FILIPINAS DONT CHEAT (Or do they)
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If something seems wrong, just end it. The truth is overrated. And, when you get obsessed to KNOW the truth, it will be what haunts you later in life.
You can only Trust that people will do what they want to do. So give her the freedom to do what she wants, then observe and decide if you love that woman. You can't put her within boundaries and expect her to be a good girl when you are not there.
LDR relationship means nothing until you meet them.
Filipinas are taught to never give 100% and always keep something for yourself.. For your heart can be broken. And from most of the comments.. they have a right to be protective. The current situation in dire.. They are relying on you.. And if you leave them.. they have nothing. You do not need a back up plan. True.. you can move on. They are aware that they are just a stepping stone in many cases. Respect her.. give her all of your attention, and she will honor you. Also, keep in shape, take care of yourself, and make her proud to be with you. Money is not going to buy her love if you are just a lump of fat..
Yah a lump of fat is not attractive, no matter what feminist say LoL
Yeah they f*****g do! I figured out my ex was cheating on me when I noticed she started logging out of her Skype account. What she had done was created another Skype account to talk to other guys.
I had a friend that I met on social media. She was dating a guy from Florida. She told me they argued all the time and she was jealous. She said he didn’t trust her. She pleaded with me that she love him. He broke up with her she said. I saw soon after that she was posting pictures of how she love her husband and them together but she loved that guy from Florida. You can be sure another woman will contact you to tell you about the woman you with because jealousy is rampant. Don’t let their smiling innocent faces fool you. They cheat and will scam you. No one is truly honest. Be careful they human just like any other woman.
I’ve noted that occasionally when drunk and with friends, girls here will have sex with another guy just for ‘fun’ … I just avoid any real relationships and don’t care what they do with themselves. In fact i have sometimes said to them to just do what they want. It’s pretty useless being decades older than a girl and really thinking that anything serious will come out of it.
Totally agree with 99% of your view, cuts both ways of course. When you Paul had you little break…what were doing !? For sure you have a girl who’s fully committed albeit…as a Filipina having separate individual RUclips photos is such a no no …Filipina’s are fiercely loyal and mostly deserve that loyalty back in return. It’s not just a “simple “ province girl way of thinking. 95% of Filipina’s aspire to that family life with there partners. It’s how there built, whether city girls or provincial girls. The problem lies with a relationship that’s balance is not measured, I see this with many Filipina/ western relationships, this is when potential infidelity occurs. Unfortunately Filipina’s especially the province girls will put up with a relationship that degrades them in many ways for the sake of a better future in the near/medium term…and that’s totally understandable given there life choices. Suffice to say most Filipina’s are fiercely loyal and ultra committed to there partners even if they have 20 plus age gap etc. They value loyalty,security, devotion and a unending commitment to the family unit, we western guys need not value this …if …you’ve found the real deal. I know I have ..I got lucky 🍀. God bless the Philippines 🇵🇭 LK🥰
You are correct, sir. We Filipinas actually are fiercely committed ang loyal to our partners. Like me for example. I've been married to my Filipino husband for twent five years now. Five years after we got married his business was down. But I never left him for whatever reasons. I supported the family and I even supported his mother and nieces in my own little way in addition to my responsibility for my own family. Because my husband is unemployed for twenty years. Our relationship until now still growing stronger. We have three beautiful children still in the universities. I go out and work then my husband was left at home doing the chores. We exchanged responsibilities. That's one of the qualities of a Filipina. We can endure hardships for the sake of our family.
