@@jakeminner6650 right... i can only come to 3 logical conclusions and speculate that the likelihood of truth is in this order... - Bait for more revenue - Did not watch the full interrogation and/or currently accessible public records - Vitriolic Mate
The narcissists prayer: That didn't happen. And if it did, it wasn't that bad. And if it was, that's not a big deal. And if it is, that's not my fault. And if it was, I didn't mean it. And if I did, *YOU DESERVED IT.*
To be honest, the first point is something that one might say to a BPD/Narcissist to defend yourself when they try and distort your grasp of reality through lies and manipulation.
Keith has strong morals. He stuck by his wife believing she was telling the truth..Then got up and left and cut her out of his life when he found out she lied.
@@sarahmurphy8030 there would have been signs. He was probably in denial. Just didn't want to believe it. He probably still loves her and would probably take her back. I've seen the type front row. Chances are probable they would stay together for a long time. Do you know where to find an update on him? Chances are very probable he has moved on as well lol!
The loudest statement in that room is Keith messing with his wedding ring before scooting his chair away from her. It's sad to see the exact moment that someone realizes that their life is a lie and the love of their life is a scheming narcissistic cheat.
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My sympathy goes out to her husband but i am glad he is now free. I fully enjoyed this whole video. To watch a narrcisist being unable to use their usual tactics to manipulate situations and people was pure joy
Oh man. The way Keith instantly knew the cops were right… it’s like he could finally say to himself “I guess I’m not crazy after all.” The amount of gaslighting this guy must’ve experienced is unimaginable. Dude is gonna have PTSD and a tenuous trust in reality for the rest of his life.
@Céline Snl Branding, in this case, is taking a piece of metal that has been made to have someone's initials, or a design of some type formed. Then, it is heated to a high temperature, then pressed against her skin to burn the now permanent design onto her. The hockey stick was used to break her nose. Fun stuff, huh?
Yea. It's like her throwing a temper tantrum like a child..her balling up and crying like that....seems to work well for her in the past so that ppl would feel bad and leave her alone. F U K I N G B I T C H. CANNOT STAND HER!
@@celinesnl5338 branding you take metal and heat it up and put it on skin. We do it to livestock so you know who owns them. She did it but said the gang did . Cause they owned her now. The Hockey stick was to break her nose.
So glad you included the conversation with the poor husband afterward. Good to see the guy had balls. This is 4 years after it happened and he supported her the whole time.
I grew up with Keith. Never was a very close friend but always knew him and played baseball with him all the way through little league to college. That was really good to see from him.
@@MsCwebb man I see more and more comments like these every day. It’s crazy being able to hear from people who know the victim or perpetrator(s). So wild what the internet has done in such short time
Please don’t tell me he didn’t have suspicions. He had been with this compulsive liar for about a decade. He’s obviously a good guy but nobody can be that stupid. I think he’d been praying for this day. Surely??
My brother is a narcissist. If he repeats the lie often enough then he believes it, then everybody else starts to believe it and then it becomes the truth! How fantastic to see a narcissist confronted by facts and people who won’t be swayed by her repeated lies.
You should talk to him about his troubles in child hood. Kids lie like that to mask a troubling truth or to disassociate from a bad reality they live in.
@@shailonnoelle7175 narcissists will never take the blame. It’s impossible for him to realize he has a problem and impossible for him to change. You have to cut those people out of your life. I’ve been abused by a narcissist my whole life and have learned a lot about them.
08:40 her husband seemed remarkably unconcerned about the things he’s hearing. He even starts to play with his nails 😳 Plus when he said he was concerned because he found hairs in her headphones & thought maybe she’d been grabbed, that sounded quite odd.
Good guy or not, he should advised his wife to shut up and seek counsel. Regardless of what's happened, in the moment, it still the spouses job to protect their other half.
@@pendejo6466 When the first thing they mention is evidence of her lying and the "captor" being her ex, I don't see how it's his job to protect her at all. And I do not agree that it's the spouses job to protect their other half regardless of what's happened.
I dated a covert narcissist once. This is pretty typical behavior. They all act like this. Evil. Crazy lies. She won't acknowledge that she was caught so she keeps trying to say "I can't believe it was James" trying to implicate him instead of taking responsibility. Narc 101. They live in delusions, and have no bar that's too low for them to go.
I couldn't help but get tickled at how little by little Keith's chair moved backwards distancing himself from her. Finally he left the room. 😅 It says more than words could.
Also notice that when he went back into the interrogation room to speak with the detectives alone, he initially sat in her chair and then got up and moved to the other one.
The actions of moving away from her were steady and practically continuous. Just fascinating. I wish I could've seen Keith's face when Sherry was obviously looking for his support. His body language said he was pretty much done with her.
I was aware of that also…his instincts finally were validated. As a typical narc, she was probably bored and craved excitement…her poor husband and kids.
@@shannonbobby1914 of course a woman would say that. because they know it is a complete lie and no man would use crying as a manipulation tactic, it is not in a man's nature, but IT IS in a woman's nature.
@@MaryClareVideos lol ... in "divorce court" this is his proof to get out ... no need for a private detective no need to drag the divorce out. She's psycho
@@moomama217 He sure did. But too late..... He knew after she came home she was lying. Maybe not the full part of her lies. But he knew she wasn't being 100. He should have trusted his guy and left after a few months.
He's weak why do you think she was out banging people like me LOL you know how many chicks I bang cuz their husbands are weak and pathetic like this one LOL and they like to be choked and slapped and treated like garbage hell most of the time they pay for my food and drinks and drive me around and if I need gas I'll hit them up because you know what that's what they're good for.
@@clare1971 I'm laughing so hard because I bang chicks like this all the time. The dudes just a weak synth a pathetic loser he obviously can't please his wife she's probably embarrassed by him probably couldn't even beat someone up if they were trying to hurt her anyway that's why she did this. So funny how pathetic you people are this happens every day guarantee you when you're pathetic and weak is this dude your chick's definitely out there sucking and f****** any dude she can to have a good time and she's probably using his money to do it I date married chicks all the time why I wouldn't say date but you know what I mean and like I said I make them pay for everything and they're usually using their husband's credit cards and s*** and it's awesome I've even gotten cars and stuff off of it.
The husband was concerned about the children, and the detective said “…It’s been 4 years since” ……And? And? So what? The husband is right to be afraid, if she went to those lengths just to “visit” an ex boyfriend and not let a soul know that secret. You really think for a second she won’t do something MORE drastic? Now that she is exposed? I hope the husband can heal from this! Because he has been through ALOT 😢
I think what they meant was that in the eye of divorce court it might not hold up. They didn't want to give him any hopes as to what could happen, mostly because legally they can't give legal advice but also divorce court is a whole separate game where, unfortunately, sexism exists sometimes. But I mostly think it's because it's really not their job to tell people what to do legally, especially when they're at work being recorded.
Except learning that some people are awful, habitual liars, which isn’t a bad lesson, there isn’t much for the husband to learn. He acted decently throughout. And I also don’t think the detective should have said that it’s been 4 years (as that doesn’t matter) but I think he was saying it to the fact that the husband was reluctant to have her near the kids, and that the detective was saying she had been with the kids for 4 years. But I agree with the husband in being concerned, and she has shown she will hurt the kids if she needs to…in order to get what she wants.
The second he scooted the chair back to leave her on guilty island all by herself was subtle but so respectable. Feel bad for him, glad he walked out of this with full custody and is able to move on from this.
Yes, it was at 12:43, Detective said when James branded you on your shoulder, her husband half stood up to scoot his chair back and she even half stood up. As if he's going to hug her or whatever. Then she sat back down. That is one of my favorite parts of this interview! She needs to have her balloon popped.
One pattern I've learned about the narcissists I've known: Always the hero or the victim; never the villain. This one seems to have taken the role of victim to another level.
In rare cases, the narcissist will intentionally choose the role of the villain, "so long as they are confident that they will have admirers" or even more rarely can become so off the deep end that they become completely vindictive.
@Colonthree Enterprises I think that may be less about narcissism, more about an ongoing narrative. And yet there's still some overlap. Interesting observation.
There is an award winning novel called Gone Girl by Gillian Flynn about a wife staging her abduction (also a film made on that novel). So I think she probably read the novel and was fascinated by the attention and heroism that wife received in the story, and how the whole community gathered to look for her and to help her an so on. Great novel, by the way.
You can't handle the truth! You are the person who trolls everyone on Facebook! I told you that I would find out the reason why you said that you were going on holiday and I have not heard anything back from you
When I first heard this story my immediate thought was "This is Gone Girl. She pulled a real life Amy Dunne." This is how I wish the book had ended. The movie is a pretty close adaption too.
This poor man - thanks for covering the case. It appears Keith has custody of the children now, I can only hope he recovers and the family can support eachother.
I hope Keith finds someone who appreciates what a solid, caring man he is. I remember watching interviews with him being so torn up. He was truly heartbroken over what she went through. I hope he gets to experience a relationship with someone who is not a narcissist. It will be life changing.
Keith has some AMAZING anger management skills 😮 I would have been FREAKING out if I was sitting in there and my spouse got caught lying about their abduction. Wow.
08:40 her husband is remarkably unconcerned about the things he’s hearing though. He even starts to play with his nails 😳 Plus when he said he was concerned because he found hairs in her headphones & thought maybe she’d been grabbed, that sounded quite oddly specific. I don’t think he’s as blindsided as we think
@@allisonjames2923 You should be a body language expert that is so spot on. Not SMH you have no idea how he reacts to hearing something like that he’s literally picking at his nails somethings people do when they have anxiety. So again what do you think he knew about lol detective Allison?
Reminds me of the ridiculous lie my ex wife told me after she was confronted by her lover’s wife who told her she was going to tell me about it. She did come to my home to tell me the truth and my ex said “Here he is tell him whatever you want “. The second she started speaking my ex started screaming over her and the friend she brought along and tried to physically attack them. I restrained my ex so she wouldn’t be arrested for assault, in hindsight I should have let her go. The next day her lover came to my house at her behest to try to convince me his wife was just insanely jealous and always accusing him of being unfaithful. I found out where his wife worked and spoke to her. She was much more convincing than our narcissistic partners. She lost the control she had over me after this and it drove her insane. I didn’t know what narcissism was back then, I just thought she was crazy. These kind of people are toxic black holes with no guilt or remorse for their actions. She had another man living with her and our two kids in my house two months after we split up and they eventually married but she was incapable of happiness and destroyed herself with drugs and alcohol. She died five years after we split at the age of 42.
@@dextercool Thanks Bro. I’m doing good now. My ex wife was a overt narcissist who openly admitted she wanted to control me and our kids but a few years later I became engaged to a covert narcissist, it’s a kinder, gentler form of control but their end game is the same. They want to destroy you mentally. I actually think the covert did more damage because I believed she loved me. I knew my wife didn’t love me so that break up was easier to accept. I was raised by narcissistic parents which programmed me to accept being treated badly. I’ve learned a great deal about narcissism and myself and will never fall for one of these demons again.
Anyone who has been around drama addicted ex-high school popular girls recognizes this exact behavior, right down to the high pitched whiny denial. They love drama and attention and always cause havoc to anyone who has the misfortune of being in the same social circle. When the dumb bishes inevitably get caught in their lies, their default is to act like victimized innocent little girls who didn't know what to do.
What’s so unbelievable is that Keith stood behind her for years. He defended her, helped her, protected her. And to save her own ass, she was willing to throw him under the bus with claims of abuse. She didn’t deserve him 😡
that's when you see that narcissists like this don't really love anyone. they only "love" you as long as you are of use, and when you're not, you are thrown away just like everyone else. your well-being doesn't matter in the least when it comes right down to it.
@@florencehenderson3707 Yup. A lot of people want to believe that the narcissist loved them in some way. Nope, they only loved using you. You were convenient and that truth hurts deeply.
He did the right thing, and left. that's all you can do, social isolation they use manipulation to get you back into the same routine of enabling their behaviors when you confront them, you just need to get away from that person and get them out of your life
The most annoying part of her interrogation is she gets higher and louder pitch whenever they start getting closer to the truth of what happened, like she's trying to drown them out. I think she should have gotten longer in prison.
I agree. There's a point at which I say that someone who has a mental or personality disorder has behaviors that are pitiable but not excusable. With personality disorders it often takes faaaaaar longer than 18 months of being at rock bottom or denied a supply of attention to finally convince them that they need hard core, ongoing therapy.
Totally agree, down to her repeating the “I love my husband” when asked if he was abusive. She wanted that to be read as “yes, but I won’t say because I am afraid and love him”…..where a decent person would say “no, never…and my actions had nothing to do with him.”
He has a sickness himself. He's attracted to women like this and that never goes away. With that said I hope he is the one in a billion exception and turns his life around.
Update: she was sentenced to 18 months in prison by a Judge, above the sentencing guidelines and above what the prosecution was asking for and well above the house arrest that the defense attorneys asked for.
She deserves more. She should be doing 10 years at a minimum. The amount of money, manpower and resources chasing a ghost is insane. While they were playing her little game, they could have been catching rapists, murderers, etc.
@@southernfried19 this. But i think that they wanted to not set an examole out of her due to her having kids. But I do agree that she should have received 5 years and a $100,000 fine AT LEAST.
Good, but not nearly enough. Her husband...that poor man has to raise their children. And see her for the rest of his freaking life. He's the one with the life sentence. She should get it.
She wanted attention and sympathy more than anything. In her mind this would make everyone appreciate her and treat her like she's special. It would make her husband never take her for granted. It would make everyone scared to lose her. The attention from the community, and any fame and fortune from it, is a bonus. There's no downside to her, this was a win-win situation. Narcs want to be special above all else, and they don't give a shit what anyone else feels outside of how it affects themselves.
