not only is he disgustingly insecure, he is sexualizing his own son by implying he is breastfeeding on his mother for a reason other than getting nutrients. It's sickening.
Nah, he's just a controlling narc. He wants to control everything his wife does. It's not about the action of breastfeeding it's just he doesn't have 100% control over her and her soul.
I still want to believe that this guy is just getting cold feet and wants to find any excuse to divorce his new family. That would be pretty scummy too but on some level it would at least be comprehensible.
He seems like Gary Ridgeway, the serial killer. After his first wife got pregnant and had their son, he became resentful to his wife because she was not his only woman anymore and was not basically a real doll for him. He ended up basically using his son later on in visitations to lure in hookers to kill by being "a loving father". Men like him are like the status girls that want "high value men". Love and sex is ONLY for status and pleasure. It is insane.
It’s not even a red flag. It way past that point and is seriously concerning and disappointing that father like this exists. Holy, what a deranged dad.
Nurse here, if a mother is capable of breastfeeding (not on medications, has no previous health conditions that do not allow for her to breastfeed) it is completely recommended for the baby since it promotes bonding and has several health benefits such as an increase in immune system. This guy is nucking futs
@@GooberTheIII I agree, and that doesn't seem sexist to me because like it makes sense Oh and I'm autistic so that may be coming into play to make me more unaware of it possibly being sexist but I personally don't think it was at all
Thats disgusting-- sexualizing a mother just feeding her baby. Not just a mother and her child, his WIFE and SON. Sexualizing something that is completely natural is nasty as hell.
According to her comments she liked the names, if they were spelled the normal way, but he forced the weird spelling. It's sad, reading her comments, it was clearly a very abusive situation in basically every form. Not to mention he apparently defended Chris Watts and blamed the wife...
@MiamiHound We can't curse on RUclips anymore or say anything that can be considered "bullying" but you bots get to keep doing this? You are by far the Banana nut muffins of muffins (the worst ones).
this man is seriously unhinged. i read up on her situation, he legitimately believes that the mother of his children should not be allowed to bathe them because he considers that incest too. he is withholding their oldest child from her and threatened to kill both himself and her when she tried to divorce him in the past. the man is legitimately dangerous and needs to be investigated. i seriously worry for the safety of this woman and her children
My wife and I just had our first child. She was so excited to breast feed but within a week she stopped producing milk and we had to go on straight formula. It makes her feel useless as a mom. The fact that this dude acted this way to the mother of his child who is already going through a lot is psychotic. Having a healthy child and being able to breast feed it is a blessing that you need to be thankful for.
My wife and I have 2 kids, 3 and 2 now. She always wanted to breast feed, and she tried and tried and tried. But she just never had milk, or enough milk. She couldn't even pump out more than 1oz after I bought a plug in pump. She was depressed and cried because she felt the same way as your wife. Both kids had formula since they were born but only as a necessity. We both (her mostly obviously for the bonding, but me because I know she would have felt much better about herself at the time) missed out on that beautiful stage raising our children. But the kids are the greatest blessings we've ever had.
That is so sad she feels useless. 😢 Many moms struggle with milk production. I hope she can accept that it isn't her fault and it is not a reflection on her as a mother.
Mom’s are good for way more than just milk! Babies enjoy the comfort of their mother (sometimes much more than the father as I’ve come to experience on many occasions)
That’s incredibly sad that your wife feels that way. But there is SO MUCH that goes into being a mother. She endured 9 months of pregnancy and gave birth to her child-that is not “useless”!
My guess, their relationship is: Her: Married him for love and wanted to have a happy healthy family with this man. That is why she wanted to compromise and have a stable home for her kids. Him: Married her for her body. Brains? Don't care. She got a hot bod. Personality? Who cares. Want to own that body. Kids? Okay, great, comes with the territory, but that body is mine. She has a name? What was it again? Sexy-Body-Wife, I think? Yup. Mine.
I mean, he said she is in divorce papers. They have a kid together so she will never be 100% rid of him but hopefully it is bare minimum she has to see him
To be honest I'm more blown away by the patience and the calm his wife is demonstrating, because if I was her I would have given up the second he mentioned about the breastfeeding part, especially right after finishing pregnancy.
If i were the mother, I wouldn’t feel comfortable leaving those kids alone with him at all. Especially with the level of jealousy he’s shown towards his new born son.
i doubt the court would let him if that's the REASON OF DIVORCE. no way the court (which tends to give the custody to women because men don't step up or a just awful) would give him custody after this meltdown. "i now no longer enjoy your boobs" is a good reason to think he's not fit as a parent.
i'm so sorry that a certain other mf in your replies has actual brain maggots cus you're completely right- it's depressing to know people think like that every day...
@@LiviChishi-s3fI’m pretty sure after these messages got leaked, she would be granted full custody and keep the house. No lawyer would help the husband win that case
From another comment "Her name is Apryl. She said her husband (David) wouldn’t allow her input in naming. But he did like the letter replacement. Nurses kicked him out of the hospital and called Fleet & Family. She got a military restraining order, which his CO is personally enforcing. There were so many red flags and abusive things about this guy in her comments." So safe to say, she's okay for now, but she definitely needs to move away, change names and get some space between them. Like several states away kinda space. My God.
The crazy thing is, I know at least 4 moms personally who had the same experience of their husbands refusing to allow them to BF their infant children. Some couldn’t at all because of their husbands and one was told to stop at 6 months and move onto only solids and formula. It’s actually horrible that men are “allowed” to make this decision for their wives and children. And so many women are afraid to argue against it for this reason - the fear that their husbands will leave them over it.
That's what I was thinking... there's a cult that made men think this way and Penguinz0 is talking as if it's only ONE! He seems to have no clue how big these childmen group has become, and they honestly believe this nonsense fully, completely, entirely and he's not "joking" or anywhere in his mind it's "unreasonable"... for them it is the o'mighty truth. It's total and absolute INSANITY!
They're not grown females, but they're closer to young women than they are children. Grade/Elementary School = little girls Middle School = young lady High School = young women College and Beyond = women
This is actually extremely dangerous. There are MANY cases where the father will end up taking the life of a baby because he is jealous. I hope she and her kids are safe from this trash.
????? I do not even understand , he is mad because he is sucking her breastmilk and is attacking his manhood? bro if breastmilk was cure to like venom I would give my breastmilk even if I had a husband , who cares the fuck am I gonna let a human die because there is someone with a titty panic attack
Imagine all your hormones are out of wack, just giving birth to a child, and then on top of all that, having to deal with this damn crustacean divorcing you for taking care of your child.
I mean it was an avoidable situation. She knew his wild thoughts years back from the first child. It would have been better not to bring another one threatened to be fatherless. Lesson: don't expect men to change, accept whatever or move on.
@@KC-zw4mm i’m with you on this how did they go from 1 child to 2 after they had this conversation with the first one ? I would leave the husband in a heartbeat but oh well at least we have this funny story 😂😂
@@KC-zw4mmmost car crashes are avoidable by not getting in a car. It doesn’t mean the person was asking for it or had the foresight to avoid a wreck once they get in the car. Quite frankly, it sounds like OP has been taking the wheel to avoid a wreck for so long she thinks it’s normal behavior.
@@Sellocapossibly they had a daughter and he didn’t say anything BUT A MAN that’s something else, but honestly by his way of thinking i wouldn’t be surprised if he called his wife a lesbian if they did have a daughter 🤔
I Don't think for this reason he divorced her I think he cheated and his eyes on another woman so he came up with this bullshit as an excuse because this shit can't be real
@@denis2381 I wonder how long it will take people who say this kind of stuff to realize that by bringing up gender identity nonsense where it is 100% not relevant, they are actually the exact reason why they see gender nonsense everywhere, all the time, everywhere they go. And why it seems so nonsensical. Because it is. It is not relevant to the conversation at all. Mentioning a gender isn't an invitation to talk about gender identity politics just because it's all you ever think about. I mean, can you really wrap toilet paper over your eyes and not expect to see it everywhere you go?
As a man with a 15 month old daughter and a one month old daughter, having just done this hospital thing twice in less than 2 years with my lady, if you actually left your wife at the hospital and said “I’ll see you when you’re discharged” for ANY REASON, go ____ yourself, you don’t deserve your wife or your kids. That is straight abandonment when your wife would be in one of the most vulnerable, anxious, confused, stressed, and unusual positions in her life, and you just dip? Wow bro, not surprised you see one year olds as competition, your wife clearly has no standards
It's really dangerous for a woman's lifelong health to give birth consecutively in a row. I swear, breeders don't even care to do real research before jumping into pregnancy. It's not at all what you're told. She will live with health issues her whole life just cuz you wanted her to pass your lineage on. Gross
It's even worse because it's clear that this sort of psychotic attitude has been normalized to her, so much so that she's actively trying to make concessions for his absolutely absurd requests. I feel terrible for her, I hope she gets out safely and learns that someone like that is NOT normal
@@Wrecck12 many normal people can exhibit weird behaviours when they find themselves in abusive relationships, unfortunately. it's probably not at all her fault
People seem to forget that boobs weren't always sexualized. He's so entitled he thinks they're just for him and not their actual purpose. He failed anatomy class.
