Pearl is the perfect example of why free speech is important. If you shut people down before they speak, you'll never give them the opportunity to expose themselves.
The problem is, many people don't understand what free speech is. People advocating for it on the right, usually don't actually want free speech. They want protected speech. The difference between free speech and protected speech is, free speech is not free from consequence. Protected speech is. AKA, fuck around, find out.
@@mercb3astthey are the same thing. Free speech is protected speech.. and what consequences are you talking about? Legal? Social? If someone says something stupid or offensive and lose their audience socially or people exclude them from the public square socially, then yeah i agree.. but if someone says something stupid or offensive, they shouldnt be criminalised for it.
Thank you!! I've been saying that for years. I don't want it to be a secret if you want me dead. Please scream that ish from the rooftops so I know to be on my way.
Pearl is literally the quote, “It’s better to keep your mouth shut and let people think you’re stupid than to open it and prove them right.” Edit: I know that is not the actual quote but I used this version because it felt more blunt and straightforward. No disrespect to the OG quote.
My dad and grandfather used quote that. I would often keep my mouth shut. But when I did open it. I would often get called a smart a**. I would respond with . I would rather be a smart a** than a dumb a**. My grandfather would often chuckle at that.
@@Kunigunda897 That makes it worse. I remember that. You would think after that experience with destiny she would have thought to spend more time formulating her points and doing more research on them rather than to continue on forward as if nothing happened.
@@RuinMassia I'd like for you to confirm that for me since you work there but from what I've heard, it's is a well-known fact that in the majority of abusive relationships, there's an abuser and a victim. Is that correct? She's so insanely disrespectful to victims with that type of speech
Grew up in a third world country. Moved to the US. I guarantee that I received a better education than the majority of Americans. They lack basic knowledge and 0 understanding of international even local affairs.
Three guarantees in life: 1 - Death 2 - Taxes 3 - Pearl's inability to stand behind her words when challenged Its crazy how she rips women for being so quick to get a divorce yet she literally quits an interview because it didn't go her way
It's just crazy how pearl got so much to say about marriage. How married people should act when she's never been married, or is even expert in that field. 💀
And there valids things that could be said about Washington and the slaves he inherited, but someone like her who just casually throws out dumb s*it to own the libs, without putting some thought 1st is why she always looks dumb.
Other than abuse. She was with a black,single dad,homeless man. That she moved into her dads house and they both mooched off of her dad. I only mention he was black because she had that racist guy on her podcast. That didn't want race mixing and Pearl agreed like an idiot. 😂
With Pearl’s track record of doing the exact opposite of what she preaches, if she ever does get married I’m sure she’ll be divorcing the dude within 3 years
I can 100% see her being the stereotype of the domineering, emasculating wife who's never satisfied and constantly berates and lectures her husband. Her personality fits the profile.
Nah, the guy will divorce her, that's why she wants divorce banned, so the guy can never escape. She'll be in the small percentage of divorces where the guy actually initiates it.
I spent the majority of my teenage years BEGGING my Mom to leave. I witnessed my Dad throw a hammer at her face, and it just barely missed her. After some of their "fights" id see finger marks around her neck. I would hide under my brother's bed because i was TERRIFIED shed be dead. The day we left, we packed suitcases and stayed with friends. For someone to say divorce shouldnt be legal is offensive and wrong on so many levels. 🤬
You're not alone I grew up in a broken home as well. When I moved out. I didn't want my father to know where I lived. Because I was worried. They were gonna bring unnecessary drama and conflict Into my life.
No one should tolerate that abuse bc evil is real. What she talks about it on some utopian level and that’s why a lot of people stop relating to her bc she is not grounded in reality bc she most likely never faced decades of abuse or witnessing it. This stuff gets stored in your body.
@@jillianmitchells7748Liar. Hagar was an Egyptian slave of Abraham and Sarah and I assure you they did NOT treat her like a human with respect. Why the hell would you sat that dumb crap for?
She never had a husband, a boyfriend, a lover, and from a rich, privileged family. She has NO experience! NO data. NO research. NO real life examples. Yet she's giving marriage advice. THIS IS A HUGE PROBLEM! THIS IS BAD! THIS IS BAD, BAD!😡
She did have a boyfriend, it was an overweight guy who catfished her. She moved him into her parents house, bugged him about losing weight. He lost the weight and left her for a prettier version. There is a RUclips video exposing it-cannot remember who put it together.
So funny bc she's far too opinionated, outspoken and not feminine to be picked by the creeps she is trying to attract. It's actually beautiful irony 😂😂.
Her saying most abuse is mutual is kind of sickening when you think about the victims who have actually had their abusers press charges on them when they actually attempt to defend themselves.
Yeah... the evidence doesn't really lean in your favor. Cambridge did a study that showed most domestic abuse is mutual. You can't just assume that most women were only trying to defend themselves just because it fits your narrative. With that being said everything else she said was abhorrent. Even if most domestic abuse is mutual that means those people should not be together. Edit: Accidentally said everything you said was abhorrent when I meant everything pearl said was abhorrent.
"I can't talk about this without getting cancelled." Interesting Pearl, I thought the whole deal of women is that we do not suffer any consequences at all?!?!
OR like these two mixed race pink lipped men claiming to be "black". These men are victim of a white man in their own gene pool. Nigerians are black. These men are half caramel. Half mocha. Half white. Slamming white guys.....how bold you are!!!!
those people are on both sides, and its dangerous because although they barely understand the headline, they often are willing to hurt someone over this "belief"
yeah that isnt really true. for starters majority of people men and woman who ends up in a abusive relationship are often abusive themselves or highly attracted to toxic behavior and its enviorment. theres this saying you often attract what you yourself are. when it comes to hide their behavioure, they dont. it is a gradual evolvement. they always start with isolation before violence, violence always accoure when they know their partner allows it to happen. it never happens out of the blue. the the victime often also ignores the toxic behavior as well or justify it. oh he beats me because he loves me, or i cant leave because he needs me etc etc.
Legit what I was thinking about the whole time she was talking about the onesidedness. I was like bitch do NOT KNOW what the word conniving, manipulative means? People find ways to lie and hide stuff..like a child lying to their parents about eating cookies before dinner. An old coworker of mine told me that she met a stripper who found this cream to hide bruises
Did you know that Assault and Battery is a crime punishable with jail time? and it's easier to report because all you need is an accusation and a medical report, not to mention we live in the digital age, crazy right? Also Domestic Abusers don't stop with just divorce, really insane.
She's a single woman telling married couples how to live their lives. She's an arm chair marriage counselor that is good at gaining red pill simp audience.
Naw honestly if two people want to put the rest of us through their union, they can live with that shit or die. For real. Why do the rest of us have to deal with your dumbass decisions and trauma?
Cos there is a problem that people on the left don't want to address. Thus, men ran to people like Pearl cos she appears to be on their side, even if she doesn't believe half the things she says.
My Mum got married to my Dad in 1963. A month into the marriage was her first beating. They brought 3 children into the abusive marriage. This destroyed mine and my brothers child development. We are very damage but so is my mother. What did this achieve, nothing but another statistic. 😢
My mom always tries to convince me I'm my father's daughter. Yes we play hockey and baseball, sing, play the guitar and drums but there's something missing. I to this day believe my mom cheated and I think my dad believes that as well. She always brings up someone on my dads side. So I believe she's stuck in this endless loop of her past
@@xlightninghawk6360 😂 okay now I'm curious too I'm not From America and this type of thing doesn't happen normally in my country. It's looking like some movie plot And I'm quite interested
@@chelsea9493girl why did you have to say this lol now I neeeed to know if ya’ll are related please do a dna and come back tell us all about it. I’m sorry about the disconnect feeling you have, imagine all the people you are related to that you will discover.
It's interesting how she's not even living the way she thinks is best for women. No kids, no husband, and self-employed as a RUclipsr. Looks like she's benefited quite a lot from 1st and 2nd wave feminism 🤔
She admits she's not attractive enough to lock down the men that turn her on, people shrieked when she found someone she liked but was poor. I don't the advice she gives, or "guideline" applies to someone who already has a gigantic family and financial security. So this point of yours falls flat.
Just ban divorce. Just end oil. Just tax all the money from the rich. How did dumb kids with no life experience get such a God complex and a platform to spew their ignorance.
I mean, I'm not dead. But I still know what it looks like when somebody is dead. Just because you have not lived through something or experienced it personally doesn't mean you can't learn about it. I don't know s*** about helicopters but I know the one that Kobe was on, wasn't a good one. You don't have to experience something in order to talk about it. I don't know what it's like to be shot I can still learn what the bullet velocity is. The damage on impact. The likelihood of survival. All without experiencing it myself. So if you hate somebody go ahead and say it. Just out of curiosity do you think meth is bad? Because under your logic you wouldn't know if it is or not unless you tried it.
The fact that Pearl doesn't understand how people get with abusive partners shows that there's a high probability that she can marry someone who is and won't know it until it's too late. SMH
Pearl keep saying "women need to choose better men" ... really? People change overtime, the person you meet can and WILL change for good or bad. Why is Pearl always pandering to men who wouldn't choose her as a wife anyway? She can't speak on half the stuff she's popular for.
That’s what happens on average. It’s why abuse is more prevalent in conservative communities because abuse is fairytale they can’t talk about even though it has probably happened in their household at some point or other.
Someone needs to tell Pearl that marriage is like this conversation with Ethan. She went in expecting a good time, ended up with something different and when things got difficult for her she left the conversation. Now imagine if she couldn’t leave and had to continue to endure that beatdown, that’s what banning divorce would be like but instead of verbal it can be physical.
Pearl wants a man so much she's lost respect for herself and agrees with all this stuff, yet still has no boyfriend. All the men that follow her love her, yet I never see any of them saying they want to be with her, she's hasn't got the look that those "no standard" men have. It's always "I need a girl like you" never "I want you". She's destroying her life for a group of men that wouldn't look at her twice in the real world. She's a laughingstock and blatantly jealous of others.
My cousin's ex girl friend is pick me, she said men cheating is okay as long as my cousin give her money and take care of her. In the end, my cousin broke up with her because he didn't want to marry mentally unstable girl.
@@lavish_1717What?? She has never said anything too crazy or bad, she just supports the family unit and she is anti abortion. That's just basic common sense. Ignorant people like you think all girls that are not feminist are just pick me's 🤦🏻♀️ Oh and BTW, if u go to her channel there's A LOT of guys calling Pearl beautiful and they all simp for her, she just doesn't have a boyfriend cause she's not a desperate loser that just sleeps with any man that gives her attention 🤷🏻♀️
Nah I think she believes it but she been with Fuentes for a while she knows when she's being a fuckhead. Or she's just that dumb ,which wouldn't surprise me at all
And thats what happens when someone who never went through something like that wants to have a opinion on it, she was raised in a privileged household. I've never went through it, but my dad went through and he said exactly like this" Dad used to hit mom, do you think i liked seeing that? as a little child and not being able to do anything?", that still is something bad in his memories and he is 50+ yo, imagine being raisedseeing your mom getting beat
Same...then i fled home early and in seeking something else I ended up repeating the cycle smh. They're both idiots who obviously have no idea what they're talking about!
I give Aba & Preach credit for being open minded. Even though you guys have had beef with Ethan and Fresh & Fit, you guys have supported or given them credit for other situations. You manage to put personal differences aside to be open and honest. This is what makes you guys so powerful. Much much credit to the intelligent and fair way you guys conduct yourselves.