DONT STOP TILL UR PROUD but this is nothing to be proud of! Role model for ur children which makes this even more sick. Her husband & children whom she was supposed to LOVE not HURT! She hurt all the time of LE that couldve spent searching for real missing women!💜🙏💜✌️
Oh yeah she probably enjoys even the negative attention she is getting with a mind like that and you can tell she is used to turning on the water works and everything is alright, mummy and daddy probably made it all better because she is their special little Sherri who can do no wrong. Can't help think of Gone Girl.
If I was her husband I would have been scrolling on my phones for a divorce lawyer during the interogation. The one thing about narcs is that they ALWAYS play the victim. They second thing is they NEVER change. As Rhett Butler said, "Frankly my dear, I don't give a damn."
I love how despite everything she did he now needs to tip toe & do backflips to protect himself & his kids. YET if they had a domestic where she “felt unsafe” he would be removed from his house.
I think Keith knew deep down that she was lying all along but didn’t quite know what to believe. He was calm because he had lots of scenarios in his head and this didn’t shock him. He has been living with her for years. He seems smart enough to know who she is.
@@sicariusflamus3033 plus Keith is 💯 fully on, hardcore beta. She KNEW she could treat him like that because of his betaness. Awful women and hopefully realises it's OK to have standards and respect himself a bit more now.
Both your suspicions are spot on. She either wanted to escape reality or ditch mom life, however, the starvation and self harm is clearly some Jussie Smollett ish.
@@garrysekelli6776 either or. But the “or” wouldn’t make sense how I constructed the sentence. She either wanted to ditch mom life or act like a victim like Mr. Smollett 🤣 idk. *my English isn’t A1 but I hope you get it
I was living in Redding and going to the community college there at the time this happened. I went to a city council meeting a couple days after she went missing and her husband took the stand there, holding their son and sobbing, he begged for her captors to release her and said how much he loved her and wanted her to come home, mentioning also that their kids needed her before he sat back down because he couldn’t talk anymore he was so upset. Really really sad. A few months before this at the college a student was walking to her car after a night class and was ACTUALLY almost abducted. It scared the hell out of everyone at the college and in the local area, especially young women. We all thought that people were going around kidnapping blonde girls. Night class students were walked to their cars by security and the campus was really pressing about reporting anyone strange. When she showed back up we all knew it was a scam. Pretty much all of Redding would talk about how she was a liar and a cheater. Years before her ex came forward the whole city was already assuming she had run off with some guy but had to come back because her family wasn’t giving up the search. The local facebook pages were full of Sherri Papini memes. My guess is that she wanted to take advantage of this sadly not unheard of thing that happens in Redding and use it as an excuse to run off with her ex and get away from her family for a bit without them thinking she was a deadbeat. Gross and sad. I’ll always feel bad for her husband. I’m assuming that after she came back he had put a few things together, but at that city council meeting he was obviously a very distraught and depressed man. I hope she enjoys jail.
Wait.....how come it was clear when she came back that she was a liar? She had a broken nose and a burned brand...what did you hear in those early days that was suspicious?
@@donperegrine922 the fact that she came back in and of itself was weird unfortunately. Everyone thought it was kid of crazy they would just let her go on the side of the road randomly. Also at the time the sheriffs office and police wouldn’t release anything about her condition. We didn’t know anything about any of her injuries. Basically it was “Sherri Papini found and safe”. And then like 2 days later they said she had gone home with her family. So we all thought, why would they let her go? Who took her? Is she mentally or physically injured? No one knew any details, it just seemed to make more sense that she was suspicious
@@staliaoftheknife9623 Oh wow! Absolutely wild situation for you to be near! What a crazy person. I couldn't break my own nose, if it meant my worst enemy died.....to do so just to break up with your lovely boyfri end!?!?! insanity.
@user-bx2ff4mv2m "Smaller" = "Un- provable to himself" probably. He has juuuust enough inclinations and evidence to piece it together but just enough to doubt at the same time. I'm living this.
This poor man was married to a sociopathic borderline personality and had no idea of it until this interview. I feel so bad for him and can say from experience that being lied about will make you feel like YOU are the crazy one. I’m glad he was able to get rid of this human leach and move on with his life.
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"No I can't believe James would do something like that" "We have the evidence that you corroborated with James to fake this kid napping" "James would never kidnap me" "Ya he didn't it was fake and we have the proof" Lmao wtf am I watching
LOL! 🤣 Me too, bud! I was in the same place! "I can't believe James would do something like that!" "We have the evidence that you corroborated with James to fake your own kidnapping." "James would never kidnap me!" "No, he didn't. YOU did. And we have the Proof. YOU'RE the guilty one, here..!" "James would never hurt me! Why would James lie to me?!" "Jist!...Forget that we even mentioned James! It was YOO! YOO, YOO, YOO!!" "...James just isn't that type of person...!"
The cops acted like dicks to the husband at the end. He just found out the mother of his children is a lunatic and the cops are cold and dismissive to his concerns.
@LichenSand YES !!! What you said is exactly what it is!! “ same people just on a different side of the room” ! A lot of police are “crooked” so it’s crazy to me they sit in a room and lie to people to try to get them to “ tell the truth” innocent or not… smh.
Investigators have to have procedures to follow. Was still a possibility that the husband was in on it. They offered what they could. It's not like the case had gone before a jury already. I appreciate they could have shown a little more feeling, but please, they are cops, not kindergarten teachers. It's okay to be clean and have boundaries. They couldn't tell the husband what the wife said/etc. Nor can they advise him what to do.
Well she did, but on purpose??? Yeah, crazy. Leaves me really curious as to why. I don't really think it's narcissism because narcissists don't usually hurt themselves, but something is definitely wrong with her, and with the ex boyfriend who said oh sure, I'll break your nose and burn letters into your shoulder...???
Omg I remember watching this story on 48 hours- I knew something was off but couldn’t put my finger on it. I can’t believe she set up the whole thing!! What a waste of everyone’s time and resources. So crazyyy
I thought the same thing when they found her. I said she probably was with her boyfriend. But she just kept lying about some woman let her go. I knew something wasn’t right. But now I know. This lady is crazy and brand herself, and had her nose broken too, that’s really crazy. I bet that boyfriend got tired of this nut and told her she had to go, or she miss her kids. But still in all she is still crazy.
This happened in my hometown around thanksgiving and there was a huge media frenzy around finding her and her husband pleading for her safe return while people thought he was involved! She let that search go through Christmas so during the holiday season this woman had people out in the cold looking for her when she knew damn well she is fine and safe. Disgusting!! She’s one of those horrible people to falsely accuse others.
Not only going out in the cold to search for her but she ruined peoples Christmas . How could anyone celebrate the holiday thinking she was laying somewhere dead . Awful woman.
@@operacarmen ew nigga get a grip. Just because you like a face doesn't make you obligated to enter and fuck up someone else's life with your CLEAR poor decision making
The (debunked) 1st psychopath theory: A psychopath was born. This was not normal and did not seem healthy. But it was a member of the group. People began to emulate this thing, mistaking its weakness for strength. Eventually a culture began and it spread across the world. Now we know about the MOA gene but this theory always seemed close to the true, though still wrong of course, to me.
Agree…Sherri knew exactly what she was insinuating when she just repeated “I love my husband” when asked if he was abusive. (And her husband clearly wasn’t, and seems like a very decent guy).
Ive had the misfortune of dealing with a narc in the family. I can confirm, no matter how obvious it is that they have done wrong, they will never ever admit to it.
I just can’t understand doing that to your child and husband. Absolutely mental. To put them through that. And to be away from your child for 22 days and to make up that you held onto a blanket and rocked it every night like as if it were your child because you missed them so much. Absolutely disgusting
I had an ex who was very much like this. Not to the extent of faking a kidnapping but would slap herself until her cheeks were red and then claim I hit her so I would go to jail and she would hit the bars and hook up with whoever she could. She was a very attractive woman so it worked for her for a while. Eventually one observant cop caught on and arrested her for filing a false report. During this period my life became a total hell and literally drove me to panic attacks and depression. I'm a very docile person who was raised to never hit a woman. Thank God I was eventually proven innocent but the damage she did lives on to this day. My son is 29 and hasn't spoken to his mother since he was 16. She lives only a few miles from him. I still encourage him to reach out to his mother but he wants absolutely nothing to do with her. I can tell it has a very negative effect on him. People if you get a divorce and there are children involved please don't use the kids as pawns in your battle. It WILL come back to haunt you. Never bad mouth your ex to your kids. It hurts them more than you'll ever know.
@@freddyfox5002 Not worth your time bro, dating a chick with multiple red flags is like driving through a red light, neither scenario is worth the inevitable crash and burn
Narcisist behavior is so dangerous because they don't have feelings and people are just tools to exploit: no shame, no remorse, no mercy...they are sick self centered ..an endless manipulation
Felt and feel awful for the husband and the kids of course. He seems very naive or at least seemed very naive.. would be curious to hear more about their relationship..
She is very attractive and small. Men do have a need to protect, I'm guessing that instinct kicked in when he saw her hurt and just believed everything.
@@margaretyork3548 research narcissist and Trauma Bond These people have no bounds to their emotional, mental and physical abuse and have no empathy or remourse. Only thing they ever regret is getting caught
The biggest thing she lost was keith, what a good husband... dude was really trying to like solve this like thing that happened to his wife, and she was lying about like literally everything. She'll never find a good guy like Keith ever again, and keith hopefully got off easy, she is so crazy i could see her cutting him up or something else insane one day in the future if she is feeling a bit off..😳😳
Obviously feel bad for Keith. Idk if the investigators at that point thought that he could still be involved, but they didn’t seem very empathetic to his situation once he was talking to them alone. He’s like “what can I do now that my life is ruined?” and they’re like “idk bro, get a restraining order or something”.
It was clear it was looking for some psychological reassurance. Like even ‘a yeah dude that’s fucked up you are handling this well’ They were very cold to him and just wanted to leave that room.
Because in the end result its an ego thing and their job. They dint give a rats arse about the truth. That's why they defend corrupt cops. Pull you over illegally and justify anything afterwards..they got her. They don't care about him or his mind or the children. Cops like most of us are self centered tired and selfish but they get bigger ego and overpaid for it. Detectives are just a little better than Judges but judges are slaves to the State's agenda
For real he's like "She's obviously guilty as shit for this and I don't want her around my kids, what can I do?" and their response is pretty much "sucks to be you dude but helping you protect your children does nothing for our investigation so you're shit out of luck"
My old principal said a quote that will always be stuck in my head. "Little acorns grow into big oaks" Whenever the topic of lying was brought up he would argue his idea on this quote that even a little lie will grow to the point where it becomes harder to lie so tell the truth
Ace Attorney series is this in action. Exposing the small lies and inconsistencies forces the criminal to create even more ridiculous lies to stick to their story. Their story eventually blows apart.
9:22 There’s something so satisfying about seeing the husband do that motion. You just know when someone’s trying to practice self restraint when they do that.
