Non-Jewish Couple Moves into the Jewish Hood
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- Опубликовано: 10 фев 2024
- Meet Tim and Leslie. A non-Jewish couple with an apartment in the heart of the closed-off Hasidic enclave in Williamsburg, Brooklyn.
Tim is a teacher and podcaster of the podcast The Voyages of Tim Vetter. open.spotify.com/show/6K9NmK5...
Leslie is also a teacher and a yoga instructor.
They live in a building that feels like a different world; full of the smells of traditional food, a parking lot of strollers in the lobby, children playing school in the hallway. What's it like for them?
In this segment, I visit Tim and Leslie at home, on their rooftop, and in their neighborhood. We discuss the clashes of cultures, the vibrant traditions, and how quintessential NYC all of this is.
For related content, see the following:
The episode with Tim Vetter I was in: open.spotify.com/episode/2eZI...
My eve of shabbes video where I discuss the Shabbes goy: • The Friday Energy: How...
My street festivals video where I show you the colorful street scenes of the high holidays: • Street festivals in Je...
Thanks for having us on!
Thank you for hosting me and Keith! :)
Wonderful interview! Thank you for sharing your home and experience with us!! ❤
Thank you for this enjoyable interview. You guys seem to be very pleasant as neighbors. God bless you
Hey we’re neighbors! Lovely interview.
Such an interesting interview!
I grew up in Toronto and lived in a Jewish neighbourhood. The orthodox people downstairs doted on me. I was the spitting image of their little girl who had been killed in a concentration camp. My second language was Yiddish. To this day ( at 75) I have a close affinity for and intimacy with the Jewish people. I am a practicing Catholic but have taught my children and grandchildren that Judaism is our parent religion.
I feel so blessed to have been immersed in this wonderful community
What a beautiful story and what a special bond.
Wow this is an amazing story @Frieda if you can interview OP in yiddish that would be so cool as a video idea
This is such a heartwarming post.
ס'איז וועלכע פלאץ דביסט געוויקסן און וועלכע חסידיש הויף??
My sister and I were born in Toronto in a Jewish hospital,had a Jewish doctor,and dentist,lived in a Jewish neighborhood until I was 8. I have so much love and respect for Jewish people
When my mother was a little girl in the lower east side of NYC, she would light stoves (wood burning stoves) for Jews. She was born in 1911. Walking down the street she would be called by a Jewish woman and asked if she wanted a penny. She would go up the stairs and light the stove, or some other chore. The penny was already on the counter, as Jews cannot touch money in the Sabbath.
awesome. back when a penny meant quite a bit.
My Polish American father was born in Greenpoint in 1917. He also was a shabbos goy as a boy and a young man.
Very sweet story! I imagine that could have been very important help before the age of automated timers and sabbath-specific gadgets or appliances.
it's probably the safest neighborhood in NYC
Also Boro Park, Kew Gardens Hills, Midwood, etc - wherever there are Orthodox Jews it’s relatively safe.
@@marcroth3059 my cousins grew up in kew gardens for the most part.
My cousin said it's super hipster.
I love the idea of the little kids playing together in the halls. That's a good kind of noise. So few kids where we live play outside anymore. My kids are grown and I miss that happy noise of kids at play.
If you like children***
@JillClark I also love children's happy noise. I moved from Brooklyn to Arizona. People here are not used to noise at all. I miss seeing and hearing lots of people, especially kids.
I live in an apartmentbuilding and I would not accept having children play in the hallway, yes if they are quiet but if they throw balls,run,jump,shout..it would be horrible. It should be quiet in the building, so you can sleep also during daytime if you are sick or work nightshifts.
I miss children around as well.
