Struggling to Trust People | GIVEAWAY!! 🎁

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  • Опубликовано: 14 дек 2023
  • It's easy to go around waiting for the other shoe to drop, honestly it might even be part of the healing process where you finally learn how to not just trust others again, but trust yourself. Your mind is not trying to keep you stuck, it's just doing what it knows to do and that is find any situation or person that could possibly bring you any pain and make sure you stay far away from them.
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Комментарии • 85

  • @sueferguson6827
    @sueferguson6827 5 месяцев назад +5

    I went through a terrible phase of unrationally thinking that most men were undercover narcs or must have terrible tempers when they were nice,weird what we think sometimes.

  • @ronaldfishsr3159
    @ronaldfishsr3159 5 месяцев назад +5

    I look forward to every new video you post. You have brought comfort and clarity to me for many terrible experiences that I had in my life! Thank you

  • @brittanycouchman3000
    @brittanycouchman3000 5 месяцев назад +3

    Hi Steph, I've been wanting to do your course for such a long time. The father of my kids just reached out to me after 10 years. I live in fight or flight every day! I hope I can afford your course one day! You've helped me so much, you have no idea!

  • @passerby6168
    @passerby6168 5 месяцев назад +5

    Good vid. We all have a narcissist in us. It's real job is to act as protector, so we don't become doormats even if the real us likes to forgive and is very understanding. But the protector needs to be trained to do things in the right way, kept in check. It can be likened to a caveman protecting his woman. Another caveman looks at his woman a second too long and the caveman bashes his head and kills him. Sure, he "protected" both his woman and his own interest, but at the expense of taking someone's life. The disorder is when a soul has lost too much control of its protector and the protector is now like a black hole, sucking everything into shall we say its narrow selfish outlook. The other side of the coin is the doormat - when a soul has tamed the ego/narcissist/protector too much, seen it only as evil, and then people just walk all over you, and you keep forgiving and forgiving, even without any repentance. Most people in this world have trouble with the former not the latter. But the latter does happen to some. Balance. Make the two one.

    • @LisaSmith-yb2uz
      @LisaSmith-yb2uz 5 месяцев назад +1

      Integration, individuation, alignment, etc. ☺️❣️

    • @passerby6168
      @passerby6168 5 месяцев назад

      @@LisaSmith-yb2uz Ah that's what the young uns call it these days.

  • @HeatherPower3
    @HeatherPower3 5 месяцев назад +2

    This is the reason why I had big issues sleeping for 18 months as I tried to drift off to sleep a surge of adrenaline would hit like my brain in saying no your not going to sleep now it’s not safe, it was worse when I would face the side my ex would have been on if he was there.

    • @user-qz8gy8jm5b
      @user-qz8gy8jm5b 5 месяцев назад

      Never made that connection. Have still trouble relaxing to be able to get to sleep without the need to listen to stuff thus avoiding the silence.

  • @George-wx5nv
    @George-wx5nv 5 месяцев назад +2

    I needed this video ❤ thank you Stephanie

  • @janecallahan2340
    @janecallahan2340 5 месяцев назад +4

    Hi Stephanie, how about understanding patterns in relationships to help you avoid future problems. This can help in making better choices for yourself.

  • @user-er9bc1kb3c
    @user-er9bc1kb3c 5 месяцев назад +3

    I loved this video it says you can look out for yourself better because we're are all vulnerable ❤

  • @fireflymary9269
    @fireflymary9269 5 месяцев назад

    Better to just trust yourself, date yourself, love yourself.

  • @crystalanderson5460
    @crystalanderson5460 4 месяца назад

    For me, this has been one of your best videos. Thank you I needed this right now

  • @ChaiTogether
    @ChaiTogether 5 месяцев назад +1

    I don’t know about tagging on RUclips but I do want the course to apply to my life ❤😊🎉 Thank you Steph XOXO

  • @justlivin900
    @justlivin900 5 месяцев назад +1

    Happy holidays Stephanie.
    Thank you for the videos

  • @noelafflick9945
    @noelafflick9945 5 месяцев назад

    No it's not trusting people it's simply the quality of the people for my needs going forward.

  • @nydiamontanez8025
    @nydiamontanez8025 5 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you Stephanie for your great videos, they help me put my lufe and situations in perspective. Many Blessing and have a Wonderful Holiday season. ❤😊

  • @rpsluvpenny
    @rpsluvpenny 5 месяцев назад +1

    Would love to win….have no clue on how to tag but have shared

  • @mekman4
    @mekman4 5 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you.

  • @rosaliaoliver-qv3gr
    @rosaliaoliver-qv3gr 5 месяцев назад

    ❤I love your couching. YOU The best!❤HAPPY NEW YEAR!

  • @hopedealer5738
    @hopedealer5738 5 месяцев назад

    Tysm❤

  • @michelleulishney9524
    @michelleulishney9524 5 месяцев назад

    Your videos help me heal. Thank you!

