Your friends and family are haters.. they are in denial of who you actually are!!
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God is in Control. It's a lonely path. It's so much evil in this world. It's like being stuck in an abusive relationship. You just have to go your own way.
It doesn't help when society tells us that we are the problem with their VICTIM BLAMING (AKA "you're a codependent!") about emulating supposedly our upbringing. (I am possibly coming out of believing this theory anymore!)
PREACH Brotha🙏👑💎
So true
@@AZDC99 too many labels, indeed!
Very true
MY FAMILY WAS NEVER "FAMILY." IN FACT, THEY TREATED ME WORSE THAN ANYONE. FAMILY IS A SPIRITUAL CONNECTION TO LIKE-MINDED PEOPLE WHO HAVE THE INSPIRATION AND DRIVE TO MAKE THINGS BETTER. I CUT THE CORD WITH THEM ALL; NO BOND; IT IS A TRUE FREEDOM TO BE LOOSED FROM THE CONCEPT THAT THEY WERE FAMILY. :) TU FOR THE VIDEO!!
SABOTAGE IS THE MAIN MO IN MY RELATIVES GAME. THEY LOVE THE "ESSENSE OF PAIN." LEAVE THEM IN THE REARVIEW MIRROR AND DON'T LOOK BACK. :) YOU'RE TOUGH JESSI!
Absolutely 💯💯
Same
Family is now the F word to me
@@denisehorn8780 like that statement 💯
They consider me the black sheep while Ive conquered & accomplished more than all of them put together🤨
Exactly...
Amen 🙏
Yess!!🙏
I think it is hard to accept that your own family can turn on you. They can. I'm a witness to it. I don't really have an attachment and pray for them. I cannot control how they act. I can only control myself.
Join the club, buddy. Sad how their True feelings are revealed.
Same boat, you can't change how people think, no matter how much you plead, beg, solidify your case, they will judge, lie, gaslight and eventually ghost....saddest thing I've ever been through.
Same boat. Plus friends.
That's my experience too, it's really hard for me to comprehend, I still struggle at times. Detaching my feelings from family has been one of the biggest and saddest challenges in my life. There's comfort in seeing I'm not alone though.
I think we all have to make a life changing decisions 😔
If tha Devil can't touch ya , he sends a narc bro, it never ends.
I think I was meant to lose everyone...I was headed in a direction I never intended to take, now I'm in a position to head in the direction I've always wanted to go....yesterday's curse is today's blessing.
That's an atitude: a proactive one. Heading where you want to go,not being where someone decide you should be at...
Amen
From glory to glory... yes
I Just clapped for you. Love it! I am in the Exact same Boat , Wise words!!!
Thank you for that analogy!🙏😃💞
Yes! They try to mirror their rollercoaster of emotions and daily world ending dramas on you and once they see they've brought you down, then their suddenly happy. Using you as an emotional garbage can.
Chosen ones will always prevail no matter what type of hater, Thank you Joe for making these videos to know us chosen ones are not alone
everyone is a chosen one though
Stronger Sharper Solar
We accept the invitation
@@bettermanchannel770 hey what is your channel about
@@jayddenasensoasare1170 men becoming sovereign, finding their own voice outside of the "norms" of societal conditioning. A traditional view on being a strong, sharp, solar man.
That is why JESUS said, if you cannot deny your mother, father, brothers, and sister you are not worthy of me. Follow GOD, not men. What matter is what GOD said, not men. This is how I stand and never disappointed.
Well said that is so true i am fine with that. Families and friends can be your worthest enemy's.
@@chosengirl3101 honor mother (holy spirit) and father (Yah).
Children obey parents. Adults obey their father in heaven.
Matthew 12:46-50
Matthew 23:9
Wow, I never fully understood why Jesus demanded that until now, makes perfect sense. Thank you for sharing.
I had to get a grip!!!! AND they don’t even see they wrongdoings at all!!! So sad and scary!
