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I hope this helps whoever reads it. These are Action Steps: I followed this for 30 days. My goal was to change my self image and it worked. This is what I did. 1. Write out a statement of your Short Term Goal AND your Chief Aim/Main Goal... on a "goal card" or paper. 2. Write it out 50 times a day for 30 days preferably around the same time each day. After the 30 days, you go back and write it out ONCE a day. This is your compass in life. 3. Set your phone alarm to go off every 3 hours (to disrupt your daily routine) and when it goes off write down your statement and then close your eyes and see yourself with your goal for 2 mins. 4. Record your statement in your voice on a voice recorder on your phone, and play it back to yourself on loop while you sleep and as often as you can daily, example... in the shower or when you are using the rest room. 5. Find an accountability partner. If you cannot find someone, then you MUST write out your statement DAILY. By doing this you make yourself accountable to YOURSELF. 6. Find a community or FB group/group chat, etc and from that community form a Mastermind with one or two people who have studied from REAL Mentors and are giving VALUE. There is a "Law of Giving" and many people are using it. Andrew Carnegie told Napoleon Hill this back in the early 1900s. Its a LAW and it works. Its what I am doing with this post. 7. Auto-Suggest (Think and Grow Rich Chapter 4) to yourself in front of the mirror in the bathroom at least twice a day. Look directly INTO your eyes OR one eye and recite your WRITTEN statement. Then splash cold water on your face. This sudden shock seals the thought into the subconscious due to emotional and physical shock from the cold water. 8. Write out ten "I AM" statements a day. example. I AM happy, I AM more confident. Use the word MORE; implying you already have it, but want more. You trick the brain. 9. Write out 5 things you HAVE that you are grateful for and 5 things that you are grateful for that are coming to you. Mix up the list one after the other. 10. When in public tell people you see that you love them in your mind. Simply say "I LOVE YOU" to them as you pass them, especially when driving, because their subconscious hears and FEELS the intention. Say it to about 10 to 15 people daily. This increases your Good Karma. I hope this helps at least two people. It might seem like a lot. But it took me less than two weeks to incorporate the list into my life and 32 days later I started getting massive results. Thank you for reading.
I am SICK of the stupid gender discussion. Just have the brains to be and accept yourself, and you dont have to strain to be something you want to force everybody else to acknowledge.
Whoever is reading this, I pray for you: a heart free of sorrow, a mind free of worries, a life filled with joy, an abundant source of financial wealth, a body free of disease disability and a day filled with God's blessings
I listen to your videos every morning. Right when i start working out. It really helps me get my day started. Im in a new manager role at work and your videos really helps me step into that leadership role!!
I just want to congratulate you on your new position! 🎉 this was me three years ago. You will have some rough patches but muscle through them. You got this! I can tell you will be ok since you are already looking into ways to be better.
I've never felt envy in a negative way. Like when I see someone driving a Ferrari I think, "damn, I want that car," and then admire the car and look at the person driving with a well done expression like telling them to enjoy on my behalf. I don't get people that are hateful towards others because of their achievements or possessions. Actions are much more important imo
I am a health and life coach and I, personally, like to think of envy as someone wanting what you have directly as you have it whereas jealousy is someone wanting what you have, indirectly, in their own lives. EX: A woman sees a man and woman happy together. Kissing, holding hands in public, he tucks her hair behind her ear, no care who's watching. This woman looking on suddenly feels that feeling of envy in her stomach. Her attention is now focused on the man and she thinks to herself about how maybe if she has that specific man, he will do these things with her and she will also have that kind of love. HOWEVER, if that were jealousy, she would be both jealous and admiring what she sees. A healthy and happy couple - and may think to herself, "I want what they have." And will now start looking for someone who matches those qualities RATHER than going straight for the "source". Envy is seeing what someone has and wanting it for yourself even if that means taking it from another (the lack of admiration/respect). Jealousy is wanting what someone has as your own, for yourself, while admiring/appreciating that they have it for them. Jealousy is healthy and shows you care about the evolution and upgrading of yourself and others - envy is unhealthy and shows you are unbalanced in your own mind/heart/finances/life/etc.
too be honest there is so much info in this video that this brings confusion IMHO: you can't know all that, apply what's inside in automatic mode when people behave in front of you. The advice to get IMHO is to surround you with people you feel good about and with and let others live their life the way they want while avoiding them: if you can't stand them and they can't stand you why bothering? There are 7.5 billions people out there, just find your tribe and enjoy being with them. Same at work: if you can't stand people, slam the door, find another job: same as with people, there are thousands of jobs and companies. Be selective and deal with those you like, life is short, don't spend your time with people you don't like or who don't like you. Same with products, services: be selective. Choose what you are in resonance with.
Being sabotaged in work can literally drive you crazy, because you don't want to seem crazy, or somehow get things twisted. Things are also impossible to prove, when you have nobody on your side (in a new job for example).
I’m 17 I’ve been putting away deliveries and organizing stock rooms for 5 years now just recently someone started disorganizing my work I literally had to reorganize the same shelves 2 weeks in a row by the third week they gave up because even disorganizing my organized work was too much for them😂 just out work the people who envy your work ethic
This is for what - 4th graders??!!! Fist, it says to put on a face not to offend co-workers and yet later on, it says to be yourself!!! What a load of BS!!
Robert Greene stands out in the crowd for a reason. His research and work into the books are based on what he has studied. I have started reading some books that are over 100 years old. They were much more forward about topics we avoid today. What we avoid does not go away. It shows up somewhere different, usually much less directly and very unpleasantly. law 48 is extremely useful.
