangtime 7190 not really
Zion Auel I can confirm in South Carolina motor sports is indeed a bit expensive to be in for a single mother and her kid
What's your favorite subject in skool
Kid:going home
Me:LMFAO
Mine was lunch and Spanish where I got hand jobs from the class skank 😂
Saddest thing on video is that you can’t even spell school
Haha,so funny.
That's a knee slapper!
*school
Obviously, by the way you spelled school, it was your favorite subject also.
“I dunno man, he just doesn’t call.” 💔
The last kid, man, I feel like there’ll be a movie made about him one day. Genius. Thanks, Vice for giving him a little spotlight.
Yeah I was fascinated just from that little conversation
I feel bad for the last kid. He's really smart and has developmental issues that are the roots of his behavioral problems. More than likely that "prison" program is going to do a lot more harm than good and possibly make him worse. Sad his mom/aunt don't realize that or have the resources to get him the help he actually needs. Only in the south would a "therapist" recommend a prison program for kids with Autism and Aspergers smh, that just means they're not trained well enough to treat him themself.
atmosvere so true
atmosvere I have ASD (aspergers), and this kid sounds a lot like I was a kid. Juvie didn't help me, and it won't help that kid. It just made me terrified, and I started acting out on myself. Moved out at 15, started using injection drugs, became a bad alcoholic, lived on the streets all over the country for years. Used my background in martial arts to make money underground fighting, and when an injury from a car accident put an end to that, started stealing, and doing all kinds of other crazy things.
Eventually, I figured my stuff out, and now I'm in my mid 20's, and doing better. But I know that some understanding and compassion of the way my brain works, instead of just treating me like I was a criminal and a bad kid, would have saved me a lot of trouble. My Fiance for example, is also Autistic, but had a great, understanding family, proper therapy, and didn't have his behavior criminalized even by his parents. His teens were completely different because of it.
In a few years, when we have a child, that kid will likely also have ASD, and I just hope that I can give them a better environment than the one I grew up in, where even something like not making eye contact, or stimming, made me a "bad" kid.
I hope the kid in this video gets the proper help he needs too.
It’s showing him what can happen he still needs to understand the consequences your of course gonna have to have more conversation with him for it to sink in in the intended way
Same
I know how kids like that act and I know it’s not gonna end pretty
The saddest part is when they graduate & some mom's did not show up and came late. The disappointment on their faces. Even the program employees said it was a shame.
Nicole Deejay aka XxSuckerpunchxX
All these people live at poverty level, when you work for poverty wages you don't get days and you live paycheck to paycheck so even if the parents wanted to take off work or were given the days off they cant afford it. Losing rental, utilities, food , and bill money means your kid and you could come back to a locked door and belongs on the stoop. Not to mention additional travel expenses to get there, have shelter, and meals. A lot goes into a simple trip across state for the poor. All around sad and detrimental to the spirit of the parents and the children but that's American Life.
Elite Soulfly You’d be really surprised how little backgrounds are looked into. I’ve PTSD so when I was younger I’d have flashbacks that made me flip shit hit people cause I thought I was being attacked. My parents put me in a treatment program but said I was just a autistic kid with a poor attitude and no respect for the rules. I got there and the first thing out of the head therapists mouth was “we were made to believe you needed way more help then you actually do”. They just blindly trust the parents which is messed up. While I was there this rich mom from Cali put her son there because he missed curfew once, he was there for a week before his mom pulled him out. She said “he’s learned his lesson now”. It’s fucked up how something meant to help kids is used to punish them
Harajuku3000 THAT IS REAL.
Nicole Deejay aka XxSuckerpunchxX I
why the spoilers
3rd kid is definitely my favorite, so intelligent yet lost.
he's definitely gifted. what kid that age in his situation has not only seen Bullitt but remembers all the actors?? and then what he says about irony.. god I hope he comes out on the other side of this
@@nom_de_guerre_ Yeah... That really hit home.
@@nom_de_guerre_ I was thinking the exact same thing. Sending this kid off is not going to help him.
The 9th Spade if you’re talking about autism in general that’s not true because the majority of autistic kids don’t have behavioral issues and are nice I think ur thinking about aspergers in specific
@@nom_de_guerre_ as someone with Aspergers (and a whole host of joint based disabilities) I have found that despite not coming from a rich place or a wealthy family, I my parents still did all they could to make Aspergers have as little an impact as possible along with the fact that my life prospects are good.
