Why Being Single is Awesome for Men
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- Опубликовано: 9 июн 2024
- The benefits of being single are real, and if you've never been intentionally single for an extended period of time, you might be hurting yourself. Being intentionally single can change your life forever...
Being single and happy in your 30s is possible, I can tell you that from personal experience (I'm 35). AND I'll say that being single and happy is what ultimately led me to much greater success - in terms of relationships, friendships and financially too.
In the past when I was single...
I would constantly look for the next woman to connect with (on dating apps, at parties, etc), and I didn't put all of that energy into my business - which would have set me up for much greater success.
I DIDN'T KNOW WHAT WAS POSSIBLE
Turns out that intentionally being single can be one of the most powerful and important experiences of your entire life. Being single is awesome for men because pursuing our purpose in life is INCREDIBLY important, and it can be challenging to do in relationship if you haven't first established a foundation of sovereignty and self love.
If you're single, I highly recommend you go through an extended period of intentionally being single. Date yourself, go on hikes with yourself, journal, figure out why you are here, learn to love yourself without any relationship at all...
AND THEN.... from that place of fully satisfied self-love, IF you choose to get into a relationship, your relationship will be MUCH better because you are going in from a place of sovereignty.
Being single isn't bad.
Being single can be healthy.
Just focus on loving yourself and creating the life you want.
When you create the life you want, getting into a relationship from that place will end up much better.
Agree?
-Taylor
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Committing to date yourself before dating others has been one of the best decisions I’ve made, I think back on some of my past relationships and it’s clear I wasn’t comfortable enough with my self to approach them from a mature and grounded point of view. Also, “make finding your life purpose your life purpose” ... is absolute gold advice. Appreciate the content you’ve been putting out, thank you 🙏
Thanks JT for saying so - and I'm stoked that you've had this experience too. It's a game-changer for sure. 🔥
@@taylorclarkjohnson these women are getting married just to get alimony and all that shit. I would rather be single forever or start dating men lol
This is awesome, JT!
Are you read for love now?
Being single means more money saved, peace of mind and freedom 🙂.
True
Mgtow
Yes
I am 19 year old
I have decided not to marry
No sex though. It sucks. And I'm against hook ups
If you do it right lmao. Or can be more expensive because you are expected to travel
I love being single. I quit dating back in 2009, never looked back. Since then, I focused on myself.
You two need to get back in the game and give all your time and money to her 🤣
@@ironjohn5914 yea and be broke
@@ironjohn5914 No
Love being single. Life's so enjoyable when it's ur choice
Cero drama
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@Rod Francis Interesting you say that. I have precisely those same emotions. Have no tolerance or patience for idiocy and childish BS
Flying isn't that thrilling to do alone. But, some things are enjoyable alone.
VERY well said.
Everyone should embrace being alone is a gift that never stops giving
Why would I do that?
@@MrTJMaddox blue pill
@@becomingdauntless8821 You worried about the wrong thing.
@@MrTJMaddox shut up and goodluck
@@lonesurvivor815 Good luck is two words. Not one.
Being single is awesome. I don't have to go to the mall everyday and shop and buy super expensive junk to make a woman happy. I get to save my money and build my future. Forget about those materialistic creatures that will leave you once they get what they want from you. Don't take women so seriously.
So what do you think will you can stay alone atlast??
You don't have to do that in a relationship either. For me it was the mental clarity. I was always stressed out about not having enough "me" time and felt suffocated. Never got along with "her" plans day to day. My partner tried to accommodate this, but it never felt right. I love the freedom of being able to do whatever you want whenever you want. It makes life more enjoyable/spontaneous.
Money wise, Dining out was the big expense. I probably covered 60% of the tabs, but she was better than most when it comes to that. I also enjoyed those meals, just wish we did it with less frequency.
I was in the most chill, easy going, judgement free relationship, with a good person that I respect, and I still wasn't happy. The one weakness, is we didn't have enough friends and hobbies outside of our relationship. We never created an escape to socialize with other people and enjoy other peoples company.
Exactly yolo.
That's not the point man
I don't go shopping every day and I have never bought my wife anything expensive. I save more money now than before.
I get to do whatever whenever. She wants her own time as well so it is easy to find time for ourselves.
Just find a decent women.
