Change your life by changing how you speak

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  • Опубликовано: 18 мар 2020
  • In this lesson, I will show you how the language we use is a reflection of our deeper psychology. For example, if you are the kind of person who always apologises for your “terrible English”, this is going to hold you back in life. Another example happens when people constantly talk about what they are going to do but in fact, they never do it. I will teach you to be much more aware of the language you use so that you can speak in a more powerful way than ever before. When you speak powerfully, you get what you want. If you speak in a weak way, you will never be taken seriously.
    Test your understanding of this lesson by taking the quiz: www.engvid.com/change-your-li...

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  • @kippen64
    @kippen64 4 года назад +108

    The more you know, the more you know that you still have to learn.

  • @waldmeister000
    @waldmeister000 4 года назад +42

    This is the line where language and sociology/psychology meet. Good for emotional intelligence.

  • @AoyagiAichou
    @AoyagiAichou 4 года назад +22

    "Do you speak English?" - "I like to pretend I do". Helps that I was born in the UK though.

    • @pauljordan4452
      @pauljordan4452 2 года назад +1

      Why the Japanese user name?

    • @AoyagiAichou
      @AoyagiAichou 2 года назад

      @@pauljordan4452 I used to be a weeb and the name stuck, unfortunately.

  • @sabrethemoment6799
    @sabrethemoment6799 4 года назад +5

    Discovered your channel a couple days ago and I’m hooked to your videos! Thanks for uploading

  • @jorgealameda
    @jorgealameda 2 года назад +2

    Usually, I enjoy your lessons but this time I LOVE IT

  • @Waseem9919
    @Waseem9919 4 года назад +2

    Thank you so much for this lesson , we need more lessons like this one in order to better understand the language and be able to express exactly what we want to say

  • @professormburatto7172
    @professormburatto7172 4 года назад +6

    Thank you for this class. I really appreciate your lessons!

  • @matthewcunningham2399
    @matthewcunningham2399 4 года назад +7

    Jade, you're fantastic. Thank you for a brilliant tutorial 👍

  • @senzanome7801
    @senzanome7801 3 года назад +1

    A friend of mine told me about your videos. I like them, I enjoy them. Thank you very much!

  • @jas0nutub3
    @jas0nutub3 3 года назад +3

    Love your teaching style Jade, you inspire me as a language teacher myself

  • @CELINE0355
    @CELINE0355 4 года назад +12

    Thank you so much teacher Jade for great lesson!l often use the expression " I'm trying to.."when talking about my English learning.l never realized l was expressing a possible failure! Words are so powerful!l will hereafter say:"l m learning English with pleasure and confidence!"greetings from Italy:)

  • @Nicolas-ht4iv
    @Nicolas-ht4iv 4 года назад

    this is actually really helpful because i'm a master procrastinator and i find these tips actually help me propel forward , tks Jade

  • @JonBilbaoMallona
    @JonBilbaoMallona 3 года назад

    What I love about your videos is that you dont only teach the languaje, but also the meaning of live in English, wich I find it realy cool to know

  • @lucindawinehouse2002
    @lucindawinehouse2002 3 года назад +3

    Hi Jade when I was at school I had a teacher who looked exactly like you .
    That is why I like you as a teacher.
    I also find your English lessons really interesting and I enjoy watching your RUclips Channel because it helps my conversation skills get better
    ( This comment is coming from a native English Speaker)

  • @sitmengchue4077
    @sitmengchue4077 4 года назад

    Timely reminder! Power to me! THANK YOU.

  • @samo3496
    @samo3496 3 года назад +2

    I'm in love with your accent

  • @timmurphy5541
    @timmurphy5541 4 года назад +7

    There is an aggressiveness in modern society which doesn't respect people who have doubt - hence you must avoid "should" and "trying to" and so on. But it's bullshit because nobody really knows or can have 100% confidence in everything. I have this problem all the time because I'm being accurate about my uncertainty and people take that as a lack of determination instead of truthfulness.

    • @AlphaLegionXX
      @AlphaLegionXX 4 года назад

      I agree, it's all about "selling yourself" nowadays. Sadly, we must interact with humans, and humans don't buy arguments, they buy emotions mainly.