Its not about the wealth, it is about having parents who care. And clearly the last boy's mother did not care about the fact he has Aspergers syndrome.
4:05 I could hear the hurt in his voice when he said his father doesnt call.
It broke my heart😢😢😢
Wanted to hug him
Me too
That was hard
God bless the 2nd teen... peer pressure is not cool
Too much Netflix.
That bullshit scared straight program isn't going to help the special needs kid. He's smart and well spoken. His mother needs to find a better therapist. One that teaches both child and parent how to communicate more effectively. Especially when he's angry. Not one who recommends jail.
MrDinero Eentertainment. You're right, but that's what these "bad" therapists do. Recommend prison. and watching this is so sad because the kids are NOT getting the help really needed.
MrDinero Eentertainment well in the real world when he grows up he's going to jail
100% agree
La Flame he isn’t destined to go to prison because he has problems now. This is part of the problem. Don’t assume on people dude you don’t know that kid at all. He doesn’t understand why what he did was wrong yet little dude just has a rough time he needs some understanding and love not getting scared out of his mind in a place he doesn’t know. He needs routine and communication and that kid will be perfectly fine in life. People need to be understanding of his needs and patient with him when he isn’t understanding what’s going on in his head.
He needs a mother who can handle him, and it’s not his mom’s fault she can’t, most parent can’t handle their children at all, but she is doing the best she can for her baby and you should respect that woman for that and not ‘he’s going to prison as an adult anyway’ her child. Give people a chance before you shit all over their whole life dude.
I hope someone stands up for you like this someday so you understand how it feels to be put into a predetermined box by a complete stranger.
We need to love each other if we ever want to fix any of the problems in this world dude so even though you were a jerk I love you dude and hope you have a really good day.
I have ASD (aspergers), and this kid sounds a lot like I was a kid. Juvie didn't help me, and it won't help that kid. It just made me terrified, and I started acting out on myself. Moved out at 15, started using injection drugs, became a bad alcoholic, lived on the streets all over the country for years. Used my background in martial arts to make money underground fighting, and when an injury from a car accident put an end to that, started stealing, and doing all kinds of other crazy things.
Eventually, I figured my stuff out, and now I'm in my mid 20's, and doing better. But I know that some understanding and compassion of the way my brain works, instead of just treating me like I was a criminal and a bad kid, would have saved me a lot of trouble. My Fiance for example, is also Autistic, but had a great, understanding family, proper therapy, and didn't have his behavior criminalized even by his parents. His teens were completely different because of it.
In a few years, when we have a child, that kid will likely also have ASD, and I just hope that I can give them a better environment than the one I grew up in, where even something like not making eye contact, or stimming, made me a "bad" kid.
I hope the kid in this video gets the proper help he needs too.
The worst thing is when you say something like, "Where's your mom/dad" and they just say that they are dead. It's really awkward and sad...
Tony K yeah I've been in that situation like I asked "so why is your dad never at home? Did your parents break up?" They were like "emmm...he died." And i was so awkward.
Tony K as someone who doesn’t have their dad with them (not dead) it doesn’t make a big difference if he was never apart of your life.
From your perspective, it may not any difference. Ffor the person that said it, it's pretty bad because they think that they did something wrong.
Of course, that's how most people would feel. That's why I'm telling you that sometimes it really doesn't affect people as much as you think it does. Now that I think of it though, I do wish I had a father figure for support when it came to money.
Of course it is sad but at least death was not a choice where as the absent parents are choosing to not visit their children & are actively avoiding seeing them, missing an opportunity many would love to have.
lol boy straight up came to LIFE the second his mama left!! That’s a tell tale sign.
I like the interviewer. Good job
*DaHashBandit* _ yeah, me too. His people skills are A1. People usually lose their patience around children or teens but he went to every individual child with a different approach
I agree. Great guy
This comment had 666 likes when I stopped by so I had to like it to make it 667 I may have just saved the world you're welcome.
Agreed. He knows how to approach different people
and act to get into the mind of h
the children. He adapts his demeanour to get truthful responses. He's a great interviewer.
Damn I bet that dog the first kid has is all he has...