Being single is the way to go! I’ve been single my entire life and love it! Unlike most men my age, I’m not saddled with child support payments, alimony payments, mortgage payments, hateful ex-spouses, annoying step-children, expensive biological children, and irritating in-laws.
Why? Never meet the right person? Gay? How do Fight lonely times?
@@nickelwindow53if you depend on other people for your own happiness, you set yourself for a hard life
@@nickelwindow53 I love being single... frequent one night stands with beautiful woman and no hang ups about using my hand
@@hamizanfortunatolowel5172 that’s great advice!
Except you never experienced love from the opposite sex.
because you can protect your money，car and house. everything you earn belongs to yourself.
also，you will never have to worry about wife‘s secret lover.
Facts!
Well said
Well said
Yes but who do you give the estate to when you do one and who looks after you when you get old. A lot of people worry about this
@@mokhot People will. Friends, family, hired help. There's many solutions that you can have in place.
Gentleman! Focus on what's great about being single - Time to chase your goals, travel without responsibility, move to improve career prospects... and best of all complete FREEDOM
Well said
Is time to get yours a lover..
@@Unioutfits yeahhh baby
@@Unioutfits stop trying put women on us
Interesting Reality. No Friction ever again. Being Single create financial freedom. Good Choice!
I'm over the 40,still single, never married and still enjoying life in the Netherlands .Now I'm on my SR journey to achieve some goals. Love your video so much. Best regards from Amsterdam
Iam 20 single and feel like i never get a GF
I have completed 6 years of SR and sharing my experience.
@@KUSH_Joshi Read Mark Manson's work. No, it's not Pickup artist bullshit.
@@themacocko6311 😊🙌 ok bro
Being single is not a good thing lonlines can kill you
Been single now for 18 years, after decades of pursuing love, lust and connection with someone other than myself, who i hated. The last 18 years have been completely drama free, financially beneficial, physically beneficial and completely life transforming.
Let’s lighten up your world again ❤️
15 years for me Bat and it feels damn great!!!
@@Unioutfits no thank you
Had so many girls when I was younger I can't even count but was never satisfied .. now that I'm in my 60s and never married and have been single now for 15 years I've never been more happy .. I know many people feel they need a partner or they feel lonely but when you genuinely love being single iits fantastic
@@markkettner9246 Yeah, I think it all comes down to our relationship with ourselves as to how content we'll be alone.
The reason why I'm planning being single for life because nobody's seems to be loyal anymore. Even if they do last long, they end up in a crappy relationship. 🙁
I agree. People don’t take people serious.
Being Single is the time to discover yourself...
thank you for this video. im a 22yo woman who has never been in a relationship and is still a virgin, and it has always been a source of hurt and insecurity for me, always wondering why no ones interested, dealing with unrequited love, feeling awkward and nervous around men, jealousy bc all my friends have had multiple experiences except me, and ultimately drowning in a victim mentality. i would always feel sorry for myself and it just made things worse, because that lead to me being even more awkward and shy around men and pushing them away. changing my perspective and viewing being single as a choice, rather than some sad fate i cant control, is extremely liberating. i can already see changes in my attitude towards myself, other people, and life itself, and thats after a really short time. very excited to be on this journey and build the love and connection i have with myself and everyone around me. i hope everyone who reads this can find joy and happiness in whatever situation they are in, and see every day on this earth as a wonderful gift, single or not. much love to you all!
You need to get laid , it’s therapeutic
Yes that's how I feel about singleness too.
Make sure you stay fit, non-combative, self-confident and you will be fine. A good man will arrive. But you have to recognize it without delusions.
You might really enjoy the book The Coiled Serpent by C J Vliet.
If you can love yourself, then you don’t need anybody else’s love to keep you happy, you’re strong.
Male: Single, childless and never being married. I'm realizing that it's a superpower. I live and fight for myself. MERC LIFE BOYS. 😎
Not loving myself has held me back from the grr things in my life. Thanks
Yeah man, thanks for being real. This self-love piece is huge, and it's something that I often see missing from a lot of the men's work that's out there. It's an interesting thing to figure out how to talk about well, but it feels important do to so.
Hello, how are you doing?
Correction, being single *out of choice* is awesome.
