My Thoughts on Ariana Grande's New THIN Look
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- Опубликовано: 29 июн 2024
- This video is about Ariana Grande's recent look in her new Tiktok video. Ariana Grande's fans are concerned with how thin ariana looks and if she has possibly had more plastic surgery that went wrong. In this video I give my opinion on Arianas new look and any possible plastic surgery or cosmetic procedures she may have had.
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As a nurse, there is absolutely no way this is “normal/healthy” weight loss. I understand if she wants privacy but for her to imply that her appearance isn’t concerning & is “the healthiest she’s been” is dangerous. Years ago she lost weight & she said it was bc she went vegan & she was very small but her weight still matched her frame. Some people are naturally very small & underweight. But the way her body looks now, it’s clear to me there’s something CLEARLY going on which is 100% none of my business. My comment isn’t to bash her but to anyone seeing this, this is NOT healthy or normal! Please don’t try to achieve the same look! It is very harmful, extreme, and dangerous!
And I worry about her young followers who heard her say that and now are starving themselves to try to get as thin as her, which is dangerous. I couldn’t believe what I heard😩
Have u ever seen ariana’s body in 2013\14? She had the same body she has now
As a fellow nurse I second this.
@@themark5020go back and check for yourself there is literally no WAY it’s the same.
Well said. I kind of have the same body type as her so I know that's definitely not healthy to look like Ari now, whether it's intentional or not. So it's kind of not right for her to say this is her healthy look and nothing's going on. You definitely got to cut down on your diet to have that look.
Her whole look recently seems to be channelling an anorexic ballerina (very plain strappy tops with her hair pulled back) and she is doing her makeup in a way that makes her look pale and washed out. Her whole look in her tic tok video saying don't worry about me is just bizarre. It just kind of seems like a cry for help despite her saying the opposite. Hope she can find some peace and takes care of herself.
Exactly
She has her whole damn family and a whole husband but they do nothing
@@EughhBrothereughh How do you know that? There is a huge problem getting people mental helath help when they have a chronic condion. Unless they are deemed a danger to themselves or others you can not force them to get treatment. You also can not force them to engage in the treatment well or magically cure them.
I have my own mental health issues but are lucky to be affected mildly, my siblings did not get so lucky. One refises to get help & would not turn up to therapy but they are not deemed bad enough tl be an inpatient. Anogher was an inpatient & now has ptsd from that experince.
It is a common problem of mental helath symtpms being too severe for the person to acsess the right trratment & be unable to make healthy choices. They also can not think well, so a common issue is stoppinh medication, then getting worse, then going back on it again.
You come across as quite ignronat to the reality of what loving with a chronic mental helathy condition is like. As well as how diffocult it is to see a loved one suffer & not be able ot do much about it at all. Infavtbthat helplessness often contributes to developing a secondry problem lile anxiety disorder or depression (it happns wirh physical issues too.)
@@EughhBrothereughh so? what about herself? starving is a choice. she’s the only one who can save herself.
@@chanelghostin6060 Starving is indeed a choice, but other people can show her better choices.
there’s thin, and there’s the trademark “big head” thin. all of us who’ve had EDs know all too well what this is
☝️ Yessss. Disordered has a certain 'look' about it. It has nothing to do with just being thin. It's an overall sickly appearance that is evident on even those with EDs that aren't a low weight. Iykyk.
The bobble head effect. 😔 Ari definitely has that, yeah.
Her head has always been big asf compared to her body. Makes you wonder..
And ana face
Exactly.
She is so thin right now. One thing Ariana said that stood out to me was that if someone has a problem, they likely already know and are working on it - makes me think she is working on something.
Agree 💯
yes! she also repeatedly said that you never know what someone is going through. it‘s tough communicating what you‘re going through *when* you‘re going through it, so i do understand where she‘s coming from by asking people to not comment on her appearance.
yeah. a lot of what she said is code for there is something going on. very clearly a clue to read between the lines.
I would like to believe that she is working on it, but her insistence in the video that this is healthy for her (and by extension other women) makes me think otherwise. It's harmful to other girls and women to keep up this insistence.
It made me think she’s hiding effing cancer or sth when she said that
I’m convinced she always had an eating disorder. The thigh gap pictures she posted on IG and tumblr in the past screamed ED. Constant body checks and all of the food she posts on social media is usually 300 calories for a meal. There’s also a video of her grandmother asking her if she ate that day and she said “yea I’ve been snacking all day!” And her grandma goes “I’ve never seen you snack!” Idk I think she’s in denial about it :/
she never posts food on social media what are u talking about? and theres no video of her nona saying that to her😭 u guys making up these weird lies are strange
@@eternalbliss330 she used to post food (fruits, meals, etc.) on her ig and snapchat a long time ago but it’s been years since i’ve seen her do it.
Yeah I’ve always thought she had a ED!
As a neuroscience therapist, I 100% agree, definitely an ED is happening with her or she has an another serious disease. She is in serious denial of her serious health issues. She seems like a perfectionist and may be under severe pressure. One thing she is in control of is how much or little she eats. Common symptom of ED and often a result of unresolved trauma. I pray she gets good therapy and help ASAP. 💐🌸❤️🇺🇸🌹
Maybe you're projecting your mental issues on other people
Reminds me of one of my best friends who was anorexic growing up. I was really worried about her and she told me not to be, and that she is much happier now and has a healthy relationship with food. A year or so later she almost died because of her eating disorder. She's healthy now, but we talked about it recently and looking back, she said that the red flag was actually when she overcompensated by saying how amazing she was and making her pre-ED body seem "unhealthy," which tricked me and others into thinking she actually was okay and that I should be happy for her and think it's an upgrade from her "sadder" "unhealthier" self prior to the ED.
Thank you for pointing this out. My best friend has an ED and she did the same thing, saying her hair and skin has never been better and she’s been eating way healthier than before.
@@Frosting1000 Absolutely! I was actually worried my comment didn't even make sense, but I felt like it was important to say. I think it's important for people to understand that EDs can be extremely complex and everyone hides their ED in different ways.
@@Frosting1000 Oh wait I also wanted to mention that this is someone's way of deterring the conversation from their ED to the idea that you're wrongfully blaming them for something and that you're the bad person for even thinking they have an ED to begin with. It's gaslighting. HOWEVER, this is never really with any malicious intent on their part, it's just their way of defending themselves.
I think the fact that she had a buccal fat removal and lost some weight makes her look even slimmer...that said she's still beautiful....I hope she get back on track soon, I wish her the best, it must be terryfying to be under scrutiny 24/7....I hope there's someone that can take care of her!
this needed to be said, its so clear ari looks insanely unhealthy and its concerning. Blessings to you and your friend 💙💙
I think the combination of not just weight loss but her paler skin, unflattering blonde hair and the fact that her pictures are always so heavily filtered that seeing what she looks like irl or unedited was what drew her fans concern. All these things have added to her looking sickly, I hope she's ok whatever she's going through ❤
I agree. she may have lost a little weight, idk, but the blond and filters are not very flattering, i think mostly the eyebrows. which is funny because when she was blond before but with brown eyebrows she looked fine.
She has definitely become bonier lately, which could just be because shes getting older (i am the same age, no hate, its something ive noriced on myself. Where i dont have a lot of fat, bones have started to protrude more)
@@ruminationstation4200 I'm the same age too and I've definitely noticed myself looking more gaunt especially in my face 😅 I used to have a very chubby 'baby fat' kind of face but now I have cheek bones and hollows under my eyes 🤷♀️
in the wicked clips of her blonde she looked sooo good tbh. she just doesn’t wear as much makeup anymore.