That's the best thing about them. They don't let petty beef stop them from acknowledging what is objectively wrong like when they rightfully defended Fresh and Fit even thoughbthey had every right to go against him. That's what makes this channel so good.
This chick is pissing me off. As a survivor of domestic violence I had no bruises or physical evidence because my ex was smart with how he inflicted his abuse. I left to get away from that craziness because I didn't want my sons to think this was the way to treat their partner. And they were glad I left and could not understand what made me attracted to him in the first place. And this was of their own cognition based on their own experiences they had with him not by me saying anything to them about him. She is mental and is probably an abusive person herself. My goodness....
@@cojinmango It's better and I paid dearly for leaving. But my sanity and safety of my children endured through the pain. We have therapists on deck to help us deal with the aftermath.
she says the most unhinged things and then doubles down to get views. all this at the expense of the people who are really affected, harming many serious causes. wicked
You can tell by the way she laughs as she says the craziest takes, like “divorce should be illegal” and “women shouldn’t vote” that she’s basically doing a bit, loving the attention the manosphere gives her, and doesn’t give a rats ass about what her politics really mean. She’s an awkward rich girl who never got attention and found a captive audience in the mgtow movement. Her opinions mean *she herself* can never be happy, she’s “too old”, “not pretty enough”, “not fertile”, “unmarried”, “a working woman”…if she wants to hold views that mean she should be miserable-and doesn’t see how ridiculous that is…well good luck to her 🤷♂️
Dawg.... ya'll black women gotta stop using the "mfs is dangerous" line so loose like that... and the LGBT community does too... specially the T's... them T's is outta control with it, wayyyyyy more than the black women, ya feel me?
@@emsanders9701 Shes not your dawg you idiot. What the hell does "yall black women" mean, "what are you even on about ?" Pearl and people both Women and Men who think like her are indeed dangerous. Why are so offended by the truth ?
Ethan deserves more credit for this interview. Yes Pearl is dumb, but Ethan also did his research and went through each topic systematically pointing out Pearl's inconsistencies.
No he doesn’t, he’s still borderline deranged and doesn’t know how to take accountability for the bs he spews. Making Pearl look stupid is like winning a fight against a child.
I have been in an abusive relationship. When Pearl said that most abusive relationships were mutual, trust me, it only becomes mutual once the other partner that gets bullied starts to fight back. I was one of that person. I am not condoning violence but when your partner actively hits you for the smallest annoyances you will snap one day.
Which tells me how stupid this woman is. Tell who will sit there and let another person, no matter who beat their ass? No one that’s who. By the way we are evolved for self preservation, even as someone who is very docile and meek, when met with the right circumstances will pull up their fits and do whatever it takes to protect themselves. The word reactive abuse shouldn’t even be used. It implies that the victim is also abusing the same way the abuser is and not just reaction to self preservation, and protection.
Now this may be a hot take but hear me out. Institutionalizing by government and religious organizations over the concept of marriage is the greatest mistake ever in human history. A human tradation about two people to consenting to be with eachother should be a more private manner. But if its ceremonial then it should be held on the grounds if those religious places if they wish to held it or not. Also why does it have to be there. Why not do it at the beach, a park do a sci fi medeivel theme wedding....You get where i'm going with this?
With my husband for 15 yrs. He developed a drinking problem and became progressively worse. Made it work until he got physical with me and it was in front of our child. Left him that night.Had to leave because I couldn’t have my kids learn this behavior was okay. She has no clue how life actually works.
@@randomhuman2595 He tried to give me hell but I don’t let him bother me. (That most likely bothers him more deeply tbh) I have most custody and I live a very peaceful life (as much as is possible with two lil’ kids running ‘round!)
This is the thing, people change. You can't predict if someone is gonna have issues with addiction years down the line and become violent. It's absolutely not your fault.
This woman is the perfect example of someone who gives opinions without having any actual knowledge or experience on the topic she is speaking on. They aren’t even opinions they are just guesses at this point. Opinions are when you are faced with facts and determine how you feel about it. She is just thinking things out loud.
And honestly… I’m down to watch channels who just think out loud…. That’s pretty much what Aba & Preach do…. But she’s fkng stupid so it sucks listening to her. 😂😂😂😂
Very much accurate. Your last sentence summarizes her showing in this interview. There’s no preparation for the questions being asked, and since she didn’t have any “cue card” responses, she had to fall back on her own opinions… And that CLEARLY lacks. She’s literally just thinking as she responds. There’s no experience or even critical real critical thought. Just pandering to an audience. Yikes
Also many slaves did not learn to write because they weren’t taught. So most of the “slave accounts” she read were probably from slaves that had more opportunities, and were more respected. There so many things wrong with her I can’t💀
I do kinda agree that slavery tends to be over-embellished to some degree. Ill be in conversation with people and they'll say slaves couldn't read or write and I'd say that some house slaves or slaves that managed other slaves did. They will get defensive immediately and try to act like I'm trying to defend slavery when in reality I'm just correcting the misinformation they are spreading. Another example is id hear from multiple sources that slaves worked 20 hours every day, were not fed while working and had to work every day of the week, but in actuality, slaves most likely worked 13 hours with a 30 minute breakfast and dinner break, plus slaves never worked on Sundays and were allowed to go to church. We all know slavery is a horrible thing, that's absolutely correct, but at the same time some people can make it sound worse than what it actually is. This isn't me saying it was a good thing, just that people over-embellish a bit.
@captaincaterpie even if physically exaggerated,it does not measure what it did to them mentally and emotionally abusive. How many were beaten and assaulted,their children sold? It don't think it could get much "worse"
Her old best friend responded to her on tiktok. They stopped being friends a year ago because of how she's behaving. It's super sad. They had been friends since they were super little and were even roommates in college together.
That’s the assumption. She holds some extremely dangerous but typical white values attitudes and perceptions of the world. Her friends will reflect these values etc. The values (culture) that were taught to her by her conservative “evangelic” typed Christian parents. She is gradually returning to this centre ground after a brief planned orchestrated hiatus into the “HOOD”. Where she studied the natives on her show. She’s noe made a name for herself and is now returning to America. She’s a very calculated fool indeed an oxymoron. However like the joker (who’s the joke on?) Unfortunately what you are refer to here is independent critical thinking friends. Few of us (myself included) have these type of friends. However there should be a line. I guess our faith in the ability of humanity to do the right thing will be questioned 😔😢 ✌🏾out
@@equinox1223 not really. They're basically implying that owning Pearl was very easy, which is not. Pearl may be dum but she's incredibly difficult and annoying to discuss with
@@Notorious2024stfu 23 of those people aren’t black nor do black people just go around randomly killing people you racists are cowardly and love saying anything
I watched my mom get cheated on, beat, stalked, and r*ped by the SAME man. He even tried to kidnap me from school. It took her years to get out of that marriage and even longer to get him out of our lives for good. She had police reports, pictures, eyewitness testimonies and still all she could get was a restraining order and hope for the best. We couldn’t even get him locked up. And he was the nicest, sweetest guy at first. He treated me like his daughter, he was charismatic and everyone in the family loved him at first. But that’s how they get you.
I'm sorry you endured that. It's tragic that you can never tell who's truly genuine until it's too late. Little wonder so many have trust issues these days, but it's also sad that the people who are genuine get lumped in with people like your stepfather.
America has a justice system problem. The ones that should be put in their place are a lot of corrupt or lazy ass judges that don't wanna do their jobs. I'm really sorry for your situation, both that creepy mofo and the judge should be in jail,or at least the judge should have been fired.
@@cinamoonmoon5166then why do so many abusers get defended by family members and neighbors who are shocked and appalled at the accusations toward them? we see it all the time in media and in psychopath stories but somehow mentally disconnect from the fact that this happens
She's always so happy and proud of herself when she says sh*t like "ban divorce" or "women shouldn't vote", like she really thinks she's so edgy and 'not like the other girls'
Pearl is basically the equivalent of a person who experiences nothing, but somehow manages to know everything. In other words, most of the time she doesn't know what the hell she is talking about.
Your explanation reminds me of Matt Damon's role as Will Hunting in the movie "Good Will Hunting" in which he plays a genius but is a know it all ass (granted he had a shit load of trauma there) who knows almost anything in theory but has no practical experience in the subjects. There is a scene when Robin Williams character reprimanded him that he might know all the history of the sistine chapel and how Michael Angelo's thought process about this whole thing was and whatnot, but he has no idea how the sistine chapel smells or how it feels to actually stand in this grand artifice.
@@Tuoyo3005omg, thank you for saying this 😂! I couldn’t believe she said that. I was like “Pearl please, you don’t even fucking like women”. In fact you’ve made a career of putting them down. Yet you expect us to believe that you’ve spoken to that many. Pearl give me a break.
I've grown up in abusive household,my dad used to beat my mom till the point that she's passed out. After 13 years of that type of „ marriage" she left,packed up my brother and me and we ran,she didn't care for the wedding vows,she didn't care that people will call her a failure,she only cared for us,and our safety, I'm 22 now,with a child,also divorced,because my husband was mentally abusive,and there is nothing wrong with that
Both can exist tbh, she might be the 'exception' of females who struggles with having career because high-functioning but also wanting a family, while also knowing whats best for society.
The trauma of waking up to your younger sibling crying because dad is beating mom, and then trying to pull him off her to then be hit yourself and finally after waiting in your room with your siblings having to sneak out of the house with them and your mom once he passes out bc he’s so drunk is horrible. I thank God my mom had the courage to leave and she didn’t press charges, which actually made it easier for all of us. It almost makes me wish Pearl would have to “endure” something like this before she starts running her ignorant, privileged mouth trying to speak on abuse in the household.
I had nowhere near this level of abuse but similar. The idea of forcing people to stay together in that situation is absurd. This airhead had everything handed to her from her wealthy family. She's the last person who should be lecturing people in relationships especially with younger kids involved. She's completely tone deaf saying terrible shit in stride.
Now I understand why Pearl never washes her hair. She's afraid of getting married and winding up having to live by her own ridiculous ideas about marriage/divorce.
Nailed it at the start! You know what's hard on children? Seeing a parent get abused. And she advocates for a 2 parent home but says divorced women should live out their days alone. Thank God for every stepfather that has stepoed in and chose to fill that void! I know my life was infinitely better because my mom found a man who thought I was worth being a daughter.
Exactly. Seeing a dysfunctional relationship between your parents is something that most definitely impacts the children's emotional development negatively. If there is abuse, it's even worse, all studies show that teenagers with violent tendencies have grown up witnessing domestic violence against one or both parents. Staying is in fact what puts kids at a statistical disadvantage.
Pearly: People are happier with a family. Family: Physically beats each other and cannot leave until there is enough evidence to send the people to jail. Pearl: This equals happiness
Not to sound like a besserwisser but one thing Pearl need to start to do is to question everything whatever she’s reading cuz she comes off as a very dogmatic person with nothing backing up her beliefs due to her lack of experience. Pure ignorance at it’s finest.
The intense cringe and secondhand embarrassment from Pearl when she was trying to claim that George Washington had a "good relationship" with his sl@ves and that they saw him as a "father figure" is just 💀
Every time she talks she has a smile like she's fucking around. It could just be her being honest and smiling cause she knows her takes are extremely controversial but it's hard to believe a real person would unironically say this shit.
There's a slight difference, tho. Andrew Tate exaggerates a lot of his personality traits for dramatic and comic effect. He's likely at his core still an abuser and misogynist. Pearl on the other hand, IMO, I think is 100% grift, and I don't think she means anything she says. She just wants money, nothing more.
