This chick is your typical single mom. She got mad at that question of what can she bring to a man while bringing baggage. Your kids are baggage right along with whatever drama you have. You're no prize so come correct.
Once you become a parent raising your children should be your focus. It’s 2024 if you want to raise somebody else’s kids that’s your business but honestly if men were so eager to do that then why is this such a sensitive topic? Everyone needs to start picking better and stop arguing with the people they don’t want.
I can definitely understand and relate to this topic. I appreciate this episode. As a father who was in a situation where I was raising my son as a single and then married and my son's mother was akso married to a man for 10+ years. The step father was around my son up until his freshman year of high school when he and my son's mother broke up and divorced and there is no more communication between him, my son's mother or my son. Today 6/26 my son graduated and he didn't even get an invitation to the event. I felt pity for that man because I believe he wasted his time and resources being a step father to get shitted on at the end. So I can understand and relate why that man asked that question what benefits does he get from those kids if he's going to relationship with any modern single mother.
Aa a man I see the brothers point. The benefits of being a stepfather is limited. It really depends on the mother and how well she works with the father
As a MAN you should look for the asset in your partner. You should NOT be looking to her children to serve or benefit you in ANY way! They are children weirdo..
@@nellm.6908As a single parent, her only priority should be to her kids, not finding a man. Heck, a lot them even admit that their children are their priority over the man. In other words, we should not be dating single mothers because their kids are a burden. Thanks for the confirmation.
@mrsthegreatfall the point he was making was. Why would you opt to raise someone else's kids over having your own? Being a step parent has zero benefits over a man simply having his own.
This was disgusting… 😂 everything he said can be done Vice Versa he made NO points everything he based his facts off of was gender😭!!! And nobody is holding him to that but himself, that’s the crazier part. Whewww
Even with your bias, to say he offered no points is simply foolish. Majority of women want a man that earns 1.5x their salary. Majority of women do not want to be responsible for the major bills With those facts provided, the man would be coming in to provide for ANOTHER MAN's offspring with very little authority, another person in the background (the real father), chance to be placed on child support, and if you split up after you become close to that child, you may NEVER see them again because that is not your child. So please tell me how any of those points can be swapped by gender, with the exception of a background person and losing a relationship with the child. I'll wait.
Bul so hurt from not having a dad , he's ready to put up with anything 🤦🏾♂️
This chick is your typical single mom. She got mad at that question of what can she bring to a man while bringing baggage. Your kids are baggage right along with whatever drama you have. You're no prize so come correct.
Kids are baggage?? 😳😳😳 yo I hope u don't have any. Get your tubes tied luv!!
that girl ain't a parent, she's a babysitter. She only get her kid for 2 days in a week. I'm not surprise she single.
Once you become a parent raising your children should be your focus. It’s 2024 if you want to raise somebody else’s kids that’s your business but honestly if men were so eager to do that then why is this such a sensitive topic? Everyone needs to start picking better and stop arguing with the people they don’t want.
UNC in the middle better be glad he met who he did because Bul 😭 he'd be on child support for three different kids that aren't his
I can definitely understand and relate to this topic. I appreciate this episode. As a father who was in a situation where I was raising my son as a single and then married and my son's mother was akso married to a man for 10+ years. The step father was around my son up until his freshman year of high school when he and my son's mother broke up and divorced and there is no more communication between him, my son's mother or my son. Today 6/26 my son graduated and he didn't even get an invitation to the event. I felt pity for that man because I believe he wasted his time and resources being a step father to get shitted on at the end. So I can understand and relate why that man asked that question what benefits does he get from those kids if he's going to relationship with any modern single mother.
Truth!
She's convinced herself that her bubble is the general reality. He's convinced that the general reality won't get inside of his bubble.
Do not sign up to be no step daddy. It is a thankless job and quite honestly just not worth the squeeze.
At the end of the day staying in your lane prevents you from dealing with any of these scenarios.
That makes no logical sense.
Aa a man I see the brothers point. The benefits of being a stepfather is limited. It really depends on the mother and how well she works with the father
you don’t become a step parent for the benefits
As a MAN you should look for the asset in your partner. You should NOT be looking to her children to serve or benefit you in ANY way! They are children weirdo..
@@nellm.6908which makes them liabilities. So yes avoid these types of situations.
@@nellm.6908As a single parent, her only priority should be to her kids, not finding a man. Heck, a lot them even admit that their children are their priority over the man. In other words, we should not be dating single mothers because their kids are a burden. Thanks for the confirmation.
@mrsthegreatfall the point he was making was. Why would you opt to raise someone else's kids over having your own? Being a step parent has zero benefits over a man simply having his own.
She said all that just to say yes 32:19
This was disgusting… 😂 everything he said can be done Vice Versa he made NO points everything he based his facts off of was gender😭!!! And nobody is holding him to that but himself, that’s the crazier part. Whewww
Nah, that's just your emotions talking. He made many valid and irrefutable points. You just didn't like them.
Even with your bias, to say he offered no points is simply foolish.
Majority of women want a man that earns 1.5x their salary.
Majority of women do not want to be responsible for the major bills
With those facts provided, the man would be coming in to provide for ANOTHER MAN's offspring with very little authority, another person in the background (the real father), chance to be placed on child support, and if you split up after you become close to that child, you may NEVER see them again because that is not your child.
So please tell me how any of those points can be swapped by gender, with the exception of a background person and losing a relationship with the child. I'll wait.
What’s disgusting is dating a woman who pushed another man’s baby out.
You sound...like a single mom! Do better! 😂
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