I would say it‘s mostly the eyebrows, the bleached eyebrows just don’t do her complexion and undertone any justice. If she kept her eyebrows darker it definitely would have looked much better. And she has a warm undertone and the blonde makes her look more yellow than she is. It‘s just not a good color for her AT ALL. She looks best with brown hair, and I hope she gets to gain weight because her role in wicked definitely does stress her out so that‘s why she probably lost so much weight.
as someone who was (unfortunately) involved in online ED circles for my entire adolescence, she definitely has disordered eating. Especially in the early edtumblr days she was *that girl*. she would post pictures very obviously highlighting her thigh gap (it would be the focus of the picture) and that's such a symbol in those communities. I remember her showing off her "ed bracelet" (basically each color represented a different ED) and hers was red. She would post her meals on Snapchat and it would consist of raw veggies and water. Taking a peek back into those communities now, they are OBSESSED with her new frail "ballerina core" underweight aesthetic. I also think she has an obsession with looking very doll/childlike which is very common with ED sufferers. I know I struggled with that. it's one thing to simply look like that, but when you come out saying this is "the healthiest you've ever been" almost angers me. the whole video sounded very faux-body positivity and condescending to people who were rightfully worried. I have suffered too but I wouldn't come out and tell my millions of fans that this is what my healthiest looks like while I was underweight.
I’m so sorry for your suffering 😞 ❤️
@Davina9002 red means an*rexia. if you look up "ariana grande red bracelet" theres some pics. people say its bc she was practicing Kabbalah which is possible but i personally dont think so.
i think that the red bracelet was from her grandpa@@tokki5585
wow thanks for sharing.. i can now understand ari or anyone that is in it was in this community.. what a unfortunate place to be in.
@@tokki5585 ya it’s the kabbalah part. you look it up and you’ll find all the celebs that were wearing them then.
It's how she poses to make herself look even thinner, despite her being tiny. Making sure her neck and collar bones stick out. Making sure she's popping her shoulders out. I know what i'm seeing, and I am concerned for her. Anyone else who is concerned is valid.
worry about your own weight. you're so pressed about a random women, go be worried about the 75% of americans who are overweight.
Agreed. It's something she has in common with Eugenia.
@@TA12002 My appearance doesn't impact billions of little girls because I'm not famous 😂
Being a public figure, like Ariana, it matters. She has a young fan base who are going to copy her and aspire to be like her.
Her appearance purely matters because of her influence and fanbase.
@@prof.cecilycogsworth3204oh God I know why Eugenia still having a platform which clearly is one of the reasons why she’s sick! I feel for her and her mom but there’s not much one can do if the person doesn’t want to get better 😢.
@@TA12002woman*
As a person who has struggled with an e.d., the way that she looks right now is not healthy. She is not fooling anyone besides her young fans that believe that she is healthy looking like this. It further promotes eating disorders in my opinion. ALSO LORRY I honestly love the editing of this video. No shade to your editor but this felt so genuine
you all need to shut up and stop acting like you know everything. she said it with a genuine expression that she’s fine. she’s literally happily married too i doubt her husband wouldn’t care🤦♀️
You are NOT her doctor. You have no clue what her health condition is. This is the VERY reason we shouldn't speak on other's bodies and speculate on their health conditions. The fact that Lori made a video disagreeing with such a common sense message and her cult of insecure sad individuals are all agreeing shows just how deranged y'all are. Also crediting Ariana's success to her looks when she's one of the most capable vocalists in modern history is peak misogyny and something expected coming from someone like Lori.
@@madison9096 you’re one of the fans the comment was talking about
@@madison9096 If you are really her fan, you wouldn't just accept when an illness is making her believe lies. It's a lie that bones showing is healthy, and its a lie that she was ever naturally this way without diet and exercise. Wake up, shes dying and its like y'all don't even care.
@@madison9096 don't waste your energy ❤ this comment section is filled with insecure people who are gaining self esteem by hating on her. this channel is disgusting. every single person here is so high and mighty "I know healthy and this isn't it" and want her to go back to how she looked like she did while on anti depressants. they're doing this because it gives them a boost. don't waste your time on this comment section.
She says she's at her healthiest, but I'm sorry, that weight is not healthy for anyone and saying otherwise is incredibly dangerous.
imo it's irresponsible to claim she's healthy to her young impressionable fans. they could take it and run with it that you can be this underweight and be healthy. she should have just admitted that she was getting help without trying to explain that she was healthy. it seemed like a contradiction and more like what her ED brain is saying as someone who's been there.
Exactly
She didn't say that.
@Galaxy Life You absolutely do not need to be a doctor to have an opinion, which is what the comment literally started with. "In my opinion." So, are YOU a doctor? Because if not, you aren't allowed to comment on this, according to your own logic.
She was healthy a few years ago on her thank you next era for sure
Between this and the overuse of tan/blackfishing, the constant voice changing and the strong shift in her image, I feel Ariana Grande may have a form of body dysmorphia or a personality disorder. Obviously I don’t know her in real life but I wonder if becoming famous so young has really impacted her. It just seems like she’s constantly putting on an image/persona and it changes so dramatically as well. I genuinely don’t know what her actual voice or appearance is. I hope she is alright either way.
She has borderline traits for sure
i think people forget that the manchester events had a huge impact on her and she hasn't really been the same since. let's try not to diagnose when we're not professionals. it's very tacky to speculate on people's mental illness. and let's just hope that she's getting help for whatever she's going through.
That is a very interesting observation. I assumed it was her label pushing her to do these things but come to think of it no other pop star does that to such an extreme level. I hope she gets help.
@@skrittle555 She was like this before that. Remember her licking the donuts and saying she hated America. Or her sudden weight loss after the Nickelodeon show because she went “vegan.” When the Hollywood picture leak happened years ago (when celebs iclouds were hacked) they thought one of them was Ariana. She was like “ew no my butt is cute and petite.” like 😅
Exactly
Her saying people are body shaming her is gaslighting and its just insane. 95% of what I've seen online are her own fans expressing concern for her health. Not only is she looking different, she's acting odd as well. Something is wrong. She needs help.
My thoughts too! She’s acting so strange and like someone trying to convince you fully of something that just doesn’t make sense
Exactly. I was in Denver ACUTE and inpatient for a year.. look it up. I nearly died from anorexia because of celebrities and pretty girls saying that extreme thinness was “their” healthy. She is emaciated, and I would rather Ariana be offended than have a teenage girl thinking it is normal to be as thin as she is.
@@amysteele6540 thank you for sharing this. I had a friend with a severe eating disorder and she used to see the same thing ariana is saying. "Oh you're comparing me to my unhealthy self". Like no sis, you look sick.
@@amysteele6540 Good point!
^^^^ facts, after watching the video I also felt gaslit, it felt like she was trying to convince us that she was healthy and okay now, when with our eyes, we see how different she looks, more from a place of concern than any type of shaming. Definitely hope she is getting the help that she needs.
I didn’t realize she’s become so gaunt lately. Hope she’s okay.
This topic is hard because there are pro's and cons to acknowledging or ignoring her changes...
Problems only get bigger if you ignore them, my best friend died of anorexí@ at age 14.... Acknowledging her issues when fist started would have literally saved her life... You only can work in a solution once you have identified the problem first
The worst thing is young girls will be seeing her as princess Glinda in the movie. She acts like it's a private thing but she's going to be underweight in one of the most anticipated movies right now that a lot of kids will see, she has a huge influence and this shouldn't be ignored
@@vildekm she may be underweight due to be overworked. Raise your own kids
@@SieMiezekatze but is it right to do it in public?
