My ex with two beautiful children involved left me for a friend of mine. I was a wreck until I discovered Corey. Took my power back. Had a very James Bond I don’t give a fuck attitude after tons of practice. She noticed my masculine strength and how laid back, I was living my purpose but not taking myself so serious. She comes back after two months. She said let’s work things out. She wants me back. I sit back taking up to much space very relaxed as if I took 10 bong swats but I didn’t. And I respond honey I’m not interested in no relationship or commitments, but I’m okay with an open relationship. She said no thank you I rather fuck a stranger. She expected me to do what I always did chase. I remained centered and relaxed ass fuck. “Babe goodluck with that give me a call if it doesn’t work out.” She stormed away. I smiled and banged a breath fucking taking women that night. I learned my value and self worth. I’ll never take her back but I am down to hang out have fun and hook up. 😎 fucking love you Corey
Hey Corey. Ive been so down lately over a 3 year breakup and both the first story and the last story relate to me. I just wanted to say thank you so much for you videos. This one especially have made me feel good about myself again and made this tough situation im in a little easier thank you corey
I’ve been with and have met several serial cheaters. The first story sounds like one. I feel like there’s no way to stop it even if you are the greatest guy it’s usually not a reflection of you but of herself. Whether it’s her weird kink or she has childhood trauma it will never work in your relationship or any she has in the future.
Been there done that got burned hard! I found her texting her ex she said it didn't mean anything ,I forgave her. She put us on a break some months after ans I found sexual texts to e coworker she said she was just flirting. Guess what happened after 3 months she dumped me for another co-worker...Don't ignore red flags!
Bud i too had a co-worker who i thought was gorgeous but found out that she has a boyfriend of 5 years, well the next day later she found me on Facebook and we started talking a lot! She was pursueing me while talking to me and hanging out behind her boyfriends back, oh and she also has a child with him, she tells me that her boyfriend is jealous and checks up on her phone and confronts her about talking to me. I acted like a beta or as corey would say " the gay male girlfriend'' and of course i turned her interest in me completely off, even to the point to where she told me that if i left our workplace then she wanted to cut all ties with me whatsoever, and so ... I left the job and now she doesn't want to talk to me anymore. And yeah while her interests was there, of course she was touching my shoulder and smiling at me and stuff heck even bought me drinks, but also i see her on the phone a lot (possibly her boyfriend). She told me that she was scared because she said no to me after i wanted to go out with her and yet told me " nothing can happen between us" and yet she was saying otherwise 🤷🤷 (the whole no, and yes thing) And she told me that she has given me many chances and yet i was oblivious to them, she even admitted that she had feelings for me, but up towards the end she told me that she lost all feelings for me because she was talking about marriage with her boyfriend (i didn't even realize that was really her way of saying " you know what? fuck it i give up , youre just a waste of my time and clearly youre not the kind of man i thought i perceived you to be that i wanted) Bottom line is that she was probably gonna date me and cheat on her man or just have me as a plan b and use me just to get her attention needs met. By the way i wasnt trying to act beta But since wacthing corey waynes videos I did a lot of fuck ups than i realized. Sigh but i suppose my fuck up is what saved me from having someone elses girlfriend and possibly have her man coming after me She also said that she wished that i pursued her. So you see she stopped talking to me and yet we didnt even date ( it was group Hangouts)
Two years after the post I’m just reading this, but the fact you would even do that says a lot about who you are as a person. That’s a real piece of shit thing to do, you knew she had a boyfriend first of all.
So any advice for women? I generally do the things you suggest for men, and I think it works just as well for women. Get too needy, pleasing and chasy, and they run off and treat you like a doormat, but if you are assertive, responsible, don't act too needy and just have fun with them and dont hang out TOO much, so you leave space for them to miss you, things go well, and of course you gotta groom yourself and be responsible, helpful and the rest.
