From Heartbreak To Happy: My Filipino Love Story
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- Опубликовано: 24 мар 2024
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Someone once told me, " If you have to put a lot of work into it, it's a job, not a relationship
Hey Paul! Thanks so much for inviting us on your channel. :) We really enjoyed spending time with you and Mae. See you next time. ;)
The pleasure was all ours!
I used Christian Filipina and the very last week of my 18 month subscription I met one beautiful young Pinay. She has been the twinkle in my eyes ever since. Everything he said is true about their staff being so well trained to make sure you are matched with a good Filipina that truly share their Christian values. I'm currently in Cebu but I'm from Grand Rapids Michigan.
That is awesome 👌
Interesting video going around at the moment showing how christian filipino works. Nothing christian about it. Outright scam for a large number. Of course, like a lottery, you can get lucky - congrats on "your win".
I Too Am From Grand Rapids MI , I'm Taking With Someone Now Since I've Been Here 18 + Months, But I Truly Want To Find The ONE For Me... Even Though I've Been Here That Long I'm Willing To Use Filipino Christian And See If I Can Find A Better Match/Companion...
I'm Currently Staying In Catarman Northern Samar
No matter what others say, RELATIONSHIPS should NEVER be a challenge.
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If an intimate relationship becomes a challenge, that's the beginning of the end.
LIFE is a challenge, and relationships (of every type) are part of that challenge. Did I get that wrong?
My best friend in Indiana met his Filipina wife on Christian Filipina 21 years ago as she is from Cebu and they were the ones who started me on my Journey when they asked me to join them some years ago. Now I am moving there in July and they will follow in 2025. I Hope and Pray that Jason & Joy have many Happy years together as a successful couple. I also hope where they live are some other Filipinos she can reach out to as my Hometown has a Filipino store and a Large community i didn't know about at first as it has been a Lifeline back home and even serves Filipino food daily.
Hi @paulk8444 Thank you for sharing your story! We're glad to hear that our video inspired you to take the next step in your own journey.
To be totally honest I would not be in favor of taking my girlfriend back here to Canada. I would just want her to stay with her family and stay humble.
Hi @perryhenrickson7750 We understand the importance of family ties, especially in the Philippines. Cultural values are vital to respect.
I’ve been following Jason and Joy’s channel although they haven’t posted a lot lately. Fun to watch this process for them.
I think they are going to need a whole lot of luck to reach their ultimate dreams. I say that having seen so many of these types of relationships over the last two decades. The look on the lady's face throughout the interview and her few comments were not encouraging. I wish them the best.
Noticed right away and agree with you, something wasn't right. She kept looking off to the side and looked upset, cold, unfeeling and robotic. Zero personality. Only couple of grins when Jason mentioned something that would have been embarrassing, yet where he was just being open & authentic.
I think he's a catch and he could do better.
Jason & Joy’s “Province Smile” vlog on RUclips is a real joy to watch. Two genuinely nice people in a world in which decency seems to be increasingly thin on the ground. Thanks to them and to Paul & Mae for showing that there can be hope, still.
Hi @CheckDare Thanks for sharing your appreciation for Jason & Joy's vlog! We're glad you enjoy our content too!
I came to Philippines in March of 2014 to meet in person my now wife. Had talked to her for several months and it was her Aunt that introduced us. I started the K-1 visa paperwork the first part of April 2014 and she arrived in the US October 4th, 2014, it was fairly easy doing it myself. We married December 8th, almost 10 years! I'm retired and will hopefully be moving there within a year to Western Samar.
Thanks for the information you provide and the different people you interview.
Yung bash kay mga tao d sya kilala. Pero those who know her they appreciate her. Not all people the same she more different from other pinay. The question is toward Jayson so can’t jump on the conversation. So Joy is wait for her turn to talked. Anyway, congratulations 🎉 to both of you.. it’s dream come true to find each other! See you in US my dear! Ate will visit you! Love love ❤️
Subbed their channel
Nice to be young... there were a lot of good times before the Broken Back and serious Health issues. And being widowed..
Congratulations to the couple and thanks for sharing their story as well as tips on obtaining the K1 Visa.
Thank you too!
Great video.