I had a neighbor who died from anorexia recently. She would walk up and down the stairs for at least 8 hours a day and was so thin you could see her eye sockets and she had severe skin issues due to the loss of all nutrients. I personally did not know her but I just wish that I spent 1 hour getting to know her and trying to get her help. I feel guilty that we all saw this coming but we didn't step up to say something. Ariana isn't as thin or has as many visible issues but she certainly isn't at a BMI that most health professionals would recommend. She is under a severe amount of scrutiny but I hope someone close to her who she trusts can take care of her.
I'm so sorry about your neighbor. 😥 Please don't blame yourself! I guarantee you that countless people tried to help her, but one of the saddest things about the disease of anorexia is, a lot of times, the people who have it can't accept that they're ill. It's the same for addiction. Since childhood, I've spent countless years (along with others) trying to get people help who needed it, but most of the time, they couldn't accept it. That's how it is most of the time. I'm not saying we shouldn't do what we can to help, but we must realize that a major part of these diseases is the lack of ability to see that there's a problem, even when doctors, family, friends, strangers, and employers tell you there is.
Over 15 years ago I went through a bad break up and barely ate for a month due to the emotional distress. Once I was emaciated (not by choice, in the beginning), I began to intentionally watch my calories and under-eat to stay thin. I think psychologically it gave me a sense of control. If I couldn't control who loved me, I could control what I ate and how my body looked. I have long since recovered from that disordered eating, but I wonder if this same sort of psychology occurs with people dealing with trauma or things they can't control in their life. They can feel in control of their eating and body weight.
As a former anorexic, there is nothing you could have done to help her, really. Like addicts, we have to make the decision by ourselves, for ourselves. The disease is a sickness of the mind that presents itself physically. You can't so easily change a person's mind. Anorexia requires you to basically brainwash yourself into starvation, and it just isn't so easily undone. I'm so sorry to hear of the loss. It's a tragic disease with a very high mortality rate. I was lucky that I pulled myself out of it when I did, I could see my muscle wasting away and I was losing so much strength. But I tell you, even after I made the decision to get better and start gaining back weight, it was a very difficult road back to health. Just because you want to eat, doesn't mean eating is easy. It was stressful, anxiety inducing, I would even say traumatic. A very serious illness.
@@ursula868 this resonated so much with me. Nothing can be done, unfortunately 😢
i just wanted to point out that using the BMI system isn't the best comparison for healthiness as it supports eugenics amongst other things :)
I really appreciate how you addressed this, in particular how you hold space both for people who are concerned about her health and also the reminder that shaming is never okay. You always talk about sensitive issues with so much grace and kindness, thank you! 💙
Thank you so much !
@@ilaydabonny you're the type of person who stands by or turns a blind eye while people hurt themselves because "they asked me to respect their decision."
@@ilaydabonny !!!
@@mandysjones3098 im the type of person to accept someones wishes, to not publicly speculate about their health, because it makes them uncomfortable! we don’t know ariana, we don’t know her health, and we certainly don’t have a right to know about it. whether she is healthy or not should be none of your concern, because she’s not comfortable with that. if she truly is sick, then maybe she doesn’t want people rubbing that in her face, ever thought about that? people should just keep their thoughts to themselves and, idk, not make a 10+ minute discussing someone’s body.
@@mandysjones3098 no they’re the type of person who actually has respect for someone. Did Chadwick Boseman not teach y’all anything about commenting on how ppl look and saying they look sickly?
The fact that both her and her costar Cynthia Erivo look much thinner than before makes me think they’re being overworked. Just like how we can look at Tammy from 1000lb sisters and say that’s unhealthy, we can deem this unhealthy as well. But just because someone is unhealthy doesn’t mean they don’t deserve compassion. The director and everyone else involved in Wicked should be ashamed of themselves for continuing to film them while they’re at this point. I pray they both get better
In my opinion she’s probably dealt with a lot of body image issues and eating disorders as a result of growing up as a child star and going thru the Nickelodeon machine.
No child star gets out without serious trauma and body issues IMO. Hugs and healing to them all
@@ShadyBooty I totally agree! Sending them all healing vibes❤
she looked like a normal teenager on victorious, they all did.
For sure
and maybe as a result of channels like this and the harassment she’s been exposed to because of it
Here is my take. Mental health is complicated . I was binge eating and heavier when I was depressed and happier when I was undereating but neither of those things were me at my "healthiest". I think she is saying some very true things about "assumptions" and her "heavier weight" may be someone else's lightest weight so I do believe her about the over eating and drinking at those points in her life. Regardless of this she is still very underweight. Even during her wedding she was very thin, she's disappearing.
I've had a lot of friends with eating disorders , they were in a lot of denial and would have done or said anything to "stay thin" I do think we need to listen to her words about mental health because I think the world has gotten very self centered and critical. We have a long way to go. The sad thing is (and this is just an opinion) I don't think people would be shaming her as much if the blonde was flattering. I think because she looks not as "pretty" as she did with her brown hair that people are noticing her thin-ness.
I think lots of people would glorify and support her weightless if she didn't look so washed out. We live in a sad world. I hope she gets the help she needs and that young girls don't follow suit. And for the record I think Ariana is beautiful and much kinder then a lot of celebrities' but I am just making a comment about mental health stuff as someone who has dealt with trauma myself.
I agree about the shade of blonde not helping the aesthetics... Maybe if it was a bit more voluminous? Bc sometimes it looks like her hair almost disappears cause it's so close to her skin tone but she's still beautiful ... She seems really busy like there's really no way of knowing what's going on behind the scenes we can only hope she's doing better as she says
@@kiniminni I agree, I think a dirty-blonde or strawberry-blonde would look better on her to give contrast so it's not the same tone as her skin.
I think people are concerned for her health and not trying to be nasty towards her. I understand if it makes her uncomfortable though. I mean Chadwick didn't even tell his colleagues he was ill, he just handled it within his small circle. I hope she pulls through physically and spiritually whatever is going on with her. ❤
Maybe u and other people in this comment are genuine but the most comments she got was NOT concerns, it was negative and bullying
Please, Lorry profits off of creating clickbait for her hateful audience.comments full of “she looks awful” while she’s literally photographed looking beautiful and energetic on a movie set.
@@nishaaaaaaaaaaa Please, Lorry has never been hateful towards celebrities she discusses, but if giving opinions on plastic surgery that celebrities constantly lie about to profit from their young audience is somehow "clickbait," then sure, you do you, sweety. But before you do, please do tell me, why is it that Lorry suddenly gets jumped at the moment when she discusses Ariana and Doja but noone else? Are these two somehow super special and exempt from criticism? Why are you being the hateful audience for this particular video here? Toxic stan much?
The thing that really sets me off that something is wrong is the fact that she has been super covered up in baggy clothing. During the peak of my ED I would only wear oversized sweatshirts and hoodies- since wearing anything too revealing would make people stare or ask why I was so thin.
And ik its been somewhat her "brand" to wear oversized tops, but it's usually paired with something that shows off her legs, not completely covering her.
Literally relapsed around 6 months ago and I was the same, even tho I’m in recovery now and much better when I saw her she looked like someone on a pro Ana website. Definitely triggering for me, not an insult at Ariana. I definitely think she has some form of ed or at the very least is disorded eating
@@Zsazsa222 is a shock for all of us to suddenly see her like this, she trying to gaslight us doesn't fix it
I'll speak for everyone who has/had an ED, back when she went 'vegan' I knew it was the start of an ED I can see the gradual build, idc what she looked like in 20xx or 20xx bc I see what I see.
@@sharaina85 literally that’s how my ed was triggered was cutting out meat and going veggie then vegan then it gradually was all carbs ect. It’s just sad she won’t even acknowledge that she is harming herself :(
@@sharaina85 interesting perspective. I found that cutting meat out of my diet helped my ED a lot.