@@chosengirl3101 A narcissist parent sadly are led by the devil. You can't honor that, you first have to honor God. And you have to love the narc parent from a far.
My whole family are straight up haters to the core🤦🏾♂️😒!! They don't like the changes that's happening in my life and so they feel like I'm supposed to be crying because they don't call or come visit me like I'm suppose to care🤣🤣🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️!!!
haha, that's right, no fucks given! Keep doing you, do not worry about those cockroaches
And then you stop paying attention to them and they get mad and send the whole world to stalk you gosh I wish they’d just leave me alone! 🙉
@@nomstar1956 hehe, yes, weird!
Same here smh ..I don't even give a a dam about those decepticons no more...sad tho
@@matej9255 💯💯‼‼🔥🔥
Family can be the biggest haters, especially if you're the chosen one. If you're the one to break generational curses, they hate you. If you're chosen, family will secretly compete with you. If you're chosen you have to find your tribe outside of so-called family. You have to pray and connect to divine connections. Stranger's will support you more than family. Regardless be discerning of who you allow in your life. And continue to shine! 🙏🏼✨
I hear ya
Yep I have had several issues with my mum. She's actually toxic . She thinks she has the right to treat me like shit, then denies it. I have called out her bad behaviour every time. I'm starting to think she never actually even knew who I am. Respect from Australia 🇦🇺
They think they are so important but in reality their value is low …they also think if they treat u with contempt u will feel bad and come running bac to them…thank God I know who I am n who I will become…I just can’t take them seriously…I just laugh when they start the mind games.
My mom being against everything I am since I was a kid is how I learned not to give af what anybody thinks about me.
PS looking clean with the haircut brother
same I'm 56 - she thinks I'm 12 - narcissistic AF
Dude I just realized @ 28yr my mom was my bully, always judging my appearance, running my gf's away(calling them ugly/lil hoes), spreading rumors throughout the family ect.
@@kreed445 same here man. going no contact is the only way
Stay chosen men, warrior mentality
yup - 3 years now
They deny your greatness, but your greatness speaks for itself.. they love to observe you, especially when you're not aware but you catch them looking. They won't acknowledge that which they secretly admire in you in case they add to your happiness, we wouldn't wanna do that now would we? If they notice you're happy or there's a good vibe coming from you they'll try their best to ignore you and act like they don't notice whilst inside they are seething.. these narcs, snakes, demons in flesh. They are your parent, your partner, your child, coworker, neighbour.. they are everywhere.. im sick of them at this point.
So true, well said!
Well said im sick of it too smh
Freaking can't stop crying about this....fcking heart hurts...love you Angelman, thank you...much love to this beautiful tribe of souls♥️
Yup 💯🙏🏽😤🖤
@@kisigma1011 🔥♥️🔥
Facts my family can't be trusted no more they all actors really fake behind my back and smile in my face ...and recruit new ppl to hate on me aswell
My mother tried to assasinate my character!! While giving me advice on how to be a great person!!!!
I just had a feeling as a kid they were never who they said they were. Now everything is so confirmed. They know I have a life threatening illness and still treat me like crap.
@Deedee Neri Sorry to hear about your life threatening illness. I wish you all the best! 👍 Greetings from The Netherlands. 🤗
@Terry Thank you for your videos and all the best to you too! Greetz. 👌
I dealt with this energy from my own mother you are enough forgive them for yourself
Jesus Christ makes all things new.
They are monsters ignore those clowns... Peace and love.
There are a lot of channels about narcissistic abuse, but you bring something unique to the table, Terry. You're way more open about yourself than any therapist, and it's really cool to see authenticity and no prepared script, this gives you a special credibility. I also have to say you're looking very healthy, so being banned from the gym over the jab hasn't hurt you one bit. In fact, I have to wonder if it wasn't some kind of blessing in disguise. Keep up the great work, I appreciate who you are and the path you've chosen.
