Success Breeds Jealousy | Trent Shelton
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- Опубликовано: 2 окт 2024
- Many people hate on you because they want what you have. Success breeds jealousy -- that's just facts. When you come from the same environment as someone else, your life reminds them of what they don't have. You keep doing the work and grinding. Shake off the haters because they have the same ability as you to get to where they want to be.
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Your biggest haters are your friends and family… your biggest fans are strangers
No, this is not always true. Strangers are nice to you because they don't know you that well. Give it time. As soon as they know you at a deeper level, they will start being jealous if you have what they don't have or if they think they are not doing better than you. Heck there are successful people who are jealous of people who are not as successful as them but are improving or having something good going on in their lives😅. These strangers, if they become close enough, will start comparing their lives to yours. Everyone experiences jealousy to a certain level. Jealousy is a human trait. However many are mature enough to be able to handle it in a healthy way and learn to be grateful for their own lives and be happy for others.
This is very true! It’s because you family and friends saw you through the growth from being the average guy like them to being great. They want to know why it didn’t happen to them as they grew up in the same environment, etc.
Strangers i know better hate me.
@@GadisBaliLivesAbroad in the meantime try to destroy other peoples lives.. Im sure that sounds familiar.
When they are jealous,it only means you are doing something right.
It's going to be alright
That hits home
Yep
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You're absolutely right they can't hate you for nothing it gotta be something about you or something you have to make them hate it irritates their demons and it makes them realize their short comings on something they could have done great.
They dont like others succeeding or doing better than them..they worship the two horned ugly goat, these demons reside within them...hence they conspire manipulate and lose ......while we with pure intentions always win.
Hating on other people's sucess meaning you aren't working for your life.
Yes, because nobody in life has time to such behavoir and hate because of lazyness has no excuse? plus abuse can slow down life to a stall for some using their own issues not related to Jealousy on others adding more insult to injuries confusing it because of a fight triggered with no reason and allready fixed a jealousy trip last week. then the family doesn't have a clue what is going on and solving it is immediate and prompt but not taken care of kind of lost in the back unsolved.
. this is where the loss of Family Bonding is dismantling and needs to be cought solved wile its still fresh. with out notice simply meaning being care full and the L-O-V-E that use to be so helpful in solving issues faded in to the darkness eventually Gone with no more repare left over. Jealousy should be a top issue because it can destroy all.
It usually means you are trying.
Thosee people are clowns😂😂😂
Family/Friends are always the biggest haters & non-supporters
Facts
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Thats because as “family” the social norm is to stick together when we come into earth as animals.. once a bird leaves the nest you never see it return.! Period!
Crazy
You ain’t never lied! It’s the strangers that will clap for you & NOT fam (in some cases). What a’shame Smh
They hate me and I have nothing! At work, in the neighborhood, my hometown and every other town I move to, at the stores, appointments, Family, friends, Schools,church and Everywhere!! I’ve never been supported no matter what I do!! BUT GOD IS MY STRENGTH AND MY REFUGE!! THANK YOU JESUS THAT IM NOT ALONE!! GLORY TO HIS NAME IN THE HIGHEST PRAISE!!!!
All because you start loving yourself these decepticons hate that with a passion success breeds jealousy 😭😭🤣🤣😎😎
A lot of people get jealous when you are successful.
They hate it because they still trying to figure out how you got out the same place they still stuck in
🎯 💯 TRUTH!
If your unsuccessful; people hate
Of your successful; people hate
Conclusion; as long as you love yourself, your good. Keep going !! ❤
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But some people don't see jealousy When they actually have a vision
Often when you understand the psychology of a hater, you'll realize that it has absolutely nothing to do with you. The hater is confused, insecure and actually hates themselves; and is just looking for someone else to unload the heavy load they are carrying, so they can feel better. That's pretty sad.
You make a good point.
Maybe they even subconsciously believe you can be the one to help them, cos its very tied into a reflector of whatever it is that they are stuck on.
That's the essence of crying. It's a form of signalling. Splashing in the water for something to grab.
@@samotivationbysami i love myself. You are not doing well because of you, your doing it from other peoples expense... No i could never be jealous. Please.. You have been nothing but a joke as far as im concerned
@@Kelli-e3i “At other people’s expense”?? What’s wrong with receiving help??
