You and Blair were the gals that made RUclips special to me for the longest time. RUclips nowadays ain’t the same, miss those days ❤️ Wish you the best of health !
I’m 23 years old now and I’ve been watching since i was in ELEMENTARY SCHOOL! Your true ride or dies are here for all the phases of your life to cheer you on!! Prioritizing yourself is such an amazing example to show your following. Happy new year Elle! 🤍✨
I have watched your videos since you were in college and felt like I have grown up with you (I’m 30 now!) I was diagnosed with RA in 2019, and autoimmune diseases are no joke especially trying to continue to juggle everything as usual. It’s admirable seeing you evaluate where you want to put your time and energy
Overworking myself is something that resonated so much with me, Elle! You‘re not alone in this! There is so much pressure to be productive and successful that it really drains the joy out of our creative process and just life in general… I hope you can take some time to yourself and take it slow. For me I really cut back on a lot of things that I thought „I have to do“ - especially also around the holidays. I stopped working with to-do lists that I kept making longer and longer but instead I have 2 major things I do in a day in addition to work and family and that’s it. And I give myself „off days“ where keeping everyone fed, clean and happy is all I want to accomplish. That’s enough sometimes. Especially with health concerns. I‘m keeping you and your family in my prayers and hope you‘ll find a way to adjust and find a balance again ❤
Yes girl NAPS! I napped so much during my vacation from work and it did me well. Spending quality time at home with my 5 and 1 year old boys was so nice. And naps with them ☺️ I’ve been watching you since you were in college and I was also so it’s nice to have grown together. God bless you and your family.
I couldn’t understand more…autoimmune is so terrible…mine is recent as well and is bladder and joint related….has taken over my entire existence and I’m also trying to completely overhaul my diet similar to what you mention. Sending hugs..love…and prayers for healing…also praying for my selfish self that you feel better soon because I REALLY have missed your shop…but I totally understand and health is most important. Cheers to healing for us both…and anyone else out there suffering.
Balancing ‘identities’ (mom/wife/boss/CEO/sister/friend/daughter) is absolutely the toughest part of motherhood and milestones. I hope the time away gave you a little bit of clarity. It’s okay to always be growing and changing - every season of life looks so different. Sending you lots of love from one mama of two to another ❤
The timing of this video! I am currently going through those tests at 6 months postpartum after burning and now loss of sensation in my legs and what feels like carpal tunnel in my left hand. It's such an exhausting time and i feel for you so much! Hope you have more good days
Take care of yourself and your beautiful family, Elle. Learning to live with an auto-immune disease can be a challenging dance to “new normal”, but you will figure it out. If RUclips or the sticker shop isn’t apart of your new normal, that’s okay. We understand. I’ve had an auto-immune disease since I was 6 months old, I turned 30 two weeks ago. My disease has always been my version of normal because I was diagnosed so young. I can only imagine what you’re thinking, feeling (emotionally and physically), and dealing with being diagnosed in adulthood, being a Mom, wife, business woman. You’ll be okay. Focus on your health and your beautiful family. ❤️
Take care of yourself!! You are the most important person. If you don’t take care of yourself then you can’t take care of others. Us mom’s forget that.
Being diagnosed with an autoimmune disease does indeed suck. I was diagnosed with autoimmune hepatitis back in September after having a lot of the same symptoms as you have. It’s not fun and it’s nothing but dr appointments and medication for the rest of your life. But we are warriors and you will get through this! 💪🏼❤️
Hi Elle, I totally understand that a health issue can really throw you off track. I was sick and hospitalised last October. It changed me too. I need to figure out what’s wrong with my life and food choices that lead me to this. 2 months in I’m kinda better at it now, so I hope it’s going to be good for you too. Please your enjoy your break! ❤
Wow. I'm glad you're taking the time you need. I'm also on my health journey the next 6-8 months, putting myself first. On meds that I can't try for my rainbow baby. 2023 All Me.
Best Wishes to you Elle! Chronic health issues are such a roller coaster ride. It’s not easy dealing with the issues that come with them but it seems like you have a great support system. Happy New Year!
I've been subscribed since the early days when you collected Mac shadows and did Lush hauls. This video made me cry, because it is super similar to my story. I'm nearly 30. When I was 21, I started to get bad pain in my left foot... then my right. The next flare hit my hands. I've also had knees, hips, and ankles flare. It took several specialist, a few years, and several medications to get me mobile and functioning again. I had to re-write my life, just as you describe. Idk what your diagnosis is, but I know what it's like to confuse doctors and navigate new waters. Please know you are NOT alone. ❤ You and your family will get through this.
I'm sorry you're struggling! I was just recently diagnosed with sarcoidosis and am having to completely change my lifestyle to try to manage the flares! Hang in there, you're not alone!
