I just realized I'm an introvert when people were making comments saying that I was too shy and quiet. I have been this way since I was a kid, and I was always teased. I'm proud to know who I am now!
Introvert love doing things alone and watching others from afar. Even working in my own office pleases me the most. And enjoying my own home doing what I love most. Crowds definitely are not for me. You nailed introverts.
The only bad thing about being an introvert, is that there are so many people who think there’s something wrong with me and that they have to “fix” me.
As an introvert, this video helps me understand myself more. I also Understand why am always misunderstood, living in a society that judge people quickly.
Both my parents and sis are extroverts and I can hardly withstand them or get along with them in some things. They're so exhausting and demanding ppl. I'm only one empathetic who notice details of everything that they just don't. Also I'm the type of introvert with Social Anxiety Disorder so this makes it even worst than the introvertism is along.
I had to grin the whole time because I see myself in it 100%. As a kid, I got ban questions from adults. My mom was confused every time I bombarded her with questions. Now, as an adult, I ask questions and figure out the answers myself. People often think I'm stupid just because I don't gossip or don't talk much, especially in meetings, but then they're always surprised at what I can do and how I answer their questions. I love surprising people and I'd rather they think I'm stupid and be pleasantly surprised by me than the other way around.
The old "children are seen and not heard' adage. Great piece of advice for a child, you become more of an introvert and forget how to verbally articulate your thoughts. I stopped talking for fear of saying the wrong thing. Fortunately I just read copious amounts of literature fiction and non-fiction, studied every topic that was of interest and gained qualifications in multiple areas. When you eventually do say something, the assumptions and misconceptions people make become redundant. I used to enjoy being complemented about having a high intellect. Now it bores me because I had to earn the knowledge, we are not born with it.
Correct, observation is King 👑 I would rather be at home cleaning, creating, hanging out with who I genuinely care about, rather than be with a group of people who are fake and pretend to be what they are not 🔥🔥🔥
I have a boss who is an extrovert; talk, talk, talk, talk, talk, talk, talk, talk. And then whine because he never gets anything done. Shut the fluff up and work.
Being an introvert isn't lonely..its liberating.. you don't have to sit through boring meetings and mindless conversations...or listen to senseless drivel....I even avoid my friends and fsmily if I don't feel like seeing them..I enjoy my own company...I've laughingly said talking to myself is the only intelligent conversation I get...
Likewise. I enjoy spending time alone in the comforts of my own as often as I can. The outside world is too noisy and chaotic. People are a severe drain on my emotional well being.
Introvert!!!! Social settings give my anxiety I think it's in my brain, I like constructive conversations about science and life.. extroverts also give me anxiety/ panic attacks. I'm getting anxious typing about it 😅
Social settings can definitely set off my anxiety. Extroverts can rub me the wrong way sometimes. I've found many extroverts feel the same about introverts. The two worlds are just too far apart
I'm INTROVERT, I'm truly happy about that , I love my solitude, being with myself, it' s a tremendous POWER that we have ,this blessing possibility to be alone, to observ everything, to analize everything with deep , strong and insigthful capacity, this blessing, fullfiling and meaningful connotation for complex problems solving 🎉🎉
I am a happy introvert ! I don’t seek out friends but I attract people , some who become friends ! Most people just need someone preferable a stranger to get things that are bothering them out of their heads so they can” see “what is the problem ! We introverts fill that need I believe! A nonjudgmental person they feel safe in telling their worries too !
Wow. I am an introvert and must say, this is the best summary of what it means to be introverted. The part about being aware of the disadvantages that stem from introversion is particularly relevant. One small correction: introversion/extroversion and shyness are independent- meaning one can be introverted and shy or not shy.
I am an introvert. I am attractive to nobody because nobody knows me. I avoid social settings completely. Human interaction is extremely minimal. When it is required it is done in a manner that emulates the interaction between a client and a merchant or service provider. Then I part ways as, quickly as possible. There is no chance I am found attractive to anybody.
@@jacktheglide9411 People do not realise the more one socialises, the more one loses of themself. I have seen brilliant individuals slowly slink into idiocy as they begin socialising more. I have witnessed no exception to this. Those that collaborate temporarily, for a common goal, are not socialising. They are on a mission. Those that gather just to be in the pointless company of others actually socialise. They will deteriorate if they keep socialising regularly.
I'm an introvert who talks too much. I spend so much time alone that when I'm finally with people, I get overstimulated and try to match my energy with the energy of an extrovert. Afterward, I am drained.