Being single is awesome, no woman to nag you about anything, can come and go as you please. Sleep in on days off, you can spend your money how you please
It's awesome for women too. We need to change the stereotype that women just want to get in a relationship or get married to be happy. Personally I'm my happiest when I'm single (and when I say single I mean SINGLE -not having sex, not going on dates, not even chating with men). Now that I'm thinking about it, I've never been truly happy in any of my relationships. There was always something missing and I ended up leaving after a few months. On the other hand, when I'm by myself nothing feels like it's missing, I feel completely fulfilled, at peace and truly happy. I'm starting to think that relationships just aren't for me, and I'm perfectly ok with that💖
You have a really great perspective! I wish many others had the same views. I am starting to realize that more and more people these days are also choosing to remain single and celibate, because they understand that relationships just aren't for them. )
Relationships aren't for me either.
Wow! Wow, wow, I thought it was just me that felt this exact way
Yeah and the angst worry and jealousy i got in passionate relationships weren't worth it either
you can never get back the peace that was taken from you from someone else, all my friends are married and miserable but they are yo scared to be on their own
I’m single again after a 7 year relationship, in my late 40’s, I will learn and enjoy every minute of it, thank you for the video
Been single for 4 years, living a great life, less stress, no girl nagging and bitching, a few one night stands and plenty of wank time
My wife left we have been together 8 years I was upset for the last 6 months since she left but now I’m fine I can keep all my money sleep with anyone I want and do whatever I want when I want
@@mrchihuahuaboy4306 you can but don't put too much effort on the sleeping with people I've been down that path and it didn't make me as happy as I am now just not caring. Good luck tho I wish u well
He should have posted this on valentines day for 😂
HA!!! Well... valentines day is coming up. :D
When I forget to take the trash out, I simply go "oops" and then take it out....2 minutes of time, and *NO* emotional narrative.
Don't trade your peace for a few brief physical tristes that drain your soul, your emotions, or your bank account.
Ive learned to love myself. It took a very long time. A women will not compete me, as im already whole and complete.
I’m enjoying my single life every minute and every second of the day.
Hi are you from new Orleans
I have always enjoyed being single. Every relationship I have been in brought me great stress and anxiety.
I have decided that women will put me in an early grave so best to avoid.
I hope one day that every man can realize how much women don’t like us and find a new meaning in life that is full purpose, prosperity, and most importantly peace. Never respond to them in anger only in indifference. To do this you must first find purpose in life and then find peace in your purpose.
Being single was never an issue for me. What made it difficult for me was accepting that another man will soon have sex with my ex. Now I don’t let it bother me anymore. They’ve had sex before they met me so what’s the difference? It was only my turn. And now it’s someone else’s turn. Being single is so peaceful and all the money for me 😁
Accepting that other people have had sex with your partner(s) is an important part of the path. It's also important to understand that YOU have been that guy for other guys too. Nothing is wrong with a woman who has sex with multiple partners. The same is true for men. Thanks for taking the time to share your thoughts here.
@@taylorclarkjohnsonthat depends on the numbers.
36yo, good job, no kids, two dogs, truck, motorcycle and house, no debts, great friends and lots of fun. Single since 2015 and my luck has never been better.
Dogs > kids
Im 31 and single the last two years. Had a highschool sweetheart I dated for five years and it was great. From 23 to 29 I spent most of my free time chasing and gaming women. I met some amazing women and had some amazing sexual experiences. Now, I feel like that bucket is full. All my friends and family think I need to be finding someone to share life with, but that not the answer for me. I feel like I am better and sharper when single. My 30's are now going to be focused on building the business I started last year, women are the lowest priority in my life right now and I feel great. Yes a womans touch is hard to replicate and maybe im fortunate that I already have had alot of that, but I really dont feel a need for it now.
I'm also been lucky to have a very active sex life...there's alot of beautiful women out there
im the exact same age 27, keen to go next level with my art and business
After a 28 Year Marriage, my Wife passed away 10 Months ago - the thought of being single is a real fear - It haunts me. People say "Wow now you're Free to do whatever you want" - but after such a long relationship, you can understand that my Mind is wired differently - not to mention that the Memories and Depression Cloud your Mind.
Hang in there man.. okay?
Good luck man - hope you are good.
Sorry to hear of your loss; I pray you are in a good place of healing now❤️🩹
Man… I’m just 23 and after being in two serious relationships (4 years then 1 year), I have decided to take serious time alone.