I believe in God, indeed I do, and I know my faith has been growing a lot. I know only I can solve this problem, and I dont want to have my vision blurry... Soo I decided to have 2 weeks break from they bough. I'll put things this way, the first girl, I have been with her for 5 years, almost 6. She has vallues, a father figure, and catholic, always ready to help others. But I guess I started losing my interess in her because I was second guessing if she was/is the girl for me. Yes, she is consistent, she helps, and have only slept with me. But there is another side, were I got really disturbed. She has some ego problems -like the truth/logic is on her face, in a clear way, and she is soo proud... Keeps denying... She has entitlement issues... And the thing its a great issue, is the lack of critical thinking... I dont know I feel that I cherish her, I like her, but I dont know... her parents have spoiled her very much, Im not sure if even I like her, and we have a strong bond, if she has the capacities for a marriage, in terms of living a real life... Sometimes she gets hostile, and say passive agressive things to try to hurt me... soft.. But Its not nice...I am afraid that her ego issues, a litle entitulement, a bit lack of understanding others point of views, and her "princess" lifestyle may be a problem in the future. Sometimes I feel like its acting, or not 100% deep.. And the fact we sin easylly, And that is my fault too.. I mean, you must know how to clean, raise children, be smart, and feel faith We also have sexual sined for a lot of years.. And This is on me, but I cant or have extreme dificulties "controling my lust around" her Its a "At least we are in a relationship", "When we get marry it will stop be a sin" mentality I mean she is catholic but I dont know how to say, but sometimes I feel like she lacks some intelectual and deepness in some ways... But for real, she has values, understands (or makes me believe) that sex is not for any person, she cherish her intimacy, but its superficial in some ways... It the past she had showed some issues I trully didnt like, Ego problems, superficiality, some arrogance, two faces when we were with her family or friends... Sometimes I fear that I may have created a bound with a girl I should not And I gave her time because of that, but, even she is not super hot, she only slept with me, shes caring in her way, and has strong values... But somethings she doesnt have personal opinion? I feel like its missing critical thinking, and empathy in some ways... But she is resilient, and consistent, and dont let go easy. The second girl, I have met her while working. To be honest, I was tired of my ex girlfriend ego issues, that lead to strong fights, for stupid things.. And I swear that I have tried to stop looking at this other girl, trying to stop conecting to her... But as things went wrong my ex girlfriend, things were going fine with this other girl I respected the fact that she was working, she liked psycology, she was simple, always ready to help, sweet and nice in many ways. I tried not to, but indeed she melted my heart in some ways. Than, I found out she smoked weed, drinked badly, believed in astrology, piercings... welll, I did not judge her, because I have been there too... I had my past where I smoked, and grown a lot of weed, and got drunk sometimes, I had my past were I could not sense God. And was suposelly and atheist... But thanks to God I found my way out. And I wanted the best for her. Recue her in some ways. Some things were smart, intelectual, easy going. Others I was a little bit riscky and imprudent. For example, I was not even smoking, but I did one thing for her. I would smoke with her, if she promissed that we would not smoke for a week.Then I would smoke with her, then we do not smoke for two weeks... Then we dont smoke for a month... Then two months... Then 4 months... And now? We dont even want to smoke. And we had the chance, we just putted that asside and pray. Thanks God. I feel like, with the help of God, and its mainly God, I dived in the ocean of her problems. Of her issues... I gave her flowers, on the first day by surprise, when she showed me her face for the first time with no piercings. For showing her that the way God naturally made her is the most beautifull.... I made her understand that astrology is deceiving, and dangerous, and that makes more sense to love and be guided by the creator of the stars, that be guided by the stars themselves. In the beggining, I was craving my sexual sins and so did she, we slept togetter, had lots of sex. THAT IS A PROBLEM. The only thing I regret. But then we got above that sin. For my surprise we did. I cherish our intelectual, loving, funny godly talks. She doesnt fit with the world either. Now she does not smoke, nothing, not even tobaco. Not getting drunk.. She is studying. She is following God. Goes to the church and prays. She stopped sleeping around and seems to have better bondaries. Understands sexuality.. No piercings... And I love to see her happy, healty, with a future. She quited her social midia, and Im gona be honest, I trully wish her the best. We are similar, I could say I love her in some ways. She is very smart, inteligent, nice to people, empath most of the times expecially with kids and the ones in need. I feel like she feels things in a deeper way. And I am not joking. I feel very very bad for her, because its not her fault her father is not in her life, and that she has a extreme selfish narcissitic manipulative mother, who even though ther spiritisms... Its not her fault that she ended up in the world getting used by guys, and having fisical, emotional and spiritual damages... Trying to fulffil her heart with lust, pleasure, bad companies, psychedelic trips... And I have been there too so I trully wanted to help her... I feel that she is similar to me... And we have a" push to the right way efect" on each other. Even sexually and that amazes me. Sometimes i feel I grow in faith with her, we even pray the rozary. But for real, I also feel I cant ignore the signs. -50/70 minimum people she has had sex with before at 22years old Huge mother issues -Not a father figure -Having lots of guy "friends" -porn -Drugs -alcool -Emotional instability, mood swings -tantrums, and Anger issues. Trully anger issues -Self harm, she cutted her self in the past, beated herself -Avoiding responsability -Sometimes, unespectes selfishness, she has some issues understanding other points of view Im not dumb. I cant spot all the Red flags. I can realise that I may be blind to the truth. And probably even I find her -inteligente -smart -deep talk -understanding -helper, knows how to clean, and economically responsable -likes to read I mean I like her very very much... But I feel like she may be to broken.. She may not trully pair bond... Psychological damages... Traumas... I dont want my kids to know her mother had sex with multiple partners, sometimes at the same time... She is similar to me, I dont judge her, I dont make her feel bad, but I cant ignore she had 50/70 minimum guys with her, and the damage that that type of promiscuity makes... Most of all, I am afraid that she is a temptation between me and my ex girl? She still loves me, but I know she is getting tired too... And she may not be that smart, that inteligent, and have problems but at least I never question her love, and I know she only had sex and trully bounded with me. I wonder what Jesus would tell me... "You are right, the first girl is materialistic, and those ego problems are gona ruin you, in the future, she needs to seek god and put in practice genuilly. You were young and rushed in sex and its a bound you should break. And keep with the ex sinner girl because now she is redeimed, she is new and the bond of love will be stronger. The ex sinner girl makes you grow with her more than the other you know that" "Keep the first girl, who trully loves you , and always have been there for you, love her, start chasity values, lead in a example of god, do the right thing for her, dont follow tempation, you are blinded by love and you have lust the sinner girl, watchout for not loosing the love of your life. Dont be fooled, even if she seem to have changed be prudent and love the one who was here before" "Leave them both, not good for you" "Leave them both, regret your sins, you dont deserve neither one of them." Sometimes I feel more like the last one... Because I was divided in my feelings and that is messed up I dont want my insecurities to make me believe she is dommed because of her past. That is not what Jesus would do. If I dont forgive others, how will he forgive me? I also grow and feel way saint around her. I dont want to keep a bond that may not be trully good for me, of my ex girlfriend. What does it matter if shes only slept with me, but follows the world and God in practice is not the first priority? Material world I dont want to be decceived and ignore the fact that this girl is too damaged, broken, god forgives but will she sin again? We all do fall, with all those serious issues i know its almost 100% sure Im gona get hurt. I dont want to have messed up my pair bonding with my ex, and ahe really is the love of my life I dont know what to do. I want to follow Gods will. God knows its true. I may sin, I may not be perfect, but i seek him and ask for forgiveness. I want to submit to God fully. I wish and trully think that may be one of these girls. And I am soo afraid of not understanding the signs, or interpret bad, or even that even God loves me Im a sinner not in grace and he wont show me the signs... But I think its more about I understanding them Of these girls, I would like to marry the one God trully has for me. I dont know what to do... Thanks for your time. God may bless you, greeting from Portugal
Feel sooo SORRY for the husband, I was married to an narcissist for 28yrs they stop at NOTHING, their whole life is one big LIE. Hope the husband got on with his life and FREE.
Keith is the reason women like her can exist in this world. He is a net negative to society and men as a whole. To everybody really. Fumbling, weak men deserve nothing but trouble. He got what he deserved. She is the same but a woman. I would almost say they were made for each other. Complete goofballs that made a mockery of their entire lives.
The things that makes me the most angry in this case is the fact that... by lying and putting on this whole show, Sherri STOLE money and resources that could have been applied searching for ACTUAL victims.
Your first theory is correct. So many people just want to be a victim now, which severely hurts real victims and in many cases ruins a good person’s life.
Keith, no more MR NICE GUY!!!! Period. END OF STORY bud! I know it’s hard bc I use to be the same way, but there is light at the end of the dark tunnel. God bless you and your family 🙏
I know someone like her. She claims that every ex she has was abusing her, but if you look closely they’re each paying one of her bills. Car, phone, groceries, whatever it is. Each has a different one. On top of that she was getting free rent from women in need. Was kicked out for having men over. Once she told me that her current boyfriend at the time was going to kill one of her exes. I hadn’t put it together at the time, but she was straight up setting him up to commit murder. I don’t talk to her anymore because she is so conniving and pulled similar stunts trying to get a few of us fired at work and at the same time trying to convince us to stage a mass walk out. She’s out there.
My ex wife did that too. Went on a jolly with some bloke, then claimed she didn't want to go and he raped her. Made up some BS that he said he would kill me if I went after him or got police involved. I said "he can bloody keep you". I knew she was crying because she was guilty rather than the story she fed me. We were divorced 12 months after. The best bit is she actually thought I'd go back to her. 😂 Seriously delusional and selfish.
@Dehydrated Oddish luckily enough they tend to go through men until they find the most abusive insane felon they can run into and that’s who they stay with for the long haul, when they’re going through it though no single man nearby is safe
Much respect Keith. Hope you’re doing well and looking after those kids, look at it this way, any person like that doesn’t deserve to be a part of a family. She will never change.
@@cocofellas You are creepy. I hope if he ever does meet you he runs fast and far away from you. It's a man on a RUclips video, that you've never even met. This is the 3rd and last time I see your reply. I will just stop reading your comments.
I never knew what was wrong while growing up at home, not until I was in my 30s and living on my own. I thought early on that I was just naturally melancholic or maybe even mildly depressed. I knew narcissism then as just a concept I've read in books but never realized that I lived and raised by one. It's still hard up to this day. I wanted to be a good child, to have a good relationship with my parents but at the same time I knew things are going to be the same if I allow to regain contact. Imagine your mother, telling how ugly (physically) you've become over and over again. That you cause embarrassments to her. And she always do it so covertly. Only when it was just the two of us would she say such things. Around other people, she'd act like the caring proud mother. She'd even go to the extent of (humble)bragging my accomplishments to people but expect she'd shot you down real bad, just wait till it's just the two of you. I remember I was in grade school when I heard her first deeply hurtful comment. That is discounting her usual comments of being a pain in the ass, being useless, etc. It was a weekend and she's just been back from grocery shopping. She was so angry that a mother of my classmate approached and told her that she should feed me better or bring me to a doctor. She blamed me on being so thin and extremely underweight. I was eating healthy as far as I knew but even then I was already suffering from chronic pains and illnesses. Neither her nor my father brought me to a doctor to see what was wrong. Then teen years arrived and acne breakouts came along. Again no help except being told how ugly I've become. When I was in college, I rarely went home except during breaks. I finally felt free being away from home and not being constantly judged. Well for a short while. As a young adult, I was thankful I finally became financially independent and could live on my own. But my mother would constantly find ways to get back to her old routine. She's acute at creating dramas, of guilt-trips, of unloading her toxicity. She'd even sulk when I bring them to vacations like I'm not allowed to be happy. I tried to talk to her about these but she had always ended up crying, of course denied everything, then she won't eat or talk. Then my father would always agree with her. I've always been the bad guy. My sister also thinks I am the spoiled brat in the family and since I've stopped talking to our parents, I'm also the black sheep which I find hurtful. I thought my sister would see my pov better. I am the youngest child but I never really got my ways as a kid. It was always an outright no or just plainly neglected. My sister actually got more help from our parents growing up. And a black sheep? I never brought any problems to the family. It was my sister who brought financial problems actually. And I remember, giving my first annual bonus and savings so my parents could pay off the debt. Occasionally and sadly, my sister acts like my mother . Judgemental, blames everyone but herself, and put more weight on how other people (except me) see her. I'm sorry having to share all of these here. I wish everyone who has lived with a narcissist to find peace in their hearts and head. I want to find my peace too. 💜
Don't be sorry sometimes it's easier to just blurt ya problems out to strangers because it's easier than saying it to those we know.That's awful the way your mother made you feel and can imagine how hurtful it must've been for you,it's sad to hear.You are beautiful and i hope you find your peace one day 💛
You survived…. You moved on and have a life. Never met you but you’re beautiful and part of your purpose was telling this story and helping someone. Even if it’s just one person. Let that be your peace. Find a way to just let your past go. Embrace your new life, friends and every beautiful day you’re alive to see it! You ROCK!!!
OMG reading your comment, well I think we have the same mother. My mother wore a mask in public and was very cruel to me as well as my siblings. I was molested by her older son, my half brother from a previous marriage. He's 14 years older than me. He molested me from the time I was out of diapers and who knows maybe sooner I don't know. Anyway, when I was in kindergarten I went to her and told her about it. She turned to me and said well, he's always been weird. And that was it. On any given day she would scream at me and sing this song that I think was popular in the '70s OR '80s called the b****** back. I was the b**** and I was the troublemaker. She also called my brother a gay pansy because he was shy and fat ass because he was husky. It just went on and on. Never did she ever do this in front of my father. She did however accuse my father of cheating on her. The interesting part is years later I learned it was she that was cheating. I went to her again and told her about my brother. She told me the same thing, he's always been weird but she included this. Don't tell anybody or your father because if your father hears about this we will all be out on the streets. My father made a better than great income. I'm from a well healed family. So I guess I was the sacrificial lamb. I had to put in the work so that my mother would have her happy little life shopping and maids and whatever. But I was the bad guy. This is something I've told myself over and over again and when somebody calls me a b****, it's very difficult for me to cope. I try very hard not to be the bad guy. My parents are both deceased now. However, I put my mother out of my life maybe 18 years before she passed away. Self-preservation. We cannot keep people in our lives that are toxic. Especially those that are really trying to hurt you in like you said covert ways. My mother it was so bitter and horrible. Another random thing about her, I was driving and she was a passenger in my car. We saw a man on the side of the road riding a bicycle. She hissed, why the f*** is he riding a bicycle, he probably f****** stole it. Everybody was horrible in her eyes. Nobody could be out for just a ride on their bike. SMH I remember vividly talking to my therapist about that incident alone and that was another one of the things that made me say I can't have her in my life.
I truly hope you find peace hun and I hope the same for myself. My mother gave me a life sentence along with the Pervert that molested me. ❤️ I hope you know you're not alone and unfortunately we are in the same club.
Real quick, I just subscribed to your channel, hopefully I can encourage you in some way. ❤️ I quit therapy a while ago, not sure if it was a good or bad idea. I've been in depression for a long time and just wish I could climb out of it. I guess I am as damaged as my mother said I was lol I'm kidding when I say that. Actually just have kidding. I really hope you're well. Sorry, I also forgot to mention this. When I put my mother out of my life, I also put my sister out of my life. She was jealous of me! She is so much like my mother it's outrageous. My mother was so proud of her, she was never faithful to any one of her three husbands or any of her boyfriends for that matter. I had to feel so many phone calls from her husband's because she would use me as her excuse for not coming home. I told her countless times, I will not be your excuse to cheat. So that was the reason I had to keep her out of my life as well.
I used to work with Keith at Best Buy and again spent time with him while he was a customer of mine at a local Toyota dealership. I feel bad that this is on the internet. As he is a true victim here. I can’t imagine the emotional torment of it all.
I feel so bad for the husband… I honestly wish the detectives would have been slightly more compassionate - as soft as that may sound… he was in a downward spiral and panicked. Poor guy!
People want that "hero" attention, which is why all kinds of people claim to be "victims" or "oppressed". That's why we have a toxic society of people saying "everyone is sexist against me", and "everyone is rayyyycis", and "there's systemic rayyyycism". Because they'll get treated as a hero by the Dems for their lies.