@@mr.goodbass9445 48 laws of Power by Robert Greene.. list of laws to live by, gives historical reasons/examples why you should practice said law and what happened to someone who did not follow the law.. its a really good read
Greene promotes Manipulative, Deceptive ways to achieve success. Why would you adopt All the red flags you'd avoid in another person ? Just cause you can't eradicate evil, Doesn't mean you gotta join them.... Beware that, when fighting monsters, you yourself do not become a monster... for when you gaze long into the abyss. The abyss gazes also into you. - Friedrich W. Nietzsche
i'm a sensitive person in general, i think subconsciously i firstly relate everything to myself in some type of way, although this was a toxic type on here, I think everyone is probably a little of one of those. Even so, I believe if you dedicate yourself to keeping yourself open minded instead of shutting down or closing off when your feelings get hurt, it can take you miles in all types of relationships.
You didn't change the situation; you changed the perspective you had of your situation. The situation is still there. Two people have a crash. One is angry about their car being totaled. The other is grateful that he still alive. If the person that is angry in the wrong? What if the person that was grateful to still alive was the one that caused the accident and has no insurance. Would you still believe the person that is angry is in the wrong? Perspectives do not change reality. It just changes YOUR PERCEPTION of reality.
1:09: 💡 The video summarizes Robert Greene's book 'The Laws of Human Nature' which explores the dark side of human nature and provides insights on understanding and dealing with people. 6:18: 💡 Tips for using knowledge about the character to improve relationships and personal growth. 13:28: 🔑 The law of irrationality and short-sightedness can hinder our rational thinking and long-term success. 19:57: 🔑 The key to becoming a master persuader is to validate people's beliefs, listen deeply, inspire safety, allay insecurities, and use resistance and stubbornness to your advantage. 26:03: 💡 Tips for achieving work goals and personal growth, embracing both masculine and feminine qualities, finding purpose, and dealing with conformity. 32:18: 💡 Strategies for effective leadership and dealing with aggression, generational influences, and death denial. 38:47: ⏳ Life is short, and we only have 15 productive years to do what we want before death. Recap by Tammy AI with useful time stamps =)
@chetsenior7253Or tips to help navigate as successfully as possible a society full of imperfect people. Even if we don’t like it other peoples opinions, attitudes and actions affect us, especially at work as was mentioned.
This is invaluable content!! 👍 Should be required for young people, as it will help fine-tune their people skills while attending school; not only in regards to their peers but in studying the personalities of their teachers, counselors and heck, even parents!! If perceptive, these findings become realized upon observation but these coping pointers take this knowledge about human nature to another level. * I am so used to seeing gazillions of vlogs about manifesting wealth & happiness and being positive but this is different. Looking forward to delving deeper!! 💙💙 Edit - You might want to adjust the playback settings to a slower speed. It may allow you think and absorb the rapid fire information a bit better.
too much empathy to people can also be used by others to manipulate an empath person. narcissism and empathy should be applied and balanced depending on situations
When people are stressed, they show you nothing more than their ability or their inability to handle stress. The idea that they show you 'who they really are' is again a mythical notion, as people can learn to manage stress. It's like saying that we only see the real person when that person is relaxed and having fun without any stress or inhibitions. In fact, this is more or less what the video just implied a few minutes ago, when it talked about 'wearing masks' and 'social roles' supposedly hiding our real selves. A person is not defined just by they handle stress, nor how they act when they are completely relaxed, instead they are defined by how they behave in general over a long period of time, under the multifarious situations they encounter in their life.
Haven't watched this video by the way. John C. Maxwell does a better job. Real quick: be yourself, however if you are weird, or morbidly weird. Stop that crap. Learn soft skills, be likable. You don't need to suck up. Not every situation helps your agenda to get where you need to be. You need to be liked by the right people. Figure out who the most influential person is in the place your at and be liked by them. Help elevate them they elevate you. If they go against what's right. Do not challenge them. Do what's right and gain trust from the majority. They will expose themselves. Meaning the person who is bad. Never expect or think you have achieved the pinnacle of leadership. Leadership is growth and on going. But how you respond to individuals and crowds make you effective. There is no secret. If you can charm and entice people you have a good chance. Remember always be honest. Be confident in your decision. Even if it's wrong. Always use modulation in your speech. Never be monotone. And be exciting.
Turn to Jesus people he died for your sins. Repent of what the New testament describes as sin. Believe the gospel get baptized and obey the teachings of Jesus. The gospel and the teachings of Jesus are documented in Matthew Mark Luke and John. Jesus is the only way to be saved God bless you all. If you have faith in Jesus through your faith you will live life with him as your example.
Good content But I think if you think about it carefully, you're one them. No matter what you do where you come from you will have one of these behavior or more than one. Knowing yourself better then you will see that in ppl you're dealing with
~22:00 Please do NOT be the person who feeds the ego of someone doing what is wrong. Tell them the truth if they are doing something stupid... They need to grow away from that.
Envy is overplayed here, it's not that big of a deal. Yes, there are envious people in the world. But most people are not envious of other people to any degree that is problematic for others or themselves. Most envy, to the extent it actually exists, is harmless.
I love your thoughts about psychology and human behavior. I would concur with Most of your videos but the Idea that we are heading towards a society that's moving away from logical thought, study and ultimately discovery and instead moving more towards psychological inquiry is hard for me to wrap my head around. Two reasons being. We can explain the psychologically inquiry and how our own minds essentially use tricks to alter reality to benefit ourselves and make it easier for us to navigate the world we live in. And secondly I don't believe it's possible for anyone to know how much or what we don't know, however I may be just as biased as you. LOL
There was a lot of good advice in this video and some that could be taken with a grain of salt but when you got to the part where you talk about "gender identity" and said don't conform to gender roles especially children! it sent shivers down my spine. That is straight up horrible and evil advice. Obviously we should not conform to worldly stariotipes about what makes a man a man or a woman a woman but we do need to accept the reality that men can not become women and women can not become men.