  • @aubreygonzalez7300
    @aubreygonzalez7300 5 месяцев назад

    Love this!

  • @N5555b
    @N5555b 5 месяцев назад

    Really love your content 😀

  • @Sam-pl3yd
    @Sam-pl3yd 5 месяцев назад +1

    Hia Stephanie 💕 yes it’s like waiting to wake up and think it’s a bad dream 🙏❤️❤️❤️

  • @Jayne278
    @Jayne278 5 месяцев назад +1

    I can use this course! I'm a mess ❤

  • @KarieWegleitner-hf5uj
    @KarieWegleitner-hf5uj 5 месяцев назад

    Liked, subscribed and shared to two. Thanks

  • @matthendry2045
    @matthendry2045 5 месяцев назад

    U rock!

  • @jenniferreidenbach2957
    @jenniferreidenbach2957 5 месяцев назад

    Thank uou for anorher great video! Ive enjoyed listening to you for years now. You always have great content ❤
    I shared wirh 2 friends. Im not sure how to tag on you tube.

  • @Jenniferlynn8
    @Jenniferlynn8 5 месяцев назад

    I need this please 🙏🏼

  • @TeresaJeanna
    @TeresaJeanna 5 месяцев назад

    I would love a free course. My ex fiance dumped me a week before the wedding. I didn't know it at the time but he knocked up his 20 year old secretary.

  • @kat-75
    @kat-75 5 месяцев назад

    No more bad experiences with any human.

  • @KristinJ-hz7fl
    @KristinJ-hz7fl 5 месяцев назад +1

    Don’t know people that can be tagged.

  • @rgrandberry1234
    @rgrandberry1234 5 месяцев назад

    Thank-you!!!! xoxo Please I would love to learn and grow with your give-away!!!! xoxo

  • @JM-tm4dj
    @JM-tm4dj 5 месяцев назад +1

    Spot on. How can once fix, or reduce this?

  • @kstari
    @kstari 5 месяцев назад +9

    About to listen but just wanted to know your thumbnail says tursted instead of trusted.

    • @Leebosgirldj
      @Leebosgirldj 5 месяцев назад +2

      I was wondering if I had cdine something to my narcissist that wasn't right by "tursting" him and I was eager to fix what I had done. It was funny after I saw your comment...thanks 😊

    • @kathleenbell9509
      @kathleenbell9509 5 месяцев назад

      😂

    • @Leebosgirldj
      @Leebosgirldj 5 месяцев назад

      And to make matters worse I misspelled the word "done".. watch out y'all because apparently autocorrect is proving to be a tad bit selfish and take away from our focus 😞..sorry

    • @kstari
      @kstari 5 месяцев назад

      @@Leebosgirldj No worries...I just laugh at my own mess ups. Seriously, it's so frustrating that if you don't giggle at how frustrating it is you may go insane.

    • @StephanieLynCoaching
      @StephanieLynCoaching  5 месяцев назад

      Saw that after we posted it 🤷🏻‍♀️😂

  • @rrowFernandoL777S
    @rrowFernandoL777S 5 месяцев назад

    Happy New Year👍🤓

  • @gavinelliot3564
    @gavinelliot3564 5 месяцев назад +1

    Next

  • @chocolate70
    @chocolate70 5 месяцев назад

    I would love to participate but I have no friends on youtube. I’ve liked and subscribed though.

  • @starlight7772
    @starlight7772 5 месяцев назад

    Wish I had friends on RUclips to tag 😅😂

  • @cdorothy444
    @cdorothy444 5 месяцев назад

    Hi I am entering the giveaway! Can’t tag people in RUclips

  • @jackidezell3401
    @jackidezell3401 5 месяцев назад +1

    How can you trust someone so many times, just for them to show you that they won't be honest?

    • @justmichael6628
      @justmichael6628 5 месяцев назад

      When a individual believes that the words of another person is greater than their actions . It is a deception of their own perception that does not allow them to see the truth of the hidden ; unseen ; greater defined meaning and understanding that should be sought after . To know the difference . It is only when one chooses to become the Observer of Cause an Effect , that one may learn the real truth .
      That ' Actions ' speak louder than words .

  • @ChaiTogether
    @ChaiTogether 5 месяцев назад +1

    Not sure is tags count in the comments, can we tag? lol ❤😂😊

  • @hopedealer5738
    @hopedealer5738 5 месяцев назад

    I just shared copied 3 ppl on fb, didn't know how to tag lol

  • @jennifernguyen357
    @jennifernguyen357 5 месяцев назад

    Just make sure your stories are realistic, you can discuss this to a real life person who can advise you to be in support of you and not misunderstood or unknown or naive to the situation. Your Support system will be your life saver of everything so you don’t have to live in self doubt. If the person who hurt you can’t do any more for you and opinions are irrelevant just ignore and try to move on without hard tied in feelings.

