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Your intro is too long. I think you should get to the point a little faster. Oh, and it seems to be a click bait title too. There was like 2 sentences in the whole video about being more attractive and charming. Its a good video. People will be angry if they feel like you brought them here with a lie though.
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9:05; thank you for such useful and empowering info. I am used to being so 'ashamed' of the times when my behavior has been neurotic or hypervigilant. This convo makes it feel more normalized, and just something to be managed individually and more understandable in relationships.
I used to have high neuroticism but I realized my worry or panic does not affect the outcome and I practiced to react differently, more calm and think about problems and solutions, so I think some people can change their chemistry. I also don’t think someone would strive to have high neuroticism.
the way i see it, low neuroticism is just better than high neuroticism , since one can always consciously get into the habit of preparing for problems ! this video is utter gold btw
This website was a great find! I purchased a book that’s already making a positive impact on my mindset. Fingers crossed it helps me overcome my fear of approaching women.
I’m so glad I watched until the end, the last 5 minutes were the most powerful. I mean the entire video was filled with gems but the last 5 minutes had the golden nugget.
The reason why the Golden Rule has survived for so long throughout the course of recorded human history is because it works for any situation. It's because it forces you to place yourself in another persons shoes without even knowing them. The Platinum rule can only work if you have a standing relationship with someone.
Try changing it too "You teach others how you want to be treated" rather than what the golden rule is. The golden rule has survived due to people believing in it and never questioning it unfortunately
I'm INFJ personalty Typ, and I can always read people body language. better to say, i can't unsee that anymore. Sometimes it is scary, because you can read if the person is good or bad.
No matter how great you think you are at ready body language , you can't always know if the person is good or bad. It's more so red flags. Somebody could present a body language with red flags because of being nervous, etc. Imagine somebody assumes you are good or bad, when you might not be good or bad.
@@ianditwin7443 being nervous means being nervous.... That has nothing to do with being good or bad. I've never said how great I am. First of all. Don't put words in another person's mouth. Second: You sound like you have to make a point, after reading my comment. Why?
Yes i saw a very scary set of comments where people wanted to “nudify” pictures and were gonna “wait for ai to get better”. i don’t ever want to have kids in this sick world :(
For those familiar with 'Joy' from Inside Out (the animated movie), you'll agree that Vanessa is a perfect match for her character-radiating the same vibrant energy, cheerful demeanor, and bright look. 😄💖
The farce is that you need a neurotic person to help worry about things and this help prevent it. The takeaway here is that you can find people who are BALANCED individuals that help those who dont usually prepare enough (backup plan etc) that ARENT neurotic and dont take away your peace. Your peace is so undervalued and critically important. Dont ever let anyone take that from you.
Perfectly Hidden Depression: How to Break Free from the Perfectionism That Masks Your Depression, has reached thousands here in the US, as well as having an international impact, with translations reaching from Korea to Italy, Turkey to Germany. Her highly popular podcast, The SelfWork Podcast, has been continuously rated as one of the best podcasts for mental health and depression
2:00 she goes to mirror him body language and free his mind from the thought of why she is hidding her hands under table 13:32 she speaks body language
It's crazy how no one is talking about Women’s Magic Truths on Borlest. This book has secrets that could change everything, but people seem blind to it. Wake up and see for yourself!
Parents change with each child they bring in they behaviour styles are different and they react differently as each soul as child is bringing up different emotions out of parents
Don't care to be popular. I guess that same attitude is why i also believe trying to like a lot of people is a waste of energy because a lot of people don't deserve to be liked by me. 😏
I am preparing for USMLE and matching. As a non US international medical applicant, the examination part doesn't scare me. What scares me is the interview part. US people talk in a very unnatural way! Now, common people may talk normally, idk, but watching or listening to these podcasts, i am like, "who talks like that?" And why the fake smile? How can "can you believe it!?" be considered as a natural response to "so you are here for the 3rd time..."? How? And I have seen many videos on how to prepare for an interview, US specific, on one hand they say, "just be yourself" while on the other hand they keep telling us, "smile... be chirpy..." wtf? Anyway, coming back to how an american interview goes... the responses are not natural! Why? I am a yes/no guy, I cannot fake smile! And that American fake smile is creepy AF! And the body language too... I don't understand.