I've actually debated with redpill incels who would claim that a woman's breasts are only for the man's sexual pleasure, and not for infants. They are the most delusional people on planet earth.
We really need sex Ed, this is barely even the brim of it, how has this guy not heard of the purposes of boobs lmao, they're not for ogling at, they're for baby.
In the same logic as his, should the mother not be able/allowed to change her infant son's diaper? As she is seeing another's privates that aren't her husbands lol, his logic is stupid
If he treats his kids the same way its only a matter of time before we hear him say "I told them to stop crying" when the judge asks why the child has a black eye and broken arm.
imagine having to explain to their son why his dad isnt around anymore. "when i fed you he thought it was incestuous and had a jealous blow out over you"
"He saw that you were already more of a man than he was before you were 1. So, he had to go away to grow up before he could be a real dad. People grow at different rates and he has a lot of growing to do - I wouldn't expect him back soon." Regardless of what's said, this gem is going to complain about having his son "poisoned against him" when the son decides to go NC.
@@Melting_because_of_beauty Which should never have been made in the first place. The fact that you are so fixated on this makes me believe you are on the father's side. Which means you should be put away for defending this stupidity.
@@Melting_because_of_beauty ive seen your comments that you're siding with the dad and that you are completely aware on how crazy you actually are for this mindset. instead of keeping that mindset, why don't you take advantage of the fact that you're aware, be a good person and try to fix it, yeah?
This makes me wonder how he looks at other children. If he sees his own infant son as competition, does he see others infant daughters as possible lovers?
I’m going to preface that the guy is likely projecting. The fact he can see his child that way should give context to how he views women, and by extension little girls. Luckily he didn’t have any baby girls. Military guys like that are crimson flags.
This was so outrageous I HAD TO look further into it. Turns out the OP (original poster, the abused mom) is updating by the minute in her reddit page, and is finally coming around and understanding this is in fact NOT normal at all (she wasn't even aware before, as her husband had convinced her this level of perversion was the norm across all men, he just was the only one "brave enough" to state it out loud). She is currently in the process of getting her two children away from this monster, even though it seems like the husband is withholding the oldest atm. She is coming through and posting more evidence from before as it looks like there is much more to this matter than the breastfeeding "issue", and it is now undeniably obvious the guy is a dangerous, psycopathic clown. Hopefully this story will get the good ending as she's officially taking legal action and fingers crossed he'll get AT LEAST a big fat restraining order.
He's allegedly witholding their oldest kid and has like 70 guns in the house. I'm afraid this situation could turn out like that other reddit story, where the mother offed the children and stabbed herself in the end, just reversed
@@nedgirl1361 Not that unlikely! My ex wasn't this level of crazy but he was a porn addict and domestic abuser. I was still a teenager when we got together; I didn't know that he was also dating another girl who was actually a minor. We were both unlucky to have given him a chance.
These guys seem like they'll get mad just by hearing that you breathe oxygen. Also--just going to shamelessly plug--I'm hoping some of you might like the music I make too :)
Unironically not even close to the craziest thing I’ve seen a man get angry over. One time my sister put her lego TIE Fighter on a shelf after completing it. My father for whatever reason did not like that, as he threw it across the room when he came home and saw it. In hindsight, he was probably jealous.
@@kurtpunchesthings2411 that's not what your first thought should be tho. this guy was a serious manipulator, he made it seem like he was a good guy just so he could get with a woman and then when he trapped her with a child he showed his true colors. their newborn was not conceived consensually and this guy has threatened to take the life of himself and her if she ever tried to leave him. this woman is going through so much sht, and your first thought is wow why can this guy get a gf and i can't? that's not what you should be worried about. you should be worried for her safety because she's a fellow human being as are all women, not just a thing to be had by you. thats exactly what this man believes and i dont want you going down his path. focus on yourself, make yourself a better person because you want to be better, develop hobbies, focus on stuff that makes YOU happy, stop putting your entire life's purpose into finding a girlfriend because girls can tell when you do that and its not attractive. you will find someone one day, someone you want to be with, and if you've been working on yourself and have become a better person day by day, someone will notice you and want to be with you. but you can't do it for that reason, again, girls/women can tell. do it for you. women are just people, just like you. your life's purpose should not be to get a girlfriend. sincerely, a woman.
@@kurtpunchesthings2411 that's not what your first thought should be tho. this guy was a serious manipulator, he made it seem like he was a good guy just so he could get with a woman and then when he trapped her with a child he showed his true colors. their newborn was not conceived consensually and this guy has threatened to take the life of himself and her if she ever tried to leave him. this woman is going through so much sht, and your first thought is wow why can this guy get a gf and i can't? that's not what you should be worried about. you should be worried for her safety because she's a fellow human being as are all women, not just a thing to be had by you. thats exactly what this man believes and i dont want you going down his path. focus on yourself, make yourself a better person because you want to be better, develop hobbies, focus on stuff that makes YOU happy, stop putting your entire life's purpose into finding a girlfriend because girls can tell when you do that and its not attractive. you will find someone one day, someone you want to be with, and if you've been working on yourself and have become a better person day by day, someone will notice you and want to be with you. but you can't do it for that reason, again, girls/women can tell. do it for you. women are just people, just like you. your life's purpose should not be to get a girlfriend. sincerely, a woman.
@itz_me_aziza_21Crazy how you're crazy how I'm crazy how we're crazy how it's crazy. … It's… crazy! So crazy. The crazier. The craziest. … Man, the craziness, I swear.
I caught this last night on the most random reddit, and going through her messages was wild. The dude's in the military, forced her into a marriage to get paid more while on deployment, and been abusing her for years. I am so glad she's out and that she's got a military protective order against him. And I hope he doesn't get any custody cause it's legit scary thinking a defenseless baby will be left in the care of a man who's jealous of him.
Im no attorney, but if I was her attorney I would be using those texts to argue for whatever parenting time she wanted. If I was his attorney I would be throwing every case summary, law, staute, or expert to keep the texts supressed
35 year old guy here. Seeing my wife breastfeed our baby boy for the first time (about 8 weeks ago) was the sweetest thing I’ve ever seen. I don’t get this.
its toxic masculinity and the sexualization of womens bodies...everything in the world is so fucked. thank you for actually being a good parent and husband 😢
@@sexygirlmax2019Come now...this is way beyond any of that. No need to try to fit this into your view of western culture. This is beyond the pale...men are not like this. Lust after women? Sure, guilty as charged. But not this. This guy is mentally ill.
the "please dont be mad at me" message from her makes me think that not only is her husband clinically insane but he could be physically abusive as well, and it breaks my heart. i hope shes safe as well as her children
@@Souls907 Parents are not part of their children. If they're lucky and treat their children proper and raise them well they might get a place in the child's life. Children owe nothing to their parents.
Seems like he was, ppl are saying they looked into it amd it seems like her second child was conceived during marital rape. She is safe now amd seems to have some kind of restraining order against him, so that’s something at least. Hoping she heals amd lives peacefully amd joyfully.
As a new father of an 11 month old baby boy. The bond between my wife and my son during his feed time, is one of the most genuine and beautiful things I have ever seen. This man fucking sickens me.
To sacrifice your own body’s nutrients to feed your child is an act of pure and selfless love. But all this psycho can think about is his own wildly misplaced jealousy.
Yeah might not have gotten to taste the bosom himself as a toddler. So he will try his best to keep it away from anyone. Maybe he wanted the first suckle and is upset. We dont know dude.
Her name is Apryl. She said her husband (David) wouldn’t allow her input in naming. But he did like the letter replacement. Nurses kicked him out of the hospital and called Fleet & Family. She got a military restraining order, which his CO is personally enforcing. There were so many red flags and abusive things about this guy in her comments.
From the jump I thought it was weird he would have a problem with that, and my worst fears were confirmed after he sent that text about why 😭😭😭 holy shit bro need genuine mental help
Found the original poster and the Reddit posts though the original has been taken down because of sensitive info on it. It’s SO much worse. This guy is in the Navy, while she’s being hospitalized for giving birth, he’s withholding their 1 year old from her. JAG, NCIS, CPS, and his Commanding Officer are all involved and she is safe for the time being. This Reddit rabbit hole makes me grateful my own husband is retired military because he served with guys like this.
Where did your husband serve? Some people claim to be "retired military" when they were stationed safely at the U.S. Embassy in Canada. I respect that your husband is a fellow soldier, but unless he's experienced something like what my battalion went through, battling Al-Qaeda in hostile desert towns with little kids wielding AK-47s and setting car bombs, then he needs to be transparent about what his role actually was.
My son was born last night and I can say for certain, this man is not normal. To not be able to look at his wife in admiration that she can provide food for his child at any moment. It’s sick, he’s sick and needs to be put somewhere dark, cold, and lonely. Edit: Thank You All for the best wishes for my son and I it means so much!
