Addressing me getting fired as a Teacher - WHAT REALLY HAPPENED (HINT ITS NOT TRUE)

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  • @MrsPollas
    @MrsPollas 10 месяцев назад +130

    "Kids failing in school = parents failing at home". Im a stay at home, homeschooling mom and I stand on that saying 100%.

    • @msnos6245
      @msnos6245 10 месяцев назад +2

      I wish I could do that

    • @MrsPollas
      @MrsPollas 10 месяцев назад

      @@msnos6245 u can. Look up ur states requirements for homeschooling. I dont do a traditional method of teaching. K12 and other programs like it require a schedule so I use an un-school approach. My boys are 9 and 10 we focus mainly on reading, writing, and math. U can incorporate daily activities like cooking as a teaching tool, ur using math and science to cook. Let ur kids help u cook and teach them about measurements, as u go. U dont have to sit at a table for hours, kids are not supposed to sit still that long and most struggle to do so anyway. Documentaries are an amazing tool, u get to re-learn with ur kids as u teach too! Look up unschooling homeschool and see if uts something u can manage. I love the time with my kids, because time flies. I wish u the best, mom guilt is real weather ur able to homeschool or not ur kids will never forget ur love them and thats all that matters 💜.

  • @bihsaidwhatnow2392
    @bihsaidwhatnow2392 11 месяцев назад +181

    My granny watched this with me and she said, "Ahmein Ms. Akeeba---I stand with you!!!" . . . . . and my granny is a retired teacher who doesn't play with gossip!

    • @AkeebaMaze
      @AkeebaMaze  11 месяцев назад +27

      Thank you granny!! 😂

  • @mrsshelton226
    @mrsshelton226 11 месяцев назад +350

    You are so right about teaching our black children to read before kindergarten! I taught my daughter how to read the summer before kindergarten and she's been on the top of her class ever since. She's going into 2nd grade and we're working on reading comprehension this summer. I vowed that my black child will NEVER be the kid who struggles in a school where she's one of two other black kids in her class. Nope!!! She will excel!!!!✨️✨️✨️✨️

    • @malancy
      @malancy 10 месяцев назад +11

      I love reading about moms like you. You're the best.

    • @mommyfixyourcrown448
      @mommyfixyourcrown448 10 месяцев назад +8

      I absolutely agree with your comment keep speaking greatness over your child’s life

    • @ASmith-jn7kf
      @ASmith-jn7kf 10 месяцев назад +1

      Okay but she's in second grade, wait to see what else happens lol.

    • @mrsshelton226
      @mrsshelton226 10 месяцев назад

      @@malancy thank you so much!❤️❤️❤️

    • @mrsshelton226
      @mrsshelton226 10 месяцев назад +1

      @mommyfixyourcrown448 thank you so much!!❤️❤️❤️

  • @AkeebaMaze
    @AkeebaMaze  11 месяцев назад +203

    Just to clarify guys I did not get fired. 🙃

    • @arazoelove6703
      @arazoelove6703 11 месяцев назад +45

      Well if you didn't get fired the title says you did and that makes this click bait 😅

    • @noploxq5593
      @noploxq5593 11 месяцев назад +5

      ​@@arazoelove6703the title didn't say that????

    • @BrandyReneePhotographyTV
      @BrandyReneePhotographyTV 11 месяцев назад

      @@arazoelove6703she’s addressing the rumors

    • @scorpiocara6798
      @scorpiocara6798 10 месяцев назад +14

      ​@@arazoelove6703if you think that's what the title says then you need to go bk to school for reading and comprehension
      Also, if it's clitbait wouldn't that make sense? You are on youtube that's what youtubers do duh

    • @ritasullivan2758
      @ritasullivan2758 10 месяцев назад +2

      @@arazoelove6703 if you read the whole title (hint not true)

  • @lisaadams780
    @lisaadams780 11 месяцев назад +148

    It still amaze me how I homeschooled my children through 8th grade. I’m happy I took responsibility of my children’s primary education. I accomplished a lot for my children. They did very well in high school and both hold master level degrees from great universities. I’m proud and happy for my children and they are adulting well with great jobs. Blessed and thankful! 🌼

    • @animalranger7768
      @animalranger7768 10 месяцев назад +5

      Primary school education could make or break a student's academic career. It takes a lot of input from the parents at home to help reinforce what is being taught at school and it is very sad that some parents don't understand this. They think it is solely up to teachers to teach their children to read.

    • @xencyp6528
      @xencyp6528 10 месяцев назад +5

      👏🏾well done.. your children your responsibility.. you laid a great foundation for them!

  • @adelepenguin13
    @adelepenguin13 11 месяцев назад +140

    Parents do need to help manage their children’s education. The attention that teachers give to every single student is not enough

    • @sjconerlyonthemove6290
      @sjconerlyonthemove6290 10 месяцев назад +5

      I agree with that

    • @sh.4409
      @sh.4409 10 месяцев назад +10

      It’s the parents job first and foremost.