I’d love to see a interview from her husband about her behavior before during and after meeting her. Like a deep dive into a narcissist woman in a relationship and what he realized about it looking back
Listening to this pampered blonde princess and her over dramatic "crying" was almost unbearable. You can tell she’s been used to getting her way her entire life.
According to the fine book The Sociopath Next Door the best way to tell if somebody is a sociopath is they try to make you feel sorry for them and that's what she lives for. I think she's a sociopathic narcissist
Her whole body must've felt numb, her ears must've flushed, heart pounding, lungs burning, when she realized they got her good. She made up the kind of lie you can't get back from. I hope her husband leaves her and finds someone who's deserving of his trust
The husband backing his chair away from his soon-to-be ex wife and asking to speak to one of the detectives outside the room was a pretty intense moment. So long good bye, just like that.
@@celinesnl5338 She pretended to be hurt & she hurt herself to make it look real. Her husband just found out the TRUTH rt here so he had to step out of the rm so he wouldnt go crazy in the rm. Her family was worried sick that she was kidnapped. U could write in ur language & google will translate. Ur doing well for 2nd lamguage!
@@celinesnl5338 branding is when a hot metal tool is used to burn a mark into something's skin, usually it's used for animals to mark what farm they belong to. The hockey stick was used to hit her in the nose to break it, she pressed the stick to her face and her friend hit it
@@celinesnl5338 She hurt herself completely beyond hurting those who were worried sick about her. She even starved herself& talked her ex into making her look like she was violated.
One thing that has always struck me about Sherry's photos with Keith is that the photos usually center on her and her poses. When couples pose together for photos, the focus is usually on both partners.
She was used to attention about her looks, so being a mom and married was probably very boring to her. The Internet provides a way to cheat on your spouse without meeting someone in person. The ability for her to engage in self harm (broken nose, bruises, branding!) is just amazing. I’ve taught high school for 30 years and I’ve seen all types of behavior. Working with a narcissist is not easy and the interrogators have incredible patience to let her sit there with the fake crying. I find that the perfect looking couple do not end up being in love in the end. I hope her husband and children can go on with their lives.
poor Keith... Although i LOVE when she says "I think we need my lawyer" he looks away at the ground like "we? ppsstt.. Ain't no WE. YOU need YOUR lawyer FOR SURE... and I need MY divorce lawyer. good luck with cha life"
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@@jedross2136 then that shows bias to the idea that she is already guilty before given a chance to prove innocence no matter how little proof there may be
@@SleepyFl0wer They do that in interrogations all the time, they even lie about evidence they don't have. To the point that innocent people sometimes confess to crimes they didn't commit.
The #1 goal (and problem) is to keep the perp talking, any way possible. Snark or sarcasm does nothing for the investigation, the perp will quickly shut down or ask for a lawyer. To get info, cops have to pander to perps by tolerating their theater and fake-consoling them ("you're not really that bad" etc)
I absolutely agree with Keith. I wouldn't want someone who did that shit to me to get into my vehicle or come back to my home. He made a really good point. She's not real stable if she can do all that stuff to herself. It doesn't matter if it was four years ago. It's not like she was signaling a four alarm fire before she disappeared. So clearly she can do unfathomable things right off the cuff. I hope everyone affected by her lies and actions are healing and that life is treating them well. I wish she had been given more than a year and a half.
“Keith’s polygraph was inconclusive.” Don’t forget: she put her own husband in danger by making him a suspect. Even if he didn’t do it, the cops would investigate and possibly charge him if they could make the charges stick.
right? like when they said they asked the ex if they had sex and he said no and wasn't lying i was dumbfounded. if she didn't leave for a 3 week romp with her ex boyfriend without repercussions, WHY did she do it? so strange, also, who agrees to BRAND someone? that ex isn't right in the head either.
@@uribheidi i know 🤦♀️ and the husband seemed soo nice and caring. she clearly had issues but i’m so glad they publicly told everyone that she’s a liar 🤥 🤣
Narcissists are never happy with what they have, no matter how much they have. You could give them the world, and they’d ask for the moon, too. As soon as they get the thing they’re after, they get bored of it and begin their quest for the next thing that interests them. It’s a never ending cycle of greed.
@@Nikki_kat_94 I don't like to point that cause I'm no expert, but my ex had this exact behavior. Every time I was a "challenge" to her she would do everything to me, for an example when we broke up but would keep seeing each other. One day she knew I was hanging out with another girl, she would treat me like the love of her life and a few weeks after she wanted to be my girlfriend again. But whenever we would start a solid and "stable" relationship she would change her behavior in a few months and treat me in a terrible way, ghosting, being sarcastic and all full of herself like if she was Afrodite. The second time she did that to me I was feeling exhausted, emotionally broken, so I moved on from her. And like always she was the one that came after me after some time, but at that point I was strong enough to tell her to get her shit together first and then maybe we could share life again, even if as friends. She is an incredible person, always would cheer for me and tell me how capable and special I am. Just not the right person to have a romantic relationship but I hope she learns and find someone to be happy with.
Read, Frederick Nietzsche (iirc). His works make it clear just how well suited for chaos that we humans are. He posits that in a perfect world/perfect life, the first thing that most of us would do, would be to tear most of it down to rebalance the amount order and chaos in our lives. I could be wrong about the philosopher. Been a while since ive read him. In any case, yeah chick is a narcissist, but i dont believe thats her main problem. I think that shes restless, more than anything. Looks like the ever so always contemporary case of "My marriage isnt like they said itd be in the fairytale books of my early youth. Its alot of work too! Im going to act out and destroy this awesome life that i have bc its not exactly congruent with what the fairytales painted in my youth." This one just happens to be a particularly bad onion.
I cannot begin to imagine the toll taken in his spirit. I really hope he can find someone who is good. He’s probably too terrified to even try. Best wishes to the fella
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Want to hear my theories in the comments section? You sure you want that kind of descriptive language on your channel? lol
You say help like he knew what she was doing. Maybe reword that so it's not implying something it isn't. Which it wasn't. So..... Do that..
She belongs to the Streets
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@@jakeminner6650 right... i can only come to 3 logical conclusions and speculate that the likelihood of truth is in this order...
- Bait for more revenue
- Did not watch the full interrogation and/or currently accessible public records
- Vitriolic
Mate
The narcissists prayer:
That didn't happen.
And if it did, it wasn't that bad.
And if it was, that's not a big deal.
And if it is, that's not my fault.
And if it was, I didn't mean it.
And if I did, *YOU DESERVED IT.*
literally
A-me......
Absolute gold.
To be honest, the first point is something that one might say to a BPD/Narcissist to defend yourself when they try and distort your grasp of reality through lies and manipulation.
*Cough* *cough* our last president
Keith has strong morals. He stuck by his wife believing she was telling the truth..Then got up and left and cut her out of his life when he found out she lied.
He should have just done a flying haduken on her. Soon as he worked out she'd mugged him off so much.
Bullshit. He knew exactly who she is/was...
@@R0YDEME0 ..I truly believe she is a master manipulator and he had no idea whatsoever she planned all this.
@@sarahmurphy8030 ya know you are probably right. And I agree with that more now that I've seen this in its entirety Sarah. Thanks for reply.
@@sarahmurphy8030 there would have been signs. He was probably in denial. Just didn't want to believe it. He probably still loves her and would probably take her back. I've seen the type front row. Chances are probable they would stay together for a long time. Do you know where to find an update on him? Chances are very probable he has moved on as well lol!
The loudest statement in that room is Keith messing with his wedding ring before scooting his chair away from her. It's sad to see the exact moment that someone realizes that their life is a lie and the love of their life is a scheming narcissistic cheat.
Awe I wish this came with a timestamp
9:19
It was something I noticed IMMEDIATELY. Like sirens.
I feel so bad for him. The media branded him a liar, too. However he's just a prime example of a truly-good guy living with a manipulative sociopath.
Remember kids: beauty is everything if you're just trying to get laid. If you're looking for a true relationship: there is FAR more important things than physical beauty.
Anyone reading this has already learned the hard way, or is going to.. but I'm trying to prevent the latter.
I know it's hard to believe that sex with a super-hot super-cute girl can get old.. but it always does.
*Personality and values are EVERYTHING. Looks just have to be good-enough. Most hot people never develop their morals because they never have to. They just have the looks, fake their personality, and have zero morals. A good personality and good morals are the most important thing in life.*
If all you want are hot people that pretend.. buy prostitutes.
My sympathy goes out to her husband but i am glad he is now free. I fully enjoyed this whole video. To watch a narrcisist being unable to use their usual tactics to manipulate situations and people was pure joy
Oh man. The way Keith instantly knew the cops were right… it’s like he could finally say to himself “I guess I’m not crazy after all.” The amount of gaslighting this guy must’ve experienced is unimaginable. Dude is gonna have PTSD and a tenuous trust in reality for the rest of his life.
Once you're out of the contact of gaslighters, it does get better.
@@universeelwezen6685 Yup, I grew up with one and dated too many.
@@universeelwezen6685 Time, just helped, and learning to accept kind people as truly kind. Learning to trust again bit by bit.
Definitely
@@folkloreofbeing that is truth... i was married to one... ended in 2015 and ive never been more at peace...
You can tell that crying and sobbing has gotten her out of tough/uncomfortable situations many times in the past, that’s why it’s her go-to move here.
@Céline Snl Branding, in this case, is taking a piece of metal that has been made to have someone's initials, or a design of some type formed. Then, it is heated to a high temperature, then pressed against her skin to burn the now permanent design onto her.
The hockey stick was used to break her nose.
Fun stuff, huh?
Yea. It's like her throwing a temper tantrum like a child..her balling up and crying like that....seems to work well for her in the past so that ppl would feel bad and leave her alone. F U K I N G B I T C H.
CANNOT STAND HER!
It's called ulting and every woman starts with this ability at level 1.
@@ataridc hers is very low level because it usually works on me at least to a certain degree and hers did not affect me at ALL
@@celinesnl5338 branding you take metal and heat it up and put it on skin. We do it to livestock so you know who owns them. She did it but said the gang did . Cause they owned her now.
The Hockey stick was to break her nose.
So glad you included the conversation with the poor husband afterward. Good to see the guy had balls. This is 4 years after it happened and he supported her the whole time.
I grew up with Keith. Never was a very close friend but always knew him and played baseball with him all the way through little league to college. That was really good to see from him.
@@MsCwebb man I see more and more comments like these every day. It’s crazy being able to hear from people who know the victim or perpetrator(s). So wild what the internet has done in such short time
Please don’t tell me he didn’t have suspicions. He had been with this compulsive liar for about a decade. He’s obviously a good guy but nobody can be that stupid. I think he’d been praying for this day. Surely??
It was the sex that kept him there
Steve Buscemi
My brother is a narcissist. If he repeats the lie often enough then he believes it, then everybody else starts to believe it and then it becomes the truth! How fantastic to see a narcissist confronted by facts and people who won’t be swayed by her repeated lies.
You should talk to him about his troubles in child hood. Kids lie like that to mask a troubling truth or to disassociate from a bad reality they live in.
Yeah! Good way to explain it, my dad is a narcissist and when we absolutely, 100%, catch him in a lie, he sobs and can’t handle the facts.
@@shailonnoelle7175 narcissists will never take the blame. It’s impossible for him to realize he has a problem and impossible for him to change. You have to cut those people out of your life. I’ve been abused by a narcissist my whole life and have learned a lot about them.
@@nikkis7375 yes, they will take the lie to the grave
Your lying
Can you imagine how sick and embarrassed and furious her husband was feeling as this was happening? I would have thrown up if I were in his position.
How he stayed in the interrogation room with her is beyond me.. I would have got up as said arrest her please before I lose my cool. Just wow!!!
08:40 her husband seemed remarkably unconcerned about the things he’s hearing. He even starts to play with his nails 😳 Plus when he said he was concerned because he found hairs in her headphones & thought maybe she’d been grabbed, that sounded quite odd.
You guys should check out the case of Cari Farver
Her boyfriend Dave Kroupa's got manipulated big time!
@@jonlaroche5239 Same. I would have lost my sh!t pretty quickly.
@@sideglance Thanks!!
The fact that the husband didn’t even bother saying a word to her or getting angry…she lost a amazing man! I hope he finds someone better❤
He got back with her.
@@BlueAmerican26 no he didnt? source?
He kept his cool alright, but remember he's in a room with Police
@@Antes42 he divorced her
Yup. This is NOT the way you stage your own kidnapping!
(Just kidding. 😊)
I feel bad for Keith. He seems like a really good guy. Hate all this happened to him.
Her reaction vs Keith… the first thing he speaks to the police about is how to keep the kids safe from her
Me too
Keith had to shift into joke mode in order not to completely break down. That’s a sad state of affairs to be Joker-fied by your wife
Good guy or not, he should advised his wife to shut up and seek counsel.
Regardless of what's happened, in the moment, it still the spouses job to protect their other half.
@@pendejo6466 When the first thing they mention is evidence of her lying and the "captor" being her ex, I don't see how it's his job to protect her at all. And I do not agree that it's the spouses job to protect their other half regardless of what's happened.
I dated a covert narcissist once. This is pretty typical behavior. They all act like this. Evil. Crazy lies. She won't acknowledge that she was caught so she keeps trying to say "I can't believe it was James" trying to implicate him instead of taking responsibility. Narc 101. They live in delusions, and have no bar that's too low for them to go.
Absolutely true.. I also experienced one of these narcissistic psychopaths
And they can produce tears on command
@@chuckd4877 can and often do. Vampires and Sirens
Facts!
