Absofuckinglutley. No more anxiety waiting for my partner to get home and wondering if I'm going to be in "trouble" and put down over and over. Fuck that noise.
I🙂 am never lonely with Me🤠 and Myself😎 by my side. Then there's God. How anyone can be lonely with God in the same room makes absolutely no sense to me.
I have never met a single person who is happy most are just fearful of being with anyone. The ruling elite are out to depopulate the world and this single is great is just part of the agenda. Single people can not protect themselves. It will be the death of the human race.
🙂 When you're incomplete, that means you have time to work on your incomplete issues. You then realize you're already complete with your inner self, so why do you need anyone else to mess up your life with you and your inner self? 🙂
@@nearlyretired7005 Don't fool yourself....it's impossible to be totally free when you're married, as there will always be commitments, explanations, and even if you don't want to, you'll have to comply.....
Been single for 9 years and recently got involved with a woman and said nope... going back to being single was better. Peace and quiet and clarity is so much better. Love it...
Iv been settled down for 21 years. Settled down single. Since I was 40. Had enough of fake shallow relationships especially with the Western woman of today. Done with it all. Peace & quiet at my time of life - can’t equal it. 😊
@@mfisher1952 I proposed marriage once & once only. 38 years ago. Left her during the first year - psychotic. Been single ever since. At 60, will remain so until I pop me clogs. 😊👍
Do you not realize that what you’re complaining about means you’re actually talking about yourself? And that’s why you think everybody is shallow. Because you’re making a negative comment about “people” that you know nothing about therefore, you are judging them therefore it actually makes you shallow.
I don't need to imagine it. I lived it for 12 yrs. And, inexplicably, sought it out once freed from it. Came to my senses eventually, embraced the moniker "confirmed bachelor", & have zero regrets. Well - maybe a few... for the one(s) that got away... but I'm quite happy not playing The Game, not failing to live up to someone else's expectations, not explaining why I part my hair that way or wear that shirt or listen to that music. I'm who I want to be and hurt no one else in the process.
I love being single. I enjoy my freedom. I’m 50 yr old. Never been married with no kids. I date at my own leisure. Go where and when and with whom or on my own.I do not feel the need or want to be in a relationship because it’s a threat to my singleness and peace of mind.
Times have changed. A toxic person legally attached to you can cost your health with stress, land you in jail provoked into dv charges or destroy you financially in divorce. 70 yrs ago it was safer. Today....just be friends.
I understand exactly what you're saying. I'm 43 My mental health is more important than sufficing what society thinks I should be doing. So there's that lol
I have been single forever and I am 52 years old now. It is sad for me, I feel lonely and depressed for never having found a woman who likes me. Not feeling desired is depressing. Unfortunately I am not very good looking, I am poor, low social status and insecure, shy and stuck. Maybe I am an Incel. Advice for me? Should I resign myself to being single forever? In your opinion, is it better to give up or keep fighting to find a woman?
58 and a Forever Bachelor. Uncle Bill warned me at 18 to Never Marry.....I listened!! Watched the majority of my friends get divorce raped and 3 commit suicide per the same. Enjoy life and your freedom. Timmy C Arizona
I've been single 55 out of my 65 years on this planet. I have a cat, several good friends, my own home, and hobbies. I wouldn't want it any other way. Life is good. If it aint broke don't fix it.
I too have a cat, I have been single forever and I am 52 years old now. It is sad for me, I feel lonely and depressed for never having found a woman who likes me. Not feeling desired is depressing. Unfortunately I am not very good looking, I am poor, low social status and insecure, shy and stuck. Maybe I am an Incel. Advice for me? Should I resign myself to being single forever? In your opinion, is it better to give up or keep fighting to find a woman?
Being single can help you explore the more and achieve more and more things. Less stress and more enjoyment. Marriages and relationships are just a mirage which makes you feel that there is something out there.
I’m single, never married, 71 years old… nice home, pension, social security, nice brokerage account… three or four international trips a year… couldn’t be happier…
I have been single forever and I am 52 years old now. It is sad for me, I feel lonely and depressed for never having found a woman who likes me. Not feeling desired is depressing. Unfortunately I am not very good looking, I am poor, low social status and insecure, shy and stuck. Maybe I am an Incel. Advice for me? Should I resign myself to being single forever? In your opinion, is it better to give up or keep fighting to find a woman?
Hello friend, don't you feel lonely at home? After 50 I feel very lonely, and in old age, who will take care of me? I worry that there will be no woman to love me in my old age, and no hug, no kiss. It scares me to think about this
@@rubenburger2621 I never actually fall asleep, it's always that sweet spot between sleep and awake, right on the edge of sleep but still aware of my surroundings
Go out where you want, when you want, and how you want. No baggage, no drama, and no compromise. It's life on your terms and nobody else's. Me and my daughter have great times just goofing off and enjoying each other's company. Me and her mom split when she was barely 1, but we do what we please when we please. Life is simple, and good.
I have been single forever and I am 52 years old now. It is sad for me, I feel lonely and depressed for never having found a woman who likes me. Not feeling desired is depressing. Unfortunately I am not very good looking, I am poor, low social status and insecure, shy and stuck. Maybe I am an Incel. Advice for me? Should I resign myself to being single forever? In your opinion, is it better to give up or keep fighting to find a woman?
Been single for a long time now. I'm 64 and every one of your reasons are the exact same that I've stayed single. I don't recommend it for everyone. I'm also single because I understand I'm not the easiest person to live with. Relationships are complicated. Just like your video has explained. I've been able to travel on a whim. Quit jobs on the spot and move somewhere else for another. Do my intellectual pursuits such as reading and music without any interruptions except my own. The list goes on. The best part is I've never put any one else through the burden of a relationship with me. Being single has also helped me step outside those around me and view the world from a broader perspective than just my own and those immediately around me. It also helps when someone needs someone to listen to, I can be there without anyone else telling me that I have to get going etc. Thank you for this
Hello friend, don't you feel lonely at home? After 50 I feel very lonely, and in old age, who will take care of me? I worry that there will be no woman to love me in my old age, and no hug, no kiss. It scares me to think about this
@@orianogiorgetti6459what if she dies before you? You're in same boat. Just accept your gonna die alone and make every moment count til then. I have, it's liberating
Love is what it matters, being married or single...Single life can be tough and lonely, but marriage without love is even worse. We are wired to love and be loved, that is purpose of life. Marriage in theory should be love institution, but in most cases it is not.