    • @JW-ux4ey
      @JW-ux4ey 10 месяцев назад +7

      If you're in a classroom, you understand why individualized attention is almost impossible. However, I do agree that more attention should be paid to struggling students. Small groups work, but teachers have to have support, resources and open mind to do targeted small group instructions.

  • @fawndietz
    @fawndietz 11 месяцев назад +66

    "It is our responsibility as homeschoolers to still engage with the public school system" Totally agree. Recently spoke at my state's Senate Education Committee in support of a bill for special education - and it passed!

  • @gunsmoke7573
    @gunsmoke7573 11 месяцев назад +47

    The part of the comment that had me perplexed was "my son still can't read good." LOL

    • @halymam3485
      @halymam3485 11 месяцев назад

      Yessssssss

    • @teacherturnedhomesteader7368
      @teacherturnedhomesteader7368 11 месяцев назад +2

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @27453ehdurbri
      @27453ehdurbri 11 месяцев назад +3

      Sounds like a failed parent carrying out their frustrations on a black woman

    • @vamswolfmom4498
      @vamswolfmom4498 11 месяцев назад

      That’s the alibi Akeeba needed! 😂😂😂😂

  • @marlinlivingston6394
    @marlinlivingston6394 10 месяцев назад +74

    This is the very reason I decided to homeschool my kids, being a teacher and seeing what public school is really like is enough of a reason!

  • @ARTofSound908
    @ARTofSound908 10 месяцев назад +23

    Teaching should ALWAYS start at home first.... from 1-10 years old there was never anything taught to me in school that my mother didn't teach me first at home!

  • @LeOlamVaed
    @LeOlamVaed 10 месяцев назад +31

    I am not black but I support your point of view 100%.
    My child is four but she was reading reading by the age of 3 and knew all the letter sounds before 2. As long as we make it a fun process then why not. I am a homeschooling single mom who works as well so it is possible.

    • @sunshineand
      @sunshineand 2 месяца назад

      What is your schedule like

  • @militantsistah3228
    @militantsistah3228 10 месяцев назад +14

    That troll really exposed themselves. If that person' who left the comment, child still cannot read, they need to take responsibility for that fact!! From what I have seen of you, you are very educated and passionate about the importance educating children to be fully functional, self sufficient individually and members of the world community. Keep up the good work 👏🏾 ❤

  • @kathleendantzler
    @kathleendantzler 10 месяцев назад +51

    I’m a retired teacher. In order for children to be successful readers they need phonemic awareness, that is recognizing sounds at the most basic level, good phonics instruction, learning effective strategies for reading comprehension like summarizing, questioning, predicting and good vocabulary development. Parents can indeed help their children in that.

    • @margh737
      @margh737 8 месяцев назад +2

      What if the parents are illiterate? Then what?

    • @yurispecial3650
      @yurispecial3650 8 месяцев назад

      @@margh737Start to learners, I learning English and homeschooling my daughter and now she can read more than me 😅

    • @DiverseDalliance786
      @DiverseDalliance786 8 месяцев назад +2

      @@margh737 Exactly not all parents have the ability to and may even speak a native language. So these children are then screwed? Isn't this what TEACHERS who get degrees in early education there for? Yes parents play a part, to support the teacher in their child's learning. But come on many times the parent is relying on the teacher for techniques and direction for the child's learning.

    • @DiverseDalliance786
      @DiverseDalliance786 8 месяцев назад +1

      Thank for your comment. Your comment not only added to the discussion but also gave insight to parents who may not be natural born educators as to a place to start in assisting their child in learning to read or reading better. Most of these comments come across as sanctimonious. Labeling...

    • @margh737
      @margh737 8 месяцев назад +2

      @@DiverseDalliance786your comment is on point. Of course, if parents are able to supplement their children's learning, that's a plus, and of course no one should discourage that. However, parents should not be considered delinquent if they are unable to do what Akeeba is suggesting. School is not just a place to facilitate learning, but it should also be a place to instruct and develop skills in students for learning to take place.

  • @frowhatitsworth
    @frowhatitsworth 10 месяцев назад +19

    I was reading when I entered kindergarten. Heck, I was reading before kindergarten. I 100% agree with this message. Read them books and put words on everything - that’s how I learned. The part we’re leaving out though is that a lot of these parents can’t read either, so they’re leaving it up to the school system to give their kids what they didn’t receive.

  • @teemadarif8243
    @teemadarif8243 11 месяцев назад +35

    Sis . Sounds to me like you made the absolute best decision for your children ❤

  • @JM-vj7we
    @JM-vj7we 11 месяцев назад +78

    I taught my daughter to read and do math before she started school. That was about 40 years ago. She was skipped in the 2 nd grade and went to summer school in HS. She graduated from school 3 years early. The schools she went to encouraged her. I think that it’s important to find a school that supports achievement….. even if it maybe out of your district.

    • @1_star_reviews
      @1_star_reviews 11 месяцев назад +2

      Don’t encourage people to register their kids outside of their district because then those outside districts start to face the same teacher student ratios as the poorer performing schools. Teacher Student ratios are very important when ensuring that children are getting all the attention that they should.

