I'm A Porn Star | Unpacked with Relebogile Mabotja - Episode 20 | Season 3
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- Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024
- A gentlemen shares passion as a porn star and how he has managed to build this into a sustainable career over the years
Studio Guest: Siya Mbatha
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I’ve never seen a person be this honest, in ANY interview!!!
Siya’s honesty is so refreshing.
Male version of Zodwa I guess
He has given up on life
@@hlengiwemasondo2858 but he isn’t trying to convince us that he is a victim of circumstance. He clearly says option “A” didn’t work, so he went to option B,C, D, hell- he’d get to Z if need be… which is commendable!
@@mmathatomathai2521 very true, male version of her .theyd make such a power couple 👭 yazi
@@NateBrown939 I'm saying this because he seem not to care how this will affect his children, he could have done this privately and not do an interview....we human, we need to have morals.
This boy has said over and over again that he’s lost and he’s in pain. He’s not ok AT ALL. But God will reach him one truly day
He's not okay at all even now despite the money he's making.
Prayers for him. Am scared that this will influence the young ones.
@@AneleD If she was a female prostitutes, you wouldn't be saying what you're saying now.
I have hope that one day he will be wake up.
@@madimetjapoto7075 Thank you. Bless you.
When he said "mom all you got to do is pray for me" ..felt that cry for help. May God bless him and heal him from all his pains
This guy is broken 🥺🥺🥺💔😭 you can tell he faced a lot of rejection in his life😩🙌
I love how honest he is and respectful. Please don't judge uSiya.Our journeys are not the same.
But tjooo this is sad💔
One thing I totally agree with him about is that if u fail at one thing u were passionate about, try something else. Time waits for no man, and passion pays no bills
U look so pretty
Purpose...Passion...Profit.
😂😂it wasn't meant to be if it was it would happen
When he said “I’m a lost soul” 😭
One word for Siya: 🗣BRAVE
This episode =🏆
Proves he knows good from bad
He is so straightforward, he doesn't dodge any question. But I feel sad for the poor kids💔
💔😭
Bana dilo dia diega mo lefaseng. My question is how or where does Relobogile find her quest🤔.
Trust me Relobogile you are going to be bigger than Oprah, the world has not heard of you yet. Mark my words...the bible says your gift will set you before kings and trust me just continue serving your gift well and you are going to be blown away. In 2014 I started a business after selling my car after being unemployed for 2 yrs. My business started so small people laughed at me, first day I made R5, second R15, first month R79. But i was consistent no matter what, i was determined to make it work though i had no money to buy enough stock. Fast forward to today i employ 11 people,3 branches and 2 other businesses which employ 9 more people. All these by just serving my gift with passion and honest dealings. Keep going sesi
Wow what an amazing story . More blessings 💞
If UNPACKING was a person it's Siya Mbatha. Wishing him all the best in his life.Pray harder Bhuti.
Yeah exactly
I agree this one tops after satanism one
This episode just made me realize that k'moshakele emhlabeni. Siya is a good man, a driven man but all that drive focused in a scary place
Dude, preach.
This is a man whose spirit has given up. We are truly living in dark times and need to pray and lay proper foundations for our kids.
He has given up his soul...
I feel sorry for him, it will surely END in tears. I don't know which god is involved here but is not the father of my Lord Jesus.
True, we need to get back to valuing family and our kids
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@@kingpk4429 Which bible do you read? Which closed-minded God do you pray to that never turns tests into testaments?
"There is a wound inside of me that will never heal"
Sending love, light and healing to Siya.
Relebogile's emotional, spiritual and psychological being is definitely built and made for this job. No judgement, unassuming and objective, which makes the interviewee comfortable and transparent I assume. Love your work Mama. 👏❤️🤝
All she does is detach herself emotionally. It's not a calling but a skill. The same skill a doctor applies to look u dead in the eye and tell u that ur loved 1 has a week left 2 live.
@@thabojojo9482 True. it's a skill she needs for this job otherwise it won't work..
@thabojojo9482 it's probably a calling too or something that comes naturally, it's not necessarily learned, not everyone can do it as well as she does even when they consciously apply themselves.
