20 reasons why it is better to be single

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  • Опубликовано: 20 сен 2024
  • From the unparalleled freedom and self-exploration it offers to the unique life narratives it allows one to craft, being single is a journey filled with its own set of adventures. Whether you're single by choice, circumstance, or just curious about the lifestyle, join us in celebrating the richness of this personal journey. Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe for more insightful content!
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  • @wacalla26
    @wacalla26 10 месяцев назад +180

    Being single means no headaches no arguments..... There is no price for freedom and peace in your life !!!

    • @gatanegra8815
      @gatanegra8815 10 месяцев назад +8

      💯

    • @evettevasquez9378
      @evettevasquez9378 10 месяцев назад +12

      Wow! Couldn't say it better myself. Love your comment.💯👍

    • @lmcov4
      @lmcov4 2 месяца назад +3

      Absofuckinglutley. No more anxiety waiting for my partner to get home and wondering if I'm going to be in "trouble" and put down over and over. Fuck that noise.

    • @sirg-had8821
      @sirg-had8821 2 месяца назад +3

      I've yet to meet a woman worth more than a cup of tea and a book.
      Most of them are pretty useless.

    • @NinorahDeux
      @NinorahDeux 2 месяца назад +2

      @@lmcov4 Same. So happy now that i'm single !!

  • @robertblake9892
    @robertblake9892 11 месяцев назад +316

    I have known so many unhappily married people I can't count them.

    • @trickywily2823
      @trickywily2823 11 месяцев назад +41

      I see them at Walmart and work... All they have is the image ..I'm sure they are bored of each other

    • @paulfitzpatrick6566
      @paulfitzpatrick6566 11 месяцев назад +33

      100%. Got 2 male mates both on their second marriage. Both
      looking to get out. Nuts 🌰

    • @elijahjames8837
      @elijahjames8837 11 месяцев назад

      I have never met a single person who is happy most are just fearful of being with anyone. The ruling elite are out to depopulate the world and this single is great is just part of the agenda. Single people can not protect themselves. It will be the death of the human race.

    • @antonboludo8886
      @antonboludo8886 11 месяцев назад

      You think they would have learned after the first time. @@paulfitzpatrick6566

    • @la_baby_khalil7703
      @la_baby_khalil7703 10 месяцев назад +13

      @@trickywily2823😌 TRUE...More like miserable...😀😂😁😜😝😛😋

  • @regbandz4208
    @regbandz4208 11 месяцев назад +125

    Imagine getting off work, going home to drama. No thank you!!!!!

    • @OliverSebe-d2j
      @OliverSebe-d2j 10 месяцев назад +3

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😅

    • @lesnyk255
      @lesnyk255 10 месяцев назад +11

      I don't need to imagine it. I lived it for 12 yrs. And, inexplicably, sought it out once freed from it. Came to my senses eventually, embraced the moniker "confirmed bachelor", & have zero regrets. Well - maybe a few... for the one(s) that got away... but I'm quite happy not playing The Game, not failing to live up to someone else's expectations, not explaining why I part my hair that way or wear that shirt or listen to that music. I'm who I want to be and hurt no one else in the process.

    • @justinallport9789
      @justinallport9789 10 месяцев назад +3

      Maybe not home, but, off sleeping with somebody else"

    • @Scorned405
      @Scorned405 10 месяцев назад +2

      Exactly

    • @STAYPUT1209
      @STAYPUT1209 4 месяца назад +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂
      Kkkkkkkkkkk

  • @Stephan2P
    @Stephan2P 10 месяцев назад +118

    Ever noticed how married people push marriage on single people but single people DON'T push being single onto others?

    • @justinallport9789
      @justinallport9789 10 месяцев назад +30

      They want to see you suffer too" especially my male friends.

    • @midnightblue1874
      @midnightblue1874 10 месяцев назад +8

      @@justinallport9789 Maybe that, but also maybe you are never going to be fully accepted as single in married circles...

    • @justinallport9789
      @justinallport9789 10 месяцев назад +9

      @@midnightblue1874 point well noted"

    • @gatanegra8815
      @gatanegra8815 10 месяцев назад +18

      Misery loves company, as they say.

    • @michaelsix9684
      @michaelsix9684 10 месяцев назад +11

      misery loves company

  • @dustinmiller2775
    @dustinmiller2775 10 месяцев назад +74

    "When a man is unmarried, they say he is incomplete. When he is married they say he is finished."
    ~Arthur Schopenhauer

    • @Antarmy2
      @Antarmy2 5 месяцев назад +6

      I love being incomplete 😁

    • @STAYPUT1209
      @STAYPUT1209 5 месяцев назад +4

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
      Nice😂😂😂😂😂😂
      I love being incomplete..😂😂😂😂😂
      It makes me laugh and cry at the same time.
      I don't want to think.😂😂😂😂😂🎉

    • @gracealexandre3381
      @gracealexandre3381 2 месяца назад

      🙂 When you're incomplete, that means you have time to work on your incomplete issues. You then realize you're already complete with your inner self, so why do you need anyone else to mess up your life with you and your inner self? 🙂

  • @renegade-master29
    @renegade-master29 10 месяцев назад +127

    I'm single and it can be lonely at times but it makes me grateful when I see other people's toxic relationships

    • @thewiseguy3529
      @thewiseguy3529 10 месяцев назад +18

      I embrace the "loneliness"
      I DO NOT WANT ANOTHER PERSON AROUND ME 😁

    • @thewiseguy3529
      @thewiseguy3529 10 месяцев назад +9

      People come stay and I have to make them leave lol

    • @TimothyStclair-v4p
      @TimothyStclair-v4p 7 месяцев назад +1

      I don't answer the door.

    • @STAYPUT1209
      @STAYPUT1209 4 месяца назад +1

      ​@@thewiseguy3529😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @gracealexandre3381
      @gracealexandre3381 2 месяца назад +4

      I🙂 am never lonely with Me🤠 and Myself😎 by my side. Then there's God. How anyone can be lonely with God in the same room makes absolutely no sense to me.

  • @garybarnes1840
    @garybarnes1840 11 месяцев назад +151

    I dont want to marry someone elses problems.

