Pay attention to what the other person is saying, and show genuine interest in their perspective. By understanding their needs and concerns, you can tailor your communication to better align with their interests, increasing the likelihood of getting what you want.
It’s called Active listening . There’s a book called “ Listening the forgotten skill - second edition by Madelyn Burley-Allen” . It points out quickly what kind of listener u are and help you get better at listening and also become a better and more successful person
My wife and I have such a wonderful marriage. I always know what she is thinking, because she always tell me. She always knows what I'm thinking, because she tells me that too. Communication is great
Me Im combination for some certain matters I'm straight forward and transparent. For some certain matter I don't want to disclose to anyone n want to do my own n unpredictable. I don't share where I'm, what in doing, when..
I was part of a management course this year where we were categorised into our colours! This video has condensed it all into 20 minutes 👌 sending it to my boss
I find this information to be an immediate extrapolation from MBTI personality profiles. I've no knowledge to your management profile, but encourage you to take interest there and look for the cross referential information. This is all true, and playing the interests of an individual will always instill a vibrant response. People are just people. I don't often pidgeon hole a person. Actually, never. Individuals materialize themselves in the firmament over time as they manifest decision making processes. Seriously, this color scheme tactic is a watercolor draft of MBTI. Give time to the consideration, you'll see the laterals, and be better for it.
Can you please make an video[ specifically on small talk.] "How to build small talk mind map? Don't worry about what to say and build the ability to ask questions without feeling what to ask." After taking a lot of courses I came to realize that problem is specifically small talk. A general mind map of small talk great communicators follow. Will be very greatful.
yeah your right i do feel empowered cuz apparently im the avatar. i change through out the day and with different task. This just helped me uderstand why sometimes im on top of things and later i can feel like i never stood a chance.
It was one of your best video of all time. I found myself clearly described in what you were saying. I just hoped you would tell us where you locate yourself. You made it so great. It filled me with ideas of what to do and what to be. Thanks
I am keeping in mind these four types when starting my own business and create a mainstream company. Thank you for the information. I will read this book, one day.
Please present the book can't hurt me by david goginns pls it is amazing book that is why i said do the book because i want to share what i know for this amazing youtube channel fans lots of lov!
i'm red and blue combined. i find being yellow a bit naive tbh, the way i understood yellow's personality is "if we're all relaxed then it will all work out" but someone's gotta do the dirty work, same way that everyone works so the country keeps going
We are all a combination of all 4 colours, some stronger than others. Perfection would be when all 4 colours are represented equally. I did a course 11 years ago along with colleagues at the company I worked at and we all found it incredibly beneficial 👍🏻
I don't think I'm surrounded by an idiot, but after watching this video i understand that people around me have 2 color in their behavior. And judging by the way how the speaker talk on this video, i believe that you are a combination of yellow and blue person with a little bit of red😀
OK I get that but by dropping the "N" in the word you created a complete new meaning. Why didnt you just drop the space after the Colon: @@sherrellejohnson3451
I think she fixed it. But anyway, chaps, ...what do you think this chick looks like? Think she's a fox? I think I've always liked her naive, little voice, is why...
I'm actually a yellow type of person mixed with blue, but I am introvert and I don't like surrounded by peoples, I get my energy from animals and natures.. I don't like working with groups of peoples, it drained me..
As a blue primary-red secondary, I feel like it's easy to hate absolutely everyone around me except for other blue-reds. Anybody else in the comments feel this?
Yes, these were the colours many years ago when they designated people according to the Four Humours in medieval science and medicine. I remember it as Red - choleric, Yellow - sanguine, Blue - melancholy, and Green - phlegmatic. Doesn’t really help as much as the Enneagram, though. Not enough nuance. Plus it is based in a very flawed vision of medicine and psychology. Recycled ideas from 40 years ago, which was recycled from the time of Galen.
Totally agree. I did this then the Enneagram at a retreat over a decade ago. Works well in combination however, if I could only choose one it would be the Enneagram every time 👍🏻
These are the four personalities that argue in my head.
Hahaha I was just about to say that 😅
Mine too.. im mentally ill diagnosed with catatonic
we have all of them it's just that we lisren to one of them
You really blowing my mind with how accurate this actually is I feel like I look at the world in a much different way now
Pay attention to what the other person is saying, and show genuine interest in their perspective. By understanding their needs and concerns, you can tailor your communication to better align with their interests, increasing the likelihood of getting what you want.