As someone who also has inflammatory autoimmune things who had to drastically change their diet the only thing I can truly offer you is to focus on the things that you CAN still eat that you love. Fruits and veg have been awesome for me! Experiment and once you find your favorites stick with them! Autoimmune stuff sucks. You will do your best and still have some bad days. Know that you can only do your best and give yourself permission to not get things done. Focus on yourself and your family. Sending you so much love and prayers of healing! ❤❤❤
Sending you all the love and healing vibes! Also diagnosed with an autoimmune disease in 2020, and it sounds like you are on the right track with reducing stress and watching your triggers. Take care of yourself. ❤️❤️❤️
My mom currently has Lupus, along with several other autoimmune disorders. She's been through it but she is mostly having really good days. Whatever you are going through, I hope you get to the point of having better days than not. Whatever you need to do, do it. We will still be here for you, and just want the best for you. You're a mama, those babies need you to be happy and healthy💗💗💗
Beautiful Elle… I’ve been watching you for around 12 years and I’m a bit older than you (38). For quite a few years now, since you started talking about your health struggles I’ve known this was coming… the GOOD side of touching bottom is that now you’ve finally seen it! And you are even planning not doing anything AT ALL, just having JOY, which is the way that will take you (if u allow it) back to mind and body balance. If you can, now that you have finally identified your spreading yourself too thin with your health struggles, please read the book “When the body says now” by Dr. Gabor Maté (or start by watching his numerous videos here on RUclips). I promise you it’s going to give you the answers you are looking for. Also, Elle, I know this is hard (I myself did it quite a few years ago now) but try to slowly get rid of the toxic load of so many beauty and cleaning products. They poison our bodies and slowly rob us of our health. Personally I’m at a point now where absolutely everything I use on my body or my house is edible. It took time, but just start. It will benefit your children and your husband too. I wish you THE ABSOLUTE BEST HEALING journey for 2023. Take all the time in the world, you have nothing to prove and NOBODY to answer to but to yourself (and your children). Now that you know, you can change things. It’s in your hands, incredible woman. ❤
Definitely been watching since some of the very very early All That Glitters videos. Take the time and enjoy all that life has to offer outside of work! RUclips will always be here no matter how long you are gone. Time you can't get back so steal and borrow it where you can! Wishing you health and happiness for 2023!!
I’m so sorry to hear this Welcome to the club! Thankfully it’s 2023 and we have much better treatments nowadays. I’ve had psoriatic arthritis for over 20 years and there is so much more available now. Everything you say sounds very familiar and it’s hard to prioritise yourself when you lead a very busy life. Hope the treatment you have keeps you as healthy as possible for as long as possible. You got this!!
I’m glad you shared this. I can relate. My youngest was barely 2 when I broke my back! Same place as yours, but no bedrest. I wasn’t diagnosed for over 6 months because it was a work injury. I continued to work (I’m an RN, so on my feet & busy!) Long story, but at some point I had to slow down. My mind was and is still very active, but I have to pay attention to clues my body sends me! Do what you need to do. Enjoy your hobbies and do what you enjoy at a level that your body allows. Whatever that means for you. Get help in your home. Let us pray for you if you believe.
I can relate to the unfortunate health struggles, Elle.. I unfortunately woke up two summers ago with a pain in my head that is still ongoing and undiagnosed till this day.. Chronic health issues are so difficult and I wish you healing and strength. Happy New Year! 🙏🏼💛
Hope you had a merry Christmas and enjoyed every minute of your time off the past week or so. Hope these coming weeks and months bring you the rejuvenation and balance you’re in need of ❤
Thank you for updating us!! After years (11 this year!!) of following you and being inspired by your planner videos, I finally caved and bought an Erin Condren planner for 2023. I hope you have/had a wonderful break and start feeling better! ❤️
I’m so sorry Elle! I’ve had psoriasis for years and years. But after my miscarriage last year I had a slew of mystery symptoms and no one could figure it out. Until I was diagnosed with hashimotos disease, psoriatic arthritis and Sjogrens disease. It was hellish. Hives, Angiodema, joint pain etc. I went on the autoimmune paleo diet and started to feel better. Now I’m totally gluten free too. Would love to see whatever parts of your health journey you’re comfortable sharing going forward - you are not alone!!!! It can be scary and frustrating I know 💚
@@allieperez i was relentless in finding answers. It was a nightmare and so frustrating I know, but worth it! I saw my regular doc, allergist, endocrinologist, holistic doc, and rheumatologist. Eventually they all had ordered enough various labs that a picture started forming and the right tests were being ordered. When they check things like your thyroid specifically request that they check antibodies. A lot of times (at least in my case) my labs would look “normal” but I had antibodies for hashimotos Disease and Sjogrens etc. it’s hard and I’m sorry you’re going through this!! Don’t give up.
been watching since your college days as i was graduating hs myself...you and a couple other youtubers are the reason im a makeup artist today! love you and hope you feel good. take your time and enjoy your beautiful family!
As a long-time follower/Ellevator, I just want to thank you for all that you’ve done! And I completely understand that feeling of being stretched so thin! It’s exhausting! And if anyone’s ever earned a break more, it’s you! You are an incredible human and I’m happy to watch your videos and pick up some stickers when I can. Anything to support you and try to make your life easier! Happy new year and I hope you had an awesome holiday! 💕💕
Hi Elle.. I had similar disease that caused me to have multiple miscarriages and joint pain flares. I have been diagnosed with lupus and I am living with it for about 17 years. I adopted with my condition and now I am living almost a normal life. I know it sounds very frustrating, but you will get over it because you are a strong woman. Cheers.
Hey Elle, I usually never comment but I’ve been watching you since the very beginning and I am so grateful you shared this video right now. I usually come to your channel to distract myself from my own difficulties because your videos always have such a calming effect on me. But seeing this right now I realized that what I needed was actually not to feel so alone in my suffering. I have not been feeling well mentally and because of that also physically for a while now and it’s so so comforting to see someone you have looked up to for so many years talk about similar things. It just makes me feel so much less alone. So thank you so much for this… I also have been realizing I always put way too much pressure on myself and set unrealistic goals and try to follow structures I just can’t keep in the long run. It’s left me exhausted and full of self doubt when actually I’m such a creative and excitable person. I also recently found out I have adhd and been reflecting on that a lot… I personally would love to see more videos where you are vulnerable like this and talking about everyday struggles like prioritizing tasks and making time for yourself, etc. Hope the break helped you. Wish you all the best and love you.