    • @justinallport9789
      @justinallport9789 10 месяцев назад +7

      Another man's problems 🤣🤣🤣

    • @geraldmahoney4856
      @geraldmahoney4856 10 месяцев назад +5

      Don’t let them make their issues your issues.

    • @thewiseguy3529
      @thewiseguy3529 10 месяцев назад +7

      Don't forget when you marry them you're marrying their family 😜

    • @justinallport9789
      @justinallport9789 10 месяцев назад +3

      @@thewiseguy3529 Thank you for the reminder, we have guys in this town who married Philippines and they are always being visited by their families"

  • @paulfitzpatrick6566
    @paulfitzpatrick6566 11 месяцев назад +190

    Iv been settled down for 21 years. Settled down single. Since I was 40. Had enough of fake shallow relationships especially with the Western woman of today. Done with it all. Peace & quiet at my time of life - can’t equal it. 😊

    • @thevcountdown9824
      @thevcountdown9824 11 месяцев назад +24

      Same here, had enough of all the cheating, lying men.

    • @timturko
      @timturko 11 месяцев назад +6

      Hear...hear!!

    • @mfisher1952
      @mfisher1952 11 месяцев назад +7

      I've only proposed marriage when I want or need
      to terrify someone. Works every time.

    • @paulfitzpatrick6566
      @paulfitzpatrick6566 11 месяцев назад +11

      @@mfisher1952 I proposed marriage once & once only. 38 years ago. Left her during the first year - psychotic. Been single ever since. At 60, will remain so until I pop me clogs. 😊👍

    • @XOAliciaMarie
      @XOAliciaMarie 11 месяцев назад +6

      Do you not realize that what you’re complaining about means you’re actually talking about yourself?
      And that’s why you think everybody is shallow. Because you’re making a negative comment about “people” that you know nothing about therefore, you are judging them
      therefore it actually makes you shallow.

  • @tel5690
    @tel5690 10 месяцев назад +123

    Been single for 9 years and recently got involved with a woman and said nope... going back to being single was better.
    Peace and quiet and clarity is so much better.
    Love it...

    • @michaelsix9684
      @michaelsix9684 10 месяцев назад +8

      men don't want drama, we want peace and a cooperative woman, hard to get that now

    • @TimothyStclair-v4p
      @TimothyStclair-v4p 7 месяцев назад

      Many women have friends and relatives whom live Drama Lives. I consider them less civilized and not in my league of civility.

    • @UniquelyHerz
      @UniquelyHerz 7 месяцев назад +2

      ⁠@@michaelsix9684are u a cooperative man 😂

    • @Jaysqeek
      @Jaysqeek 3 месяца назад

      Me too

    • @NinorahDeux
      @NinorahDeux 2 месяца назад

      @@michaelsix9684 What do you mean by "cooperative" ? ,-)

  • @Lichfeldian--Suttonian
    @Lichfeldian--Suttonian 10 месяцев назад +55

    "Alone" literally means "all one" which means you are whole! ❤

    • @thewiseguy3529
      @thewiseguy3529 10 месяцев назад +5

      Exactly your energy is in unity it's not being split apart. That's right 👍🏼 excellent observation

    • @gracealexandre3381
      @gracealexandre3381 2 месяца назад

      Now if you're already whole, why the heck do you need anyone else?! 🙂

    • @ajaxamsterdam1365
      @ajaxamsterdam1365 6 дней назад

      Thats deep bro

  • @aaronaustrie
    @aaronaustrie 10 месяцев назад +89

    Singleness = FREEDOM 👌🏾💯

    • @gatanegra8815
      @gatanegra8815 10 месяцев назад +5

      exactly

    • @nearlyretired7005
      @nearlyretired7005 8 месяцев назад

      You can be married and have freedom!
      Those who are truly happy understand this!

    • @healthtips14097
      @healthtips14097 2 месяца назад

      @@nearlyretired7005 Don't fool yourself....it's impossible to be totally free when you're married, as there will always be commitments, explanations, and even if you don't want to, you'll have to comply.....

  • @thomaspeterson5693
    @thomaspeterson5693 4 месяца назад +19

    Sometimes being alone is lonely. But being alone isn't as bad as wishing you were.

    • @orianogiorgetti6459
      @orianogiorgetti6459 Месяц назад

      I have been single forever and I am 52 years old now. It is sad for me, I feel lonely and depressed for never having found a woman who likes me. Not feeling desired is depressing. Unfortunately I am not very good looking, I am poor, low social status and insecure, shy and stuck. Maybe I am an Incel. Advice for me? Should I resign myself to being single forever? In your opinion, is it better to give up or keep fighting to find a woman?

  • @jdub2591
    @jdub2591 10 месяцев назад +71

    I love being single. I enjoy my freedom. I’m 50 yr old. Never been married with no kids. I date at my own leisure. Go where and when and with whom or on my own.I do not feel the need or want to be in a relationship because it’s a threat to my singleness and peace of mind.

    • @lw1343
      @lw1343 10 месяцев назад

      Times have changed. A toxic person legally attached to you can cost your health with stress, land you in jail provoked into dv charges or destroy you financially in divorce. 70 yrs ago it was safer. Today....just be friends.

    • @thewiseguy3529
      @thewiseguy3529 10 месяцев назад +7

      I understand exactly what you're saying. I'm 43
      My mental health is more important than sufficing what society thinks I should be doing. So there's that lol

    • @josee-karineanglade2
      @josee-karineanglade2 10 месяцев назад +2

      Amen!

    • @lachannajones
      @lachannajones 2 месяца назад

      WOW...
      I'm 50 also...
      I'm HAPPILY DIVORCED...
      Marrying my ex husband is my life's
      #1 regret...😢

    • @orianogiorgetti6459
      @orianogiorgetti6459 Месяц назад

      I have been single forever and I am 52 years old now. It is sad for me, I feel lonely and depressed for never having found a woman who likes me. Not feeling desired is depressing. Unfortunately I am not very good looking, I am poor, low social status and insecure, shy and stuck. Maybe I am an Incel. Advice for me? Should I resign myself to being single forever? In your opinion, is it better to give up or keep fighting to find a woman?

  • @sirg-had8821
    @sirg-had8821 2 месяца назад +7

    "Happy wife, happy life."
    Have you ever *met* a happy wife?
    Neither have I.