Feed Gotchaaa he has the river duh 🙄 😂
Dawn Ramos lmao damn
looks like the French Broad in Columbia. Fun to Tube and Kayak.
He had a dirtbike in the background.
He has his mom...
That last kid melted my heart. I have a son with high functioning autism and there's really not a lot of places to help them. I just want to hug him and his mom. I've been there and done that. They really have a hard time with meltdowns. Most can't control it.
I used to hurt myself instead of hurting my mom
Yeah idk why tf they put him in prison?? Like wouldn’t you think it would just make him more confused? And tbh if the mom hits him she really doesn’t think he’ll hit her back? Js.
I felt bad how he said his dad died so calmly.
yo that kid that said that irony shit . he a low-key poet man
Tell me the first kid isn't freaking Mosley. From the jungle book
Mowgli lol
Enijah Daisey ikr I completely agree I was thinking that too! Lol 😂
Muesli
Enijah Daisey Lil mosely
Mosley?????????????🤯
I'll never understand how a parent can just leave their child to grow up without their support. I can't even imagine not being involved with my daughter. My heart breaks for these kids. I'm actually a single parent myself, my daughters mother is unfortunately one of those people.
Mitchell Maytorena some people have no intent of being a parent or raising a kid when they have sex
My mom was one of those people.
Brandon Toad It’s a joke.
Mitchell Maytorena Stay strong and continue to fall forward
Trust me..even if the kid had both parents, that doesnt mean its a happy family. Some people are never meant to be parents. in my case, its all about the family name and pride. I was deprived of love and grew up hating them. Just make sure your emotional connection is strong with your kid.
You get the feeling that Jamali really cares about the kids
all these kids need are fathers 💔
Good Fathers. not just a father in general.
Tell your fellow girls to stop reproducing for punks
I agree.
@@malia4343 with a Father, it is easy to contend. Father is good! Miss
@@malia4343 Dads teach their kid proper morals and ethics in the social world, mothers help care and raise their children educationally. Fathers have an important role, especially for young boys, they need a male figure that they can just look up to. It is so cute how my baby cousin will start walking with his chest up and all quite with his dad. He stop crying and everything and acts tough, it shows the effects that a dad can have even in the slightest of things.
I feel for the middle kid man, he seems like an okay kid who just got caught up with the wrong people
ryan bielawski i agree :(
ryan bielawski hes not i went to school with him before he got expelled he was a bully and a theif i dont know how he is now
Jaety fr?
Jaety seriously?
Bp films yeah he ran track for my school
"It was just a prank"...
bigpoland _ kid might have a bright future as a RUclips prankster one day lol
It's just a prank bro
Next Joey salads
Every Jake Paul fan ever
Bro*
Common theme: no dad.
Well you shouldn’t have taken the first dad up to heaven then, Jesus.
And poverty.
@@racheltucker8054 Mainly lack of a Dad
@@cinnamon_art4016 I know plenty of fatherless ppl who are just fine. But the combination of fatherless and extreme poverty is lethal. Not gonna argue with ya champ 😁
@@cinnamon_art4016 thanks for playing though
boredom is one of the main reasons kids get in trouble. kids need role models and shit to keep their minds focused
also people need to invest in extracurricular/art/music programs to keep this kids active and into something
Jackie Guthrie all kids need consoles like me cause I have a PS4 and after school that’s literally all I do (Fortnite)
Freeshot Jack uh, NO. Video games won’t get you far in life. Extracurricular activities WILL.
And books and stuff. Honestly, that's one of the biggest problems with poverty.
I agree, too often I see lazy parents who don't spend the time & effort to entertain their kids.
Sure it is harder with less money but it's no excuse my mum took us for walks, we played in the river, had picnics, went to play parks, free museums, my dad used to play ball games with me, fly a kite, build dens, make a tyre swing etc. I am grateful my parents put the time & effort in, it seems much more rare nowadays.
I don't know how many actual vice employees see the comments but I just have to say this is easily the best show vice produces by a long shot. This is excellent work.
You should check out more of Jamali's work with VICE. It's top notch.
“There was a situation at school” well that’s one way of looking at.
Poverty and broken homes create broken children.
ABSOLUTELY!!!!!
I would say 60% of the time
@Tina Yael Severinova M. Which is why I said 60% of the time.
Correction, Broken homes create broken childern.