Law of covetousness, tip # 3. become an elusive object of desire at 10:00. "Focus on other peoples fantasies and unfulfilled desires and become what they desire". AKA manipulate others. Great tip. Also, the law of role playing and the law of repression contradict one another.
This channel is worth a million, we all read book sometimes knowing inside and sometimes just and with the help we all can pick the book we really need and want . We really appreciate your content
Good informative vid but I didn't like the ending. Imo you don't need to rush life just because you'll die some day. But it's a good idea to be 'productive' whenever you can.
People have different sides because they are highly complex and social animals. You are not wearing a mask nor role-playing, you are simply showing that side of you that is appropriate for the social situation you are currently engaged in -- for example, at work, on a date, with your best friend, with your family, or alone. There is not necessarily anything fake about this, nor are you necessarily hiding your real self. In fact, there is no real self independent of the various sides of your personality.
So that I understand correctly at 7 minutes, she talks about the character types to avoid, it seems to me that we have to avoid everyone since these mentioned character types apply to almost all humans. What other character types are left? For me this message is to avoid everyone, but that is not a good idea, it makes us untrusting to people and that is not a good trait.
#9 , strategy 5, the law of defensiveness. That works when it works but what if they try for a while and end up failing. Then I've only supported the "supposed opinion" and made the situation. Would you please provide anther strategy should this back fire? Thank you for the video, I've watched it twice now back to back, probably watch it more.
Our personalities were shaped during our childhood. It was shaped by beliefs and experiences. So it can be reshaped again at any time. Just requires reprogramming. We seem to think personality is static but it's not. It's difficult to reprogram though
@@Scott-got-caughtSo this is what I say and bear witness to in the Lord, that you should no longer go on walking just as the nations also walk,+ in the futility of their minds.+ 18 They are in darkness mentally and alienated from the life that belongs to God, because of the ignorance that is in them, because of the insensitivity of their hearts. 19 Having gone past all moral sense, they gave themselves over to brazen conduct+ to practice every sort of uncleanness with greediness.+ 20 But you did not learn the Christ to be like this, 21 if, indeed, you heard him and were taught by means of him, just as truth is in Jesus. 22 You were taught to put away the old personality+ that conforms to your former course of conduct and that is being corrupted according to its deceptive desires.+ 23 And you should continue to be made new in your dominant mental attitude,+ 24 and should put on the new personality+ that was created according to God’s will in true righteousness and loyalty. 25 Therefore, now that you have put away deceit, each one of you speak truth with his neighbor,+ because we are members belonging to one another.+ 26 Be wrathful, but do not sin;+ do not let the sun set while you are still angry;+ 27 do not give the Devil an opportunity.+ 28 Let the one who steals steal no more;+ rather, let him do hard work, doing good work with his hands,+ so that he may have something to share with someone in need.+ 29 Let a rotten word not come out of your mouth,+ but only what is good for building up as the need may be, to impart what is beneficial to the hearers.+ 30 Also, do not be grieving God’s holy spirit,+ with which you have been sealed+ for a day of releasing by ransom.+ 31 Put away from yourselves every kind of malicious bitterness,+ anger, wrath, screaming, and abusive speech,+ as well as everything injurious.+ 32 But become kind to one another, tenderly compassionate,+ freely forgiving one another just as God also by Christ freely forgave you.+
I believe that the assumption that people "over 60 do not have the power and passion to do the things they want to do" is terribly wrong and supports ageism. Very wrong.
Im 64 clearing my land to build on my wife passed 2 years ago my best horse paszed 1 year ago that does not slow me down the shop and house will be built
Wow my opinion on Gayton and the P.A has truly changed , what a great interview this has been , so knowledgeable it remindes me of the Youngsta CPT interview . Gayton has a plan and I think he also deserves a chance to prove himself.
I have 4 children and I can tell you naturally they are different and compliment each other. I don't think it's healthy confuse them with the gender confusion fad either. They are too young to care about that. I look to Jesus and early church fathers to see a true man and Mary his mother a loving woman.
This is some of the most valuable content I’ve ever seen online Thank you so much for these videos, the beautiful graphics and your gorgeous voice ! You so deserve so much more views
i use to work as a hotel staff, and my fellow staff were envious cos i use to spill my seeds on all the bedsheets and manager would never get rid of me. they wished they wud be like me.
The one thing a leader/manager does that can destroy moral is to put up with subordinates that are unproductive, not punctual, toxic, needy, sensitive etc. It shows the good workers that the boss will put up with a bad employee and is too lazy or gutless to fix or remove the bad employee.
Meg, Meh,Fezz, Tam, Hizzy. Has what that I don't have..from the phantom. The third law.. the law of envy. It's fortunes secret..miss it with me. It's okay.
This is odd. It seems like a long way of saying be fake as hell and tell people what they want to hear. Idc if that gets me farther in life ill never do it.
Great summary!.. Many of these concepts are observable, relatable and revealing (such as comparing to others, envy, "shadow" [per Jung's archetype]. masks, narcissism, empathy, irrationality and group think). A few of these are not as obvious (such as "always" avoiding pain or change). The statement that humans automatically lose passion and power after age 60 is very subjective and limited.