    • @dang75790
      @dang75790 Месяц назад

      Stupid saying. I think gay men say that😂

  • @poonlikka6174
    @poonlikka6174 11 месяцев назад +74

    I am settled down. Why aren`t you married? I haven`t finished being happy yet.

    • @trickywily2823
      @trickywily2823 11 месяцев назад +9

      And it's gunna be a looooooooooooooooooooong time before Im finished 🎉

    • @mfisher1952
      @mfisher1952 11 месяцев назад +5

      I'm not sure I'd marry my worst enemy. I've been single too long.

    • @chuckbareika5478
      @chuckbareika5478 11 месяцев назад +11

      I'm already miserable 40 hours a week that's enough for me

  • @hump1953
    @hump1953 7 месяцев назад +24

    I’m single, never married, 71 years old… nice home, pension, social security, nice brokerage account… three or four international trips a year… couldn’t be happier…

    • @robertlewis3116
      @robertlewis3116 2 месяца назад

      That’s what I’m talking about.

    • @sirg-had8821
      @sirg-had8821 2 месяца назад

      God speed

    • @dang75790
      @dang75790 Месяц назад

      Congratulations! Who cares 😂

    • @orianogiorgetti6459
      @orianogiorgetti6459 Месяц назад

      I have been single forever and I am 52 years old now. It is sad for me, I feel lonely and depressed for never having found a woman who likes me. Not feeling desired is depressing. Unfortunately I am not very good looking, I am poor, low social status and insecure, shy and stuck. Maybe I am an Incel. Advice for me? Should I resign myself to being single forever? In your opinion, is it better to give up or keep fighting to find a woman?

    • @orianogiorgetti6459
      @orianogiorgetti6459 Месяц назад

      Hello friend, don't you feel lonely at home? After 50 I feel very lonely, and in old age, who will take care of me? I worry that there will be no woman to love me in my old age, and no hug, no kiss. It scares me to think about this

  • @royphilip8486
    @royphilip8486 10 месяцев назад +66

    Being single can help you explore the more and achieve more and more things. Less stress and more enjoyment. Marriages and relationships are just a mirage which makes you feel that there is something out there.

  • @midnightblue1874
    @midnightblue1874 11 месяцев назад +87

    Love is what it matters, being married or single...Single life can be tough and lonely, but marriage without love is even worse.
    We are wired to love and be loved, that is purpose of life. Marriage in theory should be love institution, but in most cases it is not.

    • @25Soupy
      @25Soupy 10 месяцев назад +10

      As the video say's, that was in the past, currently it's a whole different ball game.

    • @paulfitzpatrick6566
      @paulfitzpatrick6566 10 месяцев назад +3

      Completely agree 👍

    • @stephaniepersin4222
      @stephaniepersin4222 10 месяцев назад +12

      I love not being married. Seems to me everyone wants to fit in so they get married instead of weighing pros and cons and being a non conformist and enjoy one’s own company.

  • @TimmyCramer
    @TimmyCramer 10 месяцев назад +30

    58 and a Forever Bachelor. Uncle Bill warned me at 18 to Never Marry.....I listened!! Watched the majority of my friends get divorce raped and 3 commit suicide per the same. Enjoy life and your freedom. Timmy C Arizona

    • @kindredspiritzz66
      @kindredspiritzz66 День назад

      I'm 58 and took the opposite path. Got divorce raped, child support for 18 yrs, barely survived but I'm happy now single

    • @TimmyCramer
      @TimmyCramer День назад +1

      @@kindredspiritzz66 Awesome attitude. Enjoy life.....!!

  • @groveavenue
    @groveavenue 2 месяца назад +12

    The best arguments for singledom are the lives of married people :)

  • @timmcardle2233
    @timmcardle2233 11 месяцев назад +63

    Been single for a long time now. I'm 64 and every one of your reasons are the exact same that I've stayed single. I don't recommend it for everyone. I'm also single because I understand I'm not the easiest person to live with. Relationships are complicated. Just like your video has explained. I've been able to travel on a whim. Quit jobs on the spot and move somewhere else for another. Do my intellectual pursuits such as reading and music without any interruptions except my own. The list goes on. The best part is I've never put any one else through the burden of a relationship with me. Being single has also helped me step outside those around me and view the world from a broader perspective than just my own and those immediately around me. It also helps when someone needs someone to listen to, I can be there without anyone else telling me that I have to get going etc. Thank you for this

    • @orianogiorgetti6459
      @orianogiorgetti6459 Месяц назад

      Hello friend, don't you feel lonely at home? After 50 I feel very lonely, and in old age, who will take care of me? I worry that there will be no woman to love me in my old age, and no hug, no kiss. It scares me to think about this

    • @kindredspiritzz66
      @kindredspiritzz66 День назад

      ​@@orianogiorgetti6459what if she dies before you? You're in same boat. Just accept your gonna die alone and make every moment count til then. I have, it's liberating

  • @EmmettLBrown2015
    @EmmettLBrown2015 3 месяца назад +7

    I'm already used to being single, I was in a bad relationship about a year ago, I'm done getting my heart broken..

  • @michaelsix9684
    @michaelsix9684 10 месяцев назад +42

    I ended up single by default, got hit with ulcerative colitis at 20, knew then having kids was not smart, had no ability to attract women, didn't have first date until 35, last one at 46, none were fun, and I accepted I'll never marry, at 67 it's been game over for yrs. my life got easier once I stopped believing I would marry

    • @orianogiorgetti6459
      @orianogiorgetti6459 Месяц назад

      I have been single forever and I am 52 years old now. It is sad for me, I feel lonely and depressed for never having found a woman who likes me. Not feeling desired is depressing. Unfortunately I am not very good looking, I am poor, low social status and insecure, shy and stuck. Maybe I am an Incel. Advice for me? Should I resign myself to being single forever? In your opinion, is it better to give up or keep fighting to find a woman?

    • @kindredspiritzz66
      @kindredspiritzz66 День назад

      ​@@orianogiorgetti6459dude if you get a woman sure it'll be great for awhile then turn to crap when she uses you and leaves and you'll be feeling worse than you do now. Get hobbies, keep busy. You're ahead of the game and don't even know it

  • @carltwidle9046
    @carltwidle9046 11 месяцев назад +49

    If you are single people question you. Especially for females. Women who aren't in relationships are made to feel like there is something wrong with them. They haven't found prince charming. I can remember people saying about a single woman that's she's been left on the shelf. For men people question his sexuality. He must be gay. I'm in my sixties and love living on my own and without a partner. I prefer it now.

