Yoga Guru - Hansaji | How to deal with people who irritate you!

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  • Опубликовано: 12 авг 2017
  • Smt. Hansaji, narrates a funny story about a man whose purpose in life is to irritate others! As she rightly mentions, "Whatever action we do, we should know the purpose behind it. If we don’t, then those people end up becoming irritating personalities."
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Комментарии • 369

  • @rsaini4315
    @rsaini4315 3 года назад +278

    For outsiders we can adjust, but in family it is not so possible, to tolerate , sometimes becomes tough... Like mother in laws.....

    • @jayarajjayaraj3694
      @jayarajjayaraj3694 3 года назад

      Omg the answer is good super hansaji

    • @SajidSajid-xm1zk
      @SajidSajid-xm1zk 3 года назад +7

      Kindly watch BK shivani. ..definitely it answers all your questions. .

    • @sheetala7230
      @sheetala7230 3 года назад +15

      Add husband as well...

    • @reenasingh-id9zh
      @reenasingh-id9zh 3 года назад +1

      What you do for peace and lower your anxiety

    • @Sj-qs8vv
      @Sj-qs8vv 3 года назад

      Exactly

  • @nandinipiplani6145
    @nandinipiplani6145 Год назад +6

    Hansaji ,its very difficult to ignore irritating immediate family members .Their behavior definitely affects .

  • @jennifergopinath
    @jennifergopinath 3 года назад +205

    It’s very easy to say for a lecture, but the reality is hell of a challenge emotionally esp.

    • @priyankachoudhary8385
      @priyankachoudhary8385 3 года назад +5

      True

    • @kishlaykumarthakur3590
      @kishlaykumarthakur3590 3 года назад +9

      Cause you are irritate with your mind

    • @kripaharris237
      @kripaharris237 3 года назад +8

      My guru tells anger a d bad thoughts about people are like glass in our minds they only hurt us .Now when I think negative thoughts about people I imagine a shard of glass in my mind and remove it and the thought

    • @rohinir5059
      @rohinir5059 2 года назад +5

      We should practise living with those people by just making small small baby steps definitely can reach such high elevated state and control our emotions.

    • @v.neelima4685
      @v.neelima4685 2 года назад +8

      Absolutely we r facing alot from our irritating neighbours since 15yrs.

  • @rkots2962
    @rkots2962 3 года назад +28

    Glad I've found you after 35 years being an empty vessel.
    Why these teachings are not taught in schools to make a better life? Things could've changed positively..
    Regrets for that last 35 years of my lifeless time I'd lost.

    • @akanshabhat7447
      @akanshabhat7447 2 года назад +4

      It's true it would be good if taught in school, good idea..... People will not fail in their life. After school, college etc.

  • @Motherearth99447
    @Motherearth99447 4 года назад +71

    Irritating people knows how to do worst , definitely our reaction makes them strong .but control our reaction is difficult so overcome on our weak nature makes us winner .. I m trying because world is full of without 💓

  • @rejiammu5291
    @rejiammu5291 Год назад +5

    I am working with such a negative, irritated people. Really this post is useful Madam. Thank you for your support

  • @afiakhan3116
    @afiakhan3116 3 года назад +7

    This attitude takes precious years.we can not transform over night

  • @ruchimalhotra2799
    @ruchimalhotra2799 4 года назад +187

    What about those family members who are living with you and creating problems
    Taunting humiliating and harassing non stop.... At some point it's better to get away from them instead of dealing with them

    • @MoonLight-lb4hf
      @MoonLight-lb4hf 4 года назад +14

      Ruchi Malhotra
      True, and then meditate to recharge yourself..

    • @RU-gq8vz
      @RU-gq8vz 4 года назад +31

      I go thru the same thing , to be honest no outsiders cud irritate or hurt coz we jus dont consider them but what about ppl at home ..!? It's really tough to deal !

    • @Alone-gs2yw
      @Alone-gs2yw 3 года назад +10

      stay away from there talk very less

    • @deepas8650
      @deepas8650 3 года назад +3

      Same

    • @nalinyvelayutham438
      @nalinyvelayutham438 3 года назад +1

      same

  • @tulipbrook1264
    @tulipbrook1264 2 года назад +20

    Living is an art, its a mix of technique and own ideas. One needs to use both in the best way possible. Managing ppl is definitely an art. It's learnt by practicing daily.

  • @poplipal5124
    @poplipal5124 3 года назад +5

    You are amazing maa....your speech helps me a lot in every ground. Thank you very much.Lots of love...

  • @nsbhater
    @nsbhater 7 лет назад +25

    Just what I needed, Hansaji😘 Thanks for the 7 day course at the Yoga Institute. It was lovely meeting yr kind soul.