    • @noploxq5593
      @noploxq5593 11 месяцев назад +3

      ​@@1_star_reviewsdo you think the poorer preforming schools are gonna have kids out of district coming there?

    • @noploxq5593
      @noploxq5593 11 месяцев назад +7

      ​@@1_star_reviewsand if we are honest the reason there are little teacher in poorer schools is because those kids act a certain way and I say thus being in one of those poorer schools and these kids act a fool and have made MANY teachers QUIT they don't want to learn they want to have fun

    • @KIRKSHINTATURNIPSEED
      @KIRKSHINTATURNIPSEED 11 месяцев назад +4

      @@1_star_reviewsalso you can get sued… my uncle had to pay a huge bill when they found out he registered his son illegally in a different district

    • @mommyfixyourcrown448
      @mommyfixyourcrown448 10 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you for sharing the truth

  • @tanvw
    @tanvw 11 месяцев назад +52

    As a Black woman I don’t think a day has gone by when I haven’t received or noticed racist, prejudiced or passive aggressive behaviour towards myself or other Black people. Therefore if I were a parent, I would personally deem it irresponsible to place the education of my vulnerable child with people whose motives, beliefs and behaviours I don’t know about, solely in their hands. I am not a teacher nor would I have the resources to home school but the least I can do is make sure my child can do the basics - reading, writing and, maths skills BEFORE going to school, so that no one can hold them back. Ensuring your kids are properly educated requires constant monitoring when they are in schools. It’s an ongoing job, but worth it in the end. Perhaps the fact that it is such a big responsibility is why I don’t have kids! 😂. But good luck to all parents out there, just try and do your very best at the end of the day.

    • @michaeldwyer977
      @michaeldwyer977 6 месяцев назад +1

      It’s sad you go through life with a victim mentality. It’s why you are where you are.

    • @tanvw
      @tanvw 6 месяцев назад

      @@michaeldwyer977 It’s not about having a victim mentality, it’s about being real and observant.
      I believe it’s unwise to leave the education of your children ENTIRELY in the hands of strangers, of course not everyone has that luxury. What is wrong with giving your children a helping start? Unfortunately people have their own biases, prejudices, issues etc to deal with and I believe children should be protected from this as much as possible when they are most vulnerable.
      It’s a shame you have missed my point and have chosen to portray a narrative that is negative and suits your narrative.

    • @michaeldwyer977
      @michaeldwyer977 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@tanvw well you go on thinking the boogeyman is out to get you. You do you….it’s your life

    • @tanvw
      @tanvw 6 месяцев назад

      @@michaeldwyer977Are you ok? Why the deviation from the point? It’s very odd that you feel the need to get personal. Why try to diminish a person’s lived experience?

    • @michaeldwyer977
      @michaeldwyer977 6 месяцев назад +2

      @@tanvw not a day has gone by that you haven’t noticed a racist, prejudiced or passive aggressive behavior? I think you need to worry less about passive aggressive behaviors from white peoples and more about plain old aggressive behavior from blacks. I find it odd that you focus on what a white person says to you rather than what black people do to you.

  • @angelapla1
    @angelapla1 11 месяцев назад +33

    Oh my goodness, the teachers that did not get fired for the things you named was heart breaking. As a mother I feel so sad for those babies!

    • @teacherturnedhomesteader7368
      @teacherturnedhomesteader7368 11 месяцев назад +8

      They can get away with it because they are systemic in their views and thoughts and don't value our children, administration is not fulfilling their duties as mandated reporters, start calling on fellow teachers anonymous.....or teach your children to tell if anyone puts their hands on them....Lord help my grandchild when she goes to kindergarten.

  • @justjanable
    @justjanable 10 месяцев назад +19

    Parents think that teachers must raise their children. Many of them have no time for their children. I feel so sorry for many children who are brought into this world and do not get the care, love and attention they deserve.

  • @CoachLove
    @CoachLove 8 месяцев назад +5

    New Subscriber. Found you today, 10/24/23. This!!! I used to teach public kindergarten-6th! It baffled me when I had children who couldn't SPELL, RECOGNIZE, or WRITE their own names. The children couldn't count to 20, didn't know basic shapes or colors, recognize 20 sight words, and couldn't use scissors. The parents expected me to be their first teacher. However, some of the kids had cell phones and knew lyrics to some of the most vile music... Being a public educator, one who cares and wants the best for the children is hazardous. Congrats on being able to get out, with your health, and start a financially lucrative business.

  • @frankiemillcarek6976
    @frankiemillcarek6976 11 месяцев назад +13

    Bless you for your work. My mom homeschooled my older sister and now teaches at the school she found when she stopped homeschooling. I could not imagine being a teacher. And thank you for educating other adults about how to prepare their kids for social expectations if they are going into a regular school.

  • @desings7614
    @desings7614 10 месяцев назад +19

    Definitely have your children reading before entering school! I am 40 years old and I am still grateful that my mom taught me to read before I entered Kindergarten. My reading level was always grades above my current grade level. By the time I was in 8th and 9th grade I was at a college reading and comprehension level. Math was my nemesis lol. But I think it's wild that people would reject giving their child a head start!