well I think cheating is everywhere no matter where you are both men and women that's why I'm staying single forever and I mean that
Paul, your channel is underrated but straight to the point. I broke up with an attention seeking pinay that was always on tiktok and her behaviour changed. A year and a half into an LDR relationship that was great , I started noticing changes in her behavior . Her communication was less and less but at the same time, she would put others first and try and please them. She started dressing sexy and would talk about her fantasy of being the sexy biker girl🤔🤔. Her phone was always on silent and her social media always had restrictions. Her pics were all sexy and her dances on tiktok were raunchy....oh, I was not allowed to follow her on tik tok but she had thousands of followers.... She had to go so I ended the relationship. Guys, became full out there and watch out for those changes in behavior
better to lease then buy. need no drama anymore
Spot on Paul! We expats sometimes need a shot of reality. I would like to add that your content is not limited to just Filipina's. I know cause it happened to me with a live in Vietnamese gf. Good job man
If you can find thier real Facebook account , you find out if thier really single or not , I've discovered many who are saying thier 100 % single but on thier Facebook account thier in a happy relationship with a local man there, some I've found have a baby they are not saying anything about, one woman waa married and said he left her after having thier child, but on hee Facebook page the husband is there with his children.
I've chatted around a thousand Filipina women, had many bad experiences , there's only been a few decent women in all those, just have to keep looking until you find one , and i think i finally have.
Good video Paul
You have it so right about trusting your gut feeling. It is almost always right. Very good points also. if she is dressing sexy when she is not with you, then she is doing for someone else.
I like that you say back off and no second chances.... because once the seeds of doubt are sowed the relationship will not stand the test of time.
i thought my filipina was a good christian. but yea she fooled me for 3 years. after i was she used me. she married her churchmate. im ruined mentally. 😢
good topic and could be eye opening for some. the only thing I don't agree with is asking her to quit social media. I would just say can you not post sexy pics because now you are in a relationship.
One big signal is that she always use ,love, honey,babe and never your name when she is talking or chat with you.
Meh.. That is common. Nicknames.. sir names ate, kuya, po.. Names are not common. If your talking from a dating site perspective.. than maybe i understand.. I have not called my girlfriend by name in 3 years.. it would only cause toyo or Tampo..
Once a cheater, always a cheater.
YOU ARE VERY RIGHT. IF SHE CHEATS NO SECOND CHANCE. THANKS FOR YOUR INVALUABLE INFORMATION.
Great advise Paul. Always trust your gut feeling because that will never let you down. Personally, I look for change in behavior and that will always be big red flag 🚩. Always change your chat with her so you can catch her off guard. Hope to hear more on this topic and age gaps. Thank you 🙏⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
I know someone in LDR who suspected his gf. So he created a fake id and chatted / flirted with her on a different app. Turned out she mentioned that she was single to the fake id and was assuring the original bf that she never entertains chats from other men ...so he continued the chat on both identities for a while and didn't spill the beans. Then he made plans to fly to PHP and communicated similar dates of visit from both chats putting the gf in a fix. She tried to delay him by 10 days so she could meet the fake one first and was caught out.
Can you explain your second wife story who was filipina and cheated you also?
Sharing is nice and it is good if your wife or girlfriend is good enough for others also:) .Everybody start sheating is circumstancies are right.
Great topic, Paul. One unfortunate reality here in the West IMO (for average guys) is: Because it can be so difficult to find a decent woman and establish a relationship, once you're with her, you'll overlook the behaviors that signal she's cheating because you don't want to see them. You'll sometimes shun your gut instinct and hope everything will be alright. But alas, eventually things come to a head and she either, 1. Breaks up with you, or, 2. Becomes so detached and aloof you break up with her. Statistics show that 50% of Western women in all relationships admit having a "backup man," a "man on deck." Pretty sobering. I hope that statistic isn't as high with Filipinas, but, if it is, I wouldn't be surprised.
Over 50% of all women everywhere are always preparing a backup
My wife is Filipino and I’ve immersed myself into the Philippine culture over the last twenty years so I know a little about Filipinos and I get the impression that Filipino women cheat very easily by all the stories I hear and what I see personally. I don’t mean all women, and perhaps not even the majority, but an awful lot of them do and my wife agrees with me....good luck....cheers🍷🇨🇦
My girl became cold. So I stopped talking to her so far 3 months of.no contact, sounds like ended 👍
and yes with women ALWAYS look at what they DO not what they say ..