What a beautiful couple! May the forces be with you both. God Bless
Hi @alwilliamson3798 Thank you, we appreciate your kind words!
Just when i thought that i have outgrown your channel you put on a nice couple with a nice story. Thanks Paul❤
Another interesting video, as always!
Good luck to both 🙏
Thanks for sharing
Ingat
Hi @stephanegosselin2861 Thank you for watching and for your kind wishes!
She is not comfortable to the public interview. Good luck for her in the states. Alot of well behaved Filipinas especially the Christian ones wants a simple lifestyle. Pigs, goats and chicken in the backyard and Lola is cooking some sinigang isda (fish) for lunch. Thanks Paul for all you do!
Depends where they live as we have a large Filipino community i didn't know about at first until i met my friend and then it was like they were hidden and even have a local store ironically called "The Sari-Sari Store" and it even has Filipino food daily prepared and anything to make a Filipina gain access to stuff from home.
Hi @bert-bb3cm We appreciate your kind words and understanding of Baby Mae's comfort level. Thank you for being supportive!
Love being part of the "Old Dog" family!! Can't wait to come back to the PI and enjoy the good people there!! Coming over to the Philippines has really changed my life and have decided to contribute my time to help the locals after I retire. I figured that it would leave a legacy behind that would be positive and hopefully last for at least a few generations. Also, hope things are getting better with John.
Thank you for appreciating the country and our people. Salamat po!
Welcome aboard!
This is a nice interview with a great couple. I wish all of the joy in the world to these two. Good luck to Jason and Joy in the future.
Hi @gibblespascack1418 Thank you, means a lot to us!
Another great interview, Paul.
Hi @clarkgaither Thank you!
Good video! Thanks for sharing
Hi @SuccessSynergy404 Thanks for watching and for your kind words!
Was with someone for 21 years had 2 kids but we split and I've been single for the last 2 years and i love it. I definitely don't need a women for anything
I thought the same thing until i met my Filipina girlfriend there when i was visiting checking it out to see if i wanted to live there. We just meshed and fell in Love and now i couldn't be Happier as they say it will happen when you least expect it and aren't looking for it. Her family was actually what sealed the deal as i just felt immediately part of it and her brother became one of my best friends there. I thought i was going to be a bachelor for last half of my life and now i will be living in the Philippines in 4 months and my 2 adult children have been my helpers and cheerleaders in my journey.
@@paulk8444 that's awesome.. I'm actually going in September for a few weeks for vacation to check it out
Great advice as always Paul, What a nice couple, God Bless them Thank you.
Thanks so much
I met my fiancé on Christian Filipina and we are using Filipino Visa for the K1. I was hoping for approval in 10 months, but 7 would be awesome. Love your channel Paul, I have been a subscriber for over a year now. Keep up the great work
Please don’t get her here… they leave once other guys start macking on them.. Lots and lots of sad stories
Great to see Jason and Joy on here! I've been a big fan of their channel since Jason's first trip over to meet her
Hi @JesseOsby Nice to have fellow expats in the community!
Exceptional video and interview!!! I'm happy those two met and made a successful story of how love is still available to anyone who seeks it God bless their relationship
Hi @SpiritRobert-gq3pl Thank you! We're grateful for the kind words.
Thank you so much Paul for this interview some of the comments here made me 😂😂 any way thank you for all the comments god bless everyone
Having kids from another marriage is very challenging. It’s one thing for him to be dating but it’s another thing to bring a province girl, take her to the US and force her to become a step parent.
Her affect is positively cut and dried what it feels like to be objectified and that’s exactly what’s being happened to her as we speak. She doesn’t know what to do with it. She is being objectified and her intuition knows it??? yeah
Seems like a good kid. Best of luck and best wishes for happiness and success 🇺🇸🇵🇭
As our conversation over coffee, you know that I met my Wife through Christian Filipina. The only site we both used, that made sure their members have success.
Just like Jason and Joy did 👍
I have observed that people get together for a lot of different reasons. It seems a lot of relationships, especially later in life, are a type of arrangement that has to work on a practical level but hopefully includes some romance, passion and love. Sometimes when people get together for practical reasons, if they are both of good character and treat each other respectfully, real lasting love can grow.