@anonymous tell that to the child
The first kid is legit Huck Finn
You see how these boys respond to normal conversation. That’s what they need someone to talk to....a male figure. Common theme single mom.
Right. Mom is usually too busy keeping everything together so there is no one to talk to. So sad
@@shay8942 or screaming like murder with the kids looking like O.o
@@ObivousNinja honestly that is the situation sometimes, I dealt with that. Fucking sucks!
Common theme is a selfish shitty parent that doesn’t show them enough love and get them the help they actually need. I raise my kids the majority of the time by myself bc my husband is in the military and my son with special needs is a very loving caring kid bc me his mother is loving and caring to him. That’s the common theme here, not everyone was meant to be a parent. From observation even from kids without intellectual disadvantages it comes down to whether the mother is nurturing or not.
Single moms are probably protecting the kids from abusive men, so...BLAME THE MEN.
I feel really bad for the 3rd kid.
Alex C ya
Seriously he does not deserve to be there. He just needs some help.
Feel bad for all of them who cares about only one they all need help SMH
@@JM-kp1bo there is kind of a difference between him and those kids
This guy is so great at talking to these kids and making them comfortable enough to open up about their issues.
My granddaughter has aspergers and she used to run off and hide. That's part of the illness quite often. He doesn't need this kind of program he needs one for his issues
Aspergers is not an Illness.
uh yes it is its a mental illness
please go back to school
Can both of you guys stop arguing over something that doesn't really matter when it comes down to terrible issues going on around the world. I just went to the dictionary and it's a syndrome. All I did was make a comment about my granddaughter I'm sorry that I didn't use the words perfectly to make you happy I'm sorry I caused you to go into a tantrum. Life is too short sometimes you need to choose your battles wisely and not argue over stupid things that cause you to call people names
This is the first time we have ever had anyone in my family with autism and I am still learning about this. At the end of the day I am just so happy that she is so high functioning but she is still very immature for her age and has so many little issues that are a part of the syndrome
That last kid, wow the way his brain works that's quite different
these kids need more creative outlets, even if you like breaking shit. i remember once when i was doing community service as a teen (constantly getting arrested / in trouble) i was working at a recycling center and an older guy came up to me and said, "you look bored, i need you to break ALL these glass bottles...", i spent the rest of the day throwing bottles at a brick wall into a big pile of broken glass. it's one of my favorite memories. sure it didn't cure me, but young boys need a way to get out their aggression in a responsible manner
Vasectomy Fail Smashing bottles at a recycling centre isn’t responsible...
FmS you missed the point dimwit
I grew up in North Carolina. Not shit to do in either state for kids other than get into trouble.
A Ward Not to be rude, but that's what people say everywhere. The key is to make something interesting rather than just letting life happen to you.
Let them learn social skills alongside occupation skills!
Jamali: “What makes you laugh?”
Kid: “Irony”
Me, an intellectual: I beg your pardon? 🧐🤯
Ahmar Saeed u anit shit
Intellectuals tell you they're intellectuals for the same purposes vegans tell you they're vegans.
Ahmar Saeed I thought he said 'ironing'😅
Irony is funny.
@@kylehartman9403 the comment was a meme dude. It’s a meme format 😅
One thing they all have in common. No father figure in their lives. Can we please become the generation of men that raise their children. Anyone can become a dad, but can we all be fathers?!
Seth Belcher but literally the dad died can’t help that
Derpy Derp naw. It's the dad's fault that he died. Should've stayed alive to take care of his kid. /s
Nate Daniel no one can help a freak accident kid
Derpy Derp not sure if you are calling the kid a freak accident or saying that I'm a kid and that his father's death was a dream accident.
Seth Belcher i know same sex couple who raise their children just fine. Its not about being a father its about being a good parent. No matter what you do you caused that child to exist. So you have two choices leave or stay there is no half in half out.
Cant control death either.
That last kid could be a youtuber or a standup comic if he put his energy and heart in the right place. hes def smart
The last boy doesn't need discipline, he needs a psychology therapist.
Chantell Sherman he still needs to see where not working on his angry outbursts could get him cuz a lot of people in prison just needed a therapist
Kids with autism still need discipline they just need more conversation to go with it
Most people with autism are sensitive to sound and their environment. They are often violent because they haven't learned how to communicate properly. Putting a kid in a stressful environment like jail will just make him worse. The mother said herself that there are no other programs so she put him in this one. I know she is desperate but someone gave her bad advice.