I believe Sherri and she is super cute too
I couldn't help but get tickled at how little by little Keith's chair moved backwards distancing himself from her. Finally he left the room. 😅 It says more than words could.
Lmao I was reading this comment and he immediately slid back at 12:45 😂
@@leo8049 😁
Also notice that when he went back into the interrogation room to speak with the detectives alone, he initially sat in her chair and then got up and moved to the other one.
His body language is very very telling in this one. I'm glad he divorced her and got fill custody what she did to him is so selfish.
@@justtry2benice You're absolutely right!
Watching the husband’s physical manifestation of him separating himself from her as he processes what they’re saying is fascinating.
Yes! It was like a reflex, he immediately moved his body away from her!
My favorite part.
The actions of moving away from her were steady and practically continuous. Just fascinating. I wish I could've seen Keith's face when Sherry was obviously looking for his support. His body language said he was pretty much done with her.
I was aware of that also…his instincts finally were validated. As a typical narc, she was probably bored and craved excitement…her poor husband and kids.
She’s obviously acting and doing it really bad
She's so manipulative in this interview. She's used to her crying and helpless girl attitude working
Who would fall for that? But women say they dnt get privileges
@@iamthefuss934 works for men too...either way it's unfortunate to be on the other end of
She cries as a blocking method and to buy time
@@shannonbobby1914 of course a woman would say that. because they know it is a complete lie and no man would use crying as a manipulation tactic, it is not in a man's nature, but IT IS in a woman's nature.
The only real tears from a woman is when she's home crying alone....
Keith seems like such a nice, sweet guy. Hope he and his kids are doing better now and he finds someone who deserves him and makes him happy.
Keith sucks... He's a doormat. His existence allows people like this to proliferate.
Keith you are a decent guy you do not deserve all this. I hope you have found happiness again I believe you deserve it but put your children 1st. .
Did he say eighteen mos?
@@no-mz1ie Yes. After all this she got 18 months and a fine.
This is better divorce court proofs than a private detective. Count your blessings my dude and leave this trick in the dust
He did. Also got full custody.
@@moomama217 nice!! So deserved
What?
@@MaryClareVideos lol ... in "divorce court" this is his proof to get out ... no need for a private detective no need to drag the divorce out. She's psycho
@@moomama217 He sure did. But too late.....
He knew after she came home she was lying. Maybe not the full part of her lies. But he knew she wasn't being 100. He should have trusted his guy and left after a few months.
The poor husband. He’s such a solid dude.
She turned his poor brain into pudding mush 😔
He's weak why do you think she was out banging people like me LOL you know how many chicks I bang cuz their husbands are weak and pathetic like this one LOL and they like to be choked and slapped and treated like garbage hell most of the time they pay for my food and drinks and drive me around and if I need gas I'll hit them up because you know what that's what they're good for.
I completely agree, hope he’s happy now with someone who is truly deserving of his love
@@clare1971 I'm laughing so hard because I bang chicks like this all the time. The dudes just a weak synth a pathetic loser he obviously can't please his wife she's probably embarrassed by him probably couldn't even beat someone up if they were trying to hurt her anyway that's why she did this. So funny how pathetic you people are this happens every day guarantee you when you're pathetic and weak is this dude your chick's definitely out there sucking and f****** any dude she can to have a good time and she's probably using his money to do it I date married chicks all the time why I wouldn't say date but you know what I mean and like I said I make them pay for everything and they're usually using their husband's credit cards and s*** and it's awesome I've even gotten cars and stuff off of it.
Ikr
Prediction: a year into her sentence, she'll keep repeating to her cellmate: "This doesn't make any sense!"
🤣🤣😂😂
😆🤣😆🤣😆🤣😂
😂😂😂
3 years in:
“James! It CAN’T be James!!”
😂😂😂😂😂
The husband was concerned about the children, and the detective said “…It’s been 4 years since” ……And? And? So what? The husband is right to be afraid, if she went to those lengths just to “visit” an ex boyfriend and not let a soul know that secret. You really think for a second she won’t do something MORE drastic? Now that she is exposed? I hope the husband can heal from this! Because he has been through ALOT 😢
Yeah, they straight up looked at the ball, and was like "oh I was supposed to catch that?"
They offered no help. They are a little narcissistic themselves.
If it were a woman, she'd get full support, instant restraining orders and protection meanwhile men are told to man up and deal with it. Sad.
I think what they meant was that in the eye of divorce court it might not hold up. They didn't want to give him any hopes as to what could happen, mostly because legally they can't give legal advice but also divorce court is a whole separate game where, unfortunately, sexism exists sometimes. But I mostly think it's because it's really not their job to tell people what to do legally, especially when they're at work being recorded.
Except learning that some people are awful, habitual liars, which isn’t a bad lesson, there isn’t much for the husband to learn. He acted decently throughout.
And I also don’t think the detective should have said that it’s been 4 years (as that doesn’t matter) but I think he was saying it to the fact that the husband was reluctant to have her near the kids, and that the detective was saying she had been with the kids for 4 years.
But I agree with the husband in being concerned, and she has shown she will hurt the kids if she needs to…in order to get what she wants.
The second he scooted the chair back to leave her on guilty island all by herself was subtle but so respectable. Feel bad for him, glad he walked out of this with full custody and is able to move on from this.
Yes, it was at 12:43, Detective said when James branded you on your shoulder, her husband half stood up to scoot his chair back and she even half stood up. As if he's going to hug her or whatever. Then she sat back down. That is one of my favorite parts of this interview! She needs to have her balloon popped.
@@ritawashere5787 Branded meaning? branded with a knife or tattoo?
@@creamerasant i would assume branded like they brand animals. with a hot metal pole? i’m not sure tho
@@creamerasant Branded with semen
@@creamerasant With a branding iron.
One pattern I've learned about the narcissists I've known: Always the hero or the victim; never the villain. This one seems to have taken the role of victim to another level.
While in reality always the villain mastermind
In rare cases, the narcissist will intentionally choose the role of the villain, "so long as they are confident that they will have admirers" or even more rarely can become so off the deep end that they become completely vindictive.
I know just like personally, still has no grip on reality or life.
Ever noticed how it is always the "heroes" who win wars?
@Colonthree Enterprises I think that may be less about narcissism, more about an ongoing narrative. And yet there's still some overlap. Interesting observation.
There is an award winning novel called Gone Girl by Gillian Flynn about a wife staging her abduction (also a film made on that novel). So I think she probably read the novel and was fascinated by the attention and heroism that wife received in the story, and how the whole community gathered to look for her and to help her an so on.
Great novel, by the way.
You can't handle the truth! You are the person who trolls everyone on Facebook! I told you that I would find out the reason why you said that you were going on holiday and I have not heard anything back from you
When I first heard this story my immediate thought was "This is Gone Girl. She pulled a real life Amy Dunne." This is how I wish the book had ended. The movie is a pretty close adaption too.
She most likely watched the movie that came out 2 years before this happened.
My first thought while watching this was "gone girl"
I never saw that movie. And now it’s ruined
This poor man - thanks for covering the case. It appears Keith has custody of the children now, I can only hope he recovers and the family can support eachother.
What are the odds d she wont comeback knocking at the door anytime soon?
I hope Keith finds someone who appreciates what a solid, caring man he is. I remember watching interviews with him being so torn up. He was truly heartbroken over what she went through. I hope he gets to experience a relationship with someone who is not a narcissist. It will be life changing.
@@johnjr7070 wat?
He’d be doing way the hell better if he met me. ❤
@@cocofellas Why are you so after him? This is the second comment you've left on this channel. Kinda creepy
Keith has some AMAZING anger management skills 😮 I would have been FREAKING out if I was sitting in there and my spouse got caught lying about their abduction. Wow.
08:40 her husband is remarkably unconcerned about the things he’s hearing though. He even starts to play with his nails 😳 Plus when he said he was concerned because he found hairs in her headphones & thought maybe she’d been grabbed, that sounded quite oddly specific. I don’t think he’s as blindsided as we think
Wow who does something like that!!!!!!!
Maybe he’s hiding something.
@@allisonjames2923 You should be a body language expert that is so spot on. Not SMH you have no idea how he reacts to hearing something like that he’s literally picking at his nails somethings people do when they have anxiety. So again what do you think he knew about lol detective Allison?
@@gotlandia1588 nah.
Very rarely does a narcissist get caught in their lies this is gold!
Agree, I couldn't help but enjoy it for this reason
Reminds me of the ridiculous lie my ex wife told me after she was confronted by her lover’s wife who told her she was going to tell me about it. She did come to my home to tell me the truth and my ex said “Here he is tell him whatever you want “. The second she started speaking my ex started screaming over her and the friend she brought along and tried to physically attack them. I restrained my ex so she wouldn’t be arrested for assault, in hindsight I should have let her go. The next day her lover came to my house at her behest to try to convince me his wife was just insanely jealous and always accusing him of being unfaithful. I found out where his wife worked and spoke to her. She was much more convincing than our narcissistic partners. She lost the control she had over me after this and it drove her insane. I didn’t know what narcissism was back then, I just thought she was crazy. These kind of people are toxic black holes with no guilt or remorse for their actions. She had another man living with her and our two kids in my house two months after we split up and they eventually married but she was incapable of happiness and destroyed herself with drugs and alcohol. She died five years after we split at the age of 42.
Holy smokes! You know stories like this make me glad my life is pretty dull :) Hope you are doing ok.
@@dextercool Thanks Bro. I’m doing good now. My ex wife was a overt narcissist who openly admitted she wanted to control me and our kids but a few years later I became engaged to a covert narcissist, it’s a kinder, gentler form of control but their end game is the same. They want to destroy you mentally.
I actually think the covert did more damage because I believed she loved me. I knew my wife didn’t love me so that break up was easier to accept.
I was raised by narcissistic parents which programmed me to accept being treated badly. I’ve learned a great deal about narcissism and myself and will never fall for one of these demons again.
The worst curse to put on someone:
"May you live in interesting times."
@@mikehoncho35 yep. I was raised by narc parents. they are demons, not people
Ah a happy ending
Anyone who has been around drama addicted ex-high school popular girls recognizes this exact behavior, right down to the high pitched whiny denial. They love drama and attention and always cause havoc to anyone who has the misfortune of being in the same social circle. When the dumb bishes inevitably get caught in their lies, their default is to act like victimized innocent little girls who didn't know what to do.
Ha ..ha...dumb bishes..🤣
Well said. Exact 💯
Yep, truly the little pond in High School was their ’prime time in life’ but they can’t cope in the big seas.
Bang on.
You described one of my ex
What’s so unbelievable is that Keith stood behind her for years. He defended her, helped her, protected her. And to save her own ass, she was willing to throw him under the bus with claims of abuse. She didn’t deserve him 😡
that's when you see that narcissists like this don't really love anyone. they only "love" you as long as you are of use, and when you're not, you are thrown away just like everyone else. your well-being doesn't matter in the least when it comes right down to it.
@@florencehenderson3707 Yup. A lot of people want to believe that the narcissist loved them in some way. Nope, they only loved using you. You were convenient and that truth hurts deeply.
Basic standard woman behavior. Nothing to be shoked about.
What an unbelievably dimwitted little
He did the right thing, and left. that's all you can do, social isolation they use manipulation to get you back into the same routine of enabling their behaviors when you confront them, you just need to get away from that person and get them out of your life
The most annoying part of her interrogation is she gets higher and louder pitch whenever they start getting closer to the truth of what happened, like she's trying to drown them out. I think she should have gotten longer in prison.
That's narcissism.
20
Straight
Years
she tries to make herself really tiny too
I agree. There's a point at which I say that someone who has a mental or personality disorder has behaviors that are pitiable but not excusable. With personality disorders it often takes faaaaaar longer than 18 months of being at rock bottom or denied a supply of attention to finally convince them that they need hard core, ongoing therapy.
The way they treated the husband through this whole ordeal is shameful.
He was a viable suspect, the wife had been telling her friends he was abusing her so the cops had to be careful not to dismiss that right away
They never did anything to him besides interrogating him. I've never seen an interrogator treat anyone nicer unless it was a kid
Totally agree, down to her repeating the “I love my husband” when asked if he was abusive.
She wanted that to be read as “yes, but I won’t say because I am afraid and love him”…..where a decent person would say “no, never…and my actions had nothing to do with him.”
I feel for the dude, he seemed like a genuinely good dude, I hope things work out for him
He has a sickness himself. He's attracted to women like this and that never goes away. With that said I hope he is the one in a billion exception and turns his life around.
@@MsCwebb Wow victim blaming
@@meepmop9662 Love it!!! 🤩
@@MsCwebbthanks for the diagnosis doc. Definitely not a chance she’s a dedicated manipulator and he’s just a naive good hearted guy.
@@brandonabbott6225 guuuuuurl!!! U sassy 🤩
Update: she was sentenced to 18 months in prison by a Judge, above the sentencing guidelines and above what the prosecution was asking for and well above the house arrest that the defense attorneys asked for.
She deserves more. She should be doing 10 years at a minimum. The amount of money, manpower and resources chasing a ghost is insane. While they were playing her little game, they could have been catching rapists, murderers, etc.
@@southernfried19 this. But i think that they wanted to not set an examole out of her due to her having kids. But I do agree that she should have received 5 years and a $100,000 fine AT LEAST.
@@southernfried19 10 years smh lol
@@southernfried19 You wanna talk about cost? Do you know how much it would cost to jail her for 10 years for a crime that only (physically) hurt her
Good, but not nearly enough. Her husband...that poor man has to raise their children. And see her for the rest of his freaking life. He's the one with the life sentence. She should get it.