It does seem like her speech, gestures are not genuine, very thought through that personality is almost lost, feels almost like AI picking up all “the cool” things in one and artificially using them. My take Especially when she said so herself
her daughter is 20 months, now I wonder if she is doing the dot on the forehead test? Place the toddler in front of a mirror when they realise the dot on their forehead, she self aware and separate from mummy 😢😮😊
Her second child was NOT born into the same family with the same parents. The second child has an older sibling. The second child has parents who have three years of experience with already having had a child, and who knows what other experiences they have accumulated in the previous three years. I hope the rest of this talk is more scientific than this assertion at the beginning.
I'm finding it hard to listen to this because, to me, her voice sounds nasal and shrill. I'm not American, so I'm used to smoother, clearer voices. I've never heard of this person. Is she meant to be well known?
It’s shocking how Women’s Magic Truths on Borlest isn’t being discussed. The book is full of life-changing insights, yet no one seems to notice. Time to break the trance and read it yourself!
I don't really like people like that giving advice to others. Sorry, I don't like her vibe deamor, or am I interested in anything she has to say just by looking at her and her personality. She looks like a Karen that has live laugh love on her living room. That makes me extremely uncomfortable.
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Good interview. I wish you’d be more aware of the ethical standing of products you promote. Promoting a drink that sponsors ethnic cleansing is not charming or charismatic at all
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Starbucks is anti-union/anti-labor and BDS. Stop promoting them please.
Your intro is too long. I think you should get to the point a little faster. Oh, and it seems to be a click bait title too. There was like 2 sentences in the whole video about being more attractive and charming. Its a good video. People will be angry if they feel like you brought them here with a lie though.
A lot of cues of selfcontrol ... do you wanna check out? She literately freezed
I wanted to take a moment to congratulate you on the tremendous success of your RUclips channel, Sean Kim! Your dedication and hard work have truly paid off, reaching an impressive milestone of 28.4K subscribers and accumulating over 3 million views across 232 engaging videos.
It's clear that your content resonates with a wide audience, and the growth of your channel is a testament to the quality and value you provide to your viewers. The recent interview with Vanessa Van Edwards on "Psychological Tricks to Be More Charismatic & Influential Today" was particularly captivating!
Your commitment to hosting the "Growth Minds" podcast and bringing insightful conversations with fascinating individuals is commendable. The diverse topics you cover, ranging from business and sports to comedy and music, showcase the depth and variety of your content.
Once again, congratulations on reaching this remarkable milestone, and here's to continued growth and success for the Sean Kim channel! If there's anything we can do to support your journey further, please don't hesitate to reach out.
Lol are you demonstrating the AI charisma button they talked about? Such a perfect example😂
thanks chatgpt
Vanessa is a great guest! I'm a huge fan of her and I have all her books. Mr. Kim you did a great job getting her on here.
Vanessa who!? I need more from woman,she is a genius!
Can we have a timestamp for each topic that would be so great!
Timestamps are nice when it's an hour or more.
She is very vibrant,authentic and supper expressive...i love the way she put things in a very clear way
She is exhausting
9:05; thank you for such useful and empowering info. I am used to being so 'ashamed' of the times when my behavior has been neurotic or hypervigilant. This convo makes it feel more normalized, and just something to be managed individually and more understandable in relationships.
I used to have high neuroticism but I realized my worry or panic does not affect the outcome and I practiced to react differently, more calm and think about problems and solutions, so I think some people can change their chemistry. I also don’t think someone would strive to have high neuroticism.
the way i see it, low neuroticism is just better than high neuroticism , since one can always consciously get into the habit of preparing for problems !
this video is utter gold btw
The fact that nobody talks about forbidden books on Revandles is so insanee
This website was a great find! I purchased a book that’s already making a positive impact on my mindset. Fingers crossed it helps me overcome my fear of approaching women.
Wow, thank you for explaining high neurotic. I have both kids and this helps me so much, now I get it.
She is so right, you can tell by the voice or the pitch of the voice if you listen clearly to the AI it has slang to it
I’m so glad I watched until the end, the last 5 minutes were the most powerful. I mean the entire video was filled with gems but the last 5 minutes had the golden nugget.