I love not being married. Seems to me everyone wants to fit in so they get married instead of weighing pros and cons and being a non conformist and enjoy one’s own company.
I ended up single by default, got hit with ulcerative colitis at 20, knew then having kids was not smart, had no ability to attract women, didn't have first date until 35, last one at 46, none were fun, and I accepted I'll never marry, at 67 it's been game over for yrs. my life got easier once I stopped believing I would marry
I have been single forever and I am 52 years old now. It is sad for me, I feel lonely and depressed for never having found a woman who likes me. Not feeling desired is depressing. Unfortunately I am not very good looking, I am poor, low social status and insecure, shy and stuck. Maybe I am an Incel. Advice for me? Should I resign myself to being single forever? In your opinion, is it better to give up or keep fighting to find a woman?
@@orianogiorgetti6459dude if you get a woman sure it'll be great for awhile then turn to crap when she uses you and leaves and you'll be feeling worse than you do now. Get hobbies, keep busy. You're ahead of the game and don't even know it
Being single is literally the best thing ever. I have a partner, but I still consider myself single because I live by myself, do whatever I want, it's just awesome loll. This video brings back so many memories of when I was in my twenties living in apartments and I would literally do everything myself, I would fix things myself, make all the executive decisions, now I'm in my early 30s and I have more than enough money to pay people to do that stuff for me but being that I had to do everything myself in my twenties has more than equipped me with everything that I need for the rest of my life. I'm so thankful to that ❤
Good point. There's not much for me to do with people at my place. I would do board games & video games with 3 women at once if I had the opportunity. There are some benefits to having friends of the opposite sex.
Hello friend, don't you feel lonely at home? After 50 I feel very lonely, and in old age, who will take care of me? I worry that there will be no woman to love me in my old age, and no hug, no kiss. It scares me to think about this
Number 13 is my favorite. Deciding when and how you gift yourself something is fun. I just rewarded myself with a 21-day vacation to Italy. Stress free and every moment was amazing!
Even if you don’t have issues with the opposite sex, marriage and of course parenthood is NO LONGER AFFORDABLE. Most people cannot get a paycheck that covers the spirals of inflation and bread and butter basic costs, which continue into the stratosphere by the month. It all adds up to unimaginable stress and strain on any relationship…any.
Hello friend, don't you feel lonely at home? After 50 I feel very lonely, and in old age, who will take care of me? I worry that there will be no woman to love me in my old age, and no hug, no kiss. It scares me to think about this
I have been single forever and I am 52 years old now. It is sad for me, I feel lonely and depressed for never having found a woman who likes me. Not feeling desired is depressing. Unfortunately I am not very good looking, I am poor, low social status and insecure, shy and stuck. Maybe I am an Incel. Advice for me? Should I resign myself to being single forever? In your opinion, is it better to give up or keep fighting to find a woman?
If you are single people question you. Especially for females. Women who aren't in relationships are made to feel like there is something wrong with them. They haven't found prince charming. I can remember people saying about a single woman that's she's been left on the shelf. For men people question his sexuality. He must be gay. I'm in my sixties and love living on my own and without a partner. I prefer it now.
Single not my choice at first, but now happily single and am very content. I was married 2x & raised a family. I had 2 post-marriage serious relationships. I never expected to be in this place, but after spending my entire adult life (both marriages in young 20s) attached in relationships, it has been my time to simply live on my terms & with the freedom found in being single. The only one ever missed is the one that ended last, nearly 4 years ago... but I knew that was the end for me. My heart & soul closed permanently that day, after being fully open only to be crushed. But I am OK. Again, learned to be on my own & simply me. Life is definitely a journey rather than a destination💫
A relationship is like any other investment. You have to gauge what is the return in investment (ROI). A common refrain today is what do you bring to the table. I am 61, retired, divorced 20 years, and happy. Why would I want to invite drama, accusations, criticism, nagging, and problems into my life only to lose half my stuff at the end? What's in it for me? Relationships rarely pencil out. It's no wonder that 50% of them fail.
Relationships are often a "sunk cost." Once you invest the time, energy and resources in some woman, that investment is gone forever. - My opinion: If a woman can't bring me more money, personal power and sex, then... - I have zero interest in them. = One particular woman, I was young, I had nothing when I married her. Four years later... I then divorced her and walked at with $330,000 in cash. Another one provided me with a path to organization power and awesome sex, but cost me, as she was insanely jealous and an emotional wreck. Now, I have been single for 5 years. It is just not important for me to sink more time, energy, and resources into a woman. I am set for life. -
I don’t want to be single, but I find it hard to meet like minded people. I live in the mountains and have to travel to see people. It’s tough as we age because we get set in our ways and don’t want to take on someone else’s baggage. It does get lonely though.☹️
Totally understand your situation, however, I don’t get lonely. Decided 21 years ago not to ever date again, when I turned 40. 27 years of knowing God in Christ, couple of long standing mature ( male ) friends, both believers, dog, house in countryside. Part time work. Need nothing else.
Only only if you allow it. Develope interests. Join clubs, adopt a cause. Volunteer at a hospital. I've always been single. So busy the day ends fast. My grandma said : only boring people get bored. Guess it can apply to lonely too. There's so much to get involved in, one can't get lonely.
Having and defining your own living space is the most important, I think. Your home becomes an enlargement of your personality. Everything in it represents your taste, preferences and ideas. It is your mind writ large. Women do not regard a shared living space as equal. As instinctive nest-builders, they see the home as primarily theirs, within which the male partner simply cohabits. He is little more than a lodger who pays the mortgage and sleeps with his landlady. You only have to look around a married couple's house to see how the husband's tastes and preferences are marginalised while hers are manifest everywhere. All too often, the husband's personal expressions of life are relegated to a single room, the garage or the garden shed. This is why a wife always expects to kick the husband out of the family home when the marriage fails, and tends to be more traumatized and violated by burglary and home invasion...
Nice explanation and we'll put, that confirms my own observations. I cringe when men reference their man-shed as if that were a source of pride or independence when in reality he bought the whole frigging house but has been marginalised to a tiny place within it to call his own. They look so crestfallen when I explain this, but it's true, they've been banished to the coldest, dirtiest, furthest away place in their house so she can enjoy the centrally heated, carpeted, big screen living space with kitchen & utilities. It's all about her comfort not yours, yet men just don't see it.