She wanted attention and sympathy more than anything. In her mind this would make everyone appreciate her and treat her like she's special. It would make her husband never take her for granted. It would make everyone scared to lose her. The attention from the community, and any fame and fortune from it, is a bonus. There's no downside to her, this was a win-win situation.
Narcs want to be special above all else, and they don't give a shit what anyone else feels outside of how it affects themselves.
DONT STOP TILL UR PROUD but this is nothing to be proud of! Role model for ur children which makes this even more sick. Her husband & children whom she was supposed to LOVE not HURT! She hurt all the time of LE that couldve spent searching for real missing women!💜🙏💜✌️
Oh yeah she probably enjoys even the negative attention she is getting with a mind like that and you can tell she is used to turning on the water works and everything is alright, mummy and daddy probably made it all better because she is their special little Sherri who can do no wrong. Can't help think of Gone Girl.
Positive Negative attention
Makes 0 difference to a narc
Amen! Narcs that are psychopaths are pure evil and drain their victim drier than a vampyre!
If I was her husband I would have been scrolling on my phones for a divorce lawyer during the interogation. The one thing about narcs is that they ALWAYS play the victim. They second thing is they NEVER change. As Rhett Butler said, "Frankly my dear, I don't give a damn."
I love how despite everything she did he now needs to tip toe & do backflips to protect himself & his kids. YET if they had a domestic where she “felt unsafe” he would be removed from his house.
So true
The Gone Girl Sherri Papini is always fascinating. I don't think I've ever seen the interrogation so I am glad there is something new.
Fascinating? It’s disgusting that humans like her exist
I think there is a longer version on Explore With Us. Or maybe it's the same but just different commentary.
Drip drop has the entire video also
I think Keith knew deep down that she was lying all along but didn’t quite know what to believe. He was calm because he had lots of scenarios in his head and this didn’t shock him. He has been living with her for years. He seems smart enough to know who she is.
narcissists are amazing manipulators, he probably did have some suspicion but she likely gaslighted it out of him and whatnot
@@sicariusflamus3033 plus Keith is 💯 fully on, hardcore beta. She KNEW she could treat him like that because of his betaness. Awful women and hopefully realises it's OK to have standards and respect himself a bit more now.
@@EFFEZE she chose him because he was so easy to manipulated, i hope this hardened his heart
@@EFFEZE jeeesus dude. Keith is going through enough and you call him a "beta"?? yikes...
@@sicariusflamus3033 bingo! Gaslight is the perfect word for this. Glad he’s free now.
Both your suspicions are spot on. She either wanted to escape reality or ditch mom life, however, the starvation and self harm is clearly some Jussie Smollett ish.
💯.
İs that an "either or" grammatical sentence construction? Or just an either question?
@@garrysekelli6776 either or. But the “or” wouldn’t make sense how I constructed the sentence.
She either wanted to ditch mom life or act like a victim like Mr. Smollett 🤣 idk.
*my English isn’t A1 but I hope you get it
That second sentence made my brain short circuit
@@Frewition my bad 🌝🫣
Keith’s chair was almost on their side at the end 🤣🤣
I was living in Redding and going to the community college there at the time this happened. I went to a city council meeting a couple days after she went missing and her husband took the stand there, holding their son and sobbing, he begged for her captors to release her and said how much he loved her and wanted her to come home, mentioning also that their kids needed her before he sat back down because he couldn’t talk anymore he was so upset.
Really really sad.
A few months before this at the college a student was walking to her car after a night class and was ACTUALLY almost abducted.
It scared the hell out of everyone at the college and in the local area, especially young women. We all thought that people were going around kidnapping blonde girls. Night class students were walked to their cars by security and the campus was really pressing about reporting anyone strange.
When she showed back up we all knew it was a scam. Pretty much all of Redding would talk about how she was a liar and a cheater. Years before her ex came forward the whole city was already assuming she had run off with some guy but had to come back because her family wasn’t giving up the search. The local facebook pages were full of Sherri Papini memes.
My guess is that she wanted to take advantage of this sadly not unheard of thing that happens in Redding and use it as an excuse to run off with her ex and get away from her family for a bit without them thinking she was a deadbeat.
Gross and sad. I’ll always feel bad for her husband. I’m assuming that after she came back he had put a few things together, but at that city council meeting he was obviously a very distraught and depressed man. I hope she enjoys jail.
Wait.....how come it was clear when she came back that she was a liar? She had a broken nose and a burned brand...what did you hear in those early days that was suspicious?
@@donperegrine922 the fact that she came back in and of itself was weird unfortunately. Everyone thought it was kid of crazy they would just let her go on the side of the road randomly. Also at the time the sheriffs office and police wouldn’t release anything about her condition. We didn’t know anything about any of her injuries. Basically it was “Sherri Papini found and safe”. And then like 2 days later they said she had gone home with her family. So we all thought, why would they let her go? Who took her? Is she mentally or physically injured? No one knew any details, it just seemed to make more sense that she was suspicious
@@staliaoftheknife9623 Oh wow! Absolutely wild situation for you to be near! What a crazy person. I couldn't break my own nose, if it meant my worst enemy died.....to do so just to break up with your lovely boyfri
end!?!?! insanity.
Wow she really affected the community and put you all through an ordeal.
There's another woman who went missing around the same time who was totally overshadowed by this case, too. Her disappearance is still unsolved.
That poor dude...I can't even imagine the anger and pure frustration he felt
Wow I can imagine what that husband was feeling. He was so quiet. His thoughts must have been racing. Idk how he sat there so long
He prolly knew something was fishy. She has probably pulled something like this before on a smaller scale.
@user-bx2ff4mv2m "Smaller" = "Un- provable to himself" probably. He has juuuust enough inclinations and evidence to piece it together but just enough to doubt at the same time. I'm living this.
This poor man was married to a sociopathic borderline personality and had no idea of it until this interview. I feel so bad for him and can say from experience that being lied about will make you feel like YOU are the crazy one. I’m glad he was able to get rid of this human leach and move on with his life.
It's like voting for the left and then finding out who they really are.
There's no such a thing as sociopathic borderline personality
He knew he just fell in Love and thought he could fix it!
There sure is
Play Misty for Me and Fatal Attraction were Borderline Personality Disorders
You do such a wonderful job with your channel, I missed JCS for a long time till you came with your very well done vids! Keep the good work and thank you 🥰
I miss jcs too.
This girl saw “Gone Girl”, and said “Hold my white claw!”
Perfect comment 😂😂.
Worst joke ever pffhhhh
@@ItsKittenn dumb comment... There I fixed it for you lol
I think it’s hilarious 🤣🤣🤣🤣
You win the comment section with this one!! Don't let haters spoil the laughter. That was pure gold!! 🤣🤣🤣
"No I can't believe James would do something like that"
"We have the evidence that you corroborated with James to fake this kid napping"
"James would never kidnap me"
"Ya he didn't it was fake and we have the proof"
Lmao wtf am I watching
Typical narcissistic. Play with words to a point where you start to wonder what's real and what fiction is.
Textbook gaslighting
LOL! 🤣 Me too, bud! I was in the same place!
"I can't believe James would do something like that!"
"We have the evidence that you corroborated with James to fake your own kidnapping."
"James would never kidnap me!"
"No, he didn't. YOU did. And we have the Proof. YOU'RE the guilty one, here..!"
"James would never hurt me! Why would James lie to me?!"
"Jist!...Forget that we even mentioned James! It was YOO! YOO, YOO, YOO!!"
"...James just isn't that type of person...!"
The cops acted like dicks to the husband at the end. He just found out the mother of his children is a lunatic and the cops are cold and dismissive to his concerns.
@LichenSand I saw a bunch of people bring this up in the comments
Kid gloves with her, cold scorn for him.
It’s the way the world works, better start acting accordingly.
@LichenSand YES !!! What you said is exactly what it is!! “ same people just on a different side of the room” ! A lot of police are “crooked” so it’s crazy to me they sit in a room and lie to people to try to get them to “ tell the truth” innocent or not… smh.
Because husband was IN ON IT! And the cops know it. They just can’t get him yet. Or maybe they want to leave one parent for the kids.
Investigators have to have procedures to follow. Was still a possibility that the husband was in on it. They offered what they could. It's not like the case had gone before a jury already. I appreciate they could have shown a little more feeling, but please, they are cops, not kindergarten teachers. It's okay to be clean and have boundaries. They couldn't tell the husband what the wife said/etc. Nor can they advise him what to do.
What a crazy chik. What on earth. At least no one got physically hurt, or worse.
Well she did, but on purpose??? Yeah, crazy. Leaves me really curious as to why. I don't really think it's narcissism because narcissists don't usually hurt themselves, but something is definitely wrong with her, and with the ex boyfriend who said oh sure, I'll break your nose and burn letters into your shoulder...???
I’ve known 2 people just like her. Couldn’t get away quick enough. Very toxic and dangerous
You said it 💯
Omg I remember watching this story on 48 hours- I knew something was off but couldn’t put my finger on it. I can’t believe she set up the whole thing!! What a waste of everyone’s time and resources. So crazyyy
I thought the same thing when they found her. I said she probably was with her boyfriend. But she just kept lying about some woman let her go. I knew something wasn’t right. But now I know. This lady is crazy and brand herself, and had her nose broken too, that’s really crazy. I bet that boyfriend got tired of this nut and told her she had to go, or she miss her kids. But still in all she is still crazy.
This happened in my hometown around thanksgiving and there was a huge media frenzy around finding her and her husband pleading for her safe return while people thought he was involved! She let that search go through Christmas so during the holiday season this woman had people out in the cold looking for her when she knew damn well she is fine and safe. Disgusting!! She’s one of those horrible people to falsely accuse others.
Not only going out in the cold to search for her but she ruined peoples Christmas . How could anyone celebrate the holiday thinking she was laying somewhere dead . Awful woman.
@@operacarmen ew nigga get a grip. Just because you like a face doesn't make you obligated to enter and fuck up someone else's life with your CLEAR poor decision making
The (debunked) 1st psychopath theory:
A psychopath was born. This was not normal and did not seem healthy. But it was a member of the group. People began to emulate this thing, mistaking its weakness for strength. Eventually a culture began and it spread across the world.
Now we know about the MOA gene but this theory always seemed close to the true, though still wrong of course, to me.
She was “found” on thanksgiving day though… what would Christmas have to do with this?
That's cold bro for what tho😮
Lining the husband up as an abuser, disgusting
Agree…Sherri knew exactly what she was insinuating when she just repeated “I love my husband” when asked if he was abusive. (And her husband clearly wasn’t, and seems like a very decent guy).
Ive had the misfortune of dealing with a narc in the family. I can confirm, no matter how obvious it is that they have done wrong, they will never ever admit to it.
Body language of the husband is far more interesting and tragic than any others.
I just can’t understand doing that to your child and husband. Absolutely mental. To put them through that. And to be away from your child for 22 days and to make up that you held onto a blanket and rocked it every night like as if it were your child because you missed them so much. Absolutely disgusting
We need a psychological analysis here. What would drive someone to fake their own capture??? This is really bizarre.
I had an ex who was very much like this. Not to the extent of faking a kidnapping but would slap herself until her cheeks were red and then claim I hit her so I would go to jail and she would hit the bars and hook up with whoever she could. She was a very attractive woman so it worked for her for a while. Eventually one observant cop caught on and arrested her for filing a false report. During this period my life became a total hell and literally drove me to panic attacks and depression. I'm a very docile person who was raised to never hit a woman. Thank God I was eventually proven innocent but the damage she did lives on to this day. My son is 29 and hasn't spoken to his mother since he was 16. She lives only a few miles from him. I still encourage him to reach out to his mother but he wants absolutely nothing to do with her. I can tell it has a very negative effect on him. People if you get a divorce and there are children involved please don't use the kids as pawns in your battle. It WILL come back to haunt you. Never bad mouth your ex to your kids. It hurts them more than you'll ever know.
I'm scared that I'm running into a troubled person atm. There are some red flags, but I don't have a spark with females too often.
@@freddyfox5002 Not worth your time bro, dating a chick with multiple red flags is like driving through a red light, neither scenario is worth the inevitable crash and burn
I’m sorry for you and your son, glad you don’t have the stress of dealing with your witch of an ex anymore
@@freddyfox5002 It can only end bad. Save yourself before you get in too deep.
Narcisist behavior is so dangerous because they don't have feelings and people are just tools to exploit: no shame, no remorse, no mercy...they are sick self centered ..an endless manipulation
Her husband walked because as soon as he heard the penny dropped. Respect to him.
Proves what a class act he is! Has a dagger in his heart! Ouch💜🙏💜😳
Check google they are still together hahah
@@lloydchristmas1086 no
@@lloydchristmas1086 this is straight cap
Felt and feel awful for the husband and the kids of course. He seems very naive or at least seemed very naive.. would be curious to hear more about their relationship..
She turned his poor brain into pudding mush 😔
Why in the world would she do this to her kids and fine husband? What a fool.
She is very attractive and small. Men do have a need to protect, I'm guessing that instinct kicked in when he saw her hurt and just believed everything.
The husband is probably Trauma Bonded....research it....its horrible
@@margaretyork3548 research narcissist and Trauma Bond
These people have no bounds to their emotional, mental and physical abuse and have no empathy or remourse. Only thing they ever regret is getting caught
The biggest thing she lost was keith, what a good husband... dude was really trying to like solve this like thing that happened to his wife, and she was lying about like literally everything. She'll never find a good guy like Keith ever again, and keith hopefully got off easy, she is so crazy i could see her cutting him up or something else insane one day in the future if she is feeling a bit off..😳😳
I don’t think she wanted to be with her ex. I mean they didn’t even have sex according to the polygraph, honestly it makes sense she wanted fame
Obviously feel bad for Keith. Idk if the investigators at that point thought that he could still be involved, but they didn’t seem very empathetic to his situation once he was talking to them alone. He’s like “what can I do now that my life is ruined?” and they’re like “idk bro, get a restraining order or something”.