Bro Andrew Tate wasn’t playing a character. He would say more controversial things for clicks, but more and more evidence is showing that he is a human trafficking rapist
@@alessandrajackson3768 oooh watch his stuff after he was in house arrest about man and woman relationship dynamics. He changed the script at points saying that its importnat for the man to care and attend to the needs of his relationships ... not just provide. He is anti red pill now
My mom had bones broken and was beaten by me and my brother’s real dad. To hear this weirdo saying divorce should be illegal makes me so angry because women (and men) with abusive partners would have the opportunity for freedom and happiness and health completely ripped away from them. I honestly think Pearl needs her ass whooped or something.
Even if it’s not physically abusive, saying divorce should be ban really is so dumb for her to be saying as a pick me Think of all the men who end up with gold diggers. Well buddy until she throws a punch you can’t leave. Boohoo. She doesn’t think anything through
My best friend was stabbed with scissors and shoved down two flights of stairs , SHE GOT NO CHARGES, and they wanted to PROSECUTE him for defending himself. Fuken stories go both ways
@@thomaswoitekaitis8977 no shit it goes both ways, but what Pearl does is absolutely fucked in the head thinking all men is right and all women are bad. like my ex was very abusive too, not physically, but mentally, that doesnt mean every women are bad just because my ex was
As someone who witnessed domestic violence for about half of my childhood, that shit fucks you up mentally for a very long time. I still deal with the trauma in my adulthood, even though it’s been years. Why on earth would any decent human want divorce to be banned?!
*Pearl:* "I thought this was going to be a good faith interview" *Translation:* "I thought I'd be able to take this interview in whatever direction I want to make myself look intelligent, and thus far you're only asking questions that make me look like the racist, bigoted, myopic excuse for a human being I am"
As person who actually works in a shelter for women and children fleeing domestic violence, I can tell you it’s very rarely mutual. Idk what the hell she’s talking about !!
Aye you awesome for what you so for work I honestly don't think I can handle a job like that I hate it but I connect to fast and I got a soft spot for woman and kids so seeing that would break me
People throw around the term "pick-me" a lot these days, but Pearl is either a very sad example of a gifter or the genuine article for a girl with pick-me in her bones.
Both can be true. She did get upset about demonetization. If she was doing this for charity then it wouldn't have ever been monetized in the first place. And she admitted on camera that she listens to the manosphere because she has low self esteem. Her words.
A lot of both. Extremely low self-esteem is what got her to commit these views to memory; a desperate need for attention, especially from men, is what got her to regurgitate them. It would be sad if she weren't so detestable or even did the bare minimum amount of research to stand behind the wild and unreasonable claims she spits out. Instead she sounds like a middle schooler just repeating what they heard on a podcast that they fell asleep halfway through.
One of the biggest things I love about you guys is that you have ZERO problem in giving people props when it is deserved. H3H3 you usually have nothing good to say, but when he has content like this, you got no problem at shouting him out. Love it.
They even defended Fresh and fit when they got falsely accused by ethan They were the only mainstream channel who defended them Aba & Preach are the personification of objectivity
My parents were not abusive but they were unhappy with each other. My dad was overweight to cope and my mum was depressed. When they got a divorce yes it was hard, yes there were a lot of tears, yes there was a difficult adjustment period, but in the long-run it was a very good decision. My dad got back in shape, my mum is happier, i overall get both my parents happy.
@@Realivangarcia They were no longer compatible with each other. Honestly I don't know the details because as parents they did an excellent job keeping us (the kids) out of their marital issues. They started opening up to us about that period when we were old enough.
This is so relatable my goodness. My parents have been married over 40 years. I doubt they’ll ever divorce but I often wonder what they would look like separated.
No one in any domestic violence shelter, ever told her that the majority of abuse is mutual. That is a lie. Being a traditional woman is a wonderful thing. And pearl is destroying it for those of us that believe in traditional values not stupidity like women shouldn’t vote. I’m so glad you guys finally pointed out. She’s everything she goes against.
Eh my step dad physically abused my mom once 3 years ago. They endured and worked out there hardships, it was a traumatic experience but I’m happy there are still together. Haven’t been in that bad of a fight since then.
As a young child I always begged my mom to leave my dad. She was too nice to others. Always helping others but herself. My Dad was an intelligent, wise and narcissistic human! He would beat her, force her to do things and abused all the girls after we turn 10. My mother warned me not to talk back to him because I was getting old enough for him to beat me. She always thought he would change, because he wasn't like this when they first married. He actually got worse after she went through stage 4 cancer. She finally left him. I got to see my mother live the best 3 months of her life before she died. I had mixed emotions when she passed. She prepared me for her death. I was happy that she had a chance to live a peaceful life in the end. Unfortunately, the courts sent us back to live with our father. I had to fight him mostly everyday and Child protective services or police never did anything about it. I always asked my Dad why didnt he leave our family like he left his other wife and children.
Peace and blessings for you and your family, Justice will be served. God bless you and I’m sorry about what you’ve been through, there will be change. Praying
This entire interview is basically her just arguing with herself. All Ethan is doing is replaying clips of HER speaking and having her explain herself and she wants to just stay silent and just be like "Well, I don't want to talk about that because I feel like you're taking my words out of context." Okay, well, here's your chance to give context... Go ahead... We're all waiting. Lmao
My mom was killed by domestic violence, im glad pearl advocates for the husband in that situation since it couldnt be proven until after the fact. Very based
I'm sorry I know that doesn't help but from the bottom of my heart I am your a strong bad ass and know God takes everyone for a reason I don't know if this helps but God needed a good mom to help him with something she's proud of you for the amazing beautiful human you are I love you fam I hope this didn't offend you God loves you . She will get her karma trust me I wouldn't wish that upon anybody
That is just stupid logic though. Anyone can be in a relationship..people can be married 5 times but it doesn't mean they have any more knowledge or expertise on marriage than someone else (regardless of their relationship status) because they clearly can't succeed in one. Pearl atleast talks with men regularly and noone knows besides her what her dating life is like. People are attracted to obese degenerates so Pearl has nothing to worry about especially compared to the 3s & 4s talking rubbish in this comment section.. Alot of these people in the comments are just in Abas f4g echo chamber and they can't think for themselves and if you go through the comments you may aswell be reading bot spam. I'd rather live my life and date women than unironically take advice from content creators regardless of if its Pearl, Myron & 50iq fresh, Destiny the middle aged cuck to some dusty bi guy and his buddy with main character syndrome that gets milked like some gimp 😂 people actually take advice from these people it's crazy
My best friend was murdered by her partner 3 years ago. Another friend found her mother dead in the morning, strangled by an ex. This was about 40 years ago...At the time (leading up to the murder) the police wouldn't do anything cos he'd only threatened to harm her...thankfully laws have been put in place since to protect women who are being threatened I found myself in an abusive relationship when I was younger. It was The worst time of my life by far. If I hadn't escaped when I did, I'd have ended my own life. Hearing this spoiled, grown child talk about condemning women, children and men to a lifetime of torture at someone else's hands, because they're married is sickening. I'm glad she's never been a victim of violence, I wouldn't wish that on anyone. But she needs to shut her mouth. I know there'll be an abuser watching her, who feels justified as a result. ...not just after this video with Ethan, but the way she talks in general about women. Pearl's a scumbag
A few years ago, I lived in a small town where some dude stabbed his wife to death in their back yard and then slit his own throat. All in front of their 4 year old son. When I hear people like Pearl spouting their bullshit, I think of stories like that one.
That guy that beat up a poor girl in a clup using glass in Japan is one of her guests lately she really gave him a comfy spot on her show it seems. She's not on the side of any thing good.
@@AngryReptileKeeperjust the other day I read a recent story of this 32 year old guy executing all 3 of his children all young if I'm not mistaken under 12 in front of his wife and he shot her in the hand when she was trying to save them. Just a few search online you get stories that are recent of all types of domestic violence. Girl just hates people and hates herself and happiness.
The way she blinks like a chameleon, the way her hair is shining from grease, the way she keeps running her mouth without knowing anything leads me to truly believe that she is a social experiment.
absoloutely love how she says that ethan's pushing an agenda, when all she ever does is try to PUSH EVERY LITTLE ONE OF HER BELIEFS ONTO ALL OF SOCIETY AT ALL TIMES. what does she think the definition of an agenda is???
The funniest part of Pearl will forever be her saying that if you haven't experienced something you shouldn't talk about it while everything she talks about is stuff she hasn't experienced.
But this has nothing to do with the intelligence of the average person, she’s saying obviously dumb and illogical things and not taking accountability for it.
Ain’t no way you can tell me Pearl would be a submissive, soft wife, or else she wouldn’t be on these podcast in the first place. The irony of a WOMAN doing podcast spouting redpill talking points is himself within itself. These redpill dudes don’t like overly opinionated women. It goes to show that she doesn’t even know how to be what she’s preaching
look at the kind of women that red pill men are surrounded by… None of them are traditional. Women who are traditional would never surround themselves with a red pill man. If you want a good woman, you have to be a good man.
@@maducrutz9384 No cap. I think men find an ick in that because women aren't really rational, despite their intellect. So women with masculine traits are more likely to leave randomly as they act more like men. Hence anything that feels manly will turn men off.
I like how Pearl mentions that she would read letters that slaves would write about their experiences and how they weren’t that bad and it just made me think of the hundreds of thousands of slaves that couldn’t read nor write! So how would they be able to tell their stories of abuse and trauma! Pearl is a lost cause. She is going to regret spouting this rhetoric some day
I was thinking the same thing. She doesn’t even appear to be aware of the differences between slaves that worked in the household vs slaves that worked the fields. Just all around ignorant.
@@Ivy94F this!!!!! Like I’m pretty sure the slaves that were beaten and abused and worked the fields weren’t the ones taught to read and write(or even had the time to self teach) Pearl 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🙄🙄
I genuinely can't take anyone who talks about marriage or dating seriously when they're criminally single. I'm a long time single man & I think I give decent dating advice, but that's largely from the responses I've gotten over the years. I point out things they may not have considered, get them to put themselves in their partner's shoes, etc. Even with all that, you'll catch me dead before I'm on the internet trying to make money with the advice or views, & I sure as shit won't be making sweeping statements about so many people.
In an abusive relationship, not every woman just “gets beat”, sometimes I’d give up, but most times, I’d fight back! There are women who abuse their partners, of course, but to say my relationship was “mutual abuse” is seriously messed up. It’s human to protect yourself. I’d do it again.
Honestly, I hope you don't have to do it again. I saw my mom enduring that and after all that stopped I always told her "you won't have to do that again ever" and I could see the peace it gave her
She played herself as soon as she tried to pawn her own ignorance on Thomas Sowell. 😂 If she really did read any of his books or listen to him at all previously, she should have refreshed her memory so she could represent what he actually said appropriately. How does she think she can continue to preach accountability if she cant even defend the words coming out of her own mouth?
isnt Thomas Sowells stance kinda summed up as "yes it was bad but there is far more to it than that"? ive seen a few videos with him and that was my takeaway. pearly lookin REAL bad here.