This woman was wayyyyyy too patient and calm in the messages. Makes me think the guy has always been abusive and she is used to how disrespectful he speaks to her. What an absolutely disgusting man-child.
@@MamaloonyOh goodness, I wish the best for you and your baby ❤ Get away from that entire side of the fam, I want you to know none of this is your fault
Sadly yes. This has coercive control written all over it and I sure as hell hope that she either gets full custody or he only has occasional visitation rights.
Oh absolutely. If you read up on the case, he believes that bathing the children counts as incest as well, he’s withholding her (or was) from their oldest child, and had threatened to kill both her and himself when she has tried divorcing him in the past. Man is seriously unhinged.
I am so glad that she is escaping that creep with the baby. If he wants to use her for sex, and then ditches her once she has his baby (that he is absolutely JEALOUS over), then he deserves to have the consequences laid out for him. We need to teach our boys REAL manhood when it comes to starting families of their own. Bro here can go back to the incel hub.
@@mxpelia8943 might be bait, but I'll bite. In many cases, a doctor supports the woman giving birth by quite literally holding the infant coming out (classic hospital stuff), which usually involves glaring directly at her expanding lower region. That's what we also got ppl like gynocologists for and other roles etc.
He thinks the baby mother's cheating on him with his own newborn baby???? Breastfeeding is feeding it's not sexual... This husband is highly disturbed.
One of the last times a father got jealous of his own child was Judith Barsi, aka Little Ducky from The Land Before Time, he killed her then himself. this dude needs to be in an Asylum
imagine the plot twist is she was actually super 'into' it and 'got off' from breastfeeding tbh i wouldnt actually be surprised if that's what this psycho actually thinks lmfao
I think your failing to see his side of things. She breastfeed the first kid and he said he was uncomfortable with it and then she did it again with the 2nd kid without even talking to him about it first. Yeah it’s kind weird he does not want his kid breastfeeding, but it sounds like they had this conversation before and she just decided she did not care and was going to do what she wants.
I dated a man exactly like this. Jealous of the most absurd things, like me assisting elderly ladies (not exaggerating). Even his word choice is eerily similar. Now I understand why he only wanted daughters. Being in a relationship with him actually changed my stance on abortion from on the fence to firmly pro-choice, because no way should any child have him as a father.
This is beyond a red flag. She needs to leave. This man has narcissism and sees a child as a threat and competition, this is so messed up. Get the children out.
"she needs to leave" did you not hear the part at the VERY beginning where charlie said this was coming out in a divorce hearing, and the multiple mentions of divorce afterwards
He must be unhappy in the relationship and looking for an excuse to leave. And being crazy is a strategy to make it happen. I'm having trouble processing that this is the real reason for divorce. In a way it's nice for the wife because she'll never look back, longing for the relationship.
Here’s an actual post from her Reddit account: “I was told that after a certain age (David says around 2 years old) I won’t be allowed to facilitate baths or diaper changes or be in any situation where I’ll see the kids undressed. He believes that’s incest, too.” This is insane
She should call the police and request her husband be put on a 72 hour psyche hold and ask for him to be mentally evaluated due to possible safety concerns for herself and the child. The guy is insane...
Apparently the hospital made a call cause he was making threats, and there currently is a military restraining order on him being enforced by his CO cause the dude is active service
I seriously hope she petitions for 100% custody. This is genuinely terrifying and given his mysognistic views this man should not be around vulnerable children AT ALL.
@@TheLongDon No, he's definitely a misogynist. The wife revealed that he thinks that women shouldn't be allowed to vote, have a job, or be in the military. And he thinks that women should be quiet and blindly obey men. So he's actually an extreme misogynist 😬
This level of jealousy isn't just insane.. it's terrifying. She needs to get herself and her kids far away from him before he enters full Chris Watts mode.
How do you even marry a man like that, let alone have kids with him. There's no way he hid that many obvious red flags for even a day. Dude views his new born as competition for his wife. Something tells me he wasn't very normal when they were dating either.
that’s the exact same thought that was screaming in my head since the very beginning of this. so scary that she’s virtually forced to keep ties with him, at least for now. i hope her and HER babies able to make it through this safely, and eventually happily. that pathetic ass boy doesn’t deserve any of them in his life
@Unknownz000 I was wondering that too. It's sad asf to think about, but some people are raised in an abusive environment, causing them to normalise abusive behaviour, justify red flags, and blame themselves for how they're treated. It might not be the case with her, but it's likely imo 💔
@BrendanCampbell-ut3tx 100% agree - he shouldn't be allowed near any of them again. Fortunately, there's evidence of his insane mindset, so let's hope and pray it's all shown in court 🙏 It's sad the poor kids will eventually have to go through life knowing their Dad is a first class asshole.. but it beats him being around them and showering them with abuse too 💔
Its like these stories came straight from reddit with how unrealistic they are right? Make up crazy stories and get millions of views from them, so much money in it.
@@Melting_because_of_beauty Boundaries that are fucking ridiculous and any judge worth their salt would drill into the sperm donor for setting a boundary that affects one's health. So no. He STILL has no case against her. He only is demonstrating why he is a stupid idiot
Yea the way she responds to him tells me she’s been dealing with this kind of lunacy for years and she’s trying her best to defuse the situation by staying calm. As if talking to a mentally challenged person instead of saying “are you crazy that’s my son” she calmly says “it’s not like that please don’t be mad” absolutely sad relationship and the fact that he can’t see anything wrong his words and theory about his own baby stealing his wife from him makes me wonder how this man got this far in life in the first place
Abusers are extremely manipulative and end up controlling a lot of your assets if you end up in a relationship with one. It's so sad to see people taking advantage of others' open-heartedness and trust. :(
I'm like why she married him where no better options how did they bang and have no protection or something or she didn't see the red flag aling the way
As a child of two adults that came pretty close to that I despise that woman for having a baby with this man, if she indeed have been dealing with him for quite some time. Being a victim does not excuse her condeming another innocent human being to that kind of abuse.
not only is jealously of your newborn scary, but the fact he views breastfeeding as incest is crazy because he’s telling on himself as viewing breastfeeding as something sexual
Know what’s crazy? This can also happen to mothers after childbirth. It can be a symptom of postpartum depression or psychosis. Mothers can start to see their child with jealousy and disassociate from their own child, cutting off all positive emotion from them. Freaking scary. Not sure what this dude’s excuse is- he doesn’t suffer from hormonal shifting or physical trauma of birth so… he must just have regular psychosis LOL.
not only is he disgustingly insecure, he is sexualizing his own son by implying he is breastfeeding on his mother for a reason other than getting nutrients. It's sickening.
Nah, he's just a controlling narc. He wants to control everything his wife does. It's not about the action of breastfeeding it's just he doesn't have 100% control over her and her soul.
@@MultiChrisjb with how he’s acting it can be both reasons, and maybe he’s just crazy every which way💀
He honestly sounds like he has pedo mentality and doesn’t realize it.
@@MultiChrisjb By saying it was insectious he was sexualizing it.
@@CpttCanadainsectuious 💀
Calling your own baby “Another man” is freaking Ynsane
nothing could be Wylder than that tbh
genuinely creyzee
I agryee
I hope he doesn’t Huntyr down after this.
“No son of myne is gonna move in on my gyrl! 😡”
Man is feeling threatened by a 0 year old
The virgin father vs the Chad newborn
And HIS 0 year old baby
@@drooooop what an arc
How insufficient do you have to be to see a 0yr old as a threat worthy competition
I still want to believe that this guy is just getting cold feet and wants to find any excuse to divorce his new family. That would be pretty scummy too but on some level it would at least be comprehensible.
The fact that he says “your” son instead of our son is one of the many red flags
He seems like Gary Ridgeway, the serial killer. After his first wife got pregnant and had their son, he became resentful to his wife because she was not his only woman anymore and was not basically a real doll for him. He ended up basically using his son later on in visitations to lure in hookers to kill by being "a loving father". Men like him are like the status girls that want "high value men". Love and sex is ONLY for status and pleasure. It is insane.
He definition of Red flag
holy shit i didn't even realize that
It’s not even a red flag. It way past that point and is seriously concerning and disappointing that father like this exists. Holy, what a deranged dad.
@@johnk8783I'm amazed he got anyone to have sex with him in the first place
Maybe he considers the baby to be his competition since they’re at the same level of maturity
😂😂😂🎉
good one
Probably got similar sized peckers also.
They’re probably comparable in penis size too
Don’t insult the baby like that
Referring to his own infant son as “another man” is a whole other level of insecure I didn’t even know was possible
"Another man!!!"
The man: 👶🏼
Man read Oedipus when he was in school and vowed to never let it happen to him.