  • @SSMMXII
    @SSMMXII 3 года назад +3

    Learning psychology and English at once. I love your videos, Jade. Greetings from Romania

  • @mimimonbebe9077
    @mimimonbebe9077 4 года назад +6

    This video is really good! It helps you with your self esteem too 😭👌🏻

  • @JoseMorales-cy5ls
    @JoseMorales-cy5ls 4 года назад +1

    Thanks for the class, you are a good teacher and besides being very beautiful.

  • @adamsjordan3293
    @adamsjordan3293 4 года назад +1

    Thank you so much Jade💕

  • @gatronix754
    @gatronix754 4 года назад +2

    Great teacher!!! Thanks greetings from Argentina!

  • @yliasabas6689
    @yliasabas6689 4 года назад +1

    Hello thank you so Much Jade! I can say that my English is bad but being aware that my English is much better. It is kind of giving advantage to someone whose English is really bad to make them feel that their English is well.

  • @doppiorizzonte
    @doppiorizzonte 2 года назад +1

    thank you so much Jade, I love your mood :-D

  • @faroukkhalid2102
    @faroukkhalid2102 4 года назад

    Thank you so much teacher, Jade, for a great lesson!l often use the expression " I'm trying to.." when talking about my English learning.

  • @mohammadzamanbasirheravi6471
    @mohammadzamanbasirheravi6471 4 года назад +1

    My amazing teacher
    Thank you🙏🙏

  • @caulazaro
    @caulazaro 4 года назад +1

    This class was very important to whole life.
    Thank you so much, Jade ♥️
    One more subscribed in your channel

  • @officialdevidchiran
    @officialdevidchiran 2 года назад

    Thank you indeed.

  • @vadimmelnikov7809
    @vadimmelnikov7809 4 года назад +1

    Great lesson. thanks a lot, Jade!

  • @pavelk7085
    @pavelk7085 4 года назад

    Jade thank you, hope to see more videos with planations of language subtleties

  • @katerynavolkova-shapovalen995
    @katerynavolkova-shapovalen995 Год назад

    Just wonderful! Thanks for this lesson

  • @josesanchezpalacios8991
    @josesanchezpalacios8991 4 года назад +8

    I haven’t seen them all, but, this is perhaps one of the most interesting of your videos so far, on my humble opinion. 😊

  • @stdnqe
    @stdnqe Год назад +1

    Really like this lesson. Learning English is a psychological game. Life is also like that.

  • @bluoltremare1762
    @bluoltremare1762 4 года назад +14

    I'm trying to...
    "No! Try not. Do. Or do not. There is no try." - Yoda.

    • @suaptoest
      @suaptoest 4 года назад +3

      Thanks! I try to keep that in my mind.

    • @senzanome7801
      @senzanome7801 3 года назад +1

      The Force is strong with you!

  • @beatris2210
    @beatris2210 4 года назад +1

    That's a really nice video, you were funny speaking such a true! I find so cool when people are funny being serious. I am in the 'my English isn't good team'. Thanks a lot.

  • @waha6651
    @waha6651 4 года назад +1

    Happy to see you again my teacher 🥰😍

  • @webernorbertgermany
    @webernorbertgermany 4 года назад

    Thank you so much. Your lessons are very helpful.

  • @patoninje8988
    @patoninje8988 3 года назад +1

    You have very interesting lesson jade!

  • @aleksiejporiadnyj9059
    @aleksiejporiadnyj9059 4 года назад +1

    I like the video, thank you, Jade. Have a nice time.

  • @poliglota1175
    @poliglota1175 2 года назад +1

    I adore your classes. You look amazing

  • @ZeeshanAli-iz1ec
    @ZeeshanAli-iz1ec 4 года назад

    Today I learned how to use have to. Great information

  • @meharnosh
    @meharnosh 4 года назад +1

    Jade you have explained it nicely:)

  • @bluray7877
    @bluray7877 4 года назад +1

    Thanks for your videos

  • @mwat56
    @mwat56 4 года назад +1

    Good points!
    And I love your dancing! 😉

  • @aizacl4253
    @aizacl4253 4 года назад

    I'm so thankful i fhnd your videos. Thank you!

  • @leonildoscofield5260
    @leonildoscofield5260 3 года назад

    I really appreciate your lessons at all. I hope one day i could be video calling to take a lot of doubts that i have. Keep teaching us. See you

  • @CanisDei
    @CanisDei 2 года назад +1

    01:36 was the best. Haha! Really enjoyed the way you explained. Thank you!