I read, write and practice music. As much I understand the temptation of sex, I know it’s not worth the psychological consequences (unless done in a relationship). So I’m going to work hard on myself until I’m truly ready for companionship.
same here man! meaningful art will always come first
I love it!!!! Kids grown on their own. I have freedom. Alone and very happy.
Sooo... I know this video is titled being single and it's addressed to men. I just really can relate to what you saying Taylor. There is something raw and honest about loving yourself first. I'm glad I clicked on your video.
I have been urging men to do the monk thing at least once in their lifetime. Go on a vision quest, pull back from relationships, reassess, and reconnect. Solitude and self-discipline are vital, especially for men.
🎯💯🎯
Love to know that there are people like you
Taylor,
I am a woman and completely agree with your thoughts! I am dating myself for now and it feels so peaceful.
I can find inner peace much easier when I am single...
Thank You for sharing your insights.
Ma'am what is the situation now? I am asking out of curiosity to understand and learn.
Being singles great for the guys out there that don't really have a problem getting in a relationship. The problem lies in the guys that have always been single and can't seem find one person that will pay them any attention at all
So what are you gonna do when you're 60 and can't take care of yourself? Go to a government subsidized living?
I didn’t give myself time to heal I was going relationship to relationship and now I’m Learning how to love my myself more if I’m
Not in one or If am in a relationship 🌿
Thank you Joseph for being real. This is hugely important, and I'm glad you're aware of this now. May this awareness serve you well brother!
Self pleasure is the best ✊
Single with no kids!!
Very refreshing. I’ve been completely single for twelve and a half years and during the middle of that time, experienced a profound change where I started to love it. It can be hard at times (missing touch, true love, connection, someone to “get” you, etc). It’s great to see a video like this in a society where most people can’t imagine being alone for even a year. Thank you for this and please keep making more videos for those of us who are dealing with the joys and challenges of being single. Cheers.
Sir what is the situation now? I am asking out of curiosity to understand and learn.
Climbing mountains has been my therapy for a decade now in my 20's, no music while doing it just focus on awareness of the body and breath. Keeps me grounded and in shape, nothing gives you more contentment then a solid day out in the mountains. Have spent very little time pursuing women.
True love for mountains never ends.
Yeah you've found the gift
I love you man! Your really influencing my life for the better!!
Jorge - happy to hear that what I'm creating is impacting your journey in a good way. This is ultimately why I do what I do. Money is helpful for sure, and money without meaning and purpose is just empty. Cheers to your success and happiness brother!
I’m a woman doing this. It’s been relationship after relationship, and I’m looking forward to just focusing on myself after this last one. Hoping to find someone one day who has also taken the time to work on himself, and we can both come to the relationship whole, healthy and well.
You learned a lot. Happiness comes from within; not outside of you. Focusing on your own purpose is always the thing to do whether you are single or not.
Experienced divorce lawyer here. Great video! I tell all of my male clients to take time away from dating after divorce. (I also tell them to not get remarried without a solid prenup, or just stay single).
Once you are comfortable alone, you have a clarity like nothing else can bring.
Yup, I was in the same boat in 2019, focused too much on trying to get in a relationship or sex or just have someone with me, and wasn't focusing on my purpose (my music, and upping my game on my day job). As soon as the last girl broke it off with me, i tried dating again and just kept hitting roadblocks. After awhile, I started doing no fap and semen retention to the point where it's a part of my lifestyle now. Best decision I've made.
When you are in your younger age, it is idealistic inspiring to be SINGLE throughout your life, but in your golden (old) age, dying in your bed, looking back, tears will fall from your eyes, and you wish you did the right thing... I have interviewed many single old people dying in their beds (mostly in the hospital) where I work, most of them are successful in life with their chosen field of careers but unanimously said, "DYING ALONE IS THE SADDEST PART OF THEIR LIFE."... and FRIENDS are nowhere to be found, but if you have a family of your own, even if your Spouse/Partner is not there for you (divorce), your own children or grandchildren will most probably by your side before you die... They unanimously said, "IF ONLY THEY CAN TURN BACK TIME."... unfortunately, SAD to say, "REGRETS ALWAYS COMES AT THE END."
Just making sure you have someone at your bedside when you die is NOT enough of a reason to have children. But I do agree with you that cultivating community and meaningful connections in life is very important.