    • @ASmith-jn7kf
      @ASmith-jn7kf 10 месяцев назад +3

      Homeschooled people are different and have different values. They even did a study where kids instead of reading the first two years of school, they did science lessons and talking and then taught them to read and they were on par with the kids that had formal instructions instead. Reading is necessary but the age to teach it is debatable, some homeschoolers aren't worried about being behind.

    • @michaeldwyer977
      @michaeldwyer977 6 месяцев назад

      I’m sure this story is true 😅

  • @Six6Fit
    @Six6Fit 11 месяцев назад +21

    BCPS doesn’t even have enough teachers for the children in their schools to be able to afford to fire any of them. We successfully completed our kindergarten year of homeschool here and looking forward to 1st grade. Thanks for your videos.

  • @birdiesbloomz
    @birdiesbloomz 10 месяцев назад

    Sis thank you for all you do to help parents take an initiative in their children’s education. Also thank you for being an educator who allows their parental concerns aide her in handling children. Keep your head up‼️

  • @SB-mf2th
    @SB-mf2th 10 месяцев назад +9

    100% agree. I'm a certified school librarian, pk3 to 5th grade, dcps. Kindergarten is its own curriculum as other grades. Having taught in Europe and two other states, some of our students & their parents expectations are too low. But as for me, a 33 year old black female w/6 nieces and nephews, I believe every single student can & will read while in my care!!
    Btw, I'm taking this year off as a mental health break. With it being back to school season, I get sad seeing the students I love so dearly, but the anti-black racism and colorism from jealous white females & gay black and white males is overwhelming. The stress of it all contributed to weight gain, depression, and is just not worth it!!

  • @mamabear5289
    @mamabear5289 11 месяцев назад +16

    Your comments prove to me that the Department of Education waste a lot of money, but I believe you did a great job, leaving as I did the same ! Now I’m home schooling my child. And when I was a School teacher in an economically depressed, oppressed school district I was not a mother! it was until I became a mother that I realized I wanted to homeschool my babies!

    • @renarich4942
      @renarich4942 10 месяцев назад

      You know how many of us there are. Is it because moms are naturally teachers and love kids? I wish there was an online meeting place for those who are leaving the education system. They are leaving in droves

  • @AmplifyYourBrand
    @AmplifyYourBrand 11 месяцев назад +11

    And apparently, that parent doesn't know how to write proper sentences. No wonder her son can't read.

    • @Alejandria23
      @Alejandria23 11 месяцев назад

      exactly!

    • @ASmith-jn7kf
      @ASmith-jn7kf 10 месяцев назад +1

      Pathetic to make fun of such a thing especially when you start a sentence with "and". If a parent sends their child to school, why is it okay that a place that is paid for by us isn't doing what it is there to do??

    • @AmplifyYourBrand
      @AmplifyYourBrand 10 месяцев назад

      @ASmith-jn7kf not pathetic at all. It's perfectly acceptable to start a sentence with "and." You would know this if you knew grammar rules.
      In no way, shape, or form should a teacher be a child's FIRST teacher, the parents should be helping emphasize what the teachers are teaching in class...especially something as important as reading.

  • @Rosegold73
    @Rosegold73 8 месяцев назад +2

    Teacher here. My boy started kindergarten "decoding " at a 4th grade reading level. He was a fluent reader . His comprehension skills were at the 2nd grade level.

  • @Chellerose-yu1lu
    @Chellerose-yu1lu 11 месяцев назад +15

    @Akeeba Maze, I totally agree with you. Children should be taught to read before kindergarten and maybe even before nursery school, I guess, correct me if I am wrong.......

  • @TheHouseofcoolstuff
    @TheHouseofcoolstuff 10 месяцев назад

    Akeeba thank you so much for sharing your knowledge and this platform! You give us hope us black parents, that we can do this and better our children. Knowing there’s this kind of support it lets me know that am on the right path and that am not alone in what am doing with children!

  • @janicesmith1137
    @janicesmith1137 11 месяцев назад +16

    You are correct. Our children will remain behind if we don’t teach them early. Ignore the nonsense please!

  • @KarlaJammin
    @KarlaJammin 10 месяцев назад +6

    They are jealous of you and are trying to break you. Don't worry. Keep doing what you are good at.

  • @loverofallthingsbeautiful2
    @loverofallthingsbeautiful2 10 месяцев назад +3

    Parents need to start taking accountability. Their child not reading is their fault. More times than not they don't prioritize education. They aren't reviewing the work with the kids at home. Say they don't have time to do homework etc. As a parent you are your child's first teacher.