    • @Devik666
      @Devik666 10 месяцев назад +3

      It’s 2023 there are weirder things to be 😂

    • @carltwidle9046
      @carltwidle9046 10 месяцев назад +4

      @@Devik666 Really, I am old school now.

    • @midnightblue1874
      @midnightblue1874 10 месяцев назад +2

      You are right about gay stuff...

    • @carltwidle9046
      @carltwidle9046 10 месяцев назад +4

      @@midnightblue1874 Yes. People like to put labels on others.

    • @michaelsix9684
      @michaelsix9684 10 месяцев назад +5

      once you get into single life for a long time, changing it is very hard, you are settled now

  • @garybarnes1840
    @garybarnes1840 11 месяцев назад +65

    I can take a nap, on weekends, as many times as I want. Lol

    • @kindredspiritzz66
      @kindredspiritzz66 День назад

      Oh dude I love that, perfectly quiet house, nobody asking me why I'm taking a nap or when are u getting up? It's bliss

  • @williamj1813
    @williamj1813 10 месяцев назад +22

    I've been single 55 out of my 65 years on this planet. I have a cat, several good friends, my own home, and hobbies. I wouldn't want it any other way. Life is good. If it aint broke don't fix it.

    • @orianogiorgetti6459
      @orianogiorgetti6459 Месяц назад

      I too have a cat, I have been single forever and I am 52 years old now. It is sad for me, I feel lonely and depressed for never having found a woman who likes me. Not feeling desired is depressing. Unfortunately I am not very good looking, I am poor, low social status and insecure, shy and stuck. Maybe I am an Incel. Advice for me? Should I resign myself to being single forever? In your opinion, is it better to give up or keep fighting to find a woman?

  • @tedthesailor172
    @tedthesailor172 11 месяцев назад +62

    Having and defining your own living space is the most important, I think. Your home becomes an enlargement of your personality. Everything in it represents your taste, preferences and ideas. It is your mind writ large. Women do not regard a shared living space as equal. As instinctive nest-builders, they see the home as primarily theirs, within which the male partner simply cohabits. He is little more than a lodger who pays the mortgage and sleeps with his landlady. You only have to look around a married couple's house to see how the husband's tastes and preferences are marginalised while hers are manifest everywhere. All too often, the husband's personal expressions of life are relegated to a single room, the garage or the garden shed. This is why a wife always expects to kick the husband out of the family home when the marriage fails, and tends to be more traumatized and violated by burglary and home invasion...

    • @faulrevere8938
      @faulrevere8938 10 месяцев назад +2

      💯🔥👊🏻

    • @S1000xrhp
      @S1000xrhp 10 месяцев назад +17

      Nice explanation and we'll put, that confirms my own observations.
      I cringe when men reference their man-shed as if that were a source of pride or independence when in reality he bought the whole frigging house but has been marginalised to a tiny place within it to call his own.
      They look so crestfallen when I explain this, but it's true, they've been banished to the coldest, dirtiest, furthest away place in their house so she can enjoy the centrally heated, carpeted, big screen living space with kitchen & utilities.
      It's all about her comfort not yours, yet men just don't see it.

    • @paulbird1808
      @paulbird1808 10 месяцев назад +8

      Except for the guys with the motorcycle in the living room, & an engine rebuild in the sink!!

    • @tedthesailor172
      @tedthesailor172 10 месяцев назад

      @@paulbird1808 You been peeping through my windows again...

  • @simplysunshine9868
    @simplysunshine9868 10 месяцев назад +22

    After 13yrs of being married,
    I have embraced my new normal of Singleness and SELF ❤💃🏿🥰

  • @xfiles4792
    @xfiles4792 10 месяцев назад +32

    A relationship is like any other investment. You have to gauge what is the return in investment (ROI). A common refrain today is what do you bring to the table. I am 61, retired, divorced 20 years, and happy. Why would I want to invite drama, accusations, criticism, nagging, and problems into my life only to lose half my stuff at the end? What's in it for me? Relationships rarely pencil out. It's no wonder that 50% of them fail.

    • @alainroger-r8b
      @alainroger-r8b 10 месяцев назад +9

      50% in the first 3 years but after that, the stats goes to 83%!! no kidding and it is USA and Canada

    • @Tom-Travels
      @Tom-Travels 10 месяцев назад +5

      Relationships are often a "sunk cost." Once you invest the time, energy and resources in some woman, that investment is gone forever.
      -
      My opinion: If a woman can't bring me more money, personal power and sex, then...
      -
      I have zero interest in them.
      =
      One particular woman, I was young, I had nothing when I married her. Four years later... I then divorced her and walked at with $330,000 in cash. Another one provided me with a path to organization power and awesome sex, but cost me, as she was insanely jealous and an emotional wreck. Now, I have been single for 5 years. It is just not important for me to sink more time, energy, and resources into a woman. I am set for life.
      -

    • @SC-fk9nc
      @SC-fk9nc 10 месяцев назад +5

      Indeed, MGTOW rocks!

    • @PennPearson
      @PennPearson 10 месяцев назад

      Exactly right. Fifty percent fail formally and probably another twenty-five percent go on, but are unhappy.

    • @dang75790
      @dang75790 Месяц назад

      Maybe you are the problem? People find it easy to blame others, I guess.

  • @IndependentPrettyGirlis
    @IndependentPrettyGirlis 10 месяцев назад +23

    Being single is literally the best thing ever. I have a partner, but I still consider myself single because I live by myself, do whatever I want, it's just awesome loll. This video brings back so many memories of when I was in my twenties living in apartments and I would literally do everything myself, I would fix things myself, make all the executive decisions, now I'm in my early 30s and I have more than enough money to pay people to do that stuff for me but being that I had to do everything myself in my twenties has more than equipped me with everything that I need for the rest of my life. I'm so thankful to that ❤

    • @alansun70
      @alansun70 2 месяца назад

      Good point. There's not much for me to do with people at my place. I would do board games & video games with 3 women at once if I had the opportunity. There are some benefits to having friends of the opposite sex.