I was in a similar situation where i went through the guys phone and found him chatting up another girl and denying he has a girlfriend and when i confronted him he said he couldn't trust me for going through his phone and asked me if i was happy about what i have caused by going through his phone. he even admitted that even though if i had reason to I shouldn't of done it. moving along, he said we can get past this and he's innocent and didn't do anything with her, all he said was a few nice things to her. since then he hasn't done anything to prove i can trust him and he's more secretive and makes sure i don't go through any of things anymore..... i don't know what to do anymore......
i too had a co-worker who i thought was gorgeous but found out that she has a boyfriend of 5 years, well the next day later she found me on Facebook and we started talking a lot! She was pursueing me while talking to me and hanging out behind her boyfriends back, oh and she also has a child with him, she tells me that her boyfriend is jealous and checks up on her phone and confronts her about talking to me. I acted like a beta or as corey would say " the gay male girlfriend'' and of course i turned her interest in me completely off, even to the point to where she told me that if i left our workplace then she wanted to cut all ties with me whatsoever, and so ... I left the job and now she doesn't want to talk to me anymore. And yeah while her interests was there, of course she was touching my shoulder and smiling at me and stuff heck even bought me drinks, but also i see her on the phone a lot (possibly her boyfriend). She told me that she was scared because she said no to me after i wanted to go out with her and yet told me " nothing can happen between us" and yet she was saying otherwise 🤷🤷 (the whole no, and yes thing) And she told me that she has given me many chances and yet i was oblivious to them, she even admitted that she had feelings for me, but up towards the end she told me that she lost all feelings for me because she was talking about marriage with her boyfriend (i didn't even realize that was really her way of saying " you know what? fuck it i give up , youre just a waste of my time and clearly youre not the kind of man i thought i perceived you to be that i wanted) Bottom line is that she was probably gonna date me and cheat on her man or just have me as a plan b and use me just to get her attention needs met. By the way i wasnt trying to act beta But since wacthing corey waynes videos I did a lot of fuck ups than i realized. Sigh but i suppose my fuck up is what saved me from having someone elses girlfriend and possibly have her man coming after me She also said that she wished that i pursued her. So you see she stopped talking to me and yet we didnt even date ( it was group Hangouts)
I love you video on it time to move on I broke up with my girlfriend two month ago I happy by myself being independent on my own foces on my self without her . I proud of it
To begin with, I'm a fan of Corey's videos. I haven't purchased a book yet, because there's hasn't been enough of an incentive to do so - meaning that I'm focusing on my art now and leaving the world of women aside for the time being. However, it's quite possible that at some point in the near future I will buy his book. I don't pretend to know Corey's views on feminine energy in their entirety. What I do know so far is that he constantly advises men to embody alpha-male energy. Simp behavior, neediness, catering to female demands, falling prey to female manipulation, are all seen as weak and therefore discouraged. With which I whole-heartedly agree. I find beta-male behavior and the white-knight mindset to be irritating, as I do feminism. Yet I would introduce a different way of understanding feminine energy, one that's in alignment with classical Chinese Taoism. Great artists, for example, would appreciate my point (among others). Roger Federer, a great artist of tennis, is a fine embodiment of both feminine (Yin) and masculine (Yang)energies. One important reason that he consistently defeated Andy Roddick is that the latter had too much Yang energy, or rather misdirected, at times, misapplied Yang energy. Take his serve: he'd boom a serve (Yang energy), while Roger (apparently not doing much) would feed off the pace, redirecting the ball, the ball just kissing the line, out of Andy's reach. Roger's Yin energy (receiving and redirecting the ball) often won him points. Andy might hit an aggressive groundstroke, while Roger might feed off of it, delivering a delicate drop shot. This sort of tendency may be perceived as passive-aggressive, in a way. Clearly, feminine energy enhanced Roger's game. So it's not about male versus female energy; it's about good timing, the intelligent use of each type. I stumbled on a video in which Corey quoted Lao Tzu. Well Lao advises that while it's important to know Yang energy, to embody it, it may be wiser to be more Yin. It has nothing to do with being a beta male. I suspect what Lao meant is that being more Yin allows one to be in touch with the Tao, which transcends the intellect; the mind is like a womb that can receive genius-level ideas. So one can be an alpha male, dedicated to the creation of great art, while appreciating the value of "wise passiveness", (to quote the poet Wordsworth). There's a time for action, for assertiveness - but too much of it can mean being out of touch with Tao, with the flow of creative ideas. And yes, it can also be environmentally destructive too, which Lao addresses. One needs to consider timing and context. A "wise passiveness" can actually feed alpha male energy. It's pretty reasonable to assume that if one receives great ideas from the Tao, one will become stronger and more confident. This suggests the harmony of masculine and feminine energies. One reason that many guys fuck up with females is not so much because of the former's female energy; rather, it's because they don't properly understand what the context demands. The application of that energy is not suitable for the given situation.