Can we talk about how beautiful sis Lebo is 🥺😍❤
Muhle shm
Thank you!
She is Hot like a heaterrrrrr!!!
She's one of the most beautiful women I know
This episode made me realize how much we need God in our lives. People don't just wake up and decide to do such, there are spirits that are out there pushing people to do these type of things and if your faith is lacking, your life will be the devil's playground. I can tell that this person is a good person and he even says it himself, let's hope that years later he will see life from a different perspective.
This is so true
True but i like him i mean he is honesty with everything's💔 he saying
If only the internet could also delete, because I know one thing for sure years later he will wish he never did this interview.
When I watched this storey my heart was so sore to the core O couldnt even sleep that night, O felt that Siyabonga has just given up on life because of the pain and hardship his been through sometimes really we look at people and mock them not knowing the cause of what led them to what they do intliziyo yam ibuhlungu. I pray that he gets delivered this is a life of slavery and it's not easy to get out may the Lord just come through for him for he is not like us humans he is such a loving and caring God.
At some point I thought O wish that there might be someone out there who owns a soccer team who could just take him 😢😢😭😭😭
Relebogile Mabotja is that kind of interviewer who let you spill the beans. She's the sweetest. To Siya, your honesty will set you free.
The honesty in this guy is just on another level. An attribute that a majority in this comment section does not have, more, specifically to those throwing verses that themselves don't even practise, and some be judging him for things they do privately. In a husk, may everyone focus on nurturing themselves to stand right with God, what the person next to you is doing is none of your freakin' business.
😅🤞
Exactly, I second that!!!!!!!!!!1
@@blossom6235 🙏🙏❤️
@@nanadlamini4054 😹🤸💯
True unlike those who have sex for free with many women
Before he became a stripper he used to be my Herbalife mentor,one thing about Siya when he commits to something he goes all out... super proud of you Siya I remember him telling me about wanting to join the industry I thought he was joking 🙌🏾🙆🏾♀️
I used to see Siya jogging every morning. Also thought he was in the fitness world.
@@NadineBasenga he was
He used to be my friend because of football...I cannot believe this yooo
Wassup with Herbalife and sec work no cap am being realistic.
Hola Siya live your life they way u want 😘 it...follow what is right 4 U...Bosso ya di Bosso Siyaa it's name for Legends only...
This guy needs a RUclips channel I rate the honesty 💯
I can listen to him the whole day hey
there's a lot of pain that birthed all of this. I hope he finds true healing
Very true he is hurting behind all of this
Agree 💯👌
False rape allegations can damage any man, i think his pain comes from that incident.
@@madimetjapoto7075 False allegations nje are dangerous on the accused. Even with small things.
Siya my friend. I was with you until the 7 kids. Eish you lost me there 🥺. Just thinking about the kids themselves, and how they've been affected 💔
For real, do your own thing but don't involve innocent souls to your mess.
He is fertile I forsee more kids after this show
At least he was being honest saying he will never abandon his kids
I really like and respect this guy, he is so honest and proud of who is he is and what he does. The most honest person i have seen
I don't know if I'm sad or alarmed however. Poverty can ruin a person to the core
So true
I’m shook 😟
I'm sad for him
Million percent wrong
💔
Hi Siya, I enjoyed your utmost honesty. I could relate with how you were torpedoed by people who are into African Spirituality whilst you were still in your football career. Being a Christian, it has happened to me as well in my career. I later got a revelation about the importance of obeying God. If you disobey God, proponents of African spirituality & other religions will sink you. Deuteronomy 28 talks about the blessing of obedience and the curses of disobedience. Most Christians take those types of teachings lightly because of the satanic doctrine of super-grace that has morphed it's way into the body of Christ. Grace is not a leeway for recalcitrance in our relationship with Christ. Instead its meant to empower us to stop sinning, to repent because holiness is a mighty weapon. I personally vouch for holiness as I have experienced that it works.
True, dragging all of those pieces of people with you. I think him saying that he is a "lost soul"... Kinda speaks to that. You do become a shell.
LOVE THIS COMMENT. WOW
Oops
This guy is so honest he doesn’t even think twice before he answer.
This has to be the most honest man in the whole wide world.
