20 reasons why it is better to be single
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- Опубликовано: 3 июл 2024
- From the unparalleled freedom and self-exploration it offers to the unique life narratives it allows one to craft, being single is a journey filled with its own set of adventures. Whether you're single by choice, circumstance, or just curious about the lifestyle, join us in celebrating the richness of this personal journey. Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe for more insightful content!
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I have known so many unhappily married people I can't count them.
I see them at Walmart and work... All they have is the image ..I'm sure they are bored of each other
100%. Got 2 male mates both on their second marriage. Both
looking to get out. Nuts 🌰
I have never met a single person who is happy most are just fearful of being with anyone. The ruling elite are out to depopulate the world and this single is great is just part of the agenda. Single people can not protect themselves. It will be the death of the human race.
You think they would have learned after the first time. @@paulfitzpatrick6566
@@trickywily2823😌 TRUE...More like miserable...😀😂😁😜😝😛😋
Being single means no headaches no arguments..... There is no price for freedom and peace in your life !!!
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Wow! Couldn't say it better myself. Love your comment.💯👍
I dont want to marry someone elses problems.
Another man's problems 🤣🤣🤣
Don’t let them make their issues your issues.
Don't forget when you marry them you're marrying their family 😜
@@thewiseguy3529 Thank you for the reminder, we have guys in this town who married Philippines and they are always being visited by their families"
Been single for 9 years and recently got involved with a woman and said nope... going back to being single was better.
Peace and quiet and clarity is so much better.
Love it...
men don't want drama, we want peace and a cooperative woman, hard to get that now
Many women have friends and relatives whom live Drama Lives. I consider them less civilized and not in my league of civility.
@@michaelsix9684are u a cooperative man 😂
Me too
I'm single and it can be lonely at times but it makes me grateful when I see other people's toxic relationships
I embrace the "loneliness"
I DO NOT WANT ANOTHER PERSON AROUND ME 😁
People come stay and I have to make them leave lol
I don't answer the door.
@@thewiseguy3529😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Imagine getting off work, going home to drama. No thank you!!!!!
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😅
I don't need to imagine it. I lived it for 12 yrs. And, inexplicably, sought it out once freed from it. Came to my senses eventually, embraced the moniker "confirmed bachelor", & have zero regrets. Well - maybe a few... for the one(s) that got away... but I'm quite happy not playing The Game, not failing to live up to someone else's expectations, not explaining why I part my hair that way or wear that shirt or listen to that music. I'm who I want to be and hurt no one else in the process.
Maybe not home, but, off sleeping with somebody else"
Exactly
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Kkkkkkkkkkk
Ever noticed how married people push marriage on single people but single people DON'T push being single onto others?
They want to see you suffer too" especially my male friends.
@@justinallport9789 Maybe that, but also maybe you are never going to be fully accepted as single in married circles...
@@midnightblue1874 point well noted"
Misery loves company, as they say.
misery loves company
"When a man is unmarried, they say he is incomplete. When he is married they say he is finished."
~Arthur Schopenhauer
I love being incomplete 😁
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Nice😂😂😂😂😂😂
I love being incomplete..😂😂😂😂😂
It makes me laugh and cry at the same time.
I don't want to think.😂😂😂😂😂🎉
Iv been settled down for 21 years. Settled down single. Since I was 40. Had enough of fake shallow relationships especially with the Western woman of today. Done with it all. Peace & quiet at my time of life - can’t equal it. 😊
Same here, had enough of all the cheating, lying men.
Hear...hear!!
I've only proposed marriage when I want or need
to terrify someone. Works every time.
@@mfisher1952 I proposed marriage once & once only. 38 years ago. Left her during the first year - psychotic. Been single ever since. At 60, will remain so until I pop me clogs. 😊👍
Do you not realize that what you’re complaining about means you’re actually talking about yourself?
And that’s why you think everybody is shallow. Because you’re making a negative comment about “people” that you know nothing about therefore, you are judging them
therefore it actually makes you shallow.