It’s called Active listening . There’s a book called “ Listening the forgotten skill - second edition by Madelyn Burley-Allen” . It points out quickly what kind of listener u are and help you get better at listening and also become a better and more successful person
My wife and I have such a wonderful marriage. I always know what she is thinking, because she always tell me.
She always knows what I'm thinking, because she tells me that too.
Communication is great
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Sou ds about right
😂😂😂👍
Me Im combination for some certain matters I'm straight forward and transparent.
For some certain matter I don't want to disclose to anyone n want to do my own n unpredictable. I don't share where I'm, what in doing, when..
@@rebeccaxodonq7893me to super 😊
I was part of a management course this year where we were categorised into our colours! This video has condensed it all into 20 minutes 👌 sending it to my boss
🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉😂
So true
I find this information to be an immediate extrapolation from MBTI personality profiles.
I've no knowledge to your management profile, but encourage you to take interest there and look for the cross referential information.
This is all true, and playing the interests of an individual will always instill a vibrant response.
People are just people.
I don't often pidgeon hole a person. Actually, never.
Individuals materialize themselves in the firmament over time as they manifest decision making processes.
Seriously, this color scheme tactic is a watercolor draft of MBTI. Give time to the consideration, you'll see the laterals, and be better for it.
Can you please make an video[ specifically on small talk.]
"How to build small talk mind map? Don't worry about what to say and build the ability to ask questions without feeling what to ask."
After taking a lot of courses I came to realize that problem is specifically small talk. A general mind map of small talk great communicators follow.
Will be very greatful.
Thank you for coming back Elvin, Life and Work was kind of not effective without you Around.
Imagine being polar opposites. Apparently, I'm paired as Red & Blue.
As a green & yellow, u sound terrible
This is a perfect video to master the skill of interaction.
yeah your right i do feel empowered cuz apparently im the avatar. i change through out the day and with different task. This just helped me uderstand why sometimes im on top of things and later i can feel like i never stood a chance.
Fabulous Video!! Your work is always so thorough and clear. I'm reading more quality books because of your excellent choices!!
Everyone can be all of them under the right circumstances
Beautifully curated video; extremely informative 👏
Thank you ❤
I like your content👍 Nice attention to details
Part 4, blue and yellow is gold 👌
Best lesson ever ❤
Excellent Summary🔥🔥
Thanks it's helpful
It was amazing watching this helpful video
I love your videos ❤❤
One of the things I got from this video is that adults are just kids in bigger bodies.
Only bills separate kids and adults realistically lol.
Interesting . I will love to read the book
Amazing video.
Great work! Very helpful content.Helps me be less blue lol
This concept is pretty much in line with DISC personality.wonder was Erickson was inspired by this ?
It was one of your best video of all time. I found myself clearly described in what you were saying.
I just hoped you would tell us where you locate yourself. You made it so great. It filled me with ideas of what to do and what to be.
Thanks
Nice graphic backing ✅
Too sweet
Please turn this into a series
I am all four colours. Might be schizophrenia
I always considered you more of a mauve.
@@bentonrp nvm I am n word colour
ME TOO.. BITS AND PIECES
can you continue putting that background tune(sound) that I hear in your older videos please 🙏🏼
Hello, can you do a summary of CRUCIAL CONVERSATIONS?
This idea is also important for marriage. I think, can help understand and work better.
Red is a menace
I am keeping in mind these four types when starting my own business and create a mainstream company. Thank you for the information. I will read this book, one day.
Interesting
Can you please tell me what software you are using for your video?
which kind of program do u use to make this video? i want to use it for school. thank you✌
Please present the book can't hurt me by david goginns pls it is amazing book that is why i said do the book because i want to share what i know for this amazing youtube channel fans lots of lov!
I'm a mix between red and blue
For sureeeeee i'm all except yellow lol
I have this book…
I'm definitely a red, blue, and yellow combo.
I AM A MIXER OF ALL 4!!!