My neighbors kids don’t play outside anymore it was so chill I didn’t mind it at all. I find a lot of sound like loud music overwhelming because of ear injuries but it’s nice to hear them playing laughing and zooming Sometimes I hear their basketball’s outside before they go to the park. They’re a nice family
We lived in a building with orthodox Jews in England . The fam below us gave us Easter eggs ( we are not Christians ) still we accepted their gift of love with full gratitude. Who doesn't like chocolate ❤
Amen, I'll take chocolates any way... :)
There is nothing Christian about Easter eggs lol
@@michelleturner6865 nothing christian about Chocolate either. Just that adventurous people have interesting lives
jewish Orthodox... u mean Eastern Orthodox, right ???
Easter eggs are a memorial to a miracle of Mary Madeline, as the gospel was spread.
look up the history - please
Frieda-I love how even though you’ve left the community, you still realize the beauty in the community
There is a lot of beauty and it's wonderful to get to see all sides, the full complexity of this world.
@@FriedaVizelBrooklyn sure is! 😀
The noise level would make me crazy but the people are not robbing or beating people. The noise is just life. Great video ❤😊
🩵💙😎🩵🤍🩵FRIEDA VIZEL, YOU ARE BRILLIANT AND GORGEOUS 🌸🌸Mutti used 2 say, “BEAUTY IS, AS BEAUTY DOES” 🌷🌷G-D BLESS YOU AND YOUR BELOVED SON, FAMILY - FRIENDS
Same in Mexico. It would drive me crazy.
I live among Mexicans and the amount of noise they make at night and weekends is insane
Would rather hear happy kiddies playing, than adults fighting & screaming! Or the quiet of kiddies dumped inside with devises.
@@morehn They celebrate Life. It’s ‘good’ noise.
Thank you Frieda for a lovely, if brief look at a non-Jewish couple living in the midst of a Chasidic enclave in Brooklyn NY. See life in this environment through their eyes: accepting, interested, helpful yet independent with their own values and culture. Well-done!
As always zelde, so appreciate your comments.
Thank you for another great video! This couple seems wonderful and so respectful and you did a wonderful job interviewing them.
I thought they struck a wonderful line of respecting others and themselves. An example of NYC at its finest!
@@FriedaVizelBrooklyntrue!
I’ve lived in plenty of places in NY where I was in a building and/or neighborhood where I didn’t “fit.” Korean, Chinese, Jewish (mostly Chabad and Orthodox), Italian, Puerto Rican, Egyptian. It was never really a problem. In fact, I mostly liked it.
It's a wonderful trait - I feel like I could sense the way the exposure to other communities broadened this couple's perspectives.
Thats interesting.
Who paid your rent?
@@ThunderAppealI did, except for when I was very young, a child! What’s your point?
I live in the Hasidic neighborhood of Antwerp in Belgium (as a non-jew) and I identify with what they say. I would add that I feel like hasidic people (especially kids) look at me the way "normal" people look at them outside the neighborhood. With questioning and astonishment. It's not mean but it allows you to put yourself in their place for a second.
Hi, are you talking about 2018 Antwerp? It would be nice to get in touch with you to get an idea how is it like living there as a non-jew. I also live in Antwerp. Thanks
@@rslyc5481 Yes I live on Belgiëlei. I am completely open to sharing my thoughts with you.
I really enjoyed this interview! My only negative thought was Leslie believing a sports bra is acceptable in this neighborhood. I completely understand her reasoning but knowing the neighborhood, throwing on a tshirt over a sports bra would be a form of respect versus infringing on her individuality. Just my opinion…..
People think they have to assert their freedom. It's like their panic that someone is taking something away from them like a 2 yr old that says 'mine, mine' about his blankie like anybody wants it. Kind people who are wearing something over the top would happily be respectful. Like pants or tee shirts of course not but a sports bra wouldn't be appropriate anywhere 50 yrs ago.
Another commentor mentioned this. I think NYC life is about coexisting with diversity and I believe Leslie’s landlord is fully aware of this. Leslie is hardly the only local who just lives her life wearing “normal” clothing; many people who live in the neighborhood wear sports bras and tiny things. Hasidim are used to it and those who are uncomfortable with it train themselves to look down and guard their eyes. Most understand that when living in the great melting pot, the onus is on the religious person to protect themselves from transgression, not on the locals. I’m sure Leslie’s landlord gave a go at asking her to modify her clothing but understood that ultimately her wearing what she usually wears is the likely outcome.