    • @IndependentPrettyGirlis
      @IndependentPrettyGirlis 2 месяца назад +1

      ​@@alansun70 Girl what? mm nope

  • @marka.8535
    @marka.8535 10 месяцев назад +24

    The downside to marriage is much worse than the average person realizes; I’m including myself in that statement because I used to be the average optimistic man. I see a lot of content highlighting how wives have the upper hand once they are married and in some ways I agree but marriage can be devastating to both men and women. There are spouses who lie , steal ,cheat , alienate their children and relatives, sabotage their spouse, try to drive their spouse to a mental breaking point and even murder. A person doesn’t lose “ half “ in a divorce you can lose everything and it’s still not over after the divorce the collateral damage seems to never end . I wish it weren’t the case.

    • @schnee78
      @schnee78 10 месяцев назад +5

      You are absolutely right.

  • @ILove_jesus9999
    @ILove_jesus9999 10 месяцев назад +41

    Peace of mind is priceless

  • @PrincessKickingButt
    @PrincessKickingButt 11 месяцев назад +65

    I love being single. No one can tell me to clean my house of go make a sandmich for him^^

    • @justinallport9789
      @justinallport9789 10 месяцев назад +5

      It's nice to hire a housekeeper 😁

    • @PrincessKickingButt
      @PrincessKickingButt 10 месяцев назад

      @@justinallport9789 So you need a job? I need a housekeeper.

    • @GirmaAbrham-e4z
      @GirmaAbrham-e4z 5 месяцев назад +1

      Okay unwanted and on undesired woman 😂😂😂😂

    • @shikhasophia2784
      @shikhasophia2784 4 месяца назад

      ​@@GirmaAbrham-e4z now go back to war🤮

    • @sirg-had8821
      @sirg-had8821 2 месяца назад +1

      Fair is fair.
      Welcome to club solo. 😀

  • @zeyanZen
    @zeyanZen 8 месяцев назад +8

    So true. Being single is better far away than in relationships. No dating. No romantic. no kids. No stress. No need to spend a lot of money for your partner like valentines and gift. No tax. You can Freedom what yo can do whatever you want.
    Masterbation is better than actual sex because low risky likes STD Hepatitis etc. you are not dirty you are clean person because you are solo sex. No harmful. No stressful. No cheating and you are healthy.

    • @josebro352
      @josebro352 2 месяца назад +4

      I absolutely love and agree with your comments about masturbation! Solo sex is the way to go. No drama! No worrying whether someone else is "satisfied ". No worrying about pregnancies or STDs. It's clean and hassle free. Just gotta wash your hand off afterwards lol 😂 👍

  • @monaural2.988
    @monaural2.988 11 месяцев назад +40

    Even if you don’t have issues with the opposite sex, marriage and of course parenthood is NO LONGER AFFORDABLE. Most people cannot get a paycheck that covers the spirals of inflation and bread and butter basic costs, which continue into the stratosphere by the month. It all adds up to unimaginable stress and strain on any relationship…any.

    • @schnee78
      @schnee78 10 месяцев назад +3

      💯

  • @HeatherZaknich
    @HeatherZaknich 10 месяцев назад +31

    I don’t want to be single, but I find it hard to meet like minded people. I live in the mountains and have to travel to see people. It’s tough as we age because we get set in our ways and don’t want to take on someone else’s baggage. It does get lonely though.☹️

    • @paulfitzpatrick6566
      @paulfitzpatrick6566 10 месяцев назад +5

      Totally understand your situation, however, I don’t get lonely. Decided 21 years ago not to ever date again, when I turned 40.
      27 years of knowing God in Christ, couple of long standing mature ( male ) friends, both believers, dog, house in countryside. Part time work.
      Need nothing else.

    • @equine2020
      @equine2020 10 месяцев назад +4

      Only only if you allow it. Develope interests. Join clubs, adopt a cause. Volunteer at a hospital.
      I've always been single. So busy the day ends fast.
      My grandma said : only boring people get bored. Guess it can apply to lonely too. There's so much to get involved in, one can't get lonely.

  • @matthewmitchell68
    @matthewmitchell68 10 месяцев назад +16

    I used to bemoan my singleness, and now I love it!

  • @tedwalker1370
    @tedwalker1370 11 месяцев назад +44

    Don't wait till after your third marriage to figure this out like I did. LOL ( I am sure happy now. )

  • @jimb3093
    @jimb3093 10 месяцев назад +12

    50 yrs old, never married, no kids. Just how it turned out.

    • @orianogiorgetti6459
      @orianogiorgetti6459 Месяц назад

      I have been single forever and I am 52 years old now. It is sad for me, I feel lonely and depressed for never having found a woman who likes me. Not feeling desired is depressing. Unfortunately I am not very good looking, I am poor, low social status and insecure, shy and stuck. Maybe I am an Incel. Advice for me? Should I resign myself to being single forever? In your opinion, is it better to give up or keep fighting to find a woman?

  • @Alexandra-ek6bb
    @Alexandra-ek6bb 10 месяцев назад +10

    I was married 22 years and have been single for 15 years. I only want a boyfriend - NOT a husband. Relationship goal: Goldie Hawn & Kurt Russell

    • @Alexandra-ek6bb
      @Alexandra-ek6bb 10 месяцев назад +3

      @@marianmoses9604 Agree. Ideally within a 15 min drive - in his own man cave lol.

    • @josebro352
      @josebro352 2 месяца назад

      ​@@marianmoses9604I totally agree with that. Relationships where the couples don't live together or sometimes aren't even intimately involved are just so romantic.
      Kate and Leo
      Adam and Drew
      Harrison Ford and Carrie Fisher
      I never want to get married. It absolutely kills the romance.

  • @hadiitiniguez2393
    @hadiitiniguez2393 10 месяцев назад +14

    I wished I would have experienced singlehood when I was younger. I'm doing it as an older person, which is so satisfying. I don't choose well, so I plan to stay single.

    • @alansun70
      @alansun70 2 месяца назад +1

      There are things I wouldn't like doing alone. There are good points here. I'm hoping for new female friends.

  • @jedlimen123
    @jedlimen123 10 месяцев назад +13

    ABSOLUTELY! Love flying solo; 68, retired, male.. Of course we are all different, and challenges still inevitably arise. Was married for 20 years.