I'm a perfect combination of green and blue
i love this channel so much change the title because you spelled it wrong ANYONE you wrote ayone
ItsGreen but I learned how to go blue & red
Green blue 💚🪀💙🍏🥒🦋💙💚🩵🩵 🌱
How can we know this is really accurate
Looks you are blue?
Is it possible to be all 4?
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If life were that simple.
i'm red and blue combined. i find being yellow a bit naive tbh, the way i understood yellow's personality is "if we're all relaxed then it will all work out" but someone's gotta do the dirty work, same way that everyone works so the country keeps going
No; You're Puce.
We are all a combination of all 4 colours, some stronger than others. Perfection would be when all 4 colours are represented equally. I did a course 11 years ago along with colleagues at the company I worked at and we all found it incredibly beneficial 👍🏻
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I'm feeling green
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤
Green was right on. I'm a turtle. 🐢
iam both yellow and blue
Hey love the videos and hope all is well! I’d love to see a video over “One Up On Wallstreet”! Thanks
wow im clearly yellow but i kind of feel like im a combination of all colors .but still yellows dominant😜.
Strangely.. I am a combo of all four.. Depending on the task..
🙂👍😌🙏
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Some people work very hard to make things complex especially women 😅😅😅
Pretty sure imma yellow blue person lol is there a test you can take?
I'm mostly the yellow one ☺️
I don't think I'm surrounded by an idiot, but after watching this video i understand that people around me have 2 color in their behavior. And judging by the way how the speaker talk on this video, i believe that you are a combination of yellow and blue person with a little bit of red😀
I'm both a blue and a yellow, ... does that mean I'm good with 💚
Why does this sound like a Hogwarrs house summary?
I'm green n blue 😂
I think I’m a green person. And my close friend is a red person . No wonder I feel stressed when I’m with her
I like this channel it's favorite one, I hope to see more videos
I feel blue
Bit of a spelling mistake in the title there
Unfortunately with titles RUclips doesn’t give you enough space for a complete title. So you have to be creative with your spelling.
OK I get that but by dropping the "N" in the word you created a complete new meaning. Why didnt you just drop the space after the Colon: @@sherrellejohnson3451
*SC
Could of used NEone
I think she fixed it. But anyway, chaps, ...what do you think this chick looks like? Think she's a fox? I think I've always liked her naive, little voice, is why...
Whats the best thing to do while me as blue and my wife is yellow😅
I'm different colors around different colors
I'm literally all of these, every last one!
I feel like im all 4 colours
I am 60%blue and 40%yellow although at first I see myself as a yellow.
I’m definitely red
*anyone
Blue😅
Why do I feel like I'm an equal part of all colors??
Would be a good video if there wasn’t an ad every 2.5 minutes
I'm green and blue
I wonder if we can change 🤔
We can be more aware of each other and ourselves.
Good question, but it's a marathon not a sprint!
What if you're a little bit of everything?
I'm the whole rainbow
Anyone? You have a typo in the tittle of your video
You got “tittle” on yours
Hello, Blue
I'm actually a yellow type of person mixed with blue, but I am introvert and I don't like surrounded by peoples, I get my energy from animals and natures.. I don't like working with groups of peoples, it drained me..
Strong yellow represents an extrovert. I think from your comment you are strong blue & green, weak red & yellow. I did the course 11 years ago 👍🏻
im GREENNN
I am not yellow but every other color.
Definitely a green guy
i find green a bit closed minded.. in my eyes red and blue are the ideal and what everyone should be aiming for.
I am green
As a blue primary-red secondary, I feel like it's easy to hate absolutely everyone around me except for other blue-reds. Anybody else in the comments feel this?
I’m Formless
Dear diary,
Today I found out that I am a rainbow.
😅
i guess im a little of every color then
Yes, these were the colours many years ago when they designated people according to the Four Humours in medieval science and medicine. I remember it as Red - choleric, Yellow - sanguine, Blue - melancholy, and Green - phlegmatic. Doesn’t really help as much as the Enneagram, though. Not enough nuance. Plus it is based in a very flawed vision of medicine and psychology. Recycled ideas from 40 years ago, which was recycled from the time of Galen.
Totally agree. I did this then the Enneagram at a retreat over a decade ago. Works well in combination however, if I could only choose one it would be the Enneagram every time 👍🏻