He's the straight truth. Just the video title alone let me know that I'm dealing with my situation even though I'm 48 years old and live away from the toxic HATERS across the country from me
@Kira Barsmith I came across this channel hours ago, and it’s so calming/reassuring to know that I’m not alone. These videos calm me down. In a world as cold as stone w a satanic family, it’s like God’s light struck me and said it’s okay, everything’s gonna be okay. This channel is a blessing. I’m writing this w watery eyes. I have nobody.
@Kira Barsmith , I’ve been there for former gf’s / friends / people to tell them it’s okay, everything’s gonna be okay. I’ve filled other peoples lives with hope and warmth, but what happens when I’m alone, cold in spirit, and lost in direction? Who’s gonna be there for me when I need to be told that everything’s going to be okay? Any of my ex gf’s? Hell no. They were snakes. God. That’s who. God always helps you find a way.
Once again great lesson brother. I had to let go of everyone
Finding freedom! Stay chosen
Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. 14 But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it.
Welcome to the club bro! It's a lonely road when you are able to see through fake ass society & people
I'm in the middle of this process myself. Part of LETTING GO of people is letting the flying monkeys attack you for the reaction to the transgression of course instead of the actual transgression itself. I just TAKE THE L in those cases and don't even fight for relationships like THOSE anymore! No more defending myself against people like those. Because they were NEVER LISTENING in the first place (I found with 20/20 hindsight). Evidently they were just looking for another reason to feel smug and "superior" (whether they realize it or not)
Let them hate. We chosen ones will become great
They going treat me great or move over I'm no longer dealing with those types of disrespectful people 💯
That’s really sad, these ppl wanna project their sickness to others. Appreciate you Joe, fresh cut big dog!
They always got something negative to say to you smh like how miserable who can be jeez!!!
@@LoveGod1987 I’m saying bro, that’s why u gotta keep these kinda ppl as far away possible yo
@@treexkzknaxkz you’re right…. I’m working on it man
Humans are not perfect and have flaws. Many times family and friends will not accept us even if we are our highest version and treat them with respect and love. As long as you focus on your divine nature and purpose then all will be good. With or without them you will succeed on your own time line and should not need any approvals from others. Just God and yourself
Screen-shotting and saving. Thank you wise one.
@@melissap9416 your very welcome!!
Well said
@@AsheetingBull thank you! 😊
Dare To Be Different….Chosen Ones..❤️🔥💯💥🌞
I was forever being judged and nothing that I did or was, was ever good enough or accepted I felt so out of place around my family as if they were just tolerating me. I finally decided to cut ties with them all because I wanted to stay true to myself. I could not stay around them because as you have stated they were more like my haters than anything else. So anyway I have learnt to live without them and I don't care what they think of me. I also did not do well in school because I didn't like the system I still don't even as an adult. I ended up dropping out . Anyway Good video. Peace 🙏
School is a broken system, don’t let that stop you from real learning though. I dropped out of college twice but taught myself engineering and started my own business. It takes time, maybe years, but keep learning using audible and RUclips and believe in yourself and you’ll be 10x better than a college graduate!
@@anthonyc5039wow. Good on you! & Thankyou for the words of encouragement. 🙂
Your stream of consciousness is unparalleled to anyone else I've seen on this platform. Watching you drop truth bombs about deep topics as they come into your mind, is similar to watching a talented soloist musician improvising. #much_respect
Well said. I agree!
Thanks Terry. They can't believe that God lifted me out of where they wanted me to be. Sad. We are supposed to edify each other and they belittle.
for real man it hurts when my cousins ignored my existence....but oh well fuck it if they don't like me i don't have to like them.
They don't have to exist to you
They want us to be them…
Exactly
@@JESUSISGREATEST and they want to be us!