…Just asking and trying to understand your view.
People just naturally jealous I ignore them ..keep focusing on me ...after awhile they will fade away
just keep walking.
This is me the more I started focusing on me everyone faded
Your biggest haters are the people that tell you how happy they are for you
“If I was in their shoes, I’d be a hater too.”🎤🎤🎤
My biggest support is from strangers but you taught me that before I saw it. I don't even look to people I know for support, because I know that's not where I'll get it from. ❤
Yep
It’s easy for strangers to support because they don’t know you to hate. 😂 I get it.
*Jealously reminds them of what they don't have and what they wont do*
POWERFUL!
Whatever energy comes to you give back the energy of Kindness and empathy
People want to see you do well, they never want to see you do better than them.
I don’t care where I’ve ever been in life. I’ve never ever hated or been jealous of anyone. I’ve always felt what is for me is for me. I’m genuinely grateful for what I have and always wish the best for others. I don’t compete with anyone but myself
I'm the same.
Same
It’s the only way: celebrate others, celebrate y’self. We’re all in this together, be the party.
Amen!
Speaking facts that’s why I stay to myself and move in silence 💯💯
This❤ I have been blessed so much in the past year it’s ridiculous! I have shared it with no one❤
Yop and you gotta be careful around these haters they will hurt you ..thanks for the video it's helping me
When they envy you they will point out every mistake you make because they are mad you didn't play it safe like they did.
Friends are more likely to rise to envy. You started from the same place.
And family.
Stay away from friends who are always looking for you to give them a 'Hookup' but will never try to put in the work themselves
Success is very subjective. Everyone has their own definition of success bc what one person sees as success may not mean the same thing to another person. Always work on yourself and compete against your self to achieve better for yourself. Never compare yourself to others because everyone’s journey and purpose in life is different.
I am a genuine cheerleader as I like see folk rise above their circumstances, better themselves & win. It’s insane to me to even comprehend that there are individuals who are extremely troubled when you have a level up mindset and are striving to get ahead. Huh??? And even more disturbing, it is often someone in your camp or individuals who have close ties to you. What’s alarming is finding out that they’re even harboring such feelings. However the weirdness will eventually surface. I guess it’s the crabs in a barrel mentality. SMH
You are so on point, I totally agree with everything you said. Making lemonade out of lemon is just amazing!
I've been flat broke and peep still severely jealous. Can Only imagine once my business starts to take off🎉❤😂
Yes.
I have been hanging around the wrong people because even my own family is terribly jealous of me.
Same here!! It's no surprise! Keep winning!! Keep moving forward!!
What have you done to deserve it? lol not funny but.
my family think i deserve it because i have no reason to give them not too be jealous. i'm not a Genius at soving family problems but just because i can do one thing they expect me to do all of them. makes me want to vomit some times.
there a difference between and family and relatives. Family is your children husband/wife. relatives are sisters brothers mothers fathers uncles aunts. I'm here to provide for my family not relatives.
My parents did that to me, especially my dad.
I left, went far away. No fancy degrees, but i used my hands and brain.
Worked real hard, asked nothing from them when they helped my siblings into their 50’s.
Now, I m the bad one because i made a nest for myself.
The best way to predict the future is to create it. Amen 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙏🙌🙌
TRENT YOU ARE ON THE MONEY WITH THAT WHO CONCEPT BECAUSE I'M PROUD OF PEOPLE WHO WIN, AND I COME FROM NOTHING SO YES I'VE BEEN BLESSED WITH NOT HAVING THE FEELING OF JEALOUSY.. YEAH!!!
God is very much against any form of pride? so if you know blest then you might want to do what blessed comands you to prevent your believable lake of fire. Read Scriptures and PRIDE is number one sin God HATES AND JEALOUS OF THE MOST OF ALL OF SINS ITS THE GREATEST ONE. APOLOGIST WILL BE APOLOGISING NOT PREACHING.
THIS ESPECIALLY TRUE IN BLACK AMERICAN CULTURE.....
Nah....Hispanics, Natives, and White people got it bad too. I see it every day.
I understand how people can become envious but what I don't get how other successful people can become envious especially when they have more success and a bigger platform
I don't get jealous of people that do better than me!