Her video rubbed me the wrong way as she is implying she’s healthier now than she was before, when she is clearly not. We can all see she’s far skinnier than she has ever been and people with EDs recognize themselves in her current state and even behavior. To post this video for her (mostly young, impressionable) fans, normalizing and even glamorizing being this underweight is terrible. Try explaining this to her young fans though… they’re going to try to copy her current look regardless, sadly. Of course if Ariana wants to look this way that’s her choice, but to make up some BS story about this being her healthiest is incredibly wrong.
For YEARS her fans were denying that she's got any work done, they're so shocked now because the weight loss is literally bringing it up to surface. Also its scary because her new look reminds me of Natalie Portmans look when she was in Black Swan
As an individual who shares both Ariana Grande's age and petite stature, I can identify with the sentiments expressed in this video . Even a minor reduction in body weight can significantly alter my physical appearance.
I'm naturally super thin too, as thin as Ariana Grande currently. But it IS my natural weight. I don't have any eating disorder or anything, never been on a diet. Since I was a kid, I've been told I'm too thin, too unfeminine (despite my user name, I'm a woman). Had people suggested to me that I'm anorexic and it's affected my body image very negatively. I don't understand the logic that why it's not ok to comment on people's appearance in real life but ok if it's a celebrity. They're people too and are affected by others' comments too. I love Lorry but to me this isn't her best video.
I know what you’re talking about ! My whole life I was intrigued by how some people with just a little more or less weight than me were seen differently than me on this perspective! What you say is really true !
Same. My friends can easily notice when I lose just 4 pounds
@@johnwilliams1238same with me, I’m tiny and thin just like Ariana and I’m super healthy
This is true, I am 5'2 and Ariana is 5'1. I remember JUST losing 7lbs, but almost everyone commented how I lost "so much". This is because even a little lost or gained on a petite frame is a lot more noticeable than someone tall.
I assume Ariana has had a very hectic schedule with balancing her makeup brand launch, her music, and the new movie.
I'm not a doctor, just someone with ed experience. These are the signs of anorexia nervosa. It's not always a body image thing. Many times, it has to do with feeling like you are losing control in your life and the one thing you can control is what you eat. Perhaps she feels like she's being controlled by her handlers? Idk. Wish her the best.
Really interesting about control.
stop projecting your sickness onto others.
Literally thank you Lorry. Thank god there’s someone online with a platform who can say “she’s a celebrity, and expressing concern is ok” because people are so defensive about her, labelling others as bodyshamers.
People with BD or bulimia, anorexia - criticising their weight in anyway makes it worse. If you call them “deathly thin” they will take it as a compliment. It’s not their fault. As bad as it is, there isn’t a lot onlookers can do about their struggle but pray for them.
Well done, Lorry. You handled this sensitive topic with compassion and care.
Ariana has a young and impressionable fan base. It’s a disservice to her and those that follow her to act like this is just another sunny day.
Something is off. Praying she truly gets help and doesn’t just surround herself with enablers.🙏🏻
You are stupid…..
Ariana literally just addressed this issue and yall are still on top of her. Instead of worrying about her, worry about yourself.
Stop judging over people’s appearance when there is NO reason to be concern. Just leave Ariana alone….
Nothing is wrong the only wrong thing is the bully and bodyshamming that is happening yall are rude and need to mind your own business this is NEGATIVE CONTENT and is not right. All this video does is:bully, body shame and negativity you shouldn't be allowed to post on youtube
she’s still a human being ffs. if she’s going through things i don’t think her first thought’s going to be about her fans, especially when a lot of the supposed “fans” are body shaming her, making up fake stories about her appearance ecc… like can yall have some empathy? all over this comment section ppl are diagnosing her with 50 different mental illnesses, how does that help her in any way?
@@codie5494 concern is not body shaming
@@malihakarim1696 these are not concern, this is humiliating someone by making inappropriate or negative comments about their body size or shape. Wich is bodyshaming
I know we shouldn't be dependent on the artists we love because of their artistry, but I am so sad about Ariana. As a petite girl from an Italian family I could see so many things that I didn't like about myself in her and she made all of those features feel so glam and amazing. I'm not trying to sound vain, but that was my coping mechanism when I had to deal with my own insecurities. Watching her going through so many changes makes me feel so sad and leaves me feeling like I learnt to deal with my stuff, but the artist I adore just forced herself to fit the everchanging beauty sterotypes to stay relevant in a horrid industry. And it's really sad how she would address her fans' concerns as criticism to gaslight the situation. It's really sad.
Thank you for sharing here with us ❤️
Stop projecting onto her and how is she gaslighting her fans? Do you really think that she only posted the video cause of the concern of her fans? People are making the nastiest comments about her looks for the last few years. She deleted her twitter and isn't even active on any social media yet the few times she posts a pic on instagram people ripp her to shreds and overanalyze every part of her face and body like how would you not get fed up 😑
It's really sad you much empathy people lack like did everyone forget about the manchesher bombing and how traumatic that was and still is and people had the audacity to blame her for it and same thing when mac passed away. She has been throught actual hell and everybody still can't leave her alone
@@LorryHill Thank you so much for your hard work, Lorry!! Your channel is a breath of fresh air. You are so insightful and respectful. Thank you for opening up our eyes and minds to new perspectives and points of view. I can't emphasize enough how grateful I am for your videos☺💖
As someone who battled an eating disorder for years, I recognize the physical signs and the behaviors. I hope she gets help.
What behaviors? For some reason, the donut thing set off alarm bells, but I've never had clinically disordered eating
Celine Dione said the same thing when she was extremely thin. It turned out she was having a problem.
My concern is that what she said in the video contradicts itself:
1) she said although she LOOKED healthy, she was suffering mentally, therefore, not healthy (understandably)
2) now she's implying although she DOESN'T look healthy like she did but she is healthy mentally, therefore, healthy?
Healthy people WILL look healthy IMO, that's why people are concerned. .
she wasn’t contradicting herself. she isn’t implying that she doesn’t look healthy now either, she was trying to say the opposite. her stating that she “looked healthy” back then was just a reference to what everyone is trying to make a point out of. i doubt she herself believes that she looked healthy back then knowing what she was doing to her body. i think the biggest take away for everyone should have been that healthy does not look the same for everyone and that it’s harmful to push that agenda onto people.
This was really fair and thoughtful, thanks Lorry. Reminds me of the singer Karen Carpenter, and how people just watched her wither away from her ED, while get increasingly more defensive in her interviews, and ignoring questions about her unhealthy weight. It can't be good to be confronted about your issues so publicly, but then on the other hand, KC died at age 32 from being unable to cope with her anorexia on her own. And, as we know, there are really only enablers in the entertainment industry, so as long as Ari's still selling records (see: Amy Winehouse) it doesn't matter what she's doing or how close to breakdown she may be. Final point: it''s clear that as a child star, she's seen a lot of terrible things and had trauma which is still really affecting her, as successful as she is. I hope she finds the help she needs and tries to protect the next generation too.
Omg that is really scary and a very thoughtful provoking comparison; I hope she has access (true access) to help.
@@LorryHill have you ever thought on talk about people from the past like Karen, Marilyn Monroe etc?
@@ultracuteful she did a video on Marilyn Monroe's insecurities
@@rawxane thank you, dear!
I think she has had an ed since her nicklodeon days tbh
She used to post thigh gap focused pics that were frequently used for thinspo a few years back
Tons of body checking type photos
I love how respectful, kind, and observant you always are.