As someone who has lived with an autoimmune disease since 2007 (Lupus), there are two things I've learned: Everyone's autoimmune disease is different, and autoimmune diseases require people create boundaries. And doing this is so difficult - especially if you're a bit of a control freak like I do, and you have to work full time, you have friends, family, a life. Best of luck with your break - and take lots of naps. :)
Thank you for sharing ❤ I have an autoimmune disorder and chronic pain and your videos have always been a great thing in my life over the many years. ❤
I have Hashimotos (diagnosed three weeks ago), and I’ve cut out gluten, dairy and low sugar. I didn’t realize how bad my joints hurt. My suggestion is treat it like an adventure - not a loss.
@@ElleFowler I still have some low days (the holidays were hard) but I think the fact I felt SO MUCH better within days has really helped me stay the course. It honestly helps to have a sense of humor about it - not everything is going to taste good, and that’s ok. It’s like a little kid trying food for the first time, your taste buds need time to adjust. So give yourself the same grace you would give a little kid. It all takes time and it’s just an adventure. If you can, try to set yourself up for success. Rice and potatoes are my god send. The internet is a full of places to eat that are allergy friendly. Surprisingly, the easiest place to eat i’ve had so far has been Disney World. I also told myself I would thoroughly commit for 30 days and make adjustments afterwards. I feel better now that I felt when I was 16. Lean in to absurdity and realize you will find favorite foods again. It isn’t a lost, it’s a change.
Hi Elle! Thnx for shareing. I have felt the same exact way this last year. Im Spread out too thin and but I have new interests and its so hard to balance everything and make time for the things I want to do. I hope your able to find some balance as well. ❤
Elle I have followed you since your days in your sorority house! I was also diagnosed with an autoimmune disease in 2022 and am going through some of the same struggles as you. Wishing you the best and hoping your treatment plan works as well for you as mine has been for me ♥️
Hey Elle! I've developed an autoimmune disease too. When you were talking about it it sounded like what I went through and am still going through. I have psoriatic arthritis and psoriasis. I have it in my feet and hands. I've tried meds with no success yet but hopefully you'll have more luck. I kinda gave up and am trying to get on disability bc this is literally controlling my life and what I can do. Just want you to know...make small things goals. That's what I do then I don't feel like I failed. So Luke showering or organization or cleaning the counter. I make it one thing instead of several or just make a list and don't put a timeliness on it. Eventually you'll get through things. I like the whole realistic goals thing. Definitely have to know what your body can handle and what it can't. I've become very limited since developing my autoimmune. I just do what I can and I also get a caregiver to help me woth things also.
Oh Elle! I have been following for a long time; you owe us nothing, but I do appreciate the explanation. I’m so sorry! Autoimmune disease is such a bugger. Hope you’re able to manage it well and easily. Be well! 💗💗
I have Sjorens and it has been such a nightmare getting through the initial symptoms and finally receiving a diagnosis. Since being on the medication, I have improved tremendously. I always have baseline symptoms but overall much less severe than when it first began.
A big hug to anyone that is struggling!!!!! 🫂 I send you so much health and love elle!!! I'm currently dealing with crippling anxiety. I've barely left the house in weeks. And I get vertigo with my anxiety so I've been basically been sitting in bed for days trying to distract myself. Thank goodness for my family. 🙏 I really hope for every single one of us have health and find joy !!!!!!🙌
Elle, I experienced something very similar with my first daughter. I was diagnosed with fibromyalgia and arthritis after experiencing pain in my feet and ankles which then spread to my back and neck and knees. I was devastated and so depressed thinking I had an incurable autoimmune disease. They prescribed me cymbalta and just said “good luck”. I’m not saying this is the case for you, but it ended up being a false diagnosis and what I was experiencing was from my joints and ligaments weakening from the hormone relaxin which comes with breastfeeding, and also issues with my pelvic floor (yes, I had horrible pelvic pain in pregnancy too!). What helped was seeing a chiro and physical therapy and magnesium supplements. Just thought I’d share because it’s crazy how much our bodies go through postpartum and not enough info is shared about it. I hope you continue to get answers and find the right treatment for you❤️
Thank you. I am 44 so my hormones are all over the place from perimenopause so it could be causing similar problems to after pregnancy issues. I appreciate the help ❤️
You will get through this! It is definitely an adjustment. I have crohns and then later also developed psoriasis. My best friend also recently diagnosed with MS. She also gets pain in her hands. Just remember it’s ok to be tired. And ok to not feel well. It can be challenging for other people in your life to understand as it is an “invisible” illness. But just remember the way you feel is valid and take that time for you. Sometimes I nap in the middle of the day and it helps so much. Lean on family for support. As a side note I also cut out Augusta (all forms of carbs) for a whole year and it helped my flare ups tremendously. It’s a difficult diet to keep up though but worth it. Sometimes there is nothing you can do about the flare ups but just keep in mind they are temporary and you will feel better again ❤
Hey Elle, first of all happy new year 💕 and thank you for updating us. I've been a long time follower, since the twilight bedroom 😅 10+ years ago. I've been dealing with an autoimmune disease for 6 years now and it's an uphill battle at first. But it definitely did get better, I'd say the first year until my meds were right was the hardest part, but since then it definitely got better and I know how to deal with it if it gets bad now and I feel exhausted and weak. I changed my whole life around it as well, saying no to many things because I know it will be too much for me and I especially stopped saying yes to activities just to make others happy. It's not bad for me since I am a very introverted person anyway and happy to read and be by myself and take my time lol. I hope you find comfort in knowing that you're not alone in this and it's just the adaptation process that's the hardest part. Love you, and wish you all the best for your health journey 💕
Hey, Elle! I’ve watched your videos for years. I do always try to catch up on how things are going for you. I’m so sorry for all your going through and have gone through. When I watched your videos on of the toughest stuff (breaking your back, miscarriages, etc.) I always pray for you. I’m praying now and I thought it might be encouraging for you to know that. Love and hugs!❤🙏
Elle, wishing you a new year of happiness and good health. Four years ago I was diagnosed with an autoimmune disease when I was pregnant with my third baby. It was difficult to accept that I would need daily medication for the rest of my life and deal with the physical symptoms but once I was properly medicated they stopped for the most part. There are days that I push myself too hard and feel it and I have to remind myself to take a break and give myself some grace. I am hoping you will find that balance and start feeling better soon ❤
I always think of you during the holidays, and of course missed your Elle holiday videos this year, but I totally understand you have your own life! I’m glad you chose to spend some time *completely* on break and with your family. I hope you have some good reads for Glitteratures if you feel like posting any in the coming months! Most of all, I just hope you get ahead of the curve of managing it and start feeling better. 💖
You've got this, miss girl Sincerely, a Miss Girl that has Ehlers Danlos Syndrome, Postural Orthostatic Tachycardia Syndrome, and epilepsy (and possibly lupus)
Thank you for sharing how you are feeling. Please do whatever you need to do to be healthy. Your followers will support you and root for you. Wishing you a new year filled with joy, peace, health, happiness and all the ones you love! 🎉💙💙
It’s so good to see you, Elle! Sorry to hear about your issues with inflammation, but I hope at least knowing what it is gives you some relief. I hope you’re enjoying your much needed break!