    • @bagobudhcad2806
      @bagobudhcad2806 3 года назад

      Yes she's upsalutely amazing lady bless her

  • @yoginiomdeshmukh2001
    @yoginiomdeshmukh2001 3 года назад +7

    Pearls of wisdom by such a motherly and experienced yogi

  • @imho99s89
    @imho99s89 2 года назад +9

    Not true.. often behaving nice with bad people encourages them to do more. They think the nice person is weaker and cannot take a stand. That is how bullying in relationships work

    • @disi5395
      @disi5395 2 года назад +1

      yes have experienced this

  • @radhikaarora7825
    @radhikaarora7825 2 года назад +2

    Thank u hansaji....reality which needs to be followed in today's world n this is the only way to deal with it.....thanks once again for spreading positivity👍🏻👍🏻

  • @rupi3020
    @rupi3020 2 года назад +1

    Just what I wanted to be reminded of. Thank you . Namaste

  • @ilianadiaz8039
    @ilianadiaz8039 4 года назад +2

    Thank you very much, for reminding me what I had forgotten.

  • @cupoffinance
    @cupoffinance 2 года назад +3

    Wonderful. I like that solution to offer food that needs extra chewing :) So humorous. You nailed it.

  • @papiyaparvin5712
    @papiyaparvin5712 3 года назад +1

    What a guidance.... Thank you so much... Your guidance is really very helpful.. Thank you🙏

  • @chetnasuralia4533
    @chetnasuralia4533 4 года назад +4

    Hansa ji, you're simply awesome

  • @chandrakalavenkatesh9911
    @chandrakalavenkatesh9911 3 года назад +3

    Usually sad people tries to irritate when they come across peaceful and happy people

  • @zuzainabusmani7
    @zuzainabusmani7 4 года назад +1

    Gratitude t u hansaji,may u continue t do good work and may Almighty increase ur life span

  • @albi4547
    @albi4547 3 года назад +5

    I was going through some stuff where somebody was irritating me to nerves.. this video just popped up at right time. Thanks.

  • @deepaksonawane562
    @deepaksonawane562 4 года назад +3

    What a beautiful message. Really ..very nice. .How to manage variety of people? ...I learned today .Also my father told me always face them don't ignore.

  • @bagobudhcad2806
    @bagobudhcad2806 3 года назад +2

    Dr hansaji i love you my dear
    You are amezing teacher, I've learnt a lot of you thank you.

  • @rinkimukherjee563
    @rinkimukherjee563 2 года назад +1

    Thank you so much wise lady .. i love the way you talk and love your suggestion 😊

  • @akshamuthalia9572
    @akshamuthalia9572 7 лет назад +3

    🙏 thanks for your wisdom

  • @anamalaypechy7280
    @anamalaypechy7280 3 года назад +5

    Thank you madam for the good advice.

  • @madhavkajale6396
    @madhavkajale6396 3 года назад

    Hello Hansaji..we watched you on dd national when we were teen agers...and now we have decided to follow your guidance when we are in our 50s..you are a great teacher...thnkikng you for your guidance...

  • @ashleyysaks63
    @ashleyysaks63 2 года назад

    This is such an eye opener...thank you so much

  • @vandanarao8235
    @vandanarao8235 3 года назад +1

    So true,and pleasing!

  • @visasiva1546
    @visasiva1546 4 года назад +1

    Thanks for your ideas mam .ur speech is very inspiring

  • @meidasken3508
    @meidasken3508 Год назад +1

    Thank you so much for this great speech on happiness and how to live it is much appreciated namaskarum

  • @djshikha
    @djshikha 3 года назад

    Thank you so much for your words. I can so relate.

  • @AnishaDaniels
    @AnishaDaniels 3 года назад +1

    Thank You! Life is interesting indeed!

  • @JankIshan1619
    @JankIshan1619 2 года назад +4

    The most irritating people are managers in corporates who behave arrogantly and think they are owner of the office. Whereas they dont understand that how karma will punish them. Ur videos always motivate us. Thank you mam 🙏☺

    • @yasminkhan4807
      @yasminkhan4807 2 года назад +1

      Its not just managers in corporates. Speaking from my personal experiences, its an asian attitude. The minute an asian is in a higher post than you, or has more wealth than you they behave arrogantly with you. Perfect example is the home minister of UK ( who is asian) people working under her have openly said she behaves badly with them..

  • @shibuthottingal9662
    @shibuthottingal9662 3 года назад +1

    Really useful, thank you so much ❤️

  • @kanchanaks3531
    @kanchanaks3531 4 года назад +2

    Love your vedios. Thank you mam.