  • @mylifehisway555
    @mylifehisway555 10 месяцев назад +2

    I’m from Baltimore and still here unfortunately and seeing this comment is what drew me here. Baltimore city is famous for keeping kids dumbed down. Baltimore county schools are a lot better. It’s so sad

  • @GB-iy1hd
    @GB-iy1hd 8 месяцев назад

    Never explain yourself, for doing the right thing for your family. I commend you, most people don’t do the right thing, or they feel guilt. Keep doing what you best, you’re so loved, and appreciated. ❤❤❤❤

  • @TheReasonWeLearn
    @TheReasonWeLearn 9 месяцев назад +2

    The sad fact is, if you're sending any kid to public school, they need to be reading before K. You are 100% correct. I have three kids, two homeschooled and learned to read at 7 and 5 respectively, but my youngest was only 4 when their dad and I split and he made me send them to school. To this day she reads less well than her sisters. I tried on the margins to teach her, but the school undermined me at every turn! Preschool and K and beyond! She is homeschooling again and trying to catch up at 15, and it's hard for her. I'm so angry, and homeschooling parents who always homeschooled don't get it. I've done both, in school kids don't have time to go at their pace. Once behind, always behind, and their self esteem suffers greatly.

  • @lindaallder3662
    @lindaallder3662 10 месяцев назад +1

    You are always transparent and it is appreciated in your videos on education and children. That person's post should have checked her own grammar before hitting the send button. You continue to teach and inspire.

  • @EnigmaticEvee
    @EnigmaticEvee 10 месяцев назад +3

    When my son was 3 years old his teacher pressed the importance of learning to read as early as possible. By the end of the school year (pre-k) my child could read very well. The time we dedicated to reading and arithmetic really paid off.

  • @butterfly-pf8lj
    @butterfly-pf8lj 11 месяцев назад +4

    I love it when you vent. Very entertaining 😂

  • @sharmawade5498
    @sharmawade5498 10 месяцев назад

    I have been a subscriber of your sister’s family since the beginning of the pandemic and often enjoyed you being apart of their channel. I think that you have a very beautiful powerful personality to go alone with your natural beauty. Thank you for spkg facts and for keeping it real 🫶🏾❤️

  • @bellaymettes5255
    @bellaymettes5255 11 месяцев назад +13

    But what did she do to help her own son read the thing about being A teacher you as A parent have to also teach ❤

  • @AlexA-zb6jl
    @AlexA-zb6jl 11 месяцев назад +9

    I have some experience in the classroom. And I can say I agree, I've worked in schools that are 90% minority. And, kindergarten is not a stretch. By entry into first grade your child should have a good grasp of phonemic awareness and blends. That leap is real. By third grade your child should be reading for information.

  • @sandilobianco6734
    @sandilobianco6734 10 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you for letting parents know about reading. I think reading is very important as well.
    I homeschooled my son when he was 5/6. I got rid of the TV for about 5 years. We went to the library a lot.
    The Librarians are your best resources for finding books/ audiobooks your children might like.

  • @Shineynsparkles
    @Shineynsparkles 10 месяцев назад +5

    My Haitian mother didn’t play :
    We learned letters , numbers colors and shapes …while in daycare by kindergarten we learned reading and writing
    Everyday after school for two hours we were forced to write
    My parents were not with bs public schools at all

  • @MzCAGOMEA
    @MzCAGOMEA 11 месяцев назад +6

    They sure wont fire a teacher. Its hard to even get your child moved to another class. Especially when they start saying the teacher comes highly recommended. The last straw for me was when the teacher sent my child home with his head in the arm hole of his shirt. I couldnt take it anymore. Plus he was reading better before he started kindergarten and started to regress. I pulled him out 3 months b4 the end of the year and we have started over from the beginning. Handing that letter to the school lifted a weight off me i didnt know i was carrying.

  • @angeleyes3396
    @angeleyes3396 10 месяцев назад +1

    Bring back Hooked on Phonics. I remember days when my mom sat me down with Hooked on Phonics tapes and cards while she worked around the house. I loved it. It was hard to find them when my son came but my mom found our old stuff and my son excels in ELA and is a pretty good writer at age 12.

  • @Lisa87692
    @Lisa87692 10 месяцев назад +3

    My little brother started reading before entering Kindergarten. He never went to preschool. At home my mom taught him and when he and I played, we played school, mostly. He only spent 1 week in Kindergarten. The following week, he began first grade.😊

  • @philesiaj.wilcox-bartsch6206
    @philesiaj.wilcox-bartsch6206 10 месяцев назад

    You are a great inspiration to us who watch you, and the other ,"amazing Maze family members" and Joe Lee, of course!🥰😍😘🤣

  • @jackshea4470
    @jackshea4470 10 месяцев назад +1

    I love the work that you do and the information that you give. You're more than an influencer. Your advocacy is essential for indigenous black and brown families. I'm glad you made this video but trust and believe no explanation necessary.

  • @kimone99
    @kimone99 10 месяцев назад +1

    I totally agree with you. My mom said I was reading at 3 yrs old. Children can absorb so much. Why would you wait until they enter kindergarten?

  • @teacherturnedhomesteader7368
    @teacherturnedhomesteader7368 11 месяцев назад +5

    And the afro is poppin gurl❤ it....