Thank you for the update. It’s reassuring to hear from someone that had “disappeared”. One doesn’t know how bad whatever it is that changed. Dietary changes can make a big difference with autoimmune but it’s a lot of work. Be kind to yourself and take care of yourself and of your family it’s the most important part of our lives
Happy New Year Elle. I can totally relate. A lot of your symptoms correlate with my auto immune disease called Lupus SLE. You will adjust to a new normal. The best advice is advocating for yourself. Give yourself grace. Change up your medication until you find something that works. Wishing you the best.
I have Psoriatic Arthritis. I had my first flare post parting too. I now take Biologic injections for it. Every 3 weeks. I have only the occasional flare now.
Your health should always come first. I’ve been watching your videos for years and I’m not gonna stop now. I was actually rewatching old videos while cleaning earlier today. Finding balance is a process. Be kind to yourself.❤
Hello Elle, I'm sorry to hear you're dealing with all of this. I hope that having a diagnosis and medication will help you. Don't feel bad if you need to let some things go now, priorities change and you will never get these years with your kids back, and if you don't look after yourself you can't look after everything else. sending lots of virtual hugs.
I hope you had great holidays and time off and that you are feeling better. We will always support you taking care of yourself and all the things you take on and share with us
i'm sorry elle! i appreciate you letting us in on how you are doing. i hope you feel better very soon! please take care of yourself. your health and your family always come first
Prayers and hugs! I have several autoimmune diseases Type one diabetes, psoriasis, hashimotos, psoriatic arthritis. It sucks but at least it’s treatable. Prayers you find what works for you
ughhh so sorry to hear this, Elle. One of my friends has an autoimmune disease and has completely switched to a vegan / non-processed food diet except for eating eggs. It might be worth looking into that for you as well. I still hope that you were able to enjoy Christmas and New Year. Happy & healthy 2023❤
I'm sorry to hear this. I usually work two or even three jobs because I get bored and why not make up that time with making money, right? But, I'm noticing there's no enjoyment out of it, I'm not really saving what I'm making because it's easier to spend. That being said, I decided to downgrade to my main full-time job and will take more time for me. I think it's important to manage our health and time by concentrating on what makes us healthy and happy 😊 happy new year to you an your family and good luck on your health journey.
Appreciate your presence on RUclips still after all these years 🙏🏼 please take care of yourself!!
You and Blair were the gals that made RUclips special to me for the longest time. RUclips nowadays ain’t the same, miss those days ❤️
Wish you the best of health !
I’m 23 years old now and I’ve been watching since i was in ELEMENTARY SCHOOL! Your true ride or dies are here for all the phases of your life to cheer you on!! Prioritizing yourself is such an amazing example to show your following. Happy new year Elle! 🤍✨
I was about to go to sleep, but I can't skip an Elle video. Lezz go.
I have watched your videos since you were in college and felt like I have grown up with you (I’m 30 now!)
I was diagnosed with RA in 2019, and autoimmune diseases are no joke especially trying to continue to juggle everything as usual. It’s admirable seeing you evaluate where you want to put your time and energy
Overworking myself is something that resonated so much with me, Elle! You‘re not alone in this! There is so much pressure to be productive and successful that it really drains the joy out of our creative process and just life in general… I hope you can take some time to yourself and take it slow. For me I really cut back on a lot of things that I thought „I have to do“ - especially also around the holidays. I stopped working with to-do lists that I kept making longer and longer but instead I have 2 major things I do in a day in addition to work and family and that’s it. And I give myself „off days“ where keeping everyone fed, clean and happy is all I want to accomplish. That’s enough sometimes. Especially with health concerns. I‘m keeping you and your family in my prayers and hope you‘ll find a way to adjust and find a balance again ❤
Yes girl NAPS! I napped so much during my vacation from work and it did me well. Spending quality time at home with my 5 and 1 year old boys was so nice. And naps with them ☺️ I’ve been watching you since you were in college and I was also so it’s nice to have grown together. God bless you and your family.
I couldn’t understand more…autoimmune is so terrible…mine is recent as well and is bladder and joint related….has taken over my entire existence and I’m also trying to completely overhaul my diet similar to what you mention. Sending hugs..love…and prayers for healing…also praying for my selfish self that you feel better soon because I REALLY have missed your shop…but I totally understand and health is most important. Cheers to healing for us both…and anyone else out there suffering.