I wish more married guys would have emailed. Much simpler to leave a gf than a wife that you have 2 kids with. She's promising to change and wants counseling but we've tried 4 or 5 times now.
My bf broke up with me a week ago. I haven't contacted him at all. When he broke up with me I handled it really well. Didn't cry, didn't yell, didn't say anything. I said, I don't want to be with someone that doesn't want to be with me. We were in a long distance relationship for almost a year. I was going to move across the country for him and he just ended it. Said the long distance was just too hard. I'm not sure that I want him back but a part of me does. What should I do??
Cory my name is Steven and for 5 years I been with this girl been through fights, break ups, good and bad time also had a child with her and lived with her. we were happy she kept asking when we will have another baby and get married and we were a happy family but a month ago she been talking to this new guy and she says she's in love. 11/29/15 she told me that she's gonna be alone and be hanging with her mom and I had to stay at my mom's bc I had to work and she didn't wanna drive me well I missed my family and went up there she was getting high and laughing when I got to the doors I stayed outside calling and I had enough I knocked on the door. she came out scared I said really and I told her if he doesn't leave and I do where over so she told him to stay and I lefted. I didn't talked to her until 12/01/15 she talked to me saying that she loved me and wants me badly I told her I want her but she made a choice next day she told me to give her apartment keys back and we were over I cried and begged but nothing and she will think about it later that night I drove up and knocked on the door for a hour in the snow and they was upstairs they didn't answer. next day I bought her a ring and drove up there and I got inside and took her upstairs and proposed she said no and she can't she said she loves him there together they fucked and were done no kisses nothing. they called the cops I lefted and from on there I begged and she said no chance and no she is telling me she loves me tells me look good and she keeps huging me and when she lefted she sound sad. she called me and text but she said no us and I told her I don't wanna lose our family come back let's get married and have another baby she says no what do I do. I been praying she also said she's depressed but won't tell me?
What if,after she dumps you,you see her randomly after 1 week of no contact, randomly she turns away and then after a couple of days of more no contact she puts a friend to call you to ask if you found a job? Is she still interested?
Been there, Listen to Coach. Once the infatuation wears off thats what you are left with. Period.
My rule is simple when it comes to the phone. If you feel the need to check out your SO's phone, you need to break up.
A- fucking-men!!!
Once a cheater, always a cheater. So damn right.
true
My ex with two beautiful children involved left me for a friend of mine. I was a wreck until I discovered Corey. Took my power back. Had a very James Bond I don’t give a fuck attitude after tons of practice. She noticed my masculine strength and how laid back, I was living my purpose but not taking myself so serious. She comes back after two months. She said let’s work things out. She wants me back. I sit back taking up to much space very relaxed as if I took 10 bong swats but I didn’t. And I respond honey I’m not interested in no relationship or commitments, but I’m okay with an open relationship. She said no thank you I rather fuck a stranger. She expected me to do what I always did chase. I remained centered and relaxed ass fuck. “Babe goodluck with that give me a call if it doesn’t work out.” She stormed away. I smiled and banged a breath fucking taking women that night. I learned my value and self worth. I’ll never take her back but I am down to hang out have fun and hook up. 😎 fucking love you Corey
C'mon man. Classic Coach Corey Wayne.
that's my favorite too. It always makes me laugh when I watch him say that. C'mon man.