"He that is without sin among you let him first cast a stone at her" John 8v7.
I don't see judgement here bro, wrong was never a right.read your Bible right.1corinthians 6v9-10 know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God?Be not deceived: neither fornicators,nor idolaters,nor adulterers,nor effeminate,nor abusers of themselves with mankind.10 Nor thieves,nor covetous,nor drunkards,no revilers,nor extortioners, shall inherit the Kingdom of God.Hebrews 13:4 Marriage is honourable in all,and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.People who like to say don't judge, is either they're into this thing's themselves. Won't this affect this children oneday.John 7:24 Judge not according to the appearance,but Judge righteous judgement.
@@paultumelo7321 100%
You have nailed it my brother.
I'll have mercy upon whom I'll have mercy. May the Lord save this guys...
I am seeing a very brocken individual in this guy
I wish I could get to know Relebogile. I honestly wish someone could interview her on this show.
She should invite you to be the host and her the guest
@@tshikaradikotla7850 That would be absolutely amazing. I hope she sees this.
@@tebogomaupa_ OMG we have the same surname 🥺
@@mzanzisfavourite Olerato Maupa?
What's your IG?
@@tebogomaupa_ yea that's my full name. 😁Am not active on insta yet
The entire episode this was me😳😱😣😫😩😳😱😩 this was a lot but happy for him he's living his life happily
Me too 😂😂😂
Futhi he seems really genuinely happy
This guy is so competitive and passionate which is why I believe he was doing great in soccer . 🔥
I have never ever witnessed someone being so honest in this way. I may not agree with how he has decided to live his life but Gosh, the honesty.
He reminds me of Zodwa Wabantu. The way he's so honest and the similarities here and there regarding their careers.
Lol careers weybo!
Careers😶
Sex is so much more than a physical act. It's also an emotional, psychological and spiritual act. It's so powerful that's why God had to give it a container which is marriage. Sex with multiple can mess you up because soul ties are real. I pray he sees the Light and change his ways. And, no, I'm not blaming him nor am I judging him, but I pray that he finds the peace that he's looking for. ❤
No Sweetie, thats not real!
am with you fully
That I understand, but he's not doing anything illegal. His trade doesn't affect the course of my life. In fact I wish thieves, rapists, murderers and fraudsters would stop what they are doing and become sex workers.
That is true Joshwin
Exactly!
Relebogile I like your personality. You not judgemental you like a physiologists. It's so easy to talk to you
Your guests are comfortable talking to you
*psychologist 🙃
@@thuliendlovu719 haish wena😅😅😅
Dear Kaizer Chiefs and Orlando Pirates, please come rescue Siya's soul. Amen 🙏.
Please ASAP futhi.
Aseblief
@@phumezagontshi55 pls as fast as they can
We need Jesus in our lifes.He is the only one to remove the burden or pains of this world that we have.find a living church,get deliverance,nd serve Jesus people.i feel sorry for this guy,satan used his pain to do what he is doing.May the good Lord change his story for his glory🙏 Siya my brother,may Lord Jesus locate you,you are not where you are meant to be.i see you in a suit at church,just try that,try God.Jesus loves you
I also see a mighty Man of Christ in him.
Amen
Amen we pray in Jesus name
Amen. The seed has been planted. Jesus will change this man's life in Jesus Mighty Name!
We need to bring back the Christian family values and structure by all means. It's not easy but possible
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Great interviewing. You were neutral, didn't push your opions on him, and allowed him to be vulnerable, while asking thought provoking questions.
My goodness,the judgemental comments over here are annoying! At least Siya is upfront & bluntly honest about who he is,i guess we more offended by his unpopular honesty than on what he represents. The sad irony is that his client base are your "normal" men & women who are living a double life. I guess we are so used to superficiality to such an extent honesty offends us. He even said so himself that the majority of men & women he sleeps with are married in a heterosexual relationships. That on its own its a telling phenomenon of how charred our moral fibre is. There's absolutely nothing that can be done to interfere in humanity's sexual liberation. In fact,what Siya does for a living is not new or a foreign phenomenon,its a supply & demand issue. His only crime is his honesty & he will be victimized for that as if the market for his services wasn't in existence already. He is an easy target to vent our flawed moral purity & false sense of authority we think we possess over other people's morality.