Balancing ‘identities’ (mom/wife/boss/CEO/sister/friend/daughter) is absolutely the toughest part of motherhood and milestones. I hope the time away gave you a little bit of clarity. It’s okay to always be growing and changing - every season of life looks so different. Sending you lots of love from one mama of two to another ❤
The timing of this video! I am currently going through those tests at 6 months postpartum after burning and now loss of sensation in my legs and what feels like carpal tunnel in my left hand. It's such an exhausting time and i feel for you so much! Hope you have more good days
Hope you're feeling better, Elle. Glad you're back.
Glad you took time for yourself. Being a mom is hard. You definitely lose that precious time that you used to have before. Be kind to yourself!
Take care of yourself and your beautiful family, Elle. Learning to live with an auto-immune disease can be a challenging dance to “new normal”, but you will figure it out. If RUclips or the sticker shop isn’t apart of your new normal, that’s okay. We understand. I’ve had an auto-immune disease since I was 6 months old, I turned 30 two weeks ago. My disease has always been my version of normal because I was diagnosed so young. I can only imagine what you’re thinking, feeling (emotionally and physically), and dealing with being diagnosed in adulthood, being a Mom, wife, business woman. You’ll be okay. Focus on your health and your beautiful family. ❤️
Take care of yourself!! You are the most important person. If you don’t take care of yourself then you can’t take care of others. Us mom’s forget that.
Being diagnosed with an autoimmune disease does indeed suck. I was diagnosed with autoimmune hepatitis back in September after having a lot of the same symptoms as you have. It’s not fun and it’s nothing but dr appointments and medication for the rest of your life. But we are warriors and you will get through this! 💪🏼❤️
Hi Elle, I totally understand that a health issue can really throw you off track. I was sick and hospitalised last October. It changed me too. I need to figure out what’s wrong with my life and food choices that lead me to this. 2 months in I’m kinda better at it now, so I hope it’s going to be good for you too. Please your enjoy your break! ❤
Wow. I'm glad you're taking the time you need. I'm also on my health journey the next 6-8 months, putting myself first. On meds that I can't try for my rainbow baby. 2023 All Me.
Best Wishes to you Elle! Chronic health issues are such a roller coaster ride. It’s not easy dealing with the issues that come with them but it seems like you have a great support system. Happy New Year!
I 100% can relate to your work/life balance dilemma. There aren’t enough hours in the day for all our passions.
Hey elle! You are the most important person in your life. We are all rooting for you! Best of wishes. Thanks for growing up with us 🥰🥰
I've been subscribed since the early days when you collected Mac shadows and did Lush hauls. This video made me cry, because it is super similar to my story. I'm nearly 30. When I was 21, I started to get bad pain in my left foot... then my right. The next flare hit my hands. I've also had knees, hips, and ankles flare. It took several specialist, a few years, and several medications to get me mobile and functioning again. I had to re-write my life, just as you describe. Idk what your diagnosis is, but I know what it's like to confuse doctors and navigate new waters. Please know you are NOT alone. ❤ You and your family will get through this.
I'm sorry you're struggling! I was just recently diagnosed with sarcoidosis and am having to completely change my lifestyle to try to manage the flares! Hang in there, you're not alone!
As someone who also has inflammatory autoimmune things who had to drastically change their diet the only thing I can truly offer you is to focus on the things that you CAN still eat that you love. Fruits and veg have been awesome for me! Experiment and once you find your favorites stick with them!
Autoimmune stuff sucks. You will do your best and still have some bad days. Know that you can only do your best and give yourself permission to not get things done. Focus on yourself and your family.
Sending you so much love and prayers of healing! ❤❤❤
Sending you all the love and healing vibes! Also diagnosed with an autoimmune disease in 2020, and it sounds like you are on the right track with reducing stress and watching your triggers. Take care of yourself. ❤️❤️❤️
I was diagnosed with Rheumatoid Arthritis in 2020 and understand inflammation all too well. Take care and listen to your body. Good luck in 2023.
My mom currently has Lupus, along with several other autoimmune disorders. She's been through it but she is mostly having really good days. Whatever you are going through, I hope you get to the point of having better days than not. Whatever you need to do, do it. We will still be here for you, and just want the best for you. You're a mama, those babies need you to be happy and healthy💗💗💗
Happy to see you, hope you are all healthy 🎉
Beautiful Elle… I’ve been watching you for around 12 years and I’m a bit older than you (38). For quite a few years now, since you started talking about your health struggles I’ve known this was coming… the GOOD side of touching bottom is that now you’ve finally seen it! And you are even planning not doing anything AT ALL, just having JOY, which is the way that will take you (if u allow it) back to mind and body balance. If you can, now that you have finally identified your spreading yourself too thin with your health struggles, please read the book “When the body says now” by Dr. Gabor Maté (or start by watching his numerous videos here on RUclips). I promise you it’s going to give you the answers you are looking for. Also, Elle, I know this is hard (I myself did it quite a few years ago now) but try to slowly get rid of the toxic load of so many beauty and cleaning products. They poison our bodies and slowly rob us of our health. Personally I’m at a point now where absolutely everything I use on my body or my house is edible. It took time, but just start. It will benefit your children and your husband too. I wish you THE ABSOLUTE BEST HEALING journey for 2023. Take all the time in the world, you have nothing to prove and NOBODY to answer to but to yourself (and your children). Now that you know, you can change things. It’s in your hands, incredible woman. ❤
I have recently corrected alot of the same issue with the carnivore diet. I love it. You may want to look into it.
I hope that you’ll feel better soon. ❤️🩹
I hope you are feeling better. I pray for healing and great health! Please continue to take care of yourself and take all the time you need.