She's obviously going through something and fans are only expressing their concern. Shame on the people around her for not helping, or hopefully she is getting help already. I'm only a couple of inches shorter than her and I used to look the exact same as she is right now when I was at my lowest weight. Face, neck, clavicle bones, the exact same. One can be short and petite and still have what's considered a normal or regular weight. Not her case at the moment. She needs to heal
Shame on the ppl around her for not helping ??? Excuse me what ?
You’ll have a serious problem with assuming things this is crazy.
First of all, you don’t know if Ariana is sick or not, if she is, then, if she share it or if she wants to share it and you don’t know how it’s hard to help someone who’s sick (physically or mentally) you can do your best and still be useless.
So just stop assuming.
@@Solip_i like I’m just reading the comments shocked, have people not heard what Ariana said in the videos.
keep the same energy when talking about fat people
I am conflicted because I hate commenting other's bodies and before I watched her full tiktok I was like "preach girl", but after I watched it I actually got worried :( Especially that I read a lot of comments from people who went through an ED saying there are a lot of signs indicating she's suffering from it too, then I read she used to have a full on pro ana tumblr :( I really feel for her considering she's been through so much in life and I know how awful is having an ED. Even if that's not the case, it's clear something is going on, she implied it herself. I just hope she'll get better, no matter what she's dealing with.
The fact that you didn't realize from the very beginning that someone was off..
Her going out of her way to protest a donut shop in the most disgusting manner, then ranting about, struck me as someone who is obscenely repulsed by obesity, in a very obsessive way. I have known a anorexic woman to go off on rants about fat ppl out of thin air and that's the 1st thing that came to mind. Am I the only one that this occurred to way back when?
what are you even talking about
@@flower0559a long while ago, years, she went to a local shop, licked a donut, put it back; then said she hates America
Another great video, Lorry. We can’t simply dismiss conversations and questions about others’ appearances as automatically being mean spirited or rude - especially when, like you said, those questions come from a place of love and concern. We HAVE to be able to have discussions about unhealthy and/or unrealistic appearances and beauty standards, especially when those appearances are so obvious, but we’re told to ignore it OR we’re gaslit by being told there’s nothing to discuss and everything is fine. Saying “don’t talk about others’ bodies or looks, PERIOD” is unhelpful at best, and harmful at worst, especially when you’re a person who young women and girls look up to.
Can't agree more. I felt slightly disgusted watching Ariana's appeal video - it felt like she was exploiting her fans' and well-wishers' care and consideration for her into doing what she wanted, which is to stay silent and watch as she continues to risk her health. We should all be more aware of how manipulation comes with the disease.
As a teenager I lost a tonne of weight to the point that people thought I had cancer and wouldn’t recognise me. What she said is what I would have said back then. That’s just my interpretation of the situation. I wish her all the best
I'm naturally super thin and healthy. and people commenting negatively about my body since childhood has affected my self-esteem. They made me think there was something wrong with me. I did tell some people to shut up, so I empathize with you.
It reminds me of when I became a vegetrarian to “be healthy” and “save the animals” when really it was to hide an ED. When I became sickly thin I also would say i was healthier than ever.
The way she lied about being healthy is so triggering. I wish she'd care more about her fans and just everyone who's suffered from an eating disorder instead of trying to mass-gaslight the general public. I'm fairly sure she'll be honest about it years from now and her stans will feel embarrassed. It's just uncomfortable all around. She seems like a sweet person apart from this stuff and I hope she's getting the help she needs
If people are concerned about your health, when you are in "your best" then you are not actually in "your best" .
Ariana has been A petitie woman for years and people weren't thinking she had a disease or anything....it is normal to be feel alarmed ...I do ultimately hope she gets better
I remember years ago her nutritionist gave an interviewer where he said shes super restecirive and he was trying to work with her to ease up. It had all tbe buzzwords of secret ana diet like "macrobiotic" and "vegan" as well
Not really. I'm not a fan of her (I don't really like her acting, music nor have I tried her makeup) but I do know that not all bodies are the same. I have to eat very very unhealthy to have a "normal" weight. I literally have to buy the worst snacks to get there. I don't have a vegan because I can easily drop 1 pound a week if not more with it. Every body is different and healthy looks different too. If she has specifically said that she is being as healthy as possible, people should respect that.
Fully disagree with this. Not necessarily for Ariana since we know nothing about her physical health besides her frame. However, many people are complimented on their look when they're actually at their worst, this is especially prominent in naturally thin people as they may gain weight with bad lifestyle choices, that doesn't make them healthy though. Alternatively, someone may be somewhat overweight before getting sick and losing weight, these people get compliments about their weight loss, questioning how they did and how they should keep it up, yet it's only because they got sick that they lost weight. You really cannot at all tell a person's health from the way they look, which is exactly what Ariana was trying to say in her video.
What a shitty take. People aren't healthcare professionals and don't know the physiology of her body. Each person is different, people have no idea whether she is healthy or not.
At my healthiest I lost some weight and people asked if I was sick... actually hurt my feelings that I was finally at a healthy weight, eating good and exercising and people thought I was sick just because I was thinner :-(
To me, the lecturing and scolding behavior give a sneak peek into her mental state. So usually shes internalizing that critical and demeaning energy, but in this case she redirected it toward her fans instead. I think shes struggling and her distorted perspective led her to believe that her message was one of strength and love. As a mom, I see it as insecurity, desperation, and confusion. Much love to her. I hope she finds the support she needs.
Women are constantly pressured to be thin.
When I was younger I was 5'3 and weighted 127 and I remember being called fat.
I never thought I was overweight but people made sure to tell me otherwise.
Now I'm in my 40 and wish I was 127 again.
I’m 5’7 and 127lbs and are called fat too sadly
Samee. Now I weigh a lot more and its hard to lose the weight. I wish I was 120lbs again and tell ppl to stfu.
Nobody is talking about how she was literally tryna change her race by overly tanning. That is a big reason she is perceived as looking sick as well.
Every time she pops up she always has a different accent and cosplays as a different race lol
she’s whiter than paper…
She went from black fisher to pale kpop + like kinda vintage house white girl
@@CR0WBS she never looked like a black woman lol
I understand what you’re saying but please stop using the word literally to not mean literally. She was darkening her skin, not attempting to switch races (which some people actually try to do).
I will say, I don’t think it’s fair for celebrities to make such drastic changes to their bodies/faces, and then get mad at people notice. They should watch your videos and read the comments to see that it’s OKAY to be open about it.
Oh Lorry….Love your videos. You thought the Doja fans were bad? (Some of) Ariana’s fans are worse. Good luck!
Good luck for What? Lorry have been making like 3020 videos about Ariana. Lorry got death threats from kpop stans
I think she's allowed to be exhausted with the relentless scrutiny... Sometimes changes happen in our lives for whatever reason and she can't even go through those phases in peace without people feeling like they're owed an explanation at every turn. She's a celeb and pple will talk, that's inevitable but doesn't mean she can't be unhappy abt it, she's just a person after all
Ariana didn’t even get mad, she was very calm and polite. It’s Lorrys gang of losers that are mad she’s skinny
When the internet makes your body a topic of discussion and makes hurtful snd mean remarks towards you, you're allowed to be upset. Just because she is famous doesn't make it okay to treat her poorly.
She is not a surgeon and does not have any degree she takes 4 dollars to analyse the celebs body without their permission this is illegal I am sure you know that that's why she decided to delete the doja cat video and it's funny how people make her look so kind but how many more videos on ariana when she is literally going through a lot because it's a trending topic funny how people just avoid the fact that lorry uses people obsession over celebrity to gain views and that views gives her money making money by discussing celebs face and body when you do not even have a medical degree to do so amazing. And about being respectful if you are talking about others body or face and u know you could be wrong too obviously you are gonna talk good 😂😂😂
I think it's super important, wether she likes it or not, to talk about her body and appearance, most of her fanbase are kids that look up to her and don't have yet the brain to be able to distance themselves from what they see online. Her saying she is healthy while clearly being underweight is dangerous for her fans that might attempt to look like her...