  • @guyh.4553
    @guyh.4553 11 месяцев назад +30

    Being single can be not by choice but happenstance. I have been single for nigh on 9 ½ years. Originally it was not like that I wanted to find my missus. Then it went to living with being single, not many choices out there in rural America. Now it is a choice. I choose to be single. It has allowed me to live in places that I so choose but also to travel to places, do certain things, and to take care of me myself. Which is helping me move forward. Do I want a wife, it sure would be great. Do I want children? I don’t know at my age. These are things that I must be able to answer freely. Now excuse me, I am going fishing. LOL😊😊😊

  • @sharonhart3735
    @sharonhart3735 10 месяцев назад +5

    It's better to be single and happy rather than in a marriage that both couples are in unhappy.

    • @dang75790
      @dang75790 Месяц назад

      That makes absolutely no sense.

  • @susanarsoniadou
    @susanarsoniadou 10 месяцев назад +4

    Fourteen years with someone I was glad it was over. ..I did not like the feeling of pressure...Feel as free as a bird now.

    • @dang75790
      @dang75790 Месяц назад

      You sound wonderful 😂

  • @bunnysb2587
    @bunnysb2587 6 месяцев назад +4

    I'm glad I'm single I love my freedom and my life and my drama free with no argue and no emotions and physical abuse. No fighting and no one always thinks u cheating on them and ECT. Thank god. I see my friends go through drama and toxic people and I'm happy myself. I enjoy my privacy and my life. People think I'm crazy cause I don't want a relationship. I'm happy

  • @user-gm1kl6xy4m
    @user-gm1kl6xy4m 3 месяца назад +4

    I know so many married people are financially unhappy feel alone not happy

    • @dang75790
      @dang75790 Месяц назад

      Can you name them? I can name many singles, who are unhappy, etc? What's your point?

  • @nohandle5544
    @nohandle5544 2 месяца назад +3

    Getting married then wasting 30 years of my life was one of the dumbest things I have ever done..Back to single and freedom!..No more appease the ungrateful

    • @dang75790
      @dang75790 Месяц назад

      I'm sure nothing was your fault? Correct?

  • @tawnpaxton4490
    @tawnpaxton4490 2 месяца назад +4

    If I was 20 again, I would choose to be single.

  • @leo290702
    @leo290702 10 месяцев назад +5

    singlehood is addictive...

  • @jamesr1703
    @jamesr1703 10 месяцев назад +11

    Number 13 is my favorite. Deciding when and how you gift yourself something is fun. I just rewarded myself with a 21-day vacation to Italy. Stress free and every moment was amazing!

    • @danadrew3192
      @danadrew3192 7 месяцев назад

      How do you enjoy a trip and sightseeing without someone to enjoy it all with? I tried it. It was very lonely and not very fun.

  • @karalynne7616
    @karalynne7616 8 месяцев назад +4

    Single not my choice at first, but now happily single and am very content. I was married 2x & raised a family. I had 2 post-marriage serious relationships. I never expected to be in this place, but after spending my entire adult life (both marriages in young 20s) attached in relationships, it has been my time to simply live on my terms & with the freedom found in being single. The only one ever missed is the one that ended last, nearly 4 years ago... but I knew that was the end for me. My heart & soul closed permanently that day, after being fully open only to be crushed. But I am OK. Again, learned to be on my own & simply me. Life is definitely a journey rather than a destination💫

  • @pujanayan2578
    @pujanayan2578 2 месяца назад +2

    1.Fostering independence and self-reliance
    2.Flexible future planning
    3.Avoiding relationship stress
    4.Opportunity for varied experiences
    5.Investing in personal development
    6. Health and wellness on your terms
    7.Building stronger platonic relationships
    8.Uninterrupted personal space and time
    9.Freedom to establish personal boundaries
    10.Unbiased decision making
    11.Embracing self-sufficiency
    12.More oppertunities for spontaneity
    13.The joy of self-pampering
    14.Learning at one's own space
    15.Redefined success metrics
    16.Less emotional drama
    17.Opportunity to reconnect with oneself
    18.Tailored living environment
    19.Freedom to relocate
    20.Crafting A unique narrative

    • @orianogiorgetti6459
      @orianogiorgetti6459 Месяц назад

      Hello friend, don't you feel lonely at home? After 50 I feel very lonely, and in old age, who will take care of me? I worry that there will be no woman to love me in my old age, and no hug, no kiss. It scares me to think about this

  • @darylchatfield3528
    @darylchatfield3528 10 месяцев назад +20

    Been single for a while. I love it,not a single worry. Don’t have to worry about someone else’s BULLSHIT AND CHILDISH DRAMA,KEEP MY MONEY,PAY MY OWN BILLS,DON’T HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT BABY DADDY BULLSHIT OR THOSE BASTARD KIDS,etc💯💯

    • @jessiehughes9432
      @jessiehughes9432 10 месяцев назад +5

      Geeze tell us how you really feel!! 🤣😂 I feel the same way man..👍🏻

  • @ludivinapilar2032
    @ludivinapilar2032 10 месяцев назад +6

    that's me i go eat in the restaurant by my self, i really enjoyed my food.

  • @DCTurner396
    @DCTurner396 10 месяцев назад +14

    I’m single and love it!

    • @orianogiorgetti6459
      @orianogiorgetti6459 Месяц назад

      Hello friend, don't you feel lonely at home? After 50 I feel very lonely, and in old age, who will take care of me? I worry that there will be no woman to love me in my old age, and no hug, no kiss. It scares me to think about this

    • @DCTurner396
      @DCTurner396 Месяц назад

      @@orianogiorgetti6459you’re 50. Not dead. Get out there and mingle. There are plenty of people out there.

  • @TriadTradingOfficial
    @TriadTradingOfficial Месяц назад +4

    The only times I was truly content in life was when I was single

  • @DavidMungai-u2i
    @DavidMungai-u2i 8 месяцев назад +2

    Am 25years and i have never dated ever and i really enjoy being single staying home alone going out alone then sleeping alone staying even a week without a call i just keep i myself happy with my 4n at work am still alone and i love it

  • @OptimisticMountainLandsc-yn4zn
    @OptimisticMountainLandsc-yn4zn 3 месяца назад +3

    I been single all my life, all 66 years and loving it.