(EDIT): I went back and re-read the section of the book, and I had mistakenly got it mixed up with one of his other books. The book in question is "Conquests and Cultures" and examines how specific cultural traits have identifiable effects on the history of those people. The section she's quoting is specifically about the history of slavery in the world, and how many Americans have a narrow understanding of it based only on our country's history. Sowell wasn't saying that ROOTS exaggerated the brutality or cruelty of slavery. He was just saying that he disliked how the showrunner chose to write a "myth" about certain _other_ details, specifically the process by which enslaved people were kidnapped and sold. After reading it again there is _definitely_ nothing in there about slavery being exaggerated. (ORIGINAL) I would say his beliefs are that the impact of slavery on their culture today is misunderstood and leaves out other influences. This misunderstanding has implanted the idea that black identity is entirely about being the descendants of slaves, which ignores other factors and has negatively influenced the ability for many African Americans to find success.
I mean, he is pretty dumb. Just smarter than her. I am totally OK with saying I am dumb. I just care enough to look into things before advocating against or for them. She did not. Ethan did, so he won.
Pearl is the kid in the group who probably annoys me the most as a teacher. She's not the lazy one who isn't doing anything nor the intelligent, organized leader who has the group on lock. She the one doing the bare minimum just to get by. She's standing presenting everything but can't answer anything because she only did the surface level work and colored a picture or two. Everything was handed to her and she believes now as an adult she can get by only doing the minimum. She has unmarried cat lady written all over her.
Most freed slaves knew no other way of life and often stayed with their former masters as hired hands or tenant farmers because they wouldn't be able to survive on their own, especially the older ones. It would be similar to someone who's been in prison for 30 years for a crime they didn't commit and all of a sudden, they're released into society, not knowing how anything worked and having the stigma of being a convict.
Imagine owning a person and some other person comes up and their like "why do you own a slave thats unethical" and they respond "I don't treat them like slaves, I treat them like human beings that I own" 😅 its like being on trial for stabbing someone and you ask for leniency and the judge says "you stabbed her 32 times..." and your response is "But did she die?" 🤦♂️ people are so stupid!
Pearl is the perfect example of why free speech is important. If you shut people down before they speak, you'll never give them the opportunity to expose themselves.
The problem is, many people don't understand what free speech is. People advocating for it on the right, usually don't actually want free speech. They want protected speech.
The difference between free speech and protected speech is, free speech is not free from consequence. Protected speech is.
AKA, fuck around, find out.
@@mercb3astthey are the same thing.
Free speech is protected speech.. and what consequences are you talking about? Legal? Social?
If someone says something stupid or offensive and lose their audience socially or people exclude them from the public square socially, then yeah i agree.. but if someone says something stupid or offensive, they shouldnt be criminalised for it.
"Never interrupt your enemy while he is making a mistake" - some guy or something idk 😅
Wow, I never thought I'd meet another human that gets this concept.
Never change.
Thank you!! I've been saying that for years. I don't want it to be a secret if you want me dead. Please scream that ish from the rooftops so I know to be on my way.
Pearl is literally the quote,
“It’s better to keep your mouth shut and let people think you’re stupid than to open it and prove them right.”
Edit: I know that is not the actual quote but I used this version because it felt more blunt and straightforward. No disrespect to the OG quote.
Well she admitted to Destiny that she is not that smart 😅
My dad and grandfather used quote that.
I would often keep my mouth shut. But when I did open it. I would often get called a smart a**. I would respond with . I would rather be a smart a** than a dumb a**.
My grandfather would often chuckle at that.
@@Kunigunda897 That makes it worse. I remember that. You would think after that experience with destiny she would have thought to spend more time formulating her points and doing more research on them rather than to continue on forward as if nothing happened.
It was a Mark Twain quote
@@Kunigunda897 probably the smartest thing she has ever said in her entire life.
It's so easy for someone like Pearl to say, "Ban divorce." Girl can't even get a hookup. She's gotta make sure he can't escape.
😂😂
Your comment needs more likes
Gold 😭😭😭
lmao
Stop it. She might look like a 2 piece and a biscuit in the face, but she got that wagon. SOMEBODY would definitely hit it
Let’s be real she hasn’t spoken to a single person that works at abuse shelters.
Yeah!!! I heard that. She says that same line many times.
At best she heard someone lie about it and repeated it as her own conversation 😂
💯 I work for a domestic violence charity and absolutely no one in the sector will say that
She probably thinks that if a man abuses a woman that it's the womans fault somehow.
@@RuinMassia I'd like for you to confirm that for me since you work there but from what I've heard, it's is a well-known fact that in the majority of abusive relationships, there's an abuser and a victim. Is that correct? She's so insanely disrespectful to victims with that type of speech
Imagine coming from a rich family and still having a worse education than disenfranchised communities. Shits wild
This one here made me chuckle
Grew up in a third world country. Moved to the US. I guarantee that I received a better education than the majority of Americans. They lack basic knowledge and 0 understanding of international even local affairs.
Worse you muppet
That’s every rich mf in this generation tbh
@@princerarri these are learned behaviors from their surroundings and parenting. It's not just this generation.
“Did you say that?”
“I dont remember”
“Here, I’ll pull it up”
LMAO Ethan is brutal 💀
That's why you always keep receipts 😂
It's why I love the guy. 😄
@@pigtailsandteddybears you just had to say it huh
@@davidencoification Jealousy is not healthy, dave.
so a fat degenerate leftist is your type? :D @@davidencoification
Three guarantees in life:
1 - Death
2 - Taxes
3 - Pearl's inability to stand behind her words when challenged
Its crazy how she rips women for being so quick to get a divorce yet she literally quits an interview because it didn't go her way
you don’t have to pay taxes tho
@@saltandpepperandmint Once you grow up, you sure as fuck do.
It's just crazy how pearl got so much to say about marriage. How married people should act when she's never been married, or is even expert in that field. 💀
@@saltandpepperandminti think he meant in the way they will 100% be there, but whether you pay them or not is a different thing
And there valids things that could be said about Washington and the slaves he inherited, but someone like her who just casually throws out dumb s*it to own the libs, without putting some thought 1st is why she always looks dumb.
When divorce was harder to get, marital murders were higher….
facts
Murder was higher . Period .
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Murder was higher . Period .
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Murder was higher . Period .
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@@Thegreatblazingsunwe heard you the first time
Pearl deserves the relationship she advocates for.
Other than abuse. She was with a black,single dad,homeless man. That she moved into her dads house and they both mooched off of her dad. I only mention he was black because she had that racist guy on her podcast. That didn't want race mixing and Pearl agreed like an idiot. 😂
Absolutely 😅
This comment is the absolute best. Yesss she does.
Bingo
☠️☠️🤣🤣🤣
With Pearl’s track record of doing the exact opposite of what she preaches, if she ever does get married I’m sure she’ll be divorcing the dude within 3 years
I can 100% see her being the stereotype of the domineering, emasculating wife who's never satisfied and constantly berates and lectures her husband. Her personality fits the profile.
Bonus is if it'll be because he cheats on her and/or makes less money than her.
Nah, the guy will divorce her, that's why she wants divorce banned, so the guy can never escape. She'll be in the small percentage of divorces where the guy actually initiates it.
Watch her get cheated on and get divorced
Ain't no way someone would marry that thing
I spent the majority of my teenage years BEGGING my Mom to leave. I witnessed my Dad throw a hammer at her face, and it just barely missed her. After some of their "fights" id see finger marks around her neck. I would hide under my brother's bed because i was TERRIFIED shed be dead. The day we left, we packed suitcases and stayed with friends. For someone to say divorce shouldnt be legal is offensive and wrong on so many levels. 🤬
I feel ya. I can still feel my mums body flying across my bed seconds before I was dragged out of bed and beaten. Divorce has its place
You're not alone I grew up in a broken home as well. When I moved out. I didn't want my father to know where I lived. Because I was worried. They were gonna bring unnecessary drama and conflict Into my life.
You didn't know inexperienced, ignorant pearl has all the answers???
Glad you guys were able to get away. Hope your mom's okay now
And she turns a blind eye to all these testimonies that go against her delusions.
No one should tolerate that abuse bc evil is real. What she talks about it on some utopian level and that’s why a lot of people stop relating to her bc she is not grounded in reality bc she most likely never faced decades of abuse or witnessing it. This stuff gets stored in your body.
Dude is staying so chill and letting her bury herself. Respect.
Hold on, u do realize slaves had better lives here than in africa right?
@@jillianmitchells7748 Please explain what is better than grape and being treated like animals
@@cassieinspire3940They were also slaves back home. But yes, the guy is clowning thinking they had better lives in the Americas
@@jillianmitchells7748you wrong
@@jillianmitchells7748Liar. Hagar was an Egyptian slave of Abraham and Sarah and I assure you they did NOT treat her like a human with respect. Why the hell would you sat that dumb crap for?
She never had a husband, a boyfriend, a lover, and from a rich, privileged family. She has NO experience! NO data. NO research. NO real life examples. Yet she's giving marriage advice. THIS IS A HUGE PROBLEM! THIS IS BAD! THIS IS BAD, BAD!😡
She did have a boyfriend, it was an overweight guy who catfished her. She moved him into her parents house, bugged him about losing weight. He lost the weight and left her for a prettier version. There is a RUclips video exposing it-cannot remember who put it together.
@@MH-en9qc Oh oh ok Thank you! I noticed her body language. She was triggered.
She is such an utter dummy, it’s almost impossible to listen to her. Insane!
I think it’s more worrying that there are some real humans who take her seriously at all
Lily over at Acension Presents is real.
So are Jacki and Bobby Angel.
Pearl is a "pick me" who will never get picked and I love that journey for her.
She embraces being a pick me because she says atleast she’s not a “skip me” and she can’t even live up to that 😹😹😹
@0000i1 the funny thing is she manages to be a pick me who is skipped 😭
really shes talk shite for a paycheck
I hope she gets picked soon so she has to get off the internet. I mean her rules say wives cannot be on here 😂😂
So funny bc she's far too opinionated, outspoken and not feminine to be picked by the creeps she is trying to attract. It's actually beautiful irony 😂😂.
Her saying most abuse is mutual is kind of sickening when you think about the victims who have actually had their abusers press charges on them when they actually attempt to defend themselves.
Yes definitely
She’s beyond sick and desperate. Literally any attention is good in her eyes. She craves anything because she’s that undesirable. Moronic woman
My dad did that to my mom.
It’s comical that she thinks domestic violence going in any direction supports the argument that they shouldn’t get divorced.
Yeah... the evidence doesn't really lean in your favor. Cambridge did a study that showed most domestic abuse is mutual. You can't just assume that most women were only trying to defend themselves just because it fits your narrative. With that being said everything else she said was abhorrent.
Even if most domestic abuse is mutual that means those people should not be together.
Edit: Accidentally said everything you said was abhorrent when I meant everything pearl said was abhorrent.
"I can't talk about this without getting cancelled." Interesting Pearl, I thought the whole deal of women is that we do not suffer any consequences at all?!?!
Pearl is the perfect example of someone who reads the headlines and then tries to explain the content they didn't even read.
Well it was in the HEADLINES, those aren’t just made up!- Pearl
OR like these two mixed race pink lipped men claiming to be "black". These men are victim of a white man in their own gene pool.
Nigerians are black.
These men are half caramel.
Half mocha.
Half white.
Slamming white guys.....how bold you are!!!!
She's a female version of Trump
those people are on both sides, and its dangerous because although they barely understand the headline, they often are willing to hurt someone over this "belief"
Actually ecoterrorists can be extremely smart and extremely well read.
Don’t send your kids to OSU.
Abusive spouses are notorious for hiding that behavior until after marriage. The fact that she isn't aware of that is hilarious.