Definitely been watching since some of the very very early All That Glitters videos. Take the time and enjoy all that life has to offer outside of work! RUclips will always be here no matter how long you are gone. Time you can't get back so steal and borrow it where you can! Wishing you health and happiness for 2023!!
I’m so sorry to hear this
Welcome to the club! Thankfully it’s 2023 and we have much better treatments nowadays. I’ve had psoriatic arthritis for over 20 years and there is so much more available now. Everything you say sounds very familiar and it’s hard to prioritise yourself when you lead a very busy life. Hope the treatment you have keeps you as healthy as possible for as long as possible. You got this!!
I’m glad you shared this. I can relate. My youngest was barely 2 when I broke my back! Same place as yours, but no bedrest. I wasn’t diagnosed for over 6 months because it was a work injury. I continued to work (I’m an RN, so on my feet & busy!)
Long story, but at some point I had to slow down. My mind was and is still very active, but I have to pay attention to clues my body sends me!
Do what you need to do. Enjoy your hobbies and do what you enjoy at a level that your body allows. Whatever that means for you. Get help in your home. Let us pray for you if you believe.
I can relate to the unfortunate health struggles, Elle.. I unfortunately woke up two summers ago with a pain in my head that is still ongoing and undiagnosed till this day.. Chronic health issues are so difficult and I wish you healing and strength. Happy New Year! 🙏🏼💛
Hope you had a merry Christmas and enjoyed every minute of your time off the past week or so. Hope these coming weeks and months bring you the rejuvenation and balance you’re in need of ❤
Thank you for updating us!! After years (11 this year!!) of following you and being inspired by your planner videos, I finally caved and bought an Erin Condren planner for 2023. I hope you have/had a wonderful break and start feeling better! ❤️
I’m so sorry Elle! I’ve had psoriasis for years and years. But after my miscarriage last year I had a slew of mystery symptoms and no one could figure it out. Until I was diagnosed with hashimotos disease, psoriatic arthritis and Sjogrens disease. It was hellish. Hives, Angiodema, joint pain etc. I went on the autoimmune paleo diet and started to feel better. Now I’m totally gluten free too. Would love to see whatever parts of your health journey you’re comfortable sharing going forward - you are not alone!!!! It can be scary and frustrating I know 💚
Who did you finally see type of doctor that helped with this? I’ve had similar symptoms and nothing.
@@allieperez i was relentless in finding answers. It was a nightmare and so frustrating I know, but worth it! I saw my regular doc, allergist, endocrinologist, holistic doc, and rheumatologist. Eventually they all had ordered enough various labs that a picture started forming and the right tests were being ordered. When they check things like your thyroid specifically request that they check antibodies. A lot of times (at least in my case) my labs would look “normal” but I had antibodies for hashimotos
Disease and Sjogrens etc. it’s hard and I’m sorry you’re going through this!! Don’t give up.
been watching since your college days as i was graduating hs myself...you and a couple other youtubers are the reason im a makeup artist today! love you and hope you feel good. take your time and enjoy your beautiful family!
As a long-time follower/Ellevator, I just want to thank you for all that you’ve done! And I completely understand that feeling of being stretched so thin! It’s exhausting! And if anyone’s ever earned a break more, it’s you! You are an incredible human and I’m happy to watch your videos and pick up some stickers when I can. Anything to support you and try to make your life easier! Happy new year and I hope you had an awesome holiday! 💕💕
Hi Elle.. I had similar disease that caused me to have multiple miscarriages and joint pain flares. I have been diagnosed with lupus and I am living with it for about 17 years. I adopted with my condition and now I am living almost a normal life. I know it sounds very frustrating, but you will get over it because you are a strong woman. Cheers.
You are not alone. I have chronic pain after having my daughter. We can do this.
Hey Elle, I usually never comment but I’ve been watching you since the very beginning and I am so grateful you shared this video right now. I usually come to your channel to distract myself from my own difficulties because your videos always have such a calming effect on me. But seeing this right now I realized that what I needed was actually not to feel so alone in my suffering. I have not been feeling well mentally and because of that also physically for a while now and it’s so so comforting to see someone you have looked up to for so many years talk about similar things. It just makes me feel so much less alone. So thank you so much for this…
I also have been realizing I always put way too much pressure on myself and set unrealistic goals and try to follow structures I just can’t keep in the long run. It’s left me exhausted and full of self doubt when actually I’m such a creative and excitable person.
I also recently found out I have adhd and been reflecting on that a lot…
I personally would love to see more videos where you are vulnerable like this and talking about everyday struggles like prioritizing tasks and making time for yourself, etc.
Hope the break helped you. Wish you all the best and love you.
As someone who has lived with an autoimmune disease since 2007 (Lupus), there are two things I've learned: Everyone's autoimmune disease is different, and autoimmune diseases require people create boundaries. And doing this is so difficult - especially if you're a bit of a control freak like I do, and you have to work full time, you have friends, family, a life. Best of luck with your break - and take lots of naps. :)
The start of this story is literally my life. Woke up with pain in my ankle on day and 20 months later I'm still in pain with no answers
You deserve a break 💖 May the upcoming year bring you good health, good times, and a clear, content mind ✨️
I’m sorry to hear you’ve been going through a hard time. I appreciate the update and hope you feel better soon! ❤
Oh no-sorry to hear that you’ve been having a bit of a rough time. Wishing you nothing but R&R! 🫶🏽
Thank you for sharing ❤ I have an autoimmune disorder and chronic pain and your videos have always been a great thing in my life over the many years. ❤
I have Hashimotos (diagnosed three weeks ago), and I’ve cut out gluten, dairy and low sugar. I didn’t realize how bad my joints hurt. My suggestion is treat it like an adventure - not a loss.