  • @abidarach
    @abidarach 4 года назад +1

    Interesting video. Thanks for your effort.

  • @puncicatore
    @puncicatore 4 года назад +1

    I wish you a lot of smiles!

  • @bincao6341
    @bincao6341 4 года назад +1

    Thank you

  • @pauljordan4452
    @pauljordan4452 2 года назад

    You're a great teacher, Jade. One thing: speak a bit more quietly.

  • @timirelle
    @timirelle 3 года назад

    Thank you so much

  • @alijawad9042
    @alijawad9042 4 года назад +1

    Wow jade best teacher English I love you so much 😘😘😘

  • @pablomorales4344
    @pablomorales4344 3 года назад

    Excellent Jade!

  • @thinkdaily5140
    @thinkdaily5140 4 года назад +1

    Thank you mam!🌈

  • @ceuny
    @ceuny 4 года назад

    Thanks Jade

  • @abdulmalikalgodban6041
    @abdulmalikalgodban6041 Месяц назад

    Hallo Jade, you and your lesson deserve 100 % degrees.

  • @brettbirge8246
    @brettbirge8246 4 года назад +2

    I have to get up early and go to work. I want to get up early and go to work! Quite a difference. I feel better already!

  • @mostafahassan5021
    @mostafahassan5021 4 года назад

    An amazing episode.

  • @hifsakhan5672
    @hifsakhan5672 4 года назад +1

    I'm enjoying to learn everything it makes me more excited I want laern war/psychology/work life and psychology please and also customer service

  • @franciscoquezada4323
    @franciscoquezada4323 Год назад +1

    Hello I Love your english lesson.

  • @AHMEDAYASIN
    @AHMEDAYASIN 4 года назад

    Yah, I agree that many people we meet pretend that they speak English well but actually they're not as good as they think they are.

  • @freddyubaquiduenas3348
    @freddyubaquiduenas3348 4 года назад

    Amazing video, you learn well, thanks

  • @aqeelafzal7687
    @aqeelafzal7687 3 года назад

    Thanks Maam, its really helpful.

  • @alvarocr8
    @alvarocr8 Год назад

    Hi, Jade. Excellent videos. Very nice. You explain really well. I like that you speak in English and add subtitles. 👍

  • @icodeHM
    @icodeHM 4 года назад

    thankyou very much.

  • @vongoh2342
    @vongoh2342 4 года назад

    thank you

  • @enriquegranados5179
    @enriquegranados5179 4 года назад +2

    Thank you, miss Jade.

    • @whukriede
      @whukriede 4 года назад +1

      Better say "thank you, Jade". We don't address people by their profession.

    • @enriquegranados5179
      @enriquegranados5179 4 года назад

      @@whukriede Alright, I corrected already.
      Thank you.

  • @3g826
    @3g826 4 года назад

    Good effort from you teacher
    really i enjoy the lesson very much

  • @saeedsadeghi2878
    @saeedsadeghi2878 3 года назад +1

    huge lessons, tnx

  • @cristianestebanochoapinzon5292
    @cristianestebanochoapinzon5292 4 года назад

    I will continue enjoying your videos, Madam!

  • @aparecidoferreiravais321
    @aparecidoferreiravais321 4 года назад

    Hi Jade thanks for your video
    Have a great weekend my beautiful teacher 😉🇧🇷

  • @meenki347
    @meenki347 3 года назад

    Jade, don't be so hard on yourself. Though your London accent is so strong, I can understand 80% of it. 😄🇬🇧

  • @alejandrol830
    @alejandrol830 4 года назад +1

    great life lesson!. thank you. You are a pretty and intelligence girl

  • @ckrysyj7919
    @ckrysyj7919 3 года назад

    People here in my country prefer to use “trying to “ “hope” “might” etc. they consider these as modest ... And they even think speaking too directly to show your desire is kind of impolite ... those who are just normally confident would be considered as people who like to brag themselves . So it’s so hard to be confident for a lot of people in this environment , also hard to express normally like The positive paradigms in your video , they’re the reasons why the words first come to my mind is “ I’m trying to “ instead of “I can do /am doing” ... and it’s easy to have insecurity when someone tells you that he or she didn’t do well in that exam and then they‘ll get 90+ /100 🙃 . Really hope there’s more honesty . ( see “hope” QwQ )I will change my own problems , I want to heal my insecurity !!! What a culture shock lol

  • @eduardocajias5626
    @eduardocajias5626 3 года назад +1

    You are an interesting sassenach girl. NO doubt!
    Thank you!