I wished I would have experienced singlehood when I was younger. I'm doing it as an older person, which is so satisfying. I don't choose well, so I plan to stay single.
The downside to marriage is much worse than the average person realizes; I’m including myself in that statement because I used to be the average optimistic man. I see a lot of content highlighting how wives have the upper hand once they are married and in some ways I agree but marriage can be devastating to both men and women. There are spouses who lie , steal ,cheat , alienate their children and relatives, sabotage their spouse, try to drive their spouse to a mental breaking point and even murder. A person doesn’t lose “ half “ in a divorce you can lose everything and it’s still not over after the divorce the collateral damage seems to never end . I wish it weren’t the case.
Hello friend, don't you feel lonely at home? After 50 I feel very lonely, and in old age, who will take care of me? I worry that there will be no woman to love me in my old age, and no hug, no kiss. It scares me to think about this
Hello friend, don't you feel lonely at home? After 50 I feel very lonely, and in old age, who will take care of me? I worry that there will be no woman to love me in my old age, and no hug, no kiss. It scares me to think about this
I'm glad I'm single I love my freedom and my life and my drama free with no argue and no emotions and physical abuse. No fighting and no one always thinks u cheating on them and ECT. Thank god. I see my friends go through drama and toxic people and I'm happy myself. I enjoy my privacy and my life. People think I'm crazy cause I don't want a relationship. I'm happy
Been single for a while. I love it,not a single worry. Don’t have to worry about someone else’s BULLSHIT AND CHILDISH DRAMA,KEEP MY MONEY,PAY MY OWN BILLS,DON’T HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT BABY DADDY BULLSHIT OR THOSE BASTARD KIDS,etc💯💯
Being single can be not by choice but happenstance. I have been single for nigh on 9 ½ years. Originally it was not like that I wanted to find my missus. Then it went to living with being single, not many choices out there in rural America. Now it is a choice. I choose to be single. It has allowed me to live in places that I so choose but also to travel to places, do certain things, and to take care of me myself. Which is helping me move forward. Do I want a wife, it sure would be great. Do I want children? I don’t know at my age. These are things that I must be able to answer freely. Now excuse me, I am going fishing. LOL😊😊😊
So true. Being single is better far away than in relationships. No dating. No romantic. no kids. No stress. No need to spend a lot of money for your partner like valentines and gift. No tax. You can Freedom what yo can do whatever you want. Masterbation is better than actual sex because low risky likes STD Hepatitis etc. you are not dirty you are clean person because you are solo sex. No harmful. No stressful. No cheating and you are healthy.
I absolutely love and agree with your comments about masturbation! Solo sex is the way to go. No drama! No worrying whether someone else is "satisfied ". No worrying about pregnancies or STDs. It's clean and hassle free. Just gotta wash your hand off afterwards lol 😂 👍
I have been alone my adult life. I am now 67. I had been married but was still alone most times. At first she was doing the things with me. She claimed she liked the things I liked. But it was not long I was doing everything by myself. So I divorced her. And I enjoy being alone much more then being alone having someone and being alone. I see couples fighting over stupid things. The one just waiting for the other to say anything to then twist it into a argument. I myself enjoy not having to beg to buy something I want. Or ask if I can go to a place. Or if I can stay out until I feel like coming home. I do whatever I want. And having moved to Montana in the mountains with all the wildlife that comes on my property. Elk and deer and mountain lion or bears and coyote. Just all kinds. I am never lonely. And there is no negotiation with any of the wildlife. They come and go as they please. And so do I.
@@marianmoses9604I totally agree with that. Relationships where the couples don't live together or sometimes aren't even intimately involved are just so romantic. Kate and Leo Adam and Drew Harrison Ford and Carrie Fisher I never want to get married. It absolutely kills the romance.
Am 25years and i have never dated ever and i really enjoy being single staying home alone going out alone then sleeping alone staying even a week without a call i just keep i myself happy with my 4n at work am still alone and i love it
Hello friend, don't you feel lonely at home? After 50 I feel very lonely, and in old age, who will take care of me? I worry that there will be no woman to love me in my old age, and no hug, no kiss. It scares me to think about this
In my late 60s almost all my friends are married to their high schools sweet hearts,my wife died and if I some how knew I could have a relationship as rewarding as the one with my wife I would do it in a heart beat.I say good morning to someone’s cat every morning give it a treat and that’s about what my love life is now.This how wonderful being single is is some new construct.👎
I have been single for a decent while now. I love it. I have my daughter, our freedom, each other, and our own personal and shared happiness. Life is simple, and good.
It’s the best to be single!! I have been all throughout my life till now, I’m 30 now and I’m completely enjoying it…cheers to the rest part of my life and to all those who’ve been great people to me.
Being single for me wasn't a choice. Im getting accustomed to be a widower. I haven't been single in over 40 years. This video was discovered at a perfect time for me. Thank you.
I’m 34 and been single for almost 10 years now. There are lonely times but overall I’m good.😊😊😊 Not gonna lie, after that big heart break and take my time to heal, that was also the moment where my career, self care grows. And I became a master of third wheel. They always invited me because I can go everytime.. Warning! Being single is quite addictive..
1.Fostering independence and self-reliance 2.Flexible future planning 3.Avoiding relationship stress 4.Opportunity for varied experiences 5.Investing in personal development 6. Health and wellness on your terms 7.Building stronger platonic relationships 8.Uninterrupted personal space and time 9.Freedom to establish personal boundaries 10.Unbiased decision making 11.Embracing self-sufficiency 12.More oppertunities for spontaneity 13.The joy of self-pampering 14.Learning at one's own space 15.Redefined success metrics 16.Less emotional drama 17.Opportunity to reconnect with oneself 18.Tailored living environment 19.Freedom to relocate 20.Crafting A unique narrative
Hello friend, don't you feel lonely at home? After 50 I feel very lonely, and in old age, who will take care of me? I worry that there will be no woman to love me in my old age, and no hug, no kiss. It scares me to think about this
As a man if sex is important to you (of course it is) the best way to not have it (except during the bait and switch period) is to get into a long term monogamous relationship with a woman. Singlehood rocks, no drama peace and quiet.
Getting married then wasting 30 years of my life was one of the dumbest things I have ever done..Back to single and freedom!..No more appease the ungrateful
That's why men fail. With that attitude. Men and women today don't know how to date. You don't date a person for money or wealth. You find a person to grow with.