  • @CocoKT
    @CocoKT 5 месяцев назад

    I absolutely love this video and I couldn’t agree more. I am a certified elementary school teacher and I’m strongly thinking about homeschooling my children as well. We haven’t quite started school yet Becuase they’re still toddlers but I don’t even think I wanna put them in the school system. Thanks for all your videos so informative..especially the core knowledge ones which I am looking into using. 😁

  • @1ElegantBraids843
    @1ElegantBraids843 5 месяцев назад

    Yesterday was my last day as a teacher, and I withdrew my son and signed him up for homeschool. Today is both of our 1st day of our new journey. I am so thankful to have found your page. I have been a teacher for 6 years, this is exciting and overwhelming but IT IS PEOPLE LIKE YOU THAT HELPS US SO MUCH!!! THANK YOU!!

  • @TikaOlivere
    @TikaOlivere 11 месяцев назад +10

    I don’t understand why people are so fast to lie on your name and try to ruin your reputation.

    • @27453ehdurbri
      @27453ehdurbri 11 месяцев назад +5

      Because she’s changing the game for a lot of black kids through her videos. I learned how to teach my daughter to read through her. I learned how to engage my child in extracurricular activities through her. She’s doing amazing things for a lot of black kids and that’s why she’s hated

  • @arienettebanks4417
    @arienettebanks4417 10 месяцев назад +1

    I totally agree with you. I had an enormous hand in helping my son how to read phonetically when phonemes and graphemes, diagrams, blends, glue sounds, control r sounds and much more. When my son came into 1st grade as a READER which he was a kindergartener, which was half days while I was working back in the 90s. My son could read better than every 1st grader in that school and he was suppose to be in kindergarten. I will NEVER forget the day I ask his teacher Mrs. O’Connor to help me, help him with materials that help with comprehension. She stood there with her pedagogy master degree holding self teaching children how to read and they sucked at it and said she didn’t know any information or resources to help my son. Maybe she didn’t know because she did a poor job teaching students how to read. My son was fluent and the students were emergent readers after late February. She even asked me to stop teaching my child phonetics because they taught whole language. I told her, I was so sorry but the train left the tracks when he was three. I work at a school now and we are still seeing this issue with low reading efficiency on reading when I left to work with my son in a homeschool setting. Nothing has changed.

  • @zerohecks4864
    @zerohecks4864 11 месяцев назад +12

    Government education is prison

  • @annettecampbell8848
    @annettecampbell8848 6 месяцев назад

    I stand with you. My grandson was reading at 21 months and was reading in day care. At his graduation they pointed out that this the kid who was reading at 2 years old to the class. He is a math whiz and is doing algebraic equations and fractions at age 7 years old. Some children are born that way but others have to be taught. Once parents or teachers recognize this they should immediately address it and work to develop their skills. Parents should put forth the effort to prepare their children to enter school and that means teaching them math as well. Make sure they also develop great communication skills

  • @hischosen1409
    @hischosen1409 10 месяцев назад

    I appreciate your expertise and wisdom....

  • @mika328287
    @mika328287 10 месяцев назад +2

    Yes to everything. Reading and math started at 3. Although my child is speech delayed but can recognize words and can do math really well.

  • @giftyakowuah2628
    @giftyakowuah2628 10 месяцев назад

    Eishhh! Wo kasa ooo. All knowing Mama Fakunle. Love your videos though. Love from Ghana 🇬🇭 , West Africa

  • @traciewilson7861
    @traciewilson7861 11 месяцев назад +8

    It can be bothersome if you let others control what you're doing by helping children read. You're doing what most parents don't know to do or don't want to help their children read. So why would you get fired from a school of you're helping children read on your media page. Keep helping those children. ❤😊

  • @debraodom9153
    @debraodom9153 10 месяцев назад +6

    That’s true. Your child should read, count, know shapes, colors, do simple adding and subtracting using modalities, know basically kindergarten curriculum to go deeper into education and not start out behind. Children should know their names, address, phone number. Know how to spell your legal name not just their nick name. Just a few things to teach your children.

  • @brookroberson6084
    @brookroberson6084 10 месяцев назад

    I agree with you 100% as a childcare owner I keep saying the same thing! Parents these days don’t teach their children anything not even chores. I’m so over it

  • @MNCondori-ti8lv
    @MNCondori-ti8lv 10 месяцев назад +4

    This was THE WHOLE POINT of early childhood education in this country. Don't apologize for promoting high achievements. These people have a billion excuses.

  • @DefenderofTruth.
    @DefenderofTruth. 10 месяцев назад +2

    I agree that kids should read by kindergarden. My son is 2 and can recognize letters in sign language and say the alphabet. Reading is a must.

  • @jewels24k
    @jewels24k 11 месяцев назад +6

    But the grammar in the troll's comment tells you all you need to know. The son can't read and the parent can't write. The parent probably can't read either, being that you weren't fired. 🤔

  • @peacebrooks4230
    @peacebrooks4230 10 месяцев назад +1

    As a working mother at the time I couldn’t home school but I moved several hundred miles to a city that offered better public schooling AND I was very proactive with her teachers, homework, activities etc. Parents have to be proactive no matter what! Our kids (black kids), are not able to compete with other communities in education and it’s very sad.