Hi @4abetteru I couldn't agree more. We're proof that practicality and love can thrive together!
Another great interview, Paul! No fanfare or bulls××t
That's why you are getting a lot of new subscribers...keep it up!
Thanks 👌
I've been all the way down this road with a non-Philippina. I'd be VERY concerned about what he is about to do. I'm not seeing the enthusiasm (On her part) and I don't suspect it is nervousness. Not only is he likely to take some lumps, but there will be impact on the children....I've seen cases where it ruins parent/child relationship permanently. Ex wife, teenage kids, new somewhat younger Philippina wife. But hey, once the man is in the mindset, there is no stopping him...good luck.
@jonasnight Joy looks very attentive and does well understanding the conversation thats going on.
Her head pulls away from him. Interesting
Excellent
Thanks❤
@@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 still though keep them in their own country. If not to a point what you had for a woman stateside you will again. I doubt most men are looking for that god awful feminist mess.
Good morning from Florida Paul. Great video and interview.
Years ago, I went through the K-1 visa process with my former/ex-Venezuelan wife.
For me, the process was very smooth and simple. As long as you fill out the forms correctly you have your tax statements and income statements. I did not even use an attorney. I did it myself, and it was very smooth.
That was a very long time ago, but everything is good and amicable
I’ll be in the Philippines next month. Considering making it my home I’ll scout out the different locations. Visit all the different beautiful islands, beaches, waterfalls and I’ll allow things to develop organically and naturally. Hopefully I’ll find the girl of my dreams 🐸✌🏽
Also, hopefully our pass will cross in person. Love to stop by and say hello. Peace brother. ✌🏽😃
Where in Florida? I live in cocoa
Hi @michael_Jon7 Thanks for watching, appreciate your story too! Good luck with your next adventure.
Jason: I recommend that you take Joy to the "DMV" and get her a State ID card ASAP while she still has her I-94 form. That will make both of your lives much easier.
I welcome her to the USA! She will feel comfortable here. Thousands of Philipinos reside in virtually every US city and have made a successful home here. Here in NYC, I attended Palm Sunday mass and half of the attendees hailed from the Phillipines. As a career tv and film person, I’d implore him to get back into his career instead of the non profit endeavor. He has an opponent to bank a nice amount towards social security and before you know it 10-15 years will be here and he will be set.
Well, he keeps looking at her constantly very deep with dark glasses on like he's not sure of her reaction. If she ends up in the U.S. there're going to be so many moving parts, teenage kids from previous marriage, former wife around, new surroundings, it's going to be very complicated.
Indeed
Nice story! I have a similar experience with obtaining a fiancé visa - the application is approved(12 months) and still needing the tests and interview.
I also hired a visa company - they are good at doing the paperwork but the process includes hours and days of submitting so many documents, photos, certificates and statements.
I applaud you acknowledgement of the difficulty with your children. You are realistic! Be patient - kids often have issues with new moms or dads.
Excellent video Paul. I think Christian Filipino is the way to go
Too damn expensive!
you get what you pay for
Hey Paul and Baby Mae. Gaylord in the wild today!!! LOL Thank you for sharing this video.
Hi @k9companion231 Thanks, Gaylord! Glad you enjoyed it!
Feminist vs feminine, nice statement!
I love Joy and Jason channel,, 😎😁👍👍
Hi @faisan902 Thanks for watching!
Keep meeting nice people. They're out there.
All the best to them ❤ I want to wish them every happiness in the world.
I’ve tried the do it yourself method a couple of times with Filipina’s. I learned more about what not to do, than what to do.
Christian Filipina is an option, but I’m 22 months from retirement, and I almost think I’m better off waiting until I can come to the Philippines for 6-8 months and meet someone, versus trying to prime the pipeline before coming over for my 4 week vacation.
I will say this for those that are fans of the Old Dog Channel, but have never been to the Philippines. You owe it to yourself to make a trip over. I remember how my mindset went from “I’m 60, and going to be alone for the rest of my life,” to “wow, there are so many beautiful women here, and they actually enjoy talking to me!”
Make the trip over, you will not regret it…
Lucky guy wish I could give it a try
Well done
Hi @mikesimpson9997 Thanks!