‼️‼️‼️🎭MASKS🎭‼️‼️‼️ Wearing a mask is what autistics like me do when I am around other people. Autistics call this masking 🎭 it's how we function around people we don't know, but it is very draining. While wearing our masks we like to mimic personalities to meet the other person's comfort level so we can show them we are similar to their personality. That way they will treat us like a normal person. I learned how to mask, and mimic very well while working as a server at a popular steakhouse for 4 years. So much so for a long time I didn't know who I was as a person. I realized that every table I waited on had their own personality. Some where laid back others were quiet, some wanted me to be comfortable like a friend, some were strict, and expected me to say yes/no ma'am/sir. Most of the time I could usually tell what type of personality they had by the way they were dressed. I was not always right, but for me it was fun to learn about normal people, and how they act.
11:30 “People who only project perfection are seen as fake and unauthentic.” Draws a pic of a women who’s appearance is very similar to mine. I was born with this shape body and face. It’s genetics and I like well fitting and quality clothes for comfort, durability and multipurpose. I can own less stuff. Here is a big fuck you to this part of the video!
Isn't this all common sense that we learn the hard way growing up? And who is going to watch this video or read that book and really just change who they are? Nobody. So what is the point of the book or RUclips video? Making money while teaching us that we are sh*t people? Or regurgitating dumb LIFE lessons that can only be learned by living?
17:58 is she talking about me, I mean a manipulator like me? Well, not all manipulators reveal their personality and intention. Ibam revealing my personality because I know I am never going to meet you... even if I do I don't know you and you don't know me but the difference is I can still control, just in case of need. Sorry if you all felt bad. 😊 The mask... be sure not to take it of... 😮💨
This is so linear, without considering culture and generatuonal differences. Also, it's way too black/white. For example : death denial hasn't always to do with pushing off a deadline. People are different. Some need short deadlines, and work well that way. Nothing to do with death denial. Others work better with long deadlines, nothing to do with non death denial ! Also, always having to accomodate oneself to a situation or others, against one's own wishes or caracter is not productive nor healthy. I can't and won't have a mask on at work, and be different at home. That's just madness. And, that's why so many people are so manipulative, insecure, narcissistic, etc. If people where mote grounded, knowing themselves better, and trying to collaborate in a balanced way, not out of self greed or so, than the world would be a great place to live! Lets aim for that ! 👌🙂
No you are not written off until you really can’t move or have bad health but on average we see an increase of health conditions that could stop someone from working. My grandfather literally didn’t stop working as a doc untill 80 and drove until 94 then he died at 103
Wow, what a monumental tragedy this book is. How to be a phony, and make the world a little bit worse. How to jettison the Truth far from your existence. Ridiculous.
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Will you merry me ?❤️
@ashisrai2305 yes, I thought you would never ask.
Meg is that you?
Lol😂
Bruh… 🤣
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 accurate
Haha
SHUP UP MEG 😡
Where is the person who timestamps every topic.
I hope this helps whoever reads it. These are Action Steps: I followed this for 30 days. My goal was to change my self image and it worked. This is what I did.
1. Write out a statement of your Short Term Goal AND your Chief Aim/Main Goal... on a "goal card" or paper.
2. Write it out 50 times a day for 30 days preferably around the same time each day. After the 30 days, you go back and write it out ONCE a day. This is your compass in life.
3. Set your phone alarm to go off every 3 hours (to disrupt your daily routine) and when it goes off write down your statement and then close your eyes and see yourself with your goal for 2 mins.
4. Record your statement in your voice on a voice recorder on your phone, and play it back to yourself on loop while you sleep and as often as you can daily, example... in the shower or when you are using the rest room.
5. Find an accountability partner. If you cannot find someone, then you MUST write out your statement DAILY. By doing this you make yourself accountable to YOURSELF.
6. Find a community or FB group/group chat, etc and from that community form a Mastermind with one or two people who have studied from REAL Mentors and are giving VALUE. There is a "Law of Giving" and many people are using it. Andrew Carnegie told Napoleon Hill this back in the early 1900s. Its a LAW and it works. Its what I am doing with this post.
7. Auto-Suggest (Think and Grow Rich Chapter 4) to yourself in front of the mirror in the bathroom at least twice a day. Look directly INTO your eyes OR one eye and recite your WRITTEN statement. Then splash cold water on your face. This sudden shock seals the thought into the subconscious due to emotional and physical shock from the cold water.
8. Write out ten "I AM" statements a day. example. I AM happy, I AM more confident. Use the word MORE; implying you already have it, but want more. You trick the brain.
9. Write out 5 things you HAVE that you are grateful for and 5 things that you are grateful for that are coming to you. Mix up the list one after the other.
10. When in public tell people you see that you love them in your mind. Simply say "I LOVE YOU" to them as you pass them, especially when driving, because their subconscious hears and FEELS the intention. Say it to about 10 to 15 people daily. This increases your Good Karma.
I hope this helps at least two people.
It might seem like a lot. But it took me less than two weeks to incorporate the list into my life and 32 days later I started getting massive results.
Thank you for reading.
Sounds like u got brainwashed real good.
Loved this
I wrote your steps down. Thanks for helping🙂🙂🙂🙂
I'll try this thank you
You're very smart
I am SICK of the stupid gender discussion. Just have the brains to be and accept yourself, and you dont have to strain to be something you want to force everybody else to acknowledge.
Whoever is reading this, I pray for you: a heart free of sorrow, a mind free of worries, a life filled with joy, an abundant source of financial wealth, a body free of disease disability and a day filled with God's blessings
Amen. Stay blessed, always.