Thank You for such wisdom. Many singles need to watch, absorb and apply this. Too easy to jump into the doubles game, without Divine guidance, then experience the big “D” later on. Some people are just not meant to have partners, so they stay single and become, no matter what age they are allowed by God to get to, become much better versions of themselves.
“Everybody needs a place to rest , everybody wants to have a home. don’t make no difference what nobody says , ain’t nobody like to be alone “ - Bruce Springsteen
I am single and 31, never have had a boyfriend, I am so happy, as I am asexual, I have never worried about STDS or pregnancy, that Actually is the most valuable thing in life, my body is just mine, I am not sharing,
Sometimes, having a kind and loyal partner to share life's challenges would 'soften the edges' of experiences such as difficult medical interventions, for example. However, just because a person has a partner, does not automatically mean that person is supportive or compatible. Creativity is often hampered by being expected to attend to the wants of another. There is a lot to be said for the freedom to live one's life on one's own terms, without compromising, in order to maintain a harmonious relationship. It seems, 'the grass is always greener on the other side of the hill.' Those of us who are single, may occasionally envy those who are married, rarely does one hear the opposite lament. Though one may stick out like a sore thumb when one is single and everyone else attends a social event with a partner, but there is now less of a stigma when one is unattached.
A wise friend of mine told of mine told me years ago "HE DIDN'T EVEN KNOW WHAT HAPPINESS WAS TILL HE GOT MARRIED..... THEN IT WAS TO LATE.... Words of wisdom there !!!!!! 😮 😂 😅
I’m 55 and single, divorced twice. Empty nester, No debt, own everything I have. I have a nice house, an RV a few other cars and toys and considering buying a McLaren soon. I will never marry again.
It boils down to what belief we want to practice . I have the belief that it’s ok and often pleasant to be single and because of this belief im ok. If i would have a belief that i have to have a relationship to be happy- then that would lead me to be miserable
Been single most of my life. I function much better this way. After the last few relationships I have zero plans of being romantically involved ever again. I have a ton of great friends, and that is all I need!
Being single means no headaches no arguments..... There is no price for freedom and peace in your life !!!
💯
Wow! Couldn't say it better myself. Love your comment.💯👍
Absofuckinglutley. No more anxiety waiting for my partner to get home and wondering if I'm going to be in "trouble" and put down over and over. Fuck that noise.
I've yet to meet a woman worth more than a cup of tea and a book.
Most of them are pretty useless.
@@lmcov4 Same. So happy now that i'm single !!
I'm single and it can be lonely at times but it makes me grateful when I see other people's toxic relationships
I embrace the "loneliness"
I DO NOT WANT ANOTHER PERSON AROUND ME 😁
People come stay and I have to make them leave lol
I don't answer the door.
@@thewiseguy3529😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I🙂 am never lonely with Me🤠 and Myself😎 by my side. Then there's God. How anyone can be lonely with God in the same room makes absolutely no sense to me.
I have known so many unhappily married people I can't count them.
I see them at Walmart and work... All they have is the image ..I'm sure they are bored of each other
100%. Got 2 male mates both on their second marriage. Both
looking to get out. Nuts 🌰
I have never met a single person who is happy most are just fearful of being with anyone. The ruling elite are out to depopulate the world and this single is great is just part of the agenda. Single people can not protect themselves. It will be the death of the human race.
You think they would have learned after the first time. @@paulfitzpatrick6566
@@trickywily2823😌 TRUE...More like miserable...😀😂😁😜😝😛😋
"When a man is unmarried, they say he is incomplete. When he is married they say he is finished."
~Arthur Schopenhauer
I love being incomplete 😁
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Nice😂😂😂😂😂😂
I love being incomplete..😂😂😂😂😂
It makes me laugh and cry at the same time.
I don't want to think.😂😂😂😂😂🎉
🙂 When you're incomplete, that means you have time to work on your incomplete issues. You then realize you're already complete with your inner self, so why do you need anyone else to mess up your life with you and your inner self? 🙂
I would say when a man is unmarried he is complete, when married finished.
Singleness = FREEDOM 👌🏾💯
exactly
You can be married and have freedom!
Those who are truly happy understand this!
@@nearlyretired7005 Don't fool yourself....it's impossible to be totally free when you're married, as there will always be commitments, explanations, and even if you don't want to, you'll have to comply.....
Been single for 9 years and recently got involved with a woman and said nope... going back to being single was better.
Peace and quiet and clarity is so much better.
Love it...
men don't want drama, we want peace and a cooperative woman, hard to get that now
Many women have friends and relatives whom live Drama Lives. I consider them less civilized and not in my league of civility.
@@michaelsix9684are u a cooperative man 😂
Me too
@@michaelsix9684 What do you mean by "cooperative" ? ,-)
I dont want to marry someone elses problems.
Another man's problems 🤣🤣🤣
Don’t let them make their issues your issues.
Don't forget when you marry them you're marrying their family 😜
@@thewiseguy3529 Thank you for the reminder, we have guys in this town who married Philippines and they are always being visited by their families"
Iv been settled down for 21 years. Settled down single. Since I was 40. Had enough of fake shallow relationships especially with the Western woman of today. Done with it all. Peace & quiet at my time of life - can’t equal it. 😊
Same here, had enough of all the cheating, lying men.
Hear...hear!!
I've only proposed marriage when I want or need
to terrify someone. Works every time.
@@mfisher1952 I proposed marriage once & once only. 38 years ago. Left her during the first year - psychotic. Been single ever since. At 60, will remain so until I pop me clogs. 😊👍
Do you not realize that what you’re complaining about means you’re actually talking about yourself?
And that’s why you think everybody is shallow. Because you’re making a negative comment about “people” that you know nothing about therefore, you are judging them
therefore it actually makes you shallow.
"Alone" literally means "all one" which means you are whole! ❤
Exactly your energy is in unity it's not being split apart. That's right 👍🏼 excellent observation
Now if you're already whole, why the heck do you need anyone else?! 🙂
Thats deep bro
Imagine getting off work, going home to drama. No thank you!!!!!
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😅
I don't need to imagine it. I lived it for 12 yrs. And, inexplicably, sought it out once freed from it. Came to my senses eventually, embraced the moniker "confirmed bachelor", & have zero regrets. Well - maybe a few... for the one(s) that got away... but I'm quite happy not playing The Game, not failing to live up to someone else's expectations, not explaining why I part my hair that way or wear that shirt or listen to that music. I'm who I want to be and hurt no one else in the process.