It was clear it was looking for some psychological reassurance. Like even ‘a yeah dude that’s fucked up you are handling this well’
They were very cold to him and just wanted to leave that room.
Because in the end result its an ego thing and their job. They dint give a rats arse about the truth. That's why they defend corrupt cops. Pull you over illegally and justify anything afterwards..they got her. They don't care about him or his mind or the children. Cops like most of us are self centered tired and selfish but they get bigger ego and overpaid for it. Detectives are just a little better than Judges but judges are slaves to the State's agenda
@@jordan6276 ofcourse they wanted him to leave since clearly they wouldn't be able to get much out of her with him in the room
For real he's like "She's obviously guilty as shit for this and I don't want her around my kids, what can I do?" and their response is pretty much "sucks to be you dude but helping you protect your children does nothing for our investigation so you're shit out of luck"
Swap gender roles and the woman would be directed to all kinds of resources, referrals, and information.
My old principal said a quote that will always be stuck in my head.
"Little acorns grow into big oaks"
Whenever the topic of lying was brought up he would argue his idea on this quote that even a little lie will grow to the point where it becomes harder to lie so tell the truth
Ace Attorney series is this in action. Exposing the small lies and inconsistencies forces the criminal to create even more ridiculous lies to stick to their story. Their story eventually blows apart.
I think you meant easier to lie.
9:22 There’s something so satisfying about seeing the husband do that motion. You just know when someone’s trying to practice self restraint when they do that.
I've been with a sociopathic narcissist. (shudder) Leave, do the best you can for your children and don't look back my friend. Things will get better.
Glad you got out 😊 Bless your soul 🙏🏽
@@jessicajamesspeaks Thank you so much.... it hasn't been easy.....she slept with my older brother for 4 years......
I believe in God, indeed I do, and I know my faith has been growing a lot.
I know only I can solve this problem, and I dont want to have my vision blurry... Soo I decided to have 2 weeks break from they bough.
I'll put things this way, the first girl, I have been with her for 5 years, almost 6. She has vallues, a father figure, and catholic, always ready to help others. But I guess I started losing my interess in her because I was second guessing if she was/is the girl for me. Yes, she is consistent, she helps, and have only slept with me. But there is another side, were I got really disturbed. She has some ego problems -like the truth/logic is on her face, in a clear way, and she is soo proud... Keeps denying... She has entitlement issues... And the thing its a great issue, is the lack of critical thinking... I dont know I feel that I cherish her, I like her, but I dont know... her parents have spoiled her very much, Im not sure if even I like her, and we have a strong bond, if she has the capacities for a marriage, in terms of living a real life... Sometimes she gets hostile, and say passive agressive things to try to hurt me... soft.. But Its not nice...I am afraid that her ego issues, a litle entitulement, a bit lack of understanding others point of views, and her "princess" lifestyle may be a problem in the future. Sometimes I feel like its acting, or not 100% deep.. And the fact we sin easylly, And that is my fault too..
I mean, you must know how to clean, raise children, be smart, and feel faith
We also have sexual sined for a lot of years.. And This is on me, but I cant or have extreme dificulties "controling my lust around" her
Its a "At least we are in a relationship", "When we get marry it will stop be a sin" mentality
I mean she is catholic but I dont know how to say, but sometimes I feel like she lacks some intelectual and deepness in some ways...
But for real, she has values, understands (or makes me believe) that sex is not for any person, she cherish her intimacy, but its superficial in some ways... It the past she had showed some issues I trully didnt like, Ego problems, superficiality, some arrogance, two faces when we were with her family or friends... Sometimes I fear that I may have created a bound with a girl I should not
And I gave her time because of that, but, even she is not super hot, she only slept with me, shes caring in her way, and has strong values... But somethings she doesnt have personal opinion? I feel like its missing critical thinking, and empathy in some ways... But she is resilient, and consistent, and dont let go easy.
The second girl, I have met her while working. To be honest, I was tired of my ex girlfriend ego issues, that lead to strong fights, for stupid things..
And I swear that I have tried to stop looking at this other girl, trying to stop conecting to her... But as things went wrong my ex girlfriend, things were going fine with this other girl
I respected the fact that she was working, she liked psycology, she was simple, always ready to help, sweet and nice in many ways.
I tried not to, but indeed she melted my heart in some ways.
Than, I found out she smoked weed, drinked badly, believed in astrology, piercings... welll, I did not judge her, because I have been there too... I had my past where I smoked, and grown a lot of weed, and got drunk sometimes, I had my past were I could not sense God. And was suposelly and atheist... But thanks to God I found my way out. And I wanted the best for her. Recue her in some ways. Some things were smart, intelectual, easy going. Others I was a little bit riscky and imprudent. For example, I was not even smoking, but I did one thing for her. I would smoke with her, if she promissed that we would not smoke for a week.Then I would smoke with her, then we do not smoke for two weeks... Then we dont smoke for a month... Then two months... Then 4 months... And now? We dont even want to smoke. And we had the chance, we just putted that asside and pray. Thanks God.
I feel like, with the help of God, and its mainly God, I dived in the ocean of her problems. Of her issues...
I gave her flowers, on the first day by surprise, when she showed me her face for the first time with no piercings. For showing her that the way God naturally made her is the most beautifull.... I made her understand that astrology is deceiving, and dangerous, and that makes more sense to love and be guided by the creator of the stars, that be guided by the stars themselves.
In the beggining, I was craving my sexual sins and so did she, we slept togetter, had lots of sex. THAT IS A PROBLEM. The only thing I regret. But then we got above that sin. For my surprise we did. I cherish our intelectual, loving, funny godly talks. She doesnt fit with the world either.
Now she does not smoke, nothing, not even tobaco. Not getting drunk.. She is studying. She is following God. Goes to the church and prays. She stopped sleeping around and seems to have better bondaries. Understands sexuality.. No piercings... And I love to see her happy, healty, with a future.
She quited her social midia, and Im gona be honest, I trully wish her the best.
We are similar, I could say I love her in some ways. She is very smart, inteligent, nice to people, empath most of the times expecially with kids and the ones in need. I feel like she feels things in a deeper way. And I am not joking. I feel very very bad for her, because its not her fault her father is not in her life, and that she has a extreme selfish narcissitic manipulative mother, who even though ther spiritisms...
Its not her fault that she ended up in the world getting used by guys, and having fisical, emotional and spiritual damages... Trying to fulffil her heart with lust, pleasure, bad companies, psychedelic trips...
And I have been there too so I trully wanted to help her... I feel that she is similar to me... And we have a" push to the right way efect" on each other. Even sexually and that amazes me. Sometimes i feel I grow in faith with her, we even pray the rozary.
But for real, I also feel I cant ignore the signs.
-50/70 minimum people she has had sex with before at 22years old
Huge mother issues
-Not a father figure
-Having lots of guy "friends"
-porn
-Drugs
-alcool
-Emotional instability, mood swings
-tantrums, and Anger issues. Trully anger issues
-Self harm, she cutted her self in the past, beated herself
-Avoiding responsability
-Sometimes, unespectes selfishness, she has some issues understanding other points of view
Im not dumb. I cant spot all the Red flags.
I can realise that I may be blind to the truth. And probably even I find her
-inteligente
-smart
-deep talk
-understanding
-helper, knows how to clean, and economically responsable
-likes to read
I mean I like her very very much... But I feel like she may be to broken.. She may not trully pair bond... Psychological damages... Traumas... I dont want my kids to know her mother had sex with multiple partners, sometimes at the same time...
She is similar to me, I dont judge her, I dont make her feel bad, but I cant ignore she had 50/70 minimum guys with her, and the damage that that type of promiscuity makes...
Most of all, I am afraid that she is a temptation between me and my ex girl? She still loves me, but I know she is getting tired too...
And she may not be that smart, that inteligent, and have problems but at least I never question her love, and I know she only had sex and trully bounded with me.
I wonder what Jesus would tell me...
"You are right, the first girl is materialistic, and those ego problems are gona ruin you, in the future, she needs to seek god and put in practice genuilly. You were young and rushed in sex and its a bound you should break. And keep with the ex sinner girl because now she is redeimed, she is new and the bond of love will be stronger. The ex sinner girl makes you grow with her more than the other you know that"
"Keep the first girl, who trully loves you , and always have been there for you, love her, start chasity values, lead in a example of god, do the right thing for her, dont follow tempation, you are blinded by love and you have lust the sinner girl, watchout for not loosing the love of your life. Dont be fooled, even if she seem to have changed be prudent and love the one who was here before"
"Leave them both, not good for you"
"Leave them both, regret your sins, you dont deserve neither one of them."
Sometimes I feel more like the last one... Because I was divided in my feelings and that is messed up
I dont want my insecurities to make me believe she is dommed because of her past. That is not what Jesus would do. If I dont forgive others, how will he forgive me? I also grow and feel way saint around her.
I dont want to keep a bond that may not be trully good for me, of my ex girlfriend. What does it matter if shes only slept with me, but follows the world and God in practice is not the first priority? Material world
I dont want to be decceived and ignore the fact that this girl is too damaged, broken, god forgives but will she sin again? We all do fall, with all those serious issues i know its almost 100% sure Im gona get hurt.
I dont want to have messed up my pair bonding with my ex, and ahe really is the love of my life
I dont know what to do. I want to follow Gods will. God knows its true. I may sin, I may not be perfect, but i seek him and ask for forgiveness. I want to submit to God fully. I wish and trully think that may be one of these girls. And I am soo afraid of not understanding the signs, or interpret bad, or even that even God loves me Im a sinner not in grace and he wont show me the signs...
But I think its more about I understanding them
Of these girls, I would like to marry the one God trully has for me.
I dont know what to do...
Thanks for your time. God may bless you, greeting from Portugal
Feel sooo SORRY for the husband, I was married to an narcissist for 28yrs they stop at NOTHING, their whole life is one big LIE. Hope the husband got on with his life and FREE.
I had a girl friend like that for 7 years. Like you’ve said….
28 years holy fuck!
Yeah and what kind of dude is the James fucker to go along with her, branding her, helping her break her nose.....she must have a killer fuck bag
21 years for me Susan. You are 100% correct.
Now you a victwm
I feel for her husband Keith. He was under her spell the whole time. He deserves a good woman, not her.
Keith is the reason women like her can exist in this world. He is a net negative to society and men as a whole. To everybody really. Fumbling, weak men deserve nothing but trouble. He got what he deserved. She is the same but a woman. I would almost say they were made for each other. Complete goofballs that made a mockery of their entire lives.
Just think for a minute about the term 'controlling relationship '
Dudes a simp they are still married and living together. 🤦♂️
She even tried to blame James. What a piece of work. Typical Karen
I’m from this town and everyone was scared to be outside alone when this happened.. her poor husband and kids.
The things that makes me the most angry in this case is the fact that... by lying and putting on this whole show, Sherri STOLE money and resources that could have been applied searching for ACTUAL victims.
300k in restitution she owes, so she'll be broke forever after she gets outta prison.
Your first theory is correct. So many people just want to be a victim now, which severely hurts real victims and in many cases ruins a good person’s life.
Keith, no more MR NICE GUY!!!! Period. END OF STORY bud! I know it’s hard bc I use to be the same way, but there is light at the end of the dark tunnel. God bless you and your family 🙏
I know someone like her. She claims that every ex she has was abusing her, but if you look closely they’re each paying one of her bills. Car, phone, groceries, whatever it is. Each has a different one. On top of that she was getting free rent from women in need. Was kicked out for having men over. Once she told me that her current boyfriend at the time was going to kill one of her exes. I hadn’t put it together at the time, but she was straight up setting him up to commit murder. I don’t talk to her anymore because she is so conniving and pulled similar stunts trying to get a few of us fired at work and at the same time trying to convince us to stage a mass walk out. She’s out there.
Is her name Crystal ?
My ex wife did that too. Went on a jolly with some bloke, then claimed she didn't want to go and he raped her. Made up some BS that he said he would kill me if I went after him or got police involved. I said "he can bloody keep you". I knew she was crying because she was guilty rather than the story she fed me. We were divorced 12 months after. The best bit is she actually thought I'd go back to her. 😂 Seriously delusional and selfish.
@Dehydrated Oddish luckily enough they tend to go through men until they find the most abusive insane felon they can run into and that’s who they stay with for the long haul, when they’re going through it though no single man nearby is safe
Was she attractive?
Much respect Keith. Hope you’re doing well and looking after those kids, look at it this way, any person like that doesn’t deserve to be a part of a family. She will never change.
Those kids deserve a good mother, but they'll be better without her for sure
He’d be doing even better if he met me. ❤
Yep! They can’t change and they are horribly emotionally abusive
@@cocofellas You are creepy. I hope if he ever does meet you he runs fast and far away from you. It's a man on a RUclips video, that you've never even met. This is the 3rd and last time I see your reply. I will just stop reading your comments.
I never knew what was wrong while growing up at home, not until I was in my 30s and living on my own. I thought early on that I was just naturally melancholic or maybe even mildly depressed. I knew narcissism then as just a concept I've read in books but never realized that I lived and raised by one. It's still hard up to this day. I wanted to be a good child, to have a good relationship with my parents but at the same time I knew things are going to be the same if I allow to regain contact.
Imagine your mother, telling how ugly (physically) you've become over and over again. That you cause embarrassments to her. And she always do it so covertly. Only when it was just the two of us would she say such things. Around other people, she'd act like the caring proud mother. She'd even go to the extent of (humble)bragging my accomplishments to people but expect she'd shot you down real bad, just wait till it's just the two of you.