"Alone" literally means "all one" which means you are whole! ❤
Exactly your energy is in unity it's not being split apart. That's right 👍🏼 excellent observation
Singleness = FREEDOM 👌🏾💯
exactly
You can be married and have freedom!
Those who are truly happy understand this!
I can take a nap, on weekends, as many times as I want. Lol
I love being single. I enjoy my freedom. I’m 50 yr old. Never been married with no kids. I date at my own leisure. Go where and when and with whom or on my own.I do not feel the need or want to be in a relationship because it’s a threat to my singleness and peace of mind.
Times have changed. A toxic person legally attached to you can cost your health with stress, land you in jail provoked into dv charges or destroy you financially in divorce. 70 yrs ago it was safer. Today....just be friends.
I understand exactly what you're saying. I'm 43
My mental health is more important than sufficing what society thinks I should be doing. So there's that lol
Amen!
WOW...
I'm 50 also...
I'm HAPPILY DIVORCED...
Marrying my ex husband is my life's
#1 regret...😢
Being single can help you explore the more and achieve more and more things. Less stress and more enjoyment. Marriages and relationships are just a mirage which makes you feel that there is something out there.
I've been single 55 out of my 65 years on this planet. I have a cat, several good friends, my own home, and hobbies. I wouldn't want it any other way. Life is good. If it aint broke don't fix it.
I ended up single by default, got hit with ulcerative colitis at 20, knew then having kids was not smart, had no ability to attract women, didn't have first date until 35, last one at 46, none were fun, and I accepted I'll never marry, at 67 it's been game over for yrs. my life got easier once I stopped believing I would marry
58 and a Forever Bachelor. Uncle Bill warned me at 18 to Never Marry.....I listened!! Watched the majority of my friends get divorce raped and 3 commit suicide per the same. Enjoy life and your freedom. Timmy C Arizona
I’m single, never married, 71 years old… nice home, pension, social security, nice brokerage account… three or four international trips a year… couldn’t be happier…
Love is what it matters, being married or single...Single life can be tough and lonely, but marriage without love is even worse.
We are wired to love and be loved, that is purpose of life. Marriage in theory should be love institution, but in most cases it is not.
As the video say's, that was in the past, currently it's a whole different ball game.
Completely agree 👍
I love not being married. Seems to me everyone wants to fit in so they get married instead of weighing pros and cons and being a non conformist and enjoy one’s own company.
Sometimes being alone is lonely. But being alone isn't as bad as wishing you were.
Been single for a long time now. I'm 64 and every one of your reasons are the exact same that I've stayed single. I don't recommend it for everyone. I'm also single because I understand I'm not the easiest person to live with. Relationships are complicated. Just like your video has explained. I've been able to travel on a whim. Quit jobs on the spot and move somewhere else for another. Do my intellectual pursuits such as reading and music without any interruptions except my own. The list goes on. The best part is I've never put any one else through the burden of a relationship with me. Being single has also helped me step outside those around me and view the world from a broader perspective than just my own and those immediately around me. It also helps when someone needs someone to listen to, I can be there without anyone else telling me that I have to get going etc. Thank you for this
Peace of mind is priceless
I love being single. No one can tell me to clean my house of go make a sandmich for him^^
It's nice to hire a housekeeper 😁
@@justinallport9789 So you need a job? I need a housekeeper.
Okay unwanted and on undesired woman 😂😂😂😂
@@user-fr6uy8wk5v now go back to war🤮
I am settled down. Why aren`t you married? I haven`t finished being happy yet.
And it's gunna be a looooooooooooooooooooong time before Im finished 🎉
I'm not sure I'd marry my worst enemy. I've been single too long.
I'm already miserable 40 hours a week that's enough for me
Being single is literally the best thing ever. I have a partner, but I still consider myself single because I live by myself, do whatever I want, it's just awesome loll. This video brings back so many memories of when I was in my twenties living in apartments and I would literally do everything myself, I would fix things myself, make all the executive decisions, now I'm in my early 30s and I have more than enough money to pay people to do that stuff for me but being that I had to do everything myself in my twenties has more than equipped me with everything that I need for the rest of my life. I'm so thankful to that ❤
Good point. There's not much for me to do with people at my place. I would do board games & video games with 3 women at once if I had the opportunity. There are some benefits to having friends of the opposite sex.