I married a woman like this...I am no longer married to this women lol....
You know what, THANK YOU. THANK YOU. I am in a terrible situation and you just helped me wake up.
Hey Corey. Ive been so down lately over a 3 year breakup and both the first story and the last story relate to me. I just wanted to say thank you so much for you videos. This one especially have made me feel good about myself again and made this tough situation im in a little easier thank you corey
These videos crack me up. Corey's smile when he schools these noobs is brilliant.
I’ve been with and have met several serial cheaters. The first story sounds like one. I feel like there’s no way to stop it even if you are the greatest guy it’s usually not a reflection of you but of herself. Whether it’s her weird kink or she has childhood trauma it will never work in your relationship or any she has in the future.
Been there done that got burned hard! I found her texting her ex she said it didn't mean anything ,I forgave her. She put us on a break some months after ans I found sexual texts to e coworker she said she was just flirting. Guess what happened after 3 months she dumped me for another co-worker...Don't ignore red flags!
Bud i too had a co-worker who i thought was gorgeous but found out that she has a boyfriend of 5 years, well the next day later she found me on Facebook and we started talking a lot!
She was pursueing me while talking to me and hanging out behind her boyfriends back, oh and she also has a child with him, she tells me that her boyfriend is jealous and checks up on her phone and confronts her about talking to me.
I acted like a beta or as corey would say " the gay male girlfriend'' and of course i turned her interest in me completely off, even to the point to where she told me that if i left our workplace then she wanted to cut all ties with me whatsoever, and so ... I left the job and now she doesn't want to talk to me anymore.
And yeah while her interests was there, of course she was touching my shoulder and smiling at me and stuff heck even bought me drinks, but also i see her on the phone a lot (possibly her boyfriend).
She told me that she was scared because she said no to me after i wanted to go out with her and yet told me " nothing can happen between us" and yet she was saying otherwise 🤷🤷 (the whole no, and yes thing)
And she told me that she has given me many chances and yet i was oblivious to them, she even admitted that she had feelings for me, but up towards the end she told me that she lost all feelings for me because she was talking about marriage with her boyfriend
(i didn't even realize that was really her way of saying " you know what? fuck it i give up , youre just a waste of my time and clearly youre not the kind of man i thought i perceived you to be that i wanted)
Bottom line is that she was probably gonna date me and cheat on her man or just have me as a plan b and use me just to get her attention needs met.
By the way i wasnt trying to act beta
But since wacthing corey waynes videos
I did a lot of fuck ups than i realized.
Sigh but i suppose my fuck up is what saved me from having someone elses girlfriend and possibly have her man coming after me
She also said that she wished that i pursued her.
So you see she stopped talking to me and yet we didnt even date ( it was group Hangouts)
Two years after the post I’m just reading this, but the fact you would even do that says a lot about who you are as a person. That’s a real piece of shit thing to do, you knew she had a boyfriend first of all.
So any advice for women? I generally do the things you suggest for men, and I think it works just as well for women. Get too needy, pleasing and chasy, and they run off and treat you like a doormat, but if you are assertive, responsible, don't act too needy and just have fun with them and dont hang out TOO much, so you leave space for them to miss you, things go well, and of course you gotta groom yourself and be responsible, helpful and the rest.
Well "sounds like" you have things figured out Liz......
....
Any update?
This is one of your best videos.. thanks for creating this.
"nothing happened other than what you know about or eventually find out about."
This guy knows it well wish I'd seen this videos before some time in the past you fucking awesome man straight up talk
Great video. Great advice Corey
I was in a similar situation where i went through the guys phone and found him chatting up another girl and denying he has a girlfriend and when i confronted him he said he couldn't trust me for going through his phone and asked me if i was happy about what i have caused by going through his phone. he even admitted that even though if i had reason to I shouldn't of done it. moving along, he said we can get past this and he's innocent and didn't do anything with her, all he said was a few nice things to her. since then he hasn't done anything to prove i can trust him and he's more secretive and makes sure i don't go through any of things anymore..... i don't know what to do anymore......