The thing I see is if you say something from a good place simple request and the person reacts with pent up anger rage and frustration you then gotta step back and say whoa that’s too much unnecessary unfounded anger in your response. In other words haters seethe within and see you as a perceived threat. They from time to time they blow up. Note also they certainly can have more than you. They just don’t want you to have any more than them not even a little bit. ❤
Selfish people feel threatened when they see signs that you’re about to get ahead of them in life. Notice it’s usually the people who have less and are doing less who get jealous.
There are people who have more than others that can still be jealous of someone's strength and resilience to the storms of life!
Man! U hit da nail on da head. As a successful black business owner I get hated on alot, especially by other black males but I do what u do. I try understanding, putting myself in their shoes. Then Ion blame em. I am amazingly blessed & thankful. Favor ain't fair! So if I was them lookin at my life...I'd be jealous too. Nap cap! Doesn't upset me at all. How u gon be mad at me for what God did🙄. People sum else!
Run that bag up 🤝
I am a black man business owner as well, I can relate to what you are saying. I love to see my brothers doing it right, don’t hate just learn and put forth an effort and you can achieve success like anyone else.
When you said the more you were growing you had less people around. This is me rightnow with my closests family who I thought were for me. They would talk all day like, I got nothing but support from them but I noticed recently in January me and my husband had our second child I been hearing less and less now nothing. I also been doing personal growth on myself
Jealousy is the fuel that lights your fire 🔥🔥🔥 to go extra harder!!!!
Sometime people get so jealous over you as motivation to become a successful somebody if themselves in life.
I don't feel like it's your success they hate they just hate you and they always hated you when you wasn't successful but now that you have become successful it just irritated them real bad and they can't stand it and I can guarantee you that if it was anybody else doing the same things they will be happy for them.
My entire family and friends and all I did was become a nurse I’m like we that broke
I can tell there is Bible in this heart. My safe place. This advice helps one to grow in all areas...in Jesus name.
Your success reminds them of what they weren’t willing to do to be successful themselves. People are so worried about other people that they never put that energy into working on themselves. At the end of the day it’s there problem not yours. If more people knew how money really worked they would have it . Just working at a job is not how you become wealthy . If you have haters you are on the right track … when you are the same level as them they don’t view you as competition but when you change the bench mark they start hating on you like crazy putting down your success … at that point it’s better not to over share with people like that find some new friends. And don’t give money away to family and friends. You are. It there piggy bank . Find new friends.
Success definitely does attract hate! If you are a God-fearing person you will not suffer from jealousy you will be full of faith everyone gets jealous but there’s some people gets jealous every single day! That’s their primary emotion!
Faith doesn't trump jealousy unfortunately. But yes with God on your side there's absolutely nothing your haters can do. Amen!!
As usual, you nailed it! Thanks for another awesome video my man!
Bro I only noticed my potential then they started hating. I havent even made my first move yet 😂
Facts 💯
couldnt have said it better. theres no friends out here
Like crabs in a bucket. Clowns😂😂😂
My childhood friend...this mofo hated me because he saw everything good that I didn't notice about me. All my qualities that I was blind to...
How you get out of hateing on Sumone is getting off social media!!! And living your life n working on you!!!!!! The successful people are successful cause they are WORKING n being PRODUCTIVE with there life!!!!
i need to hear this i also wanted to make a youtube like this love this i love the positive keep up the good work
Needed to hear this today! Just had a close friend call last night and unload on me that I was talking down to her and being really rude to her. I know that I know I have not been doing this. But her life is messed up. Makes sense. That’s why your title caught my attention to stop and listen. Thank you, Trent. You’re an encouragement as always. My husband said what you said, just listen to her and love her and find ways to affirm her.
I can relate
First off women aren't really friends with each other. Misery likes company. That's why a lot of post wall females destined to die alone try and convince a young hot girl to dump her bf. Never listen to them.
I can relate too. This again shows that when you're a good person, hate is not personal. It means nothing negative about you, only about the other person.
Thank you.