I can't overstate how much this resonates. Spent my 20s chasing women while working a job I didn't really like. I have nothing but gratitude for the women I met and had relationships with along the way, but the time has finally come for me to truly be by myself and create the life I want. I was running from myself through chasing and attracting women. Feels so good to just do me and really carve out a life of my own.
Thank you for sharing.
Just found your channel, as a late bloomer my LTR of 11 years failed I was 44, (almost 48 now). Everything you stated was spot on! Younger men he is TOTALLY correct, date YOU, create YOU! When you reach your potential or on the right path you will be the most authentic you to bring into a potential relationship. But remember the self improvement and discovery never ends. After awhile the more you do the more you want to do because the reward is worth it.
Enjoy, best to all! 👍 Anthony
Cheers brother, and welcome to the channel! Thanks for confirming these truths to the younger generation. And... it's never too late to bloom. Most people die without ever having a wake-up moment, so I'm happy to hear of your success!
Being solo. Relationships are not the norm.
I think that being single is great as a guy. Especially when I look at the misery most of my friends have who are married. I could stay single forever, but I do worry about being old and being alone. That scares the shit out of me. But besides that, being single is pretty nice.
You can always go to nursing home when you will be old.
@@romanpabianczyk8870 hahaha. True. I think I'd rather go off to Thailand and just hang out in the whorehouses and on the beaches. I'd rather be dead than live in a nursing home
@@romanpabianczyk8870 But they will never treat you as a person of your own flesh and blood :)
Being scared of being an alone old guy is not a good reason to start a relationship. Starting it because it's good to love is.
But yet, feeling good with yourself is the best way to have a healthy relationship
Because no one can control you, thus you are in control of your own life. That is the mindset of one who loves his own self, truly.
Thank you so much for this eye opener. ❤
So synchronistic brother. Thank you so much. All love!
Yeah? How so. Is this something you're working on right now?
Thank you for creating this video. 🙏🏼 being single is selv love❤️
If you are single, please do not rush in finding a partner because love is not found-it is planted and cultivated until it grows. On the other hand, if you are in a relationship and you are going through some trials, be patient in working out the problems first before deciding to let go. Both being single and in a healthy relationship have beautiful benefits. You just need to figure out your season now. This way, you can enjoy your status without being pressured.
Wow! I love it, Taylor! I so agree with you! You are doing good work, sir!
Just subscribed. I need this kind of stuff now. In my 40’s, just got back to the States for over 9yrs, single, ……….
Thank you for making this video brother man
I used to like a girl in high School. She was a junior I was a sophomore. One day I thought we should hang out together, so we hung out. Got to know each other by that time I got to know her for 7 months. He said no in a very harsh way. And after that she didn't even talk to me, she just basically ended our friendship. The guy she dated was a jerk. By the time we got to junior year of high school, she looked sad but I didn't care. By the time senior year came along she had came up to me and asked me out. For the first time in three years you finally talk to me, I told her no. The reason why is because the way she treated me, and she thought I was going to be her Fallout. I dropped out because of her. But at least my life is better. I'm 23 now was 18 when this happened I was a high schooler. Unfortunately I did see her again, and she wasn't doing so well. Step back with the man she dated in high school, and they got married and ever since then her life has been miserable. I probably should have helped her it was probably because of the guys she was into I didn't. I give up right after high school look for anyone to date just said screw it I'm going to stay single. Like I said I'm 23 now and I fucking love being single.
I am learning this now. Thank you for your wisdom & instruction.
Thanks for saying so Ryan. This self-prioritization and self-love work is important. Glad this has been helpful on your journey.