@@alansun70 Girl what? mm nope
Don't wait till after your third marriage to figure this out like I did. LOL ( I am sure happy now. )
After 13yrs of being married,
I have embraced my new normal of Singleness and SELF ❤💃🏿🥰
Having and defining your own living space is the most important, I think. Your home becomes an enlargement of your personality. Everything in it represents your taste, preferences and ideas. It is your mind writ large. Women do not regard a shared living space as equal. As instinctive nest-builders, they see the home as primarily theirs, within which the male partner simply cohabits. He is little more than a lodger who pays the mortgage and sleeps with his landlady. You only have to look around a married couple's house to see how the husband's tastes and preferences are marginalised while hers are manifest everywhere. All too often, the husband's personal expressions of life are relegated to a single room, the garage or the garden shed. This is why a wife always expects to kick the husband out of the family home when the marriage fails, and tends to be more traumatized and violated by burglary and home invasion...
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Nice explanation and we'll put, that confirms my own observations.
I cringe when men reference their man-shed as if that were a source of pride or independence when in reality he bought the whole frigging house but has been marginalised to a tiny place within it to call his own.
They look so crestfallen when I explain this, but it's true, they've been banished to the coldest, dirtiest, furthest away place in their house so she can enjoy the centrally heated, carpeted, big screen living space with kitchen & utilities.
It's all about her comfort not yours, yet men just don't see it.
Except for the guys with the motorcycle in the living room, & an engine rebuild in the sink!!
@@paulbird1808 You been peeping through my windows again...
I used to bemoan my singleness, and now I love it!
If you are single people question you. Especially for females. Women who aren't in relationships are made to feel like there is something wrong with them. They haven't found prince charming. I can remember people saying about a single woman that's she's been left on the shelf. For men people question his sexuality. He must be gay. I'm in my sixties and love living on my own and without a partner. I prefer it now.
It’s 2023 there are weirder things to be 😂
@@Devik666 Really, I am old school now.
You are right about gay stuff...
@@midnightblue1874 Yes. People like to put labels on others.
once you get into single life for a long time, changing it is very hard, you are settled now
ABSOLUTELY! Love flying solo; 68, retired, male.. Of course we are all different, and challenges still inevitably arise. Was married for 20 years.
I don’t want to be single, but I find it hard to meet like minded people. I live in the mountains and have to travel to see people. It’s tough as we age because we get set in our ways and don’t want to take on someone else’s baggage. It does get lonely though.☹️
Totally understand your situation, however, I don’t get lonely. Decided 21 years ago not to ever date again, when I turned 40.
27 years of knowing God in Christ, couple of long standing mature ( male ) friends, both believers, dog, house in countryside. Part time work.
Need nothing else.
Only only if you allow it. Develope interests. Join clubs, adopt a cause. Volunteer at a hospital.
I've always been single. So busy the day ends fast.
My grandma said : only boring people get bored. Guess it can apply to lonely too. There's so much to get involved in, one can't get lonely.
The downside to marriage is much worse than the average person realizes; I’m including myself in that statement because I used to be the average optimistic man. I see a lot of content highlighting how wives have the upper hand once they are married and in some ways I agree but marriage can be devastating to both men and women. There are spouses who lie , steal ,cheat , alienate their children and relatives, sabotage their spouse, try to drive their spouse to a mental breaking point and even murder. A person doesn’t lose “ half “ in a divorce you can lose everything and it’s still not over after the divorce the collateral damage seems to never end . I wish it weren’t the case.
You are absolutely right.
Even if you don’t have issues with the opposite sex, marriage and of course parenthood is NO LONGER AFFORDABLE. Most people cannot get a paycheck that covers the spirals of inflation and bread and butter basic costs, which continue into the stratosphere by the month. It all adds up to unimaginable stress and strain on any relationship…any.