I totally agree with you
First thing I thought when seeing this was the economics written all over it.
Now that you mention Supply & Demand... It's just that.
He is principled and He just decided to make his jump for what works 🙆♂️.
Yes morally, we all have certain reservations which obviously raises the different choices and preferences.
Word bro 💯
He is very open🙌
He finds very hard to lie, he will grow fast spiritually if he repents.
"I am a lost soul" 20:35
Siya came and opened up and unpacked - became completely naked with his honesty. A real eye opener.
So brave! So honest! So self aware. There are more positive things for you in the horizon. Keep seeking your true peace, peace is everything.
This whole episode was Freak McNasty😂😂. Lebo was speechless.
😀😀😀😀😀🤣🤣🤣
Funny that the presenter is curious far more than us🤣🤣🤣
Sir, your life is not going to end where you are now. Please hang on and pray more🙏
God bless you❤️
When he said " i will do this till i die, i will never stop" i realized that the guy is trapped. He got himself in some deep shit
He's under serious demonic entanglement
@@xolani2321 real talk...bondage
Siya is more honest and authentic than most people. Least we cast any stigma; every person got a story to live.
Okay this episode left me more heart broken than intrigued.
Same here
Ka tla ka tshwara Ke stress 💆🏾
Yhuuu Nkule 💔💔
@@KellyKelly-yq2py Wena
Why heart broken?
People don`t just wake up one day to become porn stars. People become porn stars not because of the money or for the "love" of it but because of unresolved trauma. This man right here is the perfect example of what trauma looks like.
So true
Honesty isnt trauma..denial stems from trauma 😂😂
@@lexxbrown2075 his honesty is highlighting his trauma lol
You make these assertions with such authority that you seem to be an expert in the mater.
I support your statement 100% this guy was violated in prison and it damaged him
When he said the client opens their mouth under the chair and he 💩 in it, i legit screamed so loud in disgust! People are nasty nasty!!!
Ngithe "Hhaibo" that time am at work
@@noziphon1 🤣🤣
That part was a lot😂
"I've got nothing to lose..." I wish you well brother. There's more to life than this. Realise, this isn't just you, you expose your (sex)partners and your children to a side that's very troublesome. It is never to late, I wish you well
Women prostitutes do that as well, stop judging the man.
@@madimetjapoto7075 who said female prostitutes don't? He's on the show now so we are talking about him in this moment.
@@madimetjapoto7075 You are responding to me with a set agenda. Chill. Take a deep breath. I am responding to this interview with this man. I am not saying anything in general about a gender. Lets be accurate and think before we respond, shall we?!
Really it's never too late. If you read 1 Corinthians 6:9-11 you find out that God hates prostitution at verse 6, but at verse 11 it shows that ppl can change and be accepted by God. What I am saying is not being judgemental. There are many sins mentioned on those verses which each one of us must stop doing. One dangerous thing is committing sin and not being ashamed of that. There's one thing we all should be aware of- the guy was once suicidal, if he doesn't stop his trade, he'll feel filthy and do it again. I've seen ppl who have been raped and abused but they turn their lives around and don't do what SIYA is doing. He's a fully able man, he must just go look for a clean job and work as a man. Do hard work, clean job, get less money, keep your integrity and self esteem.
She is one hell of an understanding fiancé...
Hell no that's rude lala
My dear🤗😂
We’re different hey. She can handle it
Very understanding
“Different strokes for different folks”
😂😂😂 who felt like this was a very awkward interview? This girl is going far because she brings content you rarely find on screen
😂😂yeah ...
As I was watching this show I cried 😭😭because woow never judge anyone, only God will do the job.. And never said I know this person until you hear their story.. This guy's honesty is on another level. I respect Him.
Thank you Relebogile for this show. God anointed you for this job.. Emotionally, spiritually and physically you are on top of your game.. I applaud you for this👏👏👏You look stunning 👌👌👌
Don’t brag about your morals until you have enough money to fund your temptations.
There is a lot hidden in poverty.