3:05 "If you want to SUCCEED anywhere in this world, you got to get away from these people. Or ELSE they will hold you back!" I know exactly what you mean here. Sabotage is what it's all about and it's not so subconscious anymore as I used to assume. It's definitely a pre-calculated plan of theirs, 20/20 hindsight
They are strangers I met alone the way, family or friends don't behave like this. I don't know these people 😕
Man…it’s like you are speaking to me when you say you are pass these people and you are way younger…Smfh, I am retiring from the Airforce in four months at age 39, and I told my family and it’s been nothing but negative comments. And I finally realized that they are in denial of the level I have attained. They never expected me to be successful. I guess they thought the “educated” siblings where the only ones that’s suppose to be successful. “Educated” children walking around with no less than 40-50K in student loans while still thinking they are above me haha. I went to UMUC while in the military got my degree and had it all paid for by the military. Even when I tell them this it’s like they refuse to accept it, and this shit is been lead by my narcissistic stepmom. I truly didn’t realize how much of a narc she was until I went on leave recently and they realized I wasn’t joking about retirement and everything was all good. Yeah so trust and believe I know what you are talking about when you say family will be haters. All my family friends have been congratulating me and saying all positive things except my own damn “family” shit was a real eye opener.
Enjoy your retirement bro. Kick your feet up and laugh into the sunset as they slave their pathetic lives away💪✊🏾✊🏾
@@Onikag 😂😂😂😂. I will chuckle on the inside a little. But over all it’s sad and unfortunate that it’s like this. I appreciate the congrats! Blessings to you!
“It is impossible to live without failing at something, unless you live so cautiously that you might as well not have lived at all - in which case, you fail by default.” - J.K. Rowling
💜 Heart-Based Manifestation RUclipsr
A diamond in the rough!
Like the haircut and clothes
100% they the "monitoring spirits"
Just a reminder: Don’t let something like this be the motive to your life, as in don’t let this gangstalking encumber you from doing something. Clear your mind and do something freely with your own free will, having this drive your daily life is subconsciously controlling people and they don’t even realize it.
I have to come to grips with the fact I have no friends. Sooner I can get that in my thick skull the better off i will be. Family is different but still... We can choose to not speak to family if need be.
It so hard to be Christian and have destructive parents. I tried to honor them to honor God and now I see gods heart would not want me to be hurt.
The school system wasn't for me either Terry 😉 There are many people who do well academically but not so much in the school of life if you get what I'm saying. Meanwhile some of the most successful people didn't further their education in academia, but perfected their craft and became millionaires.
I’ve had to detach as well. It’s been a long excruciating process but I’m finding myself again. I never lost myself fully, but I definitely was forced to be my lower self instead of my higher self during trying times and that was holding me back. It’s gonna take a while but they will see us rise. That is their karma for judging us.
It's hard to accept but if u are a chosen 1 u will be tormented hated turned on etc. Family friends etc. When u have nothing left to loose what do u got to loose? They should be scared. Of you. U got the father who art I. Heaven. Good video
You're a gift to humanity ❤️🌹🙏
Can't go outside, narcs and drunks all over the place. From their view I'm "rich". I totally sympathise with too many people. Voluntary home-jail, never talking to "friends" because I'm bored or whatever.
Dude, how do you be knowing this shit? You're spot TF on. Continue Courageously
We can never place responsibility on anyone else for our growth, stay strong
That's why some narcissists attract the Jezebel spirit. Look up RUclips videos about the Jezebel it's real out here yo.
Narcissists are the jezebel spirit.
I will look that up thanks!
Oh well, they will learn and I always forgive but never forget.
💯 Constantly Wanna Find How to make me Look Bad . I Dnt Even talk to this people. But still plotting and Scheming . Doing the most to make me look BaD when their actions clearly show that they are the Bad ones.
Commander personality like me, we self educate, absorb the info and move on. I don't like to be brainwashed into a belief or system, I want to know the loopholes and see behind the curtain to expose who is trying to destroy humanity.
All that right there, all that you just wrote, is the exact reason I ended up on a stupid gangstalking list....be careful which curtains you pull...