  • @shawandaobrien3379
    @shawandaobrien3379 10 месяцев назад +1

    My son is reading as he enters kindergarten this year. I've been doing short reading lessons with him for almost 2 years now. Sometimes it's a frustrating process, but I'm grateful we've stuck with it. My mom taught me how to read before I entered kindergarten as well. There's no doubt in my mind that my mother's sacrifice is primarily responsible for my success today. No teacher even comes close.

  • @crumbsnyums
    @crumbsnyums 11 месяцев назад +2

    I was reading by Kindergarten. I was in honors classes since the 2nd grade. We (my siblings & I) used to do highlights workbooks everyday including our homework. Homework needed to be done on Friday because my father was not going to be up on Sunday night to help us.

  • @user-xm4di8lu1i
    @user-xm4di8lu1i 8 месяцев назад

    I see all perspectives. And I'm a teacher, but kids thrive off of structure and routine. Especially in an environment where you have 23 to teach (as I do). It's amazing that you can homeschool your children. That's my dream!

  • @thatlovelydancerIlao
    @thatlovelydancerIlao 10 месяцев назад +5

    I'm so grateful for the fact that my Mom read to me. It helped me want to read and know how to. By the time I was in 1st grade, I had to go to speech class, so after my speech class, I would have to get to my class and catch up to what they were reading and I wind up learning how to speed read as well.
    -My Mom teaching how to read and reading to me,
    -My speech class that took time away from my english class and made me have to find where they were and speed up my reading in order to fully participate in the story telling and answering questions which allowed the Teacher to grade me well on participating ( all these things made me college level reader by the time I was in 7th grade
    Oh and my Hearing Teacher ( Mrs Abrams ) who I had because I had a hearing impaired problem followed up with me to make sure I was getting my notes and stuff for my classes and made sure if I had any problems, we would go over things.
    So I was set up for success in that way. So Teachers are to invest in their student but ( it starts at home)
    I never had to go into a lower class level.
    Remember... Teachers have but so much time to teach ( each different type of kid ) individual, one on one special time. So the teaching has to be 1st at home where rhe parent can give the ectra time Teachers can't.
    **Parents and the village they have for their kids to learn well is the glue for a childs ultimate success
    Keep pouring into your kids and the kids around you. They will remember your contribution to helping them with their education later

  • @OneNAMillion4083
    @OneNAMillion4083 10 месяцев назад

    Awesome video. The new York city school system has the same issues.
    I have three children 1 is working, 1 is doing awesome in college and I have an elementary student all three were good readers. They all could read and write before kindergarten and they continued to be aw3some readers, writers and have great vocabulary.

  • @just_tresina
    @just_tresina 11 месяцев назад +1

    What I heard you say is, get your priorities straight. if someone is offended then that’s their problem. I understood exactly what you were trying to convey.

  • @ScottMond
    @ScottMond 8 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for your opinion. I introduced reading to both of my children. One caught on the other didn't. The one who entered kindergarten without knowing how to read in Fairfax, VA bypassed all the children who could read and by 3rd grade he was the top reader and his reading SOL scores were highest in his grade as a black child. So let's not stress and pressure our kids or ourselves. God has all our children. Do our best as parents. Keep perspective please. 😊

  • @elsaromero4743
    @elsaromero4743 10 месяцев назад +1

    The schools around my neighborhood are bad and I don't think my child's education should be up to a lottery...we homeschool from TK to now 3rd grade this year. Best decision ever!

  • @ladyt3182
    @ladyt3182 10 месяцев назад

    Exactly, when you have your own children it hits differently!

  • @HoneySuckle123
    @HoneySuckle123 10 месяцев назад +1

    Reading, counting, writing their name, singing the days of the weeks and the months of the year are all essential in PRE K.

  • @twilliams4924
    @twilliams4924 10 месяцев назад

    I appreciate you speaking up and explaining this. I have concerns of my children going to school and being behind, especially when teachers don't explicitly explain where my child should be in their current grade.
    Your responses to the comments could be a little more sensitive to someone who does not have an educational background.

  • @erinbarrow4819
    @erinbarrow4819 11 месяцев назад +1

    You are a great teacher Akeeba

  • @vonnettagraves-brooks8874
    @vonnettagraves-brooks8874 3 месяца назад

    I agree with you. I taught my daughter to read by age three. I had to repeat 3rd grade becsuse I did not learn how to read. It really damaged myself esteem. I went on to graduate from univetsity. Parents are THEIR kids first teacher.

  • @seasonfingerfood1886
    @seasonfingerfood1886 9 месяцев назад

    True talk.... keeping it real.... Respect family....

  • @billiehicks6587
    @billiehicks6587 4 месяца назад

    Sista, my son was reading at 3 1/2 years old. He went to 1st Grade at 4 years old.❤

  • @chal3t
    @chal3t 10 месяцев назад

    Our parents taught my sis and I how to read before we were old enough to start school. They read to us and had us listening to books in Spanish, French and German in addition to our native English. We also had the books to match the audio tapes. They taught us how to give short Bible talks and presentations as early as ages 4 and 8. We were dirt poor. But that did not stop them from making sure they educated us. They never expected teachers to do what they felt was their responsibility to do.