Thank you 💕
Thank you well received
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I listen to your videos every morning. Right when i start working out. It really helps me get my day started. Im in a new manager role at work and your videos really helps me step into that leadership role!!
I just want to congratulate you on your new position! 🎉 this was me three years ago. You will have some rough patches but muscle through them. You got this! I can tell you will be ok since you are already looking into ways to be better.
I'm only at six minutes and fifty seven seconds, but man this video is on top of it. This is going to help me tremendously. Thank you 😊
I've never felt envy in a negative way. Like when I see someone driving a Ferrari I think, "damn, I want that car," and then admire the car and look at the person driving with a well done expression like telling them to enjoy on my behalf. I don't get people that are hateful towards others because of their achievements or possessions. Actions are much more important imo
I am a health and life coach and I, personally, like to think of envy as someone wanting what you have directly as you have it whereas jealousy is someone wanting what you have, indirectly, in their own lives.
EX: A woman sees a man and woman happy together. Kissing, holding hands in public, he tucks her hair behind her ear, no care who's watching. This woman looking on suddenly feels that feeling of envy in her stomach. Her attention is now focused on the man and she thinks to herself about how maybe if she has that specific man, he will do these things with her and she will also have that kind of love. HOWEVER, if that were jealousy, she would be both jealous and admiring what she sees. A healthy and happy couple - and may think to herself, "I want what they have." And will now start looking for someone who matches those qualities RATHER than going straight for the "source". Envy is seeing what someone has and wanting it for yourself even if that means taking it from another (the lack of admiration/respect). Jealousy is wanting what someone has as your own, for yourself, while admiring/appreciating that they have it for them.
Jealousy is healthy and shows you care about the evolution and upgrading of yourself and others - envy is unhealthy and shows you are unbalanced in your own mind/heart/finances/life/etc.
too be honest there is so much info in this video that this brings confusion IMHO: you can't know all that, apply what's inside in automatic mode when people behave in front of you.
The advice to get IMHO is to surround you with people you feel good about and with and let others live their life the way they want while avoiding them: if you can't stand them and they can't stand you why bothering? There are 7.5 billions people out there, just find your tribe and enjoy being with them. Same at work: if you can't stand people, slam the door, find another job: same as with people, there are thousands of jobs and companies.
Be selective and deal with those you like, life is short, don't spend your time with people you don't like or who don't like you.
Same with products, services: be selective. Choose what you are in resonance with.
Being sabotaged in work can literally drive you crazy, because you don't want to seem crazy, or somehow get things twisted. Things are also impossible to prove, when you have nobody on your side (in a new job for example).
I’m 17 I’ve been putting away deliveries and organizing stock rooms for 5 years now just recently someone started disorganizing my work I literally had to reorganize the same shelves 2 weeks in a row by the third week they gave up because even disorganizing my organized work was too much for them😂 just out work the people who envy your work ethic
This is for what - 4th graders??!!!
Fist, it says to put on a face not to offend co-workers and yet later on, it says to be yourself!!! What a load of BS!!
Robert Greene stands out in the crowd for a reason. His research and work into the books are based on what he has studied. I have started reading some books that are over 100 years old. They were much more forward about topics we avoid today. What we avoid does not go away. It shows up somewhere different, usually much less directly and very unpleasantly.
law 48 is extremely useful.
Please share the authors and books 👍
@@mr.goodbass9445 48 laws of Power by Robert Greene.. list of laws to live by, gives historical reasons/examples why you should practice said law and what happened to someone who did not follow the law.. its a really good read
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Greene promotes Manipulative, Deceptive ways to achieve success. Why would you adopt All the red flags you'd avoid in another person ?
Just cause you can't eradicate evil,
Doesn't mean you gotta join them....
Beware that, when fighting monsters, you yourself do not become a monster... for when you gaze long into the abyss. The abyss gazes also into you. - Friedrich W. Nietzsche
can you named the 100 yo books that you mentioned?
We lose our power at age 60? Please revisit. You are so very incorrect. I’m not even upset because I’m laughing so hard.
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I just recently discovered your channel and it’s really good. Thank you for sharing your knowledge to us. 💓👏🏼
11:39
Lost me at gender roles.
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i'm a sensitive person in general, i think subconsciously i firstly relate everything to myself in some type of way, although this was a toxic type on here, I think everyone is probably a little of one of those.
Even so, I believe if you dedicate yourself to keeping yourself open minded instead of shutting down or closing off when your feelings get hurt, it can take you miles in all types of relationships.
You didn't change the situation; you changed the perspective you had of your situation. The situation is still there.
Two people have a crash. One is angry about their car being totaled. The other is grateful that he still alive. If the person that is angry in the wrong?
What if the person that was grateful to still alive was the one that caused the accident and has no insurance. Would you still believe the person that is angry is in the wrong?
Perspectives do not change reality. It just changes YOUR PERCEPTION of reality.
Which changes YOUR reality
The one that caused the accident is the problem he who rectifys the problem puts it in perspective
1:09: 💡 The video summarizes Robert Greene's book 'The Laws of Human Nature' which explores the dark side of human nature and provides insights on understanding and dealing with people.
6:18: 💡 Tips for using knowledge about the character to improve relationships and personal growth.
13:28: 🔑 The law of irrationality and short-sightedness can hinder our rational thinking and long-term success.
19:57: 🔑 The key to becoming a master persuader is to validate people's beliefs, listen deeply, inspire safety, allay insecurities, and use resistance and stubbornness to your advantage.
26:03: 💡 Tips for achieving work goals and personal growth, embracing both masculine and feminine qualities, finding purpose, and dealing with conformity.