First kid just needed a dad figure. Jhamli did it in one trip to the river
Dude is definitely scared of his mom too. Look how much he opens up after she leaves
@@michaelhuerter1921 I thought the same thing she hits him.wtf so sad beating a person is torture and not discipline and will leave ptsd
*Robs Someone
Tells cops.. “We was just playin around..” 🤣
Nacira it was just kids being kids lol
Lmfao
The kid who likes cheeseburgers is smart. He said a race car with flames that has caught on fire. The irony
TheIncredibleKevin these children are dyslexic or have aspbergers...Theyre parents should get them evaluated before its too late. That jail shit will not help at all
*coincidence
Dyslexia is something entirely different
autistic kids are usually brilliant
tarvin sanders I’m guessing you don’t know what dyslexia is
Those kids seem uncomfortable and insecure around authority. I would bet everything they just need a strong figure in their life to set them on the right path not peers that kowtow to them.
Jon whatbexactlymis a kowtow? 🤔
Jon No What those kids really need is a good old fashioned Ass whooping! James Evans style!
Jon MacDonald Yeah because every person that had their ass whooped didn't end up in the streets or in prison/jail. There are more way to discipline your child effectively than just inflicting pain on them
@@jonmacdonald5345 nothing wrong with that
The reporter is totally outstanding. He listens to the kids and adults and shows true respect for everybody.
"Do you talk to your Dad a lot?"
"My dad?"
"Yeah."
"He died."
His beard is probably the best part of the video
- Jacek Hacks - Gameplays, tutorials and more! His beard is majestic AF
Looks like keemstar’s beard
- Jacek Hacks - Gameplays, tutorials and more! Yeah man shits on point.
Yeah I know it looks like Osama Bin Laden's beard
It is lol
The 2nd boy tho. Peer pressure ? Damn sad .... felonies on his name already
It's best if he moves to another country because you can't get into anything with a felony, trust me. Can't get housing, financing, college admission, or even a job over minimum wage.
James Bra Oh yeah, just move to another country. So feasible.
James Bra lol yea just move to another country ez
James Bra you can it’s just difficult also the charges haven’t been confined yet
That shit will be expunged when he turns 18
you gonna make me waste my ticket
him: *y e s*
This last kid broke my heart he is so smart when he broke down what happened with him and his mom and why he did what he did that poor boy just wants someone that he can look up to like a mentor I really hope they do a update for this episode
POST THE FULL EPISODES PLEASE!
T Freezy gotta wait tonight or tomorrow
Check them out on viceland website
I bet if you sit that last kid down for one day and teach him coding, he would me a millionaire (who the hell remembers the stars of the movie Bullet)! LOL... This kid has the mental potential to be successful, but someone has to harness this untapped talent. Can you say "Rain Man".
harold bottom 😂 exactly
I know a kid like this...he's 15 and can tell you what happened on almost any date. He can remember when you were over 3 years ago, what you ate and what you said to him. He studies the calendar for fun and can beat ANYONE at Mario Cart. lol
*memorises a couple of names*
Maybe high functioning aspie that would explain the frustration and misinterpretations his family seems regressive though. "My kid acts out because he's autistic, oh I know let's send him to jail."
When the last kid was asked “what makes you laugh?” And he so quickly answered with “Irony”. I really was taken aback by how smart he was for his age.
C'mon post the full episode since i dont have viceland
These kids just need guidance. I never expected the last kid to say irony. He's smart, just needs someone he can connect with to guide him.
"He doesnt like being told what to do" WHO DOES?! TELL ME PLEASE WTH😂
You can hear the emotion in his voice at 4:05
Notice one thing they all are missing father type figures in their lifes. We need more fathers to step up to the plate be a man. Sadly my dad left aswell i feel for them 100%.
ebk bk fathers who abandon their children would likely be abusive or damaging (emotionally, if anything) anyway
Mine died😐😐
50% of mothers in the us are single lol
not trying to be rude at all, just saying ur in the majority which truly is sad
My dad left me
No father figures. Wonder if that has something to do with it 🤔
Thekidd d or the mother doesn't discpline and set boundaries
Quinn Clifton you can't blame the moms. At least not 100% for not knowing how to properly raise a boy. Boys need a father figure. Doesn't necessarily have to be their dad.