That’s a great mindset - I’m not quite there mentally lol. Wanna expand on that thought / idea?
@@ElleFowler I still have some low days (the holidays were hard) but I think the fact I felt SO MUCH better within days has really helped me stay the course. It honestly helps to have a sense of humor about it - not everything is going to taste good, and that’s ok. It’s like a little kid trying food for the first time, your taste buds need time to adjust. So give yourself the same grace you would give a little kid. It all takes time and it’s just an adventure. If you can, try to set yourself up for success. Rice and potatoes are my god send. The internet is a full of places to eat that are allergy friendly. Surprisingly, the easiest place to eat i’ve had so far has been Disney World. I also told myself I would thoroughly commit for 30 days and make adjustments afterwards. I feel better now that I felt when I was 16. Lean in to absurdity and realize you will find favorite foods again. It isn’t a lost, it’s a change.
Hi Elle! Thnx for shareing. I have felt the same exact way this last year. Im Spread out too thin and but I have new interests and its so hard to balance everything and make time for the things I want to do. I hope your able to find some balance as well. ❤
Elle I have followed you since your days in your sorority house! I was also diagnosed with an autoimmune disease in 2022 and am going through some of the same struggles as you. Wishing you the best and hoping your treatment plan works as well for you as mine has been for me ♥️
Best of luck to you!! Hope you come back healthier mentally and physically in the new year!
Happy new year ! Hope you let yourself have a good break ! You deserve it !
Best wishes Elle!
Do what's right for you, you have already given so much!💛
Hey Elle! I've developed an autoimmune disease too. When you were talking about it it sounded like what I went through and am still going through. I have psoriatic arthritis and psoriasis. I have it in my feet and hands. I've tried meds with no success yet but hopefully you'll have more luck. I kinda gave up and am trying to get on disability bc this is literally controlling my life and what I can do. Just want you to know...make small things goals. That's what I do then I don't feel like I failed. So Luke showering or organization or cleaning the counter. I make it one thing instead of several or just make a list and don't put a timeliness on it. Eventually you'll get through things. I like the whole realistic goals thing. Definitely have to know what your body can handle and what it can't. I've become very limited since developing my autoimmune. I just do what I can and I also get a caregiver to help me woth things also.
I’m sorry you’re dealing with this Elle. I hope 2023 is better for you! ❤
Oh Elle! I have been following for a long time; you owe us nothing, but I do appreciate the explanation. I’m so sorry! Autoimmune disease is such a bugger. Hope you’re able to manage it well and easily. Be well! 💗💗
I have Sjorens and it has been such a nightmare getting through the initial symptoms and finally receiving a diagnosis. Since being on the medication, I have improved tremendously. I always have baseline symptoms but overall much less severe than when it first began.
A big hug to anyone that is struggling!!!!! 🫂 I send you so much health and love elle!!! I'm currently dealing with crippling anxiety. I've barely left the house in weeks. And I get vertigo with my anxiety so I've been basically been sitting in bed for days trying to distract myself. Thank goodness for my family. 🙏 I really hope for every single one of us have health and find joy !!!!!!🙌
Thank you for sharing with us, wishing you a speedy recovery! Happy New Year 🎉❤
Elle, I experienced something very similar with my first daughter. I was diagnosed with fibromyalgia and arthritis after experiencing pain in my feet and ankles which then spread to my back and neck and knees.
I was devastated and so depressed thinking I had an incurable autoimmune disease. They prescribed me cymbalta and just said “good luck”. I’m not saying this is the case for you, but it ended up being a false diagnosis and what I was experiencing was from my joints and ligaments weakening from the hormone relaxin which comes with breastfeeding, and also issues with my pelvic floor (yes, I had horrible pelvic pain in pregnancy too!).
What helped was seeing a chiro and physical therapy and magnesium supplements. Just thought I’d share because it’s crazy how much our bodies go through postpartum and not enough info is shared about it. I hope you continue to get answers and find the right treatment for you❤️
Thank you. I am 44 so my hormones are all over the place from perimenopause so it could be causing similar problems to after pregnancy issues. I appreciate the help ❤️
You will get through this! It is definitely an adjustment. I have crohns and then later also developed psoriasis. My best friend also recently diagnosed with MS. She also gets pain in her hands. Just remember it’s ok to be tired. And ok to not feel well. It can be challenging for other people in your life to understand as it is an “invisible” illness. But just remember the way you feel is valid and take that time for you. Sometimes I nap in the middle of the day and it helps so much. Lean on family for support.
As a side note I also cut out Augusta (all forms of carbs) for a whole year and it helped my flare ups tremendously. It’s a difficult diet to keep up though but worth it. Sometimes there is nothing you can do about the flare ups but just keep in mind they are temporary and you will feel better again ❤
I cut out carbs. Not sure where Augusta came from😂
Hey Elle, first of all happy new year 💕 and thank you for updating us. I've been a long time follower, since the twilight bedroom 😅 10+ years ago. I've been dealing with an autoimmune disease for 6 years now and it's an uphill battle at first. But it definitely did get better, I'd say the first year until my meds were right was the hardest part, but since then it definitely got better and I know how to deal with it if it gets bad now and I feel exhausted and weak. I changed my whole life around it as well, saying no to many things because I know it will be too much for me and I especially stopped saying yes to activities just to make others happy. It's not bad for me since I am a very introverted person anyway and happy to read and be by myself and take my time lol. I hope you find comfort in knowing that you're not alone in this and it's just the adaptation process that's the hardest part. Love you, and wish you all the best for your health journey 💕
Hey, Elle! I’ve watched your videos for years. I do always try to catch up on how things are going for you. I’m so sorry for all your going through and have gone through. When I watched your videos on of the toughest stuff (breaking your back, miscarriages, etc.) I always pray for you. I’m praying now and I thought it might be encouraging for you to know that. Love and hugs!❤🙏
Feel better soon Elle. May 2023 be the year of lots of positives all around! Love to you and your family and Blair too! ❤️💕💖
Elle, so happy to see you back! Get well🙏 I hope you have a fast recovery and remission. Also just wanna say, your hair is gorgeous!
