yea true. i talking to this single mom in another state, she wanted a relationship with me but i told her i couldn’t due to the distance. we ended up staying friends and she would always tell me how bad she wanted a boyfriend, guys would constantly use her just for sex. i feel bad for her but she put herself in this situation
My best friend moved in with a woman who was artificially inseminated. Agreed to raise the kid together. There for the birth. Kid calls him daddy. The mother routinely says "he's not the father." But he still has to pay for school, etc. To her, he never does anything right. All the responsibility. None of the rights. Now he wants to leave her, but he loves the kid and knows she's not a good role model. Don't be like my friend.
@@rally_chronicles ya think? I know it. He knows it. But he loves the kid. Easy for us to say. I do all the time. Life's always easier from the outside.
@bazookacat8421 oh I know. But it's not his kid. I don't have kids but I have no care for other seed other than my own. I've told single mothers if they want to be in a relationship with me they have to buy two tickets to Africa, take their kid to some orphanage far away, come back and we can have a relationship and maybe start a family. Lions 🦁 don't raise other lions cubs. We need to implement this in humans. More people need to be stronger.
@@rally_chroniclesyou are missing the part where he said "he loves the kid". We as men don't talk about this but we invest emotions as well, he made the mistake to invest emotions and time on a kid that is not his, now, emotion investment is hard to break, easier said than done ofc. This is why the video tells you to stay away.
I just dated a single mom for a year and a half. I’m 24 and it was seriously the worst decision I have ever made in my life. Trust me when I say don’t ignore the red flags, don’t ignore a single thing George said 😂 it’s all true. It left me drained physically, mentally, and especially financially. I’m bless to have this happen since I am young but trust there’s not a single thing you can do to change the outcome. Do not do it, focus on finding your wife, not someone’s throwaway disaster.
Adopting children or orphans is different because you will have full responsibility and authority over the children, they won't have either a mother or a father so you will be providing a great service, its only you and the children, no baby daddy or baby mama drama . @1.percent_everyday
One of the biggest deterrents for me is potentially building a bond with a child that could be ended at any moment. And my heart is for the child. Because if the mother can discard of that kid's father so easily; you stand NO CHANCE against her hypergamy. And if that child comes to love you, and the mother decides to cut ties completely, it opens the door for attachment trauma on that child.
@@bettercallgeorge924 In more cases than you think, some kids with single mothers actually CRAVE a father figure. For one reason or another, they may have given up hope on their biological father being in their lives, and are thus open to anyone that will love them. And they'll consciously choose you if they see you're taking a genuine interest in them for the companionship aspect alone. The issue then becomes their mother. Because of their mother's selfish hypergamy, they'll continue the cycle. And the more guys she cycles through, the more discouraged the child becomes that they'll ever have a consistent father figure around. So if a woman says, "he's not in our life," that might be even worse than if the baby dad is still involved. Great points nonetheless. Glad I could add more insight!
I was the kid. Sucks on both ends. Dad was just a guy who I’d know for a few years til the next. Luckily for me I know my biological now. Just by exposure and osmosis I’ve gained a lot.
I married a single mother. Three months into the marriage I realised that she didn't love me. It was all an act with lies to lock me down as I did well for myself.
Are you still married to her? I’ve know quite a few guys who have gone down that path and every time I feel like I’m about to watch him fall off a cliff and hope he doesn’t end up seriously injured or dead. Worked with a guy who was making good money, had corvette seemed like he would be appealing to a good woman, but he kept chasing after single moms, and it seemed like an ego thing like he needed to prove he was better than the jerk that made her a single mom . Eventually he married one, we lost touch. I can only imagine how miserable he is now.
@@nathancole5158 No, she divorced me after 3 years. But not before thinking she was in a position to get my farm and child support for her kid in a divorce settlement. I beat her at her own game as I transfered all my cash and assets into my parents name when I noticed a slight, subtle change in her behavior to me. A litttle colder? indifferent?. She got very little out of me and she was furious. I still laugh about that. Thank God she left as she made me totally miserable. Single mothers? Never again.
They are really clever. They love bomb the shit out of you, buy you things and treat you like you are imported to them. Then they emotionally manipulate you once you are dependent on them, I’m stuck in an awful situation and I want out! When you find out it’s all for show it’s a bitter truth to bear.
GREATEST SINGLE MOTHER VIDEO ON RUclips. NOT KIDDING! ABSOLUTE BEST! EXACTLY WHAT I HAVE BEEN LOOKING FOR! I got my heart broken man. Thank you for this
I used to tell myself it would be easier once her 2 girls got older. You're spot on, they have more homework, need/want more things (clothes, food etc..), more driving around for friends & school, plus puberty and more attitudes. We're no longer together.
@@nathancole5158 yeah.. like my ex’s son is now in prison for 6 years. It starts as not having any authority over her younger children.. ends with sons in prison and daughters racking up college debt and not able to finish, or on stripper poles.
@@pantsonfire2216 Based is a slang term that means being yourself and not caring what others think of you. This guy is ultra based for spreading the unpopular but accurate idea that women should be put into their place by their male partners when they start bitching about unimportant stuff and that men shouldn't take care of other's children.
My big brother is a simp. He was 25, no kids with a solid job. He decided to marry an older woman with 2 kids, by 2 different men. My dad and I were so pissed off with him. I just don’t understand. I love my brother but he’s a big SIMP.
Men. I’ve dated 20 single moms. All = the same trauma drama no time she’s tired. Mentally drained. It’s so bad. You’ll only really see her a lot if u go to her. Which kids will be running around. Even if u get her alone. She’ll be on her phone with the kids checking on em. She can’t focus on u. Bad deal
Another angle on traumatizing kids. I knew a guy who bonded with his girlfriend's kids. He was closer to them than their own father, and he did all the normal dad stuff with them. He was there for several years while they were growing up, and they loved him. When the relationship ended, the kids were devastated, as if they had lost a father, and he was devastated as well since he couldn't see them anymore.
This confirms that it's the men if the are sane who create order and culture. Children realize this and therefore in this case are loyal to the "social father" often over the biological mother. This all highlights how important father's are and that girls must be raised to virtuous woman so they select a good men who will stay to raise the biological kids. Virtuous woman means also she is loyal and trusting to the men she had chosen that she is submitting to him.
Its why in islam (patriarchal system) a woman loses her children to her ex husband as soon as she decides to marry another man or enters a relationship with a new man.
also the asset inheritance is lesser. the concept is good, the family have a provider. but women these days is taking advantages on simp. they always think they are a high value.