Yaw I was about to dismiss this but it hit me and ohh damn… 💪🏾
Yuhhh Moyo!!! Your statement blew my mind 🤯🤯🤯🤯❤️
I feel like Relebohile glows more and more on every show. Keep up the good work. I love how non judgmental u r on all ur shows.
She definitely interviews very well as she retains a none judgemental approach . That's what also makes her guests comfortable enough to be honest as well.
Not everyone has a good spirit, I can only imagine the evil soul ties that enslave him. I pray that he gets the help he needs 🙏
Heyii!!!!
@@sithandiweshange6568 heyii kubi mtase, his undermining the spiritual implications of what his doing. The devil doesn't play.
@@salvation1992 he probably has an idea because he did say that when he's doing his job the devil in him comes out.
@@talent_can5770 yoh ai you find his even participating in people's rituals unaware, it's not normal and he says he doesn't have boundaries, what's next animals?
Life is spiritual people.
The things we engage in are not just physical, they have a spiritual implication. And your soul is where all of this stuff is collected. May God help us and give us understanding.
Thank you for sharing your story with us Siya, more especially your honesty. Those who judge, shame on you🙄
Not me going to Google and Twitter wanting to see things ge😂😂😂💔
His Twitter is explicit 🥴🥴🥴
🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂
Let me run to twitter🤣
If I heard him correctly,he said the devil and animals are brought out while doing the act. Let's pray for him day and night guys. Only Jesus can save him.
Where is Jesus to the homeless and those dying from poverty? God clearly doest want to save us all. Leave Siya to be himself!
🤣🤣🤣. I think he means he becomes a beast during the act.
Ai yal like over thinking. Leave this man alone and poor Jesus must be bothered nge penises zabantu
pure evil 😈 people needs Jesus, devil is ruling in this world
Metaphorically speaking!
Brotha is seriously unpacking..
😂😂😂😂am dead
Leaving no stone unturned
He held back nothing!
😂😂😂
Props to how he owns and is responsible for his decisions!
He could even persue a marketing career should he decide to recreate himself.
I love his honesty, quite interesting
Thought I have your number to let you know, but shoutout to this platform you doing incredible work Lebo
My goodness this guy, i like his honesty though just worried about his kids because they are growing...and to Relebogile...you are the best my sister...much love ❤❤❤
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Watching this has changed my perspective , and the fact that I'm open minded I've learnt alot from you, we all come from different backgrounds and we got alot going on, but he's brave ,and he got no fears the risks he takes big up to him 🙌
I still see a lot of potential in him. He could do well in sales or PR...life did not afford him the opportunities. I won't judge him
I'm crying listening to this interview...
First interview in a while that shocks me... I didn't expect most of the answers he gave.
I'm shook. 😭😭😭
Shuuu 😭😭😭 and it pains that there are others like him...
Aus Relebogile is such a gem!!!! ❤️🥰she is non-judgmental even as shocked as she is hearing all that is being said. She makes the guests so relaxed!
I don't understand why Y'all are judging him. He is really very respectful for his clients, respect their boundaries and they are happy. We have a lot of people who sleep around out there and make no cent from it, good work for Siya to make business out of this. I wish you all the best with your international colabs
Thank you! I was looking for such a comment ngoba people are busy judging him. The guy is just a business man who enjoys his work, qha.
Facts.
I found this one a little bit difficult to watch. Nigga really loved soccer, he gave of all himself to it, at the end he got disappointed. He hasn't healed from that and l think he doesn't allow himself to feel all of that pain and hurt that is why he keeps saying he has nothing to lose. His current lifestyle is some form of an escape for him. Light and peace to him.
I love that he is honest, most men are doing this but won't tell their wives.
This totally blew my mind!!!!! I can't wait to learn from this 🥺🥺
Jesus Christ died on the cross for such souls, and definitely his end will be better than his beginning, because the honesty and bravery of acknowledging that he's a lost soul, isn't given to anyone!
Be blessed brother ❤️
Love how honest and open he is about his life and services👌...
My mouth was just wide open throughout the whole episode
Me too😆
Relebogile is such a great interviewer. This has become one of my favorite talk shows to follow. It's refreshing to hear South African stories and she and her guests tell them brilliantly.