Lots of women find that autoimmune conditions show up after pregnancy.
Elle, wishing you a new year of happiness and good health. Four years ago I was diagnosed with an autoimmune disease when I was pregnant with my third baby. It was difficult to accept that I would need daily medication for the rest of my life and deal with the physical symptoms but once I was properly medicated they stopped for the most part. There are days that I push myself too hard and feel it and I have to remind myself to take a break and give myself some grace. I am hoping you will find that balance and start feeling better soon ❤
Amen to 2023 being the year of health! and only the start. Let's keep the progress growing so we can enjoy our lives well through our gray years :)
I have rheumatoid arthritis, I know first hand how isolating and difficult autoimmune conditions can be. Please reach out if you ever need.
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Especially at such a young age - nothing more invalidating than an older person being like, “oh honey, you do not have arthritis, I have arthritis!” 😐
@@ClaireMeri so true! And they're always talking about osteoarthritis which is very different!
Thank you for sharing this information. You never know what someone is going through from the outside. I’m glad you’re still making videos 😊
I always think of you during the holidays, and of course missed your Elle holiday videos this year, but I totally understand you have your own life! I’m glad you chose to spend some time *completely* on break and with your family. I hope you have some good reads for Glitteratures if you feel like posting any in the coming months! Most of all, I just hope you get ahead of the curve of managing it and start feeling better. 💖
You've got this, miss girl
Sincerely, a Miss Girl that has Ehlers Danlos Syndrome, Postural Orthostatic Tachycardia Syndrome, and epilepsy (and possibly lupus)
Thank you for sharing how you are feeling. Please do whatever you need to do to be healthy. Your followers will support you and root for you. Wishing you a new year filled with joy, peace, health, happiness and all the ones you love! 🎉💙💙
so sorry you have to go through this elle! but thank you for sharing, your honesty is so admirable and relatable
Sending you good vibes for a healthy and happy 2023 Elle! 🙌❤️
It’s so good to see you, Elle! Sorry to hear about your issues with inflammation, but I hope at least knowing what it is gives you some relief. I hope you’re enjoying your much needed break!
Thank you for the update. It’s reassuring to hear from someone that had “disappeared”. One doesn’t know how bad whatever it is that changed. Dietary changes can make a big difference with autoimmune but it’s a lot of work. Be kind to yourself and take care of yourself and of your family it’s the most important part of our lives
Happy New Year Elle. I can totally relate. A lot of your symptoms correlate with my auto immune disease called Lupus SLE. You will adjust to a new normal. The best advice is advocating for yourself. Give yourself grace. Change up your medication until you find something that works. Wishing you the best.
Happy new year Elle! Go get your well deserved rest!
I’m so glad you were able to get some answers and I hope this is the start to some relief and recovery this year!
I have Psoriatic Arthritis. I had my first flare post parting too. I now take Biologic injections for it. Every 3 weeks. I have only the occasional flare now.
Your health should always come first. I’ve been watching your videos for years and I’m not gonna stop now. I was actually rewatching old videos while cleaning earlier today. Finding balance is a process. Be kind to yourself.❤
Hello Elle, I'm sorry to hear you're dealing with all of this. I hope that having a diagnosis and medication will help you. Don't feel bad if you need to let some things go now, priorities change and you will never get these years with your kids back, and if you don't look after yourself you can't look after everything else. sending lots of virtual hugs.
I hope you had great holidays and time off and that you are feeling better. We will always support you taking care of yourself and all the things you take on and share with us
i'm sorry elle! i appreciate you letting us in on how you are doing. i hope you feel better very soon! please take care of yourself. your health and your family always come first
I truly hope you feel better and find ways to make life everything you want it to be. Happy new year! ❤️❤️
So good to see you!! Sending you lots of love!!! Take Care of yourself! We love you!!
I love you ,take as much time as you need. You deserve it ❤️
Thanks for sharing. Don’t worry Elle, take care of yourself and your family! We look forward to any videos you feel like sharing but no pressure!
Prayers and hugs! I have several autoimmune diseases Type one diabetes, psoriasis, hashimotos, psoriatic arthritis. It sucks but at least it’s treatable. Prayers you find what works for you
You know by now we'll always be here. Health comes first xxx
ughhh so sorry to hear this, Elle. One of my friends has an autoimmune disease and has completely switched to a vegan / non-processed food diet except for eating eggs. It might be worth looking into that for you as well.
I still hope that you were able to enjoy Christmas and New Year. Happy & healthy 2023❤
Sending you love. Please take all the time you need. 💜
I'm sorry to hear this. I usually work two or even three jobs because I get bored and why not make up that time with making money, right? But, I'm noticing there's no enjoyment out of it, I'm not really saving what I'm making because it's easier to spend. That being said, I decided to downgrade to my main full-time job and will take more time for me. I think it's important to manage our health and time by concentrating on what makes us healthy and happy 😊 happy new year to you an your family and good luck on your health journey.
Health problems are very tough to understand and uncover at times! I wish you all the best on your health journey this year 💜
Hope you find what makes you feel better! You’ve been my favorite YTer for years, hope to see you more but also your health comes first!
i'm sorry you're experiencing this rough patch with your health ❤ sending healing thoughts
I'm so sorry you aren't feeling well, but I appreciate you sharing ❤️