  • @aram5642
    @aram5642 4 года назад

    Hope you're doing well, Jade! Crazy times.

  • @SaifulIslam-ov7oc
    @SaifulIslam-ov7oc 4 года назад

    Thanks dear

  • @leylishoja4623
    @leylishoja4623 2 года назад

    Really useful👍

  • @ridwanfarah3262
    @ridwanfarah3262 4 года назад

    Thanks jade i like your accent i wish i could do.

  • @montage-fire
    @montage-fire 3 года назад

    perfect+++++++++++++++++++thak u so much

  • @rodrigolourenco1968
    @rodrigolourenco1968 2 года назад +1

    - "Who said it? Your mom?!"
    - Nah, my wife...

  • @saeidmixfa9717
    @saeidmixfa9717 4 года назад

    best of luck to you

  • @marco3083
    @marco3083 4 года назад

    Your voice is special

  • @fabiolahernandez1114
    @fabiolahernandez1114 2 года назад

    I understand why it's better to say things in a psycological positiviness, just not to block your action. But sometimes is also beneficial express what you think about your behaivior: I should... I have to... I wish... I think it's more natural, first you express this feeling, then you find how to do that, and of course it will be correctly say it as: Yes! I can speak english :)

  • @xoavital128
    @xoavital128 Год назад +1

    awesome

  • @w0nerx
    @w0nerx 4 года назад +1

    I think when someone is going to use the " I am doing that or I am already not going to do that " and fail, he/she is gonna go into negative circles

    • @w0nerx
      @w0nerx 4 года назад

      think about how u think or your ways of thinking

  • @oldisgold9512
    @oldisgold9512 4 года назад

    Could you post a video teaching difference between whilst and while?

  • @notthatmuch9586
    @notthatmuch9586 4 года назад

    If you put a summary end of the video it might be so effective

  • @naikrovek
    @naikrovek 4 года назад +3

    as a native english speaker, I'm here to watch Jade. i can say definitively that this woman has the most beautiful eyes that I think I've ever seen.

  • @navneetnautiyal4944
    @navneetnautiyal4944 4 года назад

    I missed you Jade.. ☹️

  • @alpaslanilkman3122
    @alpaslanilkman3122 2 года назад

    Can you please make an up-date video?About any subject ?

  • @peter_roth_8812
    @peter_roth_8812 2 года назад +1

    I'm going to subscribe your channel one day.

  • @spandgen
    @spandgen 2 года назад

    this was rather psychological!

  • @czamman
    @czamman 4 года назад +1

    Has anyone mapped out the dialects of the United States with the European influences? For example the Irish and English from the northeast down to the southern states? German and Polish around the Great Lakes, Scandinavia in Minnesota. I find bits and pieces I just wonder if any one studied this. A map would definitely help.
    Thank you for getting the mind going 😊

  • @w0nerx
    @w0nerx 4 года назад

    when you feel for example wanna go to the bathroom and say: I have to go ...
    it's like you're separating your body with your soul cause your body 'wants' the bathroom but you (soul) say I have to go...
    this is actually really deep

  • @imuselessfellow
    @imuselessfellow 4 месяца назад +1

    I am from India ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @brd8764
    @brd8764 3 года назад

    We can suggest life skills to those who are willing to learn or are open to ideas unless we need to appear and sound out of place.
    Learning is about liking to live life unless it is about wanting to live life. Liking is experiencing life and wanting is feeling life. Loving is living life and indulging is loving life.

  • @idoykc4585
    @idoykc4585 4 года назад +1

    Authentically, your lesson makes me study learning English but just now, not tomorrow 😀...
    (Can you correct my mistake if there is in the sentence)

    • @whukriede
      @whukriede 4 года назад

      Actually, your lesson makes me learn English just now, but not tomorrow. (Don't say "study learning".)

  • @TheShahi
    @TheShahi 3 года назад

    really my English speaking is so terrible miss.
    and now i am trying so hard to speak a good English like a native speaker talk.
    in this journey i do i really need a book material as long as self practice?
    if yes kindly suggest me which English book should i get to strengthen my ability to speak English.
    thank you in advance!