@@FriedaVizelBrooklyn I agree with everything you said, nevertheless, I find it disturbing for women to go out wearing only a spots bra.
I remember having a discussion in a group where a teenage girl was berating men for “ogling” her in the park because she was wearing a sports bra and a tiny pair of shorts. She really believed she was being victimized if any man looked her way. I found her behavior ridiculous.
The truth is many women wear inappropriate clothing in public and that’s an issue related to our societal norms disintegrating. It’s not a good thing, it’s definitely linked to an infantile attitude that says “it doesn’t matter if I’m naked in public I must be safeguarded from the male gaze and it’s up to men and society to ensure this happens”.
I don’t think it’s appropriate to wear a sports bra in this neighborhood. Of course she can wear whatever she likes, and people will respond in whatever lawful manner they see fit.
@@vanessashimoni6548 There is no such thing as "inappropriate" clothing, as long as it is legal, and in New York it is indeed legal for both men and women to appear in public completely topless. And, it's also completely legal to gaze or leer at others.
I agree that no matter what the neighborhood is, walking around in a sports bra with young children around is disrespectful.
Maybe the noise would bother me at times, but if they are what I call “happy noises” (kids playing nicely, families talking, etc), I can tolerate more and even enjoy them.
One of my favorite things about living in a city is hearing the noise of other families and friends out together
So interesting. I would assume living in the Hasidic community as a “ sabbos goy” isn’t that bad or else they would move to another neighborhood.
It never occurred to me that the children would play in the stairwells. I applaud how they respect the Jewish traditions ( while not embracing them) and also demand they be respected by the Jewish community( telling the landlord he cannot tell her what to wear
Wonderful video! What a lovely couple! Great interview! Thank you Freida!
This was a great video, so fun to watch. I am surprised at just how completely different it is in the Hasidic community.
This is so interesting. Thank you for another wonderful video!
Thank you, Frieda, for another great video! I'm always watching for updates on your channel!! 😊😊😊
Thank you Lynda ❤️❤️
Thank you for another lovely video. It is great that this young couple have started to fit in with th community and vice Verda ! It was a “happy” video. You all got on so much to gather. You are a real “ peoples person and a great teacher because you listen to people. I think that HaShem has given you a great gift and Zi wish you much success in what you are doing. We might not be able to be in Williamsburg but it is though you help me to be “ transported there. Thank you !!!
Bill. UK
Bill, I’m always happy when you join me virtually from the UK. :)
Thank you for this video. So nice to see how they experienced their living in this neighbourhood.
This was fascinating! Love this angle for videos! I love that they were so respectful, but also not afraid to tell about their differences. They seem like amazing people, because let’s be real they are living in an alternate universe and can smile about it and find the good.
I love this!!! Keep up the great work Frieda!
amen to everything you said!!
I love the concept of a shabbos goy. At the hospital where my grandmother volunteered, Orthodox parents came to visit their children on Saturdays, but obviously they weren't allowed to set off the automatic doors, so a gentile staff member would be waiting by the entrance to open the doors for them. I was just a little girl, but when my grandmother explained what was happening, I thought it was the sweetest thing!
I don't like the idea. It comes off as exploitative. Plus, aren't they (the Jews) indirectly violating their religious obligations?
Maybe your projecting or ascribing nefarious motives to someone holding a door for someone?
Exploitative such a big word for holding a door
@@GreenCanvasInteriorscape Well, you tell me how you would feel if someone specifically assigned you tasks to do that their religion forbids them to do.
I'd feel fine@@seekinggodfirst754
@@seekinggodfirst754 I can see where you would interpret the concept that way, and I know for a fact that you're not alone in that opinion. I've just always seen it as a nice thing to do for someone else. From what I understand, though, there are observant communities that don't allow their members to ask for or to accept help from gentiles on Shabbat (precisely because they consider it an indirect violation of the rules).