  • @patrickdaigle5239
    @patrickdaigle5239 5 месяцев назад

    🔥😍🔥

  • @danbuckley7128
    @danbuckley7128 3 месяца назад

    75 per cvent of women wish men would approach them on the street . One reason men dont is downstream from MeToo. Trust is obscured by wariness.

  • @flyincosmo9356
    @flyincosmo9356 5 месяцев назад

    Appreciate these posts. Freakishly timely and relevant for my ongoing journey. Your 5:30 mark says it all. 🕊⚖❤‍🩹

  • @rs1107
    @rs1107 5 месяцев назад +1

    🌜U & Your Outfit R So Pretty🌛

  • @OliveJuice
    @OliveJuice 5 месяцев назад +1

    ‼Typo on thumbnail‼

  • @caninechitchat7982
    @caninechitchat7982 5 месяцев назад +1

    I dont know how to tag people uggghh. Does she mean share

    • @dbdouglas
      @dbdouglas 5 месяцев назад +2

      LOL I thought I was the only one that didn't know!

    • @caninechitchat7982
      @caninechitchat7982 5 месяцев назад +2

      @@dbdouglas you are not alone.

  • @tahirisaid2693
    @tahirisaid2693 5 месяцев назад

    Encountering numerous commendations for Jenny Pamogas Canaya on various platforms, such as RUclips channels and seminars, prompted me to find her online profile. Thanks to these recommendations, I've successfully connected with her by sending a message.

  • @lisavansant961
    @lisavansant961 5 месяцев назад

    I have a ?...does anyone who❤ this channel who has been in a narcissistic relationship romantic and is 2 years out and healing have a fear of getting sick since covid 2020?

  • @kym-bid-bidstrup3623
    @kym-bid-bidstrup3623 5 месяцев назад

    I love and appreciate your videos greatly, Stephanie. But I must disagree with one part of this one. The mantra "when you know better you'll do better" (attributed to Maya Angelou) just isn't borne out in real life. If information was the issue, no-one would be overweight, addicted to drugs, sedentary etc etc. Particularly in this age we KNOW what we should be doing; the issue is the inner conflicts that prevent us from taking action.

    • @daniellelichtblau5340
      @daniellelichtblau5340 3 месяца назад

      This is the best comment because it's the truth. I know better in a specific situation or let me say a few, and I don't do better. Why is that? Because in the moment, my will is easier and more desirable than the will of my higher power. I can pray and ask him to take away these urges, but yet here I am, doing the same things almost daily. At this point, I've come to believe that acceptance is the answer. I pray that things will change in time. I know it's possible because I have changed other things. I love and accept myself and forgive myself for not being there yet. Thanks for keeping it real

    • @kym-bid-bidstrup3623
      @kym-bid-bidstrup3623 3 месяца назад +1

      @@daniellelichtblau5340 I wish you peace and the power to change, Danielle. Thank you for your reply. I'm sorry to read about your struggles. But you're not alone. Take care.

    • @daniellelichtblau5340
      @daniellelichtblau5340 3 месяца назад

      Namaste

  • @thetruther954
    @thetruther954 5 месяцев назад

    I realize women's sexual expression is limited in our culture. I just found that through a collection of erotica written by females, you are not a man. If you've ever found yourself making love with anxiety, insecurity and fear? Screw you and your threat, I am not going there. You do not control me. Retell the story of your lovemaking and how it probably was terrific. Tell me what the rough stuff is like as well. So you can tell I'm listening.

  • @victoriathomas7734
    @victoriathomas7734 5 месяцев назад

    Thank you Stephanie! Your videos have been very helpful for me in my journey. Happy holidays! ❤ I would love to receive a course. I hope these tags count: @maryjhampton 💕 @shawntasWay 💕

  • @samirasher1206
    @samirasher1206 5 месяцев назад

    @saharsher @Sulea I am someone watch your videos that has help me tremendously I always thanks Allah the lord who gave me this opportunity to help through my faith by healing the test he send me which as Muslim we believe it is good for us if only we choose to work on ourself. I would love to get access to the emotional course as it is one of those symptoms that when it is not healed can easily affect one’s life religion and relationship.

  • @marijastarcevic9101
    @marijastarcevic9101 5 месяцев назад

    @adrionline and @alex_in_the_room I have shared the video with these two of my friends as well since cannot really tag them on RUclips:) Thank you Stephanie ❤

    • @StephanieLynCoaching
      @StephanieLynCoaching  5 месяцев назад

      please send me an email info@stephanielynlifecoaching.com :)

  • @MsJo155
    @MsJo155 5 месяцев назад

    You always have the videos I need at the time I need them 🙌🏽 @jowall @gwel

  • @roselynnalonzo5774
    @roselynnalonzo5774 5 месяцев назад

    @roselynnmarie @marielynn
    I would love to win to grow as a person and understand about myself.

  • @ikelifestyles
    @ikelifestyles 5 месяцев назад

    @kspice @freestylebender

    • @ikelifestyles
      @ikelifestyles 5 месяцев назад

      Does this mean I win the giveaway?