I’m so glad I came across your video a person like me that lives day per day. I have like jealous friends on social media like I think the guy I’m talking about. He never liked me since day. One he married he got kids and he still happy he look at me and he hates on me because I got more than what he got. I’m in the spotlight he’s not, always been a hater that’s why I don’t have no friends might have some but that’s why I don’t have too many friends because the other ones they they haters they want what I have and they don’t have it. It’s all good in the hood accomplished family loves me. It’s all good like I said like I was saying, your video gave me positive thoughts
Can we get a part 2 for this topic? Excellent video
Just like the Jealous person who disliked your post SMH‼️‼️ Life 🗣🗣🗣
As a god , I enjoy haters hate and their disrespect but set strongest boundaries with them
Facts and most haters are from family
Of course , and chasing success ,as the world defines it, breeds emptiness
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They want what you have and don’t want to put the work in to get it…
And we also have to make sure not to adopt these traits with people who have advanced further than us. The world is rough and mean. As Jordan Peterson said, "the world is against you . . . obviously." But as I told my own subscribers, many times the greatest enemy in life can be yourself. And you make yourself an enemy by comparision to others. If you make 80K a year and have 200K in the investment arenas you will feel badly if you have a friend who makes 250K and has a million in his. But you will feel good about yourself if you compare yourself to someone who makes 30K and has nothing in his accounts. But maybe that 250K person works 80 hours a week and hasn't had a vacation in ten years. The point is, your journey is yours. How much you want to work and gain to get the greatest benefits you can from your short time on earth---and most of those benefits, my friends, are not financial. Hope this helps someone----Charles
EXCELLENT 👌 VIDEO 👍👍👍
It’s definitely happening to me. Thank You! 💪🏾
Jealous ones Envy
This really helped. Thanks.
If you hate, you are not working on yourself.
Jesus is your free gift to heaven when you believe in his death, burial and resurrection you are immediately saved.
They hate me and I have nothing! At work, in the neighborhood, my hometown and every other town I move to, at the stores, appointments, Family, friends, Schools,church and Everywhere!! I’ve never been supported no matter what I do!! BUT GOD IS MY STRENGTH AND MY REFUGE!! THANK YOU JESUS THAT IM NOT ALONE!! GLORY TO HIS NAME IN THE HIGHEST PRAISE!!!!
@@blessedholmes1212I know you never had nothing. You still have nothing
I never understood jealousy I've never been jealous of somebody doing better than me I got friends who are richer than me but I learned that instead of focusing my energy on hating those friends or being jealous I learned to learn from them and because I hang arround them I've got to live a preety good life and am going up in life. Jealousy to me is just laziness from the human people focus on the wrong energy and they just don't get that, I have lost friends when I decided to do well for myself in life all cause they got jealous. It's truly sad to see that cause if people stop being jealous and focus on themselves everybody can find success jealousy is just human weekness and laziness.
Man, i fully agree with pratically all your words! That’’s so true though the same time so sad 🥹
I have a bunch of haters that are "WITHOUT A CAUSE"!
Love this video.
Another point I would like to make about jealous and envious people.
They always think your life is so easy compared to theirs.
They don’t think you have hurdles after hurdles to jump over.
Only them have hurdles!
YOU ARE RIGHT 👀
I lost so called friends after I started my business which became successful
I have never been jealous of anyone or anything.
Same, I’ve never ever had the thought to dislike someone I know or don’t know because they are happy and successful. It’s never crossed my mind. It’s wild
It’s because you admire them instead.
Same. I had a buddy that became a millionaire and I wouldn’t literally brag about him.
Neither have I. I think it's a waste of time. Your success is my success. I'm always really happy for someone else's happiness.
I bet you NEVER lied 😂
My family is extremely jealous in general..They can't do what ive done..They know im mentally stronger
Going through that right now 💯
The problem with saying "if i was you i would hate on me too" could back fire because does that mean if you met someone more successful than you would you hate on them?
I know. I was thinking about this too. This makes you just as bad as them then. Y'all haters inside. I'm switching videos. Thanks for yout time.
I love your messages!!! Keep inspiring
Never trust anyone, there are wolves in sheep clothing, demons reside within them.Just crooked minds with emptiness within.They insult ,manipulate ,plan and desire things of wat they dont hav rather than being happy and content with wat they hav.