Frieda, you always bring such new experiences to me. I think I enjoy your videos more than any other. They are positive, insightful, and educational. I love that any negativity is well balanced. This was my first time seeing an apartment or neighborhood in New York; this was any eye opener.
Aww, you just made my day. I love doing these videos, even though they’re a lot of work. I can’t wait for the day that a Hasidic family will allow me into their lives!
I remember in the 60s we would go visit our cousins in Brooklyn and they lived in a jewish neighborhood and I was so fascinated with the jewish people and still am!
Well then, welcome to this channel! It's all about Hasidic Jewish life. :)
Great idea yet again! Lovely people and lovely video!
Thanks so much! 😊 It was such a fun experience to see their lives from such an unusual perspective.
This was beautiful Frieda. Thank to you Tim and your wife. I agree with Tim.
Beautiful video thanks so much for sharing wishing everyone a wonderful day
Thanks Shaindy! Always enjoy hearing from you :)
Just realised watching this video how blessed and grateful to be living in peace and quiet. . The noise, kids, mess, and stairs would driven me mad. Thank you Frieda.
Ha ha, the price we pay for living in the city.
We have a crazy person living outside my apartment building who will shout at all hours of the night “MONICA I LOVE YOU DARLING!”. It’s a shared joke among all of us in the neighborhood, although a dark joke because we get woken up by the screaming. Every so often we’ll hear someone shout out their window “shut the **** up!”
That’s NYC life for ya.
@@FriedaVizelBrooklyn😂but also 😢.
@@FriedaVizelBrooklyn I work in behavioral health settings. Believe me, "I love you" is ok, even if the person is screaming. But I hope you guys can sleep through it. And I suppose the person is lonely, unless Monica is there.
That was so interesting. Thanks for sharing Frieda.
I hope that someday I can come on your tour. It gives me a reason to want to travel there. I am enjoying your videos so much. You have a wonderful way of listening to your interviewees and bringing out their thoughts. I hope you continue doing your videos and this research. Thank you so much.
Wonderful. Just wonderful. Tim and Leslie are so gentle, sweet and loving. Thank you for sharing diversity, peace, human connection in a non-judgmental way.
Another great video by Frieda. Well done!
Thanks, Frieda for another great video. It was very interesting to get the ‘outsider’ perspective of living in such an immersive and vibrant environment.
Keep up the good work Frieda! I’m a viewer from Toronto Canada area and I find your content SO interesting.
Thanks! I get a lot of visitors from Toronto on my tour so I feel like I’m somehow connected to your city. Lots of great people.
I definitely feel safe letting my toddler wander around out Shul because whenever he falls and cries or he needs a diaper change someone will bring him to me. I don’t ignore him. I’m watching him about 75% of the time, but I help to prep the kiddush and my toddler doesn’t stay sitting next to me the whole time I’m eating. If I wasn’t part of a community that felt safe, I would keep more of a watchful eye. But it’s really nice to know everyone helps each other out. I also help kids find their parents whenever they need help with something. It’s so nice!
I think it’s a wonderful thing and a kiddish Hashem to look after each others kids. But I think it takes a kind of community for that to safely happen.
Toddlers need watching 100%- you sound lazy and dangerous.
That sense of community (that’s very real) is one thing I always missed since my parents did not stay observant but I had many glimpses of it when staying with my aunt and uncle or grandparents.
Very interesting video. Hope it will come more videos of such kind. 😊
I’ve watched nearly all of your videos. Thanks for making your educational content
Here from Andrew Golds YT channel after watching your interview. You are such a breath of fresh air. Thank you for sharing your experience.
Frieda always a pleasure watching your videos. Your approach is always with kindness ❤
Really interesting! Thank you Frieda!
Thanks for this fun and enlightening slice of life ❤
A hundred years ago, the city said that you must put in an elevator if the building had 6 stories or more. To get out of that, builders were building 5 story buildings. The cost wasn't worth it to them even though they got less rent every month.