    • @orianogiorgetti6459
      @orianogiorgetti6459 Месяц назад

      Hello friend, don't you feel lonely at home? After 50 I feel very lonely, and in old age, who will take care of me? I worry that there will be no woman to love me in my old age, and no hug, no kiss. It scares me to think about this

  • @goforitrazz
    @goforitrazz 10 месяцев назад +13

    In my late 60s almost all my friends are married to their high schools sweet hearts,my wife died and if I some how knew I could have a relationship as rewarding as the one with my wife I would do it in a heart beat.I say good morning to someone’s cat every morning give it a treat and that’s about what my love life is now.This how wonderful being single is is some new construct.👎

  • @Martin-gf1hh
    @Martin-gf1hh 10 месяцев назад +6

    Only draw back to not being married no one drives you home after surgery

    • @thegrandmasabrina
      @thegrandmasabrina 29 дней назад +1

      Sadly, I know of married people who can't rely on their spouses or families.

  • @wayne9094
    @wayne9094 10 месяцев назад +7

    I have been alone my adult life. I am now 67. I had been married but was still alone most times. At first she was doing the things with me. She claimed she liked the things I liked. But it was not long I was doing everything by myself. So I divorced her. And I enjoy being alone much more then being alone having someone and being alone. I see couples fighting over stupid things. The one just waiting for the other to say anything to then twist it into a argument. I myself enjoy not having to beg to buy something I want. Or ask if I can go to a place. Or if I can stay out until I feel like coming home. I do whatever I want. And having moved to Montana in the mountains with all the wildlife that comes on my property. Elk and deer and mountain lion or bears and coyote. Just all kinds. I am never lonely. And there is no negotiation with any of the wildlife. They come and go as they please. And so do I.

  • @beansprout_apg886
    @beansprout_apg886 4 месяца назад +4

    I’m 34 and been single for almost 10 years now. There are lonely times but overall I’m good.😊😊😊 Not gonna lie, after that big heart break and take my time to heal, that was also the moment where my career, self care grows. And I became a master of third wheel. They always invited me because I can go everytime.. Warning! Being single is quite addictive..

  • @rodturner6759
    @rodturner6759 10 месяцев назад +6

    YEP YEP!! My free time, is mine to do with as I choose, with whomever I choose. And I choose Me!!!

    • @leahartlee29
      @leahartlee29 10 месяцев назад +1

      I am right there with you!! : )

  • @alainacommander2657
    @alainacommander2657 7 месяцев назад +3

    It's BETTER than being in a relationship.😌

    • @orianogiorgetti6459
      @orianogiorgetti6459 Месяц назад

      Hello friend, don't you feel lonely at home? After 50 I feel very lonely, and in old age, who will take care of me? I worry that there will be no woman to love me in my old age, and no hug, no kiss. It scares me to think about this

  • @udayanganianuradha6532
    @udayanganianuradha6532 2 месяца назад +3

    It is indeed better to be single than having a depressed married life .🥰

    • @dang75790
      @dang75790 Месяц назад

      You do understand? Not every married couple is miserable. 😂 get off the internet and live a little. Be a man.

    • @orianogiorgetti6459
      @orianogiorgetti6459 Месяц назад

      Hello friend, don't you feel lonely at home? After 50 I feel very lonely, and in old age, who will take care of me? I worry that there will be no woman to love me in my old age, and no hug, no kiss. It scares me to think about this

  • @jeffreyjackson5229
    @jeffreyjackson5229 10 месяцев назад +9

    You need 20 reasons? All have is 1: a peaceful home😊

  • @Devik666
    @Devik666 10 месяцев назад +7

    More freedom to live life my own way

  • @andyroyal4039
    @andyroyal4039 11 месяцев назад +11

    I have been sinhle 3 years now ,av'e achieved more,zm happier,healthy,i just do me...❤

  • @shizuokaBLUES
    @shizuokaBLUES 10 месяцев назад +7

    Twenty ? Jaysus, I’ll give you a 100. Marriage is for very few people.

  • @mikedonato2977
    @mikedonato2977 11 месяцев назад +14

    No money. No honey.

  • @JABINVA
    @JABINVA 10 месяцев назад +3

    I’m 55 and single, divorced twice. Empty nester, No debt, own everything I have. I have a nice house, an RV a few other cars and toys and considering buying a McLaren soon. I will never marry again.

  • @Wong-Jack-Man
    @Wong-Jack-Man 10 месяцев назад +11

    Why aren’t you married yet? I haven’t saved enough wealth yet to give away half my stuff.

    • @dang75790
      @dang75790 Месяц назад

      That's why men fail. With that attitude. Men and women today don't know how to date. You don't date a person for money or wealth. You find a person to grow with.

  • @danjsilve
    @danjsilve 2 месяца назад +1

    I spent more time in relationships wishing I was single than being single wishing I was in a relationship.

    • @orianogiorgetti6459
      @orianogiorgetti6459 Месяц назад

      Hello friend, don't you feel lonely at home? After 50 I feel very lonely, and in old age, who will take care of me? I worry that there will be no woman to love me in my old age, and no hug, no kiss. It scares me to think about this

  • @MikeJackson690
    @MikeJackson690 2 месяца назад

    Not doing all these as a young adult absolutely arrested my development. This is great advice for anyone in their 20s.

  • @miketracy9256
    @miketracy9256 10 месяцев назад +2

    There may be advantages but only the strong and competent survive.

  • @Darlene-xg6ix
    @Darlene-xg6ix 9 месяцев назад +3

    Yep I love being single period 😊😊

  • @myriamarturo9125
    @myriamarturo9125 10 месяцев назад +2

    I am single and 31, never have had a boyfriend, I am so happy, as I am asexual, I have never worried about STDS or pregnancy, that Actually is the most valuable thing in life, my body is just mine, I am not sharing,

  • @philliphinkle2812
    @philliphinkle2812 10 месяцев назад +1

    Being single for me wasn't a choice. Im getting accustomed to be a widower. I haven't been single in over 40 years. This video was discovered at a perfect time for me. Thank you.