Just because we don't like big crowds and loud people doesn't make us not cool to be around 😊 I don't see much family and don't have many friends but that's cool with me 😁 love my own company 🙂 and I only really go out if I have to for food or clothes shopping
Im an introvert i only realized a year ago!!! V never fit in im a loner i dont think like anyone i know im different to everyone else my opinions are different to most the way i think and the things i think about i have wide wacky thoughts which most dont so iv always been misunderstood becuase most dont understand me so they think its me thats weird just becuase they will never comprehend it so they think there right and normal and im not but i know that it is me who is totally normal its actually them thatare mad not me i love deep meaningful conversation about anything really i find life very tedious cuz its not challenging or interesting a lot of times im not at all insecure i love to see how things work not peeps telling me how it works small talk bores me to death and iv been searching virtually all my lifetime to meet someone like mebut they just ain't out there i feel bit like an alien iv always been on outside looking in still am i dont think im better than others but im defo different thank god i feel often isolated cuz i have these far reaching thoughts that bo one else does well I dont know anyone quite like me ita so complex being me i often contradict myself and find it very hard to Express myself so i appear odd and vague to most i know myself very well i could literally go on for ages im not to content cuz i just don't fit in anywhere really but oftn it suits me im good with own company don't need anyone approval be great to meet someone like me preferably a female haha
hey.. ik its hard.. me understnd how people treats u.. nd how u feel when in that group.. its bad.. sad.. me too feels the same.. thnk we r diffrnt nd we r not made for it.. belve u got a diffrnt purpose nd work for it... one think he fail to mention is how an introvert knows his purpose of life.. me have one.. nd me sure u got one too.. go for it.. nd nvr thnk a damn about society.. they always makes u sad.. find that precious lonly time that we all enjoy the most!! see ya in future ma frnd.. as a great successful personality!!
You can imagine I have over 5000 contacts in my phone but days can count to month when I have spoken to 5 people only out of 5000 contacts. That's how this introvert trait can take me..
I consider myself an introvert on the inside and extrovert on the outside. I'm ambidextrous, logical and artistic, neat and messy, can be spontaneous or not. Who am I?
I'm an Ambivert i got he best of both worlds. although i can barely introduce myself to new people i can manage a good long conversation with others. I'm a Good Listener but also I'm talkative. i like to blend with large group but still i prefer to have a smaller circle of close friends. i don't enjoy being a loner but i can finish many tasks while I'm alone.
I'm talking all the bloody time, cracking jokes at work etc, and I'm definitely not shy....but my co workers still tell me I'm quiet because my voice is soft spoken. I get annoyed because I feel others are more quiet then I. 🙄if you're not loud and boisterous all the time you're perceived as quiet. Uhg. Why are we so critical of one another.
It can be lonely. I work in a place that employs 2500 people and don’t have one close friend. I have acquaintances but that’s it. I feel like theirs no one like me. Some people don’t like me at all because I am considered not friendly.
Yes iv always observed and studied peeps and there behaviour i notice loads of things that most dont i notice patterns similarities i can't help it i don't know about other introverts but i am very good with faces i can recognize someone who i met 40years ago instantly and often remember what we talked about or what they said to me is it a trait that other introverts have?
Hello lydia do most peeps think your shy and quiet etc ? A bit vague even inferior?? And are misunderstood often? I am but its becuase they kust dont understand you or me
Introvert but I'd rather died Fr. I hate it. This puts me in such uncomfortable position in society having these traits. People who are extroverts don't even realize how they are lucky 🍀 due to their blind personality. Another problem. I think as I'm an introvert I provably attract in most cases ONLY extroverted girls 🫤 I don't think the Extrovert Gf would be a good match for me because I need someone that will as empathetic as me. Otherwise I can't withstand blind empathy-free people.
I am introverted person super true Iam belongs to the reason 10 I am scorpion zodiac sign Born of October month so I'm mysterious person I am happy loner or alone I'm ok
@@sarathsarath6550 i am INTJ, people keep thinking these people have super high esteem of themesleves, but like I’m an introvert and don’t at all brag and have a huge ego. I think society has a problem with introverts. They don’t want to watch video like this one to learn who we are. my friends thinks I am lonely, sad and different. I am just an introvert :)
I just realized I'm an introvert when people were making comments saying that I was too shy and quiet. I have been this way since I was a kid, and I was always teased. I'm proud to know who I am now!
Introvert love doing things alone and watching others from afar. Even working in my own office pleases me the most. And enjoying my own home doing what I love most. Crowds definitely are not for me. You nailed introverts.