Fascinating; tells you how laws meant to help people will effect people a hundred years down the line.
Yet another great video and a peak of the area from a different direction. Think I could do the Sabbath Switcher Stuff On. Thanks to all three of you.
What a wonderful video ! It was so interesting, it should have been longer. Thank you for the effort of creating and posting these informative and educational videos. It takes a lot of dedication and time. You tube is better because of you.
Oh Joe, thank you always!! 🤗🤗🤗☺️😊
@FriedaVizelBrooklyn Frieda, you are so very welcome !
Such a lovely family, whenever you learn more about another culture it helps us all get along.
Incredible insight, lovely conversation and Frieda you are always great
❤️🤗
Great video!
Thank you for this wonderful video. I, too, have often wondered what it would be like to live as a Christian in the Hasidic neighborhood.
Wonderful video, thank you.
I’m Jewish, but by no means orthodox. I grew up wearing workout clothes etc, but I wouldn’t walk around in a sports bra, especially in a frum area. Yes, you can wear whatever you like, wherever you like, but you are a stranger in an even stranger land, and out of respect for the majority around you, it would be respectful if you could throw a t-shirt on whilst you’re outside, in your own home, do what you like. In the summer, a strappy sundress I feel is fine, but a sports bra is just a little bit too bare.
I believe one has to crypticly suggest, not outright ask for shabbat help. I had someone say, " my timer didn't work & G.od said let there be light".
You’re absolutely right. I guess you figured out what they wanted…
@@FriedaVizelBrooklyn I thought so too but then with all this Shabbos goy talk I thought maybe that was just that they couldn’t ask a reform jew or any Jew.
Why do people sensor God?
@agirlisnoone5953 some people avoid writing the name in full out of respect. What if the object it's written on gets destroyed for example.. all religious books with the name written in it will usually be buried and not thrown out
@sunshineproductions4122
That is indeed required in many cases but there are others in which it is permitted to explicitly request. As with most of the laws of Shabbos, those governing when a nonJew may be asked to perform a prohibited activity for a Jew and when not are complicated and depend upon numerous factors (ultimately coming down to the balance between the severity of the need and the severity of the particular prohibitions involved). Note that in cases of danger to life, _all_ prohibitions are waived.
Another great video, Frieda!
Great video, really insightful perspective!
Loved this video!!
Thank you - such charming wonderful hosts.
As a non- Jew, I found this content very interesting. Thanks!
This was very interesting. Thank you for sharing
You have wonderful and interesting content. 😊
Very interesting! One day I hope to visit by and take a tour with you.
Another interesting video - thanks.
Glad you enjoyed it
Ms. Vizel your videos are amazing. Going to these parts of Brooklyn are a little like going to another country. Also, your interest, compassion, and empathy shine through. I hope that I can do one of your tours sometime soon.
I’d love to have you on the tour! Business has actually been really slow so please come so I don’t just have one person on the tour! :)
Wonderful video Frieda! Thank you. Although I would have a problem with the noise I feel the kids are well, having fun and laughing. There are so few appartments close to the synagogues here that I would feel I am keeping a Jewish family from renting it. But I would gladly be the Shabbes goy if I could as a woman. Loved seeing all the strollers. Real feeling of community. Envious. Have a great week! 💙
Thanks for all the thoughts!
Personally it’s interesting that once upon a time, I wouldn’t even realize the noise of the kids. Now I wouldn’t be able to handle it.
On the other hand, once upon a time if I heard barking of dogs from my home, I’d be terrified. Now when I heard dogs I just miss my pup…
We acclimate and change in ways we can’t imagine.
Interesting video your content is always so good thanks .
Thank you Peter!
Great conversation and mini tour. It is interesting to get a goi insider/outsider viewpoint. I live in a very small town and am content. I think I would feel suffocated to live in such a crowded place. Thanks for the interview!