Her making this only about her thinness is blasphemous. She’s naturally small so it’s not too much of a shock. Her weight loss is obviously highlighting her previous surgeries & that’s expected. The issue is, at one point she was overly tanning. Then she was trying to align herself with Japanese culture whilst blatantly denying it. Now she’s both acting & speaking VERY different. I just saw a video she was speaking in & couldn’t believe my ears. It was very bizarre. All of these things combined makes me very concerned.
She is speaking different recently because of her role as Glinda in Wicked
@SUB SHOP PLAYLIST 🩶🚬 well idk if her identity before was the best according to the commenter not imo.. but it seemed fortified. dalton could be the reason, yeah..
she’s not asian fishing bro. she looks white as hell, she’s always talked like that, she’s also doing vocal training and singing most of the time for her movie so she has to rest her voice. y’all saw one picture of her that was edited horribly and ran with the “ARIANAS ASIANFISHING” bs
You know what as an asian myself you guys who are saying she's asian fishing makes you look more racist and generalizing our look she may have had a fox eye lift but she still looks white tf. Also about the voice changes if u observe well enough when she needs to aing most of the time she uses a lighter headier placement to aid her performance if u have watched the righr interviews you'd know ever since Nickelodeon she's been using two voices and probably got used to it too. You guys diagnosing her for very normal thing are the ones who are concerning
the japanese culture comment is really random and a bit of a reach
I agree that it is asking too much for fans not to show concern in relation to her body and talk about it when her body and looks are her brand. You can't control your fans to that degree, but it seems from this she is feeling out of control, and thus going to great lengths to control her looks, her weight and now, what her fans can and can't say. It is a form of trying to manipulate, and I'm not saying that to insinuate she's a bad person, just not well, it seems. She's always been obsessed with control. Remember her fixation with only being photographed on one side of her face, chasing photographers to delete pics of the other side. The constant use of filters. This looks like obsessive and controlling characteristics of someone who might feel they have zero control of their lives. It's gotten worse, and I hope she's getting the help she needs.
she’s not manipulating or controlling anyone. she’s always been sustained towards the topic of speaking ab people.
It's insane how a message like "don't speak on other people's bodies" can be analyzed in such a bad faith way. Lori's fans are known for their insecurities but this is new low for y'all.
@yar saz we are all responsible for the meanings we take away from things... is it not interesting to find out about how other people interpret things? What's wrong with that? Why be here if you aren't into it? It's not my intention to put her down. Im using a word like manipulation very loosely, and I genuinely believe everyone uses manipulation in some way. It's normal and not a dirty word in this case. I just think ariana is trying to control the narrative, and I totally get why she is, and it's totally fine... but might also be caused by distress (also understandable).
Yes, ED’s are a symptom of obsessive compulsive disorder. Ppl who don’t feel in control in their lives use weight loss, food deprivation, calorie counting etc to make themselves regain that feeling of control. That’s how they become addicted. It’s also why you can’t force someone out of an ED bc that loss of control is very traumatizing. She has to decide for herself if she wants to stop it but she hasn’t faced reality yet.
That thumbnail is anything but “respectful”
very real take on this sitaution! the majority of her brand is her looks, she even has a makeup brand for it. She looks unhealthily thin, I don't understand the demonisation of her fans articulating their concern
Gaslighting people expressing concern and turning it back on them like tbeyre the bad person for bringing it up is ana 101
The majority of her brand is MUSIC. Singing is where most her money comes from and where she outshines her peers. This is just a common misogynistic trope crediting a female artist's success entirely on their looks
the problem is that it was not just fans articulating their “concern.” it was thousands of people (maybe even hundreds of thousands or more) saying she looks “so sick.” that is not constructive at all. what is that going to do for her? if nobody knows the state of her health simply from the fact that they think she is “too thin.” it is not helpful and she has the right to address the negative speculation about her body
I hate that we can’t exprès concern about someone’s health without being called a body shamer or a bully. A lot of fans just asked her if she was ok and healthy. But somehow this was interpreted as bullying🫤 don’t get me wrong there are some idiotic haters online that body shame for no reason, but the majority on Ariana instagram were fans that actually cared and wanted to make sure she was ok. Are we supposed to close our eyes and pretend like we can’t see her bones and pale skin???😑
I hate how all of a sudden asking if someone is ok is considered bullying and body shaming. It’s like they want us to just ignore it and pretend we don’t see anything. Most of what I’m seeing online are either people asking if she’s ok and a genuinely concerned or I see people saying “stop body shaming her.” I’m not doubting that there are body shaming comments but I can’t find a lot from what I’ve seen. I feel people are becoming too sensitive now where if you don’t compliment someone 24/7 then you’re considered a bad person and a bully it’s so weird and also I feel like comes off as narcissistic not saying anyone is a narcissist but it just gives me narcissistic vibes in general of people saying your only supposed to compliment and praise me otherwise your a bully. People are just backwards these days. I genuinely hope Ariana is ok and just want the best for her. I’ve loved her ever since victorious and I would hate for anything bad to happen to her.
Lmao just saw a comment above yours claiming just that
pale skin is not unhealthy, however i do agree she is underweight
Thank you for being a kind and sensitive voice of reason. Whenever I see a woman with visible bones on her upper chest and sharp collarbones, something is not right. I've seen it on ballerinas too. I'm guessing there must be some men who suffer as well, but I can't recall seeing one irl except black and white photos of famine- or concentration camp survivors.
Celebrities who make their money chiefly from their attractiveness (which is instrumental in selling their singing, acting or modeling), will obviously only want to hear compliments, but they cannot reasonably expect everybody to compliment them all the time, regardless of reality.
Best of luck to Ariana.
Thanks for the video! 🙏😍💐
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her bones have always been prominent on her chest, even at her heaviest weight in 2019.
I think on some people those bones just always show… I’m at a fairly low weight rn due to health issues but even when I was 20-30 pounds heavier my clavicle and collarbones always stuck out. I’m very pear-shaped though and carry all of my weight in my lower half. Hers seem especially prominent now compared to years ago though so I’m not sure that’s the case for Ariana.
@@eternalbliss330 thank you for letting me know!
@@beedoo000 thank you for telling me. I was not aware of that. I’ve never noticed it, except for women who, in addition to visible clavicle bones, have arms that are so slim that the elbow is the thickest part. I’m glad to hear a different perspective. 😃
You have a beautiful way to express what is hard for us to. Thank you Lorry.
I think there's a responsibility to let her young audience know that there's absolutely no way that's a healthy weight. She might not be in the place to give that message, but we as the public should also consider that and not just her feelings.
I'm not saying that anyone should shame her, but to ignore that she's dangerously thin and pretend that it's normal would be sending a really harmful message to her huge fanbase. It's not okay, there's something wrong and I wish the best for her and that she gets the help she needs ❤
No it’s not ok to ask anyone about their weight
Exactly
Is it okay to ask about plastic surgery?
It’s so interesting how any gain or loss of weight is noticeable. I am a year older than Ariana and I am the same height and for about 5 years was 97-103 lbs. Last year I unintentionally gained about 8ish lbs and am now 110. I used to be 164 lbs in high school and when I lost weight it was obvious
I mean I’m 5’1 and I’m 42kg and I look like ari when she was a bit more chubby but still thin. So my guess is she weighs somewhere in the 32-34kg range. Kinda concerning tbh.