  • @Lifewithdawnaustin
    @Lifewithdawnaustin 10 месяцев назад

    I was reading before pre-k. So this is very true!

  • @tonyabdeals6219
    @tonyabdeals6219 10 месяцев назад +2

    I started teaching my son how to read at 3, he's 14 now and he is 5 classes away from graduating high school. I started homeschool with him when he got in 9th grade.

  • @Marcusw34
    @Marcusw34 10 месяцев назад

    As a black man who loves black women ❤. I have to say I love the way your nature hair looks

  • @Magdalena287
    @Magdalena287 7 месяцев назад

    I’d like to hear your thoughts on the correlation they believe comes from forcing reading at a very young age and dyslexia. I have 5 kids and my oldest I was able to teach her how to read phonetically by 3 years old but my next was almost 7 with the same amount of attention and time to phonics but excelled in mathematics by 3. And no we’re not wealthy we make about 56k a year for a family of 7 so most of our curriculum I put together myself from free or cheap resources.

  • @malta2027
    @malta2027 8 месяцев назад

    I am so pleased that my parents made sure we knew how to read before starting school! Do not let the trolls get you down!

  • @shirlspark_stardust
    @shirlspark_stardust 8 месяцев назад

    Hi Aleena I agree I taught all my 7 children to read write know their colors and numbers my oldest son who is 28 years graduated with a regents diploma the highest one in NY state, if I didn’t take time to teach my children what would happen ,we as parents are their first teachers before they enter school they should be taught even if it’s the basics.

  • @lillipad3503
    @lillipad3503 11 месяцев назад +4

    I agree with both you and your audience. Education is good, but in due time. "education aka programming should wait until 1st grafe. Its scary enough that our programming starts at seven yrs of age. All kids need to learn is reading, writing and counting. Other than that iI feel that school is the unsafest place for children. The indoctrination in the education worldwide is horrific. Its nothing more than a prison, military camp and in some countries "concentration camps"

  • @shellyannallen5506
    @shellyannallen5506 10 месяцев назад

    So true. Reading is fundamental. Parents are their child first teacher.

  • @helenirvin1018
    @helenirvin1018 2 месяца назад

    Akeeba Hello! I started the process of teaching early. During pregnancy, I played music, talk sessions & languages. I mentioned to group sessions during lunch. Several comments coined in to say 'the baby can't hear you' & I said I hope my baby can hear me...he or she is alive. After I had my baby, I read to her, singing as she grew. Bed time stories, watched her play & spent time outside. Many parents don't understand how important it is during the growth period to have a good relationship with your children. I did a lot of positive things with my her life to help her along the path she had in from of her. Each phase is very helpful during the growth stage. I took the time to assist her so she was ahead of any curve the system had in place. Success! ❤love❤

  • @raw-soul
    @raw-soul 10 месяцев назад +1

    My son just turned 6 and is already a fluent reader. I don’t understand how parents expect miracles from teachers.

  • @raes8520
    @raes8520 3 месяца назад

    I have been homeschooling my kiddo since birth. I am in a number of homeschool groups. I am always amazed by the parents who post things like "I just pulled my 6th grader out of PS and realized he can't even tell time! The school failed him" or "I just pulled my 14 year old out of PS and they can't even count back change! I just realized the school kept passing him along!".....Have they never asked their own kid what time it is at home? I swear atleast once a week I yell from the shower asking my kid what time it is. Have they never brought their kid to a store and let them pay for something? How do you parent for years and not even know what your kid is or isn't learning. But sure, blame the teacher who has your kid amongst 30-60 other kids for 180 days.

  • @sandraperkins203
    @sandraperkins203 10 месяцев назад +2

    I totally agree that black children must know how to read before kindergarten. Plus I think they need to learn penmanship and cursive. Our society is deteriorating. Taking control of our education is the best way to hold on to and honor our culture.

  • @cherylbarrow395
    @cherylbarrow395 10 месяцев назад +1

    Parents need to reinforce at home what is being taught in school, which means even though your child goes to a school building to learn you are still responsible for your children's education. Ollie's, The Dollar Tree and Target are great stores to purchase learning materials to help your children EXCEL in school! 📚😍

  • @fj2201
    @fj2201 11 месяцев назад +3

    That initial comment screams "TROLL".

  • @juanitawatson596
    @juanitawatson596 9 месяцев назад

    I totally understand!

  • @nederahpollack
    @nederahpollack 10 месяцев назад

    We work so hard with our 9 year old, and she can read, but we have the hardest time teaching her comprehension. I don't know how to get my child to actually follow the instructions. She's so smart, but she does not like for us (the parents) to teach her. It is so stressful.

  • @itsjustfallon4671
    @itsjustfallon4671 7 месяцев назад

    You are so correct