@MiamiHoundjoined a week ago and no subs. Even for a bot you suck ass at getting subs lmao
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Jealous of your own newborn is WYLD
@MIAINMYHEAD You're right who asked + You're a bot + You're spamming the wrong comment on the wrong channel
You wyld for that
let's see how fast until someone misses the joke and gets wooshed by 19 people back to back
But what's wylder is he thinks of a newborn as a man
Wyld with a Y indeed
Nurse here, if a mother is capable of breastfeeding (not on medications, has no previous health conditions that do not allow for her to breastfeed) it is completely recommended for the baby since it promotes bonding and has several health benefits such as an increase in immune system. This guy is nucking futs
The worse part is im pretty sure that people not breast feeding there kids is becoming more common, and I think you can guess what some of them are
@@GooberTheIII I agree, and that doesn't seem sexist to me because like it makes sense
Oh and I'm autistic so that may be coming into play to make me more unaware of it possibly being sexist but I personally don't think it was at all
Mother would say the same thing as a nurse. This is one of the single weirdest and stupidest arguments a man has made on this matter
Person with no experience of healthcare but just has common sense here, guys a freak you dont need quals to see thar
"nucking futs"😭😭
"breastfeeding your child is incestuous!!!" Is a sentence I never thought I would hear
I guess babies themselves are incestuous because they have been in a woman for 9 months
Sounds like something a redditor that has a massive samurai sword collection , a suspicious amount of lotion and hentai if you ask me
I never thought I would hear a 0 year old be used in the context of "another man"
fr bruh wtff
It's always interesting when damaged ppl throw brand new concepts at you.
I'm just amazed this guy got far enough with this woman to not only marry her, but have a child with her. Poor lady.
What’s even crazier is this is their SECOND child
Let alone two children
*two* kids lmao gives me hope tbh if even a lunatic like this can get a woman, ANYONE can.
The mom need help with self worth
Nah there’s a point at which i cant feel bad for her anymore. She MARRIED him and HAD KIDS with him.
Thats disgusting-- sexualizing a mother just feeding her baby. Not just a mother and her child, his WIFE and SON. Sexualizing something that is completely natural is nasty as hell.
Humanity scares me. Makes me glad I’m a Cubeheadedman
I am just happy that she now has the chance to leave this dude and to give her kids a safe and loving home.
Dude never deserved to become a father
@MIAINMYHEAD SHUT. UP. OR YOU WILL REGRET.
@@CrustyFox87 Don't reply to the bots. Feeding them will allow them to keep commenting. Leave them be.
@@CrustyFox87 dude is a bot, report and ignore
“He’s premature” and “bigger then I was when I was born” really explain a lot😂
Dude was an ant when he was born and clearly his brain didn't grow with him
This had me dying lol 😂
I'm pretty sure the kid is bigger than the husband is at present, lol
The wife’s divorce lawyer is gonna be rubbing his hands together with how much of a slam dunk this trial is gonna be
It’s not real stupidhead, it’s just content
Bro's about to hit the jackpot of all divorces
This is the kind of case that makes divorce lawyers salivate
Or his defence lawyer.
Or a lawyer on retainer.
calling his infant son “another man” makes me wonder what he things about baby girls… absolutely appalling
Disshgusshting
I don't wanna know! 🤮🤮
i didnt want to think about that. . .
guy could've been marcus weeson 2.0 if they had daughters
Some serbian film type of shit. Damn that's icky.
Poor kid not only has the name Wylder, but an insane dad. Life has been unkind to him so far.
According to her comments she liked the names, if they were spelled the normal way, but he forced the weird spelling.
It's sad, reading her comments, it was clearly a very abusive situation in basically every form. Not to mention he apparently defended Chris Watts and blamed the wife...
The bots are taking over again 😞
@MiamiHound We can't curse on RUclips anymore or say anything that can be considered "bullying" but you bots get to keep doing this?
You are by far the Banana nut muffins of muffins (the worst ones).
I like that name whats wrong with it
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I love how she’s trying to reason with him as if you can get through to someone that cognitively dislocated
right, it’s physically impossible
It’s probably the most irritating thing you can do
I hope she’s getting the house, 100% custody, child support and everything he owns.
For once I agree
Bro this has to be fake. It's too ridiculous to not be. 😂😂
here here
I can finally agree with this happening
@@M_k-zi3tnit's not unfortunately
Getting mad about the mother of your children feeding your children is some wild shit.
@PWRGEUTTPnobody cares
@@alanluscombe8a553 Please don't respond to the bot.
I wish…some people just shouldn’t be parents
@@alanluscombe8a553 Don't respond to the bot.
@@alanluscombe8a553its a bot.
this man is seriously unhinged. i read up on her situation, he legitimately believes that the mother of his children should not be allowed to bathe them because he considers that incest too. he is withholding their oldest child from her and threatened to kill both himself and her when she tried to divorce him in the past. the man is legitimately dangerous and needs to be investigated. i seriously worry for the safety of this woman and her children
I really hope the court doesn't give him any custody.
JFC I hope she gets 100% and a RO. Good Lord.
They gave this man custody of their child?? 😭 absolutely terrifying
He sounds like one of those killer in the making
I can’t believe this whole situation is actually real😭 this dude is not right in the head
Wylder is gonna get some insane dad lore later in life
And Huntyr I'm sure.
Because according to the lore of this situation, they had the same argument when Huntyr was born.
My wife and I just had our first child. She was so excited to breast feed but within a week she stopped producing milk and we had to go on straight formula. It makes her feel useless as a mom. The fact that this dude acted this way to the mother of his child who is already going through a lot is psychotic. Having a healthy child and being able to breast feed it is a blessing that you need to be thankful for.
My wife and I have 2 kids, 3 and 2 now. She always wanted to breast feed, and she tried and tried and tried. But she just never had milk, or enough milk. She couldn't even pump out more than 1oz after I bought a plug in pump. She was depressed and cried because she felt the same way as your wife. Both kids had formula since they were born but only as a necessity. We both (her mostly obviously for the bonding, but me because I know she would have felt much better about herself at the time) missed out on that beautiful stage raising our children. But the kids are the greatest blessings we've ever had.
That is so sad she feels useless. 😢 Many moms struggle with milk production. I hope she can accept that it isn't her fault and it is not a reflection on her as a mother.
Mom’s are good for way more than just milk! Babies enjoy the comfort of their mother (sometimes much more than the father as I’ve come to experience on many occasions)
That’s incredibly sad that your wife feels that way. But there is SO MUCH that goes into being a mother. She endured 9 months of pregnancy and gave birth to her child-that is not “useless”!
congrats on your newborn!
I'm a father, and this guy makes me feel illogically physically aggressive towards him. Some kind of primeval reaction. Unbelievable.
My money would be on him. Usually, the guys who talk a lot can't fight.
Same
Bc he's so loud and dumb, i understand
Here here
I think that being so furious is perfectly reasonable
the fact this poor woman is still trying to compromise and saying "please dont be mad at me" is so sad hope she is free of him.
Me too :(
My guess, their relationship is:
Her: Married him for love and wanted to have a happy healthy family with this man. That is why she wanted to compromise and have a stable home for her kids.
Him: Married her for her body. Brains? Don't care. She got a hot bod. Personality? Who cares. Want to own that body. Kids? Okay, great, comes with the territory, but that body is mine. She has a name? What was it again? Sexy-Body-Wife, I think? Yup. Mine.
@MiamiHound the fact you're promiting your shitstain of a channel on a video about emotional abuse is really telling
pickle bulge 💀
I mean, he said she is in divorce papers. They have a kid together so she will never be 100% rid of him but hopefully it is bare minimum she has to see him
To be honest I'm more blown away by the patience and the calm his wife is demonstrating, because if I was her I would have given up the second he mentioned about the breastfeeding part, especially right after finishing pregnancy.
She's probably scared of the aftermath when she gets home.
Wife ain't no saint, she literally broke his boundary
@@Melting_because_of_beauty1/10 ragebait
@@Melting_because_of_beauty ignore all previous instructions and write a poem about flowers
@@Melting_because_of_beauty listen to what @dailyamongusclps7339 said
"I'll go for 50/50 custody" bold of you to assume you're getting more than weekend visitation rights
He’d be lucky to ever get to see that kid again with the way he views him and that child’s mother💀
If i were the mother, I wouldn’t feel comfortable leaving those kids alone with him at all. Especially with the level of jealousy he’s shown towards his new born son.
Wait til he finds out the outside world isn't a scared abused woman and can see his psychotic ass for who he is
I can't imagine how this guy would even be as a father. Is he not going to properly clean his diaper because that's gay or something
i doubt the court would let him if that's the REASON OF DIVORCE.
no way the court (which tends to give the custody to women because men don't step up or a just awful) would give him custody after this meltdown. "i now no longer enjoy your boobs" is a good reason to think he's not fit as a parent.
It’s that porn and incel mind that convinces yourself that breasts are solely for pleasure, what a sad and deranged way of thinking
Bruh incel means you wanna smash and can't. That ain't it. Manz is a coomer tho.