Maybe not home, but, off sleeping with somebody else"
Exactly
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Kkkkkkkkkkk
I love being single. I enjoy my freedom. I’m 50 yr old. Never been married with no kids. I date at my own leisure. Go where and when and with whom or on my own.I do not feel the need or want to be in a relationship because it’s a threat to my singleness and peace of mind.
Times have changed. A toxic person legally attached to you can cost your health with stress, land you in jail provoked into dv charges or destroy you financially in divorce. 70 yrs ago it was safer. Today....just be friends.
I understand exactly what you're saying. I'm 43
My mental health is more important than sufficing what society thinks I should be doing. So there's that lol
Amen!
WOW...
I'm 50 also...
I'm HAPPILY DIVORCED...
Marrying my ex husband is my life's
#1 regret...😢
I have been single forever and I am 52 years old now. It is sad for me, I feel lonely and depressed for never having found a woman who likes me. Not feeling desired is depressing. Unfortunately I am not very good looking, I am poor, low social status and insecure, shy and stuck. Maybe I am an Incel. Advice for me? Should I resign myself to being single forever? In your opinion, is it better to give up or keep fighting to find a woman?
58 and a Forever Bachelor. Uncle Bill warned me at 18 to Never Marry.....I listened!! Watched the majority of my friends get divorce raped and 3 commit suicide per the same. Enjoy life and your freedom. Timmy C Arizona
I'm 58 and took the opposite path. Got divorce raped, child support for 18 yrs, barely survived but I'm happy now single
@@kindredspiritzz66 Awesome attitude. Enjoy life.....!!
I've been single 55 out of my 65 years on this planet. I have a cat, several good friends, my own home, and hobbies. I wouldn't want it any other way. Life is good. If it aint broke don't fix it.
I too have a cat, I have been single forever and I am 52 years old now. It is sad for me, I feel lonely and depressed for never having found a woman who likes me. Not feeling desired is depressing. Unfortunately I am not very good looking, I am poor, low social status and insecure, shy and stuck. Maybe I am an Incel. Advice for me? Should I resign myself to being single forever? In your opinion, is it better to give up or keep fighting to find a woman?
Enjoy your blessings...your free@@orianogiorgetti6459
After 13yrs of being married,
I have embraced my new normal of Singleness and SELF ❤💃🏿🥰
Ever noticed how married people push marriage on single people but single people DON'T push being single onto others?
They want to see you suffer too" especially my male friends.
@@justinallport9789 Maybe that, but also maybe you are never going to be fully accepted as single in married circles...
@@midnightblue1874 point well noted"
Misery loves company, as they say.
misery loves company
Being single can help you explore the more and achieve more and more things. Less stress and more enjoyment. Marriages and relationships are just a mirage which makes you feel that there is something out there.
What?😂
Peace of mind is priceless
I used to bemoan my singleness, and now I love it!
@@matthewmitchell68 you're old now too I bet?
I’m single, never married, 71 years old… nice home, pension, social security, nice brokerage account… three or four international trips a year… couldn’t be happier…
That’s what I’m talking about.
God speed
Congratulations! Who cares 😂
I have been single forever and I am 52 years old now. It is sad for me, I feel lonely and depressed for never having found a woman who likes me. Not feeling desired is depressing. Unfortunately I am not very good looking, I am poor, low social status and insecure, shy and stuck. Maybe I am an Incel. Advice for me? Should I resign myself to being single forever? In your opinion, is it better to give up or keep fighting to find a woman?
Hello friend, don't you feel lonely at home? After 50 I feel very lonely, and in old age, who will take care of me? I worry that there will be no woman to love me in my old age, and no hug, no kiss. It scares me to think about this
I can take a nap, on weekends, as many times as I want. Lol
Oh dude I love that, perfectly quiet house, nobody asking me why I'm taking a nap or when are u getting up? It's bliss
I used to take naps after school but now I've found that I can't fall asleep in the afternoon
@@rubenburger2621 I never actually fall asleep, it's always that sweet spot between sleep and awake, right on the edge of sleep but still aware of my surroundings
Go out where you want, when you want, and how you want. No baggage, no drama, and no compromise. It's life on your terms and nobody else's. Me and my daughter have great times just goofing off and enjoying each other's company. Me and her mom split when she was barely 1, but we do what we please when we please. Life is simple, and good.
"Happy wife, happy life."
Have you ever *met* a happy wife?
Neither have I.
Stupid saying. I think gay men say that😂
Sometimes being alone is lonely. But being alone isn't as bad as wishing you were.
I have been single forever and I am 52 years old now. It is sad for me, I feel lonely and depressed for never having found a woman who likes me. Not feeling desired is depressing. Unfortunately I am not very good looking, I am poor, low social status and insecure, shy and stuck. Maybe I am an Incel. Advice for me? Should I resign myself to being single forever? In your opinion, is it better to give up or keep fighting to find a woman?
Been single for a long time now. I'm 64 and every one of your reasons are the exact same that I've stayed single. I don't recommend it for everyone. I'm also single because I understand I'm not the easiest person to live with. Relationships are complicated. Just like your video has explained. I've been able to travel on a whim. Quit jobs on the spot and move somewhere else for another. Do my intellectual pursuits such as reading and music without any interruptions except my own. The list goes on. The best part is I've never put any one else through the burden of a relationship with me. Being single has also helped me step outside those around me and view the world from a broader perspective than just my own and those immediately around me. It also helps when someone needs someone to listen to, I can be there without anyone else telling me that I have to get going etc. Thank you for this
Hello friend, don't you feel lonely at home? After 50 I feel very lonely, and in old age, who will take care of me? I worry that there will be no woman to love me in my old age, and no hug, no kiss. It scares me to think about this
@@orianogiorgetti6459what if she dies before you? You're in same boat. Just accept your gonna die alone and make every moment count til then. I have, it's liberating
ABSOLUTELY! Love flying solo; 68, retired, male.. Of course we are all different, and challenges still inevitably arise. Was married for 20 years.
I am settled down. Why aren`t you married? I haven`t finished being happy yet.
And it's gunna be a looooooooooooooooooooong time before Im finished 🎉
I'm not sure I'd marry my worst enemy. I've been single too long.
I'm already miserable 40 hours a week that's enough for me
Don't wait till after your third marriage to figure this out like I did. LOL ( I am sure happy now. )
Love is what it matters, being married or single...Single life can be tough and lonely, but marriage without love is even worse.