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A relationship is like any other investment. You have to gauge what is the return in investment (ROI). A common refrain today is what do you bring to the table. I am 61, retired, divorced 20 years, and happy. Why would I want to invite drama, accusations, criticism, nagging, and problems into my life only to lose half my stuff at the end? What's in it for me? Relationships rarely pencil out. It's no wonder that 50% of them fail.
50% in the first 3 years but after that, the stats goes to 83%!! no kidding and it is USA and Canada
Relationships are often a "sunk cost." Once you invest the time, energy and resources in some woman, that investment is gone forever.
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My opinion: If a woman can't bring me more money, personal power and sex, then...
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I have zero interest in them.
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One particular woman, I was young, I had nothing when I married her. Four years later... I then divorced her and walked at with $330,000 in cash. Another one provided me with a path to organization power and awesome sex, but cost me, as she was insanely jealous and an emotional wreck. Now, I have been single for 5 years. It is just not important for me to sink more time, energy, and resources into a woman. I am set for life.
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Indeed, MGTOW rocks!
Exactly right. Fifty percent fail formally and probably another twenty-five percent go on, but are unhappy.
50 yrs old, never married, no kids. Just how it turned out.
Been single for a while. I love it,not a single worry. Don’t have to worry about someone else’s BULLSHIT AND CHILDISH DRAMA,KEEP MY MONEY,PAY MY OWN BILLS,DON’T HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT BABY DADDY BULLSHIT OR THOSE BASTARD KIDS,etc💯💯
Geeze tell us how you really feel!! 🤣😂 I feel the same way man..👍🏻
Being single can be not by choice but happenstance. I have been single for nigh on 9 ½ years. Originally it was not like that I wanted to find my missus. Then it went to living with being single, not many choices out there in rural America. Now it is a choice. I choose to be single. It has allowed me to live in places that I so choose but also to travel to places, do certain things, and to take care of me myself. Which is helping me move forward. Do I want a wife, it sure would be great. Do I want children? I don’t know at my age. These are things that I must be able to answer freely. Now excuse me, I am going fishing. LOL😊😊😊
I wished I would have experienced singlehood when I was younger. I'm doing it as an older person, which is so satisfying. I don't choose well, so I plan to stay single.
There are things I wouldn't like doing alone. There are good points here. I'm hoping for new female friends.
I’m single and love it!
Number 13 is my favorite. Deciding when and how you gift yourself something is fun. I just rewarded myself with a 21-day vacation to Italy. Stress free and every moment was amazing!
How do you enjoy a trip and sightseeing without someone to enjoy it all with? I tried it. It was very lonely and not very fun.
In my late 60s almost all my friends are married to their high schools sweet hearts,my wife died and if I some how knew I could have a relationship as rewarding as the one with my wife I would do it in a heart beat.I say good morning to someone’s cat every morning give it a treat and that’s about what my love life is now.This how wonderful being single is is some new construct.👎
I have been alone my adult life. I am now 67. I had been married but was still alone most times. At first she was doing the things with me. She claimed she liked the things I liked. But it was not long I was doing everything by myself. So I divorced her. And I enjoy being alone much more then being alone having someone and being alone. I see couples fighting over stupid things. The one just waiting for the other to say anything to then twist it into a argument. I myself enjoy not having to beg to buy something I want. Or ask if I can go to a place. Or if I can stay out until I feel like coming home. I do whatever I want. And having moved to Montana in the mountains with all the wildlife that comes on my property. Elk and deer and mountain lion or bears and coyote. Just all kinds. I am never lonely. And there is no negotiation with any of the wildlife. They come and go as they please. And so do I.
Only draw back to not being married no one drives you home after surgery
No money. No honey.
I been single all my life, all 66 years and loving it.
I have been sinhle 3 years now ,av'e achieved more,zm happier,healthy,i just do me...❤
I’m 34 and been single for almost 10 years now. There are lonely times but overall I’m good.😊😊😊 Not gonna lie, after that big heart break and take my time to heal, that was also the moment where my career, self care grows. And I became a master of third wheel. They always invited me because I can go everytime.. Warning! Being single is quite addictive..
that's me i go eat in the restaurant by my self, i really enjoyed my food.