It takes some getting used to living with so many people in tiny spaces.
@@FriedaVizelBrooklyn I guess it would. I'm not sure I could adjust. I appreciate your content...and how you are so real and open about yourself. I also really appreciate that you interact with your viewers. These are the channels I like...where I get to have at least a small part in the conversation.
@@rlm9093 I love interacting with the viewers. I used to have a blog that no one read and it's so amazing to put out stuff and have a conversation about it. Thank you for watching and sharing your thoughts!
@@FriedaVizelBrooklyn You're welcome. I've thought about blogging....but I'm such a private person...I feel very intimidated by the prospect...so I'm growing a little by interacting here in various comment sections:)
It's worth taking the leap; it's a nice way to express ourselves. :)
Amazing video, surprised it hasn't got 1M views yet
This was interesting, i wish it was longer though.
Thank you! :)
Thanks for sharing.❤️🙏🏻
I think what I loved the most about these two are how content and patient and tolerant they are. Their apt is noisy noisy..hot stale air… rent probably outrageous and yet they are sooooo content and happy. NYC isn’t for everyone.. but they make it sound really
Cool and interesting. They look at the neighbourhood as an educational type experience.
My husband and I personally couldn’t leave our backyard and pool ( that’s sounds very immodest of me I know ) I was raised in a pretty lax Jewish home on a hobby farm so that’s where my
Backyard comment comes from. I need space and air and sky for
Miles. I commend everyone in NYC and I found this vid super interesting and fascinating in fact.
Mazel Tov from J.Mink in 🇨🇦⭐️
Good idea to add the explanations. I don't need them but it's great for those that don't yet know.
What a nice video to learn about the beautiful Jewish culture. Thank you kindly!!!God Bless...
I haven't seen the clip yet.....but i say up front.
To live between chassidic jews is the safest . They mostly dont do drugs(certainly not in the open,) they dont rob you ,the dont tear your handbag from you and much more.
The noise one risks everywhere. I livel in Europe in a relatively quiet street. Until some built a appartmentlic with balconies in front. And east europeans moved in. They talk loyd with open windows day and night.
Waddaya know.
Thanks for this great video.
Another great video. I love these videos bcoz the vibes are that of my childhood. Everything is so familiar to me. The brownstones are very similar to where my grandparents lived in Poland. The sweets and supermarket items are what i grew up with. I totally get this couple bwing bothered by the noisy kids. I was one of those kids. Hanging out the window with my plastic shovel banging on the neighbours window, knocking and running, riding the elevator by myself when i was too young, running up and down the stairs from the 9th floor. I was that kid and now i have those kids 😮. Love these videos.
Awww what a great story. I'm happy for your kids. And the kid you were! I'd love to visit Poland one day. The Poland of my childhood stories was always little villages, not 9 story elevator buildings!
@FriedaVizelBrooklyn there are definitely still villages but im from the city. There is a very vibrant Jewish life there now. Especially Wroclaw, Krakow and Warsaw. They have communities there now with people who have discovered their Jewish roots or kept them hidden. When I visited there the White Stork Synagogue in Wroclaw was buzzing with life. There was a Chasidic man staying above us in the hotel. There were people going to synagogue Friday night and Saturday morning. There are Jewish schools there too.
I wondered what it would be like for a non-Jewish couple or individual living in Williamsburg. I had imagined it would be like moving to a different country with its distinct culture and Tim and Leslie confirmed my thoughts. Thank you, Frieda.
Thanks Andrea!
I plan to listen to Tim's interview with you. Thanks for introducing him to us.
@@FriedaVizelBrooklyn
Fair warning. I UMMM an annoying lot. I probably say um more than anything else!
But my interview with Tim was a real treat. He’s a great podcast host.
@@FriedaVizelBrooklyn I have never found you annoying. The people who criticize should try speaking publicly. It’s not easy and can be nerve wrecking. If you say UMMM a lot, I don’t care. Keep educating and talking. Thank you once again. ❤️
@@andreaf7886 You're very kind. Thank you :)
Hey Frida really glad I found this video! Such an intimate snapshot of what it is like to live alongside the Chassid community.