We are wired to love and be loved, that is purpose of life. Marriage in theory should be love institution, but in most cases it is not.
As the video say's, that was in the past, currently it's a whole different ball game.
Completely agree 👍
I love not being married. Seems to me everyone wants to fit in so they get married instead of weighing pros and cons and being a non conformist and enjoy one’s own company.
I ended up single by default, got hit with ulcerative colitis at 20, knew then having kids was not smart, had no ability to attract women, didn't have first date until 35, last one at 46, none were fun, and I accepted I'll never marry, at 67 it's been game over for yrs. my life got easier once I stopped believing I would marry
I have been single forever and I am 52 years old now. It is sad for me, I feel lonely and depressed for never having found a woman who likes me. Not feeling desired is depressing. Unfortunately I am not very good looking, I am poor, low social status and insecure, shy and stuck. Maybe I am an Incel. Advice for me? Should I resign myself to being single forever? In your opinion, is it better to give up or keep fighting to find a woman?
@@orianogiorgetti6459dude if you get a woman sure it'll be great for awhile then turn to crap when she uses you and leaves and you'll be feeling worse than you do now. Get hobbies, keep busy. You're ahead of the game and don't even know it
Being single is literally the best thing ever. I have a partner, but I still consider myself single because I live by myself, do whatever I want, it's just awesome loll. This video brings back so many memories of when I was in my twenties living in apartments and I would literally do everything myself, I would fix things myself, make all the executive decisions, now I'm in my early 30s and I have more than enough money to pay people to do that stuff for me but being that I had to do everything myself in my twenties has more than equipped me with everything that I need for the rest of my life. I'm so thankful to that ❤
Good point. There's not much for me to do with people at my place. I would do board games & video games with 3 women at once if I had the opportunity. There are some benefits to having friends of the opposite sex.
@@alansun70 Girl what? mm nope
It's BETTER than being in a relationship.😌
Hello friend, don't you feel lonely at home? After 50 I feel very lonely, and in old age, who will take care of me? I worry that there will be no woman to love me in my old age, and no hug, no kiss. It scares me to think about this
The best arguments for singledom are the lives of married people :)
I'm already used to being single, I was in a bad relationship about a year ago, I'm done getting my heart broken..
Number 13 is my favorite. Deciding when and how you gift yourself something is fun. I just rewarded myself with a 21-day vacation to Italy. Stress free and every moment was amazing!
How do you enjoy a trip and sightseeing without someone to enjoy it all with? I tried it. It was very lonely and not very fun.
Yep I love being single period 😊😊
Even if you don’t have issues with the opposite sex, marriage and of course parenthood is NO LONGER AFFORDABLE. Most people cannot get a paycheck that covers the spirals of inflation and bread and butter basic costs, which continue into the stratosphere by the month. It all adds up to unimaginable stress and strain on any relationship…any.
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I spent more time in relationships wishing I was single than being single wishing I was in a relationship.
Hello friend, don't you feel lonely at home? After 50 I feel very lonely, and in old age, who will take care of me? I worry that there will be no woman to love me in my old age, and no hug, no kiss. It scares me to think about this
50 yrs old, never married, no kids. Just how it turned out.
I have been single forever and I am 52 years old now. It is sad for me, I feel lonely and depressed for never having found a woman who likes me. Not feeling desired is depressing. Unfortunately I am not very good looking, I am poor, low social status and insecure, shy and stuck. Maybe I am an Incel. Advice for me? Should I resign myself to being single forever? In your opinion, is it better to give up or keep fighting to find a woman?
If you are single people question you. Especially for females. Women who aren't in relationships are made to feel like there is something wrong with them. They haven't found prince charming. I can remember people saying about a single woman that's she's been left on the shelf. For men people question his sexuality. He must be gay. I'm in my sixties and love living on my own and without a partner. I prefer it now.
It’s 2023 there are weirder things to be 😂
@@Devik666 Really, I am old school now.
You are right about gay stuff...
@@midnightblue1874 Yes. People like to put labels on others.
once you get into single life for a long time, changing it is very hard, you are settled now
Single not my choice at first, but now happily single and am very content. I was married 2x & raised a family. I had 2 post-marriage serious relationships. I never expected to be in this place, but after spending my entire adult life (both marriages in young 20s) attached in relationships, it has been my time to simply live on my terms & with the freedom found in being single. The only one ever missed is the one that ended last, nearly 4 years ago... but I knew that was the end for me. My heart & soul closed permanently that day, after being fully open only to be crushed. But I am OK. Again, learned to be on my own & simply me. Life is definitely a journey rather than a destination💫
A relationship is like any other investment. You have to gauge what is the return in investment (ROI). A common refrain today is what do you bring to the table. I am 61, retired, divorced 20 years, and happy. Why would I want to invite drama, accusations, criticism, nagging, and problems into my life only to lose half my stuff at the end? What's in it for me? Relationships rarely pencil out. It's no wonder that 50% of them fail.
50% in the first 3 years but after that, the stats goes to 83%!! no kidding and it is USA and Canada
Relationships are often a "sunk cost." Once you invest the time, energy and resources in some woman, that investment is gone forever.
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My opinion: If a woman can't bring me more money, personal power and sex, then...
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I have zero interest in them.
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One particular woman, I was young, I had nothing when I married her. Four years later... I then divorced her and walked at with $330,000 in cash. Another one provided me with a path to organization power and awesome sex, but cost me, as she was insanely jealous and an emotional wreck. Now, I have been single for 5 years. It is just not important for me to sink more time, energy, and resources into a woman. I am set for life.
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Indeed, MGTOW rocks!
Exactly right. Fifty percent fail formally and probably another twenty-five percent go on, but are unhappy.
Maybe you are the problem? People find it easy to blame others, I guess.
I don’t want to be single, but I find it hard to meet like minded people. I live in the mountains and have to travel to see people. It’s tough as we age because we get set in our ways and don’t want to take on someone else’s baggage. It does get lonely though.☹️
Totally understand your situation, however, I don’t get lonely. Decided 21 years ago not to ever date again, when I turned 40.
27 years of knowing God in Christ, couple of long standing mature ( male ) friends, both believers, dog, house in countryside. Part time work.
Need nothing else.
Only only if you allow it. Develope interests. Join clubs, adopt a cause. Volunteer at a hospital.
I've always been single. So busy the day ends fast.