I'm a step father and I can tell that except 2-3 of your points (because they are too general and cannot universal in all cases) all others are very true. Especially those one that are related of my own feelings and how I feel in this situation. Long time I thought something is wrong with me and I'm not noble enough to handle my feeling properly, but as time passes I recognize the patterns of lack of genuine desire, disrespect, double standard (me and her previous husband), etc. Then something small triggered the retroactive jealousy and that was it. Now we are separated, so I can heal my long forgotten and neglected dignity and self-esteem. It is very very true: 1. Three people sleep in the bed. Very current feeling after the crisis happened. 2. Felt disrespected and undervalued by her almost the whole time. 3. Almost no benefit of raising other's man child, even the kid is very good and the act is very noble, you are making great favor to him and his mother and she repays you with disrespect! At least the kid respects me. 4. Kid is a problem - it is the main focus of the mother (which is normal), but "eats" your time, money and energy and opportunity to be with her alone. Also the ex is also involved to some extend! 5. Feeling of being just a provider and nothing more - exploitation. No genuine desire and often lack of intimacy. Sex is more like a duty, but not fun. If I got luck to have it at all. 6. I lied to myself - true. I swallowed my principles, values and ego just to be with her. I zeroed myself as a man. 7. Almost never felt really loved. 8. She made silly and irresponsible decision with this junkie without knowing him - having kid after 6 months and marring him pregnant. What a red flag I missed! 9. I was in constant fight for the leadership in the family. 10. I always was the bad guy for her family. Wonder why when I saved her. 11. My family disapproved my choice and I banned them from my life for her!! 12. Biological father gain some credits for things he never did... And so on.... Most of your points are correct. But I got enough and now I live separated from her in another town and the divorce will be just a formality form here on...
Yes! Same but I was a stepmother. We broke up and I feel so relieved. Him and his baby mother talked all the time. In the beginning she would send him stuff that had nothing to do with the kid. When we got in a really big fight one time and almost broke up he told his baby mama what happened. He would always weaponize his kid against me. Say stuff like “you just don’t want me to be involved with my kid” or “your trying to keep me away from my child because your jealous”. I never felt like family and holidays I dreaded. Last Christmas he asked me if we could go over to his baby mothers apartment to see his kid open gifts. I was so shocked that he thought I would want to spend my Christmas morning at his exes house. My final straw was when his ex called him and asked him if he and the kid could all go to the park so he could see them as a family. I WOULD NEVER DATE A SINGLE DAD AGAIN.
A single mom's life is almost always a catastrophe. I've found myself wanting to believe their PR spin a few times, & been burned every time. The most recent time it only took me a couple months to figure out she was a dumpster fire, but it still hurt like hell. I've definitely lost my capacity to trust them. Better late than never i suppose.
I dated a single mom but her kids were like adult age, and one day I was watching movies with her and her cousin and and daughter was in the house. Her kids father calls and she starts having a conversation and it started about the son but then it seemed like casual conversation. She could tell I was getting pissed, so we back to her room and had a conversation about afterwards and I flat out asked her if things were still happening between them which she denied. Told her I understand she has to communicate with him but if I was talking to my ex in front of her casually how’d she feel about it and she got my point. So after our convo we go back out to the living room she tells them ok we’re back , he got mad I was talking to your dad. Never again……
100% my experiences. I'm a successful businessman, dominant, high IQ, and I see through these women like a pane of glass. You are so spot on about single moms and career women will never submit to you. I've dated these women before and I usually ghost them after 2 dates after it becomes apparent they are looking for a doormat. I pick up on subtle cues, like if a woman tries to walk in front and lead me, if she is combative and tries to dominate a conversation, if she tries to build herself up to be superior, these are very obvious signs she is trying to be dominant. Single moms I find are more interested in the lifestyle you can provide than who or what you really are. To a single mom, you are simply a lifestyle provider nothing more, she'll never love you, only what you provide.
Spot on dated a single mom and she never experienced a real date or anything until dating me. We vibes but hard truth I knew I'd never be priority her life. She always would saybdonfor my kids but yet her bd isn't accountable and never showed up for they kids smh. Folks have kids with ppl then say wrong person na u knew what u were doing. Single bros get a single woman no kids build your own family.
I really have to admit that I watched this video before I found a single mom girl. I didn't believe it. And I repented a lot. This guy is "God" when it comes to relationships with women. Not only this but every video is great. I checked each one in practice. Dating a single mother isn't just a disaster.....it's even worse. Now we've broken up and I feel really crappy for not taking the advice sooner.
Dating single moms is a nightmare. So many interruptions and delays. You will get tired in just a couple of days if not a few hours and walk away. There are plenty of normal women out there to choose from
@@enlightenment6994 Get out the house and find out for yourself. You can find a lot of childless young women around to date. The hell you think I mean?
There's nothing wrong with loving your child more than you love someone else's child. It's your child. They look like you, they think like you, & more importantly they are loyal to you.
hi George, can you make a video on how to stop feeling hatred towards women? all these red pill videos on the interned made me hate them and think horrible about them all
Don't except a cat to act like a dog, if you do it's your fault for feeling hate towards the cat. Accept the way the cat is and enjoy the cat for it's strengths and weaknesses
If you actually meet some women, you won't feel quite the same way. From absorbing red pill content, I thought they were all evil. But after I started dating, and met some women socially, I realized that most are just normal flawed human beings. They have their issues, but most are not especially evil.
Been there done that. Do not do it. You will be always a second priority to the child of another man. You will be manipulated to stay in that relationship, and ultimately disrespected.
My mom had a peruan boyfriend and he tried to be nice with me. He thought to give me a hug but I reyected him with rage. Pushing him like "step the f away from me..." Man, I hated that guy so much. Now, my mother has other boyfriend. G... Damn it. What is wrong with women? You are so f ing right, George.
You saved me from making a huge mistake and asking a single mom out . She's drop dead gorgeous and I like how she holds herself , she even has some of my traits,She's perfect for me and I love her to bits but she has a kid . I don't want what you went through after knowing all this now .
Women with past relationships are like leftovers. They are not worth it. There are 4 billion women in the world and everyday, there's a new lot that becomes 18. You need only one from them.
I have a friend that has double the drama, he has a kid from other girl, and he lives with his current girl that has 2 kids from other guy. It's messy from what he told me, he also pays for 💯 things and the father doesn't pay even for recharging their phone... Its sad and he now has a yo kid with her. I just couldn't tbh.
This guy is speaking facts . Just dated a woman with 2 kids , the lad was all his dad , zero respect and if you try telling them off they hate you even more . Don’t do it guys , please either date a woman with no kids or don’t bother , you’ll have zero respect , be frustrated and have less money , plus if you have kids of your own you will end up raising them more than your own ! And yes it’s different for men with kids than a woman because 80% of the time the kids are with they’re mum , their dad is a pain and joy just want to hit him , respect , loyalty and peace guys you womt get it with a woman with kids ! You’ve been warned , even if she is stunning leave it alone
I just broke up with my ex who was a single mother of 4.she was very attractive but i saw a lot of red flags and the last straw was she began to become distant. I tried to talk to her about it but she wouldn't communicate with me,so i broke it off. I had a sneaking suspicion that she was seeing another guy too and i feel like im probably right.we were only together for 2 months and yet ìm sad because i thought the world of her in the beginning.i will never do this to myself ever again because in the back of my head i knew that the relationship was not good for me or the kids.and the father did have joint custody of of one of the kids (there were kids from Different fathers). Im angry at myself for disrespecting myself by getting involved with some one like this and i feel like people that she knows are all laughing at me behind my back...all because i wanted to be loved and to love so badly that i stooped this low.and how she treated me at the end was so fucked up.ill never make a choice like that again EVER. I feel so low and i regret it all. To any one who is reading this. Don't be like me and learn from my mistake DON'T DATE SINGLE MOTHERS!