As someone who came from a single mother home who also had issues this statement is spot on. And you can't blame the mother either, what would you do with three kids no dad and a shit job, only making enough to pay bills and buy top ramen. Seriously, could you always keep a close eye over your child who will work and pay the bills. Only one parent means no parents around most times so yeah you grow up thinking you can do and say what you want.
I'm sure thats the case for alot but what do you do in situations like the first where his father is dead, not a deadbeat.
Saying stuff like that discredits all the boys who grew up without father figures and were successful.
Edit: Spelling
The English journalist seems mad cool
Wasabi Wasabi indeed.
What a lovely genuine presenter! Love the way he’s relating to the kids!
I feel so sorry for kids in America, they can’t make mistakes like kids here in the uk without serious consequences that follows them all their lives
Yeah. It's pretty f*cking tragic.
The problem is not teaching kids to deal with there emotions and real tough life events, need to teach them about accountability and keep them busy and happy with positive activities like sports, art and etc. If it’s a psychological issue than you gotta get them counseling and talk positively about it don’t say they’re crazy.
Pamela Campani it’s not that easy especially in South Carolina I use to stay there and I came from a single parent home and went through a jail tour the problem is resources for the kids there’s not a lot to do there for younger kids especially ones where they’re parents work 24/7 not a lot of clubs so kids are left doing bad things nobody teaches them to be yourself be a leader because school doesn’t offer that they can barely even think for themselves without getting in trouble I could go on and on
Brandon Toad Wow! What great, insightful comment. You should screenshot it, print it out, and frame it because you should be proud of how clever you are.
well thats sounds nice but not easy to practice when you are a single parent and poor
Yep your right but when the Government gets involved they get labeled with something to be drugged for and charged with a felony.
Nikolas still got counseling and still shot up a school mate
I live in rock hill. I lived right behind the riverwalk. I met Shaun at the exact spot they showed. He was riding his little bike. He was a nice kid who liked to get in the water. He rode the bike pretty fast lol. Last time I saw him was in a gas station.
Michael Simmons literally how?
I used to buy weed in rock hill.
Bret Johnson i hope hes doing well , i wish him the best :)
If you see him again tell him he has a lot of people who are hoping he shapes up!
im from york uwu
The crazy thing is is how many people don't realize how prominent father figures are in children's lives. Even that next door neighbor who checks on them & keeps them in line even if a dad isn't there. Truly shows how it takes a village to raise a child. I really hope something about this changes their lives in a good way.
Tammara Westmoreland
Tammara Westmoreland I have no dad prominently in my life, I’m fine like I don’t even notice
Damn this breaks my heart, as an educator I see this so much, how the lack of attention and role models tear these poor kids apart internally. Children are our future we need to show them how valuable they are!
The journalist did a great job being able to understand the kids
fupa lord he's actually a comedian, not a journalist
Dude it’s just a prank chill 2:15
jojo cat no you hurt my feewings
Beautiful wild human boy, don't put him in a box. It will destroy all that is pure 🧠
There's genius in these young men, so sad. They're just so frustrated and trapped
People are idiots. Second lady says he'll end up in jail, so they send them to jail. These kids need to be talked to and reasoned out of their issues with anger and "disobedience" logically not through even more punishment. The moment you're willing to send your child to a box to become "obedient" it becomes clear youve divorced yourself from logic and empathy.
Yea, purity that robs children for their money.
Kate McCoy He's so beautiful and wild when he bullies kids at school for their lunch money haha
He probably looks beautiful robbing your son at school of your hard earned money!
I'm a widowed mom with two young boys, I really hope that they don't have a problem with defiance and authority. It has been just me for a while, and the only role model they have is me. I hope this boy gets better.
@Joshua Struyk I don't want to be replaced, I don't want anyone to replace me. I will not be submissive to anyone, and nobody will be submissive to me. I will walk besides my partner, not in front or behind of them.
@Joshua Struyk that’s weird
"They just need father figures" most the father's are toxic and that influences us even harder, having that around. I'm glad my father left, I've become the strongest person i can be. Fathers need to be in lives if they are GOOD fathers, not just because.