Dump asap
Marry him.. just a joke^^ get rid!
Dump his ass
C'mon mAaaaN lol 😂 brilliant facial expressions. I've been in this situ the other way round gotta move on move out no going back simple
i too had a co-worker who i thought was gorgeous but found out that she has a boyfriend of 5 years, well the next day later she found me on Facebook and we started talking a lot!
She was pursueing me while talking to me and hanging out behind her boyfriends back, oh and she also has a child with him, she tells me that her boyfriend is jealous and checks up on her phone and confronts her about talking to me.
I acted like a beta or as corey would say " the gay male girlfriend'' and of course i turned her interest in me completely off, even to the point to where she told me that if i left our workplace then she wanted to cut all ties with me whatsoever, and so ... I left the job and now she doesn't want to talk to me anymore.
And yeah while her interests was there, of course she was touching my shoulder and smiling at me and stuff heck even bought me drinks, but also i see her on the phone a lot (possibly her boyfriend).
She told me that she was scared because she said no to me after i wanted to go out with her and yet told me " nothing can happen between us" and yet she was saying otherwise 🤷🤷 (the whole no, and yes thing)
And she told me that she has given me many chances and yet i was oblivious to them, she even admitted that she had feelings for me, but up towards the end she told me that she lost all feelings for me because she was talking about marriage with her boyfriend
(i didn't even realize that was really her way of saying " you know what? fuck it i give up , youre just a waste of my time and clearly youre not the kind of man i thought i perceived you to be that i wanted)
Bottom line is that she was probably gonna date me and cheat on her man or just have me as a plan b and use me just to get her attention needs met.
By the way i wasnt trying to act beta
But since wacthing corey waynes videos
I did a lot of fuck ups than i realized.
Sigh but i suppose my fuck up is what saved me from having someone elses girlfriend and possibly have her man coming after me
She also said that she wished that i pursued her.
So you see she stopped talking to me and yet we didnt even date ( it was group Hangouts)
Corey is keepin' it boss. Thank you Corey!
I love you video on it time to move on I broke up with my girlfriend two month ago I happy by myself being independent on my own foces on my self without her . I proud of it
Well would you look at the time ! It's move on o'clock!
The pizza line was funny as fuck. Good video.
Corey, when you say the words, "Come on man." I'm rotflol.
To begin with, I'm a fan of Corey's videos. I haven't purchased a book yet, because there's hasn't been enough of an incentive to do so - meaning that I'm focusing on my art now and leaving the world of women aside for the time being. However, it's quite possible that at some point in the near future I will buy his book.
I don't pretend to know Corey's views on feminine energy in their entirety. What I do know so far is that he constantly advises men to embody alpha-male energy. Simp behavior, neediness, catering to female demands, falling prey to female manipulation, are all seen as weak and therefore discouraged. With which I whole-heartedly agree. I find beta-male behavior and the white-knight mindset to be irritating, as I do feminism.
Yet I would introduce a different way of understanding feminine energy, one that's in alignment with classical Chinese Taoism. Great artists, for example, would appreciate my point (among others). Roger Federer, a great artist of tennis, is a fine embodiment of both feminine (Yin) and masculine (Yang)energies. One important reason that he consistently defeated Andy Roddick is that the latter had too much Yang energy, or rather misdirected, at times, misapplied Yang energy. Take his serve: he'd boom a serve (Yang energy), while Roger (apparently not doing much) would feed off the pace, redirecting the ball, the ball just kissing the line, out of Andy's reach. Roger's Yin energy (receiving and redirecting the ball) often won him points. Andy might hit an aggressive groundstroke, while Roger might feed off of it, delivering a delicate drop shot. This sort of tendency may be perceived as passive-aggressive, in a way. Clearly, feminine energy enhanced Roger's game. So it's not about male versus female energy; it's about good timing, the intelligent use of each type.