Thanks for addressing this Lorry. You are always voice your true opinion in a kind way,
Ariana barely weighs 100 lbs, so I imagine even getting a stomach bug or Covid could leave her looking really thin. I went through a time myself while on medication that made it difficult to eat a full meal and I got Very thin. Those that cared about me did voice their concerns and I knew it was from a loving place.
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her brother Frankie on an episode of a reality tv show said she weighed 96lbs and that was a few years ago! So I really assume she's now 88-90lbs...
yep, people look far larger on TV. im 5'3 and 106 and i am significantly larger than Ariana. i would guess she weighs 88 or so
@@potatocake113 I do agree she's in the 80s cuz I'm also 5'2, 103lbs and don't look as thin! tv makes you look bigger, so the fact she looks so thin in photos means she looks WAY thinner in real life!!
can confirm - i’m about 5’3, used to be just under 100 pounds (so already pretty skinny) and also lost around 15 lbs due to medical issues... it’s VERY noticeable when you’re petite and slim to begin with. Ariana looks like she’s only around 90something pounds, it’s definitely due to medical problems or an ED, so we can only hope that she is trying to stay healthy :(
i'm someone who is naturally very thin and i have a smaller body overall. though i do not look sickly or unhealthily skinny. ariana has always been on the smaller side with her petite frame as well, but she looks scarily fragile here. something is clearly wrong, and her fans' concern isn't body shaming at this rate.
anorexia tends to operate as a very private disease, so nine times out of ten if you ask someone who has it about their eating or weight, they'll tell you they're fine. it's hard to have a private disease when you're in the public eye. I hope she can get help, whether it's that or something else that's going on.
ngl watching that tiktok she made about her weight made me feel incredibly gaslighted 😅
Same
yall overuse that word i swear
Back in the day US magazine would have called it “scary skinny” and have this on the cover
i honestly agree about not commenting on people’s bodies even if they’re a public figure, they’re still human. also as someone with an ed and who also has been around other people with eating disorders, sometimes seeing comments about how thin and how concerning our bodies look can be encouraging. obviously not EVERY person with an ed sees it that way but when i was in this community that had other people with eds, they would always brag about their people being concerned for them and etc. it’s okay to be concerned but please think carefully if you want to show your concern online.
I don’t think pressuring her to talk about her issues/lack thereof is respectful… like at all. People are just way too comfortable judging individuals they don’t know. It’s wild to me. Similar to what they’ve done to celebrities like Britney etc. Except now it’s masked as concern. It’s sick.
People also were just observing Britney’s situation when she clearly needed help and y’all complained about that too. There’s no pleasing y’all. You put people on high alert about celebrity welfare with the Free Britney movement but now when people show genuine concern for her and Doja Cat, it’s intrusive and don’t ask questions and leave them alone, etc. the whiplash these fans get is incredible.
@@LoveK1 it’s a lack of respect for their boundaries if someone makes it very clear they don’t want to discuss a certain topic and it’s still forced by millions of people. I would be extremely annoyed if I was in their situations. Pushing the topic won’t force her to get better if she’s actually sick. It’s just weird asf and counterproductive in my opinion
@@shawnbay2211 your argument is based off an assumption that “she lied” and also fear mongering “if she dies”. I can’t take either seriously tbh
Also her saying that her previous body was the unhealthy body is concerning. She was thin previously and thinner now. But shes never looked fat
What a good analysis, I’m happy to hear this grounded perspective. I feel like everyone online is super quick to make others feel bad about asking when the changes are SUPER drastic.
The blonde makes her look like a vampire from twilight
I think she’s just going through her “weird anorexic Hollywood phase” right now. I mean, sooooo many celebs have done this and now that thin thin is back in, well, she’s just on the trend train right now. Hollywood always copies each other.
Wow, you could be right... I haven't thought about that at all.
Yes, it could just simply be that.
True look at kim k
Yes, totally agree with you. Celebs need to accept that the attention which played a role for making them rich and famous, sometimes can be inconvenient. You can't expect only positives. That's life. "Omg, people are commenting about my looks, so uncomfortable..." If you don't wanna be commented on, don't live in the public eye. However, I think she is really a gorgeous girl. Just let's hope she is ok and that's it.
she literally stepped out of the public eye last year. besides a monthly post on instagram and a few tiktoks she’s relatively unseen. those candids were of her on a random street in london minding her business. and it’s not far fetched to not want your appearance to be a point of analysis regardless of who you are
Crediting Ariana's success to her looks when she's one of the most capable vocalists in modern history is peak misogyny and something expected coming from someone like Lori.
bro that's like saying "if you don't wanna be robbed, don't own things"
@@sortedlife4332 it’s really not. These al also the same people who don’t tell people to”stop commenting on my body” when people are “Yass queening” them day and night or calling a “Hot bad b****.” I’m just not buying it.
@@LoveK1 bro what. rephrase
Not only does the blonde hair wash her out, but she also dyed her eyebrows, which gives her an otherworldly look. But yeah, she's also lost weight.😬
So "you look sickly" and "are you dying" are appropriate comments to make because she's a celebrity? Wild
You are insane if you think she handles her own social media and ever sees these comments
I love you Lorry! You are always very empathetic AND super objective and honest at the same time. Very kind a neutral!! Thank you! I wish more people could speak nuanced and think critically like you!
Thank you ! ❤️🥰
I can't believe it to be HONEST she looks like a grandma! 😅its really sad lol
I was waiting for your reaction Lorry!!
Like always you're a queen of kindness (and plastic surgery) and I just noticed you're close to 500k, I hope you'll celebrate that with a live stream or something. Like always : love you ❤
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Really well spoken, thank you Lorry. 🖤
I’m going to be very honest. We have not gotten past commenting on people’s bodies IRL. I’m fat and I still have people who comment on my body without me asking for their input.
The fact that she's vegan and does not have access to more than a few forms of genuine protein, is probably really not helping the effect that her medication w/ alcohol has on her body.
100% agree. i'm very very small and if i lose even 2 pounds i look deathly ill. and that's not healthy. it's hard for me to stay at my current weight, which is 'technically' underweight, but i've accepted that it truly is my healthy. it's not healthy for anyone to be that gaunt. period. literally not possible.
i also thing it's telling that her speaking about this all of the sudden despite years of being criticized for various things shows that she is going through something-- likely an ED, but potentially something else. she feels called to defend herself because this time she really is needing help. i hope that made sense
@@annalise_ I get it, I lost my best friend to an ED at 14 ....she would yell at me or hurt me if I showed concern to her... I felt trapped ..I love her and wanted her to get better but that wasn't what she wanted to hear.. She wanted praise for her new sickly look
Same here
it's not healthy to be fat either, but you'd praise her if she weighed 187 lbs
@@TA12002you have issues
THANK YOU! I’m glad there are still people with reason out there
Just saw a comment that unironically said this video is "violent" and "unhuman".
Bsffr.
I can't believe the times we're living in.
@@Omnihilo yeah it’s absolutely batshit. I like Ariana Grande but her saying she’s at her healthiest right now is insane and so dangerous for people who look up to her…
thank you for addressing this lori! just as an FYI because i‘ve seen several comments on here misquoting the tiktok: ariana never claimed to be at her healthiest right now. what she said and what has been greatly misunderstood is that what people are comparing her current look to was a very unhealthy version of herself, when she was on antidepressants and drinking (personally, i‘m assuming she is referring to 2018-2019, as that was an incredibly hard period for her). those are two very different statements!
she further pointed out that people who have an issue usually already know and are working on it. also said repeatedly that you never know what someone is going through. it‘s hard to address/communicate what you‘re going through *when* you‘re going through it and in the thick of it, so i do understand where she‘s coming from when she‘s asking people not to comment on her body as much. it‘s been the only focus of the media on her lately, and if she is in recovery, that must not be easy. whether or not that is a reasonable wish for someone in her position is a different question, but i fully believe it is a valid one.
