So well said. They just don’t care about you. Every thing they do no matter how kind it may seem is actually designed to benefit them in some way. One time after I said how sweet the narcissists I knew actions were toward me she said, “I didn’t do it for you, I did it so I could get you out of the house so I could get some peace.” Ironic considering peace is not something a narcissist will ever give you. Don’t walk, but run, run away from these people!
You can never have a deep conversation with one of those people, it's always shallow or rehearsed. And of all things, that's what really snapped me out of the fog i was in. It was all fake.
Yes, it’s all a game and a show. And they are the only contestant, you might as well not be there. You don’t matter to them other than what you can give them.
😠 Absolutely. This is infuriating and it pretty much silenced me for two decades. Talking LOUDLY over me and at me. And the kids (now 19 and 24) also. Disrespectful AF. And ofcourse twists the entire thing to make himself the victim… And yes , lol, we all do occasionally when we are talking excitedly about something …and when I catch myself doing this I feel gross even though it’s not the same intent as my husband..
Or because they know they can't easily gaslight you into believing something different, because when you believe something to be the truth, you stick to it.
When I was 20, I was completely ignorant to the subject and I kind of perceived this behavior as normal, furthermore I fell into the gaslighting that I was overly sensitive and felt as if there was something wrong with me instead. I wish your work will reach to as many as possible especially younger one's as it can save them many years of suffering. ❤
See now I have cut the narcissist off. I call a “friend” to talk about my issue, and she goes into the same story about her life that I would hear every conversation. So yes I have cut her off. 35 years. If she had not started stating how rude I was for not giving her as much money as she thought I should give her, I might never have discovered she was a narcissist and what that meant.
They do not care about environmental issues, have no hobbies, interests, and zero consideration in emotional IQ, mental health...nada...macro interests are a learned concern ..requires insight and empathy..if you meet a person and the just litter ..I'm telling ya..you'll be litter..not always..littering is a big thing on first meeting .I'm serious ,..
@@manbearpig7950 we are litter..that's actually the first huge red flag..I got the nerve to confront her listen to her delusional excuse then bring her right back to her apartment..I've. Done it...the littering was bad, the excuse was cosmic disorientation and she has been saying that gas explosion since she had dirty diapers...as she exited car the smerk contempt and the" I hope you enjoy your day, I will" slam...crap all this was perfect...
It's the smug glib " I'm above all" trait of me, " how do I get rid of her fast" thought we keep in our head cause our intuition knows not to argue with a litterer type person...cause there's a heck of a lot more going than littering in that 3'yo brain and you will soon be their litter. Trust me on this one folks it's so simple to see her our eyes are in the body, tight jeans, what ever basically the " shiney object "
Yes I have this too , except he turns up the tv in the middle of me talking about something that’s important to me , now I just don’t bother talking ..
Because if you do the same to them (interrupt them while they're speaking, and speaking, and speaking......) They'll throw a nuclear dumpster-fire meltdown tantrum, to punish you for such audacity to interrupt "The Speaker of the House". But of course they can interrupt you at will.
But why not do the same thing to them? Why should we care? ASAP go no contact safety. If you can’t do no contact thing then distance yourself from them and use the gray rock technique. Always be careful around them as they have no empathy and can be very dangerous. Stay safe. I believe it’s possible to push back and give them a taste of their own medicine. Be happy. And reward yourself often with lots of self care. Let’s not let them walk all over us anymore.
In modern times it is advised to say much less to others, especially to insecure manipulators who are only gathering ammo to use against you later. Dark days are here, and I warned of this slippery slope for 3 decades.
I have stopped tal.king at all. He especially hates qurstions. Hhe tells me somethi g I told him an hour ago with😮no memlry tnat I😢said tne same thi g an😢hour ago😢😮
They H*TE questions and especially "why" questions. My ex would go ballistic over "why". It forces them to look at themselves, their actions, their motives and they don't like what they see.
Its bcuz they couldn't care less ...they are not interested in what you have to say 🙄 nor do they want to listen ... silly wabbit They just want a captive audience to hear themselves talk
They also want to distract you from the words you wanted to say
So well said. They just don’t care about you. Every thing they do no matter how kind it may seem is actually designed to benefit them in some way. One time after I said how sweet the narcissists I knew actions were toward me she said, “I didn’t do it for you, I did it so I could get you out of the house so I could get some peace.” Ironic considering peace is not something a narcissist will ever give you. Don’t walk, but run, run away from these people!
I once asked my ex if she would ever cheat on me? She said "It would not be for you! It would be for my own integrity" crazy!
Hence why "WE" as a society really need to identify and remove narcissism from politics.
You can never have a deep conversation with one of those people, it's always shallow or rehearsed. And of all things, that's what really snapped me out of the fog i was in. It was all fake.