@@ricardotheronan5885 honey I been a victim of gangstalking since 2017 stood for monuments in NOLA and exposed the paid agitators by our Mayor in NOLA and him using grant and tourism grants to fund it. I ran for state office and got to many votes after being completely censored during the campaign. I have had actual sabatoge and threats to my life, bullet in my roof. I am PAST FEAR. Standing firm these idiots don't scare me anymore. Just want to make me look crazy and discredit research and exposure and guess what? They can't. It all stands and I have sufferred documented harrasment by the DNC. I just continue documenting until some of our DOJ gets off their @$$ and do their job and arrest them.
@@Rainylanealone glad you know how to handle yourself, best of luck to you in your fight!
@@ricardotheronan5885 thank you sir. Same to you. We must stand or our country falls.
@@Rainylanealone Inspiring to read your comments, thank you for being a true patriot.
This is crazy because I think about this every single day before I watched this video.
Terry joel is like the big brother of the narc victims youtube community. 👍🙏🏻🧿😇💖
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Sharp cut bro, and good lesson for young adults to be mindful of when feeling the need to be validated by F&F
Our frequencies change and away we go. Or our frequency with them was never on the same station lol. I have zero energy for them. Great video. 👍
Big facts 💯🔥,Nice haircut
Speak on it! I had ''friends'' turn on me and they ended up being Narcissist.. God is in control and he is my protector. I am so thankful they are out of my life.
YOUR FAMILY IS YOUR WORST ENEMY. AND DON'T YOU EVER FORGET IT
That's exactly what I figured and felt.... it's like I have risen from the dead and they want me back in the grave...... I had no idea just how deep the 🐇 rabbit hole was and how many years ago they started digging it...
If we are truly on the right track, in due time God will affirm it in a moment when you are not looking for it.
Your point about going past the point where they threw in the towel is so true. This is exactly what happened to me, being on their level way younger, being rejected etc. I was 14 when I realised I had to get way, I was 17 when I managed it. You have obviously undergone a major psychological-spiritual awakening. It's refreshing to hear things like this coming from a guy who is also built. It confounds stereotyping in a cool way.
I live this everyday. Keep up the great work man.
10 And with all deceivableness of unrighteousness in them that perish; because they received not the love of the truth, that they might be saved.
11 And for this cause God shall send them strong delusion, that they should believe a lie:
12 That they all might be damned who believed not the truth, but had pleasure in unrighteousness.
13 But we are bound to give thanks alway to God for you, brethren beloved of the Lord, because God hath from the beginning chosen you to salvation through sanctification of the Spirit and belief of the truth:
14 Whereunto he called you by our gospel, to the obtaining of the glory of our Lord Jesus Christ.
2 Thessalonians 2 (KJV)
Nice cut. Love the vids. Chosen can relate
I agree with everything you said I appreciate champ keep going strong salute to u I’m here with you I go through it heavy I’m in Cali I think it’s 10x worse out here but stay solid you shining like the eastern star thank you bro
You're right about this brethren. JESUS CHRIST OUR LORD AND SAVIOUR will protect you through all things. Peace Be With You
Your videos are inspiring, Joe. And reading the comments shows you've attracted a cool audience. It would be a blast to see you and all these people in the flesh, what a good time us chosen ones would have together. Cheers!
THE CHOSEN seek the true north of living
Yup been dealing with this problem for several years....I finally started cutting them out...slowly and in silence...too bad for them...I'm so done! I spend money on exercise equipment....everybody has their thing...
So glad I found your channel your words are a strong blessing. I hope you know that you are helping ppl to see the truth. Blessings to you and your family.
bro im 35 or 36 i lost count .. ive been in the scriptures for the last 7 years now nd I Am homeless .. u suddenly came on my youtube feed like about a year ago .. and you are always on point with yo videos .. i honestly feel like giving up at this point .. all i have is God .. i dont know my point in this stat but i do appreciate yo work .. blessings to u .. amen
UMMM....”Can you not just feel what you feel and vibe with yourself?!” 🤣🤣🤣
That is the truth! My mom and grandfather were who raised me and taught me how to be compassionate and put God first and help everyone. They have passed on from this hell and I don't have anyone but God 🙏 sending you love, prayers and healing. I don't listen to my Dad when he calls me a worthless POS but I draw the line when he tells my kids that. You are awesome 😎 chosen survivors are few 👑💯 wear your crown king and slay everything they throw at you.💯
I am sooo thankful for your positivity. And your courage to try to help others.