@Vision-dd8fl you're very welcome brother. There was alot more that she did to me in that relationship but I now see the real person she is. Turns out she was screwing other guys and one of em was paying her in food stamps! While she is also working as a bar tender. This woman is a straight up p.o.s. and now I see that single mothers only see us as transactional benifits and not as human beings with feelings,thoughts,emotions, dreams and ambitions. We good men deserve better
Brothers. I urge you to cut off contact those females. We deserve better. I'm still hurting but I'm learning now more than ever that some one who loves you will not disrespect or at least when they do,they will take accountability for their actions. WE DESERVE BETTER! we aren't weak for wanting love,we just chose wrong is all. Don't blame yourself because YOU KNOW YOU MEANT WELL BY THEM. Fuck them,love you!
Hey George, thanks for all the information about women, i didn't have a father so the videos really helped me with women. Fan of your channel from the first video.) Now I work in a women's team, I'm 20, and almost all the women in it look at me with hunger in their eyes)
I agree with everything u said. I will just share my experience, i'm now 19yo, i never known my biological father (i think why my experience happenned) and its been 6 years that my step father is in my life. My mom has no job because of health issues so my stepfather is our providers like u said. At first, i didnt respect him and was acting like a cuck at him, but now with the time im laughing with him, he learns me things and he really helped me building myself as a men. Since last year i realise i need to be grateful of what he did EVEN my stepfather did a cuck move, like i realised that he won my respect for all he did. But the 5 other years its was really weird and this video remembered me all the way we did. Like hes important for me now but in my head their is always a weird feeling like i dont even call him dad but he won my respect like i said earlier.
Remember this guy is advising you on making on making your decisions. Other people have other reasons and motivations, and there are simply men would want to educate a boy into a man and enjoy that feeling of being "a coach" or "a guide," for themselves. Without the responsibility of having whole own child from beginning to end. There is nothing wrong with good men and good hearted stepfathers. It just doesn't mean you got to become one, when you don't want to. Much luck to you, on your beginning journey!
These days I find it extremely interesting that you mentioned you had an IT company, I can now see how it's interconnected. Can you do a video about your story with computers and everything digital? Goldmine of content.
George speaks words of iron. Whatever a single mom does to make you want to commit to a relationship with her…She’s just exploiting your thirstiness and loneliness. You should realize (real - eyes) this is completely apparent and clear to everyone else. She’s not making a fool of you. You’re making a fool of yourself. If you’re not attracting quality girls with low body counts, make a plan and go to work on yourself now. Otherwise…being alone is better than involving yourself with a single mom. More importantly, think of the kid. The kid already has two parents and you ain’t one of them. The kid’s actual parents are pieces of shit or they would have worked together to create a stable home where they could raise their own kid together. The kid is the only person in this dynamic who is not at fault. The biological mother and father have failed. Don’t go near that situation.
My grandmother was divorced twice. My mother did not grow up with her father. My mother is divorced twice. I did not grow up with my father. Im an only child. I've seen my mother with so many boyfriends. Some days I felt like her therapist because she would vent to me about drama. On my fathers side all is lost from intergenerational addictions. I've struggled a lot with confidence and self esteem. I think I may be old and gray by the time I become more whole and congruent as a man.
I really like this guy's take on this. Right to the point. Had a single mom and when we were intimate one of her kids who if awakened would come into the bedroom. Had to head for the hills! Only good for pumping and dumping.
George, my father was adopted. With genetic testing we found his birth mother when she was 90 years old. I agree with you about genetic similarities, it was very familiar when I met her and saw how she lived. However, the birth father was never discussed. We found out later that she was raped. My father was the result, that was a shocking revelation. Family dynamics are very sensitive and are hard to generalize. I wonder about his birth father and the genetic impact of an obviously violent person. What do you think?
As a born-in-Moscow, Russian-speaking Jew living in the US, I love you channel. The ideas resonate with mine a lot. FYI, the Muslim arranged marriage is not unique. Pretty much all cultures with any semblance of civilization had had arranged marriages until female emancipation. For instance, in the West, there was the concept of woman being property belonging to her father (until marriage) and then husband. It was called coverture.
Please do a video comparison breakdown between life in Russia / America. Also, the different experiences dating in those respective countries. Please consider this. Thanks for your videos George. Keep them coming
I've heard worse than that... While the current boyfriend is at work, her baby daddy(s) are home with her, bangin' away, doing whatever they can to destroy that relationship she has with the boyfriend!
I know of a few men who are stepfathers. Sometimes, when the father is at work, the Baby daddy stops by to visit his children. When stepfather gets home, the real baby daddy gives his children a hug and his ex a hug, too. And you know the rest of the story.
Hi George, good video. Regarding single moms, you touched a lot of good points. However, a suggestion for the long list of the screen would be to use the clip function to list each minus in this case as a small section of the video. I think it would make it a bit cleaner.
Hi George I'm a single gay guy, first time to your channel. Im finding very honest content from masculine "alpha" hetero men very useful for my own life so thank you for being so frank. I do not get to interact with heterosexual men, its difficult to have a friendship with a straight man without them thinking im trying to hit on them. Your insights are extremely useful because the world is run by heterosexual people. It is important to understand how things work in the straight world.
My brother-in-law after he get divorced, is always chasing single moms, this women left his wallet empty and heart broken 24/7, should be staying by his wife to avoid this level of self destruction behaviour
It's "handwriting", mate. Not caligrapphy. Anyway, what if the father has custody, the child is 16 and the father refuses to speak to this single mom.?
well, I think you answered yourself it takes a really sub-par mom to lose custody or just withdraw it. And if the father of the child wants nothing to do with her, you gotta ask yourself "why"?
34:15 hey george, an idea for next video, how to gentle break up relation. stopped the relations with many womans, we man has to set the right frame and timing. to avoid such silly situations.
Exceptions aside I agree. But this will apply the other way around as well. Ladies don't you, NEVER EVER, date a man with a baby momma. You dont want that drama! Trust me.
I got a single mother pregnant everything you say is true. I manage to convince her to convince her ex to adopt my kid and they agreed and I walked clear.
I've dated 2 single mons, they were both incredible, still very sexy, no debts nor never asking for money but I never really pushed myself to that idea where I'd raise a kid which isn't mine and go and live with them or them with me... I don't know if I made a mistake.. to this day I sometimes wonder what could have been
I had a similar 2 week experience. I didn't know she had a kid when i asked her out. The kid actually came on our one and only date as she had no one to watch him. I never hung around long enough to meet the Dad. It turns out he was a real low life who was basically terrorizing her, breaking into her apartment etc. He did nothing to help out except give the kid a few bucks once in a while. Needless to say, this was one lost kid. A week later, she indirectly contacted me to ask for money for a bus to go to Florida to get away from the Dad. I gave her what little I had. I was broke for months after that. I found out she left most of her stuff behind, even her dog. Understand, I barely knew or much liked this girl. I just stumbled into a situation finding a person in desperation and i became her only hope.God knows what would have happened if I met the Dad. One of us would probably been killed.
This is an honest down to earth explanation of the problem. But it must be awful to fall in love with her and then realize that there is so much extra things from her background to deal with. And you can't do nothing about it and put up with her baggage.