My grandma said : only boring people get bored. Guess it can apply to lonely too. There's so much to get involved in, one can't get lonely.
that's me i go eat in the restaurant by my self, i really enjoyed my food.
Having and defining your own living space is the most important, I think. Your home becomes an enlargement of your personality. Everything in it represents your taste, preferences and ideas. It is your mind writ large. Women do not regard a shared living space as equal. As instinctive nest-builders, they see the home as primarily theirs, within which the male partner simply cohabits. He is little more than a lodger who pays the mortgage and sleeps with his landlady. You only have to look around a married couple's house to see how the husband's tastes and preferences are marginalised while hers are manifest everywhere. All too often, the husband's personal expressions of life are relegated to a single room, the garage or the garden shed. This is why a wife always expects to kick the husband out of the family home when the marriage fails, and tends to be more traumatized and violated by burglary and home invasion...
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Nice explanation and we'll put, that confirms my own observations.
I cringe when men reference their man-shed as if that were a source of pride or independence when in reality he bought the whole frigging house but has been marginalised to a tiny place within it to call his own.
They look so crestfallen when I explain this, but it's true, they've been banished to the coldest, dirtiest, furthest away place in their house so she can enjoy the centrally heated, carpeted, big screen living space with kitchen & utilities.
It's all about her comfort not yours, yet men just don't see it.
Except for the guys with the motorcycle in the living room, & an engine rebuild in the sink!!
@@paulbird1808 You been peeping through my windows again...
This is one of the best thing I've ever read ❤
I wished I would have experienced singlehood when I was younger. I'm doing it as an older person, which is so satisfying. I don't choose well, so I plan to stay single.
There are things I wouldn't like doing alone. There are good points here. I'm hoping for new female friends.
The downside to marriage is much worse than the average person realizes; I’m including myself in that statement because I used to be the average optimistic man. I see a lot of content highlighting how wives have the upper hand once they are married and in some ways I agree but marriage can be devastating to both men and women. There are spouses who lie , steal ,cheat , alienate their children and relatives, sabotage their spouse, try to drive their spouse to a mental breaking point and even murder. A person doesn’t lose “ half “ in a divorce you can lose everything and it’s still not over after the divorce the collateral damage seems to never end . I wish it weren’t the case.
You are absolutely right.
I’m single and love it!
Hello friend, don't you feel lonely at home? After 50 I feel very lonely, and in old age, who will take care of me? I worry that there will be no woman to love me in my old age, and no hug, no kiss. It scares me to think about this
@@orianogiorgetti6459you’re 50. Not dead. Get out there and mingle. There are plenty of people out there.
I been single all my life, all 66 years and loving it.
Hello friend, don't you feel lonely at home? After 50 I feel very lonely, and in old age, who will take care of me? I worry that there will be no woman to love me in my old age, and no hug, no kiss. It scares me to think about this
I'm glad I'm single I love my freedom and my life and my drama free with no argue and no emotions and physical abuse. No fighting and no one always thinks u cheating on them and ECT. Thank god. I see my friends go through drama and toxic people and I'm happy myself. I enjoy my privacy and my life. People think I'm crazy cause I don't want a relationship. I'm happy
Been single for a while. I love it,not a single worry. Don’t have to worry about someone else’s BULLSHIT AND CHILDISH DRAMA,KEEP MY MONEY,PAY MY OWN BILLS,DON’T HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT BABY DADDY BULLSHIT OR THOSE BASTARD KIDS,etc💯💯
Geeze tell us how you really feel!! 🤣😂 I feel the same way man..👍🏻
The only times I was truly content in life was when I was single
Being single can be not by choice but happenstance. I have been single for nigh on 9 ½ years. Originally it was not like that I wanted to find my missus. Then it went to living with being single, not many choices out there in rural America. Now it is a choice. I choose to be single. It has allowed me to live in places that I so choose but also to travel to places, do certain things, and to take care of me myself. Which is helping me move forward. Do I want a wife, it sure would be great. Do I want children? I don’t know at my age. These are things that I must be able to answer freely. Now excuse me, I am going fishing. LOL😊😊😊
So true. Being single is better far away than in relationships. No dating. No romantic. no kids. No stress. No need to spend a lot of money for your partner like valentines and gift. No tax. You can Freedom what yo can do whatever you want.
Masterbation is better than actual sex because low risky likes STD Hepatitis etc. you are not dirty you are clean person because you are solo sex. No harmful. No stressful. No cheating and you are healthy.
I absolutely love and agree with your comments about masturbation! Solo sex is the way to go. No drama! No worrying whether someone else is "satisfied ". No worrying about pregnancies or STDs. It's clean and hassle free. Just gotta wash your hand off afterwards lol 😂 👍
Fourteen years with someone I was glad it was over. ..I did not like the feeling of pressure...Feel as free as a bird now.
You sound wonderful 😂
Only draw back to not being married no one drives you home after surgery
Sadly, I know of married people who can't rely on their spouses or families.
More freedom to live life my own way
I have been alone my adult life. I am now 67. I had been married but was still alone most times. At first she was doing the things with me. She claimed she liked the things I liked. But it was not long I was doing everything by myself. So I divorced her. And I enjoy being alone much more then being alone having someone and being alone. I see couples fighting over stupid things. The one just waiting for the other to say anything to then twist it into a argument. I myself enjoy not having to beg to buy something I want. Or ask if I can go to a place. Or if I can stay out until I feel like coming home. I do whatever I want. And having moved to Montana in the mountains with all the wildlife that comes on my property. Elk and deer and mountain lion or bears and coyote. Just all kinds. I am never lonely. And there is no negotiation with any of the wildlife. They come and go as they please. And so do I.
I was married 22 years and have been single for 15 years. I only want a boyfriend - NOT a husband. Relationship goal: Goldie Hawn & Kurt Russell
@@marianmoses9604 Agree. Ideally within a 15 min drive - in his own man cave lol.
@@marianmoses9604I totally agree with that. Relationships where the couples don't live together or sometimes aren't even intimately involved are just so romantic.
Kate and Leo
Adam and Drew
Harrison Ford and Carrie Fisher
I never want to get married. It absolutely kills the romance.
Am 25years and i have never dated ever and i really enjoy being single staying home alone going out alone then sleeping alone staying even a week without a call i just keep i myself happy with my 4n at work am still alone and i love it
It is indeed better to be single than having a depressed married life .🥰
You do understand? Not every married couple is miserable. 😂 get off the internet and live a little. Be a man.