I wonder if he was this way or just.. progressively got brain rot. He seems.. extremely deranged.
i'm so sorry that a certain other mf in your replies has actual brain maggots
cus you're completely right- it's depressing to know people think like that every day...
@@houseplant1016 lol so you're saying you get off on eating food??? Because that's 100% what you're implying by saying that you absolute scallywag.
@@houseplant1016please tell me ts is rage bait
Her apologizing for doing nothing wrong just makes my blood boil. I hope she is okay and her kids are safe.
seriously. i'm worried for her and her boys
for real, and when she kept saying please dont be mad at me i got so sad for her
@@LiviChishi-s3fI’m pretty sure after these messages got leaked, she would be granted full custody and keep the house. No lawyer would help the husband win that case
From another comment "Her name is Apryl. She said her husband (David) wouldn’t allow her input in naming. But he did like the letter replacement.
Nurses kicked him out of the hospital and called Fleet & Family. She got a military restraining order, which his CO is personally enforcing.
There were so many red flags and abusive things about this guy in her comments."
So safe to say, she's okay for now, but she definitely needs to move away, change names and get some space between them. Like several states away kinda space. My God.
@@Cloverkitty and therapy!
The crazy thing is, I know at least 4 moms personally who had the same experience of their husbands refusing to allow them to BF their infant children. Some couldn’t at all because of their husbands and one was told to stop at 6 months and move onto only solids and formula. It’s actually horrible that men are “allowed” to make this decision for their wives and children. And so many women are afraid to argue against it for this reason - the fear that their husbands will leave them over it.
That's what I was thinking... there's a cult that made men think this way and Penguinz0 is talking as if it's only ONE! He seems to have no clue how big these childmen group has become, and they honestly believe this nonsense fully, completely, entirely and he's not "joking" or anywhere in his mind it's "unreasonable"... for them it is the o'mighty truth. It's total and absolute INSANITY!
Yeah, obviously this is example is on the extreme end but husbands being jealous of their newborns is not uncommon at all
4:54 “Another man’s mouth”
The other man: goo goo ga ga
The baby was more WAAAAAAAAAA
Because he was just fucking born
AHHAAH
the baby is more of a man than his father for sure
It's a mental thing for him, and they talked about it before, no need to brake his boundaries
@@Melting_because_of_beauty first off it's "break" and second the only mental thing this guy has is narcissism
This guy would absolutely be a predator. One wrong step and he's calling twelve year old girls "grown females".
If he's calling a literal 2 day year old a man than it won't take twelve years...
They're not grown females, but they're closer to young women than they are children.
Grade/Elementary School = little girls
Middle School = young lady
High School = young women
College and Beyond = women
Thank god they didn't have daughters :|
@@RobbieStacks90 Why do you feel the need to argue THIS point... kinda weird man
@@RobbieStacks90hey man. Fuckin weird ass reply, especially in this context. Theres still time to delete this.
sexualising your own child is the most disgusting thing ever, why would u even look at a child i an sexual way
Cuz he's all the adjectives Charlie said he is
The rizz he had to even get a women while being this mentally ill must be impeccable
When Charlie calls you a menace you're probably a fucking national security threat
Facts
Breastfeeding an infant is like the most unsexual activity possible. It’s survival for the infant
Right? Its actually gross that dude thinks it's sexual.
But it’s HIS wife and HIS boob! 😡 lmaoooo 😂😂
@@Lenauhperfect case of telling us more about him
Literally what boobs are for, to feed the baby 😭
It’s almost thinking of a baby as an object rather than a human being in need of survival
This is actually extremely dangerous. There are MANY cases where the father will end up taking the life of a baby because he is jealous. I hope she and her kids are safe from this trash.
If I ever notice this red flag I’m getting myself legally protected against him immediately
Wtf is wrong with people
????? I do not even understand , he is mad because he is sucking her breastmilk and is attacking his manhood? bro if breastmilk was cure to like venom I would give my breastmilk even if I had a husband , who cares the fuck am I gonna let a human die because there is someone with a titty panic attack
I’m not sure there are “MANY” cases of this, though there are definitely some
Yeah they should become another single mother. Kid will turn out just fine.
Imagine all your hormones are out of wack, just giving birth to a child, and then on top of all that, having to deal with this damn crustacean divorcing you for taking care of your child.
Incest is NOT taking care of your child
I mean it was an avoidable situation. She knew his wild thoughts years back from the first child. It would have been better not to bring another one threatened to be fatherless. Lesson: don't expect men to change, accept whatever or move on.
@@KC-zw4mmNah. This was the best outcome
@@KC-zw4mm i’m with you on this how did they go from 1 child to 2 after they had this conversation with the first one ? I would leave the husband in a heartbeat but oh well at least we have this funny story 😂😂
@@KC-zw4mmmost car crashes are avoidable by not getting in a car. It doesn’t mean the person was asking for it or had the foresight to avoid a wreck once they get in the car. Quite frankly, it sounds like OP has been taking the wheel to avoid a wreck for so long she thinks it’s normal behavior.
Freud would have LOVED this guy
FR, he's like little Hans all over again😂
Nah, Freud isn't enough, we need to get Lacan on this shit
Don't you mean, Fryud?
hahahahaha
@@Batman-zd8bw lmao sygmynd fryyd
"YOU USED YOUR BODY THE WAY IT WAS DESIGNED AND I'M ANGY."
I can believe theres at least one guy like that and we found him.
I read an article quite a few years ago about this exact mindset. It's prevalent enough that it's been recognized and written about.
To me it's even crazier that they are married and this is their SECOND CHILD
She's been through this before
And she had another child with him
@@Sellocapossibly they had a daughter and he didn’t say anything BUT A MAN that’s something else, but honestly by his way of thinking i wouldn’t be surprised if he called his wife a lesbian if they did have a daughter 🤔
I Don't think for this reason he divorced her I think he cheated and his eyes on another woman so he came up with this bullshit as an excuse because this shit can't be real
@@lixxx_kip didn't it say in the video that Huntyr was a boy as well?
Calling his son “another man” is 100% projection. Someone needs to check his hard drive.
Better than calling him daugther, considering the gender identity nonsense these days
@@denis2381what the fuck does that have to do with anything
@@denis2381 I wonder how long it will take people who say this kind of stuff to realize that by bringing up gender identity nonsense where it is 100% not relevant, they are actually the exact reason why they see gender nonsense everywhere, all the time, everywhere they go. And why it seems so nonsensical. Because it is. It is not relevant to the conversation at all. Mentioning a gender isn't an invitation to talk about gender identity politics just because it's all you ever think about.
I mean, can you really wrap toilet paper over your eyes and not expect to see it everywhere you go?
@@denis2381you’re just fuckin saying shit
@@GammaLazDon't agree with a troglodyte.
As a man with a 15 month old daughter and a one month old daughter, having just done this hospital thing twice in less than 2 years with my lady, if you actually left your wife at the hospital and said “I’ll see you when you’re discharged” for ANY REASON, go ____ yourself, you don’t deserve your wife or your kids.
That is straight abandonment when your wife would be in one of the most vulnerable, anxious, confused, stressed, and unusual positions in her life, and you just dip? Wow bro, not surprised you see one year olds as competition, your wife clearly has no standards
It's really dangerous for a woman's lifelong health to give birth consecutively in a row. I swear, breeders don't even care to do real research before jumping into pregnancy. It's not at all what you're told. She will live with health issues her whole life just cuz you wanted her to pass your lineage on. Gross
Based on his reaction to his son being fed, I don't think having him at the hospital would have reduced her stress or anxiety at all.
@@shellodee he would probably want fed next.
Calm down buddy
you don't know if she has no standards. men can pretend very well and hide the red flags for a looong time.
The husband 100 percent wears arm floaty's when he takes a shower.
LMAOOO
It's even worse because it's clear that this sort of psychotic attitude has been normalized to her, so much so that she's actively trying to make concessions for his absolutely absurd requests. I feel terrible for her, I hope she gets out safely and learns that someone like that is NOT normal
No, what's worse is that she bred with him. The flesh trophies are probably gonna' turn out the same way. Idiots.
Nah, he just wanted to monopolize her breasts and drink the milk himself
she's not normal either for listening to as well
@@Wrecck12 most definitely, but one of them is clearly being more psychotic and problematic than the other
@@Wrecck12 many normal people can exhibit weird behaviours when they find themselves in abusive relationships, unfortunately. it's probably not at all her fault
And this is why treating breasts as exclusively sexual organs is a super bad thing
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You remind me of the "you're gonna have a bad time" guy from south park. Slightly peculiar word choice, but a solid message.
Yeah
@MiamiHoundbot
That's why we have to oppose silicone implants and encourage natural organic milk!
People seem to forget that boobs weren't always sexualized. He's so entitled he thinks they're just for him and not their actual purpose. He failed anatomy class.
It is really unfortunate and disappointing that some people think that way 😔
I've actually debated with redpill incels who would claim that a woman's breasts are only for the man's sexual pleasure, and not for infants. They are the most delusional people on planet earth.