Thanks for your perspective, George. I just 'dodged a bullet' after dating a single mom for several months (mom with three boys) At first it seemed nice and rosy, but then I started to experience (most of) the things you mention in this video. I know now that I was just being used yet I couldn't initially see it. I actually think that the woman (who was superficially, at least, very attractive and cute) was a borderline psychopath. I'm just happy that I was able to get away before anything really serious (eg marriage etc) happened. Feel sorry for her poor kids who are obviously damaged from her obsessive behaviours. - I hope they're able to survive and prosper in such a dysfunctional home. Lastly, I'd appreciate any recommendations and/or links that might be helpful for the 'recovery process'.
George if you are reading this, you thought me a lot of things, but the main masculine feature i think you have is, your videos are very entertaining, the way you tell stories is interesting. even if your videos become non-educational i would still watch you do anything. keep up, try making vlogs, i hope you read this and feel loved.
Wow sir, I've been married for over 30 years to my only man in my life, I think different. We have 3 sons, and I would really like to have them listen to you. I can only tell them so much. My husband also doesnt really know how to communicate to them. In English. And we married young. I need to hear you. A man's point of view. I just think we all need to hear your point of view however extreme it sounds.
I’m interested in a girl whom her father died when she’s was 6 her mom got with a new husband and so now she has a step father is there a problem dating women with step fathers?
7:24 Interesting. I have vivid memories of my dad playing with me when i was a kid and scolding me sometimes when i did something wrong during my youth, but sometimes when i think about him, i feel some kind of distance between me and him, even though i have a very good relationship with him. Gotta investigate that.
What about a single mom with a toddler that wants to have more children immediately with you? Would being the real father to one or three of her other children improve your disrespected status by everone or be taken more seriously by the mother and child? So scolding and such things would be done for all children except the one child? Does this make a difference or is the relationship still just as doomed?
Just broke it off with a mother of 3. All three dads were pieces of crap who also didn’t pay for the kids. The kids and I bonded quickly. She told me that the kids do not need a dad, they already have daddies. Essentially, I’m just there to provide resources. Nothing I did was right for her two sons. She coddled the hell out of them and they were both spoiled and entitled. They disrespect her blatantly. I call them out on it and I’m accused of being to hard on them. After a lot of lines were crossed over the last 4 days, I decided that it was time to leave. Never again.
As a 56 yr old. Who has no kids (never wanted any), I’ll only date women who never had kids also. It’s too weird and awkward. I have a picture of me trying to talk to maybe a grown-ass man who has more money and success than I do, and he’s the son of the person I’m trying to date. And I’m like “nope!” (This never happened. But I think about it as a fake scenario)
What if the father passed away before the children were born or are too young to remember their real father? This happened to my uncle he met my aunt who was a single mother but her husband passed away. My uncle was the only father these kids knew and my aunt passed away now and these kids who are adults now are now caring for my uncle in his older years.
What if you are worker in his company and its nothing personal, just buissness? But is perciving that way submiting yourself to other people by employment (and their family) also bad?
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Single moms are not looking for love. They are looking for help.
LMAO 🤣 😆
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Help? Nah… but a bouquet of flower and new phone is always handy, New Partner - More Free Stuff
100%, you resumed the entire video in few words.
Yes, they usually give birth with a douchebag, then settle with mr nice guy.
Been there, done that and never again. If you want to ruin your life, start using drugs, gamble or date single mother.
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🤣🤣🤣That is GOOD and GOLD.
not true, I dated a single mother, turned to drugs, got rid of her, kept on the drugs, life is great
Gimme the dope and the dice...forget the third
yea true. i talking to this single mom in another state, she wanted a relationship with me but i told her i couldn’t due to the distance. we ended up staying friends and she would always tell me how bad she wanted a boyfriend, guys would constantly use her just for sex. i feel bad for her but she put herself in this situation
My best friend moved in with a woman who was artificially inseminated. Agreed to raise the kid together. There for the birth. Kid calls him daddy. The mother routinely says "he's not the father." But he still has to pay for school, etc. To her, he never does anything right. All the responsibility. None of the rights. Now he wants to leave her, but he loves the kid and knows she's not a good role model. Don't be like my friend.
So he should leave... he's not the father.
@@rally_chronicles ya think? I know it. He knows it. But he loves the kid. Easy for us to say. I do all the time. Life's always easier from the outside.
@bazookacat8421 oh I know. But it's not his kid.
I don't have kids but I have no care for other seed other than my own.
I've told single mothers if they want to be in a relationship with me they have to buy two tickets to Africa, take their kid to some orphanage far away, come back and we can have a relationship and maybe start a family.
Lions 🦁 don't raise other lions cubs. We need to implement this in humans. More people need to be stronger.
@@rally_chroniclesyou are missing the part where he said "he loves the kid". We as men don't talk about this but we invest emotions as well, he made the mistake to invest emotions and time on a kid that is not his, now, emotion investment is hard to break, easier said than done ofc.
This is why the video tells you to stay away.
@redishdude his fault. Rip yourself away from it. It'll hurt for a bit but you'll be alright. Sorry kid. Thank your pos mother. Peace.
I just dated a single mom for a year and a half. I’m 24 and it was seriously the worst decision I have ever made in my life. Trust me when I say don’t ignore the red flags, don’t ignore a single thing George said 😂 it’s all true. It left me drained physically, mentally, and especially financially. I’m bless to have this happen since I am young but trust there’s not a single thing you can do to change the outcome. Do not do it, focus on finding your wife, not someone’s throwaway disaster.
Facts
And they always got big t*** in the fat a**, but we need to resist, because there are good looking women without children as well
btw, i have a question does this information apply to adopted children or adopting orphans?
Adopting children or orphans is different because you will have full responsibility and authority over the children, they won't have either a mother or a father so you will be providing a great service, its only you and the children, no baby daddy or baby mama drama . @1.percent_everyday
One of the biggest deterrents for me is potentially building a bond with a child that could be ended at any moment. And my heart is for the child. Because if the mother can discard of that kid's father so easily; you stand NO CHANCE against her hypergamy. And if that child comes to love you, and the mother decides to cut ties completely, it opens the door for attachment trauma on that child.
good point, i should have mentioned that too
💯You nailed it
@@bettercallgeorge924 In more cases than you think, some kids with single mothers actually CRAVE a father figure.
For one reason or another, they may have given up hope on their biological father being in their lives, and are thus open to anyone that will love them. And they'll consciously choose you if they see you're taking a genuine interest in them for the companionship aspect alone.
The issue then becomes their mother. Because of their mother's selfish hypergamy, they'll continue the cycle. And the more guys she cycles through, the more discouraged the child becomes that they'll ever have a consistent father figure around.
So if a woman says, "he's not in our life," that might be even worse than if the baby dad is still involved. Great points nonetheless. Glad I could add more insight!
I was the kid. Sucks on both ends. Dad was just a guy who I’d know for a few years til the next.
Luckily for me I know my biological now. Just by exposure and osmosis I’ve gained a lot.
that why i convinced the single mom i knocked up to convince her ex to adopt
Omg I was dating a single mother and discovered your channel, days later you post this video, the universe gives me signals😂😂😂
Thank Jesus, not Universe.