Thanks for your content, I met my Filipina on a different dating site and I also use the same visa service as this couple did. We plan to live in America until I can retire and go back and live in the Philippines in my retirement.
I know from experience, its not over. Just get your check book out and start all over. I found a friend who was very good with paper work and it sailed through rather quickly.
Paul i'm so glad for you to have your channel grown so much it looks like that you will reach your 100k subs within a couple of months. Youve came a long way from doing interviews from the couch with lots of laughing Filipinas and trying to make that 1000 subs. Good you on.
Hi @bayoumanbryan Thanks for following our journey! We're grateful for your support.
Great interview Paul, I love this. So happy for them to find love and happiness. It kind of amazes me how Joy would be content to stay in PH, I brought my Filipina wife to America 10 years ago, and she is content here in America, but the Philippines is always their home. I could not imagine moving from the only life I have ever known to be with someone. I hope Jason and Joy find contentment, love, and enjoyment in America or wherever they might settle down. Wishing Joy and Jason a life of happiness and love.
God Bless your relationship and best of luck with the K1 process. @ Jason, it would be really good if you could be in Manila with Joy during her interview, that just goes very far with the process if you can pull it off. Best of luck, God Bless.
Hi @wbardowell Thanks for the well wishes! We're rooting for them. Good advice on being present for the K1 interview too.
Good morning Paul !!
Morning!
Excellent interview of a very nice couple. They are the real deal and look very happy. Best wishes to them!
Thanks for watching!
Joy is nervous about the move to America and the relationship with the kids. Understandable
good luck to you
Hi @sebastianheuwagen9318 Appreciate the kind sentiment!
That guy looks good for his age
Thanks for sharing Paul. Good luck to them both. I just received our NOA2 so needless to say we are extremely excited and now we are waiting for an NVC case number. Initial filing date was October so the process is faster then it was a few years ago.
I did find someone here in the states to do our paperwork but she is a Phillipina that has immigrated to the US so she knows the process.
Hi @jmiller4924 Thanks for the well wishes! Congrats on the NOA2, fingers crossed for a smooth NVC case number process!
This Filipina couldn’t look any less interested.
I felt the same thing, she has the look of someone who is trapped and trying to find a way out. She seems to just be going along with anything he says. The way she keeps her arms folded on the table placed directly in front of herself this is a sure sign of trying to protect herself. Also constantly gazing off to the sides and just looking sad most of the time. I hope I'm wrong!
@John-or8ze
Yes I am trapped could you help me to get out 😅😂
@@joytejo8103 im sorry that you find it funny but i and others wouldn't expect you to say anything less. Like my mom use to say "actions speak louder then words" and its your life to do with it as you wish, i was just making an observation after 35 years of experience working in the NCIS. Good luck in The future
@@John-or8ze
Some of Filipina they are different the way our parents rise us if someone is talking don't interrupt mostly i am province girl I will answer if the question is for me
So if it's not for me I just sit and quite but it doesn't mean someone is controling me .. anyway god bless you and thank you
Interesting video, Joy was being so honest on her answer of going to the U.S. I hope it works out. It would be interesting to interview them in a year. We did the K1 visa ourselves... I guess it can work both ways. Would be interesting to ask what the cost was for them to get the visa done by that company.
Us too!
Yes please Paul please check up on them two again in a year! This is a very inspiring couple!!! Kudos Paul 😊
Paul - I am a long time subscriber and have always enjoyed your content. My Fiance' (from Cebu) and I are about done w/ our K1 process and expecting approval by April 23rd. We are super excited! I have only one constructive comment- I would advise to use caution on "paid promotoions" (i.e. Christina Filipina, etc.) as soon as folks feel like they are tuning into a "Informational" they will tune- out quickly. Otherwise good stuff sir! Congrats to your success! David in Montana
Hi @flyingmulerider7166 Thanks for the support and congrats on the K1 process nearing completion! We appreciate your feedback, too - we'll keep that in mind.
Great video, would like to see another video of Texas "D" Lady Boy and Gold Finger. Take care and thanks for all your videos
Will do
it not as bad as you hear. i did it all myself it went all good
"I felt so much more masculine"... Not all men are man enough to admit it feels good to be allowed to be the one wearing the pants, without abusing the role, obviously.