On the topic of Siya. It's not a comfortable topic for many people to discuss. Knowing how many people are going to judge him following this interview. Whether you agree with his lifestyle or not, you have to commend his bravery and honesty
What a great interview. He is so open and honest.
You are a 🇿🇼
Why do I feel like Cadbury kind of pimped Siya out?
Eish, my guess as well.
I wish someone else could have found him before Cadbury did
This interview just blew me off my chair 🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯
Wooow, Relebogile guys, not many people can be calm, objective and collected in such an interview. Well done lady, you're really good at this. Oooh bathong about Siya, all I hear is pain screaming as he spoke. The disappointment from not making it in soccer coupled with his zest for life surely has driven him to the dark place. I'm not judging him at all, no one is perfect. I just wish he can use his positive energy and passion for something not as risky or even dangerous as porn.
The fiancé😭 the s'bindi!!!!😭😭
the liver 🙌
I love how honest Siya is. Great interview. That's how interviews should be. Esh kodwa his work requires a lot of energy and courage. 💔
My jaw dropped so many times in this episode. Hectic! .....deep sigh.
Me and you babes, like I kept pausing 🙆🏿♀️
Same. 😭
This show challenges you to be open minded. lets be honest, we might want to judge him, but we do watch porn, and guess we can thank him for his braveness because he is making content we deep down want.
True
You are so right.....and in this case it would be the same consumer of the content that judge the content creators
@@nolusizodlalisa5573 lol...crazy ey!
Exactly some masturbate on it and use it to spice up their sex life
Eish , true
Stop praising rubbish ,lets fear God people.In noway is this right ,this is demonic and not right
I'm less than two minutes in and I'm already shocked 😢
Rest! Rest! Rest!
They will say"you are judging"while you are talking the truth. You are 100% correct.
vey true nowadays when we call sin sin we judgmental. We are indeed a very sick generation.
Well said ! God' is not in this nonsense!!
😭😭😭in which World was I living in?I mean it hurts me to know about this show right now... listen! I'm definitely going to watch all the episodes.. interesting content mama ... keep it up❤️🔥
This dude is going to get sick, along with the partner.... he's too reckless
Right especially ka this Era...where hiv is spread like flu
The way Relebogile dodged the freak question😂😂😂😂😂
Him: Ok, tell me what it is.
Relebogile: No x3
These words could be lyrics to a whole RnB song😂
🤣🤣🤣☄☄ for real
Lebo is a bit low key shook this episode
🤣🤣im down with laughter!
Such a hurt soul 💔
Soccer really broke his heart😭
I stand with you right there. I spent a year not talking to my dad - living in the same house with both parents - cause he made me quit my passion. I eventually forgave him, but the pain and passion remains.
When he said he's a lost soul, everything just made sense to me afterwards.
Certainly
Asimfuneni bo. Akalandwe.
💡
False rape allegations and spending 6 months in jail for something he didn't do damaged him.
@@madimetjapoto7075 and failed soccer career
When she said 'it looks bumpy' with a straight face.. Relebogile is a pro, inclusive and non judgemental
This guys honesty though and straight to the point 👌🏼👌🏼
With love from Namibia
It’s sad what rejection could lead to in ones life. Lord help Siya shame and the 7kids because wow issa lot😔
As honest as he is and as broken as her. I gotta say as his mother, gf and children I think this is a hard pill to swallow. He is living his truth but zero care of those around him. I don't think he is a bad person, but I do think the disappointment changed him. Just pray for him and I do hope he finds himself.
I kept saying "aibo" the whole time. Interesting interview. I hope Siya saves up for the future cause I doubt he can do this for the rest of his life.
7 minutes into the episode already am on the floor ☝️🤣🤣🤣 "mina I sell both"
I was on the floor from the intro ku “7 kids” 😵💫😵💫😵💫
🤣🤣😂😂
Jonga, you and me both🤣
Eish life neh
Wt do u sell both😅🤣😂👌?
With the unemployment rate in SA, i understand u Siya😔😔😘
This was outside my comfort zone. New things were heard and things I never expected ever. He is right only certain people can do what he does
Andile Mpisane, pls do something about this guy. Get him a contract 😒