I married a single mother. Three months into the marriage I realised that she didn't love me. It was all an act with lies to lock me down as I did well for myself.
Your lesson learned
Are you still married to her?
I’ve know quite a few guys who have gone down that path and every time I feel like I’m about to watch him fall off a cliff and hope he doesn’t end up seriously injured or dead. Worked with a guy who was making good money, had corvette seemed like he would be appealing to a good woman, but he kept chasing after single moms, and it seemed like an ego thing like he needed to prove he was better than the jerk that made her a single mom . Eventually he married one, we lost touch. I can only imagine how miserable he is now.
@@nathancole5158 No, she divorced me after 3 years. But not before thinking she was in a position to get my farm and child support for her kid in a divorce settlement. I beat her at her own game as I transfered all my cash and assets into my parents name when I noticed a slight, subtle change in her behavior to me. A litttle colder? indifferent?.
She got very little out of me and she was furious. I still laugh about that. Thank God she left as she made me totally miserable. Single mothers? Never again.
Simp
They are really clever. They love bomb the shit out of you, buy you things and treat you like you are imported to them. Then they emotionally manipulate you once you are dependent on them, I’m stuck in an awful situation and I want out! When you find out it’s all for show it’s a bitter truth to bear.
GREATEST SINGLE MOTHER VIDEO ON RUclips. NOT KIDDING! ABSOLUTE BEST! EXACTLY WHAT I HAVE BEEN LOOKING FOR! I got my heart broken man. Thank you for this
I agree. I watched the entire video.
@@EsauistheCaucasian thank you for commenting on this, I had lost this video now I'll be able to save it
The older the kids get, the more expensive it becomes.. cars, college, etc. Don’t think that the older the kids are, the easier it will be.
I used to tell myself it would be easier once her 2 girls got older. You're spot on, they have more homework, need/want more things (clothes, food etc..), more driving around for friends & school, plus puberty and more attitudes. We're no longer together.
Even if you dodge the expense part, problems still exist, even if she has adult kids a lot of the stuff he said you deal with is still an issue.
@@nathancole5158 yeah.. like my ex’s son is now in prison for 6 years. It starts as not having any authority over her younger children.. ends with sons in prison and daughters racking up college debt and not able to finish, or on stripper poles.
Please don't stop make content to us, you enlightened us Mr George
He's our new Sheriff in town👌🏻
Your wish is my command. Will do, i think i figured out a way to upload more often.
@@bettercallgeorge924 are most russians this based ?
@@jr-yn4lkbased on what?
@@pantsonfire2216 Based is a slang term that means being yourself and not caring what others think of you. This guy is ultra based for spreading the unpopular but accurate idea that women should be put into their place by their male partners when they start bitching about unimportant stuff and that men shouldn't take care of other's children.
My big brother is a simp. He was 25, no kids with a solid job. He decided to marry an older woman with 2 kids, by 2 different men. My dad and I were so pissed off with him. I just don’t understand. I love my brother but he’s a big SIMP.
Did you and or your father try to persuade your brother from entering the relationship?
The way I would’ve cursed him out for doing such a stupid decision, he would never want to talk to me again even as a brother
@@minetruther7365 You think so?
@@alyssajones4368 yup
I say this all the time. A woman with a child will have a physical and emotional attachment to another man forever!
Correct
So bulshit!! Stop assuming you know about woman. You know nothing.
Mine had three different kids from three different guys.
Men. I’ve dated 20 single moms. All = the same trauma drama no time she’s tired. Mentally drained. It’s so bad. You’ll only really see her a lot if u go to her. Which kids will be running around. Even if u get her alone. She’ll be on her phone with the kids checking on em. She can’t focus on u. Bad deal
That why it is worst decision to with someone whom got children bad deal in the universe
Why you date 20 bro? 😂😂😂
20 Why?
You need a single mom detox program😂
Bad deal Lucky Luciano 😂😂
Another angle on traumatizing kids. I knew a guy who bonded with his girlfriend's kids. He was closer to them than their own father, and he did all the normal dad stuff with them. He was there for several years while they were growing up, and they loved him. When the relationship ended, the kids were devastated, as if they had lost a father, and he was devastated as well since he couldn't see them anymore.
That's ridiculous and that man was a really stupid.
LOLOLOLOLOL
How did thr relationship end
@@brig.gen.georgiiisserson7226 They had issues that couldn't be worked out, so she dumped him.
This confirms that it's the men if the are sane who create order and culture. Children realize this and therefore in this case are loyal to the "social father" often over the biological mother. This all highlights how important father's are and that girls must be raised to virtuous woman so they select a good men who will stay to raise the biological kids. Virtuous woman means also she is loyal and trusting to the men she had chosen that she is submitting to him.
Its why in islam (patriarchal system) a woman loses her children to her ex husband as soon as she decides to marry another man or enters a relationship with a new man.
Makes sense!
she also loses her children if the divorce is not for a legit reason (like being abused etc.)
also the asset inheritance is lesser. the concept is good, the family have a provider. but women these days is taking advantages on simp. they always think they are a high value.
you amazes me with how deep thinker you are in every new video.
Love you, George, please keep it up
Just remember kids, dating a single mother is like finishing another man's warm beer!
Hahaha disgustingly sad but true
😂😂
As a masculine American Male, I agree with George. Keep sharing your eye opening and life supporting message King George 😊 We all need it
This is a very connected person.
There is not a word off.
And the finale shows his nature.
We need so many more of these men.
The only time getting together with a single mother goes well, is when you & her are both fictional characters in a Hallmark movie.
George you are bang on.
Your advice is really helping. Your hysteria video is gold.
You really know your stuff.
I'm a step father and I can tell that except 2-3 of your points (because they are too general and cannot universal in all cases) all others are very true. Especially those one that are related of my own feelings and how I feel in this situation. Long time I thought something is wrong with me and I'm not noble enough to handle my feeling properly, but as time passes I recognize the patterns of lack of genuine desire, disrespect, double standard (me and her previous husband), etc. Then something small triggered the retroactive jealousy and that was it. Now we are separated, so I can heal my long forgotten and neglected dignity and self-esteem.
It is very very true:
1. Three people sleep in the bed. Very current feeling after the crisis happened.
2. Felt disrespected and undervalued by her almost the whole time.
3. Almost no benefit of raising other's man child, even the kid is very good and the act is very noble, you are making great favor to him and his mother and she repays you with disrespect! At least the kid respects me.
4. Kid is a problem - it is the main focus of the mother (which is normal), but "eats" your time, money and energy and opportunity to be with her alone. Also the ex is also involved to some extend!
5. Feeling of being just a provider and nothing more - exploitation. No genuine desire and often lack of intimacy. Sex is more like a duty, but not fun. If I got luck to have it at all.
6. I lied to myself - true. I swallowed my principles, values and ego just to be with her. I zeroed myself as a man.
7. Almost never felt really loved.
8. She made silly and irresponsible decision with this junkie without knowing him - having kid after 6 months and marring him pregnant. What a red flag I missed!
9. I was in constant fight for the leadership in the family.
10. I always was the bad guy for her family. Wonder why when I saved her.
11. My family disapproved my choice and I banned them from my life for her!!
12. Biological father gain some credits for things he never did...
And so on....