Hello friend, don't you feel lonely at home? After 50 I feel very lonely, and in old age, who will take care of me? I worry that there will be no woman to love me in my old age, and no hug, no kiss. It scares me to think about this
I knew at age 14 I wasn't interested in marrying anyone! It's NEVER been a desire!
In my late 60s almost all my friends are married to their high schools sweet hearts,my wife died and if I some how knew I could have a relationship as rewarding as the one with my wife I would do it in a heart beat.I say good morning to someone’s cat every morning give it a treat and that’s about what my love life is now.This how wonderful being single is is some new construct.👎
I have been single for a decent while now. I love it. I have my daughter, our freedom, each other, and our own personal and shared happiness. Life is simple, and good.
No money. No honey.
It’s the best to be single!! I have been all throughout my life till now, I’m 30 now and I’m completely enjoying it…cheers to the rest part of my life and to all those who’ve been great people to me.
YEP YEP!! My free time, is mine to do with as I choose, with whomever I choose. And I choose Me!!!
I am right there with you!! : )
Twenty ? Jaysus, I’ll give you a 100. Marriage is for very few people.
Being single for me wasn't a choice. Im getting accustomed to be a widower. I haven't been single in over 40 years. This video was discovered at a perfect time for me. Thank you.
singlehood is addictive...
It's better to be single and happy rather than in a marriage that both couples are in unhappy.
That makes absolutely no sense.
You need 20 reasons? All have is 1: a peaceful home😊
4:11 the guy in the stock footage putting food on the plate knew EXACTLY what he was doing
I’m 34 and been single for almost 10 years now. There are lonely times but overall I’m good.😊😊😊 Not gonna lie, after that big heart break and take my time to heal, that was also the moment where my career, self care grows. And I became a master of third wheel. They always invited me because I can go everytime.. Warning! Being single is quite addictive..
I have been sinhle 3 years now ,av'e achieved more,zm happier,healthy,i just do me...❤
1.Fostering independence and self-reliance
2.Flexible future planning
3.Avoiding relationship stress
4.Opportunity for varied experiences
5.Investing in personal development
6. Health and wellness on your terms
7.Building stronger platonic relationships
8.Uninterrupted personal space and time
9.Freedom to establish personal boundaries
10.Unbiased decision making
11.Embracing self-sufficiency
12.More oppertunities for spontaneity
13.The joy of self-pampering
14.Learning at one's own space
15.Redefined success metrics
16.Less emotional drama
17.Opportunity to reconnect with oneself
18.Tailored living environment
19.Freedom to relocate
20.Crafting A unique narrative
Hello friend, don't you feel lonely at home? After 50 I feel very lonely, and in old age, who will take care of me? I worry that there will be no woman to love me in my old age, and no hug, no kiss. It scares me to think about this
I have learned to embrace my "Oneness". I don't know what the rules are anymore on dating, and I do not want to used as an emotional Tampon.
As a man if sex is important to you (of course it is) the best way to not have it (except during the bait and switch period) is to get into a long term monogamous relationship with a woman. Singlehood rocks, no drama peace and quiet.
There may be advantages but only the strong and competent survive.
Single and love it. Don't gave a woman
Money. Don't buy her bills. I love it.
Getting married then wasting 30 years of my life was one of the dumbest things I have ever done..Back to single and freedom!..No more appease the ungrateful
I'm sure nothing was your fault? Correct?
11 is a big one for me. There’s nothing worse than relying on people. 19 is as well. The exit door in my mind must always be open.
Why aren’t you married yet? I haven’t saved enough wealth yet to give away half my stuff.
That's why men fail. With that attitude. Men and women today don't know how to date. You don't date a person for money or wealth. You find a person to grow with.
I can give you a thousand reasons 😁
Thank You for such wisdom. Many singles need to watch, absorb and apply this. Too easy to jump into the doubles game, without Divine guidance, then experience the big “D” later on. Some people are just not meant to have partners, so they stay single and become, no matter what age they are allowed by God to get to, become much better versions of themselves.
Not doing all these as a young adult absolutely arrested my development. This is great advice for anyone in their 20s.
I know so many married people are financially unhappy feel alone not happy
Can you name them? I can name many singles, who are unhappy, etc? What's your point?
“Everybody needs a place to rest , everybody wants to have a home. don’t make no difference what nobody says , ain’t nobody like to be alone “ - Bruce Springsteen
I am single and 31, never have had a boyfriend, I am so happy, as I am asexual, I have never worried about STDS or pregnancy, that Actually is the most valuable thing in life, my body is just mine, I am not sharing,
Sometimes, having a kind and loyal partner to share life's challenges would 'soften the edges' of experiences such as difficult medical interventions, for example. However, just because a person has a partner, does not automatically mean that person is supportive or compatible. Creativity is often hampered by being expected to attend to the wants of another. There is a lot to be said for the freedom to live one's life on one's own terms, without compromising, in order to maintain a harmonious relationship. It seems, 'the grass is always greener on the other side of the hill.' Those of us who are single, may occasionally envy those who are married, rarely does one hear the opposite lament. Though one may stick out like a sore thumb when one is single and everyone else attends a social event with a partner, but there is now less of a stigma when one is unattached.
There is so much truth in this video
Point 16 alone is far than enough!!!!!
If I was 20 again, I would choose to be single.
If I was 20 I'd get a vasectomy asap
A wise friend of mine told of mine told me years ago "HE DIDN'T EVEN KNOW WHAT HAPPINESS WAS TILL HE GOT MARRIED.....
THEN IT WAS TO LATE....
Words of wisdom there !!!!!! 😮 😂 😅
I’m 55 and single, divorced twice. Empty nester, No debt, own everything I have. I have a nice house, an RV a few other cars and toys and considering buying a McLaren soon. I will never marry again.
Tru
Single means freedom , calm , peace , more cash and happy .
it video like these that give me peace and contentment
Also no one shitting in your toilet 😂
Lol 🤣
Best comment ever!! Love it. 😂
It boils down to what belief we want to practice . I have the belief that it’s ok and often pleasant to be single and because of this belief im ok.
If i would have a belief that i have to have a relationship to be happy- then that would lead me to be miserable
Was always afraid of getting hurt ,afraid to commit
Been single most of my life. I function much better this way. After the last few relationships I have zero plans of being romantically involved ever again. I have a ton of great friends, and that is all I need!
Single and on my 6th occupational adventure. Loving the freedom!