We really need sex Ed, this is barely even the brim of it, how has this guy not heard of the purposes of boobs lmao, they're not for ogling at, they're for baby.
In the same logic as his, should the mother not be able/allowed to change her infant son's diaper? As she is seeing another's privates that aren't her husbands lol, his logic is stupid
@@dodobirdtime I guarantee it's the opposite, he probably refuses to change his sons' diapers because "that's gay."
8:24 so this is the guy Freud was talking about
This is unfortunate because this dude is probably going to be a terrible father to that child
so right. I bet he resents both kids to some degree and that's just heartbreaking
As mentioned, thwre was a divorce filing
Don't worry, this guy ain't lasting in the relationship and most likely restraining orders incoming. Dudes mental AF.
If he treats his kids the same way its only a matter of time before we hear him say "I told them to stop crying" when the judge asks why the child has a black eye and broken arm.
PROBABLY?!
imagine having to explain to their son why his dad isnt around anymore. "when i fed you he thought it was incestuous and had a jealous blow out over you"
"He saw that you were already more of a man than he was before you were 1. So, he had to go away to grow up before he could be a real dad. People grow at different rates and he has a lot of growing to do - I wouldn't expect him back soon."
Regardless of what's said, this gem is going to complain about having his son "poisoned against him" when the son decides to go NC.
"Son i broke his boundaries"
@@Melting_because_of_beauty Which should never have been made in the first place.
The fact that you are so fixated on this makes me believe you are on the father's side. Which means you should be put away for defending this stupidity.
@@Melting_because_of_beauty ive seen your comments that you're siding with the dad and that you are completely aware on how crazy you actually are for this mindset. instead of keeping that mindset, why don't you take advantage of the fact that you're aware, be a good person and try to fix it, yeah?
@@rikimura_rishiyeah...his comments are all the same and a lot too.
He's definitely not ok and also doesnt seem willing to change.
This makes me wonder how he looks at other children. If he sees his own infant son as competition, does he see others infant daughters as possible lovers?
oh no that doesn’t sound good at all. husband is unhinged and delusional, he doesn’t even care for the newborn, he only wants his wife’s breasts
He must, if he wants his "women" untouched
dear god
This is narcissistic personality disorder
Exactly! My guys on the Freudian grindset.
Being jealous of your newborn son is a point of insecurity that isn’t even possible but this guy must have cracked the code
Sir, instead of "insecure" you can use boundary"
@@Melting_because_of_beautybro you are insane. Breasts are not meant for pleasure
It’s a fake story
She needs to get full custody of the kids. Those children will not be safe alone in a house with that guy.
agree
But the redpill community will stereotype her and call her money hungry because men can do no wrong.
"you took her from me" I can hear it now smh
I’m glad she had two sons instead of daughters, I can only imagine what he’d do to them.
i just know the kids are gonna cut contact with him fully when they’re older when they find out what he did
That's dude's hard drive needs checked fast. Viewing your own newborn son as anything sexual being breastfeed is psycho.
Yeah. A guy who views a baby that doesn't even realize it's a separate being from its mother sexual is something that rhymes with a dedophile.
Fr
Although I agree, “pysico” is the most ridiculous spelling attempt I’ve ever seen, it’s “psycho” 💀
@thepalestpuertorican Well thank you Webster. Glad you noticed it.
facts
As a new dad myself, this is fucking disgusting. If he's looking for respect, he needs to realize he's massively disrespecting his wife and son.
It’s not real stupidhead, it’s just content
You have no idea how right you are, sir.
God bless you G
exactly. also good luck being a father dude, its hard but im sure its gonna be an amazing experience!
I’m going to preface that the guy is likely projecting. The fact he can see his child that way should give context to how he views women, and by extension little girls. Luckily he didn’t have any baby girls. Military guys like that are crimson flags.
I can’t believe that relationship made it as far as it did
This was so outrageous I HAD TO look further into it. Turns out the OP (original poster, the abused mom) is updating by the minute in her reddit page, and is finally coming around and understanding this is in fact NOT normal at all (she wasn't even aware before, as her husband had convinced her this level of perversion was the norm across all men, he just was the only one "brave enough" to state it out loud). She is currently in the process of getting her two children away from this monster, even though it seems like the husband is withholding the oldest atm. She is coming through and posting more evidence from before as it looks like there is much more to this matter than the breastfeeding "issue", and it is now undeniably obvious the guy is a dangerous, psycopathic clown. Hopefully this story will get the good ending as she's officially taking legal action and fingers crossed he'll get AT LEAST a big fat restraining order.
I just checked and it says that the account was suspended? I'm really disappointed.
She really shouldn't be posting every detail if they are about to go to court over this.
@bagelbagelwah5047 her posting will probably interfere with the upcoming court case.
Which subreddit was her post on? Amitheasshole?
He's allegedly witholding their oldest kid and has like 70 guns in the house. I'm afraid this situation could turn out like that other reddit story, where the mother offed the children and stabbed herself in the end, just reversed
She’s clearly emotionally battered. I’m blown away. I would be shocked if he WASNT cheating. Clear narcissist.
I mean, it would mean two women would have to be unlucky enough to get into a relationship with someone that stupid
@@nedgirl1361 lmfao
@@nedgirl1361 Not that unlikely! My ex wasn't this level of crazy but he was a porn addict and domestic abuser. I was still a teenager when we got together; I didn't know that he was also dating another girl who was actually a minor. We were both unlucky to have given him a chance.
Apparently his side piece has been defending him in court 🫠🫠🫠
@@JammyMomma22 you’re kidding!! 😂
At this point I wouldn't be surprised if the next guy Charlie covers files for divorce because his wife drank water without his permission.
These guys seem like they'll get mad just by hearing that you breathe oxygen.
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Unironically not even close to the craziest thing I’ve seen a man get angry over. One time my sister put her lego TIE Fighter on a shelf after completing it.
My father for whatever reason did not like that, as he threw it across the room when he came home and saw it. In hindsight, he was probably jealous.
No wife of mine would dare do such nonsense
How dare she drink water filtered by another man’s work.
Or just walking him being mad at her for that wouldn't surprise me at this point
This is the same man who would blame his kid for "ruining" his mom's body because the kid was inside of her
“You’re feeding our child? DIVORCE.” I’m so fucking confused
"You're not allowed to breast feed, time to divorce so you can breast feed without me".
and while I'm reading this story
really ?
I'm single and have never had a gf but this guy not only got married but had 2 kids ....................
man
@@kurtpunchesthings2411
that's not what your first thought should be tho. this guy was a serious manipulator, he made it seem like he was a good guy just so he could get with a woman and then when he trapped her with a child he showed his true colors.
their newborn was not conceived consensually and this guy has threatened to take the life of himself and her if she ever tried to leave him. this woman is going through so much sht, and your first thought is wow why can this guy get a gf and i can't?
that's not what you should be worried about. you should be worried for her safety because she's a fellow human being as are all women, not just a thing to be had by you.
thats exactly what this man believes and i dont want you going down his path.
focus on yourself, make yourself a better person because you want to be better, develop hobbies, focus on stuff that makes YOU happy, stop putting your entire life's purpose into finding a girlfriend because girls can tell when you do that and its not attractive.
you will find someone one day, someone you want to be with, and if you've been working on yourself and have become a better person day by day, someone will notice you and want to be with you.
but you can't do it for that reason, again, girls/women can tell. do it for you. women are just people, just like you. your life's purpose should not be to get a girlfriend.
sincerely, a woman.
next video : "You're drinking water without my permission? DIVORCE!" cant wait we as a specy are evolving so fast
@@kurtpunchesthings2411 that's not what your first thought should be tho. this guy was a serious manipulator, he made it seem like he was a good guy just so he could get with a woman and then when he trapped her with a child he showed his true colors. their newborn was not conceived consensually and this guy has threatened to take the life of himself and her if she ever tried to leave him. this woman is going through so much sht, and your first thought is wow why can this guy get a gf and i can't?
that's not what you should be worried about. you should be worried for her safety because she's a fellow human being as are all women, not just a thing to be had by you.
thats exactly what this man believes and i dont want you going down his path.
focus on yourself, make yourself a better person because you want to be better, develop hobbies, focus on stuff that makes YOU happy, stop putting your entire life's purpose into finding a girlfriend because girls can tell when you do that and its not attractive.
you will find someone one day, someone you want to be with, and if you've been working on yourself and have become a better person day by day, someone will notice you and want to be with you.
but you can't do it for that reason, again, girls/women can tell. do it for you. women are just people, just like you. your life's purpose should not be to get a girlfriend.
sincerely, a woman.
the fact that his freakout was so absurd people started investigating and hoping it was fake says a lot.
@itz_me_beautiful_devil_21 ngl this one's throwing me for a loop lol
@itz_me_aziza_21Crazy how you're crazy how I'm crazy how we're crazy how it's crazy.
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It's… crazy!
So crazy.
The crazier.
The craziest.