Most of your points are correct. But I got enough and now I live separated from her in another town and the divorce will be just a formality form here on...
Yes! Same but I was a stepmother. We broke up and I feel so relieved. Him and his baby mother talked all the time. In the beginning she would send him stuff that had nothing to do with the kid. When we got in a really big fight one time and almost broke up he told his baby mama what happened. He would always weaponize his kid against me. Say stuff like “you just don’t want me to be involved with my kid” or “your trying to keep me away from my child because your jealous”. I never felt like family and holidays I dreaded. Last Christmas he asked me if we could go over to his baby mothers apartment to see his kid open gifts. I was so shocked that he thought I would want to spend my Christmas morning at his exes house. My final straw was when his ex called him and asked him if he and the kid could all go to the park so he could see them as a family. I WOULD NEVER DATE A SINGLE DAD AGAIN.
@@janisemills1 fair fair enough. Regrettably, after a certain age everyone comes with some kind of baggage.
A single mom's life is almost always a catastrophe. I've found myself wanting to believe their PR spin a few times, & been burned every time. The most recent time it only took me a couple months to figure out she was a dumpster fire, but it still hurt like hell. I've definitely lost my capacity to trust them. Better late than never i suppose.
They'll eat your soul alive it's best you learn from your mistakes and find better solutions
What happened bro? Can you share more about the “dumpster fire” side of things?
I’m currently dating a single mom for the first time in my life.
@@xdmztryvsvedine2773run mate runnn
Me also @@xdmztryvsvedine2773
I dated a single mom but her kids were like adult age, and one day I was watching movies with her and her cousin and and daughter was in the house. Her kids father calls and she starts having a conversation and it started about the son but then it seemed like casual conversation. She could tell I was getting pissed, so we back to her room and had a conversation about afterwards and I flat out asked her if things were still happening between them which she denied. Told her I understand she has to communicate with him but if I was talking to my ex in front of her casually how’d she feel about it and she got my point. So after our convo we go back out to the living room she tells them ok we’re back , he got mad I was
talking to your dad.
Never again……
Bottomline, stay away from single mom's with kids.
100% my experiences. I'm a successful businessman, dominant, high IQ, and I see through these women like a pane of glass. You are so spot on about single moms and career women will never submit to you. I've dated these women before and I usually ghost them after 2 dates after it becomes apparent they are looking for a doormat. I pick up on subtle cues, like if a woman tries to walk in front and lead me, if she is combative and tries to dominate a conversation, if she tries to build herself up to be superior, these are very obvious signs she is trying to be dominant. Single moms I find are more interested in the lifestyle you can provide than who or what you really are. To a single mom, you are simply a lifestyle provider nothing more, she'll never love you, only what you provide.
Spot on dated a single mom and she never experienced a real date or anything until dating me. We vibes but hard truth I knew I'd never be priority her life. She always would saybdonfor my kids but yet her bd isn't accountable and never showed up for they kids smh. Folks have kids with ppl then say wrong person na u knew what u were doing. Single bros get a single woman no kids build your own family.
It’s called that you are in the red pill community just like myself
Dominant and high IQ 😂😂😂😂
Incel
I really have to admit that I watched this video before I found a single mom girl. I didn't believe it. And I repented a lot. This guy is "God" when it comes to relationships with women. Not only this but every video is great. I checked each one in practice. Dating a single mother isn't just a disaster.....it's even worse. Now we've broken up and I feel really crappy for not taking the advice sooner.
i really appreciate your last ethical advices how to deal with the single mothers, you are a real man with principles George
Dating single moms is a nightmare. So many interruptions and delays. You will get tired in just a couple of days if not a few hours and walk away.
There are plenty of normal women out there to choose from
A "normal one," hahahhahhahahhha have you heard yourself. What is this "normal woman," you speak of?
@@enlightenment6994 Get out the house and find out for yourself. You can find a lot of childless young women around to date. The hell you think I mean?
Unless the children are over 21 then I’m ok with dating a single mother.
@@ryancentnarowicz If her children are over 21 you’re dating a grandmother 👵
@@pantsonfire2216 I should’ve clarified the children are around 21 she’s 39. She had the kids pretty young.
There's nothing wrong with loving your child more than you love someone else's child. It's your child. They look like you, they think like you, & more importantly they are loyal to you.
btw, i have a question does this information apply to adopted children or adopting orphans?
hi George, can you make a video on how to stop feeling hatred towards women? all these red pill videos on the interned made me hate them and think horrible about them all
yes, its important topic, will do.
George said already in one of the video that you should not feel hate towards women, it is just the way they were created
he already mentioned women are like child. u dont hate a child
Don't except a cat to act like a dog, if you do it's your fault for feeling hate towards the cat. Accept the way the cat is and enjoy the cat for it's strengths and weaknesses
If you actually meet some women, you won't feel quite the same way. From absorbing red pill content, I thought they were all evil. But after I started dating, and met some women socially, I realized that most are just normal flawed human beings. They have their issues, but most are not especially evil.
The funny thing is... A single mother tried to flirt with me a week ago and I was like HELL NAW.
Hell to the naw
Lol😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣
Been there done that. Do not do it. You will be always a second priority to the child of another man. You will be manipulated to stay in that relationship, and ultimately disrespected.
My mom had a peruan boyfriend and he tried to be nice with me. He thought to give me a hug but I reyected him with rage. Pushing him like "step the f away from me..."
Man, I hated that guy so much.
Now, my mother has other boyfriend. G... Damn it.
What is wrong with women?
You are so f ing right, George.
Thank your mother
You saved me from making a huge mistake and asking a single mom out . She's drop dead gorgeous and I like how she holds herself , she even has some of my traits,She's perfect for me and I love her to bits but she has a kid . I don't want what you went through after knowing all this now .
Women with past relationships are like leftovers. They are not worth it. There are 4 billion women in the world and everyday, there's a new lot that becomes 18. You need only one from them.
I have a friend that has double the drama, he has a kid from other girl, and he lives with his current girl that has 2 kids from other guy. It's messy from what he told me, he also pays for 💯 things and the father doesn't pay even for recharging their phone... Its sad and he now has a yo kid with her. I just couldn't tbh.
Is there any way i can find a woman without kids i live in ohio pretty much evey woman over 21 has 3 kids already
Nope. They ruin their lives pretty well at any age.
This guy is speaking facts . Just dated a woman with 2 kids , the lad was all his dad , zero respect and if you try telling them off they hate you even more . Don’t do it guys , please either date a woman with no kids or don’t bother , you’ll have zero respect , be frustrated and have less money , plus if you have kids of your own you will end up raising them more than your own ! And yes it’s different for men with kids than a woman because 80% of the time the kids are with they’re mum , their dad is a pain and joy just want to hit him , respect , loyalty and peace guys you womt get it with a woman with kids ! You’ve been warned , even if she is stunning leave it alone
I just broke up with my ex who was a single mother of 4.she was very attractive but i saw a lot of red flags and the last straw was she began to become distant. I tried to talk to her about it but she wouldn't communicate with me,so i broke it off. I had a sneaking suspicion that she was seeing another guy too and i feel like im probably right.we were only together for 2 months and yet ìm sad because i thought the world of her in the beginning.i will never do this to myself ever again because in the back of my head i knew that the relationship was not good for me or the kids.and the father did have joint custody of of one of the kids (there were kids from Different fathers). Im angry at myself for disrespecting myself by getting involved with some one like this and i feel like people that she knows are all laughing at me behind my back...all because i wanted to be loved and to love so badly that i stooped this low.and how she treated me at the end was so fucked up.ill never make a choice like that again EVER. I feel so low and i regret it all. To any one who is reading this. Don't be like me and learn from my mistake DON'T DATE SINGLE MOTHERS!