More freedom to live life my own way
Twenty ? Jaysus, I’ll give you a 100. Marriage is for very few people.
I'm glad I'm single I love my freedom and my life and my drama free with no argue and no emotions and physical abuse. No fighting and no one always thinks u cheating on them and ECT. Thank god. I see my friends go through drama and toxic people and I'm happy myself. I enjoy my privacy and my life. People think I'm crazy cause I don't want a relationship. I'm happy
I was married 22 years and have been single for 15 years. I only want a boyfriend - NOT a husband. Relationship goal: Goldie Hawn & Kurt Russell
But with NO CO-HABITATION. Familiarity breeds contempt, but a little distance lends enchantment.
Relationships work better when you do not share a home together. It eliminates a hell of a lot of daily friction.
@@marianmoses9604 Agree. Ideally within a 15 min drive - in his own man cave lol.
Single and love it. Don't gave a woman
Money. Don't buy her bills. I love it.
Single not my choice at first, but now happily single and am very content. I was married 2x & raised a family. I had 2 post-marriage serious relationships. I never expected to be in this place, but after spending my entire adult life (both marriages in young 20s) attached in relationships, it has been my time to simply live on my terms & with the freedom found in being single. The only one ever missed is the one that ended last, nearly 4 years ago... but I knew that was the end for me. My heart & soul closed permanently that day, after being fully open only to be crushed. But I am OK. Again, learned to be on my own & simply me. Life is definitely a journey rather than a destination💫
As a man if sex is important to you (of course it is) the best way to not have it (except during the bait and switch period) is to get into a long term monogamous relationship with a woman. Singlehood rocks, no drama peace and quiet.
I have learned to embrace my "Oneness". I don't know what the rules are anymore on dating, and I do not want to used as an emotional Tampon.
Point 16 alone is far than enough!!!!!
4:11 the guy in the stock footage putting food on the plate knew EXACTLY what he was doing
Being single for me wasn't a choice. Im getting accustomed to be a widower. I haven't been single in over 40 years. This video was discovered at a perfect time for me. Thank you.
I beg to differ. I've been blessed to be married 31 years now and couldn't be happier. It hasn't been easy but nothing worth having is. You just have to work at it and be willing to sacrifice.
i would hate to be in a relationship and lose my 100% time to myself...I would be very angry and bitter to her and eventually end it after a few months with a cold text message...
I enjoy living alone however i dont want to live my life alone..
Sometimes, having a kind and loyal partner to share life's challenges would 'soften the edges' of experiences such as difficult medical interventions, for example. However, just because a person has a partner, does not automatically mean that person is supportive or compatible. Creativity is often hampered by being expected to attend to the wants of another. There is a lot to be said for the freedom to live one's life on one's own terms, without compromising, in order to maintain a harmonious relationship. It seems, 'the grass is always greener on the other side of the hill.' Those of us who are single, may occasionally envy those who are married, rarely does one hear the opposite lament. Though one may stick out like a sore thumb when one is single and everyone else attends a social event with a partner, but there is now less of a stigma when one is unattached.
Why aren’t you married yet? I haven’t saved enough wealth yet to give away half my stuff.
It's BETTER than being in a relationship.😌
You need 20 reasons? All have is 1: a peaceful home😊
It's better to be single and happy rather than in a marriage that both couples are in unhappy.
11 is a big one for me. There’s nothing worse than relying on people. 19 is as well. The exit door in my mind must always be open.
Thank You for such wisdom. Many singles need to watch, absorb and apply this. Too easy to jump into the doubles game, without Divine guidance, then experience the big “D” later on. Some people are just not meant to have partners, so they stay single and become, no matter what age they are allowed by God to get to, become much better versions of themselves.
Also no one shitting in your toilet 😂
Lol 🤣
YEP YEP!! My free time, is mine to do with as I choose, with whomever I choose. And I choose Me!!!