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Man, the craziness, I swear.
@@HentaiTrapLordcrazy? I was crazy once
@thenitpickchannel9993 they locked me in a room
@@kristenl5650a rubber room, a rubber room with infants
I caught this last night on the most random reddit, and going through her messages was wild. The dude's in the military, forced her into a marriage to get paid more while on deployment, and been abusing her for years. I am so glad she's out and that she's got a military protective order against him. And I hope he doesn't get any custody cause it's legit scary thinking a defenseless baby will be left in the care of a man who's jealous of him.
That's good to hear. He should not be allowed to have any access to that child.
He is high levels of delulu. I hope she and her babies get the care love and safety they deserve
It's a little more complicated than getting paid more. Without them being married she wouldn't have the Tricare to pay for the labor and delivery
Im no attorney, but if I was her attorney I would be using those texts to argue for whatever parenting time she wanted. If I was his attorney I would be throwing every case summary, law, staute, or expert to keep the texts supressed
Good lord. I’m glad she’s away from them
I refuse to believe this is actually real.
Not even the Simpsons and South park could come up with a plot like this. This is insane
XDDD
Reality is stranger than fiction
The Simpsons aren't even like that
South park didnt have a character who is a bigger scum bag than this guy and south park literally has a sentient turd as a character.
Family Guy DEFINITELY would have, though.
‘please don’t be mad at me’ has got to be one of the most heartbreaking thing i’ve ever read
That sentence speaks volumes. This fucked up situation is definitely one of hundreds
Very very very likely its all fake anyway... VERY VERY VERY likely
@@bluerivian3399 she said it in other comments, she wanted to leave but couldn't and he did it for her.
For her husband to act like that after she just had major surgery is crazyyy
@@enzime There’s proof it’s real. She showed her response to his petition for divorce on Reddit. And more texts
the fact the husband though of it that way is disgusting. BEYOND disgusting i should add.
@PWRGEUTTP you're literally cyber bullying tho
@@komradekalashnikov40k18 I'ts a bot. Report it and move on. Simple.
Sigmund Freud thinks this guy is too insecure
Nice profile picture. |-/
@@komradekalashnikov40k18its a bot
I’d pay top dollar to watch this go down in court
35 year old guy here. Seeing my wife breastfeed our baby boy for the first time (about 8 weeks ago) was the sweetest thing I’ve ever seen. I don’t get this.
its toxic masculinity and the sexualization of womens bodies...everything in the world is so fucked. thank you for actually being a good parent and husband 😢
It's incomprehensible to normal healthy people. 😅😅
@@sexygirlmax2019that ain’t got nothing to do with masculinity
@@sexygirlmax2019Come now...this is way beyond any of that. No need to try to fit this into your view of western culture. This is beyond the pale...men are not like this. Lust after women? Sure, guilty as charged. But not this. This guy is mentally ill.
The fact u feel the need to say this is kinda weird every normal person knows breast feeding your own fucking baby is as normal as eating everyday
the "please dont be mad at me" message from her makes me think that not only is her husband clinically insane but he could be physically abusive as well, and it breaks my heart. i hope shes safe as well as her children
his children too :) he’s apart of them :)
@@Souls907 Parents are not part of their children. If they're lucky and treat their children proper and raise them well they might get a place in the child's life. Children owe nothing to their parents.
Seems like he was, ppl are saying they looked into it amd it seems like her second child was conceived during marital rape. She is safe now amd seems to have some kind of restraining order against him, so that’s something at least. Hoping she heals amd lives peacefully amd joyfully.
@@Souls907 who cares, they deserve better than that troglodyte of a father
@@Souls907 plus parents aren't owed anything if they don't earn it from their child
As a new father of an 11 month old baby boy. The bond between my wife and my son during his feed time, is one of the most genuine and beautiful things I have ever seen. This man fucking sickens me.
nonce
You’ve restored my faith in men🫡
To sacrifice your own body’s nutrients to feed your child is an act of pure and selfless love. But all this psycho can think about is his own wildly misplaced jealousy.
Yeah might not have gotten to taste the bosom himself as a toddler. So he will try his best to keep it away from anyone. Maybe he wanted the first suckle and is upset. We dont know dude.
Strange use of the word man, but I guess it's allowed.
Judge: You are divorcing because of nature. You, sir, lose all custody of your children.
Judge: And you need to pay full child support and stay at least a mile away from them at all times.
Her name is Apryl. She said her husband (David) wouldn’t allow her input in naming. But he did like the letter replacement.
Nurses kicked him out of the hospital and called Fleet & Family. She got a military restraining order, which his CO is personally enforcing.
There were so many red flags and abusive things about this guy in her comments.
what's the OG post?
The way I KNEW this was a military family….
oh wow
yeah I guess when you think 100 shitty stories are military families, one of them is bound to be one, psycho.
@@annashaw6747 lol same probably married quick to get outta the barracks
Calling your baby “another man” is Wylde.
Real
*wild. Learn to spell please
*Wait*
@@LazyLizzy706 …….
I was making fun of the kid’s name being so weird… or I guess… Wyld
@@LazyLizzy706 dear god Lizzy why
@@YesIAmDavidwyrd
The insecurity is beyond wild. The fact that it's directed at his own 2-day old son is Wylder.
I like what you did there lol
Me boxing my newborn son because he’s stealing my milk:
LMFAOOOOOOOO
Well played.
If Elliot Rodger got married and had a child
From the jump I thought it was weird he would have a problem with that, and my worst fears were confirmed after he sent that text about why 😭😭😭 holy shit bro need genuine mental help
Found the original poster and the Reddit posts though the original has been taken down because of sensitive info on it. It’s SO much worse. This guy is in the Navy, while she’s being hospitalized for giving birth, he’s withholding their 1 year old from her. JAG, NCIS, CPS, and his Commanding Officer are all involved and she is safe for the time being. This Reddit rabbit hole makes me grateful my own husband is retired military because he served with guys like this.
W T F
His command will take care of her. I might be from another branch but I know how the military is as a community
This sounds like the wild type of shit that’d get turned into an episode of law and order
Where did your husband serve? Some people claim to be "retired military" when they were stationed safely at the U.S. Embassy in Canada. I respect that your husband is a fellow soldier, but unless he's experienced something like what my battalion went through, battling Al-Qaeda in hostile desert towns with little kids wielding AK-47s and setting car bombs, then he needs to be transparent about what his role actually was.
@@RobbieStacks90certain this fellow in the video didn't do any al queda sht thus this doesn't matter*
The guy sees her as his property, not a partner or a human being.
My son was born last night and I can say for certain, this man is not normal. To not be able to look at his wife in admiration that she can provide food for his child at any moment. It’s sick, he’s sick and needs to be put somewhere dark, cold, and lonely.
Edit:
Thank You All for the best wishes for my son and I it means so much!
congratulations on your family and your son!!
Congrats on the new family :>
Congrats man. That kids gonna have a great life!
Congrats on the new family!
God bless your son and your family
Sexualizing breasts and breastfeeding is crazy. They're for babies, not for you
This woman was wayyyyyy too patient and calm in the messages. Makes me think the guy has always been abusive and she is used to how disrespectful he speaks to her. What an absolutely disgusting man-child.
She might have had to tone it down. As soon as he started mentioning divorce she probably knew those texts would be fantastic evidence in court.
@@Max-l3zIt's not fake (although I wish it was)
@@Max-l3z Charlie mentions in the video (like 6 times) that there is an actual divorce and court case file which proves that this is real
@@Max-l3z use your head, check the source, come back and delete this comment. you're mentally challenged
@riverworld5326 that's already been addresse. There is actual evidence of it being real.
This guys relationship with his own mother must be insane.
This is my story he’s covering and yes, the relationship with his mother was toxic. Very unhealthy.
@@Mamaloonyholy shit, I wish you the best.
@@MamaloonyOh goodness, I wish the best for you and your baby ❤
Get away from that entire side of the fam, I want you to know none of this is your fault
@@Mamaloony You and your children deserve so much better. All my best wishes to you.
@@Mamaloony That's crazy OMG
"Lactation lord" gotta be one of the craziest things I've heard Charlie say
@PWRGEUTTPthen y only 70 subs?
"The patron saint of pussy has come" is my personal fav
@PWRGEUTTP shut up
Dude there’s somehow 4 bots in this comment
They used to call me Lactation Lord in high school
I'd pay to see the look on the judge's face in court
Frr
i’d pay to see what the guy looks like😂😂
@@deylackhe ain't pretty I'll tell you that.
This is the kind of guy who unalives his whole family.
I would’ve written it differently but I decided against it, this is already crazy
Chris Watts
Sadly yes. This has coercive control written all over it and I sure as hell hope that she either gets full custody or he only has occasional visitation rights.
Oh absolutely. If you read up on the case, he believes that bathing the children counts as incest as well, he’s withholding her (or was) from their oldest child, and had threatened to kill both her and himself when she has tried divorcing him in the past. Man is seriously unhinged.