  • @AI-pu6zv
    @AI-pu6zv 10 месяцев назад +17

    Also no one shitting in your toilet 😂

    • @aaronaustrie
      @aaronaustrie 10 месяцев назад

      Lol 🤣

    • @josebro352
      @josebro352 2 месяца назад

      Best comment ever!! Love it. 😂

  • @Ahmedabad-Single-Souls
    @Ahmedabad-Single-Souls 10 месяцев назад +2

    👍Stay single stay happy. Today's relationships are materialistic.

  • @darrylsmith6088
    @darrylsmith6088 10 месяцев назад +15

    Single and love it. Don't gave a woman
    Money. Don't buy her bills. I love it.

  • @garycourtier4668
    @garycourtier4668 10 месяцев назад +5

    I beg to differ. I've been blessed to be married 31 years now and couldn't be happier. It hasn't been easy but nothing worth having is. You just have to work at it and be willing to sacrifice.

  • @rickh8380
    @rickh8380 10 месяцев назад +3

    I have learned to embrace my "Oneness". I don't know what the rules are anymore on dating, and I do not want to used as an emotional Tampon.

  • @SC-fk9nc
    @SC-fk9nc 10 месяцев назад +3

    As a man if sex is important to you (of course it is) the best way to not have it (except during the bait and switch period) is to get into a long term monogamous relationship with a woman. Singlehood rocks, no drama peace and quiet.

  • @bladerunner8832
    @bladerunner8832 10 месяцев назад +1

    11 is a big one for me. There’s nothing worse than relying on people. 19 is as well. The exit door in my mind must always be open.

  • @margaretfahey8090
    @margaretfahey8090 7 месяцев назад +1

    We, human beings, are whole units and not half of a couple but we are programmed from childhood to believe that we aught to be half of a couple rather than a whole emotionally autonomous and socially autonomous and self-reliant unit and we are sometimes told as children that single women are disrespected in society and therefore we should find a husband. I did not find a husband and I love being single and I will remain so for the remainder of my life. Being single is the best aspect of my life.

    • @orianogiorgetti6459
      @orianogiorgetti6459 Месяц назад

      Hello friend, don't you feel lonely at home? After 50 I feel very lonely, and in old age, who will take care of me? I worry that there will be no woman to love me in my old age, and no hug, no kiss. It scares me to think about this

  • @sjordan7085
    @sjordan7085 10 месяцев назад +3

    Sometimes, having a kind and loyal partner to share life's challenges would 'soften the edges' of experiences such as difficult medical interventions, for example. However, just because a person has a partner, does not automatically mean that person is supportive or compatible. Creativity is often hampered by being expected to attend to the wants of another. There is a lot to be said for the freedom to live one's life on one's own terms, without compromising, in order to maintain a harmonious relationship. It seems, 'the grass is always greener on the other side of the hill.' Those of us who are single, may occasionally envy those who are married, rarely does one hear the opposite lament. Though one may stick out like a sore thumb when one is single and everyone else attends a social event with a partner, but there is now less of a stigma when one is unattached.

  • @Nat-mw3bz
    @Nat-mw3bz 10 месяцев назад +3

    I knew at age 14 I wasn't interested in marrying anyone! It's NEVER been a desire!

  • @gracealexandre3381
    @gracealexandre3381 3 месяца назад +1

    I😊 have settled down -- with Me😎 and Myself🤠; the only partners I'll ever need! They're still my only partners at sixty-two. I don't need to waste my time trying to please anyone, including family.

    • @orianogiorgetti6459
      @orianogiorgetti6459 Месяц назад

      Hello friend, don't you feel lonely at home? After 50 I feel very lonely, and in old age, who will take care of me? I worry that there will be no woman to love me in my old age, and no hug, no kiss. It scares me to think about this

    • @gracealexandre3381
      @gracealexandre3381 Месяц назад

      @@orianogiorgetti6459 I have no interest, no intention of ever being hugged or getting a kiss.
      As for old age, I'm already sixty-two. Is that not old age? I would much rather go to a home or hire a nurse than become a burden on anyone.
      As for being lonely, how anyone can feel lonely with God in the same room really makes no sense to me.

  • @rodfrancis9160
    @rodfrancis9160 10 месяцев назад +2

    i would hate to be in a relationship and lose my 100% time to myself...I would be very angry and bitter to her and eventually end it after a few months with a cold text message...

  • @birdieg3614
    @birdieg3614 2 месяца назад +1

    Being single is not better than partnership if you choose your partner wisely. But it is not worse, either. And since most people seem to think their perfect partner is just the next tinder match they obviously don't choose wisely and thus being single seems to be the better choice. They are driven by hormones, only following their butterfly feelings, not thinking and clearly not choosing. Yet, from my experience, partnership and being single are equivalent, both have their own advantages and disadvantages, both can be fulfilling. And neither partnership nor being single needs to be a decision for life.

  • @exposingproxystalkingorgan4164
    @exposingproxystalkingorgan4164 11 месяцев назад +15

    The most important aspect of single of singleness is the lack of divorce and all of its bullshit, such as asset lost. 😂

  • @gracesanity6314
    @gracesanity6314 7 месяцев назад

    I own my Cottage, my chapel. Serenity. Declutter people, places, things. I got rid of unnecessary drama. Adulating in reality...saves me from delusions.

  • @thewiseguy3529
    @thewiseguy3529 10 месяцев назад +3

    I can give you a thousand reasons 😁

  • @FrankyboyFloyd
    @FrankyboyFloyd 11 месяцев назад +5

    Point 16 alone is far than enough!!!!!

  • @IdanZ-x6y
    @IdanZ-x6y 3 месяца назад +1

    It boils down to what belief we want to practice . I have the belief that it’s ok and often pleasant to be single and because of this belief im ok.
    If i would have a belief that i have to have a relationship to be happy- then that would lead me to be miserable

  • @WestShoreMan
    @WestShoreMan 10 месяцев назад +4

    I know 5 couples getting divorced right now. Ive never not had a girlfriend in fact presently we’ve been together over 10 years and she is18 years younger than me. Male friends have gotten reamed financially by getting divorced. No thanks!

  • @dragonfox2.058
    @dragonfox2.058 10 месяцев назад +4

    OK, but why do you mostly show men doing this? It seems women are much more into being single these days

  • @MikeKelsoJr
    @MikeKelsoJr 10 месяцев назад +3

    I’ve been married 2 times in my life it was heartbreak !! I married selfish women !! Staying single !!