Well she's never been married...soo....
yeah that isnt really true. for starters majority of people men and woman who ends up in a abusive relationship are often abusive themselves or highly attracted to toxic behavior and its enviorment. theres this saying you often attract what you yourself are. when it comes to hide their behavioure, they dont. it is a gradual evolvement. they always start with isolation before violence, violence always accoure when they know their partner allows it to happen. it never happens out of the blue. the the victime often also ignores the toxic behavior as well or justify it. oh he beats me because he loves me, or i cant leave because he needs me etc etc.
The fact she isn’t aware is more dangerous than hilarious, considering she’s influencing a young audience.
Legit what I was thinking about the whole time she was talking about the onesidedness. I was like bitch do NOT KNOW what the word conniving, manipulative means? People find ways to lie and hide stuff..like a child lying to their parents about eating cookies before dinner. An old coworker of mine told me that she met a stripper who found this cream to hide bruises
Did you know that Assault and Battery is a crime punishable with jail time? and it's easier to report because all you need is an accusation and a medical report, not to mention we live in the digital age, crazy right?
Also Domestic Abusers don't stop with just divorce, really insane.
I still don’t understand why Pearl is still even being taken seriously. “Ban divorce”. What is this woman smoking?
She surrounds her self with these “red pill” dudes and literal N@zi sympathizers so these statements shouldn’t be surprising.
She's a single woman telling married couples how to live their lives. She's an arm chair marriage counselor that is good at gaining red pill simp audience.
Naw honestly if two people want to put the rest of us through their union, they can live with that shit or die. For real. Why do the rest of us have to deal with your dumbass decisions and trauma?
Cos there is a problem that people on the left don't want to address. Thus, men ran to people like Pearl cos she appears to be on their side, even if she doesn't believe half the things she says.
people want to know who her dealer is.
My Mum got married to my Dad in 1963. A month into the marriage was her first beating. They brought 3 children into the abusive marriage. This destroyed mine and my brothers child development. We are very damage but so is my mother. What did this achieve, nothing but another statistic. 😢
My mom always tries to convince me I'm my father's daughter. Yes we play hockey and baseball, sing, play the guitar and drums but there's something missing. I to this day believe my mom cheated and I think my dad believes that as well. She always brings up someone on my dads side. So I believe she's stuck in this endless loop of her past
@@chelsea9493 take a DNA test, and come back to this comment section cuz im curious
@@xlightninghawk6360 😂 okay now I'm curious too
I'm not From America and this type of thing doesn't happen normally in my country. It's looking like some movie plot
And I'm quite interested
Sorry. This is tough. She is a horrible person for saying this. And not being empathetic towards being being abused and the ramifications
@@chelsea9493girl why did you have to say this lol now I neeeed to know if ya’ll are related please do a dna and come back tell us all about it. I’m sorry about the disconnect feeling you have, imagine all the people you are related to that you will discover.
It's interesting how she's not even living the way she thinks is best for women. No kids, no husband, and self-employed as a RUclipsr. Looks like she's benefited quite a lot from 1st and 2nd wave feminism 🤔
THIS! 🙌🏽
Exactly
she will be the next Oprah, no kids, no husband self employed
@@joelsantiago9148 got eem(or in this case her)
She admits she's not attractive enough to lock down the men that turn her on, people shrieked when she found someone she liked but was poor.
I don't the advice she gives, or "guideline" applies to someone who already has a gigantic family and financial security.
So this point of yours falls flat.
“She hasn’t experienced much but she thinks she knows a lot.” Profound. She’s the epitome of telling a depressed person “don’t be sad.”
It's like telling a homeless person "just buy a house"
@@bakunika1 Like why be homeLESS when you can be homeFULL XD
Just ban divorce. Just end oil. Just tax all the money from the rich. How did dumb kids with no life experience get such a God complex and a platform to spew their ignorance.
@@mashed2332 I mean bro you CAN be hopeful real easily ,take her house. All ya gotta do is give her what she wants, 5 minutes of attention
I mean, I'm not dead. But I still know what it looks like when somebody is dead. Just because you have not lived through something or experienced it personally doesn't mean you can't learn about it. I don't know s*** about helicopters but I know the one that Kobe was on, wasn't a good one. You don't have to experience something in order to talk about it. I don't know what it's like to be shot I can still learn what the bullet velocity is. The damage on impact. The likelihood of survival. All without experiencing it myself. So if you hate somebody go ahead and say it. Just out of curiosity do you think meth is bad? Because under your logic you wouldn't know if it is or not unless you tried it.
The fact that Pearl doesn't understand how people get with abusive partners shows that there's a high probability that she can marry someone who is and won't know it until it's too late. SMH
I hope she does. Cant wait to hear a podcast about it
Yes she speaks like a broad who has never been punched in the face for blinking.
Pearl keep saying "women need to choose better men" ... really? People change overtime, the person you meet can and WILL change for good or bad. Why is Pearl always pandering to men who wouldn't choose her as a wife anyway? She can't speak on half the stuff she's popular for.
That’s what happens on average. It’s why abuse is more prevalent in conservative communities because abuse is fairytale they can’t talk about even though it has probably happened in their household at some point or other.
She chose no one for a reason
This is exactly how you take down a narcissist. Use their own words against them
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@@alyaaearth4755zuko was right
Some people are born lucky
That word is being thrown around too much. Pearl is many things but not a narcissist
@@pureone8350 I true, I can’t diagnose her or anything, but she and the other trad wife influencers have a lot of symptoms, you’ve got to admit
What, how is she a narcissist? she's just dumb and perhaps a bit of a grifter. Don't throw this word around that way please.
Getting destroyed by H3H3 is like losing an argument to a 3 year old.
I once took candy from a baby
but pearl probably would lose an argument to a 3 year old.
Actually a 3 year old has higher IQ than H3H3. That's too generous.
Im imagining that and that’s hilarious..😂😂
A 3 year old, come on... more like ten year old...
Someone needs to tell Pearl that marriage is like this conversation with Ethan. She went in expecting a good time, ended up with something different and when things got difficult for her she left the conversation. Now imagine if she couldn’t leave and had to continue to endure that beatdown, that’s what banning divorce would be like but instead of verbal it can be physical.
😂😂😂. W comment
This needs to be pinned
There is slight difference he's just asking questions
😂
@@Alphadog1174 Have you heard of ANALOGIES?
Here sir… take my applause 👏
Pearl wants a man so much she's lost respect for herself and agrees with all this stuff, yet still has no boyfriend. All the men that follow her love her, yet I never see any of them saying they want to be with her, she's hasn't got the look that those "no standard" men have. It's always "I need a girl like you" never "I want you". She's destroying her life for a group of men that wouldn't look at her twice in the real world. She's a laughingstock and blatantly jealous of others.
She’s the definition of pickmeiisha
My cousin's ex girl friend is pick me, she said men cheating is okay as long as my cousin give her money and take care of her. In the end, my cousin broke up with her because he didn't want to marry mentally unstable girl.
@@lavish_1717What?? She has never said anything too crazy or bad, she just supports the family unit and she is anti abortion. That's just basic common sense. Ignorant people like you think all girls that are not feminist are just pick me's 🤦🏻♀️ Oh and BTW, if u go to her channel there's A LOT of guys calling Pearl beautiful and they all simp for her, she just doesn't have a boyfriend cause she's not a desperate loser that just sleeps with any man that gives her attention 🤷🏻♀️
This this fucking thisssss
It’s because she’s TOO easy to get. Also she doesn’t believe in her own policies clearly, considering she’s being outspoken about her opinions.
The bombastic side eye when he said 'Thats sooo interesting, I gotta know whats over embellished about slavery'👀👀👀
She's a grifter. She doesn't believe what she is saying. Her little smile when she says inflammatory things says it all to me.
Nah I think she believes it but she been with Fuentes for a while she knows when she's being a fuckhead. Or she's just that dumb ,which wouldn't surprise me at all
Yes!
even shoe0nhead doesn't stoop this low
Facts
100%! She comes from such insular privilege... She's embarrassingly uninformed. Ugh.
"Think of the children!!!" As someone who was brought up in an abusive household, I would literally plead with my mother to leave my father.
Right, she was dumb for saying that
Right like the kids want to be in a depressive household ???
And thats what happens when someone who never went through something like that wants to have a opinion on it, she was raised in a privileged household. I've never went through it, but my dad went through and he said exactly like this" Dad used to hit mom, do you think i liked seeing that? as a little child and not being able to do anything?", that still is something bad in his memories and he is 50+ yo, imagine being raisedseeing your mom getting beat
Same. People who haven't been through it just shouldn't speak on it.
Same...then i fled home early and in seeking something else I ended up repeating the cycle smh. They're both idiots who obviously have no idea what they're talking about!
I give Aba & Preach credit for being open minded. Even though you guys have had beef with Ethan and Fresh & Fit, you guys have supported or given them credit for other situations. You manage to put personal differences aside to be open and honest. This is what makes you guys so powerful. Much much credit to the intelligent and fair way you guys conduct yourselves.
That's the best thing about them. They don't let petty beef stop them from acknowledging what is objectively wrong like when they rightfully defended Fresh and Fit even thoughbthey had every right to go against him. That's what makes this channel so good.
They don't have beef but they will defend themselves from bullshit accusations.
Absolutely love them for that
I guess that’s the reason why many of us follow their channel. Love them for that.
Straight up bro
Pearl looks like her brain is buffering every time she’s asked to explain her simplistic “hot takes” with any complexity.
This chick is pissing me off. As a survivor of domestic violence I had no bruises or physical evidence because my ex was smart with how he inflicted his abuse. I left to get away from that craziness because I didn't want my sons to think this was the way to treat their partner. And they were glad I left and could not understand what made me attracted to him in the first place. And this was of their own cognition based on their own experiences they had with him not by me saying anything to them about him. She is mental and is probably an abusive person herself. My goodness....
I'm sorry about what happened and I hope everything's going well for you 🙏
@@cojinmango It's better and I paid dearly for leaving. But my sanity and safety of my children endured through the pain. We have therapists on deck to help us deal with the aftermath.
she says the most unhinged things and then doubles down to get views. all this at the expense of the people who are really affected, harming many serious causes. wicked
You can tell by the way she laughs as she says the craziest takes, like “divorce should be illegal” and “women shouldn’t vote” that she’s basically doing a bit, loving the attention the manosphere gives her, and doesn’t give a rats ass about what her politics really mean. She’s an awkward rich girl who never got attention and found a captive audience in the mgtow movement. Her opinions mean *she herself* can never be happy, she’s “too old”, “not pretty enough”, “not fertile”, “unmarried”, “a working woman”…if she wants to hold views that mean she should be miserable-and doesn’t see how ridiculous that is…well good luck to her 🤷♂️
That's the thing!!!! People that talk like this the way they do because she hasn't experienced it, that's why pearl is just saying things
I'm so happy he is holding her accountable. This girl is dangerous.
Dawg.... ya'll black women gotta stop using the "mfs is dangerous" line so loose like that... and the LGBT community does too... specially the T's... them T's is outta control with it, wayyyyyy more than the black women, ya feel me?
@@emsanders9701 what ?
@@emsanders9701Don’t matter who says it. She’s talking like she’s in an echo chamber.
@@emsanders9701 Shes not your dawg you idiot. What the hell does "yall black women" mean, "what are you even on about ?" Pearl and people both Women and Men who think like her are indeed dangerous. Why are so offended by the truth ?
@@emsanders9701what her being black have anything to do with this? that bitch IS dangerous, be fr with yourself bruh.