Yes, it’s all a game and a show. And they are the only contestant, you might as well not be there. You don’t matter to them other than what you can give them.
Surface Level City.
Advanced calculus is much much easier to deal with compared to dealing with a narcissist .. calculus is logical ..
😠 Absolutely. This is infuriating and it pretty much silenced me for two decades. Talking LOUDLY over me and at me. And the kids (now 19 and 24) also. Disrespectful AF. And ofcourse twists the entire thing to make himself the victim…
And yes , lol, we all do occasionally when we are talking excitedly about something …and when I catch myself doing this I feel gross even though it’s not the same intent as my husband..
They also cut you off and talk over you whenever they do not want to take responsibility for something you are addressing.
Or because they know they can't easily gaslight you into believing something different, because when you believe something to be the truth, you stick to it.
Mine interrupted me to chip away at my confidence. For a while I spoke haltingly expecting to be interrupted. Sick.
Constantly tripping over themselves to be competitive. Silly fools!
My mom does this all the time bc she doesn't care what I have to say. My dad same way. Both Scorpios. Evil as hell.
Boomers, right?
Yup, full of double, triple and quadruple standards.
When I was 20, I was completely ignorant to the subject and I kind of perceived this behavior as normal, furthermore I fell into the gaslighting that I was overly sensitive and felt as if there was something wrong with me instead. I wish your work will reach to as many as possible especially younger one's as it can save them many years of suffering. ❤
See now I have cut the narcissist off. I call a “friend” to talk about my issue, and she goes into the same story about her life that I would hear every conversation. So yes I have cut her off. 35 years. If she had not started stating how rude I was for not giving her as much money as she thought I should give her, I might never have discovered she was a narcissist and what that meant.
They do not care about environmental issues, have no hobbies, interests, and zero consideration in emotional IQ, mental health...nada...macro interests are a learned concern ..requires insight and empathy..if you meet a person and the just litter ..I'm telling ya..you'll be litter..not always..littering is a big thing on first meeting .I'm serious ,..
@@davidemm829 ha, you're right, They're big litter bugs.
@@manbearpig7950 we are litter..that's actually the first huge red flag..I got the nerve to confront her listen to her delusional excuse then bring her right back to her apartment..I've. Done it...the littering was bad, the excuse was cosmic disorientation and she has been saying that gas explosion since she had dirty diapers...as she exited car the smerk contempt and the" I hope you enjoy your day, I will" slam...crap all this was perfect...
It's the smug glib " I'm above all" trait of me, " how do I get rid of her fast" thought we keep in our head cause our intuition knows not to argue with a litterer type person...cause there's a heck of a lot more going than littering in that 3'yo brain and you will soon be their litter. Trust me on this one folks it's so simple to see her our eyes are in the body, tight jeans, what ever basically the " shiney object "
When I would try to have a conversation while driving, he would always turn up the radio.
Yes I have this too , except he turns up the tv in the middle of me talking about something that’s important to me , now I just don’t bother talking ..
wow Danielle, you seriously cover all the points 🤍
Because if you do the same to them (interrupt them while they're speaking, and speaking, and speaking......)
They'll throw a nuclear dumpster-fire meltdown tantrum, to punish you for such audacity to interrupt "The Speaker of the House".
But of course they can interrupt you at will.
Happy to have come across this channel! Thank you Danielle!
I have a new female friend....oh she is a narc...even gets mad if I won't do things on her schedule
That is not a friend, she is using you to shore up her shakey self esteem. It will get worse.
@@arsenelupiniii8040 I have already disengaged. I know better now
But why not do the same thing to them? Why should we care? ASAP go no contact safety. If you can’t do no contact thing then distance yourself from them and use the gray rock technique. Always be careful around them as they have no empathy and can be very dangerous. Stay safe. I believe it’s possible to push back and give them a taste of their own medicine. Be happy. And reward yourself often with lots of self care. Let’s not let them walk all over us anymore.
“Pocket” 👀🤣🤣
So helpful
In modern times it is advised to say much less to others, especially to insecure manipulators who are only gathering ammo to use against you later. Dark days are here, and I warned of this slippery slope for 3 decades.
Great videos 🎉. Beautiful woman 🎉
Acctually, it is very good indicator, red flag if you wish
Thanx❤
Is there such thing as chemistry for a narrssist ?
I have stopped tal.king at all. He especially hates qurstions. Hhe tells me somethi g I told him an hour ago with😮no memlry tnat I😢said tne same thi g an😢hour ago😢😮
They H*TE questions and especially "why" questions. My ex would go ballistic over "why". It forces them to look at themselves, their actions, their motives and they don't like what they see.
💯💥🎯
Its bcuz they couldn't care less ...they are not interested in what you have to say 🙄 nor do they want to listen ...
silly wabbit
They just want a captive audience to hear themselves talk