Respond vs. React: A Simple, Powerful Tool to Stop Arguments

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  • Опубликовано: 13 янв 2025
  • Learn a powerful way to stop arguments from starting. In 5 minutes, you will learn a proven communication tool for successful conversations that don't get derailed.
    Why having a short pause will help you to respond and not react.
    Learn what you will mentally do during the short pause.
    Choose a long-term and not a short-term outlook.
    Respond thoughtfully and not in an emotionally driven way.
    Choose to see the other person's perspective and not just your perspective.
    Gracefully take a longer pause if you need one so you can thoughtfully respond and not react.
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Комментарии • 36

  • @Relationships-Communication
    @Relationships-Communication  2 года назад +13

    If you can, please take the time to use a notebook to write out what the video suggests as doing so patterns it more deeply than only hearing it. Thanks!

  • @englishinthebag
    @englishinthebag 11 месяцев назад +2

    Simple analysis which allows actionable plans.Great contribution to alleviate human pain.Greetings from Morocco.

    • @Relationships-Communication
      @Relationships-Communication  11 месяцев назад

      Thank you for your kind comment! Glad you found it helpful. I appreciate the greeting from Morocco!

  • @shelleycharlesworth5177
    @shelleycharlesworth5177 6 месяцев назад +2

    GREAT video-MY emotional well-being is more important than anyone else's bad behavior!

  • @meenakumari362
    @meenakumari362 9 месяцев назад +2

    It doesn't matter, it's the same because you're energizing the situation. You may take revenge days or years after which brings bad karma.

    • @richardjchandler
      @richardjchandler 9 месяцев назад

      And creating bad karma is a likely consequence of reacting rather than responding. I appreciate your comment. Thanks!

    • @meenakumari362
      @meenakumari362 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@richardjchandler You can respond in a negative way or take time to plan revenge. Whatever thoughts or energy you put out, you get back regardless respond or react.

    • @richardjchandler
      @richardjchandler 9 месяцев назад

      @@meenakumari362 Yes. That certainly is true!

    • @CastleHassall
      @CastleHassall 5 месяцев назад

      your points make no sense.. if a person is rational in a discussion that does not mean they are putting bad energy into it
      and also it's wise to fight sometimes, unless you don't value protecting the innocent from abuse etc

    • @meenakumari362
      @meenakumari362 5 месяцев назад

      @@CastleHassall
      What is Revenge What Karma, Revenge & Justice Have to Do w/ Reality Transurfing ruclips.net/video/9DtAcaAG8vE/видео.html

  • @balajib785
    @balajib785 11 месяцев назад +1

    Dear sir,
    Really you are such great divine analysistor but l am very ordinary man. Vibraratinng my complete body without my knowledge. But l am sure all are making great effort to resolve the......❤

  • @jonfrederick6008
    @jonfrederick6008 2 года назад +7

    Awesome. Brilliant. And so simple and straightforward. Thanks!

  • @MaggieWebster-o4r
    @MaggieWebster-o4r Год назад +3

    This makes so much more sense than some vides I’ve listened to. It’s plain and simple no nonsense language that anyone and everyone can understand. Thank you ❤

    • @Relationships-Communication
      @Relationships-Communication  Год назад

      Thank you, @user-kj1nf2ki6p , for your kind comment. I appreciate hearing that the ways of responding rather than reacting made good sense to you. I hope you also find a few other videos on my channel that can help you or the people in your life have better relationships and communication.

    • @MasteryJourneys
      @MasteryJourneys 2 месяца назад

      Thank you for commenting. I'm glad the video helped.

  • @linalindbladh8529
    @linalindbladh8529 Год назад +4

    Amazing. Protecting your future! SO good

    • @Relationships-Communication
      @Relationships-Communication  Год назад +1

      Yes. Too often our emotions convince us that this moment when we are emotionally activated is the vital time frame. But in hindsight, that usually is not the case. You are correct in noticing that protection our futures is usually more important than how we feel in the moment. Thanks for commenting!

  • @davidmorrison1086
    @davidmorrison1086 Год назад +4

    Never knew the difference. Awesome! Many Thanks 👍

    • @strategicleadershipconsult7329
      @strategicleadershipconsult7329 Год назад

      You are very welcome, David! Glad the difference between reacting and responding 😁was an insight for you!

    • @Relationships-Communication
      @Relationships-Communication  Год назад

      You are very welcome, David! Glad the difference between reacting and responding 😁was an insight for you!

  • @JoJo-xo6fh
    @JoJo-xo6fh Год назад +4

    Thank you Sweet man🙏❤️

  • @kateowen6035
    @kateowen6035 Год назад +1

    Great advice, thanks!

    • @Relationships-Communication
      @Relationships-Communication  Год назад

      I'm glade, Kate, that you found the information helpful in learning how to respond creatively to situations rather than to react. Thanks for commenting!

  • @reallifelove
    @reallifelove Год назад +2

    Very helpful, thank you

    • @strategicleadershipconsult7329
      @strategicleadershipconsult7329 Год назад +2

      I appreciate your kind comment. I'm glad the idea of taking a pause to respond was of help to you.

    • @Relationships-Communication
      @Relationships-Communication  Год назад

      Glad it was helpful! Taking a few more moments to pause to respond and not react can really pay off. Thanks for commenting!

  • @RawKnee1111
    @RawKnee1111 8 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you ~

  • @shannaypeterkin3567
    @shannaypeterkin3567 4 месяца назад +1

    Needed this

  • @CastleHassall
    @CastleHassall 5 месяцев назад

    but the trouble is that many people we have conflict with are NOT interested in rational points that we make at all and our attempts to rationally discuss issues just leads to them gaslighting or getting abusive if we are rational and considerate