Ethan deserves more credit for this interview. Yes Pearl is dumb, but Ethan also did his research and went through each topic systematically pointing out Pearl's inconsistencies.
Ethan's team did their research.
@@Lizzzzzzy921No he did some research of his own too plus he is the one countering her every argument in real timr
Ethan did zero research. His team wrote his script and fed him info. You are giving Ethan credit he DOESNT deserve.
Audience needs to not be brainwash and give Ethan a W if he earns one. That doesn’t make his shitty takes good, but people aren’t black and white
No he doesn’t, he’s still borderline deranged and doesn’t know how to take accountability for the bs he spews. Making Pearl look stupid is like winning a fight against a child.
I have been in an abusive relationship. When Pearl said that most abusive relationships were mutual, trust me, it only becomes mutual once the other partner that gets bullied starts to fight back. I was one of that person. I am not condoning violence but when your partner actively hits you for the smallest annoyances you will snap one day.
Yep it’s reactive abuse
Which tells me how stupid this woman is. Tell who will sit there and let another person, no matter who beat their ass? No one that’s who. By the way we are evolved for self preservation, even as someone who is very docile and meek, when met with the right circumstances will pull up their fits and do whatever it takes to protect themselves.
The word reactive abuse shouldn’t even be used. It implies that the victim is also abusing the same way the abuser is and not just reaction to self preservation, and protection.
"They shouldn't have married in the first place" is the most childish response to the divorce question ever.
I guess getting to know each other don’t work lmaoo
@@Dev1ctedyou never truly know someone until they want you to know them. Many relationships turn abusive after the wedding.
I agree though.
Marriage is just a dumb ceremony that doesn’t really mean shit except for taxes.
Now this may be a hot take but hear me out. Institutionalizing by government and religious organizations over the concept of marriage is the greatest mistake ever in human history. A human tradation about two people to consenting to be with eachother should be a more private manner. But if its ceremonial then it should be held on the grounds if those religious places if they wish to held it or not. Also why does it have to be there. Why not do it at the beach, a park do a sci fi medeivel theme wedding....You get where i'm going with this?
@@Silverken EXACTLY
With my husband for 15 yrs. He developed a drinking problem and became progressively worse. Made it work until he got physical with me and it was in front of our child. Left him that night.Had to leave because I couldn’t have my kids learn this behavior was okay. She has no clue how life actually works.
What happened since then
Similar thing happened to my cousin
@@randomhuman2595 He tried to give me hell but I don’t let him bother me. (That most likely bothers him more deeply tbh) I have most custody and I live a very peaceful life (as much as is possible with two lil’ kids running ‘round!)
Wish you and your kiddos the best!
This is the thing, people change. You can't predict if someone is gonna have issues with addiction years down the line and become violent. It's absolutely not your fault.
This woman is the perfect example of someone who gives opinions without having any actual knowledge or experience on the topic she is speaking on. They aren’t even opinions they are just guesses at this point. Opinions are when you are faced with facts and determine how you feel about it. She is just thinking things out loud.
And honestly… I’m down to watch channels who just think out loud…. That’s pretty much what Aba & Preach do…. But she’s fkng stupid so it sucks listening to her. 😂😂😂😂
she sounds like she just got out of a cave and is relearning how to communicate
Very much accurate. Your last sentence summarizes her showing in this interview. There’s no preparation for the questions being asked, and since she didn’t have any “cue card” responses, she had to fall back on her own opinions… And that CLEARLY lacks. She’s literally just thinking as she responds. There’s no experience or even critical real critical thought. Just pandering to an audience. Yikes
@@tellingthebees😭😭😭😂
Also many slaves did not learn to write because they weren’t taught. So most of the “slave accounts” she read were probably from slaves that had more opportunities, and were more respected. There so many things wrong with her I can’t💀
Yes they were likely house slaves or ones in charge of other slaves
I do kinda agree that slavery tends to be over-embellished to some degree. Ill be in conversation with people and they'll say slaves couldn't read or write and I'd say that some house slaves or slaves that managed other slaves did. They will get defensive immediately and try to act like I'm trying to defend slavery when in reality I'm just correcting the misinformation they are spreading. Another example is id hear from multiple sources that slaves worked 20 hours every day, were not fed while working and had to work every day of the week, but in actuality, slaves most likely worked 13 hours with a 30 minute breakfast and dinner break, plus slaves never worked on Sundays and were allowed to go to church.
We all know slavery is a horrible thing, that's absolutely correct, but at the same time some people can make it sound worse than what it actually is. This isn't me saying it was a good thing, just that people over-embellish a bit.
Source on those over embellished accounts pls @@captaincaterpie
Also does she not think that maybe the people who owned those people forced them to write stuff like that?
@captaincaterpie even if physically exaggerated,it does not measure what it did to them mentally and emotionally abusive. How many were beaten and assaulted,their children sold? It don't think it could get much "worse"
I feel a little bad for this girl. She must have no actual friends to take her aside and say, "You're fucking up so bad right now. Just stop."
Her old best friend responded to her on tiktok. They stopped being friends a year ago because of how she's behaving. It's super sad. They had been friends since they were super little and were even roommates in college together.
She ruins her female friends' image by making shit up on the internet to get views And men just don't wanna be her friends at all, understandably so
Agreed!
She had friends but then she started doing these videos and they stopped being her friend which is understandable.
That’s the assumption.
She holds some extremely dangerous but typical white values attitudes and perceptions of the world.
Her friends will reflect these values etc. The values (culture) that were taught to her by her conservative “evangelic” typed Christian parents.
She is gradually returning to this centre ground after a brief planned orchestrated hiatus into the “HOOD”. Where she studied the natives on her show. She’s noe made a name for herself and is now returning to America.
She’s a very calculated fool indeed an oxymoron.
However like the joker (who’s the joke on?)
Unfortunately what you are refer to here is independent critical thinking friends. Few of us (myself included) have these type of friends.
However there should be a line. I guess our faith in the ability of humanity to do the right thing will be questioned 😔😢
✌🏾out
If you get humiliated by Ethan your online career should be over. Pearl sounds like she doesn't even believe what she's saying.
"Pearl sounds like she doesn't even believe what she's saying."
It's not just that. She _lives_ like she doesn't believe in what she's saying.
@@AngryReptileKeeperBro exactly shawty is a grifter
He did a good job. I know most of you don't like him, but you gotta give credit where credit is due.
@@eEmm1that's what the majority of people here are doing
@@equinox1223 not really. They're basically implying that owning Pearl was very easy, which is not. Pearl may be dum but she's incredibly difficult and annoying to discuss with
"Slavery wasn't that bad!"
Might as well say "Prison is just a hotel resort!" 🤦🏽♂️😂
Ever been to a western European prison?
Prisons pretty soft these days
@@khululypBetter compared to others prisons but still not a resort tf.
Back in the day the black community had a 80% marriage rate look at todays rates...
@@Notorious2024stfu 23 of those people aren’t black nor do black people just go around randomly killing people you racists are cowardly and love saying anything
17:10 Pearl : "I dont remember"
Ethan : "Ill pull it up"
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
The receipts for this debate were top notch 😂
I watched my mom get cheated on, beat, stalked, and r*ped by the SAME man. He even tried to kidnap me from school. It took her years to get out of that marriage and even longer to get him out of our lives for good. She had police reports, pictures, eyewitness testimonies and still all she could get was a restraining order and hope for the best. We couldn’t even get him locked up. And he was the nicest, sweetest guy at first. He treated me like his daughter, he was charismatic and everyone in the family loved him at first. But that’s how they get you.
For what it's worth: it wasn't your fault.
I'm sorry you endured that. It's tragic that you can never tell who's truly genuine until it's too late. Little wonder so many have trust issues these days, but it's also sad that the people who are genuine get lumped in with people like your stepfather.
@@cinamoonmoon5166actually a lot of ‘successful’ abusers hide it incredibly well.
America has a justice system problem.
The ones that should be put in their place are a lot of corrupt or lazy ass judges that don't wanna do their jobs.
I'm really sorry for your situation, both that creepy mofo and the judge should be in jail,or at least the judge should have been fired.
@@cinamoonmoon5166then why do so many abusers get defended by family members and neighbors who are shocked and appalled at the accusations toward them? we see it all the time in media and in psychopath stories but somehow mentally disconnect from the fact that this happens
She's always so happy and proud of herself when she says sh*t like "ban divorce" or "women shouldn't vote", like she really thinks she's so edgy and 'not like the other girls'
She is such a pick me but no one picks her 😂
😂😂
I just want one of these " high value" men to wife her up so she can stop being a pickme.
She sounds desperate lmao
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Pearl is basically the equivalent of a person who experiences nothing, but somehow manages to know everything.
In other words, most of the time she doesn't know what the hell she is talking about.
But she's "talked to 100s of women" 😂
Your explanation reminds me of Matt Damon's role as Will Hunting in the movie "Good Will Hunting" in which he plays a genius but is a know it all ass (granted he had a shit load of trauma there) who knows almost anything in theory but has no practical experience in the subjects. There is a scene when Robin Williams character reprimanded him that he might know all the history of the sistine chapel and how Michael Angelo's thought process about this whole thing was and whatnot, but he has no idea how the sistine chapel smells or how it feels to actually stand in this grand artifice.
This is so true!
@@Tuoyo3005omg, thank you for saying this 😂! I couldn’t believe she said that. I was like “Pearl please, you don’t even fucking like women”. In fact you’ve made a career of putting them down. Yet you expect us to believe that you’ve spoken to that many. Pearl give me a break.
That’s called delusion 😂
I've grown up in abusive household,my dad used to beat my mom till the point that she's passed out. After 13 years of that type of „ marriage" she left,packed up my brother and me and we ran,she didn't care for the wedding vows,she didn't care that people will call her a failure,she only cared for us,and our safety, I'm 22 now,with a child,also divorced,because my husband was mentally abusive,and there is nothing wrong with that
I'm so sorry you went threw that 😢 I just hope and pray they don't ban divorce because she scares me when she says that just pearls
Sorry you and your mom went through those things. I hope things are better now.
“I believe in family over a career.”
Has no family, only focuses on her career.
Incredible.
As far as i can tell she jumped on this "dating red pill" bandwagon just to find herself a man
That's what I said 😂 hypocrisy is strong with pearly and her buddies
Both can exist tbh, she might be the 'exception' of females who struggles with having career because high-functioning but also wanting a family, while also knowing whats best for society.
Her career is in the shitter too
@@DTreatzif she had a live and let live attitude about people's decisions then yeah sure but no she shames single career oriented women
The trauma of waking up to your younger sibling crying because dad is beating mom, and then trying to pull him off her to then be hit yourself and finally after waiting in your room with your siblings having to sneak out of the house with them and your mom once he passes out bc he’s so drunk is horrible. I thank God my mom had the courage to leave and she didn’t press charges, which actually made it easier for all of us. It almost makes me wish Pearl would have to “endure” something like this before she starts running her ignorant, privileged mouth trying to speak on abuse in the household.
this is just awful.
So sorry for u ❤
I had nowhere near this level of abuse but similar. The idea of forcing people to stay together in that situation is absurd. This airhead had everything handed to her from her wealthy family. She's the last person who should be lecturing people in relationships especially with younger kids involved. She's completely tone deaf saying terrible shit in stride.
True. But then again women start most of that, statistically. So, that.
@@johnnonamegibbon3580Most of what?
Now I understand why Pearl never washes her hair. She's afraid of getting married and winding up having to live by her own ridiculous ideas about marriage/divorce.