I soo agree with you my father was emotionaly abusive i have gon to therapy and am doing better i am glad he left
"Most"this is a joke most fathers are loving and caring that will support ur family and keep it going.these kids will be much better with a father figure in their life
Lmao sounds like you have daddy issues yer
‘Father figure’ doesn’t mean a biological parent, it just means a man who they could look up to and give them support ranging from teachers, grandfathers, uncles, cousins and if lucky - actual fathers
@@pedroescalona819 agreed and so many people lye about their fathers
I feel bad for the autistic one. The school district I am employed by has a last chance program at my school with teachers who are certified to restrain a student when they are at risk of hurting themselves or someone else. They basically have a 1:1 ration for most of the students, which helps them because they always have that reinforcement to assist in breaking those bad behaviors. I have seen it turn around and save many kids from going down a horrible path..I wish the best for him.
ain't autism to different things Berg's is like social retartadion they are actually extremely intelligent
Sorry calling him autistic is kinda dumb for you to say
He's very intelligent no where near autistic. I have a friend with the condition two actually 1girl 1boy they both were very socialy disfunctional but they were both two of the smartest people I've ever met but in social situations they act very strange and they self analysis themselves he bought books called how to be normal he would Google it and they will ask you really silly questions about social things like sex ect or they won't be social at all
Lil bibby autism has nothing to do with intelligence. I have an autistic brother who did better than majority of his class. Also its stated in the doc by his mom that hes 'high functioning autism'..Aspergers is actually on the 'autism spectrum' if im not mistaken.
Also the definition of aspergers and autism are relatively similar,they both have to do with comm. and socialization, but aspergers is more 'high functioning' autism
First one is Tarzan.
Omfg that’s so true
Vice can you do an episode on tracking down these fathers and seeing what's the situation with not taking care of their offsprings? What is the issues and how to solve them
CANARY maybe they dads r outta the picture bc they’re abusive and they mommas didn’t want the kids to follow in the fathers footsteps.
@@awitchunderwater maybe your right but it's important to go in depth with it and get real answers
@@TH3RIPPA journalism isn't about interfering in people's lives. it's about observing and presenting the facts. doing an investigation onto the lives of these families without their consent would just be snooping, and you shouldn't stick ur nose in to where it doesn't belong
@@AryaBeltaine none of that shit u said make since and the total opposite of what vice is about.
@@TH3RIPPA they made to to make people like us aware, so we can do something about it if we choose..they already did their part
that last kid smart forreaaal
Literally what’s wrong with America is that we favor people who have been given shit their whole lives and not care about people who struggle immensely throughout their life coming from a a sibling of two, grew up with a single psychotic mom ( still love her), and barely enough money I had to do illegal shit to get me through. I was so use to doing illegal shit to get by that it felt like it was just life. My mental health was also down the drain cause I knew the shit I did was wrong but I couldn’t stop and my problems were so overwhelming. I got arrested at 16 and was made to feel like shit by a lot of authority. The only way to learn and recover is to recoup and have support and love not putting struggling minds into prisons instead we should send people who steal, do drugs, etc in rehab and therapy. (Killing and raping is not acceptable and to me based off of severity should get death sentences)
juju T true bro, not just America though. It’s sad but the whole world is like that. Best of luck to you and your future
juju T that's insane. No one has an excuse to break the law. God gave everybody something. That something might not be money tho.
@@Wes-pq4pl when your a child, and your hungry, you don't wait until mom brings a meal, you eat regardless.
*I wish I could be these kids' father so much... is there something wrong with that?*
Cognitive Dissonance no many people feel the same. We see children who need guidance bit instead are being trapped in bad situations. It's hard to watch
Steve Sherman lol
Steve Sherman 😂....... lol
I like your profile name. More people need to be aware of conginitive dissonance.
I agree, it actually explains why some people can be without empathy and truly believe that they are good people
That last boy really is so smart. So thoughtful and self aware. I really hope he's doing ok.
He might be bad but he sure can train a dog
Basic Sasquatch I loved how well trained that dog us
teadawg raps ?? That didn’t make sense!!
teadawg raps Nevermind. I get it now
Dude it’s called a typo
Marvelous Dwanah Ik that’s why I said Nevermind
"You talk to your dad?"
"Oh yeah hes DEAD"
Bruh that last kid us something special. All these kids are very smart.
All of these boys need two things: a constructive outlet for their energy, and a positive role model for guidance. Thanks Dad!