  • @g.dinakaranpaul1890
    @g.dinakaranpaul1890 3 года назад +8

    Thank you amma, you need for all depressed kids of ur including me, thanks amma, very useful

  • @SindhuBuddhavarapu
    @SindhuBuddhavarapu 9 месяцев назад +1

    Beautiful message. Though very difficult to follow when you are living with such a person under the same roof.

  • @musicallife83
    @musicallife83 Год назад

    Krishna ji aapko hamesha khush rakhe

  • @priyankasharma-rk4lx
    @priyankasharma-rk4lx 4 года назад +1

    Very motivating

  • @zuhrahmudassir8064
    @zuhrahmudassir8064 2 года назад

    Very good answers 👍.Thank you for sharing such a video. May god 🙏 bless you.

  • @rashmi-py9ng
    @rashmi-py9ng 3 года назад

    Love the way she speaks

  • @sunithaumesh4260
    @sunithaumesh4260 4 года назад

    Really very nice information and ur speech and taughts r r inspiration mam tq

  • @akanshabhat7447
    @akanshabhat7447 2 года назад

    We missed this knowledge in our school college days, people would not fail in their life...... Like divorce etc, it would be good if taught in schools. Thanks Hansaji your really a goddess saraswati ,gods gift for people.

  • @paraspereira6263
    @paraspereira6263 3 года назад

    Love your words madam. THANK u so much .

  • @shrur3527
    @shrur3527 4 года назад +2

    Thanks for the valuable information mam......

  • @Irina-oc8zj
    @Irina-oc8zj 4 года назад

    Very wise video. Thanks.

  • @rasmispiritulduniya
    @rasmispiritulduniya 3 года назад

    Namskar mam .. really u r a very inspiring and create person..i m very lucky to found u in my life..at right time..

  • @richachowdhary760
    @richachowdhary760 3 года назад +2

    Madam you are very sweet and the way you explained are very nice thanku

  • @gudivadasangeeta9187
    @gudivadasangeeta9187 4 года назад +1

    Nice examples mamji.

  • @gauriprabhulkar2463
    @gauriprabhulkar2463 2 года назад

    Thank you Mam...I really needed such advice.

  • @ashokbhatia5178
    @ashokbhatia5178 3 года назад

    Very Motivational ma'am 🙏 Thank you

  • @amrapalikamble9059
    @amrapalikamble9059 2 года назад

    Thanks for this video..😊 it was much needed

  • @rajoshkumarpt451
    @rajoshkumarpt451 4 года назад +1

    Thanks a lot sir

  • @subhojitbose7719
    @subhojitbose7719 Год назад

    Thank you madam... Finally I understand what to do .. Thank you very much for this lesson.. May God bless you madam 👩

  • @nahidanayaz9561
    @nahidanayaz9561 2 года назад

    Well said Hansaji..love to u hear u always

  • @dunputhsujeebun2575
    @dunputhsujeebun2575 3 года назад

    Thank you madam. I'm grateful to you.

  • @hj8yf
    @hj8yf 3 года назад +3

    Theoretically very soothing....let me try practically....

  • @lifesymphony2024
    @lifesymphony2024 4 года назад +7

    i don't wish to give any importance to them by responding to them. Some people think by controling someone, they can win them. That will never happen in my case.

    • @piyushmanitbhopal5186
      @piyushmanitbhopal5186 4 года назад

      So cute your idea sharmeela

    • @venomousmajor107
      @venomousmajor107 3 года назад

      Same I have fucking relative who always ruin when I meet him whenever I see him I get irritated and frustrating

  • @lolitaiqbal3135
    @lolitaiqbal3135 2 года назад

    so amazing techniques

  • @deepapande9604
    @deepapande9604 3 года назад

    Kitne saral tarike samjaya

  • @maykhoo5610
    @maykhoo5610 3 года назад

    Very wise advice!

  • @beawesome5090
    @beawesome5090 2 года назад

    Awesome !!!!!!!! you rocked

  • @abc2567
    @abc2567 3 года назад

    Thank you so much 🙏

  • @shankarik1126
    @shankarik1126 2 года назад

    Nice talk mam.i will try to apply this.really ur talk made me good so surely i will not get irritation

  • @anthonynoronha7636
    @anthonynoronha7636 3 года назад

    Mam, you are a wise and graceful woman. Your talks in this video touched my heart. From now onwards, I will apply your traits when it comes to irritating people around me including relatives. Thank you for sharing. Anthony from Santacruz, Mumbai, India.

  • @chandraprakash471
    @chandraprakash471 3 года назад +1

    Really nice....