Thanks for this.. I will be dumping the single mom I am seeing tomorrow
@Vision-dd8fl you're very welcome brother. There was alot more that she did to me in that relationship but I now see the real person she is. Turns out she was screwing other guys and one of em was paying her in food stamps! While she is also working as a bar tender. This woman is a straight up p.o.s. and now I see that single mothers only see us as transactional benifits and not as human beings with feelings,thoughts,emotions,
dreams and ambitions. We good men deserve better
Bro this literally the same shit im dealing with 🙄
Brothers. I urge you to cut off contact those females. We deserve better. I'm still hurting but I'm learning now more than ever that some one who loves you will not disrespect or at least when they do,they will take accountability for their actions. WE DESERVE BETTER! we aren't weak for wanting love,we just chose wrong is all. Don't blame yourself because YOU KNOW YOU MEANT WELL BY THEM. Fuck them,love you!
One of my mates went through this,now divorced,it was exactly how you explained it
100% correct. I love you for your authentic speech !
Hey George, thanks for all the information about women, i didn't have a father so the videos really helped me with women. Fan of your channel from the first video.) Now I work in a women's team, I'm 20, and almost all the women in it look at me with hunger in their eyes)
I agree with everything u said.
I will just share my experience, i'm now 19yo, i never known my biological father (i think why my experience happenned) and its been 6 years that my step father is in my life. My mom has no job because of health issues so my stepfather is our providers like u said. At first, i didnt respect him and was acting like a cuck at him, but now with the time im laughing with him, he learns me things and he really helped me building myself as a men. Since last year i realise i need to be grateful of what he did EVEN my stepfather did a cuck move, like i realised that he won my respect for all he did. But the 5 other years its was really weird and this video remembered me all the way we did. Like hes important for me now but in my head their is always a weird feeling like i dont even call him dad but he won my respect like i said earlier.
Remember this guy is advising you on making on making your decisions. Other people have other reasons and motivations, and there are simply men would want to educate a boy into a man and enjoy that feeling of being "a coach" or "a guide," for themselves. Without the responsibility of having whole own child from beginning to end. There is nothing wrong with good men and good hearted stepfathers. It just doesn't mean you got to become one, when you don't want to. Much luck to you, on your beginning journey!
These days I find it extremely interesting that you mentioned you had an IT company, I can now see how it's interconnected. Can you do a video about your story with computers and everything digital? Goldmine of content.
These videos are GREAT. Thank you George
George speaks words of iron. Whatever a single mom does to make you want to commit to a relationship with her…She’s just exploiting your thirstiness and loneliness. You should realize (real - eyes) this is completely apparent and clear to everyone else. She’s not making a fool of you. You’re making a fool of yourself. If you’re not attracting quality girls with low body counts, make a plan and go to work on yourself now. Otherwise…being alone is better than involving yourself with a single mom. More importantly, think of the kid. The kid already has two parents and you ain’t one of them. The kid’s actual parents are pieces of shit or they would have worked together to create a stable home where they could raise their own kid together. The kid is the only person in this dynamic who is not at fault. The biological mother and father have failed. Don’t go near that situation.
George we want a new video every other day
I need it several times a day, I consume his videos like if they were a dope
@@Shifty3651727 Ditto! Lol
Great video my man. Very well articulated. I agree with everything you said. No self respecting man should enter into another man's broken family.
My grandmother was divorced twice. My mother did not grow up with her father. My mother is divorced twice. I did not grow up with my father. Im an only child. I've seen my mother with so many boyfriends. Some days I felt like her therapist because she would vent to me about drama. On my fathers side all is lost from intergenerational addictions. I've struggled a lot with confidence and self esteem. I think I may be old and gray by the time I become more whole and congruent as a man.
I really like this guy's take on this. Right to the point. Had a single mom and when we were intimate one of her kids who if awakened would come into the bedroom. Had to head for the hills! Only good for pumping and dumping.
George, my father was adopted. With genetic testing we found his birth mother when she was 90 years old. I agree with you about genetic similarities, it was very familiar when I met her and saw how she lived. However, the birth father was never discussed. We found out later that she was raped. My father was the result, that was a shocking revelation. Family dynamics are very sensitive and are hard to generalize. I wonder about his birth father and the genetic impact of an obviously violent person. What do you think?
Damn son😮
You can apply this rules to woman who treat her dog like her child. Same shit.
As a born-in-Moscow, Russian-speaking Jew living in the US, I love you channel. The ideas resonate with mine a lot.
FYI, the Muslim arranged marriage is not unique. Pretty much all cultures with any semblance of civilization had had arranged marriages until female emancipation. For instance, in the West, there was the concept of woman being property belonging to her father (until marriage) and then husband. It was called coverture.
It's still the same in India. They still have arranged marriages.
Please do a video comparison breakdown between life in Russia / America. Also, the different experiences dating in those respective countries. Please consider this. Thanks for your videos George. Keep them coming
George Please turn up the volume on your video I can barely hear it at max volume on my side
sure, will do. Sorry about that
This has to be the most complete list of why not to date a SM I have ever seen! Where was this channel before I messed up!😂
I've heard worse than that... While the current boyfriend is at work, her baby daddy(s) are home with her, bangin' away, doing whatever they can to destroy that relationship she has with the boyfriend!
thats why you have to bsng your wife before work
@@antoniosalcido1931 - Or better yet, either take the "Chad Approach", or just don't bother with a single mom whatsoever!
I think it's interesting how women think it's ok to date while they have other men's kids even though this isn't demonstrated anywhere else in nature.
There are cucks in nature it's just what some birds do when they get others to raise their offspring
I know of a few men who are stepfathers. Sometimes, when the father is at work, the Baby daddy stops by to visit his children. When stepfather gets home, the real baby daddy gives his children a hug and his ex a hug, too.
And you know the rest of the story.
Sheriff George❕️🙌🏻 Thx for another awesome video❕️💪🏻🤜🏻🤛🏻
u have a unique perspective and i appreciate your channel thanks
Hi George, good video. Regarding single moms, you touched a lot of good points.
However, a suggestion for the long list of the screen would be to use the clip function to list each minus in this case as a small section of the video. I think it would make it a bit cleaner.
Hi George I'm a single gay guy, first time to your channel. Im finding very honest content from masculine "alpha" hetero men very useful for my own life so thank you for being so frank. I do not get to interact with heterosexual men, its difficult to have a friendship with a straight man without them thinking im trying to hit on them. Your insights are extremely useful because the world is run by heterosexual people. It is important to understand how things work in the straight world.
My brother-in-law after he get divorced, is always chasing single moms, this women left his wallet empty and heart broken 24/7, should be staying by his wife to avoid this level of self destruction behaviour
It's "handwriting", mate. Not caligrapphy.