I feel you, Ms. Sandra. It anxious me also when someone is loud in the room. And keep asking about my personal life.
100 percent agree.
I am all that you describe. I love my own company and don't care less what people think about me. I work on my own and can't stand small talks
:)
The only bad thing about being an introvert, is that there are so many people who think there’s something wrong with me and that they have to “fix” me.
I absolutely hate that too!
Hey, do you have to fix them?
They have no life so we become their project.
As an introvert, this video helps me understand myself more. I also Understand why am always misunderstood, living in a society that judge people quickly.
Hell yeah I feel for you bro 😐 Them extroverts be so lucky 🍀 without even realizing this cuz of their blind persona.
Both my parents and sis are extroverts and I can hardly withstand them or get along with them in some things. They're so exhausting and demanding ppl. I'm only one empathetic who notice details of everything that they just don't. Also I'm the type of introvert with Social Anxiety Disorder so this makes it even worst than the introvertism is along.
"An introvert feels even more lonly in the crowd "😌😌😌😌
if I walk somewhere alone and I see someone I know I don't go there, who else has this? #veryvery introvert.
🤭🤭🙋♀️🙋♀️🙋♀️
"We're here to reach abt ur car's extended warranty"
We're not ignorant or snobs, we enjoy ourselves and that's amazing 😋😜🥰
Period!
You are right but many people can't comprehend that.
Exactly
I had to grin the whole time because I see myself in it 100%. As a kid, I got ban questions from adults. My mom was confused every time I bombarded her with questions. Now, as an adult, I ask questions and figure out the answers myself. People often think I'm stupid just because I don't gossip or don't talk much, especially in meetings, but then they're always surprised at what I can do and how I answer their questions. I love surprising people and I'd rather they think I'm stupid and be pleasantly surprised by me than the other way around.
The old "children are seen and not heard' adage. Great piece of advice for a child, you become more of an introvert and forget how to verbally articulate your thoughts. I stopped talking for fear of saying the wrong thing. Fortunately I just read copious amounts of literature fiction and non-fiction, studied every topic that was of interest and gained qualifications in multiple areas. When you eventually do say something, the assumptions and misconceptions people make become redundant.
I used to enjoy being complemented about having a high intellect. Now it bores me because I had to earn the knowledge, we are not born with it.
Correct, observation is King 👑
I would rather be at home cleaning, creating, hanging out with who I genuinely care about, rather than be with a group of people who are fake and pretend to be what they are not 🔥🔥🔥
Ya true
Me too
I have a boss who is an extrovert; talk, talk, talk, talk, talk, talk, talk, talk. And then whine because he never gets anything done. Shut the fluff up and work.
Shut the fluff up is my new mantra thanks to you
That's my boss.. Then complain that i have an attitude, since i dont buy into his urguments
Being an introvert isn't lonely..its liberating.. you don't have to sit through boring meetings and mindless conversations...or listen to senseless drivel....I even avoid my friends and fsmily if I don't feel like seeing them..I enjoy my own company...I've laughingly said talking to myself is the only intelligent conversation I get...
I'm an introvert. Happy spending my time at home
Me too
Likewise. I enjoy spending time alone in the comforts of my own as often as I can. The outside world is too noisy and chaotic. People are a severe drain on my emotional well being.
Introvert!!!! Social settings give my anxiety I think it's in my brain, I like constructive conversations about science and life.. extroverts also give me anxiety/ panic attacks. I'm getting anxious typing about it 😅
😀
I feel yah
Social settings can definitely set off my anxiety. Extroverts can rub me the wrong way sometimes. I've found many extroverts feel the same about introverts. The two worlds are just too far apart
I am an introvert and I do not regret anything. I am happy about who I am🤩❤️
Cheers bro
I am a total introvert. Love being with myself the best!
We do enjoy small talk, very rare, but we do. When ever small talk happens too much, it's harder for me to keep eye contact.
when someone is small talking to me i just ignore and daydream
I am an introvert,,
I just loved the video,,,
You revealed the truth!!
Thank you very much..
I'm INTROVERT, I'm truly happy about that , I love my solitude, being with myself, it' s a tremendous POWER that we have ,this blessing possibility to be alone, to observ everything, to analize everything with deep , strong and insigthful capacity, this blessing, fullfiling and meaningful connotation for complex problems solving 🎉🎉
It's like he is looking at me and describing me everything is on point
This video lost me when said "they can't work at marketing" I'm a senior marketer, passionate about my job and an introvert.
that's your creativity . 🤔
Us introverts just enjoy ourselves and not talk excessively and also never showing off
I am a happy introvert ! I don’t seek out friends but I attract people , some who become friends ! Most people just need someone preferable a stranger to get things that are bothering them out of their heads so they can” see “what is the problem ! We introverts fill that need I believe! A nonjudgmental person they feel safe in telling their worries too !