Thank you for watching, I thought it was a lovely and unique experience and I was sad that some people were rude in the comments to this wonderful couple.
Very nice, @Frieda Vizel! We don’t have to assimilate to enjoy our own lives and cultures, to enjoy our neighbors’.
😊
I lived in Bay Ridge for about 13 years and left in 2002 due to PTSD from 9/11. This is going to sound very strange, but thank you for the exposure therapy. I occasionally think about good times in NYC but I imagine it is very different now. The places that have most likely not changed are the Hasidic communities.
Oh Frida, just when I think you must have run out of video topics, you come up with another interesting idea. I got hooked on your channel when one of your Pearl interviews popped up in my "recommended" list. Has your channel exploded due to Pearl's contributions? Pearl is an exceptionally interesting character.
I have some great ideas (I think, ha ha) of more videos with Pearl. I'm just waiting for her to be ready!
@FriedaVizelBrooklyn exciting: more Pearl😊
That is not to say your videos without Pearl are not great, she is just so interesting.
Loved this video.
Many people erroneously think that a Shabbes goy can do anything for a Jew without exception.
Generally speaking, according to halacha (Jewish law), a Jew is forbidden to ask a non-Jew to do something for him on the Sabbath that is forbidden to the Jew. Since a Jew is forbidden to turn on a light on the Sabbath, the Jew cannot directly ask the non-Jew to turn it on. However, the non-Jew is allowed to turn on the light for himself. So the Jew could tell the non-Jew that the room is so dark it's hard to see. If the non-Jew then turns on the light, the Jew is allowed by Jewish law to benefit. How closely are the Hasidim in Williamsburg following Jewish law involving a Shabbes goy? How well do non-Jews understand when an indirect statement is used?
Thank you for explaining the indirect request. I was wondering how they could communicate what they wanted without saying it. Much appreciated!
They all know of these Halachic rules.
Yeah everyone in Williamsburg knows to gesture only.
In addition, one may only ask a goy (indirectly) to do something for the benefit of Shabbos.
While your comment is entirely true, it is only 50%.
The other 50% requirement is that a Jew cannot benefit from work done by a gentile on the Sabbath for them, even if not requested - with very few exceptions.
The exceptions are, but not limited to:
For non life threatening sickness (if it was life threatening, the Jew is required to not hesitate to do the act), for a public mitzva (e.g. light off in a shul), to turn on the heat in the winter, as all are considered to be sick in the cold, to turn off the light in a child's bedroom for same reason, and similar.
The croissant light is hilarious!
Thanks for sharing ❤
Wow. This was very interesting. I really enjoyed this video. Thank you Frieda. 😊 Happy Sunday. 🌞
Happy Sunday Debbie!
@@FriedaVizelBrooklyn yes and you did a great job interviewing them. They seemed like a really nice couple!
Nice to see such nice people in my neighborhood never saw you guys around
Thank you that was once more an interesting vlog. I saw the lag ba omer fires in the north of Israel around Mt. Meron but in the middle of the streets of New York is sth. new 😃❤️
Yeah, maybe I should start planning to do a video on that; it's very gorgeous although nothing beats the version in Israel!
So interesting, next time I’m back in the city I’d love to take a tour with you
Please come! Business has been slow. My tour groups have been 2-3 people per tour.
21:15 "Oh it smells like honey cookies!" Frida I love your enthusiasm. I'm coming.
Fascinating! ❤ How can they indirectly ask someone to do something like turn on a light? Pointing?💡It was so nice to see an apartment building! It seemed like a lovely place to live but I might try to soundproof my door because it sounds like the sound of kids playing really carried in that type of building! 📢😆 thank you for another wonderful video! ❤
What fascinates me is that NONE OF THE HASIDIM CARE. Like they are so used to life being all about the kids that they just don’t hear the noise!