Thank you! Pretty sure I quoted her correctly - she talked about her unhealthiest but not her healthiest 💗
@@LorryHill yes, you absolutely did ❤ many commenters took that statement and drew their own conclusions from it (i.e. thinking her talking about her unhealthiest implies her describing her current look as her healthiest), which is why i wanted to point that out. love your work!
@@LorryHill edit: just watched your video again, and i think what people might be referring to/getting this from is the input at 08:15
I think it's important for ppl to know that image doesn't always correlate with health. As you mentioned, we are tough on celeb's and their image. They're human like us. Everyone isn't as concerned as they are just being critical. We can't have it both ways. It's not easy to maintain a slender body for some. Ppl like to throw the "health/healthy card" out there to support their prejudice for anyone who gains weight. I don't blame her for being defensive. Our society is judgemental, cruel, and self righteous.
I completely agree. I think by being a person who chooses to be in the spotlight you open yourself to attention and when the tide turns its not fair or pleasant to think of someone dealing with that especially when they are dealing with their own personal human issues. But it's the double edged sword that everyone famous deals with and there's not any way to say this without sounding unpleasant but Ariana has enjoyed success, adulation, praise and superstardom, and so like every other singer actor and celebrity before her she has to now navigate this because that's the price you pay by default.
I really do hope she gets better and I hope the best for her because to come through this will make her stronger.
I myself am a naturally slim guy and when I've been healthy I am strong and look okay as that's my natural frame but I have to work at it just as that's my metabolism.
However in the past I've been very thin at one point through not taking care of myself and being in a very low place personally, emotionally, financially, and so my health reflected that, and I could see a big change losing what I couldn't afford to lose... and at one point I swear couldn't even take a bath without having a strange pain from lying in it as the back of my thighs would hurt thats how skinny I got.... and I crawled my way back to health.
I've had covid and stuff a few times since and dropped weight but never THAT much again and it's truly a sorry state to be so thin.
You don't look good or feel attractive or even like a whole person so I say this to comment from my own reflection on my own times I've struggled and to make the point that I just wouldn't ever ridicule someone going through their own.
Life is a journey and to become so famous and Work on her talent and overcome things I know she is a strong person and she can totally get better but as someone who's been low I can see she's dealing with all this publicly
It's something she can't change. The publicity I mean. And to expect a pass because she doesn't like it kind of tells me she still has to face up to some aspects of that on top of everything else so God Bless her and I pray she gets to a well place because she really looks undernourished and unhealthily skinny and that - if she doesn't overcome that Will have a severe effect on her health emotionally physically and mentally...but she can do this so I really wish her that from one person to another ❤️
Lorry you were very kind and empathetic as always so I think you said exactly the right things here and it is what needed to be said, even if its not the PC thing to speak out these days
Hope you are well and your family. God bless and thanks.
I watched her video on TikTok and she starts off by making a point to show she has her coffee like “look how normal I am enjoying beverages/food” and it’s a classic thing I see among those with ED
I do think its very scary to ask these questions to her, especially if you think she has an ed. Even if you ask in a «nice» way, there are only negative outcomes. Ive been in a situation like ariana before, and it does nothing more than making a situation worse, and i had no ed. Would you comment on somebody fat to tell them they have an ed? Or if they are okay? Its still not nice.
If she was tan with her brown hair every would be saying how good she looks
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Either that or accusing her of blackfishing
I feel bad for her, she's obviously going through something. She probably didn't lose the weight on purpose. Depression or stress, or other diseases can cause weight loss, it might not necessarily be an ED. And in her petite frame it's very noticeable. Either way, she doesn't seem to be healthy right now, so I hope she can get the help she needs. I'm rooting for her ❤
Her appearance doesn’t look healthy. And just because you eat fruits and vegetables and exercise frequently, that doesn’t mean you’re healthy either. Portion size, medications/drug use, and time spent exercising all factor into it.
Also, I think it’s completely ridiculous when people who got famous partly off their looks or someone who posts videos of themselves online demands that you not talk about their appearance. How about fading into obscurity then and not posting photos or videos of yourself? Otherwise, you’re fair game imo.
I think there’s a big difference between commenting on something’s bodily appearance and their appearance in clothing/fashion. She’s a natural small person and has always been known for her fashion but that doesn’t mean she wants comments about her body (positive or negative). I’m not commenting at all on the state of her health because that’s not my place to say but I can say from personal experience that I’d much rather have comments made about how I choose to style myself than how my body looks. Sometimes people’s “positive” comments about your body are still critiques. I think it is fair for her to ask for people not to comment on her appearance (in regards to her body) but whether the media or fans will ever respect that request is a different story. None of us know her personally and I think all we can hope for it that if something is wrong that the people who are close to her can help her through that. At the end of the day I don’t think commenting on how “sickly” she looks helps the situation.
Unfortunately diets or diet changes are oftentimes used as shield for disordered eating. Being on a vegan diet isn’t necessarily better
She isn’t vegan. She had a Starbucks drink come out a few years ago with egg in it.
@@pri.sci.lla. i’m referring to the most recent video she released on tik tok
@@Erdf3542 yes me too. I’m saying she’s not vegan so blaming the way she looks on being vegan isn’t accurate.
@@pri.sci.lla. she is a vegan and her starbucks drink faced a ton of backlash because people were confused at wby she would come out with a drink that contained animal products (bscause its a marketing gimmick and it's not like she was gonna consume it herself in daily life)
@@pri.sci.lla. I don’t get what a starbucks drink from years ago has to do with here and now?
Being famous is a double edge sword. I hope she's well.
She was a different person before fame with the red hair.
She invented another personality to look beautiful. She now decided to change to a third person.
She doesn't like herself.
The part that concerns me of her weightless is not what it was one year ago, but what she looked like before she was famous as a reference.
I think assuming she has an ED might be too far, she might or maybe she has another serious health condition that is causing her this weight loss. maybe she has some type of illness she’s not ready to talk about and it could be hard to go through that then also have to explain why she looks different now. I think it’s fair people have questions but I’m not sure we are owed an explanation just because she is in the public eye
I think you put it very well: (some)celebrities will build their brand partly on flaunting their looks, but as soon as they don't like the comments, they say how wrong it is to comment on their looks. They wanna eat their cake and keep it, too
Yep! If you’re calling them the hottest thing on earth,that’s fine. Anything else, nope!
@@LoveK1 yeah cause why would you comment on anything negative?
REMEMBER that the camera ADDS 10 lbs ( at least ) to someone's appearance! So imagine how she looks in person. That's dangerously thin.
Thanks for your thoughtful comments.
I just want to say that even in real life loved ones will comment if you’ve lost a lot of weight to the point that you’re now underweight because they’re genuinely concerned.
Generally I don’t think people should comment on someone’s weight, It’s definitely a touchy subject but this could be fatal and it’s definitely worrisome 😢😢💔 I hope she’s ok.
You all convincing yourselves it a matter of life and death to excuse the intrusion and scrutiny is some A+ bullshit.
People specifically compare her body now to her body during her thank u next era which was when she was dealing with the aftermath of multiple traumatic events. Her very politely saying “hey please don’t compare my body to the lowest point of my life” is not an unreasonable request. Maybe she doesn’t want to be reminded of her trauma just because people think she looked better when she was going through it. I normally agree with you, but this video was poorly researched and in poor taste. If she is going through something, this is not helping. She undoubtedly has access to great healthcare, she does not need a million strangers weighing in feigning concern
All that stress of breaking up marriages has gotten to her