32:18: 💡 Strategies for effective leadership and dealing with aggression, generational influences, and death denial.
38:47: ⏳ Life is short, and we only have 15 productive years to do what we want before death.
Recap by Tammy AI with useful time stamps =)
Joo/
except Tammy is clueless. eg. 13:28 time stamp. Not the law being discussed, and the time falls in the middle of the discussion. Failure, large...
@chetsenior7253Or tips to help navigate as successfully as possible a society full of imperfect people. Even if we don’t like it other peoples opinions, attitudes and actions affect us, especially at work as was mentioned.
You’re amazing!!! 🙏🏽
This is invaluable content!!
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Should be required for young people, as it will help fine-tune their people skills while attending school; not only in regards to their peers but in studying the personalities of their teachers, counselors and heck, even parents!!
If perceptive, these findings become realized upon observation but these coping pointers take this knowledge about human nature to another level.
* I am so used to seeing gazillions of vlogs about manifesting wealth & happiness and being positive but this is different.
Looking forward to delving deeper!!
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Edit - You might want to adjust the playback settings to a slower speed.
It may allow you think and absorb the rapid fire information a bit better.
.75 is the one. Great call!
@@SkyHiGradtrw yep! 👍
That speed worked for me, too. Gave my mind that tiny bit of breathing room to take it in.
People are pretty simple. For $14 an hour they’ll do all your chores for you. Cruel world.
too much empathy to people can also be used by others to manipulate an empath person. narcissism and empathy should be applied and balanced depending on situations
When people are stressed, they show you nothing more than their ability or their inability to handle stress. The idea that they show you 'who they really are' is again a mythical notion, as people can learn to manage stress. It's like saying that we only see the real person when that person is relaxed and having fun without any stress or inhibitions. In fact, this is more or less what the video just implied a few minutes ago, when it talked about 'wearing masks' and 'social roles' supposedly hiding our real selves. A person is not defined just by they handle stress, nor how they act when they are completely relaxed, instead they are defined by how they behave in general over a long period of time, under the multifarious situations they encounter in their life.
Follow Islam, and get the best control of your emotions and nature.
You're joking, right?
Thanks!
Ok. 40 minutes of repetitive sad piano . No thank you.
Haven't watched this video by the way. John C. Maxwell does a better job. Real quick: be yourself, however if you are weird, or morbidly weird. Stop that crap. Learn soft skills, be likable. You don't need to suck up. Not every situation helps your agenda to get where you need to be. You need to be liked by the right people. Figure out who the most influential person is in the place your at and be liked by them. Help elevate them they elevate you. If they go against what's right. Do not challenge them. Do what's right and gain trust from the majority. They will expose themselves. Meaning the person who is bad. Never expect or think you have achieved the pinnacle of leadership. Leadership is growth and on going. But how you respond to individuals and crowds make you effective. There is no secret. If you can charm and entice people you have a good chance. Remember always be honest. Be confident in your decision. Even if it's wrong. Always use modulation in your speech. Never be monotone. And be exciting.
Turn to Jesus people he died for your sins. Repent of what the New testament describes as sin. Believe the gospel get baptized and obey the teachings of Jesus. The gospel and the teachings of Jesus are documented in Matthew Mark Luke and John. Jesus is the only way to be saved God bless you all. If you have faith in Jesus through your faith you will live life with him as your example.
This background music is unbearably cliché and the narrator is too fast, robotic. Goodness.
Good content
But I think if you think about it carefully, you're one them. No matter what you do where you come from you will have one of these behavior or more than one. Knowing yourself better then you will see that in ppl you're dealing with
~22:00 Please do NOT be the person who feeds the ego of someone doing what is wrong.
Tell them the truth if they are doing something stupid...
They need to grow away from that.
Tell them the truth and you can weed out those that will never benefit your life.
Envy is overplayed here, it's not that big of a deal. Yes, there are envious people in the world. But most people are not envious of other people to any degree that is problematic for others or themselves. Most envy, to the extent it actually exists, is harmless.
This video is so informative, so much detail every second!
I love your thoughts about psychology and human behavior. I would concur with Most of your videos but the Idea that we are heading towards a society that's moving away from logical thought, study and ultimately discovery and instead moving more towards psychological inquiry is hard for me to wrap my head around. Two reasons being. We can explain the psychologically inquiry and how our own minds essentially use tricks to alter reality to benefit ourselves and make it easier for us to navigate the world we live in. And secondly I don't believe it's possible for anyone to know how much or what we don't know, however I may be just as biased as you. LOL
Very well done summary
Envy is one of the seven deadly sins
Thanks for the like.
There was a lot of good advice in this video and some that could be taken with a grain of salt but when you got to the part where you talk about "gender identity" and said don't conform to gender roles especially children! it sent shivers down my spine. That is straight up horrible and evil advice. Obviously we should not conform to worldly stariotipes about what makes a man a man or a woman a woman but we do need to accept the reality that men can not become women and women can not become men.
I'M leaving to much shit at the beginning
Law of covetousness, tip # 3. become an elusive object of desire at 10:00. "Focus on other peoples fantasies and unfulfilled desires and become what they desire". AKA manipulate others. Great tip.
Also, the law of role playing and the law of repression contradict one another.
Robert Greene is literally a psychological genius
I dont like people but I understand them
This channel is worth a million, we all read book sometimes knowing inside and sometimes just and with the help we all can pick the book we really need and want . We really appreciate your content
knowing what inside? and sometimes just? confusing as efff
Good informative vid but I didn't like the ending. Imo you don't need to rush life just because you'll die some day. But it's a good idea to be 'productive' whenever you can.