As for shabbes goy; you say something like “it’s really hot in my apartment” and the other party usually understands!
I also loved the scene of you walking down the sidewalk and explaining to him why people wouldn’t take money directly from her hand - even such a small thing is so interesting how you can help us understand such a different world ❤
Lovely channel Frieda
Thank you so much 🤗
I'm an Asian American guy and live on a 95% Jewish street on the Upper West Side in a 95% elderly Jewish building and I'm totally oblivious that I'm not just another Jewish person. Everyone is super nice. Granted it's not a Hasidic community, but still worth pointing out as people may assume Jewish people are xenophobic but that has not been my experience at all.
a very nice report.
@kayflip2233 agreed i bet they love you, cool
@@tootsieshmutsie6428 Yeah, even though I am in my 30s I am normal friends with with my elderly neighbors in their 70s and 80s and always chat with them when I pass them in the hallway. They bust my chops constantly and even give me baked goods during the various Jewish holidays. It's like I'm one of them. Older people are much more current in terms of humor and relatability than people give them credit for and it's actually quite easy to chat with them.
@@kayflip2233 cool, tc
Asians especially the far East Asians have a very similar value system to the Jews.
Listening to their outside perspective is fascinating. I’m not even a that frum anymore but it makes Judaism sound so mysterious. I love it. ❤
Well...... Just found you when this was really great! Terminator Brooklyn I know hasn't been there since 1985. Don't ask...! I got a kick out of seeing the tile in the hallways.... I remember that checkers little tiles which I think I saw in my grandparents bathroom where I lived for the first few years of my life in Borough Park ..a long long time ago! My father I used to always think it was from Williamsburg but only found out kind of just a number of years ago that was really Bedford stuyvesant!! My father grow up on Willoughby Avenue in a converted brownstone like they did back then so a number of families could live in them.. any number of years later my grandparents with a little avenue to Sumner avenue and that's the place I remember the most! After they live there many many years they moved to Sheepshead Bay where I grew up! Anyhow.. I will be following and I'm sure I will enjoy many more of your videos.. I also sometimes I use a little bit of German but I know relatively decent amount of Yiddish from both sides of my families' grandparents and I'm glad I know it! Oddly enough I don't think I ever remember my father speaking one word of Yiddish.. my grandparents would have learned English very quickly after they got here which is very impressive unlike many immigrants today! What's the price to hear you say that you didn't think that these younger people learn English I would be very surprised if they didn't! That would upset me very much! Take care!❤🎉😊
this was utterly fascinating lol
I use to work as a visiting in Williamsburg and borough park and would often get stopped to turn on the AC, furnace, etc...once on ocean parkway a woman ask my opinion about the slit in her skirt and then she asked for help to use the pin to close it up.
😂😂😂 terrific story
Always,enjoy
Thunbs up from Manhattan
Which of you is from Memphis? I saw the Shelby county tag on the fridge. My grandfather's family lived/live there.😊
I love your videos ❤❤❤
Thank you Cheryl! I pour my heart into them!
@@FriedaVizelBrooklyn i have watched loads of your videos. Im not Jewish but I love to see how other religions live. Your videos are great. I can see you put your heart and soul into them so thankyou. Watching from South Africa. Stay safe♥️♥️
Warm regards to South Africa. I get plenty of tourists on my tour from SA.
Yoga in the middle of Jews is pretty funny. ❤ love this channel
On this subject, I heartily recommend a track I discovered by accident (it appeared in my 'recommended' feed) by a British band called UNIT. The track is A Tribute To The Israeli Defence Force and it is excellent - tuneful and forceful without being bombastic combined with a lovely lyric. I know next to nothing about the group but on investigation I see they've recorded a whole batch of Jewish related tracks such as Pesach, Yom Kippur, Bar Mitzvah, Israel Is Real, The 613 Mitzvot and probably others I don’t know about yet. Some of them feature Rabbi Moshe Bryski which is definitely a recommendation in itself.
So interesting