It is going to be tough with the kids.But it is possible, hopefully Joy is patient and strong. It is hard to raise someone elses kids.
Paul, can I recommend a small change in interview style. If you position yourself, in this case, on the woman’s side it will feel more inclusive to the woman when the man is responding to you. Just a suggestion. I work with a lot of couples in my business of home improvement and I am always very inclusive of both and believe me my income depends on it.😊
Rappid Visa is another good company for the K1 visa process. It's what my wife and I used. It took longer but we did it during covid :( They have offices in the Philippines and US.
I follow this couple's YT channel. Joy loves him and they have a great relationship. she's obviously very tired for this interview. However, I did not know the plan was to go to the US. That made me sad. bringing your filipina back to the US is usually a really bad idea. it's a declining culture and things will be very different for her there. Why take a beautiful fish back to a dirty pond? (I am engaged to a filipina and we will live there next year. I would never bring her back here to the US. Ever). I do wish them both the absolute best.! (EDIT: just saw she does not want to go. oh dear.)
I feel sorry for this young girl. There isn’t much worse than being home sick.
It's very common to be homesick especially amongst the younger generation. It could eventually make or break this relationship.
He said his intentions were to eventually move over there
@@Jkaye13 ironic that he said American women’s body language wasn’t positive and they wanted to know what you had to give them. This poor girls body language says she is miserable but knows she must do this to financially help her family. She is already obviously miserable. Can u imagine when she gets to USA away from her child and family? It’s pitiful to have to sacrifice your life for the good of family. Soooo sad.
My wife and I have now been waiting for her visa for 28 months.
This young lady certainly doesn’t look happy and I doubt she will like America and being away from her family.
is doing what is best for her family IMHO, and they will return to visit as often as possible
@@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
So are you inferring that her family benefits from her finding an American husband? Is he paying the family?
GALORD !!!!!
How much did he pay for the Visa Consulting? That would be nice to know.
Body language yes. Also lose the sunglasses please? Query why would anyone wish to take a P'pines woman to the u s of a! 😮. Why not stay P'pines help a community? 😅
@paddy696 Because he has 15 years to retire, thats why. There is a very large Philippine community here in the US, Joy will meet other filipinas of like mind, make friends and be very happy.
He has an eye condition that requires him to wear them
He mentioned snow so wait till she experiences winter time 😂😂😂
One word, prenuptial. Least if she opts to leave for something better, you are covered!
Joy just does not appear to be looking forward to the U.S., seems to be afraid of what's coming with his kids and his ex. I think he needs to reassure her over and over again that she is the one and that he will protect her from any harm. Right now, it appears she would rather wait for him in the Philippines. Can't blame her.
I hate to tell you, but there's over a 90% chance that beautiful loving Filipina will be just like American women after a few years. I did it twice and I have known hundreds of Filipina and American couples. I hope that you are part of the 10%.
interesting, where did you get the data on this?
I have lived this. I was married the first time in 1979. Took my Filipina wife to the US. I know that you are thinking that there was a big age gap. No I was only 1 year older. Marriage lasted 5 years. Filipino friends, gambling and infidelity killed that one. Second marriage in 1989. That marriage lasted 12 years. It was actually over at 10 years but I kept trying to hold on. I lived in San Diego, California in a Filipino neighborhood with neighbors co-workers and friends. Like I said I have personally known hundreds of Filipina and American couples. The only ones that i have seen last are the very religious ones and the ones that just looked the other way. I wish you the best of luck but once she starts making friends there's a very good chance things will change.
Going to Westernize her , she will change being in the US, I've seen it many times, Bad Choice
Depends on the woman, with Joy, I have to disagree
The dating websites in the USA is a joke . I met my Filipina on a dating website then we talk on Facebook messenger day and night for a long time so I made up my mind and went to the Philippines and I don't like flying but I met her and fell in love with her . We got married in Manila and we are very happy I'm going to bring her to the USA ware we can live in the country life together
We Gotta teach the younger Generation... to take the reflective sun glasses off while on camera (hard to watch with OCD and Grumpy Old Guy Syndrome)😂😂
Haha! Sorry, I insisted on keeping my sunglasses on. I have goofy eyes. But thanks for the compliment about me being “younger”. ;)
First couple I've seen where the man actually looked somewhat close to age as the woman..
hey Paul! Just subscribed. I was wondering, if I'm interested in one of the single young ladies, that your wife interviews, how do I get in touch to express my interest and set up a video chat. Love the channel!