Anyway, what if the father has custody, the child is 16 and the father refuses to speak to this single mom.?
well, I think you answered yourself
it takes a really sub-par mom to lose custody or just withdraw it. And if the father of the child wants nothing to do with her, you gotta ask yourself "why"?
Good video breakdown.
The word Single mom, says it all
34:15
hey george, an idea for next video, how to gentle break up relation.
stopped the relations with many womans, we man has to set the right frame and timing. to avoid such silly situations.
You really should make a video about how to show this inner confidence via dating apps, if there is any way to do so.
There is! Delete the dating app.
@@gasmarkets1723 That's what I am thinking.
Single moms are there for you to have a good time not a long time
Exceptions aside I agree. But this will apply the other way around as well. Ladies don't you, NEVER EVER, date a man with a baby momma. You dont want that drama! Trust me.
thats some true chit right there.
George, fix your mic, please. My laptop is at max volume and can still barely hear you.
I can hear perfectly. Fix your laptop
I got a single mother pregnant everything you say is true. I manage to convince her to convince her ex to adopt my kid and they agreed and I walked clear.
You have the best anti single mom video. Trust me, ive watched 95% of them on youtube
I've dated 2 single mons, they were both incredible, still very sexy, no debts nor never asking for money but I never really pushed myself to that idea where I'd raise a kid which isn't mine and go and live with them or them with me... I don't know if I made a mistake.. to this day I sometimes wonder what could have been
I was in the same situation, 4 yeara rs in the end i walked away..wonder what would of happened if i went all in
I had a similar 2 week experience. I didn't know she had a kid when i asked her out. The kid actually came on our one and only date as she had no one to watch him. I never hung around long enough to meet the Dad. It turns out he was a real low life who was basically terrorizing her, breaking into her apartment etc. He did nothing to help out except give the kid a few bucks once in a while. Needless to say, this was one lost kid. A week later, she indirectly contacted me to ask for money for a bus to go to Florida to get away from the Dad. I gave her what little I had. I was broke for months after that. I found out she left most of her stuff behind, even her dog. Understand, I barely knew or much liked this girl. I just stumbled into a situation finding a person in desperation and i became her only hope.God knows what would have happened if I met the Dad. One of us would probably been killed.
My ex and I have three kids. Some guy married her lol. You are right he is insecure everytime me and her speak when he is around.
It's toxic if anyone found the other guy insecure and still laughing at it. Maybe it is what it was just toxic
I agree i have parts of me that can be toxic. i also think that's normal.@@fkvtsxhk
Did she ever hook up with you behind his back? Like is there a reason for his suspicions etc?
This is an honest down to earth explanation of the problem. But it must be awful to fall in love with her and then realize that there is so much extra things from her background to deal with. And you can't do nothing about it and put up with her baggage.
Thanks for your perspective, George. I just 'dodged a bullet' after dating a single mom for several months (mom with three boys) At first it seemed nice and rosy, but then I started to experience (most of) the things you mention in this video. I know now that I was just being used yet I couldn't initially see it. I actually think that the woman (who was superficially, at least, very attractive and cute) was a borderline psychopath. I'm just happy that I was able to get away before anything really serious (eg marriage etc) happened. Feel sorry for her poor kids who are obviously damaged from her obsessive behaviours. - I hope they're able to survive and prosper in such a dysfunctional home. Lastly, I'd appreciate any recommendations and/or links that might be helpful for the 'recovery process'.
George if you are reading this, you thought me a lot of things, but the main masculine feature i think you have is, your videos are very entertaining, the way you tell stories is interesting. even if your videos become non-educational i would still watch you do anything. keep up, try making vlogs, i hope you read this and feel loved.
Hi George, can you make a guide on how to contact your girl (msg, call) whether dating stage, girlfriend, etc
What if that single mom don't have any sort of relation with his ex anymore,since couple of years for example ?
Your dating/mating options are narrowing if you have reached it to single moms
@@amalrajpr6800that's not for me but my sister is a single mom
Can you please tell me the name of the book you mentioned? I tried to back and forward to see it. Is it “this boys life”
Wow sir, I've been married for over 30 years to my only man in my life, I think different. We have 3 sons, and I would really like to have them listen to you. I can only tell them so much. My husband also doesnt really know how to communicate to them. In English. And we married young. I need to hear you. A man's point of view. I just think we all need to hear your point of view however extreme it sounds.
I’m interested in a girl whom her father died when she’s was 6 her mom got with a new husband and so now she has a step father is there a problem dating women with step fathers?
My my, you stated more points than I could in any of my essays.
Hi George, ive Emailed you months ago, sadly i didnt get a reply, do you still offer coaching?
Greetings from Hungary
im lost in emails, please resend if i didnt reply
7:24 Interesting. I have vivid memories of my dad playing with me when i was a kid and scolding me sometimes when i did something wrong during my youth, but sometimes when i think about him, i feel some kind of distance between me and him, even though i have a very good relationship with him. Gotta investigate that.
it is never wrong to help another child.
It s not. But being the paternal figure of a single mom's child is not just helping the kid but sacrificing your own life for his sake
@@baraodeosasco1102 juat have multiple women and other children outside the relationship so ya genes get passed on 😜
The village that needs to help the child is the mother and her side of the family, and the father and his side of the family
@@baraodeosasco1102 reminds of tike myson😂
Mr George, when you gonna post that car videos with ladies? It seems really interesting. Please post them.
he is absolutely correct! great video discussion
It can work if you have a son the same age as her son
What about a single mom with a toddler that wants to have more children immediately with you? Would being the real father to one or three of her other children improve your disrespected status by everone or be taken more seriously by the mother and child? So scolding and such things would be done for all children except the one child? Does this make a difference or is the relationship still just as doomed?
Just broke it off with a mother of 3. All three dads were pieces of crap who also didn’t pay for the kids. The kids and I bonded quickly. She told me that the kids do not need a dad, they already have daddies. Essentially, I’m just there to provide resources. Nothing I did was right for her two sons. She coddled the hell out of them and they were both spoiled and entitled. They disrespect her blatantly. I call them out on it and I’m accused of being to hard on them.
After a lot of lines were crossed over the last 4 days, I decided that it was time to leave. Never again.
Bro this was so good I watch every minute of it but am already aware but still a good watch
I'M CONVINCED AFTER POINT 1 THANK-YOU FOR SAVING ME GRIEF....
As a 56 yr old. Who has no kids (never wanted any), I’ll only date women who never had kids also. It’s too weird and awkward. I have a picture of me trying to talk to maybe a grown-ass man who has more money and success than I do, and he’s the son of the person I’m trying to date. And I’m like “nope!” (This never happened. But I think about it as a fake scenario)
You are so informative and hilarious at the same time. Thumbs up
What if the father passed away before the children were born or are too young to remember their real father? This happened to my uncle he met my aunt who was a single mother but her husband passed away. My uncle was the only father these kids knew and my aunt passed away now and these kids who are adults now are now caring for my uncle in his older years.
What if you are worker in his company and its nothing personal, just buissness? But is perciving that way submiting yourself to other people by employment (and their family) also bad?