Wow. I am an introvert and must say, this is the best summary of what it means to be introverted. The part about being aware of the disadvantages that stem from introversion is particularly relevant.
One small correction: introversion/extroversion and shyness are independent- meaning one can be introverted and shy or not shy.
I’m an introvert person and happy being a single mom
we just always focus on our goals nothing else and sometimes we might have stress of mental illness cause of focusing more on life
exactly
I am an introvert. I am attractive to nobody because nobody knows me. I avoid social settings completely. Human interaction is extremely minimal. When it is required it is done in a manner that emulates the interaction between a client and a merchant or service provider. Then I part ways as, quickly as possible. There is no chance I am found attractive to anybody.
You are to me! 🙂 I avoid the 🐑'll as well.
@@jacktheglide9411 People do not realise the more one socialises, the more one loses of themself. I have seen brilliant individuals slowly slink into idiocy as they begin socialising more. I have witnessed no exception to this. Those that collaborate temporarily, for a common goal, are not socialising. They are on a mission. Those that gather just to be in the pointless company of others actually socialise. They will deteriorate if they keep socialising regularly.
I'm an introvert with extrovert qualities
I'm definitely towards the introverted side more. I'm on my own most of the time and I'm aware of it
I'm an introvert who talks too much. I spend so much time alone that when I'm finally with people, I get overstimulated and try to match my energy with the energy of an extrovert. Afterward, I am drained.
Just because we don't like big crowds and loud people doesn't make us not cool to be around 😊 I don't see much family and don't have many friends but that's cool with me 😁 love my own company 🙂 and I only really go out if I have to for food or clothes shopping
Same! 🙂
Absolutely 💯. It's strange why extroverts think we are boring people too.
I'm just here trying to find out why girls like me and now I know. It's good to know it's not just my looks that's attract them. 😅
Thank god m introvert... Coz m busy in my own bubble... Look from my point of view I find everything ☮️ full m just blessed
Im an introvert i only realized a year ago!!! V never fit in im a loner i dont think like anyone i know im different to everyone else my opinions are different to most the way i think and the things i think about i have wide wacky thoughts which most dont so iv always been misunderstood becuase most dont understand me so they think its me thats weird just becuase they will never comprehend it so they think there right and normal and im not but i know that it is me who is totally normal its actually them thatare mad not me i love deep meaningful conversation about anything really i find life very tedious cuz its not challenging or interesting a lot of times im not at all insecure i love to see how things work not peeps telling me how it works small talk bores me to death and iv been searching virtually all my lifetime to meet someone like mebut they just ain't out there i feel bit like an alien iv always been on outside looking in still am i dont think im better than others but im defo different thank god i feel often isolated cuz i have these far reaching thoughts that bo one else does well I dont know anyone quite like me ita so complex being me i often contradict myself and find it very hard to Express myself so i appear odd and vague to most i know myself very well i could literally go on for ages im not to content cuz i just don't fit in anywhere really but oftn it suits me im good with own company don't need anyone approval be great to meet someone like me preferably a female haha
hey.. ik its hard.. me understnd how people treats u.. nd how u feel when in that group..
its bad.. sad.. me too feels the same.. thnk we r diffrnt nd we r not made for it.. belve u got a diffrnt purpose nd work for it...
one think he fail to mention is how an introvert knows his purpose of life.. me have one.. nd me sure u got one too..
go for it.. nd nvr thnk a damn about society.. they always makes u sad.. find that precious lonly time that we all enjoy the most!!
see ya in future ma frnd.. as a great successful personality!!
As a introvert i go to the movies and the malls and grocery store by myself and I prefer it that way
Am an introvert and like this is really directed to me
You can imagine I have over 5000 contacts in my phone but days can count to month when I have spoken to 5 people only out of 5000 contacts. That's how this introvert trait can take me..
I’m a introvert I hate we have a meetings before work I hate gathering in any crowds just want to work and go home
100% accurate! Very clever people and I like to be in my own 🌎!,
Spending time on my own
I'm an introvert and I work in Marketing...