To be honest I’m glad i watched the end 😅 too
I’m glad I watched to the end and I’m so glad that I liked and subscribed and hit the notification bell!!
"How do I like people more"
Exactly 😂💯
Turns out that that question is some of the greatest advice that you can give yourself!
Love yourself.
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Love yourself first then you’re able love others too ❤
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Vanessa is a wealth of knowledge exclamation point 🤣 her books and newsletter is full of useful tips.
what an engaging illuminating fascinating and fun convo! I need to watch your other convos! have her back please!
Great Tip 55:30
I could listen to her forever
The reason why the Golden Rule has survived for so long throughout the course of recorded human history is because it works for any situation. It's because it forces you to place yourself in another persons shoes without even knowing them. The Platinum rule can only work if you have a standing relationship with someone.
Excellent point and observation
Try changing it too "You teach others how you want to be treated" rather than what the golden rule is.
The golden rule has survived due to people believing in it and never questioning it unfortunately
What a fantastic person.
I think Vanessa is an amazing mum❤️
I am an ambivert and prefer nigh clubs because you are not expected to converse if you dont want to and can leave whenever
You prefer night clubs over what? Strip clubs? Sportsclub?
@@queenbee7074 Bars but yes also those lol, tho book clubs are cool too
Saaaaame so much more non verbalsz at the club
Nice!
Cheers!
@@seankim You truly deserve more views and subs bro. Keep up the great work.
I'm INFJ personalty Typ, and I can always read people body language. better to say, i can't unsee that anymore.
Sometimes it is scary, because you can read if the person is good or bad.
No matter how great you think you are at ready body language , you can't always know if the person is good or bad. It's more so red flags. Somebody could present a body language with red flags because of being nervous, etc. Imagine somebody assumes you are good or bad, when you might not be good or bad.
@@ianditwin7443 being nervous means being nervous.... That has nothing to do with being good or bad.
I've never said how great I am.
First of all. Don't put words in another person's mouth.
Second:
You sound like you have to make a point, after reading my comment. Why?
@@deathnote4717 You sound as if you are b hurt. Read your own response. Very defensive. 🤷♀️
Great interview guys!
The chemical composition of the vanilla scent is very similar to our sexual fluids on a chemical compound level. Or so said my IB biology teacher
Sounds like he is a freak.
Very interesting, thank you)
Very interesting and very informative conversation...AI CAN BE VERY DANGEROUS IN THE WRONG HANDS ✋️
Yes i saw a very scary set of
comments where people wanted to “nudify” pictures and were gonna “wait for ai to get better”. i don’t ever want to have kids in this sick world :(
For those familiar with 'Joy' from Inside Out (the animated movie), you'll agree that Vanessa is a perfect match for her character-radiating the same vibrant energy, cheerful demeanor, and bright look. 😄💖
The farce is that you need a neurotic person to help worry about things and this help prevent it. The takeaway here is that you can find people who are BALANCED individuals that help those who dont usually prepare enough (backup plan etc) that ARENT neurotic and dont take away your peace.
Your peace is so undervalued and critically important. Dont ever let anyone take that from you.
So helpful ❤️❤️
Perfectly Hidden Depression: How to Break Free from the Perfectionism That Masks Your Depression, has reached thousands here in the US, as well as having an international impact, with translations reaching from Korea to Italy, Turkey to Germany. Her highly popular podcast, The SelfWork Podcast, has been continuously rated as one of the best podcasts for mental health and depression
2:00 she goes to mirror him body language and free his mind from the thought of why she is hidding her hands under table
13:32 she speaks body language
I'm down! I love pop corn!! 😂❤🍿💃
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This is a really interesting topic!
😊Can U remainds me why do people smell thier hands after handshakes? 😊
Parents change with each child they bring in they behaviour styles are different and they react differently as each soul as child is bringing up different emotions out of parents
I like people. I find most of them super interesting. The ones that don't get that, I have a hard time connecting with.
While there are many great points and I enjoyed the interaction here, not once did I learn anything about seduction.
Is it possible to get access to the funny RUclips video list Vanessa referenced?
Beautiful poscast ❤
I love her content, so much..