Paul, your alright man.. you know your stuff
Thanks just caught mine out sent her a money to eat no more she's probably got a few men saves her working
This is the main reason why i will probably stay single in my retirement years. If you are 50 or more and a young women comes on to you, its not for your looks believe me.
If you're an older guy, find a woman that's about your age. Her opportunities to cheat will be almost nil.
Paul , those were all real scenarios . The one the confused me and kept me hanging longer. She called more often asking what are you doing.. where are you. Lol. I thought she cared. Until I factored the other issues in. The relationship was over.
Or you cut just, take he phone at have a look. I mean Is that should be a no-go, there will be something wrong?
How's the odor protection on those polyester t shirts. What brand do you wear?
i'm interested in the bridge .... need one at the moment....
Cheating isn't a cultural thing, a biological thing, or even a social economic thing....It depends completely on the individual. If you have to flaunt your money to get a girl...there are better looking ones and more sexually experienced for sale in Vegas...lol
Which bridge? And How Much???
Let me add my 2 cents I'm with a filipina who is married talks with. Her husband everyday online because she is overseas but is living with me. Would that be considered cheating. Everyone of them will cheat if the risk is worth it to them. And I mean Male and female.
I have personally seen women here pick-up as many as FIVE remittances from foreign many in different countries and then hop on the back of their Filipino boyfriend's motorcycle. This is NOT an isolated occurrence. There are, however, some who will be faithful.
The problem is weeding out the users vs the girls with morals, they all pretend to be angels
How can you cheat if love is involved, not sex?
Paul, I watch you all the time and I can't say this is one of your better videos. And you've pretty much gone all the way in using click bait thumb nails for your videos. On one hand you criticize the other Filipina youtubers for making "bikini videos" but you do the same thing, trying to attract viewers. What's up with that? But this video is pretty much a bunch of generic, common sense comments - and I still have no idea what you mean by a "gut feeling".
Thanks Paul you saved me money
Welcome
Supposed to pick a state with no bridges🤭
haha.. thinking the same immediately when I heard it. The reference to beachfront property in Arizona.. yes!!
These signs are universal signs. Mostly, men with low self esteem are vulnerable to these women.
COMMENTS ON CHEATING [are you guys talking about CHEATING AS IN CHATTING WITH OTHER GUYS OR ACTUALLY SEXUAL CONTACT!????))
good show, bro
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Thanks for watching 😊
I think sex and relationship don't go together! Sex does not need a commitment! How can you cheat if you are only having sex?
Relationship and love need commitment, right?
I love the topic of yours..
thanks
All I can say is that be observant to the partner, anyway Im also a Filipina, I'm not fluent in English 😁✌️, trying hard to understand your language 😝
Thank you,Paul !
Welcome!
Is it just me noticing subtleties, or are you Paul demonstrating some changes in your behavior patterns? LOL
True.. this apply to all girls.. not only pina
Good advice
thank you for watching
Thank you Paul
welcome
What if you have her password 🤔
Great another one sided blogger.
Have you experience girls flirting with you while Mia is with you. Does Mia get jealous?
I doubt if other Pinays flirt with Paul right in front of Mia, however, in an earlier vlog Mia was referring to "snakes," which are other Filipinas she fears will try to lure Paul away...also, Reekay (another Expat Vlogger) says if you're out with you Filipina, say, at a restaurant or bar, and she gets up to use the restroom, sometimes women will approach you and slip you their number...Damn!!
Yes and Yes
Great points Paul.
thank you
Hello 👋 Paul and Mia watching from LA California. My husband and I hope to meet with you guys once we able to travel back to Philippines. We’re is a process of moving/ retiring to Philippines. Our plans got delay due to pandemic. We’re praying it will be over soon.
Sounds great!
Actually, I don't care if they cheat. As long as they keep me in the mix I'm fine. Lol. And if they don't keep me in the mix, there are other ladies available.
Self respect is a good trait to have as a man. Good luck
@@surfguy777 It's not a matter of self-respect. It's a matter of I'm not possessive and I don't mind an open relationship where she's free to see others, and so am I.