Bwahahaha 😂😂😂
*covers my nose* 😷
🤣🤣🤣
😂😂
😅😅😅😅
Nailed it at the start! You know what's hard on children? Seeing a parent get abused. And she advocates for a 2 parent home but says divorced women should live out their days alone. Thank God for every stepfather that has stepoed in and chose to fill that void! I know my life was infinitely better because my mom found a man who thought I was worth being a daughter.
Exactly. Seeing a dysfunctional relationship between your parents is something that most definitely impacts the children's emotional development negatively. If there is abuse, it's even worse, all studies show that teenagers with violent tendencies have grown up witnessing domestic violence against one or both parents. Staying is in fact what puts kids at a statistical disadvantage.
Pearly: People are happier with a family.
Family: Physically beats each other and cannot leave until there is enough evidence to send the people to jail.
Pearl: This equals happiness
Pearl is 26, going at 27, she's single & kid-free. What kind of grown women takes life advice from a literal child? 🤣
@@KermitOfWardamn she looks at least 30 💀
@@Snowgoon901 Be fair. She looks 41. And sometimes 35 if she remembers to wash and brush her hair.
@@miyangtangwan7046😂😂😂😂
Not to sound like a besserwisser but one thing Pearl need to start to do is to question everything whatever she’s reading cuz she comes off as a very dogmatic person with nothing backing up her beliefs due to her lack of experience. Pure ignorance at it’s finest.
I love how he's treating her how she treats her guest on her show. Shes getting a taste of her own medicine!
Man Pearly doesn't just walk into traps, she builds her own and then walks into them.
The intense cringe and secondhand embarrassment from Pearl when she was trying to claim that George Washington had a "good relationship" with his sl@ves and that they saw him as a "father figure" is just 💀
I’m convinced she’s playing a character just like Andrew Tate to get an audience. There’s no way she’s forreal
Every time she talks she has a smile like she's fucking around. It could just be her being honest and smiling cause she knows her takes are extremely controversial but it's hard to believe a real person would unironically say this shit.
There's a slight difference, tho. Andrew Tate exaggerates a lot of his personality traits for dramatic and comic effect. He's likely at his core still an abuser and misogynist. Pearl on the other hand, IMO, I think is 100% grift, and I don't think she means anything she says. She just wants money, nothing more.
Bro Andrew Tate wasn’t playing a character. He would say more controversial things for clicks, but more and more evidence is showing that he is a human trafficking rapist
@@alessandrajackson3768 where is the evidence?
@@alessandrajackson3768 oooh watch his stuff after he was in house arrest about man and woman relationship dynamics. He changed the script at points saying that its importnat for the man to care and attend to the needs of his relationships ... not just provide. He is anti red pill now
Pearl reminds me of that mean, delusional girl from High School who lied a lot and thought she was superior to everyone else.
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My mom had bones broken and was beaten by me and my brother’s real dad. To hear this weirdo saying divorce should be illegal makes me so angry because women (and men) with abusive partners would have the opportunity for freedom and happiness and health completely ripped away from them. I honestly think Pearl needs her ass whooped or something.
She definitely deserves the relationship she’s advocating, like someone pointed out
Even if it’s not physically abusive, saying divorce should be ban really is so dumb for her to be saying as a pick me
Think of all the men who end up with gold diggers. Well buddy until she throws a punch you can’t leave. Boohoo.
She doesn’t think anything through
My best friend was stabbed with scissors and shoved down two flights of stairs ,
SHE GOT NO CHARGES, and they wanted to PROSECUTE him for defending himself.
Fuken stories go both ways
@@thomaswoitekaitis8977 no shit it goes both ways, but what Pearl does is absolutely fucked in the head thinking all men is right and all women are bad. like my ex was very abusive too, not physically, but mentally, that doesnt mean every women are bad just because my ex was
@@thomaswoitekaitis8977exactly the point
As someone who witnessed domestic violence for about half of my childhood, that shit fucks you up mentally for a very long time. I still deal with the trauma in my adulthood, even though it’s been years. Why on earth would any decent human want divorce to be banned?!
*Pearl:* "I thought this was going to be a good faith interview"
*Translation:* "I thought I'd be able to take this interview in whatever direction I want to make myself look intelligent, and thus far you're only asking questions that make me look like the racist, bigoted, myopic excuse for a human being I am"
I generally dislike Ethan but Jesus Christ he bodied Pearl from start to finish.
It's like watching a seven year old fighting a three year old.
@@sunbeames1847 lmao perfect comparison
Without ONCE raising his voice. Kuddos.
@@TheBerkeleyBeauty he didn't feel frustrated and threw a tantrum from being proven wrong since she didn't prove him wrong.
👏 Dragged 👏 to 👏 filth 👏
Her unpleasant nature is beginning to show on her face. Ethan is a douche, but I loved this so much.
As person who actually works in a shelter for women and children fleeing domestic violence, I can tell you it’s very rarely mutual. Idk what the hell she’s talking about !!
Aye you awesome for what you so for work I honestly don't think I can handle a job like that I hate it but I connect to fast and I got a soft spot for woman and kids so seeing that would break me
shes talking out her ass
She was counting it as mutual when the woman puts her hand up to protect her face from the second blow.
Girl. She doesn’t even know what she’s talking about 😂🤣😂
People throw around the term "pick-me" a lot these days, but Pearl is either a very sad example of a gifter or the genuine article for a girl with pick-me in her bones.
she’s the textbook pickme, especially when you realize how lonely and desperate she is for men to like her, “guys just won’t approach me”
Both can be true. She did get upset about demonetization. If she was doing this for charity then it wouldn't have ever been monetized in the first place. And she admitted on camera that she listens to the manosphere because she has low self esteem. Her words.
A lot of both. Extremely low self-esteem is what got her to commit these views to memory; a desperate need for attention, especially from men, is what got her to regurgitate them. It would be sad if she weren't so detestable or even did the bare minimum amount of research to stand behind the wild and unreasonable claims she spits out. Instead she sounds like a middle schooler just repeating what they heard on a podcast that they fell asleep halfway through.
One of the biggest things I love about you guys is that you have ZERO problem in giving people props when it is deserved.
H3H3 you usually have nothing good to say, but when he has content like this, you got no problem at shouting him out.
Love it.
Agreed
Yes! I really appreciate this about them
Objectivity is certainly rare.
They even defended Fresh and fit when they got falsely accused by ethan
They were the only mainstream channel who defended them
Aba & Preach are the personification of objectivity
their realness is amazing
My parents were not abusive but they were unhappy with each other. My dad was overweight to cope and my mum was depressed. When they got a divorce yes it was hard, yes there were a lot of tears, yes there was a difficult adjustment period, but in the long-run it was a very good decision. My dad got back in shape, my mum is happier, i overall get both my parents happy.
If I may ask why were they unhappy?
@@Realivangarcia They were no longer compatible with each other. Honestly I don't know the details because as parents they did an excellent job keeping us (the kids) out of their marital issues. They started opening up to us about that period when we were old enough.
Glad they are both doing better now. Was the right decision then
This is so relatable my goodness. My parents have been married over 40 years. I doubt they’ll ever divorce but I often wonder what they would look like separated.
It’s also not really meaningful to choose to stay together through tough times in a marriage if divorce isn’t a legal option anyway.
she’s literally the epitome of saying the first thing that comes to mind, 0 thought process
You noticed that too huh. 😂
LITERALLYYY lol
Lol she white… she think everything she say valid
No braincells
No one in any domestic violence shelter, ever told her that the majority of abuse is mutual. That is a lie. Being a traditional woman is a wonderful thing. And pearl is destroying it for those of us that believe in traditional values not stupidity like women shouldn’t vote. I’m so glad you guys finally pointed out. She’s everything she goes against.
She's lying. I don't think she's ever seen much less heard of anyone saying abuse was mutual. Then she has the nerve to mention Thomas Sowell.
One thing H3H3 does seem to excel at is letting the people he talks to speak enough that they embarass themselves.
@@Schrodingers_Kat yeah, I suppose it can be a double-edged sword at times. 😆
Mostly when it's someone that isn't gonna say anything good or correct. It helps his framing
Just handing out nooses like gift bags
She read books on slavery being embellished but could not come up with ONE fact of slavery that was embellished or exaggerated.
The funny part is. She probably didn't even read Sowells book. Because he doesn't down play the tragedy of slavery.
Nobody else curious about why she's so fascinated with slavery?
She didn’t read it. She read a comment or post somewhere that that was in the book.
@@blacktothefuture6230 revenge feeling for her ex
@@blacktothefuture6230 probably cause right now it will get her more views and maybe the eye of some man that MIGHT date her.
It still amazes me how some of these people spreading this "endure" message grew up in quite happy homes and choose to spread these horrible takes.
She lived in a TEN BEDROOM MANSION WHATCHAA SAYIN
It seems to be in line with conservative takes. It’s the same as telling people to stop being poor and move out of the hood lmao.
@@reinhartdagr8108 that is good advice tho
@@MegaDudeman21wtf type of fuckery are you on racist weirdo
Eh my step dad physically abused my mom once 3 years ago. They endured and worked out there hardships, it was a traumatic experience but I’m happy there are still together. Haven’t been in that bad of a fight since then.
As someone with divorced parents, i'm very happy that divorce isn't illegal.
Pearl’s entire argument against divorce on the grounds of domestic violence: “…Bitches be lying.”🙄
You summed it properly.
Yup. How emotional of her. 😢
Evidence: herself
As a young child I always begged my mom to leave my dad. She was too nice to others. Always helping others but herself. My Dad was an intelligent, wise and narcissistic human! He would beat her, force her to do things and abused all the girls after we turn 10. My mother warned me not to talk back to him because I was getting old enough for him to beat me. She always thought he would change, because he wasn't like this when they first married. He actually got worse after she went through stage 4 cancer. She finally left him. I got to see my mother live the best 3 months of her life before she died. I had mixed emotions when she passed. She prepared me for her death. I was happy that she had a chance to live a peaceful life in the end. Unfortunately, the courts sent us back to live with our father. I had to fight him mostly everyday and Child protective services or police never did anything about it. I always asked my Dad why didnt he leave our family like he left his other wife and children.
I am touched by ur story.. prayers for you
Peace and blessings for you and your family, Justice will be served. God bless you and I’m sorry about what you’ve been through, there will be change. Praying
What did he say when you kept asking him that question? And do yall have a relationship today?
@@proofteacher Thanks & God bless!
@@TC4loveandlife Thanks! God got it! God has made me strong and I'm surviving! Living my life the best way I can.
Amazing that “shitting on someone” / being “bad faith” is simply asking them to explain words that have come out of their own mouth on camera before.
Are you surprised? It is the current year, after all.
She even compared H3H3 to Aba n Preach lmao why in god's name was that of all things left out of this video
@@nickb6425true
This entire interview is basically her just arguing with herself. All Ethan is doing is replaying clips of HER speaking and having her explain herself and she wants to just stay silent and just be like "Well, I don't want to talk about that because I feel like you're taking my words out of context." Okay, well, here's your chance to give context... Go ahead... We're all waiting. Lmao
My mom was killed by domestic violence, im glad pearl advocates for the husband in that situation since it couldnt be proven until after the fact. Very based
I'm sorry I know that doesn't help but from the bottom of my heart I am your a strong bad ass and know God takes everyone for a reason I don't know if this helps but God needed a good mom to help him with something she's proud of you for the amazing beautiful human you are I love you fam I hope this didn't offend you God loves you . She will get her karma trust me I wouldn't wish that upon anybody
I'm sorry about that bro ❤
That sucks. Sorry, dude
I’m sorry love ❤
My heart goes out to you. I cant even begin to imagine what that feels like.❤
As another young person, I assure you this isn’t just lack of experience coming through. It’s lack of critical thought.