People have different sides because they are highly complex and social animals. You are not wearing a mask nor role-playing, you are simply showing that side of you that is appropriate for the social situation you are currently engaged in -- for example, at work, on a date, with your best friend, with your family, or alone. There is not necessarily anything fake about this, nor are you necessarily hiding your real self. In fact, there is no real self independent of the various sides of your personality.
Even though. I do not agree with all of the information covered in the book. I found it insightful. Great job with the video.
So that I understand correctly at 7 minutes, she talks about the character types to avoid, it seems to me that we have to avoid everyone since these mentioned character types apply to almost all humans. What other character types are left? For me this message is to avoid everyone, but that is not a good idea, it makes us untrusting to people and that is not a good trait.
Its best to be cautios of everyone .
#9 , strategy 5, the law of defensiveness. That works when it works but what if they try for a while and end up failing. Then I've only supported the "supposed opinion" and made the situation. Would you please provide anther strategy should this back fire?
Thank you for the video, I've watched it twice now back to back, probably watch it more.
To me, it's personality the thing we can't change, character is what we make of ourselves when we face different situations in life.
Does that mean , I have introverted personality but then I try to go extroverted in my daily life as a character.
you dont have to change ur authentic self but sometimes putting on mask is needed when ur adult or at work
Our personalities were shaped during our childhood. It was shaped by beliefs and experiences. So it can be reshaped again at any time. Just requires reprogramming. We seem to think personality is static but it's not. It's difficult to reprogram though
@@Scott-got-caughtSo this is what I say and bear witness to in the Lord, that you should no longer go on walking just as the nations also walk,+ in the futility of their minds.+ 18 They are in darkness mentally and alienated from the life that belongs to God, because of the ignorance that is in them, because of the insensitivity of their hearts. 19 Having gone past all moral sense, they gave themselves over to brazen conduct+ to practice every sort of uncleanness with greediness.+
20 But you did not learn the Christ to be like this, 21 if, indeed, you heard him and were taught by means of him, just as truth is in Jesus. 22 You were taught to put away the old personality+ that conforms to your former course of conduct and that is being corrupted according to its deceptive desires.+ 23 And you should continue to be made new in your dominant mental attitude,+ 24 and should put on the new personality+ that was created according to God’s will in true righteousness and loyalty.
25 Therefore, now that you have put away deceit, each one of you speak truth with his neighbor,+ because we are members belonging to one another.+ 26 Be wrathful, but do not sin;+ do not let the sun set while you are still angry;+ 27 do not give the Devil an opportunity.+ 28 Let the one who steals steal no more;+ rather, let him do hard work, doing good work with his hands,+ so that he may have something to share with someone in need.+ 29 Let a rotten word not come out of your mouth,+ but only what is good for building up as the need may be, to impart what is beneficial to the hearers.+ 30 Also, do not be grieving God’s holy spirit,+ with which you have been sealed+ for a day of releasing by ransom.+
31 Put away from yourselves every kind of malicious bitterness,+ anger, wrath, screaming, and abusive speech,+ as well as everything injurious.+ 32 But become kind to one another, tenderly compassionate,+ freely forgiving one another just as God also by Christ freely forgave you.+
disagree with law 12.
Amazingly correct. 😊😮yes I said it. Mr. Green 👐🏻🙌🏼my hands are small.
Doodles excellent fast drawing 😅
I love this message, so thoughtful and inspiring
Watching the drawing is soothing. It helps the lessons sink in.
Lol Kc is that you?
I can't help be reminded of the characteristics of narcissistic, psychopathy and the dark triad that is circulating RUclips in this point in time.
I believe that the assumption that people "over 60 do not have the power and passion to do the things they want to do" is terribly wrong and supports ageism. Very wrong.
Im 64 clearing my land to build on my wife passed 2 years ago my best horse paszed 1 year ago that does not slow me down the shop and house will be built
I've read mr. Greene's books and I must admit they have opened my eyes 👀 Thank you sir.
Thank you Mila Kunis, I feel better
Not everyone wants to shake hands or be touched get over it
What draw video program did you use? By the way, you sound like Jen Sincero. Have read her books? You’re videos are great…thank you.
Wow my opinion on Gayton and the P.A has truly changed , what a great interview this has been , so knowledgeable it remindes me of the Youngsta CPT interview . Gayton has a plan and I think he also deserves a chance to prove himself.
Those abusive people cannot be tolerated , if you just always in a nod, they will emotionally be abusive at you.
amazing video!! keep up with the good work!! very good delivery!
I have 4 children and I can tell you naturally they are different and compliment each other. I don't think it's healthy confuse them with the gender confusion fad either. They are too young to care about that. I look to Jesus and early church fathers to see a true man and Mary his mother a loving woman.
Amen
You had me until the gender part 😂
Thank God I'm not famius
In other words stay away from all people 😂
❤ BE MINDFUL OF WHO YOU LET TOUCH YOU...! ENERGY TRANSFER IS REAL...
TRUTH
WoW, this is an awesomely insightful video!!!
Character can change!!!!
I imagine sometimes the worst case scenarios and whether it’ll happen or if I’m insane
Spectacular book!!! ❤
Meg Griffin voice 😂
Practice feeling joyful for others lol doesnt sound very genuine if u have to practice 😂
This is some of the most valuable content I’ve ever seen online
Thank you so much for these videos, the beautiful graphics and your gorgeous voice !