You're the man Taylor. So inspirational, informative and energising. Thank you for all you do x
Hi Taylor, first timer here. I am a single man, and I am a loner and I have Autism. I live a scrub lifestyle but also a low-key straight edge lifestyle as well. I never dated or fall in love with a woman or women in general because of my low self-esteem and also I been bullied by women because of my Autism and also a male relative of mine was killed by a gang of women and they had guns and he was the target of a drive by shooting. And also I see the toxic experience from my parents being in toxic marriages and also relationships. And even as a teenager to now, I made a vow to stay single and be alone and be free and wise and love myself more and also find me and learn more about myself. I never dated, never been to my high school prom, nor never married because of toxic experience from my parents because of a toxic ill-fated relationship environment and also I am still grieving after my male relative was killed. Not only was he killed, he was robbed of his riches, money and fame and wealth as well as his life. That really crushed me. It was from that day I learned from a toxic ill-fated experience, I made a vow and goal to stay single and be alone even when I am 100 years old, I would still be single, wise, old, and still live an extraordinary lifestyle to love myself more and when I die an old fart of a man. I be a happy single old man even til eternity. I don't date women nor men because they are toxic and are demonic devil worshippers and not only that, male and females get me paranoid and I'll be the next victim of red rum after the death of my relative. Even with my mental illness, I cannot fathom toxic people, they only want 2 things maybe actually four. Sex, money, stress, death, and murder. I ain't trying to get killed. I ain't trying to get an STD nor get anybody pregnant. Besides, I ain't trying to catch cooties by a woman or women in general nor a man. Haaaaaack!!!!!! Cooties. I got plenty of idol time to love myself more and find myself to learn about me, myself, and I. Why be in a relationship when u can have a relationship with yourself. I maybe a man in my mid-30's but Im a "baby" my damn self. I don't need no women or men. I need me, myself, and I and my money, money, money. No offense, but I believe that women should be with other women and as for a man to be gay. Better love you for you and to love the Almighty God and Jesus Christ. The only thing I love is me, myself and I and to love God Almighty and Jesus Christ and my money. Self love is the only best pure love like an innocence of the Almighty God. All I can say is love yourself because you are with yourself 24/7 and 48 hours a day everyday. And learn more about yourself. Everlasting love is to love yourself. And I am a male nun and u still ain't getting nun. I love myself to be single and safe and also man up about life and self desire to live alone. Enough said.
Many thanks for sharing your deep and personal experiences with us 💝
I'm 39, will be 40 in a few months and I'm committing to being completely single and commit to myself and my goals for the next year.
Love your content Taylor always so insightful and helpful.
Glad this has been helpful for you brother, thanks for saying so.
Hello! It had been tormenting days while being under the pressure of natural urges and entailing habits. Your practice has been strengthening. Thanks for the video!
Happy to hear! Thanks for your words brother. Gives me fuel to make more!
I would say that being single and being with someone is on average the same. After some months you get to your happiness baseline no matter what.
I'm way happier free than bound to a woman.
Before i started dating my girl i thought to myself, should i let her in? ( I noticed she got emotional easily), i am so happy right now focused on meditation and spirituality, so said, I will let her in, she was chasing me and she was also into spirituality and meditation so I thought, great we can both do what I love and she will be a really relaxed person because she likes to meditate, 2 years later all she cares about is money and buying material things , spending moeny , zero emotional control and my emotional control although quite good went down the drain 😂😂.
I learned the cause of my anxiety in the time with her, lack of sleep and overtraining at the gym. I went through an emotional relationship while on anxiety, now that i do not have anxiety and space from the relationship i feel like life is so easy haha. I started meditating because of anxiety but now i so not even need to, it is crazy how good i feel.
Thank you, brother, I needed to hear this. 👍
Awesome. Glad it was helpful for ya.
After a row of relationships and longer dating Im single for over 1.5 yr without anybody. Im at a stage I think Im not even able to have a relationship in the future. I love my me time so much. No bickering, no akward talks, no headache or doubts. Its a true relieve (Im a 46 yr old woman).
Great video, thanks for creating it.
I was always happy being single but my problem was running to porn when ever I felt alone or I would desperately want to be a part of hook up culture. That the less it would happen.
Now Im finally porn free and haven't even bothered to go on a dating app. And I'm realizing how special commitment can be
Bro, can u help me? Any advices how to become free of porn addiction??
Thank you So Much I needed this
This is an excellent presentation. In my own experience I can say that I resonate with your message pretty much completely. There are many parallels in my experience that align with what you've said and how you've lived. Of course we are all individuals with our own unique paths, but the general message, here, is in my view, a solid direction in discovering oneself and life destiny. And I also agree that this 'single' journey can lead, if one so choses, to more fulfilling 'relationship' than otherwise would be afforded without this 'journey'. Finding oneself, first and foremost, is the 'Key' to the fulfilled life.
I was Desperetely looking for someone to help me in my SR Journey.
I found you, Your Videos are like Research findings and Applicable steps for me.