Mike drop at 58m. Removing judgement I’m sure would help immensely. Perfect.
So interesting and insightful… I like You
Don't care to be popular. I guess that same attitude is why i also believe trying to like a lot of people is a waste of energy because a lot of people don't deserve to be liked by me. 😏
I like this girl
I am preparing for USMLE and matching. As a non US international medical applicant, the examination part doesn't scare me. What scares me is the interview part.
US people talk in a very unnatural way! Now, common people may talk normally, idk, but watching or listening to these podcasts, i am like, "who talks like that?" And why the fake smile?
How can "can you believe it!?" be considered as a natural response to "so you are here for the 3rd time..."? How?
And I have seen many videos on how to prepare for an interview, US specific, on one hand they say, "just be yourself" while on the other hand they keep telling us, "smile... be chirpy..." wtf?
Anyway, coming back to how an american interview goes... the responses are not natural! Why?
I am a yes/no guy, I cannot fake smile! And that American fake smile is creepy AF! And the body language too... I don't understand.
How to build trust: never lie, no matter how uncomfortable. Simple.
Warmth vs competence? Studies pls
Please anyone can summarize it
Some words emphasize them selves because of how they are pronounced.
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It does seem like her speech, gestures are not genuine, very thought through that personality is almost lost, feels almost like AI picking up all “the cool” things in one and artificially using them.
My take
Especially when she said so herself
Thats what I was thinking as well. She just seems as though she cares the most how she would appear to others and exaggarate certain characteristics.
New here ❤
Chinese have a saying: 三歲定八十
It means when you are 3 year old, can almost tell how you are going to be like when you are 80!!
So charming without being necessry beautiful
her daughter is 20 months, now I wonder if she is doing the dot on the forehead test? Place the toddler in front of a mirror when they realise the dot on their forehead, she self aware and separate from mummy 😢😮😊
Realised that she says the same shit in every show/ podcast😂
People who act like that lady seem fake to me how do I fix that?
I can't watch for 10 minutes without hearing anything in the title without calling BS in the comments
I’m gonna guess that her next book is called “Connect” 😆
🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Popular kids might just 'know' what they like more than unpopular.
Her second child was NOT born into the same family with the same parents. The second child has an older sibling. The second child has parents who have three years of experience with already having had a child, and who knows what other experiences they have accumulated in the previous three years. I hope the rest of this talk is more scientific than this assertion at the beginning.
Seem like they should get you on the podcast.
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I'm finding it hard to listen to this because, to me, her voice sounds nasal and shrill. I'm not American, so I'm used to smoother, clearer voices. I've never heard of this person. Is she meant to be well known?
Hehe I made a similar comment. It seems like it’s not natural
Americans looove categorizing everything and everyone
I am more of a warm communicator.
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Yeah I'm not a warm person and I could tell she's an exclamation point girly because she annoys me 😅
Samee lol
Why is there so much crap on the internet?
I don't really like people like that giving advice to others. Sorry, I don't like her vibe deamor, or am I interested in anything she has to say just by looking at her and her personality. She looks like a Karen that has live laugh love on her living room. That makes me extremely uncomfortable.
Why is that? What is it that you assess about people who give advice?
Why is almost every examle about her? And smirks all the time???
Alright, alright, alright…
I Like U❤
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The silence around Women’s Magic Truths on Borlest is unbelievable. This book reveals powerful techniques, yet people remain unaware. Don't miss out - discover what everyone's ignoring!
She attracted him
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You are trying to smell their hands just sounds so made up, I don't buy that at all
Every interview starts with genocide juice
Horribly researched. Populations might be self regulated but economies and stable governments aren't. THATS the threat from demographic collapse.
Good interview. I wish you’d be more aware of the ethical standing of products you promote. Promoting a drink that sponsors ethnic cleansing is not charming or charismatic at all
I bet anything I own that her kids are gonna be Gluten intolerant and have peanut allergies…🤓
This interview had nooooooo structure at all. So hard to follow.
boycott starbucks free Palestine 🌈
Dont tell the a.i how to improve the deep fakes🤦🏾♂️
Make shortcut to skip the intro. Reason for the dislike.
This is so boring!
@vannessa van Edward’s wouldn’t appreciate how you’ labeled this