-J. from California
Province Smile is probably the best RUclips channel about the Philippines IMHO, prior to moving to the Philippines. I watched a lot now that I live here that’s the only one I continually watch no offense old dog, but the only reason I watched this episode is because of The thumbnail of them and I was curious what they had to say most of the others RUclips channels on the Philippines the information is repetitive and targeted towards people who are considering moving here.
Thank you for your kind words about Province Smile! It means a lot to know that you appreciate the content.
Paul, could you do an episode on Social Security survivor's benefits and how a Filipina widow would go about getting them? I am not sure, but it looks like the Filipina would have to reside in the USA for a minimum of 5 years and it doesn't have to be consecutive 5 years. There may be another qualifying factor(s) - one would be if there were kids involved.
It would be great to bless a widow with a monthly income for the rest of her life.
Another related topic that I believe would be of great interest to Expats is "PRE-NUPTIAL AGREEMENTS". Since many of us codgers have had children from a previous marriage, we want to make sure our kids from our first marriage get an inheritance. Does Phillipines law recognize/honor pre-nups? Red tape?
Are most of the Expats that you know concerned about what happens (financially) to the Filipina once we have stopped orbiting around the sun? And what plans have they made for her?
Thanks Paul
well at least they are up front compared to fake loving and then it turns into What You Can Do For Me...Fillapina style.
Paul can you provide a link to their RUclips channel? Thank you
youtube.com/@ProvinceSmile?si=ST5Un_WjfHn3bEaU
You are the man!
She young Philipina separation from family could be challenge.
I hired a attorney to take care of our k1 visa . We were denied and appealed it and won . We used Filipina cupid and would not ever use it again horrible site lot's of scammers on that sight but did end up meeting my future wife on there after a lot of time wasted . I wish I would of knew about the help from the sight these 2 used . We filed during covid so we are at 3 years now and finally got her approval now we are waiting for interview next month and physical . She should be here in America by 1st of may . Our attorney said the embassy is back to normal and wait times are back to way they used to be .
A dear Filipina friend had a daughter and married an American. She told me she trained her daughter to get on the old man's side to adopt her. Tild her what ti say. Then started a fight with his son by saying his son propositioned her. He disinherited his son and left for daughter. She was good friend but said this is what most do. I'm sure there are thise who don't
How hard is it bring the filipina's family over to U.S.?
You do not need a third party to do the visa application.
Is he doing sign language???
My wife and I journey was a little different because she was in the U.S. and we requested a change of status. It took about 18 months to get our interview which was for her green card and permanent residency. The key thing was during the interview the immigration officer was reviewing photos of the two of us together when she can upon a photo of my wife and I meeting and shaking hands with Joel Olstien. The officer was a born again Christian so we told her the story how on a prior visit I flew my wife to Houston. My wife was approved on the spot our lawyer said he had never seen that before always taking a few weeks to review. My point was Joy or any young Filipina if they can find a connection to the immigration officer. The officer will believe them and know they are truthful.
Best of luck
Wow. What a story about dating in the US. Scary stuff. Larger back yard? Pony? No wonder the divorce rate is so high and guys don't want to get married so much any more.
It's definitely a wild dating world out there!
I’d be interested to see some videos with Filipino women as it seems like most of the videos are with men & maybe even white woman
It is amazing how the Filipina women have learned how to change their location by using a feature called travel mode... I have been contacted by several ladies already even though the app was suppose to show me profiles of locals... When I make contact with then I was amazed that they are not near my location.... They use a feature called Travel Mode which shows them men in other locations.
Hi @fireblazer99 Thanks for sharing your experience! We've noticed some Filipinas using travel mode too. It's all about finding love, right?
This guy's toast. He doesn't know it yet but he will learn soon. 😂
Hi @jaredmoone8741 🤣