More Focused who I'm and want to be, being *Single* 😐
I needed this, thx man
Sometimes I kinda feel lonely, but when I look at some others, I’ve noticed that the ones who are “hotter” don’t have strong relationships, like they have gf for like 5 months and then break up, they don’t take the time to know each other, at least that is what I feel.
I’m single right now so I can focus a lot on myself, so when the exact moment comes, I will meet that one woman.
Yeah, being not in a relationship enables us to grow as a person in a deeper level 😊
Here because I've been single nearly 3 years and am absolutely fed up. Here for inspiration.
I am genuinely happy being single. Honestly man i feel like an enlightened being. I work for few more year and then i retire from work too. I am just 26 now. I am kinda done with the relationships. I am so peaceful and relaxed. Such an amazing life that I have.
An excellent message! Bravo
Worth talking about eh? :D
This video popped up on my recommendation, and I love it I'm a 33 year old man who's also single because of the following reason...when I finished my graduation in college at the age of 23, I got a job in an IT firm and I started to make a good may grade but I was more concerned with my mother coz usually she was sick and needed someone to take care of her I kept trying to get married as soon as possible but it was all in vain when I turned 26, my mother passed away and I felt alone but still tried so that I might get lucky but after another two years of trying, I finally gave up, the girl I had crush on during my early 20's warned her parents that she loves someone else and would commit suicide if they force her to marry me. And now I'm feeling alone not coz I'm not married, coz I miss my mom with who cared for me like no one else. I hate married guys and they piss me off even if they act friendly to me
Heal the perception of your past
Maybe you believe "I need to be married (at age x) in order to be happy", that society's bullshit
@@bryanpatrick1937 it has been 5 years already and I'm happy being single. Also too much work diverts my attention now especially when u have to work for 12 hours
Sir what is the situation now? I am asking out of curiosity to understand and learn.
im so glad i found your channel
I´m 54, never married and no kids.... best decision so far in my life....
I'm 59 years old ,and I love being single . I focus on my business which allows me to travel which I enjoy and to do other things ,. I live in Miami Beach , never thought I would be able to afford a place like this it happen . I don't have to worry about the drama and the other BS of marriage. I like being free . I can honestly say, I don't need women . Many times women tried to start a conversation and , I walked the other way . Single? Awesome
I needed to hear this
hey mate, when is your next upload I can't wait for it, I enjoy your content so much.
I can’t cheat on myself or give myself unnecessary drama , that’s a big plus .
I found this video and Your life sounds like my own. I’ve always had a woman in my life since I was 18. 22 years of relationship to relationship, or dating.
Im recently divorced after 15 years and I’m thinking I need a different approach to life.
Im seeing a pattern of broken relationships and I need to be happy being by myself.
Thanks for your honesty man and I’m going to start my life over, tomorrow’s a new day buddy.
How did you go? Still single?
God bless you, man.
Same to you brother - AND may we bless ourselves with proactive action in the world. 🔥
I am exactly in this phase. I love it. I have never had so much purpose and love for life like right now. :)
Ultimately I would like to be with someone and have a future with that person. But, I'm quite happy being single, focusing on myself and just knowing I'm not a desperate person like some people are, to me is one goal I'm proud of and want to reach my other goals 😁
Fascinating. Recently single after years and years. Thanks for the knowledge
I've always struggled with really being grounded and happy with myself. I started meditation, yoga and increased the gym time and have been single for one year now. From time to time I found myself falling back into old habits, especially with women and quickly started desiring what could come next with these persons that led to heartbreaks. After realizing that I had to change this as it's pulling me away from my real goals. Just 10 days ago I found your channel by searching for the no fap movements. Have been watching a few videos of yours now and I am really confident that your content is just right for me. Also bought the napoleon book, started with no fap 10 days ago and will start Qigong! Thanks for the inspiration Taylor! Keep it up!
I agree, I've been in relationships that don't last. I love being single, I'm taking a year for myself, I've learned so much for myself. I'm dating myself know. Thank you for the video.
I'm single and it's taking some getting use to. But it's getting better every day.
Happy to hear. Bring single (and using this time intentionally) can be one of the best ways to create the life you want. Then, while pursuing your life, any new romantic or sexual partner can be part of your new direction (vs you getting swayed in any other direction).
Peace. 1 year out of a 36 year marriage. 34 years sober…..Struggling to come to terms with being alone though. Looking inward.