I am right there with you!! : )
We, human beings, are whole units and not half of a couple but we are programmed from childhood to believe that we aught to be half of a couple rather than a whole emotionally autonomous and socially autonomous and self-reliant unit and we are sometimes told as children that single women are disrespected in society and therefore we should find a husband. I did not find a husband and I love being single and I will remain so for the remainder of my life. Being single is the best aspect of my life.
People have always fought and died for liberty and freedom. BTW... in watching this video and the way it was put together, it should have been named "20 reasons why it is better for a MAN to be single".
It is indeed better to be single than having a depressed married life .🥰
Yep I love being single period 😊😊
The most important aspect of single of singleness is the lack of divorce and all of its bullshit, such as asset lost. 😂
I😊 have settled down -- with Me😎 and Myself🤠; the only partners I'll ever need! They're still my only partners at sixty-one. I don't need to waste my time trying to please anyone, including family.
A relationship is better then the sum of it's parts.
Needed to watch this rn‼
It boils down to what belief we want to practice . I have the belief that it’s ok and often pleasant to be single and because of this belief im ok.
If i would have a belief that i have to have a relationship to be happy- then that would lead me to be miserable
Single and on my 6th occupational adventure. Loving the freedom!
“Everybody needs a place to rest , everybody wants to have a home. don’t make no difference what nobody says , ain’t nobody like to be alone “ - Bruce Springsteen
Fourteen years with someone I was glad it was over. ..I did not like the feeling of pressure...Feel as free as a bird now.
The best arguments for singledom are the lives of married people :)
So true. Being single is better far away than in relationships. No dating. No romantic. no kids. No stress. No need to spend a lot of money for your partner like valentines and gift. No tax. You can Freedom what yo can do whatever you want.
Masterbation is better than actual sex because low risky likes STD Hepatitis etc. you are not dirty you are clean person because you are solo sex. No harmful. No stressful. No cheating and you are healthy.
During the video I noticed there were pics of couples arguing which reminded me of where I was at 27 years ago with my ex wife been happily single ever since, life is to short for relationships and most other over rated concepts society expects I reject any trend these days
I know so many married people are financially unhappy feel alone not happy
I’m 55 and single, divorced twice. Empty nester, No debt, own everything I have. I have a nice house, an RV a few other cars and toys and considering buying a McLaren soon. I will never marry again.
Tru
Whether you love it or hate it. It's all in your mind..........Sal : )
I own my Cottage, my chapel. Serenity. Declutter people, places, things. I got rid of unnecessary drama. Adulating in reality...saves me from delusions.
The only difficult part of being single is lack of sex. But the rest of the insanity of a relationship isn’t worth it. The stress of dealing with another persons superficial bullshit isn’t worth it. Yet not getting any sex sucks too. But sex is usually the first thing to go in a relationship anyway
Plenty of men in sexless marriages, no affection since the kids arrived, find themselves nothing but a paycheck, a bank account, an ATM, the schmuck who pays the bills...
74 here, robust health, financially well off. Have seen so many guys divorce raped, taken to the cleaners, paying child support for children they didn't want. I enjoy female companionship but on MY terms.
I know 5 couples getting divorced right now. Ive never not had a girlfriend in fact presently we’ve been together over 10 years and she is18 years younger than me. Male friends have gotten reamed financially by getting divorced. No thanks!
Nice video nicely done❤
One reason to stay single "at the moment" is to be a better team ?? When two people need each other to make a life, then there is purpose and duel responsibility...
Am 25years and i have never dated ever and i really enjoy being single staying home alone going out alone then sleeping alone staying even a week without a call i just keep i myself happy with my 4n at work am still alone and i love it
Only those who have never experienced the fulfillment of a good relationship will say this.
A lot of restrictions on purchases for couples is that the purchase item is not important to one partner, and does not see a need to money, but sees all the need to spend one item they like.
I’ve been married 2 times in my life it was heartbreak !! I married selfish women !! Staying single !!