I stumbled on a video in which Corey quoted Lao Tzu. Well Lao advises that while it's important to know Yang energy, to embody it, it may be wiser to be more Yin. It has nothing to do with being a beta male. I suspect what Lao meant is that being more Yin allows one to be in touch with the Tao, which transcends the intellect; the mind is like a womb that can receive genius-level ideas. So one can be an alpha male, dedicated to the creation of great art, while appreciating the value of "wise passiveness", (to quote the poet Wordsworth). There's a time for action, for assertiveness - but too much of it can mean being out of touch with Tao, with the flow of creative ideas. And yes, it can also be environmentally destructive too, which Lao addresses. One needs to consider timing and context. A "wise passiveness" can actually feed alpha male energy. It's pretty reasonable to assume that if one receives great ideas from the Tao, one will become stronger and more confident. This suggests the harmony of masculine and feminine energies.
One reason that many guys fuck up with females is not so much because of the former's female energy; rather, it's because they don't properly understand what the context demands. The application of that energy is not suitable for the given situation.
Just read the book dude
I wish more married guys would have emailed. Much simpler to leave a gf than a wife that you have 2 kids with. She's promising to change and wants counseling but we've tried 4 or 5 times now.
Get out
Doesn’t work my brotha. Hope you are out of there by now.
This was great! :)
Coach you look awesome in yellow :).
It too late damn I wish I would have been heard this video
Thanks Coach for all your advise, I really appreciate it
Do these tactics work for women on men as well?
My bf broke up with me a week ago. I haven't contacted him at all. When he broke up with me I handled it really well. Didn't cry, didn't yell, didn't say anything. I said, I don't want to be with someone that doesn't want to be with me. We were in a long distance relationship for almost a year. I was going to move across the country for him and he just ended it. Said the long distance was just too hard. I'm not sure that I want him back but a part of me does. What should I do??
I am with a good girl but i want novelty, should i listen to my instinct=???
im trying to learn how to be a men coach
Cory my name is Steven and for 5 years I been with this girl been through fights, break ups, good and bad time also had a child with her and lived with her. we were happy she kept asking when we will have another baby and get married and we were a happy family but a month ago she been talking to this new guy and she says she's in love. 11/29/15 she told me that she's gonna be alone and be hanging with her mom and I had to stay at my mom's bc I had to work and she didn't wanna drive me well I missed my family and went up there she was getting high and laughing when I got to the doors I stayed outside calling and I had enough I knocked on the door. she came out scared I said really and I told her if he doesn't leave and I do where over so she told him to stay and I lefted. I didn't talked to her until 12/01/15 she talked to me saying that she loved me and wants me badly I told her I want her but she made a choice next day she told me to give her apartment keys back and we were over I cried and begged but nothing and she will think about it later that night I drove up and knocked on the door for a hour in the snow and they was upstairs they didn't answer. next day I bought her a ring and drove up there and I got inside and took her upstairs and proposed she said no and she can't she said she loves him there together they fucked and were done no kisses nothing. they called the cops I lefted and from on there I begged and she said no chance and no she is telling me she loves me tells me look good and she keeps huging me and when she lefted she sound sad. she called me and text but she said no us and I told her I don't wanna lose our family come back let's get married and have another baby she says no what do I do. I been praying she also said she's depressed but won't tell me?
C’mon man!
Touchdown once a wayne...i mean once again
this is why im movie in on
What if,after she dumps you,you see her randomly after 1 week of no contact, randomly she turns away and then after a couple of days of more no contact she puts a friend to call you to ask if you found a job? Is she still interested?
I'd be out af
That sucks
Amen
She wants an alpha but can’t behave like it
Mangina.. wow
Boiling frog syndrome lmfao!!
C'MON MAN HAHAH!
Captain obvious
Bro I have some rly delicious left overs that I’m craving