  • @gayathrit1607
    @gayathrit1607 3 года назад

    Lovely ma... Thank you 🙏🙏

  • @devsrivastava9633
    @devsrivastava9633 2 года назад

    Great thought maam ,very valuable information

  • @srishtinarang3744
    @srishtinarang3744 4 года назад +1

    Thank you soo much maam

  • @dronamrajuchandarshi9758
    @dronamrajuchandarshi9758 3 года назад +1

    Thank you ma'am

  • @nitichadha6988
    @nitichadha6988 3 года назад

    All varieties r there yess less chance clear v know how to manage n enjoy life so true wah

  • @youcantoopagelk
    @youcantoopagelk 4 года назад +2

    Wow.....what a meaningful message .
    Thank you.
    Sanjaya from 🇱🇰

  • @217rushikeshkale6
    @217rushikeshkale6 2 года назад

    Yeah it's really a good perspective it's help in our daily life's very well

  • @aznaren
    @aznaren 2 года назад

    Thank you so much.

  • @tejask6034
    @tejask6034 4 года назад +7

    Watching this everyday from now onwards...

  • @ree1998
    @ree1998 Год назад +1

    I needed this. I can't stand to see my sister. My mom lives with me and husband. My needy sister always comes over uninvited, stays overnight brings her loud kid, and never cleans up behind herself. So irritating

  • @falguniwaghela4208
    @falguniwaghela4208 3 года назад

    Superb solution. Madam

  • @rekhasethi4443
    @rekhasethi4443 3 года назад

    Thank you so much Maa🙏🏻

  • @aspoomagal7307
    @aspoomagal7307 4 года назад

    Thanks a lot mam

  • @harleyp7977
    @harleyp7977 2 года назад

    Truth! Well said 🙏

  • @ivstaumer6945
    @ivstaumer6945 Год назад +1

    The most important thing I want to watch right now is this. My husband's aunt, who recently arrived in Sri Lanka from Norway, truly irritates me. We currently reside in her home as a result of several circumstances. She is currently acting in a terribly toxic way toward me because I get to live with her. She frequently says unpleasant things and never expresses regret for doing so. She introduces me as her servant and claims I was joking when her family members visit. She performed this action repeatedly. and I don't think its a joke anymore. When I talk to someone in the house, she bothers me and constantly asks me to sweep the house, make her tea, and wash her dishes. She let me down in front of guests while complimenting her son's girlfriend (a Norwegian woman). When a guest compliments my hair, she pulls up images of her son's girlfriend on her phone and tells everyone to look at "her hair is wonderful." and she is always appreciative of her sons gf wealth and her skin's brightness. I am Sri Lankan, so of course my skin is brown. She is a Norwegian, therefore of course she must have fair skin. Her role is to let me down. This might not seem like much to some people. but, this hurts me.
    However, when my husband got home, she is acting incredibly kind to me, and I was unsure of how to deal with it. however now I have some plans for how to handle her because of this video. I'm grateful Madam for this!

  • @nyayoangugadi4882
    @nyayoangugadi4882 2 года назад +1

    Thankyou so much 🙏 MA

  • @vigilkumar4137
    @vigilkumar4137 4 года назад +1

    Wonderful

  • @amdsheik
    @amdsheik 3 года назад

    Excellent mam your are doing great job mAm .

  • @madhuranisonawane7440
    @madhuranisonawane7440 3 года назад

    What a great suggestion

  • @srijaganguly23
    @srijaganguly23 2 года назад

    thank u so much ma'am

  • @kavithasajeev8983
    @kavithasajeev8983 3 года назад

    Thanks mam... Nice speech.. 🌹

  • @mahifareed7567
    @mahifareed7567 3 года назад

    Need more videos like this please mam talk about such topics

  • @nitichadha6988
    @nitichadha6988 3 года назад

    I also hv no goal now I realise at 56 I hv so much grudges n my daughter too I m trying to release n get good energy strength thank u mam great my inner child positive n my daughter n other connected too.

  • @koehean9043
    @koehean9043 2 года назад

    Thank you Dr Hansaji

  • @fernandoorozco5968
    @fernandoorozco5968 Год назад +1

    Thank you

  • @rishabhsurana332
    @rishabhsurana332 3 года назад

    Words of wisdom

  • @jackdearden9451
    @jackdearden9451 3 года назад +1

    you're a lovely lady.

  • @khaleelrahim9935
    @khaleelrahim9935 4 года назад +1

    Thanks Amma

  • @vickyleaks3776
    @vickyleaks3776 6 лет назад

    Thanks 🙏

  • @faithimportance3667
    @faithimportance3667 2 года назад

    You are an amazing woman

  • @user-vv5ov5eu7v
    @user-vv5ov5eu7v Месяц назад

    Good teachings 🙏

  • @shanthiktilakaratne7944
    @shanthiktilakaratne7944 2 года назад +2

    Thank you Mam.But some are irritating people for lending love.Several times I told them not to do. They are doing.They are get fun from that.