I remember I was in grade school when I heard her first deeply hurtful comment. That is discounting her usual comments of being a pain in the ass, being useless, etc. It was a weekend and she's just been back from grocery shopping. She was so angry that a mother of my classmate approached and told her that she should feed me better or bring me to a doctor. She blamed me on being so thin and extremely underweight. I was eating healthy as far as I knew but even then I was already suffering from chronic pains and illnesses. Neither her nor my father brought me to a doctor to see what was wrong. Then teen years arrived and acne breakouts came along. Again no help except being told how ugly I've become.
When I was in college, I rarely went home except during breaks. I finally felt free being away from home and not being constantly judged. Well for a short while.
As a young adult, I was thankful I finally became financially independent and could live on my own. But my mother would constantly find ways to get back to her old routine. She's acute at creating dramas, of guilt-trips, of unloading her toxicity. She'd even sulk when I bring them to vacations like I'm not allowed to be happy. I tried to talk to her about these but she had always ended up crying, of course denied everything, then she won't eat or talk. Then my father would always agree with her. I've always been the bad guy. My sister also thinks I am the spoiled brat in the family and since I've stopped talking to our parents, I'm also the black sheep which I find hurtful. I thought my sister would see my pov better. I am the youngest child but I never really got my ways as a kid. It was always an outright no or just plainly neglected. My sister actually got more help from our parents growing up. And a black sheep? I never brought any problems to the family. It was my sister who brought financial problems actually. And I remember, giving my first annual bonus and savings so my parents could pay off the debt. Occasionally and sadly, my sister acts like my mother . Judgemental, blames everyone but herself, and put more weight on how other people (except me) see her.
I'm sorry having to share all of these here. I wish everyone who has lived with a narcissist to find peace in their hearts and head. I want to find my peace too. 💜
Don't be sorry sometimes it's easier to just blurt ya problems out to strangers because it's easier than saying it to those we know.That's awful the way your mother made you feel and can imagine how hurtful it must've been for you,it's sad to hear.You are beautiful and i hope you find your peace one day 💛
You survived…. You moved on and have a life. Never met you but you’re beautiful and part of your purpose was telling this story and helping someone. Even if it’s just one person. Let that be your peace. Find a way to just let your past go. Embrace your new life, friends and every beautiful day you’re alive to see it!
You ROCK!!!
OMG reading your comment, well I think we have the same mother. My mother wore a mask in public and was very cruel to me as well as my siblings. I was molested by her older son, my half brother from a previous marriage. He's 14 years older than me. He molested me from the time I was out of diapers and who knows maybe sooner I don't know. Anyway, when I was in kindergarten I went to her and told her about it. She turned to me and said well, he's always been weird. And that was it.
On any given day she would scream at me and sing this song that I think was popular in the '70s OR '80s called the b****** back. I was the b**** and I was the troublemaker. She also called my brother a gay pansy because he was shy and fat ass because he was husky. It just went on and on.
Never did she ever do this in front of my father. She did however accuse my father of cheating on her. The interesting part is years later I learned it was she that was cheating.
I went to her again and told her about my brother. She told me the same thing, he's always been weird but she included this. Don't tell anybody or your father because if your father hears about this we will all be out on the streets. My father made a better than great income. I'm from a well healed family. So I guess I was the sacrificial lamb. I had to put in the work so that my mother would have her happy little life shopping and maids and whatever. But I was the bad guy. This is something I've told myself over and over again and when somebody calls me a b****, it's very difficult for me to cope. I try very hard not to be the bad guy.
My parents are both deceased now. However, I put my mother out of my life maybe 18 years before she passed away. Self-preservation.
We cannot keep people in our lives that are toxic. Especially those that are really trying to hurt you in like you said covert ways. My mother it was so bitter and horrible. Another random thing about her, I was driving and she was a passenger in my car. We saw a man on the side of the road riding a bicycle. She hissed, why the f*** is he riding a bicycle, he probably f****** stole it. Everybody was horrible in her eyes. Nobody could be out for just a ride on their bike. SMH I remember vividly talking to my therapist about that incident alone and that was another one of the things that made me say I can't have her in my life.
I truly hope you find peace hun and I hope the same for myself. My mother gave me a life sentence along with the Pervert that molested me. ❤️ I hope you know you're not alone and unfortunately we are in the same club.
Real quick, I just subscribed to your channel, hopefully I can encourage you in some way. ❤️
I quit therapy a while ago, not sure if it was a good or bad idea. I've been in depression for a long time and just wish I could climb out of it. I guess I am as damaged as my mother said I was lol I'm kidding when I say that. Actually just have kidding. I really hope you're well.
Sorry, I also forgot to mention this. When I put my mother out of my life, I also put my sister out of my life. She was jealous of me! She is so much like my mother it's outrageous. My mother was so proud of her, she was never faithful to any one of her three husbands or any of her boyfriends for that matter. I had to feel so many phone calls from her husband's because she would use me as her excuse for not coming home. I told her countless times, I will not be your excuse to cheat. So that was the reason I had to keep her out of my life as well.
I used to work with Keith at Best Buy and again spent time with him while he was a customer of mine at a local Toyota dealership. I feel bad that this is on the internet. As he is a true victim here. I can’t imagine the emotional torment of it all.
I feel so bad for the husband… I honestly wish the detectives would have been slightly more compassionate - as soft as that may sound… he was in a downward spiral and panicked. Poor guy!
So glad you covered this! I saw the interrogation video last week and was hoping you'd cover it. Nice job as usual
“ our society treats victims like heroes ” so true
No....just White people!!! They would not be so gentle to a person of color. That is a Fact!
depending on who defines victim and hero.....
@@am5790 juicy smollette? George Floyd?
People want that "hero" attention, which is why all kinds of people claim to be "victims" or "oppressed". That's why we have a toxic society of people saying "everyone is sexist against me", and "everyone is rayyyycis", and "there's systemic rayyyycism". Because they'll get treated as a hero by the Dems for their lies.
@@P12ooF Saint Floyd
I’d love to see a interview from her husband about her behavior before during and after meeting her. Like a deep dive into a narcissist woman in a relationship and what he realized about it looking back
He's the victim man. He deserves privacy
Listening to this pampered blonde princess and her over dramatic "crying" was almost unbearable. You can tell she’s been used to getting her way her entire life.
Yip..Daddy never said no
And the Academy Award for worst performance and liar goes to...
Yes, likely worked with her parents (and they allowed her lies thinking they were "cute"). The parents create these horrible pampered spoiled idiots.
It’s wonderful how women can spot this type of behavior a mile away . She’s embarrassing to the rest of us
Princess lol more like blonde moron
According to the fine book The Sociopath Next Door the best way to tell if somebody is a sociopath is they try to make you feel sorry for them and that's what she lives for. I think she's a sociopathic narcissist
Her whole body must've felt numb, her ears must've flushed, heart pounding, lungs burning, when she realized they got her good. She made up the kind of lie you can't get back from. I hope her husband leaves her and finds someone who's deserving of his trust
Her husband handled this a lot better than I would’ve I think.
The husband backing his chair away from his soon-to-be ex wife and asking to speak to one of the detectives outside the room was a pretty intense moment. So long good bye, just like that.
The *AliExpress Gone Girl* lol
Kinda like this whole channel lmao.
Lol
You *wish* .....(I thank you 😁)
😂
So her husband is AliExpress Affleck
Polygraph doesn’t mean shit! Not even admissible in court. That should tell you everything you need to know about it’s veracity.
I feel like Keith must’ve always doubted her a little to remain so calm, I would’ve freaked out
Everyone handles stress and shock differently.
@@celinesnl5338 She pretended to be hurt & she hurt herself to make it look real. Her husband just found out the TRUTH rt here so he had to step out of the rm so he wouldnt go crazy in the rm. Her family was worried sick that she was kidnapped. U could write in ur language & google will translate. Ur doing well for 2nd lamguage!
@@celinesnl5338 branding is when a hot metal tool is used to burn a mark into something's skin, usually it's used for animals to mark what farm they belong to. The hockey stick was used to hit her in the nose to break it, she pressed the stick to her face and her friend hit it
@@celinesnl5338 She hurt herself completely beyond hurting those who were worried sick about her. She even starved herself& talked her ex into making her look like she was violated.
@@mabelmavelia4562 Damn. She was really committed to make it look “real”.
One thing that has always struck me about Sherry's photos with Keith is that the photos usually center on her and her poses. When couples pose together for photos, the focus is usually on both partners.
Exactly
Keith is a little off.
@@markmnorcal Maybe, but I think anyone would be after going through something like this with a spouse.
Exactly. One of the photos just shows the back of his head. He’s weird, but she’s morally bankrupt.
@@markmnorcal He is. I think he may have something like Aspergers. Don’t think he really has a PD like her.
She was used to attention about her looks, so being a mom and married was probably very boring to her. The Internet provides a way to cheat on your spouse without meeting someone in person. The ability for her to engage in self harm (broken nose, bruises, branding!) is just amazing. I’ve taught high school for 30 years and I’ve seen all types of behavior. Working with a narcissist is not easy and the interrogators have incredible patience to let her sit there with the fake crying. I find that the perfect looking couple do not end up being in love in the end. I hope her husband and children can go on with their lives.
This is so freakin true.
Don't be jealous cause she's pretty now
She's not that pretty imo she looks like a troll. Maybe my beauty standards are high but all she had going for her is she's skinny (too skinny imo)
Or she has obvious mental problems
Believe me being beautiful/stunning/handsome can be hardwork 😅
poor Keith... Although i LOVE when she says "I think we need my lawyer" he looks away at the ground like "we? ppsstt.. Ain't no WE. YOU need YOUR lawyer FOR SURE... and I need MY divorce lawyer. good luck with cha life"
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Sometimes I wish the investigators would just point to the camera and say "how dumb do you want to look, cut the act"
they can’t
@@eliza2312 Why not?
@@jedross2136 then that shows bias to the idea that she is already guilty before given a chance to prove innocence no matter how little proof there may be
@@SleepyFl0wer They do that in interrogations all the time, they even lie about evidence they don't have. To the point that innocent people sometimes confess to crimes they didn't commit.
The #1 goal (and problem) is to keep the perp talking, any way possible. Snark or sarcasm does nothing for the investigation, the perp will quickly shut down or ask for a lawyer. To get info, cops have to pander to perps by tolerating their theater and fake-consoling them ("you're not really that bad" etc)
Pathological liars. They're best avoided.
I absolutely agree with Keith. I wouldn't want someone who did that shit to me to get into my vehicle or come back to my home. He made a really good point. She's not real stable if she can do all that stuff to herself. It doesn't matter if it was four years ago. It's not like she was signaling a four alarm fire before she disappeared. So clearly she can do unfathomable things right off the cuff.
I hope everyone affected by her lies and actions are healing and that life is treating them well.
I wish she had been given more than a year and a half.
“Keith’s polygraph was inconclusive.”
Don’t forget: she put her own husband in danger by making him a suspect. Even if he didn’t do it, the cops would investigate and possibly charge him if they could make the charges stick.
What an embarrassment but the psychology Behind this is just fascinating like she seriously had the perfect life and wanted drama in it that’s crazy
right? like when they said they asked the ex if they had sex and he said no and wasn't lying i was dumbfounded. if she didn't leave for a 3 week romp with her ex boyfriend without repercussions, WHY did she do it? so strange, also, who agrees to BRAND someone? that ex isn't right in the head either.
@@uribheidi i know 🤦♀️ and the husband seemed soo nice and caring. she clearly had issues but i’m so glad they publicly told everyone that she’s a liar 🤥 🤣
Narcissists are never happy with what they have, no matter how much they have. You could give them the world, and they’d ask for the moon, too. As soon as they get the thing they’re after, they get bored of it and begin their quest for the next thing that interests them. It’s a never ending cycle of greed.
@@Nikki_kat_94 I don't like to point that cause I'm no expert, but my ex had this exact behavior. Every time I was a "challenge" to her she would do everything to me, for an example when we broke up but would keep seeing each other. One day she knew I was hanging out with another girl, she would treat me like the love of her life and a few weeks after she wanted to be my girlfriend again. But whenever we would start a solid and "stable" relationship she would change her behavior in a few months and treat me in a terrible way, ghosting, being sarcastic and all full of herself like if she was Afrodite. The second time she did that to me I was feeling exhausted, emotionally broken, so I moved on from her. And like always she was the one that came after me after some time, but at that point I was strong enough to tell her to get her shit together first and then maybe we could share life again, even if as friends. She is an incredible person, always would cheer for me and tell me how capable and special I am. Just not the right person to have a romantic relationship but I hope she learns and find someone to be happy with.
Read, Frederick Nietzsche (iirc). His works make it clear just how well suited for chaos that we humans are. He posits that in a perfect world/perfect life, the first thing that most of us would do, would be to tear most of it down to rebalance the amount order and chaos in our lives.
I could be wrong about the philosopher. Been a while since ive read him.
In any case, yeah chick is a narcissist, but i dont believe thats her main problem. I think that shes restless, more than anything. Looks like the ever so always contemporary case of "My marriage isnt like they said itd be in the fairytale books of my early youth. Its alot of work too! Im going to act out and destroy this awesome life that i have bc its not exactly congruent with what the fairytales painted in my youth."
This one just happens to be a particularly bad onion.
They should have questioned her while the husband was in the other room watching on a monitor...
I cannot begin to imagine the toll taken in his spirit. I really hope he can find someone who is good. He’s probably too terrified to even try. Best wishes to the fella