The favor of The Lord upon my life is causing even the enemy to celebrate my success. I'm flourishing in all areas of my life for the PRESENCE of the Lord is with me.❤❤❤🎻
I believe in you brother! Watching this video shows me that you have humbled yourself and come to terms with the reality we are faced with everyday. I find myself in similar situations and seek inner strength to overcome the obstacles that lay in front of us. All I can tell you is that there is a beautiful world out there on the other side of success. So many are content just being average, I can’t get behind that and never will.
Wow!!!!! Powerfully True!!!! I'm going to keep on doing what I gotta do!!! They are pissed!!!! I've known more bad ones than good ones. Thanks for this talk!!!!
Yes they are as was I in time it will all sort out for the best. Thanks Joe for the video.
Real talk bro 💯
I guess I'm one of those lucky few who has a great family. My brother, sisters and parents are the only people who have not screwed me over.
Wonderful going No Contact with my family and having to listen to all their lies about me. BEST THING I EVER DID FOR MYSELF. I so agree with all the other comments and I liked them all. I agree with one said. When we pick our own family - we pick spiritual people (so true- these folks are turly family) who are in their hearts and who can lift us up rather than put us down.
Yep..they will overlook anything you achieve and count you out.
Your energy and the vibrations are soothing and you're sending out illuminating information. Yes Terry, it's draining being able hear what one thinking and saying being empathic. Not stable very dark. Thank you for adding to my understanding.
I Really Appreciate What You Do Terry 🔥
Me and my Dad are (were) Christians. My mom and 2 brothers Hated it. Just before Dad past my 74 yr old mother punched me in the face!!! I was banished and didn't get to say goodbye to my best friend. If one of my brothers shit the bed because they were Dying.......she would be HAPPY to clean Them right up. Instead I get it. Everyone disappeared that day. I am alone but it's for the best I understand
you aren't alone. at least not in spirit
We have the 1.st power to ignore the bad things coming out from their mouth. We just have to keep it growing.
They are down with the sickness no doubt
I don't like being around people who give me a bad feeling.
They keep stalking me and I have them ALL blocked! I pray they just leave me alone! Always trying to mess with my peace! I just want to move where they can’t even find me! ❤️🙏🏾
We are our own entity Although we're closed off from the normal us black sheep stick together
They gather themselves together against the soul of the righteous and condemn the innocent blood. But the LORD is my defense and my GOD is the rock of my refuge. [Psalm 94, V. 21, 22]
Matthew 7:6. Don’t give holy things to dogs, and don’t throw your pearls in front of pigs. They will stomp on the pearls, then turn around and attack you “
It's great to see others who relate on this channel thank you again for calling them types out it's refreshing to know there's others like that but not hiding it anymore.
Terry Joe you already know Big facts
Thank you ever so much like I have said many times before please know the upcoming youth will be grateful as they come into this awareness and the ones who were unaware and choose to be awake they all will always Thank you, I feel though lol you speak directly to me and I know what you mean, and I thank you for your time and goodness in your content, Many Thanks warmest Regards to you and everyone here best wishes Nameste
THIS young man looks SOOO YOUNG butt I think he's A VERY WISE OLD SOUL, GOD BLESS U & YESS SOOO MANY PEOPLE ARE IN DENIAL OVER THIS VACCINE and THE TRUTH !!!
KEEP MAKING VIDEOS, ENJOY THEM & THEY, YOU MAKE A DIFFERENCE
I went with my family. And there with me today. People really need to move on. THANK YOU.
Thank You so much for sharing!! You are a motivator, speaker, healer. I had a situation today like they won’t admit things! Whatever, I know who I am. It sucks when it’s family! I am on my way…
You look good buddy