I got my shoes line business at age 24 years old from I get alot hate in my own family friends and co workers it’s crazy I get alot love from strangers in different countries more than my own hometown
Wonderfully said fam.. this changed the way I see things I definitely just got to the point today where I realized I can’t allow those who don’t like me or hate on me to steal my joy. Preciate you speaking on this. 💪🏾 keep being great!
People harm other people to make themselves feel better about themselves, people get jealous of other people’s Money other people’s marriages other people's education other people's beauty other people’s happiness etc. And I think alot of people ate cruel to them, God protect the People that are high achievers. I say to the high achievers that I am proud of them. Thank you for this wonderful video.
Everybody does not have jealousy.
My family and friends were the worst
I'm homeless I sleep in a tent I don't have many friends but people around stare at me show jealousy of me talking behind my back but I work everyday I stay to myself I needed to hear this
@@LeoDarden-dc1ph i love when people talk about me. Its nice to be the center of attention
@@LeoDarden-dc1ph You should be mad at your man even if he is talking bad about me... That means he is thinking about me. Such losers
I agree with everything but that everyone has this emotion. There is not a single soul i am jealous of. I have so many people jealous of me at my job. I'm likeable, do my job and received a promotion, plus I am not too bad looking. Jealousy is a disease
I don't know the feeling of hating someone who has everything in life, I'm actually proud of them
@@normasaldana1546 right! I'm proud of people. If they have something more than me I will ask them how they did that. I promote and pump people up.
I can relate I deal with the most out of jealousy at work and by family members. They're threatened by who you and the great qualities you have. Keep your head up!
True that! I wrote a book about escaping human trafficking and the haters are vicious. They're always looking me up on social media,to find fault or dig up dirt.🤨🙄
Facts
But we work hard that's so unfair.!!!
Nothing is fair in life
I don't have time for jealous people... I'm not jealous... i clap for people and i do it genuinely because i like to see other's win too. 🏆 ❤
I appreciate you, thank you
This is true. I've had a friend even sabotage a deal out of jealousy.
Jealousy overcomes my enemies on Social Media on my creation of characters.
That was powerful
I love this video! You are on the money honey! LOL YOU GAVE OUT LOVE to a hurting person and HELPED HIM. I LIKE THAT sweetheart! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🏽 Jacquelyn from Philadelphia You have very nice videos!
👍 tak sie to zaznaje i odczuwa wewnętrznie i zewnetrznie jakby tak było ze ludzie sa z nami tylko jak mamy sukces
lub ze hejtują gdy go odnosimy.
👍 a to bzdura. Bo są z nami jak czują sie dobrze a czuja sie fajnie jak my czujemy sie fajnie.
💰 Jak czuja mozliwosc i to ze to chca powiedziec przekazać Nam to wyjdzie pozytywnie
jesli czuja inaczej to powstrzymuja sie od mowienia
💰 a ta niezapelniona nisza wiary w siebie
sprawia ze rosnie w nich napięcie
i w koncu mowią nie to co chcą i mowia o nas negatywnie a myslą same najlepsze rzeczy
💰 Czlowiek ma taką nature wlasnie o Innych nie umie myslec negatywnie
a o sobie nie umie nie myslec negatywnie
👍 Nasza natura jest zbyt doskonala
tylko dajemy sie manipulowac Zlu
ktore np sprawia ze doswiadczamy sie negatywnie wzajemnie i samych siebie tez
zaznajemy jakby inni chcieli nam pokrzyzowac szyki
👑 a tak nie jest jest na odwrot
ale zlo tak dlugo i uparcie to wmawia ze zaczynamy w to wierzyc
oczywiscie w teori jest takie ryzyko
❤ ale jesli ma sie dobry kod myslenia np taki jak podaje teraz i ze od Boga pochodza tylko mysli i kojarzenia i odczucia budujące dodające nadzieji i ze musi byc coraz lepiej i ze bedzie zajebiscie i koniec
to sie da pokonac zło
Hey Trenton .. Ive just made a video on this on another channel ... not this one.. I would like to do a follow joint pod cast with you. How do we connect?
Y own brothers and sisters are extremely jealous of me for buying my first home, it's unreal how people hate on family
Look at all the hate on wes Watson on snipper Wolf
9:10 - This is my new alarm 😂
Exactly 👀 !!!!!!
Factssss 💯💯💯💯