I am introvert and am I tube jobless 😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁
I’m attracted to female introverts since I’m an introvert myself and feel happy in my own world 🌍
"Still waters run deep,"
I’m also an introvert. Now I’m feeling happy with myself ❤❤
i am an introvert i am not ignorant and snobs we enjoy ourselves in our inner world
im an introvert love spending tie alone
Introvert love my own space & time rather be at home chilling, observe then to go partying, like to do thing alone less interruption😎💯
I am also introvert ☺
I consider myself an introvert on the inside and extrovert on the outside. I'm ambidextrous, logical and artistic, neat and messy, can be spontaneous or not. Who am I?
I'm an Ambivert i got he best of both worlds. although i can barely introduce myself to new people i can manage a good long conversation with others. I'm a Good Listener but also I'm talkative. i like to blend with large group but still i prefer to have a smaller circle of close friends. i don't enjoy being a loner but i can finish many tasks while I'm alone.
Both are extreme! BE MODERATE as you can!
@0:53 your welcome
Introvert here
Although some introverts can multitask and have succeeded in sales. So, it depends on the person 🙂
I'm a 100% introvert.
100% correct! 💪🏼
I'm talking all the bloody time, cracking jokes at work etc, and I'm definitely not shy....but my co workers still tell me I'm quiet because my voice is soft spoken. I get annoyed because I feel others are more quiet then I. 🙄if you're not loud and boisterous all the time you're perceived as quiet. Uhg. Why are we so critical of one another.
It can be lonely. I work in a place that employs 2500 people and don’t have one close friend. I have acquaintances but that’s it. I feel like theirs no one like me. Some people don’t like me at all because I am considered not friendly.
is it weird that i like the disadvantages lol i dont care that i only got a few friends and i dont care what people think am gonna be me at all times
The more time you spend alone the MORE time you have to learn something new. LIKE A new language for example.
INTROVERTSION is my STRENGTH.
Yes iv always observed and studied peeps and there behaviour i notice loads of things that most dont i notice patterns similarities i can't help it i don't know about other introverts but i am very good with faces i can recognize someone who i met 40years ago instantly and often remember what we talked about or what they said to me is it a trait that other introverts have?
just waiting for a new one :D
Today is the day 😀
@@SocialTown cant wait
I love the name of your channel. 💖
I think introverts could flourish in marketing
Libra with a cancer rising very introverted
Hello lydia do most peeps think your shy and quiet etc ? A bit vague even inferior?? And are misunderstood often? I am but its becuase they kust dont understand you or me
So your very introverted me too i think you must be bery deep and very interesting aswell lydia
I'm introvert personality
Iam an introvert and I like to enjoy my own company 😄
Introvert but I'd rather died Fr. I hate it. This puts me in such uncomfortable position in society having these traits. People who are extroverts don't even realize how they are lucky 🍀 due to their blind personality. Another problem. I think as I'm an introvert I provably attract in most cases ONLY extroverted girls 🫤 I don't think the Extrovert Gf would be a good match for me because I need someone that will as empathetic as me. Otherwise I can't withstand blind empathy-free people.
I'm an introvert and a Scorpio Man.
8:14 i am very much an introvert happy in my domain
The entire vedio is about our live really nothing is wrong thats all right fifa introverts.❤💪
I’m an introvert,
Deeply Introvert and highly hated by the society!
Even im an introvert
Let someone into my life.
I am introverted person super true Iam belongs to the reason 10 I am scorpion zodiac sign Born of October month so I'm mysterious person I am happy loner or alone I'm ok
I am an INTROVERT.
Iam introvert.
I'm an introvert 💯
Introverts knows too much(everything) about every1 and still prefers to keep their mouth shut.
Introverts its hard to deal with new ppl..
I AM AN INTROVERT.
Nice
Thanks! Are you an introvert?
@@SocialTown i am introvert INFJ
@@sarathsarath6550 i am INTJ, people keep thinking these people have super high esteem of themesleves, but like I’m an introvert and don’t at all brag and have a huge ego. I think society has a problem with introverts. They don’t want to watch video like this one to learn who we are. my friends thinks I am lonely, sad and different. I am just an introvert :)
As an introvert + a very unattractive asshole,i feel like i'm doomed😢
Extroverts are too high maintenance. I try to avoid them.
facts on facts
This is so me 🙄
An introvert 😀
Depends lucky I was and still am at 58.
Attractive? Looking uninterested push most of people away... I've heard that more than anything in my introverted life.
I am!!! 😀
Introvert 😑😅
Yeah bata de ranveer ko kaise crore mile.. Mere ko 15000 kyu.. No ans.. I hv no ans..
Introvert
I'm.introvert
Introvert person
As an extremely introverted person, I can say that most of the things listed here are not true
Introvertx5,000