You so deserve so much more views
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🎯 Key points for quick navigation:
00:00 *Understand human nature.*
01:09 *Beware of envy.*
03:27 *Adapt roles strategically.*
05:35 *Recognize compulsive behavior.*
08:09 *Handle covetousness wisely.*
10:38 *Embrace your shadow.*
12:54 *Understand narcissism.*
15:00 *Manage irrationality.*
17:47 *Overcome short-sightedness.*
20:05 *Navigate defensiveness.*
24:26 *Positive attitude benefits.*
25:07 *Channel grandiose energy.*
27:11 *Embrace masculine and feminine traits.*
28:47 *Find higher life purpose.*
31:02 *Navigate social conformity.*
34:43 *Manage aggression constructively.*
36:01 *Understand generational influences.*
38:19 *Confront mortality's impact.*
i use to work as a hotel staff, and my fellow staff were envious cos i use to spill my seeds on all the bedsheets and manager would never get rid of me. they wished they wud be like me.
The one thing a leader/manager does that can destroy moral is to put up with subordinates that are unproductive, not punctual, toxic, needy, sensitive etc. It shows the good workers that the boss will put up with a bad employee and is too lazy or gutless to fix or remove the bad employee.
So true, a lot of managers like the glory, but can't actually do the job OR even worse are not allowed to do their job.
Holy crap this got intense and confronting. Will be thinking about this a lot
Nice but that 12 isn't totally true a man is a man and a lady is a lady
He is speaking abstractly...
Listening to this made me feel like I have turned into a Super Saiyan #1989
Excellent; I wish I had this information 30,40 yrs ago.
Nice artwork
There is some truth in this.
However, with every truth comes a thousand lies.
How does that make sense?
@@sydefx7335 It makes sense to those who have been given intelligence.
@@ecysyes but I think you mean to those who have been given wisdom. If you know you know
Very interesting book, thanks for the review!
Nope, if you're good, ppl should try to communicate w you. It happens when ppl have power but talent and it's social issues
Meg, Meh,Fezz, Tam, Hizzy. Has what that I don't have..from the phantom. The third law.. the law of envy. It's fortunes secret..miss it with me. It's okay.
This is odd. It seems like a long way of saying be fake as hell and tell people what they want to hear. Idc if that gets me farther in life ill never do it.
Great work and engaging! Love it!❤️
Great summary!.. Many of these concepts are observable, relatable and revealing (such as comparing to others, envy, "shadow" [per Jung's archetype]. masks, narcissism, empathy, irrationality and group think). A few of these are not as obvious (such as "always" avoiding pain or change). The statement that humans automatically lose passion and power after age 60 is very subjective and limited.
Law 12 is BS. I, also, didn't agree with the example for the Narcissism law. Couldn't finish, sorry.
‼️‼️‼️🎭MASKS🎭‼️‼️‼️
Wearing a mask is what autistics like me do when I am around other people. Autistics call this masking 🎭 it's how we function around people we don't know, but it is very draining. While wearing our masks we like to mimic personalities to meet the other person's comfort level so we can show them we are similar to their personality. That way they will treat us like a normal person. I learned how to mask, and mimic very well while working as a server at a popular steakhouse for 4 years. So much so for a long time I didn't know who I was as a person. I realized that every table I waited on had their own personality. Some where laid back others were quiet, some wanted me to be comfortable like a friend, some were strict, and expected me to say yes/no ma'am/sir. Most of the time I could usually tell what type of personality they had by the way they were dressed. I was not always right, but for me it was fun to learn about normal people, and how they act.
11:30 “People who only project perfection are seen as fake and unauthentic.” Draws a pic of a women who’s appearance is very similar to mine. I was born with this shape body and face. It’s genetics and I like well fitting and quality clothes for comfort, durability and multipurpose. I can own less stuff. Here is a big fuck you to this part of the video!
Isn't this all common sense that we learn the hard way growing up? And who is going to watch this video or read that book and really just change who they are? Nobody. So what is the point of the book or RUclips video? Making money while teaching us that we are sh*t people? Or regurgitating dumb LIFE lessons that can only be learned by living?
17:58 is she talking about me, I mean a manipulator like me? Well, not all manipulators reveal their personality and intention.
Ibam revealing my personality because I know I am never going to meet you... even if I do I don't know you and you don't know me but the difference is I can still control, just in case of need. Sorry if you all felt bad. 😊 The mask... be sure not to take it of... 😮💨
This is so linear, without considering culture and generatuonal differences. Also, it's way too black/white.
For example : death denial hasn't always to do with pushing off a deadline. People are different. Some need short deadlines, and work well that way. Nothing to do with death denial. Others work better with long deadlines, nothing to do with non death denial !
Also, always having to accomodate oneself to a situation or others, against one's own wishes or caracter is not productive nor healthy.
I can't and won't have a mask on at work, and be different at home. That's just madness. And, that's why so many people are so manipulative, insecure, narcissistic, etc.
If people where mote grounded, knowing themselves better, and trying to collaborate in a balanced way, not out of self greed or so, than the world would be a great place to live! Lets aim for that ! 👌🙂
Megatron? 😳
What! I'm 60 and just discovered my passion again after ma y difficult years So I'm written off now?
No
No you are not written off until you really can’t move or have bad health but on average we see an increase of health conditions that could stop someone from working. My grandfather literally didn’t stop working as a doc untill 80 and drove until 94 then he died at 103
Wow, what a monumental tragedy this book is. How to be a phony, and make the world a little bit worse. How to jettison the Truth far from your existence. Ridiculous.
Thank you so much for your content. Your voice really speaks to my inner self
This makes my sociological heart happy.
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