I think it's great that the girl who can't get a boyfriend wants to try and lecture the rest of us about marriage.
That is just stupid logic though. Anyone can be in a relationship..people can be married 5 times but it doesn't mean they have any more knowledge or expertise on marriage than someone else (regardless of their relationship status) because they clearly can't succeed in one. Pearl atleast talks with men regularly and noone knows besides her what her dating life is like. People are attracted to obese degenerates so Pearl has nothing to worry about especially compared to the 3s & 4s talking rubbish in this comment section..
Alot of these people in the comments are just in Abas f4g echo chamber and they can't think for themselves and if you go through the comments you may aswell be reading bot spam.
I'd rather live my life and date women than unironically take advice from content creators regardless of if its Pearl, Myron & 50iq fresh, Destiny the middle aged cuck to some dusty bi guy and his buddy with main character syndrome that gets milked like some gimp 😂 people actually take advice from these people it's crazy
I’d rather get advice from her former best friend who is actually married lmao
Coaches don’t play”. So they say
@@calisha1889former? What happened??
I once got lectured by a single woman on how to be a better husband...
Her face when she's backed herself into a corner she can't get out of....priceless and deserved.
My best friend was murdered by her partner 3 years ago. Another friend found her mother dead in the morning, strangled by an ex. This was about 40 years ago...At the time (leading up to the murder) the police wouldn't do anything cos he'd only threatened to harm her...thankfully laws have been put in place since to protect women who are being threatened
I found myself in an abusive relationship when I was younger. It was The worst time of my life by far.
If I hadn't escaped when I did, I'd have ended my own life.
Hearing this spoiled, grown child talk about condemning women, children and men to a lifetime of torture at someone else's hands, because they're married is sickening.
I'm glad she's never been a victim of violence, I wouldn't wish that on anyone.
But she needs to shut her mouth. I know there'll be an abuser watching her, who feels justified as a result. ...not just after this video with Ethan, but the way she talks in general about women.
Pearl's a scumbag
A few years ago, I lived in a small town where some dude stabbed his wife to death in their back yard and then slit his own throat. All in front of their 4 year old son.
When I hear people like Pearl spouting their bullshit, I think of stories like that one.
@@AngryReptileKeeper
Pearl seems void of that type of empathy....and she's full of contempt for people.
That guy that beat up a poor girl in a clup using glass in Japan is one of her guests lately she really gave him a comfy spot on her show it seems. She's not on the side of any thing good.
@@veilbreak5867yeah I agree
@@AngryReptileKeeperjust the other day I read a recent story of this 32 year old guy executing all 3 of his children all young if I'm not mistaken under 12 in front of his wife and he shot her in the hand when she was trying to save them. Just a few search online you get stories that are recent of all types of domestic violence. Girl just hates people and hates herself and happiness.
The way she blinks like a chameleon, the way her hair is shining from grease, the way she keeps running her mouth without knowing anything leads me to truly believe that she is a social experiment.
LMAO😲
She's the oldest-looking 26 year old i've ever seen ngl
baggy eye too
Is it me or did one of her eyes look off ?
Almost as if she had a black eye healing or something
😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
Just by reading the title alone, I don't know if I should cheer for Ethan or feel bad that pearl got destroyed by a dude like him. 😂
seems like Pearl Destroys herself, many primary school kids could obliterate her arguments and points.
amen
Just pull up a chair and see what's in store in that squared circle brother.
Nah give credit where credit is due
Don't cheer, but observe and take note.
absoloutely love how she says that ethan's pushing an agenda, when all she ever does is try to PUSH EVERY LITTLE ONE OF HER BELIEFS ONTO ALL OF SOCIETY AT ALL TIMES. what does she think the definition of an agenda is???
The funniest part of Pearl will forever be her saying that if you haven't experienced something you shouldn't talk about it while everything she talks about is stuff she hasn't experienced.
That part. 💯
You realize how dumb the average person is when you hear Pearl talk and then realize she's got hundreds of thousands of people listening to her. Wild
Same as Andrew tate fan boys.
But this has nothing to do with the intelligence of the average person, she’s saying obviously dumb and illogical things and not taking accountability for it.
We should just start our own podcast. Idk yall but if we pitch in we can make something work. Clearly anyone can do it!
Its the same with Tate, F&F, Nick Fuentes, vaush...
This needs a pin
Ain’t no way you can tell me Pearl would be a submissive, soft wife, or else she wouldn’t be on these podcast in the first place. The irony of a WOMAN doing podcast spouting redpill talking points is himself within itself. These redpill dudes don’t like overly opinionated women. It goes to show that she doesn’t even know how to be what she’s preaching
look at the kind of women that red pill men are surrounded by… None of them are traditional. Women who are traditional would never surround themselves with a red pill man. If you want a good woman, you have to be a good man.
No man likes opiniated women. Come on, now. Maybe as a friend but..
@@johnnonamegibbon3580 that's cap, some dudes like intelligent women, not everyones got the same tastes/kinks dude
@@maducrutz9384 No cap. I think men find an ick in that because women aren't really rational, despite their intellect. So women with masculine traits are more likely to leave randomly as they act more like men. Hence anything that feels manly will turn men off.
@@maducrutz9384but the redpill space would have u think that. They think people are some kind of hive mind
Pearl: We need to hold people accountable
Ethan holds Pearl accountable
Pearl: This is a bad faith interview
Pearl doesn't seem to understand that most people can't afford lengthy court procedures. Just taking someone to court can be expensive as hell
Bro there's a laundry list of shit she doesn't understand
I like how Pearl mentions that she would read letters that slaves would write about their experiences and how they weren’t that bad and it just made me think of the hundreds of thousands of slaves that couldn’t read nor write! So how would they be able to tell their stories of abuse and trauma! Pearl is a lost cause. She is going to regret spouting this rhetoric some day
I was thinking the same thing. She doesn’t even appear to be aware of the differences between slaves that worked in the household vs slaves that worked the fields. Just all around ignorant.
Exactly!!! That was my first thought
@@Ivy94F this!!!!! Like I’m pretty sure the slaves that were beaten and abused and worked the fields weren’t the ones taught to read and write(or even had the time to self teach) Pearl 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🙄🙄
Easy for Pearl to make all of these rules on divorce when she’ll never have to worry about that.
I genuinely can't take anyone who talks about marriage or dating seriously when they're criminally single.
I'm a long time single man & I think I give decent dating advice, but that's largely from the responses I've gotten over the years. I point out things they may not have considered, get them to put themselves in their partner's shoes, etc. Even with all that, you'll catch me dead before I'm on the internet trying to make money with the advice or views, & I sure as shit won't be making sweeping statements about so many people.
damn ☠️
Petty but gold
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what do you mean? Pearl doesn’t plan to get married?
In an abusive relationship, not every woman just “gets beat”, sometimes I’d give up, but most times, I’d fight back! There are women who abuse their partners, of course, but to say my relationship was “mutual abuse” is seriously messed up. It’s human to protect yourself. I’d do it again.
Honestly, I hope you don't have to do it again. I saw my mom enduring that and after all that stopped I always told her "you won't have to do that again ever" and I could see the peace it gave her
She played herself as soon as she tried to pawn her own ignorance on Thomas Sowell. 😂 If she really did read any of his books or listen to him at all previously, she should have refreshed her memory so she could represent what he actually said appropriately. How does she think she can continue to preach accountability if she cant even defend the words coming out of her own mouth?
Thank you I very familiar with his books and lectures and I was waiting for her to give a deep explanation and she just looked dumbfounded
isnt Thomas Sowells stance kinda summed up as "yes it was bad but there is far more to it than that"? ive seen a few videos with him and that was my takeaway. pearly lookin REAL bad here.
(EDIT): I went back and re-read the section of the book, and I had mistakenly got it mixed up with one of his other books.
The book in question is "Conquests and Cultures" and examines how specific cultural traits have identifiable effects on the history of those people. The section she's quoting is specifically about the history of slavery in the world, and how many Americans have a narrow understanding of it based only on our country's history. Sowell wasn't saying that ROOTS exaggerated the brutality or cruelty of slavery. He was just saying that he disliked how the showrunner chose to write a "myth" about certain _other_ details, specifically the process by which enslaved people were kidnapped and sold.
After reading it again there is _definitely_ nothing in there about slavery being exaggerated.
(ORIGINAL)
I would say his beliefs are that the impact of slavery on their culture today is misunderstood and leaves out other influences. This misunderstanding has implanted the idea that black identity is entirely about being the descendants of slaves, which ignores other factors and has negatively influenced the ability for many African Americans to find success.
@@tyeberiusmcintyre1879yeah from the little I’ve read he’s just trying to explain why it happened not defend it
@@tyeberiusmcintyre1879And I'm not sure if this was what you were asking but he 100% agrees that it was awful.
Girl really saw Ethan's bad takes and thought she'd win cause she thought he was dumb. Just because a man has dumb moments, doesn't mean he is dumb.
I do think Ethan is really dumb, just not as dumb as pearl.
That may be true, but it's H3H3. I know this is crazy.
🤣🤣🤣
He's a pro at dragging people dumber than him.
He's pretty dumb. She just had an even worse take.
I mean, he is pretty dumb. Just smarter than her. I am totally OK with saying I am dumb. I just care enough to look into things before advocating against or for them. She did not. Ethan did, so he won.
Pearl is the kid in the group who probably annoys me the most as a teacher. She's not the lazy one who isn't doing anything nor the intelligent, organized leader who has the group on lock. She the one doing the bare minimum just to get by. She's standing presenting everything but can't answer anything because she only did the surface level work and colored a picture or two. Everything was handed to her and she believes now as an adult she can get by only doing the minimum. She has unmarried cat lady written all over her.
The cat ladies didn’t deserve to take that stray 😂
not me having two cats haha but jokes aside yeah you hit it on the head. they think they are smarter than they are but really dont know anything
@@ahub87 this! being a cat lady or person now if normal haha
Hey, hey, HEY!
You leave the cats out of this. I think she's a dog lady anyway
genuine question about teaching but im curious why the lzy student isnt seen as poorly, as the student doing the bare minimum
"she's not dumb, she has like 3 cassette tapes, and she plays them over again." Classic! this was funny and Ethan is a GOAT for this interview.
She’s nervous cause she’s not the one controlling the situation and she can’t shut him up by saying he can leave 😂
True she a has a controlling attitude
Most freed slaves knew no other way of life and often stayed with their former masters as hired hands or tenant farmers because they wouldn't be able to survive on their own, especially the older ones. It would be similar to someone who's been in prison for 30 years for a crime they didn't commit and all of a sudden, they're released into society, not knowing how anything worked and having the stigma of being a convict.
They were institutionalized.
Let alone not being given resources or recompensated for the labor that was robbed/freely exploited from them. "40 acres and a mule" was a pipe dream.
Imagine owning a person and some other person comes up and their like "why do you own a slave thats unethical" and they respond "I don't treat them like slaves, I treat them like human beings that I own" 😅 its like being on trial for stabbing someone and you ask for leniency and the judge says "you stabbed her 32 times..." and your response is "But did she die?" 🤦♂️ people are so stupid!
Slavery is ok between consenting adults.
_but did she die_ 💀
Where is her husband and kids? Women like this preach what they don't practice