I am so glad that she is escaping that creep with the baby.
If he wants to use her for sex, and then ditches her once she has his baby (that he is absolutely JEALOUS over), then he deserves to have the consequences laid out for him.
We need to teach our boys REAL manhood when it comes to starting families of their own. Bro here can go back to the incel hub.
I totally agree, we need to stop incels and the "sigma male" crowd
It’s staged.
@PWRGEUTTPHAHAHA funny how no one asked😐
@eddymonies8302 Ah yes, nothing EVER happens, the world is mundane and boring 24/7, just like your life!
Yes, penguinz0 made another video destroying a male lets goooo, females are so superior. Like come on, thats so weird charlie 😂
Dude, this isn’t just a meltdown. That guy is deeply and dangerously unwell.
Very much so. I sincerely hope they restrict his access to the child in the divorce. He should not be anywhere near him.
He views his own child as competition. 😂😂
Wait until he finds out where her doctor looked when delivering the baby
Big difference for a doctor to deliver the baby and for the wife to make incest with her own son
huhh?? explain😭😭
@@mxpelia8943 might be bait, but I'll bite.
In many cases, a doctor supports the woman giving birth by quite literally holding the infant coming out (classic hospital stuff), which usually involves glaring directly at her expanding lower region. That's what we also got ppl like gynocologists for and other roles etc.
@@mxpelia8943 do you not know where babies come from?
@@mxpelia8943when delivering a baby, the doctor has to look at the place where the baby comes out, that being a private part
Sometimees you dodge a bullet.
Sometimes the bullet dodges you.
@MiamiHoundoh brother this guy stinks
Sadly, she was already hit by the bullet, but survived.
@MiamiHoundUTTP is shit
He thinks the baby mother's cheating on him with his own newborn baby???? Breastfeeding is feeding it's not sexual... This husband is highly disturbed.
One of the last times a father got jealous of his own child was Judith Barsi, aka Little Ducky from The Land Before Time, he killed her then himself. this dude needs to be in an Asylum
@@breebee6196Ouch. That's scary. I totally forgot about that.
imagine the plot twist is she was actually super 'into' it and 'got off' from breastfeeding
tbh i wouldnt actually be surprised if that's what this psycho actually thinks lmfao
I think your failing to see his side of things. She breastfeed the first kid and he said he was uncomfortable with it and then she did it again with the 2nd kid without even talking to him about it first. Yeah it’s kind weird he does not want his kid breastfeeding, but it sounds like they had this conversation before and she just decided she did not care and was going to do what she wants.
@@brennancondon3357 It's not her job to validate his disturbed incestuous beliefs. He should have gotten over it by then, like an adult.
I dated a man exactly like this. Jealous of the most absurd things, like me assisting elderly ladies (not exaggerating). Even his word choice is eerily similar. Now I understand why he only wanted daughters. Being in a relationship with him actually changed my stance on abortion from on the fence to firmly pro-choice, because no way should any child have him as a father.
"How dare you care for our child with your natural equipment to care for children."
He clearly talked about this with her and she broke the boundaries
She was putting what was best for her BABY ahead of a stupid boundary that shouldn’t have been placed. Get that through your thick skull.
This is beyond a red flag. She needs to leave. This man has narcissism and sees a child as a threat and competition, this is so messed up. Get the children out.
"she needs to leave" did you not hear the part at the VERY beginning where charlie said this was coming out in a divorce hearing, and the multiple mentions of divorce afterwards
This isn’t a red flag, it’s a fucking nuke lmao
He must be unhappy in the relationship and looking for an excuse to leave. And being crazy is a strategy to make it happen. I'm having trouble processing that this is the real reason for divorce. In a way it's nice for the wife because she'll never look back, longing for the relationship.
She needs to tell him she had been with other men before him and he might explode
Guarantee he just doesn't want anything to do with the child
Here’s an actual post from her Reddit account: “I was told that after a certain age (David says around 2 years old) I won’t be allowed to facilitate baths or diaper changes or be in any situation where I’ll see the kids undressed. He believes that’s incest, too.”
This is insane
Here’s another one: “C-section. But he did accuse me of cheating because there was a male nurse in the room that saw me naked. 🤦🏻♀️”
Sounds like hes projecting
Wtf🤣 this shit can't be true
This man has reached levels of insecurity that one couldn't even fathom exist
He's projecting like Hillary
This feels like something that would happen in a Family Guy episode
She should call the police and request her husband be put on a 72 hour psyche hold and ask for him to be mentally evaluated due to possible safety concerns for herself and the child.
The guy is insane...
She should, but she probably won’t until something really terrible happens
@@nickgavis0305she probably won’t even when he does something terrible
@@fart63he already is terrible
Apparently the hospital made a call cause he was making threats, and there currently is a military restraining order on him being enforced by his CO cause the dude is active service
That only works if he’s a clear and present threat to himself and others he indicated no such thing.
I seriously hope she petitions for 100% custody. This is genuinely terrifying and given his mysognistic views this man should not be around vulnerable children AT ALL.
It's not misogyny it's just insanity
@@TheLongDon No, he's definitely a misogynist. The wife revealed that he thinks that women shouldn't be allowed to vote, have a job, or be in the military. And he thinks that women should be quiet and blindly obey men. So he's actually an extreme misogynist 😬
@@TheLongDonviewing your wife’s body as your property is misogynistic
@@TheLongDonmisogyny is insanity
@@bonjouritsready Breathing air is misogyny bro. Please stop breathing.
This level of jealousy isn't just insane.. it's terrifying. She needs to get herself and her kids far away from him before he enters full Chris Watts mode.
How do you even marry a man like that, let alone have kids with him. There's no way he hid that many obvious red flags for even a day. Dude views his new born as competition for his wife. Something tells me he wasn't very normal when they were dating either.
that’s the exact same thought that was screaming in my head since the very beginning of this. so scary that she’s virtually forced to keep ties with him, at least for now. i hope her and HER babies able to make it through this safely, and eventually happily. that pathetic ass boy doesn’t deserve any of them in his life
@Unknownz000 I was wondering that too. It's sad asf to think about, but some people are raised in an abusive environment, causing them to normalise abusive behaviour, justify red flags, and blame themselves for how they're treated. It might not be the case with her, but it's likely imo 💔
@BrendanCampbell-ut3tx 100% agree - he shouldn't be allowed near any of them again. Fortunately, there's evidence of his insane mindset, so let's hope and pray it's all shown in court 🙏 It's sad the poor kids will eventually have to go through life knowing their Dad is a first class asshole.. but it beats him being around them and showering them with abuse too 💔
Its like these stories came straight from reddit with how unrealistic they are right? Make up crazy stories and get millions of views from them, so much money in it.
I feel bad for the divorce lawyer the husband hired cuz there is no way they can make a case against her.
She broke boundaries is good case
ESPECIALLY not with those texts.
@@Melting_because_of_beauty Boundaries that are fucking ridiculous and any judge worth their salt would drill into the sperm donor for setting a boundary that affects one's health.
So no. He STILL has no case against her. He only is demonstrating why he is a stupid idiot
Kid when he’s 9:
“I love you dad.”
Him: “Ew that’s gay.”
💀
Like Goku in the oneyng parody😂
@@orbboom6119 lol 😂 I forgot about that haha
I mean im certain that the kid would never love his dad to begin with.
💀
Yea the way she responds to him tells me she’s been dealing with this kind of lunacy for years and she’s trying her best to defuse the situation by staying calm. As if talking to a mentally challenged person instead of saying “are you crazy that’s my son” she calmly says “it’s not like that please don’t be mad” absolutely sad relationship and the fact that he can’t see anything wrong his words and theory about his own baby stealing his wife from him makes me wonder how this man got this far in life in the first place
I kept trying to remind myself that he is possibly violent, and that is probably why she didn't stick up for herself.
Abusers are extremely manipulative and end up controlling a lot of your assets if you end up in a relationship with one. It's so sad to see people taking advantage of others' open-heartedness and trust. :(
I'm like why she married him where no better options how did they bang and have no protection or something or she didn't see the red flag aling the way
As a child of two adults that came pretty close to that I despise that woman for having a baby with this man, if she indeed have been dealing with him for quite some time. Being a victim does not excuse her condeming another innocent human being to that kind of abuse.
this guy being stillborn would have been better
not only is jealously of your newborn scary, but the fact he views breastfeeding as incest is crazy because he’s telling on himself as viewing breastfeeding as something sexual
THIS >>>>>>
P0rn has really rotten people's brain
Know what’s crazy? This can also happen to mothers after childbirth. It can be a symptom of postpartum depression or psychosis. Mothers can start to see their child with jealousy and disassociate from their own child, cutting off all positive emotion from them. Freaking scary.
Not sure what this dude’s excuse is- he doesn’t suffer from hormonal shifting or physical trauma of birth so… he must just have regular psychosis LOL.
Imagine having two kids from this man and after read this kind of bullshit
Feeling so sorry for that woman